怎样才是善待自己？不惊扰别人的宁静
就是一种慈悲
不伤害别人的自尊
就是一种善良
人活着做自己
该做的事
发自己的光就好
不要吹灭别人的灯
包容别人
是一种修养
不是懦弱
也不是胆怯
而是谅人所难
扬人所长
补人之短
恕人之过
包容是一种美德
也是一种善待
善待别人的同时
也是善待自己
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加措活佛
It's a kind of benevolence not to disturb other's peace. It's a kind of kindness not hurting other's self-esteem. We should accomplish the things, which we are supposed to do; we will lead a happy life by emitting our own light. Do not blow off other's lamp. Tolerance is a kind of cultivation of virtues, not cowardice, not timid. Tolerance is the understand