want to make podcast sniffet of 30-60 sec that may gone viral and clips should have climax that tie viewers till end so i am giving transcript of video so give cuttings without changing transcript of about 30-60 sec that have ability to go viral also give rating of viral out of 10 give all possible clips from this "Love marriage or arranged marriage? First test that person. Mine is not like that. Everything happens like that. Human nature never changes. 8th class kid says, I'm in love. College kids say, no one can love more than us. How is love nowadays? It used to be good that love used to be blind before. Now he sees everything. Cook-up culture has come, benching culture has come. What is this? If one goes, the other is ready. Can love be forgotten? If you are not keeping it in your memories, then it was not love either. I am sorry. What is the reason for such a high rate of separation nowadays? We say that there is love, but we don't know how to fulfill it. Does it really happen that when a third person comes, the relationship between two people weakens? 
The reason for this relationship to break is the presence of someone else. Now if we have to save relationships from breaking, then what should we do? The day I stop understanding, that day that relationship will end, that relationship will die. Hi Lovely, thank you so much for coming to The Namit Show. So today let's talk about something that is going on everywhere. It's going on Instagram, it's going on Facebook, it's going on in real life. And that is weddings. Nowadays everyone is getting married. You open Instagram, open Facebook, go anywhere and see. People are getting married. And you too have recently got married. It's been a while. How long has it been? One and a half years. Wow. So this experience is quite fresh now. 
One and a half years is I guess fresh. Yes, it is. Yep. So... Tell me, how is the marriage experience? How is the marriage environment? Some people say it's very good, very beautiful. Some people say it's very pressurizing. Some people say it's not that good. So, how is the marriage experience? If I tell you my personal experience, then I want everyone to get married. Okay. Because after marriage, you get a sense of stability, a peace. Okay. You are running in your life. I will talk about bachelor life. So you have a tension that I have to earn, I don't know if I will be able to fulfill my ambitions in my career or not. And then you think that I don't know what will happen to the person who will come in my life in the future. 
Now marriage has happened. So you had two tensions, one personal and one professional. Personal is over, you have got the answer to that question that the person has come. Now you have to focus on your professional life only. Okay. You have only one goal. And you are lucky that you have found a person. But if you have found a very nice person, then after marriage you get a support. That look, personal life is set. I will take care of the family. I will see everything. But now you work on your dreams, your goals. And same goes with, you know, women also. A man says, okay, we have a family, we have a household, we will manage together. You fulfill your dreams. It is something that in a marriage, you get a stability, a peace of mind that one thing is set, one part is set of your life. 
You just have to focus on one thing, which are the careers of your life. Which are materialistic things. And they eventually and gradually come to you. You don't have to run for them. Man runs only for relationships. And if he gets good relationships, then it is a matter of luck. And if you are getting those, if you are getting those good relationships, then I would say to keep them safe. So now some people say that getting married adds an extra responsibility. After marriage, responsibilities increase a lot. Pressure increases a lot. Does it really increase? Yeah, pressure... You will have to see whether you are bringing that person into your life as a burden or as a part of your life. Okay. The pressure will only come in your life when someone else comes into your life, when you will consider him as a burden. 
You will take him as a responsibility, not as a happiness. If you cook very happy food for someone, then that food is also good and it also fills the stomach of that person. But when you are cooking food with only responsibility that you have to make it and give it. So neither will that food taste good nor will that person's stomach fill. So you will have to see how your intentions are. How do you want to run that relationship? There is obviously a responsibility in marriage because you are bringing a new person to your house. And I will talk about the responsibility of girls and the perspective of girls. When you come to a house, then the atmosphere of that house is different. 
Yes. You want them to accept you. Yes. They don't have any expectations from you. Yes. But they only have one expectation that you will keep their house as a house. Yes. Just like they used to live before happiness, you will keep it as it is or you will increase in that happiness. Those are their expectations. Here a girl is responsible that she should not marry with this expectation that this person will now fulfill my desires. Yes. See it as a family. That this is a family which is now mine. This is a house, this is now mine. I have to make it and increase it. This is the responsibility of a girl. The responsibility of a girl is to understand a man. That the man will now handle you and his old family will also handle him. 
