summarize 

# tactiq.io free youtube transcript
# Top 7 Mixed Signals Women Give Men
# https://www.youtube.com/watch/4iyNF2HpwWg

00:00:01.199 what's up vloggers how are you doing
00:00:02.800 today today i am making a video about
00:00:04.960 the top seven missed signals that women
00:00:08.400 give to men and that you guys need to be
00:00:11.200 aware of a myth signal to me is it's
00:00:14.559 communication or an excuse to keep you
00:00:17.680 at arm length so pretty much it's meant
00:00:20.400 to to play with your mind those are some
00:00:22.480 man games that they're playing because
00:00:24.240 they don't want you to know exactly
00:00:26.320 where you need to stand they want you to
00:00:28.640 still want them but they don't want to
00:00:30.480 go to the relationship yet they're just
00:00:32.880 trying to confuse you
00:00:34.800 and those mixing up to me are pretty
00:00:36.719 negative and that you should run if you
00:00:38.800 see these you should run that's
00:00:41.440 what i would recommend but some of you
00:00:43.040 still want to go and double and try a
00:00:45.920 little bit you know so i'm going to tell
00:00:47.600 you what they're using on you and what
00:00:49.520 you should be aware of but before we
00:00:51.440 start i created a patreon at
00:00:55.960 www.patreon.com so if you want to go
00:00:58.000 check me out over there you can it's a
00:00:59.920 little more pictures some extra videos
00:01:02.079 some uh private chat private uh live yes
00:01:06.960 all that [ __ ] so go check it out please
00:01:09.119 and thank you all right so now let's
00:01:10.720 start with them [ __ ]
00:01:12.560 mixed signal because i mean it's
00:01:13.840 everybody it's not just women men use
00:01:15.920 them too i'm telling you but
00:01:18.320 today i'm telling you what [ __ ] are
00:01:19.840 using number one we're going to start
00:01:21.360 with the biggest mixing all that
00:01:23.840 then [ __ ] be using so they are more
00:01:26.080 engaged with you on social media than in
00:01:29.520 real life
00:01:30.799 yes so meaning you post something
00:01:33.680 you post a story you know and they are
00:01:36.560 the first one to watch your story they
00:01:38.079 are the first one to like or to comment
00:01:40.079 on your post but your [ __ ] is not able
00:01:42.880 to respond to your text or call you back
00:01:45.600 that is one of the biggest mixed signal
00:01:47.920 that people are using you know why
00:01:49.600 they're doing that they're showing you
00:01:51.040 yeah i am interested i am into your life
00:01:54.000 it's just like to play with your [ __ ]
00:01:55.520 mind i had this dude he could not text
00:01:58.640 at all or text back quick or nothing
00:02:01.920 but yet he would be on social media
00:02:03.759 liking my [ __ ] then i'm like what the
00:02:06.000 [ __ ] that is just to mess up with your
00:02:08.000 mind and to make you feel like you know
00:02:09.840 they're still interested in you but
00:02:12.879 in a reality they're not interested
00:02:15.040 they're just playing with you to make
00:02:16.560 sure that you know
00:02:18.400 they can reach out when they feel like
00:02:20.160 it or they can text when they feel like
00:02:22.080 it you know because in your mind what
00:02:23.760 you're gonna think you're gonna be like
00:02:25.120 oh she can't respond but she's still
00:02:27.040 checking me out she's sitting at home
00:02:28.560 talking about oh my god she's still
00:02:30.319 watching my story she still wants me
00:02:31.920 she's still into me it's not that she
00:02:34.720 wants to make you feel like she's still
00:02:36.879 into you but she doesn't really like you
00:02:38.800 for real she's just keeping you at arm's
00:02:41.040 length just in case she want to grab you
00:02:43.840 at some point those are games that
00:02:45.440 they're using to make you feel like hey
00:02:47.280 maybe it might still be a chance it
