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I am not afraid of flop films. I am afraid of bad films. I didn't want to be a part of any bad movie. I had a very bad time of 6-7 years. But I kept going in that too. I didn't stop. Do you like Bollywood parties? I feel lost there. For me, parties are those where I can sit with friends and share my thoughts. Or I can remember the old days. There, none of these things happen. What was there in Gangs of Wasseypur where everything was falling apart? Every person had a character to relate to. When a person relates to that extent, then also that kind of success milti. Challenging character tha, gali bhulia mein. Aisa intense ho gaya tha wo process mere liye. 
Once I was walking from one room to the kitchen, my wife crossed me and she said, what did you say? I said nothing. She said, boss, you're talking to yourself quite a lot nowadays. That's scary. Let's say Shah Rukh Salman, right? They are seen as this aspirational characters. Does it bother you? Whenever there is a downfall in life, we have two options. One, that we leave everything and second, that we don't stop and keep moving forward and keep doing our work because we will get success. Your choice is whether to get up again after the downfall or accept it as it is. I enjoy the option of getting up because when you get success after falling, Uska maza kuch aur hi hai. And aisa hi kuch aaj ke maare guess ne kya. 
Unki life change hogay ekdum se ek movie ke baad, Jiska naam tha Satya. And fir jaise har actor ki life me utaar chadaav aate hain, Unki life me bhi 6-7 saal kaafi kharab saal aaye aur kaafi ups and downs rae. But wo rukay nahi, apna kaam karte gaye, Aur aaj wo Bollywood me apna ek itna bada naam bana chuke hain, Ki hum sab unke fan ban gaye. Our today's guest is Manoj Vajpayee ji. And we have talked to him about how someone comes from a small village and makes such a big identity in Bollywood. And how did he fight with his lowest face to reach this level. And he told a very interesting thing. That he doesn't watch his films. Why doesn't he watch? 
We tried to find out. What is his perspective on Bollywood? The larger than life image that is made in Bollywood, how do such big stars are made? In Bollywood, every actor is seen in a different way even after getting a hit movie. And OTT, YouTube content and the new types of content platforms that are coming, will the life of Bollywood actors change or not? Or how did their life change in these platforms? Let's talk about all this. Today's episode is about perspective on life, success, inspiration and how you can come from a small city, small village and change your whole life. Enjoy the show. Before you do that, subscribe to Rajshamani Clips and Rajshamani Shots because there we put small clips of this big episode so that you get good and insightful information in less time. 
Enjoy the show. Thank you, sir. Actually, my family is a big fan of yours. Oh, you are not. No, I am too. But my family is not excited whenever I make a podcast with more people. But they were very excited for this podcast. Okay, say hello to them. But you were born in Bihar. I was born in a village. My father was a farmer. Six brothers and sisters. Six. Are you the eldest or the youngest? I am the second oldest. Okay. Yes. So, was the responsibility on you since childhood or not? The responsibility is not put on you. When you are the eldest son, you feel the responsibility in the village or in the small town. No one puts it on purpose. Because it is said that the eldest brother is like the father. 
And you are the eldest brother. I was the eldest brother. I had an elder sister. who was four years older than me. So, the sense of responsibility comes automatically. No one tells you about it. And does it happen since childhood that you get hit after a particular age, or you just get to know gradually? Gradually you get to know. If I don't have so much fire inside me to become an actor, then just like you, I have a son. Because in twenty-two years, in twenty-one years, they get married. Because the eldest son, first of all, has the responsibility to handle all the work. There was a fire inside, which is not yet extinguished. I don't know when it will be extinguished. No, it should not be extinguished. 
So, never did the family say, leave it, why are you doing it, handle our work. No, never. Never. Because my father was very democratic, very gentle. He never expected anyone to stay back in the village. He wanted me to become a doctor. Being a doctor was a big thing at that time. But I didn't have any intention of becoming an actor. From childhood? Yes, from childhood. So, how does a childhood wish come true? When the family doesn't have a leader. You watch movies. I don't know. I was born. For that, the Lord is above. The time when you are born, at that time, your horoscope is formed. It will be yours too. Isn't it? It is a very ancient science. For which purpose, materialistic purpose, you have to 
God gives your soul. So, in this birth, I have found an actor. And God has also given me a lot of determination, a lot of ability to work hard. So, it is going on continuously. Keep doing it. Yes, keep doing it. Because this is why you were born. So, you know, I am very interested in knowing how people become passionate. Why people? Like you said destiny, so that is definitely one thing. It is not one thing. That is A and that is Z. If we accept it as soon as possible, it will be good for us. Because if we don't accept it, then it starts from there. Ego, arrogance, courage and ego. So it is important that if we want our own good, then we first accept that what is written will happen. 
