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Ascension you have to make the decision to become self
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aware you got to become self-aware a lot of people go through life in a way where
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they are not aware of their flaws and they are not aware of what it is in
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their life that needs to be fixed in order for them to move forward and I I actually see this I actually see this
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phenomenon a lot with women I feel like women don't like to look at the man in
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the mirror I feel like women don't like
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to take responsibility for their actions it's more of pushing the blame on other
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people and a woman I can you know I can attest to that I've been like that
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before but as women we need to stop blaming other people for all the
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negative occurrences in our lives and we need to take responsibility for the role that we play
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in either our own Victory or in our own demise and my life really took a
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turn my life took a turn when I decided that I'm going to become self-aware and
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I'm going to stop blaming people I'm going to stop the blame game I'm going to stop saying oh because of you I'm
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here because of you this happened or because of this I said I'm going to take responsibility for my life and that's
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the mindset that I want you ladies and gentlemen to be in nobody's coming to save you I want to be very clear on that
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nobody's coming to save you you have to be the one to look at your life and fix
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it so the first thing we're going to talk about is ascending we're going to talk about Ascension right now spiritual
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Ascension and just ascending in your physical life let's talk about Ascension pay very close attention so these are my
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notes by the way that I'm looking at that I dropped down for you guys um become self-aware you are responsible
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for your own Ascension advancement and growth no one is coming to save you
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ladies I want you to get that through your Noggin and please you guys like the live share the live like share post post
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it on your Instagram tag me let's get this these live numbers up let's share
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it let's like it and let's get the live moving because I'm going to drop some gems for you guys today Tik Tok let's
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get the likes going YouTube same thing so let's talk
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about Ascension right now I want you guys to understand the turning point
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this message is going to be the turning point of your life listen to what I'm saying when you take the responsibility
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and you finally wake up one day and this is what happened to me you finally wake up one day and you say you know what
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everything in my life that I don't like I'm gonna change it everything in my
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life that I'm not happy with I'm gonna fix it once you make that decision
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everything in your life is going to shift and what I've noticed with a lot of people I've noticed this with women I
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think that men you know and and Men you guys are super super welcomed on my platform I feel like my platform has
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been I like a lot of men have been like coming onto my platform and I love that
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because I am not a male hater I love my gals but I love my guys I love love love
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my guys and one thing that I can say is I feel like with men men don't get as
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much of a pass as women get right with men it's just like figure it out
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like go get the money go get the bag work three jobs you have to figure it out we don't care about your feelings we want we don't want to hear how bad you
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feel about yourself that's how Society treats men so that's why men
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men address Calamity and situations different than women women men don't
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have the space to complain right men don't have the space to feel bad for
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themselves men just have to figure it out but the thing that I've noticed with women is women pay more attention to the
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problem then they pay attention to fixing the problem and how to fix the
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problem so you will notice that with your girlfriends right let's say that a girl is having a problem with a man
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right let's say things are not going well in her relationship what women love to do and I had to change this about
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myself as well women love to stay hyperfocused on on the problem right
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women will sit there and talk about the problem for hours and hours and hours
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and hours and hours and women will never bring up a
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solution and the friend that does bring up the solution I'm always that friend is
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considered the friend it's like oh well she's not being empathetic enough it's not that I'm being not being
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empathetic it's that you're giving me a problem you're bringing it to me you're complaining it complaining to me about
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it I'm telling you this is how we fix it but you don't want to hear it so the the difference between men and women men are
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more built to problem solve women are more built to
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ruminate okay women are built to marinate on the problem and that's
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what's going to hold you back as a woman when you're not focused on you're not solution based you're problem based
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right and majority of women they're problem-based so baby girl if we're not talking about
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a solution I don't want to talk because we're not going to get anywhere so I
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promise you if someone puts an experiment together and they give two groups of people a problem this group is
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a group of Six Women on a table this group is a group of five men on a table
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you give the group of women a problem you give the group of men a problem I promise you that at the end of the night
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the men are going to have a solution and the women are going to be arguing cuz women are
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built Society has programmed women to not look for Solutions and to constantly
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be looking for help the group of men by the end of the night those dudes are
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going to have a full blueprint on how to fix the problem the women are going to
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start bickering with each other arguing with each other going back and forth with each other that's how it is and I
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get it I'm a woman too so I'm not like pointing fingers like I'm a woman too like I I have fell into all those
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categories but I had to learn to cut off certain characteristics and adapt new
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characteristics in order for me to move forward okay so I always tell women
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you're not going to grow if you have a problem-based mindset meaning you're
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only focused on the problem you're never focused on the solution women have this mindset a lot
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that's why you can keep telling your girlfriend over and over leave that man he's not good for you leave him he's not
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good for you he's toxic she's never going to leave him because women usually do not have solution-based Minds women
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have problem-based Minds men have a solution-based mind and I'm not a sexist
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because I'm a woman but my platform I feel like is built to help both men and women Ascend I'm all about Ascension and
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I'm not perfect I'm ascending just like you guys I'm getting better and better as the day goes let me tell you this I
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only have one sibling I have a brother if I want hardore straight facts
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solution no BS straight to the point I go to my brother if I bring a problem to
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him my brother will not allow me to come up with excuses or complain or cry he is
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going to give me a straight solution he'll be like you know what you need to do this or he'll give me two two options
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my brother will be like you could either do a or you could do B and he's done talking about it he's not going to stay on the phone with me for three three
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hours the way a girlfriend will he's not going to cuddle me and he's not gonna
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allow me to make a clown of myself he's gonna say Hey you can either do a or b that's all I could tell you I gotta go
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Boop that's how men are men are going to give you straight Solutions and that's it women usually like to coddle each
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other and they like to um kind of in a way support each other's
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Shenanigans I'm trying to like not sound mean but a lot of women are not
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really good at developing a solution they're better at coddling each other
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and not H holding each other accountable and not telling people girl
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like this is what it is we got to move forward we don't have time to focus on this right now most women are not like
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that they're going to keep cuddling you and as a woman if you're trying to ascend and you're trying to move forward
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in your life and you're trying to grow get around women who are going to hold
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you accountable for your actions and hold you accountable for who you are don't get
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around women who are yes women I always say I don't want yes women or Yes Man yes women or yes men around me I want
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people who are going to be like I love you but you need to fix this that is
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what I want around me because that's the only way that I'm going to
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grow when you ascend you have to become self-aware let's talk about self-awareness for a second right
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now a lot of you guys and I'm I'm I'm I'm I'm being
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honest here
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let me tell you guys something a lot of you guys are running away I'm not a life
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coach are you a life coach I'm not a life coach I am getting my life coach license though I think I'm really good
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at it like you sense the energy right I think I would be really good at at being a life coach for people but I do offer
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um counseling services and services like that so visit my website for that and I
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work in ology I'm I work in the mental health field so that's probably why I kind of have this kind of therapeutic
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aura about me but anyways um a lot of you guys are running away from your
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self-awareness what is that mean a lot of you guys have a lot of
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issues and you don't want to face them
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you keep trying to cover them up and run away from the issue that you have and
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the reason why I'm so understanding of men is because men don't get to run away
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from their issues they don't get to cry and be coddled men have to
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just deal with it hand on men don't get empathy men don't get sympathy so
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whether women want to admit it or not life is much harder on men and I'm I'm very aware of that men do not get
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to cry and be emotional and stop and
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pause and get support men have to keep going no matter how they feel and that's
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very difficult and as a woman I understand that and and I commend a man
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who's pushing himself because I know it's not easy men don't get
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to cry about things the way women do now
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as a woman I'm not putting us on the same hierarchy as men and saying that we got to be just like men we're built different I get it
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that's how God made it but I'm saying as women we need to start taking responsibility for ourselves and we need
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to start taking responsibility for our actions and that is through becoming
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self-aware you know your self-aware when you look at yourself in the mirror and
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you're like oh crap I got a lot of issues that I've been sweeping under
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this rug and the more dirt and issues you sweep under the rug is going to
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start to pile up it's going to start to pile up and I'm telling you this because it happened to me okay remember when I
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speak to you guys I'm speaking to you from experience the more you keep sweeping
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that problem under that rug whatever that problem is whether
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it's an emotional problem whether you're whatever it is that you're struggling with in your life the the more you keep
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sweeping that problem under that rug it's going to attack you at some
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point you have to have a very strong sense of selfawareness
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in life in order to progress and move
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forward you cannot go through life ignoring your issues and don't feel bad
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for the issues that you have either we can't no one can judge anybody no one
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can judge anybody CU we're all facing a different battle but we must Ascend okay
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we must become self-aware and we must become responsible for our Ascension
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advancement and growth a lot of you guys are looking for a relationship you should be looking for a
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therapist okay a lot of you guys do not need to be dating right
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now you do not need to be dating right now you do not need to be pursuing a relationship right now you don't need to
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be doing dealing with anything that has to do with romance right now you need
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therapy and you need aggressive therapy I mean you got to meet with your therapist three times a week and fix
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that problem there are so many people that I personally feel like have no
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business being in a relationship none you have no business being in a
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relationship you're broken you are
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traumatized you are struggling with all type of issues porn issues addiction issues drug issues alcoholism issues
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anger issues and here you are on a dating
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app trying to find someone to throw all that
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on okay you're trying to find someone to project all that on I tell people all the
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time you don't need a relationship you need a therapist okay you need to fix
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yourself you gotta you're very broken and you have
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to focus on rebuilding yourself cleaning
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yourself up getting yourself together before pursuing another individual and
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building something with that person and that's why there's so many toxic relationships right now because instead
