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Thread: Rape Culture

It's a weighing of risks and expectations thing. No one should expect sex to come out of drinking alcohol but then people know that there is the likely fatal outcome of a car crash of driving while intoxicated.
Thread: Rape Culture

Eturnsdale Because getting in a car is a lot more dangerous. You don't just put yourself in danger, you put anyone else on the road in danger. That's why it's such a risk. In a house, at a party, the worst cops would expect is too much noise and a fight breaking out. But there are always those cases of rape but still, that's a risk to the person drinking not everyone in the whole house.
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You are missing my point. In one instance you are expected to make sound judgement, in the other you are not. You can not have it both ways. It is either or. Are you responsible enough to make sound judgement after drinking, or are you not? Here, how about this then? You are drunk, you beat the tar out of someone. Are you responsible for your actions? There you only physically harmed one person, In the rape only one person was physically harmed. I hate double standards. Now, guy was drunk, girl was drunk. Neither could consent to sex. But they had sex anyway. One of the two wakes up and cries rape it can go either way, and does sometimes Who is at fault? There should be no double standard.
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With drunk driving it's because you DIDN'T make sound judgment. That's why you get held accountable same as beating someone up. You weren't thinking. So no, I'm not missing the point of your argument. Rape is a completely different matter than getting into a car while drunk or into a fight. When you're drunk, you are vulnerable and if you are still able to go, Yeah, it's totally smart to get into my car while I'm totally sloshed! Or 'Hey, I wanna pick a fight with someone! I think you deserve to be punished for drivingfighting under the influence same with any other intoxicant. But if I put that to what you are saying, then if you're drunk and somehow a sober person manages to pin you down and rape you, that's somehow your fault? I don't think so. It's not a double standard. That's how victims end up having cases thrown out because someone says, Hey, this is somehow your fault too! For being all drunk and vulnerable! You must of deserved it! It's put in place to protect people who aren't able to physically protect themselves because of the decrease in motor function and thought brought on by alcohol. Or the mere fact that some can't say no but didn't say yes. With the two drunks who had sex and one cries rape? That's another matter entirely. That turns into a who started it? argument and is his word against hers. Those rarely hold up in court at all because both were drunk unless there were witnesses.
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It is never the victims fault or doing in any way, shape, or form. It's not about something they did, didn't do, should've done, could've done, etc. And it shouldn't be about them avoiding the rape or getting themselves in the situation. I'll admit, yeah, a lot of cases make many people facepalm because of how careless the person was. But it doesn't change the fact that 100 of the time, someone took advantage of this person, be it by drugging and lowering their inhibitions, silencing them somehow so one can claim they didn't say no or stop, or simply forcing them down with sheer strength. And I'm tired of the animal instinct excuses for men raping. We aren't damn dogs who just walk around and hump whatever we want. We're far more self aware, and we know what rape is and that it is wrong. It's unfortunate that it seems easier to teach people how to avoid getting raped than it is to teach people to not rape. At the convention I go to, on the forums there was a story going around that there had been many rapings at the convention. There were at least 4 confirmed date-rape druggings at the convention, and many theorize it was at the dance that the convention held. And then there was another confirmed rape. Some girl a minor... of course cliche story... met some older boys, went up to their room, got drunk, and one of them raped her, or well, had sex with her while she was heavily intoxicated. And his friends came onto the forum defending him, claiming that she had been whoring herself out the entire weekend and cock-teasing all of the guys. Doesn't matter! No means no.
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--Hahvoc Requiem-- said With drunk driving it's because you DIDN'T make sound judgment. That's why you get held accountable same as beating someone up. You weren't thinking. So no, I'm not missing the point of your argument. Rape is a completely different matter than getting into a car while drunk or into a fight. When you're drunk, you are vulnerable and if you are still able to go, Yeah, it's totally smart to get into my car while I'm totally sloshed! Or 'Hey, I wanna pick a fight with someone! I think you deserve to be punished for drivingfighting under the influence same with any other intoxicant. But if I put that to what you are saying, then if you're drunk and somehow a sober person manages to pin you down and rape you, that's somehow your fault? I don't think so. It's not a double standard. That's how victims end up having cases thrown out because someone says, Hey, this is somehow your fault too! For being all drunk and vulnerable! You must of deserved it! It's put in place to protect people who aren't able to physically protect themselves because of the decrease in motor function and thought brought on by alcohol. Or the mere fact that some can't say no but didn't say yes. With the two drunks who had sex and one cries rape? That's another matter entirely. That turns into a who started it? argument and is his word against hers. Those rarely hold up in court at all because both were drunk unless there were witnesses. Click to expand... You are reading way to much into this. I am not talking about the person who passed out and woke up with fifteen people gangraping them. And I am not, NOT, placing blame on the victim. I am talking about the person who got drunk then woke up and didnt remember saying yes. Those instances are not as rare as one would think. In one instance you are expected to make sound judgement, in the other you are not. That is what I am talking about. There are instances where the rapist didn't even know the other party was actually drunk, but was convicted because, as the courts say, once you touch a drop of alcohol you are no longer able to consent. But you are able to consent to driving.