You can't avoid that. When I was reading about you, you said somewhere that you don't like Bollywood parties. You don't go to Bollywood parties. You rather like spending time with your friends. Is that true? I mean, whether it is an industry party or any party, big parties, I feel lost there. Why? I mean, nothing is happening. And you are not talking to anyone. You... You are not connecting with anyone. Why are you there? What is the reason for that? That reason is wrong. Because I want to be seen in the right place. And that is never with me. I don't want to be seen in the so-called right place. For me, a party is one where I can sit with friends and share my thoughts. 
On which we can laugh. can educate each other, or can remember the old days. What is happening there? Nothing is happening among them. You meet with each other, then when you are hugging each other, then you are looking right in front of each other while hugging, that now whom should I go and hug? So you are not with anyone there. So, I don't understand things. You go, there is an atmosphere of excitement. Go, be present, come. This is what I do. You don't stop. No. So, it doesn't seem like PR teams, marketing teams don't say that you should be seen, you should be with this person, get clicked. I didn't keep PR for my entire career. They have been there for a year. 
That's because I gave all my social media to them to handle. And I don't put much personal stuff. All those professional things remain. I don't let them dictate my life. Even in professional things, I have a lot of say. Because I don't want to live on a template. I am doing a different kind of journey on Manoj Baj. I have a different kind of faith and thought. I don't compromise with that. Nor do I let the PR team do it. Because I have reasons. If they can defeat me in logic, then do it. But they haven't been able to defeat me till now. I will ask 2-3 questions on this. Will you tell me? Let's talk a little deep on this. Yes. Okay. 
First, it doesn't seem that if we show larger than life perception, then the audience will also perceive larger than life. And the audience becomes more of a fandom or more of a cult of them who show that They are very big, they are seen in big parties, they are seen in big fashion shows, they are seen wearing designer clothes. Or they are seen everywhere and only the media is around them. Isn't this a successful strategy to become big? I am just asking because from an audience perspective. Absolutely. Have you seen Rajnikant ji? How does he live? He doesn't live larger than life. But in India, who has done a larger than life character than him? But because he does movies larger than life. 
No, no, he does movies larger than life. He definitely does. But Manoj Bajpi's thought is that I should do the same films in every film. This is not my thought. My actor's definition is different. I can't do the same type of film. I get bored. I get bored by doing one character. So I don't repeat that type of character quickly. I haven't done it. My actor's definition is different. Mine is that one actor, Ka kaam hai alag-alag kirdar karna. Aur wohi kaam mai karta raha hu. Jo log larger than life image, larger than life filme ki soch rakhte hain, ya sapna rakhte hain, aap unki baat kar rahe hain. Uske liye mai galat aadmi hu. Toh aapko nahi larger than life aisey koi image nahi hai? 
Nahi koi larger than life image hai bhi. Nahi maalad dimaag mein ki main aisa banunga. I have done a very massive commercial film. Its co-producer is Bhaiyaji. Bhaiyaji is about to come, whose teaser has made a lot of noise right now. It is a pleasure in life. But the director was insisting that I want Manoj Bajpayee in this role. I want to see, as a viewer, how Manoj Bajpayee will look in such a role. So I have seen all of them. I have not seen Manoj Bajpayee. So he was adamant that I will do this work from Manoj Bajpayee. And the film is very good. So your answer is that larger than life is not done by image. Larger than life is done by film. 
By character. The way the character is presented by the director, his crafting is done by him. It is not done by the hero, boss. Films are made because of the director, because of his faith. His faith in the story, his faith in his star. Manmohan Desai ji, Prakash Mehra ji, his faith was in Shri Amitabh Bachchan ji. He was a thin, tall man. He knew how to present it so that the world would look up at him. And he proved it. Before that, people of such stature did not become big stars. Do you feel that your life changed a lot after OTT? I was not born in the time of Satya. My life had changed from Satya. The person who people did not look at, Satya changed everything. 
