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Thread: Gender and Sexuality Shaming at its Worst

Ookami said ... The problem is the way people react to certain labels. You just have to accept that some humans out there are stupid ... it's just that the unpleasant ones are always the ones that stand out the most. Click to expand... Pretty much in a nutshell what the largest problem is. You have to be able to look a very visible portion of a group, and be able and willing to recognize that they do not represent the group as a whole. As an example, one common assumption that I'm really getting tired of is that because I'm a transvestitecrossdresser I must be gay. Are there gay crossdressers, yes, and I will grant that they are certainly more open about it to all appearances, but that doesn't mean we're all like that. However because people either won't, or refuse to acknowledge that what might be a minority of the population, doesn't apply to everyone, we end up with stereotypes, and assumptions about people that may or may not even be remotely true.
Thread: Gender and Sexuality Shaming at its Worst

Yeah I had a friend on Tumblr who was like that. She was nice to me and all, but I got tired of hearing her rant about cis-sexism, cisscum, cis this, cis that, as if anyone who associates with any other gender or sexual orientation aren't capable of sexism or discrimination. She went on this rant about how straight people and cis-gendered people need to keep their noses out of the other's issues because we could never understand the problems they go through and because of that we can't properly defend them and stand up for them. Personally, I just see it as another angst-fest by people who want to believe that their problems are the worst and they hate seeing other's making light of the situation and being passionate instead of angry. I'm not saying these aren't serious issues, I do think that marriage equality and fighting for people to accept other sexual orientations and genders is going to be our generations civil rights and feminist movement. But you're not going to help yourself if you're going to bash someone who is not of the said demographic for wanting to support you and help you. We may not know what it feels like but maybe we have other issues and traits about us that society shames. Maybe we're of a commonly shamed religion, race, maybe we're overweight, mentally ill, disabled or disfigured, or covered in tattoos and piercings from head to toe. We may not have laws holding us back from certain things, but society still rejects many other demographics who aren't just cisgendered or straight, and through that, we can have a common ground.
Thread: Gender and Sexuality Shaming at its Worst

Welcome to the truckstop restroom that is the Human Race. Humans are judgemental no matter what and no one is exempt from that everyone judges to an extent. It isn't just hating on sexual orientation or lifestyle choices. My dad's favoirite saying Opinions are like assholes everybody has one and some are louder than others. Here's the thing just ignore them honestly if you dislike an opinion scroll past. These people want the attention. Why do people get up in arms about it? We don't get pissy when a five year old throws a tantrum we leave the room and let them cry it out. That's what these people are five year olds screaming for attention so just shut the door and let them tire themselves out.
Thread: Gender and Sexuality Shaming at its Worst

just throwing in my 2 cents here. I identify as male because i have a penis. I identify as being a member of the WhiteCaucasian race because my skin is pale and my eyes are light blue. I identify as being straight because I have gay friends, i know what they do with other guys and the thought of doing that with other men holds absolutely no appeal to me, and if i see some guy with a ripped 6 pack, i'm more likely to think the babes that must draw in! than anything else. In the age of political correctness, being a white heterosexual male is the worst thing someone can be, but it's what i am. you are what and who you are, and i am what and who i am, there's nothing more to it in my opinion.
Thread: Gender and Sexuality Shaming at its Worst

Ookami said Personally, GayPride irritates me, simply because I don't think homosexuality is something someone should be proud of. HOWEVER! I don't think they should be ashamed of it either. I'm actually pretty accepting of LGB people as whole, might even identify myself as bisexual at times... Still not convinced. But I really don't think it's necessary to have LGBT functionsparades. The original intention I assume was to bring awareness to the issue, and draw like-minded people out of hiding. But nowadays it feels more like a celebration of their sexuality.... is that even necessary? Should there be a heterosexual pride as well? I feel sort of childish asking that, but really, it seems like a valid point to me. Click to expand... You see I feel conflicted about your statement. In some ways I agree that LBG people are glorified so much by parades and such that it almost makes them cartoony and makes light of what its supposed to represent. On the other hand it gives people a feeling of meaning, of purpose and camaraderie. To see someone so freely prance around and be free with their sexuality is important to those who aren't comfortable, many of these people would have made their connection to the community through such events. Ivory11 said just throwing in my 2 cents here. I identify as male because i have a penis. I identify as being a member of the WhiteCaucasian race because my skin is pale and my eyes are light blue. I identify as being straight because I have gay friends, i know what they do with other guys and the thought of doing that with other men holds absolutely no appeal to me, and if i see some guy with a ripped 6 pack, i'm more likely to think the babes that must draw in! than anything else. In the age of political correctness, being a white heterosexual male is the worst thing someone can be, but it's what i am. you are what and who you are, and i am what and who i am, there's nothing more to it in my opinion. Click to expand... This is sadly a true statement. I'm not gonna say white males have it hard because they honestly don't but they're blamed by every minoritygendersexuality FOR EVERYTHING. Its kinda sad how they've become the scapegoat.
Thread: Gender and Sexuality Shaming at its Worst

