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life smart people practice exclusivity
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exclusivity is a
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practice you're not born exclusive
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you're not boring you know with the
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comprehension of vetting and qualifying
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and gatekeeping and being careful with
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who you allow in your life we're not
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innately born with that
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ability it's something that is learned
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and when I looked at all the past
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friendships in my life that didn't
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work the business Partnerships that
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didn't work the associations that didn't
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work I came to a
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realization I realized that a lot of the
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reasons why things didn't work out for
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me is because I
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was freely connecting myself to people
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without qualifying them
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first I wasn't exclusive I was open and
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the problem is because I'm you know I
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come from a Christian
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household the problem with that when you
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come from a Christian household is we're
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taught you know be the light of the
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world be the salt of the world and and
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while that's all great and I completely
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understand you
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know what's meant from those things but
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we weren't TP
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boundaries we weren't taught that she
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can't be your friends you know like he
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can't be your friends like this person
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the one thing I've learned about people
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which is why I started practicing
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exclusivity is anytime someone is below
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you in any
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way their main agenda will be to break
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you down anytime I'm in an environment
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where someone's breaking me down I know
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I'm around people who are lower than
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me because the right people I've noticed
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that the right people who are either on
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my level or above and whatever category
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that may be in they're always uplifting
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me they're never tearing me down they're
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never bullying they're never publicly
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humiliating anytime I'm in an
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environment where someone makes a
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decision to make me a Target to tear
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down I'm around people who are lower
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than
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me that's why I had to stop dealing with
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my
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family when you're around people who are
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not at your level whether it's your
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mentality your views your spirituality
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you know your your your goals for life
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they will they will not they will stop
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at nothing to bring you down you know
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people who are where you are are not
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going to go out of their way to bring
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you
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down if you're dating a guy who's
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bringing you down he's lower than you in
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some way if you're dating a woman who's
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bringing you down she is lower than you
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in some
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way if you're in a religious organ
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organization a church group they're
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bringing you down they're bullying you
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they're singling you out those people
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are lower than
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you because if they weren't they would
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see your
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value and they would affirm your
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value and they would push
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you so that you can get even further in
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who you are as an individual they would
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affirm
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you you got to be very cautious when you
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are connecting yourself and dealing with
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people who are not where you are and
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you're not practicing the art of
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exclusivity exclusivity comes with so
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many benefits and I'm going to go over
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those benefits right
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now connecting yourself to everyone
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lowers your value and we can see this
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concept in regards to luxury cars and
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luxury Brands
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Chanel Louis Vuitton YSL Gucci Maserati
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Lamborghini Rolls-Royce those are not
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cars that are easily attainable by the
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general public and those are not luxury
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pieces that are attainable by the
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general public
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because when you are affiliated with so
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many people at such high volume your
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value is low your influence is low but
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when you are
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exclusive expensive you know you're not
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everywhere with everyone you're very
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selective that helps keep your value
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High your exclusivity High and also the
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nonsense that happens in life will
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rarely make it to your
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doorstep because you've put yourself in
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a way you've set yourself in a way
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you're living your life in a way where
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that kind of stuff can't really get to
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you because of the way that you carry
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yourself and your expectations and the
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way that you're exclusive those things
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don't make it far enough to touch
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you life is easier when accessing you is
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difficult you skip a lot of nonsense a
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lot of the nonsense I dealt with in the
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past was because I gave people the
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opportunity to just freely access me
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when I think back to like the
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friendships that were full of like envy
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and jealousy and and and and and
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rudeness and
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nastiness when I think back to the
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family members who were toxic and
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abusive and jealous bullying when I
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think back I'm like it's because these
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people had access to me that's the
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problem they were able to access my life
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that's the problem but once my access
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was removed I don't really deal with
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those like low quality experiences I
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don't really deal with bullying I don't
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really deal with toxic family or jealous
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friends I I don't even remember the last
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time I've dealt with a friend where it
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turned to a to a jealousy situation
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maybe in 2020
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a year before my rebirth I don't really
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have those type of experiences which is
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why when I hear people talk to me about
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those kind of
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things I'm
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like