After that, the journey did not stop. It went up and down. Yes, 2003 to 2010 was the phase. Yes, that phase was for every actor. I had a very bad time of 6-7 years. But I kept going in that too. I did not stop. Because success and failure, these are all stages. And the stage does not end. Your destination is very far ahead. So, I never let success and failure define my journey. Never let it. Whether it is success or failure, whether it is appreciation or criticism, these are just a passing phase of life. Like when you are sitting in a bus, trees and other things keep going from side to side. So, at some places, the pit is very big. So, the bus stops and slowly, slowly, slowly, it goes. 
So, you feel, if you understand this, It was the journey till here. And you knock on the door and get down. So this is your own destiny. I don't think that's my destiny. So you are not driven by materialistic things. No. You don't give importance to success or failure. I am an actor. So what drives you? Passion for acting. Passion for the craft. I enjoy it. I enjoy the process a lot. But let me tell you. I don't fear flop films. I fear bad films. Ki mai kisi galat film, buri film mein ka hisa na ban. Aur aapki definition kya? Film chale ya na chale, bohsle nahi chale hai boss. Aligarh nahi chale, matlab log nahi dekhne gaya. Chalne ki baat nahi hai, dekhne nahi gaya. 
I know. Lekin aaj mein jana jaata hu anhi filmon ke wajah se. Gangs of Wasseypur, part one was successful, but it was not a 100 crore film, right? But if you look at Gangs of Hossipur, if you open social media, you can see that only. In the form of memes or in some other way, people keep writing on it, keep using it continuously. Budhiya Singh is one of my most favourite performances. When the word of mouth started getting strong, people removed it from the theatres. But it's available on Netflix. And whoever wants to watch it, whoever watches it, he goes crazy. He calls me or meets me at the airport or in a public place. Then he talks about Bhutya Singh's performance. For me, I like to go on a character's journey the most. 
If I get less than 5 rupees, if I get more than 5 rupees, it doesn't bother me. I am... I have a very limited need in my life. Right? You know, there is an author, Cal Newport. He had written a great line in his book, that rest is hard work. That the successful people who love the process a lot and who are just stuck in themselves, they should take care of themselves and they should rest as well. And when they rest, they also rest hard. Hard rest means that they will play TT or play some sport in it. They will get tired in it. Or they will show their brain and study a lot. They will not watch movies by just studying and drinking alcohol. 
They will try very hard to rest. So doing like this. For me it is very difficult. I tell you. To rest. People say take some leave. I said why do I have to take leave? When I am on a shoot, it is a holiday for me. Because I enjoy it so much. Because of my daughter, we take vacations. We go out. Or we go to the mountains. Even then we enjoy. I keep walking. I am very fond of walking. So we are doing hard work there too. So I enjoy it so much that I keep doing it. Keep doing it. Keep walking. Yes, keep walking. What was your favorite place? Where did you like the bus the most? I like Uttarakhand very much. 
Uttarakhand. Yes, it feels very good. I will not say that everyone should go, otherwise these people have gone to the mountains. One thing is that the population is so high that so many people go to one place that they go crazy. It gets bad. I like a lot of places. There are so many good places in our country. In foreign countries, It's too much materialism that bothers me. Really? It's too much, too much. It somehow kills my soul in that land. You know, everything is about... That credit life, that capitalism. That the capitalism, you know, it kills my soul completely. We were talking about it earlier. You don't watch your work. You don't like... I mean, we were talking about this before the podcast started, right? 
That you don't watch the frame, you don't watch your photos, or you don't watch your work, you don't watch your pictures. Why is that? So you are looking at everything but your performance. which is the real thing. So I left it. I said that I will do my work and I will let the cameraman do his work. It is important that I stay in character and do all the things that the character is demanding. Otherwise, how am I looking? I am not looking. These are all people for him to see. That is not my work. After seeing your camera frame, what will I do? Your camera people, they are experts. They exactly know what kind of frame they want for this podcast, right? 
Yes. If I move a little here and there, what will I do? My focus should be that the job that I am here for, I should be concentrating on that. I should be focused on that. But how will you grow? How will you grow? I mean, if you don't see your own frame, if you don't see your own movies, how will you grow? I can tell you that. Whether it's better or not. No, it's not. I can do more in this, but time didn't allow me. When you talk about growth, when you do another film, there will be another situation, there will be another character, there will be another director. Whatever you learn, By watching your own film. You are learning it only for that film. 
