my father passed away years ago. we did not know he had a life threatening illness and it really traumatized our family. the unexpected loss was so agonizing and painful for us.
i am very sorry to hear that. losing anyone close to you, especially a parent would be very hard. are you close to other members of your family and were you able to help each other through it?
my father passed away about years ago. it was so very difficult for me and very unexpected. we did not know he had a life threatening illness and were not prepared in any way for his sudden departure from us.