not going on trips with a vacation they're going on trips to show people they're going on vacation oh yeah that's been going on for a while though i'm saying it's really extreme now it's like oh i need to go to this spot so i can tick-tock it versus i need to go because i want to experience this right you got to do it for a tech talk yeah it's just a really odd thing nowadays and i think like a lot of people now especially like uh younger people actually even in our age group we're people who live in a first world country now have this idea of or this burden of trying to figure out what makes them happy like happiness is one of those things that people are trying are working back towards right this pandemic has really made people think about what their happiness means yeah like what is happiness yeah right um and i think people are going to find out a lot of the stuff that you see on instagram on social media is just not real like their happiness is only what they show you and if you keep comparing your life to these things that are just snapshots of of an ideal world that people choose to show you like this is what yeah this is what i want to show you but everything else in the background is PROFANITY_TOKEN you're going to be chasing something that's not attainable it's just not attainable like even when i show people of you know pictures of our vacations right we're not showing them i don't know like in taiwan we're not showing in the video i didn't show them us in the airport for seven hours trying to get a ticket back because we messed up the dates you know they're not they're not seeing that struggle you're only seeing the fun little when you were vomiting as we were coming going to taiwan mm-hmm where i was poisoned i'm not showing you that type of stuff i mean we could definitely show that yeah yeah i'm not trying to show any of that stuff but we we recently saw a documentary on this about you know kids in korea yeah you know when we obviously my perspective of korea is based on something that's very dated right because i was born there but i came here when i was three years old and my vision of what korean culture is actually korean-american culture i actually don't know too much about korean korean culture except from the stuff that my relatives tell me or yeah you know my parents tell me and that's really about it so my perspective on koreans are korean americans in the NUMBER_TOKENs in the NUMBER_TOKENs right but watching this documentary it doesn't seem that much has changed from what my parents have told me right what's the documentary that we saw it together the the one on youtube oh that chosen as hell no the one about suicide that's oh that's what it's called okay yeah which is very interesting right so the in this documentary if you guys watch it they talk about kind of like korean culture and this idea about like education being the key to happiness yeah this podcast is brought to you by purple one of our favorite ongoing sponsors i love my purple mattress and if you are sleeping on something that's
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