That I could have done this here. You are not learning for the next movie. This is interesting. The only thing you are learning that you should lose weight. Or you should gain some weight. Or you should take a haircut. After this. Right. What are you learning now? Your learning is not done by watching a film. Aapki learning hoti hai jab aap dusre ka kaam dekh rahe hoti hai. Worldwide ka cinema dekh rahe hoti hai. Apne aap ko update kar rahe hoti hai. Ki how the actors are changing the interpretation of the craft. How they are approaching now worldwide. You keep updating yourself. You keep reading. You know, not only the books but also the day-to-day happenings. Everything comes handy when you are preparing for a character. 
Yeah. Who do you like around the world? For whose work you get inspired and you feel this is great. You know, I'm with a lot of actors. One or two? No, a lot. I mean, why should I do injustice with others with the name of one or two? There are a lot. A lot. There are so many people in my country who inspire me a lot. Larkiya hai, bahut saari actresses, bahut kamal kaam kar rahi hai. And I think, not a single male actor, you know, is a patch on them. And so many great talents, female talents are working today. I learned from them also. Learning ke liye toh aap yaar, kisi tarah uph uthaoge nazar, toh aapko koi na koi behtar milega. 
Hmm. You know, talking about newer people, do you think looks and body matter? I don't think so. I really don't think it matters. So, you feel it doesn't matter how it is? You should be just, you should be honest about your job and that's all. I had a question about Gangs of Wasseypur because I asked this question to Pankaj sir as well. And I will ask this to Anurag sir as well. I really like, what do you think, what was it in Gangs of Wasseypur, where everyone burst? Everyone's career has peaked a lot from there. I don't, I wouldn't say careers, probably because not many people would know. It didn't happen for the first time. And today, basically, I would like you to see Satya. 
This happened with Satya too. Suddenly, so many careers were made. So many. And not only actors, technicians came to the market. Satya was that game changer. And then the second time it happened in Gangs of Possible. What was so special about it? There must have been something like everyone came together, everybody's performance. And I think after social media, that movie went viral on OTT. Khaas toh yehi tha ki sabse pehli baat ki bahut hi rooted film thi. Baki jis tarah se kahani kahi gayi, jis tarah se har aadmi ko aisa laga ki wo koi na koi character hai. To har aadmi ko relate karne ke liye koi na koi character tha jo uss kahaani mein tha, uss film mein tha. Aur har cheez aisa laga jase ki dekhi suni hui hai. 
This is the story of our community, our street, our society, for everyone. When a person goes to that extent and relates, then he gets that kind of success. Or you get success in commercial films, that kind of film, where suddenly the viewers get the hero they were looking for. And every time is different. The last time, 20 years ago, 25 years ago, was an aspirational time. So people got Amir Khan, Shahrukh Khan. It was aspirational, India. Today, India is sad. He feels that he doesn't have what he wanted. So because of that, he is watching in Alwarjin, Pushpa, KGF. He is looking for his hero who wins in the end. And maybe that's why 12th fell is also a hit. That one day I will definitely be successful. 
I will get success. So, now the struggle is going on. Now we are at the stage of hopelessness. So, the society passes through every stage and in every stage it finds its own hero, finds its own story. Interesting take that the country's sentiment is on the same take type of movies run. The movies that reflect that time well and the actor are leading him. The viewers like to see the same kind of actors, the same kind of stars, the same kind of stories. Do you feel Badla was that type of movie? Badla? Yes. That the wrong person. See, the common man is scared that he can be killed at any time. His child, he feels suddenly that his child has been kidnapped. He is always scared. 
But he has fought against so many people. And in the end, he wins. So, the common man is seeing himself that in the end, I will win. In the end, I will win. I will fight in front of the big people. I will fight. I am fighting with such a terrible situation. It seems impossible to win, but when you see a person, you feel that I will win, I will win in the end. A hope is seen. Tell me one thing, when you make a movie on such real incidents, which is very sensitive and involved with very large powers, are you ever afraid of it? Intention should be right. If you Agenda is your goal, then you will definitely get upset. And if your goal is to tell the story and to tell it with complete honesty, then I feel that even if there is a little bit of anger, it will go away. 
