just every day like oh no i'm just gonna i'm just gonna kick my goddamn feet up and get fat you know what i'm saying like we can't continue this you know what i'm saying let's move on thing that i noticed is instead of people getting their happiness from what they're getting like i'm happy when my partner is doing this for me or when i'm getting this love or when i'm getting the things i feel like i'm entitled to get is people feel more happiness in knowing that they fulfilled their duty in marriage and i think that's something that's more expensive because you can't really control what other people do right you can't control like if someone's gonna do something for you that day but you can't control the things that you're doing and i think when your happiness comes from a sense of fulfillment for doing the things that you're supposed to do to get the marriage running then i feel like that leads to much longer happiness as opposed to just what can i get what can i do what can i get so let's compare it it has it's like purpose as well right like it's the same thing what she's talking about again transition that to what you do in your lives outside of your relationships your purpose you get a lot of fulfillment and joy out of what you can contribute to society right your usefulness your utility right and then that then transitions or translates into happiness and purpose and fulfillment within yourself same thing is when you get into a together mindset with someone switching it of what that person can do for you and uh unto what can you contribute that will fulfill also your purpose because that fulfillment and other and someone else is going to make you more internally happy but that mon that right there is completely flipped when you just pander to people and you tell them that they are the prize it's completely flipped like marriage to like a business or something right so for a business to run well the employees should always be doing their job great examples i like her you know what you can just work when you feel like it everyone only worked when they felt like it instead of what you have to do every day then the business might not go so well and so same thing i was trying to say with marriage is similar like you don't always feel like doing things that you're supposed to do all the time but that's just kind of part of it and this is just a very light example it's the only thing that just kind of pops into my head right now but this is not something that moon said i need you to get me my coffee every day but it's just kind of something that i like to do in the morning is to make mr moon coffee shout out to weeble for sponsoring today's video weeble is a free free stock trading application that i personally use to manage my investments open up an account and make a deposit of any amount and get two free stocks worth up to twenty three hundred dollars and you get five bucks of free crypto as well listen guys it's critically important that you start your investment journey so start it today using my link and get free money do it right now link in the description sometimes i don't feel like getting his cafe latte in the morning but i know it makes him happy and it makes it keeps our marriage going and when he sees that i'm
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