a dude who they've been with for NUMBER_TOKEN years the exact same as they can quote unquote love a guy who has they've been together with for NUMBER_TOKEN years the same amount that they quote unquote love a guy that they've met for three days okay so time is so irrelevant to women guys it's unreal the amount of investment that you put in is is you know inconsequential but the point that i wanted to make here is the fact that men who put everything into relationships and they do all this kind of stuff they're often really shocked to find out that their girlfriends don't respect them at all and they talk terribly about them behind their back women know that you know a lot of them are not necessarily worth this investment right so when they see guys investing all this stuff and doing all these things for her even though she's acting like a brat right even though she's doing all these really annoying things and the guys continuing to invest she's going to slowly start to lose respect and she's going to treat men like that with men who it's funny right because men are encouraged to put up with all this stuff but if you as a man you put up with all this stuff they strongly dislike you for it you see what i'm saying and that's difficult for a lot of men to see because you know looking at it from the guy's perspective it's like i did so much for you i did so much you know i use so much of my life caring for you providing for you and you apparently you hate me right apparently you dislike me that much that you're telling other people about this and you're cheating on me and that's a shock to a lot of guys to see that the investment guys to a lot of women are just straight up doesn't matter right and and they'll treat you west for guys who openly commit and they show how much the relationship means to them oftentimes they're straight up mocked and that's that's a difficult thing for a lot of guys to understand but let's continue onwards uh after the procedure i told her we'd have to put a hold on the other plans to both our dismay intending to discuss things when we both got home once we reached our car i couldn't hold back i told her everything i saw i told her not to touch her phone because i wanted to talk to her about it point by point and didn't want her removing or deleting anything anywhere from her phone we cried and screamed all the way home gotta love how the girl's screaming even though she was the one caught in the action right you gotta love how the women will scream along with even when they're caught very interesting once home we set the kids up and we went to our room where i dove in headfirst i had her unlock her phone and give it to me which she eventually did very reluctantly that's where it got even more difficult she admitted to the infidelity with this guy thomas in the basement on multiple occasions but as i dove deeper in the phone i found out a couple of other issues it turns out that while we were dating before we were married she had been with a friend in college that i always feared but she had always denied she insists the saying with thomas that they did not have uh bedroom
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