After watching the film. This is what happened with Banta. When people saw the film, all the anger went away. Because I saw it and I was thinking that in it, I mean he put so many big lawyers and characters. It was a movie against a very controversial character. In which even today he has a lot of followers who believe that something wrong has happened. But after watching the film, everything went quiet. Before watching the film, there was a lot of controversy. As an individual, do you think you ever got scared of it? Phone will come, there will be threats, something will happen. Because in the past, some movies have happened. Like if you remember, it happened with Deepika Padukone at the time of Padmavat. 
I don't feel scared, Raj. I don't feel scared because you have faith and you have the answer to your question. So, that's why I don't feel scared of all these things. I am only worried about my film or the people associated with the film. I am not afraid of people and circumstances. No, I am afraid of God. I am very much afraid. Very much. There are circumstances. Today is good, tomorrow will be bad. And I am saying 200% that it is going to be bad. And today it is bad. then it will be good. Because it keeps changing. Right? Many actors followed me and many left. Many great actors came. I am not the only actor here. Right? There are many here. Many of us will be forgotten. 
Right? And some new actors will come. Similarly, Time and circumstances keep changing. So what is there to fear? No, there is no need to fear. Unless you are there to offend someone intentionally. So if you go to offend someone, if you go to make them angry, then he will make you angry too. But when you don't have the intention to make someone angry, then why fear? What is the intention in this movie, Silence 2? The intention is to entertain people. Fun. With the intrigue, with the investigation process. The beauty of silence is that the type of investigation that the writer-director has brought, this type of investigation has not been shown in our Indian cinema in such a detailed and thorough manner till date. 
Because there is a way of investigation. And those who come in forensic, what things they see. And on that basis, how the police investigates. All those things, in that depth, we don't show. So, they show the whole way in this. Because Abban, Abban Devans, they are very big, as they say, they are He is a junkie of murder mystery. Okay. So, in his childhood, he was telling that when his classmates used to teach him Mills and Boons, he used to read James Headley Chase. He used to read Agatha Christie. So, you can understand what kind of a director he is. So, she loves murder mystery. Murder mystery from day one. From day one. Crime thriller murder mystery. She is passionate about it. And this is what, for me, that is the beauty of the script. 
And that's also one of the reasons that I agreed to do the part. Director is so passionate. And there are so many things that I have never known about investigation. It was also an education for me. Now the challenge was to take all of that, understand it and make it simple for the audience through your performance. So you loved it. You loved the challenge. I loved it. It is very difficult just to... Say those lines, 20 lines you are saying about blood spatters and rigorous motives and it's all of that. I don't even know what it is. Rigorous motives and all these things. But in this, you are told what it is. So in this, education is also going on. Intrigue is also getting intense. 
You want to know who is the killer. You know. And is it a comedy light film or is it like very intense? It gets intense, but it gets light also. Because in the police department, the way these people interact with each other, they will laugh a lot. Because when they get frustrated, they fight with each other. It's interesting. Okay, you said that you like challenging characters. Right, you enjoy it. I was listening somewhere that there was a challenging character in your Gali Gulia. This is a street in Chandni Chowk, whose name is Gali Gulia. Okay. So there is their shop and that character is about that shop. Right. About the shopkeeper. So at that time you got so into the character that you got sleeping pills. 
What was the story? I was given a campus. Tell me the story. It was a psychological film. And it couldn't have been done without the actors. There are many roles in the world. Many actors have done it. Christian Bale has done it. De Niro has done it. And Taxi Driver. Some other actors have done it. When everything is so psychological, then without... Really becoming that character completely. You can't achieve that mental state. Otherwise it looks like acting only. You know the craft, you can pull it off. But I went so deep into it. 26 days or 27th day. I felt as if the cooker was whistling. My brain continuously started whistling. And it kept on getting louder and louder. So I went to my director and said, I think I'm in problem. 
And he got alarmed completely. I spoke to the doctor. He said, what is the sign of breakdown? Right now, just give him a Campos injection. I put him on the very, you know, a powerful sleeping pill and stopped the shoot. I stopped the shoot. I went on a very powerful sleeping pill. I slept, I kept on sleeping for, I think, 12 hours, 11-12 hours. Straight? Straight. I woke up, I was dizzy. But yes, the whistle was there. Even after waking up? No, it wasn't there then. Okay. But when I woke up, after 10 minutes, there was a slight sound of the whistle. Then I went to sleep. I kept on sleeping for 2 days. That's when I started feeling. My brain was completely out of the character. 