So you understand his situation. You don't need to make a mistake in everything. I see that sometimes girls say that I don't like what your mom says, she says this, I don't like this, I don't like that, I don't like this, I don't like your relatives. These girls have said, girls are a little expressive, girls' love is a little more in the language, less in work. And here it happens that your relationship starts to feel that the complaints are more, the work is less. So marriage will only work when you make fewer mistakes. And look for more solutions. Because if you focus on problems, then you will never get solutions. And it is the duty of the boy to tell that girl that look, my family members are a little bit bitter. 
Or they are a little bit mischievous. Don't misunderstand their intentions. Yes. understand their mind that whatever they are saying, leave it, ignore it, I am with you. That's it. If a boy gets support, then the girl gives everything in that relationship. Yes. That girl only needs that boy's support. Yes. And if a girl gets support, then that man in his life, as they say, gets that progress which he also didn't think. Yes. Because he becomes a better person. Yes. And I think it is the duty of boys to understand that a girl is leaving her home, leaving her family and coming to a new place, new people, new atmosphere. So make her feel comfortable, make her feel that she is not in a new place, all the people here are her own, everyone wants to live with her with the same love, understand her, help her to adapt to that environment. 
So maybe a girl doesn't need anything more than that. And in marriage, I am telling you from my personal experience, that in a marriage, in a relationship, your friendship is very important. What is friendship? Friendship is very pure. Friendship doesn't expect anything from you. It gives itself. That I am standing, I am standing with you. Whether it is sadness, whether it is happiness, whether it is sadness, whether it is anger, friendship stands. If that friendship is alive in marriage, then There comes a time when there is not much communication between you people. But if there is friendship, then you understand it with your eyes. You will not have to speak in any language that I am feeling good or bad. Those eyes will understand that no, there is something that is hurting him. 
There is something that he is not able to say or is able to say. And there is a dent in his mind that he is not able to say. Hmm. then you will have to understand that. And that will only be understood when there is friendship. Because love can end, but friendship doesn't. Very good. So, sometimes in any relationship, whether it is marriage or any relationship, there are times when love starts to weaken, so at that time, maybe friendship can handle things. Absolutely. So, now the question is, what is better? This is a question of many people, that Love marriage or arranged marriage? There is a lot of confusion. Some people stay in their life to the point that they will do love marriage. 
Some people say that arranged marriages are more successful. What is more successful? Human. Okay. Whether you do love marriage or arranged marriage, test that human first. The meaning of testing, the scale, is only this. This is my personal test. Okay. You put that person in that condition which that person will not accept. For example, there is a man. If a man has to judge a girl, then he should not show himself in front of that girl. Yes. No show-off that there is money, a car, a property. He should not show anything. He should say that look, I don't have anything. Will you support me now? Yes. If that person, when you don't have anything, then he supports you. So when you have everything, he will stand there. 
And he deserves it. He will deserve it. But if in a made-up plate, you bring a person and make him sit, serve him food, then the person doesn't value it. Yes. Test that person. If your failures, your emptiness, Usme aapka saath di raha hai. Wahaan pe... Kisi bhi cheez ko leke... Agar aap baat kar rahe hain... Aap apne opinions rakh rahe hain... Wahaan pe argument se zyada discussion hai. Voh insan sahi hai. Voh apne aapko sahi batane ke liye... Jo insan... Har hath tak guzar jaate hain... Voh insan kabhi sahi nahi hote hain. Aap insan ko parkhen... To chai wo love marriage ho... Chai arrange marriage ho. Kyunki... Agar insan galat nikal gaya na... To... These two marriages don't last. Marriage is a very beautiful decision and very sincere. 
