and i think i think my dad is kind of like your dad any which is why okay so you you reestablished contact with yours like how did you i did you want to talk about that okay yeah um how did you do how did you do it let's let's formulate a plan for me a plan oh man that's that's what i'm bad at um i just decided like i think it was like i was like driving home one night after work and i'm like you know what remember that guy remember that guy that was supposed to raise me and did it oh that guy drank a lot it was just that it was it's so it's same thing exactly with the spider huge back tattoo was like i just know that i'm never going to if i don't just one day decide let's just do it oh that's called impulsive behavior yeah exactly it's very unhealthy and but it's the only way i know how to do this yeah that's not good i wouldn't do that but uh but that's that was i just called him up i was just i was like hey he was like hello who's this i'm like it's your son and i said it like that like a like a jerk and i was just like it's your son bro like i really was for PROFANITY_TOKEN friends he was like oh oh uh oh son hey it's um like good to hear from you like question mark he said it like that like he did he was like it's good to hear from you kind of like why are you calling what's happening right like i think it's good to hear from you yeah interesting i imagine he he said it like as a question because he probably thought i was calling him with bad news yeah that's what i would suspect because i mean i i didn't talk to him for oh my god i mean he would call me you know drunk maybe once every other year or something you and i are on such similar paths okay see yeah yeah you get the drunk calls where i love you so much i'm so glad that you oh opposite oh your dad's a different drunk yeah mine would not be so um complementary which is why i stopped contact because i'm like okay this is one of those things in the naa they talk about called boundaries and i'm not going to let you you know do that stuff so that was the end of that so so he kept breaking those boundaries and i was like PROFANITY_TOKEN PROFANITY_TOKEN okay now i have to do this okay hold on though cola thought can i get my coffee you can edit this out it's at the front door i'm just gonna get it and i got waters for us so i we just took a brief intermission so that i could grab my starbucks we had it delivered lovely so annie and i are talking about our special cool dads and i've decided to initiate contact so you called your dad and he was like whoa what's up right and then and then what did you say to him because i i'm not sure i'm ready to talk to him but go ahead so
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