加班是一种态度?比加班更熬人是的焦虑
ILLUSTRATIONS BY RUOHAN WANG
As we look back on the mania that was 2018, one thing is clear: We can do better! Enter our annual guide to the lessons we learned, based on which Styles stories you read most this year, and see how to put them to use in 2019.
在我们回望2018这一狂躁之年的同时,有一件事很清楚:我们可以做得更好!进入我们每年总结出来的经验教训,看看该如何在2019年学以致用吧!这些都是根据今年最受读者欢迎的风尚版文章总结出来的。
ILLUSTRATIONS BY RUOHAN WANG
1. Do it.去做
A recurring theme each year is that sex is important and we should all try to have it*. In a much-read Modern Love, Karin Jones shares what she learned by having affairs with married men: “What surprised me was that these husbands weren’t looking to have more sex. They were looking to have any sex.”
每年都会反复出现一个主题,那就是性很重要,我们都应该努力有性生活*。在一篇阅读量很高的“摩登情爱“(Modern Love)文章中,卡琳·琼斯(Karin Jones)分享了她与已婚男子偷情所学到的:“让我吃惊的是,这些丈夫并不是想要更多的性生活,他们只是想要有性生活。”
Which isn’t to suggest that if you don’t have sex your partner will cheat, but just to confirm what we all basically know: Sex