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I agree with Eturnsdale that there is some sort of... discrepancy that doesn't add up or level out. But I simply cannot agree with a drunk woman being held accountable when her sexual partner is soberif both parties were drunk, then it's not even a part of the same discussion in those cases, accusations of rapewhen consent has been expressed under intoxication are simply wrong and misleading, in my opinion, because you cannot hold one of them responsible when neither of them are. Even if she is being sexually aggressive and coming onto the guy like crazy, if he is sober he should refuse her. HE needs to take responsibility in that situation and refuse her, because she is no longer able to make that decision for herself. But I cannot agree that someone who drives drunk should be allowed to get away with it or be excused because they didn't know any better either. I guess I kind of see it as being similar to how we treat children. That seems condescending to say, but hear me out. First, if a child is sexually abused by an adult and the adult pulls that crap, The little minx! She totally came onto me! as if it were a predatory move by the child in some way, even if the child WAS being provocativeindicating something else being wrong entirely the adult was still the adult in that situation and fucking knew better. The adult is the responsible one. And yet, we still hold children accountable for their actions if they lie or steal or hurt each other. We hold them responsible for their choices and punish them. That's how I reason out and view the discrepancy with drunk driving and sexual consent. Because a person's thinking facilities become like that of a child when under the influence. It doesn't mean that they shouldn't be held responsible but not everything that happens to them while drunk is their fault. Just my thoughts. shrugs
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When I was 15, I was raped by a military police officer. Yeah, so much for cops making me feel safe anymore. Granted, he was my boyfriend but we had just spent all afternoon talking about how we were going to wait until marriage and setting our wedding date for the month I would graduate. After the sun set it was like he was a whole different creature. There had been no preliminary kissing, caressing, anything to indicate I was interested. Only hand holding here and there as we helped my parents build a BBQ pit. I was told, You know how we talked early about waiting for our wedding night? I lied. Yes, I did scream no, I did hit, kick, punch him. No, it didn't get me anywhere accept hurt worse. To top it all off, when he was done he spent an hour convincing me it was all my fault and I'd condemned us to hell. That if I told my parents they would hate me, not him. And if I went to the police they wouldn't believe me because he was one of them. He'd already spent the past six months breaking me down by telling me I was lucky he liked me because I was too ugly for anyone else to want to date me. That I was lucky he was in my life because my parents hated me and that's why they tried to rule every aspect of my life. It took seven years to break free of his web, and to this day I still have issues with being touched.
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MsMuffintops said And I'm tired of the animal instinct excuses for men raping. We aren't damn dogs who just walk around and hump whatever we want. We're far more self aware, and we know what rape is and that it is wrong. Click to expand... Just reproduce a rape into another crime scene. Lets say, a bank robbery. Would anyone ever say that the clients or the employee's of a bank were the ones asking or provoking the robbery? No. So why is it so easy to make a victim feel guilty of something she has not done? Just my thought.
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There's nothing that a woman does that could cause a man to rape her, that's simply just victim blaming in those cases. But there's a lot a man can do to stop a rape, by say, not doing it.
