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Thread: What's a RP craving you want so bad but can't seem to make happen? (SEE OPENING POST)

Razgriz said Trygon said I've had an idea for a three player Destiny plot I call 'The Black Engram' nearly since the game launched. Zero interest in doing the work to actually make it happen, though. Click to expand... Oh wow, and hear I thought I was one in a billion with a Destiny plot. Doesn't help that most of the good story is in the Grimoire cards and not actually playable. ahem Anyway, I've been wanting to do a Yu-Gi-Oh! RP along the lines of the GX Saga. Academies, Duel Exams, Duels in general, the whole shebang. More specifically, a plot involving a Duelist and a Duel Spirit, because why not. Click to expand... Christ, tell me about it. There's some AMAZING bits in there, though. My favorite has to be the 'Thanatonauts', an order of Warlock scientists devoted to the study of death. Sorry, did I say study? I meant exploration . They sit in a lab with their ghost, repeatedly killing themselves and taking notes after their ghosts reconstruct them.
Thread: What's a RP craving you want so bad but can't seem to make happen? (SEE OPENING POST)

Trygon said Razgriz said Trygon said I've had an idea for a three player Destiny plot I call 'The Black Engram' nearly since the game launched. Zero interest in doing the work to actually make it happen, though. Click to expand... Oh wow, and hear I thought I was one in a billion with a Destiny plot. Doesn't help that most of the good story is in the Grimoire cards and not actually playable. ahem Anyway, I've been wanting to do a Yu-Gi-Oh! RP along the lines of the GX Saga. Academies, Duel Exams, Duels in general, the whole shebang. More specifically, a plot involving a Duelist and a Duel Spirit, because why not. Click to expand... Christ, tell me about it. There's some AMAZING bits in there, though. My favorite has to be the 'Thanatonauts', an order of Warlock scientists devoted to the study of death. Sorry, did I say study? I meant exploration . They sit in a lab with their ghost, repeatedly killing themselves and taking notes after their ghosts reconstruct them. Click to expand... Yeah, those Thanatonauts are pretty ballsy to literally kill themselves in the name of science. Honestly though? My favorite tale was that of Dredgen Yor, because it showed that Guardians are not completely untouchable. They can be corrupted just as easily as anything else.
Thread: What's a RP craving you want so bad but can't seem to make happen? (SEE OPENING POST)

A long term TolkienesqueLoTRSilmarillion RP where my partner is as lore heavy as I am. Probably need to branch off to dedicated RP sites for this one I'm thinking.
Thread: What's a RP craving you want so bad but can't seem to make happen? (SEE OPENING POST)

RedRose said A noirolden times mafia that doesn't peter out quickly. Something with fitting style and atmosphere. It's like mine are cursed . Click to expand... I did one for 3 years that ended up being passed on to a friend who my hitman character mentored IC for like 3 months. Died 7 months after when gaia shut down the threadSomeone snitched about the secret guild brothel, yes you paid in gaia gold and were..taken care of and the house got a cut it was brilliant. and they couldn't port over.
Thread: What's a RP craving you want so bad but can't seem to make happen? (SEE OPENING POST)

MellowYellow said Thinking a little more on it, any type of 'role reversal' play is almost impossible to come upon here. From the mundane to the more fantastical, where it's almost impossible to find people willing to add a bit of spice to a stock plot by playing female character in a normally male role. Sure, everyone and their Aunt Sissy is happy to play Little Red Riding Hood, but how many would be willing to play a female wolf opposite a male Red? Click to expand... I've done it before as the male red. It was fun, then got turned into guro.
Thread: What's a RP craving you want so bad but can't seem to make happen? (SEE OPENING POST)

I'm on like three different rp sites and can't get much rp going like at all since all I wanna play is femboys Q.Q
Thread: What's a RP craving you want so bad but can't seem to make happen? (SEE OPENING POST)

I have a hard time finding roleplayers that are not that into the smut. I mean there is adult websites for that. I thought the idea of roleplaying was to write and collaborate on a good story. I mean I am not opposed to smut, I am no prude, but if I was horny I would go watch porn and just cut out the middle man. I am interested in a good story and there isn't much of that happening anymore on many sites. There are some PG related sites, but I don't like the idea of censorship and NO smut. Its either ALL smut or NO smut. Can we have some medium smut in between? HAHA. But I do like the idea of a LOTR Tolkien story, or a Star Wars, Star Trek type story.
Thread: What's a RP craving you want so bad but can't seem to make happen? (SEE OPENING POST)

