but he mentioned my ex i had to call him and ask to meet up he at least agreed i was nervous meeting him but he seemed to hate me it was very emotional for me because i saw so much of my ex in him and also some me and i never had a clue my ex passed when he was two wow her parents told him i wanted no involvement in his life but i was never even told of his existence i absolutely would have been around if i had known i got her pregnant he didn't believe me and he thinks i'm just trying to cover my ass that's not it but he seems to think so they went so far as to tell him i broke up with her when she told me and wanted nothing to do with him as a way to convince him he doesn't need a dad like me in his life my son left the park where we met still not believing me he was really upset what stung the most was the hate on his face the way he was looking like i'm the biggest piece of PROFANITY_TOKEN on the planet i'm crushed i told him i want to know more about him be in his life and i absolutely would have if i'd have known he doesn't seem to want anything to do with me they've said too much against me how do i get him to see i'm telling the truth i'm heartbroken over this never wanted him to think he was unwanted his whole life is there any way to convince him i don't know anything about him or what do i do to navigate this with him that's insane invite him to thanksgiving holy PROFANITY_TOKEN why why do you think that the grandparents did that um i think it has a lot this is a this is me like assuming a lot but i look at what my mom went through when she got pregnant when she wasn't married and i think for a lot of christian households um super super christian households at least they they think it's better to move away and say their daughter's husband died or like there's they just don't want to admit the shame it's a lot of shame my daughter was having sex without being married like i saw another thing recently where it was on tick tock and this girl got pregnant with her boyfriend at NUMBER_TOKEN and both of their parents forced them to marry and that was something that they could do within their state and so she got married at NUMBER_TOKEN wow had a baby they split up but it was like it was so embarrassing for her parents where they either they threatened her you either get married or were moving and so it feels like that vibe where it's like they're just embarrassed they're embarrassed that their daughter got pregnant outside of wedlock outside of being married and so sad and i've heard of a lot of stories too where a lot of people have like kids and then they get raised as their sibling say i would have gotten pregnant in high school yeah my mom would have then raised my child as right her sister yeah it's just it's embarrassment it's these social constructs that convince people and this is what they need to do and whatever that is super sad i just like i can't imagine i i i'm trying to think if there was something that he did that was so devastating to the
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