you know we have those events there yeah but those are church we all had those events we all had church events for thanksgiving we all had christmas events that was my event but we still no that doesn't count but that that was so your parents i don't understand how come you well because you're because your mom is hyper christian so would i would think that she would want to celebrate christmas yeah we celebrate our church that is so lazy literally why would you have to do it twice if it's already done a trip it's not it's different that's not really celebrating christmas that's the church event that's like saying but that's your opinion no that's what it is but that was our life that was my life is that events were done at church sometimes thanksgiving day you celebr you went to church on thanksgiving day thanks well i was gonna say sometimes you cut me off sometimes like for example thanksgiving day we don't go to church because it's like thursday so usually we have it like on the weekends or fridays but the day of most of the time we went to my one of my aunts house because we would gather all together with grandma and all the kids but even so it wasn't like every year but we did do it quite often yeah but ever since i've been with you you guys just never celebrated any of this yeah cause grandma passed away but your grandma was the binding glute for everybody to just hang out yes why why i don't know that's a good question um because grandma left with my family uh and i think i think for the sake of grandma just like so that she could see all her kids and grandkids and then obviously her daughters which are my aunts they wanted grandma to see their grandkids as well it's so probably that's why i mean i think we all have the mindset like we should and we do and i think we did more or less with the family while grandma was around but ever since grandma left um the immediate family grew right everybody got married everybody had their own kids their own life and they have their own partner's family that they have to also take care of and be part of you know so obviously the the energy that they spend on will be their immediate family not like second cousins yeah yeah yeah yeah i don't have siblings it's interesting because the only cousin that you have that speaks really speaks korean is just one person yeah and everybody else doesn't which is so interesting because usually when it comes to an older generation of korean people they can speak korean older generation people but they their parents spoke english oh you're all of your own speak english uh well actually the ones who cannot speak korean are the ones their parents can speak english so the other ones who cannot uh who can speak korean their parents uh their i don't think they spoke english at home well how how good is their english is really good uh i mean i yeah i mean they could have fluent conversa i mean it's not like they had accent but they could totally have a full-on conversation without speaking korean oh really yeah were they were they educated here in the states part i think so i don't know about my uncle uh but i
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