University Students love the pros and cons of What are the advantages outweigh the disadvantages of university students fall in love, or do more harm than good? Please give reasons for some of the more accurate and examples Asked by: no yin - a probationary period is very sensitive to this problem, at the University of Love are very common, but really want to study and better deal with love is true correct charge their brains, but it is not no way that our origin is a poor monitor of the boys, but he was very hard, very good study, well off his girlfriend,冒油well, but she is a monitor to watch us, they mutual encouragement, mutual encouragement, academic class are the top two, but never wavered from, so I mean two people love a certain mentality to be correct, even if you are correct their attitude, the other half of you will were infected by you, so do not worry you will delay the talk of the love study, the key is you have to play a leading role, you put the other half of the study to get this road, you can not be love marriage red-headed, after all, just at the University of the future can not look into, not to delay his others have held up. I hope you happy! ! Love as one of basic human emotion, is an old and often new topic, but also college students dormitory, "lying on" the popular content. A large number of facts have proven that most college students心醉love and fascinated, but also the largest University Students, "the source of trouble." University Students at the school during the period and how to correctly deal with love, how to deal with love and life right, the cause of the relationship, which is the growth and progress of students as well as the future well-being of families, are of critical importance. First, put the location of love - love is precious, the cause of higher prices. Love the shiny words, the past has opened the hearts of many young men and women and write a lot of beautiful and moving chapter. Butterfly Lovers, Romeo and Juliet, Jenny Marx and so on with one beautiful love story, by the world famous. Reflects the people's happiness, success and love of the noble desire, the pursuit of holy love. There is no doubt that love is the life of human society, an important and indispensable part of life at an important position to occupy.情窦初开love for the young college students, it was a life of "poetry and the sun." University Students love to talk about the pros and cons "Which young men do not love, which does not Huaichun young girl." When the youth of the University Students Ling necessarily full of love and romantic fantasy and longing. With the people's social attitudes and changes in the way of life and love has infiltrated into question the University Students study, live, life attitudes, ideals, and so on. Sophisticated features of adolescence and sexual awakening of consciousness, caused by a subtle psychological change in college students, mainly at the University of the 18-23 year-olds together in a small society, college students love from the past situation still holds true half-face into an open shed at love in the walk back and forth, and to become a reality on campus of the problem. University Students挤过after a single-plank bridge, studying to alleviate stress, and many after-school leisure time, and are faced with new, rich and varied campus life. In short, after the fresh and out of curiosity, will be a long haunting emotional home, in addition to most of China's university students are only children, the relative weakening of the ability to live independently, the collective experience of life less difficult to learn and adapt to the dual pressures of life, once the purpose of study is not clear, there will inevitably be empty, boring, look at the surrounding high-grade classmate to the double right,花前月下, love on its unique allure to attract these students emptiness. University Students are more advantages than disadvantages in love, or do more harm than good, has always been a benevolent see benevolence, the wise see Moses. Benefit those who hold that opinion, college students love, life can be of mutual concern and love for each other; the spirit of mutual promotion and mutual comfort, to lift feelings of homesickness; studies on mutual encouragement, co-promote the enhancement of both self-motivated. From a sociological perspective, college students fall in love not be detrimental rather than beneficial to allow students at the school of love, society can be avoided on high-level increase in unmarried young women older; from a medical point of view, in-school love of the female students, once into the society, is on at the age of physiological maturity are women, get married and have children of individuals, society as well. Hold a negative opinion of those who think college students at the school during the fall in love, a world too early to enter the two, energy is too scattered and not conducive to the cultivation of self-motivated, will seriously affect their studies; at two university students love the course of many contradictions , frustration, and often difficult to accurately grasp the moderate. Although college students have been physically mature, but on the psychological development of the unbalanced nature of existence, more mood swings, easily swayed by emotions, and once the romance, if it is not reasonable to ease the mood, the consequences would be unthinkable; three are college students in love, interpersonal strong point to the often alienating the original partners, and even from the mass, resulting in the alienation between students and the impact of solidarity, the collective sense of responsibility has been replaced by adultery is detrimental to the individual role models and growth is not conducive to the development of the