Go: package main

import (
	"bufio"
	"fmt"
	"os"
	"strconv"
)

type AdjacentList struct {
	matrix [][]int
}

func NewEmptyAdjacentList(dim int) *AdjacentList {
	matrix := make([][]int, dim)
	for i := 0; i < dim; i++ {
		matrix[i] = make([]int, dim)
	}
	return &AdjacentList{matrix: matrix}
}

func (al *AdjacentList) set(node int, adjacent int) {
	al.matrix[node-1][adjacent-1] = 1
}

func (al *AdjacentList) findAdjacentsFor(node int) []int {
	adjacents := []int{}
	for i, v := range al.matrix[node-1] {
		if v == 1 {
			adjacents = append(adjacents, i+1)
		}
	}
	return adjacents
}

type DistanceList struct {
	list []int
}

func NewDistanceList(dim int) *DistanceList {
	list := make([]int, dim)
	for i := 0; i < dim; i++ {
		list[i] = -1
	}
	return &DistanceList{list: list}
}

func (dl *DistanceList) set(node int, distance int) {
	dl.list[node-1] = distance
}

func (dl *DistanceList) get(node int) int {
	return dl.list[node-1]
}

func (dl *DistanceList) isVisited(node int) bool {
	return dl.list[node-1] >= 0
}

type Position struct {
	node     int
	distance int
}

func main() {
	sc := bufio.NewScanner(os.Stdin)
	sc.Split(bufio.ScanWords)

	dim, err := nextInt(sc)
	if err != nil {
		panic(err)
	}

	al := NewEmptyAdjacentList(dim)

	for i := 1; i <= dim; i++ {
		node, err := nextInt(sc)
		if err != nil {
			panic(err)
		}

		adjacentNum, err := nextInt(sc)
		if err != nil {
			panic(err)
		}
		for j := 0; j < adjacentNum; j++ {
			adjacent, err := nextInt(sc)
			if err != nil {
				panic(err)
			}
			al.set(node, adjacent)
		}
	}

	dl := NewDistanceList(dim)

	bfs(al, dl)

	for i := 1; i <= dim; i++ {
		fmt.Printf("%d %d\n", i, dl.get(i))
	}
}

func bfs(al *AdjacentList, dl *DistanceList) {
	stack := []Position{Position{node: 1, distance: 0}}
	for len(stack) > 0 {
		currentPosition := stack[0]
		stack = stack[1:]
		if !dl.isVisited(currentPosition.node) {
			dl.set(currentPosition.node, currentPosition.distance)
		}
		for _, v := range al.findAdjacentsFor(currentPosition.node) {
			if !dl.isVisited(v) {
				stack = append(stack, Position{node: v, distance: currentPosition.distance + 1})
			}
		}
	}
}

func nextInt(sc *bufio.Scanner) (int, error) {
	sc.Scan()
	return strconv.Atoi(sc.Text())
}

C++: #include<iostream>
#include<queue>

using namespace std;
static const int N = 100;
static const int INFTY = (1 << 21);

int n, M[N][N];
int d[N]; //距離で訪問状態(color)を管理する

void bfs(int s) {
    queue<int> q;
    q.push(s);
    for(int i = 0; i < n; i++) d[i] = INFTY;
    d[s] = 0;
    int u;
    while(!q.empty()) {
        u = q.front();
        q.pop();
        for(int v = 0; v < n; v++) {
            if(M[u][v] == 0) continue;
            if(d[v] != INFTY) continue;
            d[v] = d[u] + 1;
            q.push(v);
        }
    }
    for(int i = 0; i < n; i++) {
        cout << i + 1 << " " << ((d[i] == INFTY) ? (-1) : d[i]) << endl;
    }
}

int main() {
    int u, k, v;
    
    cin >> n;
    for(int i = 0; i < n; i++) {
        for(int j = 0; j < n; j++) {
            M[i][j] = 0;
        }
    }
    
    for(int i = 0; i < n; i++) {
        cin >> u >> k;
        u--;
        for(int j = 0; j < k; j++) {
            cin >> v;
            v--;
            M[u][v] = 1;
        }
    }
    
    bfs(0);
    
    return 0;
}

C++: // http://judge.u-aizu.ac.jp/onlinejudge/description.jsp?id=ALDS1_11_C
#include <iostream>
#include <cstdio>
#include <queue> // 入れた順番に出していく玉突き構造。
using namespace std;

int G[110][110];
int n;
int u, k, v;

void print_matrix(int N) {
  for(int i=0; i<N; i++) {
    for(int j=0; j<N; j++) {
      printf("%d", G[i][j]);
      if (j < N-1) {
	printf(" ");
      }
    }
      printf("\n");
  }
}

void make_matrix() {
  fill(&G[0][0], &G[0][0]+110*110, 0);
  scanf("%d", &n);
  for (int i=0; i<n; i++) {
    scanf("%d%d", &u, &k);
    u--;
    for (int j=0; j<k; j++) {
      scanf("%d", &v);
      v--;
      G[u][v] = 1;
    }
  }
}

void bfs(int src) {
  // cerr << "bfs root is " << src << endl;
  queue<int> Q; // 整数管理用(ナマの番地に入れる(-1しない))
  int D[110]; // 距離管理用(ナマの番地に入れる)
  fill(D, D+110, -1);
  D[src] = 0;
  Q.push(src); // rootだけは入れる。
  while (! Q.empty()) {
    int cur = Q.front(); // 先頭要素を取り出す。
    Q.pop(); // 先頭要素を消す。
    // cerr << "visiting " << cur << " whose dist is " << D[cur] << endl;
    for (int i=1; i<=n; i++) { // i:訪問先
      if (G[cur-1][i-1] == 1 && D[i] == -1) {
	D[i] = D[cur] + 1;
	Q.push(i);
      }
    }
  }
  for (int i=1; i<=n; i++) {
    printf("%d %d\n", i, D[i]);
  }
}

int main() {
  make_matrix();
  bfs(1);
}