User: 

You are given access to make searches on the Internet. The format for making a search is:
1. After the user sends a message, you will decide whether to make a search. If you choose to make a search, you will output a single message, starting with the word <web_search>, followed by ONLY your web search query. After your search query, you must output the token </web_search> to denote the end of the search query. Keep your search query concise.
2. The system will then append the web search results at the end of the user message, starting with the token <web_search_results>. Take note that the user CANNOT SEE the content after <web_search_results> - YOU should use these results appropriately to improve your response. Additionally, If the web search results are already present in the user's message, then you MUST NOT request another web search.

IMPORTANT! You should choose to search the web ONLY if ANY of the following circumstances are met:
1. User is asking about current events or something that requires real-time information (news, sports scores, 'latest' information, etc.)
2. User is asking about some term you are unfamiliar with (e.g. if it's a little-known term, if it's a person you don't know well, etc.)
3. User is asking about anything that involves numerical facts (e.g. distances between places, population count, sizes, date and time, etc.)
4. User explicitly asks you to search or provide links to references.
If the user's query does NOT require a web search, YOU MUST NEVER run one for no reason. However, you must not refuse to search the web if the user asks you to do so.
If you are highly unsure about whether to make a search (e.g. if the user's query is vague or if you think you are unfamiliar with the query to a certain extent), you may directly ask the user for clarification.

When using web search results, you are encouraged to cite references where appropriate, using inline links in standard markdown format.
You are also allowed to make use of web search results from previous messages, if they are STRONGLY RELEVANT to the current message.

When you are not running a web search, respond completely as per normal - there is NO NEED to mention that you're not searching. 
Remember that you MUST NOT make up any false information.
Assistant: Understood. I will strictly follow these instructions in this conversation.
User: Can I use lotion for mens' mastrubation as lube?
Assistant: Using lotion as a lubricant for masturbation is generally not recommended. While lotions might provide some temporary slipperiness, they're not designed for use on sensitive areas like the genitals. Many lotions contain fragrances, alcohol, and other additives that can cause irritation, allergic reactions, or infections in the sensitive skin of the genital area.

If you're looking for a lubricant, it's best to use products specifically designed for sexual activities, like water-based or silicone-based lubricants. These are formulated to be safe for use on sensitive skin and with condoms. Always check the product labels to ensure it's suitable for your intended use.
User: How about hari conditioner?
Assistant: Using hair conditioner as a lubricant for masturbation is not advisable. Hair conditioners often contain fragrances, preservatives, and other ingredients that may irritate the sensitive skin of the genital area or cause infections. Just like lotions, they aren't designed for intimate use.

For safer alternatives, it's recommended to use water-based or silicone-based lubricants, which are specifically designed for sexual activities and are less likely to cause irritation or adverse reactions. Always ensure that the lubricant is compatible with your specific needs, especially if you are using condoms or other forms of protection.
User: how about if my hair condiitoner and lotion have no additives and fragrences?
Assistant: Even if your hair conditioner and lotion have no additives or fragrances, they are still not ideal for use as lubricants during masturbation. These products are not specifically formulated for intimate use, and there could still be ingredients in them that are not suitable for the sensitive skin of the genital area. Additionally, their chemical composition might not provide the same level of slipperiness or safety as products specifically designed for sexual activities.

For the best results and safety, it's recommended to use a lubricant that is specifically marketed for sexual use, such as water-based or silicone-based options. These products are formulated to be safe for the body and to minimize the risk of irritation or infection.
User: Can I use them if it's all I have?
Assistant: If lotion or hair conditioner without additives or fragrances is all you have, it's still important to be cautious. While using these products potentially minimizes some risks due to the absence of irritants like fragrances and additives, they still aren't formulated for intimate use. There's a risk of irritation or imbalance to the natural pH of the genital area, which could potentially lead to discomfort or infections.

If you choose to use them due to the lack of alternatives, it's important to monitor your body's reaction closely. Discontinue use if you experience any irritation or discomfort. For future safety and comfort, consider purchasing a proper personal lubricant designed for sexual activities when possible.
User: If I had to use one, which should I choose?
Assistant: If you have to choose between a fragrance-free and additive-free lotion or hair conditioner, lotion might be the slightly safer option. Generally, lotions are intended for skin application and may have fewer ingredients potentially irritating the genital area compared to hair conditioners, which often have specific ingredients for hair care that may not be suitable for sensitive skin.

