well if the attraction is one piece what do all comes down to what the man wants is the is the in case in case in point you need more details but if you're already attracting that means they're biting but you can't keep them that means there's something wrong with the bait and that's something wrong with debate there's something that the fish is getting off the hook why are they are you dating with intent to be married because you may attract somebody but do you want the same things do your values line up do you want the same kind of outcomes meaning you may attract somebody but if you want kids and he doesn't want kids that's a breaker if uh if he believes in if your value systems are different the deal breaker
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