Go: package main

import (
	"bufio"
	"fmt"
	"os"
	"sort"
	"strconv"
)

var scanner = bufio.NewScanner(os.Stdin)

func nextString() string {
	scanner.Scan()
	return scanner.Text()
}

func nextInt() int {
	n, err := strconv.Atoi(nextString())
	if err != nil {
		fmt.Printf("strconv.Atoi failed: %v\n", err)
	}
	return n
}

type ElementKey int
type Node struct {
	key    ElementKey
	parent *Node
	rank   int
}

func newNode(key ElementKey) *Node {
	node := Node{}
	node.key = key
	node.parent = &node
	node.rank = 0

	return &node
}

func union(x, y *Node) {
	xSet := findSet(x)
	ySet := findSet(y)
	link(xSet, ySet)
}

func link(x, y *Node) {
	if x.rank > y.rank {
		y.parent = x
	} else {
		x.parent = y

		if x.rank == y.rank {
			y.rank++
		}
	}
}

func findSet(x *Node) *Node {
	if x != x.parent {
		x.parent = findSet(x.parent)
	}
	return x.parent
}

func newDisjointSets(nSets int) *DisjointSets {
	sets := DisjointSets{}
	sets.keyToNode = map[ElementKey]*Node{}
	for i := 0; i < nSets; i++ {
		key := ElementKey(i)
		sets.keyToNode[key] = newNode(key)
	}
	return &sets
}

type DisjointSets struct {
	keyToNode map[ElementKey]*Node
}

func (sets *DisjointSets) union(x, y ElementKey) {
	xNode := sets.keyToNode[x]
	yNode := sets.keyToNode[y]
	union(xNode, yNode)
}

func (sets DisjointSets) findSet(x ElementKey) *Node {
	xNode := sets.keyToNode[x]
	return findSet(xNode)
}

type Edge struct {
	i, j   int
	weight int
}

func main() {
	scanner.Split(bufio.ScanWords)

	n := nextInt()
	sets := newDisjointSets(n)
	edges := []Edge{}
	a := make([][]int, n)
	for i := 0; i < n; i++ {
		a[i] = make([]int, n)
		for j := 0; j < n; j++ {
			a[i][j] = nextInt()
			if a[i][j] >= 0 {
				e := Edge{
					i:      i,
					j:      j,
					weight: a[i][j],
				}
				edges = append(edges, e)
			}
		}
	}
	sort.Slice(edges, func(i, j int) bool { return edges[i].weight < edges[j].weight })
	totalWeight := 0
	for _, edge := range edges {
		i := ElementKey(edge.i)
		j := ElementKey(edge.j)
		if sets.findSet(i) != sets.findSet(j) {
			totalWeight += edge.weight
			sets.union(i, j)
		}
	}
	fmt.Println(totalWeight)
}

C++: #include<iostream>
#include<vector>
#include<algorithm>
#include<cstdio>
#include<cstdlib>
#include<string>
#include<sstream>
#include<cmath>
#include<numeric>
#include<map>
#include<stack>
#include<queue>
using namespace std;
int inf = 1000000000;

class UF{
public:
  vector<int> u;
  vector<int> r;

  void init(int n){
    u.resize(n, 0);
    r.resize(n, 0);
    for(int i=0; i<n; i++) u[i] = i;
  }
  int root(int x){
    // if( u[x] == x ) return x;
    // else return root(u[x]);
    return u[x] == x ? x : u[x] = root(u[x]);
  }
  bool same(int x, int y){
    return root(x) == root(y);
  }
  void unite(int x, int y){
    x = root(x);
    y = root(y);
    if( x == y ) return;

    if( r[x] < r[y] ){
      u[x] = y;
    }else{
      u[y] = x;
      if( r[x] == r[y] ) r[x]++;
    }
  }
};
class Graph{
public:
  int from, to, cost;
  bool operator<(const Graph &g1)const{
    return g1.cost < cost;
  };
};

int main(void) {

  int n;
  cin >> n;
  UF uf;
  uf.init(n);
  priority_queue<Graph> g;
  for(int i=0; i<n; i++){
    for(int j=0; j<n; j++){
      int a;
      cin >> a;
      if( a == -1 ) continue;
      Graph tg;
      tg.to = i;
      tg.from = j;
      tg.cost = a;
      g.push(tg);
    }
  }

  int sum = 0;
  while( !g.empty() ){
    Graph p = g.top();
    g.pop();

    if( uf.same(p.to, p.from) ) continue;

    sum += p.cost;
    uf.unite(p.to, p.from);

