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Thread: Difficult and uncommon kinks to find partners for

Exactly what the title says. This place isn't necessarily a place to advertise for your rps but for discussion purposes, let's each list those niche kinks that are difficult to find rp partners for. In a different thread, I posited the theories that 1. either these difficultuncommon kinks aren't actually uncommon at all or 2. that the people who often have difficulty finding partners for these specific kinks might accidentally find each other in a thread like this. Is that what a req thread is for? Yes, but this is also to sort of doubly shed light on some misconceptions people have, not only about these kinkswe can actually use this space to inform people about rare or uncommon kinks or pairings but also about their supposed rarity. One I hear all the time is foot fetish. It's not a rare fetish but I do think it is an extremely polarized one - you're either open to exploring or you're directly opposed to it. And I think a lot of times, those who's first gut reaction is disgust, might give those who have the fetish the feeling that it is not widely accepted or seen as normal. Feet are seen in a lot of Western cultures as gross, ugly, or unsanitary, despite the general wealth and health of these cultures and the predominance of taking care of the feet and accessorizing them in everything from toe rings and pedicures to toed socks and heels. Is it something that everyone finds sexually exciting or stimulating? No. But there are a lot of people who, although not willing to make it the central focus of their rp, aren't opposed to foot play being included or exploring such, if you ask. So, let's hear it! What fetisheskinks do you feel like you can't seem to find interest for? Let's talk about it, illuminate why that might be and maybe even stumble upon a partner for youor at the very least, someone who also has that kink that you can commiserate with.
Thread: Difficult and uncommon kinks to find partners for

Most of mine that are difficult to resolve revolve around either gender or role. Or both simultaneously. Genderbending Crossdressing Gender Transformation Gender Role Reversal Pet Play MistressSlave Gentle DomSub Not interested in Hardcore BDSM, Degredation, Humiliation, ect. Sex doesn't have to be the main focus of these niche kinks, in fact I enjoy a lot of story and development. What makes this difficult is I am only interested in female characters. While my gender and role are pretty flexible and malleable, my orientation is not. I get a lot of offers from gay and bisexual men, but I'm just not interested. I do notice that I seem to have an easier time getting my subbie itch scratched when I dawn a more feminine persona and play a shemale or transgender character. Being just a Subbie Boy is rather difficult.
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I'm actually surprised about the petplay and crossdressing being hard to find! It's been a while since I've delved into that and certainly not as a main story idea. One thing that I do agree is hard to find is the gender transformation but maybe I'm misinterpreting your meaning behind it. Do you mean a sort of supernatural story, where the gender changes happen as a plot point, possibly by magic or some other form of instant body transformation? Or do you mean a story involving a transgendered character going through the process of transitioning, like a real-world type story? Because I have searched for the latter before and although I've gotten bites for it, it's a particular story dynamic. Like, I've got a female character and they've got a female character and occasionally, my character turns into a sexually aggressive and dominant guy occasionally, through magic-means. That's the way I came at it story-wise and had mixed results as far as people being interested, less so in recent years. What does the gender role reversal entail? Is that just pegging or is it more in depth? I'm actually interested because it sounds like it'd be fun to do in a story and I know you said it doesn't necessarily involve sex but more story focused. Like we discussed in the other thread, I've never had luck finding a mistress for a male sub character and I definitely think that is something that is really rare around here.
Thread: Difficult and uncommon kinks to find partners for

Haha, yeah. I notice that when I am a woman with a penis, its easier to get my needs fulfilled while being a man in a dress doesn't work as well. Funny, how that works. As for pet play, perhaps I haven't promoted it enough? shrug Hmmm...well, I sort of envisioned Gender Transformation as changing from one sex to another through magicalsupernatural or even scientific means. And perhaps mixing genders or going back and forth between genders But now that you have mentioned the transitioning it sounds really interesting...so I guess both? XD Pegging could be involved, but the main focus would be on actual Gender Roles and switching them around. Things like, The woman is the breadwinner and the man is the Stay-at-home husband. Or, the girl gets a crush on a guy, asks him out, goes on a date, takes the lead, ect. I actually just discovered a Role Reversal Tumblr today and I am really enjoying it so far. It ranges from pure sexual to kind of....aww how cute! Stuff.