00:02:49.280 might still be something it's nothing
00:02:51.200 i'm telling you those people are just
00:02:52.560 playing with your feelings people are
00:02:54.239 just toxic and they play with people's
00:02:56.800 mind she's just leading you on giving
00:02:59.040 you little bits of crumbs and [ __ ] and
00:03:01.519 you're just like
00:03:03.680 still want no she don't want you and you
00:03:05.280 know me i think if you are confused try
00:03:08.959 to look for clarification if they don't
00:03:10.800 want to give you clarification is
00:03:12.720 because they do not give a [ __ ] about
00:03:14.319 you if you are confused about how
00:03:15.840 somebody feels about you is because they
00:03:18.080 do not give a [ __ ] about you because why
00:03:20.080 would they leave you in a situation
00:03:22.800 where you're confused
00:03:24.560 if you care about me i'm expressing that
00:03:26.480 i care about you and that i'm uh
00:03:29.040 confused you should try to appease my
00:03:31.280 confusion right if they don't try to do
00:03:33.440 none of that
00:03:35.120 dang then they don't give a [ __ ] about
00:03:36.720 you move on her intention should be
00:03:38.799 clear it's a yes or no it's no maybe
00:03:41.599 number two she's too busy to make plans
00:03:44.000 you know she's gonna hit you with oh my
00:03:46.159 god i had such a great time i can't wait
00:03:48.159 to see you again and every time you try
00:03:50.080 to make plans oh i'm too busy oh work oh
00:03:53.280 i'm out of time or maybe in two weeks
00:03:55.040 like
00:03:55.920 [ __ ]
00:03:56.799 two weeks you don't have no time for
00:03:58.720 like an hour and a half for a little
00:04:00.400 lunch or for a dinner
00:04:02.560 no
00:04:03.360 these people are [ __ ] lying to you
00:04:05.360 everyone has a [ __ ] busy schedule you
00:04:07.200 make time for what you want and
00:04:09.200 obviously she doesn't want you but she
00:04:11.840 doesn't want to tell you she don't want
00:04:13.200 you you know she's probably still
00:04:14.400 dealing with other people you know she
00:04:15.920 can give her time to other people but
00:04:18.079 you you're the last one to get the time
00:04:20.238 or you know she's always checking out
00:04:21.839 her other options first and then maybe
00:04:24.479 if she has nothing to do that night she
00:04:26.080 might hit you randomly hey let's do that
00:04:27.840 and you're like oh my god she hit me and
00:04:29.280 you get excited don't get excited it was
00:04:31.840 just like she had nothing to do i'm
00:04:33.680 sorry if i'm a little harsh on you today
00:04:35.680 but those [ __ ] be playing those games
00:04:37.680 and it's crazy and you guys might fall
00:04:40.400 for them so you know she doesn't like
00:04:42.400 you like that if she cannot prioritize a
00:04:44.639 relationship and i'm not saying you guys
00:04:46.240 are in a relationship but if you guys
00:04:48.240 are heading towards a relationship or
00:04:50.160 that's what you're working on if she
00:04:51.840 cannot prioritize the relationship at
00:04:54.080 the time and like see that okay work is
00:04:56.479 work like people are so into oh i got to
00:04:59.040 work i got to do i know we're all trying
00:05:01.199 to make money we're all trying to get
00:05:02.560 better or whatever
00:05:03.919 but
00:05:04.960 is work the life you need i don't know
00:05:08.080 maybe i'm talking for me i know work is
00:05:10.240 not on my [ __ ] i am busy but if i like
00:05:12.800 you i'm gonna make [ __ ] time because
00:05:15.600 me and you is more important than my job
00:05:18.080 not no not saying i'm not gonna go and
00:05:19.840 make my money but i'm gonna find a way
00:05:21.840 to still make my money and still [ __ ]
00:05:23.440 see you so if you find a [ __ ] that
00:05:25.120 don't have no time
00:05:27.680 she doesn't like you number three she
00:05:30.080 doesn't open up to you but she expects
00:05:32.000 you to