Anansi said MellowYellow said Thinking a little more on it, any type of 'role reversal' play is almost impossible to come upon here. From the mundane to the more fantastical, where it's almost impossible to find people willing to add a bit of spice to a stock plot by playing female character in a normally male role. Sure, everyone and their Aunt Sissy is happy to play Little Red Riding Hood, but how many would be willing to play a female wolf opposite a male Red? Click to expand... I've done it before as the male red. It was fun, then got turned into guro. Click to expand... Huh. I imagine that was a bit of a surprise then.
Thread: What's a RP craving you want so bad but can't seem to make happen? (SEE OPENING POST)

Lady Shadow said I have a hard time finding roleplayers that are not that into the smut. I mean there is adult websites for that. I thought the idea of roleplaying was to write and collaborate on a good story. I mean I am not opposed to smut, I am no prude, but if I was horny I would go watch porn and just cut out the middle man. I am interested in a good story and there isn't much of that happening anymore on many sites. There are some PG related sites, but I don't like the idea of censorship and NO smut. Its either ALL smut or NO smut. Can we have some medium smut in between? HAHA. But I do like the idea of a LOTR Tolkien story, or a Star Wars, Star Trek type story. Click to expand... BennyQ said he is looking for LOTR a few posts above you , have you tried him?
Thread: What's a RP craving you want so bad but can't seem to make happen? (SEE OPENING POST)

megyn said BennyQ said he is looking for LOTR a few posts above you , have you tried him? Click to expand... Yes I did! I messaged him and he messaged me back so we are working on it! Thanks for looking out
Thread: What's a RP craving you want so bad but can't seem to make happen? (SEE OPENING POST)

Look at us! Setting RP's up for people! pats everyone on the back One specific plot I could never find a writer for the idea was a freaky Friday esque scenario where a young couple have their minds swapped to each other's bodies and obviously then the RPers would play the other physical body with their characters personality. Also any GM style RP that actually sticks, I think I might have one that will though!!
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

So how do you seasoned veterans here deal with this. Because this whole weekend has been an absolute bust rp wise. And frankly, being I have nothing at all to do on the weekends, rping is generally what I focus my time around. So when this stuff happens I tend to get really down in the dumps. Of course I am not the only one, which is why I made this. I just want to know how other people deal with this.
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

Honestly I've been at this for a while, and have had my fair share of ignores and rejections. And if it happens at this point I just shrug and say 'fuck it.' Oh sure it sucks, and yeah it's annoying when people won't even respond to you, but people like that... probably aren't even worth the time of the day in the first place. So, in dealing with rejection, I just decide to move on and look elsewhere. You have to be persistent, and to keep checking other avenues. Eventually that diligence will pay off with a partner that fits you like a glove.
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

Ignore it. Then, after you've ignored it, try to reflect on why people are ignoring you, rejecting you, and you've had no success at role-playing. You're either undesirable, or you're trying to role-play with people that aren't worth your time. Generally it tends to be the former. You should also consider picking up a second hobby to otherwise occupy your time. Putting all of your eggs in one basket is foolish. It won't be much of a big deal if some eggs in one basket break, because you always have another to attend to.
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

Mitsu said Ignore it. Then, after you've ignored it, try to reflect on why people are ignoring you, rejecting you, and you've had no success at role-playing. You're either undesirable, or you're trying to role-play with people that aren't worth your time. Generally it tends to be the former. You should also consider picking up a second hobby to otherwise occupy your time. Putting all of your eggs in one basket is foolish. It won't be much of a big deal if some eggs in one basket break, because you always have another to attend to. Click to expand... More then likely I am undesirable. Which I understand, I would!'t want this either! XD
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

I gather that you're joking, but that isn't the kind of attitude that people like to deal with. Your profile also exudes the same sort of vibe. People don't necessarily like dealing with people that make themselves out to be a pity case. When I see such a person, I can only expect constant self-deprecation, and a potentially clingy personality. While I don't consider myself hot-shit, I rather not hang out with someone that is a constant sob story, or at the very least, lacks a smidge of self-confidence. Even worse is their constant need for attention when I don't need them nearly as much. It can get very old very fast, and even so to the people that approach you with the best of intentions. You look good today. Nah, you're just saying that. Really good post, I think you nailed it! Nah, it really wasn't that good, but thanks. Even if you aren't like that, perhaps that's the impression you give off. You could also be dull, uncreative, or a very poor writer I don't know. Just take some time to examine yourself and understand why you are apparently undesirable. If you think that you are, then fix it. Also leave room to interpret your poor luck as being just that, but only do so with complete honesty and self-awareness. You have a problem that you want to fix. Sort out the perceived problems, and find the real one. Then take the necessary steps to fix it. You'll find greater happiness and fulfillment in self-improvement, and likewise people will enjoy your company more. Role-playing should only be a hobby, not the path to your happiness.
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

