Give me original and cohesive detailed commentary on this using a critical straitforward informal tone and don't mention me: Parasocial Haters – Why don't we address them?

"Parasociality" and fan service within the Kpop sphere are unavoidable things, they go hand in hand, and in many cases are the building blocks for many fandoms. Especially those around boy groups. It's more of a thing for newer fans or younger audiences who discover an idol and go through this honeymoon phase of infatuation around the celebrity. NO JUDGING AT ALL! I've had the exact same experience with idols like Jeno from NCT, Bangchan from SKZ and Yoongi from BTS when I first discovered them in 2014. :-) It's a canon event for most of us, that we swiftly move on from and learn our lesson. Honestly, I don't think it is such a terrible thing, as long as one doesn't cross sasaeng territory... who am I to judge?

There's one phenomena that I don't see enough discussion around, and I feel like we are misplacing our concern between that and a few young fans obsessing over boy band members. That is this new type of "hating" on Kpop idols that is increasingly concerning to me, and deeply reminds me of the hate train many 2000s pop stars in the US went through with gossipy tabloids and paparazzi. Only, the difference is that fans are now capable of making viral posts, boosting rumours and independently lead hate trains about idols/groups on social media, rather than relying on journalists and magazines. This new freedom and power is SO dangerous, because it can genuinely manifest in these idols' real lives and affect them. To address the title, a lot of these hate trains depend on speculation and assumptions made if these idols' personalities and private lives, almost like the parasocial fans would, but in a negative sense. People acting like they personally know and understand the motivations of these idols they are talking about online and "critiquing". Ever notice how most hateful posts about idols always sound something like, Wonyoung being too full of herself who personally wishes to outshine her members or when I saw someone write a serious paragraph the length of the fckin bible about Bangchan being a deeply lonely and depressed guy who uses his fans on purpose. I mean, what are we doing right now? What planet am I on, when Kpop creators on Youtube make gossip video essays about idols acting like they PERSONALLY know them.

I can't sit here, and act like a few young girls calling a boy group member their boyfriend is worse than netizens making platforms and viral posts relying on Perez Hilton style speculations about idols they know nothing about. In most cases, the only sin many idols commit is being lied or speculated about online. I can't recall the last time ITZY's Yuna did anything problematic, but I sure do know the personality and attitude the internet and Kpop audience in general made up about her to fuel a cruel hate train against her. So, what's going on? Why do we continue to feed into the absurd personal speculations of Kpop idols, sometimes on reddit too. (As much as I believe that this platform is somewhat more sensible than twitter with Kpop.)

I just refuse to entertain it. And I encourage that we either quit engaging with "criticisms" and "unpopular opinions" that are purely gossip based, or shoot them down, if you're down for a debate.