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but in my Waking Life I preserve thyself I preserve myself in my Waking Life because I have a a high level of
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Consciousness I'm ascended so I know that most people in life do not move how
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I move they're not going to move how I move and a lot of you guys people are not going to move the way that you move
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which is why you're willing to sacrifice you're willing to you know go the extra
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mile for people you're willing to you know add more on your plate to assist
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another person but they not going to do that for you and that's where the problem starts that's where you have to
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take a step back and be like okay wait a minute I'm giving this
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person 10 and they're giving me to I got to step back and that's really that's
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really where self-preservation comes in into play because for me because of the field that I work in I
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told you guys I I'm in you know psychology human mind mental health human
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behavior I know that human beings are selfish by Nature selfish and
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narcissistic it's their nature to be that way people are naturally users okay that's just human nature
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that's why it's important for you to have your boundary where it's like hey I understand that you know you may need
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assistance in this area but I'm not available today or I understand that you
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know you need to borrow more cash but I lent you cash last month this month I
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have to focus on myself right now I'm not going to extend myself this month and it's really putting that boundary in
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play because people like I said I said unless you're ascended like me I'm I'm
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ascended I'm on a high plane of Consciousness I'm on a very very high
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level of Consciousness because I do a lot of work on myself and I check my spirit as much as possible and I have my
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relationship with God and I check in with God and I I try to do deep
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introspection on myself you know a lot of people don't do self- introspection
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they don't ever look at themselves in the mirror and say hey like I'm an effed up person I need to change most people
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don't do that most people have never done there are some people who get buried on their funeral day and
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they have still never did any type of self-introspection they just go through
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life the way that they are and they don't think about their negative
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qualities a lot of people don't even know that they have a negative quality
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until somebody points out that quality that's how unaware people are they don't
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even look at themselves they just they have to wait on another person to point
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out a flaw because they don't ever check in with themselves and like I said because I I operate from a high level of
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Consciousness we need more episodes from the podcast oh my God I'm sorry yes I
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know I know um I will upload more for the podcast
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I'm sorry I kind of just got so um I just had a couple of personal things um
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in my life so I had to I took a break from uploading for the podcast but thank you for bringing that up and reminding
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me um the podcast will be coming back on Friday I just had to take a breather
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like I said I believe in self- introspection so when I need to check in
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with myself and back away for the from the world I forget about podcasts people online I forget about everything to
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focus on thyself that's also a major part of um self-preservation is learning
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to silence what's around you and say okay am I feeling good this week am I feeling good today if I'm not feeling
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good today I'm going to hold off on this I'm going to cancel that I'm not going to show up to this invitation because I
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need to focus on me right now that is a part of
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self-preservation where can you listen to my podcast my podcast is on Spotify if you go to my profile um on
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Tik talk and on YouTube if you click my link tree the podcast is there so just
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go to my link tree and my profile and you'll see it where was I H I got distracted by that question um what was
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I saying okay yes so I was talking about um self-preservation right
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so because of the field that I work in I have a different perspective on
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people compared to the average person because my profession
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is understanding human behavior watching human behavior seeing different type of
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disorders mental disorders okay um personality disorders
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and by the way mental disorders and personality disorders are are two completely different things so my field
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is all human and understanding humans and I will always be honest and
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say human beings are selfish by Nature it's their nature to be
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selfish okay they're they're that way you know and even you know when you look
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at the Bible the Bible has made references that human beings are very Wicked several times they're naturally
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that way people are that way it's Ascension
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spirituality self-mastery and introspection that causes people to
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change for the better the thing is most people don't do those things throughout their life they just continue being in
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their selfish nature in their evil ways most people do not change throughout life because change
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requires self-introspection and reflection most people do not self- introspect and most people do not look
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at themselves and say what do I need to fix about myself most people do not do that yes I do yeah my degrees are in
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Psychology by the way um to answer your question most people don't look within
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most people don't do that most people go through life the way that they are and
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they don't change and if someone does not call them out and say you have this
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problem they won't even recognize that they have that problem because that's how unaware they are of
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thyself I look at myself in the mirror every day and I tell myself
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girl you're mess up or girl if you don't fix that