collective; employment also has been the trend of college students love to haunt the sensitive issues, although in words that "only about once owned, do not care about ever" and one of the West劳燕分飞East, a blessing for a graduation "Bye-Bye", will be closed! In summary, we believe that love is still college students more harm than good. Some psychologists abroad proved by the determination of 20-24-year-old person's life are the best age to learn, and our country as well as college students at the school a few years after graduation, is a person of the golden age of intellectual development, but also for the future cause the key to laying the foundation of time, three or four years of university life is short and precious, young students do not spend the time at卿卿我我gold, and it should become determined to work hard, stay married, the End of the World where no-fang grass. University Students love the advantages and disadvantages of opinion Category: Emotion Opinion of the pros and cons of college students love square: Hello everyone! First position: University Students love the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, on the following grounds: First of all, as a college student should be able to bear the pressure of love. Second, college students love to arouse a sense of responsibility of individuals. Third, the university itself is a small community here at all reasonable things happen. Therefore, students are more advantages than disadvantages in love. Anti-side: Friends of each other not at all dialectical logic did not find that they made serious mistakes you say that you love college students were able to cope with the pressure and sense of social responsibility cultivate the love you are obviously very ridiculous that I have one set of data so each year University Students The mortality rate was 1.97% and九成are七成suicide and suicide are a result of this situation is much higher than the proportion of society because of the situation on the rate of suicide in this debate I would like to ask each other what can it be said that the Friends of University Students love can withstand the pressure of this re - personal sense of responsibility are not able to cultivate love, however I do not deny that it is only a small portion of boring and mostly come from the entertainment magazine is about a novel you love to enjoy the pleasure of the future of their own people are not clear How can it have a sense of responsibility? Finally, they also admit a small community are put in small difference between it and open society it is not really where the community can happen at all reasonable, but not all reasonable! Square: Friends of the other dialectical know college students do not know how you love should not bear the pressure? How do you know a person in love will not be because of the love and struggle for the future after this fight? University is indeed a small community are put in small difference between it and open society it is not really the reality of society but it is a microcosm of society where you can happen at all reasonable, but not all reasonable, but it is reasonable to love so are greater than profits one side of disadvantages: First of all you have to look at the topic of university students fall in love, in fact, this comparison has been difficult, nor is it like the front of the brothers said the same. Falling in love, in fact everyone to think of it, at the University of us, especially early when the U.S. trust feelings are not very mature. it is kind of true love are the ingredients of it? Say so in love a lot of universities are immature. On our main purpose of the University or study, of course, some schools have now no longer obstacles in love or even marriage, but this does not mean that the advantages outweigh the disadvantages of dating. Two people in love, the first time will certainly want the expense of each other and I do not believe that any two people to do things at all times in line and, if so, that these two individuals certainly can not live together are ; Second, cultivate love for irrigation are necessary, which required two people for the sake of each other would certainly be a part of its decentralization effort; Third, the two people falling in love, certainly relative to most of the students, the and coexistence with the U.S. will reduce the time, there is a lot of opportunity to exercise their skills will be lost. Of course, in reality, love is certainly both advantages and disadvantages, and Lee is probably like that in front of classmates said the same again, there is probably encourage psychological ah, such as implied, but from the whole, generally speaking, well be able to better deal with the relationship between Love or less, why the success rate of University of love so low? For this reason it is possible! To sum up, in my opinion does more harm than good, or love of the University. (But I also encourage everyone, or not to miss the opportunity to experience, some things may be brought back lost here!) Square: In the opinion of our school are in love should be said that during the period are of more harm than good! ! I object to the following reasons: First, we at the university or during the conduct of all activities are the starting point for the support of people from their homes, some people have during the school have access to economic independence on the ability to engage in relationship is necessary to consume a lot of money, that is to say , at school and you sweetheart are the cool of the sweat of their parents set up on an act. Secondly, we can not say that our students respect the body and mind are not yet ripe, but we still have to admit our love at college there is a great part of it is quite at a loss! The purpose of two