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Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

Everyone raised perfect points. I just wanted to add something to consider Everyone is here to RP. When people bump their request threads, they're eagerly waiting to be approached. When they scan through the request threads, they're actively hunting for something interesting. If someone rejects you, there has to be a reason which you should investigate. It might be that they're simply busy, or you might end up having to tune your preferences, writing style, posting lengthfrequency, and plots to cater to more people. Just a thought.
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

Forbidden Fruit said Everyone raised perfect points. I just wanted to add something to consider Everyone is here to RP. When people bump their request threads, they're eagerly waiting to be approached. When they scan through the request threads, they're actively hunting for something interesting. If someone rejects you, there has to be a reason which you should investigate. It might be that they're simply busy, or you might end up having to tune your preferences, writing style, posting lengthfrequency, and plots to cater to more people. Just a thought. Click to expand... Yeah I think I need to do a complete over haul on my main suggestion thread.
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

I know what it's like to be rejected and ignored it isn't fun. The newest one happening nowadays is ghosting where someone disappears completely without a word or cause. But you know what, I sit with and let it sting for a while, I even write about it journaling or a blog is a great idea if you love to write, and then move on. Others have said wonderful things, like getting a job which I did recently and it made a world of difference, getting other hobbies I recently took up painting, and getting exercise getting bundled up and going for walks. Even online, when you don't want to go out, there are a multitude of places you can visit and go. I spend time on Twitter for shits and giggles I avoid Facebook its a demon for when you're feeling down, I visit a great forum for people feeling lonely called PsychCentral, I visit many chat sites like Chat Avenue, Paltalk and Wireclub. There are plenty of places you can visit on the internet in which you are not just limiting yourself to Roleplaying. I have left this site for seven months because I have been busy doing other stuff on the tnternet. Trust me there are tons of people out there just as lonely who want to talk and write and collaborate. But basically everything that Mitsu said was spot on. People are on here to roleplay and you should ignore those that are rejecting you and that are not worth your time. Focus on things that make you happy. I get bored too, but I don't let it destroy me if someone doesn't message me. Hell I was JUST ghosted tonight. But here I am. Smiles and all. So hang in there. Things will get better, you just have to take care of you first before anyone else, then the partners will come running to you!
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

1. this whole side of the game is advertising. it's your job to get people interested in you. it's a rough world and nobody's gonna fall in your digital lap trying to get you off. think about the person reading ALL the time. it's 100 them and 0 you. what do THEY want? what kind of person do THEY imagine themselves playing with, in terms of partner and character? why are they playing with you? 2. read other ads. read ads written by guys. what's good about their ads? if you were a woman, would you want to play with that guy? why or why not? read ads written by women? what are people on this site looking to do? borrow ideas from the best threads. put them in your thread. 3. respond to ads with the same level of writing as you. or less. 4. everybody isn't interested. in fact, MOST PEOPLE AREN'T INTERESTED. it doesn't have shit to do with you. scarlett johannson was doing a thing for a movie and she walked up and down the street and tried to get guys to kiss her. she didn't have a 100 success rate, so who the fuck are you??? 5. NOBODY is going to satisfy your 100 unleashed id unless you have some basic bitch fetishes. i've probably found like... two girls that 100 click with the gross parts of my subconscious. and not to brag but i write really good and people are generally interested in my ideas. don't try to find perfect partners... 6. find a partner who is close enough to what you want... that you want to do whatever shit that they want.
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

November said 1. this whole side of the game is advertising. it's your job to get people interested in you. it's a rough world and nobody's gonna fall in your digital lap trying to get you off. think about the person reading ALL the time. it's 100 them and 0 you. what do THEY want? what kind of person do THEY imagine themselves playing with, in terms of partner and character? why are they playing with you? 2. read other ads. read ads written by guys. what's good about their ads? if you were a woman, would you want to play with that guy? why or why not? read ads written by women? what are people on this site looking to do? borrow ideas from the best threads. put them in your thread. 3. respond to ads with the same level of writing as you. or less. 4. everybody isn't interested. in fact, MOST PEOPLE AREN'T INTERESTED. it doesn't have shit to do with you. scarlett johannson was doing a thing for a movie and she walked up and down the street and tried to get guys to kiss her. she didn't have a 100 success rate, so who the fuck are you??? 5. NOBODY is going to satisfy your 100 unleashed id unless you have some basic bitch fetishes. i've probably found like... two girls that 100 click with the gross parts of my subconscious. and not to brag but i write really good and people are generally interested in my ideas. don't try to find perfect partners... 6. find a partner who is close enough to what you want... that you want to do whatever shit that they want. Click to expand... Well said. Not everything is personal and dwelling on the misses isn't a recipe for success.
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

