saying to be better if it was a revenge g no i think it's just like the fact that you didn't even think about me like like it's i get it what was the sentence itself okay saying an affair wasn't about you oh it wasn't you it's somebody it's excruciating to think you weren't even you weren't on your partner's radar when they made that decision it makes you feel of unwanted and drunk situation i could see that probably come up or something where it's like i was drunk like i just didn't realize like that that was like it got to that point and then i mean it could be a tiny little bit more forgivable because alcohol can do that but still like the point is that i was so unimportant that even in your most drunken state you didn't even think about me kind of thing like i guess that could be like an example of what this means yeah yeah this goes on to say unfaithful partners say things like that because it's true it may be hard to believe but when most people cheat they really aren't thinking about their spouse at the time they're thinking with their groins their hormones their emptiness or their insatiable sense of attraction saying it meant nothing comes across as i destroyed your world for nothing right and if they said they did think about you i feel like that's a lie like if they said like yeah that's because you never do blah blah blah like they're they're trying to blame it on you i think that's a lie i remember the my first big relationship he cheated on me multiple times um i took him back the first time stupidly and then the second time that he cheated on me because i i only found out about two it turns out there was like a PROFANITY_TOKEN ton yeah but the second time i found out he was like his excuse was well you were always going to not trust me anyways from last time and you were going to accuse me of myself as well yeah i was like what the PROFANITY_TOKEN are you out of your mind dude yes he is out of this he is fine what are other things that make it hard um well i think i mean this whole article is basically just expounding on like the the whole like saying it meant nothing like it's basically like this is probably the worst way to go about it so i think it's more like try to figure out what really was going i mean i don't know it's like because people initially just want to be like oh it's not you like i don't you know like i i wasn't even thinking about you like it's it's not even you know like it may be in an attempt to make it like better better like hurt less like it's not your fault i wasn't even thinking it was so stupid well that's shitty because then on the other hand they would the person i got chewed on be like and so i didn't even do anything wrong and you you're punishing me i feel like like they're just taking on like i'm stupid it was like you know is this for people that still want to um save their relationship i guess like if you were trying to salvage a relationship then maybe you
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