Also, This is a busy time of year, and weekends are fairly dead around here. I don't have any hard evidence, but I suspect a large number of users have non-conventional jobs so they are busy on weekends. I am going to have to agree with Mitsu. Find a second hobby, to occupy your time instead of waiting on here for a post or a pm. It will save your sanity.
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

Mitsu said I gather that you're joking, but that isn't the kind of attitude that people like to deal with. Your profile also exudes the same sort of vibe. People don't necessarily like dealing with people that make themselves out to be a pity case. When I see such a person, I can only expect constant self-deprecation, and a potentially clingy personality. While I don't consider myself hot-shit, I rather not hang out with someone that is a constant sob story, or at the very least, lacks a smidge of self-confidence. Even worse is their constant need for attention when I don't need them nearly as much. It can get very old very fast, and even so to the people that approach you with the best of intentions. You look good today. Nah, you're just saying that. Really good post, I think you nailed it! Nah, it really wasn't that good, but thanks. Even if you aren't like that, perhaps that's the impression you give off. You could also be dull, uncreative, or a very poor writer I don't know. Just take some time to examine yourself and understand why you are apparently undesirable. If you think that you are, then fix it. Also leave room to interpret your poor luck as being just that, but only do so with complete honesty and self-awareness. You have a problem that you want to fix. Sort out the perceived problems, and find the real one. Then take the necessary steps to fix it. You'll find greater happiness and fulfillment in self-improvement, and likewise people will enjoy your company more. Role-playing should only be a hobby, not the path to your happiness. Click to expand... I don't even know where to begin there, besides your probably 100 right. I know I am clingy as fuck, and I cringe so hard when I get that way. As for confidence, thats something I've never had. To me confidence leads to arrogance. Always stay humble. And I can understand why people wouldn't want to hang around that, happy faces attract happy people. But If I have an issue or a problem, I seriously would even know what it might be. The fact is that as far I remember I've always been this way. As for hobbies. Rping is generally something I do to pass the time. Most days I am at home bored out of my skull. I have no car No friends in my neighborhood, and no one roughly around my age. No job. And town is about 8 miles away. Typically during the summer if I am bored I bike into town and spend my day there just bullshiting around with people I meet. But now that's winter and we have about a foot or more of snow. I got nothing to do and no one to talk to. All my friends are either out of town or working their asses off. So hanging out with them isn't easy. I mean, I am not like depressed about this or anything. Don't get me wrong. I got nothing to be depressed about.
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

Honestly I feel like I am only making things worse talking about this.
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

I can't possibly fix your entire life for you. Nobody can even begin to do that. The best thing for you to do is find another hobby, and focus on improving yourself. Go get some exercise, even if there is snow on the ground. Dress warmly, and go on some snowy hikes. Also consider lifting some weights, and just generally doing a full-body workout. Consider reexamining your diet as well, should you need to. Cut out processed sugar, junk food, and processed foods. Learn to cook things you wouldn't ordinary cook. Cooking can be therapeutic, and lead your tastebuds on a path of adventure. Already you could have two new hobbies exercise and nutrition. Pile on a third hobby, such as art, model building, or even photography. Something to keep your mind busy and also act as a creative outlet. If you want more passive entertainment, pick up video games. Next seek out other people. Your town might have social events you're entirely unaware of. Use google to find if there are any social groups in your area, and with caution, contact them. People won't come to you, so you need to go to them. I know it's easier said than done, but find a job immediately. Make it any job at all, even if it's working fast food or at a convenience store. Getting out of the house with purpose might do you some good, and give you a chance to make workplace friends. Pick up various jobs, even things you think you'll be poor at, so you can accumulate life experience. You'll learn more about yourself and pick up new skills. There's much you can do with yourself, and you're only limited by your own laziness or creativity. I can't really give you any advice beyond what I've already typed.
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

Mitsu said I can't possibly fix your entire life for you. Nobody can even begin to do that. The best thing for you to do is find another hobby, and focus on improving yourself. Go get some exercise, even if there is snow on the ground. Dress warmly, and go on some snowy hikes. Also consider lifting some weights, and just generally doing a full-body workout. Consider reexamining your diet as well, should you need to. Cut out processed sugar, junk food, and processed foods. Learn to cook things you wouldn't ordinary cook. Cooking can be therapeutic, and lead your tastebuds on a path of adventure. Already you could have two new hobbies exercise and nutrition. Pile on a third hobby, such as art, model building, or even photography. Something to keep your mind busy and also act as a creative outlet. If you want more passive entertainment, pick up video games. Next seek out other people. Your town might have social events you're entirely unaware of. Use google to find if there are any social groups in your area, and with caution, contact them. People won't come to you, so you need to go to them. I know it's easier said than done, but find a job immediately. Make it any job at all, even if it's working fast food or at a convenience store. Getting out of the house with purpose might do you some good, and give you a chance to make workplace friends. Pick up various jobs, even things you think you'll be poor at, so you can accumulate life experience. You'll learn more about yourself and pick up new skills. There's much you can do with yourself, and you're only limited by your own laziness or creativity. I can't really give you any advice beyond what I've already typed. Click to expand... Well thank you. Its really all I can say.
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

