i am in a current situation with my mother where i am not feeling as caring as i used to be. this is because of how she acted towards me when my father was in hospice and watching him suffer through his last days.
her personality is pretty direct so i have gotten used to her being offensive. this time it was more personal so it is harder to let it go.
sometimes people say things they do not mean when their angry. maybe you should just let it go.