living abroad our hope is like closer to the summer and like end of spring we will keep you posted on that because it's something that we really really want to do and it's sad when you know that that goal of ours keeps changing the timeline keeps changing yeah why do we want to live abroad well i want to live abroad because i did live abroad for about four or five months during school and that was such a profound experience for me as a north american it was a shock to live in in a european country specifically the netherlands to see that bikes can be the way that you get around and countries are not all the size of canada and that cultures are deeper and richer in other parts of the world and so i think just for us as people who you know have a online presence and who want to learn about the world and the way things are going and living in another place is is very important for expanding your horizons and following up on that uh what countries do you want to visit we're flying somewhere for a year so that we can be there and make that our home base and then travel from that location using more sustainable transportation methods plus the trains across a lot of europe are amazing exactly do we want to live in the netherlands but we really want to go through the south of france together we want to go through spain and italy which neither of us have been to uh really we just want to go and eat friends we're gonna go eat delicious things we're very food motivated so food motivated you know yep there's some wine motivation uh tips for maintaining a healthy relationship communication mm-hmm constant communication i think what i've really appreciated about what you and i have come to in our almost eight years together is we know each other well enough when we are communicating about something that's difficult that uh like for me levi knows that i need a bit more time for me to say how i'm feeling because i i only want to say it once um and i'm going to overthink what i'm going to say so you give me the space to do that whereas i know that you are going to word vomit at me and i'm going to kind of like catch a few and push a few waves like ah okay this is where we are sounded like you had that rehearsed that was no i thought about it a lot yeah what about you some tips i actually want to make a whole video about this like ironically named like you know how to have a successful marriage after three years of practice or something like we're obviously not experts on the subject we don't know everything because we haven't done this very long follow-up to this what is it like being married to a sexual health educator well i can't answer so what do you think i think being married to a sexual health educator eliminates the possibility of the relationship becoming stagnant because there's always something evolving or changing or being introduced or modified in some way because this is your expertise and this is your sort of playground to kind of like experiment and see what works and how that changes for us and i do think that in some ways it would be easier to just not think about that aspect of our life quite so much um because we are so busy in so many other ways um but i also recognize that our relationship sexually and intimately in every
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