00:05:33.520 yes that is a big one because she's
00:05:36.320 going to tell you all the time how is
00:05:37.680 your day how do you feel today she's
00:05:40.400 going to ask about your family she's
00:05:41.919 going to ask helly [ __ ] about you but
00:05:44.240 when you flip the script and ask her a
00:05:46.400 question about herself it's very vague
00:05:49.280 vague she might just give you like
00:05:50.960 superficial information it's a clear
00:05:53.199 sign that she wants you to be attached
00:05:55.280 to her and feel like oh i can talk to
00:05:57.440 her i can share with her and all of that
00:05:59.199 [ __ ]
00:06:00.000 but for her she's not getting vulnerable
00:06:02.960 with you she's not sharing her
00:06:04.319 experiences she's not sharing her life
00:06:05.919 with you she's still like very distant
00:06:08.400 from you so then she doesn't feel so
00:06:10.240 connected and so like you know into you
00:06:13.360 but yet she wants you to be like so into
00:06:16.319 her women use it a lot when they are not
00:06:18.800 sure of what they want to do with you
00:06:20.960 if uh they're not sure that they're
00:06:22.720 really looking for the relationship
00:06:24.319 they're gonna stay a little bit away
00:06:26.479 because they're like why am i gonna get
00:06:28.080 so connected to him and tell him about
00:06:30.800 my life and my insecurities and all that
00:06:32.720 [ __ ] when i don't even know if i want to
00:06:34.560 be with him it's going to be pointless
00:06:36.319 why open up to him when i don't know
00:06:38.400 what i want from him so if you find your
00:06:40.160 [ __ ] not trying to be vulnerable with
00:06:41.840 you
00:06:44.080 she don't want you number four you
00:06:46.479 haven't had the conversation about what
00:06:49.039 are we
00:06:50.400 yes women are known for like wanting the
00:06:53.680 relationship because women want a
00:06:55.680 [ __ ] relationship i don't care what
00:06:57.120 women say women want a [ __ ]
00:06:59.440 relationship so if you find yourself
00:07:01.120 dating her for like i don't know a month
00:07:03.039 two months and she's still not hitting
00:07:05.120 you with the what are we because you
00:07:06.639 guys haven't solidified like what you
00:07:08.800 guys are
00:07:10.080 it's weird that's a big mess you know
00:07:12.880 because pretty much she she's not sure
00:07:14.639 of what she want to do with you women
00:07:16.880 are gonna want that [ __ ] relationship
00:07:18.880 so if after two months you haven't said
00:07:21.840 to her hey
00:07:23.280 i think we should be together do you
00:07:25.039 want to be my girlfriend i don't know
00:07:26.240 how you guys be doing it but if she
00:07:28.319 doesn't hit you with what are we
00:07:31.520 she don't really [ __ ] with you like that
00:07:33.199 most women want a relationship and
00:07:35.360 exclusivity so if she don't hit you with
00:07:38.319 that sentence that means she don't care
00:07:40.160 if you go and [ __ ] [ __ ] like she just
00:07:43.039 you know it's cool we're just hanging
00:07:44.879 out having a good time but i don't
00:07:46.160 really care women are the quickest to
00:07:48.240 bring that convo so if she doesn't bring
00:07:50.400 it after a long time she probably maybe
00:07:53.280 had it with somebody else or maybe she's
00:07:55.759 just dating around and you know
00:07:58.479 nothing serious is gonna come out of
00:08:00.080 this also if she hits you with the
00:08:02.400 i don't like labels i'm not into label
00:08:05.120 that's a [ __ ] lie she's just not into
00:08:07.680 you number five she doesn't show
00:08:09.919 affection in public i understand okay
00:08:12.639 maybe i'm french so we do [ __ ] in public
00:08:14.639 or whatever but
00:08:15.840 okay she can't hold your hand she can
00:08:17.759 put her hand on your back or like you
00:08:20.160 know something just a little
00:08:21.840 affectionate if she is reluctant to do
