wants to know her real dad and i agree with her it's not but what is her fault is how she treated me ever since in my mind i know that if her biological father hadn't passed then we wouldn't even be speaking right now it ended with telling her that i hope she enjoys her wedding but i want no part in her life my son told me that she's ranting to my family that i'm ruining her day and she thought parents are supposed to love their kids unconditionally my brothers seem to think that i'm being a butthole and this is my chance to be in her life again but i have no interest in that it still seems that everyone has a strong opinion on it that i'm making it difficult for my daughter to have the wedding she wants when it would mean a lot to her my son is on my side but the comments are still wearing me down and just for the sake of my sanity am i being a butthole opie i'm gonna be honest with you your daughter sounds like a real piece of work if i found out that my father wasn't my real father or my mother wasn't my real mother when i was NUMBER_TOKEN i definitely wouldn't cut them out of my life because i loved my parents when i was NUMBER_TOKEN. i mean yeah sure i would want to get to know my biological parents but i wouldn't do that at the expense of the parents who raised me so you put in NUMBER_TOKEN years of love dedication and support and as soon as she finds out something that wasn't even your fault it was your wife's fault she's just like well thanks for nothing loser sia wouldn't want to be ya based on the story it doesn't really sound like she wants to get to know you or that she wants to build a relationship with you what she really wants is just to use you as a prop for her wedding so no op i don't blame you at all i have a sneaking suspicion that if you did go to her wedding then she would just say okay well bye and never talk to you again op i'm giving you zero out of five buttholes you're completely justified i'm giving your daughter four out of five buttholes also i'm giving your ex-wife five out of five buttholes because in my opinion so like cheating is already one of the worst things you can do to someone but on top of that cheating with another guy and then getting pregnant and then passing off that child as belonging to your the person that you cheated on is literally one of the worst things that a human being can do to another person because on top of just the baseline level of wrongness of cheating on someone and forcing them to raise someone else's child what you're doing when you make that decision is you're jeopardizing the relationship that someone is building with their own with their own child at least the child they think is theirs and this is exactly what happened to op op raised his child for NUMBER_TOKEN years and the wife through her actions put opi in a situation where his relationship with his own daughter was destroyed it's disgusting it's absolutely disgusting it's unforgivable i think your wife genuinely deserves a five out of five butthole score because she's
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