yeah all i know is that it's scary it's yeah it is kind of scary uh it's it's super hot and cold it's it's yeah i love you and i hate you all yeah that's right i hate you don't leave me that's sort of the classic thing of a borderline feeling state is like i'm i'm pushing you away i hate you but don't leave me because i can't stand abandonment let's look up the criteria for borderline disorder and we'll just sort of and when i read it everyone's going to feel like they have it because that's the way personality disorders are uh let's see a criteria can we just put look up criteria for personally borderline criteria there we go uh there you go criteria for diagnosis that's good nope top top top there you are here we go all right let's go okay chronic feelings of emptiness emotional instability reaction day-to-day irritable anxiety lasting a few hours frantic effort to avoid real or imagined abandonment i told you about that identity disturbance they are remarkably persistent unstable self-image impulsive behavior at least two hours potentially self-damaging spending sex substance reckless driving inappropriate intense anger we call it unregulated aggression unregulated rage difficulty controlling the anger patterns of unstable intense personal relationships right so intensity in relationships is what um the what borderlines get into and splitting behavior they they um they deviate they fluctuate between extreme idealization and devaluation you're the best doctor i ever had you're the worst doctor i have to destroy you suicidal behavior self-harm some paranoid ideation some dissociative symptoms so there you go and it's a narcissistic disorder so lots of preoccupation about themselves and there's some grandiosity that comes along with it sometimes but it's uh it's that unstable relationship it's the unregulated rage it's the suicidal and self-harming behaviors and the splitting which is you know we they'll like go nadav you're the nicest person in the world you know what and he said he's an ass he said you're an PROFANITY_TOKEN any never believe what nadav said about you splitting people to sort of make it make themselves more important super cool super coy any it's not like anybody you've ever dated i'm just guessing i really wish you'd turn off that PROFANITY_TOKEN just guess i really wish you'd just turn those eyes off real quick you're the best any and then all of a sudden you're the worst oh yeah and then and then you're cheating you're cheating you're cheating you're cheating i know it i know it i know it you looked at her i'm going to kill you right how long ago would last time you're with the boy every time and every time that's i mean i i've understood at this point it's it's something that i uh it's it's something in me that i am you know bringing to myself you will try that yeah for sure there's something in me we talk a lot on this show about relationships and of course relationships include sexuality and people bring uncomfortable stuff here and
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