00:08:24.960 any of that one she's probably thinking
00:08:27.520 like hey who is looking at me i don't
00:08:29.360 know my other dudes might see me you
00:08:31.199 know we need to look like we're just
00:08:32.799 friends or two
00:08:34.640 she's not that into you that's why she
00:08:36.559 doesn't want people to know about you
00:08:39.839 maybe indoors she's very affectionate
00:08:42.320 you guys be [ __ ] kissing all that
00:08:44.080 [ __ ] but when you go outside it's like
00:08:46.880 don't hold my hand i understand some
00:08:48.560 people are not like that nothing too out
00:08:51.040 there they don't want people to you know
00:08:53.040 know their business like that or
00:08:54.320 whatever but if you really like somebody
00:08:56.480 usually you cannot help yourself i was
00:08:58.800 going out with this dude and we were
00:09:00.320 like yeah we're going to keep it a
00:09:01.519 secret nobody is going to know because
00:09:03.519 we had too many like mutual friend and
00:09:05.440 we didn't people in our business or
00:09:06.959 whatever but when we would see each
00:09:08.880 other outside and it was other people
00:09:12.000 we were like looking at each other i
00:09:13.680 know people realized that it was
00:09:15.440 something going on with me and him but
00:09:17.360 we heard the hug was a little different
00:09:19.360 he would come to me during the party
00:09:21.120 touch me like it's just you can't keep
00:09:23.440 your hands off of somebody that you
00:09:24.959 really like so if she's able to do all
00:09:27.600 of that there is a problem it's a big
00:09:29.839 sign that she doesn't want anybody to
00:09:31.839 know about you and what you guys are
00:09:33.760 doing and who you are to each other she
00:09:36.080 want to make sure that nobody knows you
00:09:37.920 might be an item number six she
00:09:40.000 constantly flirt with other people
00:09:42.399 in your face behind your back all that
00:09:44.640 [ __ ] what do you think this is you
00:09:46.720 already know
00:09:48.240 she don't [ __ ] with you like that you
00:09:49.760 know she might go to the restroom and
00:09:51.519 then on her way back somebody stopped
00:09:53.360 her and kind of like started flirting
00:09:54.959 with her and then she's gonna engage and
00:09:57.040 have a full-blown conversation while
00:09:58.640 you're sitting at the table waiting for
00:10:00.320 her to return
00:10:02.000 what the [ __ ] is this a [ __ ] i had some
00:10:04.079 respect for you would be like no i'm
00:10:05.519 sorry or talk say hello very quick no
00:10:08.079 i'm sorry i'm with somebody and go to
00:10:10.399 you if you catch the [ __ ] having a
00:10:12.000 full-blown conversation there is a
00:10:13.920 problem one it's super disrespectful
00:10:16.560 second it's a big-ass red flag and third
00:10:20.560 she's just not into you and some women
00:10:22.640 cannot [ __ ] refrain from [ __ ]
00:10:24.480 flirting it's crazy that's a big sign
00:10:26.480 that she's not ready to be exclusive
00:10:28.560 with you because if she really liked you
00:10:31.120 she would be searching the rush to come
00:10:33.040 back to you and talk to you and not stop
00:10:35.920 and flirt with some other random dude
00:10:38.160 and number seven you never get the call
00:10:40.079 or a text on time so what i mean by that
00:10:42.800 is like maybe
00:10:44.160 you're trying to make some plans real
00:10:46.320 quick like last minute or whatever or
00:10:48.320 maybe a day before but you got to make a
00:10:50.399 decision like rather quickly and um
00:10:53.760 you never seem to get the response and
00:10:56.240 you know because of that you might put
00:10:58.000 your day on hold you might just wait on
00:11:00.320 making a decision you know
00:11:02.160 so
00:11:02.959 [ __ ] on their phone 24 [ __ ] seven
00:11:06.480 you want to tell me that when you ask a
00:11:08.320 question when she needs to respond