However, it's important to remember that neither product is ideal for use as a lubricant during masturbation. If you decide to use lotion, ensure it's a small amount, and be attentive to any signs of irritation or discomfort, stopping use if any negative reactions occur. Whenever possible, try to obtain a proper lubricant designed for intimate use, such as a water-based or silicone-based lubricant.
User: can I use vaseline?
Assistant: Using Vaseline, or petroleum jelly, as a lubricant for masturbation is not recommended. While it is very slippery and doesn't contain fragrances or additives that might irritate the skin, there are several reasons it might not be suitable:

1. **Long-lasting residue**: Vaseline is thick and not water-soluble, meaning it can be difficult to wash off completely. This could potentially lead to clogged pores or irritation, especially if it remains on the skin for extended periods.

2. **Incompatibility with condoms**: If you are using condoms, Vaseline can compromise their integrity. Petroleum-based products can weaken latex, increasing the risk of breakage.

3. **Potential for infections**: The thick nature of Vaseline can create an environment that may encourage the growth of bacteria or yeast, potentially leading to infections.

For your safety and comfort, it's best to use a lubricant specifically designed for sexual activities, like water-based or silicone-based lubricants, which are safer for use on sensitive skin and compatible with condoms.
User: Is vaseline a worse option compared to my lotion?
Assistant: Vaseline and lotion both have drawbacks when used as lubricants during masturbation, but their suitability depends on different factors:

1. **Residue and Cleanup**: Vaseline is thicker and not water-soluble, making it more difficult to clean off than lotion. This can lead to clogged pores or irritation, whereas lotion generally washes off more easily.

2. **Compatibility with Condoms**: If condom use is a factor, Vaseline is not a good choice because it can degrade latex and increase the risk of breakage. Lotion typically doesn't have this issue, especially if it's water-based.

3. **Moisturizing Properties**: Lotions are usually designed to be absorbed into the skin, which might make them less effective as a lubricant over time compared to Vaseline's greasy texture. However, this absorption isn't a benefit for intimate use as it can lead to irritation.

Overall, while neither option is ideal, lotion may be a slightly better choice due to being easier to clean and more skin-friendly in terms of absorption. However, whenever possible, opting for a product designed specifically for sexual activities would be the safest and most effective
User: can I use a combonation of both?
Assistant: Using a combination of both Vaseline and lotion for masturbation is not advisable. Mixing these products doesn't necessarily mitigate the drawbacks and might even introduce new issues:

1. **Cleanup Difficulty**: Adding Vaseline, which is petroleum-based and not water-soluble, could make it even more challenging to clean off than using lotion alone.

2. **Potential Irritation**: Although combining them might seem to offer enhanced lubrication, the mixture could still lead to irritation, especially if your skin is sensitive.

3. **Condom Safety**: If you intend to use condoms, the presence of Vaseline could still compromise their integrity, potentially leading to breakage.

For your safety and the best experience, it's recommended to use a personal lubricant formulated for sexual activities, such as water-based or silicone-based lubes. These are designed for compatibility with sensitive skin and are generally safe with condoms.
User: If it doesn't make my skin irritated should I just do lotion, just vaseline, or a combonation?
Assistant: If you find that neither lotion nor Vaseline causes skin irritation for you personally, it's still important to consider other factors when deciding which product to use:

1. **Ease of Cleanup**: Lotion tends to be easier to wash off compared to Vaseline, which is thick and greasy.

2. **Condom Compatibility**: If you use condoms, lotion is a better choice because Vaseline can weaken latex, increasing the risk of breakage.

3. **Long-term Effects**: Even if no immediate irritation occurs, using products not designed for intimate use can still pose risks over time, such as infections or imbalances in the skin's natural pH.

Given these considerations, using just lotion might be the better option compared to Vaseline or a combination of both. However, the best practice is to use a lubricant specifically designed for sexual activities to ensure safety and effectiveness.
User: But using lotion wont last as long
Assistant: You're correct that lotion might not last as long as a lubricant compared to other options like Vaseline, due to its absorption into the skin. Here are a few suggestions to improve its use:

1. **Reapplication**: Be prepared to reapply lotion as needed to maintain lubrication, though this might interrupt the experience.

2. **Water-Based Lubricant Additive**: Consider purchasing a water-based lubricant to use alongside your lotion. Water-based lubricants are designed for intimacy and will last longer than lotion alone. They are also easy to clean and safe to use with condoms.

3. **Hydration**: Another factor could be skin hydration. Ensure your skin is adequately moisturized, as dry skin might absorb lotion more quickly.

