unnecessary assumptions they're the best when you're possessed of such an unromantic view of the world it allows you to see that life is kind of annoying more than that people are also very annoying there's a lot of injustice and unfairness and that is the cold harsh reality that needs to be accepted if you want to navigate through life well to be devoid of undo preconceptions is actually a gift it makes them the ultimate pragmatists but it can also lead to some nihilistic beliefs about the world i think that a secret that isdp's keep to themselves often and one that may quite surprise the people in their lives is that they can be quite unattached to well everything even in the most horrific situations you can find isdp simply saying with a shrug it is what it is or more likely some kind of dark humored one-liner infjs colder than you think one of the most lauded skills of the infj type is their empathetic insight their ability to assume another person's point of view both in terms of their emotional landscape and their way of thinking they're often quite gentle in their demeanor and come across as very warm one of the unexpected consequences of being so perceptive and sensitive to the emotional states of other people is that you neglect your own if things get out of hand in this regard it can lead to a strong feeling of hollowness like they are in touch with everyone else around them but not with themselves behind the well-calibrated social skills lies a much colder analytical mind at work equally concerned with studying people as much as helping them enfjs the whole truth enfjs in practice definitely live up to the stereotype of wanting to maintain harmony they can be the ultimate politicians and go-betweens when they want to be knowing the precisely formatted sentence to defuse even the most contentious situations they're so good at this that other people won't even realize that they're doing it this brings up the question of if you could hear the completely unfiltered and unsoftened thoughts of an enfj what would they say what would happen if they opened the vault of secrets well i think that enfjs often wrestle with knowing the right thing to say to settle things down and bring about the greater good and simply giving people the unadulterated truth regardless of the consequences of it so the dark secret of the enfj is simply that their true opinions of people might be a lot more harsh and unforgiving than people would expect in fact people might be completely shocked to hear them istjs uncertain anyone that has an isdj in their life will typically see them as strong stable and solid often the people you want in your corner when life gets a bit crazy and chaotic they're almost wired to bring about stability to turn chaos into order and they do this expertly they're also rarely lacking in forwardness when it comes to expressing their views on how things should be done or run this can give them something of a reputation as being control freaks or overly rigid people too concerned with the rules what this masks and what is djs would consider a secret they could reveal is that internally they don't have any more certainty about things than anyone else in fact this stone and stubborn demeanor is something of a reaction to their fear about the uncertainty in the world they want to protect against negative outcomes and futures to protect
NO_SEGMENT_TOKEN