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Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

Unsolicited messages, or requests that have nothing to do with what I'm advertising, mainly. Poorly worded garbage laden with bad grammar is the other big offender. Other times I just forget.
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

Unsolicited messages wanting me to partner when I've put nothing out there saying I'm looking for one. This is from my experiences on other sites. I don't think I owe a response to someone trying to get me to write with them randomly. There are plenty of request threads for people looking for those messages to come their way.
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

Every reason I have heard seems like a good reason to ghost. Especially when people start confusing an rp for real life. I like to chat with my rp partners and be buddy buddy but if they get that line blurred that worries me. The Goodman You also sound just like me. I have 100 just stared at my screen for a while wanting to replay and then finally thinking wow this really isn't worth my time...
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

The biggest reason I ghost or ignore someone is for disrespecting me. I try and let people who have done this know, but sometimes, I just dont even bother, especially when someone has been ignoring my messages even though I see them online for weeks at a time. Although all forms of rudeness irritate me.
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

The Goodman said As far as ignoring messages, like people approaching me for rp, or doing something irritating during the first plotting stages, I don't do that. I love to tell folks no if they're being dumb. Like Chai listed several situations where if I got any of that stuff, it would bring me great satisfaction to tell them where they fucked up. Lol, no. Ya nasty. No thanks. Gettin' kinda creepy. Curb your enthusiasm next time. Me? No. No, we're done. That's gone. Thanks tho. Bye. Etc. Click to expand... Hahahaha, Ive done that very few times, but it is satisfying to do. Thats honestly so weird bruh, just go. Some people try to backtrack afterward, though, and that can be amusing, too!
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

The Goodman said I think I always intend to reply. But occasionally the spark is just not there, no matter my intellectual desire for it. Waiting for it to come ends up being an exercise in denial, Let's just not think about it for a while and see if that works. Click to expand... This! I am guilty of reading certain message and thinking the idea appeals to me, when in reality that interest wanes with every day I don't respond, until I inevitably forget about it all together. That said, there are a few things which will cause me to outright ignore a message. Things like hey, u wanna rp? will absolutely earn a big fat 'nope!' from me every time. People being overly flirty also get ignored right off the bat as do messages asking me to play pre-selected faceclaims for some gangbang fantasy. Not gonna happen. My absolute favorite messages though, are those soliciting me to read their request threads to see if we can work something out. Nope, nope, nope and nope . Granted, this has only happened to me a handful of times, but it doesn't make it any less rude.
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

School. I have a lot of math to do and its not easy to find the time to post every week, let alone daily. Still, I try and always make a come back, if the partner is still willing.
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

Iridescence said My absolute favorite messages though, are those soliciting me to read their request threads to see if we can work something out. Nope, nope, nope and nope . Granted, this has only happened to me a handful of times, but it doesn't make it any less rude. Click to expand... Omg, this one specifically really grinds my gears. Like, presumably they read your request thread, took the time to look at your profile and send you a message, only to ask you to look at their their own request thread. I don't mind when it's like, I don't have a lot of time writing this, but I wanted to get something out there before I forget. I'm interested in blah blah blah idea, and will send a more detailed message later, but in the mean time you're free to look through my own request thread, just so you know I'm not bullshitting you or anything. Now that's the kind of PM that I'd likely respect. But when it's just, Here, look at my request thread and let's see if we can make something good. No, lol.
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

I'm glad I'm not the only one that hates one line messages and people who are responding to your request thread with a link to theirs. Lazy people like this are never worth anyone's time.
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

But I never ghost on an RP, just pull the plug, and I try to say either not interested, or not interestedcan't right now, but I'll keep you in mind. Because I will save names for a rainy day. I will only not respond to PMs if the conversation has sort of pettered out and I'd need to inject a new topic to get it going, and I'm really on the fence about the person. I'm questioning their typing skill, or just how compatible we are. I feel like a heel if I initiated the conversation and then pull out. Something like Me Hi here's question, question, question. Them yeah I'm ok with all those Me Oh well, you said what I wanted but not how I wanted it said, good day. The response to this thread tho of One line PMs, I do that. Mainly because I want to check if someone is okay with x or y before starting, because I don't want to fire a multi-paragraph PM when something rather necessary is needed before we can get off the ground, or that would shape my approach. For instance, if they say they're into BDSM, but not whether they're a domsub, I'm not going to send them multiple ideas of me as sub if they in fact do not dom at all. That's just wasting everyone's time. Some people don't specify how they feel about playing aswith non-humans I only play with non-humans, and if they don't, then there's no point in going further. So I certainly will send a single question before tailoring a pitch to their tastes. Otherwise it is just a shotgun approach of HERE'S ALL THE THINGS.
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