Have other interestshobbies to take up your free time so that when you hit a roleplaying dry-spell, you won't be totally defeateddeflated. I've experienced my own dry-spells some lasting literally years. Sometimes these things happen and its no ones fault...but it may not hurt to do a little self-reflection just to make sure you aren't putting people off for some reason. Also, don't dwell too much on being rejected by another writerplayer. Learn what you can from the experience, and then move on to the next roleplay request thread. Focusing too much on the negative experience will cripple you and prevent you from finding someone you are more compatible with. Hope that helps.
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

You got so much fantastic advice on here that I couldn't quote it all. Get another hobby or two, get out if possible, don't constantly refresh, and before you know it you will find writers andor it will be much less important.
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

I often feel like I'm ignored all the time when it comes to finding a rp partner. I do work a lot so I'm not always on here . Still I understand how you feel . It sucks when no one approaches you.
Thread: The Dragonborn Comes (pods6827 & Major Mario)

As the sun shined over the land of Skyrim, many of it's people did not know how close the world had come to ending. Despite the long odds, Rurik Steelbody had succeeded in slaying Alduin the World Eater, and returned to Nirn with his head held high, if a bit bruised from the battle in Sovngarde. With the world now safe from the threat of the dragons, Rurik began making his way back to Whiterun, where he knew there were people waiting for his return. It was late by the time Rurik had arrived at Whiterun's gates. The sun had all but fallen below the horizon and the Guard were carrying torches as they patrolled the streets. The Nord managed to get into the city without the guards recognizing him and, eager to rest his weary head before seeing the Jarl, he made his way to Breezehome. Pushing open the door to his first real home in Skyrim, Rurik climbed the stairs to his bedroom, glad to be back here after such a perilous journey.
Thread: The Dragonborn Comes (pods6827 & Major Mario)

Indeed, while most of the people in Skyrim had little idea of how close they came to complete annihilation, that night there were more than the usual amount of people drinking, eating, laughing and singing in the Bannered Mare. Even some of the guards, both off and on duty, could be found there with a tankard in their hand or a good friend beside them. Spirits were high that night, and though none knew the real reason for the joviality, none were about to question it. For Rurik's good fortune, with all the high spirits going around no-one would notice the Thane of Whiterun retreating into Breezehome, and perhaps it was better that way. All the trials that Rurik had surmounted in his travels and right now all he could use was some peace, quiet and comfort. As the Dragonborn climbed the stairs to his bedroom, he would be stopped by the appearance of a woman jumping out from a room at the top of the stairs. Hastily dressed in commoner's clothes yet wielding a fearsome steel sword, the woman wasn't one to be messed with. And yet, once the woman caught sight of Rurik she immediately dropped her guard and gasped. Ah yes, this was Lydia, a housecarl there in Whiterun. By the Eight, forgive me, Lydia muttered as she put away her sword. I didn't realize that it was you, my Thane. You were gone for such a long time that I thought... Well, what matters is that you're back in Whiterun. With a smile the housecarl gestured to Rurik's bedroom. I did some cleaning while you were gone and got some warmer sheets for you. Everything should be as it was when you left it last. She paused for a moment. My Thane... Is the World Eater defeated?
Thread: The Dragonborn Comes (pods6827 & Major Mario)

When a figure leapt out from one of the rooms on the upper floor of his home Rurik's hand immediately went to his side, where his sword was waiting. Fortunately he realized that it was his housecarl before any harm could be done, relaxing and moving his hand away from his blade. All is forgiven Lydia, you were acting in defense of my home, and no harm was done. Rurik gave a brief look to his bedroom, nodding in acknowledgment of his housecarl's tasks. Thank you Lydia, you've always been a great help to me since you joined my household. That was putting it mildly. The woman was highly skilled, both in and out of battle. Not to mention, he mused, that she was also quite beautiful. At his housecarl's mention of the World-Eater however, Rurik's smile flickered a bit. I defeated Alduin quite soundly, he will trouble the world no more. He paused for a moment, considering the words of Master Paarthurnax. Whether he is dead I cannot say, but if not then it will be a long time before he troubles the world again.
Thread: The Dragonborn Comes (pods6827 & Major Mario)

