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silke was a contestant on season 2 of
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Netflix's Korean dating show singles
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Inferno and much like Gia from season 1
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whom I've already done a few videos on
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silky was equally popular amongst the
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men from her respective season with the
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majority of them choosing her in the end
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and while steers magnetic appeal feels
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sultry or siren-like circus energy is
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noticeably different with a more pure
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and innocent Essence which makes her
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come across as the ultimate girl next
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door so in this video we are going to
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discuss sulcus Behavior and the mindset
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which makes up this extremely magnetic
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girl next door like Essence and the
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first thing is that silky embodies the
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core feminine mindsets with absolute
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Mastery there are many ways to exude
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femininity a big one which is dressing
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and looking the part which all of the
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girls on the show typically have down to
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a t however the depths of feminine
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energy extend far beyond visual
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perception with arguably the most
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essential traits being being able to let
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go of control as well as staying in your
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receiving energy especially in
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correlation with men which silky
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persistently does to literal Perfection
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to illustrate during the show both sulky
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and Nadine take an interest in dangwu
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and while Nadine handles this by being
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honest upfront and actionable silky text
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the opposite approach and just leans
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back she simply enjoys talking to
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dungwoo and waits for a potential
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opportunity to arise an opportunity that
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she knows inevitably comes because
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they'll also have to choose someone to
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go to paradise with but silky doesn't
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try to control the outcome instead she
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receives the chains to go out with him
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when it naturally comes her way the
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scenario with dongwoo is one example but
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Suki approaches other situations in a
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similar manner including in her later in
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interactions with Yin Yong even though
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the two were deeply attracted to one
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another nothing ever came of it because
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neither of them gave in to taking on the
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masculine energy of their Dynamic but
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having feminine or receiving energy
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means knowing that what is yours may
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come to you and if it's to be obtained
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with force or chasing then it's not for
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you in the case of Suki and Yin Yong she
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waited for him to step into the young of
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the dynamic but that day never came and
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sulky never gave in to take over for him
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in situations such as the one with yin
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yang which is an example of a man in his
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feminine energy hoping that you will
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chase him so many women will resolve to
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do just that they'll quickly give in to
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the urge to take control of the
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situation because the man in question is
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taking too long to their liking to make
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a move they give in and by that step
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into the young of the dynamic but if you
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want to be the one who doesn't Chase but
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attracts and and remain in your feminine
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energy with men you have to stick by
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that also when it's difficult masculine
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energy takes on the opposite form of
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leaning back and instead goes to work
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for what it wants and someone has to
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assume that energy between the two but
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silky never does which is very feminine
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you may wonder if silky wouldn't have
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been better off just giving in and being
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the one to make things happen between
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the two but it's crucial to remember
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that that would in all likelihood mean
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getting stuck in this Dynamic with him
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forever and if you want the feminine
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energy role you can't do that it's
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crucial to note though that even though
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feminine energy is receptive being
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receptive doesn't mean being passive
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being receptive means you still make an
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effort to be friendly and most
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importantly inviting just because you
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are the receptive party of an exchange
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that doesn't mean you have to be aloof
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or uninvolved or keep your interest in
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someone a secret being passive and being
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receptive are two very different things
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and the next thing is that silky comes
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across as very pure and this pure
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Essence contributes majorly to that girl
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next door vibe in the west we often
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correlate words such as innocent and
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pure pertaining to an adult with
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something sexual in nature and then let
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us offend by it which I think is quite
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narrow-minded because being quote
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unquote pure can be attributed to many
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aspects such as being pure-hearted or
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having pure intents and silke just seems
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good natured generally throughout the
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show we see her being polite friendly
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warm and non-combative as times passes
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and we grow older the negative things we
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see and experience tend to harden us but
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most detrimental is it when the hurt we
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collect turns us bitter and we then
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project that outwards through our
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reactions and assumptions if left
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unchecked this better bitterness leads
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to more negative experiences continuing
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and strengthening this cycle keeping us
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bitter also in correlation with Romans
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and Men you occasionally see examples of
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this in Western dating shows where women
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allow themselves to be victimized and
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then respond with big negative reactions
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when they believe they are treated
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unfairly or when the man they're
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interested in fails to meet their
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expectations it's usually better to
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observe and judge and let a man unfold
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in front of you and then stay or walk
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away accordingly and by that protect
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your heart instead of indulging yourself
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in getting caught up in his negative
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behaviors and turning negative yourself
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I have an entire video about goddess
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energy and some of the main things to
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look out for are letting go of negative
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thought patterns and using strong
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discernment to judge for yourself and
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walk away when you are met with
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disrespect of course it is beneficial to
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State your boundaries but stay your
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boundaries and getting angry and lashing
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out aren't the same thing my viewpoint
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is that being pure means staying largely
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unaffected by the hurt you go through to
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the point of not letting it pollute your
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heart with bitterness a trait which is
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anything but easy to cultivate but is
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essential for this pure girl next door
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like Essence that silky has as an adult
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bitterness is naturally developed in an
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attempt to protect ourselves from future
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hurt but it's not that helpful to us or
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Pleasant to deal with for that matter
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however we do of course have to look out
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for ourselves somehow and in my opinion
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soga does this incredibly well by quiet
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discernment and judging the next thing
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that makes silky attractive is her
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willingness to walk away Sergei is
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initially interested in dangwu but after
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getting to know him better during their
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trip to Paradise she decides he's not a
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good match for her and walks away from
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their early romantic connection and the
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willingness to walk away from something
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or someone has the bases in an abundance
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mindset and an abundance mindset is
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attractive for a perspective when
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someone with a lack mindset gets
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involved with someone they like but
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later realizes that that person might
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not be the best match for them instead
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of them walking away they start creating
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a false image of that person in their
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head they then try to twist reality and
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change the person into someone who would
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be a good match for them all while
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continuing to date them and secretly
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wishing they were completely different
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that's the lack mentality at work a
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person with an abundance mindset faced
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with the same dilemma would simply
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accept reality and choose to move on
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understanding that there are other
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opportunities for Meaningful connections
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awaiting them and although the act of
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walking away always marks the very end
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of a connection with someone it is
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essential to keep in mind that that
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people can always sense your energy so
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even if you're not currently walking out
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this very moment others can intuitively
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sense whether you possess the Readiness
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to do so or not being willing to walk
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away is attractive because it reflects
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several appealing qualities we look for
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in people such as a self-respect
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self-worth high standards and an
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abundance mindset but most importantly
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it is a healthy approach that helps
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protect you from disrespect and from
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ending up with the wrong person which
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again protects you from reasons to
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become bitter so that goes full circle