joy,When I understood that I was admitted to the University. fear,"I broke a window of a neighbouring house and I feared my mother's judgement and action on what I had done." joy,Got a big fish in fishing. fear,"Whenever I am alone in a dark room, walk alone on the street, sleep alone in the room at night or see something which is only partly visible. This emotion was very strong when as an 8 year old child I saw something horrible. " shame,"I bought a possible answer to a homework problem which was completely inapplicable to the question due to my not having read about the subject matter." disgust,"I read about a murderer who brutalized his victims by cutting open their stomaches and taking out their bowels." joy,"The day that my boyfriend appeared at home with a pair of rings for our wedding." guilt,"I went to a pub with a group of friends (not very close) and I was with one girl most of the time, while the other girls in the group wanted to be with me. They stopped talking to the girl I was with." anger,Had an insulting letter from my father. sadness,[ No response.] fear,"I was to be given an audition to get a role. I had a competitress and I wasn't well prepared because I was ill." anger,"My mother and my sister carried on picking at me all day long for no reason at all and I ended up getting angry." guilt,"When I see that my mother forces my little brother (15 years) to work very hard for school. I don't agree that she constantly puts him to work, but I don't tell it to her, so nothing changes." joy,When we got a young dog. anger,"I am a teacher in arts and crafts (boys from 15-16 years). for them it is obligatory and they dislike it. They tease me. When one of them cut up some material I flared up." anger,When I saw my brother being attacked and I could not do anything. shame,"When my boyfriend revealed that he knew that I had discovered things of an important nature about him, I felt ashamed as I had not mentioned it earlier." guilt,"After I had cheated my parents that I had lost my textbooks so they had to send me money." disgust,When I see rotten meat. joy,"Going to a friend's wedding and seeing many of my old friends whom I had known before I moved to a new district five years previously." guilt,"When my sister had the opportunity to do some modelling work. And I was quite jealous - later on the photographer decided not to take her photograph, and she was very upset - I felt guilty as a result, almost as if I had caused her to lose her opportunity, by not being genuinely happy for her in the first place." shame,"When I was a child my parents caught me with a pornographic magazine." shame,"I am left-handed. When I attended the first form, we learned to write with pens. I smeared everything I had written. All my friends had written well and wanted to know why the teacher was looking at my note-book. I was ashamed." anger,"I worked together with another student on a computer-assignment. She didn't do her best and didn't prepare herself for it. She expected me to explain it to her." fear,"Once I had to go home on foot at 5 a.m. I had to pass through a forest and I was going alone." joy,"After a busy day I went back to my hostel. I closed the door and had a drink, then I read my favourite book on the bed. Suddenly I felt peace and joy." shame,"We got into a fight with some chaps in front of our family house. The value of the property destroyed was approximately 15 000 FIM. I felt ashamed when my parents came to know about this." disgust,"When my friend who was drunk insulted me in public for no reason at all." disgust,"Disgust with myself for consistently making foolish errors in communicating with others (asking for 1/2 Kg of nuts when I only wanted 50 g)." fear,"I was afraid when I met my Uncle because this time I was with my boyfriend I thought I was not going to be given pocket money." fear,"When I heard that my father had found a letter from my boyfriend and he was calling me to talk about it." anger,"A colleague asked me to study with her. I could not explain things as perfectly as she had expected. So she reacted in an aggressive manner." fear,"I felt afraid of losing somebody I love to another person because I was an incomprehensive person and lots of time I fight with this person." anger,"I lent a text-book to a person I did not know very well, they lost the text-book and gave me no compensation." sadness,"My mother kicked my surrogate father out and he in turn did not care for the dog, Afthur, he bought for the family. His lack of concern lead tho Arthur's death on the freeway. I loved Arthur like a brother. He was easy to talk to." anger,"My boy-friend had promised me to come home at about 10 p.m. He did not return until midnight and had consumed a lot of alcohol." shame,"I had high-heeled shoes one time, but a certain girl who saw the shoes told me that they were out of fashion and I looked as an old man when I was in those shoes." joy,When I could study at university. joy,When I learnt that I had been accepted at the medical school. joy,When I saw my family after a separation of one year. guilt,"When my parents quarelled over something I had done and which was wrong." sadness,Death of my grandmother. sadness,"My best friend had a relatively severe illness. I was sad because she was suffering." shame,When inadvertantly I found myself in the ladies room. shame,"When I had slept with a boy for the first time I felt ashamed for three reasons. First, because I was only 13 years old, second, because I did not really like him, third, because he had caught me napping." shame,When I had been angry at my friend without any reason. guilt,"I've always defended my sister when needed, at the expense of my brother. This has led to feelings of guilt towards him." anger,"When I talked with a teacher yesterday who, to say the least, was rude and unwise and had irrelevant opinions about a friend." fear,"I was walking along the passage to my room (very near the anatomy laboratory) and I heard something and felt that there was some thing behind me. I looked back and there was no one. I started imagining that maybe it was a corpse." fear,[ In an aeroplane.] disgust,"When I boarded Yanu Yanu bus I sat near a man who was smoking tobacco." joy,Finding out that I can go to your English lectures. guilt,"When I told the driver at my workplace to lie and tell the boss that it was not me who was responsible for the delay. The boss was very annoyed and the driver was punished and a day's salary was taken away from him." fear,"I was to meet one of my friends (girl) at the library at 8:00 already dark. She would be walking alone. She was 45 minutes late but I kept waiting, calling her room and other places she could have been." guilt,"Borrowing a car, and then having a minor accident (breaking a headlight)." guilt,"A friend of mine got encouragement and I did not, as the supervisor did not like me." guilt,"Always, and this happens often when I do not keep my word." disgust,"I'm very disgusted when I see people abusing their body with drugs and alcohol. They take advantage of these things usually for an excuse for the fantasies which they like and so they do things stupidly and unjustly." shame,"I am ashamed when I am not prepared in a subject and I have to answer in the presence of the patients." disgust,"I was disgusted to find out that the water isn't filtered or purified before it leaves Latimer Hall from the drains." anger,Being treated unfairly. joy,When I had my children. shame,"Recently, I left my bag in the car of someone who picked me up while hitch-hiking. I spent some effort to find out where he lived (I succeeded)." fear,Continous fear of a nuclear war. shame,"I met a friend in a discotheque. he was with a girl and he told me that she was not his girlfriend. I, to say something, commented that she must be a viscious woman. He then told me that she was his girl." anger,"Unjust accusations directed at me and my way of acting, by someone close to me. " anger,"I was angry at the Cafeteria when the cook scolded and said many bad things about me without reason. He thought I was among the girls who did him wrong." fear,"My mother had not come home at midnight. She had forgotten to tell me about it. I was very young and all alone at home." fear,"When our school was raided by the pupils of the boys secondary school who beat us up." sadness,A very close friend left me. joy,"Saw in TV that China had the most gold medals in the Asian Olympic." fear,"My episode of fright happened when I came to study. I had to stand in front of my still unknown fellow students and talk about myself. My hands shook, I flushed and became tongue-tied." joy,"That was soon after the results of the interview which nearly 9,000 people attended in all the three regions of Malawi. My joy came after hearing on the radio that I was one of the people selected to undergo the Medical Assistant training at the L.S.H.S." anger,"When the person I'm having the affair with won't talk to me in public." disgust,"When a friend of mine got drunk and started to blame and scorn my other friends and me." guilt,"I escaped from communicating with God for a long time. I did not read the scriptures and I did not pray. I felt that I was getting further and further away from God. I felt guilty as this was because of my laziness." fear,"I found myself involved in a fight in which a person died and I had to intervene with some risk." guilt,"When I decided to take a week s holiday without consulting the family first." guilt,A friend came to visit me and I was not there. anger,"During a trivial (friendly) discussion, one of the participants made an intervention which made me feel uncomfortable." anger,"The landlord had selected a new lodger on her own, while we used to do that it was not what she had done, but how she did it that made me angry." disgust,"I had a class-mate who was rather stupid. I did not like him but I respected him. When he tried to talk to someone, they would not listen to him and I could not bear seeing this." guilt,"Some time ago I took the driving test. I did answer the theoretical questions very well, but I failed the practical driving test. It was my fault because I had not enough practice." disgust,"Observing someone in the cafeteria noisily gulping in his food, having extremely bad manners." disgust,When the summer holiday job was almost over. anger,When I was punished in school for no serious mistake of mine. shame,"My teacher reminded us not to do a Summer job, however I did it for two months. Yesterday I was chatting with my teacher and when we talked of the Summer job, I felt ashamed." guilt,"When I was about 17 years old and I stole some pens from a stationery store because I didn't have enough money." disgust,Whenever I see an alcoholic. guilt,"I feel this feeling most often before me not before the others. My outside is iron but actually I'm wasting away." shame,I said something especially stupid which I did not mean at all. disgust,"I once got a phone call stating ""one of your friend is in jail, please come and see him"". When I went to the jail and saw him, I was disgusted." guilt,"I felt guilty at being part of the successful people. Felt guilty at being a student when other people were not. Guilt about being a potential success in various areas of society. (So stupid this emotion)" shame,"My father who is very quiet discovered I was going out with a coloured boy. He called me names and was really upset." disgust,When I heard the bad news about the death of a close person. disgust,"After buying a ticket, I lost it before I reached my destination and the bus Inspector dropped me at a place I didn't know." joy,"I met a dear friend of mine after a long time. I expressed my feelings in our own usual way, by mutual scolding and abusing (with complete understanding) and by touching, patting and taking the hand of the other person, etc..." guilt,"As a child - accidentally stepping on a pet guinea-pig - it dying." shame,"A professor was going to read aloud in class a composition of mine in which I had criticized some political attitudes and also some class-mates. I was ashamed at having written that." sadness,"A friend told me about his cousin who is my girlfriend. He said she had treated him in a mean and nasty way. I was surprised because in front of other people she had always treated him in a friendly way. I am very sad about it." sadness,At set-backs. guilt,"It is some years ago when my mother found me stealing relish in the pot. It was fresh fish which was very appetising." shame,"I didn't do an important job and it had an adverse effect on other people." shame,"I was angry about 3 months ago and I kicked backwards against the wall. It caved in and so I had to show it to my parents. I had been angry after my mother said something to me about not being able to find clothes in my size - something that I'm sensitive about. (6' 5'' 210)" shame,"I took a girl out once and discovered that she was going around with one of my close friends." fear,"Once I failed seven subjects at school and I was terrified to give my report card to my father. I left it on the table and went to bed very early in order to avoid him seeing me." disgust,"A drunkard fell, started bleeding and wet himself. Disgust that turned into sadness-unpleasantness." guilt,When I did not give back a text book to a friend in time. shame,"I was sitting in a restaurant with friends. They asked me something which they thought I should know. Actually I know it, but at that time I was not able to remember it." shame,Insulted by a teacher in front of the class. shame,"When my mother looked in my drawer (where I keep my personal things) and she found some porno photos that I have kept from more than a week, and split it." fear,"It was a week before the higher level results were announced. I had tried and failed many times and this was the last time that I was taking the exam. I knew that if i failed again I woulld have to enter the society. I imagined things during this period - I dreamt that I had entered university and it was a nice experience. When I thought about the future, an unexplainable fear rose in me. I feared being a worker and not having a bright prospect, I also feared the criticism of my relatives as my brother had gone to university. Whenevr I thought of this issue I could not eat or concentrate, and my heart beat increased." shame,"When I asked my classmate to teach me to do my homework, he asked me to study by myself first but I did not do it. When he asked me if I had studied, I felt very ashamed. " shame,"When I dated a close girlfriend's boyfriend a few times. He told me that it was over between them and I accepted it. When she found out she finished our friendship." fear,"When I was cycling past a parked car someone opened the door and nearly pushed me off my bike and into the traffic." sadness,"My grandfather died, when I was an exchange student in the USA." guilt,"I was at school and afterwards went to work. After work I went to see a friend and stayed out late. when I got home my mother was awake and I felt guilty." sadness,"At the begining of a new course one is afraid of encountering problems one can not manage. Thoughts revolve around failing the subject and the consequences it would have for the future." " sadness,When I quarrelled with my boyfriend. sadness,"While walking through an old mining area, I unwittingly disturbed a wallaby which, in its resultant flight, accidentally fell down a deep mine shaft. On investigation it seemed uninjured, but it was impossible for the wallaby to get out, and also for me to get it out of the shaft. To prevent its suffering a slow death, I shot it." guilt,[ No response.] fear,Walking in the dark and thinking about ghost stories. shame,"After our sad first of May party, I felt ashamed because the friends who had been invited had to suffer. We, the organizers of the party, did not drive the intruders away." joy,"I was very happy when I passed and went to form I. It was a great relief for me as I had been very worried considering the large number of pupils who fail." shame,"When I was leaving home I decided to leave without saying good-bye to my young brother. My brother saw me and said, "" Will you not say good-bye to me?"" He is only 31/2 years old. " disgust,A sour looking man was beating his thin dog in Remuera. disgust,"I was returning from the Universtity at night when I was accosted by a boy who molested me, passing his hands on my body." sadness,"After training for an Australian championship competition for a year and then injuring myself 2 weeks before the competiotion." sadness,A close friend of mine had not contacted me for a long time. sadness,Lecturers being unfair to me in reports. sadness,I missed the last tram home and had to walk in the pouring rain. joy,"When I passed the B.A exams and my parents allowed me to carry on my studies and do a M.A. , I was very happy." fear,"I had climbed on a cherry tree alone and there was a thick caterpillar beside my fingers. I feel disgusted by caterpillars and snakes. I was terribly afraid of the caterpillar crawling on my fingers. Out of the fear I was almost unable to climb down." anger,"I had an exam and I had it well prepared. I did the first part very well but did not know the second part." joy,Renewed contact with an earlier friend. disgust,"When a drunkard, in town yelled at me saying that I was a prostitute." anger,"Someone told me that he would stay at my home for one night. Therefore I made big efforts to make everything ok (food). One day before he cancelled the appointment because he had to go to church with his parents." sadness,"I was so sad when I heard that my Uncle had passed away. He was the only man who was supporting my parents as well as myself." fear,"I was moving in the graveyard at 6.00 pm one day and was griped by fear because I was told that ghosts detain people moving there at night." shame,When I fell down. shame,"I feel ashamed at the fact that even after 35 years of independence 70% of the Indian poulation is still below the poverty line." anger,When I was left by the person I loved without any reason. shame,"When you betray the trust you have been given. This is connected with copying at a class-work at school." joy,"This week I was phoned by an old friend with whom I lost contact a few years ago." disgust,An Engineer I know wants war so he can get a job making bombs. fear,"When somebody broke into our home one night when my mother was out, and my sister and I had just gone to bed." fear,Damaged the tap in the residental Hall. anger,"When my room-mate was making noise deliberately, by playing a flute early in the morning while I was trying to study." disgust,"My boss on the job failed to keep his promise about something he knew was extremely important to me." joy,"When my husband and I decided to take a few days holiday after a particularly trying period." shame,Finding out China is backward in science. anger,"When a so-called friend let me down, when she promised to tell me when a certain concert was occurring, and that she'd get me tickets. I was really looking forward to it. She did nothing, just told me out of the blue one day what a fantastic concert it was going to be." fear,"I felt fear when I sat for one of my exams. Though my fear was not quite justifiable, I still remember about it." sadness,"A friend of mine got pregnant anf failed the first year at university. The boyfriend refused his responsibility and they ended up in court." disgust,"When I came to know that my father and his parents were : self interested, dirty, negative, egoist, bad peolpe,......" shame,"The day my boyfriend saw and touched my breasts when I was without my shirt, only with my pants." guilt,"When I applied for a false travelling claim allowance and later I thought that I would be found out." sadness,My boyfriend didn't turn up after promising that he was coming. fear,"In a rather important exam, when they caught me red handed copying." anger,"At my father's treatment of my mother, at his disregard for her, and not being committed to her." guilt,"When I was young I felt guilty because I thought that I had commited a grave sin." sadness,"My father suddenly fell ill. He stayed for 3 months in the hospital: the last month on intensive care of the Academic Hospital, then he died." joy,"It appeared that I gave correct answers to all questions during an examination of personality while I thought I performed very badly. Even now, I don't know how I managed it." fear,"When I was little I lost control of my bike and started to go into a buay intersection but my neighbor stopped me just in time." joy,A party I went to last Christmas. sadness,The death of a close friend. sadness,"I did not do as well as I expected on a chemistry exam. I received a score below the average and I thought I had done very well." fear,Watching a horror film. sadness,"I talked to my boyfriend on the phone when I was in high spirits and had a lot to tell him. I had been looking forward to this conversation and he did not listen to me to the extent that I had anticipated." anger,"When I heard on the radio that the football match in Belgium had ended in a catastrophe, and several people had died. I could not understand how normal people could behave in such a way." disgust,"A railways officer, when asked by the ticket checker to produce his tickets, got very aggressive and started abusing and using his authority in a very wrong way." joy,"I was very happy when I got the message that I had been accepted as a student in medicine." shame,"I was very much ashamed after a friend beat me at school and I was defeated." fear,When I was just to be divorced. guilt,Not finishing homework in time. disgust,[ No response.] joy,"I was in ILHA GRANDE with a wonderful sun, with wonderful people, with a wonderful sea, with a wonderful boy." shame,"My grades. When my parents say, ""How are you doing at school, getting good grades ?"" I say, ""Great, just fine !"" Actually, I feel ashamed about myself." fear,"I was skiing alone and the mountain became covered with mist and I thought I was lost and was going to panic." sadness,"I was very sad when I heard that my brother had failed the standard 8 exams for the third time." shame,"[ I was not, I am not, I will never ever feel ashamed of myself for something I have done.]" guilt,"When I didn't notify someone that he was summoned by a headmaster and as a result he ended being on a heavy punishment." joy,Meeting an old friend from high school. disgust,"[ This is an everyday feeling. Many situational events : causes are unclean and dirty environment, illiteracy, poverty and neglect of human resources, disgust at the lack of perception on the part of us ( educated few) for the lack of drive and drive towards their redemption. ]" shame,"I received the results of the test paper of my major subject and I found that my result was not as good as a classmate who had recently changed his major subject. I felt very ashamed." guilt,"I was trying to have sex with my best friend's girl but she did not agree to it." sadness,[ When friends and colleagues talk bad about me.] fear,"Together with a little brother I biked on a lonely road in the Polder. Then we were annoyed by a boy on a motorbike: he took over, stopped, took over, etc. Then we saw he had something in his hand, we turned until we came across a man, who accompanied us." fear,When my friend was involved in a car accident. sadness,My best friend suddenly acting strange towards me. fear,"I woke up in the middle of the night as I had jumped and shouted with fear. I thought that someone's cold hand or something similar had touched my hand. I crept down under the covers and went back to sleep." sadness,"Sometimes I experience sadness for the Sports High School and for my unrealized dreams in the sport. Anyway there I spent six years of my life." shame,When I failed to answer a simple question. guilt,"Many years back I quarrelled with my younger brother for a small reason. I used a pole to beat him and nearly broke his arm. He recovered after a treatment which lasted several months. After this our relationship was worse and he would not listen to me." anger,NO RESPONSE. anger,"I was most angry when India lost the Triangular Cricket trophy held in Australia. I was so angry that I fought (orally) with my friend." sadness,When my parents got divorced. disgust,"I saw a physically handicapped young man whose spittle ran out of his mouth while speaking." anger,"I am one of four directors of a company. We inherited land held by our family - ours is the 5th generation. A ""democratic"" decision was made to stap-bank an area of mangroves." joy,"When you are satisfied with something, when you achieve something you have striven to." disgust,"I detest any kind of constraint and hate the attempts of elder people to force me to a norm of behavior without having legal or moral rights to do it. I felt this emotion when a neighbour of mine made me kick out my guests because they had talked very loudly and threatened that with ""connections"" she will expel me from the inst." disgust,"I was disgusted when I was told to dress a big rotten stinky wound which, coming closer, made me feel like vomitting." anger,"When my friends left without waiting for me, after we had arranged to go out together." disgust,When I am dirty because I have not had a shower for a few days. anger,Being put down by the class leaders. joy,"When I got admission in M.Sc (I) Organic Chemistry, I was very happy." fear,"Fear of punishment for having broken an item of value to my parents." guilt,"I stole a coconut cake from a reception table and when I put in my mouth I realized that the host was watching me." sadness,"When my grandfather whom I had met only once for 3 weeks, died after several months. I was really sad because he was a lovely person and I did not have the means for his company." sadness,When my grandmother died. I had lived with her for ten years. sadness,"When I learned that my dad had cancer. I knew he was going to the hospital for some tests. My mom told me when she picked me up one weekend from CAL to take me home." disgust,"When the N.Z. rugby union announced that they would proceed with a rugby tour of South Africa." guilt,"When I failed an exam for which I knew that I had not studied hard enough." disgust,"I felt disgust after watching a picture on television about torturing political prisoners in India (this happened in the India of Indira Ghandi)." shame,"The first time that I caressed a girl, I was about thirteen and she was eighteen. I noticed that it did not affect her at all." disgust,"I saw a man falling on the walkway. He seemed half dead, and was immobile. I felt disgust for the people who passed by without doing anything to help." joy,When I passed an important exam. shame,"When I was about seven or eight I was caught having stolen a doll's dress from my next-door neighbour." guilt,"When my friend ended up pregnant by a gentleman whom I considered to be good and faithful but he ended up neglecting her and not bothering about her." fear,"Slept in a chapel and in the middle of the night I realized that there was someeone else in the chapel. I never discovered who it was and why he was there." shame,"My father died 4 years ago, 18 months after my mother died. I feld my sister was responsible for his death, in that she ""hadn't loved him"". I felt ashamed for myself, and for my family." joy,When I was selected to come here. shame,"My cousin and I were at the farm and at night we drunk like fools and made a lot of noise. We had drunk two much of wine." shame,Cannot recall the emotion with any force. joy,"When I fell crazily in love with a beautiful girl and she returned my love." disgust,"I am disgusted with a nieghbour who is looking for all sorts of quarrel with my parents and me. He feels we are hampering his living close to us. This has been going on for quite a long time." joy,"I passed my MCE Examination. at first I was worried but when I heard my name I had joy in my heart and I arranged for a trip to attend a wedding ceremony." sadness,When my grandfather died. disgust,"After a serie of facts that occurred between a colleague and me I started to feel a certain necessity to get apart and I didn't want to see her anymore." anger,"In the house where I live there is a new flatmate. His friends unfortunately are the dirt of society, intelligent, fashonable, rich and bored. At a party recently they were doing things I didn't like done in my house. I felt angry at them." disgust,A lie on the part of a person close to me. disgust,"When I needed another job and tought that a good and known person (my employer) could help me. He simply said that he couldn't help me." anger,"When I had an argument with my best friend and I thought that I was right and she was not." disgust,[ No response.] anger,"My sister and I were fighting as usual. She's older tham I am, bigger built and stronger I couldn't win in a physical battle and in a verbal battle I couldn't seem to get through to her to really hurt her." anger,"Because I am the Captain of a basketball team I usually organise a roster system so that everyone in the team can have a turn at doing either a duty or a ref. A lot of the time the girls can't be bothered or just forget - I usually have to fill in." joy,"I came across a friend with whom I had lost touch for a long time." shame,"I was catched when, as a little girl, I played tricks. I was very startled then and wet my pants." sadness,"When I realized that my girlfriend, whom I like, and I were going to separate." guilt,Not handing in homework in time. guilt,Not finishing homework in time. sadness,When I was accused of neglecting work for the wrong reasons. anger,"People having a football match outside the window during the lecture." guilt,I failed to complete a working task within the agreed time. joy,"When I passed the university entrance exam. I had thus finished with a difficult period of my life and I was about to begin one which I had desired a lot." fear,"Because of a conflict with my parents there was a possibility to interrupt my studies." anger,"There was a sofa in my flat which belonged to the old tenants who were acquaintances. It should have been picked up a year ago but they had postponed it. Eventually they decided on one date and I stayed at home despite the fact that I had other things to do. They did not come, nor did they call and they still have not got in touch with me." sadness,"I arranged with a friend to go skating the next day. He asked me to wake him up by telephone at twelve o'clock because we had come home late in the morning. Next day I called him - he was not at home. As something like that had happened to me several times before, I came to the conclusion that one cannot rely on anybody and I felt very sad." anger,"One day my room-mate started imitating me, doing what I had done a few hours back. I got very angry and started beating him up." disgust,When I had to finish those big amounts of homework in time. sadness,"I remember the day my father died. I was 11 years old and my sadness was so great that until today I remember everything about that day, from the clothes I was wearing to the reactions of people, the despair of my mother and brother. It marked me a lot and was the greatest sadness I felt." guilt,"When my parents fight lots of time, when I'm the reason of the fight, I feel guilty." disgust,"When a friend didn't invite her own parents to her Graduation ceremony." fear,"When I flew from Athens to Copenhagen after a holiday. The plane was caught in a storm and it began to shake and I thouhght that we were going to crash." shame,"When I hadn't studied for an exam, so I pretended to be sick so I wouldn't have to go to school. I lied to my mother - she realized I had been lying when she got home from work and found that I had been over to a friend's place." fear,"I had an appointment with a good friend. He came 3 hours later than we agreed upon. During the last hour of waiting I was afraid something might had happened, because usally he is in time." guilt,"When I don't go to my parents on Sunday and phone them to tell them that I have to study. The truth is that I listened to sports on the radio." anger,"I was drawn up a statement for an infringement of the traffic ordinance. In fact I was innocent." shame,"Asking someone to give me back the money I once lend him because I needed it myself." anger,"I planned to travel a distance of 20 kilometres on my bike. I planned this when I was working in the hospital. When I went to the house I found that a friend had taken my bike without my consent." joy,"I was very happy when I found out that I had passed with flying colours and that I had made it to the university." disgust,"A person I know who tells lies and so pretending to be better than she is." disgust,"When I entered a brothel and saw two sailors with a young prostitute who was not older than 18." joy,"Inter-national sports events won by my favourite national team or player brings me joy, e.g when India won the World cup cricket match." fear,"I was a passenger in a vehicle when suddenly another vehicle came from behind to overtake us. However another one was coming right in front so the other vehicle changed course and blocked our way and so we crashed against the side of the road." anger,I had an accident with damage to the car body. sadness,My cat died painfully and slowly. guilt,"When I deny something to my sister and after a while I feel sorry and try to bypass the situation." shame,Not doing well in an examn which was easy. shame,When I was caught with someone's daughter. guilt,"[ I had, by being silent, disapproved my love and made him unhappy. He had not been able to keep his promise. I thus was thinking about my own conduct towards another person.]" joy,A party with friends on New Year's Eve. guilt,"I felt guilty when I failed to take an exam though I had had enough time to read for it but I hadn't made use of it." fear,"When I was a child, I fell into a cellar (when playing) and could be freed only with big difficulties." joy,After 3 weeks I saw my girlfriend again. disgust,"When my roommate came home at 10 in the morning after sleeping with a guy she did not know because she got drunk. (Se has a boyfriend too)." shame,"I wrote a letter to my father to ventilate my bottled up feelings. Afterwards I thought it was too negative." joy,When I passed my B.A exams. anger,When some friends betrayed my friendship. guilt,"When I used to tell Mum I was going somewhere else than where I was (going)." fear,Anatomy lesson and told we have to do it at night sometimes. disgust,"I am disgusted at the number of second year students who are pregnant illegitimately." joy,When I found out I had passed all of my university exams. disgust,When I failed my first biochemistry test. fear,"I was in the dark room, it's insecure and has holes covered with wooden sheets in the roof the establishment had already been assaulted and could be assaulted again." disgust,"I was listening to a priest in church saying how sinful man was, and how all men should renounce their desires and pleasures to please God. I could never understand how something that brings you joy could be a sin." anger,"Argument with roommate over a lock he had put on kitchen cupboard without telling anyone." disgust,"When an untidy and heavyly drunk person made endeavours to approach me." joy,"When they told me that I had been admitted to the faculty of medicine." sadness,"I felt sad when my first boyfriend and I left each other. It was neither his fault nor mine." sadness,"Looking up end-of-semester results, and finding I'd failed three out of seven (subjects)." disgust,"A man whom I like, was drunk and tried to molest me." shame,"I told a lie about someone to someone else and they found out and questioned me about it." joy,"Walking along the beach with a friend (another girl), talking, picking up shells, laughing, chasing seagulls." fear,When there is danger nearby. joy,"A friend came to tell me that her father invited me to go on holiday with them in Benidorm otherwise I could not afford to go on holiday." disgust,"A similar feeling I felt quite recently while travelling in a taxi. The driver treated me roughly and dishonestly - he chose the longest route, he overdrawed almost one lev more and he tried to be intimate with me." sadness,"[ When someone tells me something that hurts me, I feel bad about it and also feel sad.]" fear,"I was within a hair's breadth of knocking down a drunkard who suddenly ran into the street. The fear came later when I realized what could have happened." sadness,"My father's death in January 1983 moved me deeply. The gloom prevailed for almost two years and I am still to recover from it." anger,"I was stood up for a date function by someone who I really cared for." guilt,"I promised my friends that I would take care of something, but I kept forgetting about it. When they asked me about it, I promised to do it immediately. However, I got started only after a couple of months. I felt that I had betrayed my friends." joy,"The situation in which I felt happiest in my life was when I was with the person I love for the first time." fear,I had worries about a certain illness. sadness,At an unjust insult or injure. fear,"Somebody told her friend that she would hit me wherever we would meet." sadness,When I left a man in whom I really believed. shame,"I insulted two of my friends because I thought that had been gossiping about me right under my nose, however I later found out that they were not doing so." guilt,"I often feel guilty, and it has to do with other people, e.g. if I haven't visited my older relatives for a while." joy,"When I was at the end-of-term party last week and had fun - was happy and sang and drank only soft drinks. It is possible to have a good time without alcohol." Note: for GUILT go to record n¦231" fear,"I was seven years old and swimming outside the flags at the Gold Coast. I was caught in a rip and taken out about 100 m. I couldn't swim too well, but an older friend (17) swam out and saved me." sadness,"All my friends arranged to go for an afternoon snack and they did not tell me. They told me that they did not have my phone number but I do not think that this was true." shame,"I was to take part in a cocktail party on the occasion of our national holiday as a servant." disgust,"In broad daylight I saw an untidy old man pissing and playing with his penis in the middle of the town." guilt,"I felt guilty when I once went out with another boy and made love with him while I had a close boyfriend." joy,"My boyfriend was playing with my cat. He was playing games with her and telling nice things to her. " shame,"Like guilt - the most ashamed I have ever felt was when I began to feel guilty about having sex with my boyfriend when it was only ""the thing to do"", and not really an act of love." shame,As a child when I was blamed for peeing in the swimming-pool. shame,"I remember when I was in Standard 6, I failed one of the terminal tests and I told my parents that I had passed but after they found out from the class teacher that I had failed, I was proved a liar." fear,Before an examination. anger,Someone messing up the room we share. joy,"""Boy, you have been admitted to the medicine school and your uncle is coming back fron Canada next week,"" my father told me and it was a happy moment." anger,"I felt angry when I failed in an exam about which I knew quite a few things and I did not deserve to be plucked." joy,"When I passed the driving test three weeks ago and got my licence." joy,When I met a friend that I hadn't seen for some time. sadness,"I am always sad when my boyfriend goes away. He lives and studies in an other city. We have gone steady for 2 and 1/2 years and everything is going very well, but sometime this situation makes me feel bad and very lonely." guilt,"I had stopped talking to a very close friend of mine. A week later he came over to try and make friends with me again and from the way he talked I felt that he was a very mean preson." joy,"At church camp when I accepted Christ into my life and so did my friend." fear,"After a short stay in Marocco we missed the ferry-boat back to Spain and we had to look for an accomodation. By chance we met a man who offered to take us to a camping site. While I was sitting in his car I was terribly afraid because I had heard of people being robbed in Marocco." shame,A mishap suffered on misinterpreting a girl's proposition. shame,"I was dishonest to my boyfriend concerning something that is important to our relationship." anger,"When a colleague was rude with me because she didn't understand the subject about which I was discussing." disgust,"When a man spoke very sexistly in the company of some friends of mine." shame,"When I was in the 12th standard, I could not speak English. One day, while talking with my relatives I used a wrong word and my cousin corrected me, believing that I did not know English. I really felt ashamed then." sadness,"My fiancT's family was adopting a 5 years old boy. I felt myself close to him as I never felt before. After some time his mother demanded the care of the kid and we were obliged to send him back." guilt,When I let a person assume a fault that I committed. joy,"Once a week I work as a volunteer in a biologic garden. this work in the garden and the contact with other volunteers filled me with joy. They also gave me support after I failed passing my driver's test." anger,"A class-mate urged me to carry out a particular protest along with him, and when the time came this fellow drew back while I had to face the situation." sadness,"I did not like it when a little girl was crying for her dead mother and was calling her by her name. I was sad." guilt,"I had made an appointment with a girl to go to the movies, but actually I had no mind when we arrived at the cinema, it was a full house. I then went back and she went to the movie alone." disgust,"I was looking for an object when I came across a rotten corpse of a rat." disgust,"In ward 2A there was a patient suffering from Syphilitic Paraplegia and had pressure sores. The wounds had offensive smell that only a few people .... the place." guilt,"When my little brother asked me to play with him, I told him that I had no time and that I would play with him the next day. However, the next day I said the same thing." guilt,Failed to keep an appointment. joy,"Girlfriend arriving back from overseas and picking her up from airport. When she finally appeared from customs and we came in contact again." anger,"At the end of my holiday job I got less money than was due to me and nobody mentioned anything about that." disgust,When I heard about the disaster in Bophal (India). shame,"Equivocal situation when filling a security questionnaire on entering a government building with several people there." anger,"In 1982, I was annoyed at an uncle who was drunk and was beating up his old father. He claimed that the father was responsible for his guardian's failure." shame,I lied to my best friend and I wouldn't reform what I had done. joy,When I married my wife and took her home for the first time. shame,When I forgot about a meeting at work. anger,"When a friend of mine was drawn into a fight because of the stupid gang he belonged to. I felt angry with him and his friends. They could not think about anything sensible, but would fool around without taking into consideration the feelings of other persons." anger,"I had been searching for housing for Fall at UCB and I was finally offered a place - then an ordeal followed, first I accepted then refused - related to my parents judgment (they're paying for me). Turns out that I was so upset at what my Dad said to me that I hung up on him. He called back and threatened to cut me off financially and emotionally." disgust,If a guy one is not interested in makes advances. disgust,"When I was working, I got treated in a way which I felt was not democratic." guilt,"When I took a small boy's share of choclale. He was our guest and so had been given a larger share of the sweets." sadness,General Ye Jianying died. anger,"During military service a superior reproached me unjustly. This led to friction in a lot of situations." disgust,"While travelling in a bus, there were three people sitting behind me (two men and a woman). They were drunk and the conversation was unbelievable (about fucking, fellatio, etc...). They tried to get others to take part in the conversation. I loathed it and felt like crying." joy,"I was told that I had passed the statistics exam. I had not expected this so I was very happy." sadness,"As a ten-year-old I was at the funeral of my grand-father. It was more the ceremonies held in the church and not really the death of my grand-father which made me sad." sadness,"[ A person close to me told me that his positive regard depended on my conduct.]" disgust,"In autumn I had to move to another lodging. My landlords, quite intelligent people, warned me I had to move in the nearest future. But I had difficulties in moving my luggage because I couldn't wait for a car to come. How amazed I was to hear them threatening me they would throw our my things. And at that my luggage was well packed and did not stand in their way. I was quite disappointed and disgusted." fear,"When I witnessed a bus accident in which a bus, full of passengers, nearly overturned on the Lusaka-Kabwe road." shame,"I borrowed $ 20.00 from a friend and paid him back much later than I had originally intended." fear,"To talk in a meeting - expound my thoughts on a subject. Fear delayed me acting to do this." guilt,"I was using my sister's stereo while everyone was out. I know she wouldn't want me to and I would get into trouble if she found out. But she was only partly justified in forbidding me to use it. She never found out." sadness,"When I think about the short time that we live and relate it to the periods of my life when I think that I did not use this short time." joy,"After much trouble getting together in the first place my boyfriend and I celebrated our first anniversary." guilt,"It happens sometimes in connection with certain persons with whom I have frequent relationships but nothing special." joy,"I had just moved to the town where I study and I got a postcard from a good friend (from my home town)." anger,When my dress was stolen. sadness,"At our Senior dinner - separated from school friends, nothing will ever be the same again." shame,Being sexually assulted in public. guilt,"When in the initial interview for the recruiting, I don't know why, I accepted to do the test for army." sadness,"A relative, whom I like very much, left for the United States." fear,"Car accident. Travelling as a passenger along narrow bitumen road at night - trying to overtake semi-trailer. The truck pulled over onto our side and we hit the wet dirt, swerved back into the truck, back onto the verge, over a guide post and into a ditch." fear,When two drug addicts tried to take away my money. anger,"Realizing that a friend had been talked into signing a certain contract." guilt,"When the student union leaders were expelled from the university and we continued to study." guilt,"When my ex-boyfriend didn't want to sleep with me anymore and I insisted. We made love but he felt very badly and I felt guilty." disgust,"My mother called me because she had read through the enveloppe a letter addressed to me. She denied having read it intentionally and said ""the words just popped out through the enveloppe as the sun was shining on it"". Hah Hah." guilt,"When I decided to move away from my parent's home, my mother told me that it was as if a part of her had been torn out of her." fear,"I was jogging in the forest, in the central park area, when I saw a man hiding behind a tree. I got frigthened, turned around and ran out of the forest." sadness,"When I had stayed abroad for a long time and I had remembered about my friends and relatives. I felt sad and I wanted to see them as soon as possible." joy,"When I worked as an ""au-pair-girl"" in London, I received a call from a good friend who told me that she was in London too and wanted to see me. I was very glad - after that call and especially when I saw her." joy,I felt very happy when I won the football pools. joy,"I am happpy when I get good results in the field of academics or athletics. " shame,"I was carried away while talking about my visits abroad and I tended to boast a little, till I realized that the listener was amused." guilt,"It was my turn to cook dinner. I forgot a dish (the favourite of the family) in the oven and it got burnt and was uneatable." sadness,"When I heard about the death of Frantois Truffaut, the French motion picture director, on the radio. I had planned to go and see his last film." sadness,"The saddest I've ever been was when my lover was killed, hitch-hiking to work." sadness,My father suddenly fell ill and died. joy,Watching the Asian Olympic game (China winning). guilt,"I remember deceiving my brother, I told him that I was going to attend the Sunday service, instead I went out to the town with a friend. " guilt,"Once when I was in the cell group (religious activity) I found that almost everyone in the group read the bible daily and I felt guilty in my heart." shame,"My first girlfriend. I had the feeling that she was going out with me only because of my defect." joy,Getting into this university to do medicine. sadness,"Death of paternal grandmother to whom I was very close - died of cancer." guilt,"I had to undergo an operation in Summer and so my family had to stay at home during the holidays. I felt guilty, above all because of my brothers." sadness,"During my holiday I met again a friend who had tried to commit suicide. She had just left hospital, her lips were trembling, she looked miserable." shame,"I felt the above condition when I was found in a house playing with another man's wife where I was asked questions and I was unable to answer." guilt,"When I have forgotten to warn somebody for something, or when I have forgotten to bring something I have been asked for." shame,Caught cheating on a diet. disgust,[ No response.] shame,When I did not inform my friends of my forthcoming birthday. fear,"The only event I can remember is having a nightmare when I was very young (3 years old) I dreamt about a machine which was going to crush me." joy,"I was studying in the library and a class-mate told me that she had obtained a grant to work in the library." disgust,"A female friend was violently ill on the return journey from a wedding reception we attended. Getting her out of the car when home took quite a while." fear,Mugged while on holiday in the U.S.A. anger,Quarreling with classmates. sadness,"When the thing that made my friends and relatives sad happened to them." guilt,"Once I quarrelled with my sister and after this I deliberately messed up her belongings." sadness,"My boyfriend finished our relationship when I started studying psychology in Nijegen, because then we would not be able to meet frequently anymore." joy,Good dinner on the National Day. joy,"After completing high-school, I wanted to go abroad for a holiday. I had never been abroad before and neither had I taken a holiday for a long time. When finally my parents agreed and we got the airplane tickets I was over joyed." fear,"When two hyenas made crying noise on the window of my bedroom at home when I was preparing for my MCE examination during the night." fear,"Before getting back the results of a test in school, when I had worked very hard and was worried about not succeeding." shame,"While playing I urinated on grandma's floor and did not go to the lavatory. My cousin told grandma and she came." joy,When I was finally qualified for my profession. shame,At a friend's party there were several allusions to my sexual adventures. guilt,I couldn't fulfill a promise. shame,"When I asked a friend to return the money that I had loaned her and then remembered that she had repayed me in several ways." guilt,Lack of respect for my parents. disgust,"When my demand for accomodation on the campus was refused and the rooms were allotted to first year students who were from ""Rucher"" and came from influential families." disgust,"4-letter words on a TV programme (Roche) while we were entertaining ""conservative"" relations who wanted to see the first episode." fear,When I was told to attend an operation in theatre. anger,"When they denied a job to a person that I propsed giving political reasons that has nothing to do directly with the professional level." anger,"When a boy tried to fool me so he would be OK trying to show me that he is a gook boy." anger,Being mistreated by other people. shame,Shame I feel when I am not properly dressed. anger,"On the way home from Marstrand I was driving behind my father's car. Another car tried to push in front of my father and he was forced to swerve and he thus collided the car with a pillar. The other car drove off without even seeing what had happened." shame,"At the seaside, when a wave suddenly came and took off my bikini." guilt,Insulting other people. joy,When people remember us and shows interest about what we do. joy,"When a close friend met me at the station in the middle of the night, when I came back from a long and tiring journey." sadness,"When I was a child I was playing on the upper deck of the bed with my brother. My parents slept on the lower deck. My father felt disgusted and beat me up. I felt very sad as my father had never beaten me or scolded me before." guilt,"When I cancelled an appointment with an idle story. Afterwards it appeared that the person had looked forward to it and reserved time for it." sadness,When I felt lack of aid from close friends. anger,Mad at my dad. fear,"When I climbed up a tree to pick apples. The angle of the ladder I was on did not enable me to get high enough. This implied that the ladder was not very stable." shame,"I had promised to contact a friend about a particular matter by a certain date, then thought no more about it until the friend reminded me after the date had passed." disgust,"I was sitting at a rock concert, listening to an extremely loud band. A tiny baby in a crawler had been left by his young mother, right out in the sun next to a speaker, and was screaming - probably in pain." disgust,"I feel disgust towards those who are responsible for the death of others." fear,"I was approaching my exam time and my books got stolen. I was in a panic as I thought that I would not do well enough to be considered for the economics quota. I cried a lot but that did not help and as the exam day came near a strange fear gripped me." guilt,"When a classmate wanted to sit down, I pulled his chair away, so that he was slightly injured." disgust,"I felt disgust as a result of one of my midterms - I thought I had prepared well for it, but the end result wasn't what I had expected." guilt,Promising to do a task for a friend and just forgetting about it. guilt,"Car accident. I let a 16-year old, incompetent parson take the wheel and I feel very guilty about what happened even though I suffered the worst injuries." sadness,"When my sister lost her only son, who was sixteen years old. I felt very bad about it as this was the first death in my family and then I learned slowly to understand to life." guilt,When I had drunk too much and nearly got an alcohol poisoning. shame,"When given responsibility to grade papers in elementary school, I cheated a little and graded my own higher." guilt,"I felt guilty when I learnt that some of friends found the finished at the Cafeteria because I took food which was more than my share." sadness,"My sister was impolite to my father when the family was having lunch together at a restaurant. She thought that our parents had been prejudiced against her, this was an extreme thought." joy,"When I was accepted as supervisor for a student teacher. The notification came by post." disgust,"When I woke up one morning and went to the kitchen I discovered that our dog had diarrhoea. There were small ""piles"" all over the floor and the smell was choking." joy,"I was very joyful when I heard that I had passed the standard 8 exams. The day I heard the news was the day I celebrated my birthday." joy,Managed to run 30 Km on skis fairly simply. joy,"I went to see the entrance examination results at university. I rejoyced at my success." fear,"I was afraid of a certain examination although I was relatively well prepared." joy,"When I saw that I had passed the university entrance exam. It made me forget all my problems." joy,"When I received the best actor award at the inter-college drama competition. It gave me tremendous joy and satisfaction which lasted for several days." sadness,"During the funeral of my grandmother, when I saw my mother and other family members crying." sadness,My friend was badly hurt. guilt,"I was caught doing something bad and I bribed the person who caught me. Later I felt very bad, maybe I should have paid for my bad behaviour." disgust,"I went to the shopping centre to buy something and saw packets of Kapenta with maggots in them. Oh !" shame,"A girl asked me why I didn't dance. I told her I was ashamed to dance. I felt myself ashamed having to tell her this." joy,When I attended the concert of a pop singer. fear,When my father was involved in an accident. disgust,Saw a mate bribing the leader. joy,"The day I was happiest was the day when I received a phone call from Eve's Weekly to inform me that I had won the first prize of the All India Essay competition. I had won this prize when I was an under-graduate when even post graduates had participated. I had been judged by eminent judges and political scientists." fear,"Being harrassed for being gay; suggestions of being physically beaten - acting as informal bouncer in a gay bar." fear,"I felt fear when I fell down and broke my leg into pieces and I could not feel it at all." fear,"I was afraid when my mother left me alone to live in our house for one month." joy,I was accepted by the Chinese university. anger,"When my father made my mother go through really terrible situations, I felt furious, impotent, nervous, upset, ........" shame,"When my cousin's wife refused him sex and claimed that she was my girllfriend. I think that there is something wrong with the woman as I have never even thought of having sex with her." sadness,"Last year when I worked during the Summer holidays and studied at the same time for an examination I had to repeat; my boyfriend went to Greece for a holiday for a month." sadness,"When I failed an exam last Summer. I had worked very hard for it and I was very disappointed thinking that it was hopeless to continue at college. I did overreact." guilt,"When I made a mistake at work and when questioned about it pretended I had nothing to do with the problem." shame,"Again, a quarrel had come up in our difficult relationship. My life-partner threw all the books off the shelf. I am sure that it disturbed our neighbours since this happened late in the night." sadness,When I heard the news of my grandfather's sudden death. disgust,"Disgusted with boyfriend's mother - her overpowering, over-protecting and selfish attitudes." fear,Talking about snakes. anger,"Sometimes when I go to work my crazy boss (a hyper Jewish lawyer) insists I do things his way (filing, typing, etc.). He sometimes blames me for things I didn't do, and I can't yell back at him." disgust,My roommate's lack of consideration of me. guilt,When I accepted a lunch invitation from a past male friend. guilt,"I feel guilty when I should have done something at any rate but I haven't done it." shame,"After taking a difficult midterm for one of my classes, I felt shame for not studying as much as I should have. I was ashamed of the results of the midterm." shame,"I made a comment and it was interpreted completely differently from what I had meant. When I said it I realized how my mother had understood it." guilt,I was caught sneaking sweets. sadness,When my ex-boyfriend and I separated. anger,When colliding with my car. I myself was to blame. joy,"When the result of the certificate exam was announced. I was surprised and happy as the result was better than I had expected." disgust,"I realised that someone was insidiously attempting to shit me off I was disgusted with him for doing so, because I afforded him with no excuse to do so." shame,"I do not have accomodation on the campus so I stay with my extended family, one young man used bad words while asking me to leave their home." joy,"I felt joy when I heard over the radio that I had been successful in my Primary School Leaving Certificate Examination and was selected for Secondary School." anger,"I was travelling from Delhi to Bombay. I had booked a seat one month back and I had also got a telegram confirming this. However, in the train my name had been omitted from the reservation sheet, and the one seat that was still vacant was alloted to another person who paid for it despite my requests for the seat. I was allowed to stay in the reserved compartment when I paid money." sadness,"When I received my results and found out that I could not go to a school of my choice." anger,"Yesterday I read in the newspaper that a 30 year old woman had abused her 2 month old son and had caused his death. I was very angry after reading this as this is not a human act and to abuse so fragile a life is not a forgivable sin." sadness,"It was when my father was taken into detention by the CIDS for two years for a reason I don't know up to now." shame,"When I did something naughty and it lead to the embarrassment of my parents." disgust,At a night club watching little tarts trying to earn a living. disgust,"I met a girl (22 years old), married. I liked her. I asked her for a date and I kissed her. I discovered that she lived nearby where I passed every day. I got amused thinking that her husband would be ... or me . I didn't talked to her anymore." sadness,"When I learnt that I had failed an exam, This not only influenced my emotions but also other important tasks, it also made my record imperfect." joy,"A friend of mine often had difficulties with her parents. Once she had a child she had a better relationship with them." guilt,"When my niece was 3 years old she was in the living room while we were fixing the table for a birthday party and, as every child, she couldn't stay calm. She burst a balloon. When I told her to be quiet her father pinched her. I believe if I hadn't said anything this wouldn't have happened." shame,"I spent an evening with my girl-friend. When we wanted to go to bed I was totally drunk. Next morning I felt rather ashamed." guilt,"During an argument with my brother, I behaved rather intransigently, even cruelly, wishing to morally hurt the ""person"" opposed to me." joy,"My friend replying to my letter and again saying he was attracted to me and suggesting we write, talk and get together and see how things went and his suggestion that I could ring and doing that it was really good - though really insane conversation." guilt,"I had not written to, or called my grandmother, who was lonely, for a long time. My mother asked me to call her on her behalf and when I did so, my grandmother was delighted and she told me that she had been waiting for some news from us." joy,"I felt joy when I heard that I was accepted for the Free University in Driebergen." shame,When I met a friend of mine after several months. shame,When I tried to steal a book from the bookshop and was caught. joy,"When I heard that a good friend, who had been abroad for a long time, would come and see me." shame,[ When I acted against my mind or conscious.] fear,"I should have given a test lesson to get a job. I had no courage. I didn't make the test." shame,"When caught shoplifting and the police were called in parents also informed." shame,"Felt it after I spoke terribly (got mad at) the person who is the most important in my life." joy,"When my red-cheeked, content child runs to meet me in the yard of the kindergarten and gives me a moist kiss on my cheek." sadness,"I saw a dead child which was not covered, it had been knocked down by a car." disgust,"My friends aren't working for the same common goal we all need to accomplish." fear,When my sister was very ill and was admitted to the hospital. disgust,"When Kanishka was blown up, I really felt disgusted at people killing each other." guilt,"I felt guilty because I had not accomplished a thing as well as I had wanted to." shame,When I failed the M.S.C exam. shame,"One day in class, the professor asked me a question concerning something he had been explaining. He was very close to me (beside me) and I had no idea what to answer." shame,"When I inadvertantly entered the ladies room and met some girls on my way out." disgust,"I found a big, black spider near a bag of food." sadness,"Sadness, no, I felt something much stronger when my father died." fear,"Car accident nearly occurred between us and drunk driver coming in opposite direction it missed us by approx 1 m and collided (after rolling twice midair) into nearby scrub." anger,"When I am made to do things in which I see no sense and I waste my time. Some time ago I had to participate in a sociological investigation and then I got really angry." disgust,"When a close friend of mine maintained a relationship with me till she needed me and broke it off when she did not need me. She behaved life a really selfish person. " fear,"When I almost drowned myself in the municipal swimming pool that I use to go almost not excaping." anger,Made mistakes in exam. guilt,Being disloyal with persons I loved. joy,"Last year I passed the B.A exams in Psychology in which I stood first in my class. Thus I got the first prize from the college. I was most happy to tell all this to my parents and friends." sadness,"It happened when I lost two very intimate friends in a car accident." fear,"In a flat in Sydney - rough area at home on my own - the flat had been burgled the night before and no way of locking the door." shame,Being criticized by teacher in public. guilt,"When I was responsible for getting my friend run-out in a vital cricket match." shame,"I had a short lasting sexual relationship with someone I didn't love." disgust,"I met a certain lady at the bus depot who was using a bad language but was a very smart looking lady." sadness,"When I think that I will probably never have a genuine contact with my parents." anger,"When someone ignores what I am saying or doesn't let me have my point of view and they monopolise a conversation." fear,Could not find my way out in the college building at night. fear,"When I was going home for my holiday, I almost drowned in the Zambezi river." fear,When I thought that I had failed the examination. guilt,"When I am dishonest to a friend to whom I am very close. I feel guilty because I know that he gives a different version of the truth and I have not corrected these mistakes, and he is aware that I know that they are wrong." guilt,"I felt guilty about talking negatively, and agreeing with a person who was doing likewise, about a non-present third person." anger,"I was very angry when my friend lost my practical's journal, which I needed to study for the exams." guilt,After an argument with a friend of mine. fear,Taking a chemistry midterm. sadness,"When my first boyfriend left me. I tried not to let him understand I felt miserable." disgust,Getting a low grade on my physics midterm. fear,"My mom called early in the morning (On a Monday) and I had just seen her that weekend. I couldn't understand what could be so important as to make her call at such a strange hour. I missed the call and had to call her back that afternoon." sadness,"The second time I went to the entrance exam to V.S.P. and didn't get approved." shame,"At one occasion I was ashamed of being refused after a proposal for a friendship with a certain girl. I was ashamed because she refused publically in the presence of my fellow friends." fear,"My roommate refused to walk with me to the English lectures. I have to walk alone in the dark. Lectures are in the biology building." shame,"I was in my room, I just heard that my Uncle had been caught in somebody's house with somebody's wife. He had to appear in court. I went to see what would happen to him." disgust,"One day my colleague misbehaved with me. I felt disgusted and thought to myself that he could only do this because I was a woman." sadness,"I last really felt sad when I left home for I was leaving all my long time, pre-kindergarten relationships behind." shame,I did badly in the mid term examination. anger,"When my room-mate locked up the keys of my room in our room after I had told her that I was only in the bathroom having a shower. She left and I had to do without supper." sadness,To fight with a sister and to know that she doesn't care. shame,"In school I was very bad in running long distances and my class-mates laughed at me for this reason." fear,"I had an accident in which I hurt my eye. I was afraid of having injured it badly." joy,"When I felt that an exam, which I had feared, was an easy one and went well." joy,Emotional reassurances by spouse. shame,"A man asked me: ""May I sleep in your stairway?"" and I answered ""No""." shame,"I was in a very small class and the professor said something about me that made everyone look at me at the same time." fear,"I had decided to propose to the man I liked to make a trip together. One day, during breakfast I told him my idea. I was afraid of his not accepting it and that the idea would end up as a failure." fear,"Once I was caught by thugs aged between 20-35, they asked me to surrender all the property I had and I remember feeling very scared." shame,When I failed the S.S.C examination I felt very ashamed. joy,Birth of children. joy,"I am a sportwoman as well. I felt joy when after an year of practice, at a contest, I covered the norms for ""a master of sports""." joy,Going to Chico to visit a friend. disgust,When I had to plunge in a swamp of fetid and stagnant water. disgust,Doesn't apply. disgust,[ No response.] joy,"I had a friend who I didn't see for a long time. We had a relationship from much union and interaction. It was more that one year that I didn't see her. She appeared in my home and we talked." disgust,When I was presumed to have stolen maize from the school garden. shame,"When I went to my boyfriend's house for lunch and saw his parents, I felt that they were watching me all the time." shame,Participating in a theft several years ago. sadness,"Social situation - at the pub - a close friend of 2 years told the group around us of advances I had made." fear,Introducing myself at a first tutorial this year at University. disgust,"I was supposed to be studying for my math midterm a few days ago, however, I fooled around with my roommate, and didn't start studying until 12:00 am. I was disgusted with myself." sadness,"When I heard the news that my brother had passed away. It was the first time that I lost a brother." shame,"A friend started to insult another person without reason and I felt ashamed of her behavior." joy,"Meeting with two of my friends I had not seen for 15 years. They were special people to me." sadness,"The loss of my father as he died of a massive and sudden heart attack." shame,"Felt ashamed when in a group conversation and could not understand words or comprehend the topic of discussion." disgust,"A person whom I thought to be honest took and spend the little money that I had and I had no way of getting any money in the few following months." joy,"I spent a lovely relaxing evening with my boyfriend. We played games and talked all evening." disgust,"At a party my best girlfriend got really drunk and went off with a guy she knows I really like." fear,"I was very scared when I went to the examination hall for my M.Sc examination as I had studied a limited partion of the course thoroughly and I was in great doubt whether that would be asked." disgust,When I saw President Reagan get elected. sadness,"My nephew's mother just left one day (my brother and she were not married). My nephew, Anthony, was shaken. I was sad for him because a similar situation happened to me." sadness,When my grandmother died after a long illness. shame,"The day my fiancee told me that it was bad that I could not write my mother tongue." guilt,"When a patient in the ward died (one who had been under my care). I felt as if I didn't give the appropriate care to the patient." shame,"When we received our academic result I learnt that my results were bad as I had not done my best. The results of my accquaintances were good and when they asked me about my results I really did not want to answer." disgust,"After the first of May, I detested my fiance's friends, who had piled on to our party and spoilt it completely." anger,"I get angry when my smaller brother misbehaves and talks with indecent words." anger,"When the Real Madrid football team lost against the inter in the U.E.F.A cup." shame,"I woke up at the house of someone I knew, not remembering very much about what had been said or done during the party on the previous night." shame,"When I made acquaintance with the parents of my boyfriend for the first time. They spoke Limburgian (a dutch dialect) and one of my first remarks was that I disliked Limburgian dialect." shame,China not winning more gold medals in the Asian Olympics. shame,"When parents of a certain girl refused to let me marry their daughter because I was not fit to do so yet the girl accepted everything and later she followed what her parents insisted and she told me never to talk to her again." disgust,"I came across a group of people with the same basic ideas/beliefs who were all fighting and going against what they would say was good." guilt,"I once felt guilty when a certain passenger in the same (ship, plane ?) which I boarded when coming from home lost his 10t which in fact fell into my pocket unknowingly." anger,Being hooted at when I was learning to drive. fear,When I was walking along a road alone on my way to go shopping. sadness,"This sounds really predictable and usual but it was absolutely heart-rending at the time. My first lover (I was 15) just rang up one day and announced that he had found another woman. I never saw him again and it hurt because I was positive that it was ""TRUE LOVE"" !!" guilt,"When I wished secretly and lied to a friend of mine because I didn't want her to stay in my house on the beach (as she always does), and wouldn't stick on me." joy,"On my birthday, my closest friends were here at Berkeley pithched in a lot of money each and bought me ten records to replace some of my records that were stolen. They threw a small surprise party for me too." disgust,"When I was a young teenager (14) my brother-in-law to be had made heavy advances to me. I did not understand very well what it was all about but I reacted strongly and the feelings are still there." disgust,Does not apply. guilt,"Stealing money from a milk token jar from a close friend of the family when visiting." anger,When someone chased me from his house. shame,"I was worried by a task related to my studies which had to be done in groups of two. I was talking about it to my friends when I said something negative, in too abrupt a manner, concerning my work partner. I did not quite mean what I said and I felt ashamed at having been mean enough to criticize him as he is also a friend of mine." sadness,When my grandmother died. sadness,"Being away from a very close friend, I was away from Finland for a year as an exchange student." guilt,This I experienced when going around with more than one girl. shame,"Once as a school girl I was copying at a class work and my teacher spotted me." fear,Someone attacked me with a knife. sadness,"When my sister left to go home, in Sweden, after the Christmas Holidays." anger,"When the person I am going out with let me down in a situation that I was depending on them, and didn't show respect or care." disgust,Watching a TV documentary on seal clubbing. anger,"Stopped at a Fast Food shop with friends and a few locals wanted to fight us for no apparent reason. They hit and picked on one of my friends." shame,I was wearing a slit tight dress at a disco and it burst open. anger,Someone played a trick on me. sadness,"When I knew that a person that I liked very much didn't react the way I would like to, even that I knew about his feelings for me." sadness,"The saddest moment in my life was when I lost my younger sister a few years back." guilt,"Reported neighbour to police for taking to my daughter with baseball ball - her counsellor rang me and after long talk convinced me the woman was o.k. I felt guilty for ringing the police then guilty for feeling guilty about it." disgust,"My superior at the summer job swindled customers as much as he could, and once put me in a difficult situation after which I could not but detest him." shame,When I broke-down while seeing off my friend. shame,"While shopping, a person close to us created an uncomfortable situation for those who were with her." guilt,"I felt guilt towards my mother when I went to live on rooms in Nijmegen where I study." anger,"When my mother told things to my sister, which I told my mother in confindence." fear,"I was walking through a thick forest and there was a big snake at a distance of about four metres." disgust,"Some time ago I was disgusted with the ""cleanness"" of the refectory of our institute." disgust,I saw part of a Prince video with him crawling out of a bath tub. anger,"I had been in love with a certain young man who pretended to love me but one day I found out that he had another girlfriend who was also a friend of mine." guilt,"A certain colleague of mine sent me to buy a bag of flour for him, he gave me K20. Unfortunately I lost it." joy,"[ During a certain period, I felt successful and extremely satisfied. When I found that any tasks or decisions that I had made were better than expected.]" fear,"When I was travelling home by bus and suddenly the bus hit and the bus leaned against a wall." anger,"In the student kitchen that we share, somebody drank from my juice pot (one litre) so that I only got one glass out of the whole pot." disgust,"In Punjab, when in the name of religion people killed each other during the agitation." joy,Had a letter from my father (usually he does not write to me). fear,"Fear came towards the end of May when the P.T.S. results were out after hearing the failure of my fellow three friends." shame,"In an important situation for me, my father behaved inadequately." guilt,"When I still went to primary-school, I went on a ski-trip with my family. After skiing we went to a restaurant for lunch. Suddenly my father said that he had forgotten something in the car. He gave me the key and asked me to go and get it. I had difficulties with the key which was already bent. I asked my mother to help me. When she tried to turn the key it broke. We had no second key. My mother was blamed for all that and I did not say a word." sadness,"When we were on holidays my girl-friend had to leave me after 4 weeks and I had to stay in Turkey for some more weeks because I had a job there." sadness,"I was really hoping that I would pass the examination, but I failed and so I felt very sad." sadness,My partner left me after we had been together for a long time. guilt,"When I provoked a fight with my mother, hurting her feelings very much." sadness,The death of a friend. joy,"I have a boyfriend and I am very fond of him. When we had our ""11-months jubilee"", I had forgotten it. But he gave me a red rose." fear,Staying in the room alone at night. joy,"When I saw the certificate results, I did not feel very happy as I did not realize that I had got all the credits until my classmates pointed it out to me. My parents and my relatives praised me and I realized that my results were good i.e 2A, 5B, 2C. I felt satisfied with the results and was happy." disgust,"When a boy whom I refused to be my lover told all his friends that I was his girl he has refused me because I was not faithful to him." shame,"I fell down in the bus when it braked suddenly and everybody started looking at me." guilt,"I thought that I could have avoided the above situation (the one in fear) if I had concentrated more on my work, which I