first app i checked each morning weeble you know i want to mention at least for myself i may look put together but i think sometimes i'm on the verge of breaking out into tears myself actually and sometimes i'll just be driving and i'm thinking why don't i just swerve into the other side of the lane and it'll just all be over but you know why i don't do that i don't do that because of this this money and this is what is my defining factor this money is truly what sets me apart what defines my character and is the line between life and death for me but you know for you i might consider that there's also this other person's life who you would injure and destroy if you were to swerve into that other lane of the road and so you see that's the problem you're the problem in which you think too much about yourself stop thinking about yourself you know i think that we become sad we start having self-pity when we start focusing too much on ourselves what's our own state shouldn't we be happier what do we want more for ourselves but maybe think about improving other people's lives how can you help other people and what can you do to you know stop other people from getting themselves killed and what can you do to help other people to help your family your pets your dog your dog probably needs your help if you have one or go save a dog and you know these creatures are going to be probably very grateful about that and you may feel a sense of fulfillment from that and that brings us to the other point that happiness is not necessarily the goal maybe fulfillment's the goal right like what do you get from trying to be happy yourself you can be happy just by eating a bunch of cake and sugar and going on drugs you know that's a very shallow type of thing and so if you ever find yourself wallowing in your own self-pity you know you may consider that maybe that's a very selfish thing you're just being very self-centered and you're only focusing on your own state and maybe should broaden your horizons to include the wider world around you and all of the other people who are relying on you and what you can do for them you know the other thing is i was on this airplane ride the other day coming back from my hawaiian adventure trip and yes i realized the irony of me talking down to you in a position like this but you know we're equal actually we're not equal i'm probably quite a bit up there actually but i saw this movie black widow kind of a bad movie but you know it's about avengers right and the whole idea is that in the movie the good guy has to go take revenge and beat the bad guy in order to have a happy ending but you know what the reality is you don't have to beat anybody you don't have to be a bad guy you can just go off and go have a nice time you know the movie avengers should really be about some evil villain is there and then the good guys decide to just go off to a paradise island and have a nice time that should be the idea because if you spend your entire lifetime hunting down everybody who tried to wrong you and correcting every wrong that was made to you you're going to spend and really waste your entire life
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