Go: package main

import (
	"bufio"
	"fmt"
	"os"
	"strconv"
	"strings"
)

var scanner = bufio.NewScanner(os.Stdin)

func nextString() string {
	scanner.Scan()
	return scanner.Text()
}

func nextInt() int {
	n, err := strconv.Atoi(nextString())
	if err != nil {
		fmt.Printf("strconv.Atoi failed: %v\n", err)
	}
	return n
}

func stringifyArray(arr []int) string {
	return strings.TrimRight(fmt.Sprintf("%+v", arr)[1:], "]")
}

var infty = 1000000000

type nodeKey int

type DirectedGraphNode struct {
	key       nodeKey
	adjacents []*DirectedGraphNode
	visited   bool
	d         int
	parent    *DirectedGraphNode
}

type DirectedGraph struct {
	nodes []DirectedGraphNode
}

func (g *DirectedGraph) setAdjacency(l, r nodeKey) {
	g.nodes[l].adjacents = append(g.nodes[l].adjacents, &g.nodes[r])
}

func newDirectedGraph(nNodes int) *DirectedGraph {
	graph := DirectedGraph{}
	graph.nodes = make([]DirectedGraphNode, nNodes)
	for iNodes := 0; iNodes < nNodes; iNodes++ {
		graph.nodes[iNodes].key = nodeKey(iNodes)

		graph.nodes[iNodes].visited = false
		graph.nodes[iNodes].d = infty
		graph.nodes[iNodes].parent = nil
	}
	return &graph
}

type QueueEntry struct {
	node *DirectedGraphNode
	next *QueueEntry
}

type Queue struct {
	head, tail *QueueEntry
}

func (q *Queue) enqueue(node *DirectedGraphNode) {
	entry := QueueEntry{}
	entry.node = node

	if q.tail == nil {
		q.head = &entry
		q.tail = &entry
		return
	}

	q.tail.next = &entry
	q.tail = q.tail.next
}

func (q *Queue) dequeue() *QueueEntry {
	if q.head == nil {
		return nil
	}
	poped := q.head
	q.head = q.head.next
	if q.head == nil {
		q.tail = nil
	}
	return poped
}

func (q *Queue) isEmpty() bool {
	return q.head == nil
}

func fillDistancesByBreadthFirstSearch(g *DirectedGraph, startNode *DirectedGraphNode) {
	startNode.visited = true
	startNode.d = 0

	queue := Queue{}
	queue.enqueue(startNode)
	for !queue.isEmpty() {
		u := queue.dequeue().node
		for _, adjacent := range u.adjacents {
			if !adjacent.visited {
				adjacent.visited = true
				adjacent.d = u.d + 1
				adjacent.parent = u
				queue.enqueue(adjacent)
			}
		}
		u.visited = true
	}
}

func main() {
	scanner.Split(bufio.ScanWords)

	nNodes := nextInt()
	g := newDirectedGraph(nNodes + 1)

	for iNode := 0; iNode < nNodes; iNode++ {
		nodeKeyLeft := nodeKey(nextInt())
		nAdj := nextInt()
		for iAdj := 0; iAdj < nAdj; iAdj++ {
			nodeKeyRight := nodeKey(nextInt())
			g.setAdjacency(nodeKeyLeft, nodeKeyRight)
		}
	}

	// fmt.Println(g)
	fillDistancesByBreadthFirstSearch(g, &g.nodes[1])
	// fmt.Println(g)

	for iNode := 1; iNode <= nNodes; iNode++ {
		node := g.nodes[iNode]
		distance := node.d
		if distance == infty {
			distance = -1
		}
		fmt.Println(node.key, distance)
	}
}

C++: #include <iostream> // cout, endl, cin
#include <string> // string, to_string, stoi
#include <vector> // vector
#include <algorithm> // min, max, swap, sort, reverse, lower_bound, upper_bound
#include <utility> // pair, make_pair
#include <tuple> // tuple, make_tuple
#include <map> // map
#include <queue> // queue, priority_queue
#include <set> // set
#include <stack> // stack
#include <deque> // deque
#define ll long long
#define ALL(x) (x).begin(),(x).end()
#define rep(i, n) for(int i = 0; i < (int)(n); i++)
#define vi vector<int>
#define vvi vector<vector<int>>
#define pii pair<int,int>
#define pint_int 2000000003
using namespace std;

