Go: package main

import (
	"sort"
	"bufio"
	"os"
	"fmt"
	"strconv"
)

// Define disjoint-set forests

type vertexNo int

type vertex struct {
	number vertexNo
	rank int
	parent *vertex
}

func makeSet(number vertexNo) vertex {
	return vertex {
		number: number,
		rank: 0,
		parent: nil,
	}
}

func union(x, y *vertex) *vertex {
	return link(findSet(x), findSet(y))
}

func link(x, y *vertex) *vertex {
	if x.rank > y.rank {
		y.parent = x
		return x
	} else {
		x.parent = y
		if x.rank == y.rank {
			y.rank += 1
		}
		return y
	}
}

func findSet(v *vertex) *vertex {
	if v.parent == nil {
		return v
	}
	v.parent = findSet(v.parent)
	return v.parent
}

// Function to calculate minimum spanning tree

type matrix [][]int

type edge struct {
	one vertexNo
	two vertexNo
	weight int
}

const(
	MAX_VERTICES = 100
)

func newEdgesFromMatrix(matrix matrix) []edge {
	edges := make([]edge, 0, MAX_VERTICES * MAX_VERTICES)

	for i := 0; i < len(matrix); i++ {
		row := matrix[i]
		for j := i; j < len(row); j++ {
			if row[j] >= 0 {
				edge := edge{one: vertexNo(i+1), two: vertexNo(j+1), weight: row[j]}
				edges = append(edges, edge)
			}
		}
	}

	return edges
}

func solve(matrix matrix) int {
	nVertices := len(matrix)

	// initialize vertices
	vertices := make([]vertex, nVertices)
	for i := 0; i < nVertices; i++ {
		vertices[i] = makeSet(vertexNo(i+1))
	}

	// prepare edges sorted in the ascending order of weight
	edges := newEdgesFromMatrix(matrix)
	sort.Slice(edges, func(i, j int) bool {
		return edges[i].weight < edges[j].weight
	})

	unionCount := 0
	weightSum := 0
	for unionCount < nVertices-1 {
		for i := 0; i < len(edges); i++ {
			edge := edges[i]
			v1 := &vertices[edge.one-1]
			v2 := &vertices[edge.two-1]
			rep1 := findSet(v1)
			rep2 := findSet(v2)
			if rep1.number == rep2.number {
				continue
			}
			union(rep1, rep2)
			edges = append(edges[0:i], edges[i+1:]...)
			weightSum += edge.weight
			unionCount++
			break
		}
	}

	return weightSum
}

// main

func main() {
	sc := bufio.NewScanner(os.Stdin)
	sc.Split(bufio.ScanWords)

	n, err := nextInt(sc)
	if err != nil {
		panic(err)
	}

	matrix := parseMatrix(n, sc)

	edges := newEdgesFromMatrix(matrix)
	sort.Slice(edges, func(i, j int) bool {
		return edges[i].weight < edges[j].weight
	})

	fmt.Println(solve(matrix))
}

func parseMatrix(n int, sc *bufio.Scanner) [][]int {
	matrix := make([][]int, n)
	for i := 0; i < n; i++ {
		matrix[i] = make([]int, n)
		for j := 0; j < n; j++ {
			x, err := nextInt(sc)
			if err != nil {
				panic(err)
			}
			matrix[i][j] = x
		}
	}
	return matrix
}

func nextText(sc *bufio.Scanner) string {
	sc.Scan()
	return sc.Text()
}

func nextInt(sc *bufio.Scanner) (int, error) {
	return strconv.Atoi(nextText(sc))
}

C++: // ????°???¨?????¨

#include <cstdio>
using namespace std;

static const int MAX = 100;
static const int INFTY = ( 1 << 21 );
static const int WHITE = 1;
static const int GLAY  = 2;
static const int BLACK = 3;

int M[MAX][MAX];
int d[MAX], p[MAX], color[MAX];

// ??????????????¢?????´?????????
int prim( int n )
{

	int mincost, u, msum = 0;

	// color?????????WHITE(????¨????)???d??????(????°??????????????¨????????????????)???INFTY???p??????(????°???¨?????¨?§????????¬????????£???¨?????????????????????????¨???¶????????????)???-1??§?????????????????????
	for( int i = 0; i < n; i++ ) { color[i] = WHITE; d[i] = INFTY; p[i] = -1; }

	// ????????????????¨?????????????????????????????????????????´????0(????????????)
	d[0] = 0;

	while( 1 ) {

		mincost = INFTY;	// ????°?????????????INFTY??§?????????
		u		= -1;		// ??????????£????????????????-1??§?????????(????¨??????¨????????????)