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um it's kind of hard for me to relate
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because I've I practice
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exclusivity it's a practice I practice
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exclusivity so I
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don't give my time or attention or
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convers ation or relationship to those
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who don't value me I don't connect
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myself with people who are not similar
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to me in mindsets so I don't remember
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the last time I've had a situation with
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a friend that was wild I don't even
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remember cuz I don't it never develops
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into that because I fet people and I
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carry myself in an exclusive
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way you skip nonsense when you're
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exclusive you skip nonsense when you
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don't connect yourself with everyone and
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a lot of people say oh well I attract
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bad people I I attract a narcissist oh
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because I'm an empath I attract
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narcissist not necessarily you just
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don't value
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yourself and because you don't value
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yourself you have to tolerate bad
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treatment if you valued yourself those
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people wouldn't be able to treat you
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like that because they wouldn't be in
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your life you don't see yourself as
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valuable you don't see yourself as a
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prize if someone wants like if I want to
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really realize if someone values
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themselves or sees himself as a prize
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let me just pay attention to your
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relationships that will tell me if you
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value yourself because if you keep
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people around you who don't like you who
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don't treat you well who don't give you
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the love and effort that you give then I
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know you don't value
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yourself and a big part of practicing
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exclusivity is also who you're connected
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to who are you connected to connected
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to you also have to pay attention to the
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person that you're connected to she was
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connected to I'll give you guys a story
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when I was in high
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school I graduated when I was 17 and I
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thought I was going to be a nurse
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practitioner so I got this amazing
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internship for a Dermatology office CU I
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wanted to do nursing but in
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dermatology so I got this internship and
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I was
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so I got this internship and I was so
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excited about
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it and my friend or so I thought she was
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my my friend she wasn't my friend she
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was just
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another low life gutter
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rat not a friend just another gutter
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rat how many of us have had people in
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our lives that we thought so we thought
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they were our friends but they proved
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that they were
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rodents so I thought that this person
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was my friend
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and I told her about my internship like
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the day before the internship we were on
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the phone that night I'm like oh my God
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I have my internship tomorrow I'm so
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excited and she was complaining to me
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about her friends that were like not
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inviting her to things and I told her
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you know what I wouldn't let it bother
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you um you're going to college you're
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going to be happy you're going to meet
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new people like if I were you I would
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genuinely not even let it bother
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me the next day I go to my internship
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and one of the girls there I guess we
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had mutual friends from high school she
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pulled me to the side and she said hey
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can I show you something I said yeah of
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course she showed me a picture of me
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that she saw on
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Snapchat that one of my friends her
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other friends posted that photo of me
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and they put a very big red X on my
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face on Snapchat and on the commentary
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they said watch your back we're going to
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find
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you I've been through so much
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in my life in regards to jealous
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women the damage that they did to me in
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my past was that's that's the reason why
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I'm so
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strict
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um that's the reason why I'm so strict
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because I realize that jealousy is
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real Envy is real hate is real
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um a lot of people who are jealous of
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you they're very
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violent their whole goal is to ruin you
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and make you cry I've realized in life
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that people really want to see you
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cry people who are jealous of you they
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want to see you cry they want to see you
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down it makes them so happy they get a
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satisfaction out of it so and I love
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when I share little Snippets of these
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stories because at least this will help
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you guys understand why I'm the way I am
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and why I'm so picky and strict
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especially when it comes to women cuz I
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know the type of things that they will
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do so she shows me the
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photo I'm like okay thanks for telling
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me I go in the bathroom I shut the door
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and I start throwing
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up because the girls the two girls said
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that they were going to come to the
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office and wait for me after 5:00 in the
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parking
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lot and I wasn't throwing up because I
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was scared I was throwing up because
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when I had anxiety
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because this is an internship that I
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worked really hard to get and I have
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to have that put on the line for these
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trash hood rats
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okay and I'm not talking negatively
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about the hood as a place I have a lot
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of family members who came from the hood
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I mean I was raised you know in the
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suburbs which is why I sound the way I
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sound but my whole family comes from
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different demographics I don't have I'm
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not bringing down that demographical
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area I'm just saying like what woman
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would try to show up to someone's job
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and try to cause chaos at a public place
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of work it's
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crazy so I called my mom and my
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dad and I told them about the
