when the guy i am now married to and i met for the first time i was actually dating someone else. i thought that my now husband would just be a really good friend to me. i stayed with my ex boyfriend for a while after, and even when i knew i wanted to date my now husband i never did anything to betray my ex.
well that is good. sounds like it all worked out pretty well.
he did not, but when i broke up with him i let him know. i never acted on my feelings until we were broken up.