my brother just got a new job, and he and his family are moving into a bigger house in a nicer city. kind of wish i had his success right now, but i am struggling to remain proud of him too. i do not want to make it all about me.
he is excited, of course. but i am sure he is nervous, too. i watched him during the job search process it took a while. so i know he is relieved, which i am happy about, too.
have you asked him how he feels about that entire situation?