You have to think that you have to spend your life with that person under a roof. Because sometimes maybe in love marriages we make a mistake in evaluating a person. We feel that we have spent many years with this person so we know him completely. But later we realize that we don't know him that much. And the biggest deception of this world is that mine is not like this. Or mine is not like this. Everything is like this. Human nature never changes. There are situations that bring their nature to the fore. And somewhere it seems like this too, that everyone will have shortcomings. If you are waiting for a person who does not have any shortcomings, then you do not get that. Everyone has shortcomings. 
Now, maybe we have to like those whose flaws we are ready to accept. So, this was about evaluating a girl. Now, how to evaluate a boy? You tell me. So, I feel that if a girl has to evaluate a boy, then there are two conditions. First, your boy should not be with you only when there is no one around him. When he has a crowd of 100 girls, when 100 people want to talk to him, and he puts that crowd aside and comes to you, talks to you, holds your hand, then he is yours. And your boy should not be such that he only knows about your goodness, then he is yours. When he knows about your past, about your present, about every goodness and badness, and still he is accepting you, then he is yours. 
Absolutely. show your soul. And if he is leaving your external beauty and loving your soul, then that is love. Love never looks at how beautiful you look. Love never happens to a person. Love always happens to a person's thought. So if you show your soul, show your innocence, show your child and he is accepting it. He is happy in that thing. So that love is right, that person is right. So it is very important that you think who you are making a relationship with. So somewhere or the other, it is right who is accepting you the way you are. Absolutely. If he wants to change you and accept you, then he does not love you. Yes, look, there are two types of changes, Namit. 
To make a person better, to change someone's habits, to change someone's thoughts, to change someone's opinions, to give someone a new perspective, that is good. But you don't do this, don't do that, don't meet this, don't go that way, how can you do this? This is toxicness. If you are changing your being, then it is wrong. You will have to see how the change is. Yes. So, now we are talking about love. So, how is the love nowadays? Nowadays, everyone says that they are in love. 8th class kids say that they are in love. College kids say that no one can love more than them. How is the love nowadays? Nowadays, the love is less shown and more shown. Nowadays, people want to show that I am with him, I am roaming like this, I am living like this. 
I am going for shopping here, I am sitting in such a car. This is not love. Yes. I read somewhere that it used to be good that love used to be blind before. Then he got it treated. Now he sees everything. Now he sees everything. Car, bungalow, property, money. He sees everything. And somewhere or the other, one version of this that I feel is that when a person is in love, he doesn't see anything. He doesn't see money, he doesn't see caste. When he is in love, he doesn't see. But when he is married... then everything is visible. Then money is visible, then caste is visible, then status is visible, then power is visible. And at that time, when love comes after marriage, that's why so many relationships break. 
Absolutely. The reason for relationships to break is that we have given more importance to money and property than to that person. That if that person is not able to fulfill your desires because... There are some reasons for it, there are some financial situations, so you end that relationship. It is easy to leave that relationship for you, it is very difficult to kill your desires. That's why relationships break. In our world, the children of today, it is very easy for them to say breakup, that if I don't like it, then it's over. Hookup culture has come, benching culture has come. What is this? That if one goes, then the other is ready. This is not love. You are insulting. You are not insulting anyone. 
You are insulting yourself. Because you have made yourself so common that you need someone's support. Someone will make you happy. Someone will recharge you. Someone will feed you. Someone will take you out. You always need someone else. So that is a need. Where is that love? So how will the relationship work? When there is no love, it is not alive. People think that they are in love, but maybe that love doesn't happen. Because that relationship is only going on until my needs are fulfilled, my situations are going on according to me. When that won't work, then the relationship won't work. Then this love didn't happen. This is not love, this is a deal. You don't want to live with that person, you want to live with the things that are with that person. 
You don't love his soul, his thoughts, his habits. You love his property, his money, his bank balance. And now when it comes to love, then one question arises, can love be forgotten? No. If you had a true love with someone, can you forget him? He should be in your memories. If you forget him, then what kind of love was that? You keep him in your memories. Keep his good things in your memories, keep his bad things in your memories. Good things make you a better person. They teach you what makes you happy and what you need. They will tell you what you need in your life. Bad memories tell you that you don't have to do that in the next relationship. They make you aware that you didn't have to fall so much. 
