SequentialFeatureSelector is not working with ColumnTransformer

### Describe the bug

Please see the code.

### Steps/Code to Reproduce

```python
from sklearn.impute import SimpleImputer
from sklearn.pipeline import Pipeline
from sklearn.preprocessing import StandardScaler
from sklearn.compose import ColumnTransformer

import pandas as pd
import numpy as np


# dummy data
N = 100
dummy_x = pd.DataFrame(
    np.random.randn(N,3),
    columns = list('abc'),
)

dummy_y = pd.DataFrame(
    np.random.choice([0,1], size= (N,1)),
    columns = ['label'],
)


num_pipeline = Pipeline([
        ('imputer', SimpleImputer(strategy="median")),
        ('std_scaler', StandardScaler()),
    ])

ct_parts = [
                ('num', num_pipeline, [0,1,2]),
]

data_preparation_pipe = ColumnTransformer(ct_parts, remainder='passthrough')


from sklearn.feature_selection import SequentialFeatureSelector
from sklearn.ensemble import GradientBoostingClassifier

model = Pipeline(
    [
        # ('data_prep', num_pipeline),
        ('data_prep', data_preparation_pipe),
        ('ML', GradientBoostingClassifier()),
    ]
)

sfs = SequentialFeatureSelector(
    model,
)

sfs.fit(dummy_x, dummy_y)
```




### Expected Results

No error

### Actual Results

```python-traceback
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/IPython/core/interactiveshell.py", line 3460, in run_code
    exec(code_obj, self.user_global_ns, self.user_ns)
  File "/tmp/ipykernel_3433582/3663298101.py", line 1, in <module>
    sfs.fit(dummy_x, dummy_y)
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/sklearn/feature_selection/_sequential.py", line 268, in fit
    new_feature_idx, new_score = self._get_best_new_feature_score(
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/sklearn/feature_selection/_sequential.py", line 299, in _get_best_new_feature_score
    scores[feature_idx] = cross_val_score(
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/sklearn/model_selection/_validation.py", line 515, in cross_val_score
    cv_results = cross_validate(
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/sklearn/model_selection/_validation.py", line 285, in cross_validate
    _warn_or_raise_about_fit_failures(results, error_score)
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/sklearn/model_selection/_validation.py", line 367, in _warn_or_raise_about_fit_failures
    raise ValueError(all_fits_failed_message)
ValueError: 
All the 5 fits failed.
It is very likely that your model is misconfigured.
You can try to debug the error by setting error_score='raise'.

Below are more details about the failures:
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
5 fits failed with the following error:
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/sklearn/utils/__init__.py", line 416, in _get_column_indices
    idx = _safe_indexing(np.arange(n_columns), key)
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/sklearn/utils/__init__.py", line 356, in _safe_indexing
    return _array_indexing(X, indices, indices_dtype, axis=axis)
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/sklearn/utils/__init__.py", line 185, in _array_indexing
    return array[key] if axis == 0 else array[:, key]
IndexError: index 1 is out of bounds for axis 0 with size 1

The above exception was the direct cause of the following exception:

Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/sklearn/model_selection/_validation.py", line 686, in _fit_and_score
    estimator.fit(X_train, y_train, **fit_params)
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/sklearn/pipeline.py", line 401, in fit
    Xt = self._fit(X, y, **fit_params_steps)
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/sklearn/pipeline.py", line 359, in _fit
    X, fitted_transformer = fit_transform_one_cached(
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/joblib/memory.py", line 349, in __call__
    return self.func(*args, **kwargs)
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/sklearn/pipeline.py", line 893, in _fit_transform_one
    res = transformer.fit_transform(X, y, **fit_params)
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/sklearn/utils/_set_output.py", line 142, in wrapped
    data_to_wrap = f(self, X, *args, **kwargs)
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/sklearn/compose/_column_transformer.py", line 724, in fit_transform
    self._validate_column_callables(X)
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/sklearn/compose/_column_transformer.py", line 426, in _validate_column_callables
    transformer_to_input_indices[name] = _get_column_indices(X, columns)
  File "/software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/python3.10/site-packages/sklearn/utils/__init__.py", line 418, in _get_column_indices
    raise ValueError(
ValueError: all features must be in [0, 0] or [-1, 0]
```

### Versions

```shell
System:
    python: 3.10.9 | packaged by conda-forge | (main, Feb  2 2023, 20:20:04) [GCC 11.3.0]
executable: /software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/bin/python
   machine: Linux-4.18.0-305.3.1.el8.x86_64-x86_64-with-glibc2.28

Python dependencies:
      sklearn: 1.2.1
          pip: 23.0
   setuptools: 67.3.2
        numpy: 1.23.5
        scipy: 1.10.0
       Cython: None
       pandas: 1.5.3
   matplotlib: 3.7.0
       joblib: 1.2.0
threadpoolctl: 3.1.0

Built with OpenMP: True

threadpoolctl info:
       user_api: blas
   internal_api: openblas
         prefix: libopenblas
       filepath: /software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/libopenblasp-r0.3.21.so
        version: 0.3.21
threading_layer: pthreads
   architecture: Zen
    num_threads: 128

       user_api: openmp
   internal_api: openmp
         prefix: libgomp
       filepath: /software/anaconda3/envs/TOSC_ML/lib/libgomp.so.1.0.0
        version: None
    num_threads: 128
```

COMMENT:
Once we update `ColumnTransformer` to not call `_validate_data` and generically slice the data, then we can do the following.  **Note that the code does not work yet.** 

```python
ct = make_column_transformer(
      (
          StandardScaler(),
          make_column_selector(dtype_include="number")
      ),
      (
          OneHotEncoder(),
          make_column_selector(dtype_include="category")
      )
)
selector_pipe = make_pipeline(ct, LogisticRegression())
selector = SequentialFeatureSelector(selector_pipe, n_features_to_select="auto")
selector.fit(X, y)
```

Overall, the `ColumnTransformer` needs to be generic enough to handle different feature subsets. This can be done using `make_column_selector` or a callable for selecting columns.

Labels: Bug, Moderate, help wanted