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Omg, Shovel! 3 So much yes! I think you and I have a lot of these kinks in common! And not only that but I have a willingness to change stuff up as far as character genders and sexualities and stuff.
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Really? Wow. That was easy. XD Guess we will have to hash something out then, huh? .3.
Thread: Difficult and uncommon kinks to find partners for

I can definitely see how those each are hard to find partners for. Vore in particular because it brings up weird connotations - not least of which, for me, the subgenre of inflation fetish, where the eater eats the subject whole in one gulp and it's distorted and almost cartoonish the visuals it brings up. A lot of times, personally, seeing that as a request, that is what comes to mind, particularly that it should be a plot focus. And I think that can be a misconception with a list of kinks, especially outside of f-list, where anything on the list has this perception of being integral. Quix and I were talking about this the other day in his journal, mostly me griping about the struggle when you like a certain thing but although you'd like to see it happen, it's 1. not required for every story and 2. it does not have to be a plot focus. For instance, I like rape as a fantasy and a plot point but I do not particularly care for consistent non-consent to be the mode of interaction, nor do I like to entirely base my stories around rape scenarios. I like it for the emotional impact, the violence of the situation and the resulting drama as the characters try to deal with the fucked up thing that just happened. So, not necessarily turned on by the rape itself, so much as the emotional power it has for characters and situations. So.... what do you do? Do you list it and have someone who would normally be open to rping with you, but interprets rape in your list as a requirement, pass you by, or do you not list it and have those people who do understand the multi-layered story pass you by for being too vanilla? Death is a great one that is really hard to find partners for and it's very understandable why it is difficult to approach. Sometimes people use their character as a self-representation, or, even if their character is nothing like them irl, it is like a video game where it's about the self-immersion. Thus they get attached to their alter ego and the things you have happen to it. It's not a lot of people's fantasy to want to die. Also, a lot of times, it is a big investment, putting all of this work and time into a character and a story and people will see death as an invalidation of all of that. Instead of seeing knocking down the tower of blocks you just built as part of the fun and thrill in the whole building experience, they get defensive over watching something they created being destroyed. Thank you for those additions, dark!
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Shovel You have a hard time finding gender bender plots? I'm shocked really. Though I do understand. it's a major kink of mine and I often have the same problem when approaching it. People act weird about a character starting as one and changing to the other. If you feel like setting something up let me know. I'd love to talk some ideas over. For me, it's a few things. Characters over 50 seriously, what's the obsession with youth? Can't we do something where characters have age or wisdom Incest with a story element. No one wants to do this, they just want a crappy porno and then to dump it when they're bored. Fuck them. Non exotic places and settings. I've yet to hear anyone agree to do some random place like Hoboken, NJ if only to focus more on characters. Mythical creatures not named Vampires and werewolves. Seriously, Medusa? Titan? .......absolutely anything from Germanic mythology. among others. But those ones stick out to me .
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Beastiality Ive found a few partners willing to do this, but its not a common kink most are willing to do. I have to admit, even I was skeptical, turned off even by the thought of doing this in a role play. What helped me change my mind was I took the time to find some videos and watch. I was actually aroused by it, and I knew I could role play this kink. Death in a role play is something I have barely scratched the surface with. I did a role play where my character actually took the life of another man. Considering the build up to that moment, it was cathardic. Would I do it again? Yes. Vore, on the other hand, is a kink I havent explored in a role play, but I think I would like to give it a try. Role playing, to me, involves finding your limits and pushing them. Role plays that consistently are about the same kinks, the same basic plots, can get old really quickly. Things I never thought I would do in a role play are now what I would like to do or have done. Thank you so much for creating this thread. Its interesting to see what kinks other are having trouble with. Gstevens11 Really? Youre having trouble finding incest partners? Currently I have two partners that I enjoy that kink with, and a third role play that will eventually involve incest as well. I am so sorry youre having trouble with that one. I hope that changes for you soon.