You didn't have to make yourself fall so much in front of someone. So you should keep it in your memories. If you are not keeping it in your memories, So that wasn't even love, I'm sorry. Can you ever get love by asking for it? No. If you're asking for something in front of someone, if you're asking for love, then that becomes a burden. That person will give you in mercy, won't love you. That person will be with you only because, she'll die without me. She's suffering without me. That's not love, you're showing her mercy. Hmm. You should only stay with that person because you want to stay with him, you love him. Your love will not let you be separated from him. But in a person's attitude, the smell comes. 
That now there is a change. That this person is changing. His nature is changing. You will get to know the smell in his attitude. And the day you start getting that smell, So understand that that relationship is over now. It's dead. It's dead from within. Whether you said it or not. It's dead. Nowadays, we see that many boys and girls are writing such long messages to each other. They are requesting. Please don't go from my life. They are holding hands for love. They are begging. Is that right? I believe that when it comes to love, then a person is ready to go to any extent. And love... It takes a person to that extent. But is this right? It is right to bow down in front of love. 
But it is wrong to kill your self-respect. If that person is bowing down in front of you, just because he is in a relationship, or something has gone wrong, to save that relationship, according to that situation, he is bowing down, then he is right. Okay. It is good if you are bowing down to save that relationship. But if that bowing is hurting your spine, then that is wrong. Your existence, your self-respect should not be lacking. Pride is different. Pride is that I don't need anyone. Self-respect is that I need you, but this thing cannot be so much. Love is one place, need is one place, respect is one place. So keeping respect is only in your hands. If you respect yourself, people will respect you. 
So, we talked about love, togetherness, everything. Now, let's talk a little bit about what is going on a lot these days, and that is being separate. Breakups, separation, and worst of all, divorces. Now, when we are seeing that love is going on so much, nowadays everyone is loving, but we are also seeing that the more breakups are happening, the more separations are happening, divorces are also happening. So what is the reason for such a high rate of separation in today's time? Namit, to be very honest, we have stopped saving the relationship. Earlier we didn't have the option of being separated. So when there is no option, then you don't even think about being separated. You know you have to be with him. But today we have created options ourselves. 
We have never considered that person as necessary. We thought that if it doesn't work out, someone else will come. We took that relationship for granted. Adi and I follow one thing in our relationship, in our life. From the relationship time also and even after marriage. That we will never talk about divorce or breakup. When we won't talk about them, we won't think about them. Yes. And when we don't think about them, then it will never happen. Because our focus will be that we have to save that relationship. We have to work on that relationship. When it remains in our back of the mind that nothing will happen, then someone else will come, then that relationship will not work. And it is our habit that we say that there is love, but we don't know how to fulfill it. 
We argue. We go to any extent to prove ourselves right. So I say that it is not necessary to give your last answer in every debate. Sometimes silence ends something. And if there is silence, if there is silence in that relationship, then nothing is bigger than that. Because there is no bigger answer than silence. Hmm. When you argue, when you give an answer to something, then the answer will come from the other side. Then that small thing becomes a very big issue. And that issue sometimes ends at such a point that that relationship ends. So it is important to understand that talk more than argument. Because the importance of talks is not of argument. And somewhere or the other we are seeing that 
Now, the respect in relationships is decreasing. And maybe this is also a very big reason. Absolutely. This thing that it has become easy for people to leave each other. Because where there is no respect, I think there can't be love there. And this is probably from both sides. Yes. Not only from boys, not only from girls. Now that respect is decreasing from both sides in relationships. Look, a relationship has a very big foundation, trust and respect. Hmm. If you have faith in that person, that relationship will work. If you have respect for that person, then it will work. If you are not respecting that person, you are not listening to him, you are not understanding him, then where will that relationship work? We have a habit that we think of explaining to the person. 
