i'm naturally slim could i have gained some weight going to the gym five days a week doing heavy lifting eating NUMBER_TOKEN NUMBER_TOKEN calories a day perhaps but for who and why you know i liked myself until others told me that i shouldn't if you're being picked up for something or if you have an insecurity or doubts ask yourself what you think of that thing as ryan gosling said in my favorite movie the notebook what do you want do you want to change your body for you or is it for someone else do you want to be in a relationship or do you actually want to be single but being single makes you feel inadequate because of the judgments of others do you want to study engineering or are your parents pressuring you into it and do you want to go to that party or would you rather stay at home but you don't want to seem like a loser doing things that you don't believe in for others has regret written all over it in my experience sometimes all we need is a little perspective yes i want to look good we all do you know when i work out and i see physical changes in the mirror i strike a little pose and i do a little dance but as i got older my perspectives change from i want to look like this to i want to feel like this you know my body wasn't made to be pleasing to the eye of others it was made to get me through the day to carry me through life our bodies are working extremely hard for us every second of every day in a system that is so complex it's quite impossible to even comprehend and that matters more than how my bum looks in leggings although that's nice too
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