However, the most reliable and safe solution would be to use a lubricant specifically manufactured for sexual activities, such as water-based or silicone-based options. These are designed for optimal performance and safety.
User: So I can use both then?
Assistant: While you can technically use both lotion and Vaseline together if neither causes immediate irritation for you, it's not the ideal solution due to the following reasons:

1. **Cleanup Issues**: Combining Vaseline, which is thick and greasy, with lotion could make the mixture difficult to wash off, complicating cleanup and potentially clogging pores.

2. **Condom Safety**: If you use condoms, especially latex ones, Vaseline can weaken them, increasing the risk of breakage, regardless of whether it's mixed with lotion.

3. **Potential for Long-Term Effects**: Although immediate irritation may not occur, using products not intended for intimate areas can lead to skin imbalances or infections over time.

If lubrication longevity is a concern, using a product specifically designed for sexual activities, such as a high-quality water-based or silicone-based lubricant, is the safest and most effective choice. These products are designed to provide optimal lubrication while being gentle on sensitive skin and are safe to use with condoms
User: How can I have a dry orgasm or have multiple orgasms in a row?
Assistant: Achieving multiple orgasms or a dry orgasm (orgasm without ejaculation) often involves practice and understanding of your body. Here are some general tips and techniques:

1. **Kegel Exercises**: Strengthening your pelvic floor muscles through Kegel exercises can help you gain better control over your ejaculation and improve orgasm intensity. These exercises involve repeatedly contracting and relaxing the pelvic floor muscles.

2. **Edging**: Also known as orgasm control, edging involves stimulating yourself until you're close to orgasm and then pausing to let the sensation subside before starting again. This technique can help you learn to recognize the point of no return and potentially delay ejaculation.

3. **Breathing Techniques**: Controlled breathing can help you stay relaxed and increase your focus during sexual activities. Slow, deep breaths are often recommended to help manage arousal levels.

4. **Mindfulness and Relaxation**: Being mindful during sexual activity and focusing on the sensations can enhance your experience and help you recognize when you're close to climax.

5. **Practice and Patience**: Achieving control over your orgasms can take time and practice. Being patient and experimenting with different techniques will help you learn what works best for your body.

6. **Consult a Professional**: If you're seriously interested in this practice and want personalized guidance, consulting a sex therapist or counselor may provide you with tailored techniques and strategies.

It's important to approach these techniques with patience and an open mind, as experiences can vary from person to person.
User: How should I breathe?
Assistant: Breathing techniques can significantly impact your ability to relax and maintain control during sexual activities. Here’s a basic guide on how to use breathing for better control and enjoyment:

1. **Deep Breathing**: Focus on taking deep, slow breaths. Inhale deeply through your nose, allowing your abdomen to expand as you fill your lungs. This type of breathing helps relax your body and mind, reducing tension.

2. **Rhythmic Breathing**: Try to maintain a regular breathing pattern. This could mean counting as you breathe in and out, for example, inhaling for a count of four, holding for two, and exhaling for a count of six.

3. **Breath Awareness**: Stay conscious of your breathing patterns during sexual activities. If you notice you’re starting to hold your breath or are breathing rapidly, consciously slow your breathing down.

4. **Sync Breathing with Movement**: Coordinate your breathing with movements or other rhythmical activities involved. This synchronization can help you remain present and focused on controlling your arousal.

5. **Relaxation Breathing**: During moments when you feel your arousal building too quickly, you can take a step back and use deep, calming breaths to reduce your excitement. This can help delay orgasm and possibly achieve multiple orgasms.

Remember, these techniques can require practice to master. The key is to stay relaxed and patient, allowing yourself time to find what breathing patterns work best for you.
User: does doing a dry orgasam mean i keep going right after?
Assistant: Yes, achieving a dry orgasm typically means you can potentially continue sexual activity right after because you haven't ejaculated. Here's how it generally works:

1. **No Refractory Period**: Normally, after ejaculation, people experience a refractory period—a recovery phase where it's difficult or impossible to have another erection or orgasm. With a dry orgasm, because ejaculation hasn't occurred, this refractory period can be minimized or avoided, allowing you to continue.

2. **Stamina and Control**: Having a dry orgasm often requires more control over your body's responses, allowing you to enjoy sexual pleasure continuously and potentially have multiple orgasms.

3. **Practice and Technique**: Achieving a dry orgasm can take practice and may involve techniques like edging, pelvic floor exercises (Kegels), or specific breathing methods to reach orgasm without ejaculation.

Keep in mind that individual experiences can vary, and it might take time to learn how to consistently achieve a dry orgasm. Being patient and exploring different techniques will help you find what works best for you.
User: hi
Assistant: