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Thread: Fetish Relationship Advice

Hello everyone! so as i know you arent aware, im a 20yr old male in a happy committed heterosexual relationship.. Now the nitty gritty both my girlfriend and i are SM novices, however interested and willing to learn. The tricky part is that i see myself as more of a submissive, and although i dont mind taking control and reversing the role- she has a hard time being the dominant, and really only likes being the submissive i dont mind, as long as im good at it- ill get over it lol the heart of my debacle is i enjoy pleasing my woman -as any man should- and she has a rape fantasy... this isnt something im used to and considering im not 100 comfortable being the dominant, i have trouble taking control like that. So do our kink experts here have any input for a young fetish in the making? we practice the usuals like biting, scratching, choking, and light bondage handcuffs mostly but thats it. Do my friends here have any advise to help me get out of this uncomfortable rut and become ok 'abusing' her?
Thread: Fetish Relationship Advice

I suggest you work up to a level you are comfortable with. I have the feeling you are completely monogamous, yes? If you can work up to a level you are comfortable with but know you can't give her exactly what she wants fantasy-wise, I can only suggest that you explore the potential of having a friend you trust and give rulesboundaries to to help completely fulfill the fantasy. However, that is something you and your girl will have to discuss and figure out where you both are comfortable. Comfort and security are the key things in this kind of thing. You also have to be VERY careful.
Thread: Fetish Relationship Advice

--Hahvoc Requiem-- said I suggest you work up to a level you are comfortable with. I have the feeling you are completely monogamous, yes? If you can work up to a level you are comfortable with but know you can't give her exactly what she wants fantasy-wise, I can only suggest that you explore the potential of having a friend you trust and give rulesboundaries to to help completely fulfill the fantasy. However, that is something you and your girl will have to discuss and figure out where you both are comfortable. Comfort and security are the key things in this kind of thing. You also have to be VERY careful. Click to expand... i understand, i guess its just hard for me because, i know even though she is 'satisfied' with our sex life as am i i know she is still looking for more ya know? and yes we are both completely monogamous and plan to keep it that way. i'm starting to approach the fetish stuff as a roleplay exercise and coming out of my shell that way. i suppose its hard for us since she still lives with her family and the only intimacy we get is in her room usually at night- and with a 2 year old little brother asleep on the other side of the wall it makes it hard to go all out. i suppose patience and subtle boundary pushing is whats best huh? Does anyone have any tips on new things we can try? particularly that dont involve toys or equipment? seeing as we're both broke college students.
Thread: Fetish Relationship Advice

I'd suggest wax play candles are cheap and ice play along with sensory deprivation. -Knows a lot- And yes, subtle boundary pushing and definitely patience. And even if someone is satisfied with their partner and sex life, the brain has a wonderful way of making up new ideas to add more spice.
Thread: Fetish Relationship Advice

It might just not be your thing, and dominating may not be hers. I'd say since you are the more comfortable one with the SM thing and she is the one having issues, keep up what you're doing and just over time, work more and more at it. Maybe she'll learn new things and become more accustomed. It may not be an over night or done within a month kind of thing, just have patience with her. And if its something she or you simply can't do, you may have to find something else that works for both of you. I'm the type where in my relationship, the person is more important than the fantasyfetish, and if its something they don't want to do or can't do, no big deal, as long as we can have sex and do other things, its all good. There's so many things you can do with sex, there's probably always something else you can cook up. I wouldn't turn to fuck buddies for one fantasy, especially if you are monogamous and she is otherwise happy with you, and you her. Just keep your communication and mind open. Don't push and remember, put the person first, not the act.
Thread: 1X1 X-men rp. rahatingt and I only.

The setting takes place at Xavier school for the gifted where a female x-men with blonde hair, hazel green eyes, 5'5, wearing a pink shirt, pair of black pants and her shoes are white and she is about a year younger then Remy and she is about 25 years old and Remy is 26 years old. She has been here for about two whole years and she has been writing stuff in her diary about her stay at this school and also a bit of about Remy and Logan why they dont like each other very. And she keeps her diary well hidden where no other x-men would be able to find her diary and try to open it up and read what she has wrote down in her secret diary book. She locks her diary up in her dresser and she heads downstairs and hears Logan yelling at Remy for cheating at cards and she just rolled her eyes and didn't say a word to those two for arguing with each other at all. Logan said to Remy, I warned you to stay away from Terra why do you bother coming here your nothing but trouble and I'm not going to let you get Terra into any trouble at all you have been warned and you better stay away from her I'm warning you right now Remy. Logan shows Remy his metal claws and had them pointing at his throat and he pulled them back in and he knew that Terra heard what he said to Remy and she looked at Logan and then at Remy and she said to Logan, Quit being protective about me I'm not Rogue so stop treating me like her I'm nothing like her at all, and just leave me alone Logan. Terra was a little bit upset about this and she walks away from Logan and heads outside and she sits on a bench in the garden and she sighed and couldn't believe that she told Logan off right in front of some of the students and she sighed. Logan glared at Remy and he headed to the garage to work on Scott's car once again and he couldn't believe that he was treating Terra like Rogue and he sighed. d.
Thread: What Your Wife Doesn't Know(Caspian and NorthernSunset)

