Go: package main

import (
	"bufio"
	"fmt"
	"os"
	"sort"
	"strconv"
)

var scanner = bufio.NewScanner(os.Stdin)

func nextString() string {
	scanner.Scan()
	return scanner.Text()
}

func nextInt() int {
	n, err := strconv.Atoi(nextString())
	if err != nil {
		fmt.Printf("strconv.Atoi failed: %v\n", err)
	}
	return n
}

type ElementKey int
type Node struct {
	key    ElementKey
	parent *Node
	rank   int
}

func newNode(key ElementKey) *Node {
	node := Node{}
	node.key = key
	node.parent = &node
	node.rank = 0

	return &node
}

func union(x, y *Node) {
	xSet := findSet(x)
	ySet := findSet(y)
	link(xSet, ySet)
}

func link(x, y *Node) {
	if x.rank > y.rank {
		y.parent = x
	} else {
		x.parent = y

		if x.rank == y.rank {
			y.rank++
		}
	}
}

func findSet(x *Node) *Node {
	if x != x.parent {
		x.parent = findSet(x.parent)
	}
	return x.parent
}

func newDisjointSets(nSets int) *DisjointSets {
	sets := DisjointSets{}
	sets.keyToNode = map[ElementKey]*Node{}
	for i := 0; i < nSets; i++ {
		key := ElementKey(i)
		sets.keyToNode[key] = newNode(key)
	}
	return &sets
}

type DisjointSets struct {
	keyToNode map[ElementKey]*Node
}

func (sets *DisjointSets) union(x, y ElementKey) {
	xNode := sets.keyToNode[x]
	yNode := sets.keyToNode[y]
	union(xNode, yNode)
}

func (sets DisjointSets) findSet(x ElementKey) *Node {
	xNode := sets.keyToNode[x]
	return findSet(xNode)
}

type Edge struct {
	i, j   int
	weight int
}

func main() {
	scanner.Split(bufio.ScanWords)

	n := nextInt()
	sets := newDisjointSets(n)
	edges := []Edge{}
	a := make([][]int, n)
	for i := 0; i < n; i++ {
		a[i] = make([]int, n)
		for j := 0; j < n; j++ {
			a[i][j] = nextInt()
			if a[i][j] >= 0 {
				e := Edge{
					i:      i,
					j:      j,
					weight: a[i][j],
				}
				edges = append(edges, e)
			}
		}
	}
	sort.Slice(edges, func(i, j int) bool { return edges[i].weight < edges[j].weight })
	totalWeight := 0
	for _, edge := range edges {
		i := ElementKey(edge.i)
		j := ElementKey(edge.j)
		if sets.findSet(i) != sets.findSet(j) {
			totalWeight += edge.weight
			sets.union(i, j)
		}
	}
	fmt.Println(totalWeight)
}

C++: #define _USE_MATH_DEFINES
#include <algorithm>
#include <bitset>
#include <cassert>
#include <cctype>
#include <clocale>
#include <cmath>
#include <cstdlib>
#include <ctime>
#include <functional>
#include <iomanip>
#include <iostream>
#include <list>
#include <map>
#include <queue>
#include <set>
#include <sstream>
#include <stack>
#include <string>
#include <tuple>
#include <unordered_map>
#include <unordered_set>
#include <utility>
#include <vector>

using namespace std;

#define IOS ios::sync_with_stdio(false); cin.tie(0);
#define FOR(i, s, n) for(int i = (s), i##_len=(n); i < i##_len; ++i)
#define FORS(i, s, n) for(int i = (s), i##_len=(n); i <= i##_len; ++i)
#define VFOR(i, s, n) for(int i = (s); i < (n); ++i)
#define VFORS(i, s, n) for(int i = (s); i <= (n); ++i)
#define REP(i, n) FOR(i, 0, n)
#define REPS(i, n) FORS(i, 0, n)
#define VREP(i, n) VFOR(i, 0, n)
#define VREPS(i, n) VFORS(i, 0, n)
#define RFOR(i, s, n) for(int i = (s), i##_len=(n); i >= i##_len; --i)
#define RFORS(i, s, n) for(int i = (s), i##_len=(n); i > i##_len; --i)
#define RREP(i, n) RFOR(i, n, 0)
#define RREPS(i, n) RFORS(i, n, 0)
#define ALL(v) (v).begin(), (v).end()
#define SORT(v) sort(ALL(v))
#define RSORT(v) sort(ALL(v), greater<decltype(v[0])>())
#define SZ(x) ((int)(x).size())
#define PB push_back
#define MP make_pair
#define MT make_tuple
#define BIT(n) (1LL<<(n))
#define UNIQUE(v) v.erase(unique(ALL(v)), v.end())

using ll = long long;
using Pi_i = pair<int, int>;
using VB = vector<bool>;
using VC = vector<char>;
using VD = vector<double>;
using VI = vector<int>;
using VLL = vector<ll>;
using VS = vector<string>;
using VSH = vector<short>;

const int MOD = 1000000007;
const int INF = 1000000000;
const int NIL = -1;

template<class T, class S>
bool chmax(T &a, const S &b){
    if(a < b){
        a = b; return true;
    }
    return false;
}
template<class T, class S>
bool chmin(T &a, const S &b){
    if(b < a){
        a = b; return true;
    }
    return false;
}