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problem that problem is going to dog walk you I look in the mirror and I say that
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characteristic trait it's unpleasant and you need to change it that is going to create a lot
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of that's going to create a dent in your relationships if you don't change that about your character this is my internal
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dialogue every day my internal dialogue every day is I'm constantly checking
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with myself I'm constantly checking myself like am I performing at the best
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level am I performing at my highest level am I balanced how do I feel
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emotionally is there something that I'm suppressing Within Myself am I
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performing at the best level that I I can and if I'm not what's keeping me from it how do the people that I love
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feel do the people that I love feel loved by me or am I too embedded in my
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own life that I'm not actually showing the people I love how much I love them
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I'm just saying it but I'm not showing that action this is my internal dialogue
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every single day is it always healthy no sometimes it can definitely trigger
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anxiety but I always have to make sure that I am checking in with myself
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because it's my job to take responsibility for my life my character and who I am I can't rely on somebody to
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do that for me I can't rely on a man to do that for me I can't rely on my family to do that for me I can't even rely on
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God to do that for me because we have free will I can either follow God or turn my
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back on him it's my choice so that's why I always tell
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people when we talk about self-preservation in order to master self-preservation
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you must Master thyself first and find
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out what areas of yourself do you give away to People Too Much what areas of you do people abuse and those are the
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areas where you start to put boundaries in place could self-preservation extend to
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family as well I live in Ireland and all the therapists are whites so I feel they
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would not understand me do I mean some people will pick a
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therapist based on their race I think you should still give it a try but if you want to try a black therapist I'm
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sure they have virtual calls try alma.com I don't know if they have that in your region because I'm in the in the
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US but alma.com has a wide range of therapist for really good prices and you see their pictures and things like that
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um I wanted to answer that question could self-preservation extend
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to family as well yeah self-preservation does extend to family
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I think that the boundaries that I have in my
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life apply to everybody it's it's across the board when you create boundaries it's not just
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for certain people it should be a default um
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so I think the only person that I think can cross certain boundaries that other
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people can't cross in my life would probably be my parents um I feel like my parents you
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know they just I just give them a lot of passes because they're my parents you know and and they sacrific a lot for me
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and they may have not done everything right but they did their best and I feel
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like I owe them everything so those are probably the only people who can get
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certain passes with me but everybody else is it's it's a no-o but I'm just
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saying that yes self-preservation doeses extend to family it depends like it
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depends on the context that you're asking like is your family like abusive are they physically abusive are they
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mentally abusive are they verbally abusive you know like one of my biggest boundaries I can say that applies to my
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family as well is I don't like verbal abuse I don't like being verbally
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attacked by people I don't like being yelled at or screamed at it makes me
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extremely uncomfortable I've done a lot of work on myself on not suppressing but
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mastering um in the past my temper and and I've I've done a lot of work to
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master me not blowing up on people so
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when people are yelling or screaming at me it just takes me it just takes me
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back and that's a boundary that I have to protect others and to also protect
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myself is no yelling like we can communicate with each other without
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screaming at each other we really can and it takes a certain level of maturity
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to have conversations without yelling and when it comes to self-preservation with your family sometimes remind the
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person of the boundary you know like sometimes if if if me and my sibling if
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me and my brother are going back and forth and and our voices start to to to
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raise I'll tell my brother hey like like I'm not yelling at you you're not yelling at me at the end of the day we
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love each other we're for each other we honor each other we support each other let's calm down or let's revisit this
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conversation in an hour or let's revisit it the next day but I love you I don't want to yell at you and I don't want you
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to yell at me and I don't want this conversation to get somewhere that it doesn't need to go that is called
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maturity and self-preservation cuz I don't want to get out of character and make a fool out
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of myself you don't want to get out of character and make a fool out of yourself cuz let's be honest we're both
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going to feel stupid if we let things get to where they don't need to get to so what's very important when it comes
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to self-preservation is when you feel like a boundary is being crossed whether
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it's by a loved one or whether it's by a stranger when you feel that boundary getting crossed
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you have two options my favorite is to walk away and leave the environment that
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is my favorite thing to do like I will walk away honey I'm a track star I will
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grab my purse and I'm leaving like the minute a boundary gets cross I leave that environment because I don't want
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things to escalate and self-preservation is understanding when a situation can
