import java.io.*;
// import java.math.*;
import java.util.*;
// import java.util.Map.*;
// import java.util.stream.*;

public class Main {
    public static void main (String[] args) throws IOException {
        FastScanner sc = new FastScanner();
        final int N = sc.nextInt();
        final int K = sc.nextInt();
        int[] A = new int[N];
        Arrays.fill (A, 1);
        for (int i = 0; i < K; i++) {
            int d = sc.nextInt();
            int[] arr = sc.intArray (d);
            for (int j = 0; j < d; j++) {
                A[--arr[j]] = 0;
            }
        }
        int ans = 0;
        for (int i = 0; i < N; i++)
            ans += A[i];
        System.out.println (ans);
        return;
    }

    // FastScanner start
    static class FastScanner {
        final private int BUFFER_SIZE = 1 << 16;
        private DataInputStream din;
        private byte[] buffer;
        private int bufferPointer, bytesRead;

        public FastScanner() {
            din = new DataInputStream (System.in);
            buffer = new byte[BUFFER_SIZE];
            bufferPointer = bytesRead = 0;
        }

        public FastScanner (String file_name) throws IOException {
            din = new DataInputStream (new FileInputStream (file_name));
            buffer = new byte[BUFFER_SIZE];
            bufferPointer = bytesRead = 0;
        }

        private byte read() throws IOException {
            if (bufferPointer == bytesRead)
                fillBuffer();
            return buffer[bufferPointer++];
        }

        public void close() throws IOException {
            if (din == null)
                return;
            din.close();
        }

        private void fillBuffer() throws IOException {
            bytesRead = din.read (buffer, bufferPointer = 0, BUFFER_SIZE);
            if (bytesRead == -1)
                buffer[0] = -1;
        }

        public char nextChar() throws IOException {
            byte c = read();
            while (Character.isWhitespace (c)) {
                c = read();
            }
            return (char)c;
        }

        public String nextString() throws IOException {
            byte c = read();
            while (Character.isWhitespace (c)) {
                c = read();
            }
            StringBuilder builder = new StringBuilder();
            builder.append ((char)c);
            c = read();
            while (!Character.isWhitespace (c)) {
                builder.append ((char)c);
                c = read();
            }
            return builder.toString();
        }

        public int nextInt() throws IOException {
            int ret = 0;
            byte c = read();
            while (c <= ' ')
                c = read();
            boolean neg = (c == '-');
            if (neg)
                c = read();
            do {
                ret = ret * 10 + c - '0';
            } while ((c = read()) >= '0' && c <= '9');
            if (neg)
                return -ret;
            return ret;
        }

        public long nextLong() throws IOException {
            long ret = 0;
            byte c = read();
            while (c <= ' ')
                c = read();
            boolean neg = (c == '-');
            if (neg)
                c = read();
            do {
                ret = ret * 10 + c - '0';
            } while ((c = read()) >= '0' && c <= '9');
            if (neg)
                return -ret;
            return ret;
        }

        public double nextDouble() throws IOException {
            double ret = 0, div = 1;
            byte c = read();
            while (c <= ' ')
                c = read();
            boolean neg = (c == '-');
            if (neg)
                c = read();
            do {
                ret = ret * 10 + c - '0';
            } while ((c = read()) >= '0' && c <= '9');
            if (c == '.') {
                while ((c = read()) >= '0' && c <= '9') {
                    ret += (c - '0') / (div *= 10);
                }
            }
            if (neg)
                return -ret;
            return ret;
        }

        public int[] intArray (int n) throws IOException {
            int arr[] = new int[n];
            for (int i = 0; i < n; i++) {
                arr[i] = nextInt();
            }
            return arr;
        }

        public long[] longArray (int n) throws IOException {
            long arr[] = new long[n];
            for (int i = 0; i < n; i++) {
                arr[i] = nextLong();
            }
            return arr;
        }

        public double[] doubleArray (int n) throws IOException {
            double arr[] = new double[n];
            for (int i = 0; i < n; i++)
                arr[i] = nextDouble();
            return arr;
        }
    }
    // FastScanner end
}

Measured memory_bytes: 32452