number one being treated poorly you know that golden rule we were all taught as kids yeah some kids weren't paying attention i mean sure they grew up but unfortunately some people never change it's hard to go through life being considerate compassionate and helpful and feel like you're never getting that in return but here's the thing alexers their behavior says everything about them and nothing about you the more you stay true to yourself and your values the sooner you'll attract people who mirror your amazing qualities stooping to their level will only make you feel like garbage so stick to the high road and keep collecting that good karma number two unrequited love he loves me he loves me not he loves me he loves me not okay look falling for someone who doesn't reciprocate that love can be one of the worst feelings and there's no quick fix for it but in every heartache there's a silver lining or wait no that's clouds but you understand what we're saying right you can take this blow and totally reframe it in your mind just imagine they decided to lead you on which you eat up you get more invested in the relationship and just before your one two three year anniversary they dumped you because in their mind you were just a way to kill time before someone better came along you were so blinded by desire you didn't even notice yeah that's a whole lot worse than a love interest shutting things down at the start the world is full of amazing people who will truly love you you just gotta dust yourself off and get back out there number three betrayal history's dotted with traders whose actions have changed the course of the world but what would have happened if brutus had not conspired to kill julius caesar heck even in the bible the son of god gets betrayed betrayal at the hands of someone you care about cuts deep and it can leave you with lasting trauma but the way you handle that betrayal is what will set you up for success check in with yourself do you need to create more boundaries with people did you ignore any red flags by no means is this us trying to victim blame but it's important to take stock of the situation in order to avoid similar betrayals in the future for a deeper dive into the topic of betrayal check out professor dan aurelius book the honest truth about dishonesty this clever study will give you insight into what triggers people to behave dishonestly and how to avoid falling into the same traps ourselves you can get it for free on audible by going to URL_TOKEN free book number four being highly sensitive oh does this one ever make for a tricky life sometimes being highly sensitive in a world that can seem so unkind well it can feed your anxiety and be downright depressing but don't for a second think that your sensitivities make you weak according to forbes highly sensitive people make the best leaders they have a deep capacity to channel their focus with precision make thoughtful choices and speak rich insights to bring great ideas to the table so start embracing your sensitive side like the gift it is number five the only thing really under your control is yourself this one right here starts off as a frustration and becomes the greatest revelation seeing things happen around you and feeling helpless to stop them is incredibly difficult especially if you have some kind of superman complex but a real talk you can't save everyone no matter how much you might
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