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I need to stop agreeing with Rudolph! As mentioned in that conversation on my journal, most of my kinks are contextual, rather than specific acts. There there any many, that aren't on my F-list, or which are stated as a No, that I would quite happily, or even want, to include in a story, as long as they weren't the main, or only, focus, which as Rudolph stated, can tend to be the way it's perceived when mentioned. That's the main reason behind a lot of my 'No's. Even something such as gender-bending wouldn't be beyond the realms of possibility, if it fit into a larger storytheme. One that did pop into my head as having trouble to find though I don't consider it 'strange' is infidelity or cheating. I browse a number of request threads, and there'll be people looking for kinks such as rape, torture, incest, beastiality and bimbofication, then in capital letters at the end will be NO CHEATING, as if that's of a much worse nature, or more taboo, than all of the others they've requested, combined. The betrayal of trust, danger, and emotional impact, particularly where it's deliberate and ongoing, and the immorality of knowingly causing pain to a loved one, are the themes attract me to writing adultery and infidelity. All I can think of, in regards to many peoples hesitation in playing it, is that it may hit too close to home. Not as something they've directly experienced, but as something which is so 'possible', and that most of us have feared at some stage or another either that we'd do it, or that our loved one hasis. Another, which may fit in with DarkAngel's, and AndNich's comments - however, I hesitate to call it a kink or a fetish, as whilst my characters may gain sexual arousal from it, it's not written for that purpose by me - is gore in a sexual context, and graphicviolent descriptions of torture, and death. I've always had a fascination for the dark side of human nature, a love of psychological thrillers and stories which provoke, both novels and movies, and figure if I'm going to do a serial-killer scene, or one about murder, then I want to go the whole hog, and not leave anything out.
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Agreed Mr. Quixotic. Gore is arousing, and I love it when I can find a partner who can not only write it, but write it well. They are few and far between though. A post that can make you feel something, your heartrate increases, a nervous feeling grips you, and youre anxious even though you know its a role play is what I look for. Not so easy to find. Most guys arent into doing that kind of damage to a woman. Its not a sexual thing that I get from it though. Its that intense feeling that comes over me that I feed off of. Sadly, its harder to find than Tim Tams in the south. As for infidelity, I actually had a role play start with that, but my partner is beyond busy. I agree that maybe it hits too close to home or in the realm of something that is completely possible for them. Its also an escape though. The taboo nature of something that you can live out vicariously through your characters is the attraction. The complete loss of trust, much like gore, is also a high. To do a role play, where you see a character literally shattered and forced to pick up the pieces is also a challenge to write. It can be far too easy to write sex, drinking, partying, and even threesomes, but to dig deeper into the emotional subconcious of a character and deal with real life issues can, in fact, be a challenge. Thats what attracts certain writers to certain themes, kinks, and plots.
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That's true Andy, but in my case, which possibly makes it even harder, I don't look to write opposite a female 'victim', but with a character who will be just as depraved as my own. So it's not so much about 'what my character does to theirs', but in partnership, what each encouragemanipulate the other to do, to meet their own needs. I do have one of those going now, where some of the victims will actually be male. Which brings me to another point, though I'm not sure if this is derailing the direction of this thread, as it's a themeconcept I struggle to find rather than a kink. Let me know, if so, and I'll happily delete, xd. AndNich, you mention To do a role play, where you see a character literally shattered and forced to pick up the pieces is also a challenge to write and that concept, or one where the male character is, not solely of his own making, the subject of any life-altering experience, emotionally traumatised, placed in unique or unusual situations, or required to grow and change as the story progresses, is something that, for me, is extremely difficult to find. I very rarely get the opportunity of being able to challenge myself to write that kind of character.
Thread: Difficult and uncommon kinks to find partners for

Also, cheating surprises me, as does the bestiality, especially here. I remember for the longest time, seeing a really long Pokemon thread going in one of the rp sections and I'm pretty sure it wasn't just trainers doing the do with each other. I know that we have a lot of furry and anthro plots going around and werewolves is only second to vampires as far as popularity in an erotic fantasy setting. Depends on how you approach it, I guess? I agree with Nich, though. Incest is not uncommon. It's probably the most popular plot pairing aside from teacherstudent and is a big draw, not only here but on bigger erotica sites as well.
