oral pretty much every day with of course no reciprocity of any kind or even affection since then i've been working so hard to lose weight but have only lost NUMBER_TOKEN to NUMBER_TOKEN pounds i'm down two clothing sizes and in the best shape of my life but my husband still isn't happy enough with my appearance and accuses me of not trying hard enough in the meantime i'm hungry and grumpy from losing weight i didn't need to lose weight from a health perspective if not for my husband i would much rather be at my previous healthy weight and be able to enjoy a burger or a cupcake now and then i'm afraid i'm falling out of love with him after being treated this way i know no marriage is perfect but it's so heartbreaking to be treated like an object that is never quite pretty or shapely enough and if it's like this less than a year in it's probably not going to get better right i'm just so embarrassed that my marriage is reduced to this and don't know how to tell my family and friends but also i feel like i'm fading away and losing myself to expectations i can never really meet this is a bad this is PROFANITY_TOKEN terrible that's a bad one this is a little abusive there's uh this is not a communique one i i don't think there's enough there's not enough communication in the world to save to save this um okay wow all right um i there's just there's no solution except to just be done with this thing i mean you're not gonna win i mean it's just like it'll keep going i feel like i feel like you could even get to that point but it's you shouldn't even have to this is dumb you were happy before well and she's it sounds like she's already lost a bunch of weight and he's still not happy so it's like oh lose NUMBER_TOKEN pounds okay she lost NUMBER_TOKEN pounds and he's like oh no you still don't look good so there's just so many problems there it's just i don't even know where to start it's like withholding sexual things except oral no but he gets oral that's what i mean yeah she gets nothing right not even affection oh my god this is this is really abusive so let's read the comments because they did such a good job and then we can add a little bit more of our own two cents after if we need it sure so if you keep allowing him to make these demands of you they'll never end is what he's offering really worth the stress and hope he goes honestly he isn't offering me much of anything now when we were dating he was also my best friend and the most kind loving and supportive man since seeing that my body wasn't ideal he has been treating me with disdain i guess he is just really disappointed in me but it seems so cruel i do have a job and can support myself our incomes are about equal so it's not even like he is the breadwinner so you're telling me you get married without seeing the person you're marrying naked ever some people wait ever some people do not go swimming no no hot tubs okay well the swimming thing yes yes that is very true
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