LOVING HER 
(an ode to my love..)
Respect her as the miracle she is,brother.not to be held or clung to,but to be reveled in every moment 

be the man she deserves and make love magic instead of expecting it to "just be".And also,accept the moments where you are not in the right mind and heart space to show up like that.

honor your humanity in the moments that life throws its curveballs at you and tries to push you out of alignment.

validate her sensuality with your presence .And feel and celebrate your own sensuality in response to hers .

do not be selfish in your desire. take her by the hand and lead her into your hunger.
Make her feel she is fully yours with a single kiss .

Invite her gently but persuasively into your longing to crush her lovingly under the weight of your body.
Sometimes this takes time,time for her to descend into her womb and melt into the present moment. Give her that time to come back home in her body and to liquify into your desire.
Do not lust after her heart.

Instead,admire it and revere the parts she gives to you.
it will set her free and create limitless safety.

It will provide resolute and adamant integrity,and she will melt into your chest and surrender to your arms with everything she is.
Concede in her smile, eyes body, and fluency. they are only yours if you earn them.
By holding space in which she can dance, by wording out your admiration for her curves, the way she moves, the fluidity of her energy, the sparkle in her eyes,her intelligence, the way she bears her sensuality.

Be present with yourself and never enslave your mission, your life is goals and dreams, to boundaries and make her accept them,not by force, but by heart.
Give her your steadfast "no".
Allow yourself to withdraw when you need it, be pissed when you feel it, and create space when you need room to breathe.
She will love you for your clarity, self-care and self-respect .
Celebrate her past and know that she was ready to choose you only because of this past.
Also give to her warmly into her heart.

Do not use intimacy as an assurance of love and satisfaction.
Be solid and sheltered in your masculine alignment.
She does not control your happiness and is not here to fix any parts of your life.
Dont expect her to be ready every time you want her Work for it.
Show her how much you desire her wholeness, savor her in return. Open her gently with your charisma, your yearning, and your balanced desire.
Accept it when she is not in for it instead of turning into a sulking schoolboy.
And when you feel she has given her consent and surrendered to you give her your uncensored animal. Cry at her, howl at her,crush your body onto hers like waves on the shoreline while staying attuned to her body and energy  translet it to arabic pls 
.
Make her feel as if the only escape route is total surrender.
And look her in the eyes, thats the lifeline that will keep her feeling safe.


Do not suppress he dreams and desires because you are scared of losing her to them become a part of it.
Let her fly freely. Give her freedom and choice because by following her heart, she is most aligned.
Love her fully-with intent, passion, selflessness, and with all of you . And create an energetic space in which she can love you fully