It took me away from the character. Then I started going down. What do you mean by going deep in the character? How do you change your alter? The whole process, yeah. There is a process in that process where... Kya hota hai, thoda bataoge simple language mein? Simple language mein toh nahi bata pahunga, lekin o process maine jo choose kiya tha, aisa intense ho gaya tha o process mere liye. Once I was walking from one room to the kitchen and suddenly my wife crossed me and she said, what did you say? I said nothing. She said, boss, you are talking to yourself quite a lot nowadays. Just be careful. That's all I would say. I think this preparation, I can't understand, but it's really worrisome. 
So, I was already… I had already been to that dark hole before starting the shoot. That's scary. That is scary. Because sometimes permanently you can get into that old zone. It can actually. And the kind of character that you are playing. And if you are going to that character's mental state. The character who is already screwed up. And you want to reach his mental state. You want to bring so much perfection. They are trying to reach their mental state. They are trying to get close to it. There will be a problem. Every character is in a way fit in the audience's mind. Every actor is also in some way a little fit. Based on how they did the characters, how they did the movies. 
Or how the director portrayed them. Or what is their age. Or which star's son or daughter they are. Whatever. Multiple factors and background. Right. So. Like if. Let's say Shah Rukh and Salman, they do larger than life movies. And they are seen as this aspirational characters that these are young cool boys even though they are 58 today. Does it bother you? Or do you think that my image in the market is more of a family man rather than an aspirational young cool boy even though you are younger than Shah Rukh and Salman? Maybe of their age. Why would I be bothered by their life? I mean, you are in the same movie, film, fraternities. What happens with fraternities? Their choices of films and their journey has been different. 
Why would I be bothered by them? Everyone chooses their way according to their way, according to their dream, according to their comfort. I chose a different way and I am going in the right direction. And if someone is going in the other direction, why would I bother them? Nobody's life is my concern, as my life is not anybody's concern. Right? So, if the roads don't collide, then what problem will anyone have with anyone? You are not at all calculative about, aisa dikhunga, yaha par dikhunga, meri aisi image banegi market mein, yaa iss movie ke baad, main aise khud ko market karunga. Gali guliya se kya image banegi yaar? Main yeh puchna jaa raha hai. Bose le karne ki kya image banegi? Yehi banegi na, ki actor hai, bada aicha, badiya actor hai. 
Aur yehi sab image banegi na. Main ne ussi tarah ke kaam kiya hai, ussi tarah ke kaam lagataar karta rehta hoon. I love to skip genre. Hai na? Main alag alag genre, alag alag, I enjoy these things a lot. Rather than a brother doing it, you keep doing the same things. I get bored. My problem is that I get bored. Whatever I have done, I get bored. Like Silence 2, if the story would have been similar, I would have refused. No. Because I had a lot of fun when I read the script. I thought, this is amazing. Let's revive it. Okay. Family man, if every season is not better than the previous one, then there is no point in doing it. And I must tell you that we are going to start shooting very soon. 
Nice. And the third season is going to be the father of all the other seasons. It is so big. It is so complicated. It is so challenging. You know, Shrikanth Tiwari is in a big, big soup. Okay. So, he has a new challenge. So, you think, okay, a big one has disappeared. Now, if you are going back to it, you are going back to it with a massive challenge in front of you. You know, I remember one thing from Family Man. Sunny, Sunny Bhai had come here some time ago. Hinduja? Yes. So, he was saying, there was a scene. So, It was a short film and you told him that you will make him cry. Do you remember that story? And he got scared. 
He said that I didn't say anything in front of him. He is such a big actor. I kept thinking after coming home. How can someone make me cry in reality? And he kept crying in that scene. So it's... How can you play like this? You're so mature with your acting that you know that the person in front of you will cry. I keep thinking about the scene on the set, how to approach this scene. I did a lot of work, but many times, when you have a lot of things, there is a eureka moment on the shooting. And that eureka moment came, after that I said, okay, it's very good, let's approach it this way. And I understood that here, what effect will it have on my co-actors, if I do it right. 