hate." guilt,"Our association had Polish visitors and when they were going back by boat I did not go to see them off (I am the chairman of the association)." sadness,A sudden end to the relationship with my first girlfriend. guilt,Because I had not studied. sadness,"When I received the news that my beloved grandmother had died. I was at the boarding school and was only 13 years old." sadness,Getting separated from my girlfriend. fear,"When I had my first oral examination after a long time; especially one day before the examination when I had the feeling that I had not studied enough and had not enough time to make up for it." joy,"Six months ago when I got acquaintanced with a person whom I trusted infinitely and from whom I expected help and friendly feelings. With him I found much in common - in our views and in our fate." anger,"A friend had promised to call me at a certain time. I expected his call impatiently but in vain." anger,"When I travelled all the way to my former school to collect my certificate, only to be told that I owed them some money, I knew nothing about this." fear,"I had to have my tonsils out. I had been making up my mind almost for a year - I was afraid. But during the two hours in the hospital room, while I was waiting to be called for the operation I felt a real fear - of the pain, of what they were going to do to me, of the unknown." disgust,When I was molested by an old drunk man. disgust,"When my parents behave very ""witty"" towards me, they make insipid jokes about which they laugh. Or my mother who treats me like a little child." sadness,Insulted by my mother. anger,"I'm crazy about football. When my team lost a goal in the Paulist championship, and so it lost the classifications." fear,"I needed a recommendation for something. I decided that the best person to get one from was a professor who I had never talked to before. I felt a lot of fear going up after class to ask him to recommend me considering he had never heard my name before. But I did." fear,"When I went home alone early in the morning, I had to go through a wood." fear,"It was the time when I was in no position to secure a Ist class in the M.Sc exam and this was likely to affect my career." joy,"[ When I have achieved what I wanted to achieve, I feel the above stated emotion. Also when I am sucessful.]" anger,When my partner was attacked and lost three teeth. anger,"I was disappointed and angry at the bad quality of a documentay program on TV. In my opinion, the topic was important and the program should have been made with seriousness and consideration." sadness,"I was going away, leaving a dear person behind." shame,"When I am angry at someone without a good reason. Later on it proves that he didn't do anything wrong." disgust,"I attended a ceremony in Denmark which is comparable to our Halloween. They build a large bonfire and place a life size dummy of a witch. The crowd cheered when the dummy burst into flames." shame,"I went to visit Montrose home for crippled children to interview a handicapped child. I interviewed two boys and it went really well. I promised I would visit them, but never got the time. Now I hope they've forgotten me, but I feel ashamed of letting them down." sadness,[ The same as in guilt.] guilt,"My baby sister was 2-3 months old and when I was trying to get her on my back, she slipped and fell." anger,"My father began to say incoherant things concerning my brother's and my own behaviour towards him. His biased (authoritarian) and ridiculous point of view made us angry." sadness,"Last academic year I received bad news - my grand-uncle had passed away. I felt lonely and bad because apart from the biological ties, he was a good old friend of mine at home." fear,"When there was a bomb threat in Tolman Hall. This was the first time that I felt my life could be in danger." joy,When I met friends I had not seen for the last 2-4 years. joy,Winning Queensland Chess Championship. guilt,"I call my mother at least once a week. However last week I completely forgot. This morning she called me, she thought I felt ill." guilt,"Attending to a demand made by a client (I work in a bank) I suggested her an application of money in a week ahead, but I informed her wrongly. The client arrived a week after and the application wasn't made and she lost with this a lot of time and money." guilt,The day I came home drunk after having attended a disco party. guilt,"I felt guilty because of the pain I caused to a very close friend. But over the feeling of guilt, my conviction of being right dominated." anger,"When I arranged our holiday in Paris, and my girlfriend raised criticisms all the time." anger,"I experience this emotion quite often but the day I was most angry was the day I got pulled up for something I had not done. It happened during my school days, I had not spoken a word in class but the monitor had written my name on the board. So I had a remark in my callender which I had to get signed by my parents. This remark resulted in me being spanked." anger,"When an English teacher unfairly made me repeat a semester which I thought I had passed. I had to ask my parents for some more money to carry on studying." anger,"I once failed a test miserably and my friend did very well and someone made a nasty comment while comparing me to my friend." shame,"I was learning judo and my instructor wanted me to assist him in teaching girls judo at a suburban college. I was just a beginer, and he made me a green belt so that I would be able to command respect. This was against my principles, and yet I allowed myself to listen to him. I gave it up soon after, however I felt very ashamed at not sticking to my principles and at not having put my foot down earlier." fear,"Climbing a mountain, I got stuck and realized I could get neither up nor down." shame,My article not chosen by the college newspaper fear,"You may find out that I am stupid and not to let me do your experiment." joy,"When I got a message that I was employed as a nurse at a kindergarten." shame,I feel ashamed when I am praised. disgust,When I saw a big spider from very close. fear,When I am walking on the streets and see a gang of thugs. anger,Seeing this badly made questionnaire. disgust,"For a drunk man (about 20 years old) that I met one evening, and who behaved impudently with the girls standing by." shame,"My boyfriend's mother, whom I had not met earlier, made an unexpected visit. I was lying lazily on the bed, reading a newspaper and my boyfriend was studying." shame,"When not fulfilling any of my obligations to a person whom I respect." anger,"I live by myself and a few weeks ago was woke by a man on the end of my bed coming up my bed at me. I was really angry, told him to get out. He was surprised, hesitated; I started to move towards him and he backed off - kept telling him - loudly, but firmly to go. Because I'd got the initiative, I succeeded. A very powerful message." guilt,"I told my elder brother that he was irresponsible and that I did not care for what he did because he was teasing me." shame,"I fell on the ground while crossing the street. My cap covered my eyes and I felt quite ""difficult""." fear,Listening to horrot stories at night. fear,I was afraid before I went to the doctor's. disgust,"This was when I saw, for the first time, a naked woman (prostitute) run away from a house after having been discovered by the guardian." fear,Obscene phone call where the person knew my name. joy,"When the lady who is now my wife accepted my proposal to be my lover and future wife." guilt,"Guilt conscious struck me when I failed my Standard Two Examinations in 1972. I knew that I would suffer the consequences of what I had been doing during class hours: thus playing with friends and sometimes not even going to school." fear,"One day I went to the cinema to see a film in which I was interested. On arriving there I saw a long queue (which I had not expected) and went back home without seeing the film." joy,"After sitting for the Standard 8 Exams for the second time in 1979, I had great joy when I heard that I was successful in the Examination when the results were out." fear,"I have been afraid several times. What marked me was that I almost didn't enter University." fear,Fear of sexual overtures from a close relative in the family. fear,Suddenly met someone in the biology building at night. guilt,"When I do not put in the needed amount of hours of work or study for the day, I feel guilty and try to make up for the lost time." sadness,"For the loss of a close friend or relative, but you feel grief when you are away from home, too." disgust,"When I read a newspaper article on a young girl who had been raped and assaulted one night by several men when she was unconscious." disgust,"This happened when I went to visit my friend in Chelston and found him screwing my girlfriend." fear,"This feeling I sensed quite recently. It was arisen by the terrific thought that I might lose the man I loved !" guilt,"When I spoke ill of a fellow worker in the absence of this person." joy,"A friend of mine told me that I had passed the entrance exam to the university." disgust,When I learnt that my best friend had failed the exams. anger,"One morning I was standing at the bus-stop and the bus passed by without stopping, even though there were only 8-10 passengers inside. I felt angry at the rude behaviour of the bus driver and conductor." shame,NO RESPONSE shame,"My sister said I am not a stable person, and I think she is right." joy,When my son was born. guilt,I do not help out enough at home. shame,Not being able to answer question in a seminar. fear,"When I saw an accident, a woman was run over and she died on the spot." joy,When I had a good result in the certificate examination. joy,"Last year my freshman yr. It was a day in March I did well on some tests. I seemed to finally adjust to college, it was hot and sunny. I was walking in front of a frat. when I heard Beach Boys ""Surfin'USA"". I had this overwhelming feeling that to be at CAL was good. I still have it somewhat." disgust,When one of my friends started misbehaving. sadness,Failing examn. shame,"That my brother and father are into alcohol, two men with priviledge. Not using it positively." sadness,When one of my cat died of a disease. sadness,When I found that my coldness had hurt somebody's sincerity. joy,"My son was registered to get admission in grade one of the primary school. The chances of him getting a place there was 1/10. Two weeks later I was informed that he had been enrolled." shame,[ No response.] joy,Being asked to go out by someone I care. guilt,Not being able to help my friend. anger,"An argument among several friends because of the irrational behavior of one of them who fell out with us for no reason and said that we were to blame." disgust,"The murder of two girls on a school trip to Berlin (and sexual crimes generally) a couple of years ago." sadness,"When I was in primary 6, my father died. I was very young then and did not know what had happened. The weeping of my relatives and my tears made me sad." anger,When I quarelled with my parents. anger,"I entrusted a friend with the delivery of some money to my father, however he misused the money." sadness,Finding out my best friend cannot go to the English lectures. sadness,"When my grandmother died - I wasn't sad so much that she'd died because she was old, but because she lived in the last few years in an old people's home and had nothing very much that was hers - no chair, or private space, and when I went to visit she would be sitting in the ""lliving"" room the TV room. It was hopeless. And I felt awkward so I didn't go and I was sad 'cos how I couldn't." shame,"I was saying bad things about a man I had never seen. I was with a friend and did not know that she was related to this man. My friend did not tell me about it and I discovered this myself." shame,"I had not punched a ticket in the bus because I had a card. But when the ticket-collector came it turned out that I had forgotten it. The shame I felt was great though it was not done on purpose." joy,When I was admitted to a certain school as a student. guilt,"[ I can positively say that I have never done anything that made me feel guilty.]" anger,"My girlfriend disliked it when I played majong (a game of gambling). I expressed my regrets and when I went to see her she neglected my existance. I was very angry and left in displeasure." anger,"When my friends tried to discriminate against my friendship with certain other friends which they thought was improper." joy,"When I got home from my job, I found a letter from the university telling me that I had been admitted to begin my studies." guilt,"Guilt at often being unable to visit a close relative in hospital after her death I felt very guilty and wished I had done more." joy,Finding out my grades at the end of my freshman year. anger,"While I was away for the weekend some friends went into my room and played my very expensive stereo without asking me or my roommate." sadness,Not being accepted by classmates in university. sadness,"My living and working conditions at home were unbearable. We used to live in a three room flat together with two more families. The discords caused a change - one of the families moved out. The other family stayed with us but I drifted away from my fiancT. In fact we were two families in the flat. Then I found myself alone in the struggle for this life because my fiancT did not stay next to me my grief and sorrow took on large proportions. I wanted to commit suicide but instead I threw myself against the cause of the irritation." fear,"I was inside the car with my husband and we were assaulted with a gun at 10 o'clock in the evening." shame,"When I realized that I was pregnant. I thought about what my relatives and friends would think about me and I felt a lot of self pity." disgust,[ No response.] joy,"I had gone camping with my old classmates and there was a storm. We were in a flurry but at that time I felt the love and concern of my friends." shame,"Sincerely I'm a very timid guy and so even in very simple situations sometimes I am ashamed." fear,"I and my cousin went to a filmshow at night. We went without making it known to my mother. While we were there at interval, I came across my mother just close to where we sat." guilt,"A friend wanted to give me a surprise into my room and I thought she was stealing from the room." anger,"In certain occasion I have a fight with my boyfriend. During the fight I closed the door at his face. He went away but came back next day." shame,"When I was little - Mum caught me telling a lie about who broke the cup." fear,"Climbing a mountain to see a view, towards the top we suddenly came across a ledge with a nearly sheer drop on either side, which I had to cross." fear,"I felt fear when once I was asleep and dreamed that I was dying asfixiated by a cardiac attack, I was afraid and woke up desperate. Altough I wasn't afraid of death I was afraid." sadness,"When I thought that it was going to be impossible for me to start studying (due to wrong information from the student advisor)." disgust,"Seeing persons spending money in a shopping center with completely indifference to the misery reigning in our country." disgust,When I got to know the details if the famine in East Africa. disgust,"I was dancing Malipenga (traditional dance). I exaggerated the steps I was supposed to make in the negative way. This happened in front of spectators. It was bad for our Boma (group) because I was on the front line where ability is displayed and it is this ability that counts when choosing the winning side." disgust,"I was working in a classmate's house with a group. A girl began to graze her foot against mine under the table." anger,"When my mother and father split up I was angry: I felt deprived and ""different"" from other children at school." shame,"When I was caught telling a white lie. At that time, I was not allowed to stay outdoors after 8 p.m. One day when I was late, I made up a story that our neighbour had invited me to his place, though I had actually forgotten about the time while playing with my pals." anger,"I can't remember being truly angry. Usually it's just disappointment that I feel. One situation would be with my brother. He and I used to be close but now he seems to be avoiding me." guilt,Being rude to someone I do not like. shame,"For example, to feel bad because of one's attire, to be among people who do not belong to the same social class, to give a wrong answer in class, to be surprised in particular situations." joy,"When my brother who has been out of New Zealand for 10 years came to visit with his wife which none of our family had previously met." shame,"My aunt phoned me to ask me why I had refused the her invitation to dinner at her home on the New Year's Eve." fear,"My boyfriend hinted over the phone about wanting to ""be free"". He thus did not say it point blank, silence followed." joy,On meeting an old friend of mine. joy,When I was admitted to the University. shame,"I thought of myself as being clumsy when I made love for the first time with a girl." disgust,"When a boy had continued to use foul language and swearing in front of a group of my friends." joy,"When I heard what mark I had got at the entrance examination and I realized my admittance to the University was almost certain." guilt,"I was very angry with a girlfriend for interferring a little too much with my personal affairs. I told her so rather strongly and she started crying." anger,"When my friend (girl) promised to help me go to the hospital and be examined by good experts and she deceived me." joy,"Occurs frequently. A recent experience: when going out with many friends, nice music, after the examinations, I felt so happy I could have embraced everybody." guilt,"I told my pesent boyfriend that I was an Australian as are my parents. As the relationship developed I found it harder and harder to confess and became sure it would end our relationship. He eventually found out when told in front of me by my mother." guilt,"I had told my boyfriend that I did not want to go on with our relationship. I knew that I was important to him but I wanted to be free. I saw that this was difficult for him but I remained firm and did not change my mind." shame,When coming up for trial because of shop lifting. sadness,"A relationship in which I had put my trust, broke up. I was sad when I realized how easy it is to forget something that one had once regarded as great and significant." sadness,"When it suddenly appeared that our dog was dangerously ill and probably would die. We had not expected this because he was always very healthy. Fortunately he survived because we, in turn, gave him medicines during the night." shame,"This was when I was discovered stealing a piece of bread at home, I was very hungry a few hours before supper." shame,"When I went to explain to a lecturer whom I liked that the work expected of me was not going to be in." shame,At school - being whipped by the teacher in front of the class. shame,"When I was found urinating, behind a toilet instead of inside it, by my class mates and the teachers. I was told to pick up my own urine from the wet soil, I did it." anger,"I had an appointment downtown, and the person in question was half an hour late." joy,"Talkiing about the past happy hours with two friends at night in a camp a few months ago. We shared our feelings, notions and every hidden anxiety. I thought that they cared for me and I was very happy and satified." guilt,"I ""snapped"" very abruptly at my mother when she said something silly and stupid, (in front of other people) she looked so defenceless & hurt & told them that I'm always doing that." shame,My companion admired me when I did some work voluntarily. fear,"Practicing wind-surf my body was caught under the sail. On trying to get out my leg was caught in the lashing. I was afraid of dying by asphixia." anger,"My boy-friend came home late one night without having told me about it before." shame,When a group of friends began to make critics about me. disgust,At the hypocrisy of some of my friends. shame,When I excreted on the mat instead of the potty. anger,"I confronted with this feeling at the Institute quite recently, the pedology lecturer was the cause." fear,"I was alone at home, a man forced the front door which was locked, forced and tried to open a window." anger,"When I saw a few people beating a man who seemed to be a stranger." anger,Someone borrowed my textbook and deliberately did not return it. fear,"A late Saturday night I found myself locked in the central underground station of Stockholm with a group of 50 hard rockers who were drunk and equipped with various kinds of chains, etc." guilt,I felt guilty when I couldn't help a person. guilt,Not thanking relatives for a favor done. sadness,My roommate's sister committed suicide. guilt,"When I talked to another student about the notes she got last semester, not knowing that she got a lot of bad grades." guilt,"When I got associated with a boy one year ago, I neglected my best friend. When the relation with this boy finished she behaved very easy-going towards me. I felt guilty then." sadness,When my grandfather died. guilt,"I bought something and the shopkeeper gave me more change, I realized this after I had left the shop and was on the bus-stop - and I then needed the money." shame,[ No response.] anger,"Somebody was blaming me of a story which was not real and not true." guilt,"Not helping parents enough at home and at the farm - this has happened many times." anger,"I had just seen my pseudo-girlfriend and our conversation angered me greatly." shame,"I felt ashamed when in a certain occasion I had to read a text and didn't stop stuttering." disgust,Seeing a person panhandling money on Telegraph. disgust,When I had to dissect a live mouse at school. anger,"When I heard that my girlfriend was talking behind my back and looking down on me." anger,"I am currently taking CS 50P. I had to finish a couple of assignments but I was hindered because I could not get a passing score on my program." joy,When I found out that I can travel with my best friend. fear,When I got in jungle where there was a great number of snakes. fear,Canoeing across harbour in winds - 20 knots and rising seas. fear,"I had not told my parents about my bad marks in school. One day, my father wanted to speak to the teachers. Fortunately I could influence my parents to take it easy." anger,"My parents are divorced, father pays alimony for me. Two years ago my sister who lives with father, suddenly asked mother for money. As she considered the amount of money my mother offered her too small, she brought an action against mother. I was terribly angry with my sister." disgust,"When I saw a wino by some cans with Food Stamps and use the change to buy wine." guilt,"When a mistake occurred at work which I was not responsible for. This was disclosed later." disgust,"I was disgusted when my little sister had been hit badly by her friends." shame,"I had reacted angrily at a friend for no fault of his. I had raised my voice and had not cared for his opinion." anger,"When they broke the artistic work of several weeks. Changes were made and it was broken without permission, they had no right to do this." disgust,"When my cat vomited and a worm came out which was still alive. I was forced to wipe it up." joy,"When I was back home after a long time, meeting beloved people and close friends." anger,"Getting terrible meals, but paying heaps for them." joy,"Unexpectedly I met some persons who I like very much. Spontaneously they invited me and integrated me within their group, although it was late in the evening." disgust,Someone ruining someone's property just for the fun of it. anger,When the coach of our team degraded me to the second team. sadness,The loss of a very good friend. anger,"When I came back to my hostel, my bed was full of newspapers and dirty clothes. My room-mate asked me to wash the clothes for him as he had no time (this was his responsibility). The food we shared had been eaten up by him (I ate little)." anger,"In the last year of the high school we had a huge fight between my group and the graduation commission (two students of my classroom) because they accused us unjustly of a gossip about them." sadness,"I was driving near my girlfriend's house and I decided to keep going because it was late and I would be back in the next few days anyway. The next day she was killed in a road accident." shame,I was made a very sharp remark at a rehearsal. fear,"When my brother went to shoot wild ducks, I feared that the boat would overturn and he would drown or that the gun would accidentally go off." fear,"My father had been involved in a car accident two years ago. I was then very scared thinking that he would die as he lay unconscious in hospital for two weeks." fear,"When we had swimming instruction, we had to take a header from the springboard. I usually refused to do that, but at least I was forced to." shame,When I have a plain appearance. guilt,"I had known the girl for a few months when I proposed to her and this put an end to our friendship, as from then on we started withdrawing from each other. I liked her very much." anger,"I once was accused of falling in love with someone's girlfriend which was not true because the girl was just a friend of mine." shame,"During our last exarcise in agricultural machines we went out in the yard to examine a row of machines. But we seemed not to have fulfilled our task well, because when our teacher came and asked me a question I was unable to answer. I felt awkward because he didn't deserve it." anger,"I missed the train and had to wait for the next for two hours. For this reason I missed an appointment which had been very important for me." guilt,"I spied on my fiancT and was terribly jealous. Later I saw that there was no reason for that." disgust,"Now that the 49ers are winners, the fans are coming out of the woodwork and jumping on the bandwagon and that disgusts me." joy,Passed the last exam. joy,"I felt it when on duty in the hospital I understood that I was not afraid to face death, that I also helped a little to relieve the pains of a patient." sadness,"I feel sadness from the fact that I was not born with a better appearance." anger,"A few monthe ago, when my brother's wife told me that I had bad manners. To make matters worse she did not let me use their telephone as she only allowed people of her own tribe." sadness,"Hearing about developments of sience in the West a lot better than China." fear,"I had gone to the hospital for my research and got late in reaching home. I feared that when I reached home there would be a quarrel because of my being late." fear,Beaten up by a classmate in school. disgust,"At my grandmother's detestable and selfish conduct towards my elder sister, although her behavior was due to senility and lack of understanding." fear,"The first time that I saw a dead person. This was when I started my gross anatomy practicals." fear,"When I was on holiday, walking back to where I was staying, at night, and two men started closely following me. There was nobody around that I could run to." disgust,"I was on my way home by bus. A man who had drunk a fair amount of alcohol started talking, trying to hug and pat a woman sitting next to him. Fortunately it was not me." anger,Korean judges cheating. shame,"When I was in lower six I joined an interview group to interview the general public. One of my friends in the group lost her purse and she was very nervous. Five of us had to go another place so we left her, and planned to see her later. Then I heard her describing how her purse looked. I realized that I had seen her purse on the floor and had not wanted to do any thing about it. " fear,"A neighbour's girl had disappeared and many people were looking for her. Someone had gone to notify the police. Something had certainly happened to her." disgust,Saw someone spitting in public. sadness,When my uncle died. disgust,"I read a book about the sexual phantasies of women; I read about a woman having sexual intercourse with a dog." anger,"In form three we were taking our mock exams and someone else (a friend) was making noise when the examinateur picked on me and said that he would tear up my answer sheet. I got very angry with the girls involved." guilt,"Eating too much I felt guilty afterwards because I knew I shouldn't have overeaten as I'm putting on too much weight." anger,Misunderstood deliberately by a close friend. guilt,[ I have never felt this emotion.] guilt,"While intoxicated I damaged my sister's car in a minor way and someone elses in a minor way." joy,"When I recently managed to get my first consulting assignment ""myself"" i.e on my own initiative." fear,"It was last week on Saturday night when I was at Mchesi. I feared to cross the Lilongwe River Bridge to come back to School due to darkness - until somebody had to escort me." sadness,"I had to leave Den Helder and all friends and acquaintences, after having spend two weeks there with my friends." shame,I felt shame when I discontinued my education for eight months. shame,"One night a friend found out that I dumped one girl for another and he proceded to lecture me." shame,"Adultery with the girlfriend of a friend of mine, of which he learned." sadness,I was sad when I saw that a beautiful girl was not attainable. sadness,"When I learnt that a boy I liked had been with a girl for three years." disgust,"The day I was forced to use a public convenience place in town. It was so filthy that it really made me sick." joy,"I met a girlfriend again after not seeing her for several months. I saw her in a discotheque. We do not like discotheques but we went there because we knew we would meet there." shame,"When I overslept for the second time on the day I had an examination." joy,"I felt joyful when I heard that I had been selected for College education." sadness,"I finished the relationship with my boyfriend, after having felt myself very unhappy for a long time." anger,"I suffered from a gynaecological illness. I was quite displeased to hear that my roommates had talked about it and they had misrepresented the truth. I felt deeply hurt when I learned that it was done by a ""good"" acquaintance of mine." sadness,I did not quite succeed in breast feeding my baby. fear,Facing a mad dog. joy,"At my wedding - standing with the man I love and acknowledging that fact to members of family and friends." sadness,"During the Physics experiment session I did not understand the content of the experiment and did not know how to do it." sadness,"Some months ago my wife gave birth to twin sisters. She had no idea of looking after babies and she felt quite oppressed. The fact that I couldn't help her caused grief to me." disgust,Disgust at myself when I stroked a sleeping girl's private parts. shame,"When the literature teacher made me recite a poem in the middle of the class and I had to gesticulate." fear,"A friend (female) and I were on holiday on Great Barrier Island by ourselves. One night we were nearly raped by about 20 locals - they came to our bach and tried to break the doors down. All of them were stoned or drunk and we hid under the bunks and were totally terrified. Eventually these guys gave up and went looking for us on the beach. We escaped and slept in the bush for 2 nights." shame,An exam where questions about very specific knowledge were asked. disgust,"A friend once reacted childishly (he is 23 yearrs old) to my not responding in his favour to a request, that is: he asked me for some money I refused, and his reaction was quite childish." anger,Someone told a lie that I had stolen his money. anger,"After an exhausting day I came home and wanted to take a bath to relax. My father wanted to take a bath first and when he had finished after an hour, there was no hot water left for me." shame,Failing university entrance examn. guilt,"The death of my father made me feel quite guilty, because my attitude towards him had been cold and indifferent." guilt,"My grandmother has been in a hospital for a week and I still haven't had time to see her." disgust,"I feel disgust with my first boyfriend who made fun of our love in an abominable way." guilt,"I blew up at someone for being confused and because of his irresponsibility and afterwards I felt guilty and that I had no right." disgust,"With my mouth full of bun, I drank directly from a packet of milk which turned out to be weeks old (completely separated). It took a while for the milk to seep through the bun." joy,"My sister gave birth to twins, healthy ones." guilt,"I had a discussion with my girl-friend. After some time we started to quarrel and at least - to get the upper hand - I said that she was not as important to me as she might believe. Some time later I apologized for that." fear,"Just before I started my study I had to move, I was very afraid to be left alone and that I could not manage it." sadness,I remember being sad whe my aunt's child died (2 days old). fear,"I had the window open and the door was shut so that the kitten would not go out. My partner came in and started talking about something and I forgot about the window and suddenly I saw the kitten hanging from the window frame. I was rigid with fright till I got hold of her." disgust,"I was double crossing Mercy and Maria. They one day came to know each other. I was found by Mercy red-haded when I was with Maria." guilt,"I felt guilt when my friends were punished to slash grass at the gound because of making noise in class. I was in the group of noise-makers but I denied having done any noise." guilt,"I was drunk one night and I insulted three ladies. The following morning they approached me and asked me the reason behind my bahaviour, I apologized for my unruly behaviour." anger,"When I could not reason my friend, it angered me." disgust,"I felt disgusted when somebody told me that my previous boyfriend was her boyfriend." sadness,At the death of a close relative. guilt,Hurt someone's feelings unintentionally. anger,"When my brother got very low marks in the exams, I was very angry. I put my studies aside to help him, as every time my brother does badly at school, my family members blame me as well." fear,When I broke the window pane of my next door neighbour's house. guilt,"When I have to take exams I am very excited and have not much time for the housekeeping. Then my friend has to do everything." anger,"In 1983 a sadist provoked my sister in my presence. He tried to force my sister into accompanying him to his place, but my sister did not agree and so she was kicked and she fell down. There was a fight." disgust,"When I was travelling to school by bus, I went past a place where a sewer had been repaired. There was a bad strong smell which suffocated me and I wanted to leave the place immediately." fear,"One time I set up my journey at night going to a certain bar. On the way I met my friends and they told me that two people had died because of heavy fighting. I proceeded on but with fear." guilt,"When I was face to face with my deceived friend after sleeping with his wife." joy,"When I was accepted for my third year (G-10) at my former secondary school." sadness,"Losing a pet chick. Our family had just put the chick outside a few days before and then one morning it was gone." fear,My friend will find out that I am in love with her. anger,"A good friend deceived me. Because of that little quarrel our relationship finished, mainly because she was not honest. I was very angry about that." disgust,When I see someone vomitting. guilt,Made a misjudgement in a football match. disgust,"When I found out that the seat in the coach that I had booked had been sold to somebody else." fear,Before going to the dentist. fear,"I feared that my dog's eye was infected too much. He had played around in the weeds and a foxtail had gotten under his eyelid. I took him to the vet and I feared that he may go blind because of the foxtail." shame,"When I met a friend whom I had not seen for a long time and heard all about her troubles, I thought that I should have got in touch with her earlier." joy,"I had a singing-lesson, but I was not very good. The last exercise was singing scales. I did that very well and my teacher seemed satisfied." joy,"Can't remember specific event - besides just being moderately happy until a year or so ago." anger,"I was really pissed when the Russians boycotted the '84 Olympics. I had anger towards them and Jimmy Crter. I was very anxious to see it." guilt,When I moved away from home. anger,"When my girlfriend left me to go out with another guy, even though she knew that she was wrong." fear,When going to the exam. joy,"When I met an old schhol friend (school love) who works in Sk+vde." sadness,"[ When family mmembers or friends blame me for something I am not responsible for. I feel very sad as it was not my fault.]" guilt,"When I think about my family (parents, brothers, sisters) guilt is a part of my feelings." anger,"The patient whom I expected to get well suddenly passed away after he showed had his meals." disgust,"Very intoxicated men who incite each other to fight. I met a vile smelling man on the tram who got closer and closer to me till I got up, then he got angry." shame,When my mum learnt that I had beaten up someone in a fight. joy,"When I was pressing figures on the curtain cloth. I had bought the cloth after months of hindrances." sadness,"A sudden doubt made me run for a long time in a rainy autumn night. When I reached the intended place I saw my beloved in another man's arms. A sudden blow, grief, I cannot qualify it, it is painful for me to remember about it." sadness,"When a close friend of mine who was with me in first year could not make it to the second year." shame,"I felt ashamed when I was confronted by a teaching assistant that a close friend and I were accused of cheating on a math exam." shame,"A month ago I turned in an English paper in late after I had already had a previous paper late and promised not to do it again." disgust,"Once when I was babysitting for some neighbors children I found roaches in ther bathroom. I had never seen a roach before but I called my mother to make sure that's what they were. And she came over and checked." joy,"When my last year's second semester results came through - I was ecstatic." anger,"When anybody wants to make me feel guilty. For example: I should do something for my mother, but things didn't go as she hoped. Then she threatens: I'll do it myself." fear,"I overturned in a canoe a few years back and I didn't know how to swim. Although I had a life-jacket on I still panicked." guilt,When I shouted at my mother when she was nervous and depressed. anger,"My sister came back home and reproached me for not having tidied up the house, although I had been working all morning and she had done nothing." joy,"The way this particular girl spoke, behaved, and reacted the first time I was introduced to her, I felt certain that something between us would materialize." fear,When I was going to take the practical exams. shame,When I failed the grade seven exams. anger,"I was on a farm with a few friends and during the talk I discovered that a friend of mine, was being betrayed by her boyfriend and a 3rd friend of ours." fear,"I was in about Grade 7, I came home from school one day and was told that my mother had skin cancer and would have to go to the hospital straight away." shame,"When I was hungry, I tried to take the money that my mother had saved up for something else." sadness,When I came back from my holidays. fear,"The same situation as with sadness. I was afraid about what my parents would further do to distroy my relationship." fear,"In college, I started a discussion with the teacher referring to a question I posed. I felt very unsure and I was afraid to fail." guilt,[ No response.] joy,"When my nephew was born. The birth was hard, it was a big baby." anger,"When I found out that my good friend and roommate did not pay the phone bill and electric bill like he promised and let me down." fear,Staying alone in a dark place. guilt,"When I laughed at a lame man walking down the road, it looked funny at the time but later I felt lousy. It was the same day that I had stolen some coins from my mother in the shop." anger,"When a boy who was drunk came into my room and misbehaved in the presence of my boyfriend." sadness,After my father died suddenly of a heart attack. sadness,"It was shocking news to me when I received a telegram from home telling me that my grandmother had passed away. I had to go home to attend the funeral but unfortunately I found that the burial had already taken place." sadness,"Recently, my sister-in-law's horse was poisoned by a plant and died. The horse was very obedient and exceptional with children." shame,"I ate very fattening food in front of my boyfriend who would like me to lose weight. I am supposedly pursuing a modelling career but first I must lose weight. I had been trying to diet." disgust,When a dog is left whining outside a shop. anger,"A friend of mine had promised to arrange me some tickets for a concert which I considered important. He could not get them the way he thought he would, so he gave up the whole thing." shame,When my friend had a child out of wedlock. sadness,[ Same as in anger.] fear,"I have done the teachers training course (B.Ed). During our training I was asked to handle the ninth standard class in a boys school. I was scared to face the class the first day." anger,"A whole crowd of us went to a folklore festival. The instructor of the cast where my boyfriend played was traveling with us. We decided to catch the train that leaved early in the morning because we had business on the following day. The instructor tried to get the upper hand and made us catch the train in spite of everything, all the time he made me angry." fear,"After a footballmatch I went home by car, a friend drove. I did not realize that he was drunk until we were in the car. He was madly racing. Several times we were in dangerous situations and I told him to be cautious, but he did not care." anger,"I had an implicit agreement with my sister about meeting her, however she had not understood the situation the same way so she did not turn up." shame,Insulted by somebody. sadness,"One Saturday morning I had got ready to go out swimming with my friends. Unfortunately the weather did not permit it, so we stayed indoors." disgust,"In the army, an acquaintance of mine tended to use his position to advance his own interests." sadness,"Several years ago my mother died. She had been ill for a long time, but nevertheless her death came unexpectedly. I did not and I still do not want to believe that it is true." disgust,When programmes on violence or pornography are shown on T.V. joy,"When I met again a great friend and talked a little while with him. When I see again another I miss." guilt,"I did not attend a social studies observation class for 1 whole week (I am a student trainee teacher). Anyway the other teachers thought this was okay because the teacher I was supposed to observe was not well liked. The teacher was in fact really nice to me - but I wanted to get out of teaching a hard topic he had given me." guilt,"Once, my friend and I went to the Tai 60 to cycle. My mother had told me not to go. Unfortunately I broke my pectoral girdle and had to go to hospital. When my mother came to see me I felt guilty as I had not listened to her and I had to soon sit for a public examination." disgust,When I see the acts and deeds of a blind drunk man. disgust,Bad temper of the serving lady in the students' dining hall. anger,When my sister broke my china tea set. disgust,"At a certain person's lack of cleanliness, at home and personally." joy,When I got the loan for my studies. joy,Reunion with my wife after a legal separation. anger,"Being refused to attend the neuropsychology lecture in the medical university." fear,"When my mother threatened me with thrushing me of the stairs, when I once more should make a comment." shame,"When I was 12 years old I was caught by the Ticket Collector when travelling without a ticket." disgust,When I found a bristle in the liver paste tube. fear,"I felt fear when my friend and I broke into an abandoned military base in Los Angeles this summer. I feared because I didn't want to be caught." joy,The high school entrance exam. disgust,"To go through the underground way at suburb station of LAPA. Poor people and the ambulants badly dressed up in a passage badly kept." joy,"I felt the greatest burst of joy when after being heavily ill for a long period, my father came back home." disgust,"I get disgusted with the inherent racist attitudes of my brother-in-law in putting down various ethnic groups and also my unwillingness to challenge him about these attitudes in order to keep the peace." sadness,"At rejection / being ignored by a loved person held in great esteem." guilt,When I fought with my friends. guilt,"By mistake I took a book from the library which was not supposed to be loaned out." fear,"When we were going to Nkhoma last Saturday the vehicle was moving very fast, so I feared we might crash since the road was too rough." disgust,"When my brother promised me money but he failed to fulfill the promise." shame,Finding out that I was deceived by my friend. guilt,A friend asked for help and I was not able to help. joy,"When I was finally able to return to a job that I enjoyed doing after several months absence (I was not needed during this time)." shame,"Making bloopers: e.g. telling something negative about a certain person, while that person is standing besides you and hears everything." guilt,"When something unpleasant happens to a friend or relative of yours and you are at the bottom of it." anger,"Out on a weekend with a group of people, everybody felt irritated because at night the music didn't stop in time. And at breakfast my boyfriend ran away because we didn't agree with him. I felt angry." disgust,"Grandfather lives in a home for the elderly. He always looks forward to visits. On his birthday (by coincidence it was on ""Mummy's day"") however, nobody went to see him. Is the own family more important than grandfather ?" guilt,Forced to fill in a questionnaire. joy,"Being reunited with my family after not having seen them for 5 years, at the airport. Sheer elation at getting through the ""paper work"" collecting bags and the anticipation of coming through the customs gate." joy,Had a nice letter from my close friend. fear,"I was afraid when my dog ran out through a crack in the fence when a train was coming." shame,"I bacame involved with a boy for a very brief moment not because I liked him but because I needed some sort of company. The consequences weren't as I expected and caused me much shame." sadness,"When a good friend with whom I had an intimate relationship made clear that he didn't want to continue in the same way. He choose his girlfriend (also a friend of mine)." shame,"Sitting on the bus seats supposed for disabled people, children and old people (by mistake)" guilt,"When I made an excuse to get out of participating in an important family occasion that I should not have missed." joy,"When it appeared that I was not pregnant when I was several weeks overtime." anger,"I was at the corner shop, which I patronise regularly I had only a $ 50 note and I purchased about $ 3 worth of goods that I really needed - the keeper made sarcastic remarks to others about people using him to cash notes." fear,The last time I felt it was when I was coming home late at night. sadness,"When my father was imprisoned for burning the house of his younger brother." shame,I was unaware that I had walked the streets in torn trousers. disgust,"The behaviour of a colleague of mine, which doesn't correspond to my norms of behaviour." fear,"At the age of 12 years I always had to take care of my little brother and sister I never could sleep then. I always imagined creepy men sneaking into our house." fear,Before the first examn. guilt,"I ate a Runeberg's cake, though I knew that I would immediately put on a kilo." sadness,My sister bkoke her leg. disgust,"I think I have hardly had a situation where I felt disgusted. Perhaps once, when I saw a big spider." fear,"When a man rang the doorbell and wanted to enter the house with violence. I was alone at home that moment." joy,"I am a school teacher. At a teacher-parent meeting I received a good deal of positive feed-back on my work both from the parents and through them from the pupils." fear,"I was sleeping alone in the house at night. A boy putting on a short only knocked at the window whispering that I should open for him." shame,[ No response.] sadness,[ No response.] joy,When I received a letter of acceptance to CAL. sadness,"A close friend travelled to another country. When I knew that he would only come back after many years, I felt very sad." fear,"In a cottage in a large forest, I was alone for a while in the dark." guilt,"My father had been alone for a long time because my mother and sister were on holiday. I had not seen him for a long time and when I finally called him I realized that he had been very sad about that." disgust,Some people not cueing in the dining hall. disgust,"I feel disgust at my neighbour, because she comes to our house with her child, who spoils our furniture." sadness,"The thought that I'll never sit at the school desk again, caused a deep grief at the end of my eleventh form." disgust,"When I tried to explain to my child as to why there were magazines wiith naked girls on them at the kiosk." shame,"When I failed one of the tests because I had not worked hard enough." anger,I haven't often felt this feeling. Once someone stole my garment. sadness,"My favourite horse died. We had tried our best to save him, but it was hopeless, he had to be shot." shame,"When a woman who I respected very much was made pregnant, unexpectedly by a man of a caliber I never expected." joy,"During my Summer vacations I planned a carnival for the community youth center with a few other volunteers. I was the head of the organizors and we spent over a month planning it. During this period we got to know and understood each other. We discovered each others potential and we planned many interesting things for the carnival. The day of the carnival everything was bright, the programmes went well and the attendants enjoyed it. I felt extremely excited about it." guilt,"I know that a certain person feels very lonely, and that she always looks forward to seeing me. However, often I am too busy to visit her, then I feel guilty." shame,"In a restaurant, I made the acquaintance of a boy who always told the same things in a very loud voice. I laughed and said to him that he always repeated the same things. Some time later I heard that he had undergone a complicated brain operation." disgust,"My room-mate was drunk, he vomited on the floor and fell face down on the vomit nearly choking himself to death. Then he fainted and so I called the first aid." guilt,"While at primary school, I did not let a friend ring a bell although he would have liked to do it. Afterwards I felt bad." fear,"One evening I saw the old guard-man I knew, change into something inhuman for about 5-10 seconds, this really frightened me." anger,"When it became clear that a man had used many people sexually and psychologically, despite the fact that many people looked up to him. I understood that one could not trust him and I was forced to hide this for a while." shame,"When I realized that I had a hole in my trousers after having gone for a walk." fear,"At primary school the teacher caught me cheating during a dictation." joy,Winning the local soccer championships this year was a great joy. guilt,"My friend had written a letter to me, the contents of which I misunderstood and I wrote back a very harsh letter to her. On realizing the blunder I had made, I felt like hiding my face in the sand." anger,When I failed my S.S.C exam. joy,"When I had to undergo the final examination of secondary school, I lived together with a girlfriend. We both were afraid to fail, but it appeard that we both had passed." shame,"I forgot to zip up my trousers, this was not noticed by anyone." anger,"I walked in on a teenage patient of mine (I work in a hospital) as he was going through my office drawers and he had removed money from my purse." guilt,"When I got low marks in the final year B.Sc exams, I felt guilty as I had not worked hard because I had been roaming around with my friends." disgust, The smell of garlic in rush-hour bus. joy,Hearing Fran Wilde introduce the Bill. sadness,"I had been caught red-handed having stolen some paw-paw. I was then taken the elders owning the paw-paws." anger,I was scolded by my mother for no reason. anger,"A friend suggested in a round-about way that the reason we were late for something was because of me, and that I'm often late. I know this was partly true, but felt it unjustified that particular time and I felt I couldn't do anything about it anyway (i.e. being late)." anger,"When my room-mate locked me out deliberately, before an exam due at 1400 hours." disgust,When I discovered that my mother had been involved in adultery. joy,"The day I got to know that I would get a shared dwelling with my boyfriend. My parents place was getting a little crowded with my growing bother wanting a room to himself. I first felt doubt, then joy, but also sadness. The feeling of joy was the strongest." fear,"One fears many things, for example one fears going to the dentist. but as far as I am concerned this feeling is connected with the examination session." disgust,"When people manipulate others through appearing better than what they really are." shame,"I guess I have often been ashamed after having talked badly of other people." anger,"When my father talks about our relatives and favours them, I feel angry." joy,When I passed the grade 7 exam. sadness,"When an uncle of mine, who was close to me, passed away after having had a stroke, before his first daughter could be named." joy,Finally being asked by someone to a banquet. disgust,"Old man in hospital, hollow-cheeked, only one half of his nose and glass-eye, rattling breath." guilt,[ When excuses are necessary and I get out of doing it myself.] joy,"When I am with friends and I do what pleases me this often happenes." shame,When my new jeans split while I was with the youth group. shame,"When I contacted a sexually transmitted disease and the lecturer came to know about it as it was he who treated me for it." shame,"When somebody I knew greeted me and started to talk with me and I didn't know, I couldn't remember who he was." anger,"Being a spokesman for the union, I got into a quarrel with a colleague who had been acting disloyally over a sustained period of time." joy,"When my girl and I decided to get back together after our separation." fear,"Fear overwhelmed me when right against the car I was in I saw another one, as if out of control of the driver." sadness,"When on Christmas day my grandmother died. I received the news when I was coming back from a party on the 24th at 5 am." disgust,"I was looking at a one-man show on television. He told very disgusting things so that I started to be disgusted with it. (Later on it proved that this was his intention)." guilt,"I felt guilty when I had taken the car keys and I had an accident but as my parents did not know who was to blame, they punished my brother because I had no driving licence and they thought it impossible that had driven the car." anger,"The breakup of a relationship. After the event I was upset/sad then angry maybe 2/3 weeks later." guilt,"When a crawling child got burnt because of my negligence to keep the child away from the fire." sadness,"Losing my job that I had for 4 summers. I took it personally and cried for 6 hours off and on. I wanted to hide away and did for a few days." fear,Having my luggage checked at Customs. anger,"When I heard that I was not to be provided with another pair of medical uniform." shame,I gave a wrong answer at school. shame,"When my co-resident opened the bathroom door while I was bathing inside." fear,"Once, before I had learnt to swim, I stepped on a slippery slope where there was a lot of moss and I slipped into the water. The water was very deep and I could not stand on my feet. I sank and had to use a lot of energy." shame,"I had promised to lend something to my mother-in-law and I forgot it a couple of times. When she asked me about it the third time, I was ashamed at my absent-mindedness." fear,"When my little sister was sick at home and I thought that she would die." guilt,"When my husband talked about the restrictions he will have to accept in his life to make our marriage work. I felt that it was directed at me as it was me who had demanded the changes. We were with a marriage counsellor then." disgust,Saw a scene in a movie implying incest as humorous. anger,"An utterance, which I had intended to be a joke, was taken as an offence. In my opinion, this was stupid, and I got angry." shame,"When I was young I was playing football near my parent's house and while playing I fell on the ground. At first I thought I was not seen by anybody, but when my mother laughed I felt very ashamed." fear,"My apartment has had three robberies in the last month. The guy upstairs just got robbed making it the fourth." fear,"As a child (i.e. 5-7) hiking in reasonably rugged bush and becoming lost for a duration of 5-7 hours." sadness,"I received a letter from my grandmother. She has obviusly suffered a lot from my grandfather's suffering health. She mentioned things she had gotten him and he would never use." anger,"My sister borrowed some LP records for a party. She had left them in the car on curatao. Due to the heat they were crooked, so I couldn't play them again." anger,Can't remember exact example. fear,"When I took blood from a patient for alcohol estimation and urine for some other examination, he told me that something bad would happen to me as he would play magic on me." joy,"Joining in a research group studying consumer's behaviour and helping the people in the shop with the sales." guilt,"Inventing a fictitious series of events, as a result of which I ended up in a conflict with my two closest friends." sadness,"After studying a lot for my H.S.C exams, I could not make it to the medical stream and I felt sad about this." disgust,"In a bus I fell sick and vomitted in a bag. The entire situation was disgusting in itself." fear,"I was studying in class at night. I was in Form II by then. There were rumours about an earthquake. That night dogs were chasing one another and passed through the window outside the classroom. Those who saw the dogs thought it was a lion and were terrified. Trying to run away the desks were dragged and there was a shaking movement. I thought it was an earthquake and jumped out of the window." shame,"I was ashamed when I was being introduced to the church congregation." disgust,"I went to eat at my aunt's house and she served macaroni with a horrible appearence. I felt the sensation above. The worst was that I was practically obliged to eat." shame,"Our teacher had invited us to lunch and once at the canteen we started introducing ourselves. Two of the boys showed a lot of interest in knowing personal details and then they started talking about some activities held in the college. I had little interest in those activities so I talked to another student sitting next to me as I was afraid that they would ask me questions on those activities." fear,Got ill. joy,"It was the weekend of my homecoming. I saw my sister for the first time in 3 months. She's my best friend and extremely close." sadness,"Finding out that my grandfather had died. He lived in England and I had not seen him for 10 years." guilt,"I ""picked up"" a girl and I thought that I had misused my position and authority over her as there did not seem to be any realistic possibility of continuing the relationship." shame,"I experienced long ago when I was sightseeing Bulgarians in a foreign language." sadness,When my grandmother died very suddenly without warning. joy,My friend told me he really likes me. joy,"When I look at people around and know that people who are stupid look stupid." fear,"I was sleeping when I heard the neighbours screaming, I peeped through the window and saw a thief trying to enter my neighbour's house." guilt,"I spend the night with my boyfriend, while there was also a friend of his. We all lay on the floor to sleep. When my boyfriend was fallen asleep the other boy and I started petting. After 15 minutes I felt miserable and awoke my boyfriend to tell him that." guilt,"When some housemen told me a young girl like you should not be allowed to lecture to consultants, I was too shy to argue against them." sadness,"I felt sadness when I notice that I'm not important for a determinate person. We do many things for a friend, and we see soon after, that he doesn't do anything for us, nor thinks of us." fear,"When I slipped on a glazed frost road and a car almost ran into me." joy,When I knew that my husband and I were going to have a child. shame,"I had a misunderstanding with my father and after some time I found that I had been wrong." anger,"When I was in F4 I played a basket-ball match against another school's team. One of their team members kicked a team-mate of mine so I kicked him back and we had a fight with each other." disgust,When I see pornographic films. anger,Quarrel in the family. joy,"I liked to see off my aunt (from Zaire) to the airport. That appeared to be impossible because I had to go to school. For long time I wasn't sure if I could accompany her. Two days before the departure they told me I was allowed to miss school." guilt,[ Can not think of anything just now.] anger,"My friend often played a joke on me and sometimes I thought that he was a nonsensical person. Once when we went to a friend's house he walked in first and shut the door firmly behind him. I felt that he did not respect me and moreover I was his friend so he should not have behaved like that. I was very angry (as it is I was in a bad mood then)." guilt,When I failed an exam I thought I could pass easily. shame,[ Never felt the emotion.] fear,DO NOT REMEMBER. joy,When I heard that I had achieved a place in form I. guilt,"While doing some calculation exercises, I neglected a part of it, though I had marked it as done. By chance, I was asked to demonstrate this very part on the blackboard." shame,"I had a test in the class and I had not adequately prepared myself. I didn't fare so well on the exam and I felt bad about it." shame,"I went to see a friend. There were other people, too, and everybody brought some present. I was the onlyone who brought nothing. My friend was very hospitable and did not show anything - although I knew how he felt." fear,[ I have not felt this emotion yet.] disgust,"My friends and I were sitting at a restaurant. We were talking and a few of them said awful things about women. I became disgusted by their narrow-mindedness." anger,When my girlfriend of two years told me it was all over. disgust,"When someone whom I trusted, disappointed me terribly." anger,"Last year I had a friend visiting me for several days. The only thing he did was sleeping, drinking, taking pills and thinking only about himself." shame,Soiled my short trousers with faeces. shame,"At the airport, eighty beer cans that I was carrying in a bag spread all around while I was going through the metal detector." shame,"It was a shameful moment when I heard that I had failed my Primary School leaving Certificate Exam in 1978. My girlfriend was there when the news was released." fear,"Motor failure on a boat outside Gottenburg when we were in heavy seas and the wind was strong. As we could not steer the boat we drifted towards the rocks. We did not succeed in attracting the attention of any passerby until 4 hours had elapsed." fear,"I wandered by mistake into the safety zone of a shooting range, and was shot at." shame,"Being caught by parents in a compromising situation with girlfriend." joy,"When I saw my name in the newspaper and I knew that I entered at the University." sadness,"I felt very sad when I was in Form three to notice that my friend Barley Jumbe, had lost very expensive new sports short trousers." shame,"I got into a tight pair of trousers and examined myself in the mirror. My back looked unpresentable and I felt ashamed at my wanting to wear those clothes that day. I quickly changed into another dress." shame,When I made an end on a relationship after three years. joy,"I felt happy when my mother borrowed me the car in order to let me go out alone for the first time." disgust,Seeing a pornographic movie in which animals were used. anger,"When I was dancing with a dame at a social, one of my friends who was interested in her came and took her away from me. I was really angry with him then." shame,"Making an unexpected talk with a professor in the canteen. This made me shy." sadness,"I have a very close friend who lives in another city and we have been writing to each other for a long time. The last time I went to her city, just to see her, I was disappointed to see how great the distance between us was." sadness,Finding out that life span in China is shorter than in the West. disgust,"On TV I saw a report about church in Amerika. A priest was shown who was performing miracles in front of the camera - I felt disgusted." joy,"My 21st birthday celebration, when I cut the cake and received the presents." disgust,When I saw an accident where the man lost his head. anger,"My girlfriend one day went out and promised to be back at 6.00 pm however she first arrived at 10.00 pm, without a message (we had to go out that evening)." sadness,"We had to take our cat to the vet for mercy killing (an injection)." shame,"When the brother-in-law of a girlfriend of mine found us in a bedroom with clothes and panties spread all over the place." fear,"Once sitting in the cinema, I became very anxious (watching a ""cold"" film). I do not know the reason." joy,"The inflammation of the ear of my child got cured and the doctor said that the ear was completely all right." sadness,"Watching a football game. This remindes me of the time when my father was still alive and when we watched football games on TV together." guilt,Years ago I ran away from home which disappointed my parents. anger,"I felt anger against a colleague of mine during a rehearsal in acting. He hadn't learnt the text of an opera act in the course of several months and thus making difficulties for the rest of my colleagues." disgust,"Finding out some people had been talking about me at my back. fear,"When I got to know that the friend I am closest to got engaged, and she was going away. I was overjoyed for her, but also felt frightened as I was very emotionally dependent on her. I did not know what I would do without her." shame,"On Christmas eve I went to a classmate's home with other classmates. The next morning when I came out of the toilet she said something and I did not understand what she was saying. When she pointed at my trousers I discovered that I had forgotten to zip them up. I rushed back to the toilet but by the time the others had guessed what had happened." sadness,"My father recently having a heart attack - spending a few months in hospital." joy,"I was told quite unexpectedly that one wanted me to become the vice-chairman of our student organisation. I was really surprised and joy was the first emotion I felt, though behind it there was worry - how shall I succeed ?" disgust,"Once I had to clean a lavatory which was obstructed. It was in a friend's country house and there was nobody there to help me." sadness,"I received a letter from some friends, who do not live in Madrid, telling me that they would not come on holiday. I had arranged everythiing for them." guilt,"My sister forgot to bring presents for my birthday, I was rude to her." guilt,"I had asked the Salvation Army to take away a piece of furniture of mine, but I forgot to cancel the agreement (a friend of mine took it) and I thereby caused the Salvation Army people some unnecessary work." sadness,When one's studies seem hopelessly difficult and uninteresting. sadness,When my mother was proved to suffer from a very serious disease. disgust,"A few days back, I walked on a heap of faeces while walking on the road. I got goose flesh because of this." guilt,"Missing lectures and avoiding university work for no reason when it had to be done." fear,"Climbing a mountain where the rocks were very loose. When we realized the danger, we were very high up, but still had a long climb ahead." joy,"When the bank let me borrow some money this winter, after my grant was spent." joy,"I went to fetch my girl-friend at the station. When the train arrived and I saw her descending and running up to me, I felt glad." disgust,"During a movie in which I saw the effect of white settlers in Africa." disgust,"At my father, when he yelled and accused my sister's friend (over the phone) of doing something he didn't do, or know anything about." fear,"I was river rafting in Nev. and our boat tipped over and I was sucked under in to some rocks and got stuck and all I could think was that I was going to die. And it was so quiet under the water it seemed like no one would care or remember." joy,I passed an exam that I was absolutely certain that I had failed. anger,"My brother accused me undeservedly before my parents. I was not guilty. He was misled by his wife." joy,When I won the first prize in a cross country race. joy,When I entered at the University. guilt,"I had been together with my boy-friend for two and a half years, when he got to know another girl and not even tried to conceal that from me. I drew my conclusions and left him - I also felt a bit guilty for what had happened." sadness,"When I found my baby whipped by my Auntie. I was really sad and up to this moment my sadness is still on." guilt,"At a moment of affect I offended a person very close to me. He had given me ground for that but it was a trifling in comparison with the way I insulted him. A moment later I felt a sense of guilt." guilt,"I couldn't fulfill a request of a girlfriend of mine, though I categorically promised her and I believed there wouldn't be any hindrance. It was partly for objective reasons but also because I couldn't organize myself." anger,"I wrote an assignment and was given less marks than a friend with whom I had previously discussed the assignment." shame,"When I do not succeed in making myself clear to other people. When they do not understand what I say." shame,Failing in the English language exam. anger,Listening to long speech of the party leaders wasting my time. disgust,"When I noticed that a nice person was being exploited economically." disgust,"When people are eating unsavoury (smacking, belching, speaking with food in their mouth, etc.)