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of going a therapy people are looking for a new girlfriend or a new boyfriend
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instead of going to therapy to fix the issues that they
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have okay let's move on to point number two we're still talking about Ascension
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Point number two develop a deep relationship with Holy Spirit or your
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spirituality to ascend okay a lot of you guys have walked out on your faith
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whatever that is okay I'm a Christian but I'm not here to tell you what to believe in I'm only going to give you
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Jesus but I know everybody has different belief systems a lot of you guys have turned
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your back on spirituality spirituality is extremely important
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spirituality your spiritual health is extremely
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important to okay you guys cut it out okay I was
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putting nail polish on and got on my hands cut it out am I on a live with adults or I'm on a live with third
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graders let's stop the foolishness I'm talking about something serious and you guys are talking about nail polish
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stains let's let's move forward let's get over that and let's focus okay stop
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you comment on that again you're getting blocked we got to grow up we got to grow up okay let's stop with that
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so you have to develop a relationship with your
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spiritual life and your spiritual self in order to move forward a lot of you guys have turned your back on your faith
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and I get it sometimes life gets hard things
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happen discrepancies happen and we turn our back on God we turn our
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back on God we do we think that we can do it by ourselves you can't take it from me I've
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tried to do life on my own I've I've I've been through a season where I turned my back on all things spiritual
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spiritual wise and my life went like this in all
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areas and I'm here to tell you get back into your faith whatever that
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may be get back into it get back to your routine get back to praying your
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affirmations okay your meditations you got to get back to that because that is
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going to help balance you that's going to help balance the playing field of
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your life when you go back into your spirituality you need to get back into
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your rebuild that Foundation there you go thank you MJ rebuild the foundation
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of your spirituality in order to ascend you have to develop a deep relationship with your spirituality to
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ascend because guess what guess what happens in your life when you build a
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deep spirituality you become more
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intuitive what happens when you become more intuitive you can smell
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BS when you have intuition you can smell BS
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from miles away I'm sure that all of you guys when you start praying again when
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you start meditating again when you start getting deep in your spirituality again don't tell me that you don't
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you're not able to just sense things more you're better at sensing things you're better at sensing people you're
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better at you know going into an environment and you're like uhuh this isn't this isn't the environment for me
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or you go on that date and you're like M like this isn't the person for me or you
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know you go out with that friend and you're like M something feels funny the more you grow and you ascend
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spiritually the better life gets because you become intuitive and now you know how to navigate life and you know how to
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not fall into negative situation because you're growing on a spiritual
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level okay so when I started putting my spirituality at the center of my life I
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became more Discerning of people okay and I'm going to give you guys a quick story I remember um a family member of
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mine had a birthday um dinner I couldn't go because I I I think I had to work
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that day and they took a bunch of pictures at the birthday dinner they took a bunch of
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pictures like group photos and my other family member was like oh look at the photos that we took I want to show you the photos we took at the birthday
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dinner I'm like yeah of course let me see the pictures like I want to see you know I'm sure you guys all look beautiful let's
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see um when I looked at the photo there was
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this woman in one of the photos I don't know her I've never met her before it was like the birthday girl's friend I've never met her when I looked at the
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photo oh excuse me when I looked at the
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photo I was like oo and my family member was like what I'm like that lady's
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weird and my family member's like what are you talking about I'm like I don't know like I just you showed me the photo
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and that lady in the green dress she's weird and they're like what are you talking about do you know her I'm like
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no I don't something about her is just strange like the minute I saw the
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picture she disturbed my spirit immediately I don't know what it is but she just immediately Disturbed my
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spirit and then weeks later my family member who that was her birthday dinner
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was complaining about this person in the green dress in the photo and she was saying how you know that friend is weird
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and that friend is jealous and that friend has done some very funny things to her and then my other family member
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who originally showed me the photo she looked at me like she's like oh my God how did you
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know I'm like I don't know I just saw the photo and I saw her in the photo and something about her Disturbed my spirit
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and I immediately do knew that something wasn't right with her now if if I wasn't
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pushing myself in my spirituality and praying and growing I wouldn't have the ability to just look at someone's photo
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and sense something from them just off their picture I've never met that girl before I don't even know her name but I
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saw her photo and I could already tell that something about her was not pure so
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um um spirituality when you develop a relationship with Holy Spirit you're
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able to detect sense and feel things about people that they cannot hide right
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they can't hide from you and the more you ascend we're still on the subject of
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Ascension the more you grow in your spirituality people can't hide from you
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and you'll notice that people will people will purposefully avoid you because they know they can't hide
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from you and because they know that you can sense them and because they know that you know that they're not genuine
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so they're going to always keep avoiding being in your circle being around you because they know that you are sensing
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that something's not right with them okay they know that you know that something is not right with them so
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that's part two of Ascension number three when you start to ascend in life
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you're growing you're working on yourself you're developing yourself you're getting better the roaches will
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come out the Woodworks the roaches will will come out the Woodworks okay and I'm looking at my
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notes you guys when you ascend your growth knowledge wisdom and energy will
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offend those closest to you once that happens it's time for them to go once
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your growth offends someone it's time for them to go once your success your
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growth your your power once that starts to irritate someone
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Spirit whether they're your friend or family that's God telling you their it's their expiration date it's time for them
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to go and a lot of you guys you're growing in your life and you're trying
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to hold on to people who are offended by your growth and it's
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basically like holding on to a rope full
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of thorns when you do that there are certain people in your life
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it's time for them to go and you need to let them go and you need to
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become you need to develop power where you can let people go and it doesn't
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affect you it doesn't rock you they're no longer they're they cannot go into
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the next chapter and this is a problem that I see that a lot of women have a
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lot of women don't know know how to let people go a lot of women don't know how to let friendships dry out you know that
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guy that you've been seeing baby girl is not working okay it's been two years
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he's still the same person we got to move on we can't keep holding on to
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things that's holding us back from our Ascension and as you start to
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ascend as you start to ascend what's going to start to happen is people are
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going to try to siphon your energy okay and I made a post on this on YouTube the
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other day let's talk about energy siphoning energy siphoning let's talk about that energy siphoning in my
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opinion is when something or no not something someone comes in your life and
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they are trying to get a reaction out of you stay away from people who want a
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negative reaction out of you stay away from people like that stay away from
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people where you're just in your world and you're enjoying yourself and you're having a wonderful time and they just
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want to come and Trigger you in some way you got to stay away from people like that that that's jealousy okay that's
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jealousy that's jealousy and that's Envy when you're just enjoying your life and
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somebody just comes in with some foolishness out the blue they are trying to
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siphon they are trying to siphon your energy and I had two family
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members that I had to block in the last
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week that tried to siphon my energy and I'm going to tell you guys what happened I had this one family
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member call me out the blue about something that I posted on my
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Instagram mind you this family member
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not even follow me okay this person called me and was
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like you know telling me Oh you know why did you post this I don't understand I
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was like okay okay okay
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now you just got yourself a oneway ticket to
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Neverland in my life I don't allow people to siphon my energy and I don't
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allow people to come in and disrupt my peace and what a lot of people will do
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is when they see that you're working towards something you're doing all the right things you're happy you're pushing
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yourself forward you have stamina a lot of family members will try to come in
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and bother that or or siphon that or or
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try to throw some type of negativity and we have to be smart enough as people to know when someone is trying to siphon
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our energy if you are someone where you just mind your business you're having a
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good time you're relaxing and this person just always comes out of the blue with nonsense get them out of your life
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they're not for you they're your enemy get them out of your life and move on and I want you guys to start thinking
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about people in simple terms I feel like a lot of people [Music]
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um a lot of people um what's the best word there are a lot
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of weird you know what let's talk about that there are a lot of unhinged people
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out there okay there are a lot of people who are very unhappy with themselves very unhappy with themselves so when
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they see you and you're shining bright and you're happy and and you're pushing
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forward you're working towards something that really triggers them and they are
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like you know what she's she's happy she's I'm gonna there are some people
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who are miserable they are and it doesn't matter if they have money I know a lot of miserable people driving
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foreign cars and they're not happy at all stay away from people who try to
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disrupt your peace I get so many emails from you guys and and I'm not I don't
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try to ignore your emails I'm not trying to ignore them but when I get emails
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from women saying oh this friend did this what do I do or my boyfriend's doing this or my I don't respond to that
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because once you get serious about your life you're going to block those people out they're not you cannot give your
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energy towards clowns and circus stuff I'm not in a circus okay I don't have a
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circus outfit on I don't have big red shoes and a clown notes I'm not a clown so I'm not going to involve myself in
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circus stuff okay so and what a lot of people want to do is they want you to involve yourself in their shenanigans
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because they want access to your energy my block button is like my speed di
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button because I refuse to let anything or anyone disrupt my focus which is why
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even on my platforms when people comment negative things they actually expect me to respond and I never do because I'm
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not going to exchange energies with you I'm not going to exchange energies with you I'm going to stay
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focused okay so the Roes will come out the wood work wood works when you ascend
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as you ascend and as you get better in life and as you grow and as you develop
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yourself you mature you're doing well like you're really like on the right path right like you may not be at the
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finish line but you're on your way there right like everything's in order you have your good head on your shoulders
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your focus you are like okay like I'm doing good like you feel good about yourself you feel confident you feel
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wonderful you know you're beautiful you're confident you're happy you're focused you have a plan you're like all
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right let's do this I am ready for life let's I'm ready to take life I'm ready
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to do this when you get to that vibration every roach rat and
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raccoon in your life is going to come out the Woodworks when you reach there that is