I forget, and then feel too guilty to eventually actually reply.
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

At the expense of sounding like a bit of a bitch, I'll go on and bite. Mainly because I am guilty of ghosting. Sometimes shamelessly, depending on the circumstances. - One line PMs don't bother me with it just being one line, per se. It's when that one line is 'Wanna RP?'. Ummm, yeah. I wouldn't have a request thread up if I didn't wanna. - Going off the above, failure to include any or too vague ideas at all. That typically implies I'll end up doing most, if not all, of the plotting and .... no. I'll do all the work with a bookfanfic written solely by me. RPs are meant to be worked on by two people. - When a person very clearly hints they haven't read my request thread. Particularly if they try to include kinks I hate. Cheating has been the biggest one for me and it's like ... no. I know my request thread is really long and has a lot of words in it. I'm only kinda sorry - but not enough to change it. I take the time and effort to read every word of everybody else's request threads, so I expect that back. - If an idea sounds far too smutty andor boring which is a more subtle way of knowing when someone hashasn't properly read my thread - I haven't gotten many of these PMs, thankfully. But people who try to get really personalcreepy with me. - Porn gifspics. Also rare, but they have happened. - Sometimes it's just as simple as ghosting because even with a good idea, I'm not in the mood for it. It tends to be easier for me. I've tried the 'nice rejection' before. Not everyone is good with it, and that typically has led to people attempting to pressure me into agreeing with their ideas. Then it gets awkwarduncomfortable for me. So ghosting is preferred more often than replying however, I can get a civil 'no' out when I feel confident a person will take said response well enough.
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

I think most of you sound pretty reasonable tbh. Besides fighting a good writing partner is hard. Also I totally had an ulterior motive for making this thread. I haven't been ghosted on this site but got a few messages ignored so I was wondering if I could get some insight and this was quite helpful
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

I doubt I have been blocked. I was on here a while ago so maybe I have blocks but my guess is something about my request just didn't click, or wasn't very good. Which I am fine with. I am still rusty.
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

The Goodman said Does anyone know what happens when you put someone on ignore and they try to message you? Are you able to send a message at all? Like, is the option there? Because if you are, sometimes not responding might happen unintentionally. Click to expand... The option shows up still for the blocked party, but their message won't be visible to you. If you've previously messaged with someone, then put them on ignore, that PM thread will still show up in your inbox, but all of their messages will be removed. You'll just see your own responses. Ignoring also prevents you from seeing their messages in the site chat and prevents you from seeing their threads on the forums, so that's a nifty little feature as well.
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

I'm going to make a request for one specific thing. Hi there, I saw you were looking for this one specific thing. I don't know anything about it, so maybe we could plan something else? Maybe you can take a long walk off a short pier...
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

