casey thought i knew the cat was serious i was like he's like why are you so calm about this are you serious right now in the spiritual ass house okay i didn't realize the cat was here no i can't i jumped off a chair the chair and they were using it as a scratching post and then jumped off i just nearly shut myself i didn't understand why everyone was so calm okay sorry we probably need to call and nicky be like can you just like uh burn a sage like just purify it not needed it was a cat it's okay okay so julia was about to say yeah green flag um i think allowing someone who's quiet to speak oh my god that's literally the first one oh really yes oh so the way they specifically wrote this was they make space for someone who is being ignored in a conversation we gotta elaborate um i don't know i just like for anybody that's like quiet in the room i'd be like what do you think they're like oh what i'm like what do you think come on say something and they're like i don't know i'm like that's fine you don't have to see anything you don't want to but i think it's just like i like when i feel that someone is quiet but they have something they want to say like i want to be sure that they get heard yeah so that's how that's how i kind of feel but like i know that there are people that just genuinely want to stay quiet and don't even want to say anything i'm like that's fine that works too oh yeah that energy thing i hate that feeling so i noticed when people do this now so i try to stop it but when someone's talking and then you just realize that everyone else is ignoring them and they're telling a story i make it a point to like yes what yeah go ahead yeah you know like what are you saying i'm listening or sometimes it'll be a joke yeah yeah yeah i feel like it does that girl i know that i don't let people do that to me because i'll be like yeah and i was telling a story so you need to go ahead and come back over here like i want to make sure if people stop listening i'll throw a fit so yeah dude i give up i'm just like yeah well i i mean if i get pissed off enough yeah and it's happened like so much for years but for the most part though for the most part like in a regular setting yeah i'll just be like yeah so i'm saying this and i'm talking over here listening and then okay but like that is like such a signature sound right because like you start out loud and then as you're saying your story you were like oh yeah and then oh yeah like that happened and yeah but everyone's still talking over here and i was listening to yeah yeah yeah yeah either i'll troll off or i'll stop talking i'll be like okay never mind yeah usually though like i because i i hear you do that you've done it multiple times in our lives
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