is a good bet for them because at that stage they are be coming to realize or acknowledge that they can't compete in the sexual marketplace like they did when they were NUMBER_TOKEN years old so when we talk about the wall in the manosphere for example like a lot of people say well you know there's lots of girls who are like NUMBER_TOKEN years old and they're hot and they're sexy and i go yeah but that's not what i'm talking about the wall doesn't start here the wall starts here for women it's can i compete with the NUMBER_TOKEN year old version of me can i compete with the next crop of girls because as i said from NUMBER_TOKEN all the way up to NUMBER_TOKEN that's the demographic that men find the most attractive it's it's peak fertility if there's a biological clock it ain't at NUMBER_TOKEN years old it's when you were NUMBER_TOKEN years old that's when you can conceive easier that's when you can carry a child to term easier and i think on a biological evolutionary level men understand that so when a woman gets to be about NUMBER_TOKEN NUMBER_TOKEN NUMBER_TOKEN years old it's like oh PROFANITY_TOKEN i better find a guy for the long term because from NUMBER_TOKEN on to when how i hope you live a long life but tell however long you're going to live women are looking for long-term security after that point so it's like they have a a NUMBER_TOKEN-year window between say NUMBER_TOKEN and NUMBER_TOKEN years old where they can consolidate on a good bet on that good potential guy when they get to NUMBER_TOKEN to NUMBER_TOKEN years old that's the epiphany phase and that's when women go oh well i want to do things right now and i want to get right with god and i'm going to go back to church and i'm going to find the right guy and i'm going to make him do the right things and i'm done with my crazy you'll see this on tinder profiles i was so crazy in my college years and i um i've had my fun i'm done with the jerks and i'm ready for something serious i you know i've had my fun no fun for you um but we're going i'm looking for a guy for the long haul right at the same time that that guy is just about going into his peak years and in fact essentially what they're saying is wait for me until you're NUMBER_TOKEN and then when you're when i get to be NUMBER_TOKEN and i've gone through my journey of self-discovery and we're both NUMBER_TOKEN then we'll get married it's like that skit from uh from friends when ross and rachel say if we're both single at NUMBER_TOKEN let's promise to get married when we're NUMBER_TOKEN years old that's literally what we're doing right now and that's another reason why we were talking about like the fertility rates and we're talking about the the decline in marriage rates is men are waking up to this they're seeing this they're seeing this sort of play out in their own lives or they're seeing it online and they're either opting out of it or they're maximizing that once they get to that peak potential it's interesting i was thinking about that too because you
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