One of the few things that Oprah did that was right was her helping to bring the miniseries The Women of Brewster Place to television. In a scene that I quote somewhat here, I answer what is being discussed above. In an argument that Robin Givens' character is having with her mother, played beautifully by the great Cicely Tyson about accusing the mother of being ashamed of being black, she says it this way Black isn't beautiful. It isn't ugly. Black is black. No one should be ashamed of being straight, bi, gay, transgendered... nothing. Anyone.. ANYONE who tries to make anyone be ashamed of who they are have crossed a line where they are no better than the Nazis or any group like them, and it is that simple. Too often, people are scapegoated because those that are doing it don not want to own their own shit. I am not dragging another topic in here, but most issues like this are precisely where that is rooted refusing to own your own problems and needing to project them onto other people.
Thread: Gender and Sexuality Shaming at its Worst

I saw something on Tumblr about this recently where the group FuckH8te or something like that was arguing with people who were asexual and pansexual that they didn't count as identities the way transgender, bi, and queer do. Like, they kept making points about how the asexual people had to fight for their rights and make their case just like homosexuals and transgendered people did. I think at this point, things like gay pride are supposed to encourage harmony and disperse hate and discrimination of any kind against anyone. It's about being proud to be who you are and feeling free to express your true self. About awareness and allowing others to become familiar with it because there is still a lot of stigma and people will feel threatened about things they don't know about or understand. They paved the way to becoming normal and there are still hardships but they've made it practically mainstream. It's a snowball effect now and there's no more need for defensiveness or division either within the group or without.
Thread: Gender and Sexuality Shaming at its Worst

Only thought It's nice to imagine overcoming labels, but who honestly has time to hear the nuances of how everyone self-identifies? If a guy comes on to me, it's much more concise and clear to say 'Oh, sorry, didn't realize you were gay, not my deal.' then 'Oh, sorry, I didn't realize you were attracted to whatever element of physical appearance or personality that I have, not my deal.' Unless it is my deal. Try liquor, pretty boy, it's been known to elicit good results. This is why everyone's gut tightens when they use a label of that sort only to have the person respond with 'Well, actually , I'm...'
Thread: Gender and Sexuality Shaming at its Worst

Sadly it's a case of those who feel oppressed feel they have a right to hate without any repercussions as they are a minority, some feminists ive spoken to have similar opinions, personally I went off when that stuff appeared on my twitter as I find there is no excuse for hate, oppression or not.. I have found that a lot of things have become privileges, inside the transworld there is passing privilege, a segregation by those that may not transition as easily, then cisprivilege, then male and female privilege.. Everyone seems to feel the rest of the world has it better than they do, it just seems sad when they use it to get away with hate.
Thread: Gender and Sexuality Shaming at its Worst

it's a backlash, to be sure. A violent one. A friend of mine tried to explain to me that this movement is justified and that cis-scum only applies to people who are hateful to transgenders, i'm not sure i understand the whole concept because i think it's just a roundabout way of lashing out. as long as we follow wheaton's law 'don't be a dick'
Thread: Gender and Sexuality Shaming at its Worst

It took a year before I encountered my first radical feminist on Tumblr, and it was after that and some digging that I truly appreciated the Internetwide stereotype of the Tumblr userbase. But about the Die Cisscum issue... Personally, I consider it being a rather obvious sign of how some internet communities that are very insular, and not open to critique, develops their own mad logic and aggressive language and tone towards their perceived enemies. I am personally not concerned about it, because the people that spout this nonsense are insignificant and not influential BECAUSE if they where anything else they wouldn't have developed such extreme views. It follows a very common line of development. Someone is frustrated, joins a community that voices and solidifies hisher views, that someone buys the rhetoric line-and-sink, then spouts the same rhetoric as loud as the rest primarily like a preacher to his choir, if you know what I mean. Anyone outside of this insular group that sees these threads or rebloggs are either victims of accidental exposure as this someone is sharing hisher ideas with others of the same opinion, or this someone is actively trying to convince people but thinks that sound really, really mad about it makes the argument more convincing.
Thread: Gender and Sexuality Shaming at its Worst

