Go: package main

/*
グラフの表現 隣接行列による表現
*/

import (
	"bufio"
	"fmt"
	"log"
	"os"
	"strconv"
	"strings"
)

func main() {
	scanner := makeScanner(8192)
	n := eGetInt(scanner)
	g := make([][]int, n+1)
	for i := 1; i < n+1; i++ {
		g[i] = make([]int, n+1)
		ints := eGetInts(scanner)
		num := ints[0]
		for j := 0; j < ints[1]; j++ {
			g[num][ints[j+2]] = 1
		}
	}
	dist := make([]int, n+1)
	for i := 0; i < len(dist); i++ {
		dist[i] = -1
	}
	q := []int{}

	// 訪問する
	q = append(q, 1)
	dist[1] = 0

	// キューが空でない限り
	for len(q) > 0 {
		// 先頭を取り出す
		top := 0
		top, q = q[0], q[1:]
		// 隣接マスを入れる.
		for i := 1; i < n+1; i++ {
			// 辺がある
			if g[top][i] == 1 {
				if dist[i] == -1 {
					// 訪問済みでなければ
					q = append(q, i)
					dist[i] = dist[top] + 1
				}
			}
		}
	}
	for i := 1; i < n+1; i++ {
		fmt.Println(i, dist[i])
	}
}

////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////
// ライブラリ
////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////
func makeScanner(maxByte int) *bufio.Scanner {
	scanner := bufio.NewScanner(os.Stdin)
	scanner.Buffer(make([]uint8, 0, 8192), maxByte)
	return scanner
}
func makeWordScanner() *bufio.Scanner {
	scanner := makeScanner(8192)
	scanner.Split(bufio.ScanWords)
	return scanner
}
func eGetLine(r *bufio.Scanner) string {
	if r.Scan() {
		return r.Text()
	}
	err := r.Err()
	if err != nil {
		log.Fatal(err)
	}
	// EOF
	return ""
}
func eGetInt(r *bufio.Scanner) int {
	line := eGetLine(r)
	return eAtoi(line)
}
func eGetInt64(r *bufio.Scanner) int64 {
	line := eGetLine(r)
	return eAtoInt64(line)
}
func eGetFields(r *bufio.Scanner) []string {
	line := eGetLine(r)
	return strings.Fields(line)
}
func eGetInts(r *bufio.Scanner) []int {
	fields := eGetFields(r)
	ints := make([]int, len(fields))
	for i := 0; i < len(ints); i++ {
		ints[i] = eAtoi(fields[i])
	}
	return ints
}
func eGetInt64s(r *bufio.Scanner) []int64 {
	fields := eGetFields(r)
	ints := make([]int64, len(fields))
	for i := 0; i < len(ints); i++ {
		ints[i] = eAtoInt64(fields[i])
	}
	return ints
}
func eGetChars(r *bufio.Scanner) []string {
	line := eGetLine(r)
	return strings.Split(line, "")
}
func eAtoi(s string) int {
	n, err := strconv.Atoi(s)
	if err != nil {
		log.Fatal(err)
	}
	return n
}
func eAtoInt64(s string) int64 {
	n, err := strconv.ParseInt(s, 10, 64)
	if err != nil {
		log.Fatal(err)
	}
	return n
}

C++: #include <stdio.h>
#include <string.h>
#include<iostream>
#include<queue>
using namespace std;

char s[13][1];
int D[102][102];
int A[103],f[103],w,h,n,sx,sy,gx,gy,e,g[103];
int   kensa(int ,int);
int main(){
	queue<int> P;
	int i,j,a,b,c,d;
	for(i=0;i<100;i++){
		for(j=0;j<100;j++){
			D[i][j]=-1;		
		}					
	}						
	for(i=0;i<100;i++){		
		A[i]=0;				
		f[i]=-1;
		g[i]=0;
	}							
	scanf("%d" ,&a);//     a=4
	for(i=1;i<=a;i++){
        scanf("%d",&b);		//
		scanf("%d",&b);			//b=2					//
		for(j=1;j<=b;j++){		//
		scanf("%d",&c);			//					//
		D[i][c]=1;
//
		}						//D[???][???]
	}				
	for(i=1;i<=a;i++){
		for(j=1;j<=a;j++){
		//	printf("%d %d %d\n",i,j,D[i][j]);
		}	
	}//
	P.push(1);
	//P???1
	f[1]=0;
	while(!P.empty()){			//
		d=P.front();
		//
		A[d]=1;
		//
		P.pop();				//
		for(i=1;i<=a;i++){
			//printf("%d %d %d\n",d,i,D[d][i]);//
			if(D[d][i]==-1){		//
			continue;			//
			}					//
			if(A[i]==1){		//
			continue;			//
			}					//
			P.push(i);			//
			f[i]=g[d]+1;
			g[i]=g[d]+1;
			A[i]=1;
			//printf("%d\n",P.back());
		}	
	}							//
	for(i=1;i<=a;i++){			//
	printf("%d %d\n",i, f[i]);	//
	}
	return 0;
}