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when people start acting crazy when you reach that energy where you're happy and
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you're conf confident and you're focused and you're determined that's when the unhinged people are going to come out
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that's when the crazy people are going to come out that's when the people who
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are extremely offended by your good energy
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that's when they're going to come out I've learned that and when a roach
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comes out I grab my roach spray and I spray them okay because I'm not going to
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deal with that so so pay attention to how people react to your
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confidence pay attention to how people react to you feeling good pay attention
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to how people react when you are in your Zone because this happened to me with a
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family member in the last two weeks even family they think that they're not going to get cut off they think that that
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they're going to keep bothering you and they're not going to get cut off I cut family members off too I cut family
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members off too I don't just cut strangers off I cut family off too whoever is not contributing to my growth
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and is coming in my life to bother me or siphon my energy you're getting cut off like it doesn't matter what your title
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is and that's the thing with toxic family they think that because they have
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a title with you that they can just get away with things no you getting cut off baby because I got to focus and what
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you're doing is you're coming in and you're trying to distract me and I get rid of distraction
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and I think that that's the same way that you guys got to be anybody who comes in your life who's trying to
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distract you they have to go okay they have to go you guys have to be so
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obsessed and so so focused on reaching your goals in your life and reaching
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your promised land that anybody that tries to get in the way of that gets cut
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off and it doesn't matter if they're family okay I have a lot of family on my
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block list I got about seven of them on there and they're never getting off
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because the minute someone tries to come in and distract me or bother me or
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siphon my energy or trigger me you are my enemy and there are certain family
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members they are your enemy they are they are your Cain we know what Cain did
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to Abel you got certain people in your family who are a can they're your enemy
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they want your life and they have to go okay I don't believe in I am a strong
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believer in not all blood is family and not all family is blood okay I believe
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in that I don't care about cousin Aunt I don't care about none of that and I hate when people try to bring that up to me
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as if it as if it makes a difference if you are my enemy or you're coming after
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me in any way I don't care about your title that I don't look at titles I look
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at what is your role in my life I don't care about if you're a cousin you can be
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a jealous cousin doesn't matter so that's how you guys have to say things
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anyways um yes so there are certain people in your life their expiration
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date is here let them expire okay when you have a
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expired uh carton of milk in your fridge do you leave it there for ever no if
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it's expired you take the milk you throw it in the trash you throw it and it stinks too right so that's how it is
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when when you have people in your life that are the relationship is expired just like milk they start to stink up
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your life because they have to go but you keep keeping them around um is it considered unforgiveness
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no it's not it's not considered unforgiveness and I'm happy that you brought that up I'll start talking about
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that right now um a lot of people a lot of people confuse forgiveness with
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reconciliation okay they confuse the two okay forgiveness is a spiritual act
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forgiveness is is a spiritual thing it's something that you do by faith you forgive the person right sometimes you have to forgive people who are not sorry
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sometimes you have to forgive people who you you haven't seen them in like 10 or
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15 years right but a lot of people confuse forgiveness with reconciliation
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and I've this I feel like a broken tape recorder because I've talking I've talked about this so many times
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forgiveness does not mean reconciliation okay I can forgive you and never deal with you ever again until the end of my
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life okay so um I believe in forgiveness you
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know but depending on your religion my belief system is if you want God to keep forgiving you you have to also forgive
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people it works in correlation um but I'm a strong forgiver I mean I'm a strong believer and um
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there are certain people that I forgive and I reconcile with and there are certain people that I forgive and I don't reconcile with so what's going to
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determine forgiveness is always going to be at play but what's going to determine reconciliation is what you did to me
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okay that's what's going to determine if I reconnect if I reattach myself to you or not so let me give you guys an
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example let's say that I get in an argument with a person that I love a friend or a family member or whatever
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right let's say I get into an argument with them and and we we yell at each
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other we're frustrated with each other we're mad at each other and we start exchanging negative words right like you
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know like f you or you know shut the f up whatever like we start exchanging negative words we were both In the Heat
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of the Moment we were both angry we were both upset we were both arguing we can
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sit down on a table say listen I'm sorry like I was upset I was angry like can
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you please forgive me I didn't mean to say that I said It In the Heat of the Moment and that person said you know what I'm sorry too I also said it in the
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that we can forgive each other and reconcile but if somebody goes out of
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their way and they start calling people to make people not work for me they're
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work with me they're trying to destroy my reputation public humiliation
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conspiring there's no ground for reconciliation in that
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context so I reconcile depending on the context I forgive everybody but I do not
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reconcile with everybody that's the difference there are certain people you
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cannot reconcile with them you can't because they are on assignment to destroy your life there are certain
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people there's only forgiveness there's no reconciliation with them it's only forgiveness that's it after you forgive
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them they're gone they're never to be in your life again for your safety for your
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family's safety for your mental health for your physical health they are no
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longer allowed to be in your life again and that is the mistake that a lot of
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people make when it comes to forgiveness is a lot of people don't know who to reconcile with they just say oh I
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forgave everybody so I'm gon reconcile with everybody you cannot do that you only reconcile with people
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people who made a genuine mistake and it wasn't like the mistake that they made
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wasn't fueled by hate or Envy or jealousy then that's different but if
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they try to like I'm not g to I'm not going to reconcile with a girl who tried to sleep with the guy I'm with like
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that's not that's your enemy like how are you g like you can't no it's
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it's no you can't reconcile with somebody like that you have to when it
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comes to reconciliation what was the person's intention behind what they did
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that's how I decide if I'm going to reconcile with someone or not remember I forgive everybody I don't reconcile with
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everybody that is the difference I'll give you guys an example I had a family
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member um in the business field that I'm in I was helping this family member find
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their portfolio or property whatever we never had a issue we never had an
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argument we never had a disagreement nothing this person that I worked with
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and and was helping find property and going to different
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places and visiting different places with went and bought with somebody
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else they went and they bought with somebody else so when I got the word that they went
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and they bought with somebody else behind my back didn't even tell me right
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like I was helping this person for like six months a family member they went and
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they bought their property behind my back with somebody
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else the minute I found out about it I was like okay this is a hater this is my
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enemy this is an undercover hater and you have to understand these family members I keep telling you guys these
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family members are just as evil as strangers okay stop thinking that because someone's family they're not
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going to do you dirty they're going to probably do you worse than a stranger so I found out about it and I
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was like okay that's fine I didn't worry about it I'm like okay and I cut her off blocked no contact marriage wedding
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event birthday like you're dead to me like you're in a casket to me mentally
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there's there's it's over so I had another family member say oh well why don't you you know you know
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reconcile I'm like why would I sit and have a conversation with someone who stabbed me in the back I didn't have a
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problem with this person they have a problem with me so why am I going to I
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didn't do anything to this person this person just got up one day and decided to do that okay so there's nothing to
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reconcile about I for her but I'll never she'll never sit on the table with me
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again so I think that certain people have to learn the intention behind what someone does I understand if me and her
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had an argument if we were fighting if we were uh you know we we fell off if
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nothing happened she just stabbed me in the back for no reason so anytime
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someone just um does something negative to you and
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you didn't do anything to them that person in my my opinion has always had an issue with you you just didn't know
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because like I said people are good Pretenders people are very good at pretending especially women women are
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good at faking friendships and faking relationships it's just a matter of time before they do something crazy like what
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this person did and then you know okay it's time for you to leave now our relationship is over it's time for you
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to get out my life let's move forward what's next right next chapter close that door next chapter because sooner or
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later the person is going to show you why they are your op and they don't
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deserve to be in your life so this person showed me that and I was like okay cool like it doesn't bother me like
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I'm not sad I'm not crying about it I'm not mad about it it's like okay you showed me who you are I debted you
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mentally and I'm moving forward and that's it like I don't even think about this person anymore they will never have access to me again it's done like it's
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just you know and and and and that's the type of that's the type of mentality that
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women have to adopt and Men like after someone does something crazy and they show you that they are not on your team
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you just need to swallow it and and and and and Thug it out and move forward
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like you don't need to marinate on that so for me I think the reason why it's
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very I think for me the reason why it's very scary when people cross me is because when they cross me they think
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that there's going to be a chance at us reconnecting and there's not like
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there's certain there's certain lines that are cross with me that you can't spin the block that's not that's not my
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that's not how my personality works like once like I said if if we get in a heated argument and we exchange negative
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words we can apologize we're both in a heated argument like it's it's okay I get it but once you're like you betrayed
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me you publicly humiliate me you conspire against me there's no rec there's you will never be back in my
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life again that door's closed it's done it's over so that's just my mindset
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everybody's different but I'mma keep it moving because I don't need no snake in my garden so I'mma keep it moving okay
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and it's it's it's better to have that mindset and it's better to move that way because that's how you protect
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yourself I remember I had a family member of mine who was who had a friend and this friend um kind of just
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disappeared out of the blue or something like that um and this person this family
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member um I guess this family member always wanted a baby right and I guess
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this person had this family member had an issue having a baby so this friend that they had that disappeared for nine
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months ended up randomly sending her a photo of her newborn baby so I guess her friend that disappeared had a newborn
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baby and just sent her a picture of the baby out of the blue after eight months
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I know women women are very spiteful right so I told my friend yeah she sent you a picture of her newborn baby
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after eight months of not talking to you to piss you off and to make you feel bad and insecure about yourself I said that
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girl is an evil witch and if I were you I'd get rid of her that's not your friend I think a lot of women show you
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that they're not your friend and a lot of women don't like to accept when a
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woman is not your friend you need to learn how to let them go and move on I told her if I were you I would not
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reconnect with that person again she's spiteful she's evil she's vindictive she's jealous move forward leave her
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alone a lot of women have those personality traits you need to leave women like that alone and you need to
