HELP, with a couple of things, please, I am DEPERATE? I am not sure if my other posts went through or not so here it is again, just in case.  First, I am wondering if it is normal to have pain of the vulva after intercourse, usually the lower sides and very bottom of it.  I have done some research and have come up with either vulvodynia or lichen sclerosis?  I am almost always irritated as well, sometimes yeast sometimes not.  Needless to say, marital relations could be much better.  I have been dealing with this for about 7 years and have been to at least 5 doctors multiple times with no conclusion.  Which leads me to this question,  if anyone is familiar with any doctors in Michigan, preferably southeast Michigan, I could really use a good referral, or even a website if anyone knows of one, to look for specialists in this area.  The other question I have is about lubrication.  Lubrication helps at least a little bit, I think part of the problem half of the time is friction, I just do not produce a lot of natural lubrication.  None of the brands I have tried have been very good, dry up fast and are sticky.  I have heard olive oil, but haven't tried yet, has anyone out there tried olive oil?  I have tried durex, astroglide, and ky.  Don't like any of them.  I have also read slippery stuff?  Don't know where to find that, any suggestions?  Please, any help with any of these questions would be GREATLY APPRECIATED.  Thanks for taking the time to read all of my problems, PLEASE HELP ME.    Thanks again,    J.M.

Summarized question: Where can you find a doctor who specializes in pain of the vulva after intercourse in Michigan?