men when they're in their mid NUMBER_TOKENs well NUMBER_TOKEN is all right but NUMBER_TOKEN NUMBER_TOKEN NUMBER_TOKEN NUMBER_TOKEN NUMBER_TOKEN NUMBER_TOKEN NUMBER_TOKEN NUMBER_TOKEN NUMBER_TOKEN NUMBER_TOKEN. yeah i mean like the the data is in it says it all the data is in right um and so this is something that they uh have to deal with but i mean they do they do have some points in here that aren't pure cope uh so the the the important thing to note they say is that uh this reflects who's liking who but not necessarily who they message uh because i'm sure a lot of NUMBER_TOKEN year old guys don't just message NUMBER_TOKEN year old saying you want to go on youtube surprised i would be surprised i don't use dating sites yes because i'm married um but more importantly these surveys chart the desires of every kind of guy in okay cupid so yeah there are going to be some men who don't want NUMBER_TOKEN year olds for various reasons that's true um but but most importantly one of the things that changes about most about dating as you age is the qualities you desire that many of us consider hotness a primary priority when dating in our late teens as we get older it generally comes a second to the kind of qualities to make a man someone you're able to spend the next NUMBER_TOKEN NUMBER_TOKEN years around without constantly wanting to fake your own death and men also are like this so there we go even bustle are like yeah okay young you're not as hot as you were when you're NUMBER_TOKEN but you can build up a personality you know beast be the sort of person that men want to be around you know their husband might want to spend his time with be nice be caring be compassionate be funny be witty um be someone who is pleasant if you can't be someone who is NUMBER_TOKEN. i would also say find someone a man who is not going to be entirely superficial with you yes that too so anyway to summarize ladies this will happen to you there's no escaping it prepare accordingly all right then time to move on to the secret i love these dads and sexes this is reality you've got to deal with it here's the i've got the facts and things right here this is timeless you can't escape this yeah i'm sorry you know it is true and it's just it's just easily observable and people just want to put the blinders on and ignore it oh yeah they can they can cope and pretend all they want but it's just yeah anyway if you want to see more from the podcast of the lotus eaters you can go to URL_TOKEN to enjoy all of the premium content we have on the site such as our premium book club in this episode carl and callum discuss the foundational text of british conservatism edmund burke's reflections on the revolution in france you can get access to all of our premium content with a bronze tier membership for just five pounds a month if you'd like to stay up to date with all the content we're putting out on the site you can also follow load seaters on getter URL_TOKEN and you can follow our individual writers and presenters my page is up here thank you and goodbye
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