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move forward this friend didn't listen to me she kept talking to this friend I'm like okay girl she's gonna snake you
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again okay she's gonna snake you again just give it time she'll do it again so
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whatever she ended up um this friend of mine or family member of mine her son
48:20
ended up getting married when this friend went to the marriage she got really jealous just how beautiful the
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was and disappeared again and she's been disappeared for a year and I told my family member like yeah that's I mean
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she kind of already showed you that she's not your friend and I think that a
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lot of people you're not going to ascend in life if you don't learn to let people go who
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are not for you okay some people show you that they have an issue with you but
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you don't want to accept it and I think that's the problem that a lot of women have people are going to show you how
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they feel about you it's very simple people are going to show you how they feel about you I feel like women make it
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hard women like to make simple things hard you see men you want to know what I
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love about men when you have a man if a man is your boyfriend your husband your man will be the first one to call out
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your fake friend okay men men will call it out men will call it out and they'll
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they'll like that's not your friend like men always call it out like your husband
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your boyfriend will always call out when you got a friend who's funny men always
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can spot the shadiness why because men don't fake friendships how women do I'm
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not saying all the time there are um uh
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exceptions but women don't men don't fake friendships the way women do okay
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like if if a man doesn't like you I got lipstick on my teeth sorry
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guys if a man doesn't like you he's not gonna go out and have
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drinks with you a girl will not like you and go out and have martinis and have hookah with you women are weird with how
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they navigate relationships I always talk about that anyways next point so in
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the Ascension process uh um stay away from men and women in the Ascension
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phase as you start to grow and Ascend in
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your life when you're in the phase of growth you may have to stop dating for a while you may have to stop engaging in
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sexual pleasures and things like that because you're trying to stay focused right and
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um this is for women specifically this point Point stay away from Men in the
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Ascension phase feminine Essence is powerful it's creative it's delicious
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it's healing that's why men crave it and use it for their own
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gain okay what do I mean by that women are very powerful men are
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powerful too but women are very powerful women have the power to recreate
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something um and and and be in a relationship or get in a
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relationship with a man and if that man is usually making 500,000 50,000 or 5,000 a year a woman
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is capable of getting him to double that income because women are good at
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creating things and women are good at at at being your cheerleader which is good the woman that you're with should be a
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cheerleader if you're a man right um I think that during the
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Ascension phase though I think that women should kind of stay away from and men too should try to stay
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away um from anything romantic when
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you're in the phase of Ascension and trying to rebuilding um I think that people are a distraction
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I think that that that sometimes you can be on a really good path and and and
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that's when the devil will send you somebody when you're on a really really
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good path and you're really focused and and he'll send you a d dist raction and that person looks amazing cloth amazing
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they're saying all the right words and they completely kick you off of your
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Mountaintop and they distract you and um I think men are a little bit better at
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being focused like when men are in their Zone they're in their Zone I can give that to men I think
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women sometimes get distracted easily when a man gets in the picture they
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start making decisions based on that man that they're dating and they
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start altering their life um like for example like a girl
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will be I don't know in nursing school right like let's say a girl is RN right a girl will be in nursing school and
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she'll be like studying you know she's studying she's um you know going to her
53:25
Labs doing her what do you call that clinicals she's doing her clinicals um and
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then a man will come in to her life right and and she'll know that she's
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supposed to study from 9 to three but now that he's around she's studying from 9 to 12 like women are easily distracted
53:45
and manipulated when a man gets in the picture and I always tell women when you
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are practicing a Ascension and you're trying to fix your life don't let that man come
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in and disrupt you because they will come in and and and and start
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manipulating you and start trying to take all your time okay I always tell
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women be very very stingy with your time don't get if you're on your your
54:21
grind and you're used to going to the gym
54:27
every day at 7 don't stop going to the gym every day at 7 because he wants to meet up for for for tacos at 7 you know
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you tell him hey like listen I go to the gym every day at 700 so we can meet up at 8:30 or 9:30 but I'm not going to
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change my schedule I have to go to the gym at 7 and you just have to just stick
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to your routine and don't have the person come in and start trying to
54:56
change change your routine and I think that that's something that women have to work on I think that
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men men are actually pretty good at not being distracted I can give them that
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when a man is on his aame and he's focused it doesn't matter if Beyonce walks in the room he's still gonna play
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his cards but ensure that his time is his but men women tend to bend a little
55:21
bit more and try to they're more accommodating men are not accommodating men men accommodate themselves men put
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themselves first and that's what I admire about men they put themselves at the front line they're not going to
55:38
change their routine men are not going to change how
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they do things and they don't feel bad about it they don't feel bad about it they they don't feel bad about putting
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themselves first okay that's why you know I always tell women like if you're
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on your aame you're in your Zone and you're
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focused um don't let anybody come in and
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interrupt your focus and that's one of the biggest thing that the biggest
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challenge that women have the biggest challenge that women have is not losing focus okay women are easy to lose focus
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okay I'm a woman so I'm talking from experience women are very very easy to
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lose focus they lose focus very quickly so you have to learn how to stay focused
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on the goal and the goal that's ahead of you that's why women are able that's why
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men are able to be with a woman and have sex with her for multiple years and then
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just kick her to the curb when he meets the woman that he feels like is his wife right they're they will kick her to the
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curve overnight and move on and be married and in a new house with kids and
56:56
a brand new car and have no remorse because men are able to just kick the
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distraction out of their way and and and and and move forward quickly while a
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woman will meet a man who she didn't even want and the minute she starts sleeping with him now she's
57:13
discombobulated now she's has these feelings that were never there and and
57:18
now she's in love with this person that she knew she didn't want from the beginning and now she dropped out of
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nursing school because of him and now it's like women are
57:31
easily you know distracted and and and and pushed off
57:37
their game and I get it a lot of you ladies you know you want to get married you want to have children you wanna you
57:44
know I get it I get it we're women I get it but you can the minute a new man
57:51
comes in your life do not alter your schedule do not start accommodating your
57:57
schedule to him do not stop going out with your friends because of him you
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know we all have that one girlfriend where the minute she's dating some new guy nobody hears from her for a year and
58:08
then the minute he kicks her to the curve she comes running back like an injured puppy saying oh let's go out and
58:15
have hookah I need somebody to talk to right women are easily distracted and easily pushed off
58:24
their pushed off their game you know men are not like that a man will be with a
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woman for six to seven years sleeping with her in the same house as her
58:35
cuddling with her you know feeding each other ice cream and the minute he meets
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the woman who's his wife he kicks her to the curve very very quickly too and it's so
58:49
fast and he does not feel bad about it and he it's like the men move on so
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quickly because men are predators they are conditioned to go
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after what they want men are conditioned to go after
59:11
what they want okay please okay hold on a
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minute um yeah so so
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so women men are very quick to just move on I I admire how fast men move on I
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admire it and I'm like I need to adopt that skill because men move on so fast
59:44
like men have this innate ability to just move on and I just I love it I love
59:50
it women are women are the only ones who say I need to heal I need to take three
59:57
years to heal men are like all right this didn't work out I'm moving on like
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men are able to just move on and and and and they don't feel bad about it so the
1:00:07
minute I see a woman I'm like don't let that man alter your life like you're so focused don't let him come in and
1:00:15
distract you because that's what a lot of them will do give me one second sweethearts um I'm gon to pause this for
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just a second I have to use the rest
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I have to use the restroom I will be right back I'm going to pause the live for just a second it's getting very good
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and I need to get to the other points that I have how do I pause
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this how do I pause the live you guys okay I'mma pause it okay YouTube You're
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paused I'mma mute myself Tick Tock your pause I will be back in like 3 minutes I just have to run to the
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bathroom
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okay
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all right I'm back let me know if you guys hear me all right I'm back let me know if you
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guys can see me just comment it in the chat if you guys can um
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see me if you guys can just comment that you can see me that would be great just say
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hey we see you because I want to make sure you guys see me but um yes so what I was saying is that so
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we're still on ascension when you're trying to do better and grow in your
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life please try to stay away from romantic
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relationships unless it's the right one and I am not like a male hater I am not
1:04:31
ha I don't have hate for the male gender I don't think men should have hate for the female gender that's so not the
1:04:38
energy I put out in the world I think love is beautiful and I think that um
1:04:44
there are spouses that come into your life who are I'm not going to say soulmates but there are people who are
1:04:51
your destiny helpers like there are certain men who will come into your life and really truly see the gifts that God
1:04:59
has placed in you and and push that forward and encourage that out of you the same way there are certain women men
1:05:07
who will come in your life and see the king in you and cater to that so I am
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not a male hater or a woman hater or a relationship hater or a marriage
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hater um
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okay sorry guys I had to do something but um I'm not a hater of relationships I think hater I think relationships are
1:05:37
beautiful but it has to be the right one if that makes sense um I don't want you
1:05:44
guys getting distracted when you are ascending in your life and you're
1:05:50
transforming and you're going through the Ascension process I don't want you
1:05:55
to get distracted by that distraction that
1:06:00
frisbee ball or that not ball a frisbee is not a ball but the Frisbee that gets
1:06:06
thrown in and I see this happen to women I see this happen um to women a
1:06:13
lot and even men too like I've met men who were like on their aame and they met
1:06:20
a certain woman and she completely dismantled him in all ways and brought
1:06:25
all This calamity into his life and all this stuff and
1:06:33
um she came in in a negative way and
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I've seen this happen to women too so that's why I say you know stay focused
1:06:45
and pay attention to the type of person that's coming attent coming into your
1:06:50
life in the dating phases and don't be um another major thing that I always say
1:06:58
um don't be desperate for a relationship that's never a good ideal
1:07:05
to be desperate for anything
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um vet vet always keep vetting you know like when you meet when you meet someone
1:07:17
like you know find out about their family the way they were raised their background hey have you done some therapy you know you know you know have
1:07:26
you ever you know visited a therapist to work on your um traumas uh how have you
1:07:32
been you know balancing your life like like because you got to
1:07:37
understand um okay you're getting blocked you talk too much and I don't
1:07:44
want to deal with you so blocked okay so
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um yes find out about the person and if
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they're doing work on themselves if they're working on themselves I think a lot of you guys are working on
1:08:04
yourselves and if you keep up with my content it's because you want to develop
1:08:09
self-mastery all of my content is geared towards self-mastery every day I get up
1:08:16
and I'm like God how can I be better how can I do better like where am I messing
1:08:21
up at like where am I like what do I need to change like
1:08:27
what needs to be altered like this is my constant internal dialogue on a daily
1:08:32
basis I'm like what am I doing wrong what needs to be done better where am I falling short that's my constant daily
1:08:40
conversations because all of my content is geared towards self-mastery not just
1:08:47
for women but for men we need to master ourselves in life we got to fix the
1:08:54
problem we got got to do better and one of the biggest challenges that you as a
1:09:01
human will experience in life is self-mastery mastering self that is difficult it's
1:09:09
very difficult to sit there and look at your life and be like I need to fix
1:09:15
these areas because it's holding me back some of you guys it's a
1:09:20
procrastination problem you're always procrastinating you're literally sitting
1:09:26
like this share that I'm sitting on you're sitting on your ideals right now ideals that should have
1:09:33
been that should have been open three years ago you're sitting on it that business you should have started three
1:09:39
years ago you're sitting on it that gym membership that you were supposed to
1:09:45
join two years ago sitting on it it's difficult to look at yourself and do the
1:09:53
work and a lot of time times I always tell women are like oh well you know I
1:09:58
want to do better I want to level up I want to move forward in my life I I I want to change and I'm like no you don't