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get out of hand and you immediately exiting the environment where the
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situation can get out of hand and that's a problem that I feel like a lot of women have women like to see how red the
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flag can get so they will stay in compromising situations and they will
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stay in dangerous situations instead of understanding I need to preserve myself I got to get out
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of here or I need to preserve myself I got to get out of this environment or this relationship or what most women
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women like to wait until the situation is at the worst state possible and then
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react when it's too late with self-preservation we don't wait until it's too late to preserve ourselves we
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walk in self-preservation we're always practicing preserving
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ourselves it takes work yes self-preservation doeses take work I want to go through you guys'
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comments um when I get older I will be stronger
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they call me Freedom just like the waving flag what if someone has a silent
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treatment um if somebody's giving you the silent treatment then they don't want to talk
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and you have to be okay with that that's another part of self-preservation
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self-preservation is also this is something that I also feel like a lot of women struggle with uh
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self-preservation is also being comfortable with the fact that you
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cannot control other people and you can't control other
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people's decisions so if someone is giving you the silent treatment then they don't
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want to speak to you and you have to be okay with that because again it's it's
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you can't control another person and I think that because society and human
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beings are so narcissistic they are uncomfortable with the concept
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of you cannot control another person you understand I can't
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control another person's decisions in regards to me and I and that help that brings me
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peace because I already have to control myself imagine if I have to go through life trying to
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control other people that is draining I don't want to control anybody I let people do what they rather do and then I
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decide what's best for me based on what they're doing but I don't control people I don't try to control people's
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decisions their actions I I I can't because I I I I feel like the only
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person that you really can control as a person is yourself and your children if they're toddlers but other than that you
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can't control people you have to give people the freedom to make their decisions and do what they what they
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rather do and you respond to their decision based on what's going to
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preserve you and keep you in the best healthiest State possible that's all you could
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do what's the Lippy the Lippy is um
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Milani it's like a Milani tube it comes in a tube like a kind of like a lip
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gloss tube and it's like a matte they have a bunch of matte colors I got it from like Walgreens emotional intelligence as well
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yeah yeah exactly exactly wow you just solved my psych
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problem I tend to wait till the last minute almost cost my life yeah I think
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the reason why women tend to wait till the last minute to get out of a negative
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situation or or preserve themselves is because women feel like they can change
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people and women fall in love with the ideal of trying to change
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people women always are looking to fix things and that's fine because women
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have Creative Energy women have energy to make something that's not so good and
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make it better women are women naturally have that availability not availability I'm sorry
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capability the problem with women is the obsession with trying to change people
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that's the problem I think women have it's it's the obsession
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with not accepting the situation for what it is and trying to
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change the situation or the person that is the problem that women
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have the energy that you put into trying to change the person or change the
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situation can be put towards finding a better situation or finding a better
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person I think that women Place their
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energy into things that are already broken because women
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like if you go in your bathroom and you make a mistake and you
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break the vase in your bathroom are you going to go to Dollar Tree and get hot glue regular
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glue uh gloves all this to try to put a broken shattered vase back
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together which is extremely complicated or are you going to just go to Ross or TJ Maxx or
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Marshall's and get another vase which can take 5 seconds it's a new vase it's
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put together correctly it's already together you just put it and throw the old but women don't do that women are
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always going to pick the more difficult r route women are always going to pick the route that's more complicated
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they're going to pick the route where nine times out of 10 the end result will
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be negative that's what women do to themselves and it's not it's not bad
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because women have Creative Energy and the reason why women have Creative Energy is because women push out babies
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the baby is grown and created in your womb women have Creative Energy the
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problem is when you are putting that energy to create or fix things that are already at
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a dead end and that is what I see women doing all the time you know this person
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you know this guy you know he's not a good guy he's crossed you several times
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he's been disloyal to you several times he has proven to you that you're not
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worth it several times he has broken promises several
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times but you're still looking to create a good
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relationship out of a relationship where the person has shown you that you are not worth it to
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them women do this all the time wasted energy wasted you are using
