anymore i don't know because it makes me so sad not not that debate but just like the hangover makes me like intensely anxious and depressed and like takes away all joy for life so i'm like but then i just want to PROFANITY_TOKEN rage i don't know so i don't know what to tell you dude but i'd go towards what gives you more long term i'd lean more towards the sobriety side and give you what keeps me i think if you want to if you really think about if you want to look back on these years and be like um uh you know what would you be more proud of what would your self NUMBER_TOKEN years from now be more proud of and i'd go with that what do you guys think i think in your NUMBER_TOKENs dude go easy on yourself you can be all right dude and i think we put ultimatums even chad what you were just saying of like oh i'm partying am i not meant to party anymore it's like you're meant to party sometimes yeah yeah you're not at the party all times i think it's true too like you don't have to make especially if you're NUMBER_TOKEN and it doesn't sound like you've like done anything bad you're just like being hard on yourself which is good but like you don't have to make up your mind completely on these things like you can pick and choose and let it evolve organically i think maybe the thinking about it so hard you know what i mean is that's that's stressful too so don't don't don't beat yourself up and the thing if he's if you're feeling fomo because oh all the boys are going out like i think like in college sometimes all the a lot of dudes would go out but if you could just get one to hang back and like let's crush a couple episodes of band of brothers you know and maybe you have like maybe you don't drink at all maybe you have two beers but that way you're like hanging out with one of your boys you're doing something and then it takes you won't have as you might still have a little bit of fomo but at least you're doing something with a friend that you're not going to feel too bad about it you know what i mean they're like oh all the dudes are out there raging and just also like i don't know try try having if you normally drink however many drinks knock a couple off the top and just stop there and you'll probably have a good time you'll still be chatty have a little bit but like not have like you know if you just do that a couple times where you just mix those in like oh this is the night where i'm gonna stay in or this is the night where i just drink a little less you might not you'll just get used to it and you won't feel as bad like you're missing out on stuff yeah i guess i was out yeah i agree with that i was leaning more towards if his drinking is problematic which i'm not sure he alluded to i think he's just feeling guilty and your drinking's not a problem it just beats
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