." shame,"When somebody suddenly said something (about me) at a wrong moment and I didn't agree (at that exact moment I was needing an extremely positive word)." disgust,"When I saw several people washing their car with water from a drain." sadness,"My dog, whom I had had for eleven years, died. I watched his soporification." sadness,"I felt sad when I heard that my cousin had passed away just suddenly." shame,"[ I do not remember when I last felf ashamed. I do not usually feel ashamed of what I do.]" joy,I found myself a place after looking for one for a long time. shame,"Once my presentation was the worst among my classmates as I had not prepared it well and had not seen it as important. My presentation was so confused that it clearly showed my poor preparation." fear,"The shooting started and we all lay down to protect ourselves from the flying bullets. This incident occured on our way to Feira, during the Zambia army patrols in the Rhodesia war." joy,"I had a dream : I had a very close friend who had several stone houses in the New Territories (villages) but they did not have much furniture. He took me to see his fields (I had never seen them before) and there were several inches of clear water on which the sunshine was reflected. I wanted to sit among the short green plants in the fields but was afraid of treading the plants to death. My friend said ""They will not die"" and I sat down happily and my trousers did not get wet." fear,Going out alone in the dark. joy,"Last night I had a chat with a fellow student. I had known her for about half a year, and for the first time we were speaking ""the same language""- meaning an inspiring discussion and encounter." guilt,"Once I bought my sister a pair of sports shoes as she was going to join an athletic meet. However the shoes were a little big and had a few flaws. She muttered all the way and blamed me for having wasted her money anf I felt guilty." sadness,"When my best friend died, at the age of 16." guilt,"I had shouted at my younger brother and he was always afraid when I called out loudly." sadness,"I wrote a letter to my boyfriend but he couldn't answer it in time so as a defence mechanism I just found that I felt so sad about it and couldn't talk to anyone." anger,"When I was house-hunting: Another person got a flat that I would have liked, too, because he heaped a floot of words on the letter." sadness,"My son lives in the country. I feel sadness when I see mothers having walks with their children." joy,"When I was at school, no one thought I could pass my MCE so at the end of the year my name was announced on the radio that I had passed. I was the happiest person." joy,In summer when I was sailing with friends in Greece I felt joy. fear,"I was sitting on an electric swing, suddenly the machine went out of order while I was still in the upward position." joy,"The day I was told that I had been accepted as a student of economics." fear,When I was attacked by a teenage boy and had my wallet stolen. sadness,"When a friend of mine died in a hiking accident. I was not present there and only got the news later." disgust,To be kissed by soembody I didn't expect to. joy,"I met my present boyfriend on a boat trip to England. We had said that we would call each other when we got back to Sweden (we were not going to the same town in England). As soon as I walked in he called from England as he could not wait till he came home." joy,When a friend of me came for an unexpected visit. shame,"When I was a child it was found out that I had taken off my clothes outdoors. It was summer and my friend and I were out in the woods. It had felt exciting at that time. My parents discovered that my trousers were back to front and I felt ashamed." shame,"Once I had torn a few pages off a library book and I felt ashamed at this." joy,I felt joy when my two twin sisters were born. shame,Not chosen for all English classes. guilt,"During a holiday in East-Germany I got aquainted with a boy who lived there. We started writing, but I only wrote once. I felt ashamed because I probably was one of his sparse contacts with western Europe." sadness,"A young, close relative of mine died, leaving behind a baby a few months old." anger,"I felt unfairly treated at an airport, being told to use a different counter (for domestic traffic only)." anger,"My mother had for some time been trying to separate me from a good friend who, she thought, was not good company for me. Finally, at breakfast one day, we had an argument and I tried to defend my friend." guilt,"I had to decline an appointment which had been very important for the other person. For this reason we even got into trouble." anger,"I had gone on a vacation and my mother left home without leaving me any thing - money to come back to school." anger,"I was very angry one day when my husband ignored me and slept on a separate bed. He had no reasons to doubt me or to neglect me and I had never imagined that he could do such a thing." sadness,"We are several friends but our characters are very different and we inevitably split in the two extremes. It is sad that I myself don't know what to do, I try not to hurt either of the ""parties"" because there are conflicts to which one I should belong." guilt,Made a mistake at work. shame,When I got 1/2 out of 15 in Abnormal Psychology I felt ashamed. fear,"This was when I was being followed home every day from the campus, by a stranger. He would follow me to the campus and then sit outside my class. If I was not there he would ask my friends as to where I was. He was a dark, ominous looking person and I was terrified of him as I did not know his intentions. I reported him to the security officer, who turned him over to the police. I was even more petrified then." fear,"Before knowing my marks I was not sure that I wanted to go to that class." anger,"I got into an argument with a photographer for whom I had to pose twelve times, over a period of four weeks, before I could get a snap of mine. Every time the film was processed my snap did not come out although the others did." joy,Passed an exam by 2 points. shame,"I put on a lot of weight in a few months and every time I met someone I knew would avoid them, usually by hiding because my self image was low and I was ashamed of what I had done to myself." joy,When I gave birth to a healthy boy. fear,"On Christmas eve,1984, I had just finished the exams and was afraid as the results of one of my major subjects had been very unsatisfactory. I thought that I had only a 50% chance of passing. Even if I failed this subject I would not need to repeat. However I liked this subject very much and my results were bad because of my lazyness. If I was forced to change to a minor in this subject I would be very unwilling." joy,"To have a friend who I didn't see for months, and under the circumstances that I met him made me feel happy, and perhaps because it has been one of the good things that I learned with this friend." guilt,"We had promised, with a friend of mine, to take our friends to a restaurant and after having looked for a place for hours without finding one, and not being helped by the others we had to give up the idea." joy,"When the person that I was very fond of, returned to me." joy,"Right before I went to a concert with my last boyfriend he told me that although he told me he was going to take me to the concert, he didn't want to see me anymore. After that we stayed overnight and I said ""well, when he leaves me I will be ruined for awhile, but for now we're together."" I woke up in his arms and it was the happiest moment of my life." anger,"When a relative, who had come to our place, created untidyness and dirtyness." fear,Movement in bush late at night while camping. fear,"I felt something close to that when I saw that there was a man on the terrace of the flat." joy,You told me psychology can help people to be happier. sadness,When I was told that a good friend was seriously ill. guilt,"[ When I break someone's things out of carelessness, or do something to make others feel unhappy or hurt the self-esteem / self-confidence of others, especially if they happen to be friends or family members.]" joy,"One of the greatest joiy was when I succeded in acquiring a motorcycle through my own efforts." joy,"I was in the living room at home with an ex-boyfriend, it was nearly a year that we had separated, during the talk he began to remember our courting and gave me a long kiss." guilt,"As the only person in my family into academics, I ought to have looked after my younger (and only) sister better, with respect to her education and life experiences." disgust,"One night I saw a man being knocked down by two other men. The victim was kicked against his head." guilt,I lost my self-control and raised my voice at a child. shame,"I saw a terrible accident happen and I laughed a lot of the fright and because I was nervous." disgust,"I felt disgust with a lady teacher who used to nag, to mock, to interrupt everyone of my fellow students each time we had a class with her in our first year." disgust,Finding out that my best friend was deceiving me. sadness,"At the funeral of a friend about 20 years old, who was killed in a hit-and-run motorcycle accident." anger,When I got a low grade in an administration course. sadness,Saw poverty in the countryside. shame,One day in the intimity with my girlfriend I had an ejaculation. disgust,Some students talking when other people are having a nap. fear,"I felt fear some months ago of losing the person whom I loved when she said to me that she didn't love me." disgust,"From the cigarette smoke. Usually I feel disgust from it when I am in a restaurant." joy,"This happened a year when I was having a hard time, I got admission to do research despite obstacles in the procedure of admission." fear,"I was spending my summer holidays in a village. My friend and I were coming back from a discotheque at night and we heard a noise from an alley. We were very scared and we got into my friend's house. A moment later, an unknown car picked up a person from this alley." fear,"I was on a trip to Phillipines during Summer and I was staying in a hotel. The room I was staying in was very silent and had very dim lights. The last night I felt frightened and lay awake - I could hear some sounds around me and dared not open my eyes - I waited for dawn." guilt,"My mother told me that the enveloppes that I had been tearing (I had torn the stamps away) in good faith had been the first-day enveloppes which my father had collected as a young man." joy,Getting into this university to do medicine. guilt,"I was talking to my mom on the phone and she told me that she had just gotten an award that day in front of all these people and she asked me if I wanted her to send me the article in the temple newsletter to me. I said no very quickly and felt guilty for not being more interested and hurting her feelings." joy,Finished a difficult midterm. disgust,"When a boy put a handful of cooked potatoes down my dress and there was no water to clean up." disgust,"When I red a report in the magazine VESA about an Iranian telling what she had lived in the prisons in Iran. I felt disgust about that people." guilt,"A friend of mine said in a group that she felt lonely and withdrawn from everyone because of mental deficiency." guilt,"When I was in the puberty I smashed the favourite toy of my little brother because of a fit of rage." fear,"I had a dream about my fiancTe leaving me and making an end to our relation." disgust,When a close friend wilfully cheated me. fear,"Going to a disco by myself to wait for some friends. We had separated and hadn't planned where to meet. I wasn't sure if they were even going to this place so I felt very conscious of being alone." disgust,Saw an arrogant girl walking pass by. sadness,The loss of the woman who loved me most till today. joy,"When I received the acceptance form for the second year at university." disgust,"One of my best friends was found lying flat on the road because he was drunk and was taken by the police and put in a cell. I went to see him the following morning, the place was really a mess and was smelling badly. I didn't like it." shame,"Having finally to admit I was wrong, after having denied it for a long time." anger,A murder. guilt,"I took Pharmacology books from my friend's desk without permission and I was found guilty." fear,"Suddenly found out that I was the lasr one to leave the anatomy room." anger,"I experienced this when one of my friends reported to the Headmaster that I had gone out for beer, whilst the information was not true at all. So I had to fight the friend before the Headmaster." anger,During the short period of my unemployment about six years back. disgust,A rich man expressing disgust towards an alcoholic. shame,"I took the tram without paying. There were many people around me when I was caught by a controller. I felt ashamed but also angry." fear,"I wanted to get in contact with a girl I loved, but I was afraid she would refuse me." fear,Car accident in the middle of the night. anger,"While at school I had to write an essay for doing something wrong that I didn't do. I wrote the essay about how I was mistreated and got Saturday morning detention along with a few other kids, but they didn't show up." sadness,When I had to leave my mother and my sister after a week's visit. sadness,"When my dog died. I had reared it for nearly three years. It had been ill for several days and had not eaten anything. One morning I found it dead." fear,"I got a very nasty electrical shock when I was tampering with some electrical applainces." sadness,To buy a car and didn't like the business and the car. disgust,"They asked me to throw the rubbish into a dustbin which had some awful liquid accumulated at the bottom." shame,"When I was a child, I thought that I had to be ashamed when asking and doing certain forbidden things." guilt,"Accidentally dropped a friends camera flash, so that it was broken." guilt,"When I had had the possibility to act or to do certain activity better but I had not done it because of reluctance or carelessness." disgust,"The carterer refused to give me sugar to add to my tea saying that there was no sugar whilst it was there, so I left the cafe disgusted without taking the tea." anger,When they changed my office to another room without my agreement. sadness,"My girlfriend wanted to breakup for an indefinite amt. of time. She said that she couldn't commit herself fully to the relationship without going out with other people. I was her first boyfriend." sadness,"We got news that my (almost) 21 years old brother died while visiting Europe of a cerebral hemorhage. It finally hit me an hour after we saw his corpse in the coffin. It felt like a door between himself and everything had closed and locked forever." guilt,Telling my parents that I did not get into a good university. shame,"When I had to walk home from the bus-stop in a skirt that I had soiled. It drew a lot of attention and they all seemed to want to see the blood stains." joy,"When I began to date a boy with whom I am till now. This was 16 months ago." anger,"When I was dismissed unjustly from the firm where I worked, because there where persons that didn't have problems, and wouldn't miss in the jobs they occupied if they were dismissed." disgust,"When I was a child, one day while playing, I fell up to my waist in mud." anger,"I went to the dining hall and found that the cooks were cleaning the plates and there was no food for me, and the blue birds (security guards) were busy eating the food that was supposed to be for me." disgust,Seeing a pornographic film when looking for a place to live. anger,"Towards wife's laziness in not performing her usual duties because of television watching." sadness,"I dreamt of my father's death while I was at secondary school. I was screaming at the top of my voice and was woken up by my friend. That day I was really sad." joy,Always when I meet the person I love. disgust,"Disgust is a feeling that I have never experienced with peoplie but , on the other hand, it has been with repulsive animals, i;e snakes on T.V." fear,"I was skiing with friends and they wanted to ski-jump. I did not want to be left behind, so I braced myself and followed them." disgust,"When somebody who had been a bully and had acted cruelly to others who were unable to defend themselves was taken down a few notches and he began to grovel. I was disgusted with his grovelling and the manner in which he had treated others." guilt,"When I lied to my mum, who later came to know that what I had been teling her was false." anger,"Someone signed up for a workshift at the co-op where I live and she did not want to work the switchboard. I became very angry. She had mentioned earlier that she wanted and needed the workshift to me so I did not sign up." disgust,"A friend prepared a soup with chicken heads and invited me to eat it. I saw the eyes staring at me and the tongues hanging out of the bills. I was so disgusted that I felt nausea and had to leave the room." shame,"I am troubled by hair growing in my neck. I was troubled by this for a long time and was much ashamed when someone brought his/her hands close to my face." guilt,"I live with my boyfriend, we have a close relationship, I fell in love with another man." anger,Insulted for no reason. shame,"On own reading book. Recall came to mind of slight sexual exploitation of a female (years ago) i.e. had her on even for sexual motives." shame,"A friend of mine had said something about not liking to come to my place just before coming to my place. In the meanwhile I got to learn about this from another friend of mine and when she arrived at my place I really treated her badly. I was later ashamed of the way I had treated someone when the person was at my place." shame,"When a close friend entrusted me with a secret and I let the cat out of the bag." sadness,"When I missed my train this morning, I felt sad for some time." shame,My inability to assert myself positively in a group. guilt,"I lost a conference because I hadn't got in touch with a certain person to inform her that I would go with her. I thought she knew what I wanted." shame,"Once I spoke without thinking very much - it was quite a nonsense." anger,"In a course I thought that I deserved good marks but I only got ordinary marks with no justification as to why I was given these marks." disgust,When a skunk invaded camp. disgust,Doing this pointless questionnaire. shame,Failing an examn. joy,"The day I got a telegram telling me that I had been selected for a B.A at UNZA. I felt happy because I had not expected to be selected." fear,Before the examn. disgust,"I have a horror of spiders and snakes. On a walk through the wood I saw the body of a slow-worm (without the head)." joy,When I get a hug from someone I love. anger,"When I was accused of having planned my friend's outing at secondary school (boarding) as we were not allowed to go out." guilt,"In a playground I was playing at the seesaw with a little niece. I wanted to stop but nobody came to help me. When I got off, all alone the seesaw fell down with a big smash. My niece got hurt above her eye. Now there is a scar." anger,Insulted by some stupid people. disgust,"I felt disgust with a man I had trusted and respected, to whose problems I had always shown deep understanding." disgust,"The repression of rioting and non-rioting ""Blacks"" in South Africa by the police of that ""Democracy""." anger,"I felt anger at my roommate due to his habit of leaving dirty dishes in the sink and generally not cleaning after himself." disgust,"Someone, who was sitting very close to me, was smoknig in the compartment of an air conditioned mini-bus." disgust,"There is a girl at my work that doesn't take care much of her hygiene she comes always with her hair oiled, a not very agreable smell, and a bad appearance. Beside this she tries to be nice." shame,"When I was little and didn't own up to placing a lolly on the varnish, this pulled it all off and I didn't admit my guilt." guilt,"Once I was not able to give a relative, who was in a critical period, a helping hand. Whenever I think about it I feel guilty for letting down the person who trusted me to give him a helping hand." guilt,"Before going to school I usually take something to eat right at school and this time I took Father's money without him knowing it. I felt guilty and I returned the money." joy,"When I was offered a high position of trust, which I later accepted." guilt,"When I think that I do not study enough. After the weekend I think that I should have been able to have accomplished something during that time." disgust,"I detested my father who was a drunkard. He would rave, threaten and blame my mother and me. He finally drove us away from home." disgust,[ Never experienced.] anger,"Recently when my sister, who is four years younger than me and very spoiled, shouted at my mother for no apparent reason . The heart-broken expression on my mother's face made me feel very angry." fear,"When I left a carnaval ball at 4 o'clock a.m. I was alone in a foreign city and I had to go back home, when a guy appeared and tried to ""catch me""." disgust,"I broke an egg, with which there was something wrong, into a little cup. There was a thick white ""wad"" in it. I tried to take it out and throw it in the sink." anger,"It was quite recently, at the football match between the national teams of Bulgaria and France. I felt strong anger with the Scottish referee who ran the match quite partially." fear,"Small car accident. Black ice on the road - cars in front of us started zig-zagging and so did we. Car in front did a 180¦ turn we followed and ended up in a gully." disgust,"When thieves broke into our house, I was disgusted by their behaviour. They did not find anything so they broke things like the windows, glasses etc." shame,"There was a time when my room looked terribly untidy; just at that time my aunt came to see me; fortunately I could prevent her from entering the room." anger,"I came out of the house at 7:20 am Monday morning getting ready t go to school and fight for a parking when I saw my car had a flat tire." disgust,"With the N.Z. Rugby Union wanting to send the All Blacks to South Africa." sadness,"When I came to know that a girl I was fond of already had a boyfriend." joy,"When I got myself the kind of girlfriend I had been hunting for a long time." sadness,I couldn't be with a girl on whom I was very keen. joy,"New year's eve 1983/1984, I met my girlfriend. We stood on the steps outside her parents home and I kissed her for the first time." sadness,"At the beginning of the year I moved to a new city - I felt sad as I had to leave many friends and family members behind." disgust,"I saw a septic, smelling wound." joy,"A person with whom I had been on bad terms, gave me a present. We became reconciled." disgust,"I was disgusted when my brother was arrested because of stealing money." shame,"I was ashamed when I got the lowest result (mark) in class. All the same I didn't worry too much because I knew I would have got much better if I had read enough." sadness,"The person whom I liked most left me for a friend of mine, after several months of mutual help and a profound knowledge of each other." anger,"There was a lot of irritation between me and a person who lives in the same house where I live. Suddenly it became too much for me and I accused him of several things." disgust,"On a trip to Santander a child sitting beside me fell ill and started to vomit, seeing this made me feel very bad." joy,"Yesterday when I received a B on a history midterm. I felt overjoyed after having received C's previously." sadness,"Finding out about the university does not have enough foreign currency to buy the yournals in your reference list." disgust,"A friend of mine remembered me when she needed me and did not even think about me when she did not need me." guilt,"When once my mother asked me to do some work for her at home because she was busy and moreover this work was to be done by a man. But it remained undone." sadness,After my father's death. joy,"When we took out an 84 year old woman for the evening and had hamburgers. She described the evening out as her happiest night out in 20 years." disgust,Cueing in the students dining hall. anger,"The juniors in our dormitory at school started to complain and make a lot of noise about the duties assigned to them by the prefect who was my class-mate and was very cool and dull." shame,"I came home from a party rather drunk. I said things I would never have said normally. Next morning I was terribly ashamed about what I had said." anger,"When I was beaten up by thieves on behalf of some friends of mine as they thought that I had a lot of money and would not part with a few coins for their drinks." guilt,When I broke something and a friend of mine was blamed. shame,"Talking about a person's unattractiveness, not realizing that the person was listening." anger,"My younger brother and I had been fighting over the TV/Video. He kept on turning it on and off every 2 seconds and was not listening to my authority and was being cheeky. We fought and I ended up in tears - he'd won." anger,"I was annoyed when a person higher up asked me why a particular job was not done, it was not my job to do it. " anger,Being sexually assulted on a bus. anger,"I wanted to borrow lecture notes from a friend and he did not lend me them." guilt,"As I could not be home before midnight I called home at 11.30 and asked them to leave the door open so that I could get in. I actually woke up the whole family by calling them so late. My mother could not go back to sleep, besides she had a conference the next day and really needed to sleep." shame,"I told evil lies about a close friend of mine. I was evil in order to sound jolly, to charm a person whom I wanted to impress. I sold my friend, I was despicable." sadness,"I lost my grandfather whom I loved very much. I had not known that he had been ill for a very time, when I received this message he was already dead." fear,"When I was ten I got shut in the school with a friend. I had to jump out of a window and cross a beam 10 metres high." anger,"My father called me (behind my mother's back) and told me that my mother disapproved my behavior in the weekend. However, he didn't tell me the details and left me with unanswered questions." fear,"When I have to go in for an exam and the examinor is a person with a whimsical character and unsteady requirements." joy,"When I came across an old friend whom I had not seen for a very long time." sadness,When a class-mate died. fear,I was afraid that I would fail an examination. sadness,When my dog died. guilt,"We had had a party the night before and we still had some liquors left the morning after. I went to the kitchen pretending to prepare some tea and was caught by my fiancee pouring some rum down my throat." sadness,"I was sad when my MCE grades were out. I had gone for a football match a mile away from home. The mail found me there. I was disappointed and didn't play the other half of the match." anger,"I received a poor grade on a midterm even though I got all the right answers and knew the material. I went to the TA to try to raise my grade and he wouldn't do it." guilt,"When I told my uncle a false story - that people had stolen the books from my room and I demanded money from him. When he found out the truth I was in trouble." joy,My 3 children - each top his class in the final exams 1984. fear,I confronted a bigger person than I and almost got into a fight. fear,"I was driving and a deer suddenly appeared in front of the car when there was a lot of traffic behind me." fear,"The day I was nearly stabbed to death by ruffians who wanted to take my money. I refused to give them any money and they started running after me, I ran into somebody else's house to save myself." guilt,Telling white lies. guilt,"I always feel guilty when I see my mother sad or fed up with life. I really dont know the reason." joy,Made a wonderful driend who understands me. shame,"At an exam in pharmacology I tried to prompt a coleague (she asked me something) and the assistant professor made me a sharp remark." disgust,"I thought that the guy I had been associating with for over a year went out 2 or 3 times with a high school girl whom he claimed not to like." sadness,[ No response.] guilt,"My brother wanted money but I refused to give it to him, two days later he stole it from my father." sadness,"I hadn't been at my parent's place for a long time. When I went to visit them I had high expectations, but when I was there it was very different from what I expected." joy,"At a success of mine, at a real achievement." disgust,"One day I was going through the street door of my house, when a man asked me for a doctor. He then showed me his genitals and asked me to cure him myself." sadness,When my girlfriend left me. shame,"When I overtook a car on the mainroad, misjudging the distance of an oncoming car and this resulted in tooting and flashing from the other driver (we could have collided), and I had an acquaintance in the car with me." disgust,"I felt disgusted at the environment while getting back to my student lodging. I did not see anything in the suburb which had been planned by taking people's comfort into account." disgust,"The time I went to see one of my girlfriends at Area 18 I found that she was not there but in the room she was sleeping, in the same room there were some women visitors with children so the room was smelling very badly with some faeces and urine in it so I didn't stay any longer." disgust,"I felt disgusted when I was in a helpless position at the loss of my fiancee." shame,"I borrowed a gold bracelet without the girl's knowledge. I had it for so long I had to keep it. To this day I feel ashamed at myself for having it. I never wear the thing anymore." joy,Spontaneous picnic with sister and friend and children - great. anger,"When my friend promised that she would come to my place, and did not turn up - I was annoyed at her." joy,"When I was able to buy my new car, after lots of problems." disgust,Saw my brother-in-law insulting my sister. disgust,"I had a very good friend (boy) and I thought I could rely on him but he behaved badly with a girl who used to trust us completely." disgust,Our boarder burping after meals ! sadness,When my grandmother died. shame,"[ I am quite shameless, not applicable.]" guilt,"Arguing with my younger cousin. She is rather a nuisance but I felt sorry." shame,"When as an 8 year old, I wet myself in school." guilt,"When I was late for work and told my boss that it was due to transport problem, whereas the truth was that I had woken up late. I thus cheated my boss." shame,"When I first failed my standard 8 exams for the first attempt for Form I selection." sadness,"I failed a subject despite the fact that I had studied quite a lot for it." disgust,"In a certain book I read about cruelties and violence in prison and souteneur circles; I felt especially disgusted when I read detailed descriptions of physical and mental torture of less powerful people." joy,My last genetices midterm - a decent grade. disgust,"I had this feeling when I met a girl, not that she was dirty but she was to ""fresh"", dump and childish." guilt,"Not keeping a promise of delivering materials of great importance to the receiver." anger,I learned that my girlfriend had been unjustly missed from work. anger,Being slandered by friends. joy,"At an important moment in a volleyball game we made a point and by this we won a set from a much stronger competitor." anger,"When I was accused of ""bitching"" about best friend." shame,"This morning I spent a lot of time on my toilet and missed the train to the university. My mother told me that I spent more time than a woman on my toilet. I felt a mixed emotion of shame and anger." fear,"I did not do well in one of the subjects last term. I was afraid that I would fail. My result was a grade D, though it was not good I still passed. I felt more comfortable then. " sadness,"Hearing about a friend back home that had to have his stomach pumped because he had overdosed on pills." shame,"I felt ashamed when my parents found out that I had deceived them." joy,"I met my girlfriend on the way and she joyfully welcomed me on the way home." disgust,"I made friends with a classmate whose behaviour I did not like - he tried to flatter other people and did not respect me." fear,"After listening to ghost stories with my classmates I had to back alone to the hostel at night. I had to walk through a long and quiet road and I was scared of meeting a ghost." sadness,When my grandfather died. sadness,"I was very sad when I heard about the death of my teacher who taught me in Standard 8." shame,Shame of being reprehended. fear,"I was alone at home and I could hear odd noises coming from above our bedroom. I knew that nobody lived there since it was an office. I got frightened (later I was given a ""natural"" explanation)." fear,Going to take my driving test. sadness,When the man I loved decided to leave me forever. joy,Winning a game after a long time of losing. disgust,"Reading about executions and massacres which happened during World War II, I felt disgust towards those who did it." anger,Insulted by disgusting people. shame,"When I was a child I had to recite a poem in a show at the end of the term." guilt,When I demand too much from my friends. shame,My boat didn't win a race which we were favored to win. joy,"I was ""best man"" at my brother's wedding a year ago." fear,"When I think of death - not my own but that of my parents, brothers and sisters." guilt,"I bumped my dad's car in a lamp post. He was not at home then, neither was he home when I left for the campus. I did not tell him about the accident and I will never tell him." joy,"It was when I was allowed to take my wife away from her parents after being refused for three times on grounds that she should first write her examination." disgust,"Someone told me a story of Amnesty International: a boy was killed and his head was put in the litter of his girlfriend. It looked as if she was pregnant, then she died. It is disgusting, I can hardly write it down." guilt,"We always made a lot of noise during a certain lecture. This may have been because we did not respect the lecturer. Finaly, the lecturer could not tolerate it and he scolded us angrily and pointed out our misbehaviour." disgust,"I stayed at the Coast for a weekend with friends. My brother came to drive me home, but was rude, and in a hurry to rejoin his friends. I was embarrassed because the family involved was extremely nice, and hospitable to him." shame,Lying to my grandparents about visiting my boyfriend in Chico. shame,When I considered writing a load of crap for this emotion. fear,"I was sitting on the bus coming back from school. A man from nearly forty years sat beside me. After a while I looked at him and saw that he was looking at me with opened throusers and holding his penis." shame,"A children's film in which I played a clown, with spotlights, cameras and the director who demanded jumps and guffaws." sadness,When the mother of a good friend of mine died. shame,When money was stolen from my pocket. anger,"I suffer from a disease of my muscles. Therefore, I am only able to attend lectures for half a day. So, sometimes I miss obligatory lectures. However, the teachers do not take into account my disease, and punish me with detention work, resulting in an overload." sadness,"At my grandfather's funeral - My grandparents virtually raised me as my mother was a solo-parent and had to work." fear,"I was in the house at night and I heard a hyena crying outside. It cried for almost an hour and I feared it might break the window and enter inside the house." guilt,"When I reproached my friend because I was myself low-spirited and disappointed." disgust,"I was travelling, we were 15 person, one of them I met at the travel and didn't like her. One night I was asleep while she and her friends were talking too loud in the kitchen. I got up to ask for silence and since that day I felt constant disgust for her." anger,"During a lecture, a colleague who did not know anything about the subject, got on my nerves asking silly questions." anger,"My ex-boyfriend began to date my best friend. After they had been seeing each other, I found out that he had been sleeping with another girl, without my friend knowing, I told my friend what he had been doing behind her back." guilt,Thinking about other things in a lecture. fear,"When thieves broke into my house at night and held my wife and me on gun-point for at least ten minutes and took away a lot of property." anger,"At school when I had a shouting argument with a friend over my ability to carry out a particular duty in the correct way without harming her." sadness,"One night my father suddenly suffered from a heart attack which lead to breathing difficulties." shame,Getting very low marks in mathematics. joy,Passing my driver's examination (after two failures). fear,"I was at the seaside and my brother disappeared for a couple of hours." shame,"One day I was with my girlfriend and other friends were behind us, I fell down because the place was slippery and I really felt ashamed." sadness,"I heard that a former superior of mine had died, I was later at home home reading about it in the newspaper and I thought of our interaction and how it was no longer possible. The limited scope of human life is sad." anger,"Angry with my brother, who was making fun of me, teasing me." joy,For instance when a girl is interested in me and likes me. shame,"When, as an adult I have been caught lying or behaving badly." joy,When a person that I like very much got near to me. disgust,"Someone stole a K10 note and the teacher thought that it was me when I was not responsible for the theft." fear,"At the age of 16 I had gone to see a film in a nearby village, about 8 kms from my home. I started walking as there was no bus. I had to cross hills and as it was dark I could not identify the path. Half way through it started raining and as there was no shelter I ran four kms to reach home." shame,"I insulted the girl to whom I had proposed when she turned me down." joy,My being admitted to UNZA. sadness,"I have been thinking of changing my major for a few months. My original major was Chinese language and it blocks my way. I have to face many problems at the sametime and I do not know what is real and virtuous. I do not know if I am not interested in Chinese or if there are other factors which make me sad. I am not very clear on what I can do for the study of Communication and Journalism. I am not clear about what I can do. What are the limitations ? I hesitate but I feel more adjusted now." guilt,"This feeling of guilt really applies to moral/religious views. I (being Catholic) went against what I was brought up to believe in and had a sexual relationship with my boyfriend. Many months later, when I was doing some deeper self analysis I began to feel guilty and realized that I had gone against what I wanted for myself and my future." joy,When passing the final examinations for social worker. sadness,When my mother left for Kenya. guilt,"I felt guilty after getting really angry with a friend and having an argument. I was being stubborn and proud, and selfish, because my friend let me down, through no fault of her own." fear,"I watched a very terrfying film in LT2. This film really pushed my heart out of my body and I was forced to go out before the second reel ended." sadness,My father gave money to my brother but not to me. sadness,"I was in a car accident on the way back from a weekend rowing regatta we'd won. 5 others were in the car. I thought I'd never be able to row again." joy,"I felt glad to live again when I went to a meeting about the ""Knowledge"". There are 4 techniques of meditation that connect you with the essence of the human being." shame,"When I did poorly on a test and I knew that there wasn't an excuse for not doing better. Made mistakes I could not believe I made." joy,"When I finished my C.S. Project I was overjoyed. I felt relieved because it was due the next day and I was tired of looking at it." guilt,"My mother always took my side. That brought about quarrels with my father. I knew she didn't like that and I felt very sorry for that." guilt,"My mother misunderstood me and prevented me from doing something. In return I did not talk to her for a few days, only later on I realized that what she had done had been for my good." anger,"Last week I had planned to play tennis and had booked a tennis court. However when I arrived at the university gym the clerk told me that the court was being used for lessons." sadness,"I was in a hopeless situation in a dirty place. No study, no work, only loneliness." shame,"When I was unable to respond to a welcome in my indigenous language of Maori at an important function where I was the only woman in the group and it was expected of me." joy,"It was August 30th when I heard on the radio that I passed my M.C.E. exams and I was really happy and joyous because of the event." fear,[ Never.] anger,An unjust calumny concerning me. shame,"I felt shame when I was asked by my cousin that I promised to buy her a birthday present but I didn't buy it for her in front of friends." sadness,When I was told that my uncle had passed away. shame,"My girl-friend and I live in one flat with another couple. We get along very well and usually we share everything. Once we two were sitting in our room and eating a cake when the others came in." anger,"I was annoyed this particular day as it seemad that the odds were not in my favour. My grandfather added fuel to the fire, when I had an important appointment so I unleashed my anger on him." disgust,"When I was about to clean the draining board and saw it looked underneath the sink (I live in a students hostel)." guilt,When I stole something. joy,Getting the top price in the football pools. shame,"I was ashamed at myself when I saw that the other boys and girls of my age earn a lot of money by doing very good and hard work. " guilt,"During the military service, I lost a part of an equipment; I accused another person and he was rebuked and punished." guilt,"I went to a friend's baptism as she became a Christian after me and I realized that she was more enthusiastic about her spiritual life than I was. When I was with my brothers and sisters of Christ I had a guilty feeling which could not be dismissed easily. When pepole asked me as to when I would be baptised my guilt feeling deepened." joy,"A friend of mine travelled very far. I miss her but feel joy too because fer life is taking the right direction as she wants. So I feel joy for her mainly." sadness,"After I had lived with my boyfriend in a foreign country for half a year, I saw that it was impossible for me to stay with him (for economic reasons). We separated although I loved him." fear,Reading a horror story alone. fear,"A few weeks back my daughter had very high fever and I was scared that it might lead to brain damage or convulsions." disgust,"When I learned that a relative had been spreading rumours about me." shame,China cannot buy your reference. disgust,"I felt disgust when I kissed a guy that I know. I was on the outs with my boyfriend and this person appeared but he has nothing to do with me." guilt,"Leaving a friend of mine alone at a dance - I felt I should have kept her company." fear,"I was walking down a road and suddenly a few dogs appeared at a fence and started barking angrily. They were jumping and it seemed that they would come for me any time." guilt,"When ,due to hunger and tiredness, I became generally irritated with my fiancee and made cutting remarks which really hurt him. Later I realized that my unfounded irritation had hurt the person I love most on earth." guilt,"I added a little ? to a yield in an experiment to get more of a yield." disgust,"Being in a Malaysian city with my girlfriend coming out of a picture theatre - seeing her rush up to a taxi that a very old sick man was trying to get to. Seeing her take over the taxi." guilt,"When a patient had died soon after I had told the guardian to wait outside the ward." sadness,Guy I cared for went back to Canada to live. disgust,A woman picked her nose and spit right next to me. joy,"Hearing that I had been successful in getting a position whereby my financial, physical, spiritual and emotional needs will be well catered for. This position fulfils a lot of my aims for the last five years of my life." joy,"I felt vvery happy when I was accepted at UNZA for my studies. I had not expected this as I had been ill during the exams." shame,"A serious drug error while nursing that I knew I was responsible for (patient lived, no complications fortunately)." joy,"When I heard that someone who is very close to me did very well in the exams despite having fooled around a lot." anger,"I was given an exam which I thought did not measure at all my ability or my knowledge of the subject." shame,"When my best friend foud out I'd been lying about something I'd been doing behind her back." anger,"Doing a group assignment and being left to do all the work and take the blame for any mistakes." sadness,"When I realized that I was in hospital after a car accident and that I had a scleral tear in my left eye." guilt,"I was once called in court in Zemba Traditional court to answer a charge of impregnanting a young lady, I felt guilty for she had some letters which I used to write her as an exhibit in court." joy,Discussing psychology with my friends before the lecture. sadness,"When my grandmother, my second mother died." fear,"One night, when I got out from the University I saw two strange people near my car. When I got near, they moved away, and then came close again. I had a feeling that they were assaulters. After I left I discovered that the windshield was broken." anger,Being insulted in public. anger,"When I found out that my sister had been playing with my confidential things which she had taken from my hand-bag." guilt,"Two days after the above incident, I was thinking about my morally shameful act and I felt sorry for that incident, but it was too late, however I did realize this." disgust,A girl I do not like kept coming to me and talking to me. disgust,"In a certain occasion I saw a dog in the street eating something so strange gooey that I wasn't able to eat lunch because I remembered the scene all the time." guilt,"When I realized that not all my friends like the comments that I pass in their presence." shame,"When I told my sister I had slept with my boyfriend, and she at first was mad at me I then felt shame for this act, but not guilt." fear,"I was on my way home when suddenly Gule Wamkulu came from the bush and blocked the road. I was in fear and didn't know what to do." fear,When I had to walk along a dark road alone. anger,"My family told me to leave if I was not willing to accept the conditions they imposed on me." fear,"One evening my father told me to go into the cellar and get him a beer. I was terribly frightened at the idea of a man sitting in the cellar and assaulting me. For my defence I took an empty bottle with me." sadness,"When a girl did not answer a question, concerning my love for her, put forward to her." sadness,"My sister, whom I like very much, asked me for a favour which I refused her for some flimsy reason. Some time later I felt sorry for that and something like sadness." fear,"Afraid of getting alone without friends, without anybody." fear,"The last time I was face to face with with the monstrous dog which lives in my street." disgust,Some students trying to please the lecturer. fear,"My mother, my sister and I were sitting in the sitting room and watching a film on TV. My father came home drunk and told us to turn off. When we did not do that he switched off the fuse and started shouting. We were sitting in the dark and I was afraid that he would do us a harm." guilt,I felt guilty after stealing a cookery book from my colleagues. joy,"When I was with the girl I love very much, for the graduatiion ball." joy,When I was accepted as a student. sadness,"When my family and I heard of the death of my grandfather. We had seen him a few weeks earlier and it seemed that he had just been waiting to see us." guilt,"I didn't tell my parents exacly what had made me so late in getting home one night. I left out some details and somehow, I felt I had lied to them." shame,Once when I said bad things concerning a friend. disgust,When I saw a spider. fear,"I was walking to my car at night and thought that I was being followed." anger,"The government's announcement of the withdrawal of the student allowances in 1984." sadness,When my grandparents moved to another part of the town. shame,"I was nailed. I lied in connection with a book which I took from the library, because I had to keep it for a longer time." joy,"I feel unbelievably happy about the relationship between my boyfriend and me, it is a reoccurring feeling." disgust,When I read racist slogans on the walls. joy,"Football was a very big deal at my high school, so I was joyous when my school's team won the conference championship last year." shame,Saw a beggar on the street (China still so poor). fear,"When I saw the movie ""Poltergist""." sadness,When my parents did not let me go on a study tour. joy,"It was in December last year that I was chosen to come to this Institution to study as a Medical Assistant." joy,"When I was informed that a short story I had written had been accepted for publication." disgust,"When I was denied my favourite dish at the dinning hall (shima with roast chicken), I felt disgusted." disgust,"When I noticed two spiders running on the floor in different directions." anger,My roommate being unconsiderate. fear,Ran into a parking car on a bicycle. shame,"The fact that I was pregnant. I was always considered level headed and did not have sex until 18 and out of high school." fear,"I was visiting my parents in law when the house was invaded by three strange men, and they committed an armed assault." joy,"When my son returned from mountaineering - healthy in body and soul." guilt,"I was so excited once that I told my classmate that she was old, this hurt her and I felt guilty." shame,In a party of friends I got completely drunk. guilt,"I went shopping with my mother and sister (17 years old). Mother always told my sister what she should buy. Instead of assisting my sister in defending herself against mother's interference, I just behaved aggressively towards my sister." fear,"Crossing a street of several ways the cars began to move and I thought that I was going to be trampled." joy,"When my elder sister had a baby girl. She was the first girl in the family after 19 years of baby boys." fear,"I had been drinking with a pal and I later (1 o' clock) had a date with my fiancee. We were going to a Spanish lesson and I was afraid that she would smell that I had been drinking." joy,"When my boyfriend last told me he loved me after I gave him an impulsive kiss." fear,"I was in form five at the boarding school and my friends and I had gone drinknig beer in the nearby village. And we were caught red handed there by a form master." anger,"When the dean of UNZA asked me to vacate a big flat I was occupying and take up a smaller one as I was becoming a full time student at UNZA." joy,"After a one year's stay abroad, I returned home. I was even more glad to see how much my family was pleased to see me." anger,"A person close to me mistook my good intentions for bad, and therefore associated unpleasant traits to me." sadness,"When I read the diary of the girl with whom I was living, it was about another boy with whom she had been going around some time back." guilt,"When I blamed my niece for misplacing my book, she denied having touched or seen it but I carried on insisting that it was her." sadness,I was not chosen for the All English class. guilt,When I offended my parents without wanting it. sadness,When my elder brother died. joy,"I felt joy when I saw my daughter after a separation of twenty days." joy,"When I was selected to this university despite my having studyied in difficulty throughout my secondary school days." anger,"I typed up a letter for this physician at work. She didn't care for my style, even though she was not using correct English. I told her it was her letter and we would do it her way." guilt,"When I beat up a first year student at my secondary school in my capacity as the deputy head boy. He had woken up late in the morning for manual work." fear,[ No response.] shame,"I was watching T.V with my parents and some pornographic scenes came on, I felt uncomfortable and tried to distract my parents attention by talking to them." disgust,When somebody made me touch human faeces. sadness,"When the girl whom I have lusted after expressed reciprocal feelings and then days later changed her mind." joy,"I am not especially good at English, and after the high school graduation exam in English I tensely waited for the result the whole day. In the evening, when I heard that I had done excellently, I became very happy and the anxiety vanished. My family was at home." sadness,I didn't get the job I wanted. fear,When my dog ran out on thin ice last spring. shame,"The mother of a friend of mine passed by me and saw me sitting on a boy's lap. I tried to greet her but could not help blushing." fear,"I was driving and stopped at a stop light. I was planning to make a right turn as soon as it was clear. It was clear on the left so I started but a man was just in front of the car." sadness,Disappointed by a friend. disgust,"A few days after I had finished the relationship with my boyfriend, we had a quarrel. Then he hit me. At that moment I found him disgusting." joy,"Having passed the exam required to be an authorized Radio/TV dealer." shame,"I was embarassed at the exam in microbiology. I was ashamed with myself - how little I knew and how good was the examinor. I rarely become ashamed." guilt,"Some boys told me your nickname is ""Little Girl Doctor"", I did not tell them off and laughed with them." sadness,A break-up with someone I really liked. joy,The day I learnt that I had been admitted to the university. anger,"Meddlesomeness of my mother about the way I live. She thinks I am to free in my behavior for instance when a boyfriend stays the night." fear,[ Never experienced.] joy,"Receiving a letter form a girl that means a lot to me emotionally." joy,"I realized that a fellow member had grown spiritually. I was the leader of a spiritual group and had prayed for him. He did not want to burn the incense but his mother forced him to do it. Finally his mother told him that he could discontinue if he got good results at school." fear,[ Uncertainty about my own abilities in an exam.] fear,"Fights that I see in the middle of the street, robberies, fear of darkness when going home." joy,Accepted by the college football team. shame,"When I am in an auditorium with people and I ask a silly question so that everyone starts to laugh." fear,I am afraid before an exam or colloquium. shame,"I am chosen for the English lectures instead of my good friend and people told me that girls are more likely to be chosen." sadness,"Felt sad about some street kids in QUEII square, Aotea square. Because they had been sniffing glue and some were very young. I went into the role of a performing clown." anger,"When present boyfriend's mother approached my parents and self - to leave her son alone - as she did not want me for a future daughter-in-law." disgust,"When I was still a child, I saw a horror film on TV in which there was a rotten human skull." shame,Parents finding out I smoked. anger,"One night I could not practise my violin as my family was watching T.V with the lights off, so I wanted to listen to some tapes. It was dark so I asked my brother to bring me a torch, however he scolded me. I was so angry that I slammed my violin on the floor." shame,"When I was twelve I was babysitting some children but I did not act very responsibly and one of them was injured." anger,"I bought a new bed for my apt. and it squeaks when you move on it. I tried to fix it but could not." fear,Walking in the dark I saw something strange. fear,"I felt very frightened when a robber broke into our house and threatened to shoot my father if he did not part with some money. I was looking at the man with his hand on the trigger." fear,"When diving deep into the sea to reach the floor I felt breathless. I was cautious but I doubted I should be able to come to the surface and inhale." fear,"Years ago, on my way to school by the forest path I came across an exhibitionist." sadness,"Losing my girlfriend who made an end to our relationship. By this I lost an important source of support, certainty and joyful moments. I cried very intensly when that happened." fear,"A ""near-accident"" in a car, driving too fast on an icy road." disgust,"My father is someone I disgust. So when he comes close to me a feeling of disgust overwhelms me. When I stay a week-end at my parent's place I will remember it for long time." anger,"My class leader told me I am not chosen for your English lectures." disgust,"Such a feeling springs up in me sometimes when I have meals at a catering establishment. It is a result either of the look of the food or when watching the way some people eat." sadness,Finding out that my best friend could not go to university. anger,"My friends promised me that they would definitely call me to tell me if they were visiting me or not." sadness,"I had had a farewell party at the place where I had been working for a year. That night I could not fall off to sleep. I was sad thinking that I would not see my nice fellow workers again." sadness,"When I noticed obvious marks of old age (in a negative sense) on a close relative of mine." disgust,"In a lift a drunken, fat and untidy man tried to make advances at me." fear,"Stranded in the north of Fraser Island with a submerged 4 WD hire vehicle." joy,"When my brother came back home after staying in hospital. He had undergone an operation which had been a matter of life or death. When he came home I could see him smile for the first time after may weeks." disgust,Overeating a traditional type of food - blood pudding. fear,While paddling in the river during a storm. I feared drowning. guilt,"When in grade 3, late home from school every day for weeks because of harassment from a grade 7 boy I lied to mother about why I was home late." sadness,"When I came to know that my grandmother had died. She was very close to me." fear,"We were in the country and I walked away from the others one night. Suddenly something moved sharply in front of me and I was not able to see what it was." fear,When they threatened me with a knife to take my money. sadness,When my grandmother died. disgust,"On a trip abroad, a lady-like member of our group turned out to be an alcoholic. She spoilt many days of my holidays because of her behaviour and paranoia." sadness,Failed an examn. fear,"My illness a few years back. I was sevely down with malaria and asthma, I had lost my health, charm and cheerfulness completely." joy,"My mother along with some of my friends gave me a surprise birthday party - they invited a large number of my friends along too." sadness,"A friend of mine called me when I was not at home. I phoned her back to know what she wanted and she told me that she had dialled the wrong number." sadness,"I felt sad when I was told to walk out of the classroom because I was within the row of students who were making noise." shame,"My boyfriend had drunk too much and beaten me. When I had to show the letter the door, which was almost crashed, I felt ashamed." fear,"Once, when I was very young, my mother left me alone in the house and came back very late." joy,When I got a letter from home. disgust,"A brother from one of the Christian fellowship often phoned me and talked to me for half an hour or more. However there was nothing important in the conversation and I found the person very disgusting." joy,Finding out that I am not ill (not seriously). shame,"When I sat in the wrong discussion section in the beginning of the semester. I insisted on being in the right section and the TA's list should have included my name. When I found out that I was in the wrong, I apologized, turned red and left." joy,When I passed the B.A exams with first class results. fear,"When I was cycling through the park late one night, two people jumped out of the woods and tried to stop me. There were shouting something at the same time." anger,"Discussing with a certain person about a job I was getting and that perosn was negative and pessimistic." sadness,Finding out that the girl I like does not like me. guilt,"Recently when I made a slip and blurted out indecent words in my mother's presence." disgust,My brother caught a spider and let his frog eat it. joy,Our basketball team is undefeated in league play (4-0) currently. disgust,"When I was touring Asia with my present football team, I saw old Europeans with young asiatic prostitutes." shame,"First weekend back home after one week at Uni I scolded one of my sister's best friends for using our telephone. Very silly, but I was annoyed because she was there at a time when I needed to be with my family." fear,"One evening, in the tramway, I was afraid of two drunk men molesting my girlfriend and me." guilt,"The cat of my landlady escaped through the window which I had left open." joy,"My friend took me to Civo Stadium to watch and listen to the music of the International singer Sam Mangwana. I had no hope of going there since I had no money so he gave me the money for admission." sadness,My uncle died - I felt sad at the funeral. anger,"When my dad told me about something he had done against my mother." joy,Joy at meeting a woman I love very much. sadness,I feel sad about an event I can not influence. guilt,My younger sister was almost run over by a lorry. sadness,"My sister was in a hospital, later in the evening we received the information that she had died." anger,"When I saw a big man hit another one, and nobody did anything." shame,Fooling around with this guy I did not know. guilt,"I told my parents (or more realistically) would not do what they wanted me to do anymore. I guess I sort of betrayed them after all they had done for me." disgust,"I had intercourse with someone and then I realized that what I had done was wrong and it disgusted me." disgust,"I was in the cafeteria at the university and a class-mate told me that a friend of hers had had all her teeth taken out because of an infection caused by her eating a rat's nail in her hamburger." joy,"When I was admitted to the Institute. I had problems with many people about my applying for this institute and I decided to prove that one can pass excellently without visiting any preparatory couse. That is - I proved what I could do on my own." joy,Scoared a goal in a football match. disgust,"We had a birthday party with 5 friends. One of us frequently used hard drugs. On the party I discovered that the other 3 friends also used them. While we agreed we would help the big user to stop using it." fear,"I was with a friend in a stationed car when, suddenly a man appeared on my side and an other with a gun on his side the hold-up lasted a few minutes but it was terrible. I had never seen a gun so close." but I felt that I was not able to express myself very well - I felt ashamed and blushed." guilt,"Going out with another girl besides my girlfriend and not telling her." joy,"The day the results of the university entrance exam was published, I found my canditate number and I was very excited." sadness,"I was once nominated as an Officer Cadet in the Armed Forces and my name was cancelled on the list of nominees of those who were sent to Kenya for Training." anger,When friends try to put me down or hurt me. joy,When my girlfriend became pregnant. sadness,"In a social situation I became interested in a woman. We talked, we laughed, we enjoyed each other. She desappeared for a few minutes, and a little after appeared with an other man." shame,"When I broke a tea saucer. I felt ashamed. This was during the birthday of my girlfriend." disgust,"I found out accidentaly that while my uncle was away in Canada, my aunt had been bedding a young man on a regular basis." disgust,"Some students whose English is worse than mine can go to your lectures (English lectures)." joy,I asked someone to go out and she accepted right away. fear,"The emotion came when I misbehaved at school and the Principal threatened me that I was going to be expelled." guilt,When I committed the sin of immorality mentioned before. anger,"I felt angry when I was told that I had not been selected to go to the University." guilt,"When I had an argument with my grandfather the day my younger brother was born." sadness,My father left us for another woman. joy,Got in touch with earlier friends after a long absence. sadness,"Two little children (5/6 years old) begging for money, and noone gave them money." anger,"I was angry at my brother over an argument we had together. We do have a few fights from time to time, and also at times I take out my anger on him." anger,"While in the army, I was treated unfairly by my superiors. I was held responsible for a deed of which I was innocent." fear,Not applicable to myself. fear,"When I woke up in the middle of the night because of a dream, it wasn't a nightmare, it was an uninteligible dream in wich I woke because of a certain end." joy,"When I passed standard 8 exams I jumped, rolled over the ground." anger,"My girlfriend started singing (she cannot sing) and did not stop despite my asking her to do so." fear,"I got lost in a foreign town. I did not know the language of that country and it took me hours to meet my friends again." disgust,"Having been unjustly punished, I feel disgust towards the person responsible." joy,When I pass an exam. shame,"I felt shame when I had to talk with a person that I hadn't seen for many years. Shame that he wouldn't recognize me or that I wouldn't know what to say." disgust,"I was disgusted at the way the bus conductor threw out an old woman oiut of the mini-bus simply because she could not pay the fare for her luggage." joy,When I entered University. fear,"When I had crossed Lilongwe forest I heard that there was a rabid hyena just near the path in the forest." sadness,"Several years ago my brother died in an accident. When I heard about it, I was very sad. It took years until I resigned myself to it." sadness,"I couldn't sleep, and began to remind of my childhood. We are many sisters and at that time we were spanked a lot and I don't know why I started to remind of the spanks they and I had had, their shouts when this happened." shame,"After failing a second attempt at Med 4, following a number of difficult personal circumstances." joy,"My father stayed abroad for one year. He does not like to write letters because he makes ortographic mistakes. I never had a good relation to him. He wrote me a letter in which he said that he loved me." shame,"When a certain girl I believed to be my life partner refused an engagement." shame,I made a comment that at the moment didn't fit. sadness,"My father died unexpectedly at the age of 53 years. He certainly would have liked to live longer. I was also said because I was confronted with the fact that I would die one day too." sadness,"When I learnt that my brother-in-law had been poisoned by his friends and that he was dead." sadness,My father died last year after an 8-week severe illness. guilt,"I wasn't able to see my girlfriend on her birthday and because I was late arriving home from uni, I didn't phone her as arranged at a certain time (she rang in the meantime)." anger,"One of my first boyfriends got mad at me because a lot of my close friends were guys and he didn't want me to see them anymore because he was jealous." disgust,"I was disgusted with the behaviour of one of my fellow students during my Secondary School life. He was a habitual noise-maker and caused great conflicts with the teachers." anger,"When I argue with my boyfriend, I feel as though he feels superior to me." disgust,Saw Chinese people flattering foreigners. guilt,"Incomprehension and repression towards a child's behaviour, commonly not accepted, and making the child cry." sadness,"In the 12/83 my boyfriend asked me to forget him, as it would be easy." anger,My bicycle was demolished. sadness,"I was told by a good friend that we couldn't be friends any more because of his relationship with another girl." fear,"As a child - stepping on a rusty nail - being told that I might get tetanus." joy,"On my 18th birthday I passed the driving-test. I was glad because I had had to study very much, because I had been lucky and because - as a proof that it was really difficult - not everybody had passed the test." fear,"A terrible cloud-burst started when we were camping in a tent on a great bald field." guilt,"A girl whom I hadn't seen for a period of time told me that she had been pregnant and had an abortion - I was the father." sadness,"The holidays come to an end, and the next day we had to go back to University and to the exams." anger,When someone took my pen away. joy,"After 10 days of hard work and having suffered many changes I passed my last exam." disgust,"I saw a film where snakes were crawling everywhere. I felt them crawling over all my body with that ... skins. The noise that they did disturbed me very much." shame,"I felt shame at the hurt I caused to my family especially my parent father, shame of hurting people emotionally. A misconceived self-blaming that didn't do me any good. Shame at being myself as I am." sadness,"I left my home in Melbourne to come to Q'land to study and before I hopped in the car I hugged my mother and shook hands with my father. Sensing immediately my father's sadness, I also had a flood of the same emotion." disgust,"When I heard about the advances an acquaintance of mine had made to my friends, who did not approve of them." anger,"A friend of mine tried to persuade me to go at her place to act as a model because she felt too tired. It was a quarter of an hour before the appointed time, I had just lied down and did not want to go because it was too late anyway. She said that I only was talking about looking for work, but if it was possible I would not accept it. I was angry about this unjust judgment." joy,"When I received a letter from a woman I thought had not ever cared for me. This was when I needed her and I was overjoyed to learn that it was me who was delaying things." fear,When I broke my leg I felt fear. sadness,"When summer is over and I have to leave the town where I spend my holidays." joy,"When in the end of a semester I got the approval in a matter that I judged very difficult." anger,When a thief broke into my house and stole some valuable goods. anger,""" I have been hearing rumours that you have not been allowing people in your room,"" he said. This sentence really shot my heart. I failed to find the right words, instead I walked away without uttering a word." sadness,"One day, I was home and there was a phone call informing me that some of my relatives had died in an accident." joy,"On holidays - just driving along a road beautiful scenery. Just with my boyfriend - not really talking but just feeling overwhelmed." disgust,I felt disgust when I saw a dead animal on the roadway. sadness,I felt sad when I was despised by another person. guilt,When one lets friends down joy,Receiving a nice present from my parents. sadness,"When my father passed away in 1978. I was left alone with my mother who was very sick so I had to go and live with my aunt, who is very short tempered, till my mother was discharged from the hospital." guilt,"My mom told me not to gamble, but I did anyway. Sometimes I would even take some money from my parents and brother. She found out and yelled at me." anger,When my brother was held up and robbed. sadness,"Listening and watching a tape of someone with AIDS being prejudiced against at a counselling course on AIDS with 20 others." sadness,"This condition accumulated in my mind when funeral news was brought to my awareness, that a close relative had passed away." anger,"The last day of school is traditionally celebrated by singing a song about all the students who are leaving. In the song about me, there were things which irritated me a lot." shame,Not doing my share of the work for the house job. anger,"I moved to a flat. A friend who had lived there before, had left the flat in a terrible mess. I was very angry about that sloppiness and impudence." joy,Selling my used car. sadness,"My cat was sick and I had to take him to the vet to be put down - no one else there to do it." guilt,"When I didn't bring my girlfriend home one night. Later she told me that a cardriver solicited her." fear,Walking home in the dark from college. joy,"When my friend told me that he would come and meet me in a moment." disgust,"When a close relative got quite drunk. It was a relative that I had respected for a long time and looked up to as a child." guilt,"I am not good enough to join any team to play sport for the class." disgust,"In the army, I had been in hospital for two weeks and as soon as I returned to the company, a sergeant ordered me to fetch a load on the tractor trailer." fear,First time in anatomy. guilt,"When I behaved improperly - fought in a public place. Afterwards, I felt guilty about my conduct." disgust,"The time when I cleaned the house and everything was tidy, then my cousin, who is 4 years old, came with a muddy pot and made a mess of the whole thing." anger,"This was when I found out that a cousin of mine had taken away my trousers without my consent." joy,"I was very glad when I learned I was a student already. I heard about it over the phone, I didn't believe it at first." disgust,"When I heard of the assassination of the Indian prime-minister, Indira Gandhi." guilt,"When I had promised to do some washing for my mother and I did not do it. She did it herself despite her being ill. I felt very guilty." shame,"A daughter in court for staff pilfering, she was dressed like a ""street walker"" - I had a friend form overseas with me and was falsely trying to impress with my family." anger,"Mr C took my drawing pens, without having asked for my permission first, and lost them. He did not tell me about it till I asked him and then did not try to find them." shame,"I was ashamed of the way I deceived that I could not help a friend, although it was absolutely possible for me. Nothing was revealed but I haven't called up this person since then." sadness,"A colleague's 17 year old daughter is seriously ill with cancer and has only a year to live. I heard about it 6 weeks ago." joy,When I passed the first examination that I had to repeat. sadness,When my girlfriend told me that she wanted to leave me. fear,"A friend and I were going to have a study session together in which we quiz ourselves in biology material. Because I believed I didn't study enough. I feared I would fail." guilt,"When I realized that I was not working hard enough and was not being useful as an individual to the society or the family, guilt at spending money on uncalled for activities - in short wasting my life." guilt,I offended my mother. disgust,"After learning on the news about this man who killed more than 300 women and habitually copulated into their inert bodies." fear,"English papers are due on Friday. They are returned on Tuesday. This Tuesday I was afraid to go to class and get my paper because I knew it was bad." anger,Had an argument with my classmate for borrowed books. shame,"When I was in a bus on my way to the examination centre, a man sitting opposite me kept looking at me continously. I did not know what was wrong. When I reached the centre I started strolling around as I still had a little time. Suddenly a man came and whispered ""You have forgotten to zip up your trousers."" I was at a loss to say anything and I felt very embarrassed. When I thought of the bus incident I felt even more ashamed." anger,"At a school dance when my supposed ""best friend"" kept walking away from me whenever I came near her." anger,"My mother told me that I could not go to the mountains. Despite my age, as long as I am in her house I must do what she says." sadness,"Not being chosen for the English lectures (my girl-friend chosen)." joy,"When I was a student at the Institute doing my M.Phil degree, one of my professors called me before the convocation and told me ""You have got the gold-medal (first rank) in the university and tomorrow you will be on T.V""." fear,"When I saw Russian roulette on TV. (obviously the movie ""Deer hunter"")" joy,"When my mother was tremendous on the phone and we talked for hours. She was in a good mood." anger,"When a kid dropped my father's radio cassette player, which he had just repaired." shame,"The girl with whom I was going around had been forbidden to be alone with me in the house. We paid no attention to this prohibition but one day her parents appeared and I jumped out of the window. They saw me." shame,"I arrived late at a seminar concerning my major subject at university, although I had been appointed to formally oppose the paper which was being presented." sadness,Thinking about friends overseas. joy,"When I was told that they had got tickets for me for a film marathon I wanted to see." joy,"When I learned, after the ecography, that my mother was expecting a baby girl. That was what I wanted." anger,"At boarding school someone put a lot of tiny thorns on my bed. When I complained everybody began teasing me and laughing at my inability to find out my enemies. I lost my temper." fear,"When my father suffered with dizziness. He had to be hospitalized, because the physician didn't know what was wrong. Because his stools were black, I thought it could be cancer." joy,"It was about a fortnight ago, I was declared successful in the U.G.C exam this year (only four in Bombay succeeded). My joy knew no bounds." shame,Failing an examn because I did not work hard enough. fear,"When I had gone for a boxing tournament which ended at 2 o'clock in the morning. I was alone on my way back, and I could hear the barking of the dogs, the nocturnal animals and the sound of my own footsteps. There had been a rumour circulating that there were ghosts in that area." shame,"I had obviously done the work badly but my class-mates of the student's association did not blame me, they helped me do the work." disgust,"Finding out that the class leader can go to your lectures, and his English is worse than mine." fear,When I was left alone at home one night by my brother. joy,"When I passed my driving test, as it was the fifth time that I had taken this test." sadness,"When my aunt, whom I had loved very much, died. When I heard about her death, I was not as touched as at the funeral. I really became conscious of her death at that moment." fear,"I felt afraid just before receiving the question paper of the part II exam." sadness,When they gave away my dog to other people without my knowledge. guilt,"I have cut loose from my father a few years ago. I know he is very sad about this." fear,"When I was attending an authorized demonstrationand the police rushed brutally at the demonstrators, without any warning." guilt,I called off a relationship with one girl so I could see another. disgust,"We had come back from a programme and we were all (three girls) staying over at another girls placce. One of them started passing very nasty and outright bitchy remarks at me. It was brought on by a male colleague's compliments to me, this girl was herself interested in this guy. Bitchiness and catty remarks made by women never fail to disgust me. I can particularly remember this incident as she knew that I had not encouraged the guy." sadness,"For the girl who halped me go on living and made me happy - when I don't see her even for two or three days." sadness,"My boyfriend is a soldier. He was on a leave. I felt sad when we had to get separated again." shame,"Going out for dinner, or during one ice-cream and four spoons." anger,"Before the department meeting my friend ate a dish that I had prepared for this meeting." sadness,"When my boyfriend said he did not want to see me anymore (which turned out to be untrue)." joy,"I had been away from home for a long time and when I came home I was delighted. It was wonderful to see familiar, dear people and I was rejoycing in advance. I had been feeling very lonely." anger,"This situation happened when my friend John ate my banana which I kept in the cupboard." shame,"I told my friend about how I had calculated my salary by cheating a little. When my friend remarked about it, I understood that it was wrong to do so, and I felt ashamed." sadness,"When my friends died one after the other. The first died in a car accident and the second one recently, due to an illness." shame,"When I just took a shower with a girl down the hall. I felt that I had let my devotion to God go out the window. Although nothig happened I felt ashamed." guilt,"When I was with a girl who seemed to love me, while I was with her just to go to bed with her." shame,"A good friend of mine told me in comfidence that once he had tried to commit suicide. To meet him you wouldn't think so. I told another friend of mine about this when she was feeling depressed about her twin brother's suicide. I broke a bond of confidentiality." fear,"It was when I dreamt that I had encountered Satan, he wanted to grab me and take me to his kingdom. He was very repulsive and I have never seen anything like that before." sadness,"Years ago on Christmas Eve I felt very sad because I realized for the first time how I missed my father who had died at Christmas Years ago." guilt,"When I complained about a colleague to the manager and he told her that someone had complained; this colleague came to me believing that I liked her." joy,"Receiving close friends form abroad, whom I hadn't seen for years." joy,When I asked my girlfriend to marry me. fear,"When I had to go through lonely streets in the middle of the night." joy,"I met again a very good friend whom I had not seen for a long time." joy,"When a girl I wanted very much, said ""yes"" and fell in love with me." sadness,"My dog of 16 and 1/2 years - ""Lord Grey"" died in his sleep - His death caused me more and deeper sadness than I thought." guilt,"I got 100 FIM too much when I changed money at the bank. They soon called me at my job and the situation was embarrasing for me." joy,When I got engaged to a boy of my choice. disgust,Friends calling me fat - pear shaped in front of a nice girl. anger,"Too many people in TV room, I was not able to get a seat to watch TV." fear,"When I got lost in New York city a late friday night with a friend of mine." anger,I felt very angry after one driver had run over my beloved niece. guilt,When I noticed the negative changes in a friend's behaviour. joy,"When I found out that a set task (i.e. 2 essays and a test), the thought of which had oppressed me, were not on the date I had thought." guilt,"During a ski tour with a friend, we two had drunk too much. When we went down the slope on ski, I lost my friend who had lost his way. I thought that something must have happened to him (he finally arrived but after a very long time)." disgust,"It was when I read a newspaper article on the future and they foresaw that we would be eating frog-burgers by the year 2000. An illustration showed a frog between two pieces of bread." disgust,I found some worms in the food and I had obviously eaten some. joy,"On our way to France, my girlfriend and I went to Verona. By chance we met an Italian couple - they gave us two tickets for the dress-rehearsal of ""Aida"". It was a different world for us full of fascination. After the representation we ate a phantastic pizza in a restaurant near the ""Arena""." disgust,"Having unwanted attention paid to me in my place of work - harrassment (and sexual harrassment) by another worker - disgusted by his implications." anger,"A person walking his dog allowed it to defecate on the footpath outside my house. Although it had happened before, this was the first time I had witnessed it. All the skills I had learnt from PY 263 were thrown out the window when his indifference to my protestation was obvious to me." fear,"Fearing the use of power or reprimands when I belong to the minority." disgust,Close friends talking badly of other friends. shame,"I recently became sexually involved with my sister's lover. I care for him very much, but I am ashamed of the hurt I may cause her." shame,The same for guilt would apply. fear,Can think of no time that I have felt fear. fear,"When I woke up at night to find a fire spreading towards the bed -rooms. I was very frightened as I realized that I faced death." guilt,To force someone to do something that suits me. anger,Once my father slapped my mother for a small quarrel. joy,"When my elder brother, who had gone abroad to study for six years, came back home safe and in good health." anger,"Told by some people the class leader only choose his friends (not true)." guilt,When I answered to my mother with rudeness. disgust,When I failed an exam. guilt,Ignoring my parents'wishes. joy,"I went shopping with my parents - my father payed everything for me, I was very glad." shame,"I told my primary teacher I hadn't done my homework as my mother was in a car accident. My teacher rang that night to see how my mother was - she was fine i.e. no accident !" fear,"When I was in the army, a room mate of mine came back from furlough and threatened another fellow with a knife." anger,"When being made look a fool by the teacher in front of the class during a turn." shame,"My failure to provide the appropriate emotional/spiritual level to a sexual relationship that had a large physical content. Born out of inconsistency with my personal beliefs and value shame at largely using this sexual partner." joy,"When I got the scholarship I was very happy as the finacial burden of the family was reduced." disgust,I saw some images of a decapitation in a horror film. guilt,Broken a friend's cup. shame,"I tried to date a girl, but she refused." guilt,"When I finished a love affair where I was responsible of the sad end." joy,The time I qualified to enter secondary school. shame,Breaking an implicit promise. guilt,I kicked the chair in the classroom to express my anger. guilt,"When my parents work very hard and get tired - while I go to school and study instead of helping them. I feel that I'm letting them down, disappointing them." shame,Once I was not ready for a seminar and I was asked to leave. guilt,"I took my grandmother's money without telling her and when asked if it was me who had taken the money, I denied it." guilt,I was late meeting someone for an appointment. anger,"Being stopped by the police for a traffic offence which I don't think I committed." sadness,[ Depressions.] guilt,"I beat up a female friend after I heard the defamatory stories that she had been telling. I was later called to explain my behaviour." joy,I got better marks in the examn than many arrogant people. joy,"My boyfriend suffered form ill health for some months, this week the physician told him that he was restored to health." shame,"When I saw my father coming out of the bathroom. He thought that he was alone at home and came out without his clothes." sadness,We had to finish the life of our 8 year-old dog. fear,"I walked up the main street of Auckland at 10 o'clock at night. I expected it to be very active with people, gangs, fast cars etc, thought it was actually quite quiet, though also oppressive. I walked about half a mile and bought a drink along the way." sadness,"Recently I felt very sad without any reason. It lasted for a few days. There was nothing I liked in that period." sadness,"I am a Christian but I cannot find any meaning in life . It seems that I am deceiving myself but I cannot find the way out." shame,"Some time ago we had a tournament in our tennis-club. For tactical reasons I was chosen to play against a much weaker player than I am. Although it would have been enough simply to win the game, I defeated him extremely. This would not have been necessary." guilt,"When at times unconscienciously I speak to my mother in a high tome but after that I am sorry and I feel guilty." anger,A classmate damaged ma iron and tried to hide the damage. shame,"When I went to a disco with a friend I started behaving badly embarrassing him without reason." fear,When I met an elephant in the bush. shame,"During an argument an acquaintance accused me of having insulted her parents by having had sex in their house which they overheard." joy,"When my boyfriend and I experience something nice or when we have made a nice walk together." shame,Nearly caught masturbating. guilt,"I felt guilty when I thought that I was still not standing on my own feet." sadness,Death of grandfather (unexpected). joy,"When I got through the examination for my driver licence, and when I finished I knew I had passed it." guilt,"I send a word to my boss through my servant telling him that I would not report for work as I was not feeling well and that the doctor had refused to give me sick leave. My intention was actually to go out of Lusaka for a week-end. I left the same day and the following morning my boss found me in Mongu. I felt guilty when asked to explain things on my return." sadness,"A girlfriend