Thread: My Personality Doesn't Match

Rudolph Quin said Hey, buddy, I've seen your req thread, picky is an understatement. Not a bad thing because you know what you want but a lot of times you tell someone what they can'tshouldn't be doing and they pass you by because it feels already too restricting. That's just human nature. I open a req thread and see a lot of rules and I will close the thread, simply because that's a turnoff for me as far as flexible partners. We should rp sometimegonna send you a pm. I have found an equal number of those who play their women as confident characters, as ones who are willing to follow my characters' lead, story-wise, so, I know they're here. I too make the distinction between them because although, like I've said, I've found partners who can play women that take charge and move the plot forward, I've found none who wanted to beat my submissive male character because he likes it and wants to be punished'm naughty. I don't think that you should compromise on how you present yourself, though. You've clearly got standards and anything below that will not be fun for you. I find too, even when making myself presentable, making my ideas interesting as they're listed in the req thread, I've got a lot of stuff that I don't want to wade through. Usually when I've got an empty plate and I'm looking for something to fill the spot, I'm not picky I just want to have fun. So, even if someone has a barely thought out character and does the bare minimum while riding my coattails through the rp, I'll sometimes play and write what I want to write about for a few dozen posts. That's my personal motivations, though, coming at rping not only for the fantasy and escapism but also because I can't write alone. I've tried. I overcomplicate shit or I start drawing pictures and feel done with the story after a few chapters and doodles. So, I come at it to write my storyselfish, yes but with the help of someone to occasionally inject me with adrenaline and keep the energy flow. Click to expand... The amusing thing is that people read my request thread, but cant envisage and I guess I can't really expect them to the smile on my face, and the good mood I was in, when I wrote it. That's with the exception of my current partners, who seemed to sense it was mostly written in jest, and that the bark is actually a lot worse than the bite. Most of them approached me with biting sarcasm, or humour, themselves, and I immediately clapped my hands together in glee, and thought, Yep, we're compatible. I guess, in the end, that means the request works, because it attracts partners that I'm able to keep long-term, and share a sense of humour with. OoC compatibility is as important to me as the story itself it keeps me invested in the scene, and wanting to give them my best. I can't write alone, either. Give me a blank piece of paper, and I'll still be staring at it six hours later, but when I've someonesomething to bounce off, all sorts of possibilities of 'where can this go' pop into my head. It's why I'm crap at coming up with fleshed out plots on my lonesome. I get you with the dominant females. I've never searched for one, as it's not my cup of tea as in the whips and chains for my character, but I do feel sympathy for those guys who do crave one. Sometimes it feels as males aren't allowed to have their own fantasies, but must only play those of the female otherwise they won't ever find anyone to write with. And no worries, just responded to your PM. I'm flattered that you'd ask me to write with you tell me to shut-up, again, xd, and definitely open to it at some stage.