in a way i am scared to show love or get close in a relationship. i mistook pity and infatuation for love and ended up being miserable. am i gonna let that happen again? hell no
yeah you are right. better to take things slow and figure out what they are all about first.
not all of it of course, you are right. but she is gotta bring something to the table before i go all in...cannot deal with that damaged goods crap anymore