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situation
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and my parents told
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me call your friend
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let them
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know that if they
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come to that
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office it's going to be
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us and 15 other people waiting for them
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and the parking lot because the whole
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family's coming if anybody thinks
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they're going to lay a finger on you
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they are strictly mistaken
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and my parents were very clear that I
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was not going to get touched cuz they
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would have to fight off 20 people in
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order for that to happen everyone's
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coming we're going to rent a
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van everybody's coming cuz we're not
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going to let that
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fly and I come from the type of
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environment where I was raised in the
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suburbs I was raised middle class but at
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the same time my family doesn't play
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that nonsense when it comes to people
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and their threats and their craziness we
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we that we don't let that
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fly so I told them that and they ended
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up not
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coming and it was such an a a a
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problematic situation and when I spoke
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to my grandmother I talk about her a lot
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on here I always tell you guys how much
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she help me in life my grandmother she
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told me she said this is the problem now
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you're going to learn in life why you
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have to be picky with
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people she said this is your lesson to
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stop letting everyone in you cannot be
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everyone's
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friend and she told me she said
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Mel you're
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smart you're
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determined you're
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beautiful you're motivated you won't be
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able to really have much friends in your
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life I want you to make peace with that
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now and it's not until now that I'm
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older I understand what my grandmother
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was trying to like I get it now now I
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get it there are certain qualities that
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you have as a woman where women
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automatically feel insecure around you
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so now that I'm older it's like a lot of
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people tell me well how do I make
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friends I'm the worst person to ask how
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to make friends cuz I don't try to make
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friends I let connections form naturally
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I don't go looking for them and I'm also
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very picky with people because I
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practice exclusivity anyway so I know
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that I'm not going to be friends with
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everyone
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so they didn't come my my grandmother
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told me that the girl wasn't my friend
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because she I don't know what lies she
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told them to make them want to come
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against me I don't know so I my grandma
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made sure that I cut her off too you
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know when you're 17 you have naive like
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I was so naive I didn't know but like
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now that I'm older I'm like yeah when
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you're exclusive you're not going to be
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in situations where people put you in
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the hot seat because you're not really
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connected to people and the people that
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you are connected to are so high in
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value that there's no drama I always
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tell people anybody that I become new
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friends with any man romantic partner if
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you bring me
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drama that
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is the dissolving of our relationship
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don't bring me
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drama family friend lover the minute
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you're bringing me drama side chicks or
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dming me the minute it starts to turn
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into a circus I'm out the door because I
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don't want to deal with that in my life
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I'm so picky and particular with people
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because I want peace in my life I don't
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want no gutter
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rat nonsense going on in my life
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daily so when you practice exclusivity
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you skip
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that it's the same thing with your
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dating like there are some men who will
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like be talking to themselves in your DM
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and they're going to go around telling
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people that you're crazy about them and
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you have the DMS of them talking to
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themselves but they're going to tell the
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world that oh she wants me when you
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practice the art of exclusivity you
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don't respond to men's advances on DMS
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you open it you either read it or you
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don't open it at all because why do I
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have to connect to your advances like
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why do I have to connect to you why do I
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have to respond to you being exclusive
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is also understanding that you don't
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have to respond to people you can just
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read their message or not read it and
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move on like sometimes I get emails from
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subscribers I mean crazy emails that say
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the most wildest unhinged things and
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sometimes I'll think about responding
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and I start typing and I backspace it
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and I'm like I'm exclusive like why do I
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even have to give you a response back
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like I don't even have to do that
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like you know moving on so when you when
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you start pract and remember like I said
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exclusivity is a practice when you start
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practicing exclusivity you guys are
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going to stop texting people back you're
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going to stop responding when people say
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something negative you're going to stop
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reacting when someone's being hateful
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like you're just going to completely
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move on and the piece that exclusivity
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comes with and this is part one I'm
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going to do a part two on the steps to
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actually practice it Okay like new
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things that you have to do with your
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personality characteristics to start
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this practice exclusivity is a practice
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meaning you have to do it every single
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day in order for it to work for you and
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provide you with the life that you
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desire and all smart people practice
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exclusivity because it makes your life
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better when you're not connected to any
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old body
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