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# From Beginner To Advanced -- What To Do At Every Level
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00:00:08.000 so I want to tell you about an
00:00:09.660 experience I had recently that's a
00:00:11.370 really great lesson in what is game how
00:00:14.160 to learn game and what how is game
00:00:16.289 different as a beginner and intermediate
00:00:17.820 guy and an advanced guy so it's not an
00:00:20.430 immersion program recently and a student
00:00:22.560 asked a question he basically said let's
00:00:24.990 say you're on a date with a girl you
00:00:26.430 lean in she leans and you should pretty
00:00:28.230 much always kiss her right and first of
00:00:30.779 all I hate the word always so don't ever
00:00:32.880 ask any questions with the word always
00:00:34.410 at it you're gonna get screamed at but
00:00:36.030 beyond that it's a very very interesting
00:00:38.100 question because this is a question that
00:00:39.960 has a very different answer for a
00:00:41.160 beginning student and intermediate
00:00:42.719 student and an advanced student so we're
00:00:44.879 doing kind of a panel of my coaches and
00:00:46.469 Garett one of my amazing coaches he
00:00:49.320 basically gave the answer that is a
00:00:50.969 perfect answer that you want to teach to
00:00:52.980 an intermediate guy and what he said is
00:00:55.699 basically what I would do is I probably
00:00:58.739 would kiss but then I would back off and
00:01:01.469 you know pull away first make her chase
00:01:04.019 and use that kiss as like a catalyst to
00:01:06.360 get her to chase and for an intermediate
00:01:08.100 guy that's absolutely huge because
00:01:09.540 getting the girl chasing is so huge but
00:01:11.610 at the same time kissing is also very
00:01:13.470 valuable because you do want to you know
00:01:15.750 create that tension and create that
00:01:16.830 escalation so that was a really really
00:01:19.080 great answer and exactly like the
00:01:20.939 perfect answer to give to an
00:01:22.049 intermediate student when JP came in and
00:01:24.750 said he actually for like an advanced
00:01:27.720 level and for advanced students he would
00:01:29.670 do a kind of a different answer and what
00:01:32.579 he said is basically a lot of times he
00:01:35.729 would be like no no no I don't want to
00:01:37.110 do that here I know a lot of people
00:01:38.159 let's not do that in public right and
00:01:40.020 and that's really really brilliant
00:01:41.520 because at an advanced level you don't
00:01:44.040 really need to kiss the girl she already
00:01:45.630 knows you can she already knows that
00:01:47.220 you're that kind of guy and where you're
00:01:48.990 conveying there is you're conveying
00:01:50.700 total non neediest total abundance total
00:01:53.520 self belief and you're also conveying a
00:01:54.840 lot of social proof that whole like
00:01:55.920 people know me here I don't want to do
00:01:57.090 that in public
00:01:58.500 it just shows so so so many positive
00:02:01.649 characteristics so so subtle and that
00:02:03.780 was actually really just super impressed
00:02:06.270 with JP for this answer cuz JP is a guy
00:02:07.950 who has always been really good at the
00:02:09.628 core elements of game but he came from a
00:02:12.030 small town he's kind of a younger guy
00:02:13.650 and so the social proof elements are
00:02:15.180 something is really layered into his
00:02:16.650 game in the last three years he's an
00:02:17.790 absolute beast item now and to be honest
00:02:20.280 he gave probably off the top of his head
00:02:21.540 maybe even a better advanced answer than
00:02:23.189 I would have off the top of my head in
00:02:24.750 that situation so I was super impressed
00:02:26.069 like JP there's a great answer
00:02:27.480 and then there's of course the third
00:02:29.640 answer which is the beginner answer
00:02:31.560 which I kind of rounded it out with so
00:02:33.720 that like anyone who is beginner on the
00:02:35.220 immersion would have and that answer is
00:02:37.799 yes you damn well better kiss the girl
00:02:39.810 if you're a beginner and the reason for
00:02:41.280 that is that you need that escalation to
00:02:45.480 actually you know convey man to woman
00:02:47.129 you need that escalation to be to create
00:02:49.139 sexual tension because as a beginner
00:02:50.370 you're probably not creating enough of
00:02:51.959 those elements and so it's kind of an
00:02:54.389 interesting question interesting
00:02:55.440 scenario because there are three
00:02:56.940 different answers for beginner
00:02:58.379 intermediate and advanced and they
00:03:00.810 really aren't very very different right
00:03:02.489 one is go for it and be obvious the
00:03:03.900 other is completely you know reject it
00:03:06.540 and don't be obvious and just be above
00:03:08.189 it and it really illustrates kind of the
00:03:10.319 paradox in game where the thing that may
00:03:12.810 work for you as a beginner definitely
00:03:14.519 won't work for you as an advanced guy
00:03:15.629 but at the same time if you're trying to
00:03:17.370 adopt the advanced behavior as a
00:03:19.530 beginner you're actually gonna like
00:03:21.000 really up your results as well and
00:03:22.949 so for anyone who's trying to develop
00:03:24.419 like a system for game or like a general
00:03:26.760 overall blueprint or game plan for how
00:03:28.590 to teach game or how to do a game this
00:03:30.389 is a dilemma you're gonna run into it's
00:03:32.069 it's a paradox right and so how do you
00:03:34.379 teach game in a general way to make it
00:03:36.690 applicable to a beginner intermediate
00:03:37.919 advanced and how do you teach game in a
00:03:39.419 general way so that you don't have to