Gillian Penny was lounging today. She was a professional, in her early thirties. At least, she was still on the kinder side of 35. Shed been working in her chosen field for about 15 years now, and it had treated her well. She had all the jewellery she ever could have wanted, a place of her own, and a clientele that was nothing if not loyal, and money in the bank, enough to be choosy about new business. She could work from home, but often found herself in strange and exotic venues. She was very much a girl next door type, curly brownish hair that fell a couple inches below her shoulders, forest green eyes peered out from behind a pair of sexy librarian glasses. She was tall, leggy, but with curvy figure that screamed womanhood at every twist, from her full breasts to her tapered waist to her full rounded hips and ass. She lounged on the balcony of her 8th story condo. The weather was beautiful in her southern town. She read the same sentence a couple of times off her e-reader. Her net book was open by her side, her home page up. Gillian wasnt your average professional. Oh she looked the part, but her profession was the oldest one in the book. Executive Companion Service, had been running for 15 years now. It had started out on a whim, a dare really, from a dear friend to start a 1-900 number in college to help offset the bills. Gillian had made enough the first 6 months to pay for the up coming year. She enjoyed it, and she enjoyed talking to people and making a distant connection with them. Real men complicated things, but voices over a phone that was something she could compartmentalize and walk away from. Sure, there had been a couple of regular callers whom she cared about, even came to know, as well as you could know someone without a face. They all knew hers, but she... she had no clue if the guy on the other end was handsome or not, she just heard voices. Then booming success turned into something more, as a couple of the regulars began calling not only for the phone sex, but to actually talk. She had one who spoke of issues with his wife at length, sometimes thats all the do was talk about the home life. It all depended on what her client wanted to do, and how often he called. Five years after starting the call line, one of her regulars came to town on a business meeting. His girlfriend was at home, but he needed a date to a formal event. He had asked Gillian for a price to escort him. She had thought long and hard about agreeing to that first date. But, she had relented. A thousand dollars for two hours of her time. That was a good deal. No expectation of sex or anything else, just a companion for the evening. That had started it. From there, it had progressed to taking some very selective clients as sexual liaisons, but she was smart, and clean about it. And discreet. Gillian heard a little bloop-ping from her net book. A sound reserved for incoming applications. She perused the form. Her interest peaked. It was a slow day. A slow week, if she was being honest. Some fun might just be exactly what the doctor ordered.
Thread: What Your Wife Doesn't Know(Caspian and NorthernSunset)

Allan was on his way, back for another conference. His flight was set to return two days after the conference which suited him just fine. Every time he came to this town he couldn't help but look her up. Gillian. It was funny how things unfolded. Allan was happily married. He had been so for several years. They had their ups and downs, like many other couples. Things became stressed between Allan and his wife at times. Allan was traveling all the time and his wife resented it. They always made up and after time they could settle back down into a normal routine for a month or two before Allan had to be off again, in some other place. During his first visit to the city he toyed with the idea of finding a once-only fling with some random girl. His mind played through the scenario of how he would meet the girl. How he would charm her in a dark lounge somewhere in a nice part of town. He would sweep her off her feet and casually suggesting that they catch a cab together. They come back, have room service drop off a bottle of champagne and a basket of strawberries. They would make love, twice, before falling asleep in the soft sheets of the bed and wake up in each others arms. They would wake in the morning and they would kiss, making love a final time before he paid for the taxi ride home for her. They would exchange names only - no phone numbers. They would never see each other again, only thinking of her whenever the smell of her perfume on another woman excited the memory. This never came to be, of course. Instead he would pop open his laptop and scan the internet for singles and chat lines that he would never call or contact, just for the fun of playing make-believe. It was during this searching that he had come across the advertisement. It was just phone-chat. Not even remotely close to sex or cheating. He could talk with another woman without feeling guilty. Hell, he did it all the time. He'd flirt shamelessly with the waitresses and the flight attendants and the occasional stripper when he was so inclined. This seemed different though, something naughty and dark. The first time he called he hung up when the phone connected. The second time he called he waited for the voice to answer. The phone-calls escalated into something more. He would call whenever he was out of town. Not just when he was in the city, but whenever he was on the road away from home. At first the calls just got him excited. He'd stroke himself, listening to the dark, sweet voice of Gillian describing what she would do to him or what he could do to her. After a while though, it became more. She became a confidant. It was nice to have someone to confide in, someone who could hear his burdens and his worries without judging and without having to answer to anyone. It was after they had been speaking for a year that he had asked to meet her.
Thread: What Your Wife Doesn't Know(Caspian and NorthernSunset)

