kid with a bum okay she's not doing too good right now and so christianity is seeking to protect its women so that way when they do get married they can have a secure male partner in their lives and in their children's lives and they can be lied appropriately it is just the safest choice that a woman could make in terms of reproduction because the biggest consequence of having pre-marital sex would be that you do get pregnant and that this dude's a fair weather guy and how do you know he's going to show up a lot of women try to make fathers out of men who do not want to be fathers you can't force a man to be a father whether you birth his child or not and here's why because a loser is gonna do what a loser does whether you get pregnant by him or not so you can't get mad at a flake for being a flake so christianity is just seeking to protect its women and it does this protection through terms of sin if you want to look biblically sin leads to death and this can be shown in over indulgences if you overindulge with alcohol that's going to lead you to death if you have promiscuous sex that can lead you to death through stds among other things it's just a protective mechanism now where the problem lies in modern messaging is you're going to be hard-pressed to be able to communicate to a young woman to not have premarital sex by shaming her people are more apt to psychologically listen to your message if you paint it in a positive light so instead of telling them they're awful and disgusting human beings for doing what they've done which by the way they only need to answer to christ it's not your job to judge her right but instead of telling her awful she is why don't we as christian women literally talk to one another about the joys of sex let's get married christian women married christian mothers and have these conversations on how wonderful sex can be with your husband when you put in the work for it and also look at what sex creates creates children and in a loving home that is a gift and a blessing if you haven't noticed i'm very pro-marriage and pro-sex i want people to have sexy marriages sex is the glue that keeps marriage together and so that's why i'm here to arm women with the things that i've learned and i've learned quite a bit not just on the research side of things but i did work at a couple store for about a year because i was very sexually ignorant i knew nothing about female anatomy being a woman myself and that made me feel unempowered so i went out there and i did the dang thing so i learned about products female climaxing mechanisms and female anatomy and it's been so rewarding to be able to share this information with other women so that they can have a healthy sex life hopefully within a marriage uh if you're not doing that i'm not here to judge i'm just here to argue that it's probably better to have sex with a
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