my father in law was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer when our daughter was months old. he passed months later when she was months.
well, i cannot relate to some extent. my father passed away years unexpectedly. it was not from cancer, and we actually never thought he was going to pass away that day when he went to the hospital. but, it is very hard to lose loved ones!
he had surgery but it was too advanced. he was sick for months and passed away when our daughter was months old. she is now so he is been gone for a little over years now.