Whether or not Alduin was truly defeated was of no concern to Lydia at that moment. Judging by the small smile on her Thane's face, she knew that at the very least Alduin wouldn't be back to bother Skyrim or all of Tamriel for a very, very long time. Perhaps for centuries or millennia, but assuredly he wouldn't be around during Lydia or Rurik's lifetime. In any case, disaster was averted and Skyrim could rest easy- Lydia could rest easy. Well said, Lydia replied in agreement. And thank you, my Thane, for the compliment, but such words aren't necessary. You've known for quite some time now that it's my duty as a housecarl. I guard you and all that you own with my life. And with you being the Dragonborn who defeated the World-Eater, not to mention being a strong, honorable man of Skyrim... Lydia offered a polite, cheery smile as she picked her words. My Thane, it's been an honor to serve you, and I hope to keep at it. No matter the circumstances of Lydia's service or the adventures she embarked on with Rurik- or their interactions during said adventures- it was clear that Lydia thought highly of the man and quite possibly harbored strong feelings for him. It wasn't a no-brainer many women in Skyrim found the Dragonborn to be attractive, whether it was because of his looks, his skills, his personality or his status. Do you need anything from me right now, my Thane?
Thread: The Dragonborn Comes (pods6827 & Major Mario)

Your humility does you credit, but it's the truth. Rurik placed a hand on Lydia's shoulder, standing before her so that they were only about a foot apart, if that. You have always gone above and beyond your duty to me, and I'm proud to call you my friend. After all that they'd been through together Rurik certainly considered Lydia to be one of his closest companions, and though he'd long suspected that she had feelings for him he'd never had a chance to discuss them with her. There was always a dragon to slay, an army to fight, or something happening that distracted them. Now though, Alduin was dead, and there was nothing to draw his attention elsewhere. There is one thing that you can do for me Lydia, and with that the Dragonborn leaned forward, capturing his housecarl's lips in a passionate kiss. His free arm rose to wrap itself around Lydia's back, pulling her close to his body.
Thread: The Dragonborn Comes (pods6827 & Major Mario)

Lydia didn't even get a chance to ask what the man wanted- and he knew full well that she was the type who was eager to serve yet unenthusiastic about carrying extra weight. A shocked gasp escaped from the back of her throat and past her lips before it was drowned out by Rurik's own pair advancing upon hers. The housecarl hadn't ever believed that the man would express such interest in her, or for that matter, interest in any woman at all. As far as she could tell, the man hadn't worn an Amulet of Mara since she met him- but that was probably because there were much more important things going on. T-Talos, here Lydia was overthinking things... She had to reciprocate, lest Rurik thought the worst! Adding to her gasp, Lydia soon let loose a soft moan of delight and pressed her body against Rurik's own, further proving that she wanted him just as much as he did. The arm wrapped around her back was such a wonderful feeling, and even better when she could actually feel it now that she wasn't wearing her armor. And his lips- his slim, firm lips that were the barrier between powerful, ancient magic and a foe- felt delightful upon Lydia's own plump pair. Her eyelashes fluttered and soon she closed her eyes to become enamored in the kiss, fully giving herself to Rurik as her heart began to beat like a steady drum. But... Was this just a one time thing, or did Rurik intend to continue? Lydia could be patient- no, she would be patient. For him, of course.
Thread: The Dragonborn Comes (pods6827 & Major Mario)

Rurik almost grinned when he heard Lydia moan, the sound spurring him into deepening their kiss as they stood there. With his housecarl leaning into him the Dragonborn could feel every curve of her body, curves that were normally hidden by the thick steel armor that she was so fond of. He'd known that she was beautiful of course, but it was quite another thing to experience that beauty firsthand. Slowly, Rurik pulled away from Lydia, ending the kiss but remaining close to her. He smiled, glad that he'd been right about her being attracted to him, before speaking. I suppose the fact that you didn't stomp on my foot means you don't intend to spurn my advances eh? He teased, his hand tracing small circles on the small of her back as they stared into each other's eyes.
Thread: The Dragonborn Comes (pods6827 & Major Mario)

The kiss was a wild rush for Lydia, one that went above and beyond the thrill of combat for her. Rurik's mere touch, the touch of someone who reciprocated her feelings, was capable of unleashing a potent cocktail of hormones into Lydia's system. When the two broke away, the housecarl was visibly flushed, breathing heavily and her attention rested solely on Rurik. E-even if... Lydia shook her head after a short pause to answer Rurik's question and to cut herself off. She meant to say that even if she wasn't attracted to him, it was her duty as a housecarl to see to his needs, whatever they be, in the best ways possible. But she was attracted to him, so there was no need to put on a false smile. I'm just... glad that you see me in this way. I feared that you would never reciprocate my feelings. The housecarl beamed and cooed in appreciation when she focused on the feeling of Rurik's hand tracing into her back. Me in love... heh. Lydia would then move in to embrace her thane, even pressing her chest up against the man's own as she sought more of his touch. Being the housecarl, it wasn't like her to take the lead in this situation- though she hoped that Rurik wouldn't be content with a simple heartfelt kiss, especially when he had so much pent-up-stress in his system after his victory.
Thread: The Dragonborn Comes (pods6827 & Major Mario)

