How would I know if I had narcisstic disorder? My husband and I have been arguing a lot lately, and his latest answer to it all was that he was told by a pastor it sounded like my symptoms were of Narcistic Personality Disorder.  (I told him myself tonight that I thought it great he was qualifed to give medical opinions too) 

and that I am basically fucked in the head and pscyho. I have been seeing a counsellor (for family reasons) who so far says I am ok according to him, just dealing with a stressed life etc. I can't see him again until next week (and update him on this latest revelation) so right now I am upset and hurt and confused! Can anyone give me some advice as to how I recover from this latest wobbler? I will probably see a psychiatrist if my psychotherapist thinks so buy not for a while yet in the meantime my homelife is rat shit.

Summarized question: How is Narcissistic Personality Disorder diagnosed?