Then the effect is known, what is going to happen to them. So that's why I told him. Sometimes you say things in fun, but he doesn't know exactly what I am going to do. So that comes as a shock. Okay, last segment of it because you told me, I love talking about money and materialism, but you told me you don't like it at all. Tell me the most expensive thing you have bought. Which is the most expensive thing you have bought? My house. Apart from the house, I have a car. The other expensive things are our vacations. Okay. Because I like to go on vacations in a little privacy. What do you mean by a little privacy? I mean I like to go in comfort. 
That you live in a good place. I always go. By the grace of God, everybody senses in business class, in first class only. But I want to keep my family in a lot of comfort when I go. First, the place to live should be good. It should be sweet. Sometimes we stay in a good place on Airbnb. Okay. Which has a greater facility. Yes, they are charging a lot. But I don't like to compromise there. So you love living that king-size life when on vacation. In vacation. If I am going alone, then you might see that I am staying in one room. Okay. I go with family, so I don't want them to... To feel that you know, they have to compromise on certain things. 
On the comfort. I can. Because I am a person who came from below, so I don't care. But as a family you have this. Yes, I have this. And my family is my weak point. I think everyone's family is a weak point. Most people are very attached with their families. Same is with me. Like when my mom comes to Mumbai, Then my life, in that one week my spending and life increases by 10X. Versus how I live alone. Because I want that they should not feel that they have to compromise. They are feeling discomfort somewhere. So that's the whole idea. Well, I can talk to you on so many more things. But thank you so much for spending time with me. Thank you. 
Thank you. Thank you. It was a pleasure talking to you. It was nice to talk to you. Yes, I enjoyed it. It was slow and easy. Because whatever I had thought, you cut it all in the beginning. Destiny. Like, finished. Let me tell you the truth. After a few years, you came to know that what I was saying is the only truth. Everything is the illusion that we have created. Because we want to protect our ego. We want to protect our arrogance, because that is, that becomes the reason for us to, you know, keep going, you know. But after a few years, you realize that that was so useless, that was so useless. And you only realize it after a certain age, you start realizing the futility of anger, futility of ego, 
Arrogance. I would want people to have that realization very early in their life. It's amazing that if we... For example, I bought this cup. I found it very beautiful. Now, all day long, I won't be looking at this cup. What a beautiful cup it is! What a beautiful cup it is! It never happens. It looked beautiful, there was an attachment, but I will use it when I need it. I'm not going to be gloating about my choice. True. What you're saying is, I agree with what you're saying, most of the things, okay, about destiny, about ego, that genuinely everything is ego, that I did it, I did it. But let me tell you, I get scared. If I don't do it, then I won't be of any use. 
No, this is the amazing thing. That if attachment, attachment, like there is a lot of attachment with family. But if family is my attachment, then when I detach myself somewhere, then I clearly focus a lot on my other things. And when I focus on those things, it's not only beneficial to me, it's beneficial to everyone. So, many times, what the calculators were saying, I am calculating here. How to detach yourself from your near and dear ones for the betterment of yourself and for their betterment? How to detach from the job that you are doing? Because the moment you attach yourself with your achievement, That means you are stopping there. You are stopping there. Is it right to stop there? No. It is achieved. 
It's done. It's done. Move on to the next thing. Next possibility. I like this thought. Don't get attached to your previous achievements. What's the use? It's done. Done. Great. What's next? Very good. Very good. Come on, drink two extra glasses of wine. What will you do? Come on, I'll go to New York. I'll come back after spending money for 10 days. Oh man, a lot of money has been spent. You will earn there. You understand. So, as soon as you stop, there is loss. There is loss in every way. On to the next thing. On to the next stage. Yes. That's the last word of the podcast. I liked it. On to the next thing. So, thank you so much sir. Lovely talking to you. 
Pleasure talking to you. Pleasure, pleasure. Thank you so much for watching this episode till the end. Tell us where we make mistakes so that we don't repeat those mistakes in the next episode. And bring a better episode than this in front of you. Please tell me in the comments because Hum better honge, tabhi aapko aur zyada better value provide kar payenge. Aur wo aapke feedback ke bina impossible hai. Until next episode, keep figuring out. Before you do that, ye episode kisi ek insan ke sath share karo, jiski life mein iss episode ko dekhne ke baad ek positive change aayega. Because one conversation is enough to bring a change in someone's life. I'll see you next time.