they had left for the day they were like um and mel hadn't arrived yet and uh and they're like okay well you know who's gonna you know which of the girls is gonna get on here and savannah and and jada were like not me and i was like PROFANITY_TOKEN i'll go um so yeah so and it just took off like you're kind of behind like a little speedboat and you know if they just go straight it's not hard to you know hang on there but our guy was like freaking you know lewis hamilton he's doing all these turns and PROFANITY_TOKEN and at that first turn you know we hadn't gotten it together and we bailed and cut to we're like we look up really i feel like no one saw it in like two hours later those pictures were everywhere but yeah it was me not mel on on the belt and one day i would see the four of them truly try to you know recreate the banana boat with the four of them that would actually be sick that would be sick i'd like to see it i've one more question i'll let tommy jump in after this um and it's just it's sort of a just a general and specific question about fame and as someone who's been in the public spotlight and been a public figure for you know over two decades how your sort of perspective and relationship with with fame has evolved and subsequent to that also for you and and dwayne you know how the challenges the unique challenges of being parents and being public figures and having your life sort of out there um you know in the beginning you you want fame because it's sexy and you feel like oh my god if i'm famous all of these things are gonna happen and if only i got famous then i'll feel better about myself and then because fame is really just outside validation a lot of it right um so when you get some it feel it does feel good at first you feel like oh my god this is that and then all of the things that made you want the fame in the first place largely low self-esteem perhaps daddy or mama issues um your own personal hardships that you think fame is somehow going to solve it doesn't solve anything you're just famous with a bunch of problems um and when you get to that point you're like you're disillusioned because you're you're now a famous person dealing with big issues you know what i mean um that can manifest in a thousand different ways and fame can feel like a trap um at this stage once we you know once me and d got together and we you know raising kids and whatnot and you realize that every decision is under a microscope whether you put it there or not um and you don't get to choose when people are paying attention or choose when people chime in or not um but i will say that there has never been someone that has chimed in negatively about our family that i have ever felt impacted by um you know it's not like i don't know barack obama or oprah or viola davis or or someone that i respect or janet jackson you know is is or anyone who's whose life choices i have admired none of those people are the people chiming in it's other
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