ended our relationship in an abrupt and unexpected manner." sadness,"When I knew almost the same day about two great friends of mine that had serious existential crisis, and mainly when I notice that I'm in the same situation that they are, but I didn't realize it." disgust,"When I failed to secure employment after my form 5 in Lusaka despite my excellent certificate." sadness,Being misunderstood by friends. fear,"Before Uni started, I had to leave home and take up residence in Brisbane (the ""big smoke"") leaving home, my family, and moving to such a big place was quite intimidating at first, and I was anxious about it." fear,"A few weeks back I had a very important seminar and I had circulated my papers to all the panel members. A day before the seminar I realized that I had inadvertantly burdened certain derivations and I had failed to correct it. I feared that this would reflect very badly on my performance. Fortunately none of the panel members detected it and I felt relieved." guilt,Not applicable to myself. shame,Not brave enough to take up a challenge in a group discussion. sadness,"When I was betrayed by a friend, and decided to stay apart form her." joy,"Several days after my final examination at school, I was sitting in an airplane on my way to Greece. I enjoyed that moment very much." shame,When my mother surprised me while masturbating. guilt,"When I lied at home. I told them that I was going to a Christian meeting and I went to see my boyfriend instead." anger,"Angry when our team (small boys) lost the county championship football final." shame,"When I tried to hide a fact from a person for irrelevant reasons and considered such an attitude childish." joy,"On my birthday, an old friend of mine sent me a card. I had not met him for a year and I was very glad that he had thought of me." shame,"When I was 15 my mother discovered various items in my room which 15 year olds aren't usually expected to have - mainly alcohol, marijuana and contraceptives !" disgust,Getting into a crowded bus. disgust,"When my parents-in-law scolded me, without any reason, in front of the other members of my family for the first time. They had called me from my room where I had been studying for my exams." disgust,"I was present when they found a shop-keeper dead in his shop. He had been shot with a shotgun at close range." guilt,"After I reluctantly refused to dine with a certain man on the same table." guilt,"When I cheated my trusting girlfriend by telling her that I was a qualified doctor and later she found out that I was only a medical student at the preclinical level." anger,"Somebody took my wristwatch and promised to have it mended and later was telling me that he couldn't give it back to me because I was rude at a certain time." joy,[ Being close to another person.] shame,"When after having had sexual intercourse with a friend, I thought that he had told about it to a friend of his." anger,"Uncleaniness at my work place. The place is generally not very clean, but when it reaches a point, I get angry at the person who is supposed to clean the place and the people who are supposed to supervise him." shame,"When I purposely locked my babysitter out of the house at age 4 because I DIDN'T LIKE HER." sadness,When I noticed that I do many things to the pregiudice of myself. guilt,Low evaluation of other people's cares. guilt,"I cut a friend's hair in anger, without any consideration." sadness,"I had a schoolmate who went to the hospital as her brain was bleeding. She fell unconscious for three days and when I went to see her I saw the miserable state the family was in. Moreover I could not do nothing for her. I was very sad. Finally, she died." shame,"Once I had dinner at an elegant restaurant and I did not have enough money to pay the bill. There were a lot of people there and I felt quite awkward." disgust,A friend was assaulted by a young man on her way home. anger,"[ One day I arrived home rather tired and found the house..... In addition I was asked many questions which I did not want to answer.]" guilt,"After yelling at my girlfriend, I felt bad because she was ? crying and upset." shame,"The 2nd time someone I had met cared for came over to my house I was absolutely inebriated and was sick into a bucket." disgust,"I went out with my sister, her boyfriend and his friend. I did not like this young man. But suddenly he overcame me and kissed me. He was very strong so that I could not defend myself." disgust,"When I was younger I often saw my father come home drunk (he had big problems at that time). Once he woke me up in the middle of the night and shouted at me." disgust,"Someone smoking on Electric train (Electric trains are non-smoking) with alcohol smell coming from person. " sadness,Lost a friend. guilt,"A few lies that I had indulged in, a few years ago, while raising loans from my friends." anger,"I share my small flat with my friend. On her birthday we could not see each other until evening because we had to stay at the University all day. In the evening I left a lecture before it finished to be able to buy flowers for her. When I was at home she called me to tell me that she would stay the night with her boyfriend." disgust,"When some friends and I get acquainted a guy during vacations I thought he was disgusted and ""a friend"" of mine for whom I feel a little disgust wanted to stay with him." guilt,"I didn't keep a promise I had made to a man, and in this way I lost his esteem and confidence in me. I caused him a lot of trouble." shame,"When I was young my mother told the neighbour that I had wet the bed. I felt ashamed thinking that the neighbour's children would get to know about it." joy,"Found out that me and my best friend are both chosen for the English lectures." guilt,"Having suffered a not very pretty sight, I reacted by uttering some very cruel and sharp words." anger,[ Ther are many instances which are all equally irritating.] joy,"It was the first time that I gave a birthday present to my friend. She wrote me a letter as she is my girlfriend. The content of the letter was so sweet that it made me feel very happy." fear,Before an examn. shame,"I was wearing slippery shoes and I tumbled down in a place where there were many people walking by." anger,"The emotion came when a certain boy opened my locker without my knowledge." anger,"When my rights to use a shared house had been usurped by co-owners out of pure selfishness." joy,"When I was appointed to position of trust in a group set up to change the working environment." anger,"Anger with boyfriend's best friend for alienating me and blaming me for personality changes in my boyfriend and changes in my boyfriend's attitude to him and his obvious egoistical attitude himself in doing so. I also lost one of my best friends - his girlfriend." guilt,Often I forget to give my immediate family birthday presents. joy,When I was sick my husband bought me a piece of cake. fear,"A four year girl ran away from her father straight in front of my car. I was forced to use the emergency brakes." anger,"My father had once again told me that I should be careful and try to seek admission to other places also apart from the faculty of Social Sciences at the university of Helsinki. I was not at all interested in any other place and had no time to study for other entrance exams." shame,"I was going around with a foreigner's wife and my entire family got to know about it, this was just when I had become a Christian." guilt,"I had fixed a meeting with my classmates and I missed it as I was tired. Besides everyone at the meeting was a stranger to me and I did not want to make friends with them. Whatever the reasons - I felt guilty." guilt," In some special circumstances l lied to my parents, then felt guilty so I told them the truth and felt free." disgust,"I feel disgusted with the bootlickers, with helpless people." shame,"I feel shame mixed with anger with the behavior of some incultivated people because my fiancT is a foreigner." guilt,"When I was young I stole something from a shop and got caught, then I was taken to the police station and my parents had to come and get me." disgust,Deception from a person I loved very much. fear,When I was told that the form five results were out. anger,"When I am accused of something I have not done, I get unbelievably angry." fear,"Once I was stopped by the police in Spain, when I had some ""grass"" in my tobacco." shame,When I had a Latin examination in school. joy,"A very good friend of mine had been away for three months. When we met again, we ran up to each other and embraced." joy,On my birthday when several good friends came to visit me. shame,"The people on my floor last year were very close. This year 4 of our best friends live together in an apartment. My boyfriend and I dropped by on one of their birthdays and stayed for dinner. Two other people had already been invited and I felt uncomfortable and unwanted. Then I realized I was the one who always called them and they rarely call me." joy,When I learnt that I had been admitted to the university. anger,Never really had the experience just yet - N/A. fear,"After my boy-friend had beaten me for the first time, I always trembled when somebody knocked on my door or when I heard steps coming nearer." anger,Being made to look like a fool by a girl. fear,"During the first year in university I had bad results in both the terms, especially the first term. I was afraid that I would not be promoted to the next year and that the others would go ahead of me." shame,"I came home from school very keyed up. At the dinner table I unfortunately unloaded a lot of my hostility off on one of my parents. I'm ashamed that I didn't dispate and control these feelings before coming to the table or even let the energy build up in the first place." anger,Someone called me a disgusting nickname. disgust,"I once watched the series called ""Dynasty"" on TV, and I detested it." sadness,"Christmas Eve: there was a tension between my parents, they did not even try to restore a harmonic atmosphere. Mother stayed in her room almost the whole day. I felt alone and was very sad." joy,"When I met a good friend after a long time. We had had a quarrel but after two weeks I was really glad to see him again." guilt,When I insulted an elderly person for no reason. sadness,"When my father passed away of cancer, I was extremely saddened. He was not very old, which made matters worse. The actual death was horrendous, but the moving funeral saddened me more so." fear,"The hero was chased by a terrible vampire in a suspense and horror film shown on T.V." fear,"One evening a friend of mine was telling a fearful story, nobody took it seriously but I got frightened." joy,"I received a wedding invitation from an ex-flatmate, enclosed was a small note that overcame a lot of the differences that had arisen between us due to the circumstances in which she left the flat." shame,Telling a lie. guilt,"When my friend needed my help very much and I, at that moment, made an end to our relationship." guilt,"I was coming back home with my mother when the purse I was carrying got stolen. It was done so swifty that I did not realize what had happened till much later. A lot of money and the keys of the house were lost. I was guilt ridden at my carelessness. I felt terrible as I do not normally loose things and this was quite important, especially the keys." shame,China cannot give your lectures bigger place and sound system. shame,"When my first sexual intercourse turned out to be a flop. I was in a panic and ended up without an erection." joy,When I had an anticipatory honey-moon with my fiancTe. joy,"When I succeeded in achieving a scholarship for which I had strived hard during a period of financial, personal and physical stress." joy,"The moment I got the news that I had been selected for the U.G.C junior national research fellowship. It was a dream come true." shame,"Saying something quite rude, but in jest, about a photograph of someone, but it didn't quite turn out that way." joy,"When I started a relation with a girl, with whom I have fallen in love already some time ago." disgust,"One day, when I was twelve years old, my brother took some slimy substance swimming on the surface of a pot of vinegar made of cider and threatened to throw it at me." fear,A certain night during initiation. anger,"I was sleeping nicely until in the middle of the night when I became awake because a friend called me for some (in my opinion) nonsens reason." joy,When I had passed MCE examinations. disgust,"When my roommate and I had dinner together we decided as to who would clean the bowls. One day when I came back from school I found that she had not cleaned up. Since I had to cook dinner I cleaned them myself and felt unhappy and disgusted." sadness,"My brother in law was dying of cancer. To see him wasting away was very sad." disgust,"I felt disgusted when I was in a restaurant which didn't appear to be clean and orderly. (I do not like to be in unclean environments)." fear,"When I was 20 years old, I fell severely ill and was bed-ridden for 6 months. I felt very scared for my health and my studies." shame,"I slipped and fell in to a puddle and people started looking at me." joy,"I felt joy when I was admitted to the Higher Agricultural Institute." fear,"We were driving at night and I realized that a car was following us." fear,"Occured while preparing for a midterm in Social Welfare that I thought was going to be very hard and felt unprepared for." disgust,The man who threw me out of the flat disgusted me. fear,"My best frieend left school recently. The next day the weather turned bad suddenly and the male class-mates turned off the lights. I remained on the table and was scared." anger,During my last exam. sadness,Death of a parent. anger,"When I had been obviously unjustly treated and had no possibility of elucidating this." joy,When I had my first boyfriend. guilt,"When I was about 14 years old, I ""borrowed"" a can of drink from the refrigerator, intending to replace it later that day. But it was found missing before I could do anything - no one owned up to its disappearance." guilt,"When my brother ran away from home and I thought it was because of my continously scolding him." anger,"When my mother slapped me in the face, I felt anger at that moment." guilt,"Two-timing - going out with person other than guy I was in relationship with." disgust,"I was at the table at a French friend's house. They served me a big dish with roast cauliflower and sauce. I had to eat it. " guilt,"At school, I did not tell the teacher that it was me who had laughed, and she punished the entire class by making them stay behind for one hour." disgust,"I was disgusted by my paranoid attitude towards myself, my homework at university and disgusted about my lack of retention. Especially in learning another language." fear,Walking in the dark by myself. sadness,"4 years ago my family decided to move from New York to California. From the time we decided to move until the time we left, I realized how much my friends cared for me. When we left and for a long time after that I was very sad." joy,"I felt joy when I came to know Christ. That is when I became a Christian." guilt,"I moved to Nijmegen for my study. Soon after this my mother had to be admitted in hospital because of cardiac compliants. I knew that my moving was an important reason for this." fear,"Once when I crossed the street, and was nearly trampled by a car." joy,"When two female classmates and I were having lunch, we chatted and cracked jokes, I was very happy. However, I felt that I may have said something inappropriate which might cause them to have a bad impression of me." anger,"In the holiday cottage of our association, two of my pals came to wake me up early one morning by bringing a radio played at the highest volume into my room - it was the morning service at its loudest." guilt,"When I ""hated"" one of mmy flatmates who was nice to me." anger,"When fired unjustly from a job as casual bar-person. Charged with giving away free drinks. Not done so and had witnesses to prove it - both patrons and bar staff. Other staff were supportive." joy,When i was asked to be a child's godmother. joy,"I felt joy when I passed the worst phase in my life and discovered how many people considered me important to them." joy,"Realizing one's desire, an experienced feeling of satisfaction from the realization of one's desires and aims." guilt,"We had a day off from school. Instead of helping my mother with her job, I stayed in bed all day." sadness,"I lead a rather secure life. The only thing I can remember is a song from the nineteenth century which is against alcohol. Both the melody and the word (although naive) effected my emotions." guilt,"I felt guilty one day when I stole a slice of bread in a cafeteria." shame,Saw the film about Eight Nations Army conquering Beijing. anger,"I was angry at my boyfriend who had promised to come to see me but did not because he spent the evening with his pals." sadness,A case of unrequited love. joy,When I talk to my friends. sadness,"One of my good friends had to migrate to America. Our friendship had developed quite well and it was a pity as our friendship would fade." guilt,When I had a little accident with my boss'car. guilt,"Make a mistake, offended my friend." joy,When I got my B.Sc degree with first class. fear,"I was asked to join my friend in a boat at Mangochi Lake Malawi and when making a turn, it seemed as if the boat would sink on the side." anger,"When a friend carelessly broke and object in my parent's house and did not apologize, or pay, or anything." joy,When I was admitted to the University. shame,Acting in a play at the orientation camp made me feel timid. fear,Walking alone in the dark in a strange street. joy,Doing unexpectedly well in an examn. disgust,"I was disappointed by a girlfriend when I visited her at her home in Woodlands." joy,Blank. anger,"My anger is with men, their inability to be human (not all men)." sadness,"I ran a race for the CAL track team and I did terribly and then the coach said that I should sit out for the season. I felt really sad because I wasn't going to be able to run. It was something I always had done and now I couldn't do it anymore." disgust,"I felt disgust toward meat when I felt sick with the steak after a week only on meat." joy,"I preached to a F.3 students in a gospel camp. They thus knew more about God and made up their minds to believe in Jesus." guilt,"In the past I used to think that my mother was a very nagging person. When I started living at the hostel we had little time to meet each other. Whenever I went home she would take care of me. I gradually realized that what she had done was for my own good. So very time I saw her I felt guilty." disgust,"3 years ago I served in the army. Once a collegue denounced me because of a delict, which is usually committed. I was arrested for 3 days. I still detest this man." joy,"I won a car in a prize-competition. The moment I was informed about it, I felt joy." fear,When I was sitting in a car next to a man who was masturbating. sadness,"When I left my sister's house after staying there for a few days. She has two little boys, and they are very warm people (the family). At the time, I was in need of this sort of contact, and I grew very fond of children (no, I'm not a paedophiliac)." joy,"I was captain of the school swimming team. The team was only two points in front before the last relay. We won the relay, which I swam in, and thus my team won the championship." shame,Failing an examn. guilt,"As I was not paying attention, my little brother fell off the table." shame,"Recently, some friends and I had too much to drink while on a foot-ball road trip to USC. We trashed our hotel room and I felt ashamed when the maid walked in the next morning." disgust,When I became aware that an acquaintance had stolen from friends. anger,"A friend had promised me to give me a lift to Graz. To be sure I called her before we went. She told me that she had just promised another person to give him a lift." sadness,"When I feel helpless after having tried to help someone without any result." sadness,When I failed the entrance exam to IMEC. joy,When I was accepted for a course on finance and accounting. joy,"When I was accepted as a student of Psychology here at Gutttenburg." shame,"When five of my friends at the secondary school found out the bad things that I had been saying about them." shame,"I had subscribed for this test. We were informed by our secretary where the test took place. We went over there and thought there was a course. So we went back again I felt ashamed that the secretary again should see me." anger,"Jealous of my husband's old girlfriend. We met her with her husband and there was a lot of reminiscing." disgust,A young man was insulting and humiliating a drunken man. fear,"I was a bit frightened when it was found that there was something wrong with my liver. However it turned out that it was not serious and I need not worry." guilt,"I experience a sense of guilt as my middle son cannot express himself like other children, neither verbally nor in writing." fear,Hearing a strange noise in the biology building. shame,"I made a major mistake while learning how to use a computer programme and the teacher criticized me." fear,"I was in a garden one evening and I saw a snake coming towards me." sadness,"I was very sad when I had to leave persons with whom I had a very intense relationship I also had to leave the environment which was part of this." anger,When a girl left me. fear,"I feared that I was pregnant. It was not planned and I would have been compelled to have an abortion, which I would not have liked at all. Fortunately, after a week's anxiety, I got to know that I was not pregnant." anger,"As I usually do not start learning until a short time before an examination,, I once made up my mind to try to work for a longer time. But once again I did not do it - and got a bad mark." guilt,"When I cheated my father and told him that the school administration wanted K80 for the purchase of a mini-bus. Two months later the school authorities wrote back to my father for the money. I could not go back and ask him for the money again as he had already given it to me once." guilt,"I got into a bad fight in a bar and my friend received a bad cut above his left eye while trying to separate us." shame,"When I saw my 18 year old son grab an oxygen mask as he had breathing difficulties. I had a bad conscience because I had not stopped smoking. Medication for the dilation of his breathing tubes also caused a sense of guilt in me." disgust,"When at school I thought that I was going to get the best results in mathematics, but it was someone else who got the prize." disgust,"While walking in town I noticed how the police harrassed a man who was under the influence of alcohol. They terrified him with the thought of arrest by driving close behind him on a pedestrian street. My disgust was directed at the gestures and the facial expressions of the policemen; they seemed to be enjoying themselves." guilt,"I was cold to my sister without meaning it, just because I was upset and frustated." disgust,"I didn't do very well on a midterm and I'm disgusted with myself because I was prepared and thought I did well." joy,When I passed the TOEFEL with very good marks. shame,"When I was young I was told to to the shop to buy a dozen eggs. I went and asked for one egg and the people in the shop laughed at me and so did my family when I told them what had happened." shame,"At using other people, because of sexual experience that was using another to the detriment of both. Anxiety that I may have affected another for the worst." guilt,"I had a girlfriend which I used to call regularly. Then I didn't phone her for a while. At a certain moment I felt a little tension which became worse." guilt,"I had lunch with my ex-boyfriend and did not mention it to my fiancee. I felt guilty despite the fact that I felt nothing for my ex-boyfriend." fear,"It was not long ago when I and two of friends of mine got quite drunk and one of them began to rave under the influence of the alcohol. I felt fear of what could have happened." joy,Having received an offer to do post-graduate work. sadness,"I felt very sad when a friend of mine failed the final exam and she could not be accepted at the institution of learning." shame,"When I realised that I had become too emotionally involved with the person I'm going out with, and when I began to like someone else and questioned whether I really care about person I'm with." joy,When my boyfriend and I made up. anger,"I was angry about how the government acted concerning Hainburg, especially when I saw a discussion about it on TV." sadness,When my flute-teacher was replaced by a new one. sadness,"Sadness - this is an emotion which I have felt very often recently. I can't remember a concrete example. I will describe my general impression from severl situations which evoked this feeling in me." shame,"When a friend from whom I preferred to hide my private life discovered that I had relations with a man." sadness,When I think about my parents getting old. guilt,[ Can not think of anything.] disgust,"When I lose on my bets on anything - baseball, football, basketball, track, craps, poker, or arcade - whether its 5 dollars or 200 I feel that I should never have done it in the first place." joy,"For my parents anniversary, we hosted a party and we were very happy." sadness,My mother was ill and my father was not at home. fear,I may not be clever enough to understand your English lectures. guilt,"Being miserable in a party when other people are friendly and happy." fear,"I was less than 10 years old when our neighbour's dog chased me to the roof of a small shed and there seemed to be no hope of getting away from there." disgust,Robbery mentioned under sadness. anger,"My fiancee and I were at my parent's place watching TV. There were only two TV-chairs and we were sitting on them when my drunken brother came in and rudely chased my fiancee off the chair she was sitting on." disgust,Saw someone messing up our room. disgust,"I felt disgust when I saw a drunkard vomiting very offensive matter." disgust,A man spat on the wall of a house. sadness,Getting to know that my uncle in America had a brain tumor. sadness,I asked a girl out on a date and she said no. shame,"During the English lesson we were required to do a play. A few days after doing it the teacher asked us to do it again at a meeting and I forgot my part." guilt,Once I lied to my parents and this made me feel very guilty. sadness,"I felt sad after having had an argument with my boyfriend. I felt that he did not understand me and that there was no point in carrying on with the relationship." sadness,When I left my part-time job. shame,"When I talked to a psychotherapist for the first time, I started to cry; first I talked to him but he did not say anything and after a while I was crying." shame,Did not finish homework. disgust,"I was forced to go to a party with someone I didn't love and he was telling people that I was his girlfriend." anger,"One day I had sunned my favourite shirt and was putting it back in the wardrobe when my younger brother snatched it from me and wore it. He had not had a bath and was very dirty. I scolded him but he answered back and locked himself up in a room. I was very angry so I starteed kicking on the door and abusing him loudly and freely." guilt,"When I had sufficient amount of money, I brought more clothes for myself than for the children - I felt bad about it." fear,"When I was cycling to school, I nearly got knocked down by a car which (overtook me too closely) did not give me any swerving space." guilt,"When I did not defend my close friend when my father degraded him. I felt guilty for allowing my father to get away with his actions and for the hurt my friend felt. I cleared the matter up with my father a few weeks later." anger,"I missed an opportunity to go abroad because of some silly mistakes for which I had to suffer a lot." disgust,Attitude to a related family. shame,"When, for example, I fail in my undertakings." guilt,Not helping other people to do their homework. anger,"One winter day I, unwillingly, was outdoors with my younger brother (10 years younger than me). I lost my temper on him and wanted to throw my brother down the snow bank we were on. I pushed him but not as hard as I had wanted to. We were alone the two of us." joy,"When I went to visit a friend in the hospital. She had to undergo an operation for rupture. I was glad to hear that the operation succeeded and that she was relieved of her pain." fear,"When I was young I saw a horror film. Then when I went to sleep, the film came back too my mind and the characters frighteneed my imagination." disgust,"Through the media and their presentation of a kidnapped child who was raped." fear,"At night when I was coming from Lingadzi Inn I heard a hyena crying in the Lingadzi jungle. I was alone." fear,Being alone in the room at night. shame,"Some time back I had signed a letter which I had not read. What had happened is that something had been written against my friend and this went to the higher authorities. My friend asked me -""you also signed ?"" " joy,When I knew about my first job. shame,I fell outside the door of my house. anger,"Once, during a performance I did not sing the way I had to." anger,"When my roommate's boyfriend assaulted me. He was threatening me, calling me names and pushing me around." joy,"When my fiancee travelled 2000 Km to visit me, and I hadn't seen her for 4 months." guilt,I broke my friend's badminton racket and she kept quiet about it. guilt,"I forgot to water the flowers in our flat and was rebuked by my friends who share the flat with me." disgust,"I was disgusted from a quarrel between two married people, in which the children were involved as accusers of one of the parents." joy,"When I first heard ""I like you !"" from my boyfriend." shame,"Quite recently I realized that I had had some erroneous views about life. For instance, I had always lived for other people, had forgotten my own person and suppressed my own feelings. I was ashamed because I had not been concious of that until I had a conversation about it with a person." fear,"When I am alone at night after having read horror stories, and then I heard unexplainable noises." shame,"On New Year's Eve, when I went to the house of my girlfriend's parents to meet them." joy,Doing well in the examn. shame,"I omitted to do a favor to a friend, while he was very much in need for help." joy,"During the summer I received grade cards from my TA's. I expected a B no better in Computer Science. I looked at the card - I got an A - I was ecstatic." disgust,"I deliberately avoided a person who I wanted to hurt, and who wanted to talk to me." guilt,"My sisters asked me to fetch them at a discotheque which is 5 km off. There was a thick fog and snowfall. There was not enough room in the car for all of them and they asked me to go there once again. When I did not do that they had a way to make me feel guilty." joy,When I was with someone I love. guilt,"I hit my little sisiter on the head with a stone while we were fighting." joy,When I qualified for form I. disgust,Cueing for a bus and the drivers having long dinner. shame,"I told some acquaintances of mine something that I regretted later." anger,When I was insulted by a man. joy,"After a difficult exam. When I had not hoped to take it and had got a high mark. When you present someone with something and he feels glad." anger,"I felt angry at one time when I was chatting with friends and suddenly another friend joined us and started opposing any comment I added to our chatting." fear,"When I was about six years old, I mistook a cat for a leopard when it entered my room at night." disgust,My roommate talking and shaking her bed at night. shame,"I misunderstood a girl and thought that she loved me. One day when I was talking to her, her boyfriend appeared and I felt ashamed." fear,"Having quarreled with a boyfriend, he threatened to leave me." sadness,When my sister left home to go and live with her husband. shame,"I was walking to school and I passed by a red cross post where there were many soldiers. They began to pass remarks at me." anger,"When I heard that my step-mother had treated my mother in a wrong manner." guilt,When caught shop-lifting as for shame. shame,Doesn't apply. sadness,"When we decided, my boyfriend and I, that we would separate, I realized that he would have wanted to continue our relationship and the coming separation hurt him." fear,"Once our school class went skiing. On a steep slope a boy standing behind me lost his balance, fell down and drew me with him. I slided down the whole slope. At about 1 m distance from a tree I could stop." disgust,"When I was a teacher in an evening school, a girl raised a lot of questions and expressed her opinions. She, very often, took a stand which was different from mine and she thought that it was better than mine. Her opinions were helpful academically, but she did not take into consideration my position in public. Also she seemed to be very talkative and so she disgusted me." fear,That I would do bad in a class and not get into Bus school. guilt,"When I was driving my motorbike I went into a bend incautiously and fell down. I was slightly hurt, the motorbike was slightly damaged." anger,"I saw in a movie a block on which affluence and poverty existed. I saw that the rich made no attempts to help the poor." sadness,"When my sister (really my niece) died of cancer at the age of 2 yrs after I took her to the doctor at the age of 1 and he diagnosed it." fear,"While watching TV (a war movie), I felt a strong fear of death, threat and fear of loosing people close to me." fear,"Taking a trip to crocokile country I fell out of the boat and was motivated by fear of being eaten to perform great swimming feats." guilt,"I broke a cup and put it back without telling anyone about it and someone almost got blamed for it, then it was discovered that it was me who had broken it." fear,Before I had a tooth pulled out. I was very upset and ill. sadness,"I felt sad when a thief stole all the clothes from my friend's cupboard at school (boarding)." sadness,When my dog died. guilt,"I was supposed to have done some things for my mother, but just plain didn't get around to it." guilt,"Making a sexual pass at my cousin with whom I have a very close personal relationship." fear,Finding out that I am not an as able student as I thought. anger,When the morning newspaper has not arrived. sadness,"When I saw in the newspapers, on the T.V, and magazines the chaotic situation caused by the drought and hunger in Mauritania." joy,Good news about a sick relative. guilt,"I borrowed my classmate's notebook one week before the examination and I promised to give it back to her in two days time. I was very busy at that time and forgot many things; as I was not very often at home she could not contact me. When I started my revision I realized that her notebook had been on my desk for five days. I contacted her immediately and gave it back to her. Though she did not say anything I felt very guilty." guilt,Wrongly accused a classmate. shame,"I talk too much, cannot keep things secret. I promised a friend not to tell something to anybody. Neverthless, I did, and she got informed about it. I felt very ashamed." guilt,Saw a blue film in a cinema. sadness,"When I took the B.A exams,I was expecting a 1st class even though I had not done very well. When the results came out I felt sad as I had missed the 1st class by 12 marks." joy,"It was when I was selected to go to a Secondary school to start form I." shame,"When taking part in the mobbing of one of my best friends in primary school." anger,"When I discovered that my girlfriend was going around with another boy." sadness,When I failed at the first entrance exam. sadness,I like someone who does not like me and was rude to me. guilt,"When my library books were overdue and I did not have the money to pay for them." fear,"On a dark night I felt that there were several people near me and I did not know who they were." fear,"One day I was busy day dreaming along the road and suddenly I heard the sound of jamming car braked behind me. I woke up from my dreams and it was about to crash me." disgust,NO RESPONSE sadness,My grandmother died during Christmas break several years ago. fear,"I was alone walking in a deserted part of the city and I had some fear that some men would attack me and rob me." joy,"When I spoke to my daughter and wished her luck for the examinations she was about to take." guilt,"I reproached my mother's cooking and criticised her personality, and she felt hurt and depressed." fear,"When I was looking for a job I felt a lot of fear but the fear was greater when I found it." anger,"I had a very good friend in secondary school. The year after our graduation I prepared to celebrate her birthday and I called off all my appointments. I got together the other friends and we were ready to give the entire day to her. However this friend disappeared on her birthday. When I phoned another friend I didcovered thay she was busy, I did not call her anymore." guilt,"The greatest guilt I felt and I didn't know if it was really justified is that when I was a child I had a brother very close to me. He became ill, and asked me to see him in the hospital. I didn't go, when his situation became worse in the U.I.T. (Unity of intensive therapy) I went and he died." joy,When I got accepted to CAL. guilt,"I saw a neighbour, from the same appartment block as me, lying on the road. He could have been injured or ill. I kept 20 metres away and did not go to help him." sadness,"I feel sadness when I only imagine that I could lose a close person. Some time ago I lost a man whom aI greatly respected." joy,I went home and visited with my family and friends. fear,"I remember when I was a child of a storm that made me terribly afraid. I thought that the house was coming down and that in the next day I would be dead. Everybody was awake and I stayed all night in bed without falling asleep." disgust,Postgraduate students talking about girls stupid. guilt,"I had a date with a boy, but I didn't feel liked, and didn't go, I wasn't home purposely at the time we arranged." sadness,"I have high expectations for my future but if I pursue the subject in this manner I will not attain this." sadness,When my beloved grandfather died. guilt,"I spoke to my mother on the phone. She had skin cancer and was waiting to be operated. I forgot to ask her the date of the operation and just before finishing our conversation she gave me the date in passing. " sadness,"When a friend, who has been with me at school, failed to make it to UNZA." shame,Stealing from my mother's purse when I was a little boy. disgust,"I was disgusted the other day I was told to take off the dog's faeces around the house since they smelled bad I did the job but in the end I felt disgusted." " guilt,"When I was young, I stole some money from my mother's purse. It wasn't very much, but I can remember when she found it gone I felt very guilty." fear,"My friend and I planned to search for old documents and utensils in the cellar. It was very late at night when we arrived in the cellar. He indicated the place where the police (40 years ago) found two dead bodies. I got very scared when he told me this story." anger,When I missed the tram after having run for it. joy,When I was selected for the university. fear,"While I was pushing a court roller out of a ditch, I slipped and fell down and the roller rolled back towards me -down slope-It is a miracle that I still have my legs intact." guilt,"When I arrived home late at night. I know that my mother gets worried and this made me feel angry." fear,"I broke my knee when I was skiing over ""Yastrebetz"" (a racing track in a Bulgarian winter resort)." guilt,"When my nephew asked me to tell him a story and I simply did not have the energy or the will. When I saw his disappointment I was terribly guilty and read a story to him after all." joy,"When I heard that I had passed my MCE Exam, I spent the whole day dancing and eating sugarcanes from our garden." sadness,"A boy I look after for the probation service deliberately offended to provoke a reaction from the police." anger,When my mother treats me as a 10-year old boy. anger,"I was very angry when I heard that my brother was beaten by his friends." shame,"I didn't tell my parents that I was going to Sofia. I told them that I was going to a seminar. My mother knew that I was lying but she didn't stop me." sadness,"When a friend of mine told me that he was going to commit suicide." anger,"At school, a couple of years ago, a so-called acquaintance told lies about me to a teacher I was told about it by friends who overheard the conversation." joy,When a student of mine (at music) performed and played remarkably well. guilt,"A friend who was 22 years old, died of leukemia; I had not known that he was so ill and therefore had not cared." anger,"My mother and I had an argument over buying some clothes for me. She did not accept the fact that I did not like the same things as her, and we ended up shouting at each other." sadness,When I learnt that my close friend was going to immigrate. joy,"I was admited to the Chinese university of Hong Kong. The day the results were announced I looked in the newspaper and saw my candidature number." sadness,When I heard my sister got in a bad car accident. anger,When someone lies to me. shame,"The parents of a friend of mine surprised us and another couple sleeping in thier place." guilt,"When I forced a close friend of mine to ask a girl things about herself." shame,When harassed by this boy - it was sexual (refer to GUILT). disgust,"I saw a movie called ""The Thing"", the film directed by John Carpenter. The monster in the film made me feel disgusted." anger,"When my father's new fiancee treats me like a child. She does not trust me and constantly misunderstands me. I get particularly angry when she says nasty things about my boyfriend with whom she works." shame,"When I had insulted my father two years back, at that time I was very angry due to some reasons." sadness,I had failed some subjects in mathematics. sadness,"When I realized the burden it was for my mother to look after all of us, all by herself." shame,"When I told a girl that I could not take her out that night as I was entertaining my mother who had come from home. However, I later met this girl with another girlfriend at a hostel where I had taken out another girlfriend of mine." guilt,"Not being able to spend more time with a friend who was visiting me." guilt,I stroke a person undeservedly. fear,"When I began school at UC. The pre-enrollment the classes, and the question of success really scared me." disgust,A TV program on whale-hunting. disgust,"When I entered the wound intensive care at the Central Hospital in Blantyre which was stinking." fear,"I am thinking about death, the eternal of it, the unknown, the sense of being here. Often, laying in bed in the dark and quiet, the fear makes me feel dizzy." joy,When I passed the 12th standard board exams. joy,I got a present from a great friend (a dog). sadness,When my beloved girlfriend got married to another person. disgust,When I vomitted a lump of blood. anger,"We had fixed time for practice as we had to participate in the inter-department song contest. I arrived and found that there was nobody there. When I went to the canteen I found them eating lunch. I was so angry that I aired my greviances to one of them and then left." sadness,My father dying. anger,"When, after a week at school, a teacher sent a note home saying that my son was inattentive and unable to do his lessons." anger,"At one of my close friends saying she didn't like the way I am nice to people I don't know, or who have been nasty to me." guilt,"I had enough time to do my assignment, and I did not do it well. When the lecturer scolded me, I had this feeling." shame,When I forgot a promise made to a friend of mine. joy,After each successfully passed exam I am happy. sadness,"My current work load is too much. The feeling comes back from time to time." joy,"When I was selected for higher education, i.e grade 7 to formI." sadness,When I could not do anything because of a bad back. guilt,Squeezed the puppy in the door. anger,"When my parents drove me to a nearby place and went home immediately instead of waiting a few hours. They could have easily waited." joy,When I was accepted at UNZA. guilt,[ The day I have not worked (academic) hard enough.] disgust,"I stormed into the room, hoping to cool myself with some soft music from my three band radio cassette. There was only young Kaley there and he explained, "" Your aunt has sold it as she wanted to buy clothes.""" shame,At a weakness on my part. anger,"One day in a clinic, the father of a child came in and assaulted a colleague for something that she had not done deliberately." shame,"[ I feel shame when I do not arrive on time and others have to wait for me for a long time.]" joy,"I got a letter from my best friend, whom I had not heard from for a long time (a good letter)." disgust,When I got indecent offers. anger,The stories about the way my grandmother treated my mother. sadness,My friend still trusts me as a friend. joy,"My sister had a daughter. I saw the baby for the first time through a pane of glass and she looked at me." disgust,"In a warm bus full of people, someone vomited and the whole bus stank." guilt,I am not doing what I should with this questionnaire. anger,"A lady I live with had not bothered to clean up before she went on holiday (I live in a collective)." disgust,[ The previous incident holds good here also.] joy,When my little sister was born. anger,When my mother quarrelled with my aunt over me. sadness,"Since I moved into the dorms and I've been spending most of my free time with my boyfriend. I hardly see my old high school friends. I had several bad incidents with my 2 past best friends." guilt,"I was keeping a friend's Library book which went overdue. My friend was charged for the delay in returning the book to the Library. I felt guilty when I realised I was responsible." fear,[ No response.] disgust,When I was getting so fat. guilt,"When I was in P3 I was always punished as I would forget to do my homework. The first time that I was punished and not allowed to leave school, I slipped out of school." guilt,"When I told a person something that had happened to my friend, and this person went and told my friend." guilt,When I shot a bird in the head with a shotgun. anger,"I was indignant at the unimpartiality shown by the referees at the football match between Bulgaria and France." fear,"I had to tell someone that I was interested in remaining celibate and alone. And that my spiritual master strictly prohibited sexual relations outside of marriage. This caused great fear through lack of conviction afraid to hurt someone's feelings despite my own being hurt in the process." guilt,I do not study enough as I do not understand it properly. disgust,Seeing someone who has bleeding nose. sadness,"I had this feeling when my parents distroyed a relationship with a boy because they thought he was bad and irresponsible." anger,"I was a prefect at secondary school. On the sports day I told others that I would take down the names of the people who misbehaved and after some time I sat down for a brief rest. Suddenly the head prefect came and scolded me in front of others. I was very angry as there were other prefects sitting and he picked on me. I thought that a brief rest was not serious enough to be blamed." disgust,"When I saw a film where a black was rapeing a girl while another one was filming it for a pornographic movie." fear,"We went fishing some 5 or 8 kilometers off the shore of Lake Malawi. Before we could settle down the lake became very rough to the point of threatening our lives." anger,[ No response.] shame,When I dated my friend's boyfriend after they had broken up. fear,"Fear of the turn that the examination paper would take as I lacked confidence." guilt,"I failed to keep a promise and this had a serious effet on someone's problem." disgust,"When working in a chemical laundry, I saw rats and maggots in the washing." anger,"My cousins were playing at home and one of them broke a decorative object which was very precious to me." fear,"I was walking along a subway when I saw a group of louts. I was rather afraid because I was alone." shame,"Defying my parents and staying out all night when I wasn't supposed to." anger,"Sometime back another girl who was in terms with my ex-boyfriend came to shout at me at twelve midnight. It was because she thought I was still interested in the boy." disgust,"When my relatives troubled me so that I would help them financially." fear,"On the way home one Friday night in the heavy rain the car acquaplanned. I lost contact with the road surface for a few seconds." guilt,"I was 4-5 years old when I hid the bicycle keys of a not very good friend. After a few hours I pretended that I had found it." sadness,"My got my mathematics test's marks and could not believe that it was true. In the past I would have at least 80% marks. Was I getting weaker at studies ? This made me feel that I should not expect too much from going to the university." fear,When approached by a gang of youths in town at night. shame,"When some of my close friends and colleagues talk about me and my work and say that I am the brightest student of the college." anger,"A certain person started to say dreadful things very calmly, I felt hurt and disgusted." guilt,"I was driving a friend's car, and I got close to the pavement to ask my way and I struck a parked car." fear,"When I first came to the UNZA I did not know the kind of people I would find here and the kind of behaviour they would have towards me." guilt,"I had an argument with a friend of mine. She would not let me speak and then I began to shout at her. She got angry and left, I did not try to prevent her from leaving." fear,"I stayed alone in the dark at night in the mountain, waiting for my uncle. I remember that I took a big stone and it calmed me." fear,"I was coming home from a relative's place and it was about 9.30/10 P.M. I felt slightly apprehensive when I got off the bus and started walking towards my place. I was confident that nothing would happen to me, yet there was this slight feeling of fear." anger,"I was enjoying the company of bird life while I was eating lunch in a park when a group of people began throwing sticks at some of the birds - for no reason other than the satisfaction of seeing them being scared away." joy,Talking with a nice girl. shame,"At Christmas night there was a good movie on television which I wanted to see for years. I was whining about it till someone told me it was very childish. Then I felt shame." joy,I unexpectedly got a present from my father. fear,"When I was young I had gone to an old lift and played with the antique lift. The guy discovered me and warned me, I was very frightened." guilt,"I was to prepare relish for the family. I overcooked it and no one liked the meal that day." fear,Finding out about people can go mad for social reasons. anger,"My mother carried on using mental pressure concerning something which was serious and a real burden to me." sadness,"When I was trying for a girl who I really liked and cared for and thought she felt the same way too. But she didn't like the idea and just wanted to stay friends." shame,Forgetting an important appointment. shame,When I wore a grotesque figure hanging down my back. disgust,"The serving lady in the students' dining hall shouting at studennts." anger,[ No description.] shame,[ No response.] joy,"Joy for me is when all my family gather around home for special occasions as Christmas etc. It really gives me joy to see my family and relatives and to observe natures productivity process which have been going on for centuries." fear,"I was at home and we were sleeping when we heard some robbers breaking into our house." sadness,"When I am alone in a room with no contact with anyone - loneliness drains me." disgust,"Finding out that old and useless practitioners of retirement age will go to your English lectures and they do not understand English." sadness,When my father was ill. shame,"As a little girl, I was sick in the middle of a school day and I vomitted in the basin of the classroom." joy,When my parents complimented me very nicely on something. guilt,"I used to have two boyfriends in the past. Then one of them wanted to get engaged to me. I agreed but was guilt-conscious for disappointing the other one." fear,"Sitting alone in a quiet room, concetrating on things happening around you. Thoughts come into my mind which make me afraid." shame,"I felt it when I felt that I was being observed as an object of pleasure (sexual) when I opened and took off a shirt in a classroom at P.V.C." guilt,"A very, very close friend of mine used to come to my room to see me and I naver bothered to pay him a visit. One day he asked me the reason behind this and I gave him a shirt." shame,"When my natural parents name would show up on papers and not my, what I call real name." sadness,When I was ditched by my girlfriend. guilt,"I got angry at my mother for something trivial. We were in a bad mood because my father was very ill and I knew that my mother really needed support. I had reacted wrongly." guilt,"I could have passed the last exam of the public competition, but I failed as I had not studied." joy,"My girlfriend who had been very far away from me came to my place. She saw me and ran after me. I didn't know that she had come. I couldn't see her. She held my shoulders standing behind me." shame,During a meeting. shame,"In an express bus I sat on a seat meant for senior citizens and invalids." anger,At home when they lost three pieces of my puzzle. guilt,"Telling a lie to wife over phone about what I had been working at." fear,"On my second plane trip, we ran into unexpected turbulence." joy,"Coming to this lecture and listen to you talking about feelings, I am so happy that foreigners have the same feelings as Chinese." fear,When armed robbers broke into our house at night. anger,"When a man, a stranger to me, personally insulted a close woman friend of mine in public." joy,"I was for the first time on a brigade this year. At that time my sister was to bear a child. I was mad with joy when I opened the telegram from my parents and learned I had a nephew." guilt,"About not helping my sister when she asked me to help her on her chemistry class. I pretended to be busy." guilt,When one of my lovers told me that I was a flirt. shame,[ Do not know.] anger,"When during a social evening with my father, brother, sister, close friend and my father's 2nd wife - I had an argument with my father, who abused my friend who was sticking up for me." fear,Getting ill. disgust,"When I worked at the life-saving service I was disgusted by a patient whose outward appearance was distasteful." fear,"When a good friend of me told me one evening that she didn't want to live anymore." disgust,"I felt disgusted on seeing my boyfriend after our separation. One day he was begging at the mass transit railway station and at that moment I hated him." fear,"When I was working in Delhi, I had gone alone to see the hostel where I would be residing." sadness,"When a close friend, residing in the hostel, lost his father I really pittied him and the situation made me feel sad." joy,Got a present from my friend for my birthday. disgust,"When a ""friend"" woke me up in the middle of a blessful sleep by knocking on the door. Then he started calling me names and saying that he had heard that I had been talking behind his back, this was a lie and the guy was drunk to the core." joy,"I felt joy most strongly some years ago, when I took part in a NH Competition and I was the first." disgust,"[ I would classify subjectively, a certain gesture or the way of talking of a person as disgusting or inacceptable.]" sadness,"In 1983, my results at the university entrance exam were very poor - far from what I had expected. I thought that I would not be accepted at the university." joy,"To be able to prepare myself better for an important examination, I did not spend the nitht with my girl-friend but in the students' hostel. I had not done that for months. The day when I had the examn, somebody knocked at my door at seven o'clock in the morning. My girl-friend who likes sleeping late, had come to be able to be with me." shame,Failing in an examn because of lazyness. shame,"I was talking badly about a person to some friends, and discovered that his daughter was listening." sadness,"When I understood that my marriage was falling apart, and we decided to be legally separated." guilt,Little contact with my father before he died. shame,"Finding out from this lecture that China is backward in psychology." fear,"I was living in rooms in a very lonely, quiet neigbourhood. During the night it was very silent and this frightened me. The fact of being alone in that house frightened me." fear,"This last August when my parents dropped me off and moved me into college I didn't know anybody here; I was 17 and Berkeley really scared me." anger,"When I talk to silly, petty-minded and unmanageable people." anger,"When I was told that a boy did not want to be my friend without any apparent reason." fear,"Fear is an emotion that I experience very often. Naturally this is during exams and subsequently while waiting for the results. However there is one occassion when I was paralyzed with fear. This was when I was doing my M.A.-I, and we had a series of student lectures. I was one of the participants and my lecture happened to be the opening lecture. I had been confident all morning, about twenty minutes before the lecture, my confidence started failing me. I felt my heart go cold, my lips go dry and I was really paralyzed. This incident of fear is still fresh." anger,"My boyfriend breaking up with me about 7 months after I had an abortion. Just the fact that he was ignoring me and continued to do so." guilt,"I destroyed my step-brother's bedsheets by mistake, they were the only ones he had." shame,"My brother came to see me and found me with a boy friend. When my boyfriend greeted him, he did not answer and instead started shouting at me and scolding me in the prescence of my boyfriend." joy,"When I received the result slip of the higher level examination (an university entrance exam) and saw that I had a very good possibility of being accepted into the university, I felt very excited." joy,A recurrent lovesickness. fear,"When one has arranged to meet someone and that person arrives late, in the meantime one starts thinking about all that could have gone wrong e.g a traffic accident." guilt,I had promised to call a girl but I did not do it. joy,My old friend visited me in the university. guilt,"When we were playing, I hurt my little sister, but towards my mother I did not admit that it was my fault." fear,A relative died. sadness,"In my penultimate job I was responsible of a sections with several employers, after several years of dedication I was dismissed by a new chef, saying that I was incompetent." fear,[ No response.] shame,When I had to act alone a character for a public (40 people). disgust,When I worked at the life-saving sevice and saw the first exitus. guilt,When I lost something that was valuable to my sister. disgust,"When a very dirty class-mate farted in my presence. There was a terrible smell." guilt,"I chatted up with a girl who I didn't love. She however was fallen in love with me. I felt responsible for her sorrow." anger,"We are repainting rooms in my house. My mother started to enact plans to paint my room without consulting me." disgust,"When a very near person got into an awkward situation but showed only helplessness and indecision." sadness,"I had asked the teacher to write a recommendation letter for me, but I had not provided enough information and had run short of time." sadness,"Leaving Melbourne to move interstate - leaving relatives and friends behind." shame,"When my mother found a leaf of my diary where I had written about my mother's lack of education, especially her poor arithmetical insight." guilt,"When my grandfather was in a nursing home when I was young I never wanted to go and sometimes didn't have to and later I felt guilty." joy,"When finally I found a place to live, I felt relieved, predicting changes in my life, and I became happy." disgust,With an alcoholic. joy,When the contract about my shop was signed. shame,"During an informal discussion I contributed a lot even though I had not spent much time studying. Whenever someone said that someone was not paying attention, or that he had too many other things to do, or that the persoon was not trying his best, I would feel ashamed." joy,"This came in when at one time I met a girl who I didn't expect to fall in love with me. Fortunately I tried my luck and she accepted my proposal. At the same time she was giving me a lot of money which was just like a miracle to me." shame,"Not having owned up to the responsibility an incident where family car received minor damage." guilt,"This situation happened when my friend me with a knife which I stole from him." fear,"When I entered the operation theatre and underwent a difficult operation." guilt,I made another person cry for an unjustified cause. anger,"During the Summer, at my workplace, a person kept interfering with my tasks and making unfounded remarks. I felt hatred for him but it stopped when I realized that he just longed for attention." sadness,"Once my friend and I got into into a hot discussion on a very controversial topic. At one point of the argument I disagreed with her totally and I took what she was saying as an insult. So I couter-argued and unknowingly hurt her emotionally, I felt very sad about this." guilt,"During class one day I walked out of the class. The teacher noticed it and decided that he would take some action against me, when I realized this I approached him and told him that I was sorry for the incident and would not repeat it." sadness,"After hearing about the death of my grandfather. First I could not believe it, but later I wept and felt the situation was hopeless. I felt lonely and wanted to be consolated." fear,Every time I see a spider or a snake. anger,"Sometime ago I felt very angry when my mother wrote me telling me that my elder sister was messing up things at home by her internalised aggressive attitude towards parents and her husband." anger,"My parents were having a typical family argument. I came in and saw the scene and became angry." disgust,"One of my fellow students used questionable and unfair means to advance her studies faster than others. I detested her." guilt,"Our class had organized a picnic in November. I was the class representative so I became the organizor. However the picnic was postponed by one week and I had something else to do then. Initially I did not ponder on what to do and decided to go for the picnic. When I had the time to think about it I thought that my decision was wrong. My classmates thought that I would go as I had signed my name but I did not go. I told another class representative that I was not going but he did not know the reason behind my not going. After the picnic my classmates asked me why I had not gone to the picnic and everytime someone mentioned it I was apologetic. I should have decided right in the begining that I would not go and then they would not see me as irresponsible i.e promising to go and changing my mind afterwards." guilt,"Some time ago I slapped my son without trying to understand who the real culprit of a damage was. After that I felt guilty and bad but it was too late." shame,"When I stated sharply something I was not very sure of and a few days later I was shown to be wrong." shame,When I did not buy what I had promised to. anger,"I felt angry when I heard that my sister had failed the Examinations which we hoped she was going to pass with distinctions." joy,When my first child was born. shame,Not being able to hand in homework in time. guilt,"I had promised to visit my girlfriend but for different reasons could not make it. I rang up later to tell her that I could not come." joy,"When I made the winning goal during a very important football game." joy,Getting back with my boyfriend after a year away - apart. fear,"That if ever I was really naughty I would be sent away from my Mum and Dad to another family. I was fostered from age 5 and didn't get to Mum and Dad until I was 6 and then legally adopted at 14." sadness,"I felt sadness when I remembered my former boyfriend with whom I got separated an year ago and when comparing him with my present one with whom things are not much of a success." shame,"I was examined by a teacher I greatly respected. I was well prepared on the subjects but he put some side-issues to me and I couldn't answer." disgust,"When after a storm in the country, I left my shelter and saw a big, fat, slimy green toad by my side." guilt,"I had found out that I was pregnant. I talked it over with my boyfriend and he was unsupportive - yet encouraged an abortion - I did." guilt,When I was caught with my girlfriend in the house at night. disgust,"I cannot remember exactly such a situation. But I know that once I went to a very dirty lavatory and that disgusted me." joy,"At a party in which I met an interesting female. We enjoyed eachothers company, while slow dacing." anger,"I wanted to go to Bhopal for relief work (gas tragedy). My boss simply refused to let me go, I was so angry that the only thought that came to my mind was to quit the job." disgust,"During the Chinese lessons a student often showed off. Moreover he misbehaved and dressed very badly. So disgusting !" joy,"Naturally when I got myself discharged this was my second birthday." anger,"One day my elder brother badly scolded my father. This was the first time that I heard such abusive language from my brother. I requested him humbly not to use this kind of language but he did not care for what I was saying. Finally I picked up an axe to use against him, in the meanwhile people intervened." fear,"Sleeping alone in a tent, while hearing several noises such as rustling etc, I am afraid that there are people who are up to no good." sadness,"I had a good relationship with two friends. Once without reason, they clearly showed that they thought I was naive, dull and unable to take care for myself, while I expostulated that I could manage things." shame,"Once I went home totally drunk and roused all our neighbours from sleep." shame,When I tripped while getting on a bus. anger,"My husband and I were invited at the house of our nieghbours then we got an invitation on the part of my parents which we had to refuse. A a result they called me by words that provoked my anger." sadness,A friend who was 22 years old died. joy,"The weekend after I argued with my parents I went home again and they couldn't have been nicer. As soon as I walked in, Mum kissed me, then Dad, and thanked me for the birthday presents I'd left for him, including a very sentimental birthday card." joy,"[ During inter-rail-trip, after troubles, I met my little sister.]" anger,"My boyfriend told me that I had very high demands towards him. In my opinion this was wrong." anger,"This happened recently, I was in the dining hall and one of my friends with whom I was eating called me a fool." guilt,That I didn't take the time to make an appointment with someone. anger,"I am separated from my husband. The way he has behaved towards me makes me angry." fear,"At primary school I was accused by some boys of being in love with a certain girl in their class so they had to shout and beat the girl and the matter was reported to the headmaster." guilt,"Once when I complained I caused a great discussion between my parents." shame,When a person whom I do not want to see is continously present. shame,"I had been rude to my mother at a time when she needed comforting, not anger (death of my sister)." disgust,When I found my girl in bed with another man. sadness,"Moving to an unknown place, away from the familiar surroundings and into a situation of loneliness." joy,"When I finally managed to get a specific sound from my guitar, after baving tried for a long time." guilt,After the death of a girl who I disliked. fear,"When I was hitch-hiking and I went with a man who drived like a madman." guilt,"When I sided with my mother in a quarrel she had with my father before they briefly separated." guilt,[ I have not felt this emotion in my life.] guilt,"When I discovered that the girl I was courting was a relative of mine." shame,"During a family reunion, they started talking about me wearing an ear-ring." disgust,"Political and military trnsgressions around the world, generally speaking. This cannot be described through this questionaire." sadness,"When I didn't get a certain job at Lillehammer which I wanted very much." shame,"I cannot remember a situation in which I felt ashamed. I was eating with some people and a little boy I took care of. I warned him often not to knock down his glass of mild. When I took out his chair I knocked down my own glass." guilt,"I accused my husband of being late deliberately when he came to pick me up from work." sadness,"Having to decide on a termination of a pregnancy, after discussing it with friends, family and the man involved." joy,"In 1980 when I was in the 12th standard, we had arranged a small picnic in Kandala. One of my closest friends wrote a small and cute poem for me, which expressed the feeling of closeness we had for each other. I was very thrilled and I can still remember it." shame,[ No response.] anger,"When the paramilitary was sent to the UNZA and it started using tear gas and started intimidating the students without any provocation." guilt,Betraying someone's trust. shame,"My mother and my grandmother were talking about one of my grandmother's friends whom I hardly know. I gave some deprecatory comments on him whereupon my grandmother told me that the man had died recently." joy,When I was admitted to the Higher Institute. disgust,"I felt disgust about all my friends. After having done a great effort to organize an evening together, and didn't work out, they put the blame on me. After this, I feel disgust towards those that blame me." joy,"When I was told that I was selected to attend Medical Assistant Training." shame,Watching Muldoon act as my P.M. sadness,"When I saw the list of books to read for an acccouting course, I thought "" Oh God how will I ever manaage it!""" disgust,When my husband told me about his pre-marital affairs. joy,"Before Christmas I got to know a girl but our relationshop could not consolidate before the holiday. Therefore it was a big surprise to get a carefully hand-made present from her. - Our relationship grew closer." B) Description of a disfigured orphaned child in Hiroshima calling for her mother." sadness,When I was at school. guilt,"My grandmother wanted me to help her. I was driving a tractor pulling a dead branch off a tree. I told her she didn't respect me." joy,"I got my driving licence after they had frightened me with it's difficulty." joy,"I went for a walk on the beach with a friend whom I had not seen for many months. The weather was very pleasant, we had some ice-cream and lots of fun on the beach." shame,"During my Highschool time I was chairman of the student's comitee. In this function I once had to make a speech to a large audience and I was very nervous. After three sentences I forgot my text." disgust,"At the police centre a man between 40-50 was brought in. He was very drunk and in all likelihood had not slept indoors for a long time and had relieved himself in his trousers." guilt,"I went to go get a bike innertube fixed. I fixed it and I was supposed to pay previously but I didn't. I said I would after I fixed the tire. After fixing the tire, the salesperson who helped me was gone so I walked out of the store without paying. I felt guilty so I went inside and paid for the tire." sadness,"Whenever I read or think about the way people treat animals and nature." fear,"I feel fear when I only imagine I could lose confidence in my own abilities and powers. A similar feeling I feel sometimes before an exam." joy,"When I learned I was admitted to study what I wanted most - floriculture (this is a narrow specialization from the general one)." sadness,I was very sad at hearing that my grandfather had passed away. fear,"I felt afraid when I smoked maryhuana for the first time in my life with a lot of friends in the middle of the street at day brake." joy,"I had a very close friend who went to Canada after her F.B, his departure was unavoidable. When he came back during the Summer holidays I was very happy as nothing had changed between us." sadness,"I phoned two friends and was not able to arrange a meeting with either of them, so I had to change my plans." fear,"I was playing with friends then I decided to splash some sand into a car which was moving nearby. The driver got angry and came to report to my parents." joy,"When my husband suddenly came to see me at my new job and brought some flowers and cake with him." sadness,Cooks refused to give me food. shame,"I was ashamed when my boyfriend went to sit with another girl when he invited me to come to watch Drama festival." fear,Once while crossing a road I was overcome with fear. anger,"I live with my sister now and sometimes she angers me especially when she thinks I don't keep the apt. clean enough." anger,Once I saw some children hunting a cat to death. sadness,"The same as for SHAME and DISGUST. I was asked to resign my sorority which I did because I was ashamed." fear,"When I was ringing up a guy who was my teen idol, and was in Auckland. I was really scared, I didn't know what to say or do." disgust," I was at a friend's place for lunch and she fell ill and vomited." sadness,"When I was six years old, my favourite cat died." fear,I could not do the questions on my math midterm. sadness,"When my half brother became seriously ill with cancer and died later." anger,"I had worked very hard during my vacations to raise some money for a few major items (e.g a radio). but when I arrived at the inter-city bus terminal, my hard earned money had been stolen from me." guilt,"On a telephone talk where I was agressive and stupid without the least, reason or better motive." fear,"When I was to sit for my first entrance exam. I had fear of a possible failure." guilt,[ No response.] sadness,"I experienced this emotion when my friend committed suicide after we had spent the afternoon playing and discussing life and it's problems." disgust,"When I had to eat scraps from a dust-bin, because of a bet." anger,I feel a strong anger when I am treated unjustly. guilt,Losing my temper with my spouse. fear,"I lived in a student-house, where you shared the lavatory and shower with a fellow student. the shower cubicle formed the connection between both appartments. My neighbour very often was drunk and aggressive. One night, I was afraid that he would enter my room." guilt,"I was on a visit to friends who have a baby. The baby was crying in another room, but soon it became quieter and it seemed that it would fall asleep. I went into the room where the baby was lying - and it started crying again. shame,"I was ashamed of being laughed at by my colleagues when I failed to answer a question in the classroom." anger,"I was angry with a friend of mine who behaved in an affected manner." fear,"I was crossing the street together with some colleagues of mine when I suddenly found myself almost under the wheels of a truck." anger,My trouser's zipper was open when I was at a public wedding. guilt,"A girl dropped some stuff from her bag and when I tried to help her I realized that she had used me and I was made to look like a fool." disgust,When I happen to witness some sadistic acts. sadness,When I heard that a good friend had committed suicide. anger,"We were just about to go into the Exam room and I didn't see all my writing materials plus the identification card from the place where I left them." anger,"I had a quarrel with my father, because I was of the opinion that he decided in an authoritarian way which TV program we should watch. I became very angry and started throwing things through the room." sadness,"My sister lost one of her twin sons (my first nephews) and then the older one died a week later." joy,When I passed an exam. fear,"My parents were out and I was the eldest at home. At midnight a male stranger phoned us and spoke to me in a rough language. I hung up and heard someone walking outside our door." guilt,"I borrowed a friend's books and forgot I had them, she asked for them back and I told her I didn't have them. I duly found and returned them." sadness,Recently I happened to remain alone for a long time. sadness,"When my boyfriend was changing his behavior there was something wrong, I felt sad, because it's desagreable when a relationship is ending." sadness,"I heard of the death of a closefriend of mine. I had gone camping with him shortly before his death and the whole thing seemed very sudden to me. " guilt,I had shown anger toward my dog and he was killed later that day. fear,"As a result of breaking the indicator light as mentioned for guilt." anger,"When my room-mates were watching video-tapes and prevented me from watching the news. The first feeling I had was that I was being treated unfairly and then came the feeling of anger." anger,"I thought him a good friend but he tried to lie to me several times. Last time was the height of impudence. He promised he would come home but he didn't. I felt a sense of anger and insult." sadness,"A very close friend of mine died. I read it in the newspaper. I didn't know what to do and thought about it the whole day." " fear,"I was walking home from a place on southside and I live on Northside and I was followed. I headed my most direct route." guilt,"I was in a cafe with another person when, suddenly, several close friends of my partner appeared. I did not know what to do and my partner felt uncomfortable." guilt,"I was in grade seven and my class was planning a protest against a rude and immoral teacher. I sneaked out and told the headmaster about it and so the plan was foiled." disgust,"A few days ago I saw two dandy girls of my age. I disliked their clothes and their way of doing." joy,Reading a nice book and talking about it to my friend. disgust,"In the bus I was sitting next to a colleage who was drunk and behaved in keeping with his state." joy,When I got through the first day here at the department. disgust,"I took a psych. experiment with a totally unappealing gay man as the experimentor, some homosexuals are funny or cute, but this guy was disgusting. Plus the experiment was about gays too." guilt,"The day I decided to get out of my house I saw in my brother's eyes that they blamed me for the situaiton." joy,"When I dived among sharks and the brightly coloured fish on the outer reef of Tvavni, Fidgi." anger,Something was stolen. guilt,"It was my mother's birthday. My father and I used to buy a present together. However, now I had bought something together with my girlfriend and I forgot to ask my father." shame,"I experienced shame when I failed to keep a promise to meet my friend at the bus depot. He later came and asked me why I had not turned up." anger,"My sister once stole my mother's money and made her very angry. After this my mother would beat her up for unreasonable reasons. One day my sister lent her book to a friend without telling my mother about it. When my mother learnt this she beat her up and even threatened her with a pair of scissors. " joy,"While watching an entertainment program in which there was a clever and amusing sketch." guilt,When I spanked a child in anger and later regretted it terribly. guilt,"I had promised to say goodbye to a person who was going on a trip, and I did not turn up." fear,When I did not get the compound which is known. disgust,"Some people were unfairly treated, because