of ted talks he's honest i love warren frel i think he's just so great but he talks a lot about how boys are basically being let down by society and then the net effect of that is we end up with very very weak men or men it's see i and i feel bad because i feel like this always comes across like we're PROFANITY_TOKEN on men and we're not it's that we're looking at a society full of men who don't know where they fit in that that was me though see because the thing is is that i grew up fully in an environment of emasculated men but i wasn't aware of that's what i was so people that are in the city will be aware of this right because it's really interesting that someone from the city would watch me now and think that i'm a bigot and mean and somebody in the country or in the middle america that may not be a country in a city looks at me and asks with my pants world up why i'm looking like a homo and so the point is the point is the point is that you got to laugh at yourself like the dichotomy the difference between different regions of america of what masculinity is is very distinct it's very strong right when you live in a place like la there's a huge difference between what makes a man a man and what doesn't and in fact a lot of these really swoyish crazy men that you know someone in middle america would say is like a total PROFANITY_TOKEN boy is they're actually pretty vile and pretty strategic and they can get ahead in the city right they can't be had a chicken or you know or like or shoot a deer rip the heart out of a deer right i can't shoot a deer but when it comes to like the politics of the film industry and getting ahead and becoming a millionaire actually they're quite shrewd yeah and they might also fiddle children too which is another side story of people in l.a that are crazy so they're perverted but i will say this is that coming from you know i live in texas now coming from la i didn't realize that there were prescribed ways that made a man more happy and when i realized after i met my wife and she kind of said hey you're being influenced by the culture of where you live and not by who you were designed to be and the more that you live in the design of what god wants you to be you might not say god but maybe a little dip little um what's it called mozzarella sticks right in the morning the marinara sauce the more you pair your your mozzarella stick with the marinara instead of the honey mustard the more you realize that you're going to live into where you were and so actually i used to you know struggle with depression different things there's a few other reasons why i got out of it but i found out like when i stopped dyeing my hair i stopped caring so much how i looked i started just dressing the way that my wife wanted stop thinking about my appearance stop wearing accessories stopped living in this la lifestyle going out to clubs et cetera and i moved more into just discovering who i was i i actually genuinely this is weird i
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