Go: package main

import (
	"bufio"
	"fmt"
	"os"
	"strconv"
	"strings"
)

var scanner = bufio.NewScanner(os.Stdin)

func nextString() string {
	scanner.Scan()
	return scanner.Text()
}

func nextInt() int {
	n, err := strconv.Atoi(nextString())
	if err != nil {
		fmt.Printf("strconv.Atoi failed: %v\n", err)
	}
	return n
}

func stringifyArray(arr []int) string {
	return strings.TrimRight(fmt.Sprintf("%+v", arr)[1:], "]")
}

var infty = 1000000000

type nodeKey int

type DirectedGraphNode struct {
	key       nodeKey
	adjacents []*DirectedGraphNode
	visited   bool
	d         int
	parent    *DirectedGraphNode
}

type DirectedGraph struct {
	nodes []DirectedGraphNode
}

func (g *DirectedGraph) setAdjacency(l, r nodeKey) {
	g.nodes[l].adjacents = append(g.nodes[l].adjacents, &g.nodes[r])
}

func newDirectedGraph(nNodes int) *DirectedGraph {
	graph := DirectedGraph{}
	graph.nodes = make([]DirectedGraphNode, nNodes)
	for iNodes := 0; iNodes < nNodes; iNodes++ {
		graph.nodes[iNodes].key = nodeKey(iNodes)

		graph.nodes[iNodes].visited = false
		graph.nodes[iNodes].d = infty
		graph.nodes[iNodes].parent = nil
	}
	return &graph
}

type QueueEntry struct {
	node *DirectedGraphNode
	next *QueueEntry
}

type Queue struct {
	head, tail *QueueEntry
}

func (q *Queue) enqueue(node *DirectedGraphNode) {
	entry := QueueEntry{}
	entry.node = node

	if q.tail == nil {
		q.head = &entry
		q.tail = &entry
		return
	}

	q.tail.next = &entry
	q.tail = q.tail.next
}

func (q *Queue) dequeue() *QueueEntry {
	if q.head == nil {
		return nil
	}
	poped := q.head
	q.head = q.head.next
	if q.head == nil {
		q.tail = nil
	}
	return poped
}

func (q *Queue) isEmpty() bool {
	return q.head == nil
}

func fillDistancesByBreadthFirstSearch(g *DirectedGraph, startNode *DirectedGraphNode) {
	startNode.visited = true
	startNode.d = 0

	queue := Queue{}
	queue.enqueue(startNode)
	for !queue.isEmpty() {
		u := queue.dequeue().node
		for _, adjacent := range u.adjacents {
			if !adjacent.visited {
				adjacent.visited = true
				adjacent.d = u.d + 1
				adjacent.parent = u
				queue.enqueue(adjacent)
			}
		}
		u.visited = true
	}
}

func main() {
	scanner.Split(bufio.ScanWords)

	nNodes := nextInt()
	g := newDirectedGraph(nNodes + 1)

	for iNode := 0; iNode < nNodes; iNode++ {
		nodeKeyLeft := nodeKey(nextInt())
		nAdj := nextInt()
		for iAdj := 0; iAdj < nAdj; iAdj++ {
			nodeKeyRight := nodeKey(nextInt())
			g.setAdjacency(nodeKeyLeft, nodeKeyRight)
		}
	}

	// fmt.Println(g)
	fillDistancesByBreadthFirstSearch(g, &g.nodes[1])
	// fmt.Println(g)

	for iNode := 1; iNode <= nNodes; iNode++ {
		node := g.nodes[iNode]
		distance := node.d
		if distance == infty {
			distance = -1
		}
		fmt.Println(node.key, distance)
	}
}

C++: #include <iostream>
#include <vector>
#include <algorithm>
#include <deque>
using namespace std;
 
struct status{
    int idx_node;
    vector<int> children;
    int visited = 0;
    int depth = 0;
};
 
deque<int> schedule; 
vector<status> graph;

int depth = 1;
void bfs(){
    if (schedule.size()>1){
        
        int now_node = schedule.front();
        schedule.pop_front();
        
        switch(now_node){
            case 0: {
                ++depth;
                schedule.push_back(0);
                break;
            }
            default: {
                for(auto& next_node:graph[now_node-1].children){
                    if(graph[next_node-1].visited) continue;
                    
                    graph[next_node-1].visited = 1;
                    graph[next_node-1].depth = depth;  
                    schedule.push_back(next_node);
                }
            }
        }
        bfs();
    }
}
 

int main(void){cin.tie(0);ios::sync_with_stdio(false);
 
    //stdi
    int nb_nodes; cin >> nb_nodes;
    graph.resize(nb_nodes);
    for(auto& times:graph){
        int idx_node; cin >> idx_node; graph[idx_node-1].idx_node = idx_node;
        int nb_edges; cin >> nb_edges; graph[idx_node-1].children.resize(nb_edges);
        for(auto& a:graph[idx_node-1].children){
            cin >> a;
        }
        sort(graph[idx_node-1].children.begin(),graph[idx_node-1].children.end());
    }
    
    //bfs
    schedule.push_back(1);
    schedule.push_back(0);
    bfs();
     
    //stdo
    for(auto& a:graph){
        cout<<a.idx_node<<" "
            <<a.depth<<"\n";
    }
}

C++: #include <iostream>
#include <string>
#include <vector>
#include <algorithm>
#include <utility>
#include <queue>
#include <iomanip>
#define REP(i, n) for(int i = 0; i < n; i++)
#define REPR(i, n) for(int i = n; i >= 0; i--)
#define FOR(i, m, n) for(int i = m; i < n; i++)
#define INF 100000
#define ALL(v) v.begin(), v.end()
using namespace std;
typedef long long ll;
typedef pair<int,int> P;
vector<vector< int> > G;
int N;
vector<int> flag;
vector<int> d;
queue<int> que;

void bfs(int k){
    if(flag[k] == -1){
        que.push(k);
        flag[k] = 0;
        while(!que.empty()){
            int now = que.front(); que.pop();
            if(G[now].size() != 0){
                REP(i,G[now].size()){
                    if(flag[G[now][i]] == -1){
                        flag[G[now][i]] = flag[now] + 1;
                        que.push(G[now][i]);
                    }
                }
            }
        }
    }
}

int main(){
    int n;
    int time = 0;

    
    cin >> n;
    G.resize(n);
    d.resize(n);//最初に発見された時刻
    flag.resize(n,-1);
    REP(i,n){
        int u,k; cin >>u>>k;
        u--;
        if(k != 0){
        REP(j,k){
            int a; cin >>a;
            G[u].push_back(a);
            G[u][j]--;
        }
        }
    }
    //time = 0;
    bfs(0);

    REP(i,n){
        cout << i + 1 << " " << flag[i] << endl;
    }
}