i felt bad recently because i was dishonest with my friend about her boyfriend. he had made a pass at me, but i never told her about it.
super tough situation, i think you should let her know, and let her decides next
i felt bad, but she was not working and taking care of her grandchild, and her boyfriend was the financial support. i knew it would really be hard on her if she found out, not to mention she really loves him.