		// d???????????°??????????¨??????????????°????????????????????°?????????£?????´??????????°?????????????d[i]?????????????£????????????????i(?????¶???????°??????????????????????)??¨??????
		for( int i = 0; i < n; i++ ) {
			if( color[i] != BLACK && d[i] < mincost ) { mincost = d[i]; u = i; }
		}

		// ??????????£????????????????-1(????????\????????¢?´¢????????????)?????¨???while??????break
		if( u == -1 ) break;

		// ??????????£???°????¨????????????¨??????
		color[u] = BLACK;

		// ????????°?????°???
		for( int v = 0; v < n; v++ ) {

			// ?????¨??°?????????????¨????????????§????????????????????°????????????????????¨??????(INFTY??§?????????)??¨???
			if( color[v] != BLACK && M[u][v] != INFTY ) {
				// ???????????????????°????????????????????°???????????????§?????£?????¨???
				if( M[u][v] < d[v] ) {

					d[v]	 = M[u][v];		// ????°????????????????????????????
					p[v]	 = u;			// ????°?????£???°?????????????°???°(????????????)?????????
					color[v] = GLAY;		// ?¨??????¶??????MST????±???????????????¨??????

				}
			}

		}

	}

	for( int i = 0; i < n; i++ ) {
		if( p[i] != -1 ) msum += M[i][p[i]];	// ???????????????-1(?????¨??????????°???¨?????¨????????????)??§?????£?????´????????°????????????????????????????¶?????????????
	}

	return msum;	// ????°???¨?????¨?????¨??????????????????????????¨??????

}

int main()
{

	int n, a;

	// ????????°
	scanf( "%d", &n );

	for( int i = 0; i < n; i++ ) {
		for( int j = 0; j < n; j++ ) {

			// ??£??\?????????????´??????\???
			// -1?????\??????????????´?????????????????????(INFTY??£??\)
			scanf( "%d", &a );
			M[i][j] = ( a == -1 ) ? INFTY : a;
		
		}
	}

	// prim??¢??°???????????????printf
	printf( "%d\n", prim( n ) );

	return 0;
}

C++: #include <iostream>
#include <vector>
#include <utility>
#include <algorithm>
using namespace std;

void init(int n, vector<int>& v){
  v.resize(n);
  for(int i = 0; i < n; i++){
    v[i] = i;
  }
}

int root(int a, vector<int>& v){
  if(v[a] == a) return a;
  return (v[a] = root(v[a], v));
}

bool same(int a, int b, vector<int>& v){
  return root(a,v) == root(b,v);
}

void unite(int a, int b, vector<int>& v){
  v[root(a,v)] = root(b,v);
}


int main(){
  int n;
  cin >> n;
  vector<vector<int> > a(n, vector<int>(n, -1));
  for(int i = 0; i < n; i++)
    for(int j = 0; j < n; j++)
      cin >> a[i][j];

  vector<int> cost, src, dst;
  for(int i = 0; i < n; i++){
    for(int j = i+1; j < n; j++){
      if(a[i][j] > -1){
        cost.push_back(a[i][j]);
        src.push_back(i);
        dst.push_back(j);
      }
    }
  }
  vector<pair<int, int> > edges(cost.size());

  for(int i = 0; i < cost.size(); i++){
    // cout << "cost" << cost[i] << endl;
    // cout << "i" << i << endl;
    edges[i] = make_pair(cost[i], i);
    // cout << edges[i].first << " : " << edges[i].second << endl;
  }

  sort(edges.begin(),edges.end());

  for(int i = 0; i < cost.size(); i++)
    cout << edges[i].first << " : " << edges[i].second << endl;

  int sum = 0;
  vector<int> units;
  init(n, units);
  for(int i = 0; i < edges.size(); i++){
    int idx = edges[i].second;
    int s = src[idx], d = dst[idx];
    // cout << s << "," << d << endl;
    if(same(s, d, units))
      continue;
    unite(s, d, units);

    sum += cost[idx];
  }

  cout << sum << endl;
}