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I need to brainstorm my future and how i am going to continue with my life. I need someone to help me out and reverse engineer Everything with me. I am faced with lots of uncertainty rn.

I understand you're facing a lot of uncertainty and want to brainstorm about your future. This kind of life planning can definitely feel overwhelming, but breaking it down systematically can help. Let's approach this step-by-step:

Current situation assessment:
What's your current life situation (education, career, relationships, etc.)?
What are the main sources of uncertainty you're experiencing?
Goals and aspirations:
What are your long-term goals (5-10 years)?
What are your short-term goals (1-2 years)?
Are there any dreams or aspirations you haven't pursued yet?
Strengths and weaknesses:
What are your key skills and strengths?
What areas do you feel you need to improve?
Resources and constraints:
What resources (financial, educational, network) do you have available?
What are the main constraints or challenges you're facing?
Options exploration:
What potential paths or options are you considering?
Are there any alternatives you haven't thought about yet?
Action planning:
What immediate steps can you take towards your goals?
How can you address the uncertainties you're facing?
Would you like to start with any of these areas? We can dive deeper into each one to help clarify your thoughts and develop a plan.

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M
Yes let‘s start. I‘m gonna follow your lead. You‘re my mentor now. Ask me questions like one

I appreciate your trust in me as a mentor figure. Let's begin by exploring your current situation, as that will provide a foundation for our discussion. I'll ask you a series of questions, and feel free to share as much or as little as you're comfortable with.

What's your current age range (e.g., early 20s, mid-30s, etc.)?
Are you currently employed, studying, or in a different situation?
What's your highest level of education completed so far?
How would you describe your current living situation?
On a scale of 1-10, how satisfied are you with your current life circumstances?
What are the top three areas of your life where you're experiencing the most uncertainty right now?
Can you describe a recent decision or event that has significantly impacted your current situation?
Take your time to answer these questions. Your responses will help us identify key areas to focus on as we brainstorm and plan for your future.

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M
I just turned 24
i am done studying Business Economics in Linz and it was‘nt really for me. I started doing sports and health in salzburg (where i live now), mainly so that i can just stay and live in my cheap students dormitory.
bachelors or science in business economic
no money, living in leftovers, partens can finance my students dorm (500/month) but no more and not for much longer.
2,5/10

my online fitness coaching business thats not working out - i am doing this since 1 year and got a business coach (hes good) with still no results and no money 2) general financial situation 3) romantic relationship and it‘s future: I want to move in with my girlfriend in april to munich, and we know its very difficult to make that work out since rooms are expensive and even more so very hard to get if you want to plan moving. You need to move in asap if you got something since demand is incredibly high. We are long distance since 2 years and she is very busy - that weigjs a lot on the relationship and the problems tend to increase slowly which us tough. Also, my few close friends live in austria and if it wasn‘t for her studies and masters programme in physics - i would move to vienna.
lots of work put into the business that does not get rewarded. Fundamental reality is: work is pain. which leads to me being rather unproductive which leads to depression-like symptoms.
Thank you for sharing this detailed information about your situation. I can see why you're feeling uncertain and why your satisfaction is low. Let's break this down and start to explore some potential paths forward.

Career and Business: It seems your online fitness coaching business isn't progressing as hoped.
What specific challenges are you facing with the business?
Have you considered pivoting your business model or exploring other ways to use your fitness knowledge?
Given your background in Business Economics, are there other career paths you've considered that might align better with your interests and skills?
Financial Situation: Your financial stress is clearly a significant factor.
Have you created a detailed budget to understand your current expenses and potential savings?
Are there any part-time job opportunities in Salzburg that could supplement your income while you work on your business?
Have you explored any grants or support programs for young entrepreneurs in Austria?
Relationship and Living Situation: The planned move to Munich with your girlfriend seems to be a major decision point.
How committed are both of you to making this move work?
Have you discussed alternative options, such as her potentially moving to Vienna after her studies?
What are your thoughts on maintaining a long-distance relationship for a bit longer while you stabilize your career and finances?
Personal Well-being: Your comment about work being pain and experiencing depression-like symptoms is concerning.
Are you taking any steps to address your mental health?
How are you balancing your work efforts with self-care and stress management?
What activities or pursuits outside of work bring you joy or a sense of fulfillment?
Future Vision: Let's think broader about your goals.
Where do you see yourself ideally in 5 years, both professionally and personally?
What skills or experiences do you think you need to acquire to get there?
How does your current path align with or differ from this vision?
Take some time to reflect on these questions. Your answers will help us identify potential strategies and next steps to improve your situation and work towards a more satisfying future.

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It's hard to get leads. I do cold outreach and content. But it just has not payed dividents: The few leads I get are not fitting my target group or are uninterested. I believe my sales skills are not up there and i have been practicing a lot. Yes but its hard to change the business model with limited data. Other ways to use my knowledge: personal training or specific bodybuildibg coaching. Could do both but the earning potential per time invested is not where i want it to be. Yes, regular masters programme and then normal career/job. My biggest interest rn is muscle building, business and AI.

No i dont have a detailed budget. I need around 300-400 a month to live. I save almost everywhere i can by default. Yes but i have been having a rly hard time to motivate myself and apply for jobs. I believe i suffer from some form of adhd but maybe i am also being avoidant. No support programs explored as well tbh.

I think i am 80% committed if you could quantify that. Because there are some relationships issues and some uncertainty on my part (and hers maybe as well) in how much we really care about each other and how much we are good fit especially. We have discussed moving to vienna but the area she wants to really continue her career in she cannot sudy in vienna. She would find womething else but she is REALLY in favor of munich. It would be partly a relieve and partly a burden to wait with moving in together. I fear our relationship could suffer more and more if we stay Long distance.

Well, I work out 5x a week, I eat regularly healthy and sleep 8hrs a night. I maintain (mainly online) contact with my friends and i see my gf every 2 weeks on avg for like 2 days on avg. But not much more mental health stuff than that. Self care and stress menagament? I guess tuning out to some youtube videos/podcasts helps a lot. and talking on the phone. The gym fulfills me. Optimizing my physique and getting the most of my body muscular wise as a natural is an attractive pursuit for me. And helping people with that really makes me happy - I feel competent at that. Feeling competent at something is a really valuable feeling for me.

Professionally, ideally: 10k+ stable brutto income a month doing work that fulfills me and leaves some room for freetime. i want the ability to work and focus for 60hrs a week and being productive like that. Longer term i want to be a high achiever and provide my family with a lifestyle and opportunities quite above the norm. I want to drive a really nice car and have a high quality of life. I am willing to work for that - as long as i find fulfillment.
Personally, I want to have a stable relationship, in 5yrs maybe think about marriage. I want friends, a few really close ones and quite a solid network of people i know and people that respect me.
For that i need to become more conscientious mainly. Industriousness is my main personality flaw i would say. I am already very open, extraverted, quite agreeable and low in neuroticism. On the micro level i need to be self employed or working in a high paying job - possibly in swizerland. My current path aligns in the sense that you can earn that much as an online coach- but right now it seems like an immense challenge and huge mountain to climb and i also fear that in the future ai and a changing market will undermine the earning capacity of that field."