but so okay so how does that change the workplace you know like because how we're talking about how guys are like they're more polished at work we don't see like the shitty sides yeah you know it's higher propensity to have a crush on them because like we're not seeing all of them how do you think that plays in i guess because i've never worked in nine to five like i can't really relate to this part because um like steve and i work together all the time so i don't have that but the times that i've worked on like a film or something like that it's more just like a it's less of a they're more polished and more of a like oh that's a different flavor like i've i've been not i haven't interacted with this flavor before yeah but you know when i picture them and the reason i don't go home and like fantasize about them is because those people they're usually like kind of funny but they don't seem like mature husband guys like i would never like that doesn't seem like your industrial relationship your industry it's just like a different like yeah oh that's a different taste okay what i think i can relate it to a little bit where you're saying about the whole like polished version of it and then like someone can be attracted to that and then like it could lead to a fair kind of thing i think it's the same kind of psychology when people are like they know so much about like a celebrity or a youtuber oh right yeah like they fully know their whole life and they feel a strong connection because then they're relating it to their own life even though they've never actually met and they don't see the bad they don't see it yeah they don't see any of the bad parts it's all polishing a full picture yeah i could see i could see how that can play into like a work setting yeah and then because they actually have the added layer of having that interaction and actually like communicating and like connecting on a deeper level yeah there this article is talking about how people um can feel alone and depleted in their relationships because like when you don't have the same job or like even in the same industry you don't like when you come home what you did for eight or ten hours that was stressing you the PROFANITY_TOKEN out like they don't they're not gonna understand it at all so i think in like a part of human nature is like you just really want to be understood you like the camaraderie so like it's risky when you spend then eight to ten hours with someone who understands the like they're a part of your daily mission like that's if you think about it like i like i'm like i'm going to work with an accountant yeah they're going to do exactly what i do no commiserating with some PROFANITY_TOKEN yeah PROFANITY_TOKEN on some PROFANITY_TOKEN you're doing you know like i think that's another thing yeah because like i can only speak from like projects i've worked on but it's like you're both working on the same project yeah the same goal that your partner wouldn't understand the project at all and then so you go home and you like want to explain or
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