of their nationality/colour." disgust,"This is an incident that many of us witness in our everyday life in a city like Bombay. One day I was travelling by bus, three men dragged two fellows out of the bus. Once outside they were beaten into pulp. These two fellows, who got beaten, were pick-pockets and they were being beaten by all and sundry. I thought to myself -""what is life?"". It is one hell of a place where everyone is after someone else. One waits to cut the throat of the other one just for a living, (money). When I think about such things - the purpose of life, etc, I feel very disgusted and dejected." sadness,"When I was left alone one week-end without being prepared for it." shame,"It was in a group situation: suddenly it was my turn to say something, sadness,When my grandmother passed away. fear,"As I was in a ward one man died and I was instructed to watch the last offices. But this was my first time to see a dead person - fear came." sadness,"It made me very sad to hear that some construction company was going to build houses on the beautiful hills by my house." anger,"When I saw parents punishing their little child for something he had not done. In my opinion, even if he had done it he should not have been punished for it." sadness,"I was watching television. It was about midnight when a very dear friend called saying that his father had died in an accident." fear,When I was nearly attackad by a man who had been chasing me. disgust,"One of these people who sell meat in town used a knife to stab his friend and later carried on using the same knife to cut meat." sadness,"I felt very sad when I saw the first list from the names of the people who entered at the University and my name wasn't there." joy,"I thought that someone was angry with me but, by hindsight, that didn't appear to be the case, he even liked me." sadness,"At the end of my senior yr. in high school I found out that a friend of mine I knew had cancer had been diagnosed as terminally ill." guilt,"When I caused needless anxiety to a person close to me because of my lack of self-insight." anger,I was neglected undeservedly. joy,The first time I really fell in love with a girl. sadness,When I couldn't go for a trip with my friends in a holiday. sadness,I am sad because some relations to friends are not very good. sadness,"My younger brother and sister were involved in an accident on their way back from school and my brother was quite badly hurt." fear,When two of my children were critically ill with measles. joy,"The day when my son said for the first time ""mummy""." shame,"Following heavy stirring / ridiculing a close friend who was very vulnerable to such attack - inspiring fierce, defensive counter-attack." joy,When my brother bought me a nice pair of shoes from South Africa. joy,"The time I learnt that I had passed my Malawi School leaving Certificate Examinations." shame,"A customer at the shop where I worked came in and asked if the goods that he had ordered had arrived. I had totally forgotten about this order and I tried to offer weak excuses." sadness,When I was told that my friend's wife had cancer. anger,"When my sister lost my favourite jumper at a party and failed to tell me for several days after it happened." fear,Held under water by a large wave and thought I was drowning. fear,When climbing up the stairs to the top of a ski-jumping hill. guilt,"I slapped my sister's daughter and after several hours, she had a high temperature and she ended up being admitted in hospital." disgust,"When I heard that one of my good friends, when at a party, had got herself involved with some very undesirable characters and was experimenting with drugs." joy,"I remember my religious experience. During a gospel camp, a few friends of mine decided to believe in God. The joy that I felt at that time was more than words can express. I blessed them and praised God in my heart." joy,"Begining the week-end with my girlfriend : cozyness, beer and wine." fear,When I decided to separate from my husband. shame,"When I dropped a bottle in the state liquor store and everyboby started laughing." disgust,"During military service I heard the story of someone who tried to commit suicide and as a result of this got a week custody." guilt,"I was out with a friend in a place where it was very, very busy. When we wanted to go I bumped a person, who dropped his glass beer I offered a new one but he didn't accept it." sadness,"When I was told that I had not been successful in getting the job I had been expecting. I was sure that I was sufficiently qualified." fear,"When I entered the dissecting room for the anatomy class and saw several dead bodies lying on the benches." joy,When my 6 month old son is happy and well. guilt,"I was driving my parents' car into a carpark in front of a shop we own, and scraped the corner of the front panel on the back corner of my father's utility. I didn't tell anyone, I lied about the bump (later I had to confess)." shame,Failing in an examn. guilt,[ No description.] sadness,"When I saw my niece (5 yrs) crying in the hallway for her mother who had passed away about a month ago." disgust,"Recently in the tram, a man ran his fingers over my girlfriend then over me." shame,"When I stole a book in class and the teacher caught me, the rest of the class laughed at my attempt." fear,Walking along with a dog barking at you and following you. joy,"I received a grade above average on a midterm (chemistry) and I expected onevery below average." guilt,"I felt guilty at not having practised the piano. I waste my teacher's time and guidance." fear,"When my relationship with my family is very poor I often fear being excluded from the group, a fear which is stronger in situations when an argument is on hand." guilt,"I broke off with my partner as I wanted him as a friend and not as a lover. He reacted very violently and I felt guilty as I had made him so desperately unhappy." shame,I had just masterbated with another boy. sadness,"My girlfriend who had spent 6 months abroad broke off our relationship by letter." shame,Criticized by a teacher in public. sadness,"When I thought for an instant that a very good relationship with a person had finished." anger,When I spoke to Jan-Erik Wikstr÷m on the telephone. fear,"Fear when fulfilling my obligations on my first night fatigue duty as a soldier." fear,A fear of lack of personal powers. joy,"Getting University Entrance accredited and arriving home from boarding school on accrediting leave." shame,"When I don't say the truth, when I don't do a certain thing thanks to my laziness." anger,When my mother interfered in my life. guilt,[ The same as in shame.] joy,When I passed successive exams to enter the school of medicine. guilt,"When I promised a male friend of mine to visit him, and did not." guilt,"[ No answer as I see very little difference between shame and guilt. Therefore see answer for ""shame"".]" anger,"At a restaurant I observed how the gypsies tried to get money by cheating the foreigners i.e non Swedish speaking. My anger had nothing to do with hatred against foreigners, but it was an expression of the anger I feel when I see people being used ." disgust,"When I lost the notes of the lecturer I had borrowed from my friend." sadness,"My brother came to tell me about some problems we had in the family. I felt sad because I thought that if my mother had not gone away when this brother was younger, things would have been different." disgust,The behaviour of people spitting everywhere. fear,"After my car accident, when I woke up in a heap of stones." fear,"A boy phoned me at night and wanted to talk to me for 30 minutes outside. I thought that he would reveal what he felt and would question me on our relationship. I treated him as a friend and did not want any misunderstandings. Therefore I refused to meet him and told him that I would see him the coming day. I was very unhappy as I feared having hurt him and got him into trouble." anger,"I read in the newspaper that the Student Lodging Fund was going to build new appartments for refugees (in my opinion this is the state's affair). This is when only a fractoin of the students can find an appartment." fear,"I broke my Uncle's Radio player accidentally and so I feared that he was going to cut me off from going to his house as well as playing it again." disgust,"My older sister used to pick on my brothers and sisters all of whom were younger than her. On one occasion my brother did something my sister didn't like. A full-scale battle began." joy,"When my brother was born, everything went all right. It had been very likely that he would have a deficiency (my sister suffers from Down's Syndrome) and that my mother would be in danger." disgust,When my roommate forgets to flush the toilet. joy,When they told me that I had got a study grant. fear,When I saw a horror film. shame,"A truth expressed unthinkingly at a coffee party. I realized later that I had been inconsiderate, at a wrong moment and the wrong place." fear,Travelling by coach on a rather narrow and wet road. sadness,"After a meeting ended we started talking about when we would have the next discussion ( I had many tests the coming week and could not have a meeting in between, I thought that they would understand this as they had always done). They did not understand my problem and thought that I should not have so many other activities. Their reaction made me burst into tears." sadness,When I read a lot and did not remember anything. anger,"My little niece, who is very talkative, suddenly became very naughty and began wetting her pants. She did it one afternoon." fear,"Walking through campus at night a squirrel jumped in front of me." guilt,"One evening I went fishing with some friends but we could not fish as a fisherman had already put his net there. We pulled out the net to find only crabs in it so we threw the net away. The net was large and may have cost $1000. The fisherman used the net to earn a living and we had had thrown it." guilt,I ignored and offended my parents on the eve of the New Year. shame,"I feel shame every time I think of very dear friends of mine abroad who were family to me for a year, and now 2 years later, I have attempted, but have not actually gone through with corresponding with them, to express my feelings and gratitude." sadness,"Always when I get separated from my friends and relatives from my home town." fear,"One day I was near home, kissing my boyfriend in a car when my mother appeared and asked me to go home, because she didn't know about the event." shame,"A girl in our class was nicknamed ""fatsy"". Later, I heard that she suffered from diabetes mellitus." fear,"When going for my driver's licence for the third time, because everything, it seemed, hinged on getting it. I was really nervous, and the testing Officer made me a little afraid as well. There were lots of things to worry about. I passed however." guilt,"When I shirked the gymnastic lesson I met the director of our school who asked me what I was doing." sadness,"Getting separated from my family for a week caused me a sense of sadness." joy,"After having at last finished my master's thesis, I felt great joy and relief. I had been haunted by the thesis during the whole of my studies." shame,"When I was young, about 6 or 7, I did not make it to the toilet on time. I hid the dirty trousers in the cellar as I feared itbeing discovered by my parents." joy,"[ Cycling in the spring sunshine gives me such delight. Happiness is to be healthy, my wonderful finance. Simply being here on earth.]" shame,NO RESPONSE. disgust,"On a camp - boys and girls in one cabin. One guy forced himself upon another girl and was having intercourse, while the girl in the bunk beneath was pretending to be asleep and not be ill." disgust,I felt disgust of my father when I knew he had a lover. fear,"Waking up from a bad dream in a dark night with noone else around." anger,A father helping his kid to fight other kids. disgust,"My brother gave me a beating because he could not beat me verbally." fear,"I had been watching a TV-program on paranormal phenomena. At night I could not fall off to sleep as I feared that humanoids were on the move." shame,"One day I felt dizzy during a lecture. When the lecturer asked us as to who had heard the fairy tale - I was the only one who put up his hand and this surprised the whole class." shame,Doing poorly on an exam that I thought I should do well. guilt,"After an exam I was in a very bad mood as I had done it very badly. At home, my mother took so long to ask me how things had gone that I lost my temper. I overreacted and made my mother cry. She still prepared lunch for me and did not scold me . Suddenly, I thought that it was my fault and I started crying. " sadness,"The death of my mother-in-law after a long sick-bed. at the moment of dying I was with her." anger,"Last semester when I dated a girl whom I've known for almost a year. However one night she said she wanted us to be ""just friends"". I confided this to a friend Jim I was really suffering. A month or two later he broke up with his old girlfriend and they started going out regularly. I have no girlfriend nor have I had a romantic relationship of any significance. I feel some anger but we are friends again." shame,"Some times I was ashamed of presenting seminaries or even to speak in class." sadness,A child beaten up by his mother. shame,People impolite with me because I did not get a good report. sadness,When my girlfriend decided to finish our relation. guilt,"I removed an article of clothing belonging to my employer while in a position of trust." shame,Once I had to visit a rather special person. joy,"Joy of giving birth, and of sharing that joy with my husband. Moments of complete happiness and feelings of so much love." anger,"When our cat was killed in a car-accident I was very angry at the driver of the car because he didn't take enough care." anger,They wanted something to happen but I didn't. disgust,"Viewing the results of senseless vandalism to a local primary school." shame,"When I stole a packet of cigarettes from a neighbour and the next day I owned up and returned it." anger,"When I got caught in the pouring rain last Thursday and did not have a raincoat on me." sadness,"Losing close people and animals. So far, I've felt most when losing our dog in a traffic accident." guilt,"My mother accused me of not visiting her enough when she was in hospital for an eye operation." guilt,Not noticing my roommates quietness or a sign of discomfort. sadness,Hearing of the death of a friend who had been skiing. disgust,"When we were young, a friend of mine tried to dissect a frog while we were playing near his home." fear,"I was living with my brother and one day he went away on business and I was left alone to look after the house and the property. At night thieves came and wanted to break into the house." joy,"When I saw a good friend again after not having seen her for a long time." sadness,When I try to get closer at a person and she misinterpreted me. fear,"When I was confronted by a policeman one night around 11 o'clock. I was afraid when they threatened to take me and my girl to the gallows." anger,"At the hairdresser's, I got two stains of dyestuff on my new trousers. These stains are not removable, so I cannot put on the trousers again." guilt,"I cannot recall feeling guilty in the near past. disgust,Someone I know and respect sexually assulted a girl. disgust,"When an acquaintance (he was drunk) of my room-mate vomitted on the kitchen carpet. It was past mid-night and my room-mate had just moved in, this acquaintance had helped her move in." shame,"I had a feeling of shame when I found myself unable to answer some questions from my tutor simply because of a lack of preparation." fear,Almost had a bicycle accident. shame,About Sweden's arms exports. sadness,"A friend of mine told me that my boyfriend had been with another girl this Summer. We had been going out together for four years and we had not done so for the last three months. I could not believe it." fear,"This was what I felt when my boyfriend went to Bourgas to study there. I had the feeling I would lose him. Anyway the distance Plovdiv-Bourgas seemed to me so great." guilt,When I nearly got my fiancee pregnant. fear,I felt fear when my mother was heavily ill. disgust,"I met three drunk boys, almost children, they didn't look like normal people." joy,"In the army, my result at the shooting exercises got me a three day furlough." shame,"Upon returning from a journey of about two weeks duration, I found that a collection of pornographic literature had been removed from my room I had previously thought that no one was aware of the existence of this material." sadness,My friend not allowed to go to the English lectures. fear,"When I was convinced that someonne had broken into my flat and I woke up and heard sounds that frightened me." fear,"Recently my younger brother disappeared for two days without leaving a trace. Usually he tells me when he wants to do something like that, therefore I was afraid that something had happened to him." disgust,"I saw a terrible accident in which the driver of a motor was thrown through the frontwindow of a car. His face was completely away." sadness,"This monday I took a Math 1BS test and flunked for the second time." guilt,"A few days back my mother was not feeling too well and still did all the house work. I felt guilty as I had not offered to help." sadness,"When I heard that my father had passed away. I could not eat for a week and was only crying. I could not find the courage to go to bath." disgust,The lift of Stockholm central station stank of vomit and urine. fear,Before an examn. guilt,Selling the appartment after my divorce. anger,"When a friend tried to back bite me on false grounds. This made me wonder if he was a really a good friend." disgust,Whenever I see a spider or a snake I feel disgusted. guilt,"I felt guilty when I mislead a person into thinking he was a close friend when that person was more of a casual acquaintance." anger,"I am usually angry at myself. This happens often. For instace when I want to pet without falling in love and it soon proves that I have fallen in love with him." disgust,"I was drinking coffee in a cafe and I found a piece of scrubber in my cup." fear,"I was afraid to walk through the forest one day when I dropped off the bus around 6.30 pm." shame,"[ Generally, when I am late in attending to matters (for example paying bills).]" joy,"A close relative of mine underwent a difficult operation, and everything turned out fine." disgust,A friend of mine came to see me when he was quite drunk. shame,"Having had a very heated argument with my sister - I began hitting her about the head with a newspaper I was holding." disgust,"On a trip I passed by a cellulose factory. It was a fine day, beautiful landscape; I observed this factory with disgust." guilt,When I hurt my parents in one way or another. disgust,Disgust of drunkers and of blood. sadness,When a colleague failed to contact me at the arranged time. fear,"When I was very young, one day, I was in the street with my father and brother. While my father was talking to some friends, I saw a dog and began to pat it. My father told me sharply to stop doing it because the dog had mange. Then my brother told me that I would die and I could not stop crying after this." fear,"The time I was threatened with expulsion from secondary school (form four)." guilt,"Calling lecturers nicknames when talking to housemen (They told ne you are even younger than they are so you should not be giving public lectures)." guilt,"Dad had just married his second wife (my step-mother) and I did not like her so I went to the wardrobe and set fire to her dresses. Eveyone suspected my brother and he had to bear the consequences. Nobody ever got to know that it was me who had done it. " fear,"When my mother met with a serious accident and there was danger that she would not survive and if she did she would loose her memory." fear,"Confronted outside a party by some very nasty character - gesturing to a car full of mean-acting friends - felt in danger." sadness,"Sometimes, when I'm alone I am seized by this feeling. But it always helps me to come round and at the same time to judge if it is worth. Very often this feeling is caused to me by people - friends who I love and respect." sadness,"When I realized that it was impossible for me to be as free as I had imagined and that I could not do anythong about it." disgust,"When I watched a report about El Salvador on TV, I saw people who had been murdered by terrible methods." anger,When people harrass me I feel oppressed by their behavior. sadness,"When I did not get the salary increase that I had been expecting and understood how little one's work was appreciated." guilt,"One day my boyfriend put my hand on his penis and I felt well, but after I felt a guilty conscience because I hadn't thought about the consequences that this could have brought if I had gone farther." disgust,"I saw the gare of a prison. This gare and the building were in deplorable condition and were full of rubbish." anger,"A ex-boyfriend tried to prejudice me before my fiancT and his family saying things about me that let his family worried. We had to postpone our wedding and we were already using our wedding rings. To be honest I didn't feel just anger, I felt hate." guilt,When I took the car of someone without saying it to him. fear,When I failed my first exam at the Higher Institute. fear,"When I was about to be bitten by my friend's dog, later on it bit me." guilt,"It was when I injured a friend accidentally with a stone. It made a cut on the cheeks which resulted in suturing." fear,"While skiing in Squaw Valley, I was riding up a chair lift and right when the chair was above a sheer cliff of rocks, the chair lift stopped and all the chairs sagged and everything seemed to creak loudly." sadness,"I knew a girl so lovely that everyone would like her. But she refused to accept my Christmas present and I tried to forget her." fear,"When I was a child I was afraid of big dogs. One day when I came home a big dog was laying in front of our door. I was so frightened that I did not dare to enter the door and I waited until somebody passed by." fear,"I was scared when I realized that I might miss the train which I was supposed to take. I was 1500 Kilometres away from home and when I heard the depart whistle I was still 150 feet away from the train. I finally made it." joy,"I was overwhelmed with joy when I received the acceptance letter to UNZA. This happened again when I passed all my first year courses." disgust,"I was disgusted to see a person vomitting and I was told to clean the place where the vomit was." disgust,"When a girl said in my back that we were in love, and she had actually refused me. When I confronted her she started insulting me." shame,"One rainy day when the streets were wet, and as I was walking down a slope, I fell down out of my carelessness. There were many people and they saw me, so I felt ashamesd. Moreover I hurt my ankle and it was painful." anger,"My parents thought that I didn't do my best to pass the final examination (secondary school). When I achieved a good grade they said nothing, but if I had had a bad grade they would have become very angry." fear,[ I do not recall one here either.] fear,"When I was dreaming that I was being chased, in the upmost of horror the door of the closed felt down synchronicaly with the dream scare." joy,"Winning a rowing race at a Karapiro regatta. With 7 other friends." disgust,"I was forced to stay in the canteen and eat the food that I had not asked for but got it anyway." fear,"When I went home and there was nobody, I waited till 2 A.M and still nobody. I was suddenly scared and anxious as this had never happened before. In addition my mother was very weak and I feared that she had met with an accident. Therefore I was anxious all night." sadness,When one is alone and knows that all the others are celebrating. shame,[ No response.] anger,"My young brother took my wristwatch in my abscence and sold it to his friend at a cheaper price." fear,A grenade blew out next to me. anger,"This was when my boyfriend told me that I was double-crossing him with a certain boy." disgust,"Outside a night club, a grown man was sitting on top of a younger woman, beating her up." fear,"When I lost a wallet while travelling, since it belonged to the group I was very afraid." disgust,"When I see that some people remain cold and egoistic with regard to close friends, even in situations that those friends need them." guilt,"When my father and I worked on the house just after he had recovered from illness, I was rather lazy. This meant that he had to work hard and was not very well later." anger,"When a pick-pocket robbed me of my money (K20) while I was buying bathing soap." sadness,"When my boyfriend almost had a relationship with a close friend of mine." disgust,"I saw a cripple in rags with small children in Italy. He was probably an imposter." shame,I feel ashamed when I act dishonestly toward somebody. fear,"As a child, one evening I had read a novel about ghosts and I had thus spent a sleepless night as I kept feeling that there were ghosts dancing around me." sadness,When my aunt died. shame,When I swindled money out of someone. guilt,"When I lost my study grant without having attended any exam in the career I had started, and it was too late to cancel my registration." sadness,"When a close friend took leave of me, because she went to Israel for one year." sadness,"When I see people with burns I feel sad, actually I can not even express my feelings as I think that they must suffer a lot." joy,When I first passed a job interview. guilt,"I borrowed a piece of music of someone and I always forgot to give it back. That person wrote me a letter asking me to give it back. I did so and I told him an idle story why I kept it for so long." guilt,"I dated another boy several times, when I was still ""going with"" my former boyfriend. This made me feel a little bit guilty towards my friend." sadness,When I heard about the death of my aunt. sadness,"Power cut made me unable to listen to the songs sung by my favourite pop star." joy,"When I met my girlfriend again in another town after a long separation." guilt,"I wrote a bad letter to someone concerning our relationship which we created ourselves." disgust,When people around me did not understand me the right way. shame,Lying to a friend about something that was trivial. anger,"The fact that I hadn't been informed about something and I had the greatest trust in this person." sadness,"I had a quarrel with a good friend about the fact that I didn't pay her a visit when she expected me to come. Hereafter I was very sad because it became a real quarrel." joy,"When I got 21/30 points in an exam of statistics. The result was unexpected and it made me realize that statistics do not surpass my abilities, as I have sometimes thought." guilt,"Guilty when I hadn't walked my dog for quite a few days and had given her no attention." disgust,"I had prepared a special meal for my boyfriend but when my brother came home he ate it all. I was really disgusted about it." disgust,"When my elder brother failed form five in 1968 when I was 5 years old." sadness,Unrealisation of the desired profession (aviator). shame,[ No response.] sadness,"I felt sad at having to leave my girlfriend after constant problems and failed attempts at reconciliation. My sadness was caused by the irreversibility of the decision." shame,When I went for the first time in my life to a nudist-beach. shame,I was very angry at someone. guilt,"I work at a commercial house from 7 to 10 a.m. On a very cold day in winter I was late - and let a fellow worker stand in the cold for half an hour." disgust,"I was disgusted with my brother's behaviour when he kept throwing things away because of his anger, after mum had shouted at him." disgust,"I became disgusted with the man on whom I had counted, who I had trusted, the man who should have been my mainstay - my father. I could hardly make myself (and the others) believe in this emotion. It has cumulated after events and deeds. Everything can happen in this world." joy,"When I learned that my parents were going abroad and leaving me alone for a few years." fear,"I had a driver licence but I didn't drive for a long time, than I started to drive again, and had to get into hard transit and highways." sadness,I lost my purse that had money in it. I was sad until I found it. fear,"A time when I was very afraid of something was when I broke my father's antique lamp." sadness,The loss of a close relative who was ill with cancer. guilt,"When I acted in a negative way at a certain moment by laziness to concede a moment of the time I thought to be my own." fear,"When I was 12 years old I frequently was pursued by others and got sound thrashes." fear,"A man was yelling outside my window at 3.00 am, yelling threats, though not to me." shame,When I was given detention at secondary school. fear,"When I almost ran over a small boy who suddenly was in front of my car." fear,"My grandmother several times has been struck by cerebral hemorrhages. Until now she recovered well each time, but there is always the threat to loose her." joy,"When my brothers had passed all of their exams and were able to graduate from their courses." guilt,"When I went to my room-mate's drawer to see if she had an iron which I could use, she came in. I felt guilty as she may have thought that I had been stealing." shame,"In the classroom we discussed with the teacher. He told me things that affected directly in a negative way my job and my behavior in the classroom in front of the other pupils." disgust,"Cleaning the bathroom of my apt. and realizing my roommate who had lived there all summer by himself had never cleaned the place." shame,"When I bought new skis; I was ashamed to tell the assistant that I am not good at skiing and therefor bought racing skis." sadness,"When I recently thought about the hard work it takes to study, and how one wants to try something else. When I read a theoretical book in English that I did not understand." fear,"When I went to town in a double dekker bus. The bus was about to fall on the way when the driver controlled it. It had almost fallen." guilt,"I offended a person who had done much for me and who had helped me for everything." fear,[ I was thinking about death.] anger,"Brother continually interupting while I was talking on the telephone." guilt,"When I made love with a girl, which I don't really love. However I know that she loves me." anger,"When a car is overtaking another and I am forced to drive off the road." sadness,Loss of close relative. fear,"One evening, when I had gone fishing with my friends, we heard the roar of a lion near by and had to run for our lives." joy,"I was doing an experiment and was not getting the appropriate result despite the fact that I had repeated the procedure 4-5 times. Then finally I got it right by a stroke of luck." joy,"I experienced this feeling when I was accepted as a student. Because everything turned out different from my expectations. Although I passed the exam successfully I was accepted as a student only when I didn't expect it at all, namely at the beginning of September." shame,"I lied, to be precise I cancelled a meeting with a good friend." anger,"I feel it when I see that somebody is traying to made a stupid of me." anger,"I sent a book to a friend of mine. The book meant a lot to me and he lost it." fear,Diagnosis that I have a stomache ulcer. shame,"I was caught stealing food at my aunt's place. I had tried to hide the food I had taken from the pantry while my aunt was in the kitchen, however she went to the pantry and discovered the stolen package." joy,"[ On days when I feel close to my partner and other friends. When I feel at peace with myself and also experience a close contact with people whom I regard greatly.]" disgust,When employer made a pass at me whilst I was at work. guilt,"The assistant professor saw me cheat at the preliminary examination." shame,"When I was teasing a girl, who turned out to be my brother's dame." fear,Left alone in the dark in a big building. joy,"It was when a friend took me to a place and gave me as a gift my astrologycal map with the explanations of a psychologist." disgust,"When I was accused of having impregnated someone's daughter, it was the girl's cousin who had done it. " joy,When my brother gave me a watch. disgust,"When I was young, one day in the car we fell sick and ended up vomitting on each other." guilt,"When I unjustly accused a person of my family of something she didn't really do." guilt,Not being able to help my friend to do homework. anger,Insulted by the class leader. joy,"I sensed this feeling when I passed successfully the second tour of a competition." guilt,I am not good enough for your experiment I am doing. fear,"Few years ago my father was very ill. He stayed at a hospital for a long time. Then I experienced that terrible feeling that I might lose him." disgust,"On the road there was a dead animal with its entrails showing and its skull crushed." joy,"Getting a good mark for a subject I had worked hard at but expected only a moderate mark." joy,[ No response.] guilt,"This feeling comes frequently when I go out at night and tell my mother that I shall come back early. But then I get home a 5 or 6 a.m." guilt,When I offend somebody unfairly. joy,"I was on holidays, and I was going to meet a friend whom I had not seen for six months. Again I felt very happy." anger,"My father had bought too many goods for his shop, there was not enough space to store them." disgust,"On boat trip - saw mother giving young child (aprox 6-7 years) cigarettes." anger,"I get angry when someone imputes on me things I never can do, naturally negative. Servility, ""connections"", impudence, traits that get me mad." joy,"After waiting impatiently for the results of the form 5 examinations for almost a year, at last I received a letter of acceptance from the Senate of the university of Zambia telling me that I had made it to the first year course at UNZA." anger,"After I said something that my boyfriend disagreed with, he walked away from me without discussing what bothered him. I became very angry with him for treating me this way. Yesterday, November 14." joy,Waking in morning (early morning) and having whole day to myself. shame,"I tried after months to begin talking to my boyfriend again. He ignored me. I felt I had lowered my pride and became his ""doormat""." joy,"When after an overwhelming anxiety and enquiry, I understood something about why I exist and what my task in life is." shame,"When I got really drunk on Norvegian Indipendence Day, and was not allowed to participate in football (soccer) games for two weeks. That was very unpleasant." fear,"When I was on a cave excursion with friends, I suddenly lost them and was afraid of losing my way in the cave." disgust,"A nightmare. I was dreaming about bloodsuckers, which I tried to shake off from my body, they are everywhere, they get glued, they suck. And there are a lot of them. I panic." anger,"When my brother did not send me the transport money to resume my studies in time at UNZA." joy,"I was in grade 7. We had an inter-house volley-ball competition. In Luapula I was the youngest member of the team and I scored the winning goal using my head. I jumped up with joy and fell down." joy,"I was happy to hear that my sister had won a prize at running competition." joy,"When I gave birth to a child and saw that it was normal when it was put against my breast." joy,"My boyfriend and I were getting dressed up and putting make-up on to go to a Halloween Party. We were dressing up to be two mimes. It was very enjoyable and I thought we looked really good, it was an accomplishment. We were alone in his house." fear,I was attacked by a man at a bus stop at night. joy,[ No response.] disgust,Some boys boasting about their ability to tell dirty jokes. guilt,"When my aunt took her own life, I felt guity for not understanding that she needed support." guilt,Two timing - going out with 2 guys at once (secretly). shame,"If I don't go to lectures, I often feel ashamed." guilt,Gave the wrong meal tickets to other people (my classmate). shame,"My girlfriend was away visiting another city and I brought another girl home. Next morning when I started getting sober I felt quite ashamed of myself." joy,"I passed an exam which I was not sure at all to pass. I rejoyced at the result because the possibility of continuing my studies depended on it." joy,"Day I received my T.E. score and acceptance into my chosen course. " fear,Haven't been frightened for ages. sadness,"When I began to read a thick book, which I had a limited time to read. Also when I have a lot of work to do and I cannot keep up." disgust,"When I discovered my mother had been having an affair with my father's best friend, and then ran away with him without even speaking to me about what she was doing letting me come home from school simply to find her gone. I was filled with disgust and contempt." shame,"It was my birthday and all the members of the group made me a surprise in a public place at 10 p.m. giving me flowers and suvenirs." anger,"Not being alowed on a school camp with the class I'd been in for 11 years (I had stayed down due to illness)" anger,"When my mother scolded me for coming home late, i.e after 7 P.M." disgust,"Flicking through a magazine showing pictures of homosexual men committing various acts." anger,When I failed the M.S.C exams. guilt,When I had beaten my auntie. anger,"When I got to know about the reaction of a friend of mine in a certain situation. I had not expected him to react that way." sadness,My grandmother died. fear,Staying alone in the dark. shame,"Talking to friends about how old you are and we cannot be as successful as you at your age." disgust,"I was really disgusted when I saw one of my friends soiling on his clothes. I thought he was mad." anger,"I had been having a heated argument with a lover - whose intention was that we should marry in the near future - and was rejected by her when I started to cry. When I stopped crying for a moment she said ""There, have you got it all out now ?""." joy,Falling in love. guilt,"I was alone at home when I broke a figure and then mended it. A few days later my mother noticed it and asked me about it, I told her that I had no idea." disgust,"Being on view in a meat-factory. Pigs being cut open, pigs being suspended from nods, blood everywhere, decompsition." fear,"When I was watching a movie in which there was a pit full of dangers and there was only a small safe place on which a man was standing; he had to catch the lady who was thrown in or else ! The pit was 20 feet deep." guilt,"I made a remark to my sister concerning her attitude to men, the way she talked and I compared her to an acquaintance of mine. Later, the same evening, my sister looked sad. I felt guilty about her sadness." anger,My best friend betrayed me and told other people my secrets. fear,"When for the first time I rode on a motorcycle with my brother. He was going so fast that I felt that I would fall off without my brother realizing it." shame,"I saw a bag on the street and just then a stranger passed by. I picked up the bag immediately and gave it to the stranger as I thought that it belonged to him. But it was not his bag and I felt ashamed." guilt,"During 7th grade our class mobbed a famale teacher so badly that she had a breackdown and was hospitalized." fear,"When I drove to Stockholm for the first time and drove off the Stora Hissingen road at the wrong exit." guilt,"One day when I was working, I went out for dinner with friends without my parents knowledge and I only came home at 2300 hours." sadness,"Our dog had to be shot because he had killed a roe. I liked him very much and so I could not resign myself to that. I hated the hunter who shot him." guilt,"My friend did not do well in the examn because I did not help him." joy,[ A chat on the telephone with a friend.] fear,Whhen the front tyre of the car burst. joy,"I received a letter and a Christmas present from a person I had not seen for two years." disgust,"A girl with whom I was staying having sex with a person for about 3 nights running, and then with his brother the following night, and back again." guilt,"Leaving University in 1982 following exclusion and lying to parents/friends about reasons for leaving, i.e. lying about the fact of having been excluded." anger,I get angry when people disbelieve me or misunderstand me. guilt,"When I had lied, saying that I never take bread from the dinning hall and a friend of mine caught me doing it. He thus proved to me that I did in fact take the bread." disgust,"I found a big black beetle in my coffee cup. It was alive big and it was moving its limbs." sadness,Death of grandmother. fear,"I was fearful when I realised that the relish was overcooked simply because I was not keen enough at checking whether there was still enough water in the relish or not, instead I was just playing with my friends." guilt,"When I was in the fifth class the rating was done in our mark-books. I hadn't been examined yet but I had heard from my classmates about the scolding they had got at home. My first mark was in geography - good 4. I judged I had known for more than that and I put down ""very good"" for fear of being scolded. Naturally my parents guessed all about it. They rebuked me for what I had done." shame,I choked on a cold drink in front of girls who were strangers. guilt,"Getting a friend an open container ticket because I got caught speeding." fear,"We were walking in the park at night. It was very dark and very late. We began to hear foot steps all around us, and we could not find our way out." joy,When my application for studying the masters degree was accepted. anger,"My parents scolded me a lot for something I had not done. It was my sister who had done it." guilt,"Once after falling in love, I imagined that particular girl to be perfect and completely overshadowing my girlfriend. Afterwards I realized that this image was not objective. I felt guilty against both girls." anger,"I was angry when I heard that my only girl was going about with another man. So I decided to drop her but later the story came to be untrue." sadness,"When my little brother passed away mysteriously, at least from what I was told about it." guilt,[ I have not felt this emotion.] guilt,The time that I had to put my dog to sleep. fear,"One night we were having a barbecue on the beach and I needed to go to my car, which was far away from the beach. It was very dark as there were no street lamps. I ran in the dark, very scared, I ran as fast as possible." disgust,"At the butcher's I saw an animal which had just been slaughtered; blood was dripping on the floor." anger,Being treated unfairly and being hurt by someone I love. shame,"At a weekend's seminar my trousers suddenly burst, therefore I was prevented from participating in several activities." fear,"I found a problem in homework which would not get solved although I tried my best." joy,"When I was accepted into the medical school. Medicine is a profession that I have desired ever since my childhood." disgust,[ Normally I do not feel disgusted.] sadness,"Two years ago my best friend died in an accident, just a day before my birthray. We were very close to each other and I felt very sad at loosing a close friend." disgust,The event which got me angry got also an aversion in me. anger,"I had arranged with a friend to go with him to Carinthia by car. We had arranged a place where to meet. I was a bit late and my friend had left already. I had no money to go by train. I nearly started to cry because I was so angry - it was very important for me to go to Carinthia." guilt,"When I knew that my niece did a bad schoolar examination because I couldn't explain her the lesson." disgust,"When I saw a fight I had a physical reaction of disgust and of deep perturbation." guilt,[ No response.] disgust,"I worked in a harbour and emptied latrine containers from the back of the lorries." disgust,"When I saw a film in which the man suffered from an illness and his skin came peeling off." guilt,"A friend of mine had the sleeves of a leather coat stolen from his car. It was me who had left them there for everyone to see." fear,"Thinking that I had been seen smoking at school by a teacher - waiting to be summoned to the headmaster's office." guilt,"After having been told not to take the car, I took it anyway and felt guilty about having taken it." joy,When my son was born. shame,"In the compartment of a public transport railway, I did not give my seat to an old man who was standing near me. It was another teenager who did so." shame,"An out-patient asked me to read for him a certain prescription but I was unable to do so. The patient was dissappointed and lost hope in me." fear,Had fear of losing husband. anger,Misunderstood by a close friend for the wrong reason. guilt,"When my father had a serious fight with my sister, because of me." disgust,"A colleague and I were sitting on a bench next to an old man in a shopping centre. the old man coughed and spluttered somewhat, then with his fingers removed the resultant phlegm and mucous from his mouth, and transferred it onto the armrest of the bench." joy,"For a few days I felt very miserable, distressed and listless, with crying fits. When this was over I felt very happy, although there was no special reason." disgust,"When I was refused a transfer from my school to another, simply because it was far away from my house." fear,When a friend of mine told me a horror story. fear,The possibility of having failed the examination. guilt,"I had an argument with my boyfriend. It was my fault but my pride would not let me admit it." disgust,Disgust with drunk people. anger,"I was very angry at my father when he didn't give me as much money as my brother to use for studying. Once again my brother was better off then me." anger,"My cassmate laughed at me when I was being scolded by the teacher." disgust,"This person I know lied about how much income his parents made and received money through grants which he did not need. Another person is barely making it, did not lie, and did not receive enough money." anger,"When my father phoned me to come home from my vacation, since he no longer had the time to look after my garden and animals." disgust,First anatomy lesson. sadness,"My child passed away after a short illness when he was just eleven months old. I was only told about his death without knowing that he had been ill." anger,"I was angry with a person who behaved terribly at a ball offending her relatives." fear,An inter-college basket-ball match. shame,The first time that I had to go up on the stage to give a speech. sadness,"This morning during my sleep I had a feeling that someboby was attacking me. I started crying in my sleep and then my room-mate woke me up." disgust,When opened a box of biscuits and found worms inside. joy,Getting into this university to do medicine. anger,"The surname of my brother was different from ours. He often grinned at home and provoked others for the pleasure of it. This made me angry." guilt,"I hated you for not letting me go and found out that it was not your decision." disgust,"I was disgusted at the university wanting some of us to travel from our homes to the lectures here every day. The way the whole thing was handled disgusted me." sadness,Death of a close friend. guilt,[ I have never felt this emotion.] fear,"I studied medicine for several semesters and at that time I developed a great fear of examinations. I was most afraid of my examination of anatomy. While other students were examined, I was dissecting. I was able to hear everything and was waiting with fear until it was my turn." joy,"When I was appointed by the Ministry of health to join the teaching staff of one of the medical colleges." shame,"I had promised to help out with domestic chores and I forgot about it." disgust,"Once when I had started to write a paper, there was a phone call for me. I had to go downstairs to receive it and after the conversation I discovered that all the information had disappeared from my mind." guilt,"Describing to mother how a hole in the wall had appeared while I was babysitting." fear,"When there was a fight at home and my father threatened to throw a chair on my brother." shame,"When I ate my sister's food and then she found out that it was me. I felt very ashamed but still refused to admit that it was me." sadness,"My father won't be so pleased with me as if I was elected ""Three Good""." disgust,"Once I offended a friend, instead of her coming to me to ask and discuss the matter she was just telling other people about it and say all she could about me." anger,"I learned that a class-mate had given a list, of peolpe who help each other in exams, to the professor." anger,"When someone took my writing materials yet I was to write Examinations in a few minutes." shame,"I entered the wrong room, and got into a bed where someone already was sleeping." disgust,"When somebody behaves like a scoundrel. Recently a colleague of mine used the name of another one for his own benefit." guilt,I crashed my father's car. guilt,"A friend of mine felt bad because of something I had done to something that belonged to him." disgust,"During lunch with some classmates, a priest was also there. He was eating desperately as if someone was going to take his plate away. He did it with gluttony. He wiped his hands on his suit several times and it was full of crumbs." fear,"It was some years ago when one evening some people came home and told us my father was badly injured in an accident." fear,Being alone at night. fear,"One camping night, I listened to the ghost stories told by my classmates. " shame,"I was alone in the bus when I tripped and fell, and dropped all my papers." anger,"I felt much anger and perhaps I feel it till now, against my girlfriend's sister who incited her to betray me just when I needed her very much. She didn't think of anything, simply passed over everything." anger,"Seeing for the first time pictures about the so called ""treatment"" of Jewish people in Nazi-Germany during World War II." fear,"I was sleeping in my room but woke in the middle of the night to think I could hear noises and see shadows moving. I felt that someone was in the house." shame,Cannot remember such a situation. joy,My boyfriend returned after a long absence. anger,"Most recently when the chairman at the New Zeeland Rugby Union announced that the All Blacks' would accept the invitation of South Africa to play rugby in that country." fear,"When my brother hit his head and lost consciousness at the sports practice. For some time he could not remember what had happened but he recovered later." fear,"While swimming, I hit my head at the bottom of the pool and required stitches. I later learned that the consequences could have been much more severe and that terrified me." guilt,"When they found out that I was absent from school, I had gone to the girl's secondary school." fear,When I had to talk with an important person about a job. shame,After shouting at a friend. shame,"I had been telling lies and people discovered instantly that I was telling lies. I felt very shameful and I felt like disappearing from people." joy,"When I received a letter from the university telling me that my application had been accepted." anger,"My elder brother often criticizes my mother's cooking. Once he did it very impolitely and lost his temper. This made all of us very sad. I was very angry and I scolded him. He asked me not to interfere with what was his buisness." anger,"When on a car journey a fellow student crossed our way with his own car and we had to bump into a roadside trunk." disgust,"When a girl in my class (on the secondary school) appeased the teacher, resulting in getting a higher grade. This occurred often with her." sadness,"I was terribly upset when my kitten got hit by a car. He didn't die, but for several weeks we thought he might have to be put down." disgust,"My mother was always fastidious about my room, bed time, etc. She treated us strictly and punished us physically. These things were intolerable." guilt,Did not read reference when other people read them. sadness,"A few years ago my mother suffered from canccer and died within two years. We had not finished our studies then and could not bear our responsibilities as her children. My mother had tried her best to take care of us but she lived in pain these two years. Neither the doctor nor we could do anything for her as cancer is incurable. I was very eager to replace her in suffernig , even die instead of her." anger,"When my father asked me if I was a communist, at the same time he made it clear that I should no longer see myself as his daughter." guilt,"My mother developed hipertonia and I think I too am to blame bacause with her it is a stress disease." anger,"Some noisy guests arrived at the hotel. I had been slightly irritated earlier. At night when I was trying to sleep they were having a party so I went and yelled at them. I wanted to sleep as I had to get up early the next day." fear,"Traveling as the only female in a railway carriage in the middle of the night in Italy." fear,Almost had a bicycle accident. guilt,Forgot to collect post for a friend. shame,"[ Sometimes I have by accident said to another person something in which it is easy to read a negative attitude.]" sadness,The death of a close relative. fear,"I was camping in an old broken hut which had no lights. I had brought along a lamp which was not working very well. The door made strange sounds and I was sure that strange things were happening. The most terrifying bit was that there were many wardrobes in the hut and everytime that I looked in the glass of the wardrobe I felt that there were ""objects"" behind me. The whole night was spent in fear and restlessness." disgust,One day I went to see a rather disagreeable film (X). fear,"Riding through a bush fire on an island of Australia - on a pushbike as a little boy - all alone, lost and surrounded by smouldering wood and flame." anger,"When close relatives tried to dissuade me from studying Psychology because of its low status." joy,Found my name on the list of attending the English lectures. sadness,"When my mum's brother passed away after having been involved in a car accident. He was bringing me a present as I had passed my form five exams with flying colours." disgust,I saw a friend's husband with another woman. fear,Falling off a cliff in the mountains. fear,"One time I was injured when I was playing football at School in Blantyre. I was brought to the hospital while my leg was totally swollen. The x-rays confirmed there was no fracture but collection of blood n the muscles. I feared when they started to incise the swollen part with surgical blade." guilt,When I took drugs. fear,When my son has a pain in his leg (for no apparent reason). shame,"While dining with some accquaintances I was asked something which I should have known but I did not know." joy,"When my favourite football team made a goal and was about to win the Cup of England." joy,"My father had an operation which lasted for hours. We were all very worried but it was successful." guilt,When I hit my young sister without a valid reason. anger,"When my brother went out with my new shirt that I adored, and returned it dirty with grease." sadness,"When my mother and father separated (it was a brief separation and they are together now)." disgust,"I once saw an elderly lady who was not properly dressed. She was wearing a transparent dress, such things are not sopposed to be seen in African society." anger,"I came across a girl at the school bus-stop, I had seen her several friends as she was a friend's friend. However my friend had never introduced me to her and when she got off the bus I smiled at her but she did not respond pretending not to have seen me. Her arrogant behaviour made me sick and angry." disgust,"At an anti-pornography meeting, when samples from films and magazines were shown." anger,"My best friend at school told lies about me to a boy I was seeing and went out with him herself." guilt,When I was fined for speeding. disgust,Doing poorly on a midterm. anger,"Once I had an argument with my friends and I knew that I was right. My friends went on arguing with me even though they did not know the right thing." anger,A friend forgot his appointment with me. fear,"When I heard a rumour that the 1st year exam results were out. I had fear that I might be one of the failures." guilt,"I had to take care of a neighbour's child. I did not look after it all the time and the child fell down and was hurt. I felt guilty." fear,"When I had gone to a school picnic and was left behind in the forest." guilt,"Flirting with other girls while I already had a very good relationship. When there are problems in my relationship, the flirting increases as does the feeling of guilt." anger,"When the university withdrew the accomodation that it had given me." fear,That someone would discover whom I really love. shame,"I put an end to a friendship with a girl - I had only pretended love and affection to be able to sleep with her." fear,"One night I and my friends went to the cemetery. We stopped the car in front of the wall and suddenly the grave digger appeared over the wall looking like a ghost. I was already afraid and almost died." fear,"I experienced this feeling when the doctors found a nodule in one of my mother's breasts. It turned out to be an occlusion resulting from continious sucking but for a few days I was not in my reason." disgust,"I felt very disgusted at a friend to whom I had given a Psychology book to read, and she did not care to give me back the book during the exams." anger,"Finding that a subordinate at work was still not willing to cooperate after discussions to try and resolve an attitude problem." fear,"When I slept for the first time all alone in the house where I live now. A man phoned me at 2.00 am. He wanted something from me. I was afraid." disgust,"It was at a comsomol(??) meeting, the last one because we were to graduate. The way one of my fellow-students behaved made me feel disgusted." anger,"When a cousin of mine took my bottle of T.B tablets, put water in it and threw it in the dust-bin." joy,Having a good trip on a boat with good friends. guilt,"When I stared to much at a pastry that a woman was eating and at the same instant the pastry felt on the floor." guilt,"I allowed my little brother to clean the bathroom in his own way. My mother came and saw the floor overflowed with water, slapped my brother in the face and told him to go to bed immediately." shame,"When I was still a child I was told off in face of other persons for having touched an object that didn't belong to me." guilt,"Before an accident, my aunt offered me the front seat of the car, next to the driver. I declined, she took that seat and was killed there when the car crashed." sadness,"When I part with my friends I feel always sad for some time. I can't remember a concrete example now. For example I have just parted with a friend of mine and I am feeling sad." guilt,"When I gave in to what my wife wanted and locked the cat out, it was killed by the dogs." fear,"Walking home at night after university - part of the way, there are ano lights and I am walking down a thoroughfare with the thouth of no one hearing me if I have to scream." disgust,"I felt disgusted when a fellow student asked me to marry him. I had not expected this from him as he was a mere friend." guilt,"When I finished a test type of exam and did not dare to answer any question, I doubted whether I would pass the exam or not." fear,When I was bringing in the shopping and nearly stood on a snake. shame,"When I received a letter from my girlfriend telling me that she was engaged to an another man." sadness,"I had been separated from my girlfriend for about a year. On her birthday I put a present in her mailbox. I had spent two days choosing a suitable present for her. I waited for a few days and there was no reply from her; at last I received a thank-you card in my mailbox. On the card there was only my name, the words thank-you and her signature. I was very sad then." joy,For the first time in my life telling someone I loved them. sadness,"I had a very short term romance during the summer vacations. When we first met I felt excited but I wanted to avoid him after we had met a few times and so I proposed that we stay apart, I felt very sad then." fear,"While cycling in the country, I came across a large herd of cows." guilt,"I read about the national and social spirit and self-discipline of the people of developed coutries like U.S.A, England, France, Germany etc. Comparing this to the Indian people I felt guilty as they have no national spirit or self-discipline." disgust,"Some time ago a girl tried to make me up without any action of my part. She used all possible means. Although I behaved refusingly she did not give up for a longer time." disgust,"In the evening, while I was watching TV, my little brother came in and started eating food he had brought from the kitchen while I was trying to concentrate on the program." fear,First time in anatomy. anger,"There is a mad boy in our village. This boy hit me with a raw paw-paw in the face." anger,"A friend of mine came to visit and stayed with my roommate and me. My roommate and she became good friends. After she left, he didn't talk too highly of her." sadness,"After my little sister's Graduation from High School my grandmother became very sick. She passed away a few months later." fear,Getting ill. anger,"When I came for the lesson, it was cancelled and I had to fill in a questionnaire instead." disgust,"When I saw a woman who had been run over by a train, just off Kafue. The woman had been cut to bits, there was blood and splinters of bone every where." joy,When I passed the B.A exams with first class results. sadness,"Some colleagues decided to go out on a Saturday not inviting me to decide either the place nor the time." guilt,"I have a two-month old baby. When I came here, to the university, to attend lectures, I had to leave the baby with his father. I felt guilty." disgust,"Out of sheer curiosity, I went to see a pornographic movie in Copenhagen. The room was full of men, who panted and masturbated. Very disgusting." fear,"after getting a fail notice for a math class, I realized I was not doing very well in school in any subject. I began to fear failing a class or two." sadness,When my uncle died of leukemia at age 35. fear,"My uncle was taken to the UTC for an operation as he had cancer. There had been a lot of deaths of late - 3 out of every 4 operated. I was scared for my uncle's life." fear,"When my father's home was to be broken into by thieves who had guns." sadness,"Finding out that we cannot have good references because China is poor." disgust,"A situation where I ignored my beliefs and principles for a trip of whimsy." fear,"On a mountain tour, my girlfriend and I passed by an inn. Near the house there was a big dog which began to follow us. As my girlfriend is afraid of dogs, I had to draw his attention to me. He jumped towards my shoulders and wanted to play with me but I really did not like that." guilt,I took french leave to do my homework. guilt,"A person misinterpreted what I had told her. I had told her that I had failed to insert a NasoGastric tube but she went and scolded the patient that she was being uncooperative." anger,"I went to a fair where a guy who was drunk kept bothering me and in the end I got really angry." guilt,Not accepting hints of intimate relation from a girl. guilt,"I went to my boyfrien's house. There I found clothes of a certain girl. Without asking whose clothes they were I started tearing them only to realise that they were his sister's and so I felt guilty." shame,"When I was a child, my uncle came to see us. I spit at him and ran out - I do not know the reason for that. My father came after me and insisted on my apologizing." fear,"When my mother was seriously ill and had to be admitted to the hospital." anger,"When a very close friend with whom I have a very intimate and bodily relationship (he had a girlfriend) started to avoid me and didn't want to talk to me any more." fear,[ While approaching to test the situation.] shame,When I imitated a teacher behind his back - walking very silly. shame,Criticized in front of the class. disgust,A striking act of ingratitude at a public vehicle. shame,"I was ashamed when my friend and I were cross with each other till we apologized to each other." joy,"When I met a girl and asked her for a date and she agreed, (I thought this girl would never like me), this was an emotion of joy." guilt,"When I beat up my brother so badly, for not having gone to school, that we had to take him to hospital." joy,[ A successful lesson.] joy,"When India won the Prudential cup by beating West-Indies in the final match and became the world cricket champion. West-Indies was the strongest of the eight countries which participated in the competition." sadness,When my father passed away. anger,"I felt anger when at the end of a telephone call, a good friend told me that she would go to travel next year with another good friend. We couldn't talk this out." guilt,"[ I speak harshly to my parents though they only mean my own good.]" joy,"When I began dansing, the teacher came and told me that I was very good and would soon get into the ballet academy. " joy,"Yesterday, when the final whistle blew at the final match between OIS and IFK and it was certain that OIS had won the Swedish title." shame,[ No response.] joy,"When my older sister told us that she was thinking of joining the rest of the family for the winter sports holiday." sadness,When my grandfather died. shame,"I had lunch in a restaurant with a friend and I paid the bill. The change was that of a two dollar and a ten cent coin. As I was talking with my friend I took the two dollar coin and forgot to leave a tip." disgust,"The male friend of my mother (a widow) moved in to live with us. I did not like the man." shame,"I slept with a man purely because I found him physically attractive and was under the influence of alcohol." joy,"I was joyful when I received a present (2 books and a pencil) from the headmaster in standard 6 because I had passed, I became No 1 and he said I was one of the pupils who had good behaviour." sadness,"A friend of mine is having psychiatric problems because of his mother's death ages ago. He is really quiet and because it relates back to his childhood I feel sadness for him. He doesn't lead a normal life and it just seems unfair." joy,When my child was born. anger,Being insulted on a bus. sadness,"It was only once that I really felt sad: at my grandfather's funeral (after a long time of suffering he had died of cancer)." shame,"I was supposed to do something and didn't. The person was really dependiong on me." guilt,"When being illoyal (disloyal) to people close to me. Had such an episode with my sister, who should have received my support and attention." joy,Having passed an exam. disgust,Because of the examination I had to study night and day. shame,"When I walked out of my room with only my pants on and found my girlfriend and her female friend looking for me outside." fear,"Being sexually assaulted (not rape, but passionate kissing) by a friend's father - he stopped when he was driving me home. I hadn't wanted the lift, had refused 3 times, and then felt it'd be rude to refuse again. Was really afraid of what he might do." shame,Finding out about Chinese money cannot buy foreign journals. shame,Getting slightly intoxicated at the 1984 I.C.C. Ball. fear,"On a holiday in France I made a walk in the woods all alone and very relaxed. Then a motorbike took me over and I saw the man watching all the time. Suddenly the man stood behing me and I ran away fast." anger,"When students in our working group showed no responsibility or interest in our work." anger,I was angry when somebody stole my half petticoat. disgust,"I felt disgusted when we (family) avoided a problem which could be solved readily." anger,"I work for a journal. Once the lay-out came to nothing, due to thoughtlessness of some colleagues." disgust,"When I entered the dissecting room for the first time. I think I felt disgusted mainly because of the bad smell of formaline." disgust,"At the crowded conditions of living. I always quarrel with my elder brother as he puts the T.V volume at a deafening level and I can not practise my piano lessons. Thus I feel that my home is disgusting." anger,"On the TV news I heard that Nicaragua had complained about the increasing threat of war with the USA." joy,"I was spending the week-end with some friends. We were waiting for another friend and we went to the meet him at the bus stop, a woman we met there told us that the coach had already left. I was afraid that I would not see my friend, but at last we found him." anger,"When I realized that I was far behind the others in the language course and I could no longer catch up with the others." sadness,"Recent break-up of seriors long-term relationship, helped along by would-be in-laws." sadness,When one of my closest friends died unexpectantly. guilt,"I remember about an unpleasant event in relation to my mother. I felt guilty before her." shame,"I was totally unprepared for a seminar conducted by an assistant professor whom I highly respect." sadness,I was watching a sad film and it affected me deeply. anger,"When I was teased by my friend for not scoring good marks in the exams." joy,"When I unexpectedly received birthday greetings from a person I like." fear,Before the examn. fear,"I was going home by car late one night when it was cold, dark and windy. I became rather panicky on the way to my house." joy,"Did very, very well on a Physics midterm." joy,I made dinner for some friends and they appreciated it very much. fear,Being chased in the dark by someone I did not know. anger,"When talking with my sister, she often ventilates prejudices, which my father also adheres." joy,"The joy came to me when I heard that I was going to start a Medical course at the Lilongwe School for Health Sciences." guilt,"When I had wrongly explained someone an important exemple for an examination." fear,"When I had to walk over three kms through a field which had wild bulls, because my car had broken down." joy,"After the funeral of an acquaintance I felt very depressed. That feeling turned into joy when I heard that I had achieved a good grade for an examination." disgust,"When my room-mate made a mess of the room after having drunk the whole night at a graduation party ceremony." guilt,"I was unfaithful to my partner once when he was working abroad for a long period." disgust,"When my grandmother was about 80 years old, she lived with us for several years. I saw her illness. I did not even want to breath the air that smelled of her presence." shame,"I do not seem to feel emotion such as shame, guilt or fear - far out !" anger,"I was on vacation, and therefore I did not attend a meeting of the day care centre. Nevertheless, the very day I came back they called me early morining to ask me ""what are you going to do about the matter ?"" (which had been discussed in the meeting). Then I got angry." guilt,"Once while playing tennis with my classmate I lost a few tennis balls. I found one near the tennis court and took it to be mine despite thinking that it might belong to the student in the next court. I felt guilty. Later someone came to me to claim the ball and I gave it back to him." joy,"Time had struck 8 o'clock when I heard from the radio that I had been selected to Robert Blake Secondary School for Form I. I was very happy for the selection. My parents and I were very happy and full of joy." fear,Going to CAL not knowing anyone. shame,"I was taking place in an anti nuclear protest and was shouting protest loudly to some American sailors of the U.S. Texas submarine. A guy came up to me and said that's your brother screaming at, I felt shame and I realized screaming at another person isn't good protesting. Now I'm a silent protester." disgust,Over an argument. disgust,"When I was a child I broke plates because I wasn't given food on the grounds of coming home late." disgust,"My boyfriend and I did not have any contact with each other during the Summer holidays. I met him the day of the registration and looked through him. In the canteen he asked me if I wanted to have a drink and I said no as I did not want him to do me a favour." sadness,I experienced this emotion when my grandfather passed away. joy,When I bought my car. disgust,"Once while studying for my exam I found so many complicated words that it disgusted me." shame,"I lied to someone and some time later this person found out that I had not told him the truth." guilt,"In Biarritz (the South of France) I met some English students who, especially for me, went to Paris and gave me food, while I didn't have any more money." guilt,"When my pet dog,who was to us a family member, died. He had been vomitting for the past three days and we had not found the time to call a vet, finally when the vet came it was already too late." disgust,"I felt disgusted about a teacher who had rejected all that was human in her. She refused to accept the flowers we gave her for the eighth of March and asked for a foreign parfume instead." guilt,A parking fine. shame,"In a very crowded shop I was distracted and missed my turn in the queue. A woman who was behind me began to shout at me asking me either to pay more attention or to leave." joy,"When I thought that my high school love and I had a mutual emotion." disgust,"One of my good friends told people something I had told her in confidence about someone else." fear,"When I get into the tube or the train without paying for the ticket." guilt,"Having failed to help with the 5th of March arrangements (Women's Day), although I had previously promised to take part in the work." fear,"When the robbers broke in, at night." joy,"Two years ago, somebody I like very much wanted to give up his studies. I tried to make him understand the importance of what he was going to do, not only of the difficulty to find a job but also because he will decrease his culture etc. This person made the test to the college entrance examination and to our great joy we found out that he succeded in entering at the University." joy,"When you told everyone in the last lecture you will do all lectures again in English and everybody can come (not only English classes)" joy,"I got a good reaction from my tutor and tutorial group for a presentation I'd given that I was very worried about." anger,"Despite our good performance and excellent results the management refused to meet our demands." fear,"Some friends and I were crossing a street when one of my friends was seized by a car and thrown aside. I had seen the car coming in our direction but I did not have enough time to react and prevent the accident." disgust,"I found out that someone that I knew had someone else taking tests for her." fear,"One night at three o'clock I was followed by a cardriver, who tried to molest me." anger,Punished by a leader. shame,After an event in which I felt that I had acted unfairly. anger,"I had left a student newspaper of the Chinese university on the table of the library. It had disappeared when I came back." anger,"When someone threw a firecracker into my room at 7:00 am in the morning." sadness,"A friend of mine lent me his apartment for holidays and besides this he was a fine person. Months later I knew that he died tragically in a moto accident. He was very young, and I felt sad and couldn't believe it (until today)." anger,When I was accused of something I had not done. joy,Doing well in an examn. sadness,Not being able to do well to be chosen for the English lecture. sadness,"A close acquaintance of the family died of lung cancer. Although it was expected, I still felt depressed." fear,"It so happened that while staying at anaunt's place I discovered that I was afraid of sleeping in pitch darkness. The room which my sister and I were sharing had no light, and I would refuse to sleep without having the light of the adjoining bathroom switched on." sadness,Failing an examination. anger,"When I learned that several people had died in the street due to the cold weather." shame,I forgot something I agreed upon with a good friend. anger,"One day, when I was a child, my grandmother shut me up in a room." anger,"When I tried to explain to a plumber, face to face, that the toilet was broken and he did not believe it (it had been mended ten times)." disgust,"I felt disgusted when I went to one of the Central hospitals where my hope of getting good treatment was turned down by one of the doctors who said I was alright despite my feeling pain." shame,"When I was 10, I got busted for stealing a candy-bar." anger,When my chief accused me of an error that I hadn't made. guilt,"I felt guilty the other day because I took two pieces of bread instead of one in the Cafeteria and some of the girls were short of bread." guilt,Not giving up something for Lent. shame,"My friend was so intoxicated that the police came and took him away, and they later contacted his parents." shame,"One day I went for a bath. I took off my clothes and as soon as I had finished my brother came in. I felt sad and I found no reason why he came in." guilt,"When I was a child I used to play with my cousin gushing wather to each other in front of the door of my house. One day we decided to gush with on a passing car. The driver stopped and went to discuss with my mother and my aunt that were there." anger,"Having agreed to share the taxi expenses, three people in the back of the car just ran off, leaving the person up front with the entire bill." shame,"I made a joke about the rat of a boy. I compared his rat with a sausage. I told the boy he had a delicious sausage." shame,I had borrowed some money and I exceeded the time-limit. sadness,"When I heard of the death of a friend who had just finished her training I felt very sad for she was young." joy,"After I saw my family and good friends back after staying one year in a foreign country. " anger,Friends who torture animals. disgust,"I read a story in the newspaper about butchers treating their animals very badly. They disgusted me." fear,"I went to visit a friend in hospital. He was going to be operated the next day. I was afraid that they would not let me in and I did not know what his reaction would be on seeing me." anger,When I got low marks in B.Sc final. disgust,Encouter with a prostitute. guilt,"I was not able to help my sister to understand that her husband is a bad man before she was married to him." shame,"I had gone to aa bookshop to buy some books. Somehow, I got very cross with the security guard checking through what I had bought. I lost my temper and screamed at him. Later I felt very ashamed at myself as a lot of people I know were there." disgust,"When I was talking to a person who is a hypocrite, I felt disgusted at his reaction." shame,"I failed my Nutrition paper which was the paper ending the course." anger,"I had planned to study for my mid-term exams on a certain day and my room-mate called me to ask me to go out for a stroll. I tried to make an excuse so as not to go out but she refused to listen to me and insisted that I go out with her. I find it unnecessary to talk to her anymore." guilt,"I borrowed my friend's radio cassette and the plug cracked and some pieces broke off when the plug dropped off my hands." guilt,"When I did not succeed in finding a job after having finished a nonacademic degree." anger,"A friend told me it would be better for me not to be on familiar terms with another friend, although, in my opinion he had no reason to say such things. He only said so hoping that I would search support from him (that, however, was not necessary)." joy,"I felt happy at the end of a 10 day student camp. We had shared our hopes and aspirations and in the open situation so generated, we had