Go: package main

import (
	"bufio"
	"fmt"
	"os"
	"strconv"
)

// I/O
type Scanner struct {
	sc *bufio.Scanner
}

func NewScanner() *Scanner {
	sc := bufio.NewScanner(os.Stdin)
	sc.Split(bufio.ScanWords)
	sc.Buffer(make([]byte, 1024), int(1e+9))
	return &Scanner{sc}
}

func (s *Scanner) nextStr() string {
	s.sc.Scan()
	return s.sc.Text()
}

func (s *Scanner) nextInt() int {
	i, e := strconv.Atoi(s.nextStr())
	if e != nil {
		panic(e)
	}
	return i
}

func (s *Scanner) nextFloat() float64 {
	f, e := strconv.ParseFloat(s.nextStr(), 64)
	if e != nil {
		panic(e)
	}
	return f
}

func (s *Scanner) nextRuneSlice() []rune {
	return []rune(s.nextStr())
}

func (s *Scanner) nextIntSlice(n int) []int {
	res := make([]int, n)
	for i := 0; i < n; i++ {
		res[i] = s.nextInt()
	}
	return res
}

func (s *Scanner) nextFloatSlice(n int) []float64 {
	res := make([]float64, n)
	for i := 0; i < n; i++ {
		res[i] = s.nextFloat()
	}
	return res
}

// Arithmetic
func max(nums ...int) int {
	m := nums[0]
	for _, i := range nums {
		if m < i {
			m = i
		}
	}
	return m
}

func min(nums ...int) int {
	m := nums[0]
	for _, i := range nums {
		if m > i {
			m = i
		}
	}
	return m
}

func abs(x int) int {
	if x > 0 {
		return x
	}
	return -x
}

func pow(x, y int) int {
	res := 1
	for i := 0; i < y; i++ {
		res *= x
	}
	return res
}

func ceil(a, b int) int {
	if a%b == 0 {
		return a / b
	} else {
		return a/b + 1
	}
}

// Sort
type RuneSlice []rune

func (a RuneSlice) Len() int           { return len(a) }
func (a RuneSlice) Less(i, j int) bool { return a[i] < a[j] }
func (a RuneSlice) Swap(i, j int)      { a[i], a[j] = a[j], a[i] }

const INF = 1 << 60

// Main
func main() {
	sc := NewScanner()
	wtr := bufio.NewWriter(os.Stdout)
	N := sc.nextInt()
	G := make([][]int, N)
	for i := 0; i < N; i++ {
		G[i] = make([]int, N)
		for j := 0; j < N; j++ {
			G[i][j] = sc.nextInt()
		}
	}
	d := make([]int, N)
	for i := 0; i < N; i++ {
		d[i] = INF
	}
	seen := make([]bool, N)
	d[0] = 0
	ans := 0
	for {
		cur := 0
		minCost := INF
		for i := 0; i < N; i++ {
			if !seen[i] && d[i] < minCost {
				minCost = d[i]
				cur = i
			}
		}
		if minCost == INF {
			break
		}
		seen[cur] = true
		ans += d[cur]
		for i := 0; i < N; i++ {
			cost := G[cur][i]
			if cost != -1 && cost < d[i] {
				d[i] = cost
			}
		}
	}

	fmt.Fprintln(wtr, ans)
	wtr.Flush()
}

C++: #include <iostream>
#include <vector>
#include <cstdlib>
#include <utility>
#include <algorithm>

using namespace std;

vector<int> djset, szset;
vector<pair<int, pair<int, int>>> G;

int root(int x)
{
    int v = djset[x];
    while (v != djset[v]) v = djset[v];
    djset[x] = v;
    return v;
}

int main(void)
{
    int N;
    cin >> N;
    G.resize(N * N);
    int count = 0;
    int temp;
    for (int i = 0; i < N; i++)
    {
        for (int j = 0; j < N; j++)
        {
            cin >> temp;
            if (i == j || temp == -1) continue;
            G[count++] = make_pair(temp, make_pair(i, j));
        }
    }
    djset.resize(count);
    szset.resize(count, 1);
    G.erase(G.begin() + count, G.end());
    sort(G.begin(), G.end());
    for (int i = 0; i < count; i++) djset[i] = i;
    int v[2], r[2];
    int ans = 0;
    for(auto i : G)
    {
        v[0] = i.second.first;
        v[1] = i.second.second;
        for (int i = 0; i < 2; i++) r[i] = root(v[i]);
        if (r[0] == r[1]) continue;
        if (szset[r[1]] > szset[r[0]]) swap(r[0], r[1]);
        djset[r[1]] = r[0];
        szset[r[0]] += szset[r[1]];
        szset[r[1]] = 0;
        ans += i.first;
    }
    cout << ans << endl;
    return 0;
}