just got ditched by my friend for the third time this week, when trying to make plans. wish people were not so flaky these days. why does it feel like i am putting in more effort to hang out with people than vice versa?
yes, true friends understand and will work around your schedule and will not put you off, or make you feel like you have done something wrong.
not sure how to approach it. on the one hand we used to be good friends, and hung out all the time in college. now after we graduated, they have grown distant. i do not want to be annoying, but i want to be available too, you know? cause friendships are hard to maintain create as you get older