people together are not just feelings or for a goal, I found inside the campus of the University has such a people is hard to believe and accept the situation, what is it? Look at everyone, in a dormitory where there is more than half of the people falling in love, then the remaining people will soon be in the near future find their own sweetheart, as if in competition, then this kind of love, solid吗? ? Everyone told me not to feel as if the words at an alarmist, but you have to consider carefully the people around you act, you will find this is a truth of existence! ! Third, the University of the love inside a large extent rather than on pure love, are set up on the feelings of the material, are two of the world depend on the cycle of substances, such feelings can not help but worry ah! ! ! Fourth, the two people together, we will lose a certain extent on the enthusiasm to participate in collective activity, is likely to a large extent caused by the Student Class and his strange, the U.S. is not conducive to harmony! ! ! Fifth, if two people with very good results may be caused by two people are in step with social progress, but we have seen most of the lovers seldom have such a case, two people on self-study, in fact, are in the chat, at other things. With a little time, all together, read books at the time of the study there? ? Sixth, we can see that there is such a case, any two people of the situation, we all like to rent an apartment outside, I do not dare say that those who do not have the place, but in terms of safety, given management of our schools caused some difficulties, but also for their personal safety caused by some kind of threat, Zhangjiagang happened some time ago several of the accidents is unsafe as the morning! ! ! Anti-side: I do not agree with one side of a friend's opinion, like in front of my friends who want to make a few questions: 1: "look everyone, in a dormitory where there is more than half of the people falling in love, then the remaining people will soon be in the near future find their own sweetheart, as if in competition, then this kind of love, solid吗?? "I admit in the university campus there is such a phenomenon does exist, but look for a different perspective, why does it only competition? Why do not the people themselves have been looking for this? Two: If the University Students Say Love is set up on the feelings of the material, then a future society that is pure love it love? I think we all know that the society of women to find love on the first look of what? Although it will take a look at that person's non-external conditions, such as character looks like the connotation. However, they are more focused on what is it? The answer is yes - money. If college students are set up at the love on the basis of material non-pure love, then the society is set up on the love of money at even more on the basis of a pure love! Friends of each other according to argue as to say, it is one of the world will be on a lot of many "single people"? ? ? Three: the other side referred to the Friends of University Students debate at the outside of the housing sub-questions, which are always visible, which may be a little security threat, but college students are no longer children, and in 2012 a few months Is access to the community or school dormitory living吗? Friends of the other dialectical Zhangjiagang mentioned several incidents happened. But why not think about U.S.? Society not only on the number of people renting out, and they do not be a threat to safety吗? Even if you are living in their own home, is on the security threats must not it? This is so the University can not be used to prove that love does more harm than good sound. Square: First, I often hear the phrase to describe what the University of Love are:青涩love. Since immature, because they do not much care about reality, so青涩, so Plato. To this point, I think it beautiful, is a US-easy. I love the hearts of people are feeling pure. Ladder of life is not always much more Yu, want to, after all, can not stop the young romantic in those days than anything else, not-for-the daughter of the true pure. Learn to love and learn to bear the failure of experience to meet separately with the various, the growth of people will only become meaningful. Life there is both the first to go when the time and are not beyond our grasp, then calmly go in this process, not to prematurely give it heavy. Love is love, there is no reason, but it is more willing to be alive! Somersault throw many points, and talent will really grow up. Two, love will not affect the study. Love is a kind of power is positive, are shared, are given, are the responsibility of shows are. Please do not put the same desire to love. Three college students need guidance in love. Or whether the advantages outweigh the disadvantages are more harm than good, I would like to say that everything has two aspects. How you look going on, what kind of mentality with you. Finally I want to say is: love it. If you have encountered! Go looking for it, he (she) is waiting to meet with you! Anti-side: 1. U.S. psychology has not yet ripe, you confirm you were able to cope with failure? Moreover, the failure is only failure? After the failure of us should not be a long time out from the shadows, and even some people never get out. Lovelorn people look at the various manifestations of it, does that mean we should not avoid such things happen? 二. Love how could it not affect the study? Of course, if you do not study is another question. You love you want at the normal time before taking the most time with your lover, the time where those come from? Would also like to take a lot of energy thinking of you darling, where those energy come from? Love do not quarrel with the people, at that time what would you feel? You can feel like learning it? 