If someone is bringing a problem to you, then people often advise him. That you did this wrong, you should have done this. She didn't need advice, she needed support. Yes. That relationship ends there. When you start keeping her wrong, but to understand. Yes. It was necessary to understand, not to make her understand. Absolutely. And now another very big reason for separation is, whether it is in relationships or sometimes in marriages, to have a third person. Because of the third person, many relationships break. So what is the involvement of the third person in a relationship? And does the relationship between two people become weak when the third person comes? Absolutely. There is no place for the third person between two people. And it shouldn't be. 
If you want someone else's advice to run your relationship, then you are not running your relationship. You have given your controlling power to someone else. And that control... It can be used in any way. Yes. Every person's intentions are not good. Yes. And they say that in a relationship, everyone knows how to speak. Yes. Okay. It is definitely wrong to answer in a different way. But if you keep listening more, then people forget the limits of speaking. Absolutely. So you have to teach a person a... control that he can say anything in your relationship. Yes. Whether he is your partner or a third person. And if you don't answer him, he won't understand. Because one day, that third person will forget his limit. 
And your relationship will end. And you will only feel that we could have handled this relationship. The reason for this relationship to break is someone else's presence. So here, you know, it's not your fault, it's his fault. It was someone else who ruined you. And you are helpless there because you can't do anything. But in this, it's not like somewhere or the other, it's our fault because one of us let that third person come in between. Absolutely. If none of us gives that third person that space in between that he comes, says something, explains something, influences someone, then that third person can never weaken the relationship between two people. No, he can't. This is definitely our failure that we give the full power of our life in someone else's hands. 
And you keep it clear from the beginning. Look, in every relationship, even if it is new, I will advise everyone that you say directly that if you have any problem, if you are sad about something, if you are angry about something, if you have touched something, if you have troubled something, then you should come and talk to me. Communicate with me. If you are giving advice from someone else, that he told me this, what I should do, then your relationship will not be made. This is your fault. You will have to clear it first. And if you feel that in your relationship, a third person, whom we call best friend, is getting influenced, then understand that that best friend will play a trick sometime or the other, 
That then the check-in is going to be made. That somewhere or the other our mistake is that if we have a complaint with our partner, then instead of talking to him, when we discuss with a third person and ask for his advice, then the relationship gets spoiled. If instead of the third person, we had talked to our partner once by keeping the ego aside and whatever way we had talked to him, then maybe the relationship would have been saved. Absolutely. Namit, because when you talk to a third person about your relationship, you get advice, you don't get a solution. Absolutely. There was no need for advice, there was a solution. And the solution is found only by talking to each other. According to you, when we are talking about separation, divorces, in marriage, particularly in a marriage, what is the biggest reason for a husband and wife to be separated? 
To not understand each other. When we stop understanding each other, sometimes we stop understanding things, sometimes we stop understanding silence. We have to understand that there is so much pain in that person's mind that he wants to remain silent. If I fight with my partner on this today, that why are you not talking, why are you sitting quietly, why are you not speaking, this is my fault. I will have to understand what is the reason behind his silence. And if he is angry, if he is saying something, then I will have to understand what is going on in his mind, what is his intention. If he is angry, then what is his intention? If he is sad, then what is his intention? The day I stop understanding, that day that relationship will end, that relationship will die. 
So it ends there, nothing is left there. Because you want to be understood. You want to be heard. But you don't want to listen to anyone. You want the other person to listen, but you are not ready to listen to the other person. So we talked about how relationships break so easily. Now if you want to save relationships from breaking, then what should you do? If you want to save relationships from breaking, then don't give everything to yourself. Leave some things in it. Okay. It is said that if a person has a desire to get something, then there is a value for it. So when you give your little things to a person, then when he gets little things, then he will value it. 
