Go: package main

import (
	"bufio"
	"container/heap"
	"fmt"
	"os"
	"strconv"
)

type Node struct {
	id     int
	weight int
}

func init() {
	sc.Split(bufio.ScanWords)
}

type NodeHeap []Node

func (h NodeHeap) Len() int           { return len(h) }
func (h NodeHeap) Less(i, j int) bool { return h[i].weight < h[j].weight }
func (h NodeHeap) Swap(i, j int)      { h[i], h[j] = h[j], h[i] }

func (h *NodeHeap) Push(x interface{}) {
	*h = append(*h, x.(Node))
}

func (h *NodeHeap) Pop() interface{} {
	old := *h
	n := len(old)
	x := old[n-1]
	*h = old[0 : n-1]
	return x
}

var sc = bufio.NewScanner(os.Stdin)

func scanInt() int {
	num, _ := strconv.Atoi(scanString())
	return num
}

func scanString() string {
	sc.Scan()
	return sc.Text()
}

func init() {
	sc.Split(bufio.ScanWords)
}

func main() {
	n := scanInt()

	list := make([][]int, n)
	seen := make([]bool, n)
	for i := range list {
		list[i] = make([]int, n)
		for j := range list[i] {
			list[i][j] = scanInt()
		}
	}

	start := Node{id: 0, weight: 0}
	h := &NodeHeap{start}
	heap.Init(h)

	sum := 0
	for h.Len() > 0 {
		node := heap.Pop(h).(Node)
		if seen[node.id] {
			continue
		}
		seen[node.id] = true
		sum += node.weight

		for i, w := range list[node.id] {
			if w < 0 {
				continue
			}
			heap.Push(h, Node{id: i, weight: w})
		}
	}

	fmt.Println(sum)
}

C++: #include <algorithm>
#include <cassert>
const int MaxNode = 100;

struct UnionFind {
    int node_num;
    int parent[MaxNode];
    int weight = 0;
    
    UnionFind(int node_num) : node_num(node_num) {
        std::fill(parent, parent + node_num, -1);
    }
    
    int root(int u) {
        return parent[u] < 0 ? u : parent[u] = root(parent[u]);
    }
    
    bool find(int u, int v) {
        return root(u) == root(v);
    }
    
    bool unite(int u, int v, int cost) {
        if ((u = root(u)) == (v = root(v))) {
            return false;
        } else {
            if(parent[u] > parent[v]) {
                std::swap(u, v);
            }
            parent[u] += parent[v];
            parent[v] = u;
            weight += cost;
            return true;
        }
    }
};
template <typename T>
struct Edge {
    
    Edge() = default;
    Edge(int from, int to, int cost) : from(from), to(to), cost(cost) {}
    
    Edge(const Edge&) = default;
    Edge& operator=(const Edge&) = default;
    Edge& operator=(Edge&&) = default;
    
    
    int from;
    int to;
    T cost;
};

#include <iostream>
using namespace std;

int main() {
	int n;
	cin >> n;
	UnionFind uf(n);
	
	std::vector<Edge<int>> edges(n);
	
	for(int i = 0; i < n; ++i) {
		for(int j = 0; j < n; ++j) {
			int dist;
			cin >> dist;
			
			if(i != j && dist != -1) {
				edges.emplace_back(i, j, dist);
			}
		}
	}
	
	std::sort(edges.begin(), edges.end(), [](Edge<int> a, Edge<int> b){return a.cost < b.cost;});

	for (auto& e : edges) {
        if (!uf.find(e.from, e.to)) {
            uf.unite(e.from, e.to, e.cost);
        }
    }
    
    cout << uf.weight << endl;
	return 0;
}

C++: 
class UnionFind{
    int N;
    vector<int> par;
    vector<int> rank;
    public:
    UnionFind(int N):N(N),par(N),rank(N,0){iota(par.begin(),par.end(),0);}
    int find(int x);
    void unite(int x,int y);
    bool same(int x,int y){return find(x)==find(y);}
};

int UnionFind::find(int x){
    if(par[x]==x) return x;
    return par[x]=find(par[x]);
}
void UnionFind::unite(int x,int y){
    x=find(x),y=find(y);
    if(x==y) return;
    if(rank[x]>=rank[y]){
        if(rank[x]==rank[y]) rank[x]++;
        par[y]=x;
    }else{
        par[x]=y;
    }


}

#include<bits/stdc++.h>
#include"UnionFind.hpp"
using namespace std;

using Weight=long long;
struct Edge{
    int from,to;
    Weight weight;
};
bool operator<(const Edge& lhs,const Edge& rhs){
    return lhs.weight<rhs.weight;
}

using Edges=vector<Edge>;
using Graph=vector<Edges>;


Edges MinimumSpanningTree(int n,Edges edges){
    Edges res;
    UnionFind u(n);
    for(int i=0;i<edges.size();i++){
        if(!u.same(edges[i].from,edges[i].to)){
            res.push_back(edges[i]);
            u.unite(edges[i].from,edges[i].to);
        }
    }
    return res;
}

Edges MinimumSpanningTree(const Graph& g){
    Edges edges;
    for(int i=0;i<g.size();i++){
        copy(g[i].begin(),g[i].end(),back_inserter(edges));
    }
    auto res=MinimumSpanningTree(g.size(),edges);
    return res;
}

int main(){
    int n;
    cin>>n;
    Graph g(n);
    for(int i=0;i<n;i++){
        for(int j=0;j<n;j++){
            Weight c;
            cin>>c;
            if(c==-1) continue;
            g[i].push_back({i,j,c});
        }
    }
    auto mst=MinimumSpanningTree(g);
    cout<<accumulate(mst.begin(),mst.end(),Weight(0),[](const Weight& lhs,const Edge& rhs){return lhs+rhs.weight;})<<endl;
    return 0;
}