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your Creative Energy and you're putting it in a wasted place in a place that's
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that's dry in a desert that's why I always tell women don't put
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your energy in time towards things that serve that don't serve a
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purpose that's part of self-preservation okay
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yeah why you working for free slaving your voice your energy here we could sit on million dollar salary um I'm not
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working for free sweetie I'm building a business I'm building a brand I'm building something something that's
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going to be worthwhile in the future but you wouldn't understand that most women don't understand that CU you guys spend
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time building things that are already dead I'm building a a a brand a platform
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so that you see what I'm saying like and I'm actually going to respond to that
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comment right now because that's a perfect example of how women that's a
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perfect example of how women think women only women are very nearsighted right so
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she ask me why am I wasting my time and my energy on live talking to people that's how she sees it this isn't
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wasting my time or energy talking to people this is my brand sweetheart this
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is my brand I'm a brand me as a person my name me my body is a brand it's not a
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product it's not a shoe it's not a lip gloss I'm My Own brand not many people can say
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that so yes I'm putting my time and energy into something where in the long
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run in the future it's going to be a very very very very big deal
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for not just me but for my family for my children for women who need this type of
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advice where 20 30 years down the line 40 years down the line these videos will
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live on and and and have a new batch of women that it can help so that's the problem with women again they they will
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put their energy into a deadbeat relationship or a deadbeat situation but
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they won't put their energy into building something for their own life that will actually last that they don't
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have patience for but they have patience to go back and forth with the same clown that has proved that he's been a clown
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on several occasions and I'm not bashing you like I'm not you know trying to bring you
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down I'm just making women aware that this that's what women do and and I include myself I had to master that part
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of myself in order to um move forward
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but yeah I I usually ignore comments like that too but the reason why I answered it is to also prove the point
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that I was just speaking about about how women or people well actually not okay
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hold on this person is spamming my page
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so let's block them block
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okay one second just got to block this person really fast
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okay uh I don't know what that means and I rebuke that I rebuke that bad energy
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let's go ahead and block that person as well one second you
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guys okay yeah I mean just it's so important in life to kind of just you
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know block people it just feels so good it's when you just block them and you don't have to exchange energy with them
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anymore hello what advice you have to date as a successful woman oo I like
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that question that's a really good question O Okay so dating as a
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successful woman is definitely not going to be easy it's definitely going to be a challenge because if you are very
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successful if you are are very
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successful it's going to intimidate men
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and you would have to find somebody who's successful like you or above your
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level of success and then I know that there are relationship coaches who are like oh it's about the love it doesn't
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matter if you make 300K and he makes 30k it's all about building together
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men are extremely jealous and insecure and I talk about how women are
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jealous and insecure but men are extremely jealous and insecure as well
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it's just not talked about because they're men there are men unal living their wives and girlfriends because
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they're envious they were envious and jealous of them so men are just as
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insecure and jealous as women they're very inse secure and they're actually
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very dangerous I really don't recommend dating or involving yourself
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with men unless you're very very very wise and put on game because men are
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very dangerous they're very very dangerous especially if they are not
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evolved if they are not balanced if they are not secure within themselves men are
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very dangerous towards women when they are not balanced and
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secure and when they don't have discipline they're extremely dangerous
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so how do you date as a successful woman first of all as a successful woman you
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have to make sure that the men that you are dating are not jealous of you because a lot of them cannot match your
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tax bracket and cannot match where you're at but they will purposefully try to date you so that they can break you
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down and and and have fun from breaking you
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down pomegranate all
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natural pomegranate raw all natural
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sugarfree pomegranate juice very tart but mixed
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with water very good for flushing you
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out o it's not sweet it's actually extremely sour but I dilute it with
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water yeah so um dating as a successful woman you have to protect yourself
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okay you don't want a guy to try to date you with the impression that you are going to
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financially assist him or help build him up or like I said there are some women
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oh my God this is I don't even know if I want to go into that because this video is on
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self-preservation boundaries and gatekeeping I don't even know if I I I didn't really plan on talking about
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dating and relationships and stuff like that but I I I'll let the crowd decide
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if you guys want me to go into a short detail about why I think
