篇一:大学生校园恋爱利弊谈英语作文
As we know that senior middle school is not allowed romance, because our parents and teachers think that study is the most important thing for us. Almost major of them hold the idea that college romance maymakeabad influence to our study. Once we enter the college there are no constraints .We are supposed to balance our study and personal life.
There are different kinds of love on campus. Some students regard love as killing time or adding color; some are pragmatic, thinking it's difficult to find a better partner after graduation; the purpose of others is for seeking the impetus of study.
Anyhow, far away from home and alone, seeking friendship, understanding and love, the boys and girls easily find comfort and appreciation from eachother. As a mater of fact, love is a sharp double-bladed knife. Having it will make you very happy; while losing it, you always feel disappointed and depressed. When the bond of love broken, it’s difficult for someone to get out of the shadow especially for girls .
However,we are young,we have enough time to solve these problems and bear the consequences . The meaning of college romance can’t be ignored.
Firstly,it teaches us how to love, how to communicate and how to take care of others.It can’t be denied that EQ is more important than IQ to some extent. you can learn many qualities from her, you will change your lifestyle and habit gradully when you stay with him .
Then ,it encourages us to study harder because there is someone we can study together. we can talk about the question together and learn some good thoughts from each other . I think we can absorb knowledge more quickly and efficiently by this way .
What’s more, we can leave some unforgettble memories for college,you know how the time flies, four -year is so short that we must eich our experience , we travel at somewhere with our good friends or lover, there are many interesting things happened on the way .
篇二:英语辩论_大学生该不该谈恋爱[1]
1. Constructive speech:
Supporting argument 1:
First of all, there is rare true love existing on campus. According to the year 2005’s Education Blue Book released by China Social Science Academy, about 88.8% of college students regarded campus love was a physical need. It other words, true love on campus is as precious as panda. For many students, either in love or still seeking for love, their main motivation and aim is to avoid boredom and add color to college life. Everyday they go to classes, rush to the dining hall, and drag their feet to dormitories. Then one day they realized how boring and uninteresting their life is and it is necessary to find company. So they start their seeking. When they finally grab someone as their lovers, even themselves don’t know what they truly like is the person or the feeling of falling in love.
Supporting argument 2:
Second, college students are not psychologically mature enough to afford love. Tragic events, such as suicides, murders, violent acts from uequited love are not unfamiliar to people. Though someone may say these kinds of things rarely happen, it is true that tragedies exist. And once any of them happens, sorrow, harm, and bad influence are not only brought to parents or relatives but also the whole school even the whole society. College students are late adolescents, esp. freshmen and sophomores. They are easily get irritated and desperate, sometimes even can’t help to go to the extreme. If something out of expect happened in their romantic relationships, for instance, break-up, they may do something really harmful.
Supporting argument 3:
Last but not least, college students are not able to take the responsibility of love. Love is not a beautiful rose one can enjoy, but also a fragile vase one needs to take care of and be responsible for. Responsibility means much. For example, when sweethearts get hurt, comfort and a reliable shoulder should be provided; when lovers get bad mood, jokes and a smiling face should show up; when companies get involved in troubles, encouragement and helpful advices should be given. But since college students are still not mature enough, sometimes the methods they handle problems are not quite proper and useful. How can they afford the responsibility of taking another person while themselves need to be looked after?
Supporting argument 4
In conclusion, Campus love should not be encouraged because true love is rare, and college students are not psychologically mature or able to hold the responsibility of love. I’ll now quote a famous saying as an example to clarify my stand, “As a member in the transfer crowd, there’s no doubt that we college student should lay emphasis on study, including all-round study of professional knowledge, communication art, self-planning, rational thinking and so forth. While it is right such character that provides young college students with a fundamental standard for life—always work at the useful and vital things, and be a realistic person. These students are not independent in economic, not mature in personality and not perfect mentally yet.”
2. Questions for opponents:
1) Now that you suggest that students should love in college campus, do you have girlfriend or boyfriend?
2) Can lovers still live together after they graduating from college?
3) In your opinion, can most of boys find their princess in HIT?
3. Predicted Questions from opponents
1) Do you have admired some isomerism?
2) Do you feel lonely when you study out of your town?
3) If you are a girl, can you resist of sweet words from so many rich or handsome boys in HIT?
