there is this situation where i asked some advice to my friend as well, but she is very different than me. when se is dating someone, or she likes someone she usually tends to not think things at all because it should be very natural the getting to know soemone, this is something that i agree but i tend to rationalize things, to think things a bit more. The thing is that its nothing big, but for example there is this friend of my friend who we met one night and then we found my contanct and texted me two weekds later, we've been texting each other for one week now, not too much only purparle like friends. he doesnt live in the same city as i do but he said he will book the train tickets (didnt specify when and to that i only said that im looking forward to). The fact that if we dont have a date, if he doesn't texts me again doesn't bother me, i mean it would be sad because i find him interesting and i like him, but even if he is my friends friend i don't personally know him and to create that intimacy where we text each other everyday, i share stuff of my personal life with him for me it will be natural over time and once we start actually dating and meeting, for me keeping to text each other everyday even if its just a small conversation and we do small talk nothing too deep its still a false sens eof intimacy we are creating. Apart from this the fact that is not that he always asks questions, so to me keeping the conversation going just to keep the conversation going doesn't make sense, if i dont have anything to say, if i have to think what should i say. My friend tol me that its simple if i want to talk to him i should talk to him, the thing is that i want to talk to him but when i feel like i have something to say, and i dont want to leave him on read and then look like im not interested and text him every 2 days or when i have something to say to him, the thing is that one other friend of mine told me that sometimes that may look like you're not interested. but i said i would be happy if he books the train tickets and im asking him questions too, and ive been talking to him, so of course im interested. Nos i just liked the message he sent because it wasnt a question or anything and after that i dont have yet anything to say to him, but i think im only overthinking this, and i should do what feels right for me, not listen to my firend that says to me if you acted this way with me an didnt text me for two days then i wouldn't text you back, that its too harsh for me because i think everyone has a life and my interest in you i souldn't show it on texts, and if the other person doesn't come to me to say he would like to meet or organises osmething to meet or after we meet he says that he would like to text me more then for me there is no problem there. maybe my friend is just different and wants her partner to text her all the time because shes a bit codependent (she usually texts with her partner all day, even when we go out shes on her phone). wha t do you think about this? do you think i should continue my approach and not stress about his too much and maybe make an effort to text that person at least every two days, but when i feel like it