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that a lot of men who are uninvolved are dangerous and why I think that a lot of them are very
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jealous and insecure I will but if you guys want me to stay on this topic I will stay on this topic I'll let you all
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decide I'm excited to see your live ah thank you
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okay hold on you guys um I'm going to try to go through all of your
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comments I absolutely love your content men try to Humble successful women I definitely see that it's been
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challenging I've been in my career was a year how long have you been in your career like what career like because I
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want to kind of help you steer a little bit where like what industry do you work in and also don't forget you guys that I
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do have private girl chats so we don't even have to talk about like your personal business online in front of any
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everyone like you can book a call with me and we can kind of navigate a little
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bit more on what to do to ensure that you get that positive experience with
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dating and with selecting men because a lot of I've seen a lot of beautiful
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women um get broken in half at the hands of a man they're destruction was at the hands of a man so I'm very strict with
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women when especially if you're successful because that triggers a lot of negative emotions in people people in
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general but men it it triggers this weird
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psychotic type of behavior in men so I think successful women have to be extremely cautious with dating and to
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vet properly sometimes it has nothing to do with money the spirit isn't an alignment
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with yours where can I get that juice oh okay um this is all natural pomegranate
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juice um um wait what am I saying is it not pomegranate it's cranberry juice sorry not pomegranate it's cranberry
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juice um I got it from Publix it's like all natural sugar-free just mix it with
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water I'm glad I was going to ask what it was LOL I love cranberry yes please no talk about
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success yes please yes yep are you married because we have
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life force energy okay so well okay so I'm gonna answer the question really fast and then we're going to go back to
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I'm talking about self-preservation so when you are a successful
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woman success means different things to each person right but if you are financially
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successful or you have reached financial success and you know you're living well
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and you make a great salary success requires discipline that's why not everybody is successful that's why not
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everybody is in certain tax brackets because it requires discipline f Focus
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schooling uh attaining boundaries like I always respect successful people because
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not everybody can reach success everybody can be successful but not
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everybody can reach success because not many people are willing to do the work to become successful so when I meet
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successful people for me it's it encourages me for me it it it um
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sometimes I'll even ask the person like you know like how did you stay consistent how did you stay persistent
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like how did you not give up because it takes a while it takes it's reaching success is a very emotional thing
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because you're going to fail more times than you win right so when a woman is extremely successful men understand the
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discipline that it took you to reach that success that you have a lot of men
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don't have that discipline and if they don't have that discipline you are are a reminder of
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what they lack so when you pull up in your nice car and you pull up with your nice bags
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and you pull up to your nice condo and you're well taken care of and you're traveling you know and and I don't know
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maybe you're getting you know work done or veneers or I don't know doing whatever floats your boat with your money that you worked hard
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for that is going to trigger a negative emotion in that man because every time
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he looks at you you represent what he is not okay and it may be cute in the
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beginning where you're like oh don't worry like it's love like I'm GNA take care of my man I'm gonna shower my man
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and all this stuff it's cute in the beginning until the monster starts to come out and
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he starts to feel smaller than you and he starts to feel un
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worthy or he starts to feel like he's not wearing the pants but you
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are um so success equals money I'm not
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saying that success equals money um maybe you joined in a little bit late I said success means something different
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to every person but in this user's particular question she was talking about I believe financial success so
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that's why I'm answering it in this way um
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so look at what's going on with Iman what is it Iman sheret or Iman
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Herbert and what's the last name Taylor is a Tiana Taylor do you see what happens
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when a successful woman gets with a man who's not at her level of success how
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he's trying to completely destroy her that's the
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dangers because men need to feel like they are
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in that masculine provider role because that's how God created it that's why it
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it doesn't feel right to them because that's not how it's supposed to
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be so when that's the case it may start off beautiful in the
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beginning but sooner or later your success is going to start to irritate
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the man that you are with when the money comes in another perfect example of that is
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Kenya and Mark Daly he is trying he tried to take half of her house
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allegedly he tried to take I think she pays him child
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support yeah I think she's paying him look at what happened to Wy
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Williams look at what happened to Wendy Williams it never
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works and those men become extremely mentally abusive physically abusive and sometimes
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even ending in someone's deceased when you are in a relationship
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listen do not okay let me let me go down that route really fast this is