made strong frienships and experienced our own worth as well. " sadness,[ Laziness makes one sad.] fear,"Someone knocked on the door when I was alone at home (though there was a door bell). I looked through the peep hole but it had been covered. I called my sister but she could not help me as she was hundreds of kilometres away." fear,"I remember that my form 2 teacher was very fierce and dogmatic. My feet would tremble whenever I saw her but I had to face the fact that I had to go for her class. " fear,Watching a horror movie with friends. anger,"One day I was really angry when all my food was eaten by a dog. My anger was against my mother because she was careless. She didn't keep the food in a hidden and proper place." anger,"I was very hungry and just wanted to start eating when a friend called me who usually talks for a long time. I was angry because I was prevented from eating." fear,"I was watching a movie alone - it was a horror movie. The music was a deep pulsing type - not really music. And a light flashed on and off. It was in the complete darkness of a movie theatre that was almost empty." joy,A boy I had been admiring so much asked me to go out with him. shame,I felt shame when I found that I was almost last in the exam. shame,A theft committed by me. fear,"Once I was alone at home. I suddenly felt unwell and there was no one to help me and call First Aid." shame,"When I woke up after a night of drinking I couldn't remember and discovered several untoward things had occurred." joy,When I was admitted to the Bulgarian State Conservatoire. disgust,[ The same as in anger.] guilt,"One day my mother went to visit her friends. When she came back she scolded me for not having kept the house in order, so I decided not to talk to her." fear,My car skidded on the wet street. shame,"When I talked maliciously about a colleague at work to someone else. Immediately afterwards I felt ashamed." fear,"When I was walking at night, I saw fire suspended in the air and it was split into several segments by something I could not see. I suspected that it was witch-craft." joy,"Celebrations on the graduation day with the orchestra playing in the garden ( I am a part of this orchestra)." joy,"I was very happy when my scholarship to continue studying at UNZA was approved after it had been cancelled." sadness,"When my nephew was taken to hospital with meningitis and we did not know what would happen." fear,"I am a ""cantor"" - I sing psalms in church. Several weeks ago I had to sing too, but the organist did not tell me in time. As I did not know the psalm, I was afraid and said that I could not sing." fear,"When I was a child, I heard the floor cracking and I thought there was a burglar in our house; I hid under the blanket and trembled." shame,"Finding out that China does not have enough foreign currency to buy books." joy,When I was accepted to study at this school I was very happy. fear,"When the time came for me to see dead bodies and to operate on them." anger,"One of my colleagues accused me of having stolen his iron and I was sure that I had done no such thing." joy,A night spent with a group of friends. guilt,I pointed a failure of a friend of mine. anger,When I get home late my father scolds me and this makes me angry. shame,Cheating in a minor geography exam at school. fear,Disappointment over a friend. sadness,"There was a conflict of interest between me and a close friend of mine. He only thought about his own interest and not about our friendship. This behaviour hurt his friends. Another incident is when a friend isolated himself without giving any reasons." shame,"I was talking with an aunt of mine that I adore and I found courage to say ""I love you"" and just after that came the shame." sadness,"The thought of having to read a boring book of 400 pages in English." guilt,"I let my pet budgie loose to fly around my room one afternoon. A few hours afterwards I found he was still free, went in and out of my room leaving the door open. My cat got in and killed my budgie - this happened to 3 budgies." guilt,A situation where I stole a friends wife's wallet. fear,"When I was going home, I saw somathing which looked like a snake on the road but later I found out that it was only a stick." anger,"My peers didn't want me to meet someone during rush for fear that I would give her a bad outlook on our Sororoty house. I shouldn't have seen this, but they blew and I did." anger,"A drunken friend of mine was beating up another friend, who was also drunk." shame,I failed an exam which I thought I would certainly pass. disgust,"It was in a tramway-carriage: A stranger insulted a girl just because she blew her nose. I detested his behaviour." disgust,"Someone told me he was chosen for the English lectures because he was a good friend of the class leader." shame,"When the class leader read out the names of those chosen for the English lecture and I was not on the list." guilt,"One day I took a packet of sweets from a certain Grocery at Nathenje. Then later on I started to feel guilty and realised that I had done a wrong thing to him." anger,"When some seniors tried to scold and insult some juniors on account of what the juniors were supposed to have said at secondary school." joy,"Sitting alone in a quiet room concentrating on things happening around me which pleases me." joy,"When I heard my name being announced on the radio that I had been successful in an interview for admittance for a medical Assistant training course. I was really happy and I enjoyed myself by dancing to music from the Radio cassette." joy,"On my birthday, when I was given my presents." joy,When I obtained good marks in a subject I had failed before. shame,"When my younger sister, who was then 16 years old, was pregnant." disgust,"One day, at an important place I met a group of girls and while we were waiting for a bus these girls started smoking and commanded me to smoke; I felt very disgusted. " joy,I met a friend I had not seen for a long time on the street. sadness,A friend's mother died. joy,"An ex-colleague asked me if I was interested in working in their accounts bureau. They needed ""clever people"" and he had ""immediately thought of me.""" guilt,"In a fit of temper I told things that were unjust and they greatly hurt my mother though she didn't show it." anger,My mother in law slept in my bed. joy,"I was in a dancing-tavern and the atmosphere was one of waiting for the end of the world. Suddenly people began dancing wildly, inspired by the band. An unbelievable experience : wonderful that even Finns sometimes flare up and forget to think ""what others are thinking of me"". It was delightful to dance to one's heart content." disgust,Hear people talking at my back. disgust,"Bisshop Ter Schure intoduced himself on TV to the Dutch Nation. He spoke as if he was God himself, and didn't discuss the way he had achieved this position." shame,"At school I was bad in mathematics. Although my teacher had admonished me to do my homework, one day I had forgotten to do it. When my teacher noticed it, I blushed and was ashamed to be rebuked in front of the other pupils." fear,"When I and the person mentioned above had a suspicion of pregnancy." disgust,"I found a cockroach crushed between two folders in my bedroom, I called my mother." fear,"When we got lost in Florence and the coach did not turn up until midnight. I had no place to go to and there were strange reports at the police station." sadness,"I experienced this when my maternal grandmother passed away. She was the last of my grand parents to pass away." guilt,"I once stole a shirt from the Department Store in which I work. I have been promoted to work in a very privileged section of the store. Their belief in my integrity makes me feel even guiltier." sadness,"I slept in a tent at the Barracks which caught fire at night and my best possessions got burnt in there." guilt,"I did badly in one of the vital exams, despite getting proper guidance from my parents. I felt guilty of improper use of the chances provided to me. " shame,"When I could not hold my bladder while making a telephone call and ended up wetting myself." sadness,The dying of a close member of the family. disgust,"Last week a former school (secondary) mate of mine, who is now in a differentt school came to my room here at UNZA in my absence. He was drunk and he vomited in my room. I was unhappy." anger,"In a situation whereby a friend's actions were deliberately against my wishes and (with) no regard to my feelings." joy,The birth of my first child. sadness,The day I left my first girlfriend. sadness,When I heard the news that my grandfather had died. shame,"In our class we had a test on Nursing, so a friend from the Army was caught peeping, by using a paper which had already answers which was written by him. So all of us from the Army got ashamed." guilt,"Due to a misunderstanding on my part, two of my best friends quarelled." sadness,"When I went to see the result of an exam and saw that I had failed." anger,When I failed an exam I thought I would pass. disgust,"When I saw a man who hadn't the lower .... in a car exhibition. He was passing a handkerchief from inside to outside of his mouth." disgust,"No very strong such emotion. Treatment of my sister by her dancing instructor - he is a ""user"", i.e., takes advantage of her good nature." anger,"I was waiting to receive the participation on the profits and did not receive it." disgust,"[ I feel disgusted at people who talk negatively about a person without knowing the person well.]" sadness,"I suddenly found that those whom I considerered to be my good friends did not care for me. Although I could still be with them I felt unimportant. I deeply thought about the reason behind this so as to see who was responsible for this. Finally I made up my mind and decided not to expect too much from them. I was sad when I decided that they were no longer my good friends." disgust,"I studied medicine for several semesters. I was always disgusted when we had the dissecting-course. I cannot understand why some persons like this course." anger,"I quarrelled with my brothers (twins) at home on saturday. One of them studies in a private school and the other one is repeating his form five. They do not know what they are doing. They follow every word of their teachers, books and systems. They always try to rationalize their bad acts by some game and they are satisfied with their awkward life. I have tried to persuade them very often but have failed. This time I had a fight as they have no voluntary spirit (they did not polish the floor)." joy,"When I meet old past pupils of mine - and find they are all doing well - I feel joy. Yesterday I met a young woman (20 yrs) I'd taught her at 6 yrs, then at 12 yrs and hadn't seen her for last 3-4 yrs; she was no longer a waitress but a meter maid for Council." guilt,"When I think that I have been too stict or narrow minded towards my students." disgust,"It is very difficult to relate it to a certain event. I am familiar with the disgust of Sartre (la nausTe), a frequently occurring cause may be described as ""the self-assured dullness""." joy,When I got a record as a gift from a friend. sadness,My grandfather's funeral. anger,"I have a very big family. At my grandmother's funeral we all met and everybody pretended mourning. In reality it was like a fashion-show: everybody wanted to show himself." anger,"One day, I discussed a very important question with A. A suddenly declared that he would not accept my position and thought that he himself was right. Moreover, he attacked strongly, not my opinion but me personally." joy,"First time I slept with my present girlfriend. Had been best friends for a year but had been hesitant about getting involved emotionally." fear,Before important sports events. fear,"When I dream of anything terrifying I used to have fear for the rest of the day that the dream might come true e.g., being beaten (or eaten ?) by a snake." joy,When fell in love with my present girlfriend. guilt,"When my brother had to spend all evening repairing a gear-lever that I had broken." joy,Passing an exam I did not expect to pass. sadness,My father told me in the letter that my mother is ill. disgust,Spit and vomit. anger,"When at very short notice I agreed to work in place of a friend who was sick, and owner of the restaurant refused to allow me a drink later in the evening (which is usually always available for workers), did not thank me, and was generally indifferent towards me - I felt I did not deserve this." sadness,Relative's death. disgust,"While watching a film of an experimental operation on a cat's brain in which the cat had metal pieces protruding from its eyes, mouth etc. to keep the head stable while being cut open." joy,"When my boyfriend and I went out for a dinner and subsequently went to his family. We had a very nice evening." shame,"When I have suffered a terrible fit of eating, that frequently occurs. Then I eat everything, I act like a glutton I eat big amounts of food, sometimes even half a loaf." anger,"A time when, as part of my work, I was sent out actually sort of volunteered to run an errand for someone who had no authority to send me out and the address was very far especially on foot and turned out to be incorrect too. The whole trip was a waste." sadness,"My father died. I was away at the time and did not know until two days after." shame,"I was dancing in a theatre. I was not sure whether some frieends of mine had come to see me. I was very scared of doing things wrong." fear,"I was afraid when I learnt that my father was seriously ill in hospital." joy,"When I was 17, I had a mystic vision. I melted into a dazzling light, which omitted perfect love. The physical experience became unimportant, I heard or saw the words ""overcome egotism"". The feeling of joy remained for month after that experience." disgust,"At a social event when none of the guests would help to serve food or clear tables. It was all beneath them." shame,"When I blamed my failure to the bias and favouritism in the marking system, in fact I had not worked hard enough." guilt,Friend's fiancT left her for me. fear,"When my husband and I spent a night by ourselves in a house which was in an area on the outskirts of a large town with which we were not familiar. We heard strange noises outside the house and the house had glass walls so the whole thing was even more frightening." joy,Going to a concert. anger,"I was to meet a friend at the bus-stop (he was coming to visit us) and he did not turn up. After having waited for him for some time (about an hour) I called him up, to be told that he did not intend to come as he was feeling tired." fear,"I went to see a movie and I went with a friend, it was really frightening and it made me stop and think about the world around me and what it is really like out there. I was frightened all that night." disgust,My roommate messing up our room. anger,Overhear people talking about me and saying that I am stupid. joy,"I went to a doctor with a complaint. The doctor told me that I was completely healthy." shame,"One day when I came back home, I found my favourite dish broken. I blamed the servant for it, later I found out that it was not the servant but my daughter who had broken it." sadness,My boy-friend an I seperated on his initiative. sadness,"When a close relative of mine passed away, it was the first time that someone so close to me had died." anger,Being insulted in public for the wrong reason. disgust,"When I could not attend the college picnic due to some difficulties." disgust,To loose friends because of them over-estimating themselves. disgust,"Yesterday in the elevator a man started smoking, this is something I just can not tolerate." anger,"I was not given a chance to explain to my close relatives as to why I could not go to visit them when they were ill. When I did go, they thought that I had been selfish and irresponsible duringtheir illness." joy,"When I went for a picnic in Lonavala, I felt full of joy." shame,"My behaviour at a recent party. I passed out early, luckily." guilt,When I hurt my sisters for no reason at all. anger,"I felt anger at my last exam, I felt angry with our teacher, because he did not rate me objectively and I failed." joy,The birth of my daughter. anger,"While playing a ball game, I was just about to make a goal when I was thrown off my feet, and I failed to score the goal." anger,"I was waiting behind a car which was going to leave the parking place, because I wanted to park my car there. Because of uncoming traffic I had to wait for a short time - another driver placed his car on the place." shame,"I think I felt ashamed for the first time when I entered a night club." joy,"I received the message that I'd been accepted at the school where I really wanted to go." guilt,"I was entrusted with an object and while using it I handled it carelessly and it broke." guilt,Not getting an airplane ticket fot my mother. anger,When my kid brother broke my reading spectacles. disgust,"Normally my father never tells vulgar jokes, we do not speak about sexual things, too. But once he told such a vulgar joke, that I was really disgusted. He did not tell me, but some of his friends, but I was present." sadness,"Found out that my grandmother might have been misdiagnosed as a psychiatric patient because the doctor did not know about neurologism." sadness,"My mother died of cancer after a 4 year illness - I think the most pregnant moment of sadness was the next morning, just as the sun rose." joy,"I felt joyful when my boyfriend met me at the station, while at first he had said that he would not do that." sadness,"I felt very sad when I lost my three Kwacha at civo Stadium when Sam Mangwana was playing some Rumba records. That was not what I expected, I wanted some Disco records." sadness,When my last relation broke up. shame,"China cannot let you give more lectures because you are needed in the specialist clinics. We are so backward in medicine." sadness,"This feeling was quite deep when my friend (girl) died in a car accident." sadness,"I was at home alone when I realized that a young roe approached our house. I hid because I did not want to frighten it. It limped. Some time later, when I thought that it had already run away, I saw it lying on our terrace. I came nearer and saw that it was terribly wounded. I informed the ranger who said that the roe must have been attacked by dogs. He had to shoot it." joy,"The time when my sister had her first baby I was so happy and joyous because she stayed for two days after marriage before she had a child." guilt,"It was about midnight and I wanted to go to the countryside (I was in town) to watch the stars in the sky. My mother did not like this, in spite of it I went out for a while. My mother got angry." sadness,Did badly in an examn. guilt,Being aggressive against members of my family. anger,"When I was in form 3, my aunts lied to my daddy telling him that I had told them that I was pregnant. My daddy told my mother and she asked me if it was true. I was very angry with my aunts." shame,"I was very ashamed when I was neglected by a certain friend whom I was thinking loved me very much." anger,"When my father failed to send me transport money after the closure of the school." joy,When I won a tennis match. joy,When I got a wedding ring of diamond from the boy I loved. fear,When my mother's heart nearly stopped. anger,"When my sister took something that belonged to me without my permission." shame,"I went for a walk with a very close friend; we were talking about our problems, I told her lies." anger,"A shop in Downtown wouldn't accept my Visa Card - before December last year." guilt,"I spent all weekend with a friend instead of studying for my exams." sadness,"My close friend and I applied to TISS for admission last year, unfortunately he failed to get admission. We had done our graduation together and are quite involved with each other, so we had wanted to do our Masters degree together. However, it did not work out as we had expected it to and this saddened me." fear,"I experienced fear when I was not prepared for the final year degree exams." fear,"When my brother had an epileptic attack and I was scared as to what would happen to him." guilt,"One night I did not come home without telling my parents and I did not want to speak about it afterwards. My mother cried. I had a bad conscience and felt guilty." disgust,"When I failed the entrance exam of the medical school and was studying biochemistry which has no job prospects in Zambia." shame,Once I answered my father rudely. joy,"When I discovered that I and my friend would be licensed at the first call. This emotion was accompanied by a great relief. It was the coronation of a year of sacrifice and extrene discipline." guilt,"I threw away an object, which belonged to a friend, because I did not know what to do with it. My friend was very sad about that and I felt guilty." anger,"My feelings towards would-be in-laws for their participation in recent broken relationship." sadness,"When my daughter had problems with her friends and I could see her predicament from the window. She was given a the cold shoulder." guilt,"I felt guilt because on account of my ambitions I nearly turned my sister out of my parents home." disgust,"When I was in Eindhoven on an Exhibition of Hernan Nitsche, who made paintings with real blood. There were also photographs about the killing of cows." shame,"Sometime back I was coming from the wards and lice were all over my uniform since patient's blankets have a lot of lice. It happened that my boyfriend picked some lice from my white uniform. I was so ashamed." sadness,When my grandmother died of cancer. anger,"When I saw my younger sister being bothered by a boy she did not know." joy,"An encounter with a man whom I love, after a very long separation." joy,When I was acceptted as a student of psychology. shame,"Badly chosen words to a vague acquaintance of mine made me feel ashamed at having given the wrong impression about what I wanted to say. Thoughtlessness." sadness,Saw a father beating up his small child. joy,"After passing my Malawi Certificate of Education Exam and being selected to Kamuzu College of Nursing." joy,"Today I did a lot better on my architecture project than I expected." sadness,"When my mother and father were on an excursion in Chechoslovakia and I was at a student camp and I heard over the radio about the events that were taking place there." guilt,[ No response.] anger,"I shared a secret with a friend and it later turned out that he had revealed it to another person with whom I didn't get along very well." guilt,"I was walking quite quickly and unthinking through a children's playground, when a toddler ran in front of me I knocked him over and he hit his head quite hard and began crying." fear,"Motorcycle accident with two people involved, running off the road. Broke an arm, only." anger,Finding out that I was deceived by a friend. guilt,Shouting at my parents because I was angry about something else. anger,"When I was at an official meeting I asked a question to a person. His response was not directed at me but at the chairman." guilt,"When it was discovered that I had done the assignment at my work place, this caused a lot of embarrassment for me." joy,"This happened when I was selected to go to Secondary school to start Form I in October 1980." sadness,When my grandmother passed away. joy,Being elected as class leader. guilt,"I took my father's car to church one Sunday (I told them that's where I was going ) I decided instead to go for a drive to the beach - on the way I got a puncture." anger,When I damaged my wristwatch which I liked very much. joy,"When they phoned me from Great-Britain to tell me that I could go there, if I wished, in Summer." shame,"In a Christian gathering's lucky draw I mistook a girl's name for mine (a boy's name). I realized my mistake only when I went up to the stage for the prize. I did not know what to do as everyone was looking at me. I blushed and went back to my seat." guilt,"The first time I went away with my boyfriend and lied about where we were staying." sadness,"When I heard about the death of somebody I liked very much and I was not present either to see the person or to try to share my emotions with other friends." joy,"Being invited out by a person I wished to get closer to. He telephoned and invited me to go out with him the next night." joy,"A party with no worries (i.e. no tests homework etc.) many friends were present and good music." anger,"This was the worst incident of my hostel life. I was insulted by a close friend of mine on the eve of the New year and it totally spoiled my New year's night." shame,"After making a joke about a friend's marriage that was too personal." sadness,"When I was not selected to go to the University of Malawi I felt very sad." anger,"I was having an argument with my brother on his behavior, then we started fighting and I got annoyed at him because he started teasing me." shame,[ Can not think of anything.] shame,"I feel this feeling at one and the same degree when I am not prepared to overcome certain obstacle in my life." disgust,My roommate boasting about her English lectures. shame,"When I didn't meet an appointment I had made. The person phoned me but I thought of something (I told I was ill) so that I didn't have to go." joy,"A friend which I hadn't seen for years, sent me a small present." sadness,"I felt sadness when I had to get separated from the woman I loved who had to leave for her motherland." sadness,Death of General Ye Jianying. shame,"A few days back I had a tutorial class and the teacher randomly assigned one person in each group to make a presentation. The discussion in our group had been confused and the presentation was not very well prepared. Unfortunately I was selected to present and I could not keep calm, was confused and result was very poor. I really felt ashamed." disgust,"At a party I saw two persons having a fight. The aggressions and the hate between these persons produced an unpleasant impression on me." sadness,"When, for example, I left for the first time my parents and I went to live in Sofia." sadness,"My friend was pregnant, but lost her child during the second month. I went to see her at hospital - she was crying. I felt very sorry for her." fear,"As we were going to Area 10 a dog chased me. I was afraid it might bite me." joy,"When I had a psychical crisis, I met a girl, who told me that she had had almost the same problems and how she had finally overcome them." disgust,"Eco-activists demonstrated against a project to build a power station at the Danube in the middle of a lowland forest (Hainburg) and the government decided to delay it for another year. When my father heard about it, he said that we needed another Hitler." sadness,When my father died. shame,I felt this when I was copying homework for one of my classes. disgust,Finding a hair in the soup. disgust,"When my friends and I were camping in a weekend, and with little food, we met a middle age couple from a small town that invited us to eat in their house. Their house was small, badly built with old and dirty forniture and utensils. The problem was with pans, and dishes, and even the food." disgust,When I saw our computer teacher. guilt,"I felt guilty last year during the winter term exams. A colleague of mine asked me to give him my lecture notes (I had very good notes and I had passed my exam in advance) but I still don't know why I didn't give them to him. That colleague failed and he was on the verge of not passing it at the supplementary examinations." shame,"I went to bed with a girl and the next day she thought it was the start of something serious and I just thought it was fun and I told her I wasn't interested in starting a serious relationship." sadness,When an earlier friend was spreading negative rumours about me. fear,"Finding out in your lecture that a doctor can make misdiagnoses because of ignorance in neuropsychology." anger,"I was supposed to meet my girlfriend at a pre-arranged place but it took me an hour to find her." anger,"A month ago when one of my fellow workers got a promotion over me. It was just a small promotion but recognition was involved." joy,When I passed and qualified for the university. fear,"Walking at friday night through Nijmegen, going to a pub or a disco." disgust,"I once saw a programme on TV describing how certain wild life films were made and was disgusted by the treatment of certain animals in this particular programme of the polar bear." disgust,"When I was watching a movie with many violent episodes. They accurately showed the cutting of corpses, etc..." fear,When I was called for an Interview at Kamuzu College of Nursing. sadness,"When I missed the chance of becoming a graduate in mining engineering, after having prayed one week in the church I was not even selected." joy,I realized the girl liked to be with me. anger,"When I come home in the evening, the first thing I do is to sit down and smoke a cigarette. One day I found the flat in a totally desolate state. My girl-friend had wanted to tidy up but had not finished." joy,"When my uncle gave me my first year's results. I opened the envelope and my eyes ran into two ""B+"" - in EC110 and M160, this meant that I had qualified for a major in economics." joy,When I heard that I had made it to the second year at UNZA. shame,"One of my best friends'fiancT broke off the relationship because his feelings for me were stronger than for her. I felt the same for him, but did not really encourage him to leave her or stay with her - still felt shame." guilt,"When I had to lie about my age to be accepted as a member of a group." fear,"A friend's father had died, I was to come and see this friend although I did not know his family." fear,"There was an earthquake for several minutes and I was on the eight floor." joy,When I recently got an appartment in central Gottenburg. fear,"I was very startled when, at night at 2.00 am, a boy approached me and yelled ""I fuck you"", then however he stopped and laughed at me." disgust,"When I went to visit a relative and saw how messy and dirty his place was, in the absence of his wife." fear,"After seeing a horror film - Omen. I could not sleep at night even though I closed my eyes. The last scene of the film kept coming back to me, I seemed to hear the girls in the film shouting at the devil. The devil did not have any expression on his face and I thought that he would choose me." sadness,"While still at school a friend died of cancer, after being ill for a long time, she was 17 yrs old." guilt,"Leaving home when my mother thought I had no reason to go and felt that I was rejecting her. She is a constantly depressed person (a bit of a worry-wort) and I felt guilty about having given her this additonal problem." shame,"One day I was the leader of the weekly meeting of the Church fellowship. That day I had been preparing for the exams and did not estimate the time to travel to the church right and I was twenty minutes late. As I had not prepared well I led the meeting badly. I was ashamed of myself. " disgust,"Was confronted with a person having negative thoughts of other people because of their social status, beliefs, color and outlook on life (perspective)." disgust,"A class-mate answered (accidentally) the call of nature in the class during a tough mathematics examination." disgust,I felt disgust of dirty. anger,"When I miss the train and I am late, and I have to wait half an hour for the next one." disgust,"Prolonged ""niggling"" of friend on a single theme which I considered of no consequence." sadness,"My mother left my father for his best friend, and he moved to Papua New Guinea. Despite the fact that I am closer to my father than to anyone else in my family, I had to move in with my mother, and say good-bye to my father, not knowing when I would see him again." guilt,"When I was 4-5 years old my mother gave me some parts of a chocolate bar and ordered me to bring it to my father working outside. On my way I could not resist the temptation and ate it myself." guilt,"There was a time when I did not get on well with my sister. I always grumbled at her and said bad things about her to my mother. So my mother always scolded her." disgust,"Once again, my life partner came back home drunk at midnight." disgust,"My life-partner is going through a crisis (way of life, old-fashioned values) and can only get out of it by talking bold decisions. I have noticed his cowardice and attempts to escape his problems by drinking. I detest his drinking and his being full of self-pity." anger,"When a person is privileged in account of situations that are unjust, and disloyal to colleagues and friends." shame,"When I went to the library three weeks after it had opened and found that everyone was busy." fear,"We were riding in a friend's car. He was driving very fast and suddenly a another car crossed the road in front of us. My friend had to turn the car rapidly." sadness,"My grandfather died, I went to the mortuary and saw the corpse." sadness,"I had received bad news informing me that grandmother and grandfather had passed away. The first one to die was my grandmother and after two days grandfather died too." joy,"I went on a picnic to the country side park. The beautiful scenary made me feel relaxed and every worry disappeared , thus the picnic was worthwhile." shame,"When I decided not to out any longer with a girl whom I liked quite a lot. This made me feel low for a some time." shame,When my sister became pregnant at UNZA last year. anger,"Discussion with my mother about the way to educate my children. I felt anger against my mother." joy,"I spoke with a friend on the phone who I haven't seen in many years. It was a joyful event to talk to him." sadness,"A) A documentary in which baby fur seals were being clubbed/spiked to death by Canadian seal-hunters. Brutally graphic. sadness,[ No reponse.] fear,Before the examn. joy,Someone (a boy) paid special attention to me. fear,Watched a horror movie which involved sexual attacks on women. sadness,[ When my elders do not understand me in the right way.] shame,"Once in a public ladies room, I opened the door of a cubicle that was taken, although it was not locked." shame,I lost my driver's licence because of speeding. anger,"I was informed by my flatmate that, when we'd moved into our flat, she'd expected us to buy our food separetely - this event actually happened some 5 months after our sharing began. Prior to this, she had said nothing." sadness,"When the train taking me to my military service left the station, on the platform remained relatives, projects and goodtimes. I had a hard year ahead." guilt,"I had to take care of the plants of a friend of mine for several weeks. I watered them, but let them stand in a cold room so that two of them perished." sadness,"When I received the S.Y.J.C results, the marks I obtained were not up to my expectations and I missed admission in engineering." guilt,Some days ago I had a slight car accident through my fault. sadness,Finding out that China is still backward in science. fear,I lost my way on a trip in the mountains. shame,When my boy-friend left me and I wanted to persuade him to stay. sadness,Saw the village I come from still pay money to buy wife. guilt,[ No response.] joy,"One night I had a very good conversation with two friends. I then realized how worthy they were for me and how happy I was to have them as friends." fear,"Being alone in Europe and having to catch a train and bus to the airport, then board the plane alone." sadness,When they told me that my grandfather was rather ill. joy,"Found money on the road and returned it to the owner through police." disgust,"In May somebody blamed me that I made him to be caught while peeping during the Nursing Test which made me feel disgusted." guilt,"When I came very late one night (or morning !) and my parents were waiting, not so much angrgy as disappointed." sadness,"The fact that my mother is getting married again (my mother and father divorced about 15 years ago) means that she will probably move to Turku, and our home, which is a one family house, will be sold (I myself have not been living at home for the past six years)." disgust,"With a woman who had walked into my place of employment and urinated on the floor in front of everyone." fear,"As a child, when I was at home alone, I felt in an indefinate manner afraid of the death of my father and mother." joy,I was called and invited to have a talk about a job I wanted to have. disgust,"My parents inherited an appartment and this made them behave in a peculiar manner." sadness,Passing away of my father. joy,"When I succeded in establishing a contact with a girl (who is now my girlfriend)." fear,"I was teaching someone to drive and when we were about to crash I was scared." fear,"When we stayed in Vienna with our class, my friend and I behaved incorrectly. Our teacher threatened us with exclusion from school." shame,"I think that I am rather shy and do not mix with people as I would have liked to, out of shyness." fear,"I went to the prayer meeting at night and unfortunately the car broke down, so my other sister said I had to walk alone from Ndirande to Chirimba at around midnight. So we reached home at 1 am. I was afraid of robbers and dardness." fear,[ No response.] sadness,I had drunk a couple of beers and my fiancee got angry at me. sadness,"The day that the results of the college entrance examinations for the S. Paulo University were published and I didn't find my name on the list. Entering this University was my greatest wish, and the fact of not having succeded caused a great frustration, and not only sadness." anger,"A certain man went to my parents and told them that I was married here, when I am here at school. When I went home for holidays my parents asked me about it and I was angry with that man." joy,"A few days ago, I hitch-hiked to Arnhems with a friend. Everything went well: they picked us up very quickly, the sun was shining, I was feeling free and, for the first time after long time, happy. I really had the feeling that I was living at full speed." shame,When I boxed my child's ears. fear,A terrible fight that I provoked with my friend. anger,"When I got home I found that the electrical supply had been disconnected despite my having paid ZESCO the full bill a few days earlier." disgust,"Disgust - no. Maybe it is more precise to say revultion at a worm or a snake. But I mean it in a social aspect when somebody had behaved like a scoundrel to you, when by his actions he has made you change your attitude towards him but I thing this feeling the way I meant it, is not typical for the people interrelations." disgust,"I do not like one of our neighbours as they are very selfish. Whenever they want something or need help they come to see us, otherwise they do not even bother about people who live next to them." anger,"When you kill yourself with work and see the number of slakers wandering around, doing nothing." anger,"I was angry when my friends said that I should not receive Nursing Science books because there was a rumour that I was intending to leave the college." disgust,When I saw a lot of rubbish and animal waste on the floor. fear,My boat running into another boat. fear,"When I was 7-8 years old, I woke up one night and found myself alone at home. My mother had gone out to buy cigarattes from a machine." sadness,The passing away of my mum. sadness,"I was sad at the expulsion of some of my comrades during the UNZA demonstrations." disgust,Saw a dirty street. disgust,"When I listened to a conversation of friends talking about the power of money." guilt,"I felt guilty when I was found to be the chief leader of making noise in class." joy,When my daughter was born. joy,When I found our my mother didn't have cancer. anger,"Having gone to school without learning anything, as usual." disgust,"While watching the movie called ""Deer hunter"" on TV, when it showed how prisoners were treated." shame,"When I went to the sauna for the first time and there were men and women." sadness,"When I failed a test at my primary school. I was then in grade 7 and we were about to take the main exam." shame,"When I get an exam back with a grade that I did not desire. Then I get mad at myself and say that I could have done better." disgust,To see damaged lettuce (with worms) in the icebox. anger,"On the occasion of assignment of tasks and responsibilities in which such an assignment, dispropotionately carried with it high responsibility and low ability of organisation and resolution." joy,"As the time to get the results drew near I became more and more anxious. My friend called me and said, "" You have passed."" My heart was full of joy." sadness,"It was the time I went home for my holidays only to find that my sister had passed away. The news had been hidden from me, so that I could take my exams." fear,When a thief entered the house in which I was sleeping. joy,"At a friend's birthday party with some of my closest friends. It was all very pleasant and one could say that I was happy to have such good friends." joy,"The day I got married was the happiest day of my life. Both of us felt that we were right for each other in every way and we had no doubts about our compatibility right from the day we got engaged." disgust,People not cueing in the college dining room. joy,"The day I was told that I had passed my Malawi School leaving Exams and I was selected to go to college." disgust,"I wanted to take something from under my bed. While doing this I felt a dead bird laying under my bed." shame,I drink wine too often. joy,"When I was notified that I had been accepted as a Psychology student." sadness,"At one point in a relationship, my boyfriend was seeing an old flame more than me. At our confrontation tears were shed." sadness,When I was told that my father had passed away. joy,"When I found out that the girl, with whom I was in love, loved me too." shame,"When I as a Pakeha (white) new Zealander, was just as racially prejudiced as other people whom I had condemned." anger,"And she said absurd things, false things that filled my ears and inflated my head which seemed to be caught in a carcass where the heart wanted to explode and where the arm wanted to knock down the world." anger,"Someone in my family (my brother I suspected) ate a bun which I had made for myself. It was during a long telephone call after I had just made it and put it in the oven warming drawer." fear,"In Sweden, a friend and I lived in an appartment owned by a Finn. One day, this man came back to the appartment heavily drunk (hashish and alcohol). He was quite dizzy and he broke down, and I could not foretell his reactions. However, nothing happened." shame,"My friend told me in a fairly loud voice the blunders she committed last night." joy,"When Wayne and Sue (close friends) were announced our guardians at ther wedding." sadness,"Finding out that China is poor, so we cannot have good reference books." sadness,"When I received a message that my brother was seriously ill and was in hospital." fear,"When I was a child, one day, I was going home late at night and I did not notice an uncovered man hole and fell in it. I was in there for several minutes." fear,"When my neighbour's house was broken into and shots could be heard." shame,"My father was a member of the public Alcohol and Drugs Board, when I was picked up by the police for being drunk in a public place." joy,"This is one feeling I never betray, but I must confess that the last time I slighty felt happy was when I passed my M.A with a high rank. This was a few years ago when my friend told me about the result." anger,Bus conductor insulted me for not buying a ticket (I forgot). disgust,"I saw in an ice-cream kiosque a cockroach walking through a cornet." anger,"[ During my childhood when I could not get what I wanted from my brother/sister and parents.]" guilt,"When I didn't study for tests in High School. In particular remember a physics test. I didn't study because my friends talked me out of it and we did something else boring. I felt so helpless just being there - then guilt set in because I was very close to getting an A in the class." anger,"I had made an appointment with three friends. We had to go out together. When I arrived at the place, the other persons weren't there. I became very angry because I thought they were gone without me. That, however, didn't appear to be the case." fear,"I had a cousin whom I loved so much. Unfortunately she passed away suddenly and one time I had a dream in which I was talking to her yet she is dead." guilt,Sleeping through crew practice one Monday morning. guilt,Talking about someone behind their back. anger,"At an examination I got a bad mark just because of a small mistake. When I went to the lector and wanted to talk about that, he did not listen to me but sent me away." anger,"A certain boy came into my room and started telling me that I was not pretty, that I had no manners and that I should learn some. I had just come to campus and he was in fourth year." sadness,"When I was in Bombay one of my good friends was getting married and he had not informed me about it, this made me sad." anger,"I work at a petrol station. When there is a foreigner who wants petrol my collegues treat him very impolite." disgust,"While watching a movie, someone who was drunk started vomiting helplessly." anger,"My flatmate was asking questions about my relationship with my boyfriend, whether I wasn't treating him as unfairly as I claimed he'd been treating me. As a result, I was angered, and became defensive." guilt,"At my job, I got disproportionately angry with a child. My reaction was not as it should have been." joy,"When I pass exams, or when a close friend of mine recovered from an illness,etc." shame,"A much older man took advantage of me during my childhood (four to eight years of age)." sadness,When my mother died in August 1978. disgust,"When the committee, to which I belong, was accused of having squandered the money of the association." fear,"When I could not find my 2 year old daughter. I ran and looked for her everywhere and could not find her. (I finally found her, she had gone to bed to sleep)" guilt,"I was not sure whether I should help an old woman going down a flight of stairs. I just watched her and saw how difficult it was for her to do it." guilt,Falling in love with a close friend. disgust,"I saw a program on T.V where they had to saw a skull for an operation." joy,"When Christmas holiday started, I felt very joyful when I finished my last exam." anger,"In the University we were convoked to a stroll like a freshman I was still innocent about the manipulation. On seeing the goal of the exaltation to poor character people, I felt anger on feeling myself mass of maneuver." shame,Being insulted in public. anger,Unjust punishment of a friend of mine. anger,"I feel angry at people's indifference at our ability to be present at an event and to stay partial to what happens." disgust,"I felt disgusted when a certain lady spoke words of sarcasm when I was trying to propose to her." disgust,"Disgust for a person who treated me badly, and has treated other people similarly - including lying, hiding facts, being deceitful, unfair, etc." shame,"When I hadn't learnt my lesson and I asked the teacher to give me ""a three"" and he agreed but even he felt quite awkward. disgust,"I was most disgusted when I had to make a nagging three day journey recently from Calcutta to Bombay. It was very boring and tiring." shame,"I promised a friend that I would return a book to it's owner for him , but I forgot to do it." shame,"At school I was talking to a classmate about mathematics. I had grown weary of it and said : ""I would like to throw the book on the arse of Kuikka"". My classmate said : ""Now, he is sitting there and waiting for the book"" (Kuikka was one of the most quiet boys of the class). I was ashamed of myself." shame,"When I almost did something awful with a friend of mine and myself." anger,"A friend was unpunctual, we wanted to prepare ourselves for an examination." fear,When I heard a lion roar for the first time. guilt,"I felt guilty when I was given a prize which belonged to someone else." guilt,"It was on January 1st 1985 when I accidentally broke a Fanta bottle in a certain bottle store in Zomba." shame,Spots on the seat covers of my husband's car. anger,My roommate was rude to me. guilt,"I stopped my car in front of a pedestrian crossing as a child was crossing the street. The car driving in the next lane did not stop and the child got hurt. Had I not stopped ..." fear,"When I decided to leave my steady, secure employment to come to university. Because I didn't know if I could cope with all the requirements of study and also being older I didn't know if I would enjoy mixing with younger people, also financial insecurity." anger,"I was angry at a University tutorial when an ignorant loudmouth persisted in trying to dominate the conversation." joy,"I felt glad when I took the rather difficult organic chemistry examination." anger,"When they put the blame on me when I scored the third goal at the match." disgust,"I felt disgust with the alcohol, after I happened to see a young man, who was dead to the world and who wallowed on the pavement. This ""sight"" I watched from the bus." sadness,"After having been ill, when I was coming back to the hostel, I felt very sad leaving home." joy,"When I was offered a place in the university as a full time student." guilt,"I once torn the inner tube of a bike, that was not mine. Then I saw it was a brand new one. I felt very guilty then." shame,When I wet my bed at boarding school. guilt,"Some of my friends had an argument. I had earlier phoned one of them and that may have influenced him to argue." shame,"My mother told my uncle who is a Roman Catholic Priest (Redemptist Father) that I had been living in a de-facto relationship for three years. He was very, very angry at me." guilt,"After a quarrel with my mother in which matters were ""inflated"" enormously." joy,"When the results of the part I exams came out I felt tremendous joy in my heart. The results came out after a long period of worry and anxiety, so it gave me endless relief and joy." anger,"When a person whom I had invited did not come on the appointed day and time." sadness,When our dog died. shame,"About a dozen girls laughed at me and I was sure that there was nothing wrong with me." anger,"When I left after the examination to enter the University, and even though I had studied the whole year I made a bad exam. " joy,"When high level results were declared, I found my candidature number. I was very happy as I had not expected it. As I had been injured before the examination and I had performed poorly." sadness,Death of the family dog. shame,"When I went to a halloween party and had to walk through a shopping center dressed like a witch." anger,"When I was blamed for some of my attributes which are very often misunderstood, especially when one is very frank." fear,"I was hunting, and was lost in the fog in the mountains." shame,"I was at the University dining room, alone, and at a table next to mine thre were several professors. One of them asked me to join them. I refused but she insisted. All the others started looking at me and I had to move to their table." fear,"Standing in a crowed shop or in a closed room with too much people in it. This gives me a fearful experience." disgust,"Many times, when my father used to come home drunk and maltreated physically me and my mother." sadness,Leaving high school. shame,Finding out that China is backward in science. joy,"My boy-friend told me that he would take me to the training of the life-saving dogs." joy,I had a very pleasant conversation with one of my friends. anger,"At work, when an elderly man complained unjustifiably about me and distrusted me." joy,"I sensed such a feeling when I understood I was admitted to the University. I was at home, the atmosphere was still, though I myself was full of suspense. I tried to do different things. When the telephone rang and...! Yes, of course there were other situations when I felt a similar feeling but I was unmindful of them." fear,I fear before each exam. joy,"I watched a football match with my old friend. The performance of the team was very good and the team members were full of spirit. The match was excellent and every time a goal was scored I felt excited." shame,"I was ashamed at being the only one to have got a C+ in ED120 assignment." fear,When my father was ill and was waiting for the results of his tests. joy,"On the cliff by the sea, the silence and the sudden voice of a bird.(swans of the bay)" guilt,I felt guilty when once I made my mother angry. guilt,"When I slapped a nephew who did something that I considered wrong, and I was reprehended for this." anger,"I was badly beaten up by one of my friends during a wedding party." anger,"During the Xmas holiday, I and my best friend at Secondary School had planned to meet at a Cultural afternoon at the Mt. Soche Hotel after missing each other for such a long time. When I asked my mother for permission, she told me not to go for no good reason. I felt very angry with her." disgust,People who discriminate other people disgust me. joy,My best friend chosen for your English lectures. disgust,[ When mix was coming from column for several days.] disgust,"When I, for the first time, failed a junior exam, i.e form 3." fear,"I imagined I heard footsteps up the hall while sleeping in bed one night by myself in the house." guilt,"I felt guilty when I had refused to lend money to my friend who needed it immediately." joy,"I passed successfully the preliminary exam for a participation in the children Assembly." shame,"When the teacher asked me a question, I did not know the answer and I just stood still for about a few minutes without saying a word." anger,People hunting animals. anger,"It was when I discovered that my boyfriend had another girl. I discovered it through a letter he wrote to the girl when he was away. When I asked him he accepted it." guilt,"Sometime back I came across a certain man who was badly beaten by some people because he was found raping the wife of the village headman." disgust,[ When I see that the toilet is unclean.] disgust,"A film were a woman was attacked and raped. One did not see the worst but it had the desired effect - very strong." guilt,"There were old people in a crowded bus and I did not have the courage to give them my seat. I closed my eyes to sleep and then opened my book to read. In my heart I wanted to give them the seat." disgust,"A drunk man attacked his wife and wanted to humiliate her by insulting her. Then he turned violent and started to beat her in front of her child. She left it happen without saying a word in order not to make things worse. I watched the scene and tried to calm the man, but without success. Just because he was stronger we had to comply. From that day I detested him." sadness,"I have once been very sad and lonely. This was when I was trying to organize a play as a student (15 years). Instead of materializing, it fizzled out. The worst thing was that the play fell apart completely and I found myself weeping uncontrollably. Now when I think of it, I laugh it off; but at that time it was intense." shame,"When I realized that I was directing the feelings of discontent with myself at my partner and this way was trying to put the blame on him instead of sorting out my own feeliings." shame,Not doing well in the examn. fear,Left alone in dark when young. disgust,When I saw an insect going up my arm. anger,"When I encountered not only with my father's lack of understanding but also with his unwillingness to understand me as a parent, as far as things for which I (not he) have proves to be right are concerned." sadness,My uncle died in the Vietnam War. guilt,"The only guilt I considered reasonable was my reproval at the end of the semester at the University." sadness,"I was watching a sunset after my latest boyfriend left me and I realized that we would never watch sunsets again, probaly never see eachother again and none of it mattered." guilt,"A neighbour complained about smoke from my backyard incinerator entering his house after a change of wind direction. I lit the fire after originally checking that the wind would not blow the smoke in that direction." anger,"When I saw a man hitting a child of 2 years without any consideration, simply because the child had been leaning against a window." anger,"I was coming home in a taxi with a fellow worker of mine. He was criticizing my earlier conduct towards him, which to my mind was unfounded. When I reached home, I ran out of the taxi and slammed the door." fear,"When I was in a little fishing boat and we ran into hard weather in the open sea." anger,"When after a lot of provocation my child threw a plate on the floor." fear,"I lived alone in a repulsive area in the city of Rotterdam. I was annoyed, heard a lot of Burglary and assaults. Especially in the evening and the night I frequently felt anxious." sadness,I lost a close friend. anger,"Two boys whom I know were telling me, in an indecent manner, how they had teased a young and shy girl I know. They had despised her conviction, scorned and touched her. I got very angry and did not try to conceal it and gave it back to them." anger,"I was really angry when the President general of UNZASU was arrested by policemen." shame,"On one occasion whilst engaging in horseplay with my girlfriend, I caused her to be physically harmed." disgust,"The emotion came to me when a certain girl who was not polite to her mother hit her sister severely." disgust,"I feel disgusted at my cousin, who is bad-mannered, does not know how to behave and talk to others, he does not respect elders and lies all the time." shame,"I was running in front of a crowd when I slipped and fell on a wet lawn." shame,When I got a bad result for one of my assignments. joy,"When my daughter gave her solo dance performance in Poona and there was a big applause, I was overjoyed." shame,"In 1972 I failed my Examination because of my own crooky behaviour of dodging from Examinations." sadness,"A very close friend from Victoria visited me over the holidays. Having enjoyed his company immensely over 10 short days, I was overwhelmed by sadness when he left to return to Victoria." joy,At my sister's wedding. shame,"I felt ashamed when I had not attended a class and the teacher asked me the reason for my absence. " anger,"In arguments with a close friend or relative where my point of view is completely disregarded." sadness,"When I was a child I had a grass-parakeet I liked very much. His legs were crippled so that he could not move very fast. Once I came into the room, did not notice him and stepped on him. A few days later he died." joy,"When I finished my exams after 12th Grade, I was worried about getting a T.E. Score high enough for Physiotherapy. When I found that I had been accepted I was ecstatic, or more appropriately, could jump for joy." disgust,Can't remember any episode of disgust. sadness,"One day I came across a certain boy who was intruding my friendship as lovers with my girlfriend and I was very sad because I didn't expect that girl to disappoint me I regarded her as being very faithful." joy,"When I was complimented and called ""delightful""." sadness,"I felt very sad when my boyfriend wanted to break our relationship. Our relationship lasted two years, we shared everything and all this was finished." sadness,"When my best friend promised to come at my house and I had to prepare so many expensive things for her but only to learn at last that she would not turn up." sadness,"After having left the company of someone who gave me a lot of support and made me laugh, found myself alone for days on end." shame,"Close friend discovered I had deceived them. Felt shame at having done it and knowing that they knew." disgust,"Some time ago a man tried to teach me something. ""Tried"" because it is very difficult to teach somebody when you yourself are not competent and cultured." sadness,When my father died. disgust,"One day I was walking with my boyfriend. We met my ex-boyfriend and out of jealousy he started calling me names." fear,I was bitten by a dog. joy,"When I saw that I had passed an exam. It was the last chance and there was a lot at stake." disgust,"A friend had a quarrel with the mother of her boyfriend because she and her friend decided to go and live together. She needed money for removal, then she made a great effort to reconcile." disgust,"When I was told that the brother who was staying with me would not go to the training school that year but only the year after." joy,"Spending the nitht with close friends, after being away (out of Nijmegen) for a while." anger,"A friend visited and made comments that my house/garden were not as neat/tidy as in the past. I'd not seen her a year - She implied I'd gone to the pack (I'd only been working full time, and taking 3 University exams part time)." guilt,"When I was fighting with my elder brother I unintentionally hurt him in the eye with a wooden bar. I felt guilty and feared that he would be blind, fortunately he recovered after 15 days." sadness,"I was all of the sudden sad when I heard that my cousin who usually paid school fees had passed away after a very short illness." fear,"When I was at home alone, I felt a super-natural force, dangerous for me and the people close to me." fear,Before an oral examination - which I did not take eventually. shame,When I proposed love to a girl and she turned me down. anger,"When playing a football match, there was one player who made mean tackels, kicked at everything and did things having nothing to do with football." guilt,"I had been guilty of gossiping and blaming others, and one of my superiors at the workplace made a formal reprimand." guilt,"After days or weekends where I did not accomplish the amount of sudying that I wanted to because of more pleasant activities which come up." shame,When ditched - divorced by husband. joy,"When I read the newspaper that morning I found my candidature number on the admission list of the Chinese university. I was satisfied and happy and the cumulative anxiety disappeared. I only wanted to cry out that I had succeeded." fear,"One night I had a feeling that somebody was stealing my car, but I was too frightened to go and see." guilt,"When I am not able to fulfill any request of my son - can't take him out to ride his byke, because I am tired." disgust,Saw people spitting in public. disgust,"When walking along the beach with my boyfriend, we saw 2 people having sex on the sand dunes in full view of everyone. It was the fact that they chose that area in which to have sex, that disgusted me." shame,"In class I had to say something aloud and people reacted by laughing." fear,"I had fear of my father (parents) when I first became pregnant. I was afraid of delivery itself and whether I would give birth to a stiiborn or a baby." shame,"When a friend told me a story and I stayed dumb because I had no story to tell." shame,"When I was in the canteen of the United college I mistook a stranger for a classmate as I was not wearing my glasses. I realized that I had made this mistake when I saw him again carefully." shame,"I had misbehaved at a party and did not wish to meet the person in question later." fear,"When a good friend of mine behaved in a very cool manner to me for a very long time." anger,"I was accused of a misdemeanour, unjustly." joy,"I had a picnic with old classmates, we chatted and played games." anger,"A few days back a friend of mine poked me in the ribs for fun's sake, though I had warned him an infinite number of times that it really hurts me, he did it again. I usually ignore this but this time I flared up for a split second and threatened to bash him up. This is the latest incident when I lost my temper, though I felt very bad about it later." sadness,"My friend has to go on field trips, he just told me." anger,"I was angry when my sister began to talk nonsense and to laugh at the way I swept the room. My anger grew (I tried to control myself). After telling her to leave me alone, I vented my anger on her as she did not obey me." sadness,"I found a baby opposum on the road and took it home and cared for it for a week. It had to be force-fed and carried in a fur pouch under my jersey. My father had the vet put it to sleep as he said they carried diseases." joy,Being chosen to do this experiment. anger,"Found out that someone I knew well has been misunderstanding me for 2 years." shame,"When I lied to my best friend about a boy she really liked but he didn't like her. I told her he did and she bugged him for a long time embarrassing herself." joy,"My current lover and I had been very busy with work and study and had not had time alone together for almost a month until one afternoon recently when we made love for hours and then showered and ate together." guilt,"I lied to my mother in the sixth form she said she would ring to find out and I had to tell her I had lied." anger,"Whenever my father smokes the smell makes me feel very uncomfortable. He never listens to my complaints and I curse him furiously in my mind. I cannot solve this problem by violence because of traditional moral values. " shame,[ Same as above - friends who torture animals.] guilt,"When I broke off with my boyfriend after three years. It was quite unexpected for him and there was no particular reason for the break up, such as someone else." disgust,"We had gone to our native village and I went to visit a tribal group which believes in Goddess Kali. As it was a festival day they had to offer a hen to the Goddess so they cut the head off a hen right in front of my eyes. I felt disgusted and evenb gave up eating meat after this incident." shame,"We were at a party, this guy I liked and me. I really loved him and gathered enough courage to ask him to kiss me. He did not do it but instead asked me what I would like for my birthday. I told him that I would like a kiss more than anything else but he excused himself and said that it was impossible. I really felt embarassed." joy,"I did a solo flight from Ardmore to Kaikohe before I got my pilot licence. I can remember it was gorgeous day and I was on a natural high, cruising up the coast with my maps and compasses and gear. Other pilots had seen me off and wished me good luck and it was a real adventure." guilt,"One day, I was alone on duty when a patient choked while eating. I ran to her and tried to make her breath, but it was too late." sadness,"My grandfather died. He lived almost as a recluse not caring for himself as well as he should - Dad and we all helped as much as we could, but it didn't save him from himself. It was an unexpected death. His second de facto wife was lucky she wasn't jailed." sadness,"I suffer form a disease of my muscles. However, I cannot talk about it and my feelings, the consequence with my parents. They try to repress it." shame,"When I was a child I played my mother a nasty trick to make her feel hurt." shame,"When I went to see the doctor and had to take my clothes off so that he could examine me." fear,"I'm afraid of driving on the special seat of a mororcycle, mainly with certain colleagues who by exces of self-confidence drive beyond limits or measure in the traffic and the main victim is always the person who sits behind the driver." shame,Haven't felt shame for ages. sadness,"Alone I am coming back home in the night after the serial ""explanation""." fear,[ No response.] disgust,"My girlfriend came home after a business dinner at the most expensive place in town drunk as a skunk. Whats more she drove home and couldn't remember doing so. I was disgusted by her state and her actions." sadness,When my brother died. joy,When I can see my parents because now I am far from them. anger,"I was in the library of medical psychology and walked into the wrong direction. A man who came out of a room threated me very denigrating and I became very angry in a resisting manner." shame,Not being able to have a party at home with friends. guilt,"While trying to get my little brother over a ditch, he fell on his head and started crying. I was scared of having caused him permanent injury." guilt,"I'm allergic to most foods - eating something that I'm allergic to caused guilt." shame,"I had something wrong, saying wrong things and being impolite to someone, and this had embarrassed the this person. And I still meet the person." joy,Always when I am well succeded. guilt,"When I promised to visit my boyfriend and I didn't fulfil the promise." joy,"After I had made my debut at Ullevi against IFK, Gottenburg and got a good write up in the paper." joy,"When I heard the examination results and when I recovered after having been sick for a week." disgust,"When I was watching some scenes from the Bertoluchi's film ""Twentieth Century""." fear,Someone frightened me in the dark. disgust,"When my mother's new husband treated her and my brothers and sisters badly." disgust,"I saw a magazine with photographs of dead and maimed people whose limbs were separated from their body like a head on one side and the leg on the other." fear,When my B.A results had not come. sadness,"I remember that when my mother died the day was sad and every time I think of it I am saddened by the loss of my mother." sadness,The day my teacher of Latin and French died. joy,"When last year in college I received the award ""Best Student of the Year"", I felt very happy as I got what I had wanted and my wish had been fulfilled." anger,"I've a situation of responsibility an employee who had a habit of being late, came late again after promising to say he would be at work in a few minutes, then arrived 3 hours later. He had been drinking." anger,"I told my boy friend not to park in a certain place because the car would ger towed away - he didn't listen and it was towed away. At that stage, our finances were below the poverty line & it cost us $10.00 - all the money we had to get us through that week (including rent)." shame,After having failed my driving test. disgust,"A student who lives in the same house where I live is an alcoholic. He tries to manipulate other people with his money when he has drunk too much." fear,Risk of being involved in a fight after a party. joy,"When I passsed the M.S.C board exams with first class, which I had not expected." joy,"When I saw my brother in Church, and publically accept Jesus Christ as his saviour and Lord." shame,"In the last day of carnaval I met a boy and began to flirt with him. I was in love with him. When he introduced me to his friends I died of shame because I was with them before, I met my boyfriend in carnaval." sadness,[ No response.] shame,"When I failed the twelveth standard exams I was ashamed at having to see my parents later." shame,"When my friend and I were discussing the good looks of a guy we realized that he had been listening." joy,"When I passed the last exam, which I had doudts about." shame,[ Never experienced.] fear,"When abroad, while driving a car along a dark, winding road." anger,"In the student's union there was someone who took the photocopies of two large volumes. I asked him to let me take a few, he refused it for an acceptable reason. " sadness,"My cut was run over by a car. After searching for a long time I found her lying in a kerb. I was rather shocked and angry with the driver." disgust,The same as in SHAME. guilt,"I had promised to send something to a friend and it completely slipped my mind. I felt guilty for having forgotten." shame,"My first real experience with a boy. We were alone. I was quite young and pretty naive and he was pretty crude and real, sort of, macho. It was dark, at night during the summer and we were talking." joy,I was very happy when I passed the B.A with first class marks. fear,"I was alone in my room at the boarding house when at 12 o'clock someone knocked violently on the door." fear,"I thought that I would be scolded for a comment I had made, which I should not have made." disgust,"I read a book about the situation in South-Africa, about the terrible violations of human rights. I was disgusted with the white population." joy,China winning the Asian Olympic games (TV). shame,"My elder brother and I have not always had a good relationship and I feel ashamed of myself as I do not call him to talk to him nowadays." sadness,"The disease and subsequent death of a close acquaintance. Sadness was accompanied with feelings of powerlessness (I also experienced sadness in the situation described under guilt)." disgust,Finding out my grades at the end of my Sophomore year. anger,"At a cash desk where I had gone to buy 16 rolls of kitchen paper at a reduced price. After queuing with screaming children; it turned out that I had taken two 8 roll packets instead of the one 16 roll packet to which the rebate applied. The assistant said ""You will have to get it another time.""" disgust,"I felt disgusted when my appointment to meet the E.N.T. specialist had been turned down. The specialist came from U.K. and went the same day and we do not have one." shame,When I arrived late at the job and met the most troublesome boss. sadness,"Last year, when I took the college entrance examinations I failed the FUVEST. It was for me the most frustrating situation because I had studied all year long, and only thought about this." sadness,"When I applied for the college entrance examination to FUVEST, and I wasn't approved in the second fase." disgust,Can't describe any disgust situation. joy,"When, to my surprise, I got to know about having got ""very good"" high school graduation marks." shame,"During a lecture six students (including me) were asked to leave the class as we had not prepared for the lesson. I felt ashamed and angry." shame,"During the oral part of my final examination I made a mistake in speaking so that all the teachers laughed at me." guilt,"In September 1984 I got two girls pregnant and the families of both the girls confronted me . The fact was that my parents were around and I felt guilty answering some of the questions." anger,[ No response.] joy,I got to know that I had been accepted at university. anger,Heated discussion with spouse concerning new house. anger,I went out dancing and found my boyfriend kissing another girl. shame,"The mother of a small child found me shaking the child in exasperation, because I couldn't get it to sleep." anger,When I was mistreated by my step-mother. shame,When my mother found out that I smoke maryhuana. disgust,"When I dined with my new friends, one of them kept reminding us that he was superior." shame,"I was walking outside the union refec after rain when I tripped and fell." sadness,"My friend got married and went abroad, this made me feel sad and lonely." fear,"I was looking after my father's sheen in the forest. One day while playing with friends from neighbouring villages the flock escaped me and went into a far place. It became dark and I was afraid of father. I went home and hid myself." disgust,"Several weeks ago, I had problems with friends, I felt disgusted by a friend." shame,Not collecting homeworks in time to give the teacher. joy,"I got an A in anatomy - the first one I have ever gotten in a science class here." sadness,"At my grandfather's funeral. I remembered that the thing he liked and respected most was earth, I thought that he had attained what he wanted and was not separated from it any longer." sadness,"I met again a very good friend after a year and realized that there had grown a certain distance between us." shame,"Immediately after the New Year holidays I happened to visit a party where there was a lot of alcohol and I became drunk. On the next day I felt sort of ashamed when I remembered what I had said and done on the night before." joy,China winning the Asian Olympic. guilt,I forgot to lock the outside door at my Land Lady's place. fear,Vertigo - standing on a ladder and painting the house. anger,"At my Summer job, nobody looked after me in particular and I had to learn all on my own." fear,When a thunder belt hit the roof top of the building I was in. joy,"When I got a stereo walkman from my father when he had finacial difficulties. I thought that although he promised to give me that present, he was not obliged to do so." shame,When unjustified hurting other people. fear,I was going to knock down a pedestrian with my car. joy,Seeing relations from overseas after a few years. disgust,"A child told me she had been sexually abused by her step-father. I only knew the child and had not come into contact with either parent. I tried to do what was best for the child. The event and the stepfather disgusted me." sadness,When a friend left me and went back home for good. joy,Finding out that the person I love understands me. disgust,Girls dressed like foreigners in the university. shame,"I am ashamed at myself sometimes when I am working with handicapped people and don't wish to be seen in public with them." anger,[ No response.] disgust,When junior doctors returned to work after bunking them. joy,When I won a trip to Greece in a competition. joy,Talking to a close friend. anger,"While playing indoor-hockey, there always is an older man who frequently and intentionally plays the ball out of the field. In my opinion this is very childish, because we play for fun only." joy,"When some friends of mine asked me to go camping with them for a fortnight." joy,"The final marks were to be given in the morning. I wanted to get there late because I was very afraid. When I arrived there, everybody was very happy and I had also passed. We had a wonderful time all day long." anger,"When, late at night, I discovered that they had stolen my bike." disgust,"My dog had been run over and died near the house. We had to pick him up, cold and glassy eyed, to get rid of the corpse." anger,"I gave tutorial to a student and I found that he was lazy, he did not pay attention to what I taught. He did some easy questions wrong deliberately." fear,"I was at home alone and my mother had asked me to heat the house. I put too much fuel into the stove. It began to glow and there was a noise in the whole house as if it was going to explode." shame,"As a small boy, I took a coin from an empty taxi cab. My mother saw it and told the driver about it. I even knew the driver." guilt,I did not deliver a message on time. sadness,When my team lost a championship. guilt,"I had parked in a corner, and when I was going out I didn't watch if another car was coming and went out. The car that was coming was obliged to stop suddenly. It didn't crash but for a little." shame,"Telling friends about how my parents had been treating my brothers and sisters unfairly." sadness,When I received a letter telling me that my mother was very ill. anger,Being told that I am a stupid person. sadness,"The death of Jaya Prakash Narayan caused a great deal of sadness as I believed that he was the only true democrat and a ray of hope on the Indian horizon." guilt,"Yesterday my boyfriend and I wanted to play billiards. However there were boys playing (5 times). My boyfriend then is fed up and chagrined. In such case I think it is my fault." anger,"When our government decided to withdraw student allowances as it was one of the conditions imposed by the IMF. " anger,"Somebody wanted to beat my brother at a wedding ceremony and I was trying to protect my brother but the other man was calling names to both of us." anger,"Once a friend had pushed me and I had fallen on to a window which then broke. I was taken to tthe principal's office and he accused me of having broken the window." joy,After intercourse. disgust,Can't remember having had this feeling. disgust,"While walking on the street with a good friend of mine, we met an acquaintance of hers. My friend started showing off and telling false stories about herself and praising herself." disgust,"When I was getting up, I found a live cockroach in my bedroom." shame,"Exaggerating certain circumstances, wrong attitude and evaluation of these circumstances." disgust,"Each time I am confronted with reports about repression and torture." sadness,"When my uncle died whom I had