your worst which is leaving socks on the floor to her girlfriend's best which is a guy that picks up his socks but he's got nothing else going on if you see what i'm getting at here right like you want to pay attention to that let me just go back to the alpha widow thing if if she's going to always talk about some guy from her past guy that she was with a guy that she was intimate with and she can't get him out of her head she's never going to be able to look at you as her best you're never going to get her best you know at the end of the day so you want to stay away from those that have been alpha widowed that that haven't gotten over dudes from their past if it's dudes it's a big problem if it's a dude it's still a problem if there's nothing there that's a green flag right um next one she's pleasant and doesn't nag you persistently do i need to explain that one you know a green flag and a woman is you kind of lose track of time when you hang out together you laugh a lot she laughs at your jokes you know you have a good time sort of thing you have some dialogue and some banter okay but you know if all you're listening to is why can't you do this and you're driving me crazy for that if all you're listening to is unpleasant dialogue and nagging it's a red flag i mean why would you want to invite that in your life you want somebody that's pleasant and doesn't nag you persistently you see what i'm saying um next one you want a woman that's going to encourage and support your purpose why is that important because you're a dude you know guys need to chase excellence you have to have something going on in your world world something anything you know the more significant the more important it is the more impact that it has in your lives and those of others the better it is for you and if she's going to encourage and support you being on your grind that's a good thing if she's going to get in the way of that it's a bad thing it's a red flag right so you want you want to see an obvious sign that she's not getting in the way that so i.e um let's say that you host events or you have to go to events um and there's certain days of the week that that has to happen on let's say that uh it ends up falling on a day that you would normally see this uh lady um and then she's like okay cool no problem i'll just you know i'll meet you afterwards you know i'll see at your house or you know just come over to my place when you're done that's a green flag you know that's that's a good sign but if she's going to chirp you like wednesday nights are our nights and then you can't why'd you do that that's that's red flag straight up right so look for somebody that's going to support and encourage your purpose whatever your grind happens to be um oh i didn't talk about the notch count with the alpha widow part so
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