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exactly this is exactly why so many African-American women are losing their
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lives because they are convincing African-American women instead of dating higher they're convincing
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African-American women to date down meaning the woman is a doctor and her
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man is working a labor job and she's getting abused and possibly
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unived but African-American women who are accomplished are
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always um encouraged to date down instead of encouraging African-American
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men to get their stuff together right so it's it's it's very dangerous
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because you want to be with someone who doesn't see you as a threat it's very
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weird to be in a relationship with someone who sees you as their competitor
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that's very unhealthy and and and I I I see that a lot
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where
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um usually when I see it it's the man competing with the
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woman I rarely seen a relationship where the woman's competing with the man I'm
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not saying it doesn't exist I've just never seen it it's always a man who is
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with a woman who's completely out of his league and as a result of that he's abusive towards her which is why I
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always tell you guys which is why I always tell you guys
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when you're dating as a woman men can be extremely dangerous men are not nice people and
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they're not very empathetic either so when you are
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dating you're like swimming with sharks you're Swimming with Sharks if
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you are a woman and you're dating and you can't spot out abusive
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behavior and you can't spot out signs of narcissism and you can't spot out size
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signs of Psychopathic Behavior I encourage you to not
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date because you
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are a little fish swimming in a shark tank when you're dealing with
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men men are a lot smarter than women when it comes to the manipulation
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tactics that they use so when I see women who are
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dating without the knowledge of being able to
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spot abusive behavior of being able to spot when a man is slowly sliding
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in slowly sliding in a mini insult and you
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don't catch it fast enough before you know it you are in a
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5-year marriage four kids in with a narcissistic abuser cuz you didn't catch that
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small that that small insult you didn't even catch it on the first day you didn't even catch it cuz he slid it in
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there real smooth you didn't catch it now you're married to a narcissistic jealous
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abusive man and you have kids with him and you have to deal with him forever you ladies are not a quick
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and if you're not equipped get equipped I know a lot of you guys I love
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y'all but a lot of you guys I teach
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self-preservation I teach boundaries if I offer a service
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where if I offer a service where I give you knowledge and in exchange you pay
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for that knowledge that's balance when you guys DM me with five paragraphs baby I'm going
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to read it because you want my knowledge for nothing the only
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knowledge that's for nothing is when I come on here on these platforms anything more is going to be behind a pay
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wall it's behind a pay wall that's how I protect myself and my energy so I'm not
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just giving my energy away and then feeling depleted after so when I get
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those messages it's not that I don't want to answer them it's that I offer a service for that and you have to book
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the service okay but the free information is
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information when I'm on live and when I'm doing this everything else is behind a pay
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wall so a lot of you ladies it's not that you're not beautiful it's not that
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you're not smart it's not that you're not intelligent it's that you are not
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equipped to spot narcissistic and abusive behavior
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in men you you you're you're not because most people like I said they don't study
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psychology and you cannot study psychology and learn this information get it online from my videos books but
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men are very cunning and
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smart when it comes to the Diabolical agenda
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of trying to break a woman down they're very intelligent and a lot of women are
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not street smart enough to know when a man is trying to come in your life with
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the intention of trying to harm you I have a psych I study psych I study
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human behavior for a living so I can smell narcissism on somebody it's an abuser
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an abuser cannot you won't last because I'm going to the the signs that I'm going to look
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for you won't know I'm looking for you're going to think it's all peaches and cream and then you wake up
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and you're blocked on everything because you did something that caught my attention as a possibly abusive behavior
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and now there's no more chances for you because I believe in self-preservation there are women there are men who Target
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Beautiful successful women
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for the in their whole purpose of targeting you and going after you was
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to have sex with you to boost their ego and then to break you
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down because they were jealous of you the whole
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time okay so if you are not smart enough
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to assess that man and find out what his real agenda for you is and not the
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agenda he's pretending the agenda he's act no I want
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to know what's what you're really what your real intention is and that is going to take
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extreme an EXT and a lot of you ladies and that's exactly why I
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developed my call services so let's say you are dating a man and you're like you
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know I want to have a step by step I need someone you know this was weird I need to let me let me let me book a chat