00:11:09.600 rather quickly she can respond that's a
00:11:12.000 big sign that like you know again she's
00:11:14.160 checking out our other option she's not
00:11:16.480 in a rush to get back to you and um
00:11:19.600 it's bad what she's doing is checking
00:11:21.600 out all the other options that she has
00:11:24.000 before she makes a decision and it might
00:11:26.240 not even be other other people or the
00:11:28.399 guys it might be other people or other
00:11:30.000 guys too but it might just be like am i
00:11:32.320 really uh into hanging out with him
00:11:34.959 tonight or would i prefer my time alone
00:11:38.399 it's like
00:11:39.839 you're just not a priority at this point
00:11:41.839 i'm not saying that the base might not
00:11:43.360 be really busy she might be really busy
00:11:45.600 but it's a sign that you are not
00:11:47.440 interesting enough for her to make the
00:11:49.440 time for you so that's it those were
00:11:51.120 seven mixed signals that women use so
00:11:53.360 what i recommend you to do i told you
00:11:55.120 when you see them [ __ ] run that's
00:11:56.959 what i want you to do but i know you
00:11:58.800 might not because you you want clarity
00:12:01.200 so if you want clarity ask for [ __ ]
00:12:03.480 clarification and ask her yo what's
00:12:06.240 going on why this why that like ask your
00:12:09.040 [ __ ] questions and then if she gives
00:12:11.440 you an answer that seems plausible
00:12:13.920 say okay but then watch her actions
00:12:16.639 because people will talk i had men when
00:12:19.600 i complained because i call it a
00:12:21.279 complaint but it's not even a complaint
00:12:22.800 it's like yo you're acting stupid
00:12:25.440 i'm checking you kind of but in a nice
00:12:27.680 way
00:12:28.800 and then you're gonna turn like a lot of
00:12:30.399 these people will tell you the right
00:12:32.639 thing they're gonna say yes i may make
00:12:34.720 more time i'm gonna do this yes don't
00:12:36.399 worry and then next thing you know
00:12:38.079 you're like okay you're happy with the
00:12:39.519 answer you wait some more and you
00:12:41.120 realize that nothing has changed so at
00:12:43.279 this point with these people do not pay
00:12:45.600 attention to what they say because they
00:12:47.680 talk and they're good they're good at it
00:12:50.240 what you need to pay attention is their
00:12:52.160 actions if the [ __ ] showed you yes i'm
00:12:54.240 gonna make time i'm gonna
00:12:56.240 make plans i might do this and you see
00:12:58.000 like it's still no phone call still no
00:12:59.760 making plans still no time
00:13:02.720 you already know those are the main
00:13:04.720 signal to keep you around just in case
00:13:07.519 one day they want you they're just like
00:13:09.360 the thought of being able to have you if
00:13:11.680 they want you but deep down they don't
00:13:14.240 want you they're just keeping you around
00:13:15.760 because you you're kind of good
00:13:18.160 but it's not exactly what they're
00:13:19.600 looking for so they're waiting for
00:13:21.040 better to come but just in case better
00:13:23.200 don't come they can still have you i'm
00:13:25.200 telling you that's what they're doing
00:13:26.639 and you should get away from these
00:13:27.920 people because these people will never
00:13:29.600 appreciate you to the fullest because
00:13:32.079 they don't think they want you
00:13:34.959 that's what i got for you today guys
00:13:36.560 hopefully you like share comment you can
00:13:38.480 follow me on instagram at many love
00:13:40.079 excellent melee monaco you can also
00:13:42.560 uh what you can do uh subscribe to my
00:13:45.120 patreon at www.patreon.com
00:13:49.199 and that's it
00:13:50.639 damn i talked a lot i'm out of breath i
00:13:53.120 need some [ __ ] water and uh i will
00:13:55.600 talk to you
00:13:56.880 tomorrow
00:13:59.199 i love you guys