LadyAthene said Sometimes it's just as simple as ghosting because even with a good idea, I'm not in the mood for it. It tends to be easier for me. I've tried the 'nice rejection' before. Not everyone is good with it, and that typically has led to people attempting to pressure me into agreeing with their ideas. Then it gets awkwarduncomfortable for me. So ghosting is preferred more often than replying however, I can get a civil 'no' out when I feel confident a person will take said response well enough. Click to expand... This. I ghost especially when I've interacted with them before, and I know it won't be taken well. Roleplaying is one of those few instances in life where I always tell people it's better to put yourself first even at the expense of common courtesy, mostly because it's not as simple as holding the door open for the next person or whatever. Sometimes there's some backlash that comes with it, and understandably, some people want to avoid this. Also piggy-backing off the too smutty thing, I personally ignore messages where the first question directed to me about the story is about smut. That lets me know they are in it for one thing only, and while that works for others, it doesn't inspire me to reply. Besides, I am more than willing to be open and flexible about kinks if we've established rapport beforehand, making small talk and trading ideas back and forth. I like to think of sending a RP request PM like making sale. In this case, you're selling yourself and the talentskill you have to offer as a writer and roleplayer. If you're selling a car, you would never walk up to a new customer and go, So do you want heated seats, a sunroof and Android Auto in the vehicle? without ever introducing yourself first and showing what you have to offer, and what options might be a good match for them. Most car customers would be weirded out, and some might even be offended. In a similar manner, I ignore messages that just go, I saw your request thread for plot idea and I wanted to know if you were okay with furries, pegging, and choking while sucking dick? While I might be okay with some of those, or even all of those, it doesn't catch my eye as something worthwhile to respond to. I prefer some rapport building and chatting first, but that's also just my personal opinion, which is neither correct or better than anyone else's.
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

The most common is my ownn declining mental state, depression drives me away from things and it feels too awkward to get back in touch with people after a long absence if I don't know them rather well. Otherwise, forcing issues or presenting an uninteresting plan.
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

I don't ghost but if you don't put effort into your first message I'm not gonna respond to you, sorry not sorry.
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

Thomas Parker said Also I totally had an ulterior motive for making this thread. I haven't been ghosted on this site but got a few messages ignored so I was wondering if I could get some insight and this was quite helpful Click to expand... Not responding is a non-confrontational way of rejecting someone. Because some people get offended even if you tell them no. But since there's plausible deniability in not replying I was busy I forgot, the person feels safe in doing it. Yet again it can be the i forgot and I'm busy, but just not responding is generally the way that folks say no thanks. Personally I hate the not knowing, and so strive to be direct but polite.
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

I know I just joined but this seems to be a nice question. And, since I've been in other forums, I think I can also reply! I normally try to respond, even if it's just to say Thank for your interest, but I'm not in the mood right now. It's true that sometimes I forget to respond or may delete the conversation without noticing. But if I detect few to no interest in the responses, e.g. sure or ok or something that doesn't really help moving with the plotting part, that ends up killing my muse, and might prompt me to disappear without saying anything. Although it's something I'm trying to get better at
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

Ditto with Writers Block. If my partner just plain ignores all the details and the effort put into my post it's a very big downer. Also if their replies keep getting shorter every post till they are just repeating what you sent right back to you. Or just ignores you all together
Thread: What makes you ghost or ignore a message?

Great responses! I also want to say good job pointing out issues that we all have without calling anyone specifically. I hope people will read this and know what to avoid in the future.
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Thread: Portal - The Inquisition of Eastborne

The city shakes with the sound of each hit of the Empire's assault before her walls are finally being breached. In a corner further away from the walls, sits a dusty house, abandoned when its occupants fled months ago during the time the refugees from Hahn poured in. planks of wood have been flimsily nailed into the house to shut off the windows and door. Inside the house, behind some old furniture sits a trap-door leading to the cellar. The other side of the cellar door has been reinforced by metal. In the cellar, five friends listen to the sounds of destruction. Three women and two men, they group had expected the Empire to show up ever since the refugees came. They had set up their base in this old house and spent the month fortifying the entrance to the cellar. They knew the town was going to be fucked the moment the Empire showed up so they decided to wait it out in their hide out and stir up a rebellion once the heat died down. Hopefully the inquisition would ignore their house since it looks so abandoned. As a plan B, they had dug a tunnel in the cellar, hidden by a false floor, that connects to the city's sewer system. After they boarded up the house from outside, they used the sewers to enter and leave. If the Empire do search the house, the hidden and fortified cellar door should slow them down long enough for the group of friends to escape into the sewers. Johnathan had been friends with this group for longer than he cares to remember. When his parents fled, he stayed behind with his friends and helped with the fortifications and the tunnel. After months of preparing and dreading this day, it's finally here. He sits in the cellar with his four other friends and listen to the carnage outside. They group alternates between listening for the empire and have small bouts of conversation to alleviate the tension.
Thread: Portal - The Inquisition of Eastborne

