Go: package main

import (
	"sort"
	"bufio"
	"os"
	"fmt"
	"strconv"
)

// Define disjoint-set forests

type vertexNo int

type vertex struct {
	number vertexNo
	rank int
	parent *vertex
}

func makeSet(number vertexNo) vertex {
	return vertex {
		number: number,
		rank: 0,
		parent: nil,
	}
}

func union(x, y *vertex) *vertex {
	return link(findSet(x), findSet(y))
}

func link(x, y *vertex) *vertex {
	if x.rank > y.rank {
		y.parent = x
		return x
	} else {
		x.parent = y
		if x.rank == y.rank {
			y.rank += 1
		}
		return y
	}
}

func findSet(v *vertex) *vertex {
	if v.parent == nil {
		return v
	}
	v.parent = findSet(v.parent)
	return v.parent
}

// Function to calculate minimum spanning tree

type matrix [][]int

type edge struct {
	one vertexNo
	two vertexNo
	weight int
}

const(
	MAX_VERTICES = 100
)

func newEdgesFromMatrix(matrix matrix) []edge {
	edges := make([]edge, 0, MAX_VERTICES * MAX_VERTICES)

	for i := 0; i < len(matrix); i++ {
		row := matrix[i]
		for j := i; j < len(row); j++ {
			if row[j] >= 0 {
				edge := edge{one: vertexNo(i+1), two: vertexNo(j+1), weight: row[j]}
				edges = append(edges, edge)
			}
		}
	}

	return edges
}

func solve(matrix matrix) int {
	nVertices := len(matrix)

	// initialize vertices
	vertices := make([]vertex, nVertices)
	for i := 0; i < nVertices; i++ {
		vertices[i] = makeSet(vertexNo(i+1))
	}

	// prepare edges sorted in the ascending order of weight
	edges := newEdgesFromMatrix(matrix)
	sort.Slice(edges, func(i, j int) bool {
		return edges[i].weight < edges[j].weight
	})

	unionCount := 0
	weightSum := 0
	for unionCount < nVertices-1 {
		for i := 0; i < len(edges); i++ {
			edge := edges[i]
			v1 := &vertices[edge.one-1]
			v2 := &vertices[edge.two-1]
			rep1 := findSet(v1)
			rep2 := findSet(v2)
			if rep1.number == rep2.number {
				continue
			}
			union(rep1, rep2)
			edges = append(edges[0:i], edges[i+1:]...)
			weightSum += edge.weight
			unionCount++
			break
		}
	}

	return weightSum
}

// main

func main() {
	sc := bufio.NewScanner(os.Stdin)
	sc.Split(bufio.ScanWords)

	n, err := nextInt(sc)
	if err != nil {
		panic(err)
	}

	matrix := parseMatrix(n, sc)

	edges := newEdgesFromMatrix(matrix)
	sort.Slice(edges, func(i, j int) bool {
		return edges[i].weight < edges[j].weight
	})

	fmt.Println(solve(matrix))
}

func parseMatrix(n int, sc *bufio.Scanner) [][]int {
	matrix := make([][]int, n)
	for i := 0; i < n; i++ {
		matrix[i] = make([]int, n)
		for j := 0; j < n; j++ {
			x, err := nextInt(sc)
			if err != nil {
				panic(err)
			}
			matrix[i][j] = x
		}
	}
	return matrix
}

func nextText(sc *bufio.Scanner) string {
	sc.Scan()
	return sc.Text()
}

func nextInt(sc *bufio.Scanner) (int, error) {
	return strconv.Atoi(nextText(sc))
}

C++: #include <iostream>
#include <vector>
#include <algorithm>
using namespace std;

class UnionFind
{
public:
    UnionFind(int n) : parent(n), rank(n){
        for(int i = 0; i < n; ++i){
            parent[i] = i;
            rank[i] = 0;
        }
    }
    
    int find(int i){
        if(parent[i] == i){
            return i;
        } else {
            return parent[i] = find(parent[i]);
        }
    }
    
    bool same(int i, int j){
        return find(i) == find(j);
    }
    
    void unite(int i, int j){
        i = find(i);
        j = find(j);
        if(i == j) return;
        else if(rank[i] < rank[j]){
            parent[i] = j;
        } else {
            parent[j] = i;
            if(rank[i] == rank[j]) ++rank[i];
        }
    }
    
private:
    vector<int> parent;
    vector<int> rank;
};

struct Edge{
    int u,v,cost;
};

vector<Edge> E;

int main()
{
    int n,cost,ans = 0;
    cin >> n;
    for(int i = 0; i < n; ++i){
        for(int j = 0; j < n; ++j){
            cin >> cost;
            if(cost != -1){
                Edge e;
                e.u = i; e.v = j; e.cost = cost;
                E.push_back(e);
            }
        }
    }
    
    sort(E.begin(), E.end(), [](const Edge& x, const Edge& y){return x.cost < y.cost;});
    
    UnionFind U(n);
    
    for(int i = 0; i < E.size(); ++i){
        if(!U.same(E[i].u, E[i].v)){
            U.unite(E[i].u, E[i].v);
            ans += E[i].cost;
        }
    }
    
    cout << ans << endl;
}

C++: #include <stdio.h>
#include <string.h>
#include <stdlib.h>
#include <iostream>
#include <algorithm>
#define N 110
#define INF 0x3f3f3f3f
using namespace std;
typedef struct {
    int w;
    int s;
    int e;
}Edge;
Edge edge[N*N];
int m[N][N];
int father[N];
int n;
int k = 0;  //edge的下标
int result = 0;
int findfather(int x){
    return x == father[x] ? x : findfather(father[x]);
}
int cmp(Edge a, Edge b){
    return a.w < b.w;
}
void Kruscal(){
    for(int u = 0; u < k; u++){
        int s = edge[u].s;
        int e = edge[u].e;
        if(findfather(s) != findfather(e)){
            father[findfather(e)] = s;
            result += edge[u].w;
        }
    }
    printf("%d\n", result);
}
int main(){

    scanf("%d", &n);
    for(int i = 1; i <= n; i++) father[i] = i;
    for(int i = 1; i <= n; i++){
        for(int j = 1; j <= n; j++){
            int b;
            scanf("%d", &b);
            m[i][j] = b;
        }
    }
    for(int i = 1; i <= n; i++){
        for(int j = i; j <= n ;j++){
            if(m[i][j] != -1) {
                edge[k].w = m[i][j];
                edge[k].s = i;
                edge[k].e = j;
//                father[j] = i;
                k++;
            }
        }
    }
    sort(edge, edge+k, cmp);
    for(int i = 0; i < k; i++){
        printf("%d %d %d\n", edge[i].s, edge[i].e, edge[i].w);
    }
    Kruscal();
    return 0;
}


//int cmp(const void *a, const void *b){
//    Edge c = *((Edge *) a);
//    Edge d = *((Edge *) b);
//    return c.w > d.w;
//}


//qsort(edge, k, sizeof(Edge), cmp);



//
//    for(int i = 0; i < k; i++){
//        printf("%d %d %d\n", edge[i].s, edge[i].e, edge[i].w);
//    }