It's so ironic that the Constitution says we have freedom of religion --- and yet so many of us are almost instantly judged to our sexual preferences and orientations. It's a real shame and something I sincerely hate. I'd like to thank Hahjvoc in advance for having made this thread a while ago as it sorta goes with this, I feel. Warning That movie really is pretty graphic and depressing Yet it's message is powerful all the same. Even though society shouldn't be allowed to control what we can and can't be - especially in our sexual natures - it still does. And the toll it takes is a real shame. How to deal with it? Personally for myself, I give most of society the middle finger. I'm a Selectivist .. meaning I don't follow any religious or political beliefs except my own. Same with my sexuality bicurious. If someone doesn't like, I shrug it off, tell them 'Tough shit' ... something along those lines. Admittedly though, the movie does show it's sometimes easier said than done to do such things. So ... I think it all depends on how one reacts to such scenarios, unfortunately. I can say that if we're gonna be hypocritical on 'Freedom of Religion' and other similar aspects of our daily lives, we should honestly take it out of the Constitution -- or stick to our word. It seems foolish to have that in an official document and not abide by our own words. This is a good reason why if it weren't for the fact we'd be in complete chaos without a government, I'd almost think we'd run better without one. Almost. Those are all just my thoughts on the subject though.
Thread: Gender and Sexuality Shaming at its Worst

They don't affect me at all unless they start violating me. It's as simple as that, really. I don't do a damn thing because of society or anyone else, but because I have my own convictions and my own brain that tries to listen to multiple people that've been around longer than I have. If they want to say it in my face, they can do that too. I don't mind, but neither does it mean that I'll fail to rebuke them nor get in their own face and deliver upon them. But that also does not make them wise or acceptable, either. Like others said, it's hypocrisy on their part - they are a minority within a minority, attempting to tell the majority what they must or must not do in spite of the fact the minority they're part of has been on the receiving end of their tactics. It's also arrogance to tell those that outnumber you that they must be outlawed, too. Whatever your tactics or strategems, they must also match with your message and not against them.
Thread: Gender and Sexuality Shaming at its Worst

Pictured CIS scum No but for real, Tumblr is a shithole that outright encourages reverse racism, reverse sexism and heterophobia Toward straight men at least People like that are just far too common on that site. It's annoying, offensive, and completely works against... pretty much every major civil rights movement. But to be honest they're such a small group of people that it's better to just brush them out of your view and ignore them entirely.
Thread: The Bayer Institude (UK_guy_RP & Candy_Demon21)

The Bayer Institute was a large building set outside of the city in deep virgin woodland, owned and run privately by a Corporation who masked their true name by a series of mirrors and smokescreens. The facilities were first class and discretion was absolute, the walk to the office had been totally without contact from the car pulling up at the smoked glass door until the office door was opened by Doctor Stephen J. Holden himself. He was an attractive man of indeterminable age but certainly older than 35, his short cut brown hair held the aspect of grey but not to break the well groomed and cared for style. He stood there in his white coat, a patterned tie underneath and his crisp neatly ironed suit trousers, a dark blue with thin herring bone material. His height of already 6 foot 4 inches was increased by the expensive leather shoes that held a high shine and implied that he never walked a street in his life. He spoke softly and clearly as he greeted her with some warmth, as if she was an old acquaintance despite their meeting only twice before. The English accent was crisp and the vowels sounded perfectly as he began to speak Please come in and take a seat, I trust your ride up to the Institute was comfortable? I can request some refreshments if you wish, I can offer tea, coffee, juices or mineral water. He proceeded to seat himself behind the desk and set aside his thin wire frame glasses on the deep dark oaken surface besides him. His grey eyes were softened by the removal and the corners crinkled slightly as he smiled to reassure the young lady before him. He sat there in his office, the carpet deep and the walls a soft green, all to give an air of tranquillity and serenity to the subjects that he often had to discuss within these four walls. The door to the examining room was closed and the inside of the room screened from view, it was always closed for the initial part of a consultation, the medical equipment and the examination table with the rests, often made people uneasy and he would see the slight nervous glances to the chair as they talked.
Thread: The Bayer Institude (UK_guy_RP & Candy_Demon21)