1:10:06
no you don't and they're like no no no I'm like no you don't when the student is ready
1:10:12
the teacher appears a lot of you guys are saying you want better but you really don't because
1:10:18
look at your decisions you're saying that you want to change but you really don't because
1:10:24
you're still doing the the same thing today that you did last year that you told yourself that you were going to
1:10:30
stop doing you have to make the decision to
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ascend stay away from relationships in the Ascension phase
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ladies remember what I said about men men always put themselves first
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men always put themselves first and they
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don't feel bad about it they're not going to apologize about it they're not going to apologize for
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giving you the boot for the girl who's been there the whole time they don't feel bad about it they
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don't men will always put themselves
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first they don't feel bad about it they're not going to
1:11:26
accommodate your emotions they're not going to accommodate your
1:11:32
feelings they're not going to feel bad about the fact that they gave you all these false promises and now they're
1:11:39
living those things that they were going to give you with another
1:11:45
woman they don't care they don't care if they hurt you
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they genuinely don't don't care they don't
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care they put themselves first all the
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time they always put themselves first I have missed your videos thank
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you Tiff I love your channel one of the best on YouTube from a fellow Leo oh hey Leo
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sis oh my my gosh
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yes um yes so ladies put yourselves
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first in this season put yourselves first okay is that all men no of course
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not of course not when I talk I talk for the majority of course not um okay so now we
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talked about Ascension we're done with Ascension and by the way for you guys who are just now joining my live
1:12:56
um this live will be posted on my YouTube channel and it's called Ascend transform and transmute so if you miss
1:13:02
this and you want to watch this from the beginning go to my YouTube channel so we talked about ascending now let's talk
1:13:08
about transformation face your demons
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dismantle them and dis and denounce them a lot of you guys don't want to
1:13:22
face your demons you don't want to face your
1:13:27
problems that anger issue you got where the minute somebody tries you you're
1:13:34
ready to put them in a headlock you need to address
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that the minute you feel tired or overwhelmed you're like I got to go
1:13:46
drive to the plug and get me a blunt because I need to
1:13:52
relax you need to address that
1:13:57
you guys who you just can't get it together you know you're overspending
1:14:04
you're spending more than you bring in you're not
1:14:09
budgeting you're not keeping up with deadlines you need to address that and
1:14:17
the more you keep pushing this stuff
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behind it's going to catch up to you
1:14:29
eventually face your demons today what is it that you are battling
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with that you need to
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dismantle address it now don't run from it because you can't
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outrun your demons you can't
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outrun your hindrances you can't outrun what has a grass on you spiritually you
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have to face it and dismantle it and fix it develop a new
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identity that's a part of transformation I think that a lot of people are afraid
1:15:12
to change because they feel like people in their environment are not going to
1:15:20
approve of them changing right so let's
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say you come from an environment where nobody really ha like let's say that you
1:15:30
want to be a dentist right like you come from a family where everybody's working like blue collar jobs and and you know
1:15:40
no one really has a major major career and you have this this passion where you
1:15:46
want to be a dentist what a lot of people will do is
1:15:51
they'll say you know what like nobody in my family has done this I don't want to ruffle anyone's feathers I don't want to
1:15:58
dream too big that's the word I don't want to dream too big so I'm not going
1:16:04
to go to dental school or I'm not going to attempt to get the grades or apply to
1:16:10
dental school because nobody in my family has ever had a major
1:16:15
career and I feel like I don't want
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[Music] to pursue this because I don't want to ruffle
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feathers that's not good that's not good you can develop a
1:16:33
new identity you don't have to be the person that you were yesterday and what a lot of toxic people will do is not
1:16:40
allow you to grow I feel like that's a very big popular thing in the toxic Community where they don't want to let
1:16:47
you like grow and change you are allowed to change you're allowed to do better
1:16:54
you're allowed to be better okay you don't have
1:16:59
to remain who you've always been you can
1:17:04
change God will allow you to change and there is nothing wrong with
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you doing better being better and wanting better you're not limited to
1:17:20
your family or your environment's decisions you're allowed to break free from those from those
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chains um enter your highest complex your God complex we are
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Gods oh my God she's a Christian she's saying we're a god this is
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idolatry yeah you are a god little G we are Gods because we're made in God's
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image so step into that complex of
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power of authority of understanding and of
1:17:57
responsibility okay your God qualities okay what are God's qualities he's loyal
1:18:04
deep he's integrous authentic spiritual
1:18:10
balanc step into that and stop being this mediocre version of yourself this
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low vibrational this low vibrational version
1:18:22
of you and and once you start to ascend and you start to enter your higher
1:18:30
self stop connecting with people who are lower than you and and and and and a lot
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of times when I say that it sounds super pompous and like rude and like stuck up
1:18:43
but there are certain people who are not on your level like when are we going to start really saying that there's they're
1:18:50
not there you're confident you've done the work
1:18:56
you've you've done the necessary changes to advance
1:19:03
your life and this person hasn't done that and they feel like you and them are on
1:19:09
the same vibration and you're not and that's why every time they come into
1:19:15
your life they're trying to drag you down one thing that I've learned is when you connect with people who are not
1:19:21
where you are in the latter of life in the levels of Life they try to drag you to their
1:19:27
level if you're on level five and they're on level two they're going to drag you down they're going to try to
1:19:33
pull you to level two you're at a five they're going to try to drag you down by your scalp to level two I've learned
1:19:41
that that's why I'm very very picky with who I'm who I connect to who I build
1:19:47
bonds with because some people they're not doing the work they're not fixing themselves they're not honoring their
1:19:54
gift they're not ascending they're just going through live watching people Ascend and
1:20:01
being jealous about it and trying to tear those people down instead of doing
1:20:06
the work to build themselves up that's what most people do okay um so when you enter your
1:20:15
highest complex like please think about that you know think about
1:20:20
that the next thing let the old habits people and
1:20:27
environments go leave it behind it's okay to love people from a distance um a lot of you guys have to
1:20:35
learn to love from a distance like there are certain people where you could love them but the only way to love them is if
1:20:42
they're at a distance you can't really love them if they're close to you because they try and do crazy things
1:20:49
okay like you got to get rid of the old habits whatever those habits are that
1:20:55
you inhabit that are not good um I'm sorry but a lot of you ladies are
1:21:02
codependent you're codependent like you don't know how to
1:21:07
stand on your own two feet you always have to have somebody holding you up
1:21:13
that's not healthy you got to learn how to stand on your own two feet because when you know
1:21:19
how to stand on your own two feet and you're balanced
1:21:26
people can't use loneliness against you I know a lot of people who are in
1:21:32
relationships because they don't want to be lonely it's not cuz they're happy they just don't want to be alone that is
1:21:41
dangerous heavy on Love From a Distance yeah like some people have to be loved
1:21:47
from a distance like I love you I care about you if you have an emergency you can call me but we can't be like
1:21:55
super close and that's okay like it's not anything negative it doesn't mean that there's like drama or beef or
1:22:02
anything it just means that they're just not in alignment with your greater
1:22:07
purpose and that's okay as well because not everybody who comes in your life is
1:22:13
part of your Divine Purpose so we need to just get comfortable with that
1:22:19
and um the last point is before I say questions is trans mute your energy
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right transmute your energy so everything negative that's been thrown
1:22:31
at you in your life whatever it is whatever you've been through whatever people have done to you that's negative
1:22:38
I want you to transmute it into something positive you know I want you to take that negative occurrence or that
1:22:46
negative thing and I want you to change
1:22:51
it and transmute it into something positive positive into something better
1:22:56
into something that you can use for your greater purpose because anytime something happens in your life that is
1:23:04
that happen to break you you got to take the broken pieces up and use it for your
1:23:10
better good so think about whatever that negative thing is how can you use it for
1:23:16
a greater purpose so let's say you went through a time in your life where you were
1:23:21
homeless you didn't have food you didn't have anything to eat whatever and you're
1:23:27
you're better now you have home you have a home you have a roof over your head you have food to eat you have a job life
1:23:32
is finally worked out go and volunteer to go to a homeless shelter on the
1:23:38
weekends and feed people who were at some point in the position that you were
1:23:43
in Feed the Homeless help them talk to them connect with them give them encouragement and say that hey like I
1:23:50
was in your situation at at some point but but this is where I'm at now and it does get better that's transmuting right
1:23:58
there you had a negative experience instead of being angry bitter and unhappy about it you're using what
1:24:06
happened to you and you're putting it back into the world in a positive way
1:24:12
like me I've you know in my life in the past all I've ever had was women try to break me down and dismantle me from
1:24:18
jealousy and envy but my platform is literally designed
1:24:25
to push people forward so I had people try to break me down in my life and I
1:24:32
said I'm going to transmute that energy people have tried to break me down but
1:24:37
I'm going to use my platform to uplift others so do you see how I'm changing
1:24:43
that energy into something better I'm not allowing it to stay at the low state
1:24:48
that it's at I'm using it to my own advantage that's what you guys have to
1:24:54
do you anything negative that you've ever been through in your life what is a
1:24:59
way that you can transmute that into something positive you know maybe you used to be super super overweight and
1:25:07
you got healthy and you lost the weight but you used to be bullied when you were overweight why not go to you know um
1:25:15
Jenny Craig or Weight Watchers locations and talk to the women who were on
1:25:21
dieting plans and say hey like my life has complet completely change like I'm so happy I did it I was consistent I was
1:25:29
Vigilant and you can do it too that's transmuting that negative experience or
1:25:35
that negative occurrence into something positive and that's what I feel like a lot of people have to start doing in
1:25:42
life is transforming whatever negative thing happened to you transform it into
1:25:47
something positive and that will help you ascend spiritually when you're in that state
1:25:55
because the thing is what a lot of people do is the negative things that happen in their
1:26:00
lives they hold on to it and they target other people so let's say that a woman
1:26:06
used to struggle with insecurity right now she's older she's beautiful she's
1:26:12
balanced the minute another younger woman with beauty comes in she's going to try to do to her what people did to
1:26:19
her when she was that girl's age she's going to try to bully her she's going to try to be the mean girl that's what I'm
1:26:25
saying like a lot of people when they transmute energy it goes down right you
1:26:31
got bullied by your whole family and now you're older and you're trying to bully the Young Generation we know a lot of
1:26:36
people like that you know I had this family member I told her you know you're always saying that everybody in the
1:26:42
family bullied you but you're a bigger bully than they are you're doing the same things they used to do like you're
1:26:48
so disgusting you're doing the exact same thing that they used to do you're no different you're lit literally
1:26:54
replicating your negative experience you don't know how to ascend right you only know how to descend that's how certain
1:27:01
people are they don't know how to go up they only know how to go down they don't know how to go up you know like if you
1:27:07
come from a family where you kept getting bullied why would you turn around as an adult and start doing the
1:27:13
same thing like you're not learning you're not growing you're not growing and a lot of people in life they
1:27:19
don't grow they don't grow they just keep replic a the negative things that
1:27:25
they see and they you know like they don't Ascend they just they just descend and I told her that I said you're doing
1:27:32
the same thing that you would complain about you're no different there are a lot of celebrities in the industry they
1:27:38
got bullied when they were coming up to be famous and not that they're famous they're bullying the next come UPS like
1:27:44
that there are some people they either transcend or Ascend and there are some people they just disend they just they
1:27:51
they don't use their negative experience to push the atmosphere forward they push
1:27:58
it down they're like oh well I got stepped on when I got in this industry so because I got stepped on I got to
1:28:03
step on you too you got to go through the same hardships that I went through that's a lot of people they're low
1:28:09
vibrational their vibration is low because when your vibration is low
1:28:14
you're going to try to do the negative things to other people that was done to you because you're you're
1:28:21
low do you feel it's spiritual Warf Fair the dark doesn't like the light yes I
1:28:26
think if you shine bright people are going to try to dim it but it's your job to stay away from those kind of
1:28:33
people um turn pain into
1:28:40
power use it as fuel um whatever painful experience that
1:28:48
you've experienced in your life should be fueling you to have a better life right it should be fueling you like
1:28:54
whatever pain that you went through whatever pain that you endured should be
1:29:00
fueling you to do better and to be better whatever that was we've all
1:29:06
experienced pain we're all human it should be encouragement for you
1:29:12
you don't get stuck in the pain you don't swim in the pain you don't fall
1:29:17
asleep in the pain you use it as
1:29:23
ammunition to push yourself and Propel yourself forward and a lot of people don't do
1:29:30
that a lot of people take painful experiences they Harbor it and they start to develop
1:29:37
resentment and bitterness and they go through life that way because that pain is just is sitting right here right it's
1:29:44
sitting there they're not healing from it they're not trying to move forward they just let it fester and then they
1:29:52
start to inflict that pain um onto
1:29:59
others um and and honestly my whole my whole platform is a result of me
1:30:09
transmuting negativity into something positive all the wisdom that I share with you guys comes from painful
1:30:17
experiences that I've had and I told myself am I going to just let those
1:30:22
painful experiences professor in me or am I going to change
1:30:29
lives and help other people avoid the mistakes I made and
1:30:35
help other people see what I couldn't see at that time so that they can have a
1:30:41
better life so that they can have a better experience that's what I decided to start doing and it feels so good when
1:30:49
you can take something negative that happened in your life and change it into something POS
1:30:54
positive and that's what a lot of women don't do majority of women they're
1:31:00
bitter and they take every negative experience that they had and they let it
1:31:05
sit there and they let it fester and they let it seep into their
1:31:11
bones and then they go through life trying to dismantle other women because they didn't do the
1:31:17
work I'm a woman who does the work and I'm a woman who encourages other women
1:31:22
to do the work and don't go through life being bitter jealous unhinged envious
1:31:27
and psychotic which is what most women are nowadays envious jealous bitter and
1:31:36
psychotic in nature that's why they act so off the walls all the time because
1:31:42
they're not doing any type of healing they're not doing any type of healing they're not transmuting their
1:31:50
energy they're not going to therapy they are just finding another woman
1:31:57
who's blossoming to dismantle
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okay I'm talking from experience I know what I'm talking about a lot of these women are
1:32:11
angry okay they're angry and they're taking it out on other women how do we
1:32:16
not internalize bad experiences and live more confidently and happily you have to do the
1:32:22
healing Sarah you have to heal you have to go to therapy you have to address all
1:32:28
the trauma that you've ever experienced in your life and you have to fix it and you have to heal from it you have to
1:32:34
forgive you have to forgive others you have to forgive yourself you have to calm yourself you got to transmute that
1:32:41
and you got to find your balance but you definitely can't let it
1:32:47