C++: #include <bits/stdc++.h>
using namespace std;
#define rep(i, n) for (int i = 0; i < (int)(n); i++)
#define rep2(i, s, n) for (int i = s; i < (int)(n); i++)
#define rep3(i, s, n) for (int i = s; i > (int)(n); i--)
#define all(obj) obj.begin(), obj.end()
#define db(x) cerr << #x << ":" << x << " "
#define dbl(x) cerr << #x << ":" << x << "\n"
#define dbv(vec) cerr << #vec << ":"; for (auto e : vec) cerr << e << " "; cout << "\n"
#define dbvv(vv) cerr << #vv << ":\n"; for (auto vec : vv) { for (auto e : vec) cerr << e << " "; cerr << "\n"; }
#define dbm(map) cerr << #map << ":"; for (auto p : map) cerr << "(" << p.first << ", " << p.second << "), "; cerr << "\n";
#define YN(f) cout << (f ? "YES" : "NO") << "\n"
#define Yn(f) cout << (f ? "Yes" : "No") << "\n"
#define yn(f) cout << (f ? "yes" : "no") << "\n"
using ll = long long;
using vi = vector<int>; using vl = vector<ll>; using vs = vector<string>; using vb = vector<bool>;
using vvi = vector<vi>; using vvl = vector<vl>; using vvb = vector<vb>;
using pii = pair<int, int>; using pll = pair<ll, ll>;
using vpii = vector<pii>; using vpll = vector<pll>;
using ti3 = tuple<int, int, int>; using tl3 = tuple<ll, ll, ll>;
using mii = map<int, int>; using mil = map<int, ll>; using mli = map<ll, int>; using mll = map<ll, ll>;

int main() {
	int n; cin >> n;
	vvi g(n + 1); vi d(n + 1, -1); // 1-ind
	rep2(i, 1, n + 1) {
		int _, k; cin >> _ >> k;
		rep(j, k) {
			int v; cin >> v;
			g[i].push_back(v);
		}
	}
	// dbvv(g);
	queue<int> q;
	q.push(1); d[1] = 0;
	while (!q.empty()) {
		int u = q.front(); q.pop();
		for (int v : g[u]) {
			if (d[v] != -1) continue;
			d[v] = d[u] + 1;
			q.push(v);
		}
	}
	rep2(i, 1, n + 1) printf("%d %d\n", i, d[i]);
}

C++: #include <iostream>
#include <algorithm>
#include <vector>
#include <set>
#include <cmath>
#include <deque>
#include <iterator>
#include <map>
#include <queue>
#include <string>
#include <tuple>
#include <utility>
using namespace std;

using ll=long long;
template<class T> using V = vector<T>;
template<class T, class U> using P = pair<T, U>;
using vll = V<ll>;
using vvll = V<vll>;
#define rep(i, k, n) for (ll i=k; i<(ll)n; ++i)
#define REP(i, n) rep(i, 0, n)
template<class T> inline bool chmax(T& a, T b) {if (a<b) {a=b; return true;} return false;}
template<class T> inline bool chmin(T& a, T b) {if (a>b) {a=b; return true;} return false;}

int main() {
  ll n; cin >> n;
  vvll edges(n, vll());
  REP(i, n) {
    ll u, k; cin >> u >> k;
    REP(j, k) {
      ll to; cin >> to;
      edges.at(u-1).push_back(to-1);
    }
  }
  vll d(n, -1);
  V<bool> visited(n, false);
  queue<ll> q; q.push(0);
  ll tmpd = 0;
  while (!q.empty()) {
    queue<ll> tmpq;
    while (!q.empty()) {
      ll to = q.front(); q.pop();
      if (visited.at(to)) continue;
      visited.at(to) = true; d.at(to) = tmpd;
      REP(i, edges.at(to).size()) {
        if (visited.at(edges.at(to).at(i))) continue;
        tmpq.push(edges.at(to).at(i));
      }
    }
    q = tmpq; tmpd++;
  }
  REP(i, n) cout << i+1 << ' ' << d.at(i) << endl;
  return 0;
}