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Thread: Should gender reassignment surgery be covered by health insurance providers?

Beautiful Disgrace said I made this thread to educate myself, so if your next post could be something that actually contributes to the discussion instead of putting down others with different viewswhether or not they are educated, that wold be great. BMA is not here for this type of posting. Click to expand... BMA is for debate, correct? And I've seen debating, and I'm communicating that I'm displeased, distressed and personally affected by the ignorance I'm seeing. Others insecurity isn't my responsibility, it's perfectly natural and functional to point out shameful, below par or discouraged behaviour. If someone says 'should police be able to shoot black people?' Or 'do gay people REALLY exist?' there is going to be an obvious segregation of Those Opposing, Those supporting and Those Apathetic. Compliant, privileged and unaffected folk contribute to the oppression of minorities. Those active in contribution to the oppression just steer the wagon. I'm saying I MAY spend my emotional resources stretching my coping capacity and long overworked efforts to educate, but if it isn't going to be good for me the I won't. I want to, but sometimes the emotional consequences of fighting recurring losing battles against subnormal ideology might mean I decide it's not worth the distress. Do you understand? I said I wanted to contribute at late to this debate, for I have a lot of relevant perspective to the issue. But I've seen some of the politics and social views on this site already and it's quite taxing
Thread: Should gender reassignment surgery be covered by health insurance providers?

Rudolph Quin said Tierhund said But I'm not at all shocked all of you are most likely cisgender. Click to expand... Actually a lot of blue moons membership identifies as genderfluid and are very accepting of transgenderism as an expression of identity and sexuality. But the topic is should tax payers pay for the surgery to change someone's gender. I'm genderfluid and have been in a relationship with a transgendered man who felt stuck in a mans body. My support of her and her struggle is not retracted just because I understand that the underlying issue would not be changed by her becoming fully female. Click to expand... Well that's definitely more encouraging, it's cool to see there is perhaps a sizeable collection of transgender folk. Though I am a bit confused by your terminology - transgender men are FTMs, female to male. Trans women are MTF, male to female And you're right, for many but not all transgender people, physical, social and legal transition can only go so far to remedy the distress and dysphoria that comes with being transgender. It's a really awful and sad reality for the transgender community, and probably why the suicide rate is at such a high of 40. But just because a disorder cannot be fully eradicated doesn't necessarily mean there is any point in a society supporting it. People tend to be apathetic towards people's they do not relate to, and won't support problems they are not personally effected by. It also depends on the social and economical climate- I'm guessing the perspective here is the USA. On morale grounds I don't agree that any basic standard healthcare should only be available with those with financial security, it breeds sickness and dishealth amongst already detrimental poverty in first world countries. As I mentioned, cuisine rates are almost half of the population, and murder of transgender people majoritively women of colour is horrifying. If it were truly cosmetic, then therapy, self love and CBT would be a cure-all. But unfortunately transgenderism is still here, children are still killing themselves, families are still abandoning individuals for not identifying with the gender they were assigned at birth. I guess in the differing socioeconomical climate difference of the UK and the USA, some people are more prepared and comfortable for certain leaps of faith. For example I wouldn't want my taxes going towards police brutality, but my god is that a common occurance in large areas of the US.
Thread: Should gender reassignment surgery be covered by health insurance providers?

Teirhund my point was, that you were not debating the topic at hand. If you would like to create a thread to discuss how people view transgender folks, be my guest. You did not state your opposition to the topic or your agreement or site any reasons why. You simply stated the people here were ignorant you would educate them if you felt up to it. Your post was unnecessary, if you wanted to post later after gathering your thoughts, you could do so without such an aggressive attack first. This is now your second warning. I will not be giving a third.
Thread: Should gender reassignment surgery be covered by health insurance providers?