loved very much. I was very sad and I felt totally helpless." guilt,"When I do or say something inappropriate which hurts people close to me." shame,"One day in the TYBA class the teacher asked me a very simple question which I could not answer. Finally the teacher himself gave us the answer and my friends started laughing at me as I had not been able to answer a simple question. I knew the answer but feared that my response may be wrong. All this made me feel ashamed of myself. " fear,If a close relative's life is in danger. disgust,"The behaviour of a fellow towards me and some others in the army was really mean. I detested this." shame,"When I blurted out an answer in class without having been asked to do so. The teacher told me that it was bad manners to do so." shame,"I tried to pass an examination particularly well, but I did it worse than ever. I felt ashamed." sadness,"I was selected to do a rest for a foreign ballet but I did not have the money to do it." disgust,"When I went to the clinic for a medical check-up and saw the way the lecturer was conducting the lecture and the kind of responses he got from the patients." shame,"Once a female classmate told me that the clothes I wore seemed to be a child's clothes. On hearing this I felt a little ashamed and I criticized her clothes though there was nothing wrong with them." anger,"When I lost my driving license because I had been driving while under the influence of alcool." guilt,I did not do my homework and went to see a film. fear,"My father was away from home and he did not come back when he was expected, he came back several hours later than expected." guilt,"A good friend of mine who is at the moment in a foreign country. I didn't write her for several months and now I feel guilty." sadness,When my beloved uncle was shot dead by relatives. shame,"In a play (secret friend) during the time of the high school I had to give a present to a boy and I was very ridiculous because of this." disgust,"When an acquaintance of mine told me about the way his parents treated their sons in an unequal manner. The most successful of them got continuous encouragement, and the youngest was not encouraged and was rejected." anger,"When a friend told me that my education had nothing to do with our discussion. This friend has failed the 7th grade, what made me angry was that I had not used my education to argue." guilt,"I felt guilty because I stole some sweets from my father's grocery. When he asked me who stole the sweets I told him it was my brother who stole the sweets and he was scolded." disgust,"I felt disgusted at my teams poor perfomance prior to league play." guilt,"I feel guilty when when I realize that I consider material things more important than caring for my relatives. I feel very self-centered." shame,"Recently I saw a young girl fawning on a man. And what for - money and things. I was ashamed to be a woman." fear,"When we forced a friend to chew a poisonous herb in primary school. His tongue was swollen and he told his mother about it. The mother reported it to the headmaster who threatened to expel us." joy,When I was selected at TISS X. shame,"I felt ashamed to be Brazilian and to live under a military dictatorship that despoiled the people, when during my military service." guilt,"While having an argument with my daughter, I got angry and over-excited and said angry words." disgust,"Saw my class leader acting like a God when he chose people to go to your English lectures." sadness,The death of my twin sister - suicide. anger,"Some classmates said I did not do enough social work. Therefore I was not elected as a ""Tree Good"" student." disgust,"When my friend, after a beer spree vomitted in my sitting room." shame,"At primary school, when I vomited in front of others in the middle of a lesson." sadness,"My brother wanted me to buy a flute with him but I didn't accept afterwards I regretted it because he became sad." joy,When my brother was born. anger,"My mother treated me unjustly as if I was a little child. I said mean things. I was unable to defend myself adequately." sadness,"When I deeply felt that I could lose the person I love best because of my foolishness." anger,"When I was concentrating on my work, my friend disturbed me continously. I asked him to stop but in vain." guilt,"I broke the gutar of a colleague but as it happened in a moment when nobody was present I could escape from the guilt." guilt,I felt guilty after I battered to death a classmate of mine. shame,"When I realized that my bathing suit was spotted, I had became menstruated." sadness,"When I was younger I was very good in apparatus gymnastics. I always won in competitions, but once I was only at the fourth place." fear,Fear of thief. shame,"In a fight with my girlfriend in a luncheonette where everybody stared at me in such a way that I had to leave it." anger,After having quarelled with a relative of mine about politics. shame,NO RESPONSE. disgust,"The transport to pick us up for lunch was always late and the driver made the same excuse every day." anger,"Two years back someone invited me to be the tutor of her grand-daughter. The grand-daughter asked me some questions in mathematics so I taught her. However she did not listen to me and this made me feel unhappy. The second year it was the same. When I entered university the girl's parents suggested that I be employed as their daghters tutor. They told me that at university there was no homework and I would have a lot of time so they made a time-table for me which required me to be the tutor five days a week. They did not respect me and anyway I had another child to teach." fear,Was nearly knocked down by a car. shame,"I had written a ""love-letter"" to a class-mate of mine, this was meant to be a joke. Unfortunately it fell in the wrong hands and I had to face the consequences." joy,"One night, at a friend's place I realized that I had everything I most wished, around me." sadness,"My sister was in coma for 3 months (due to a train accident). Now her brainfunctions are disturbed. She will never be able to walk and she can hardly talk." disgust,"When a girl I knew aborted and threw the seven month foetus in a man-hole." fear,"No really strong such emotion. Just falling off to sleep when I caught sight of a 5 cm diameter spider crawling onto the pillow beside me." guilt,"When I was a child I often quarrelled with my younger sister. Once I became so angry that I slapped her in the face. She cried and shouted so that my mother came in and scolded me." joy,I received a letter from a friend whom I was missing shame,"A day I was with my boyfriend and a couple of friends in a bar, and he said something that I didn't like (I don't remember what). Without thinking I slept him in his back, getting ashamed and sorry just after." fear,Finding out that a boy I do not like is in love with me. shame,"I was wearing a short skirt one day and someone told me my underwear was showing." disgust,"My flatmate and close friend living and sleeping with another close friend of mine." anger,"Someone told me that I was chosen for English lectures because the class leader is going out with me (not true)." joy,"I felt this emotion when my name was announced on the radio that I had been selected to come to Lilongwe School for Health Sciences to take a training course as a Medical Assistat." fear,I do not recall being scared in the near past. anger,"Physically fighting with my girlfriend because she just walked out of a room of my friends and had pushed and cursed at me when I went to find her." guilt,"When I was caught sneaking back into the house at night after having gone to a disco without permission." joy,When I passed the driving test after three failures. joy,When I received a beautiful birthday gift form my parents. joy,"After my marriage I received the B.Sc results by post, I was very happy to learn that I had got very good marks - first class." disgust,"I went to spend a night with a relative of mine and there I found that the bed had been wet the previous night." shame,[ No response.] guilt,"I am the secretary of an association, and during the last meeting I forgot to take the minutes." anger,"I was watching TV with a friend. After the first film I wanted to watch another film on the same channel. My friend switched over to the other cannel without asking me what I wanted." guilt,"I forgot my mother's and sister's birthdays (they fall on the same day)." fear,When I was treated improperly by someone. fear,When someone close to me is travelling by car and is delayed. sadness,When my mother died. sadness,"My boyfriend with whom I had a longlasting relationship, fell in love with another girl, then he asked me something which implied that he loved that girl more than he loved me." joy,"When I drove partially across the country with my father. We stopped in a few towns and stayed overnight in motels. The joy I got was from the feedom I felt and the real beauty of the country." fear,"When I was in a car with my parents and friends and we had to back up (reverse) pass a river which when I recall it (I was only about 5 yrs) seemed we were going to fall in and drown." guilt,"I entered the hostel this year. My mother was ill and could not move and needed people to look after her. Every week I left home to go back to school, I felt guilty." disgust,"We were at a hamburger bar and a man at a table nearby started coughing and spitting into his plate." fear,"Finding out the great difference between China and the West in science." fear,"Once, when I was ten, I could not remember why my mother was so angry. She fainted suddenly and I was very scared as I did not know what to do ." sadness,"I had a girlfriend who lived several kilometers away from my home. One day she wrote me that she'd visit me. On her way she had a car accident and was badly injured. I was very sorry to see her lying in a bed in the hospital." disgust,Not applicable. joy,"When I was at a party I met an old friend from an adult education course. We had not met for 2 years but had both thought a lot about each other. A wonderful experience." guilt,"I knew I had to take an exam very soon but yet I couldn't start studying. I also knew it was very imprtant to succeed the exam this time." guilt,"While playing basketball I broke a team member's spectacles. His face was injured by the pieces of glass. It was not serious but I felt guilty and blamed myself for being too careless and vigorous in my game." sadness,"It was a complex situation concerning a relationship with a boyfriend, I had broken the relationship for some reasons. Meanwhile, as I felt it, I had most sorrow." fear,Not included on questionnaire. fear,"I was walking alone in the street late at night (2.30 am). It was very quiet. Then a man approached me and said ""Hello""." anger,"I wrote an Exam and happened to have not done as well as I thought I would. I was angry to myself for not having done so well." fear,"I was physically assaulted and sexually abused about a year ago. Just the feeling that I might not get away intact, or even alive, produced fear." guilt,"When I secretly tried smoking for the first time, being 12 years old." anger,"My mother was ill and asked me to prpare our lunch. I went to do it, and while I was working, she stayed behind me telling what I had, or not to do. I asked her to stop meddling, and to go to bed. When I went to ask for help to my sister, my mother said that I was proud, that I asked for help only when I wanted and that I wasn't able to cook by myself." shame,"Some days ago I had a car accident. It was quite slight but through my fault. I felt strong shame because I had the spirits of a good driver." guilt,"I promised to fulfill an errand. Later I understood it was impracticable. The explanation I gave was accompanied by a sense of guilt." disgust,"I lived together with my boyfriend. One night he stayed away and next day he told me that he had chat up with another girl." shame,When I don't succeed to fulfill a promise. joy,A friend I had missed very much came to see me unexpectedly. joy,I was very happy when I got an attractive Summer job. anger,"Brother provoked anger. It was when mother and father were away and we had to look after ourselves. He accused me of being selfish and a snob." fear,"After having slept for a short time I woke up - I had the feeling of someone standing beside me and was very frightened. I had to turn on the light turn on the light for several minutes before I was able to get to sleep again." disgust,Helping older people on the toilet. fear,Whenever I think of enrolling in Organic Chemistry. fear,When I was walking on a fairly out-of-the-way street. sadness,"Departure of a very close friend - for a long stay overseas, sharing in the sorrow of her parents who were left behind." disgust,"When, for example, someone is calumnating." anger,Insulted by other people in the shop. joy,"I received an unexpected B+ on an engineering midterm. I did not study nearly as much as I should have and it was a difficult test." shame,"My mother had just been teaching me how to crochet, which is thought highly improper for a boy in a town. Just when we finished, a neighbour walked in." guilt,"I had to call somebody between 12 and 12:30. As I had no possibility to call him at this time, I did not do it until 3 p.m." disgust,"This happened when I could not get into the school I had initially wanted, and ended up doing something I had never thought I would do." joy,Talking with someone I admire a lot. sadness,When my grandmother died of cancer. anger,"When I was pointed out as a problem child in primary school and my mother took the teacher's point of view." guilt,Beating my brother up. joy,"It was the first time I met him (my boyfriend Mr.W). It was during the first term Summer vacations. We met each other while handing in our homework. He invited me have a trip with him and we were together till 8 P.M." shame,"As a kid my mother caught me stealing sugar and giving it to a neighbour." anger,"Without the employer's knowledge and even without any communication their bank accounts were changed and their personal accounts closed." fear,"When at school, I threw a duster at another child and hit him in the head. The blow caused a flesh wound and I was afraid of what would happen to me when the teacher found out the circumstances." anger,"My superior blamed me for some neglects at work in front of others. In fact, the task in question was not supposed to be done by me." fear,"I had this experience of fear when few people were fighting at a social one night, which one of my relative was involved. My fear was greatly for him because he was being assaulted badly." shame,Lying to my cousin about the form five examination fees. anger,People not resprcting my opinion. shame,"I feel shy to show all my worth when I work for the first time with a conductor or a producer unfamiliar to me." disgust,"When an employer of my younger sister (17 yrs) made a ""pass"" at her." anger,When my colleague spat on my face after a quarrel. guilt,"That evening when I opened the songbook while I was singing the song ""Those were the days"" that guilt feeling became stronger. The lyrics described well - I was really wrong. The wish that I had made was really bad. If she were with me I would really be happy and we would play happily together like the days in secondary school and she would not be disappointed and gloomy because of me." joy,When I was selected to start Form I at Malosa Secondary school. fear,"When I had left my home, my father, under false pretences, got me in his car and drove home where we were all alone. He was seethed with rage because I withrew from his authority. He hit me, kicked me and threatened me." anger,"We were starting a student project, and the teacher we talked to was very negative and not very helpful." shame,"I ride my motorbike in my village and everyone stares at me as if I was a rare specimen." anger,"When I see how people around me pass by certain unjustice because of indifference or cowardice." joy,[ No response.] sadness,"The time I lost a badminton match, that I should have won at the Zambia closed badminton championships." fear,"When I was a child I hid under the sheets out of fear of darkness." sadness,"When I see children on T.V from areas devastated by drought and war." sadness,"When I lost my father on the 25th of September,1970. He died of a sore on the leg." fear,"I was testing my new roller skates in the street, suddenly a dog ran barking in my direction, very threatening. I was very startled and terribly upset." guilt,"I got up late and I could not go to my lessons on time. When I entered the class room the stare of the teacher and my classmates made me feel guilty." anger,"When others let me down, fail to keep agreements." guilt,[ No response.] joy,"When I got my results - I had passed the form III exams. I had not expected to do so well." fear,"An hour before receiving the certificate results I was very frightened. When I saw others crying I felt very tense and as time went by my fear grew." fear,"When I had to travel alone, unescorted for the first time. It was an over-night journey by train to a distant place." disgust,"[ Honestly, I have never felt disgust at any situation in my life.]" guilt,"When I forgot to take out money for my mother. She asked me what she would do, because I had messed up her program for the following day." fear,"A friend gave me a lift and we met a road-block. He tried to turn back when an officer shouted at us to stop. My friend took a turn suddenly and the officer raised his gun but by the time we were gone." anger,"Some foreign students playing loud music before the biology examn." guilt,"I made an appointment to pick up someone. However I arrived too late and she had to wait a quarter of an hour." anger,"I got angry when I learned how short a time we had to prepare for the term examinations." disgust,Talking to someone I disliked. anger,Misunderstood by friends. guilt,"When I forgot to cook something that my mother had told me to, and at supper time the food that I was supposed to have prepared was not there." anger,Someone told me we are not as good as the All English Class. guilt,I said nasty things which I did not mean to a friend. shame,"One day I got on the bus without any money or season ticket and the driver threw me out." joy,"I had a quarrel with my fiancT. When he admitted his fault, everything was allright. It was then for the first time that he surprised me with coffee and cake and a bunch of flowers." anger,"Recently a good friend only called me when he needed something. He never said ""please"" or ""thank you"" or any other kind word." disgust,"Finding that a girlfriend of mine was a prostitute and had been seeing many others during our relationship." fear,"During a football game I made an offence towards an acquaintance. Later on this acquaintance also tackeled me and the game became very rude." fear,"While he was drunk, my life partner tried to hit me. I felt scared and fled to the bathroom." fear,When I go out alone at night. guilt,"One day my mother forced me to eat more and I refused, the next day she served me more rice and mutton pieces than usual. When I saw this I got very angry and scolded her, and refused to eat. Later I felt guilty and asked her to excuse me." joy,When I attended my cousin's 31st birthday. joy,Got through first semester University. fear,"My 80 year old grandfather underwent three successive operations during a single year. The third operation was risky and I was scared that he would die and feared that my grandmother would be very sad." guilt,"With a group of handicapped people we went to a party. When we wanted to leave we were not able to find one of these people. I had told his mother that we would leave at 4.30 p.m., actually it was planned for 3.30 p.m. Therefore there was a delay." guilt,I lied to one of my best friends. joy,Family member survived an operation. anger,"An unjust refree decision at a sports event when I was the team leader." anger,"One of my friends went and told another friend of mine that I was going abut with another guy in Lilongwe besides the one I had. She said I was seen with him hand in hand." sadness,A person died (not really a friend). joy,When my affairs with the girl I love settled positively. disgust,"My notes were not returned to me, it kept on being procrastinated." disgust,"When I found out some family friends were embezzelling the company they worked for - using company petrol and food supplies and claiming furniture and crockery." guilt,When I betrayed my former girlfriend. guilt,"I remember when I was a little boy I broke a Swiss dinner set quite involuntarily." disgust,"A teacher gave me lower grades than I was entitled to, and was hoping for." joy,"When I was a child, my beloved cat gave birth to four beautiful little kittens. Before she had them, she came up to me and I followed her out, then witnessed them being born." fear,"That day I was alone at home after coming home from school. I did not know where everyone else had gone, I kept waiting for them to come back and nobody came. It was getting very late and I was terrified." shame,Was caught stealing apples in a neighbor's garden. shame,"Several years ago I was caught riding the train without a ticket. The station-mistress treated me like a criminal almost." disgust,"When I saw all the starving people in Ethiopia on T.V. It felt awful to see such suffering." sadness,"A friend of mine, who had repeated a year at school once before, did not pass the final examination and had to take it again half a year later." anger,"When I was studying in the library - preparing for a test, two people sitting next to me talked to each other for 20 minutes. There were no other seats so I could not go elsewhere and I did not want to interrupt them, so I could only be angry in my heart." anger,"It was at Malawi Army, Dormer Squadron, when some of my workmates got promoted to Seargents (sgts); we were having similar Ranks." shame,Failed to recagnize a friend on the street. joy,"When I took my entrance exams successfully and also when I got my school leaving certificate because the delivering ceremony was extremely official." guilt,"I was not able to explain well to my good friend to make him less angry." guilt,When I did not go to work because I had to study for a midterm. joy,"Unexpected visit by a close friend, whom I hadn't seen for half a year." shame,"A friend of mine has not very much money. Therefore, once I stayed with him and his girlfriend, I bought some meat, but nobody wanted to go and prepare it for dinner. My friend said ""I thought you wanted to invite us for dinner"". ""Of course"", I said, but I thought by myself that it must have been enough that I had bought it." shame,"I wore a dirty dress a certain day I was going to town I met an old friend who made a comment about my dress so I felt ashamed." sadness,"I worked for seven months in a factory, and made friends with a fellow worker. Later, I visited my former fellow workers and was told that, while in the army, my friend had shot himself." fear,"Two guys were fighting murderously and I feared that one of them would be killed." disgust,"When once again I drank too much and felt very rotten the morning after." fear,When someone tried to bewitch me and my friends at night. shame,[ Do not know.] disgust,"When a member of the family complains about the food that is served, it disgusts me." guilt,"When I have sometimes been unfair to my parents, when I have happened to deceive them over some trifling things." anger,Quarrelled with my younger brother. shame,"I took my math midterm and got it back the following Wednesday in class. It was a totally low grade." shame,"I am ashamed of the way my father behaves with my mother and sister, and with me too." shame,"A few days back I had to ask a professor a ridiculous question because I had lost at a game of cards and had to pay a forfeit." guilt,"[ When I act thinking that I know everything and I then realize that there were things I had not thought about, thus hurting others.]" anger,"A few months ago when I was teaching, I suddenly became very angry at the children and slapped some of them." fear,"[ Meeting some new (unpleasant) people or some new, demanding situation.]" anger,"I had an appointment with someone at a certain time. The other person didn't appear." anger,"When I saw that my bed at the hostel was a mess I guessed that someone else had used my daily necessities. I felt that my personal sanity had been affected." guilt,"I promised my mother to come home on her birthday, but at last I was prevented. Nevertheless it would have been possible to go but I did not." sadness,"When my boyfriend openly let me down, preferring another girl." sadness,"A close relative was at odds with a very powerful firm. All his things had been taken, His dad had died a little before this event. He gathhered his children and vowed to give them a good life with a new start - the words were hollow, he bit back his tears .....I asked to be excused and then went and cried in the loo." fear,"When I realized that we are living on borrowed time, and that the nuclear holocaust appears to come closer every day." fear,"Was threatened with a knife ... in the military by soldiers form another unit. The reason was girls." sadness,"I separated with the one I liked most. She refused all my dates and told me that she had dated another one. My heart seemed to cease beating. I was silent for some time and then I whispered goodbye and left without turning back." joy,"After I had been away for a long time a friend told me that I had passed all my written examinations." sadness,Death of my father. shame,"I feared that I would have to describe my sexual life to an older, strange woman." disgust,"The same event described under FEAR - in the bus a man sat beside me, with his trousers open and holding his penis." anger,When a close friend did not write. sadness,"I had been living in an overseas city and made the decision to leave the city and come home about 12 months before I met a whole new set of friends, leaving them at the airport was sad and traumatic as they had helped me in many ways and I knew I wouldn't see many of them again." joy,When I was selected to a University College of Nursing. joy,Watching China winning the Asian Olympic games. anger,Bad food in the students' dining hall. shame,"We where in a bar and my friend had a fight with some guys who were in the table aside." fear,"After some time of work I was transferred to another place and in an other quite harder job." guilt,"While travelling in a bus with an invalid ticket, I got caught." joy,[ When my performance (homework or other work) is better than others.] disgust,"During my birthday party a friend drank too much alcohol. So much that he had to throw up. Worst of all was that he couldn't leave my friend alone and that he was molesting her." disgust,T.V features showing the violation of defenceless people. anger,"While having a discussion with my mother, I realized that she does not for a moment doubt the justification of her making the decisions concerning my life." shame,"I was given the task to learn a page of music text for a small part. But I had forgotten all about it and I felt quite awkward when I had to show what I had prepared." shame,"We were discussing a subject ( I knew very little about it) and I was holding my ground. They showed me that I was wrong." disgust,"I came across a woman in town who was very drunk. She was swearing at everyone and carried on drinking even though she could hardly stand." shame,"I was drinking a glass of wine and eating something when there suddenly appeared pictures about the famine in some parts of Africa." shame,My father insulted by other people. disgust,"Despite my being affectionate, sincere, and helpful to close relatives of mine; they turned around and accused me of being inconsiderate in my relationship with them." guilt,"A very close friend of mine invited me to spend the holidays with him. He was very kind, good and understanding. However it turned out that he had two of his cousins at his place. He, however gave me everything I needed - even transport money." anger,"Having my personal objects rearranged by someone else without my consent and having it arranged to their taste. Then trying to find a particular object they rearranged for an hour or more." shame,After the car accident in GUILT. anger,"I wanted to clear up a misunderstanding with a friend that I had caused. A third person meddled in our conversation, turned my efforts to ridicule so that I did not succeed in what I had intended." sadness,"I made a long-distance call to people rather close to me and I thought about the sad incident that had happened to them in the near past; I knew that they were thinking about it too when I made the call." anger,"When my boss enrolled in a course to satisfy his own ends - to trample on his associates. I have the misfortune to have one of my superiors in my course." disgust,"Bus driver driving roughly - old man fell off seat into aisle - driver wouldn't stop - disgusted with her behaviour." joy,When I won the best prize in the National science fair. guilt,"My daughter was a baby and was crying to be taken on my lap. I felt very nervous and moved her away and went out. As soon as the feeling of nervousness passed I was taken by an enormous feeling of guilt, for having rejected my daughter." joy,"When my father married a certain lady. The reception was held at Kasungu town Hall." fear,"I had an important amount of money with me and felt fear of being assaulted." fear,"At the railway station, while waiting for the last train at night I noticed that a drunk young man was appraching me in a purposeful mannner." fear,"One evening, while going to meet a friend of mine, I had to cross a meadow by a dark road. There were bushes on the other side of the road. The weather was damp and a bit foggy. I heard steps behind me and kept speeding up my steps all the time." shame,A friend of mine was shouting at me in a group of juniors. anger,"[ On discovering the red-tapism and the bureaucratic, corrupt, decadent, degenerated infrastucture of every public utility, office and service; and the rampant corruption at every single level of education and other institutions.]" joy,Helping in the nursery school. shame,"Sleeping with a girl on a Saturday night and then not contacting her in later days." fear,"I turned the knob of my granny's two band radio and did not hear any broadcast, "" What ! Have I broken the knob ? How much does it cost ? What if the spare part is not available ? "" --I did not know how to tune a radio." sadness,My sister marrying a bad man. He is cruel to her. fear,"I was raped once when I went through a dark alley at the back of our house. The man pushed me in the bushes. I fought back and succeeded to escape." shame,"I wanted my boyfriend to stay when he didn't. He stayed but when he left I felt ashamed because I should have let him leave when he wanted. I was too selfish." sadness,A friend's brother died. fear,"I was on the Inter Rail in Naples alone. After an evening in a restaurant I was going back to the hotel when a prostitute approached me to sell herself. I refused but as I carried on walking I felt that I was being followed by someone." anger,I was told to do something I did not want to do. anger,"A nuisance used to live in our flat a month ago. I experienced this feeling when I tried to chase her out." anger,"An incident occurred to me when I was going home with my girlfriend. On the way, a man named Banda grabbed my girlfriend in my presence. I was really angry with him and as a result I threw stones at him and he ran away." sadness,I got separated form my closest friend. He went to work abroad. anger,[ No response.] fear,"Almost crashing into the back of a car while driving along the motorway on my motorcycle." fear,Before an exam in logics. fear,It was more that fear - anguish -that I felt before my last exam. fear,A film on zombies. guilt,I angered a close friend and he was injured. fear,Assaulted by drunken neighbour. sadness,When my studies are too demanding and I cannot cope with it. anger,"My boyfriend promised to take me to see a game of tennis and rang saying he was going to the pub with some of his friends instead." anger,"My car had been towed away by the traffic police because it had been wrongly parked. However the sign had been put up only after I had already parked." guilt,"Getting a D in a class last semester and knowing it was because I didn't study." sadness,"I could not meet my love, after having waited for a month, due to illness." sadness,When a close friend drowned in the American River. fear,"I was driving very fast on a small road and I met an oncoming car in a right handed bend. The other driver was on his own side of the road and I had to skid out of it to avoid a collision. It was dark." guilt,"Car accident, hurt three of my closest family." joy,"In Southern Tyrol, I was gathering apples, it was a fine day, I was not thinking about anything, I felt an overwhelming joy." sadness,"My mother was unwell and went for many cancer tests. She spent time in hospital being opened and closed many times." fear,"One day when I was a little boy, my friends asked me to play with them outside and to catch some boys. However our parents did not know that we were out and when I got home it was very late and I feared being scolded by my parents." disgust,A too eager approach by a dirty drunken person in a bus. anger,"When my boss cut off my vacations saying that in that month it wouldn't be possible, and after some time he let another girl take vacations that month. The anger was because of the resentment. Resulting from our bad relationship." sadness,"When the grandmother of my friend died in a hospital. My friend was crying and I was sad, too." anger,When I was robbed in a bus. sadness,The death of my father. guilt,"When an event took place in another's life and which I thought I could have avoided." anger,"I was walking on a street alone in the afternoon when there were not too many people on the street. A couple of guys were following me and I was ignoring them. Suddenly one of them came in front of me and started using dirty language and harrassing me. I got very angry and wanted to strike back at them." disgust,"I was stopped from entering a party while I was at School but I had an Invitation card with me. This was done because they said I was too young to join elderly people." shame,"I was really shameful when my mother beat me in the presence of my friends because I didn't cook lunch up until 2 o'clock." anger,"At the hardware store, trying to convert Imperial to Metric measurements, I made a mistake, and didn't buy enough tiles for the bathroom. I was angry at myself, because I hope to be a Maths teacher." disgust,Pictures of Nazi extermination camps on a T.V program. disgust,"At work when I did not get the full co-operation of my colleagues to complete an assignment." joy,When I won an unexpected sum of money. joy,"I had stayed for months without seeing mother because our holidays were short and my home is far. Some times, mother came to see me at school, I was very joyful, and I didn't want her to go." fear,"I was alone at home, in bed reading a womens' magazine in which there were storiees of paranormal experiences. My leg was itching and I stretched my hand to scratch and I felt another strange hand. (later I realized that it was the corner of the blanket)" sadness,"I was to meet a girl in a discotheque. She was very pretty and I was very happy. But she did not turn up. Thank God, there were some other friends there and I was able to have a more or less good time." shame,When I failed some tests my first year at CAL. anger,"A member of a religious sect tried to convert me, using really evil tricks to persuade me. After he had left, I was anxious and angry for a long time. After the event, I was alone." joy,"When my girl told me that she loved me more than any male creature on earth and that I would be the only one in her heart for all her life. " disgust,"The teacher of one course gave me 10 questions with sub-questions going from a to e for each question. She asked me to do all this in one and a half hours. It involved a lot of describing and explaining and even though I knew all the answers, I could not finish the work." guilt,"One of my friends came to know through some other friends that I had applied for some course in an institute. He asked me ""why did not you tell me, I would also have applied."" At that I felt guilty." shame,"When I embarrassed a friend by asking him aloud if a certain person was ""the source of gossip"" he told me about, while that person was also present." joy,"Winning a race that I had been training for, for many weeks. (Running Race)." disgust,Some boys not cueing in the dining hall. shame,"When I made the same mistake that I had accused someone else of, and this was obvious to a third pereson." anger,"When a professor of this faculty laughed at, and was suspicious of a composition written by a class-mate and me." disgust,"At school a classmate who was a very good pupil had to help another boy who performed less well. He told him on purpose the wrong things so that he had to repeat a year." anger,"A male, Honduran acquaintance of mine despised my opinions." shame,"Not quick enough to help the lectors to catty things for the lecture." disgust,"I was disgusted with the hypocrisy of my colleagues from the group." sadness,My parents told me that they do not like my friend. fear,"There was a scene of shooting in front of my house, I was very afraid. Two armed men confronting. I didn't discover the reason of the incident." joy,When I was selected to the university of Zambia. sadness,"This occurred when my girlfriend and I have to finish our relationship due to some circumstances between her and her family. I was really sad, hurt and couldn't really find any reason why am I still living. Is this life is all about ? This was one of few question which crept up vividly every time I thought about what had happened." sadness,"When a very close friend of mine went into hospital for a major operation and I couldn't see her for a while as I was not a relative she had no relatives in N.Z." shame,"When dropping a carton of boiling soup onto a co-worker's leg - causing great pain, and for me, severe embarassment at my own ineptitude, and shame that another person suffered as a result." disgust,"I am disgusted with the behavior of a car driver whose car would run over me and my friends during our autumn brigade." anger,I felt angry when my friend told me that I had stolen her money. sadness,I realized that the girl I loved had to leave me. fear,"When I came home late one day. I was afraid I would be shouted at by my parents." shame,"My son was apprehended for shoplifting at the age of 14. Because I too had been apprehended at the same age I felt the shame of not having been able to prevent my son from acting in the same way." joy,"When, after a long time, I saw a girl with whom I was in love." shame,"I forgot that the course instructor had directed us to go for special classes after the usual class hours. I missed this the first day and when he asked me about it the next day I said that I had forgotten." anger,"When a discussion resulted in an insult, which in my opinion, was not justified." sadness,"My mother unjustly became very angry with me and sent me to my room while my father explained that the way she saw things was not correct. I had done things with the best intentions." anger,"When, for example, I was not approved to continue my studies at the Moscow University, no matter that I had the highest marks and in general the best records of all the candidates." guilt,"When my friend failed an exam by just one mark. During this exam she had asked me to show her my answer sheet and I had not done it. When the results came out, I thought that had I shown her my answer sheet she would have passed the exam. I felt guilty as I had failed her." sadness,"When my girl went away for a holiday without saying good-bye to me." guilt,"When I cheated my father about the book allowance at university. He discovered that we were given K150 per year for books." fear,"Once when I was walking alone at mid-night, I happened to put my foot on a frog, as it felt smooth I thought that it was a snake and I felt afraid. " guilt,At work a boy was injured because of my lack of supervision. " shame,"I could have died when I was caught cheating on a test in high school. That was my first and last time." fear,"Last night, I dreamt that things that looked like monsters were trying to kiss me." anger,"When they threw my holder down on the floor, with all my notes for an exam inside it and they got all mixed up." disgust,When I see dead dogs on the road. sadness,When my girlfriend's nephew passed away. sadness,When my brother (5th in the family) passed away. sadness,"When I was 9 years old, I got a cat, but after 3 days he died. I was very sad, because I had nursed him and taken him to the veterinary's - but in vain. Although I had had him only for a short time I had liked him very much." shame,"In a school parting we agreed to go to a restaurant. We met at school and we separated us in several cars. My car broke and we arrived late. All those who already had arrived stand up and applauded us when we entered two hours late. All the restaurant attention was turned on us." anger,"When I tried to put up a tent some years ago, I was teased and hindered by my cousin." sadness,My old teacher in primary school died. joy,"I felt happy when I saw my brother at the bus depot after 3 months without seing each other." sadness,"When I saw the film ""Johnny got his gun"" which deals with the consequences of the Vietnam war." joy,"An invitation to spend 5 days at the seaside with all expenses paid." joy,"At a party, on New Year's Eve, I met on old friend whom I had not seen for some time" joy,When I was admitted to the Sofia University. fear,"A workmate and I had been antagonistic with each other for some weeks - he had reacted violently to my criticisms of his work standards." sadness,When boyfriend could not stand up to his mother or for himself. fear,"When a big angry dog put its snout on my arm and had I made one movement it would have bitten me." shame,"I cried for 3 hours because I felt very miserable. Then I called my boyfriend and he said lovely things to me. After this feeling disappeared I felt ashamed." shame,"My girlfriend had started going around with another boy. Her cousin, also a friend of mine, asked her as to who she preferred. Both of us were present and she chose the other guy." disgust,"A few days back I was waiting for the bus at the bus stop. Before getting into the bus I had prepared the exact amount of coins to pay for the bus fair and when I got into the bus I put these coins into the box meant to collect the bus fair. I thought that I had paid and wanted to get inside. However the bus driver called me and asked me in an impolite way if the coins were stuck at the opening of the box. He had not seen me paying and there wasn't a stack of coins in the box. I could not understand this and the driver kept questioning me. He made me feel angry and at last i inserted a dollar coin in the box just to get away from him. Later I found that I had forgotten a few coins in my pocket and had not paid enough for the fair the first time. After I had entered the bus I could still hear him scolding me and I felt disgusted." shame,When my dad caught me with a honey (girlfriend) in my bedroom. joy,Success in university entrance examination. guilt,"For the above: guilt at not living up to my own moral expectation, guilt for not being the type of person my patents wanted, guilt for just about bloody everything, just realising that I have failed drastically in my own eyes." joy,"When I was told that I could take a week off and go for a trip with my friends." joy,Finding my glasses again after having lost them in town. disgust,Cueing for bath for a long time. disgust,"Watching an alcoholic woman who was approaching everyone at the wharf for cigarettes - a prostitute in Auckland (elderly)." sadness,"I quarrelled with my younger sister because I had said something against her boyfriend. Consequently she looked through me when she saw me as she thought that I was trying to separate them. She had misunderstood me." sadness,"One night I was called and told that the father of a close friend died. When I visited my friend at home and when attending the funeral I felt very sad." disgust,[ No response.] disgust,"I was driving along and saw this young guy urinating into the gutter, in broad daylight." shame,"I was amongst a group of people talking about how the Maori people were stirrers and causing trouble in our country. I felt shame to be a pakeha when other pakehas had such narrow conservative views." disgust,[ No response.] disgust,"Ever since I have been a child, the sight of any kind of wound." shame,Comments from other children on my alcoholic father fear,"Before I went to the urologist's I was afraid for several reasons: because it was for the first time, because the medical check-up might be painful, because of the uncertainty and because someone had informed me about it." anger,"During an argument between friends, one of them accused me of taking advantage of some other friends who usually come to the university in my car, saying that I ask them too much money for the petrol." sadness,"A friend of mine who was driving a car ahead of me died in a car accident." joy,Talking to my close friend. anger,"I got angry with a stranger in a train who behaved impertinently and immorally" guilt,"During a discussion I reacted very aggressively and so I made it impossible to continue discussing." disgust,"I was reading in the paper the feature on Henry Lucas who claims to have killed 380 people. He was a recreational killer and a necrophiliac and zoophiliac. He has raped and beaten many women and killed men too." disgust,When I failed the grade 7 exams. shame,"A few years back I had proposed love to a girl who later turned out to be related to me. Though we were in love with each other, we both felt ashamed and withdrew from each other." anger,"When I received the mark well above requirements for the course I wanted to enter, yet I was not accepted - anger at the injustice of it, because I didn't receive early release of H.S.C. marks." shame,"I saw a skid-row (chronical) alcoholic and I was ashamed of the people with a high standard of living." sadness,"When I crashed my car and it had to be scrapped then. It was my fault and I feel depressed as I miss the car." joy,"When I went to the pub with a large group of friends, we drank and danced." disgust,"Sort of awkward. I'd introduced (a lover) but introduced as a friend to some members of my family, and my niece Yavanna who's six was home from school and at Mum's and Dad's and was really silly and at first it was ok, but it went on and on - yukky pooh! You eat your snot, etc. and I felt cross she wouldn't stop. But she had an audience and was in one of those moods. Once I'd accepted it was something everyone does at time I felt better - it was partly having my friend there." disgust,"Once when I was studying for my examination, I was asked to do some work which was unavoidable." sadness,My mother's death. anger,"When I was deputy manager during the Summer, certain deputies took liberties, more than what was normal." sadness,"It was when I failed standard 8 exams while all my friends passed and went to secondary school. In class I was always getting more marks than they did." sadness,"I put in two years of hard work and it was neither looked at nor appreciated." fear,"Finding myself alone in a public toilet block with a man known to have had great psychological disturbances." joy,"I didn't like my former fob and felt joy when I received a telegram offering me a new one that I though better and for which I had been waiting." guilt,"My girlfriend's results in school had become worse because I prevented her from learning (we often went out etc.)." sadness,"When my girlfriend was afraid and anxious the day before taking her exam." joy,"When I had achieved a goal indirectly. I work for CAL Football and our 2nd win of the season was very gratifying and brought our joy because of the hard work involved and the fact that no one expected we would win." sadness,"When my wife died in hospital, she was pregnant and had undergone an operation." sadness,"My best friend got married and left her home-town to go and live in Poona. After her wedding I felt sad." joy,"When I was selected to start Form I at Chilumba Secondary School out of the 100 pupils I was among the 4 who were successful. Family History showed that I had done better than all my brothers who had passed after repeating for several times." joy,"When my boyfriend came form Rumphi to Lilongwe for a visit I was very happy to see him and couldn't believe it was him with me." disgust,"I was looking after a dying patient at work one night, a young woman, my colleague was talking to her relatives and .... to offer them any support emotionally, physically and then sent them down to the coffee shop to have a dinner rather than offering the facilities available for their use cause it involved her having to do some work. Seeing them again I felt disgusted at her attitude." shame,"A few months back I had gone to my friend's place and they offered me tea and coffee. I do not have the habit of drinking tea or coffee and so they offered me a glass of milk instead, so I felt ashamed." disgust,"In a study group, a person always liked to argue on some unimportant, irrelevant and minor points. He tried to persuade others in an unfriendly way. He was obstinate and would not accept other's point of view." joy,Found out my wife (girl-friend?) pregnant. disgust,"I felt disgusted while studying for my applied psychology and mental testing papers in B.A." shame,"I travelled on a bus and I forgot to punch the ticket. A ticket collector came in and I had to pay the fine. I did it with a feeling of shame." shame,"A friend catched me while masturbating. I am not fully sure whether she saw it or not." shame,"Put down by my father - at a family outing at mutual family friends dinner. Told ""Not to Speak"". The attitude by him was negative/I was in mid 20s, I had done many things - a wide range of experiences. Probably greater than he." sadness,"A person I really like left for overseas for a few months, I had hoped to go out with her soon." joy,"My old boyfriend - yes the same one - asked me out. We had a good time. Then he asked me out the following week. He actually took interest." fear,"Waiting for a taxi - when within 1/2 an hour two separate people challenged me to fight for no apparent reason except they were drunk." anger,"A honest ""sliding"" on the part of a girlfriend of mine. Terribly crossed I started breaking things and tearing books." fear,"When my mother entered surgery for a quadruple heart bypass. I felt intense fear at the time she was actually wheeled away." sadness,On rising. No apparent reason. fear,"In the real sense of the word I experienced fear in my first months in the army. During my first night of duty. The cause for all this was a bear. I became panic sticken (may be for the first time) and even forgot that I had a gun." disgust,"In the morning, the cat of my landlady had vomited on the floor, near the staircase I take to go to the bathroom." disgust,Grovelling people. sadness,"Leaving the house myself and a female friend had shared for 6-8 months because of the friendship which developed and our approach to each other in occasional instances of several personal crises." fear,"I was in a train where a fight occurred. One person who was there opened his handbag and took out a gun, another who fought too looked among his things for a weapon to fight." fear,"I live outside Graz - so I have to go by bus. One day I went home from the bus stop alone. It was dark, I had to go through a forest and there was a dark figure behind me. I was very frightened." shame,I fell off a bike in the presence of a lot of people. guilt,"One day I found an incontinent man in the ward. This patient had a guardian who couldn't give him a bath. So I just left him like that but felt guilty until I went back to give him a bath." shame,[ No response.] anger,"When I saw a car run over a child, out of carelessness." disgust,"When I was taking my girlfriend out, she seemed to have taken her time." disgust,Class leader told me to collect homework for him. fear,"One day during our clinical practices, we had a very ill patient. Unfortunately the patient passed away. I had seen him dying and it was the first experience. During the night I became afraid fearing the dead body." anger,I was angry when my boyfriend did not turn up as promised. disgust,"When one finds out that someone you know is not at all like one had thought, for instance friends who steal and things like that, quite unwarranted." anger,When my boyfriend went away for a month long holiday without me. fear,Walking out from the biology building. anger,"I was with my family and we found some abandoned puppies. I wanted to help them but everyone said no. We then left." sadness,"My mother was stuck by an apoplectic fit, was hemi-paralyzed and suffered an aphasia." fear,"I was diving below the ice, in a cave, at a depth of 26 metres. Visibility was almost zero and the oxygen level decreased threateningly. There were three of us divers on one safety rope." sadness,"After hearing the news about the death of my sister, I felt very sad." joy,"A person whom I had not seen for a long time called me and invited me for a party." fear,"A fall during a climb, with almost with no previous experience." shame,When I failed the grade seven exams. sadness,"I heard that a friend had died in an accident; group situation: suddenly a friend came in and said ""Have you already heard that...""; there was a terrible consternation, silence, then everybody shouted excitedly ""How could that happen...""." anger,"My younger brother destroyed and gave away some of the books that I had intended to keep for as long as possible." disgust,"When I heard about the way a parent of a friend had mistreated him, and caused a great instability." sadness,"When I decided not to out any longer with a girl whom I liked quite a lot. This made me feel low for a some time." anger,Being insulted by my roommate (she is in the English Class). fear,"My friend started to misunderstand and hurt me. disgust,"It was when I drunk urine during my childhood thinking it was water. My friend had urinated in the tin." joy,"I was filled with joy when I heard that I had passed my Secondary school leaving certificate exam." anger,The sight of a man who ran amok (fighting) at a dance. guilt,Did not return the library book on time. fear,"Once late at night (around midnight) a person asked me to give him a lift. He suddenly tried to attack me but I could escape. After this he followed me for a little while." sadness,"My mother was working with a knife and we were all laughing heartily. She was not able to control the knife and stuck it deep into her hand." anger,[ I feel angry when somebody is unjust to me.] guilt,"I felt guilty when I ""stole"" the boyfriend of a friend of mine." shame,"Some weeks ago I experienced a day that everything went wrong I broke several things I felt very ashamed for I am not a sloven." sadness,When I heard that my father had passed away. sadness,"My elder sister scolded me in front of my younger sisters and cousins. She said that I was very lazy and I felt so sad that I cried myself to sleep." shame,"When I promised to help a friend over a weekend and did not keep the promise." fear,When I saw a ghost. fear,"When we could not land our plane and we knew that the fuel was running out. Bad weather had already frightened us." joy,"After my graduation exams I was waiting to get admitted to a post graduation course, however the situation was not very favourable for me and I was upset. Suddenly, Bombay university offered me a seat and I landed up in Bombay for my post graduation studies. This happened last year and was very pleasant for me." shame,"I can not think of any incident when I have felt very ashamed. There are small incidents that I am ashamed of, for instance, not sending money to the children in Ethiopia." disgust,"When I patronized a certain tavern which had prostitutes, it was almost a brothel." anger,"My intimate girlfriend told me that her father was opposed to our relationship and had insulted my integrity." sadness,When I learned that two of my friends had had a serious car accident. shame,"When I was tired and unmotivated, I shouted at my girlfriend and and brought up negative sides of her character which are actually not so important." sadness,"One of my relatives became seriously ill. I felt sad because I didn't know if she will ever be the same again." sadness,"When my grandfather died. When I heard about his death, I had a bad feeling in my stomach and I felt as if I had lost something very precious." sadness,Death of my father; he died of laryngeal cancer. fear,"I was walking in the wood at night with my boyfriend. Very romantic. Suddenly I heard a car driving very slowly with the lights out, it looked as if they were looking for something." sadness,"Realizing that school will soon be over, and we will all go different ways, perhaps never meeting again our friends from this year." sadness,"When my dad gives priority to my kid brother's band and his other activities. We both play in different bands and rehearse in my parents garage." anger,"I had got a bad cold. My father said I must be crazy to go by motorbike at those temperatures. When I answered him that I did not care about a cold, he said that if I did not care for anything I could leave him (it was for the second time he said something like that)." anger,"I wanted to go to a friend of mine who had a party; at the moment I wanted to leave, my father said I couldn't go because he needed me for some work in the afternoon." anger,"I had an argument with my mother because I criticized the rules she imposes at home, which are too rigid and arbitrary for me." fear,"I was at home alone, and heard noises on the roof, and doorknobs, and drawers." shame,[ Cannot recall any incident when I felt shame.] anger,"Once a person in authority (school teacher) was telling blatant lies about me and the headmistress would not let me defend myself. She was also telling lies about other members of my family." joy,"When I was accepted for further education, here at the university." anger,"When I learnt that a friend of mine had talked about me to another friend and had said wrong things about my abilities and attitudes. I was very angry." sadness,"A child, 9 years old, died in a stupid way. He fell from a place which was 1 metre high." disgust,When I was walking in a field which had a lot of manure. shame,"I am ashamed of the horrible way I used to treat my little sister." guilt,"On Reberbahn, I was in a ""restaurant"" where drinks were overpriced. I did not ask for the prices beforehand, and when the bill came I could not pay the bill." disgust,A man was unfair to a girlfriend of mine. joy,"I received money from my father at a time when I was completely broken." disgust,"At school, I detested the spinach gruel which had lumps of flour in it." guilt,Once I had some homework to do and I did not do it. joy,"Did well in an examn just before my father's birthday: the best present I can give to my father." sadness,My best friend was not chosen for the English lectures. shame,"When I was on holiday with my former boyfriend, he hit me and behaved in a very evil and ugly manner in front of the hotel personnel." guilt,"The negative feelings towards me displayed by my ""parents-in-law""." fear,"Being very close to having an auto accident, almost driving off the road." shame,"I was ashamed when a certain friend of mine I used to move with failed to propose to a lady yet we always said to ourselves no lady can refuse our proposal." guilt,"When I deliberately engineered a situation to cause tension between friends so as to bolster the impression one of them had of me !" shame,[ No response.] anger,My friend misunderstood me. fear,"The night before my wife had given birth to our twins. I felt fear in the hospital yard, I feared if everything was going to be in order." anger,"When I used to go to my chief asking about any doubt about the job and he didn't care, didn't answer me, leaving me speaking alone." sadness,"This issue worried me rather than saddening me. In mid September I went to Guanggho alone. I was looking for an accomodation in the evening and after having walked 2 or 3 miles I still could not find anything. What could I do? I was not worried about sleeping on the streets but because of some procedural problems. I finally found a place to sleep at 8 o'clock." joy,"After my girl and I talked things over our relationship changed and became positive. A diificult time turned into pleasant one." fear,When I went to my first dental appointment. anger,"I arrived in Vienna in the middle of the night. I asked for some silly information - as I realized myself afterwards - and the inquiry clerk reacted in a very arrogant manner." guilt,"I do not have the time for other people's problems. My mother-in-law is sometimes depressed and I do not have the time, the desire or the strength to help." joy,"Felt joy a few years ago when I was away on holiday. And sat very close to my best friend looking straight into the eyes." sadness,"A woman I know is slowly dying from cancer. Observing this process makes me sad." disgust,"Seeing maltreated, dead animals." disgust,"I had to wash my grandmother because she did not get to the bathroom on time." anger,"Once when I was playing table tennis I was already sure that I would win , but at last I lost the game." shame,"When I could not pass my exams with good marks. My wedding was to take place 15 days after the exams and I tried to convince myself that this was the reason for my not having done well. However, I thought that had I really put my mind to doing well at the exams I would have done well." shame,Not being able to argue against class leaders. disgust,"I feel disgusted with toadies, hypocrites, chameleons." anger,"I told my friend something confidential which was supposed to remain between the two of us. The next thing that happened was that a girl who is not even close to us came laughing and askad me to tell her about it. I was very angry with my friend as I had trusted her." joy,The last time I had sex. disgust,"I hate the behaviour of my so called friends, they use bad language, spit, boast and treat the youngsters badly." disgust,"Saw someone who picked up a cigarette from the floor and smoked it." anger,"Following an argument with my brother, he broke my golf clubs." anger,"When you are unjustly assessed at something you are sure to have been right." joy,"Third highest grade in the class and the best answer given for one question (the question was graded by the professor and he indicated he liked my answer)." guilt,"I didn't visit a very close friend at the hospital and some days later he died." sadness,"I felt very lonely, was very dissatisfied with myself when I realised that I could feel very jealous of other women because of my boyfriend." disgust,"When other people refuse to do their house jobs and give the work to someone else." disgust,"When I found out how the people of Ethiopia were starving and their government was spending millions on celebrating being in power so many years. Then I saw all these people on TV needing food, etc." disgust,"When my grandmother came to stay with us permanently as she is a very difficult person to stay with and when she started telling false stories about us to other people." guilt,"A young girl tried to put an end to her life because of lover's grief; not until she was in hospital I heard that I had been the reason for her action." guilt,"When as a 7 year old, I stole money from my mother." joy,"That afternoon I rushed home to look at the result slip of the higher level as fast as possible. I opened the envelope very carefully and found that my results were much better than I had expected and thus I could enter the Chinese university. My diligence had paid and I was very happy." sadness,"I felt it when I was at home and saw a discussion without sense between my parents." anger,"Last night - finding that someone in the house had eaten an entire packet of almonds I had bought for a family treat." anger,"In a confrontation with a person, he provoked me several times till I reacted in an angry way. Fortunately there were no disastrous consequences." fear,"Many years ago I saw the film ""Psycho"" by Hitchcock for the first time. When I saw the film I was alone and afterwards I hardly dared to go to bed and hardly was able to sleep." fear,"At noon one Sunday I received a phone call telling me that my mother had been knocked down by a car at the street crossing and that her husband should go and see her. I could not believe this as my father and my mother had gone out together to buy lunch boxes. However I immediately ran to the scene of the accident." disgust,Hearing of a filthy situation over the phone. sadness,A younger brother of a good friend of mine died (asthma). anger,"A friend of mine promised to come with me to the cinema but he didn't come." anger,"A drummer who had borrowed my drums destroyed both the drumskin and the sticks. He did not repair them nor did he tell me about it." guilt,I felt guilty when I lied to my parents. anger,[ No response.] anger,"After a hard day at the university I also had to make dinner that evening. It failed because of a frying pan which broke." sadness,"I had to leave my girlfriend for 4 weeks because of my studies. This happens frequently. The last 24 hours before my departure are always very depressing." disgust,When my father shouted at me for going to a party with my sister. disgust,"In a film there was a scene in which a rat was sliding on a bed, leaving a trace of blood behind, finally it entered the mouth of one of the actors." joy,My father promoted to be a professor. guilt,"Failure to complete medical course as a result of failing fourth year twice." sadness,A friend misunderstood me. sadness,"After some friends had come to see me. They had stayed for several days and we had got on very well. When they had left, I had a feeling of emptyness." sadness,When I heard that my friend had started drinking beer. guilt,[ Never felt the emotion.] joy,When my children were born. joy,When my father was saved from a severe work accident. fear,"When a friend of mine discussed with me, I felt fear of losing her. This occurred because we had a missunderstanding between mutual colleagues." anger,Falling in love although she is my friend (angry with myself). anger,"During a dance someone slashed my tires and dumped paint on my car. I had four other friends with me that I drove and furthermore it was raining." shame,"I had been away all night without having told my parents about it. In the morning when I came home, my mother looked tired. She said that she had been awake all night because of me and that she was angry and disappointed." guilt,"Facing the possibility of having a child when it wasn't either desired or permitted." sadness,A friend breaking up with her boyfriend. shame,"I slipped on butter one evening in the Dining Commons landed on my rear causing my tray also to land on the floor." sadness,I was sad to hear that my brother had a motorbike accident. shame,"This was when one of the Clinical officers scolded us in the hospital on how to make beds but we did not deserve to be scolded." anger,"When I was at S.Y.Bajaj I wanted to get admission in another college and this was not easy and I felt angry. " anger,"When one teacher unjustly gave me zero in a test saying that I was cribbing." joy,"When I gave birth to my son and saw that he was alive and that I had managed it well. He was born a month too early with a malfunctioning lung. This happened a year ago." guilt,"I used to pinch change from my father's mantlepiece (never my mother - she didn't get enough housekeeping) and then I'd feel when we went to church as a family I'd felt awkward cos I felt I'm expected to go to communion and I would but I was afraid and guilty 'cos I committed a mortal sin." guilt,Not acting on my promise. guilt,"My parents appreciate very much me and my boyfriend coming and have dinner with them at Christmas. However we decided to visit his parents. My mother was rather disappointed." anger,When I first saw a person begging. disgust,"I felt disgust when I saw a friend walking in stagnant water without putting on gum boots." shame,"Went to a lecture about Chinese history and hear about the Opium War." disgust,"The first time I saw a pornographic film, all that in practice is so beautiful but on the screen appered as something mechanical, irrational, disgusting and dehumanizing." joy,"Receiving a postcard form my sweetheart who was abroad on vacation, not being at all sure if he would write me or not." disgust,"On my way home in the middle of the night I saw a drunk man and a woman who were quarreling, beating each other, shouting and so on. I felt disgusted especially because they treated each other in such a degrading way." fear,"When my sister had the still born child, she was emotionally very deep down, and it took her a long time to recover." joy,Receiving my result slip (pass) on my birthday. fear,"When cleaning up a pile of junk under our house, a huge spider (a ""Jungle Spider"") ran out near me. (I do not like even small spiders)." disgust,Negative statement concerning me of a friend before strangers. disgust,Someone vomited on the street. anger,"When my sister came home late one day and thus disobeyed my parents." guilt,When I masturbated in my room. anger,"A colleague asked me for some advice and as he did not have enough confidence in me he asked a third person." sadness,When I am at home alone. anger,"I gave some personal information to a friend of mine, and he told it to some others who were implicated in the affair." guilt,"I felt very guilty when a student, sitting in front of me in the exam, asked me a few questions and I did not show him the answers, though I knew them." disgust,"Somebody went around spreading news that I like people with money." sadness,"When I feel lonely, perhaps because I have to study a lot and I am shut up in my appartment. Nothing happens in particular because there is no time for anything else." shame,"[ I have felt shame but am unable to remember any particular incident.]" shame,"I had a habit of wetting my bed when I was young. One day, when I was invited to my friend's place to stay for the night, it happened again. I was ashamed of myself." shame,"Somebody who knows me very well discovered that I had told him a lie." shame,"When I was 10 years old I stained our bench with a fountain-pen, I tried to twin the cushions, but then there were colour nuances. Then my mother catched me, she saw it and became very angry." shame,"I felt ashamed of my body in spite of knowing that it is more or less beautiful and also knowing that my boyfriend considers me beautiful, but this was only in the beginning." guilt,"I felt guilt to have come back from home without seeing my father. When I went home he was at work." disgust,"When I saw a girl in my economics discussion section smiling and asking stupid questions to the TA. just to get attention. She was obviously ass-kissing. It happens in every Econ. discussion held weekly." fear,"At the tender age of eleven a friend and I left a party and proceeded to walk through dark and secluded streets of a bad neighborhood to find a telephone (recent spate of Horror Movie watching had occurred)." guilt,"I was of the opinion that 12.00 pm was too early to be back at home after going out, so I stayed away longer, knowing that my mother would be worried." joy,"The day the Real Madrid team of basket ball qualified for the final at Athens." disgust,"On Reperbahn, in a restaurant, a ""charming"" old saleswoman came to beg a drink for herself." sadness,"When I was in lower six class during the Summer I joined a research group of the Chinese university student union. I knew a lot of CV students there. A year later one of them was travelling in mainland China and he got T.B. He died a few weeks after coming back to H.K. We all got together for the funeral and when I looked at the body for the last time I felt extremely sad." joy,"I thought that I had failed an examination, but when I was informed about the mark, I saw that I had passed it." shame,"Feeling inadequate in a group situation, being unable to convey my own thoughts and feelings." guilt,"That I didn't want my friend to leave on holiday for 10 days because I thought I would miss him. I was constantly trying to persuade him." guilt,Not to have studied enough when exams were near. sadness,"[ When I am, in my opinion, not understood correctly. ]" disgust,I saw a dog who was eating excrements. disgust,"When I read about or think about environmental pollution, the armor race, starvation, etc. Then one realizes that mankind is bad, most important is power and money, at the cost of nature and mankind." sadness,"When you are far away from relatives and friends. I feel sad for my early years, for the freedom and the carefree years of childhood." joy,When I received my promotion letter. fear,"When mother was very ill, I feared that she would die." joy,"When my special friend said ""I love you"" for the first time." sadness,"When my grandmother died. I had a very deep relation to her (I lived with her for several years)." sadness,"When my uncle died I saw a funeral for the first time. All people stood around the open grave and cried." guilt,I forgot about a close relatives's birthday. shame,"When I was a child, I had a medical check-up. I had to undress myself and was examined by several doctors." fear,"I was driving on to a busy freeway during rush hour and it was slightly raining. A diesel truck was coming very close behind me and I was close behind a pick-up. I changed lanes and barely hit the truck and ran a Honda of the road. I was scared to death to go back and see if I caused him to crash." joy,"I was very happy when I discovered that I had passed my first year examination and was among the thirty students who would major in economics." anger,"I am a school teacher. One of the classes does not obey me at all, keeps on talking, does no work. One afternoon, everything went wrong, and I got exceedingly angry." sadness,My best friend could not get into university. joy,"After several days delay in my girlfriend's menstration I was very glad to see that the pregnancy test was negative." guilt,When I shout at a colleague in classroom. fear,"I was caught doing something I was not supposed to do. I did something with the person who caught me (bribe) and even though he promised not to report me, I am still frightened." anger,Bought something bad from the shop and they refused to change it. fear,"I was working at a certain place and everyday after work dad would come to pick me up. One day he did not come, it started getting very dark and I had no money on me and my home was very, very far away." joy,"[ Any situation in everyday life has this emotional sense, in class, in the street, at home, at the table..........]" sadness,The death of an animal we had reared. shame,"When I began to date, the first gestures of affection made me feel ashamed. sadness,"Sitting in a bus, I heard behind, the voice of a girl I was friendly with. After her talking for some time with another girl I decided it wasn't her in fact that someone miming her, which it was when I finally looked. I was talking to a friend at the time." fear,"We were on the road in a car when a lorry bypassed us. We had to swerve and we almost got run over." sadness,"China can not even give you good sound systems for an open lecture." disgust,"My mother was very angry with my little sister and told her to put her hands on the table in order to beat her hands up. She forced by means of her power." sadness,"When I applied for a job which I thought I had a good chance of getting, I was not even granted an interview and did not get the job." disgust,When I found out that someone close to me was flirting around. sadness,"It was in the evening when I heard that my girl went to Zambia and that she would never come back." fear,When confronted and in my opinion hassled by the police. shame,This happens to me when I am not prepared in a given subject. joy,"Getting sent on a company expense trip to another state to work for a week at that plan." fear,"Once as a child I dreamed of a fire. Since that time I hadn't wanted to sleep in that bed and had feared the night darkness (and so it is now)." sadness,To say goodbye to dear friends after the holidays. joy,"I'm glad when I have good relations with my colleagues and most of all when we are at a party." joy,Getting a letter from a friend who did not write for a long time. joy,"I was feeling really low - had been a series of fights with my siblings, been under pressure at school and wasn't going to the party I wanted to go - instead I was going out with my family. A guy called and said, in effect, that I was ""nice"" and he liked me. Hence the emotional joy." disgust,"A teacher was very blunt in his relation to a child so that the child was very upset when arriving at home." sadness,"An uncle of mine who just retired, having worked hard all his life, got a cerebral hemorrhage." shame,"When I confessed to my girl-friend (now my wife) that I had betrayed her with another woman." disgust,"When I went home by train from Sicilia, I was molested by a man." anger,When someone stole my bike. guilt,"When my father (physically handicapped) asks me to do something and I raise several objections. Often I can fix it in few moments." sadness,Close relative is dying of cancer - found out last week. anger,"When I was mistakenly accused of being a thief when I accidently gave a fake coin at a counter. I realized this before I handed over the coin, but the man called me a thief and called a witness." sadness,"When my grandmother after staying with us for awhile went back home." anger,"I was the compere at a party and all my efforts to get the show rolling were thwarted by the immobile, non co-operative guests. I felt frustation - bordering on anger." shame,"I felt ashamed when I fought with my mother on some issue, and caused her trouble." guilt,"I wanted to finish a relationship after 3 months. Unfortunately my friend had a different opinion. I could not answer his feelings this made him unhappy, and me feel guilty." sadness,When my grandmother passed away. disgust,Maltreatment of children. sadness,"When my gradmother died. I felt very sad then ... The feeling started to be worse after a while." shame,The day after the night I drank too much at a party. guilt,"The first time that I ""played with myself"" despite being a Christian. I had read in the bible that it was wrong to make love to someone one is not married to." fear,I am afraid if I'll finish the term. sadness,"When my friend did not pass the high school graduation examinations." joy,"When I passed the whole weekend with my boyfriend, coming back home on Sunday afternoon he met my parents for the first time." joy,"I was given a gift by my sister. There were many pleasant things in this parcel." sadness,"Watching an old lady running up the street to catch her bus and miss it, it reminded me of my own mother and how dreadful it would be to be her in the same situation." disgust,"A person that eat half of a cockroach in a cake without knowing it." fear,"When I was at a boarding school at Lusaka, the Rhodesian soldiers came to bomb a house near our school and we saw the whole scene." fear,"When a man who had a knife grabbed me and threatened me with it, during my holidays in Monze." disgust,"When one of my parents verbally, personally abused the other." sadness,When I got to know that my father had passed away. guilt,"When I was caught with another man's wife. I had taken the