Down by the docks, a lone figure sat perched on a stack of crates. A sentinel amongst the chaos. People around her screamed for their loved ones and soldiers began to ready arms for the battle ahead. She slowly sipped at a leather-bound flask, pondering how she managed to get herself into this situation. A stranger in strange land. Destined to die a mournless death. She closed her eyes and took another gulp, before opening them once more to the vision in front of her. The galleys, previously kept at bay by the invisible boundary of the inlet, had begun to make their way towards Eastbourne. Their hulking forms harbingers of ruin. Of death. Behind her, she could hear the rumble of what she could only guess were the city walls crumbling beneath the unstoppable force of The Empires war machine. The scent of smoke was beginning to taint the air, and above, a few embers drifted lazily into view. Kestrel brought the flask up to her lips once more with a shaky grasp. The rum settled on her tongue with a familiar burn, but even as the last few drops slipped past her lips, it did little to soothe her nerves. She screwed the lid of the flask shut and tossed it into the water, the quiet splash drowned out by the symphony of battle. She watched the silver flask bob gently in the water as her fingers found the hilt of her sword. Kestrels fingertips caressed its smooth surface, a husky sorry escaping her lips, before she hopped off the crates and began to walk back towards the city. And to do what exactly? Well, she wasnt sure. To hide? To fight? To find some more rum and drink herself to death? At the very least shed be numb to the fear of her inevitable impalement on an Empire spear. She felt her heart pound. She needed to decide, one way or another. Dead woman walking. The crowd was thick. People swarmed every which way, trying to find somewhere, anywhere, to escape. Kestrel felt her shoulder knock against a large form and turned to see a father cradling his young daughter in his arms. Daddy, Im scared! Do something! Please! The girl screamed, face twisted in utter terror, tears streaking down her soot covered face. The father pressed her face close to his shoulder, placing soothing kisses onto blonde hair. Dont worry darling, as long as Daddy is with you everything will be okay. Daddy will always be with you and Daddy will always love you. Kestrel froze, her hand reaching instinctively for the sword hanging at her hip, she watched as the fathers reassurances faded into the crowd as the two pressed onwards. Kestrels fingers curved around the handle of the falchion and she slowly unsheathed the blade, holding it in front of her. The polished surface reflected the light of the fires burning around, the smoke-sullied sky above, and two horns warped by its curve. Kestrel tightened her grip before sprinting towards the nearest gathering of Eastbourne soldiers. Its easier to make decisions when decisions are made for you.
Thread: Portal - The Inquisition of Eastborne

Johnathan's darkvision gave him clear sight of the scene in front of him. His friend half covered in sewage, stabbed in the back by his own shield. Johnathan knew that Tom was beyond saving. If the wound and the blood loss didn't kill him, the infection that would follow will. The logical side of his mind told him to end his friend's suffering and get out of there. There's still a chance that their plan can still work. It would be easy for him to just toss the body into the sewage and tell his other friends how valiantly Tom rushed into battle and was cut down by a knight's blade. When it came to his friends, Johnathan was not logical. He moved close to pull his friend out of the sewage and help him back to the others so he can get first aid. Johnathan tried his best to reassure Tom. though the shake in his voice couldn't be willed off entirely. W-What are you worried about Tom? It's just a little flesh wound. We've gotten hurt way worse than this before. This is nothing! S-Stop crying you b-big baby. You'll be fine once we get you patched up. Johnathan followed it up by a very forced friendly chuckle. He picks up the still living Tom on his shoulders and tries to make it as fast as he can back to the others. He keeps conversation up with Tom trying to calm his friend down as well as not letting the young man slip into unconsciousness. Y-You're not worried, are you Tom? You're the toughest among us! It'll take more than a splinter to put you down. W-when you'll be leading the war charge in the resistance, the Empire will be quaking in their boots! Another forced chuckle. It's very hard to keep both yourself and your friend calm while also trying to keep your voice down to prevent detection. However, John tries his best to do all that anyway as he moves back toward the group. Johnathan knew his friend couldn't be saved, but the half-elf refused to accept it and tried anyway.