we are so excited to announce that we now have a line of weird girl merchandise you can now express it through t-shirts posters mugs a backpack there's power in owning the weird girl in all of us announce that you are the weird girl click the link in the description below and get your hands on this one of a kind weird girl merch derek is a manipulative partner yes his marriage to addison falls apart after she cheats on him but his immature reaction prolongs both of their pain he won't work on their relationship but also refuses to formally end things leaving them in limbo as a way to punish her and he fails to recognize that before her infidelity their marriage was lacking in affection and intimacy sometimes people do desperate things to attract attention not your side of this that i didn't pay you enough attention a problem that they both contributed to we got successful you and me we got busy and we got lazy we didn't even bother to fight anymore he then starts a relationship with meredith without telling her that he is still technically married i'm anderson shepard shepard and you must be the woman who's been screwing my husband the fallout causes him to end things with meredith and give addison another chance in theory but in reality this takes the form of continuing to hurt addison and relishing her suffering as karmic payback you do not get to laugh and you do not get to gloat why would i gloat i have poison oak so are we even yet and is this bad enough have we repaid my debt to society he also doesn't allow meredith to move on he PROFANITY_TOKEN shames her for sleeping with someone else who's next alex because i hear he likes to sleep around you two have that in common and even though he's rejected her he gets openly jealous and competitive with her new partner and displays a feeling of ownership over her acting as though she's doing something wrong by trying to be happy with another man i'm married i have responsibilities she doesn't make me sick to my stomach thinking about my veterinarian touching her with his hands his behavior in that situation reveals that he holds some pretty misogynistic views derek's criticisms and treatment of meredith can feel notably gendered in addition to judging her sex life while having an active one of his own he uses language to characterize her as an over-emotional woman casting himself as the calm and rational man it would feel better if meredith wasn't so you know she's acting silly about the credit she's getting emotional he makes decisions for meredith and then informs her instead of including her in the process you can't just assume i'm gonna kick my family out and you don't get to announce it to them and ambush me he disregards meredith's feelings like when he assumes she'll jump for joy at his dc job offer without predicting that she'll also be worried about how totally uprooting her life will affect her career and their children my life is here i don't want to leave and when she's not willing to drop everything in seattle he harbors underlying resentment towards his wife for in his eyes limiting his career i
START_SELFPROMO_TOKEN we are so excited to announce that we now have a line of weird girl merchandise you can now express it through t-shirts posters mugs a backpack there's power in owning the weird girl in all of us announce that you are the weird girl click the link in the description below and get your hands on this one of a kind weird girl merch derek is a END_SELFPROMO_TOKEN