ColumnTransformer converts pandas extension datatypes to `object`

### Describe the bug

pandas has some [extension data types](https://pandas.pydata.org/pandas-docs/stable/reference/arrays.html#) such as `pd.Int64DType` and `pd.Float64DType` that use `pd.NA` to represent null values.
These datatypes in DataFrames get converted to `np.float64` by `sklearn.utils.validation.check_array`.
If they have missing values, `check_array` converts them to `np.nan` and therefore they work fine with scikit-learn estimators that can handle missing values.

However when transformed by a `sklearn.compose.ColumnTransformer`, pandas dataframes with extension dtypes become Numpy arrays with the `object` dtype.
When `check_array` is called on these numpy arrays, the `pd.NA` conversion (done by calling `pd.DataFrame.astype`) is not applied and if they contain missing values the conversion fails.



### Steps/Code to Reproduce

`check_array` produces a `float64` array, but `ColumnTransformer` produces an `object` array:

```python
import pandas as pd
from sklearn.compose import make_column_transformer
from sklearn.utils.validation import check_array

X = pd.DataFrame({"A": [0.5]}).convert_dtypes()
print(X["A"].dtype) # Float64

X1 = check_array(X, force_all_finite=False)
print(X1.dtype) # float64

transformer = make_column_transformer(("passthrough", ["A"]))
X2 = transformer.fit_transform(X)
print(X2.dtype) # object
```

This causes a `TypeError` if the array has missing values and is later passed to an estimator:

```python
from sklearn.ensemble import HistGradientBoostingRegressor

X = pd.DataFrame({"A": [0.5, None]}).convert_dtypes()
HistGradientBoostingRegressor().fit(X, [0.0, 0.0]) # ok
HistGradientBoostingRegressor().fit(transformer.fit_transform(X), [0.0, 0.0]) # TypeError
```

### Expected Results

The output of the ColumnTransformer for `Float64DType` inputs would ideally be `float64`, with missing values represented by `np.nan`, and fitting the `HistGradientBoostingRegressor` on them would not raise an error

### Actual Results

```
Float64
float64
object
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/tmp/example.py", line 21, in <module>
    HistGradientBoostingRegressor().fit(transformer.fit_transform(X), [0.0, 0.0]) # TypeError
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/home/jerome/.virtualenvs/df/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sklearn/base.py", line 1151, in wrapper
    return fit_method(estimator, *args, **kwargs)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/home/jerome/.virtualenvs/df/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sklearn/ensemble/_hist_gradient_boosting/gradient_boosting.py", line 371, in fit
    X, y = self._validate_data(X, y, dtype=[X_DTYPE], force_all_finite=False)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/home/jerome/.virtualenvs/df/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sklearn/base.py", line 621, in _validate_data
    X, y = check_X_y(X, y, **check_params)
           ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/home/jerome/.virtualenvs/df/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sklearn/utils/validation.py", line 1147, in check_X_y
    X = check_array(
        ^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/home/jerome/.virtualenvs/df/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sklearn/utils/validation.py", line 917, in check_array
    array = _asarray_with_order(array, order=order, dtype=dtype, xp=xp)
            ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File "/home/jerome/.virtualenvs/df/lib/python3.11/site-packages/sklearn/utils/_array_api.py", line 380, in _asarray_with_order
    array = numpy.asarray(array, order=order, dtype=dtype)
            ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
TypeError: float() argument must be a string or a real number, not 'NAType'

```

### Versions

```shell
System:
    python: 3.11.5 (main, Aug 25 2023, 13:19:50) [GCC 11.4.0]
executable: /home/jerome/.virtualenvs/df/bin/python
   machine: Linux-6.2.0-33-generic-x86_64-with-glibc2.35

Python dependencies:
      sklearn: 1.3.0
          pip: 23.2.1
   setuptools: 65.5.0
        numpy: 1.25.2
        scipy: 1.11.2
       Cython: None
       pandas: 2.1.0
   matplotlib: 3.7.3
       joblib: 1.3.2
threadpoolctl: 3.2.0

Built with OpenMP: True

threadpoolctl info:
       user_api: openmp
   internal_api: openmp
    num_threads: 4
         prefix: libgomp
       filepath: /home/jerome/.virtualenvs/df/lib/python3.11/site-packages/scikit_learn.libs/libgomp-a34b3233.so.1.0.0
        version: None

       user_api: blas
   internal_api: openblas
    num_threads: 4
         prefix: libopenblas
       filepath: /home/jerome/.virtualenvs/df/lib/python3.11/site-packages/numpy.libs/libopenblas64_p-r0-5007b62f.3.23.dev.so
        version: 0.3.23.dev
threading_layer: pthreads
   architecture: Prescott

       user_api: blas
   internal_api: openblas
    num_threads: 4
         prefix: libopenblas
       filepath: /home/jerome/.virtualenvs/df/lib/python3.11/site-packages/scipy.libs/libopenblasp-r0-23e5df77.3.21.dev.so
        version: 0.3.21.dev
threading_layer: pthreads
   architecture: Prescott
```
```

COMMENT:
one thing `check_array` could do better is it casts `Float32DType` to `float64` rather than `float32` but that is less of a problem

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