the company of us yes but mostly our career and position is based on our fans so we are a bit passionate about this issue you were in boyfriend but felt like you couldn't be a boyfriend i just wanna be a boyfriend you wanted to be in boyfriend and be a boyfriend yeah yeah yeah i just remember the company that they just don't get caught sorry they say it's okay today but don't get caught yeah they just feel like if you're gonna date like don't get caught by us they would say don't get caught by us not don't get caught by someone else they're giving you permission as long as you don't get caught by them that's yeah bizarre there is a lot of secret dating and you date mostly at night because obviously our schedules are you know jam-packed during the day we would go to like a little bit outside of seoul and then we would date around like night time whoa you actually had to go to a different city today go to like NUMBER_TOKEN-hour cafes in like the middle of nowhere because what would have happened if a fan saw you and snapped a picture idols are like products you're their biggest asset and you're they're money makers so if you start dating and the fans will sometimes leave you and i think that's the thing that the companies are the most scared of and um that's the reason why i feel like dating in the idol scene is just not accepted and i don't think it's ever gonna be accepted how did things change once you started performing and recording songs and music videos when we have music show programs it's two to three minutes sometimes you might perform your whole song but if you are a rookie group and you just debuted and your company is not as big they might even cut your song so basically you're putting in like eight nine hours a day of work to just for this two minutes of like performing on stage and i remember like you would be so like excited to go on stage and then after you perform you're like okay well that was fast did you ever feel like you were a prisoner to your contract before we continue learning about the world of ex-kpop idols you're manipulating more than you think you are and in this situation they might feel like they're benefiting you but in the end it's not you're just being used you're just a product hold on one second i know you're tempted to skip through this but i have a very important very quick announcement that i spent a day with isn't just here on youtube we're also on tick tock snapchat spotify and of course most importantly apple did i mention the podcast version of the show is completely uncensored it is and while you're here i'd also like to thank better help for their continued partnership therapy has been extremely helpful in shaping who i am today by allowing me to have empathy for my younger self and therefore understand my current self better but therapy can be customized to whatever is right for you and can be really useful in providing tools to help with motivation or feelings of depression anxiety stress insecurity or whatever else you might specifically need better help has been continuing to improve throughout the years and screens all therapists to ensure that they have experience and are certified and licensed and provides customized online therapy that offers video phone and even live chat sessions with your licensed therapist so you don't have to
START_SPONSOR_TOKEN before we continue learning about the world of ex-kpop idols you're manipulating more than you think you are and in this situation they might feel like they're benefiting you but in the end it's not you're just being used you're just a product hold on one second i know you're tempted to skip through this but i have a very important very quick announcement that i spent a day with isn't just here on youtube we're also on tick tock snapchat spotify and of course most importantly apple did i mention the podcast version of the show is completely uncensored it is and while you're here i'd also like to thank better help for their continued partnership therapy has been extremely helpful in shaping who i am today by allowing me to have empathy for my younger self and therefore understand my current self better but therapy can be customized to whatever is right for you and can be really useful in providing tools to help with motivation or feelings of depression anxiety stress insecurity or whatever else you might specifically need better help has been continuing to improve throughout the years and screens all therapists to ensure that they have experience and are certified and licensed and provides customized online therapy that offers video phone and even live chat sessions with your licensed therapist so you don't have to END_SPONSOR_TOKEN