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and call her and find out what she thinks about this because remember I don't believe in like having like family
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and friends and people like that all up in my business because people or all up in your business I teach gatekeeping and
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I teach moving in silence so if you're dating and you're trying to gatekeep and move in silence you can't tell your
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family and friends you book a call with me and we assess what's going on and I'll
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be able to tell you I can't tell you what to do but I need you to be extremely cautious with that man because
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that is a red flag there are certain men that pursue
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certain women so that they can humble them men are very jealous it's not just
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women who are jealous men are extremely disgustingly
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jealous unevolved feminine men are extremely jealous and and and then when
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they look at you you are prey to them you are prey you are a piece of
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steak that they want to eat with a fork and a knife and in your mind you're thinking
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oh my God he loves me we're gonna get married maybe this is my husband maybe he's the
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one and in his head he's like oo she's pretty and smart and she has a nice car
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and she's intelligent and she's confident and she comes from a good
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family oh no no she needs to be humbled she she
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needs to feel how i' how I've been feeling my whole life that is how people
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are so you have to be able to catch
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Strange Behaviors when you are a successful beautiful woman I believe that you need to have a
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coach or a mentor guiding you through all the different men that you date you can keep
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checking in with that person listen I went on this date he did this he did that what do you think he did this he
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did that because beautiful intelligent accomplished women men are extremely excited to harm
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you because most men are not evolved so you remind them of what they lack
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and a man is not going to go and abuse another man because unless they're like
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homosexuals a man is not going to go and abuse another man like how but a woman
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is weaker physically so a a woman is an easier Target to abuse than a man it's
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easier to abuse a woman and take your anger and frustrations and insec out on
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a woman you can't do that to another man you're going to get knocked out or put in a headlock so they're going to do that
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they find women that are beautiful and accomplished that they can attach
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themselves to and you become the punching bag because a another man a man
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can't abuse another man because they're at the same level
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physically with strength they can't it's only a woman that they can abuse a man
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is not going to go and abuse his boss who's a male or abuse his friend who's a male or abuse his father who's a male or
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abuse his brother who's a male the only person that they can abuse is a
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woman which is why that's who they
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target
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okay exactly user 329 yes their misdirected
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anger and jealousy is thrown towards a woman because a woman is the only one who's weaker than them that they can
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abuse so that's why I always tell women do not get into the dating game if you
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are not equipped to notice narcissistic and abusive
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behaviors don't do it because they will damage you and then they will damage you
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and then they leave and now you got to go on Craigslist trying to find a therapist
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because you can't even sleep at night because this guy dragged you through the
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mud and back and you don't even know how to recover so we can avoid all of
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that by you don't tell me my
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what this is ridiculous hold on you
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guys hold on I'm sorry you guys I don't know what's going on with
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Tik Tok one second guys let me see how
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H oops let me see hold on you guys YouTube give me a
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second did my phone die on me
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okay you guys I'm back on okay let me go through some of you guys'
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comments o glad I caught your live hello I'm a nurse and I find it so
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difficult to date what tips you have dating as a
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successful woman I don't know if this is the same person on Tik Tok
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that is asking this um well I guess I'll answer it
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again um Tik Tok I'm looking down I'm answering on
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YouTube um the tips that I have for as dating a successful woman
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this live is going to be saved by the way so you can always come back on and
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listen to this live live cuz I spoke about it a little bit earlier but the
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tips that I have again is to just be extremely careful with dating as a
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successful woman you want to make sure that a guy doesn't see you as
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a um you want to make sure that the guy doesn't see you as a
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token or ATM or because I feel like I feel like
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there are some women
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who kind of want to buy a man's love like you feel like okay like you know if
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if I pay for things and I pay for the date and I buy him things and I shower him then he's going to love me more and
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want to give me a ring and be with me and even if he does at what expense
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because technically he may still have resentment
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because you you provided things to him that he couldn't provide to himself now usually you guys would think oh well he
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should know that I love him that's why I'm doing this he should be grateful men don't think the way women do so they're
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not going to see it like oh I'm grateful that she did this for me they're going to see it as wow I have to have a woman
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doing this for me because I can't do it for myself and then they can't process those emotions very well and then they
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end up resenting you