Gillian was just about to click the new client request, when her cell phone went off. Clients generally did not have her personal cell phone number. That tended to get sticky. Not that she never gave it out, but she was if nothing careful. Their ring tones were customized so if she wanted she could tell without being near the phone who it was who was calling. This one started out as a snippet of a song she knew very well, and she smiled softly, Allan. She closed down the website, leaving the new applicant in the dark and in favour of her most, intriguing of clients. Allan had been one of her phone clients for a long time. He had a very soothing voice, and they had spent hours on the phone after he had first applied for her service. They spoke about everything, from his siblings, to his job, to his wife of twelve years, she was his confidant but also a person who knew the players without really knowing them. It was only his side she ever got and that was the beauty of what she did. Her clients were always right, unless they were wrong, and then Gillian never had a hard time telling them if they were. Allan though, had seemed to grow on her more than most. After a year of phone interludes, they met. Allan travelled to her city at least once a month sometimes more, and on one of his longer stays, he had asked her for coffee. Not quite the typical date Gillian was used to, but it was his dime, and the thought seemed to make him happy. Meeting him in person had cinched something in Gillian. He had fantastic hazel eyes, was tall with very strong arms for an executive, and was just slightly distracted through the whole thing, in a cute, absent minded professor way. She didnt disagree when he asked if they could try for another date. Two dates turned into a dozen, her showing up at the bar he was at with friends sitting and watching them together, waiting until everyone had left before sliding into the seat next to him. Or waiting for him to come to her. A couple months ago, he called and booked her for more than just a simple coffee date. They had gone out to dinner, and then he had taken her back to his hotel room. Gillian shivered with the memory. She was a sexual person, she enjoyed a good orgasm, but only four of her clients had ever blown her mind with the liaison they had shared. Allan was one. She picked up the cell. Why hello handsome, come to brighten my dull weekend? Gillian teased. She roughly knew his schedule, but it still sent her heart racing every time his ring blasted from her phone.
Thread: What Your Wife Doesn't Know(Caspian and NorthernSunset)

Allan hesitated, like he always did. There was a big part of him that wanted to maintain his loyalty. After all, he did swear an oath, a solemn vow to be faithful and to love and respect his partner in life. Which just made the allure of calling Gillian all the more devious and seductive. He'd had opportunities before, but there was nothing like what he had with Gillian. There was an undercurrent, something that went beyond their professional relationship. Gillian was something else, something that he couldn't get anywhere from anyone, except Gillian. After a few long seconds he inhaled slowly through his nose and began his talk. If I'm talking to the right person, I am hoping that she can brighten mine. If it brightens both of our weekend, well then... things are looking good. How have you been doll? It's been a while, too long. I'm in for a conference on the exciting world of policy development and analysis. Care to take my mind off of it some time in the next two nights? The company spent big, I'm staying at the Crowne Plaza. Allan hoped she was available. She had never turned him down ever, but there was always a first time for everything. He thought about taking off his wedding ring, but he knew he wasn't fooling Gillian. She had heard everything about his life, at least all the major details. She heard about his happiness with his wife and some of the hardships they went through. All in all, Gillian knew everything she needed to know about Allen. Especially how to make him cry out in bliss.
Thread: What Your Wife Doesn't Know(Caspian and NorthernSunset)

Gillian smiled as she listened to Allans voice. She knew he had issues reconciling her in his life. He loved his wife, he was never going to leave his wife and from all intensive purposes, Gillian would have to injure him if he even thought of it. She seemed perfect, but prefect only went as far as being there. With Allans schedule, she wasnt there for a lot of it, and that meant he had a void, a pit of need, that Gillian could fill. Crowne Plaza, huh? Gillian smiled. Allan got put up in a myriad of places, some good, some great, and only once or twice some fairly sketchy places, at least that she knew of. And lets be honest, no matter how much she liked a client, a sketchy hotel put a damper on things. She and Allan had laughed at the one situation, but on the second, even though his room was paid for Gillian refused to stay there. You must be attending one of your fancy conferences. She smiled as she teased him picking up her things and moving off the deck. If she was going to have a date tonight there was preparation that had to happen. So tell me sweetheart, what are you looking for tonight, and I can see if I can make it happen for you. Gillian set her net book down and opened her walk through closet. Tucked in the back was her selection of interesting sets, designed to titillate and entice the male mind. She stood before it wondering what she should wear for him this evening, or if he was going to have a request.
Thread: What Your Wife Doesn't Know(Caspian and NorthernSunset)