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It's definitely about control. The guys that actually pins a girl against the wall and do the deed with their manhood. Well he's unable to resist it anymore. He probably has a lot of urges to fuck. But no girl wants him. So after x amount of days, he's unable to stop himself and decides today is the day. That he becomes that confident, manly person that the girl of his dreams wants him to be. So he takes it out on someone that may have resemble her. Now, it could be that the girl of his dreams never said any of this stuff. He could be the one just thinking it. But how this this idea pop into his head? How about television? Female characters usually end up with the guy with confident and muscles. The guy like the rapist never get the girl, blah, blah. There are also other cases where it's a guy that could get girls. But why does he does it? Well the pack kept saying, oh man I fuck this girl, and then I fuck the other two hours later. It becomes a contest of who fucked how many girls. Those could be rapes, or those weren't, it's base on the guys look the girls probably wants to be fucked by him. Attractive guys will have plenty of girls line up for him. 6 Just look at Justin Bieber, all those fan girls. Or any celebrity. I'm not the type of guy to line up for anyone. So for every action, there's a consequence. You dated this guy, but his best friend secretly had a crush on you. But you rejected him in somehow. I wouldn't be surprised a few years later, if he doesn't get any love he'll become a rapist. Also, I feel like people who smoke, or are on a diet for food. Can you truly stop yourself from doing it? Some can because they are strong. But I know some people relapse and starts smoking, or eating those foods again. You can't say rape is different. It's not. It sucks, but it's not. Just because it involves a female, an actual being with feelings. It doesn't change the fact that the person who raped her, couldn't control it anymore. It's a disease in my opinion, a mental one. And I would like to add, I also hate how Rape has become a weapon. It's rare, but there are cases that what if a married couple love each other. But years down the road, they get divorce. The female can turn around and say he raped me there are psycho's out there like that. Simply put, it's sometime a bad judgement on our part, is it not? And also, action has consequences. Other people have feelings to, and whether they like it or not, the person who's in control is responsible for them to.
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Jennifer said MsMuffintops said And I'm tired of the animal instinct excuses for men raping. We aren't damn dogs who just walk around and hump whatever we want. We're far more self aware, and we know what rape is and that it is wrong. Click to expand... Just reproduce a rape into another crime scene. Lets say, a bank robbery. Would anyone ever say that the clients or the employee's of a bank were the ones asking or provoking the robbery? No. So why is it so easy to make a victim feel guilty of something she has not done? Just my thought. Click to expand... I don't quite see the connection between what you quoted me for, and your thought. My opinions in my post didn't appear to oppose your own. So your post left me feeling a bit confused. There I was simply stating that nowadays, a lot of people try to look at men from an animalistic point of view. Much like when a man cheats in a relationship. It's in men's nature to spread his seed, so we supposedly can't blame him. I've heard the same excuse for rape, that some men just give in to their animalistic traits, which I think is utter bull. But at the same time, I don't want to talk about this like its a men attacking women issue. Women can rape too obviously. But to answer your question, its likely a mixture of things, trauma, embarrassment from the social stigmas that is actually long gone... but can likely stem from self doubt, like 'did I lead him on?' , and manipulation brought on by someone with a superiority complex.
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I do believe the Rapist Cure Equation could solve a lot of problems here too bad those in power are too chickenshit to use it ahem Object of choice preferably sharp Genitalia Problem Solved Note This would obviously be best for those federally convicted of rape. But, no one says it isn't safe for civilian use Way I see it, this would be the best way to solve it. One time, or multiple times, the equation above applies to all. And unlike a gun for a murderer, the tool in question is so much harder to get back.
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That really only works after the fact. Perhaps if there was a way for individuals to release their sexual urges without society looking down upon them, then there'd be a release valve of sorts. Though I don't make any claim that it would reduce all instances of rape.
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Yes you are right though one should also take into the deterrent effect of it. I personally think that most would abstain from rape if there was a truly legitimate fear of getting caught and having their reproductive organs forcefully severed from their body. Then again, it might not it's really impossible for me to be certain about it.
Thread: His Rosario Vampire ((ShadowKiller and I))

Moka was walking next to Tsukune with her hands holding her bag in front of her. She looks at Tsukune and then stops. Causing him to stop along with her and he looked at her. I'm hungry.She said as she jumped at him and bite his neck. Then backing off like she normally did smiling with her eyes closed and her finger on her mouth. Lets get to class or were going to be late Tsukune.
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He smiled as he walked with the Moka. He cared for her so much but also loved her after all they went through together. He turned when she said she was hungry and tilted his head confused as he then went wide eyed as she started to suck his blood. When she was done he was a little weak. Moka how you expect me to run after that.
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Moka then turned and looked at him grabbing his arm and started to run off towards the schools gate. We have to make it to class Tsukune lets go. she said with a smile as she ran off dragging him behind him.
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He run after her as she pulled him along. He tryied to keep up. It she dragged him the rest of the way. He stumbled over to his seat and almost fell asleep at his desk as the teacher walked in.
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Moka sat in her seat as always ready to take accurate neat notes. Seeing, Tsukune almost fall asleep she poked him in the back with her pen. Tsukune sit up the teacher is coming.
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Tsukine went strait up thanks to the poke to the back. He sighed as the teacher came in and got ready. He didn't know why he bothered. He always was average in grades. He then looked at the lock that was on his hand and remembered he not so a adage anymore. It gave him slight confidence as he started to take notes.
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Moka smiled at the fact that he sat up after the poke. She opened her notebook and took out her pen ready to take notes for the class period. Her notes were easy to understand and accurate, so she always made high grades from studying them.