  }
  cout << sum << endl;

  return 0;
}

// EOF

C++: #include <iostream>
#include <vector>
#include <algorithm>
#include <queue>
#include <functional>

using namespace std;
typedef pair<int, int> P;   //cost, to
static const int INF = 1e9;
static const int SIZE = 101;
int par[SIZE];
int rk[SIZE];
int d[SIZE];
int n;

struct edge
{
	int u, v, cost;
};

struct edge2
{
	int to, cost;
};

bool comp(const edge& e1, const edge& e2)
{
	return(e1.cost < e2.cost);
}

void init()
{
	for (int i = 0; i < SIZE; ++i)
	{
		par[i] = i;
		rk[i] = 0;
	}
}

int find(int x)
{
	if (x == par[x])
	{
		return(x);
	}
	else
	{
		return(par[x] = find(par[x]));
	}
}

void unite(int a, int b)
{
	int x = find(a);
	int y = find(b);
	if (x == y)
	{
		return;
	}
	if (rk[x] < rk[y])
	{
		par[x] = y;
	}
	else
	{
		par[y] = x;
		if (rk[x] == rk[y])
		{
			++rk[x];
		}
	}
}

bool same(int a, int b)
{
	return(find(a) == find(b));
}

int kruskal(vector<edge>& es)
{
	init();
	int res = 0;
	sort(es.begin(), es.end(), comp);
	for (int i = 0; i < es.size(); ++i)
	{
		edge e = es[i];
		if (!same(e.u, e.v))
		{
			unite(e.u, e.v);
			res += e.cost;
		}
	}
	return(res);
}

int prim(vector<edge2>* G)
{
	vector<bool> isUsed(n);
	for (int i = 0; i < n; ++i)
	{
		isUsed[i] = false;
	}
	priority_queue<P, vector<P>, greater<P> > pque;
	P p = make_pair(0, 0);
	pque.push(p);
	int res = 0;
	while (!pque.empty())
	{
		P p = pque.top();
		pque.pop();
		int v = p.second;
		if (isUsed[v])
		{
			continue;
		}
		isUsed[v] = true;
		res += p.first;
		for (int i = 0; i < G[v].size(); ++i)
		{
			edge2 e = G[v][i];
			pque.push(P(e.cost, e.to));
		}
	}
	return(res);
}


void solve()
{
	cin >> n;

// For Kruskal
	vector<edge> es;
	for (int i = 0; i < n; ++i)
	{
		for (int j = 0; j < n; ++j)
		{
			int cost;
			cin >> cost;
			if (cost != -1)
			{
				edge e;
				e.u = i;
				e.v = j;
				e.cost = cost;
				es.push_back(e);
			}
		}
	}
	cout << kruskal(es) << endl;

// For Prim
	//vector<edge2> G[SIZE];
	//for (int i = 0; i < n; ++i)
	//{
	//	for (int j = 0; j < n; ++j)
	//	{
	//		int cost;
	//		cin >> cost;
	//		if (j >= i && cost != -1)
	//		{
	//			edge2 e1, e2;
	//			e1.to = j;
	//			e1.cost = cost;
	//			e2.to = i;
	//			e2.cost = cost;
	//			G[i].push_back(e1);
	//			G[j].push_back(e2);
	//		}
	//	}
	//}
	//cout << prim(G) << endl;
}

int main()
{
	solve();
	return(0);
}