00:03:41.940 unlearn and I think this is why a lot of
00:03:43.680 guys get really frustrating results
00:03:45.180 right they do what works for them at
00:03:47.250 their particular level but then when
00:03:49.349 they get to a higher level they have to
00:03:50.549 unlearn it or they plateau or it stops
00:03:52.560 working and so a lot of systems for game
00:03:54.989 are a lot of like methods of teaching
00:03:56.669 game in the past they either maybe cater
00:03:58.829 to the beginner guy and you get results
00:04:00.690 as a beginner but then you never get any
00:04:02.310 further or they try and teach advanced
00:04:04.349 game like straight up from the from the
00:04:06.479 get-go or you've been like a lot of them
00:04:08.430 don't teach advanced game because very
00:04:09.449 few teachers of a game or even advanced
00:04:10.949 themselves but they teach advanced
00:04:12.659 techniques from the get-go and then for
00:04:14.819 beginners they just fall flat on their
00:04:16.139 face they can't even make them work and
00:04:17.699 then maybe for advanced guys it's not
00:04:19.320 even a complete system anyway and so
00:04:21.630 there's all these problems with these
00:04:23.250 kind of systems right so in creating any
00:04:25.740 kind of system or thus
00:04:27.120 which you know I'm coming out with very
00:04:28.830 very soon as a very very big thing that
00:04:31.260 I wanted to make sure to handle was to
00:04:33.570 teach in a way that's general enough to
00:04:35.100 apply across the board to beginner
00:04:36.540 immune advance but then also can be
00:04:38.760 specific enough and can have that
00:04:40.470 layered complexity to work at every
00:04:42.690 single level so that's what I really
00:04:44.520 really tried to do and that's what you
00:04:45.570 should really try and do in your
00:04:46.979 particular game as well so now the most
00:04:49.560 important part what is the right answer
00:04:51.510 to the question that question should you
00:04:53.340 kiss in that scenario should your not
00:04:54.570 what is the answer that that actually
00:04:56.250 applies to beginner intermediate and
00:04:57.900 advanced if it's different advice for
00:04:59.760 all three of them what is the system
00:05:01.530 answer what is the answer that's true
00:05:03.510 across the board and here's the answer
00:05:05.490 whatever game level you're at the thing
00:05:08.160 you're doing should be the thing that
00:05:09.800 maximizes the sexual tension okay in
00:05:12.750 that particular case so as a beginner
00:05:14.750 escalating more probably maximizes the
00:05:17.460 sexual tension because you probably in
00:05:20.430 your game need more of that you needed
00:05:21.810 more help escalating you're not taking
00:05:23.220 enough risks and and just getting to
00:05:25.110 that point where you've kind of agreed
00:05:26.280 that that you and the girl will kiss
00:05:27.570 each other creates that that additional
00:05:29.460 tension at that particular level at the
00:05:31.740 intermediate level there's still a
00:05:32.789 elements of that we're kissing increases
00:05:34.680 the sexual tension but you don't want to
00:05:36.240 take it too far and that's why you back
00:05:37.650 off back off after the kiss get her to
00:05:39.690 chase because that's gonna maximize that
00:05:42.090 sexual tension then at an advanced level
00:05:43.710 the sexual tension is already there very
00:05:45.720 strongly in terms of like ability to
00:05:47.849 escalate the girl knows that you can
00:05:49.560 escalate if you're an advanced guy the
00:05:51.270 girl absolutely knows you can escalate
00:05:52.919 there go absolutely knows you've been
00:05:54.210 with girls before that's not something
00:05:55.410 you'd approve anymore but what you can
00:05:57.479 really do to increase the tension is
00:05:58.919 really make her wonder if she can have
00:06:00.599 you really make you wonder how hard
00:06:02.669 she's gonna have to chase you and that's
00:06:04.380 what's going to amp up the tension as an
00:06:06.030 advanced guy so while there are these
00:06:07.889 three different answers fundamentally
00:06:09.840 they're really the same answer which is
00:06:11.550 what should you do you should maintain
00:06:13.500 and increase the sexual tension and
00:06:15.210 that's true from beginner all the way to
00:06:17.340 advanced and that's why it's so
00:06:18.630 important to learn game based on
00:06:20.010 principles and understandings and then
00:06:22.199 you can fill in the right techniques for
00:06:24.180 that principle and understanding it
00:06:25.440 whatever level you're adding game okay
00:06:27.449 so the general answer is increase the
00:06:29.699 sexual tension the specific answer will
00:06:31.800 depend on your skill level and will also
00:06:33.090 depend on all the other factors like I
00:06:34.560 said blueprint situation history all
00:06:37.260 those kind of things but what is the
00:06:38.490 general answer increase the sexual
00:06:40.260 tension
00:06:40.950 it was a great way to look at game if
00:06:42.570 you understand the reason why first now
00:06:45.420 you can figure out all the house and all
00:06:47.730 the specifics and you'll always have a
00:06:49.980 constant model that you won't have to
00:06:51.540 change you won't have to go backwards
00:06:52.830 you won't have to unlearn and you can
00:06:54.510 just see steady constant progress
00:06:56.310 instead of plateaus and pitfalls so I
00:06:59.280 really really love looking at game that
00:07:01.140 way and I hope looking at game that way
00:07:02.490 is something I can pound into your brain
00:07:04.290 and get you to do because it's gonna
00:07:05.460 massively improve the results
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