He looked at her for a period, it was less than a minute but his grey eyes just looked at her and he seemed to be considering something in that silence. The room about him was bereft of any personal items, there were no pictures of family, no trinkets, no touches of individuality on the walls. There was fine art originals that showed some wonderful abstracts forms, interpretation of the contents was always in the mind of the beholder. He had chosen them himself, he enjoyed as people tried to reconcile in their minds what they saw there, he knew what he saw. The open vulva could have been a flower, the red burst of blood could be a sunrise or set and the blue spiral into blackness was him. He looked at the medical file on his desk, this had already been prepared prior to the previous visit and as such was complete already. He flipped the first page, to him that was meaningless the identity of the participant would be redacted soon enough and the subject reduced to a clinical reference number. Fine, no refreshments .. He smiled at her hoping to calm her. So we start with a full review of the medical history taken at your first consultation, I am sure it is all correct but I will ask the questions again and confirm the answers I have. I will go through in order and then I will return to any that I wish to clarify and expand upon. May I call you Annette? He lifts his pen and looks at the notes that the young nurse had taken last time. The nurse had repeatedly apologised and blushed as she asked, seeming ashamed on the patients behalf. They were intrusive and searching at times seeming to move into areas that really seemed to have no bearing on the reason for the appointment. we have covered the identify and blood type, and the mundane and so we will go through the later questions. Please ensure you answer fully and truthfully, I have your blood work and other details already access from your other medical records and so I will know if you are not being truthful. This is a serious business and we need to ensure we are fully aware to ensure your safety. He glances up and looks again at her assessing her continuously, the smile again at his mouth but the warmth never reaches his eyes. Your age and measurements He listens as her answer and references the details collected. A pen scratches paper as he moves through, it seems the eyes are more focused on her. The questions are asked softly and he awaits for the answer, his eyes on you and his expression neutral, he seems to take no pleasure or interest in how he reacts or the embarrassment might she feels. Each question asked, the answer awaited When was your last sexual encounter? What protection did you use? Do you participate in oral sex, and when was the last time and with whom? Do you participate in anal sex, and when was the last time and with whom? When did you lose your virginity and what age was the male? What age did you first masturbate, what age did you first orgasm and when did you last masturbate?
Thread: The Bayer Institude (UK_guy_RP & Candy_Demon21)

Those gray eyes that started back at here seemed cold, unfeeling. Perhaps it as her imagination playing tricks on her? Annette tried to convince herself that she was being foolish, and that the good doctor wanted nothing more than to follow up with her after the 'extraction'. Anxiously, her young woman's eyes darted about the room at the strange art hanging here and there, was that blood that she spied? Surly no! Shaking the thought off, her honey gaze flicked back to him. The sound of pages turning made Annette jump, why was she so frightened? The smile that he had given her after his statement did little good to calm her, but she did manage to relaxed smile in turn. I-I understand. The questions that they had asked the first time had been so personal, often making her wonder how exactly there were important to an abortion at all. Yes of course Doctor, and please, Annette is just fine. Though first names basis seemed a little out of the question, seeing as he had already seen her intimate parts anyway. His request to have her answer the next questions to the best of her knowledge made the familiar bubble of fear bloom in her chest again. His first question she can easily answer, I'm twenty-two and my measurements are forty, twenty-eight, thirty. The good doctor takes these down. He looks back up at her and throws a series of questions at her that instantly make her cheeks color. W-well- she begins, clearly fidgeting in her seat, My last sexual experience was about the time that I found out that I was pregnant. We-we did not use any form of protection, seeing as I thought he had a condom. The memory haunted her and still made her sick, but she pressed on. Yes I do participate in oral sex, the last time was three days ago with my neighbor, Jensen. Um, n-no. I've tried it once but found it too painful, and the last time I did was several years ago, I believe I was about eighteen? Perhaps nineteen, if I recall correctly the boys name was Thomas? Memories of so far back had begun to grow cloudy in her mind, but she was answering to the best of her knowledge. I lost my virginity at sixteen, and the gentleman at the time was twenty, just starting university. And I believe I was sixteen, just had turned in fact. I recall watching a soft-core and remarking on how fun it looked. My first orgasm didn't come until I used my mother's toy, I was sixteen too. And I-um, I masturbated last night, for about two hours, if I remember right. She prayed that he had asked all of his degrading questions. How they were important to this checkup, she didn't understand. W-was I not suppose to, seeing as my abortion was several weeks ago. Y-you never gave me any instructions, but did tell me to wait if you needed me. I certainly hope I didn't damage my body. I suppose this checkup isn't going so well. She laughed nervously, trying to convince herself that this was a checkup after all.