when i was growing up, my brother had to raise me because my parents were so busy working. i felt terrible because he did everything he could and more to give me the best life i could have. and for a few years, i felt resent towards him for not doing more. but he put me through college and helped me so many times, i love him so much.
i know that feeling for sure
yup, family gets more and more important as i get older. now he has his own kid, and i cannot help but want to help my brother raise his kid because that is what he did for me. weird how you do not realize things when you are younger.