Go: package main

/*
グラフの表現 隣接行列による表現
*/

import (
	"bufio"
	"fmt"
	"log"
	"os"
	"strconv"
	"strings"
)

func main() {
	scanner := makeScanner(8192)
	n := eGetInt(scanner)
	g := make([][]int, n+1)
	for i := 1; i < n+1; i++ {
		g[i] = make([]int, n+1)
		ints := eGetInts(scanner)
		num := ints[0]
		for j := 0; j < ints[1]; j++ {
			g[num][ints[j+2]] = 1
		}
	}
	dist := make([]int, n+1)
	for i := 0; i < len(dist); i++ {
		dist[i] = -1
	}
	q := []int{}

	// 訪問する
	q = append(q, 1)
	dist[1] = 0

	// キューが空でない限り
	for len(q) > 0 {
		// 先頭を取り出す
		top := 0
		top, q = q[0], q[1:]
		// 隣接マスを入れる.
		for i := 1; i < n+1; i++ {
			// 辺がある
			if g[top][i] == 1 {
				if dist[i] == -1 {
					// 訪問済みでなければ
					q = append(q, i)
					dist[i] = dist[top] + 1
				}
			}
		}
	}
	for i := 1; i < n+1; i++ {
		fmt.Println(i, dist[i])
	}
}

////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////
// ライブラリ
////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////
func makeScanner(maxByte int) *bufio.Scanner {
	scanner := bufio.NewScanner(os.Stdin)
	scanner.Buffer(make([]uint8, 0, 8192), maxByte)
	return scanner
}
func makeWordScanner() *bufio.Scanner {
	scanner := makeScanner(8192)
	scanner.Split(bufio.ScanWords)
	return scanner
}
func eGetLine(r *bufio.Scanner) string {
	if r.Scan() {
		return r.Text()
	}
	err := r.Err()
	if err != nil {
		log.Fatal(err)
	}
	// EOF
	return ""
}
func eGetInt(r *bufio.Scanner) int {
	line := eGetLine(r)
	return eAtoi(line)
}
func eGetInt64(r *bufio.Scanner) int64 {
	line := eGetLine(r)
	return eAtoInt64(line)
}
func eGetFields(r *bufio.Scanner) []string {
	line := eGetLine(r)
	return strings.Fields(line)
}
func eGetInts(r *bufio.Scanner) []int {
	fields := eGetFields(r)
	ints := make([]int, len(fields))
	for i := 0; i < len(ints); i++ {
		ints[i] = eAtoi(fields[i])
	}
	return ints
}
func eGetInt64s(r *bufio.Scanner) []int64 {
	fields := eGetFields(r)
	ints := make([]int64, len(fields))
	for i := 0; i < len(ints); i++ {
		ints[i] = eAtoInt64(fields[i])
	}
	return ints
}
func eGetChars(r *bufio.Scanner) []string {
	line := eGetLine(r)
	return strings.Split(line, "")
}
func eAtoi(s string) int {
	n, err := strconv.Atoi(s)
	if err != nil {
		log.Fatal(err)
	}
	return n
}
func eAtoInt64(s string) int64 {
	n, err := strconv.ParseInt(s, 10, 64)
	if err != nil {
		log.Fatal(err)
	}
	return n
}

C++: 
#include <iostream>
#include <vector>
#include <queue>
using namespace std;

int main(){
  int n;
  vector<int> mat[100];
  cin >> n;
  for(int i=0;i<n;i++){
    int u,k;
    cin >> u >> k;
    for(int j=0;j<k;j++){
      int v;
      cin >> v;
      mat[i].push_back(v-1);
    }
  }

  int d[100];
  for(int i=0;i<n;i++) d[i]=(-1);

  queue<int> nb;
  nb.push(0);
  d[0]=0;

  while(!nb.empty()){
    for(vector<int>::iterator it=mat[nb.front()].begin();it!=mat[nb.front()].end();it++){
      if(d[*it]==-1){
        d[*it]=d[nb.front()]+1;
        nb.push(*it);
      }
    }
    nb.pop();
  }

  for(int i=1;i<=n;i++)
    cout << i << ' ' << d[i-1] << endl;
  
  return 0;
}

C++: #include<iostream>
#include<queue>

using namespace std;

static const int N = 100;
static const int INFTY = (1<<21);

int n, M[N][N];
int d[N]; // 距離で訪問状態(color)を管理する

void bfs(int s){
    queue<int> q;
    q.push(s);
    for(int i=0; i<n; i++) d[i] = INFTY;

    d[s] = 0;
    int u;

    while(!q.empty()){
        u = q.front();
        q.pop();

        for(int v=0; v<n; v++){
            if(M[u][v] == 0) continue;
            if(d[v] != INFTY) continue;
            d[v] = d[u] + 1;
            q.push(v);
        }
    }
    for(int i=0; i<n; i++){
        cout << i+1 << " " << ((d[i] == INFTY) ? (-1) : d[i]) << endl;
    }
}

int main(int argc, char const *argv[])
{
    int u, k, v;

    cin >> n;
    for(int i=0; i<n; i++){
        for(int j=0; j<n; j++) M[i][j] = 0;
    }

    for(int i=0; i<n; i++){
        cin >> u >> k;
        u--;
        for(int j=0; j<k; j++){
            cin >> v;
            v--;
            M[u][v] = 1;
        }
    }    

    bfs(0);

    return 0;
}