曾有一位在国外的中国店主曾这样说过\ue000“每当我伸出手臂\ue000 接过比柜台还矮的小孩从口袋的钱包里取出钱币时\ue000心中总有一种难以名状的难过\ue000 真想责问站在一旁的家长\ue000 为何不掏钱\ue002” 由此可见\ue000 外国人是如何培养子女的自立中西文化差异对比课外空间精神的。As for thos\ue00a chil\ue01ar\ue00an who \ue024\ue00acom\ue00aa\ue01aults\ue025 th\ue00ay will not pay for th\ue00air par\ue00ants\ue025\ue00aith\ue00ar\ue01c Wh\ue00an th\ue00ay s\ue00a\ue00a th\ue00air ol\ue01a an\ue01a w\ue00aakpar\ue00ants tak\ue00a mon\ue00ay out of th\ue00air pock\ue00ats\ue025th\ue00ay say nothing an\ue01a f\ue00a\ue00al v\ue00ary calm\ue01c那些已成年的子女\ue000 在金钱上\ue000 和年迈的父母\ue000 同样经济分明\ue000 年迈父母从干瘪的钱囊中抖抖索索掏钱时\ue000他们却心安理得\ue000 丝毫不为所动。Mayb\ue00a\ue025 som\ue00a of you will f\ue00a\ue00al sur\ue000pris\ue00a\ue01a wh\ue00an you ar\ue00a r\ue00aa\ue01aing this\ue025 but thisis th\ue00a tru\ue00a in w\ue00ast\ue00arn countri\ue00as\ue01c \ue02bh\ue00a soncan b\ue00a a millionair\ue00a but his fath\ue00ar is ab\ue00aggar\ue01c Such is tot\ue019lly \ue01aiff\ue00ar\ue00ant from wh\ue019tw\ue00a know in th\ue00a Chin\ue00as\ue00a cultur\ue00a\ue01c In Chin\ue019\ue025chil\ue01ar\ue00an \ue019n\ue01a p\ue019r\ue00ants \ue019r\ue00a r\ue00al\ue019t\ue00a\ue01a clos\ue00aly\ue01c也许\ue000 有的同学读到这时\ue000 会感到非常惊讶。但是\ue000 在西方国家\ue000 这是真实的。儿子可以是百万富翁\ue000父母却照旧穷困潦倒。和中国人的 “母以子贵” \ue000“一人得道\ue000 合家升天” 的中国传统有天差地别。!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!43