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My therapist has asked me to talk about my sexual feelings with him. Ive told him before that I was worried my dad had sexual feelings towards me at a moment at 6 years old. This has led to transference, as I think he acted flirtatiously towards me in our fourth session to allow me to focus on him instead? He has said that if I talk about it with him, perhaps it wont be so scary on the outside when it actually happens. Sounds rubbish, does this work? quote: Originally posted by missdel My therapist has asked me to talk about my sexual feelings with him. Ive told him before that I was worried my dad had sexual feelings towards me at a moment at 6 years old. This has led to transference, as I think he acted flirtatiously towards me in our fourth session to allow me to focus on him instead? He has said that if I talk about it with him, perhaps it wont be so scary on the outside when it actually happens. Sounds rubbish, does this work? I dont want to do it, was too embarrassed last time I feel if you feel too embarrassed then don't do it. One's intuition cannot be ignored. You have to feel comfortable at all time with your counsellor.