don't know how many times he's mentioned it that i was there i was holding her she was crying oh by the way went in the bathroom she was crying i was holding her yeah yeah so the gunshots went into the bathroom i was holding her i was comforting her she was crying and so on one hand good you care you're attuned you're being altruistic you have compassion of course it's good i mean we could see other we could see worse reactions like him scolding her for crying or i don't know ignoring coyote or something or running in a different direction not being there for her so we could see worse situations but i i don't know i'm just like given all that i've seen about ed and given all the discourse on the internet around it uh it's just i'm i'm i'm probably nitpicking but let's continue watching hey deserving listeners as you all know i am constantly recommending that people go to therapy we all need therapy from time to time well one of the options available that is definitely worth checking out is better help if you're looking for a therapist i would give it a try by going to URL_TOKEN kirk make sure you use the promo code kirk because you get NUMBER_TOKEN off your first month and it really helps us out as you watch these videos i know many of you have been motivated to find your own therapist which is great because you deserve it and i know also that it can be hard to find a good fit find the right one for you well one of the options available in terms of your shopping is to go to URL_TOKEN kirk i've been told you can start communicating with your therapist in under NUMBER_TOKEN hours you can message your counselor at any time plus you can schedule weekly video or phone sessions i've also been told that it's often less expensive than in person therapy and you should know that this service is available to clients worldwide so go to URL_TOKEN kirk to get NUMBER_TOKEN off your first month today like i've been so focused on my past and liz and well none of that matters anymore like i don't care about that like see i think it brought coyote and i closer together i kind of feel like i have a window like an opportunity to take this to the next step again i don't know if i'm nitpicking but again a window meaning i think given what we know about ed he's thinking oh okay now i have this leverage you know now that we've had this intense emotion i wonder if anyone's speculating that ed like manufactured or staged this i'm sure that didn't happen but anyway the gun situation but so his i okay so if we're going off of the uh the theory the hypothesis that ed believes that he is not lovable he believes he is deeply unlovable and no one will ever accept him no one will ever love him for who he really is and he defensively covers that up with um bravado and well not bravado so much but grandiosity and narcissism and we've seen that mode that he goes into and when
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