last year my girlfriend asked me if i was ok with how life was turnig out for us. i stop and thought about how things use to be what we had hope for and how things are now, i looked at her smiled and replied i quote i am quote .
well really we have deeply involed for along time now . and i am very happy in our relationship and could not ask for anything more out of it.
sounds like she has some underlying issues with trust. you may want to sort it all out before you get too involved.