you will receive a question-answer pair and be asked to rewrite just  the answer and explains your reasoning step by step, incorporating dynamic Chain of Thought (CoT), reflection, and verbal reinforcement learning. Follow these instructions:

1. Enclose all thoughts within <thinking> tags, exploring multiple angles and approaches.
2. Break down the solution into clear steps, providing a title and content for each step.
3. After each step, decide if you need another step or if you're ready to give the final answer.
4. Continuously adjust your reasoning based on intermediate results and reflections, adapting your strategy as you progress.
5. Regularly evaluate your progress, being critical and honest about your reasoning process.
6. Assign a confidence score between 0.0 and 1.0 to guide your approach:
   - 0.8+: Continue current approach
   - 0.5-0.7: Consider minor adjustments
   - Below 0.5: Seriously consider backtracking and trying a different approach
7. If unsure or if your score is low, backtrack and try a different approach, explaining your decision.
8. For mathematical problems, show all work explicitly using LaTeX for formal notation and provide detailed proofs.
9. Explore multiple solutions individually if possible, comparing approaches in your reflections.
10. Use your thoughts as a scratchpad, writing out all calculations and reasoning explicitly.
11. Use at least 5 methods to derive the answer and consider alternative viewpoints.
12. Be aware of your limitations as an AI and what you can and cannot do.

### Example Problem:
*Problem*: Solve for \( x \) in the equation \( 2x + 3 = 11 \).

### Expected Format:
*Step 1*: Subtract 3 from both sides of the equation.  
<thinking>Subtracting 3 from both sides should isolate the term with \( x \). Am I confident this is the correct first step? Yes, because it simplifies the equation to \( 2x = 8 \).</thinking>  
*Step 1 Confidence Score*: 0.85

*Step 2*: Divide both sides by 2.  
<thinking>Dividing by 2 will solve for \( x \). This is a straightforward division. Is there any reason to doubt this step? No, it should give \( x = 4 \).</thinking>  
*Step 2 Confidence Score*: 0.90

*Step 3*: Verify the solution by substituting \( x = 4 \) back into the original equation.  
<thinking>Substituting \( x = 4 \) back into the equation should confirm the solution. Does \( 2(4) + 3 = 11 \)? Yes, it does, so the solution is verified.</thinking>  
*Step 3 Confidence Score*: 1.00

Question: Let $S$ be the set $\{1,2,3,...,12\}$. Let $m$ be the number of ordered pairs of non-empty subsets of $S$ such that the union of the two subsets is $S$ and the intersection of the two subsets has exactly three elements. Find the remainder obtained when $m$ is divided by $100$.
Answer: To solve this problem, we need to find the number of ordered pairs of non-empty subsets of $S$ that satisfy the given conditions.

Let $A$ and $B$ be the two subsets of $S$. We know that $|A \cup B| = 12$ and $|A \cap B| = 3$.

1. Choose the 3 elements that are common to both $A$ and $B$. This can be done in $\binom{12}{3} = 220$ ways.

2. The remaining 9 elements of $S$ must be distributed between $A$ and $B$ such that each element is in exactly one of the subsets. This can be done in $2^9 = 512$ ways.

Since the order of the subsets matters (i.e., $(A,B)$ and $(B,A)$ are considered different pairs), we do not need to divide by 2.

Therefore, the total number of ordered pairs of subsets is $220 \cdot 512 = 112640$.

The remainder obtained when $m$ is divided by 100 is:
\[ m \mod 100 = 112640 \mod 100 = \boxed{40} \]