/*

 ALLAH IS ALMIGHTY              ******BISMILLAHIR RAHMANIR RAHIM.******              ALLAH IS ALMIGHTY
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                                        AUTHOR: ANISUR RAHAMAN
                                            BSMRSTU(SHIICT)
                                                ID:017

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                            LETS START OUR JOURNEY...................

*/

#include<bits/stdc++.h>
#define speed ios_base::sync_with_stdio(false); cin.tie(NULL); cout.tie(NULL);
#define pb push_back
#define pf push_front
#define in insert
#define ff first
#define ss second
#define off return 0
#define mp make_pair
#define MOD 1000000007
#define ll long long int
#define ld long double
#define snll(a) scanf("%lld", &a)
#define snll2(a,b) scanf("%lld %lld", &a,&b)
#define snll3(a,b,c) scanf("%lld %lld %lld", &a,&b,&c)
#define snl(b) scanf("%d", &b)
#define snl2(a,b) scanf("%d %d", &a,&b)
#define snl3(a,b,c) scanf("%d %d %d", &a,&b,&c)
#define ptl(a) printf("%d\n", a)
#define ptll(a) printf("%lld\n", a)
#define ptl2(a,b) printf("%d %d\n", a,b)
#define ptll2(a,b) printf("%lld %lld\n", a,b)
#define gcd(a,b) __gcd(a,b)
#define lcm(a,b) (a*b)/gcd(a,b)
#define pi acos(-1)
#define C continue
#define B break
#define N "\n"
#define al(v) v.begin(),v.end()
#define srt(v) sort(v.begin(),v.end())
#define rev(v) reverse(v.begin(),v.end())
#define loop(i,a,n) for(int i=a;i<n;i++)
#define T int T; scanf("%d", &T); for(int i=0;i<T;i++)
using namespace std;
int main()
{
    speed
    int n,k,a,b;
    cin>>n>>k;
    set<int> s;
     while(k--)
     {
         cin>>a;
         for(int i=0;i<a;i++)
         {
             cin>>b;
             s.insert(b);
         }

     }
     cout << n-s.size() << endl;
    off;
}
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Measured memory_bytes: 3664