gonna say yes to everything now when you start saying no for the things that you really stand up for all of a sudden people understand you know what he has more that's attractive i appreciate that and girls will definitely notice so if a girl is always asking how to go on dinners and this and that and you know what maybe you're not feeling one night you're like you don't really want to go on a date that night say no it is completely fine it is completely acceptable for you to say no no is very powerful so get used to saying and let's be honest when a girl says no to you to going out to a restaurant tonight going on a date you're immediately like oh man it's hard to get you know it's tough i'm going to try again tomorrow i'm going to try again next week let's see if she's into it that's attractive there's some type of there's a weird type of game that we play with ourselves here but that is attractive and that is how things work this next thing here is very attractive and i noticed this a long time ago i think i was a teenager you know i looked at this guy and he was surrounded by girls surrounded by girls and i'm like how do you have all of these friends that are girls like i only had guy friends at the time you know but that was attractive i'm like damn i gotta hang out with this guy he knows what's up but that's not just cool for me it's also attractive for other girls because other girls will see you hanging out with other you know girls and they will say wow this guy is is cool he's got cool girlfriends right he's not a creepy dude who has only guys and who doesn't really know how to talk to girls so having girls as friends can be a very powerful ally now i'm not saying you should go out of your way to make friends with girls just so you can look cool but i'm saying definitely try to have a variety of friends from different places different countries that are girls and guys right because that makes you more attractive that shows that you are a well-rounded person a well-rounded guy and that my friends that is very attractive this next one is something that i do not do anymore and that is working on a garden or landscaping but i will say i used to be a landscaper i i worked as a landscaper back in the day when i was maybe NUMBER_TOKEN NUMBER_TOKEN worked hard and i i enjoyed it i thought it was good obviously i do this now it's a little bit different but i will say girls loved it they really did it's so interesting to me because i never thought that it would be something attractive but they really enjoyed it i had the boots on and everything i mean my hands were they had dirt all over my hands but girls really liked that type of work it's very interesting psychology behind it because girls think that this is just a manly type of job right so if you're working on your garden even at home if you're just gardening just working on on your landscape just mowing the lawn right it actually is an attractive habit so next time you're doing that just remember that you look awesome you look attractive and keep it going now this next one i mean i think this
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