what's best way to interact with a women who has borderline personality disorder, especially when she's angry? the women is 38 years old with many exclusively classic and complete symptoms of bdp- a true case study with great abandonment issues and a deep, deep denial mechanism.  She has just 'lured' me in with trust to open up again and she just had an angry outburst filled with twisted reality-all meant to blame me and deflect the root problems.  She usually has outburst of anger lasting four to five days with which she barely will apologize and compromise on the reality of what and why it happened.  She exhibits little remorse and is very protective of her emotions.  Family history is filled with bdp and abuse. She also has an eating disorder, has slept with an adolescent client, engaged in lesbian relations for a few years, now exclusive to men, and has been in most relationships with addicts of some sort. She admits that she manipulates her therapists and has stopped seeing her most recent one.  She actually is a certified Marriage and Family Therapist currently practicing.

Summarized question: What resources are available to individuals working with people with borderline personality disorder?