Fester you have to hurt to heal exactly you have to hurt to
1:32:52
heal you have to hurt to heal a lot of women don't do that they're bitter and
1:32:58
they take their anger out on other women and I will never respect a bitter
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jealous envious woman and I think majority of women are bitter jealous and
1:33:09
envious not all but majority and I'll never respect a woman like that I don't
1:33:15
respect them they are in the workplace they're in the church they're in your family I don't respect women that refuse
1:33:23
to grow and grow bitter jealous and envious and take it out on other women I
1:33:28
don't respect women like that it's very difficult for me to meet a woman and respect them because a lot of women are
1:33:34
not respectable they don't have anything to respect they haven't built anything
1:33:39
they haven't done anything they haven't curated anything they haven't brought anything positive into the universe
1:33:47
they've only bring negativity problems drama and gossip and meddling so it's
1:33:53
not not easy for meet a woman and feel like I salute you I genuinely respect you it's very rare because a lot of them
1:34:01
don't have anything to respect because they spend majority of their time dismantling other
1:34:08
women that's a story for another time but that's what majority of them spend their time doing is
1:34:15
dismantling dismantling other women and bringing other women down to make themselves feel better about themselves
1:34:22
so it's very rare that I'll meet a woman and I'm like wow like I love you I respect you like I I I honor your work
1:34:29
what you do it's very rare because a lot of women are not they don't they're not respectable they haven't done anything
1:34:36
they've only dismantled and caused problems reality TV glorifies that
1:34:43
behavior and they think it's normal um I think that reality
1:34:48
TV paints women in a negative light not all reality TV but it just paints women
1:34:54
in a negative light and it also paints black women in a negative light because there's always fighting and stuff going
1:35:01
on but like I said like most of the befriending within women's friendships
1:35:07
are based upon aesthetically pleasing yeah yeah yeah I agree with that too so
1:35:14
what I'm saying you ladies is is do the work right do the work to transmute yourself to grow to be
1:35:22
beautiful to grow who you are as a woman and to not be bitter I've met a lot of
1:35:29
women and I look at them and I'm like I don't ever want to be like you you are bitter and unhappy I would never want to
1:35:36
be like that and that's why I work so hard and and transmuting you know the
1:35:42
negative experiences into something positive and growing as a woman so that
1:35:47
I don't have to be bitter miserable and unhappy like more majority of these women are
1:35:54
bitter miserable and unhappy and you know based on how they treat other people pay attention to how women treat
1:36:01
other women pay attention to how women treat beautiful women bitter miserable
1:36:08
and unhappy like I
1:36:22
said is it
1:36:28
crazy that I cut off friends that rarely likes the stuff that I
1:36:34
post um well it kind of depends like I think
1:36:40
that on Instagram has like a weird algorithm so maybe they're not seeing the post CU sometimes Instagram won't
1:36:48
even push your new post but if if you feel like none of your friends like your
1:36:55
post then maybe they are weird um
1:37:01
usually if a friend's like a like a close friend they'll be hyping you up they'll literally be like the F the
1:37:06
first commenter that's what I think because I'm usually that's what I would do but um is it weird I think it's kind
1:37:14
of weird I think it's kind of weird um it depends like do you like their stuff do
1:37:21
you comment on their stuff true reality TV mostly paints rich or
1:37:29
well-off women is always eating and
1:37:34
drinking um like with reality TV like I've had my
1:37:40
fair share of like watching reality TV it can be funny it can be fun sometimes I I'll admit that but um sometimes it's
1:37:49
just a little bit too much drama and fighting and stuff for me so so I'm going to get off of here in the next
1:37:55
like 10 minutes so if anybody has any questions that you would like
1:38:02
to ask I'm going to start taking questions
1:38:14
now and like I said that's really what it is I just I just always encourage
1:38:20
women to grow just grow grow as a woman grow as a person grow in
1:38:28
confidence grow in and structure grow in
1:38:35
Integrity grow in Ascension and just grow fall in love with growth fall in
1:38:42
love with growing how do you know a friend
1:38:51
secretly hates you and wants to break you
1:38:56
um the fact that you're asking that question tells me that you have a friend
1:39:03
who's doing that or that your intuition is telling you that your friend is doing
1:39:09
that so you already know the answer to that question because your spirit already senses
1:39:16
it I think that's again that's the problem with a lot of women is we know
1:39:21
the answer to our own question questions we just don't want
1:39:27
to we just don't want to accept it you know you already know the answer a lot
1:39:34
of times a lot of times women will email me
1:39:40
and I'm like you already know the answer you literally just answered your own
1:39:48
question within the question right so you just ask me how
1:39:54
can I tell if a friend is bitter or jealous or whatever
1:40:01
by you asking that question that's your discernment and intuition already
1:40:07
telling you that your so-called friend has those characteristics and that's why
1:40:14
you're asking me if you sense something don't doubt it that means you
1:40:22
already know and as women we need to stop doing that and and I've done it so
1:40:30
it's I'm not judging but as women we know the answer to our own questions but
1:40:37
yet we keep asking people things that we already know the answer
1:40:45
to don't ask me and email me if I think your man is
1:40:51
cheating if you email me do you think my man is cheating you already know he's
1:40:57
cheating you just want me to reaffirm what you already
1:41:03
know and as women we need to stop doing
1:41:08
that it's hurting your progress when you ask questions that you
1:41:15
already know the answer to as women we have the gift of
1:41:22
intuition we don't need to keep asking questions we already know the answer
1:41:28
to if you're emailing me and I've received many of these emails and you're
1:41:34
speculating that your husband is cheating or your boyfriend is cheating it's because he
1:41:41
is and you just want me to reaffirm it I'm not going to do that because you
1:41:47
already know the answer I'm not here to give women the answer I'm here to help you discover the answer within
1:41:54
yourself within thyself because you already know you just keep ignoring the
1:42:00
inner voice that you
1:42:08
have like when a woman tells me oh well you know do you think that and I just
1:42:15
look at them and I'm like what do you
1:42:22
think
1:42:27
how do you become more confident you become more confident by not caring about how other people think or feel
1:42:34
about you you walk into rooms like you bought the room and you own the building
1:42:40
you just don't care confidence comes from not caring it really does like
1:42:46
people are going to judge you either way people are going to say things about you either way people are not everybody's
1:42:53
going to like you someone's always going to find something like once you get comfortable
1:42:58
with that you just stop caring I became confident when I really genuinely just stopped caring about people's opinions
1:43:05
or perceptions of me and I just became confident in my own opinion and my own perception of thyself so I don't think
1:43:13
about what other people think about me this it doesn't matter that doesn't exist in my
1:43:19
reality how do you deal with an insecure boss ooh o whoa that's hard the way to
1:43:27
deal with an insecure boss is by finding another job because if you work well and they're
1:43:34
intimidated by it they're going to get rid of you so I would find another job
1:43:41
okay I'm just keeping it real you can't deal with that um the minute someone
1:43:47
feels threatened especially if it's a woman women don't like threats and women
1:43:53
don't like competition so they try to annihilate their competition it's it's the nature of women so I would get on
1:44:02
indeed.com and start searching if I were you do you think men dislike women who
1:44:08
are confident and independent on their own I think feminine men dislike those
1:44:13
kind of women and I think narcissistic men dislike those kind of women men who are mentally healthy don't have a
1:44:20
problem with women who are healthy that's femin insecure narcissistic or closeted down
1:44:27
low men down low men have a problem with beautiful confident women men who were
1:44:32
on the down low and they don't want to live in their truth so they purposefully find women
1:44:40
who are beautiful and smart and date them and try to break them down because they want to be the woman in the
1:44:48
relationship um what type of man is for you asking
1:44:53
for a friend yeah so um I've had women fire me
1:44:59
because I look better than them yeah women are going to be women you can't like women are going to be women they're
1:45:06
always gonna try like the minute they feel threatened they're going to start acting crazy you know you can bet your
1:45:13
money they're going to start acting crazy that's just how women are so I think once you learn the psychology of
1:45:20
women and how women act you won't get you
1:45:26
know you won't feel um what's the word you're not going
1:45:31
to feel bothered when they do crazy things because you kind of already know that they were going to do something
1:45:37
crazy anyways because that's their nature so if you're smart and and you know what
1:45:44
you're doing that can intimidate them you being beautiful can intimidate them you having a nice like women get
1:45:50
intimidated for anything like once you learn that you don't give them your attention I came to your page based on
1:45:57
the video I just saw about three things to stop doing on point Thank you a
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thanks yeah I mean I try to share like quick short things with you guys that I think that
1:46:09
will change your day sis it only gets worse so am I supposed to keep leaving
1:46:16
jobs because of pretty privilege
1:46:21
um am I supposed to keep living jobs I think that if you're a beautiful woman
1:46:27
working will be a challenge for you when you're around other women because like I said women don't feel comfortable around
1:46:35
beautiful smart women that's just how women are so if you are beautiful and
1:46:42
you're smart and you're confident and you're just like the full package deal when you work for not all it doesn't
1:46:48
apply all the time but when you're working try to find a male boss try to work for men where a man is the manager
1:46:56
you'll actually get more perks when you're pretty because men like pretty women unless they're like on the down
1:47:02
low then they'll try to bully you but men like pretty women so if you work for
1:47:09
a man he's GNA like put you on a pedestal so I would try maybe finding
1:47:16
male bosses I would try working from home or I would try building your own
1:47:22
business business depending on what you're good at women don't really Embrace beautiful women they they act
1:47:30
like they do they're always gonna lie and tell you I don't care about how a girl looks I'm a good person I don't
1:47:37
care if a girl is beautiful that's all lies um it's all
1:47:43
lies if you shine bright they are going to try and mess with you okay it doesn't
1:47:49
matter how much they try to act like they won't they will so as long as you
1:47:55
are I'm sorry you guys know I have a sense of humor no because they literally try to
1:48:04
lie and act like they don't care oh if she's pretty I don't care they're gonna bother you if you're pretty that's how
1:48:11
women are okay so you gotta get used to it babe it's the price
1:48:19
of beauty yeah creepy male co-workers and jealous female co-workers make sure
1:48:25
the men aren't insecure because they will be intimidated they're all like men who try to dismantle beautiful women are
1:48:32
down low okay I want to be very clear about that no masculine man is going to
1:48:40
go out of his way to Target a beautiful woman okay that man is on the down low
1:48:48
he's a dlman okay I don't care what any but
1:48:54
says I don't care how masculine he appears no ma truly masculine man is
1:49:02
going to Target a beautiful woman they're not GNA do
1:49:11
it Sis this happened to me my female boss bothered me I transferred and now I have a male boss yeah men if he's
1:49:18
masculine and you're pretty girl you'll get a raise every two weeks are you kidding me men are so different facts my
1:49:27
body is Bing okay and it's helped me immensely in my male dominated career oh
1:49:33
yeah men like ma like real masculine powerful men love beautiful women okay
1:49:40
like your life is going to be smooth I'm not I'm now again if you're
1:49:47
beautiful and you shine bright and you look good and a man is insecure he's on the down low remember remember this any
1:49:55
man that tries to go after a woman is on the down low I don't care how much he tries to prove that he's not on the down
1:50:05
low he is because the masculine men that I deal with honey the prettier you walk
1:50:11
in the more perks you get that's how real men operate real men are not
1:50:16
intimidated by beautiful women real men want you around them okay they want to
1:50:22
be all over you okay it's feminine men that that feel intimidated or bothered
1:50:28
when a beautiful woman walks in the room okay I see beautiful smart women
1:50:36
thriving in corporate New York City but there is fake support and posturing um I think that something that
1:50:43
women have to learn women got to learn how to have a mind made of strategy okay
1:50:49
women have to adopt a strategic mind women are not on your your team other women are not on your team other women
1:50:55
are not your um what you call it women
1:51:01
are not your teammates they're not they're actually your Rivals and people
1:51:07
in life are not going to tell you the truth that I'm telling you right now because it sounds it's not societ it's it's not
1:51:15
correct according to society Society wants to push women empowerment support groups but we all know that doesn't
1:51:21
exist we all know that women are competitive by Nature they are so I'm
1:51:26
not going to come on here and lie to you and say women are your teammates because they're not they're your Rivals and as
1:51:32
you get older you're going to realize that you know you can just be beautiful
1:51:37
and existing and another woman will try to dismantle you so when you adopt that
1:51:42
mindset you stop seeing women as your teammates because they're not and I would train my daughter the
1:51:50
same way it's the truth they're not not your teammates even if they give that
1:51:55
perception there's always a hidden competition that they're having with
1:52:01
you um I'm just being honest I'm not trying
1:52:06
to be mean I'm just being honest this is what people are not going to tell you I don't go to like these women empowerment
1:52:14
brunches like you know I'm not going to do it because I know it's not true you
1:52:20
have to understand men are preditors men are Hunters women are competitors you have
1:52:28
to understand the way the Sexes are created that's why a lot of women who
1:52:36
push who for a lot of the women that push this women empowerment agenda it's
1:52:43
not real it's not real the more beautiful you are or the
1:52:50
more smart you are or the more better you are in whatever
1:52:57
sector or if you're all three you are competition to the other female gender
1:53:03
they will always see you that way okay so you have to be comfortable with that let's look at for example look at what
1:53:09
happened with Porsha she went to Fallon's house I thought they were friends she went to
1:53:16
Fallon's house got in the pool had Margarita right had grilled steak had
1:53:22
grilled chicken having a cookout and the whole time her eye is on This Woman's
1:53:28
husband because her husband is a rich African man that provided that lifestyle
1:53:33
to her so of course all the women around her are going to feel like you know what
1:53:39
I want a piece of that I want that lifestyle I want to be able to drive the
1:53:44
Bentley that her man bought her I want to be in a house like this that's how
1:53:49
women are so what did she she do she went behind her back and started dating
1:53:55
him and got married and now the same thing she did to Fallon is happening to her women are
1:54:02
not your teammates they're your competitors and that's just I'm not
1:54:07
pushing competition I don't compete with women they compete with
1:54:12
me I'm solidified in who I am I don't need to compete with a woman because I don't feel like none of them can compete
1:54:18
with me and I'm not saying that in a prideful way it's just I'm so focused on
1:54:23
my first of all I'm super super focused on my spiritual life I'm a Christian number two I'm focused on building
1:54:30
myself up to the person that God wants me to be I don't have time to look at
1:54:36
another woman and keep comparing myself to her on a daily basis but there are some women that's how they live their
1:54:42
life they get up in the morning and they compare themselves to everybody around them and that's how they go through life
1:54:50
and majority of women are like that so when we look at the situation with
1:54:55
with Fallon Porsha and now the new girl that Simon is with these women are all competitors they're all competing
1:55:02
against each other it's very psychotic but that's what they do I don't feel bad for Porche because
1:55:10
another woman is doing to her what she did to another woman they are competing with
1:55:17
you they are competing with you okay a lot of women push the female
1:55:24
empowerment agenda but the minute a beautiful woman walks in the room female empowerment goes thrown out the door and
1:55:30
they all try to bully her and I know that because I've had women do that to me that's why I don't believe in women empowerment because there's no women
1:55:36
empowerment it doesn't exist it's all competition and the minute you are considered competition there's no
1:55:43
support for you there's no I have your back there's no I'm they're not going to approach you that way women are not
1:55:49
going to approach you with support because they see you as their competition they don't see you as their
1:55:55
equal right I'm just keeping it real with you
1:56:04
guys I'm just keeping it real with you guys they're never going to see you as they're equal they're always going to
1:56:09
see you as their competition and women you got to be comfortable you got to be
1:56:15
comfortable with that you got to learn how to be comfortable with that you know and I'll even take some examples from
1:56:21
reality TV before I read you guys comments let's let's take some examples from reality TV let me
1:56:30
think
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H um and if you guys can think of some examples from like shows or reality TV
1:56:42
or the celebrity world please comment them um let me see if I what I could think
1:56:48
of oh I'll take I I'll I I'll take um I'll take Nicki Minaj as an example I'm
1:56:56
a huge Nikki fan I'm not a Barb but I am a Nikki fan she has her flaws I know she has her
1:57:04
problems and she's done some very crazy things trust me I know but did you notice
1:57:11
how people have to team up to go against her it's like all of the girls will meet
1:57:17
up and sit on a table and collaborate to take her down that's what women do when they feel like
1:57:24
another woman is superior to them they are going to conspire to take that one
1:57:32
target down that's how women are so as a woman you have to understand where where
1:57:39
do I fit into society where do I fit into my section A lot of you ladies
