Do I need to be on the Dr. Phil show? At what point is counseling unavoidable?

In the last four years, I've lost two grandparents to heart disease and cancer, broken up with my ex-fiancee of 2 1/2 years, lost multiple jobs, moved four times, had a pet pass away, and attempted suicide twice.

Do I seek counseling for all of these issues at once, or do I tackle them individually?

My depression score was rated at 94 out of 100.

I have not worked at a regular job in nearly two years, I sold my car in order to pay my credit card bills, and I work odd jobs around my parent's house to earn enough money to eat.

I have not gone on a date in two years and have not been with a woman in three years.

All of my friends from college have drifted away entirely or lost touch with me, my family constantly nags on me to "get better," and in addition to all of this I am contacted regularly by angels and ghosts from the spirit world, whether on or off medication.

I have contemplated suicide many, many times and I am very, very unhappy.

Summarized question: What resources are available to people with depression?