Go: package main

import (
	"bufio"
	"fmt"
	"os"
	"sort"
	"strconv"
)

var scanner = bufio.NewScanner(os.Stdin)

func nextString() string {
	scanner.Scan()
	return scanner.Text()
}

func nextInt() int {
	n, err := strconv.Atoi(nextString())
	if err != nil {
		fmt.Printf("strconv.Atoi failed: %v\n", err)
	}
	return n
}

type ElementKey int
type Node struct {
	key    ElementKey
	parent *Node
	rank   int
}

func newNode(key ElementKey) *Node {
	node := Node{}
	node.key = key
	node.parent = &node
	node.rank = 0

	return &node
}

func union(x, y *Node) {
	xSet := findSet(x)
	ySet := findSet(y)
	link(xSet, ySet)
}

func link(x, y *Node) {
	if x.rank > y.rank {
		y.parent = x
	} else {
		x.parent = y

		if x.rank == y.rank {
			y.rank++
		}
	}
}

func findSet(x *Node) *Node {
	if x != x.parent {
		x.parent = findSet(x.parent)
	}
	return x.parent
}

func newDisjointSets(nSets int) *DisjointSets {
	sets := DisjointSets{}
	sets.keyToNode = map[ElementKey]*Node{}
	for i := 0; i < nSets; i++ {
		key := ElementKey(i)
		sets.keyToNode[key] = newNode(key)
	}
	return &sets
}

type DisjointSets struct {
	keyToNode map[ElementKey]*Node
}

func (sets *DisjointSets) union(x, y ElementKey) {
	xNode := sets.keyToNode[x]
	yNode := sets.keyToNode[y]
	union(xNode, yNode)
}

func (sets DisjointSets) findSet(x ElementKey) *Node {
	xNode := sets.keyToNode[x]
	return findSet(xNode)
}

type Edge struct {
	i, j   int
	weight int
}

func main() {
	scanner.Split(bufio.ScanWords)

	n := nextInt()
	sets := newDisjointSets(n)
	edges := []Edge{}
	a := make([][]int, n)
	for i := 0; i < n; i++ {
		a[i] = make([]int, n)
		for j := 0; j < n; j++ {
			a[i][j] = nextInt()
			if a[i][j] >= 0 {
				e := Edge{
					i:      i,
					j:      j,
					weight: a[i][j],
				}
				edges = append(edges, e)
			}
		}
	}
	sort.Slice(edges, func(i, j int) bool { return edges[i].weight < edges[j].weight })
	totalWeight := 0
	for _, edge := range edges {
		i := ElementKey(edge.i)
		j := ElementKey(edge.j)
		if sets.findSet(i) != sets.findSet(j) {
			totalWeight += edge.weight
			sets.union(i, j)
		}
	}
	fmt.Println(totalWeight)
}

C++: #include <cstdio>
#include <cstring>
#include <iostream>
using namespace std;

const long INF=1000000000;

int main(){
	int n;
	long a[100][100];
	
	scanf(" %d", &n);
	for(int i=0; i<n; ++i){
		for(int j=0; j<n; ++j){
			long p;
			scanf(" %ld", &p);
			if(p==-1) a[i][j]=INF;
			else a[i][j]=p;
		}
	}
	
	//prim
	
	int visit[100]={0}; //????¨??????§?????????
	
	int p[100]; //MST???????????????
	p[0]=-1;
	
	int d[100];
	for(int i=0; i<n; ++i) d[i]=INF;
	d[0]=0; //????????????0???????????????????????????
	
	int u;
	while(1){
		long mincost=INF;
		
		for(int i=0; i<n; ++i){
			if(visit[i]!=-1 && d[i]<mincost){
				mincost=d[i];
				u=i;	
			}
		}
		
		if(mincost==INF) break; //????????\?????????????????????
		
		visit[u]=-1; //?¨??????????
		
		for(int i=0; i<n; ++i){
			if(visit[i]!=-1 && a[u][i]<d[i]){
				d[i]=a[u][i];
				p[i]=u;
				visit[i]=1; //?¬??¨???????????\´???????£?
			}
		}
		
	}
	
	long ans=0;
	for(int i=0; i<n; ++i){
		if(p[i]!=-1) ans+=a[i][p[i]];
		
	}
	printf("%ld\n", ans);
}