Go: package main

import (
	"bufio"
	"fmt"
	"os"
	"strconv"
)

//util
var sc = bufio.NewScanner(os.Stdin)

func nextStr() string {
	sc.Scan()
	return sc.Text()
}

func nextInt() int {
	sc.Scan()
	i, e := strconv.Atoi(sc.Text())
	if e != nil {
		panic(e)
	}
	return i
}

func printList(list []int) {
	n := len(list)
	buf := bufio.NewWriter(os.Stdout)
	for _, v := range list[0 : n-1] {
		buf.Write([]byte(fmt.Sprintf("%d ", v)))
	}
	buf.Write([]byte(fmt.Sprintf("%d\n", list[n-1])))
	buf.Flush()
}

func max(a, b int) int {
	if a > b {
		return a
	} else {
		return b
	}
}

func min(a, b int) int {
	if a > b {
		return b
	} else {
		return a
	}
}

//solve
const (
	MAX   = 100
	INFTY = (1 << 21)
	WHITE = 0
	GRAY  = 1
	BLACK = 2
)

//V: グラフの頂点全体の集合
//T: MSTに属する頂点の集合
var (
	n     int
	M     [MAX][MAX]int //重みを記録する隣接行列
	color [MAX]int
	p     [MAX]int //MSTにおける頂点の親を記録
	d     [MAX]int //Tに属する頂点と、V−Tに属する頂点を繋ぐ辺の中で、重みが最小のものを記録
)

func prim() int {
	var u, minv int
	//初期化
	for i := 0; i < n; i++ {
		d[i] = INFTY
		p[i] = -1
		color[i] = WHITE
	}

	d[0] = 0

	for {
		//頂点uを決めていく
		//つまり、Tに属する頂点と、V−Tに属する頂点を繋ぐ辺の中で、重みが最小のものを決める
		minv = INFTY
		u = -1
		for i := 0; i < n; i++ {
			//未訪問かつ、辺の重みが最小となるuを選ぶ
			if minv > d[i] && color[i] != BLACK {
				u = i
				minv = d[i]
			}
		}

		if u == -1 {
			break
		}

		color[u] = BLACK
		for v := 0; v < n; v++ {
			//未訪問かつ、辺が存在するとき
			if color[v] != BLACK && M[u][v] != INFTY {
				if d[v] > M[u][v] {
					d[v] = M[u][v]
					p[v] = u
					color[v] = GRAY
				}
			}
		}
	}

	sum := 0
	for i := 0; i < n; i++ {
		if p[i] != -1 {
			sum += M[i][p[i]]
		}
	}
	return sum
}

func main() {
	sc.Split(bufio.ScanWords)
	n = nextInt()

	for i := 0; i < n; i++ {

		for j := 0; j < n; j++ {
			tmp := nextInt()
			if tmp == -1 {
				tmp = INFTY
			}
			M[i][j] = tmp
		}

	}

	fmt.Println(prim())

}

C++: #include <iostream>
#include <vector>
#include <cstdlib>
#include <utility>
#include <algorithm>

using namespace std;

vector<int> djset, szset;
vector<pair<int, pair<int, int>>> G;

int root(int x)
{
    int v = djset[x];
    while (v != djset[v]) v = djset[v];
    djset[x] = v;
    return v;
}

int main(void)
{
    int N;
    cin >> N;
    G.resize(N * N);
    int count = 0;
    int temp;
    for (int i = 0; i < N; i++)
    {
        for (int j = 0; j < N; j++)
        {
            cin >> temp;
            if (i == j || temp == -1) continue;
            G[count++] = make_pair(temp, make_pair(i, j));
        }
    }
    djset.resize(count);
    szset.resize(count, 1);
    G.erase(G.begin() + count, G.end());
    sort(G.begin(), G.end());
    for (int i = 0; i < count; i++) djset[i] = i;
    int v[2], r[2];
    int ans = 0;
    for(auto i : G)
    {
        v[0] = i.second.first;
        v[1] = i.second.second;
        for (int i = 0; i < 2; i++) r[i] = root(v[i]);
        if (r[0] == r[1]) continue;
        if (szset[r[1]] > szset[r[0]]) swap(r[0], r[1]);
        djset[r[1]] = r[0];
        szset[r[0]] += szset[r[1]];
        szset[r[1]] = 0;
        ans += i.first;
    }
    cout << ans << endl;
    return 0;
}