just less likely to manifest in violent demands gross oblivious sexual entitlement or the kind of intimidation or clueless pestering that makes women actually fear for their bodily autonomy or their lives for many women the nice guy often becomes their worst nightmare whereas the nice girl equivalent is more often a nuisance the kind that can be swatted away like a pest and in the end rather than blow up at the object of desire or at the world as so many rejected men have all the while maintaining they are nice guys nice girls simply internalize the shame so the nice guy and the nice girl are very similar because they both have a victim complex they basically view sexual and romantic intimacy as a transaction for being a good person when the nice guy or nice girl doesn't get what they want from their love interests they blame the other party for their own faults but just like nice guys nice girls also have a problem with setting and violating boundaries typically nice girls are dishonest about their feelings with their partner and when the relationship inevitably crashes and burns the nice girl blames the other person for the relationship's downfall the nice girl is never in the wrong because she's too nice to be she concedes to her partner's every request says yes when she really means no refuses to set the boundaries that she needs to keep herself healthy and then blames the subsequent failure of her relationship onto the other party because they should have anticipated her needs they should have known she meant no when she said sure they should have sensed her growing resentment they should have set and maintained her boundaries for her the nice girl is always a victim she is the first to claim that all of her exes are PROFANITY_TOKEN she prides herself on always loving more but she isn't willing to change anything about the way that she loves she isn't willing to entertain the idea that real love the strong healthy enduring kind of love often requires some discomfort moral of the story is that the nice girl can be just as manipulative as the nice guy plenty of men can and do fall victim to self-proclaimed nice girls both experiences are valid and should be discussed now that i explain the nice girl complex a bit it's time that we look through the subreddit r nice girls it's not as active as the nice guys subreddit but it's more or less the same thing it's users discuss the antics of nice girls found in the wild across social media and rest assured the content on the nice girls subreddit is just as uncomfortable and cringey as the content on the nice guy subreddit and in case you haven't caught on to the theme of the video these nice girls are nowhere near as nice as they claim to be it's quite the opposite i fear but before we begin i would like to mention something that is actually nice magic spoon and it's funny because they happen to be the sponsor of today's video roll the clips baby hi i changed my shirt so i could tell you about today's sponsor magic spoon have you ever thought about all the cereal you ate as a kid and wish you could go down memory lane or do you wish you could eat the adult versions of your favorite cereal now with the help of magic spoon you can do just that magic spoon's variety pack comes with four different flavors cocoa frosted peanut butter and fruity personally my favorite flavor is fruity because you know you could also try their new flavors maple waffle cookies and cream and blueberry and cinnamon no matter what flavors
START_SPONSOR_TOKEN that is actually nice magic spoon and it's funny because they happen to be the sponsor of today's video roll the clips baby hi i changed my shirt so i could tell you about today's sponsor magic spoon have you ever thought about all the cereal you ate as a kid and wish you could go down memory lane or do you wish you could eat the adult versions of your favorite cereal now with the help of magic spoon you can do just that magic spoon's variety pack comes with four different flavors cocoa frosted peanut butter and fruity personally my favorite flavor is fruity because you know you could also try their new flavors maple waffle cookies and cream and blueberry and cinnamon no matter what flavors END_SPONSOR_TOKEN