Go: package main

import (
	"bufio"
	"fmt"
	"os"
	"strconv"
)

const BIG_COST = 3000

const (
	ST_NOT_YET = iota
	ST_JOINED
)

func main() {
	sc := bufio.NewScanner(os.Stdin)
	sc.Split(bufio.ScanWords)

	nNodes := scanInt(sc)
	costs := make([][]int, nNodes)

	for r := 0; r < nNodes; r++ {
		costs[r] = make([]int, nNodes)
		for c := 0; c < nNodes; c++ {
			costs[r][c] = scanInt(sc)
		}
	}

	states := make([]int, nNodes)
	minCosts := make([]int, nNodes)

	for i := 1; i < nNodes; i++ {
		minCosts[i] = BIG_COST
	}

	for {
		var u int
		minCost := BIG_COST

		for i := 0; i < nNodes; i++ {
			if states[i] != ST_JOINED && minCosts[i] < minCost {
				minCost = minCosts[i]
				u = i
			}
		}

		// 全てのノードが MST に JOIN できたので終了。
		if minCost == BIG_COST {
			break
		}

		states[u] = ST_JOINED

		for v := 0; v < nNodes; v++ {
			cost := costs[u][v]

			// MST内の u と MST外の v との辺の重みをそれぞれ minCosts[v] として
			// 保存しておく。このうち辺の重みが最小となる v が次のループで MST に JOIN する。
			if states[v] != ST_JOINED && cost != -1 && cost < minCosts[v] {
				minCosts[v] = cost
			}
		}
	}

	sum := 0
	for _, cost := range minCosts {
		sum += cost
	}
	fmt.Println(sum)
}

func scanInt(sc *bufio.Scanner) int {
	sc.Scan()
	v, _ := strconv.Atoi(sc.Text())
	return v
}

C++: #if 0
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#endif

#include <iostream>
#include <algorithm>
#include <utility>
using namespace std;

int P[10000+10];

void init(int N){
	for(int i=0;i<=N;++i) P[i]=i;
}
int root(int a){
	if(P[a]==a)return a;
	else return(P[a]=root(P[a]));
}
bool is_same_set(int a,int b){
	return root(a)==root(b);
}
void unite(int a,int b){
	P[root(a)]=root(b);
}
int main(){
	int N;
	cin>>N;
	int A[N][N];
	
	for(int i=0; i<N;i++){
		for(int j=0;j<N;j++){
			cin>>A[j][i]; //???????????\???
		}
	}

	int M = 0; 
	int cost[N*N],src[N*N],dst[N*N];
	for (int r=0; r<N;r++)
		for (int c=0; c<r;c++) //r<c???????§?????????????
			if (A[r][c] > -1) {
				cost[M] = A[r][c];
				src[M] = r;
				dst[M] = c;
				M += 1;
			}
	pair<int,int> edges[100000+10];
	for(int i=0;i<M;i++)
		edges[i]=make_pair(cost[i],i); //first???????????????second???ID
	sort(edges,edges+M);
	
	//for(int i=0;i<M;++i)
		//cout<<edges[i].first<<endl;

	init(N);
	int sum=0;
	for(int i=0;i<M;i++){
		if(is_same_set(src[edges[i].second],dst[edges[i].second])==false){
			unite(src[edges[i].second],dst[edges[i].second]);
			sum+=edges[i].first;
		}
	}
		cout<<sum<<endl;
}

C++: #include<iostream>
#include<vector>
#include<algorithm>

using namespace std;

struct edge{
	int u;	//?????????
	int v;	//??°??????
	int cost;	//??????
	//???????????????????????§?????§?°???¢????????????
	bool operator<(const edge& another) const {
			return cost < another.cost;
	}
};

const int MAX_N = 100;
const int MAX_M = 10000;

edge es[MAX_M];
int par[MAX_N];
int rank[MAX_N];

void initial(int n){		//?????????
	for(int i=0;i<n;i++){
		par[i] = i;
		rank[i] = 0;
	}
}

int find(int x){		//??¨??????????±???????
	if(par[x] == x){
		return x;
	}else{
		return par[x] = find(par[x]);
	}
}

void unite(int x,int y){	//x???????????¨??¨y???????????¨?????????
	x = find(x);	//x???????????¨??????????????????x??¨??????
	y = find(y);	//y???????????¨??????????????????y??¨??????
	if(x == y) return;
	if(rank[x] < rank[y]){
		par[x] = y;
	}else{
		par[y] = x;
		if(rank[x] == rank[y])
			rank[x]++;
	}
}

bool same(int x,int y){	//x,y???????????¨???????????§?????????
	return find(x) == find(y);
}

bool comp(const edge& e1,const edge& e2){
	return e1.cost < e2.cost;
}

int kruskal(int n,int m){
	initial(n);
	int res = 0;
	for(int i=0;i<m;i++){
		edge e = es[i];
		if(!same(e.u,e.v)){
			unite(e.u,e.v);
			res += e.cost;
		}
	}
	return res;
}

int main(){
	int n,m=0,k,l,x;
	cin >> n;	//????????°?????\???
	int cnt=0;
	for(int i=0;i<n;i++){
		for(int j=0;j<n;j++){
			cin >> x;
			if(x != -1){
				edge e;
				e.u = i; e.v = j; e.cost = x;
				es[m] = e;
				m++;
			}
		}
	}
	sort(es,es+m);
	cout << kruskal(n,m) << "\n";
}

C++: #include<bits/stdc++.h>
using namespace std;
using UL = unsigned int;
using ULL = unsigned long long;
using LL = long long;
#define rep(i,n) for(UL i=0; i<(n); i++)

template<class E>
using nega_queue=priority_queue<E,vector<E>,greater<E>>;

UL N;
UL UF[100];
void unite(UL a,UL b){
 a=UF[a]; b=UF[b];
 rep(i,N) if(UF[i]==b) UF[i]=a;
}

int main() {
 scanf("%u",&N);
 nega_queue<pair<int,pair<UL,UL>>> G;
 rep(i,N) rep(j,N){
  int d; scanf("%d",&d);
  if(d!=-1) G.push({d,{i,j}});
 }
 int ans=0;
 rep(i,N) UF[i]=i;
 while(G.size()){
  int d=G.top().first;
  UL u=G.top().second.first;
  UL v=G.top().second.second;
  G.pop();
  if(UF[u]==UF[v]) continue;
  unite(u,v);
  ans+=d;
 }
 printf("%d\n",ans);
 return 0;
}