When you give yourself completely, then there is no value left. There is no value left. Okay. Zaroorat hai ki usko zinda rakha jaye. Aur shayad yeh bhi ek wajah hai ki aaj kal ki iss fast track life mein, har cheez bahut jaldi milne lagi hai. Rishton mein bhi har cheez bahut jaldi ho jati hai. To shayad, wo jo hota hai na, spark wo bhi utni jaldi khatam ho jata hai. Yaar, pehle na, humko tadap hoti thi. Milni ki, baat karni ki. Woh tana ki, aap ek insan ko na, sef dekhne bhar ke liye ghanto intazaar karte the. Haan. So that love, the thing in which there is wait, the love for which you are sitting, so you value it, you want to keep it safe, no matter what. 
When you get that thing after a lot of hard work, after a lot of waiting, then you value it. And people often forget to respect things that are easily found. And nowadays it has become so common that you get partners on a left swipe and right swipe, you get decided. So it has become easy for you that you can bring someone into your life at any time and at any time you can get someone out of your life. Absolutely, absolutely, absolutely. And in this we had talked earlier that it is very important to have friendship in a relationship. So how is friendship nowadays? According to you, what is the meaning of friendship in people's lives nowadays? You know what, friendship is selfless. But nowadays I see that people make friendship with meaning, they make friendship with your order. 
If I say that I don't have anything, I am very poor, I don't have money to eat, I don't have a roof to live on, then will anyone be my friend? No one will be. But if today I say that I have so much power that I can change anything in the country, in the world, then everyone will follow me. Everyone will call me their friend, that I know him, I know him. So the person who is your friend of success, The person who is the friend of your money, the friend of your wealth, the friend of your power, he is not a friend. He is attached to you for that opportunity, that one day it will come where his work will be done. 
And if you are meeting any person, if this thing is coming in your mind, that what will be the benefit of meeting him? Or let me make it with this, sometime or the other my work can be done by him. You are not a friend of him. And if you are getting such a person, then go a little far. Because I will say again that Rahat Indori sir had said a very lovely line. Which put a very big impact in my mind. That a friend is not someone who everyone can reach out to. You meet people, you work with people. But you are not everyone's friend. Neither is everyone your friend. Absolutely. You will have to choose. Professional relationships are different. Professional colleagues are different. 
Their name is colleagues. Friend is selfless. You don't have any meaning there. So if you are meeting someone, then you leave him. You stop calling him a friend. That if I am meeting someone and I say that I am his friend. He knows me, I get angry with him. But no. Friendship is different. Dosti badi mushkil se vanti aur dosti har kisi se nahi ho sakte. Har kisi se nahi ho sakte. Aur aap agar kisi ke muhsa sun rahe ho ki yaare wo pi mera dost hai, to ye samjho ki wo kisi ka dost nahi hai. Jo sapka dost hai, wo asliyat me kisi ka dost nahi hai. Aapka dost sirf aapka dost hota hai. Chahe wo gairon ke beech mein baitha ho, chahe wo apno ke beech mein baitha ho. 
Agar kisi mehfil mein baith ke aapke baare mein koi baat ho rahi hai, aur aapka dost wahan baitha hai, jase aap dost maante ho, And the duty of that friend is that, no, don't talk behind his back. If it's good, then do it in front of him so that he can understand your feelings. He can understand the feeling of appreciation. If it's bad, then do it in front of him. This is the duty of a friend. And if a friend comes to you and says, no, I was sitting at that place and this was going on about you. Then understand that he only listens to that. He is not your friend. If he was a friend, then maybe he wouldn't have been able to listen. 
He wouldn't have been able to listen either. He would first make them quiet and then he would not even tell you that. One thing to be aware of is that those people choose you like this, so be a little aware. But if he comes and tells you pin to plane that he said this, he said that, he was doing this, he was doing that. He is not your friend. He is just coming to make fun of you. He is just coming to make fun of you. He wants to be good to you. And I think a friend will not want to be good. If a friend becomes bad, then he will not care. He will not want to be good, he will want your good. 
