of uh definitely helped each other out a lot but uh i would say you were fought a lot yeah it was hard getting on the same page really it was yeah what did you fight about well we had we had just gotten married and we you know we hadn't lived together before we got married and you know he's an engineer and i'm a free spirit and it was like we were speaking different languages at first so actually you had the budget fights then and everything when you sit down to do the budget you're arguing yeah so for me i was like oh you know let's just budget to the dollar it's not a big deal if it's to the cent and he was just like no we need to count every penny oh really through the penny yeah to the penny wow and i was just nerd and i'm not i'm a dollar guys that's okay wow yeah so i mean there were those fights but now we don't fight is there a particular item or situation that one of you wanted to do the other one didn't want to do that you remember the big fight um one of the big ones uh near the end there i got a second job so i was working full-time and then working nights to help kind of knock some of this stuff out a little bit faster and obviously that was kind of a it was a strain on on both of us for a little bit yeah he would work at the technology company he works at from about nine two so what was the fight you didn't want him doing that no i wanted him to do that it just felt like it was too intense i'm like we already make a really good income can you just stay here with me and okay yeah and look at what i've done i've created a monster yeah yeah he works all the time that's exactly what happened i told his mom i was just like i was the one that started him on this journey and he's the one that's the most intense i don't know what happened yeah well exactly be careful if you activate a good nerd we know how to do it man we nerds we get her done give me a goal i'll go baby i love it good for y'all that's i like that that's smart and that's that's real world stuff that's how it really happens yeah so the good news is you're free how's it feel now it it feels great to be to be free yeah um we're actually kind of uh feels a little empty we got to figure out our next next big step next big thing to go to go tackle yeah it felt really good at first and now we're just like this is kind of a lifestyle for us as weird as it sounds we really enjoyed being on the same team and having money goals and we're like okay what's next what does this look like and so it feels really good you set your two goals uh and put them on a spreadsheet and and uh one is generosity a level of generosity what do you want to do i did that it helped me i want to give away this much yeah by this time and whatever it is you figure it out and then the other is uh go ahead and back out when you're going to
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