Go: package main

import (
	"bufio"
	"fmt"
	"os"
	"strconv"
)

type AdjacentList struct {
	matrix [][]int
}

func NewEmptyAdjacentList(dim int) *AdjacentList {
	matrix := make([][]int, dim)
	for i := 0; i < dim; i++ {
		matrix[i] = make([]int, dim)
	}
	return &AdjacentList{matrix: matrix}
}

func (al *AdjacentList) set(node int, adjacent int) {
	al.matrix[node-1][adjacent-1] = 1
}

func (al *AdjacentList) findAdjacentsFor(node int) []int {
	adjacents := []int{}
	for i, v := range al.matrix[node-1] {
		if v == 1 {
			adjacents = append(adjacents, i+1)
		}
	}
	return adjacents
}

type DistanceList struct {
	list []int
}

func NewDistanceList(dim int) *DistanceList {
	list := make([]int, dim)
	for i := 0; i < dim; i++ {
		list[i] = -1
	}
	return &DistanceList{list: list}
}

func (dl *DistanceList) set(node int, distance int) {
	dl.list[node-1] = distance
}

func (dl *DistanceList) get(node int) int {
	return dl.list[node-1]
}

func (dl *DistanceList) isVisited(node int) bool {
	return dl.list[node-1] >= 0
}

type Position struct {
	node     int
	distance int
}

func main() {
	sc := bufio.NewScanner(os.Stdin)
	sc.Split(bufio.ScanWords)

	dim, err := nextInt(sc)
	if err != nil {
		panic(err)
	}

	al := NewEmptyAdjacentList(dim)

	for i := 1; i <= dim; i++ {
		node, err := nextInt(sc)
		if err != nil {
			panic(err)
		}

		adjacentNum, err := nextInt(sc)
		if err != nil {
			panic(err)
		}
		for j := 0; j < adjacentNum; j++ {
			adjacent, err := nextInt(sc)
			if err != nil {
				panic(err)
			}
			al.set(node, adjacent)
		}
	}

	dl := NewDistanceList(dim)

	bfs(al, dl)

	for i := 1; i <= dim; i++ {
		fmt.Printf("%d %d\n", i, dl.get(i))
	}
}

func bfs(al *AdjacentList, dl *DistanceList) {
	stack := []Position{Position{node: 1, distance: 0}}
	for len(stack) > 0 {
		currentPosition := stack[0]
		stack = stack[1:]
		if !dl.isVisited(currentPosition.node) {
			dl.set(currentPosition.node, currentPosition.distance)
		}
		for _, v := range al.findAdjacentsFor(currentPosition.node) {
			stack = append(stack, Position{node: v, distance: currentPosition.distance + 1})
		}
	}
}

func nextInt(sc *bufio.Scanner) (int, error) {
	sc.Scan()
	return strconv.Atoi(sc.Text())
}

C++: #include <iostream>
#include <vector>
#include <queue>
using namespace  std;

const int nIMPOS = -1;
struct StDist
{
  int m_nDist;
  int m_nFromMeTo;

  StDist(int nDist) : m_nDist(nDist), m_nFromMeTo(0)
  { }
};

void fnInput(vector<vector<int>>& rvvnAdjcy, vector<StDist>& rvoDist)
{
  int nxSiz;
  cin >> nxSiz;

  rvvnAdjcy.resize(nxSiz + 1, vector<int>(nxSiz + 1, 0));
  for (int i = 0; i < nxSiz; ++i)
  {
    int nx, nySiz;
    cin >> nx >> nySiz;
    for (int j = 0; j < nySiz; ++j)
    {
      int ny;
      cin >> ny;
      rvvnAdjcy[nx][ny] = 1;
    }
  }
  StDist oDist(nIMPOS);
  rvoDist.resize(nxSiz + 1, oDist);
}

void fnBreadthFirstSearch(const vector<vector<int>>& cnrvvnAdjcy, 
                          queue<int>& rqnBFSrch, vector<StDist>& rvoDist)
{
  while (rqnBFSrch.size())
  {
    int nx = rqnBFSrch.front(); rqnBFSrch.pop();
    if (rvoDist[nx].m_nFromMeTo)  continue; 

    rvoDist[nx].m_nFromMeTo = 1;
    for (int ny = 1; ny < cnrvvnAdjcy[nx].size(); ++ny)
      if (cnrvvnAdjcy[nx][ny])
      {
        int nDist = rvoDist[nx].m_nDist + 1;
        if (rvoDist[ny].m_nDist == nIMPOS)
          rvoDist[ny].m_nDist = nDist;
        else
          rvoDist[ny].m_nDist = min(rvoDist[ny].m_nDist, nDist);

        rqnBFSrch.push(ny);
      }
  }
}

void fnResult(const vector<StDist>& cnrvoDist)
{
  for (int i = 1; i < cnrvoDist.size(); ++i)
    cout << i <<  " " << cnrvoDist[i].m_nDist << endl;
}

int main()
{
  cin.tie(0);
  ios::sync_with_stdio(false);
  vector<vector<int>> vvnAdjcy;
  queue<int>  qnBFSrch;
  vector<StDist> voDist;

  fnInput(vvnAdjcy, voDist);

  voDist[1].m_nDist = 0;
  qnBFSrch.push(1);
  fnBreadthFirstSearch(vvnAdjcy, qnBFSrch, voDist);
  fnResult(voDist);

  return 0;
}

C++: #include <stdio.h>
#include <stdint.h>
#include <iostream>
#include <fstream>
#include <cassert>
#include <climits>