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Tsukune took notes. They weren't the best but they helped him out. When class ended he turned with his note book in his hand. umm Moka want to compaire notes after school? he said with a desperate look for half the stuff went over his head.
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Moka looked at him as she put up her pen and notebook. Sure, Tsukune, I will compare notes with you. Moka said smiling as she stood up from her seat. Moka saw his desperate look that he wore, she then put some of the pieces together and noticed that he might not get to put, all of the things into his notes some how.
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Tsukune smiled and bowed to her. thank you. I wouldn't ask if it was needed and the other if I asked the others... he started to go pale at what might have happen with the love sucked stackers he has. He started to feel normal again after the bite. Moka next time your hungry let me buy you some tomato juice I need to have energy for my classes for this will make me look lazy.
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Moka laughed nervously at his bow, which she thought was unneeded. Uh, but I like your blood more than the tomato juice. Moka said a little bluntly. But, I understand....so take it easy on biting you? Moka confirmed as she started to walk out of the classroom with Tsukune.
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Tsukune smiled and sighed in relief that she agreed with him. As they walked to the class running footsteps were heard behind them. Tsukune looked behind and saw a bat with a bats face on it come and hit him in the face as he flew a few feet and hit the ground and then the a voice. damn it I missed. Stupid Tsukune got in the way of my swing.
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Tsukune are you okay? Moka said as she ran over to him. Huh? A bat? Moka looked at the source of the voice. Turning around Moka saw a little girl with twin ponytails. Haha ....Kokoa what are you doing here?
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Kakoa held the bat on her shoulder as she looked at Moka. I came to dual with you Moka now show your true self and fight me. she said as she raised the bat and swung down. Not trying to hit her but trying to scare her to remove the seal. She wanted to face the real Moka not this fake Moka. She kept swinging at her hoping to scare her. As that was happening Tsukune slowly woke up from all the banging that was comin from kokoa's bat and saw her attacking Moka again. He got up fast as he tryied to get between them. When he did that though he got hit with thale bat again sending him flyin to a wall. Kokoa stopped atlfter that and grunted. ideot. she turned and walked away. I will challenge you later when the ideot not around.
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Moka was trying to dodge and talk to Kokoa. Hoping that she would get through to her, when Tsukune got in between them and received first class tickets to the wall. Moka ran over to Tsukune soon after hearing Kokoa words. Tsukune are you alright?
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He slowly come through as he saw her face. I'm ok Moka from all the hits I taken I think that was one of the lightest. he said and laughed lightly before he got up. let's hurry to our next class before we are late. he said as he tryied to rush but he held his chest for the pain wasn't all gone. But they still make it to class with seconds to spar. He the. Sat down and looked at the teacher as he got his note book ready. He did better in this class then others for it wasn't monster related. I can play ruby as well but can you play the other girls?
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Moka smiled lightly before standing up. He did take a lot of its before. Moka walked with Tsukune the rest of the way to class as they entered and sat down. She was ready to take some more notes and she then spotted Kurumu. Hi there Kurumu. she greeted as the succubus sat right in front of her. Hi Moka.... seeing Tsukune she was tempted to jump at him like she always did, but it was a class that was in session and she didn't feel like being in trouble. Sure I can. XD.
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Tsukune was writing notes when he saw Kurumu he concentrated more on the class hoping she wouldn't see him. From all the hugs he was growing a fear of those large breast since she almost killed him with those large size pillows. He kept on taking notes untill class ended. He then stood up and turned. ready for our next class Moka?
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Moka gradually took as many accurate notes as possible. When it was time for the next class Moka stood up. Yea. she said as they both then started to head out the door. It was only then when Kurumu attacked him from behind with her chest as a weapon.
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Tsukune smiled as he was walking out but then was grabbed from behind and his face was barried in the large breast he was growing scared of. Before it was a blessing but thanks to her strangth and how far in she dug his face in them the little air he got made him twich and struggle to get free in his now weaken state.
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Oh hi there Tsukune. Kurumu said as Moka turned around to see what was happening. Stop strangling him with your huge chest Kurumu. Mizune sad as she stood there watching. Leaving Moka to stand there sheepishly trying to calm thee storm that was going to rage and get Tsukune some air. Yea, um Kurumu I think he is suffocating.
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Tsukune was about to pass out from lack of air till she let go and be fell. Ack gasping for air as he the. Tryed to calm down from that scary event. He then got up and sighed. please kurumu I dont mind being hug but mus you always push my face down there? he said as he tuned blushing a little for now he was a little embarrassed.