1:57:44
you're very intelligent I can feel that I can feel that coming from the screen a lot of
1:57:52
ladies watching me you're very intelligent like you're very very smart and I'm not just talking book smart
1:57:58
you're just smart your brain is full of substance a lot of women are not going
1:58:03
to like that they're not going to like it and they're going to feel it and
1:58:11
they're going to sense it and they're going to be bothered by it and you're going to tell yourself why is this
1:58:16
person being weird to me like I didn't even do anything to this person like why are why is she giving me this weird
1:58:21
energy energ it's nothing that you did it's who you are that's bothering her it's you didn't do anything it's just
1:58:31
you your aura your energy your spirit aggravates her okay so that's why
1:58:40
I'm saying you got to be comfortable understanding how life works and that
1:58:45
majority of women are never going to see you as their equal they're going to see you as their competition and how you
1:58:51
respond to that is based on your maturity
1:58:56
levels love the honesty yes I'm always going to be honest hold on you guys I'm trying to go
1:59:03
through all you guys's comments it's all about strategy and
1:59:08
it's so lonely in those spaces yeah I mean it is lonely but that's life like
1:59:15
it's always been this way since the beginning of time me either I don't attend those
1:59:21
branches yeah don't do female empowerment groups brunches I don't attend those kind of things because
1:59:27
they're not real so it's like the the leader of that group is a mean girl okay
1:59:34
so I don't attend any of that kind of stuff because it's it's not
1:59:41
genuine um she wanted what Fallon had for sure yes and and that's why I don't
1:59:47
understand women who bring other women around their husbands it's it's like what happened with Fallon and and Porsha
1:59:55
it's nothing new like I don't know why it like when it happen I don't know why
2:00:00
anybody was shocked like this happens in the female Community all the time okay
2:00:07
women are competitive by Nature that's their nature so she's coming to your
2:00:12
house she's seeing a Bentley in the parking lot she's seeing you know the high ceilings the
2:00:20
chandeliers the money the jewelry the diamonds she's thinking I I want that
2:00:27
life I want that for myself I'm pretty I think I could get him he's a man this won't be hard and she started pursuing
2:00:34
her husband and got them to divorce married her and now they're divorced
2:00:39
because he moved on to the next woman that that was her right and the problem is when women do those things they think
2:00:47
that they're going to escape the karma that comes with it and they won't
2:00:52
okay any man that you've stolen or well you can't really steal a
2:00:58
man but any man that you've gotten or take snatched from someone else is not going
2:01:04
to be yours for long because he's a passar around I would like me personally I
2:01:09
would never trust a man who got with me while he was with another woman I would never trust him and I would never marry
2:01:15
him because you have no morals but the thing is when women
2:01:22
always think they're the exception right women always think they're the exception to the rule like I started dating him
2:01:30
while he was married to her but I'm amazing so when he marries me he's not going to do that to me women always
2:01:36
think they're the exception to the rule and that's not the case he will do the same thing to you that's how it
2:01:43
works so you just have to be careful when it comes to who you invite you know
2:01:50
in your private spaces and you just got to be cautious with you
2:01:56
know making sure that the person you're bringing around you and your family doesn't secretly want your life that is
2:02:03
very dangerous Porsha situation she reap what
2:02:08
she sowed yeah people will always reap what they s that's why every time I see women doing crazy things to each other I
2:02:15
just sit back and I sip on my water and I laugh and I chuckle and I watch them
2:02:22
dismantle each other because I know that they're each going to get their portion and anytime I'm in a group
2:02:30
that's like full of women I feel like I'm in New York in Charm School remember
2:02:35
when the two girls were fighting and New York was just sitting on the balcony and she was just
2:02:41
laughing she was laughing her ass off the whole time and watching them go at it because that's
2:02:48
how women are like if you just just give it time and eventually they're going to
2:02:54
turn on each other eventually they're going to turn on each other and I just sit back and I sip on
2:03:02
my juice and I watch them go because eventually they're going to turn out on
2:03:08
each other like I don't even involve myself with it because I know how it's going to
2:03:14
end and I think what happened with Porsha and Simon I think the Fallon knew
2:03:19
that was going to happen that's why she didn't really do much or say much when they got together because she knew and
2:03:27
that's why even now has she said anything about their divorce no because she already knew that was going to happen like women tend to destroy their
2:03:35
own Futures on their own because they don't think straight and like I said
2:03:42
women always feel like they're the exception to the rule they always feel
2:03:48
that way because that's what Society has engraved in their mind like he's with her he's married but I don't
2:03:53
care I'm I'm going to go after him and when he gets with me he's not going to talk to
2:03:59
me or when he gets with me he's not going to talk to another woman while he's with me because I'm
2:04:05
special and then he does the same thing that's how women think never have a single woman around
2:04:11
your man I think you can have a single woman around your man because there are some married women who get down like
2:04:18
that too okay I think you just have to use your discernment and and learn this
2:04:24
person's morals the type of woman that this woman is every woman has a track
2:04:30
record so you just really gotta pay attention but me personally I don't
2:04:36
believe in like never have a single woman around your man or never have a married woman around your man I believe
2:04:42
in not having no woman around my man period single or not I just don't like
2:04:48
it I just it's not about jealousy I just don't like it I feel like people don't have any morals so I
2:04:56
just don't trust it I don't like it I don't trust it so I just wouldn't do it
2:05:02
you know no matter what girl you need a TV talk show on
2:05:09
this topic a thank you yep in my own competition yeah like
2:05:14
a lot of women are in imaginary competition with you like they literally are competing
2:05:20
with you like you you have no idea like they are literally stalking your page
2:05:27
and and and trying to replicate your outfits like women are weird once you
2:05:32
once you understand that you're not going to really pay attention to what they do because you're just going to
2:05:39
really start to feel like this person's unhappy with themselves and that's why they have to do all of this and then
2:05:45
you're going to start to feel bad for them like you know like you must be really miserable to be doing this and
2:05:52
you're going to start to feel bad for them because you're happy and they're not so that's why they have to do all
2:05:57
that and then you just distance yourself from them and you move on I've experienced all of this and
2:06:03
thought I was exaggerating no you're not exaggerating it's the truth it's crazy but when you learn do
2:06:11
you think that's real or for a storyline no I really think that her and Simon are really divorcing I do I think that he's
2:06:18
what is he like Nigerian um it's karma well I don't I don't want to
2:06:26
get into I don't want to go that down that route but they people can do like
2:06:32
separation spells you got to be careful on the type of women that you cross you really got
2:06:38
to be careful because some people are involved in other type of things and
2:06:43
they're going to be like oh she thinks she's going to take my man let me show her something and they start doing all
2:06:49
type of throwing all type of bad in ities and bad energies and bad everything towards your marriage and it
2:06:56
doesn't last so that's why I always tell women be careful be very cautious when
2:07:03
you get into that playing field of involving yourself with men who have
2:07:08
families or married men or what you got to be really careful because some the ex
2:07:14
will try to go the furthest extent to separate the two and honestly I was
2:07:21
really surprised when they when I got the divorce like when I saw it on the shade room because I was like that's
2:07:28
like that's fast like we can't lie and say that didn't happen fast like I don't even think it's been a year like that
2:07:35
happened fast and I was like dang like they didn't even hit the three-year Mark
2:07:40
that's quick so you got to be careful with that I feel like there was some
2:07:47
type of Separation um decree done that's what I
2:07:53
think that's what my intuition tells me I don't think it was natural that's just what I think that's
2:08:00
just me personally um can we H can we even have
2:08:06
female friends you can I just think that it's it's you just have to be Discerning and
2:08:13
you have to have a lot of discernment with picking women as your friend and and you got to pay you just got to use your spirit your spirit's going to tell
2:08:18
you your spirit's going to tell you like you will know if a girl can be your friend you'll feel it you just got to
2:08:24
pay attention what do you advise on where can I start learning about how to
2:08:29
invest um I think YouTube I would depending on how old you
2:08:35
are I would definitely start with getting a life insurance plan and a mutual funds plan so is it
2:08:42
safe to say these friendships are fake with women not all there are some very genuine friendships with women they do
2:08:49
exist I just think they're rare I'm not saying they don't exist I just think that they're rare and I think that
2:08:55
you have to really um pay attention there are some friends
2:09:01
who will love you like a blood sister like you know but you have to pay
2:09:08
attention I don't want to compete with others I am a Christian to our purpose life is short it hurts when you realize
2:09:15
your female family is this way yeah I have I have dealt with that a lot um in
2:09:21
my family the whole jealous women thing I've I've had countless of encounters with that and you really just have to
2:09:28
just not let it bother you like you got to really just push it off your shoulders and keep ascending because
2:09:34
those things are sent to break you your spirit so that you can't move forward so don't pay attention to the weird things
2:09:42
that they do they're just not part of your story and you just got to move
2:09:50
forward Princess Diana oh Princess Diana was a um Princess Diana was a star seed
2:09:57
that's why they got rid of her that was intentional what they did to her was
2:10:03
intentional Princess Diana Selena
2:10:10
Aaliyah all those people were they got rid of them with intentionally because they shine too bright and they had
2:10:16
people around them that didn't like it so they set them up for um
2:10:22
to get crossed over to the other side Jazelle hating Mo'Nique is this
2:10:29
from Real Housewives I think that when Mo'Nique
2:10:35
well I don't know too much about the Real Housewives um what is it ptock I
2:10:40
know more about the Atlanta one I don't know too much about the potock one but just to piggyback off what you said I do
2:10:47
remember seeing a scene when I started watching The Real Housewives of
2:10:52
I do remember a scene where Mo'Nique came in she was like new on the show and
2:10:58
I remember she was talking about like her husband and how they own all these houses and like how they have business
2:11:04
she was just really pretty and excited to be on the show I remember she was excited to be brought into the group of
2:11:10
women and she was excited to get to know them but they didn't really give her a warm welcome I feel like they were
2:11:16
jealous of the fact that she was so young and she was so successful so that's what I'm saying like as a woman
2:11:22
you have to mentally prepare yourself depending on the level that you're at
2:11:27
for that so it doesn't bother you and um I'm going to grab some more water really
2:11:32
fast but I'm going to share this that actually and you guys can start talking about this in the comments what did you guys think about when Drea got on
2:11:39
Basketball Wives I think she got bullied a lot I think that's a very good example
2:11:44
of being a beautiful wellestablished woman and getting on a table with a group of women and what they'll do to
2:11:51
you you and how they automatically deem you as competition and even when you do nothing wrong they
2:11:57
automatically make you their enemy right so put in the comments what you guys
2:12:03
think about what happened when Drea um when Drea got on Basketball Wives
2:12:09
I'll be right back I'm gonna try to grab some more um
2:12:20
water
2:12:50
e
2:13:20
I'm back back I'm back all right so um yeah so I think
2:13:29
that again with this platform I'm just here to help you guys understand life and how
2:13:37
to navigate it how to navigate it because a lot of women are coming online
2:13:43
and giving you guys cookie cutter um advice and I'm here to tell you the truth so that you can really
2:13:51
navigate through life without the cookie cutter um things that women put out okay
2:13:58
so I'm going to go through you guys' comments the latest season of The Bachelor they were targeting the
2:14:04
prettiest girl if you are pretty you're going to be targeted okay you got to be
2:14:09
comfortable with that there's a price for everything that's spiritual law
2:14:17
okay Erica dates Safari to spite Nikki
2:14:22
um I wouldn't really use that as an example because Erica and Nikki were not
2:14:27
friends so I don't think she dated Safari to spite Nikki I think that she dated Safari and she knew that Nikki is
2:14:36
that girl and that was Safari's ex so she would go on these weird
2:14:41
interviews talking bad about Nikki and she didn't even know her and look at what Safari did to her so that's
2:14:50
embarrassing um Jazelle plotted on her yeah Jazelle was very jealous of Mo'Nique when
2:14:56
Mo'Nique got on the show and it's weird because gazelle's beautiful but that's what I'm telling you just because a
2:15:01
woman's beautiful doesn't mean that she's not insecure I've met very beautiful insecure women where they're
2:15:08
the only ones allowed to shine they're the only ones allowed to be pretty there are some women where if another pretty
2:15:14
girl walks in the room it's like oh girl you pretty I'm pretty let's oh you're successful I'm successful you're
2:15:20
educated I'm educated or oh you're a dentist I'm a dentist or they girls don't see it that way they're like the
2:15:26
spotlight has to be on me and you being here is dimming my light so they you
2:15:33
know that's how they see it why is oh wait I'm trying to hold on
2:15:40
you guys I'm trying to go through all your comments wait wait oh my God there's so
2:15:49
much hold on you
2:15:56
guys why is substance a trigger um a lot of women don't have substance they're
2:16:01
pretty but they're practically excuse my language brain dead so they have they
2:16:07
don't know anything they don't know how to put two and two together they don't have no Street smarts they don't know
2:16:13
how to Thug it out they don't know how to take $2 and turn it to $20 they don't
2:16:18
have a brain so when you have a brain that bothers them because it's like wow
2:16:25
you're not just beautiful like you actually know what you're doing that
2:16:30
bothers them oh my God yeah literally the girl
2:16:36
in my job she is so bitter for no reason I never did nothing to her just ignore her I've experienced jealousy and hatred
2:16:43
from women in the church um I've experienced a lot of jealousy from women in the church I
2:16:49
think that a lot of people think that because they go to church people are going to be any different a lot of these people have not stepped into their God
2:16:55
complex and a lot of them don't even have a relationship with God they just go to church for the aesthetic of it
2:17:03
because they treat people badly um like I said just go to church
2:17:09
praise and worship you know listen to the sermon pay your tithe and get up out
2:17:14
of there don't over involve yourself okay
2:17:21
they always hate beautiful women even though I mind my business mean girls give me the ick Fallon and Porsha were
2:17:27
never friends she might have thought she was well Cheyenne I'm not gonna invite a
2:17:34
girl who's not friends to my home okay if you're in my home around my husband in my pool eating on my dishes using my
2:17:41
fork and knives you're not a stranger so I again I don't know what
2:17:48
women consider friends or like that's the thing with women it's a very gray area with with women when it comes to
2:17:55
relationship no girl is going to be in my home who's not my friend no girl is going to know where I live who's not my
2:18:02
friend so I don't really know how women navigate and but that's what I'm saying
2:18:08
because women fake friendships they can invite a girl to their house every day and claim that the girl wasn't her
2:18:13
friend or that oh I wasn't her friend okay so then why were you in her pool with a bikini and a
2:18:19
margarita having grilled burgers that sounds like a friendship to me but the thing is with
2:18:26
women they're weird with the way they navigate things so you're going around
2:18:32
saying people that you weren you were at that girl's house I don't invite strangers to my house so that's what I'm saying it's it's weird with women it's
2:18:39
very weird you have to really draw the line in the sand to find
2:18:45
out because it's like I was your friend but now that I'm sleeping with your man I wasn't really your friend like women
2:18:52
pick and choose based on when it's convenient for them porsa was and is desperate for a
2:19:00
man I don't know if she's desperate I think Porsha is beautiful she's so freaking pretty and she's tall she's
2:19:07
like a stallion every time I see porsa she reminds me of a horse I think she's like she looks like she's like six feet
2:19:13
her body like she's beautiful um I don't know if I would call her desperate I think that Porsha
2:19:19
is trying to get to the bag and stay where the bag resides I don't know if I would call her desperate I do think she
2:19:25
really loves love I don't really like you know she looks like the I don't know I don't know her but I think that she really does love love
2:19:32
but it unfortunately didn't work out for
2:19:37
her you are so gorgeous a thank you Cheyenne you're so sweet you're gorgeous
2:19:42
too and stand strong stand firm like don't worry about what's going on with you in your job situation just pray pray
2:19:50
pray and ask God to put you in the right environment and he will I promise but
2:19:56
you got to pray you guys got to get a prayer Journal I think I spoke about this on my um YouTube page you guys got
2:20:02
to get a prayer journal and pray every day for God to put you in the right environment where you can succeed you
2:20:09
know and it's hard I get it like when you are a woman who's successful who's smart who's intelligent who's beautiful
2:20:15
who's confident or maybe you're all five of those things it's people make it difficult for you so I get it but God
2:20:22
doesn't need anybody's permission to bless you God doesn't need nobody's permission to get you promoted God
2:20:29
doesn't need nobody's permission to put you in the front of the line God don't need people permission that's why I keep
2:20:35
telling you guys to put God first because if you put God first it doesn't matter how the jealous girl feels it's
2:20:42
not it's not your problem God is like I want to I'm G to push you forward so
2:20:47
when you put God first in your life it doesn't matter how people feel about you
