I wrote this for a personals ad on reddit:
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(also Europe/Online in general but title needed my individual country listed)  
I'd like to value your time, so I'll start with the deal-breakers right away:) Let's see if we both match!

|  | |
|---|---|---|
| **Relationship Orientation** | Single, Monogamous, not ace/aro |
| **Age** | Match or younger |
| **Have/Want kids** | No |
| **Alcohol/smoking/drugs etc** | No |
| **Religious** | No (I'm agnostic) |
| **Chatting** | Willing to voice call often (if you need time that's ok) |

I enjoy being **nurturing** and naturally tend to gravitate towards a mentor-like role when I'm with that someone special who I can pour all my attention, heart and soul into, with them wanting to do the same in return. It's important to me whoever I'm with chooses me for me and what we both want is a **long-term relationship** based on **vulnerability, acceptance and honesty** that lasts. Ideally we'd pull towards and lean on each other for everything rather than run away. Being each others core person, able to rely on ourselves rather than involve others in our relationship matters.

Personality wise I'm analytical with a more calm, grounded, and stable temperament. Definitely not impulsive or a risk taker. Think someone who likes focusing on a single task and being meticulous, immersing themselves in what they're doing, paying attention to all the details etc. My memory is a little unusual due to SDAM (Severely Deficient Autobiographical Memory) in that I don't re-experience my personal past all that much, but can easily recall semantic information like facts, concepts, numbers etc. This means I can be very out of sight, out of mind about things and people. However I'm also **incredibly present**, don't tend to hold grudges and can always see you as you are now which definitely helps make people feel like they can be themselves.

In a relationship, I'd actually prefer someone more clingy. I know maybe other people might feel "but we just talked!", but for me it's more "welcome back!", continuing now where we left off last time. Very much opposites attract for me, I love the idea of complements and being each others second half. Someone who shares my core values but is also vibrant, passionate, emotionally intense and conventionally feminine. If you're someone that tends to experience the world deeply, have an anxious disposition; are dreamy/idealistic, sensitive/anxious/delicate or perhaps have a condition that colours your life like BPD that makes you take relationships seriously... I feel we'd have a magnetic like attraction pretty quickly. I'm sure I'd feel attracted to your differences and it would feel like we balance each other out in a way, if that makes sense.

Well this is getting into the wall of text territory so for hobbies/interests I'll just write a quick list to help anyone shy with starting conversations:

* Psychology/Philosophy/Spirituality
* Tech/Gaming/Documentaries/Reading
* Anime/Cosplay/J-Fashion
* Voice acting/Sound Engineering/Music prod
* Cooking/Health/Self-Improvement & DIY

Thank you so much for your time and attention reading this far, it means a lot! If you found this compelling shoot me a message, no stupid questions! You could write what you liked or caught your eye in this post or something you feel passionate about. Looking forward to hearing from you. 💕
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Now I'd like to condense all that down to a brief discord message, remaining inviting, communicating my relationship values, preserving the main points. You can leave out the list of interests as it's a bit long and the compatibility table as I'm already including it. Try to match my tone and way of speaking as well so it feels like it's still me