i will be making a youtube video for the topic - things i learned in my 20s. i/m mentioning these points here. create a detailed video script and a highly detailed blog post to go on my blog covering these points. you can add more relevant content from your side as well to my points here -- 1. Men value themselves more only when you go out of the way to do things for them. They do not value you more for this.
2. Invest more in yourself than you do in him and as a result he will see you as more valuable.
3. men want to feel like the man they want to be through your eyes. have opinions of your own, but be soft towards them & appreciate them.
4. men want you to be unavailable because of your fun life (hard to get), and be playful, fun and youthful (easy to be with). say what you need to say so you don’t resent him in his presence. 
5. men want to be with confident women. know your worth. also: if they want to they will, if they don’t they won’t. if he’s not sure, you shouldn’t be either. follow his lead.
6. when he needs space, closing the gap will make even a good guy run. healthy relationships need space. he wants to see you in your power too. 
7. when someone shows you who they are, believe them. accept people for who they are. trying to change them means you do not love them as they are. 
8. pick the man, don’t let the man pick you. a woman must invite a man so he can get close.
9. looks is not all there is. values are. 
10. sleeping with him only makes you more attached. emotional attachment is what keeps a man, so only sleep with him when you’re genuinely ready. 1. Doing more for man does not equal them valuing you more!
2. Valuing yourself first and putting yourself first does makes man value you.
3. Man does not want a spicy fight, they want a woman who will make him see himself as incredible man, you make him feels like the wayy he want to be. Secure attachment, I am an interesting woman with opinion. 
4. It's about I am hard to get but easy to be with. I maintain playfulness....I cannot be contacted often.
I have a builded life. 
5. If I am confident I will be attracted to him.
6. If he is not ready and I am not his type I leave it!
7. If he is not sure about us I am not sure!
8. Young man are not ready for the relationship that I need.
9. When he needs space or run away, I am letting him go. I am closing the gap.
10. Let people be who they are and I won't try to change them. Topics I'd like to see:
1. Protect energy from low vibrational men expand. When you are with a man who does not have the capacity to match you and meet your needs, and he feels your normal effort as “too much” and starts to see you with less value; don’t be like me instead just move on. Had a man who was too immature to realize the “effort” I was showing was what grown people do like the ability to time manage and show up on time. The man for you will see your value even if you make dating blunders. The man not for you will make you feel insecure with their immaturity and inconsistency because they aren’t that into you but want the benefits. A man who is not at your level and doesn’t see you worthy of stepping up, he will try to acclimate you to bare minimum. Don’t lower yourself. A man who is not ready or emotionally unavailable will kill your soul so walk away. No matter what age you are take the advice from this video and make smarter choices. Good luck out there ladies.
2. How to communicate your value/boundaries silently. expand
3. Decenter men. Center yourself expand.  As a gal in her 30s and finally in a great relationship after kissing a lot of frogs I couldn’t agree more esp the last one. If the guy shows you who he is, that’s who he is! No more interpretation needed! The wrong man will never be ready for you and we got no time to waste! 1- when we give too much too quick it’s never valued , give but with restriction with everyone eg friends , kids , lovers/ 
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4. Radiating energy that you are a high value woman without having to say it. Or vibrating positive energy in general.
2- if you wanna give , just give , without calculation 
3- absolutely invest in yourself 
4- look for a husband , a LT relationship 
5- appreciate your husband , BF etc