1。建设性的演讲:
支护参数1:
首先,有罕见的真正的爱在校园。根据2005年度教育蓝皮书由中国社会科学院,大约88.8%的大学生认为校园爱情是一个身体的需要。也就是,真正的校园爱情是珍贵的大熊猫。许多学生,无论是在爱情或仍在寻找爱,他们的主要动机和目的是避免厌倦和添加颜色到大学生活。他们每天去上课,冲向食堂和宿舍,拖着脚。后来有一天,他们意识到他们的生活是枯燥和乏味,有必要找到公司。所以他们开始了他们的寻找。当他们终于抓住别人为自己的恋人,即使他们自己不知道他们真正喜欢的是人或恋爱的感觉。
支护参数2:
其次,大学生是不成熟的心理素质提供足够的爱。悲惨的事件,如自杀,谋杀,暴力行为的单恋都不会陌生的人。尽管有人说这种事情很少发生,这真是悲剧。一旦他们的任何事,悲伤,危害和不良影响,不仅把父母或亲戚也是整个学校乃至整个社会。大学生是后期的青少年,特别是新生和二年级学生。他们很容易生气和绝望,有时甚至不能帮助走向极端。如果不希望发生的浪漫关系,例如,分手,他们可以做一些真正有害。
支护参数3:
最后但并非最不重要,大学生是不能够承担爱的责任。爱是美丽的玫瑰,你可以享受,也是一个易碎的花瓶需要照料,负责。责任是指多。例如,当情侣受伤,舒适和可靠的肩膀应该提供;当爱好者得到坏心情,笑话和笑脸应该出现;当公司卷入麻烦,鼓励和有益的建议,应给予。但由于大学生还不够成熟,有时他们处理问题的方法是不适当的和有用的。他们怎么能负担得起的责任,以另一人在自己的需要照顾?
支护参数4
总之,校园爱情不应该鼓励,因为真正的爱是罕见的,和大学生心理上不成熟或能够保持爱的责任。我现在要引用一句说作为一个例子来阐明我的立场,作为一个成员在转让的人群,但毫无疑问,我们大学生应该注重研究,包括全面研究的专业知识,沟通技巧,自我规划,理性思维等等。虽然对这样的角色,提供高校青年学生的基本标准life-always工作的有用和重要的事情,并成为一个现实的人。这些学生没有经济独立,不成熟的人格和精神上还不完善。”
2。问题的对手:
1)既然你认为学生应该在大学校园,你有女朋友或男朋友吗?
2)生活在一起后,他们仍然可以从大学毕业?
3)在您看来,最能找到公主男孩打?
3。预测从对手的问题
1)你有一些异构羡慕?
2)你感到孤独时,你的研究指出你的城市?
3)如果你是一个女孩,你能抵御甜言蜜语很多有钱或英俊的男孩在打吗?
LOVE right?wrong?
In modern times,love is a popular topic,espacially in our fleshmen.But is it right or wrong on earth?
When we get in a university,we can see many loves here and there.Some people say that it is a good thing but others think it is a bad thing.
In my opinion,love is very strange.It can make you more strong and happy if you can deal with it in a suitable way.On the other hand,if you get struct,you many lost a lot.We should see love as a sord with two sides. we must strongth our study ability at first.Then we can think about love.
At last,I hope everone can have a good love .
篇三:英语辩论 恋爱利弊 反方
反方:
前言:
恋爱对大学生的影响
关于恋爱对大学生将产生什么影响,有三种代表性的观点:一是动力论,认为利多弊少,恋爱可以产生动力,促进学习,陶冶情感,丰富精神生活,激发大学生的潜能;二是阻力论,认为弊多利少,大学阶段学习紧张,时间有限,恋爱花费时间,耗费精力,妨碍学习,影响团结,不利于全面发展;三是均衡论,认为利弊均衡。
在现实生活中,恋爱对大学生学习和事业的作用具有两种可能性:一是恋爱关系处理得当,可以成为学习和事业的催化剂,使人学习努力,成绩上升;二是恋爱关系处理不当,可能分散精力,浪费时间,情绪波动,成绩下降。
恋爱对大学生道德影响具有两重性。积极高尚的爱情对道德观念的形成和发展具有显著的催化和促进作用。与此相反,庸俗的爱情使大学生留恋或追求低级趣味,甚至行为越轨。因此,大学生只有树立正确的恋爱观,把爱情融进立志振兴中华的伟大事业中,把爱情建立在为实现崇高理想而共同奋斗的基础上,才能使爱情成为奋发向上的力量。
1.恋爱的形成不过是,周围接触最多的人都年龄相仿,所以价值观都差不多。
Love is just around the formation of contact with most people are almost the same age, and values.
2.需要钱的消费,增加生活压力
To consumption, increasing pressure on 3.花钱从某种意义上讲,是父母在帮你谈恋爱。
Money in some sense
Parents to help you love
4.恋爱后事业的压力,两人渐渐疏远。 5.The cause of love after pressure,Two people gradually alienation .
6.分手对双方都方造成精神伤害
Break up for both parties to the spirit of damage caused by
7.失去一个深爱的人。 Losing a loved one
8.在你的理想恋人未出现时,你要有毅力选择一直单身,而不是找个替代品。
In your ideal lover not arise, you must have the will choose to have a single, rather than looking for a substitute
9.最难忘的还是初恋The most unforgettable is the first love 10.现在许多男生,在谈恋爱时都抱着不适合就分手的想法。