I would love to see you show up, modestly dressed in a long skirt and a nice top. Nothing too fancy, but nothing plain and boring either. I want you looking like we're going out on a date. Underneath, I want you wearing something shocking and enticing. Something that will make me anticipate taking you, having you and feeling you throughout the late hours of the night. I want lace, I want red and I want crotchless. In return I'll be in a suit, navy, with grey slacks and a nice tie. You'll look like you're out on a date with a mormon. Allan chuckled. He loved knowing some of the outfits that Gillian wore. Some of them were so revealing, even underneath her outer layers, that he could find himself hard and wanting before even saying hello. Gillian had that kind of effect on him and they both knew it. He always fantasized about coming home to his wife with an unexplained stain on the front of his suit. He'd take it to the dry-cleaners, they'd have to recognize that kind of stain. They'd give him an awkward smirk when he dropped them off, and perhaps a knowing grin from the girl who handed them back when he went back to pick them up. Perhaps it was that knowledge that they would know that made the fantasy that much more exciting. When we get back I'd like to use my tie for a purpose it was never intended for. I'll have you tease me and then I will have my turn teasing you. Then tasting you. But not once will I take my suit off. Everything I do to you and you do to me will be done in this suit. I might change the pants, but the jacket will remind me through the whole conference of what will transpire later. Tell me, how does that sound to you?
Thread: What Your Wife Doesn't Know(Caspian and NorthernSunset)

Gillian laughed softly as she listened to Allan describe items in her wardrobe. She knew exactly what to put together for him. She smiled as she pulled several things from her collection then laid out a nice modest black dress. It was tailored with bold seaming that accented her curves and fell just a few inches above her knee in a very classy number. So, same as always? She asked, huskily as she set her tub to run. They had made an arrangement when these escalated dates began that Allan would use a paypal account for her transactions. It was nearly instantaneous, and one spot he knew his wife would never see the money missing from. He did a lot of buying on ebay, so it was easy to explain away if she even saw the bill. Gillian touched her net book and brought it to life. She pulled up her accounting feature and set it open as she continued prepping for her bath, ensuring Allan could hear the running water. Gillian dipped her fingers into the water as the tub filled. Perfect, she whispered softly, as the balance on her web account updated. Well, love, she said softly. If I am to meet you for 7 or 8 I need to let you go, I have a hot bath calling my name. She let the teasing tone slip into her words. Let him imagine her sinking into the tub naked and taking her time getting ready for him. Half the fun with Allan, was she knew those simple words would have a reaction all their own as would the sound of the running water. Hed know shed be getting naked and that thought would drive him just a bit crazy. Gillian smiled as she whispered her farewell to him and hung up the phone. She undressed and stepped into the deep tub, sighing as the hot water penetrated her skin.
Thread: What Your Wife Doesn't Know(Caspian and NorthernSunset)

Allan's entire body broke out in goosebumps when her voice lowered from the low, sultry tone of her voice on the phone down to the soft, sweet whisper. He shuddered a little, a delightful little tickle broke out up his spine causing him to shiver with delight. Allan knew that Gillian had been drawing a bath. He could see the hot, curling steam rising up from the water. He pictured a few lit candles surrounding the bath as the only source of light in the room, casting the silhouette of her naked frame on the walls of the bathroom. He could see her shadow dance and sway with the flickering light caused by the soft breeze that she would cause just by swaying around the room. He pictured her, getting into the hot water slowly, drawing up a little of the water into a sponge and trickling it down the front of her chest, a trickle of water forming a stream between her beautiful and ample chest. Then she would sink down into the water, her delicious backside would dip into the nearly still water of the bath... Allan could feel himself getting hard, the anticipation was half the fun. The other half was going to be the fulfillment of that fantasy. He loved watching her naked form, it was curvy and it had a natural grace that came with her gentle movements. The sex was always fun, but it was the whole experience that the dates worth every penny. He did want to just have some random fuck in a hotel. That could be arranged by anyone, hell, he'd had offers before. He never took them though. There was something with Gillian that he never had with anyone else. It was the total professionalism of the experience matched with the knowledge that she chose him as a customer. He didn't go shopping for this woman like some john out on the streets. They had talked and she decided that he would be a welcome client on a very small, very elite list. Allan was ready for the night out. He had showered, shaved, deodorized and prepared everything. He went through the trouble of being manicured even, just to make sure that everything was in the right place and he was as deserving as a customer as she was as his escort. Tonight was going to be an excellent night and this conference was going to be excellent as well.