my father passed away years ago. we did not know he had a life threatening illness and it really traumatized our family. the unexpected loss was so agonizing and painful for us.
yes, my family and i are close and we were there for each other. but, my sister had passed away around years before, by committed suicide. the last few years have been very difficult.
i am very sorry to hear that. losing anyone close to you, especially a parent would be very hard. are you close to other members of your family and were you able to help each other through it?