that kind of dictatorship is a little it's not healthy because it makes them just fearful i know you're always like burp into the microphone they it and i'm like my i hear my mother burp off excuse me what does that understand what just happened you said i hear my mother when you when i do the thing that i know my mommy didn't like me doing and and so when we're reprimanding our children remember that like i always think when i correct a behavior like that's the that's what they're going to hear in their heads when they're PROFANITY_TOKEN NUMBER_TOKEN years old and they're sitting there or they hear it come out of their mouth yeah that's right i'm like oh my god i'm my mother yeah yeah so gentle correction i tried to be gentle and constructive and you're good you're not gonna lose all that to be like sometimes i'm like god damn it's not you know you're going to do this no one's perfect and no one should be expected to be perfect but you're good PROFANITY_TOKEN she's trying to be cognizant most times especially when they're throwing a fit or crying it's hard because it's like you're over stimulated immediately yeah but you were good like when we went out to lunch and julian like lost it he was so patient and he was just tired he was over it he was over it yeah but he was like testing his boundaries yeah and you were like we gotta go then yeah i told you bro and he melted down but but he held it like he didn't freak out you didn't freak out she's like well we gotta go and then like the like aunt of me was like i'll get him the thing anyway that's your role and you can but i can't undermine you i know so i was just like yep no brownie off we go yeah but you know what i noticed about juju is that he's looking for any fight to pick at that point like it wasn't about the brownies no it was because he wasn't comfortable he was done he was cooked so he would have found another reason for me to to a stat like the boundary testing he would have looked for a reason for me he was already poking at me do you remember no remember when so we were standing in line and he said uh he pulled on my shirt and poked me in the face and you said you know you don't poke people and he did it a little bit again and you're like no no like we don't do that and you put him down like because you're holding him and you want to be held so he stopped that so it was just he was just doing it what he was just doing is he was trying to yeah he's over it it's like we we do a version of it as an adult yeah we're in our head we're like PROFANITY_TOKEN PROFANITY_TOKEN PROFANITY_TOKEN PROFANITY_TOKEN you know everything's annoying son of a PROFANITY_TOKEN yeah you're more short with people you're rude that's what that was him doing of course of course katie how much do you love your ring alarm system in your new house love it makes me feel safe also i can see if someone's stealing
START_SPONSOR_TOKEN katie how much do you love your ring alarm system in your new house love it makes me feel safe also i can see if someone's stealing END_SPONSOR_TOKEN