Thread: Patterns. Just need to get this off my chest.

So, heres what happened. I made a comment on photo my mother posted of her dog pack. She has a bunch of dogs and a lot of them I knew when I lived with her. The short version of that story is that one of her dogs killed her other dog and thats my mothers fault, not that shed ever admit it. Why is it her fault? That dog attacked me twice and she never did anything about it. The dog is clearly unstable and yet she still has her. So, I dont really want to relive the argument as a whole but heres the biggest indicator that my mother is a narcassist. I started the fight in public, stopped after about three posts and said Wait, I should take this to the PMs on Facebook and thats what I did. AFTER everything had boiled up to a stteaming whistle and we ended the conversation on a sour note, SHE posts on her wall this passive aggressive shit From what My Name has told me, I am not a proper parent but a petulant child. Thank you Jay for showing me my wrong doings, I am sure glad my 23 year old unwed, no child in the future, son knows how to parent as I do not. Also Thank You for verbally abusing me yet again in our conversation today, I like it when my children abuse me like my past bad relationships have. You truly know how to treat a mother. Happy Early Mothers Day To Me!! And this sparked a bunch of her friends attacking my character despite having never met me. I argued back some, but then she decided to do well.. I am just going to let others read the rants that are posted here and let Jay paint me as he sees me. If anyone would like to comment on anything that is said here by all means please do and let the rant continue. If I am such a bad mother then let it be known here for all to see as I have nothing to hide. Robert Penney Matthew Paul Penney should also take a look at the rants and weigh in on this issue. My Dad My Grandfather My Grandmother My aunt you as well can go ahead and roast me if you would like, I am sure you have your own opinions on this matter, let's get this out in the open where it can be talked about. Yeah. She tagged basically all of my family that she could into joining the fight, which my father, and both of my brothers, and some random cousin Ive never met jumping in to defend my mom and tell me what a terrible person I am because of my issues with, well, life. During the initial argument before all of this, I got so fucking angry that I essentially just let the floodgates implode and I laid into her about absolutely everything that I hated about her. How she didn't do anything about the dog biting me, how she let Hemi kill Dodge, how she abandoned me when I was going to be kicked out of my dad's house at 16 because her ex-husband They were married at the time said so, how she left me to be raised by my dad so she could raise my younger siblings without a fight with him, how she never called, how she wasn't my mom because she didn't fucking earn it. Her general responses were Its not my fault I tried my hardest what was I supposed to do. She wonders why Im so angry with her. So yeah, she essentially pinned this whole thing on me, retreated to her own personal hugbox and enraged me to the point where I came full circle. Im just Im out of rage. -Sigh- So yeah, tell me what you think I guess. Feel free to ask questions if anythings unclear. I dont know if Im the narcissist or they are. Im just so tired of being the black sheep with everyone picking on me and then being surprised when I develop a personality specifically designed to lash out at people in response to them attacking me.