opportuinty as this man was abroad but he returned that night." fear,"When I saw a TV program on the North American military plan called ""The startwar""." joy,"When I received the acceptance letter from UNZA. I had just come home from work when my kind sister handed me an enveloppe which I opened and was overcome with joy." sadness,"I was going to go on a vacation to Texas this summer but was unable to go because of registration." disgust,"My roommate being nice to a party leader in order to get into the party." shame,"I once felt shame when I failed to fulfil the promise to marry a daughter of a certain gentleman." joy,A good report card (a scholarship) in primary school. joy,When I heard that I had passed the second year exams. joy,"When I found out that I had passed the last two exams by a margin of three marks." shame,"A conflict with a pupil and there were probatory teachers present." fear,Telling my parents that I did not well in an examn. disgust,I witnessed a scene in which two women were abusing each other. shame,When I bought new clothes and put them on. fear,Doing anatomy alone for the first time. joy,"I experienced joy when I got the results - I had made it to the second year." disgust,"I have an adopted Aboriginal sister I felt disgust due to the racism she has been subjected to." guilt,[ Do not remember any incident.] shame,"When I failed Psychology examination when most of the students passed." joy,When I had my four children. sadness,"My son's mother told me that she wanted to move to Vienna and take the child with her. This means a rather long distance for me. My whole family was sad and dumbfounded so that my own feelings were intensified." sadness,Not getting the reference paper. disgust,"I was an instructior in a youth organization. Whenever we, the instructors would have a meeting the advisor would be present. He did not understand our worknig conditions but talked a lot and had a lot of outdated ideas. Whenever we disagreed with him he was very discontent and said that we had a prejudice against him. Why did he have to treat us as his subordinates ?" disgust,"When I was an auxiliary nurse at the hospital and I had to change the nappies, for the first time, of a very old and sick woman." sadness,When I learnt that I had been betrayed by my friend. fear,When they tried to rob me. joy,When I was admitted to the University. guilt,When I don't fulfill my obligations. fear,"I had gone for a medical check-up at the U.T.H and failed to make it back on time for the C119 practical sessions at 1400 hours last academic year." sadness,[ No response.] guilt,"When my father told me that I should help my mother more often, because she was so busy. And I realized that he was right." fear,"When a drunkard barged into a room where my friend and I had run in order to get away from him. We were all alone and all I could see was this hand coming towards me." disgust,"A tiresome person held me up all day long. I was very busy then (I can not remember what the problem was). He continously tried to make me talk to him and disturbed me." fear,"The first day that I was close to a dead body, in my third year at UNZA, school of medicine." anger,Landlord putting up rents sneakly and slimily. sadness,Breaking up with a girl. anger,"A friend doesn't let me study when I want to. She doesn't feel I need to study and doesn't understand how important studying is to me. I get very angry with her." guilt,"After confronting the person who stood me up, I blew up and said all the wrong things." guilt,"I left a boy with whom I was going around without giving him any explanations." disgust,"I watched the news at the TV, it was a commentary about ""Hainburg"". I felt disgusted when I heard members of the union speak about the situation." shame,"I put my head into the pullover of a girl to see her breasts. The girl looked at me so that I felt ashamed." shame,"In primary school I once faltered while answering a question and the others started laughing." joy,When the girl with whom I am in love smiles at me. guilt,"After closing the front door I realized that I had left the key inside the house. I felt even more guilty since it was not my own house but the house of people I hardly knew." fear,In the morning just before going to the dentist. guilt,"I was in a sanatorium. In front of me a boy fell down from his invalid's chair. I could help him but I didn't. I felt like being paralysed." disgust,Friends who torture animals. guilt,"I did not go to help a friend of mine, though she probably needed me." fear,"When I stayed alone in a house in Great Brittain and there was a lot of rumour in the newspaper about a murderer still being free." shame,"When a soppy poem that I had written to a boy was found and every one read it and started teasing me about it." joy,"When I got permission to study at a place which was far away from my home." shame,Insulted by classmate in public. anger,When a close relative is treated badly. anger,"After a long trip in my dad's van without incident I stopped to fill the tank with gas and dented the side of the van against the pole. Then my cars electrical system would not work when I tried to drive home from his house." guilt,"I feel always guilty before my parents when I come home and have to tell them I have failed an exam." guilt,"When I realized that I avoided two good friends with whom I always shared toys and sorrows. I made up idle stories to avoid telling them what happened to me." joy,I have a new born child. guilt,"When I was forced to decline the invitation to my mother's 70th birthday because of my work committments in another area." joy,"When the church choir came one Sunday after being away for some weeks." joy,"When a study tour got confirmed, I was happy all the time till the tour began." disgust,"At what I was capable of of selfishly using others for sexual encounters, while I held a vision of having a deepening above-board (you know, ""girl next door"") devotion to a girl in my head. My drives and actions did not match this so consequently I felt disgusted at my failure." guilt,"I felt guilty about going out when I should have been studying for a presentation I had to give on Wednesday the next week." guilt,"When I was baby-sitting at my cousin's place, I tried to have a pleasant time and did not really take care of the child. I do not care very much about children." shame,I can't remember ever feeling shame. disgust,"I felt disgust when I realized that I had eaten something fatty, and vomited too much." shame,I overreacted towards my mother and felt ashamed afterwards. sadness,When my gradmother died. guilt,Not doing something I had promised. disgust,"When my friend who is close to me got engaged and did not invite me." anger,"At an undeserved attitude toward a man, when human personality is not treated decently." joy,I was admitted to the University and a niece was born to me. sadness,The inability to read a book at college. sadness,"When I noticed that my parents were not in such a prosperity as most people in my surroundings." sadness,After the loss of a close relative. joy,"I was coming home from an exam and I supposed that I had passed it so I ran to a restaurant for a beer." disgust,"I visited a place in Morocco where they worked the leather. I saw the skins emerged in a liquid which ressembled putrification." disgust,"People who came to our home - and requested ""Put out your smoke"". That we should not smoke in our house... and asked not even politely. It disgusted me because I think people need to adapt to the situation." disgust,"When I had exams a relative of ours, who lives in another city,came to visit us and I felt disgusted at him." guilt,"At one time while at primary school I lost a pencil case of a friend and I didn't mention it to her until after a fortnight." fear,Fear to come and live in Nijmegen. joy,"For about one year I had a rather bad relation with my father. Last Christmas Eve he invited me to stay withhim and I was very glad about it. It was a fine evening." joy,"I felt joy when I red my name in the list of the approved in the entrance college examination." anger,"Disagreements with mother. When I moved from KankaanpSS, she had promised to help me move but broke her promise because of some hindrance. " guilt,"A kitten had wandered into our office, and I was told to take it back across the street. When I crossed back, the kitten followed me and was run over and killed by a car." guilt,"One time I felt guilty when I told one of my previous boyfriends we were through just because I never felt like having one at that particular time." sadness,Day time robbery of our house. shame,Watching TV about china is behind in winning gold medals. joy,Finding out I was chosen for the English lectures. disgust,"This is difficult, since I don't remember feeling disgust towards anyone." guilt,"My brother and I were at home watching a TV program when I started to tease him and in this joke I hurt him without knowing the seriousness of it I went on. He got angry and gave it back to me. At this moment I felt anger at him but knowing that it was my fault." joy,"When I met a very close friend of mine after one year of separation." disgust,"I feel disgust when hearing or seeing other people being treated inhumanely. For example torturing in chili." shame,"On the train a drunk person touched my baby and I reacted very disapprovingly. I felt ashamed later as the person had not been aggressive though he could have been." guilt,I forgot to convey an important announcement. disgust,People talking in an important lecture. sadness,"I was having breakfast with a classmate and suddenly I began to cry as I thought of a friend of mine whom I had not seen for a long time." guilt,[ No response.] anger,"When a teacher though pretending to be a highly cultivated teacher and a man, slapped a classmate of mine in the face quite undeservedly." sadness,"When one of my closest friends failed to make it to the third year of university." sadness,"I felt sad when a friend of mine died and I felt that something had irrevocably gone away from me." sadness,When I heard that my nephew had passed away. guilt,Mentioning a book to the person who borrowed it. joy,A close married friend has just had his first child. shame,"When I did not do well in the PG310 test I, I got only 4 marks above the pass marks despite my effort. I felt bad because quite a number of friends did better." joy,"A good friend, the wife of the vicar of my church came up to me from the pews (I am in the choir) and shook my hand during the time for an informal ""greeting"" in the church service. She said a few words." disgust,"A girlfriend of mine behaves in a very childish way - she does not like my going to see a friend who has been introduced to me by this same friend of mine. I would like to be friends with both of them, but she does not like this as she is possessive and would like me to be close only to her." joy,Relatives visiting me. guilt,Unable to help my mother to cook. disgust,"I assisted to a scene where the police attacked a person that didn't have his documents. The savagery was too much, and the attacked person bleeded to much." anger,"A female classmate was always late for meetings which were for the homework and not social gatherings. We were very busy and the deadline was close but we had to waste half an hour or an hour waiting for her as we could do nothing else then." shame,"It was my father's birthday party when I was asked to bring a tray of tea and other drinks." sadness,When I got divorced from my husband after ten years of marriage. guilt,"I had quarelled with a friend of mine and I later realized that it was also my fault." disgust,"I work part-time as a shop-assistant and a customer spoke to me very loudly about an Indian man & white woman with children - how horrible that was and would I want to have little dark children." disgust,"Waiting for a bus not coming for a long time, and the bus drivers were having a long lunch." guilt,"My father caught me having sexual intercourse with my closest cousin. There was nothing wrong with it but the female was too old for me." shame,"One day mother slaughtered a chicken for a brother who had come back for holiday. In everybody's absence I opened the foodstore and ate all internal organs of the chicken. When mother discovered, we were all called and I was found with hands stained with soup. I was ashamed being the eldest of all in the family." fear,"When I saw a dead body in the mortuary I became afraid and I was filled with fear." sadness,Marriage crises. Boredom. guilt,When I triffled with other people. sadness,"The news of the natural calamity, an earthquake in which hundreds of Mexican people died." guilt,"I was on a concert-tour and therefor seperated from my boy-friend. But I needed warmth which was given by a male member of the orchestra. My feelings towards him were not very deep, but his feelings were. I felt guilty when he said ""I am not a radiator"". fear,"My girlfriend and I slept in a lonely hut (we had drunk alcool). Suddenly some soil fell on us, then some water. Although we tried hard, we could not find out the cause." guilt,"Remembering (at the time I did not feel guilt) in recent yrs. how angry I would get when I was babysitting my new brother and he would not stop crying. I did not do anything harmful or shocking. But I feel guilty for treating him the way I did especially since I adore him now. That's why I spoil him now." fear,When I sit for examinations. sadness,"[ I missed my twin when I was on the verge of being thrown, which I disliked.]" guilt,Peeping. guilt,"At times I have been attracted to conducts which are socially degraded due to their ill consequences, and then I feel guilty." shame,"When one has been unjust, stupid towards someone else. " anger,"Being subject to unfair treatment in a working group, someone ""bending the rules"" was protected by the boss. This resulted in more work for the others." sadness,[ No response.] sadness,My grandfather died thirteen years ago. guilt,Not collecting letters for my friend al I promised. joy,"On my birthday I got a present that I had desired for a long time." anger,"The comrade staying next doors insulted me for what he called the misuse of his iron. He called me stupid, self centered etc. I wanted to punch him but instead went for a walk to the mining school to cool off." sadness,"It was mid May 1985, When we had a Test on Nursing. My classmate had an answer sheet, so he tried to peep. The Nursing Tutor caught him. During this time I was turning my question paper and it made noise. This friend blamed me of causing the whole matter for him to be caught." joy,"I bought a Christmas present for my girl-friend. On my way home I was really glad about having found such a suitable thing." disgust,Given duty by the leaders which I do not like to do. sadness,"The death of my guardian with whom I had stayed when I did my grade six." disgust,"When I realized that my closest friend had said bad things about me when I was not around and had betrayed me by making friends with my boyfriend's other girl." guilt,When I took away my best friend's boyfriend. shame,When I gave my boyfriend a brush-off. sadness,"When I failed one of my courses at school - the university of Zambia." anger,"I got angry at a friend of mine whom I caught reading my notebook (almanach)." joy,"When I got my first unknown compound while doing my M.Sc research, I was very happy. This is because my research was based on this type of reactions and compounds." fear,"When riding in a very fastly-driven car on a lose metal road at a very late hour - no other cars on road, and driver was taking corners very sharply. I felt afraid - because if an accident happened, the area was very isolated. Also, I feared for driver, after I was dropped off - would he make it home safely." joy,When I passed the university entrance exam. joy,"The more than satisfactory result of a recently-completed university subject was communicated to me by phone." guilt,"I had arranged to meet my friends at a certain place, and I was with other people. My friends did not arrive and the people who were with me began to get tired. My friends were one hour late." anger,"My older brother who gives me unwanted advices about problems in my relationship with my girlfriend." disgust,"When I saw hundreds of snakes twisting over one another in a movie." disgust,"During the PY 102 film session on Tuesday, one of the films shown was of an experiment on a live cat involving strapping it into a machine for possibly days, and doing things to its brain." disgust,"When I was in the army, we got a certain dish for dinner that I do not like at all. We were not obliged to eat, but I was very hungry." shame,"I was working in a job in which I could not work quickly enough, and was told that my work was not up to standard." fear,Thinking about death when walking alone at night. joy,"I phoned a friend of mine to ask her for news about the marks in an exam. She told me that I had passed." shame,"When I noticed that a person I found attractive had seen me picking my nose." guilt,"One night, I went out with some friends for dinner and I did not tell my parents that I would come back late. I thought of phoning but in the end I did not. When I arrived home, my parents were very worried." anger,"My best friend started moving out with my boyfriend. When I heard this my heart sank because I didn't expect that my own good friend could do such a thing, so I got angry." disgust,"The first day I visited the hospital I was disgusted because I experienced offensive smell which I never expected. I nearly ran away from the course." guilt,[ No response.] guilt,"I felt guilty when I heard the results of my friend, who had failed. I wished that I had helped him." shame,"We had arranged a beach party with 20 people. There my father got drunk I felt very ashamed." fear,"I had been watching a triller a dark night in the country and I had to go the outside toilet on my own. " fear,"I was walking home one night (after getting a bus to my town) when I was confronted by a group of males (about 6), they would not let me pass - they made comments etc. - I crossed the road and hurried home." guilt,When I was rude to my mother and got angry with her. joy,When I heard that I had been selected for the university. joy,"I experienced it when I was accepted at the Medical Higher Institute." fear,"At the dentist's, waiting for my turn to come." sadness,"I felt very sad when I left home because I could not stand it any longer. I do not regret it, but I missed my little sister very much (and she missed me). These feelings wear off over time." fear,"A teacher wanted to instill a certain opinion and a certain behaviour into myself, what I refused. I was afraid when I saw him." disgust,"I hate hypocrisy. My friend (girl) tried to intrude into my affairs with my future husband. After that she behaved as if nothing had happened." joy,When I passed the university entrance exam. anger,"I made an appointment with a friend to drink coffee togehter. However, for the third time in that week she arrived an hour too late." guilt,"For example, when I have promised something but I haven't fulfilled it." fear,"One summer when I was camping with friends they devised and elaborate plan to scare me by having our camp attecked by a wild animal (one of them) and then convincing the campground was the home of a satanic organization." anger,"As in sadness (A), relating to this slaghter of fur-seals." disgust,When I was on holiday someone vomited in front of me. disgust,"When I take a look into a slaughter-house and when listening to stories about torturing people or animals." fear,"I received a letter from my college telling me that I would not be allowed to sit for the exams because of my low attendance in class and the bad experience in the terminal exams." joy,"After watching the 49ers lose game after game, year after year, I was finally rewarded with a Super Bowl victory which made me extremely happy." sadness,"Recent break-up with my girlfriend. We had been together for over a year. I was overseas and discovered over the phone (while I was at work)." guilt,"I had an appointment with a colleague of mine to give her my lecture notes. I couldn't go and I didn't send them, and so the girl missed a day for the preparation of her term exams." sadness,"My Uncle was beaten by his troublesome son. He fell unconscious and gained consciousness after some time. That time I was at school; this news reached me through someone." shame,"I had to meet a girlfriend to go out for a drink and she arrived with her aunt, to whom I was introduced. Then the aunt left." joy,"One of my friends and I had breakfast in a restaurant. It was spontaneous and lots of fun." disgust,"I was shopping in Utrecht with friends, we also ate some chips and snacks in a snackbar, then we saw a shabby fellow. He took a cold half eaten croquette (a snack) from a rubbish bin and eat it." guilt,Not doing well in the examn. joy,"When I passed the driving test already on the first try, although I felt more and more uncertain as the day came near." sadness,"My dear hamster (called Hannes) died at the age of 2 and 1/2 years. His shape forced me to mercy killing (an injection)." shame,"For a medical check-up, we - boys and girls - had to take off our clothes with the exception of our underwear. Then we had to go into another classroom where older pupils were sitting and staring at us." anger,"When I did not find the rack used for beating up rugs, in the yard." fear,"When the car I was driving skidded on an icy road and landed in a ditch with one side against a rock." disgust,"When I watched a film about the problems of abandoned children (PIXOTE)." sadness,"I was very sad when I was shouted at by Uncle and was told that I was not to be given school fees because I didn't go to work in the garden since I had gone to escort my sister to the bus depot." joy,I felt joy when I entered at the University. fear,When I nearly collided with another car. joy,"Finding out I am chosen to collect norms for Chinese aphasia (I will contribute to China's catching up with the West in neuropsychology)." guilt,"I had gone to see one of our professors about a book, and I did not attend the class she took a few minutes later." fear,When I was travelling at night. guilt,"Once, I accidentally injured a boy in the eye and he almost lost it." sadness,"Talking to a very good friend who had just had a very bad experience which was changing his whole way of looking at life etc." anger,"My girlfriend mentioned a certain girl's name who was my girl some time back and she is no longer mine that she said she was still mine." guilt,"I once stole my father's money and denied having done it. Instead father threatened my young brother and he was beaten. He was innocent and I felt guilty." anger,"When during Winter the water pipes froze and we did not have any water for two days." fear,"The weather is very bad (fog and slipperiness) the newcast reports many traffic accidents and my boyfriend is driving home and still has 60 kilometers to go." guilt,Not handing in homeworks in time. disgust,"When I saw a woman subjugated by money and not being able to hide how she hated herself for not having the will power to get out of such a situation because it was convenient, according to what she told me." sadness,"The funeral of a friend who was killed in a car accident. She was of my own age, there were many of my own friends present, as well as her family etc." guilt,"After being told that an ex-boyfriend had been hurt by my wearing something he had given me when I was with another guy. I was unaware of my actions really, as I had not considered the fact that he had given it to me, and might see me. I still respected his opinions of me." disgust,When a person I did not know hurt a friend of mine. joy,"I started a new branch of studies after having failed a former one. When I got back my exam papers I was very happy to know that I almost had full marks." fear,"Just arrived in the university, not knowing anybody." anger,"My grandmother's brother had taken active part in the resistance movement. He had been in prison many times and there he lost his health. He became an invalid. When we phoned to First Aid the nurse on duty behaved quite unkindly when she understood how old he was (79)." fear,"When I walk through streets late at night. This is because I and my friends were attacked one night without any reason for it." anger,"[ I sometimes quarrel with my mother because she blames me, though I have not in any way been connected to some events.]" shame,"It was during a school holiday - I was found necking a girl in my room by my father." disgust,"I was sitting in school, waiting for my sister to go home. Suddenly a boy put fire in a paper and threw it were I was sitting. The paper didn't get me, but I felt terribly disgusted at this cowardliness and irresponsibility that caused a great discussion. We went to the director and he, drunk as always, said that I was ... attention in school. I felt disgust of this situation, and of the persons implicated in it." shame,"When I was in grade one, one day I felt like going to the toilet during class but I was very scared of the teacher so I urinated in the class." anger,"A friend called me and told me that she wanted to come and see me. She lived in a village at 50 km distance fom my home town. Next morning I expected her but she didn't arrive. As I got impatient I called her but her parents told me that she had gone skiing. I was very angry because I had cancelled an appointment to be able to see her." fear,After having taken an exam i feared having failed it. joy,"A couple of years ago during the summer holiday, I was fishing at a lake with my husband. Suddenly it started raining while the sun was still shining. I experienced a feeling of joy, happiness and fulfillment. the whole nature was full of music." disgust,"I discovered some pornographic literature in a workmates drawers. The literature featured pictures of naked women defecating on one another." disgust,"I have experienced disgust with some people - usually double dealers." sadness,"When my ex-girlfriend and I discovered that there was a certain risk of her being pregnant." anger,I feel anger when things don't come out as I wish. sadness,My good friend misunderstood me. guilt,"I could not take care of my mother when she was admitted to a hospital for surgery, I continued my studies as I could not get leave." guilt,When I feigned sick leave from work. sadness,"When I watched the T.V programme called ""The living planet"" and saw the far reaching environmental destruction caused by man." guilt,"Not speaking to my sister-in-law due to lack of interest in a relationship on my side." shame,"When I arrived too late at a meeting of mentor (the night before the introduction of novices on the University start)." guilt,When someone is accused or punished instead of me. anger,"When I was doing my last year at Secondary School I was robbed of my clothes, wristwatch and my pair of shoes. After investigations it was found that all the things were stolen by one of the boys in our hostel." fear,I was nearly knocked down while I was cycling. sadness,"My academic result was poor and I had to repeat the second year. I felt sad about the coming several years." joy,"My friend came to see me after she had stayed abroad. I waited at the station." sadness,"When I caused much pain and sorrow to my boyfriend by finishing our relationship." disgust,"On Christmas day a drunk man came to our house without a shirt on, he dansed, spoke nonsense and behaved stupidly." shame,"I felt shame when I saw someone I knew and pretended not to see her. Later she saw me and said hi." sadness,I felt sad when my father was sick. shame,Being rude to somebody who was impolite to me. sadness,"I had taken the responsibility to do something and I had prepared for it. However I failed because of my timidity. After three attempts I still could not adapt to the atmosphere and failed as before. I felt imcompetent and felt that the others would think that I had not prepared for it." shame,"During a party I overheard a conversation about china. When I wanted to give my opinion one of the people came out to be Chinese and his opinion was right of course." fear,"When biking and I felt very bad (problems with heart and respiration)." joy,"I felt happy when I received the letter telling me that I had been admitted to the university." guilt,"I am not very affectionate and I feel guilty as I do not give as much affection as I receive." joy,First public speaking. anger,"A certain friend tried to push me off a seat in a very violent way for no apparent reason. It may be that he was excited about something." guilt,"I was to inform the neighbour on my left that a robber had been spotted the same evening near the house of the neighbour in front. I did not do it and the same day the thieves broke into this neighbour's house." anger,"When I checked my examination paper and realized that I had been careless, thoughtless, lazy and hasty so as to make unnecessary mistakes concerning things I know and understand." guilt,"This is a kind of confession - my mum found me stealing meat from the pot." shame,"I had lied to a person because I had thought that I could not tell him the truth. When he found out he was not angry but understanding. We talked the whole thing over." guilt,"A friend of mine shot himself through the head after having told me and others that he would do so." anger,"In a discussion the leader wanted to stop because she was of the opinion that we were not involved and she misjudged our reactions as negative. We however only posed several questions which she couldn't answer." anger,"I felt angry when I saw on T.V the last slaughter of negroes in South Africa." joy,I finished my homework; an important task. anger,"When I found out my cousin had been killed. I was angry at the world, and her murderer who was her ex-boyfriend. It was the worst and most hateful day of my life." sadness,"I received the mid-term exam paper of one of my major subjects and I found that I had failed it." guilt,"A few days back a friend of mine had asked me to call on him on Sunday. I had accepted it but later did not go for no specific reason. I just slept in my room. The next day this friend called me up and told me that he had been expecting me the day before and his wife had prepared a very good lunch for me, which had gone waste. I felt very bad about this incident and it has been growing in my heart ever since." sadness,My friend who was in the Bago was kicked out of the sorority. fear,"One night, walking along a park, I began to think that some roughnecks would appear suddenly with knives and things like that." guilt,"Last year I was asked to look after my niece while her mother was cooking. Unfortunately the kid fell off the bed, I was confident that she would not fall and had not been paying much attention." disgust,Seeing a film in which there were several bloody crimes. joy,"I experienced joy at a friend's 22nd birthday party. We had good food, good liquid, good company, good music, and an overall warm atmosphere. The birthday girl and I communicate incredibly well. I felt very content, warm and inspired just talking with her giving her a neck massage." sadness,"I don't know why suddenly I thought that what I was feeling for my boyfriend was not really love. After almost three years being together, this matter of fact shaked me and I felt a great sorrow that I can call sadness." guilt,"The same event described under ""shame""." joy,Article published in the college newspaper. shame,"When I realized that I belonged to a country which is amongst the poorest in the world and that inspite of having the resources we do not utilize them. I was ashamed at myself and my country, shame at the lack of parity between the lifestyles of the citizens." shame,"I felt shame when I didn't study enough for my exams and as a result I failed. I then invented idle stories to talk it good for myself and the others." sadness,"So as to be closer to the university I have left home and moved into Auckland. It now seems as if I have left home - especially my family - forever." joy,"Reading a letter from a close friend who said he missed me and cared for me." guilt,"I was at a boarding school during my primary school days. I was broken so I pretended I was very sick. My father came and he picked me up. He spent a lot of money on medical expenses which all proved to be negative." guilt,"When my ex-husband left our house, and the children cried because he was not coming back." disgust,"My classmate at TISS has the habit of biting his nails and ever since my childhood I have never liked this habit. This person is near me in class, dining hall and the campus so I suggested that he should stop biting his nails. However he found it difficult and my disgust feelings have not changed." guilt,"I felt guilty of having suspected my room-mate of stealing the money last term." sadness,Often a dog which is treated very badly by his owner comes to us. joy,"I had not studied very much for my final examination at school, so I had to take an additional examination in French. The oral examination was not very hard for me - the more I was glad when I heard that I had passed it." fear,"I was walking home late at night from lectures and someone deliberately started following me. It was dark and I was scared." fear,"When I have to leave the baby in the carriage and go shopping, I fear that something will happen to the baby." disgust,[ Can not think of any situation.] joy,"Every time, in the last few days, when my girlfriend told me that she loves me." fear,"I felt a physical fear, if I can call it this way, today, in the bus where I was sitting on the first seat. While turning the driver didn't see the tram which was making a dash towards us (coming from the side I was), and whose driver intended to cross in yellow light." joy,Thought had discovered true love. sadness,"When I left my boyfriend. I found another girl at his home but he did nothing to relieve the situation." disgust,"When one individual takes advantage of and/or injures another relatively defenseless individual, consciously. I feel disgust mingled with anger. A person on my dorm floor verbally assaulted another person for having a certain religious belief." disgust,"[ There have been very few instances of disgust, as far as I can remember they are not important or worth mentioning.]" guilt,"I did not go to the exercises, without any adequate reason." anger,When my roommate's moped was stolen I was very angry. fear,When going out I am threatened regularly by two punk-girls. shame,"I was making very strong statements about infidelity in couples. Then I discovered that one of my best friends, who had just been through a very sad case of mutual infidelity, was listening." disgust,I saw in the street a man spitting. fear,"When I went up the stairs in a high, dark house full of shadows, passed a door and had the feeling that someone or something was behind me, although I knew I was alone." guilt,I spread abroad an intimate secret. disgust,"Four weeks ago I felt very much touched to find an asciatic patient who had asked the very morning to be tapped of the fluid, dying in the evening. I was really disgusted because this was the Medical staff's negligence. Had the Clinical officers done something that very morning he might have been alive today." fear,"When going out in the weekend I have to bike 5 kilometers through lonely and dark polders, then I always have terrifying fantasies." guilt,"I felt guilty when I read an advertisement for a job as a chemist in the newspaper and when my friend asked me if I had applied for that job, I told him that I had not even seen the paper of that day." fear,I felt fear when I was young and left in my big house all alone. guilt,"I was working as a secretary. My boss was to go to give a lecture, and wanted me to give him the exact address of the place." shame,"I was very ashamed when I failed a test in Standard 7. The teacher told the other students to shout and laugh at me." disgust,"I have felt this feeling when a person whom I believe and respect, lied to me." disgust,"When a boy I hated most in our classroom took my T Jersey from my desk and put it on." anger,"[ This emotion has never been an intense one, that makes it difficult to recall it.]" fear,"Earlier, I was afraid of speaking in front of a crowd of people." guilt,"At my summer job, I was responsible for making various orders. It was not me who had ordered some seasonal merchandise, but when much of it was left over and had to be thrown away in the Autumn, I felt partly responsible for the much too large order." disgust,"A gigantic spider climbed over my face and what is more - in my own flat." guilt,Forgetting a close friend's birthday. joy,"I had been very weary all week - no letters, no phonecalls, no visitors and then my younger sister came with some cheese, a card and some pocket money for me; and she told me that she was working now." sadness,I was forced to leave an unforgettable friend. shame,"I was swimming in the river and I lost the top of my bikini. I did not notice it and came out of water. There was a disagreeable classmate watching the scene." disgust,When my fellow classmates were involved in a quarrel. joy,"Receiving a very personal letter from a lady that I like, which revealed that she was more enthusiastic about me than I had thought possible." fear,"When I was a child, I had a nightmare. At that time, I was not yet able to tell anybody about it, so I was very frightened. I could not explain myself all that and I had to deal with it by myself." shame,"I answered a certain question from Dr. Maqgda wrongly. She asked something about Femur and my answer was saying something concerning the brain. So I was very ashamed amongst my friends." disgust,"A teacher giving a test was called by a student by his first name. He (the teacher) said that he didn't give him this liberty." fear,"I was riding with a friend in his car. At a speed of 120 km/h on the snow-covered motorway I would have liked to get out." anger,"When my aunt scolded me for something I was not responsible for. A boy had come to our gate asking for me, my aunt went out to see him. I had neither met nor known the boy." guilt,"I didn't give back in time some money that I had borrowed. My friend relied on them." fear,"Waiting for the results of the High level examination. I was afraid of not being accepted." guilt,"Promising someone to do their job and then not being able to do it due to transport troubles." anger,"In a conversation my boyfriend expressed definite and quite pretentious opinions and he took up an attitude towards a theory which he himself had never known. His information was from fortuitous sources." guilt,"Did not pick up a water mellon skin, someone slipped on it." shame,"I felt ashamed of feeling sorry about myself when I passed through the situation of being betrayed by my girlfriend." joy,"I received an assignment back, and got an A+ grading." sadness,When my grandfather died. sadness,"When my son was diagnosed as having CEREBRAL PALSY, at age 5. He would have to endure so much labelling, stigma and discrimination, even though his case was relatively mild." shame,"Last Summer I went camping with some C.U students. As I was working then, I had to leave the second night (some of them had joined us the first night). Next morning, 6 o'clock, a female classmate knocked on our door and tried to wake us up. I was not fully conscious and I said something which I should not have. I realized the trouble I had made and wanted to hide. Later I said sorry to her and the matter came to an end." fear,"When I received the higher level exam results, I mistook the grade E in mathematics for a grade F and I was shocked." disgust,"An officer at the Dean of students office had promised me to give me a room the next day, but he failed to keep his promise." joy,"When on holiday in Greece I called my best friend, she told me she passed the examinations and that she had been admitted to the study for speech therapy." fear,"Fear of the loss of a close friend, of feeling the ground slipping from under my feet." guilt,"I had to take care of my little brother. When I met a friend I did not pay attention to him for a certain time and he was hurt while he was playing." shame,"Was accused of having hidden intentions in a situation when I believed I was acting honestly and fairly." anger,Being insulted by my roommate. shame,"When I was small, I would always fight with my younger sister and one time I hit her and knocked the wind out of her. I felt real bad about it." anger,"My lovely girlfriend double-crossed me and so that I found her chatting with another guy." anger,"I heard friends grumbling at me in an adjoining room, although they had behaved in a friendly way when I was present." guilt,"I beat my young sister because she refused to wash plates. She started crying and I felt sorry and guilty for what I did." anger,[ No response.] guilt,"Adolescent guilt growing up feeling ""bad, immoral"" sexual desires, some 10yrs ago." guilt,"When I was young - 14, I pinched from a store and was caught. The store then contacted my parents." anger,"Physical violence. A friend wouldn't listen to me I repeatedly tried to warn him, to no avail. Result: eight people were ""pissed off""." fear,"At school, I had acted against the will of the group, and the next day they promised to take revenge on me." sadness,"The girl I was seeing didn't want to have a serious relationship. " disgust,"A friend of mine was telling jokes which I felt to be very disgusting, especially because I was eating." disgust,"Foreign students playing loud music in the night before the biology examn." anger,"One day I had an appointment with my boyfriend which I had objected to in the begining, however he visited me and convinced me to come. The day of the appointment; I had to wait for him for over an hour." anger,"Without my permission, my son had made popcorn after coming back from school. The consequences were a spoilt kettle and chaos in the kitchen but what could have happened with the hot grease ?" fear,"When I missed crashing, by a hair's breadth, into a man who came out 20 metres ahead of me when I was driving at 110km/h." anger,"At school teacher for not allowing us to go out on New Year's Eve when on a class trip overseas." shame,"Yesterday while playing volley ball, there was one person extra and somebody had to out. A mess worker and I were the last ones to arrive and we had arrived at the same time. Rightfully one of us had to opt out of the game, as I was delaying leaving the mess worker opted out saying that I should play. I felt ashamed of myself." disgust,When a girl that I liked didn't accept my curting. sadness,My mother's death. joy,When I got a good grade for an exam in statistics. joy,"When I was making music together with my friend. It sounded very good and we were very satisfied." disgust,"As a child, when I saw an ""unesthetic"" sight." anger,Exchange of points of view with my sister on a family matter. guilt,When I was reproved eighth grade of high school. guilt,Could not buy a reference book because I got up too late to cue. shame,I thought I had taken a decision but I hesitated. joy,"The period when I was pregnant and when I gave birth to my son. I can say those were the happiest months in my life." guilt,"I was with a girl one night and then did not call her again, although she had asked me to do so." disgust,"I went to a restaurant with my boyfriend for dinner. There we saw a couple. the man of the couple was a negro and he hadn't manners for eat." sadness,Not getting a job. guilt,"My father got a slight heart attack after a telephone call of mine." fear,"I was hitchhiking and was picked up by a stranger he drove into the woods and wanted to make love with me, I refused and escaped from the car. When walking in the wood and hearing the car I was afraid." joy,When I made the acquaintance of a certain person. joy,"When I achieved my first 6 at University after a long string of 3's, 4's and 5's (7 is the highest mark awarded, 3 is a conceded pass)." sadness,When my brother's visa for the U.S.A got cancelled. shame,"I had called a boy who had dated me, and told him that I was ill, while, actually, I didn't want to go out with him, later on, he asked me if I was feeling better, then I felt ashamed." fear,"A Maori language oral test, yeaterday - Although I had studied intensely - once in the examiners room ""I blew it"" - I was so nervous I couldn't reply easily - It was very important, but I got only blankness." joy,"I felt happy when I learnt that I had qualified for the grade eight." fear,"One evening I stayed at home all alone. As we lived on the ground floor, I was often afraid of burglers." anger,"When, after drinking a glass of water, I found a cockroach walking out of the glass." NB: In Bulgarian schools ""a three"" is the second worst mark." fear,"I was driving my car and it was very misty. It was in the night and I was alone in my car. I felt totally insecure, nervous and overstrained." disgust,"During the week-end at home, my mother fries greasy and unhealthy meat dishes which make me feel sick." fear,"Lost my purse, the money in the purse belonged to my parents." disgust,"In Ward 1A was an epileptic patient who was burnt the whole body and was stinking very much such that the whole ward was affected. Few people could come near him." anger,"Going away for the weekend, leaving my College room open - when I returned several friends had had a party there, leaving the mess." disgust,"I had a discussion with my wife about an over-weight acquaintance of our's, about her eating habits and the scars caused by her pregnancy." joy,[ I can not recall one.] disgust,"When I saw the film ""Memorie of Prison"" I saw a scene of masturbation of a man in the hold of a ship apart form fact that the film wasn't pleasant I had a leg of coconut candies in my hands." disgust,Saw someone acting in a false manner in public. anger,"I wanted to see a friend, I had been looking forward to it and had certain expectations, but he did not pay any attention to me, played cards with other people." sadness,I was told that a friend of mine was going to Mexico for good. shame,"I felt ashamed when a friend, I had always respected, insulted me in public. He was drunk." sadness,"I was alone in my parents' house, having made plans to spend the afternoon with a lover (plans which the lover cancelled), watching a movie and considering my life and circumstances - pressures of examinations in particular." guilt,"A sense of guilt before my parents when I had to discountinue my studies in the first year because of unpassed exams." guilt,"[ I can not remember anything in particular. What I can remember is feelings of having done or said something which then had negative consequences.]" disgust,"I had been forced to get together with strange and disgusting classmates. The things they talked about disgusted me and made me feel ill at ease. I knew that I would feel unhappy if I stayed there but I was defeated by the social norms." fear,"When I did not get admission in M.Sc after my B.Sc, I felt really bad. When I started my journey to Bombay, after having accepted my uncle's offer to come to Bombay, I was afraid, wondering if I would succeed or not. " guilt,"When I was a little girl about eight years old I broke the bey from a closed. Mother asked who did it. I said that it wasn't me, as I almost never lied, and my brother did it more frequently in spite my brother denieing it my mother gave him a few slaps." sadness,[ No response.] sadness,"When I realized that I did not have the basic things needed by a student like me." joy,When in an economic crisis I got an unexpected sum of money. anger,"I get angry with my brothers and sisters when they do something that I do not like. They know this and still do it so as to tease me." anger,"A girl whom I trusted and with whom I had shared personal, confidential matters twisted the facts and told it to a common friend of ours. When this common friend told me the version my friend had told her, I was angry." fear,Fighting with class mates in Highschool. disgust,"I don't remember about a situation when I have experienced this feeling. Maybe it was when I saw a drunkard in the street." disgust,When someone makes advances that one does not want. anger,"I visited a special education school. The headmaster applied a policy of strict positive - negative reinforcement to the children involved. Children who measured up to his standards were made a fuss of - children who didn't were ignored." disgust,"My husband falls ill and does not follow the doctor's advice on the treatment or the diet control." shame,Being caught in changing the truth (lying). anger,"I was once this week angry when soemone trying to compress my mind due to his nonsense speech which himself could not tolerate at all." guilt,"When I was parking my car I was not cautious and bumped into another car. I caused considerable damage. The driver of the other car was very angry and I let him insult me because I felt guilty." sadness,"Discovering that Lillehammer provided no musical environment that suits my taste, even though I had been told so." joy,"When, after a long time of searching I got my first job." sadness,"My guinea-pig had been ill for a couple of days. One evening, when I came home I enquired as to how it was doing. My mother's expression told me that it had died. My knees refused to support me and I began to weep convulsively." disgust,"When one learns through the mass media all the wars and killing going on in the world." joy,"I took a math midterm and I knew I did really well and it was Friday so I felt great joy because the week was over and I did well on a test." guilt,Telling friends about your nickname. anger,"When we rearranged furniture in our flat and got stuck in a chair." fear,When I come home late at night. sadness,"It was on 9th January 1983 when I received a message from home telling me that my father passed away on the previous day with a history of cancer of the oesophagus. This time I was doing my third year of my Secondary School." disgust,When my parents insisted that I take up a teaching career. sadness,"The death of a relative, friend, or someone I esteem." shame,"Because I was lazy and unthoughtful I did not get into contact with a very close friend when she shifted from the Gold Coast to Brisbane, for a month, despite her efforts to contact me. I felt shamed when I finally confronted her again." joy,"When I won a position on the track-team for the trans-tasman games when I was eleven." shame,"I was swimming in the sea and a wave took the top part of my bikini away." joy,Article published. disgust,"Yesterday, I was just about to cross the road when a country guy who was ahead of me spat out a mouthful of betel juice on the road. It was very windy and had I not checked my speed I would have had a very good shower of his saliva. Though I was not angry, I felt that these people were very indecent." anger,When a little brother of mine damaged a cassette. anger,"When I was accused by my brother of having stolen a 5 kwatcha note from my mother's bag. I was beaten up for this, the money was found later." disgust,"When I saw a T.V programme on animals in the film world (mistreated and used)." fear,"Going home alone through the forest after a girl guide (scout ?) meeting." joy,"I had a summer job in Sweden, and my boyfriend came to meet me on my birthday." joy,[ I am joyfull to be alive every night.] fear,When I was nearly beaten up by the brother of my girlfriend. disgust,"I went to a party and there were some cakes which weren't good and had a bad smell." anger,"I worked with several classmates on a project. I was very anxious about the project while my partners showed no concern and when we had meetings on the project my classmates did not pay any attention. Some of them read books while the others argued on irrelevant questions. The meeting would go on for two hours without the main theme being discussed. We wasted time and could not reach a compromise. My classmates avoided doing the work and the responsibilities, they seemed to value other projects more than this one." disgust,"When an uncle of mine who is very ill started to cough wich sounded very dirty. (He can't help it of course)." sadness,"I was in love with a girl but had to separate from her because of different commitments concerning life and career. I loved her as a person but could not agree with the life the future would demand. Parting from her was very sad." anger,I was angry this morning when I missed the train to university. guilt,"One saturday night I did some meaningless work and went to bed very late. Next morning I had was very sleepy so I continued sleeping even though I had work to do and I missed the Sunday service." fear,"I feel afraid of the way a great friend looks at me, and also a little afraid of the directions that it's going." sadness,"When my family heard that my Mother's cousin who lives in England wrote us to tell that he had cancer of the lymph glands." sadness,"A friend told me that he had suffered in love and in academics. I shared his sadness." disgust,"I felt disgust with a person whose behaviour was out of the elementary human norms." sadness,When someone in my family died. sadness,When I was not chosen to go to your English lectures. sadness,"Leaving home to move closer to University. As an oldest child, this experience was traumatic for both my parents and myself." disgust,"During a recent meeting, Mr. A showed his excitement and overindulged in the notes delivered. Though his curiosity could not be blamed, his way of accquiring knowledge was an extreme behaviour e.g he always tried to know what I was reading and gained everything he could." fear,"Before a hospital visit prior to a D&C under anasthesia for an expected miscarriage." sadness,"My child, unexpectedly started acting in a restless and disturbing way at school. In addition his performance at school weakened." joy,When I realized that I loved someone of the opposite sex. joy,Going to a concert. anger,"When I read about Reagan's tactical decision concerning the South African boycott." anger,"We were at school, in the room for audiovisual classes. We were watching a film, and just behind me two classmates were bothering me with their mocking and shoves. I reacted angrily (I suppose) by hitting one of them." disgust,"When I found a maggot in my food at the dinning hall, all the food had gone bad." joy,"When I received a positive answer from my appeal to withdraw my registration at UNZA." joy,While dancing in a restaurant last week. anger,"When our religion teacher presented shocking sectarian thoughts and doom's day as official teaching." sadness,"When I went to see the dead body of my uncle. This was a very dramatic expreience as it was the first time that I entered a mortuary." anger,"When I was misleaded by a person who assured that something would not occur, that I had no reason to prepccupy myself, and suddenly I saw myself implicated by the fact, because of the incompetence, and irresponsibility of that person." sadness,"Last night I did not do very well in one of the subjects. Before the result was announced I feared that I would fail. Finally I got a D and as the results of the other subjects were not all good I felt a little sad." disgust,"In a public swimming hall I saw a very aggressive man who practically attacked the children who got in his way when he was swimming." fear,Getting back my Psych 140 midterm. sadness,"For not having succeded in getting the job as a translator that I wanted." joy,The begining of my relations with my current girlfriend. disgust,[ No response.] fear,"We were driving on a very dusty road at night and the driver tried to overtake a very big truck only to find another big truck parked right in front." sadness,"When one of my best friends commited siucide during these holidays." sadness,It happened that I was alone - with no contacts with friends. shame,Not doing well in the examn. disgust,"When I was working as a nurse in a mental hospital, a patient ate up the contents of another patient's spitoon." disgust,"I was in a train when a woman started talking loudly and attracting everybody's attention. The worst thing was that she was discussing something, about which she knew nothing, with another person." joy,When I knew the feelings of a beloved person. joy,"After having considered it for hours I was able to overcome my scruples and to call a friend with whom I had fallen in love. I realized that my decision was right - and was very glad." fear,"I went home all alone from a restaurant. It was dark, I went very fast. Behind me, there were some drunk men who shouted at me. By chance, I met some friends who accompanied me." sadness,[ No response.] disgust,"In my village there was this tax collector who used to cheat people and collected more than was wanted, the surplus was for his family and himself." shame,"I criticised an action of my mother and for the first time she genuinely took notice of it. I felt shame that I was almost taking the part of a husband, or at least an equal which I should not." sadness,Death in the close family. anger,"My parents did not approve my choice of a boyfriend (now an ex-boyfriend). He happened to be 13 years older than me and he was considered completely unsuitable for me. IDIOT." guilt,NO RESPONSE. sadness,My grandmother died. shame,Being unable to stop urinating on the bus. shame,"Since I've been here I haven't written to any of my relatives. I got a letter from my mom telling me how upset my grandparents are from not hearing from me." guilt,"Not beeing able to stay with my mother for the National Day holiday." sadness,"My sweatheart were away on a trip, and then she got problems." guilt,"I slammed my little brother into a wall because he was bothering me." shame,"Whenever I am late, I feel ashamed of myself even though no one tells me anything." fear,"Once I spent a night with a friend at the secondary school. We told each other horror stories and suddenly we heard uncanny noises. I was terribly frightened." fear,"After having watched a crime show on the TV, I was about to take the dog for a walk. Then, suddenly, there was a man on the porch... (We live some distance away from other people)." shame,"I always feel ashamed when I do not succeed in accomplishing something in which I had put in all my efforts." guilt,"Once I worked as a designer. A fitter was hard hit in a damage that occurred at the building site I had designed." joy,Getting a part-time job. joy,"When I came again in contact with a girl I liked very much. And most important she also liked me." sadness,"When my cousin passed away unexpectedly and tragically (a murder)." guilt,"My mother always evokes feelings of guilt in me. For instance when I miss the last bus I know she will be concerned for me and stay awake till I arrive." disgust,Saw a man dressed as a woman. disgust,Saw my father with that woman he is married to now. joy,When I learnt that I was selected for form I. guilt,"I was said to be responsible for my mother getting ill and growing thin. I did not realize that it really was my fault until several weeks later." disgust,"In a sexual experience with an unknown woman where after the sexual act I only could go away without looking backwards." shame,"I greeted and embraced the wrong person thinking that it was my friend." disgust,"An acquaintance of mine revealed himself in a light unexpected to me." guilt,"Some students have been calling lecturers nicknames and I was not able to find out who they were to stop them." shame,I felt this feeling during the exam in higher mathematics. guilt,Not handing in homeworks in time. sadness,I was very sad when I heard that my Auntie had passed away. sadness,"When I left New York, and all my family and my friends behind me." disgust,"When we complained about the uncleanliness of the work place, the authorities agreed to have the place cleaned. Even after 2-3 days nothing had been done. I felt disgusted at the whole situation." shame,"I insulted a couple of good friends of mine and even tried to hit them when I was drunk. The next day, I was ashamed of course." sadness,"This happened when one of my uncles died just whan I was planning to go and visit him during the next holidays." fear,"One evening when my sisters, brothers and I were watching T.V my kid brother took a big mirror and reflected light on the french windows. I thought that these lights that we could see were coming from torches annd that it meant that there were thieves outside." fear,"Attempted rape by 5 guys - held my arms behind my back and molested me, constantly threatening to beat me. Penetration did not occur as the driver of the car stopped that." sadness,"At the death of my husband's father's mother which occurred during university examinations and therefore I was unable to attend her funeral." shame,Swearing in public. shame,"I told a friend that I was going to a party and he would not enjoy himself if he came along. He understood that he would not have fitted in and there was something in that." anger,"One of my friends kept criticizing me about everything I did. I thought she was kidding, but later I found out that she was serious." shame,When I had my first sexual relation and it didn't work. anger,"[ When some difference of opinion occurs in a silly situation.] " shame,"When I let my girlfriend use my essay to help her to write hers and the tutor found them alike." guilt,When I got very drunk and really misbehaved at Christmas. sadness,"When I had to move away from home to study, and I knew that I would not be coming back home for a long time." joy,"When a cousin of mine was discharged from the hospital after a long illness. I had thought that this illness would never end." guilt,Did not do what I promised to do for a friend. disgust,"The first time that I saw a surgeon cut off a leg and put it in a black rubbish bag." joy,"Eating biscuits and drinking Milo (Chocolate energy drink made with milk and usually drunk warm) with my friend at College. We get on really well, don't withold any feelings about each other's friends and are pretty good at cheering each other up when we are homesick." anger,"A relative of mine had come to see my husband to talk to him about a problem concerning his sister and me. I was angry because this relative of mine did not dare to speak to me and instead spoke to my husband. I got to know about it later the same day." joy,When planning to marry. guilt,"By fun I had a tussle with my sister. Suddenly I obviously hurt her unintentionally - and she ran out of the room, crying." guilt,[ No response.] anger,"It was when my friend had stolen my money (K10) and had disappeared." anger,"I was angry when I watched a ski-race. All the Austrian skiers dropped out." joy,"I felt a great joy when I knew that my father was going to sell the apartment from GUARUSA, because in some way we were helded by it, that means that we didn't go to any other place, because we had the apartment." anger,"In September 1984, I was forced to live with someone I did not like. The first week we were at loggerheads and our conversation was like a debate. The atmosphere was very bad. When he learnt that I had got 95 marks in a test he told me "" A failure, You lost 5 marks."" I was very angry, not because my marks were lower than his, but because I could not tolerate his pride. I did not show my discontentment and carried on doing my work." anger,Receiving personal criticisms early in the morning. disgust,The price I was charged for work on my car. anger,"I had worked long and hard on a project when a friend inadvertantly destroyed it. I could not forgive him for a long time. And at times still get angry at him." sadness,"There is a boy who I love very much. I asked him to have dinner with me, but he refused I don't know why he didn't go with me, but I felt very lonely." disgust,"Some people whom I do not like at all, and one of the reasons is their physical appearance." joy,When I first came to the campus. anger,"Some boys deliberately played tricks on me in the experiments. guilt,When one has neglected or been unjust to a good friend. fear,"Sometime back I used to stay with my mum alone then time came when dad joined the family from his working place I found myself having fear for him for no cause at all." fear,"I went home late one evening and saw that the security lights were off. I got inside the gate and just then I realized that the dogs may be outside." fear,"Birds had made nests in our thatched roof and they were flying and flapping their wings in the bedroom at night. It was very dark and I could not even see my nose. I did not know that it was the birds till my mother told me so." fear,"I was escorting a relative on a bike, we passed by a dark road with bushas on each side. Half way down this road, suddenly, we saw a white dog appear from one side. Before we could do anything, it had vanished and moreover it did not seem to have any legs." fear,"One of my fellow students had bunked field work and in my attempt to cover up for him I myself was exposed, though not directly. We were to meet our field work suprevisor and we were afraid of the consequences." joy,"After my final examination at school I was glad that the examination was over and that I had passed it." joy,When I met my girlfriend - I had not counted on that. sadness,After receiving the grade on the paper mentioned in FEAR. guilt,"At secondary school, one of my classmates lost her locker key. During a class I saw two other classmates holding a key and talking secretly. I do not know why I suspected them, also another classmate supported me. He remembers that these people had only one key in the key-ring, this had seemed strange to him. Besides another classmate said that he had seen them selling books at a book-shop and they should not have had such books. I told the teacher and the person was caught. He had sold the books and was forced to quit school. I found that I had not helped him as he stole later on also. I felt guilty" guilt,"I came across a blind man sitting in one of the corridors and asking for money, though I had some money I did not give him anything." fear,Heard some ghost-like noise at night. sadness,The death of my grandfather. anger,"The housing council asked the city to cut 40 linden trees so that the inhabitants of the lower floors would have a view to the sea." shame,"My father was very angry with another man in the presence of my friends." disgust,"Some friends and I were having lunch. Someone said something funny and one of the guys started laughing and spat his food in a girl's face." anger,"When my neighbours accused my brother of stealing their rose-bush, I was very angry as he had not touched it at all." fear,"I was in Sierra Nevada, climbing a peak over 3,000 metres high, without any light and with many other problems. I was afraid for my life." joy,"I learnt from the newspaper that I had been accepted at the Chinese university of H.K. It was 7 o'clock in the morning. Later I told my family and relatives about it and had tea with them very joyfully." fear,"After mischieviously ringing on the chemist's trade-entrance doorbell and getting caught by him." shame,"When the cast general election resulted in Norway getting a conservative government." fear,Waiting for my marks in a difficult subject. sadness,[ No response.] anger,"I felt angry when repeated pleas to the ticket collector and the co-passengers in order to make a queue fell on deaf ears. I have this feeling whenever someone is not disciplined and methodic in doing his duty." shame,Cheating to get the best grade on a test in 7th grade. disgust,"A boyfriend with whom I split up with came over to a friend's house where I was visiting with a male friend. In a confrontation in another room he tried to find out if I was aroused by my friend by feeling my parts." anger,"Anger at doctors for their treatment of me after giving birth. They left part of placenta behind and I bled heavily for twelve weeks - due to this, I felt weak and emotional, and they said I needed psychiatric treatment and give me no support." anger,"Last week a friend of mine called on me and said I was moody and difficult to persuade. With this I got angry with her." shame,"When I was an evening school teacher it was my job to make the coffee but I was not able to get the coffee ready on time and I thus arrived half an hour late to the class. On top of this the coffee was undrinkable." joy,"I had met someone and we became good friends. Our relationship grew closer and now he is my boyfriend. I felt joy when I found out how he felt about me." sadness,"When my grandfather died, with whom I had a very close relationship." " joy,"Last course, when I passed with good marks three subjects which I had previously failed." fear,Before giving a seminar to a rather large audience. fear,"My grandfather had lung-cancer and was being nursed at home. I felt fear when I was alone with him and he almost choked on mucus secretions." joy,"When the Cambridge results came out and I obtained a first division. I had been thinking that I had not done very well." fear,"When I walked to church with my roommate, a bum told us to call the police and he started following us." disgust,"I and my friends got acquainted with a guy from Sofia who turned out to be gay, but we found that out only after 2 or 3 days." guilt,I hapened to overhear something which I was not meant to hear. joy,"When I heard that I had passed my final examination at school (with success)." sadness,When my father passed away. disgust,I caught a glimpse of a black-beetle. joy,"When I learnt that I could do further studies at the Chinese university." sadness,"One night a very dear person said: ""I hate you"". Of course it was an impulse and this person didn't feel that about me. The person expressed regret, and everything was settled, but I can't forget." guilt,Once I promised to do something but I didn't do it. anger,"In a tram, the ticket seller was commanding, taking the role of a leader, trying to emphasize her non-existent authority with undue strictness towards a good-humoured drunk who could not find his ticket at once." fear,Fear of doing well on a midterm. anger,"A friend of mine ridiculed me, telling me that I would never accomplish anything. I felt that he had interfered with my life." anger,"(1) My father died. (2) My natural father contacted me a year after my father died and this angered me more as I thought he should be dead and not my father." disgust,"I was disgusted with a friend's behaviour when she got absolutely drunk so that she vomitted all over my house." anger,"I helped my little sister (13 years) learning mathematics. Obviously she did not want to understand what I explained and started to cry. I grew angry." shame,Falling over. shame,"After a party in which I made love with a boy in public. Later on I heard that others were talking about me and called me a slut." anger,"I was furious when the teacher pointed out in class that I was the quietest girl in class." sadness,"When my boyfriend wanted to leave me, I felt sad and melancholic." guilt,When a friend of mine was beaten for what was my fault. disgust,"I was travelling in a local train when a drunkard, smelling terribly, entered the same carriage and started eating fish that was stinking." anger,When the bus driver failed to stop and pick me up at a bus stop. anger,"When I played in a chess championship, I was disturbed by other people. I asked them to be quiet, but in vain." guilt,"I've had three midterms in the past two weeks and I hardly studied for any of them (like 1 or 2 days) I feel guilty that I hadn't studied and I got C's on all of them." joy,"After one year of searching, my friend and I have found a flat we are able to pay for." sadness,"A good friend quitted me after he had behaved in a strange manner." joy,"When I passed my Primary school leaving certificate and selected to go to a Boarding secondary school." disgust,"It was when my father beat my mother while she was ill for three weeks and now she was recovering." joy,"When, for example, I was in my eleventh school year and I learned I had been classed for the Bulgarian Language and Literature National Olympiad." anger,"When people without my permission pry in my belongings and take things out of it." sadness,"Years ago I fell in love for the first time. as natural for every school-girl I was day-dreaming. Later (after 3 years) we left each other. No one was to blame but I felt deep sadness. Even now I remember about it quite often." fear,"When burglars with guns forced themselves into my house and ordered me to give them money or face death." disgust,When the Americans set their nucleaar missiles in Europe. shame,"When I was ten years old a classmate laughed at me because I had told him that my father had retired." fear,"When I was going to bring back my girlfriend to LA to meet my parents." sadness,"I had cared for a horse for 2 years. One day it was sold and I cried for several days because I was so sad." guilt,A boy who shot dead a squirrel. disgust,"When someone I had had a relationship (purely sexual) with came up to me after I had used her and acted as if nothing had changed." joy,My class winning against another class in a football match. sadness,"In May 18th, 1984 my boyfriend went to the U.S.A. In December I was told he passed away. He had cancer of the Oesophagus." anger,"Attitude to some manners of dealing and some ""sanctioned"" relations." disgust,"I saw a drunk man tottering behind his wife and insulting her awfully." fear,"Few days ago I really experienced fear. It was connected with unexpected actions on the part of a group of people. This evoked in me many negative emotions." disgust,"I saw a film about the nazi concentration camps during the war. After the film I felt disgust." joy,"I was in hospital, and then was visited by someone quite unexpected." shame,When I got very low marks in one of the assignments. disgust,"A man sexually aggressed a small girl in the bus but the girl did not dare to speak out." disgust,"When my friend got very low marks in field work even though he had worked throughout the year, I had this feeling." guilt,"Criticizing my mother when she refused to drive with the radio on. I told her that I thought she wasn't intelligent enough to cope with the radio." disgust,"A sister broke a cup and when mother asked I was reported to have been responsible." fear,"Passing (by car) over a bridge where only one car could pass. There was a precipice on both sides, no protection grilles, and the bridge was completely muddled." anger,"I was with my girlfriend when some guys that I don't like made fuss at my girl." fear,"Once I was very frightened at night as I had a very fearful and terrifying dream, I could not go back to sleep for a long time." guilt,"One day I was chatting with children at home. Then I took a lump of soap and gave to one of them pretending that it was a sweet. I thought the child would realise that it was not. Unfortunately he did not and he put it in his mouth." fear,"When I was 8 years old, I would usually come home from school with my mother in a car. For the first time I had to take the school bus, and I mistook the bus stop and found myself two kilometres away from where I lived. I was very scared, wondering how I would get back home." shame,"I think that the only time I really felt shame was when I was very young and I had to defecate on the street. I was very worried in case someone should see me." disgust,[ No response.] sadness,"Being sexually assulted and told my friends about it (we cried together)." disgust,"When I was a child, I was sometimes forced to eat things that disgusted me." sadness,When my grandfather died. fear,"I was not prepared for the exam but I wanted to sleep the night before the exam." fear,"Alone in the house (late 8pm) I heard noises. Sounded like someone was trying to get in our back door." fear,When I forgot the lines of the play during an orientation camp. anger,"Boyfriend ""chatting up"" another girl." anger,[ After an examine I had been satisfied with.] sadness,"When my grandmother died; I had a stronger relation to her than to my mother." anger,When one is unjustly accused of something one has not done. guilt,"I was travelling in a bus from school going home for holiday. In the bus unfortunately I stepped on a bag in which there were delicate things." disgust,"When I saw a documentary film about World War II (about Hitler and his adepts)." anger,"We were in a disco and the evening was not at all pleasant. Despite my not knowing why, I was angry with my companion. I let him feel my bad humour as I cannot hide my feelings." joy,When I was in the sauna bath. disgust,Saw someone licking his dining bowl. anger,Once again my parents distroyed a relationship. guilt,"The time I was at secondary school during the holiday I appeared to my father while heavily drunk and I talked nonsense like in some sort of carefree." disgust,"I was disgusted at the behavior of these boys I work with in the scouting program. They showed a lack of interest, unrest, and at times just plain rude behavior." disgust,"Heard someone boasting his fortune telling and I knew he was lying." shame,"When a professor caught me absent-minded and not paying attention to what he was saying." joy,"My girlfriend wrote to me telling me that she was four months pregnant and that I was responsible for the ""damages"". This made me happy as I longed to have a child to call mine." joy,I won a sport contest. anger,"When I was faced with writing an essay and I didn't want to do it I was angry that I had to write an essay and angry at myself for not having the time to write a good essay." anger,"When a friend and me played a joke on our boyfriends. Her boyfriend came up and accused me of having planned the whole thing and said that I did not deserve my boyfriend. He embarassed me in front of a crowd." guilt,"When I was afraid to tell my sports teacher at secondary school that I had not participated in the sports activities the previous day." disgust,"I felt some disgust for my boyfriend for a time, after he had left me." shame,"After a party I spent the night with a friend. We both were drunk, the morning was disillusioning. A friend was me leaving the room and I felt shabby and immoral." shame,"I kicked the dog outside on a cold night because he was annoying me. The next day he came down with the flu and we thought he was going to die." anger,"A classmate told me I must have bribed the class leader to let me go to your English lecture." guilt,"My mother wants to talk very often about her life. I dislike this because she always talks negatively about the same people whatever I do it doesn't help." fear,"I was in the Korean War. We were attacked with mortars, me and companion. We stopped the jeep and ran for cover. Fortunately neither of us was hit but we both came close to being killed." fear,I was scared in the dark when I was a little boy. shame,None. joy,"I felt joy when I heard my name being called on the radio as one of the students who had passed the interview of Nursing and was selected to start Nursing." sadness,"When I found out that I had failed to pass my exams during the term by one point. The fact that exactly the same thing had happened last term did not help." sadness,"After a disagreement between my parents, when I was alone with my father and my sister, the aggression continued, when my father tried to put me and my sister against my mother revealing facts that had happened in the past like a talk between my father and his mother in law where she told him that my mother was not quite save." guilt,"One day I shouted at my brother who didn't do any wrong to me only that I had a disappointment from a friend and projected it on to him. He cried and I felt guilty after sometime." fear,"Before one of my final exams of the third year - natural sciences." disgust,"A drunk man bumped into me and wanted to grip me. Fortunately I was able to break loose." shame,"Had a very good friend. We grew apart I found myself running her down to other friends."