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Thanks Rudolph, just a very quick reply, as I'm about to pop off here, but yes, your first two paragraph's nail it. If you look at my journal, I actually cut off the part of my quote which referred to the writing aspect of it, so I'm with you there as well. It's just, I like to have a reason for my character to do things. Saying 'My Father betrayed yours twenty years ago, now your character wants revenge, let's start at the part where you take revenge', doesn't work for me. I want the other character writer to provide the cause, and be required to think about damn, if I want my character to experience this, how do I, as a writer, compose my post and 'manipulate' the person at the other end of the keyboard, through my writing, in such a way to ensure she gets it? Now, I don't know if I even succeed in that myself, as I don't consider myself any great writer, or 'expert', but at least it's the mindset I come in with, in regards to my own characters, and stories I look to write. Edit And, I'm in total agreement with your last paragraph. It's an enjoyable thread, and each has their own preferences and opinions. Mine are simply stated from a singular point of view, in regards to what engages mehow I see it, and aren't intended to reflect judgement on differing opinions, and those who have preferences which vary from my own.
Thread: Difficult and uncommon kinks to find partners for

To add my various coinage....the hardest kink I have had trouble with is clothes. Especially latex, skirts, heels and stockings. I'm not much into feet, unless they are in heels, but something about a short skirt with stockings and heels, it just gets my mouth watering. While I have many successful rp's going with clothes, more due to me being a detailed writer, I haven't really hit my touch point yet. Corsets and all that are great, but having something a bit more modern would really be a sweet spot. It's not a complaint to any of my partners, we have some great passion, I just haven't found anyone willing to do this in an appropriate setting. Though I have one rp that eventually could work its way there, but that's a ways away.
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AndNich I was more referring to Incest with an actual plot. I have more incest plots then Zsa Zsa Gabor has ex husbands. But what I'm dying for sometimes is a incest story that actually has a real story to it and doesn't sound like a shitty porno. boyo No one's willing to do a short skit and sexy clothing? Weird. I'd be down for that. But then I've always viewed clothing as a means of expressing things without words. As any filmmaker knows. A prim and proper woman doesn't need to be called prim and proper if she dresses like that. Same with sexy clothing and a sexy woman. Etc.
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Well clothing has not been a problem. Getting the specific kind that really gets me going has been. I find clothing can be very expressive but not everyone pays the detail to it, some do and I have many period pieces where it's well done, but hard to bring latex mini dresses into the Victorian era. lol...I never knew Zsa Zsa had that many exes
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Clothing is one I've never heard of before and never even thought of in regards to this. Very interesting, boyo, especially when I actually think about it, it makes sense when you get into more specific costuming and fetish wear. Despite some of the things mentioned in this thread, there is a very big story draw for rping, so, more about I want to be this and I want to do this fantasies being fulfilled rather than, I want to wear this while doing this. Also, thank you for the clarification, g.Steve. It seems to be a consistent thing in this thread so far that it's not just the acts being portrayed that are uncommon, so much as it's about a depth and passion in the portrayal that we desire. And I can definitely empathize with that. Everybody has that thing they want to explore in a certain way, like darkangel with her blood, or Quix with his fully-fleshed out female characters, or g.Stevens with his incest. A lot of times when you tell someone what you want, what you're looking for is the other half of your story, like Quix and I were talking about in this and the other thread, the desire not to write it alone. But a lot of times the more vague you make it, hoping that the other will step up and fill in those blanks just right, they fall short time and time again, either with going in a direction that you, personally, are tired of hearing about, or not exploring it to the depth and investment that you want. So, this really is a thread about mismatched ideas and passions, not so much that the kinksacts are missing. And maybe that's really what kink is? Something that excites you, arouses you, tantalizes and entertains you. Of course you're not going to be apathetic about it.
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I think of kinks as arousing, I like to craft a story, have some build up of passion - more so it doesn't all come off like a shitty porno as g.stevens noted. Plus that way when you get to a sex scene it comes off as really steamy because you have all this arousal that is just itching to get out. Though I have done my fair share of shitty porno's as well, sometimes it hits the spot. I have learned that sometimes what I think of as a kink is not what my partner does. I have started to ask more about what they are looking for, if you can't communicate with your partner and share what it is you want, and describe it, then you are not going to get it. Or give them satisfaction by neglecting what they want to see. Sorry if I have jumped the shark, my apologies to the fishies.