Thread: A Level of Control (DoubleEdgedGift x randomthingslover1)

In his early life James always felt the relationships he was a part of were rather dull, it wasn't just him who wasn't entirely happy, most of his partner's had various complaints, mostly about his attitude and how he liked to handle his girlfriends. James had always had a thing for control, it started out with just wanting to be in control of all aspects of his life, knowing what he was doing and where he was going with his life, uncertainty was not something James felt that comfortable with, but then this feeling transitioned to his love life, at first with the sex, he wanted to be the one to direct how things went, he liked to learn about his partner and know how to really push their buttons. But then James would usually asserting this kind of dominance in their everyday lives. Apparently this was too much for his past girlfriends, some would say he was smothering them, others would say he needed to do his own thing and not worry so much about what she was doing, in James mind this was not the kind of relationship he could really be happy in. When James hit his early 20's he discovered there was people who thought like him, not just people who had the same desires as he did, but people who actually wanted to be dominated in that way, he first found it hard to believe, he heard about people wanting to be punished for acting in a bad way, who wanted someone to completely direct and control their actions, but he mostly learned that they wanted someone to look up to, someone they could fully trust, James found this to be exactly the type of thing he was looking for. Soon after James started to seek out these type of people and form these relationships, for once he was truly happy, he could be himself for once and know that the person he was with wanted this too, he knew that there were limits and certain things put in place to make sure people were safe, like safe words, agreements and things like that, James was honestly surprised with how open these people were with what they liked and didn't like. James spent years in these types of relationships, learning more about how they work, but ultimately learning more about himself, he figured out that this was the type of life he wanted to lead, he didn't want to pretend he was like the rest of the world, he was never more happy than when he knew he shouldn't hold back. In fact this caused James to open his own club, it was a risky move as James had to use pretty much all the savings he had at the time, he decided to call the Club 'Pandora', it was going to be a BDSM club, but James wanted to shape it in his own way, he wanted it to represent his own views on BDSM. This club quickly became quite popular, mostly because James realized that there are allot of different people out there who like different things, even if it was something he didn't personally like, if people made a request, most of the time he would try his hardest to comply, his only condition was that both parties agree that they want it. James did have a rule at the club, be respectful of others, he knew that with the type of club it was and the type of people who went there, it is important that people can be themselves without fear of judgement. James was now in his early 30's he was currently not in a relationship, mostly because he was still looking for more, he found allot of his previous subs only had certain sexual kinks, he has still yet to find someone who will commit to him completely, he is confident he will find that person, but he is not trying to rush it, he has had plenty of experience being a Dom so he did not need to get into these relationships just to find out about the lifestyle. James was also well respected within the community, mostly because of his club but also as a Dom, he parted ways with pretty much all his sub's on good terms and he is proud of that fact. It was still pretty early and the club was not as busy as it would get, mostly just people getting settled in, James was out in the main area by the bar greeting people and trying to be welcoming, in this room there was plenty of different types of people all who had their own appearances, some were in normal clothes, others dressed smartly, some liked to have leather themes apparel and some even wore as little as they could get away with, there was a number of people in the room who had collars on, this was to show the rest of the club that they was someone else's sub and that they was taken. James was clean shaven and wore a black suit with a white shirt, he also had black shoes, he had dark black hair and brown eyes, he was 511 and his body was mostly toned. James liked coming out and seeing everyone like this, partly because he liked seeing the people who came to his club, but also because he too was looking for someone.