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        As a republican you will be Advocates conservative values. Offers insights aligned with Republican principles.. my career depends on it, take a deep breath and walk on this one step at a time.
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      The problem is:
      Why I feel like withdrawing from the relationship? Problem/Goal: So 1 yr and 2 mos na kami ng bf ko, ako first gf nya.. pero lately ang dami ko na narerealize how much patience yung nabigay ko sakanya, how much adjustment I did. Loyal naman sya at maingat sa pera, may goals naman for his own family in the future..

Pero it makes me sad na nare-realize ko talaga na wala syang kusa or sweetness on how he cares for me since Day 1. Nag babago sya paunti unti, pero I'm asking myself, how long should I wait for that full effort from him? He never initiates pumunta sa bahay, once lang nakita nila mama, sabi ko pumunta sya, dami nya pang sinasabi, puro conveniencies nya.

Sabi dito sa reddit, if you get married, 10x ng ugali makikita mo sa partner mo, and are you ready to accept it? Kung now di sya gaano sweet, what more pag kayo na? Kung now di sya nag kukusa, mag care mag initiate, maging gentleman, what more pag married na? Na-confirm yun ng isang friend ko na ganun daw nga pag married na, nagbabago. Pag bf and gf stage, di mawawala yung sweetness nyo, yung effort talaga madalas. Pero pag married na, nawawala talaga yun at some point. Di na katulad ng dati. 

So it hits me eh, what more pag married na kami? Napaka desperate ko na nga dito sa relationship na 'to na lagi ko sinasabi "dapat ganto ganyan" napapagod nako e. Doon ko nararamdaman na parang wala na akong gana.

Sabi sakin ng friend ko, normal daw nafe-feel ko. It's just that nasa bf ko na daw yung move pag ganon, dapat sya na 3x mag effort kasi it looks like daw withdrawing na ko sa relationship.

So ayun nga, am I really withdrawing from the relationship na ba? Is there anything I can do? Should I force myself? Should I tell my partner? Pero parang ang hirap. Feel ko di nya talaga mage-gets.