2:20:52
that's why I always tell women I don't understand jealousy I don't understand trying to I always tell women why are
2:21:00
you wasting your time meddling why are you wasting your time conspiring if God
2:21:05
wants her to be the queen she will be the queen it doesn't matter what you do don't waste your time trying to stop
2:21:12
another person's progress if God says it he's going to do it so don't involve yourself because when you involve
2:21:18
yourself and you get in the m of God trying to work for someone's life that's how you bring in good that's how you
2:21:24
bring in Bad Karma okay I tell women all the time stay out of the way you know
2:21:30
people pray people talk to God people have a relationship with God you go you try to insert yourself in the middle
2:21:37
it's a very bad idea because the Bible says God says I'm G to make your enemies
2:21:43
my enemy so if a girl is my enemy she's God's enemy so if you try to stand in my
2:21:48
way you're not fighting with me you're fighting with him and that's not a very good battle so don't do it I always tell
2:21:56
women leave other women alone don't get yourself involved because there are some women that you're trying to fight there
2:22:02
are some women you're trying to stop their progress there are some women you're trying to plant bad seeds and God
2:22:08
has a coal heating up on your head and it's a very dangerous place to be in so
2:22:13
don't worry about who's jealous who's not jealous who's don't worry if you put
2:22:19
God first and you tell God here's my life here's my job here's my situation
2:22:24
here's my finances take control of it he will and those people who try to get in
2:22:30
the way God's going to dismantle them and it's going to be very embarrassing look
2:22:36
at what happened to Porsha look at what happened to Porsha stop getting in the
2:22:42
way and and and that oh my God now you guys got me riled up that is the problem
2:22:49
that I have with a lot of women as women we need to learn how to start minding our business and stop getting in the way
2:22:57
of people's progress there are some people in life who really serve God and
2:23:04
you're trying to bother that person and that person goes to bed every night on
2:23:09
their knees and they pray to God and they cry to him and they speak to him and you are fixing yourself to get in
2:23:16
the middle of that God will dismantle you I feel like a lot of women y'all
2:23:24
call Calamity on yourselves because y'all don't know how to mind y' business you call your own destruction
2:23:31
because you're jealous and you're envious and you don't know how to mind your business so you go out of your way
2:23:39
you know this girl is about to get promoted and she's been praying for a promotion fasting for a promotion
2:23:46
talking to her pastor her spiritual leader her spiritual advisor she's praying to God and putting in the work
2:23:53
and here comes your clown self trying to get in the middle you're gonna get dismantled don't do
2:24:01
it my grandma always taught me growing up she told me she said don't involve
2:24:06
yourself and things that don't involve you because that's how you become a
2:24:13
casualty that's how you become a casualty stay out of people's way
2:24:20
that's why there are certain women certain things happen to them I don't feel bad for you because you should have
2:24:27
minded your business since the beginning I don't feel bad for
2:24:34
you look at what happened to Porsha I don't feel bad that girl had a husband
2:24:40
she had a family she had a life you wanted to go and mix yourself
2:24:46
up with that that's why you're at where you're at and this happens to women all the time that's all they
2:24:52
do is try to get in the way of things and they lose every single time because
2:24:58
they don't understand spiritual lock same thing happened to Crystal Smith with Neo you got involved in that
2:25:05
relationship you thought you took him and then he had two babies on you that's what
2:25:13
happens focus on your own plate focus on your own progress focus on on your own
2:25:21
spirituality focus on your own growth do not involve yourself in
2:25:28
another woman's life so when God blesses you it's
2:25:38
easy when Porsha went to visit her husband in Africa like a year ago he was
2:25:44
not even excited to see her I never saw that but he didn't live in Africa I thought he lived in in
2:25:51
um in the Atlanta sister do you always go live and give out advice I don't have
2:25:57
a like I always say this like I don't have a specific um day and time and I and all
2:26:05
of you guys that follow me know that like I try to not give out specific days and time because I'm one of those people
2:26:11
where my schedule is like all over the place and I just I have so much going on
2:26:17
in my life that I can't give an exact date and and I wish I could but I can't
2:26:23
so I kind of have to pre-announce it like an hour before because I really don't know what time I'll have to go
2:26:29
live so I don't give um a direct date in time but I do do private calls I do want
2:26:36
to bring that out I didn't even tell you guys I do private calls so if any of you guys need advice something personal you
2:26:42
want to speak on whatever it is I'm just a call away for 30 minutes there's a fee
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it's not expensive and we can f figure your situation out and move forward if you go on my website you can book a
2:26:55
call they hated New York yeah I like New York every time I watch Charm School I'm
2:27:01
like if I was on there I I I would be the New York of the show because I really don't care like I'm gonna stand
2:27:07
in my confidence I'm not gonna let nobody bother me and that's it and I'm
2:27:12
gonna just watch everybody dismantle each other because I'm not stupid and I know how it's going to end so I think
2:27:19
New York knew how girls operate that's why she
2:27:24
was so smart and they all were like her puppet because she knows girls are going
2:27:29
to try to turn on each other they're going to try to compete with each other they're going to start the art of comparison spreading lies smear she
2:27:36
knows that's why she was so smart on the show New York was skilled on how women
2:27:44
operate it's just like New York was like New York on Charm School was the jlin of
2:27:50
I love New York no not not I love New York was the joclyn of Love & Hip Hop
2:27:55
Joslyn New York these are women who know how women operate that's why they were
2:28:02
able to go on reality TV and capitalize and still be making a profit even after
2:28:09
leaving those shows because they know how women get down and they know that is
2:28:14
chess not Checkers so a lot of women they go into places like oh wow women in here love me
2:28:21
all the women want to support me all the women want to just put me on a pedestal
2:28:26
that is not how you think that's how you lose because that's not real life those
2:28:32
women understood that that's why they were able to capitalize on reality TV
2:28:38
and get where they are now because they know how the female gender
2:28:46
Works Bucky and crazy I don't I know those two but I don't really remember their Dynamic that much I hope I have a
2:28:53
good group not everyone is actualized Nene Leaks did too he was not all the
2:28:58
way divorced and she was still married see
2:29:05
see trying to compete with another woman you already lost no it's true women shouldn't be around other women's
2:29:11
husbands as best friends exactly you got to be better today than
2:29:18
you were yesterday be your own compet ition yeah I agree what do you think about women spying on your
2:29:24
[Music] man
2:29:30
what what why would a woman be spying on your
2:29:39
man why would a woman be that invested in your man that's weird I wouldn't trust it it
2:29:47
like I will be like girl let let me spy like that's my man like why are you it's
2:29:53
weird I like the vibe that I get like if a woman is spying on my man I get the vibe that she
2:30:00
wants him and she's trying to find a reason to get me to not want him so she
2:30:06
can shoot her shot I don't know that's just what I think don't let a
2:30:13
man they find attractive approach you yeah they do get unhanded yeah the world
2:30:18
is so evil
2:30:27
yes what about Kanye and Kim it's like she had him under a
2:30:34
spell Kim is a witch so nothing against people who believe in whatever but Kim
2:30:40
Kim's a witch so she um harvested a lot of energy from him
2:30:47
and got what she needed and that's why that's why his whole career went down the drain she took a lot of the energy
2:30:54
that she needed to progress her career that's why they're no longer
2:31:00
together um it's so annoying cuz some women are just acquaintances but act like they're your friends women need to
2:31:07
be secure it's scary when it's your own mother yeah that is scary what do you
2:31:13
think about women spying on your man without permission and bringing it to you I think I answered this question
2:31:19
before um if a woman is spying on your man and bringing it to you it's because she's
2:31:25
probably jealous of you guys's relationship and she's trying to bring proof to you so that you can um so that
2:31:35
you can leave him so she's trying to like break up your relationship cuz me I
2:31:41
don't care to spy on a friend's man I'm too invested in my own life like if she brings info to me and she respectfully
2:31:48
asks me my opinion then I'll give it but I'm not going to like keep tabs on who she's with so that's definitely a
2:31:55
red flag in my opinion Toma horse for I don't know who
2:32:00
that is Aaliyah was beautiful she was but Beyonce considered her competition
2:32:06
so they had to take her out because if they didn't take her out Beyonce's career would not be able to move forward
2:32:13
so they had to eliminate the competition Prince William when he was a
2:32:19
prince was jealous of prince princess Diana isn't that her son like how would
2:32:26
her son be I don't know I don't know about the royal family I've never kept up with them Drea was unprepared the
2:32:32
girls hated Drea she knew things about their man they had a they hated Drea because she was beautiful she was young
2:32:39
you know she was Carefree she was vibrant she was very into herself and they just
2:32:47
couldn't handle that because a lot of them were in happy marriages where their husbands cheated on them with women that
2:32:54
looked like Drea so that's why they didn't like her because it's like it it
2:32:59
reminded them of something negative woo unprepared I just think she
2:33:06
was nonchalant and inexperienced um Tre is an aquarius so
2:33:12
they're usually not going to give their energy to people which is good
2:33:17
um I'm not going to say she was prepared I think she was really young at the time so she went in there with the I need to
2:33:25
prove Who I Am To You Persona um in the new season I really
2:33:31
really liked clana and how she walked in there like I am not going to prove myself to any of these women I am going
2:33:38
to be me and I'm G to stand on that and I think that Drea didn't come in with
2:33:43
that energy so that's why I always tell women like don't be the type of woman that wants to
2:33:52
walk into a room of women and audition for them that's very dangerous you need to learn how to be confident in who you
2:33:58
are and if that bothers them it bothers them but don't ever walk into a room and
2:34:07
audition so many girls hate girls for being beautiful yeah it's
2:34:12
true sis I saw a Tik Tok once that why did it do
2:34:18
that I'm sorry you guys every it's like bringing me all the way
2:34:23
to the top of the comments okay here it is so wait hold on
2:34:32
sis I saw a Tik Tok once that said ugly women get the best treatment Evan Lazada and and her friend
2:34:40
you do you mean Evelyn and Jen I think Evelyn's beautiful and I think she's still beautiful I wouldn't
2:34:46
say she was like jealous of anyone I don't think EVN was ever jealous of
2:34:52
anyone I think that everybody was jealous of Evelyn that's the vibe I got
2:34:57
I I just always felt like everybody had this weird underlying CU you know she's pretty and not only is she's pretty
2:35:04
she's like she's head firm like she has a strong mind and she's very like um she
2:35:12
will defend herself and I think people want you to be pretty and weak not pretty and strong so I think that's why
2:35:18
Evelyn r rled feathers a lot because she's pretty and she's not going to take no BS and people don't like
2:35:25
that so the money aspect made he G of Jay I
2:35:32
don't know who Jay is outcome was not positive so she was
2:35:37
jealous of Mo'Nique who did have a positive outcome going to church for I athetic
2:35:43
yeah a lot of people go to church for the aesthetic they're not really Christian like they don't treat people
2:35:49
well they don't walk in the God complex they don't have integrity they're not kind
2:35:57
they're not caring they're very envious and jealous in the church so yeah they
2:36:02
go to church for the athetic they go to church to post the stage but deep down
2:36:09
their hearts are dark and full of malice so you got to be careful to not go to
2:36:15
church looking for nice people cuz you're probably not going to fight no find nobody nice in there remember what
2:36:21
you just said you said a jealous woman will do that we just want to have fun we get accused of not being a girl's girl
2:36:27
Porsha is a little insecure preach it amen there isn't a
2:36:33
jealous bone in my body if God says he's going to do it yeah if God says he's going to do it no one can stop it and
2:36:39
that's why I always tell women I rather you put your energy into your own life
2:36:44
then put your energy into dismantling another woman because if God has a plan for that woman
2:36:50
you doing that you're wasting your time and your energy because it's going to happen so you got
2:36:57
to just leave it alone and not become a casualty because you the the worst thing
2:37:03
you ever want to do is get in God's way that's a very dangerous position to be
2:37:08
in is being God's being in his way when he's trying to bless
2:37:16
somebody I'm so glad I found your page thank you let the Lord use you yeah touch not my
2:37:23
anointed do my profits no harm some people don't understand that they don't and they have to learn the hard way some
2:37:29
people have to learn the hard way unfortunately I felt like women need to
2:37:36
focus on ourselves he does live in Atlanta he oh okay she surprised him in
2:37:41
Atlanta I I didn't know I never saw that post uh what's the show called it's
2:37:46
called real housewives with Porsche it's called real house of of Atlanta but if you've never watched it and you start
2:37:53
watching it now it's going to be long because I think they have like 15 Seasons so it's a lot of seasons like
2:38:00
that show started in like 2008 or seven I think so it's a lot of Seasons if you
2:38:07
want to start you can start from the top but like charact not characters but cast
2:38:12
members leave and then new cast members get introduced um my opinion on the new
2:38:19
Housewives of Atlanta the girls that I like on the show that I would be friends with if I was on the show would probably
2:38:26
be I like NeNe I know a lot of people don't like NeNe I think that people don't like Nene because she's raw and
2:38:32
she's real and the world doesn't like people like that and and she says how
2:38:37
she feels and she feels what she says so I feel like a lot of people don't like
2:38:43
Nene because she's doesn't care and she's going to say how she feels I I am
2:38:49
a fan of NeNe I like Nene Leaks I would definitely be friends with her if I was on a show I
2:38:56
would be friends with Kenya I really like Kenya I know a lot of people hate
2:39:02
her I really like her and I love the fact that she conquered you know having
2:39:07
a mom who didn't like her and she conquered a lot and I feel like a lot of the women tried to break her on that
2:39:14
show and they would always bring up her her situation with her mom to make her feel in
2:39:20
significant um those are pretty the only two Porsche has done way too many weird things fedra was weird I
2:39:28
just I didn't I wouldn't really like you know mingle with them if I was on the
2:39:33
show but I like Nene and I like Kena and for Basketball Wives I really like tamy
2:39:39
Roman I would definitely be friends with her I think she's real I like Tammy and I
2:39:46
liked Roy I like cmy I like Roy um I like Evelyn
2:39:53
too yeah I like Evelyn too I thought she was pretty
2:40:02
cool what about women that play like they're joking but are really serious Throwing Shade that's another thing that
2:40:08
I'm talking about I don't befriend women like that I don't befriend women who
2:40:13
throw shade at me as a joke like you guys got to get to a place of maturity
2:40:19
where your life does not involve those kind of things a lot of you ladies have
2:40:25
to mature and grow in maturity in your life your life doesn't have room for people
2:40:32
who want to make you feel bad about yourself you have to grow we don't have time to to dissect the meaning behind
2:40:42
the joke the fact is that it's a joke it was a disrespectful joke that person
2:40:47
doesn't like you and you need to move forward
2:40:52
okay how do you stop comparing yourself with other
2:40:59
women and stop being jealous of them you need to pray and ask God to remove that
2:41:05
spirit of jealousy if you're comparing yourself to other women that means you're not content within thyself so you
2:41:12
need to discover thyself and find out why you don't like yourself and why you feel like you have to compare you have
2:41:19
to dive within Evelyn was extremely pompous and
2:41:27
over aggressive especially when she got mad yeah I can agree with that I think
2:41:32
that Evelyn because she's Latina and she's not black nothing against Latinas
2:41:38
or any other race for that matter if Evelyn was black she would never be able to get away with throwing bottles and
2:41:45
all the stuff that she did if she was black she would have been fired but the fact that she's not black she gets to
2:41:51
get away with the hyperaggression but if she was a black woman she would be fired
2:41:56
off that show ages ago but because she's Latina she gets away with
2:42:07
[Music] it what about Drew I never really cared for Drew like I don't have nothing
2:42:14
negative to say about her she just she never really gogged my interest she never really like was ever someone that
2:42:21
I ever kept up with she was never interesting enough to me so I don't really know much about her I like Kenya
2:42:27
too Carlos King who used to be a producer on the soet production ostracized her due to colorism Kenya is
2:42:34
beautiful and the fact that she's beautiful the fact that she's a dark skinned beautiful woman that bothers
2:42:40
people I think Kenya was the prettiest girl on the show I don't care who was light on the show who was white on the
2:42:46
show Kenya was the prettiest girl on the show and I loved her dark skin and I
2:42:53
loved her chocolate skin that girl is gorgeous and I think they hated the fact
2:42:58
that a dark skinned woman can be that beautiful I think that that bothered them and I think Kenya is absolutely
2:43:06
breathtaking she's beautiful and they didn't like
2:43:13
that why was Evelyn so mean to OG I don't know
2:43:20
no that season was a little lame I didn't like that season it was pretty boring I never really kept up with that
2:43:26
season I think that maybe because like like I said like most women don't like
2:43:32
it when women um are confident and won't allow themselves to be disrespected you
2:43:39
got to understand like I guess because they felt like they were the OG's of the group that people had to kind of bow to
2:43:46
them when you first come in but OG didn't do that so they didn't like it but anyways you guys I love you guys but
2:43:53
I'm getting off it's literally 5:36 Eastern Standard Time I have been on
2:43:59
live with you guys for almost three freaking hours and I am tired and I got
2:44:05
to go make dinner so um I hope you guys enjoy the rest of
2:44:11
your Sunday again do not forget to go on my website.