He will want. A friend never comes in your good books. He will scold you, he will threaten you, he will support you where you are not even looking at him. A friend is that. Friends, nowadays friends start in parties and end in parties. And this is not friendship, this is a meaning, this is a deal. Dosti toh wo hai na jise dil khol ke gali bhi de den toh pata hai ki bora nahi maanega. Bilkul. Hai toh apna hi yaar. Exactly. Ladko ki dosti aisey hoti hai. Hum ladkiyon ki dosti bahut matlab ki hoti hai. Hum unge dress dekke jal jayenge. Ladkiyan aisey hoti hai. Ladkiyan itni itni choti choti cheezo ko dil pe lagaati hai. Ki agar kisi ladki ne usko ye bhi kya de na ki aaz tere face ka pimple achcha nahi laga hai. 
Tere bala chhinle. Usse dosti khatam ho jayenge. This is not friendship. This friendship is not so important that you meet them daily, talk to them daily, talk to them for hours. No. If you are meeting them after years, then that friendship should remain the same. You should smile when you meet them. And if you are not in front of them, then you should smile when you hear their name. Friendship is that. So you think who is your friend. Not everyone is a friend. Not everyone is good to you. This world is not so good. And then once you make a friend, then fulfill your friendship in every condition. Exactly. Then for that, even if you have to wake up at midnight, then do it. 
Exactly. Wajid Sheikh had a line that, Don't mix with everyone with so much simplicity. This era is different. These people are different. Wow. So this world is not what you see. Yes. If you are looking for loyalty in this era, in this world, then you are very naive. Because you are looking for medicine in a bottle of poison. Wow. Wow. And somewhere it is right. Somewhere it is right. Because in today's time, it is very difficult to find a true friend. It is very difficult. This world is sitting to eat you. This world is sitting to show you down. Hmm. Aur aap usi duniya ki parwaa karte ho ki wo log mere baare mein kya sochenge. Aap galat ho. Kyunki aapko umide kisi aur se lagaane hi nahi thi. 
Aapko khush kisi ko nahi karna. Aapko necha kisi ko nahi dikhana. Aapko khud ko upar lana hai. Aapko khud ko badaa banana hai. Aur ab iss se pehle ki hum itne saare humare meaningful discussion ko yaar aap karen. We talked about most of the relationships, marriage, relationships, friendship. So what will you say before going for relationships? Learn to handle relationships because to spoil them, one mistake is enough. To spoil that relationship, you need an excuse. And that excuse can be anything. So keep yourself strong. Do as much as you can to handle that relationship. But where you feel that it is about your own self-respect, your existence, then bow down to that relationship until you feel pain in your waist. Absolutely. That relationship will be formed. 
The one who will have to live with you, he will live. He will live forever, without any hopes, without any desires, without any desires. But the one with whom you feel that he does not want to live with you, the one who does not want to live with you at all, Waqt pitana chahta ya, jo aapke zindagi me rehne ke liye bana nahi hai, wo bina kisi wajah ke bhi chala jaayega. To jisne sach me rishta nibhana hoga, wo har haal me nibhaayega. Aur jisne toorna hai uske liye, toh fir ek bahana bhi kaafi hai. <PRESIDIO_ANONYMIZED_PERSON> jane wale ko jo kabhi aaye hi nahi the. <PRESIDIO_ANONYMIZED_PERSON> us ehsaas ko jo uske sene me lagkar umde the. Jaane dena har us wade ko jo uski aankhe mein aankhe daal kar jiye the. 
Jaane dena har us jasbaat ko jo uske kaandhe par sar jhuka kar jiye the. Jaane dena. Kyuki shayad yahi sahi bhi ho aur vakt ki zarurat bhi. Shayad saath yahi takka ho, sada ka nahi. Shayad wo bas chahat ho, pyaar nahi. Shayad shayad ke khel mein tum usko jaane dena. Yadon ko dafna kar saari. So thank you so much, lovely. You came on our show. We talked so meaningfully. And I really hope that our audience now understands what the value of relationships is. How to keep them safe. How precious they are. And how to give as much importance to every relationship of your life. And keep as much in mind. Thank you so much, lovely. Thank you so much for having me. It was very nice talking to you. 
Same here. And... Thank you so much, guys. Thank you. "