Thread: Difficult and uncommon kinks to find partners for

Mr Quixotic said That's true Andy, but in my case, which possibly makes it even harder, I don't look to write opposite a female 'victim', but with a character who will be just as depraved as my own. So it's not so much about 'what my character does to theirs', but in partnership, what each encouragemanipulate the other to do, to meet their own needs. I do have one of those going now, where some of the victims will actually be male. Which brings me to another point, though I'm not sure if this is derailing the direction of this thread, as it's a themeconcept I struggle to find rather than a kink. Let me know, if so, and I'll happily delete, xd. AndNich, you mention To do a role play, where you see a character literally shattered and forced to pick up the pieces is also a challenge to write and that concept, or one where the male character is, not solely of his own making, the subject of any life-altering experience, emotionally traumatised, placed in unique or unusual situations, or required to grow and change as the story progresses, is something that, for me, is extremely difficult to find. I very rarely get the opportunity of being able to challenge myself to write that kind of character. Click to expand... No, it definitely fits with the theme of the thread. It's about those impossible to find partners for -ideasdesires- but when making the thread, I decided to focus the OP mostly on the kink aspect since the other is a bit harder to explain. But totally! Let's talk about it. Can you explain a bit more about this character concept? Sorry, just not sure I understand, because to me, it sounds like something I like to write and usually do. Not necessarily an object acted upon nor submissive, either in the storyline or sexually, but my go-to character, the most sought after and most comfortable for me to play, the aggressive male archetype goes through a lot of shit. I have a kink for not only shaming him for bad behaviors in front a group that will exclude him for them as punishment, but also for the contextual kink of drug addiction. Having gone through addiction myself and something I still struggle with, I like to work through my shit by putting my characters into that situation. Bring them down to the lowest point, fiendishly needing this key to unlocking oblivion, irrespective of the greater impact on himself and those around him, shortsighted and selfish and self-loathing all the while. I like bringing them down to that low and then having them go through a similar healing journey that I myself have, finding something to live for. But in the process of doing this sort of story, sometimes it can manifest in a lot of ways, such as violent behaviors during the high, that they have to own up to and face when they come down from it or when they're sober, or bringing them down to the pitiful angsty depths, tormented by what they've become but being unable to stop, crying and sick with this destructive need. So, do you mean something like that? Because oftentimes, I find I have no trouble finding people willing to explore masculine depravity and torment. Women like their female characters to be controlled but they like their men brought down to this vulnerable place, this self-induced torture that his masculinity cannot save him from. I've done this type of plotline from everything including berserkers who take instead of love, being willing to care for someone in a homosexual setting and it destroying their identity murdererspsychopaths being partnered up with that one woman they can trust and being conflicted by their feelings for her and their desire to give into the urges to kill her and the drug addict that can't seem to love her more than they hate themselveslove the drugs. But when you come at it from a very alpha male portrayal, it makes it easier to swallow and you get a lot more people raising their hands for it. However, sexually submissive men or simply submissive male charactersmeaning they're not exactly great depictions of masculine energy but either more relaxed or more emotional, like that gender role reversal thing Shovel was talking about are both hard to find partners for, I agree.