Thread: My Personality Doesn't Match

Rudolph Quin said It definitely took me a different mindset and approach to your thread to see where you were coming from with it, Quix, and I did get the impression of being amused from your tone. You snarky bastard. Like I said, you either do like you do, with a tone to decode, a sort of more than meets the eye intent on a double take by the select few willing to engage with you on that level, or you do like me, with no rules, no kinks posted, just short story synopsis and what I'm open to doing, and then have to tell a bunch of people No. If it works, it works. Might be helpful for the OP and those who agree with them to sort of keep that in mind you don't have to keep doing the same thing over and over. Try a different approach, try a different set up. The point isn't to appeal to as many people as possible but to find the people that will click with you. Often times, presenting yourself in a certain way, you come at it thinking that you know what people want to hear and it's not. Or you insert a little too much desperation to be validated in the req thread and turn away the people who would normally approach your ideas if not for the overwhelming burst of YOU shouting from the thread. I don't know what the problems are but just saying generally, sometimes these are things you can look for if you're having trouble and maybe take stuff out, simplify it, or put more stuff in, make it more fleshed out, give people looking it over more options. Shovel said ...And wouldn't mind indulging this experiment of sharing unsatisfied and apparently niche kinks fetish's. 3 Click to expand... Should we do that in this thread or make a new one? The only problem with doing it in this existing thread is people will still be responding to the OP rather than looking down through the discussion and finding the new intent behind the conversation. Thinking it over, it actually has less to do with the intent of this thread, so, I'll make a new one. Click to expand... It's hard for me, sometimes, because I know if I read it from someone else, I'd interpret it in the way that I, myself, wrote it to be interpreted. Not everyone is the same, but it's a great feeling when I receive a message from someone who's intuitively on the same wavelength, and that really is the true intent of the entire thread. I've never tried it your way, and I could see how that would work, and possibly open up a lot more options. However, knowing myself, I'd end up being just as picky anyway, as I'm strong willed known, alternatively, by some, as stubborn!, and I know what attractsinterests me, and it's as much to do with the personality of the person behind the keyboard as anything else I find that tends to bleed into the personality of the characters they portray. When it comes to what's included in the story itself, my motto is 'give me something that I like, and I will give you all that you do'. Agreed with your third paragraph. Variety is the spice of life, however some are here to play out only a particular fantasyfetishpersonalityscene, so it can depend on what they're looking for, or their purpose for being here. I think a new thread is the way to go!