class BFS {
public:
    vector<vector<int>> Graph_as_list;

    void emplace_back(vector<int> list) {
        Graph_as_list.push_back(list);
    }
    vector<int> Search(int u) {// search from node u
        vector<int> dist_from_u(Graph_as_list.size(), pint_int);
        queue<int> que;

        que.push(u);
        dist_from_u[u] = 0;
        while (!que.empty()) {
            int u = que.front(); que.pop();
            for (int next_node : Graph_as_list[u]) {
                if (dist_from_u[u] + 1 < dist_from_u[next_node]) {
                    dist_from_u[next_node] = dist_from_u[u] + 1;
                    que.push(next_node);
                }
            }
        }
        for (int& elem : dist_from_u) {
            if (elem == pint_int) elem = -1;
        }
        return dist_from_u;
    }
};

int main() {
    int n; cin >> n;
    BFS bfs;
    for (int i = 0; i < n; i++) {
        int u, k; cin >> u >> k; u--;
        vi temp;
        for (int j = 0; j < k; j++) {
            int v; cin >> v; v--;
            temp.push_back(v);
        }
        bfs.emplace_back(temp);
    }
    vi ans = bfs.Search(0);
    for (int i = 0; i < ans.size(); i++) {
        cout << i + 1 << " " << ans[i] << endl;
    }

}

C++: #include <bits/stdc++.h>
using namespace std;
typedef long long ll;
template<class T> inline bool chmax(T& a, T b) { if (a < b) { a = b; return 1; } return 0; }
template<class T> inline bool chmin(T& a, T b) { if (a > b) { a = b; return 1; } return 0; }
const ll INF = 1LL << 60;
const int MAX = 1000000010;
const ll MOD = 1000000007;
const double PI = acos(-1);

int main() {
    int N; cin >> N;
    vector<vector<int>> G(N);
    for (int i = 0; i < N; i++) {
        int u, k; cin >> u >> k;
        u--;
        for (int j = 0; j < k; j++) {
            int v; cin >> v;
            v--;
            G[u].push_back(v);
        }
    }

    queue<int> que;
    vector<int> dist(N, -1);
    dist[0] = 0;
    que.push(0);

    while (!que.empty()) {
        int u = que.front(); que.pop();
        
        for (auto nv : G[u]) {
            if (dist[nv] != -1) continue;

            dist[nv] = dist[u] + 1;
            que.push(nv);
        }
    }

    for (int i = 0; i < N; i++) {
        cout << i + 1 << " " << dist[i] << endl;
    }

    return 0;
}

C++: #include <iostream>
#include <queue>
using namespace std;

int G[110][110];
int N,num,lines,tar;
int D[1000];
int ret[1000];

void bfs(int src);

int main() {
	for (int i=0;i<110;i++) {
		for(int j=0;j<110;j++) {
			G[i][j] = 0;
		}
	}
	for(int i=0;i<1000;i++) {
		D[i] = 100;
	}
	cin >> N;
	for(int i=0;i<N;i++) {
		cin >> num >> lines;
		for(int j=0;j<lines;j++) {
			cin >> tar;
			G[num][tar] = 1;
		}
	}
	/*
	for(int i=0;i<num+1;i++) {
		for(int j=0;j<num+1;j++) {
			cout << G[i][j] << " ";
		}
		cout << endl;
	}
	*/
	bfs(1);
	for(int i=1;i<num+1;i++) {
		if((ret[i] == 0) && (i>1)) ret[i] = -1;
		cout << i << " " << ret[i] << endl;
	}

}
void bfs(int src) {
	int cur,dst;
	//cerr << "bfs root = " << src << endl;
	queue<int> Q; // ??´??°????????????????????\????????????
	Q.push(src);
	D[src] = 0; // ?????????
	while (! Q.empty()) {
		int cur = Q.front(); // ??????????´????????????????
		Q.pop();
// ???????¢??????¨??¨???
		ret[cur] = D[cur];
		//cerr << cur << " " << D[cur] << endl;
		for (int dst=1;dst<N+1;dst++) { // ???????????? dst ????????????
			if ((G[cur][dst] == 1) && (D[dst] == 100)) { // cur ?????? dst ??????????????????dst ???????¨??????????
				D[dst] = D[cur]+1; //
				Q.push(dst); // dst ????¨???????????????????
			}
		}
	}
}