I agree completely with everything that Mitsu has said, particularly in that last post. Reading your summary of life and the state of things, Crimson, it sounds exactly where I was at when I first joined Blue Moon. I had no job, didn't go anywhere, no friends outside of the internet, and I lacked a lot of confidence and was clingy with my partners. I thought that I was content with the state of things but it was actually a lie I told myself to keep from making my expectations and standards for myself higher. I thought not failing meant I was happy but they're not the same thing as being fulfilled and the exhilaration that comes with achievement. I also think that whole confidence arrogance thing is a lie and maybe should be looked at critically. Vanity and insecurity are where arrogance comes from, not confidence and self-pride. Insecurity makes us compare ourselves to others and in cases of arrogance leads to the I'm better than you mindset. Confidence is merely self-recognition of your own worth and validation of that value. You're also not being humble by minimizing your worth and it is just as arrogant as vanity because you're forcing others to praise you. Humility is being gracious. One of the biggest things to change my clingy behavior and confidence issues was getting a job. Complete perspective change, even working at a grocery store, suddenly, I wasn't waiting hours for partners to post and I was empathetic to the concept of busy. I also learned how to sell myself and make myself appealing to others. Having art as a hobby also helped take some of the pressure off of the role-playing and since I had a job and got to talk with people so often, I wasn't too depressed to make art as well. Getting a job isn't just some useless platitude and you'll find hundreds of reasons to tell yourself why you can't and why you shouldn't, so, be aware of what you're doing to yourself by making these arguments. Find the solutions to these problems rather than settling for I can't. Plus, making your own money, you become conscious of how to spend it and the change in lifestyle will likely follow as you're forced to buy your own food. It did for me as well. Good luck! You can do it!
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

size-2There are other things you can do on the weekends besides role-playing. Go outside and meet people, etc. Find an activity you like and start doing it, pick up new hobbies. For me it was parkourif you are going to do it, find a professional to teach you or else you will end up breaking a few bones or worse, dying. Art, teaching myself to write backwards with both hands, etc. As for being ignored and rejected, it happens, I can tell you the exact number of times I have been rejected by people I have approached for rps as well the number of times I have turned down people. Rejection isn't fun, but we must learn to move on, there are always more fish in the sea. Also try new things in rping world once in a while, sticking to the same old thing, isn't going to get you anywhere. I would also edit your profile. Remove the sob story, no matter how true it is. Keep your head up, we all must go through hell before we can make it to heaven.size
Thread: Dealing with Disappointment, Rejection, and being Ignored

Rudolph Quin said I agree completely with everything that Mitsu has said, particularly in that last post. Reading your summary of life and the state of things, Crimson, it sounds exactly where I was at when I first joined Blue Moon. I had no job, didn't go anywhere, no friends outside of the internet, and I lacked a lot of confidence and was clingy with my partners. I thought that I was content with the state of things but it was actually a lie I told myself to keep from making my expectations and standards for myself higher. I thought not failing meant I was happy but they're not the same thing as being fulfilled and the exhilaration that comes with achievement. I also think that whole confidence arrogance thing is a lie and maybe should be looked at critically. Vanity and insecurity are where arrogance comes from, not confidence and self-pride. Insecurity makes us compare ourselves to others and in cases of arrogance leads to the I'm better than you mindset. Confidence is merely self-recognition of your own worth and validation of that value. You're also not being humble by minimizing your worth and it is just as arrogant as vanity because you're forcing others to praise you. Humility is being gracious. One of the biggest things to change my clingy behavior and confidence issues was getting a job. Complete perspective change, even working at a grocery store, suddenly, I wasn't waiting hours for partners to post and I was empathetic to the concept of busy. I also learned how to sell myself and make myself appealing to others. Having art as a hobby also helped take some of the pressure off of the role-playing and since I had a job and got to talk with people so often, I wasn't too depressed to make art as well. Getting a job isn't just some useless platitude and you'll find hundreds of reasons to tell yourself why you can't and why you shouldn't, so, be aware of what you're doing to yourself by making these arguments. Find the solutions to these problems rather than settling for I can't. Plus, making your own money, you become conscious of how to spend it and the change in lifestyle will likely follow as you're forced to buy your own food. It did for me as well. Good luck! You can do it! Click to expand... Yeah getting a job is number one on priorities once I have my license and a car. And thank you for the advice. All of you. It means a lot to me.