Sigh. Tierhund said BMA is for debate, correct? And I've seen debating, and I'm communicating that I'm displeased, distressed and personally affected by the ignorance I'm seeing. Others insecurity isn't my responsibility, it's perfectly natural and functional to point out shameful, below par or discouraged behaviour. Click to expand... I'm sorry you see peoples view points as a personal attack, though no one here was talking about any one individual. You are purposely attacking everyone who's views you don't agree with. Debates are conversations that use factual evidence supporting someones opinions. What you just did in your first post was just put everyone down. It's one thing to express your frustration but a whole other thing to lump everyone together and call them ignorant without even stating why or how. The behavior of everyone in this thread has been civil thus far. I don't understand how it is sub par or shameful. If someone says 'should police be able to shoot black people?' Or 'do gay people REALLY exist?' there is going to be an obvious segregation of Those Opposing, Those supporting and Those Apathetic. Compliant, privileged and unaffected folk contribute to the oppression of minorities. Those active in contribution to the oppression just steer the wagon. Click to expand... I'm sorry, what? Any debate is going to have a majority, minority, and an apathetic bunch. I don't know what wagon you are talking about. This discussion doesn't exist outside of the topic. No one is going on a witch hunt for what you deem as the minority. No one is even putting down any particular group of people, except you. I'm saying I MAY spend my emotional resources stretching my coping capacity and long overworked efforts to educate, but if it isn't going to be good for me the I won't. I want to, but sometimes the emotional consequences of fighting recurring losing battles against subnormal ideology might mean I decide it's not worth the distress. Click to expand... If you are debating on whether or not you wish to spend the effort expressing your view point, that's fine. What you didn't need to do is post about how everyone is ignorant and how you COULD spend the time to educate, but you probably can't be bothered to. Sounds really elitist to me and frankly counterproductive to who you obviously side with. You're making whoever you're defending look bad, really. Do you understand? I said I wanted to contribute at late to this debate, for I have a lot of relevant perspective to the issue. But I've seen some of the politics and social views on this site already and it's quite taxing Click to expand... Again, that's fine. But you didn't need to be so hostile in your initial post. It's bound to discredit whatever you say next because of how negative you were in your introduction. Again, counterproductive to your defense when people just think you're being hateful. I'm sure you read kuro's post. Just be careful what you say whenif you decide to back up your opinion with factual details and logic.
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Thread: Should gender reassignment surgery be covered by health insurance providers?

I'm starting to consider this possibly not something I can debate, because I think perhaps my bias towards transgender people having the right to not being in debt or unable to altar their bodies to conform to the gender binary, might make it difficult to make my point clear and debate-worthy because it just seems inherent to me. I saw someone mention that transgender people aren't necessarily at physical risk if they don't have any surgeries- I would like to mentionargue that especially in the Americas that we hear of constantly and of course globally, transgender folk are in constant danger of assault. I haven't been to one Gender conference or youth group that hasn't taught safety before all else, even before mental health- that the reality is that even if going to the X's bathroom may be the right thing for you mentally, if you're at risk of rape, assault, harassment or murder you may need to sacrifice your emotional wellbeing for preserving your life. So I'd like to make the tentative argument that, in the society we live in, 'visibly' transgender and gender-non conforming folk are in constant danger of attack due to the high amount of transphobia in society. It simply isn't safe for many people- especially trans women, who are murdered in horrific ways every year, not including those who were not publically known to be transgender or those who go unreported. I think if the social climate was a lot more safe in all manners of the word for any means of 'taboo' folk, there would be a more relaxed, comfortable and healthy transition and integration for all people involved. Also, the deterioration of mental health can lead to physical health being at risk. Suicide, suicide attempts, substance abuse, addictions, manic or depressive behaviour. The stress of not being viewed at the 'correct' gender, the dysphoria and dysmorphia of how ones internal body map does not match the reality of the physical form, the threat of assault from strangers, the threat of being called 'liars', 'fakers', 'trannys' etc when trying to engage in an intimate relationship, being viewed as Other by society people often include trans people in a male, female, trans - as if being transgender is not being male or female, it is its own strange little gender pocket, being at risk of losing home, job, relationship, family ties, financial security, etc.
Thread: Should gender reassignment surgery be covered by health insurance providers?

Well said, but I'd like to just point something out. I would like to mentionargue that especially in the Americas that we hear of constantly and of course globally, transgender folk are in constant danger of assault. Click to expand... I think everyone is in constant danger of assault, especially in the bad areas of the states. Prejudice is everywhere, against straight or gay, white or minority, rich or poor...the only difference is that there is no surgery to change your skin color, or your money problems, or your sexual preference. Even if someone gets a sex change, they could still very well be in danger. The surgery will not garner you automatic acceptance or safety, you can just hide yourself a little better. Even then, some people aren't luckyrich enough to get the extra cosmetic surgeries outside of switching their sex organs to look exactly the way they want to look. Aaand no matter what gender you are, you're going to be at risk for rapebattery anyway. So I don't really see how this would be considered a life saving procedure in that example. I've already brought up the mental health thing. It's not 100 percent that anyone will stop being suicidal or depressed after a sex change when they have a whole other set of problems to deal withrecovery, unmet expectations, still coping with the fact that they will never be 100 percent man or woman.
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