Lydia's closeness had a noticeable effect on the Dragonborn, his breeches growing tighter as the housecarl leaned into him. Suddenly Rurik was filled with a great desire to bring this woman to his bed and take her then and there. It was, he believed, a side effect of his being Dragonborn the urge to dominate and rule of a dragon combined with the desires of a man, and he'd felt it increasingly often since his arrival in Skyrim. Ordinarily he'd have ignored it, but frankly there was no need to now. So instead Rurik leaned forward, lifting Lydia into his arms and easily carrying her into his room before placing her on his bed with a surprising amount of care. From there he took a step back and began removing his armor, placing the dragonscale pieces on a rack in record time before turning back to the woman on his bed. I don't know about you, but I'm not content to leave this at just a kiss, he said, his voice low and husky as he climbed onto the bed beside her.
Thread: The Dragonborn Comes (pods6827 & Major Mario)

Lydia knew very little about what it meant to be a Dragonborn or the effects of merely being one, but she did know that the touch of a woman could bring about a tightening in one's britches. She didn't see it- she felt it, and it made her feel a lot more confident about her abilities and her place in Rurik's heart. Her fingers glided over his armor for a moment before she felt Rurik pick her up, carry her into his private room and lay her down on his fur-lined bed. It was a cold night outside, but perhaps inside it would be much, much warmer- steamy, even. I wouldn't be content with just a kiss either, Lydia replied as she let her eyes roam over Rurik's figure. There may have been a few scars or blemishes upon the man's body, but it wouldn't do anything to detract from those muscles, or perhaps the thickness of his skin, the broadness of his shoulders and other turn-ons that women sought after. It's uh... been a really long time since I last... Well, I just hope that I can satisfy you, my Thane. Ah, there was Lydia as a Housecarl always willing to please without thinking for herself! Alas, she was thinking about herself, as much as any woman should, and what kind of pleasure was in store for her. Her fingers absentmindedly went for her clothes and worked at the buckles, the latches, the buttons and straps, whatever it was that kept them together, as she fantasized. Despite all the adventures and time spent serving Rurik, Lydia had no idea what was waiting for her beneath his beltline. Just the thought of him in all his glory was enough to put a spark in the Housecarl's system, and soon she was reduced to naught but her smallclothes- her bra and panties, all cream-colored like comfortable, fur-lined hide.
Thread: The Dragonborn Comes (pods6827 & Major Mario)

Rurik watched with undisguised lust as Lydia stripped to her bra and panties, her body a vision of Nordic beauty. You're so beautiful, he murmured, before he began to remove his own clothing until only his own briefs remained to cover him. Not that they were doing much of that his muscular body was bare before Lydia, only a handful of scars marring his otherwise perfect form, and even his smallclothes did little to hide the large bulge that rested at his waist. After a moment Rurik leaned closer to Lydia, his face mere inches from hers, Don't worry Lydia, I'm sure that this will be satisfying for both of us. As he spoke his hands reached around her body, unclasping her bra and letting her impressive breasts free from their confines. Rurik's smile widened as his eyes took in her milky white flesh, Very satisfying, he said as he removed his briefs, letting his sizable erection free and putting it on display before his lover. Well then, shall we get started? He asked, his hands slowly tracing their way down the Nord woman's body.
Thread: The Dragonborn Comes (pods6827 & Major Mario)

The warm air of the cabin combined with the cool breeze of the outdoors brushed against Lydia's breasts once they were freed. The plush, alabaster orbs bounced against her chest after tumbling out before falling still, save for the languid motions up and down that complemented the rise and fall of her chest. The housecarl's nipples were half-erect, and shamelessly so with her arousal and the soft chill in the air. When she noticed Rurik's sizable erection on display before her, Lydia's eyes widened just a little and her lips pursed in wonder and delight. Yes, please, let's, Lydia cooed, unable to contain her enthusiasm. She reached out to run her fingers along the length of Rurik's shaft before cupping it in a loose grip. Pulling herself a little closer, the housecarl's eyes flicked up to Rurik's own. But where should we start?
Thread: The Dragonborn Comes (pods6827 & Major Mario)

The feel of Lydia's soft fingers on his cock made Rurik groan, a smile forming when he saw the look on her face when she saw how large it was. Reaching out, one of the Dragonborn's hands grasped one of his housecarl's breasts, giving the mound a squeeze as his fingers tweaked her erect nipple. I think that the best place for us to start, he said as his hand teased her breast, Would be with you wrapping your pretty lips around my cock. Rurik met Lydia's eyes as his free hand reached down to stroke his shaft, ensuring that it was fully erect for both of their pleasure.