三. Who will guide you? And actively seeks out people who guide? ? Say you completely unrealistic. There has been lost, you triumphantly at immersed in the love of your time to see what their own right lost. You get to see the worth it? Anti-side: the University Students love are beneficial or harmful, in the clear before it understands the meaning of this love. Student at this conversation, to know love in their eyes are washing clothes, shopping, have money to spend time, I think to some extent, this represents the view of contemporary college students love it. Which I do not know life is precious, love it even more! It is clear that in today's love has been misunderstood. Spend money on clothes is not love to spend time shopping, it is the Great Wall孟姜女crying for her husband called her with her shopping吗? Love is an emotion, is the intention to invest, are part of them. More love and duty are paid. Even worse is that all students consider the pros and cons of the key to whether they are useful for dating? To determine whether the advantages and disadvantages of the standard is not useful to others. Love is an emotion. Now that will not be able to suppress the feelings are, are no problem because people love the love so are too many other factors to consider. Similarly, for other purposes, there is the love. Of course, should not I see when love is bread, but bread, when love can not be! Today's society, love is no longer pure and noble, has already degenerated into a tool to find a rich boyfriend who has become a general trend of girls drive by. However, I think, we should then have some people still insist that genuine search for love. Microfilm put these cases to the university, the University Students love in my opinion does more harm than good, because the university is a microcosm of society, from high school to take the greenhouse, but also the purity of the us, how to resist the corrosion of society. Or to our growth, and love to first figure out the relationship between the bread, or bread to get it, This is from the area said. From an early age, and from high school to take us the curiosity of what the same is true love. Students are not falling in love, but talk - love is love and love. There is no denying the existence of love at first sight but there is likely be very small, and the university met a few weeks, however many people will love. (Because I like some of her classmates the situation), this is the trend of the University of falling in love, so both sides want to fall in love, one shot both together for our mutual benefits. This love of learning and life is any good and a waste of money on time, not for the sake of each other are of the view that the existence of the other side are their own. May be, first love who do not agree with my views, but the people around me do not deny that. Of course, there can not be denied the existence of pure love, of course, should not object to, but I think more harm than good. It can be said that the beginning of our university on the psychological age is very small and not ripe idea, there is no ability to deal with the problems brought about by that love. Therefore, should consider carefully before love, want to know love is not a harvest, are paid more, are responsible for. Some time is also a kind of love do not love. If you love, and my sincere love for you and applaud your courage, after all, love more than life, but courage alone will not solve the problem, or to calm down and deal with all kinds of questions right. More harm than good in my opinion because I think many students can not correctly handle the various problems brought about by love, precisely, in my opinion too early to fall in love at the University of the square are more harm than good: When you have the object of love, you will know what you will, different people is not the same as `` Oh If you are a high school student, not to study under the premise of the impact of what could be the anti-side ```````: Our time is limited, you love will affect the interaction with the students, is not it? Zhengfang: First of all, we want to determine the motion of our love are the pros and cons of the relationship between college students, what are college students? ? Is the University Students have their own idea, their own logic, have their own ideas, and a thing of the pros and cons of their relationship has been able to determine accurate. Love at the university so unlike primary and secondary school students as simply curious about the psychological, that love fun We are college students, at universities in love, we can encourage each other, work together to lay a good foundation for our future, you can touch into each other, not only will not delay the study, and can touch us into the study, so we have a better tomorrow Anti-side: Are how to University Students?? Know?? Of course, apart from its own efforts to test a good score also depends on the Who?? Are your family members, parents, their hard work on the University to send you do not want the romantic in you, nor is it I hope you can bring back many a person repay them. Want to spend money you love it? / Spend time? Flower of youth吗? University is an opportunity too good, had not come back. So, why should it, for your family, friends, or do a good job in our first study of the future, not afraid of the people did not enjoy, is not it. Anti-side: University Students at the school is to allow their growth, is falling in love can understand themselves more harm is more to the University is to be a better all come and make it do something that some缘分look of things, not demand. Square: Encountered on the open-minded to love it! Mind as long as you adhere to