/*　O(V log E) 
#include <algorithm>
#include <queue>
#include <vector>
#define FOR(i, s, n) for(int i = s, i##_len=(n); i < i##_len; ++i)
#define REP(i, n) FOR(i, 0, n)
#define ALL(v) (v).begin(), (v).end()
const int INF = 1000000000;
using namespace std;
using ll = long long;
using Pi_i = pair<int, int>;
*/

struct edge{
    int to, cost;
    edge(int To, int Cost): to(To), cost(Cost){};
};


int V; //頂点数
vector<vector<edge>> G;
vector<int> d; //既に木に含まれる点からの距離

int prim(){
    int res = 0;
    //Pi_i first: 距離　second: 頂点
    priority_queue<Pi_i, vector<Pi_i>, greater<Pi_i>> que;
    fill(ALL(d), INF);
    d[0] = 0;
    que.push(MP(0, 0));

    while(!que.empty()){
        Pi_i p = que.top(); que.pop();
        int v = p.second;
        if(d[v] < p.first) continue;
        d[v] = 0;
        res += p.first;
        for(edge &e : G[v]){
            if(d[e.to] > e.cost){
                d[e.to] = e.cost;
                que.push(MP(d[e.to], e.to));
            }
        }
    }
    return res;
}

int main(){
    cin >> V;
    G.resize(V);
    d.resize(V);
    REP(i, V){
        REP(j, V){
            int cst; cin >> cst;
            if(cst != -1){
                G[i].PB(edge(j, cst));
                G[j].PB(edge(i, cst));
            }
        }
    }
    cout << prim() << endl;
    return 0;
}

C++: #include<iostream>
#include<algorithm>
#include<vector>
#include<functional>
using namespace std;

#if 0
所用時間: 1h

感想: 思ったより実装すべきコード量が多かった。DisjointSetは今後も使う機会が多そうなので、クラス化してみた。
Pの配列を動的に確保するよう工夫した、良い復習になった。

#endif

int N, buff, M = 0, SUM = 0, A[101][101], cost[5000], dpt[5000], dst[5000];//A[Y][X]
vector<pair<int, int> > edges;

class disjointSet {
private:
    int* P;
    
public:
    disjointSet(){
        P = new int[100000];
    }
    disjointSet(int N){     
        P = new int[N];
    }
    ~disjointSet(){
        delete[] P;
    }

    void init(int N){ //木構造の初期化
        for(int i = 0; i <= N; ++i){
            P[i] = i;
        }
    }

    int root(int a){ //根の参照
        if(P[a] == a) return a;
        return (P[a] = root(P[a]));
    }

    bool is_same_set(int a, int b){ //同じ根か?
        return root(a) == root(b);
    }

    void unite(int a, int b){
        P[root(a)] = root(b); //aのrootをbの子にする
    }
};


void preprocess(){//辺の前処理
  for(int r = 0; r < N; ++r){
    for(int c = r+1; c < N; ++c){
      if (A[r][c] > -1) {
        cost[M] = A[r][c];
        dpt[M] = r;
        dst[M] = c;
        M++;
      }
    }
  }

  //for(int i = 0; i < M; ++i) cout << cost[i] << endl;

  for(int i = 0; i < M; ++i){
    edges.push_back(make_pair(cost[i], i));
  }
  // for(int i = 0; i < M; ++i) cout << edges[i].first << " " << edges[i].second << endl;

  sort(edges.begin(), edges.end());

  // for(int i = 0; i < M; ++i) cout << edges[i].first << " " << edges[i].second << endl;

}

void solve(){
  disjointSet Union(100000);

  int ans = 0;
  preprocess();

  Union.init(N);

  for(int i = 0; i < M; ++i){
    int index = edges[i].second;
    if(Union.is_same_set(dpt[index], dst[index])) continue;
    else {
      Union.unite(dpt[index], dst[index]);
      // cout << "unite " << dpt[index] << " and " << dst[index] << endl;
      ans += cost[index];
    }
  }
  cout << ans << endl;
}

int main(){

cin >> N;

for(int i = 0; i < N; ++i){
  for(int j = 0; j < N; ++j){
    cin >> buff;
    A[i][j] = buff;
    }
  }

  //行列の表示
  // cout << "Matrix:" << endl;
  // for(int row=0; row < N; ++row){
  //   for(int col = 0; col < N; ++col){
  //     cout << A[row][col];
  //   }
  //   cout << endl;
  // }

  solve();
}

C++: http://judge.u-aizu.ac.jp/onlinejudge/description.jsp?id=ALDS1_12_A