40 yr hubby-moodiness anger male dysfunct, migraines, happy one day, mean the next?Midlife?bipolar?depression? He has been this way for years but it is getting worse. We have been married for 20 yrs and he can get mad at me and not talk to me for weeks. Its like somthing sets him off?!!
Then one day after being hateful, mean, silent he wakes up like nothing ever happened.Then we will be happy for like a couple of weeks or months, then bam...same thing again.  Surely, there is a lady out there than can give me advice. He would be hard to get to a dr. but he may not have a choice. I am to the point of trying anything before we end up in divorce. I dont know how to help him but I am miserable.

Summarized question: How can I help my husband who has problems with moodiness anger and migraine?