the ideal, you will have the most beautiful!! Some things will not be able to restore once lost, do not let myself regret it all his life!!!! Anti-side: If this is not the person you can live life and person, it is necessary to you, in terms of the end of the day you have not only his own sad, sad, is not it, yes ah, can not allow ourselves to regret, it is necessary to select a rational, not to regret Zhengfang : Although not come first, but once had, it is better, from a psychological point of view. Our love is necessary in this age of psychology. If you ever loved one, consider the many practical problems and did not fall in love, you do not feel very pity that I regret it the anti-side: Regret? I really want to ask what is the shame! Under oath in an ivory tower are to study hard to forget you regret later on the significance of the University? At the University are not able to find a job after graduation and will be sorry he had too much time to love? Are the eyes of their parents look forward to the next should not be too many regrets? When we should not hesitate to find a lover in order to meet the psychological needs us, we have changed the psychology of their own courtesy not insignificant, we do not know at the blue sky with a struggle under the poverty line have compatriots! Square: Love is an inevitable choice for humanity. A person does not love that is impossible. Like in front of his older brother said, students love the time is the most sincere love. Although college students have a certain degree of blindness in love, but I still love to support college students. Anti-side: We are talking about more good than harm or more harm than good are not college students should not be talking about love, but reliable data based on dating college students are 99% failure rate, most of the psychological quality of students is not yet mature enough, in the face of the failure of the attack, and how many can now take heart that the more a stick up Long time are not correct, so a lot of waste valuable study time! Square: Zhengfang opinion agree: love and University Students in the primary and high school students are different, students must have reached the level of awareness has been considered for the future. If two people are really together, then the two will not deliberately emphasize how to understand the future, say love is not equal to marriage, love itself is a beautiful person worth to pursue, and love for each person to be at the post-treatment methods even though Drive not the same, but this negate the value of university students are one-sided love it! Anti-side: If the square argue that the advantages outweigh the disadvantages of Friends, then schools are not falling in love should be promoted, this is the case, are not detrimental to the school capacity to the school, including the people you came to this school parents are not very surprised!! nice, what with the School Education book!! purely to love education. School is the school you will not!!! are not a bit like a marriage agency you? some great people always use half an hour, wiping a pair of shoes, What "does not shine shoes, love is not the direction of" It can be extremely absurd ah!! time to study many of these good! Zhengfang: The famous French writer Victor Hugo once said that life there is twice-born: the first time at the beginning of life are the day; the second time, it is love at the day of germination. With the pace of youth, love will come quietly to the young people around, with the sexual and psychological maturity, the desire for love and pursuit, it will naturally sprout in the heart of University Students. Time the University is proud of the golden age of a generation. At this time, the youth of the initiative so that they start to get involved in another area - love Court. First Love, is a world of emotional changes, the structure of the revolutionary life, ethical sense of the update. From the perspective of individual development and love of youth psychology has a great sound sophisticated role. First of all, love is a growing youth of the release of an important way to impulse. Through contact with the opposite sex fall in love, so that young people no longer feel nervous of suppression. Secondly, the development of consciousness must be to improve the love stage. The establishment of sexual identity will have to go through love. Moreover, the significance of young love is not the end. Are two people in love because of the deep personal contact. During this process, young people's self-concept by the impact of each other's development, how to really know how to maintain their independence at the premise of self-adjust in order to adapt to each other's shortcomings. In other words, after a love affair. Love to some personality factors and social emotional development has great significance. And the deep love between two young people to improve interpersonal skills, to adapt to the future and lay the foundation for society. No wonder some psychologists believe that the late love of youth and adult are the most important early case, only after a love and talent would be really mature. Anti-side: I agree with the views of square, first of all, college students are falling in love after marriage practice into society, society does not take after the confusion. Secondly, students can enrich the students love the emotional life, it can be said not to fall in love in high school, making up a lot of people are emotionally depressed, she (he) need relief. Third, the University of the curriculum a lot of loose, so most students start at the game lost its self, rather than in consumption, it is better to lay the groundwork for their own marriage. So in my opinion, college students love are more good than harm.