#include <memory>
#include <vector>
#include <queue>
using namespace std;

#define DEBUG (0)

#if DEBUG
#define DPRINTF(...) do { \
    printf("D(L%d) %s: ", __LINE__, __func__); \
    printf(__VA_ARGS__); \
  } while (false)
#else
#define DPRINTF(...)
#endif // DEBUG


struct Vertex {
  Vertex() :
    id_(-1),
    visited_(0),
    distance_(-1),
    adjNum_(-1) { }

  int id_;
  bool visited_;
  int distance_;
  int adjNum_;
  unique_ptr<int[]> adjIds_;

  void set(int id, vector<int> ids);
  void printInfo();
  void printDistance();
};


void Vertex::set(int id, vector<int> ids)
{
  id_ = id;
  adjNum_ = ids.size();

  if (adjNum_ == 0)
    return;

  adjIds_ = unique_ptr<int[]>(new int[adjNum_]);

  for (int i = 0; i < adjNum_; i++)
    adjIds_[i] = ids[i];
}


void Vertex::printInfo()
{
  DPRINTF("%d %d", id_, adjNum_);
  for (int i = 0; i < adjNum_; i++)
    printf(" %d", adjIds_[i]);
  cout << endl;
}


void Vertex::printDistance()
{
  printf("%d %d\n", id_, distance_);
}


void bfs(Vertex vertices[])
{
  const int startId = 1;
  queue<int> idQueue;

  idQueue.push(startId);

  int distance = 0;

  while (!idQueue.empty()) {

    DPRINTF("queue size %lu\n", idQueue.size());

    const size_t numOfThisDist = idQueue.size();

    for (size_t i = 0; i < numOfThisDist; i++)
    {
      int id = idQueue.front();
      idQueue.pop();

      DPRINTF("%zu  id %d\n", i, id);

      Vertex &vtx = vertices[id];

      if (vtx.visited_)
        continue;

      vtx.visited_ = true;
      vtx.distance_ = distance;

      for (int j = 0; j < vtx.adjNum_; j++)
        idQueue.push(vtx.adjIds_[j]);

    }

    distance++;
  }
}


int main() {
  int n;
  cin >> n; cin.ignore();

  DPRINTF("%d\n", n);

  // do not use [0], it's empty
  Vertex vertices[n+1];

  for (int i = 1; i <= n; i++)
  {
    int node, adjNum;

    cin >> node >> adjNum;

    vector<int> adjs;

    for (int j = 0; j < adjNum; j++)
    {
      int v;
      cin >> v;
      adjs.push_back(v);
    }

    vertices[i].set(node, adjs);

    cin.ignore();

  }

#if DEBUG
  for (int i = 1; i <= n; i++)
    vertices[i].printInfo();
#endif // DEBUG

  bfs(vertices);

  for (int i = 1; i <= n; i++)
    vertices[i].printDistance();

  return 0;

}

C++: #define scanf_s scanf
#include <string>
#include <stdio.h>
#include <math.h>
#include <stack>
#include <queue>
#include <list>
#include <vector>
#include <iostream>
using namespace std;

#define MAX 100
//#define MAX_ 1000
struct Graph
{
	int id, k;
	list<int> node;
	int d = -1;
};
Graph G[MAX];
//int cou = 0;
void Breadth_cou(Graph *g,int cou)
{
	for (auto i = g->node.begin(); i != g->node.end(); ++i) {
		if (G[*i].d == -1 || G[*i].d > cou) {
			if (G[*i].d != -1) {
				Breadth_cou(&G[*i], cou + 1);
			}
			G[*i].d = cou;
		}
	}
}
void Breadth(Graph *g)
{
	if (g->k > 0) {
		Breadth_cou(g, g->d + 1);
		g->k = 0;
		for (auto i = g->node.begin(); i != g->node.end(); ++i) {
			Breadth(&G[*i]);
		}
	}
}
int main(void)
{
	int u, xk, v, n;
	scanf_s("%d", &n);
	for (int i = 0; i < n; ++i) {
		scanf_s("%d %d", &u, &xk);
		G[u - 1].id = u - 1;
		G[u - 1].k = xk;
		for (int j = 0; j < xk; ++j) {
			scanf_s("%d", &v);
			G[u - 1].node.push_back(v - 1);
		}
	}
	G[0].d = 0;
	Breadth(&G[0]);
	for (int i = 0; i < n; ++i) {
		printf("%d %d\n", G[i].id + 1, G[i].d);
	}
}