Go: package main

import (
	"bufio"
	"fmt"
	"os"
	"strconv"
)

func getScanner(fp *os.File) *bufio.Scanner {
	scanner := bufio.NewScanner(fp)
	scanner.Split(bufio.ScanWords)
	scanner.Buffer(make([]byte, 500001), 500000)
	return scanner
}

func getNextString(scanner *bufio.Scanner) string {
	scanner.Scan()
	return scanner.Text()
}

func getNextInt(scanner *bufio.Scanner) int {
	i, _ := strconv.Atoi(getNextString(scanner))
	return i
}

func main() {
	fp := os.Stdin
	if len(os.Args) > 1 {
		fp, _ = os.Open(os.Args[1])
	}

	scanner := getScanner(fp)
	writer := bufio.NewWriter(os.Stdout)

	n := getNextInt(scanner)

	g := make([][]int, n)
	ans := make([][]int, n)

	inf := 1 << 30
	for i := 0; i < n; i++ {
		g[i] = make([]int, n)
		ans[i] = make([]int, n)
		for ii := 0; ii < n; ii++ {
			g[i][ii] = getNextInt(scanner)
			if g[i][ii] == -1 {
				g[i][ii] = inf
			}
			ans[i][ii] = -1
		}
	}

	im := make(IntMap, 1)

	im.increment(1)

	for len(im) < n {
		min := inf
		u := -1
		v := -1
		for i := range im {
			for ii := 0; ii < n; ii++ {
				if im.get(ii) != 0 {
					continue
				}
				if min > g[i][ii] {
					min = g[i][ii]
					u = i
					v = ii
				}
			}
		}
		im.increment(v)
		ans[u][v] = min
		ans[v][u] = min
	}

	sum := 0
	for i := 0; i < n-1; i++ {
		for ii := i + 1; ii < n; ii++ {
			if ans[i][ii] != -1 {
				sum += ans[i][ii]
			}
		}
	}

	fmt.Fprintln(writer, sum)
	writer.Flush()
}

// IntMap ...
type IntMap map[int]int

func (m IntMap) get(key int) int {
	if _, ok := m[key]; ok {
		return m[key]
	}
	return 0
}
func (m IntMap) increment(key int) {
	if _, ok := m[key]; ok == false {
		m[key] = 0
	}
	m[key]++
}

C++: #include <iostream>
#include <utility>
#include <algorithm>
using namespace std;

int m,n,x,ans;
int P[100+10],edge1[10000+10],edge2[10000+10];


int root(int a){
	if (P[a] == a) return a;
	return (P[a] = root(P[a]));
}

bool same(int a, int b){
	return root(a)==root(b);
}
	
void unite(int a, int b){
	P[root(a)] = root(b);
}

int main() {
	pair<int,int> edges[10000+10];
	cin >> n;
	
	for (int i=1; i<=n; i++){
		P[i] = i;
	}
	
	m = 0;
	for (int i=1; i<=n; i++){
		for (int j=1; j<=n; j++){
			cin >> x;
			if (x>-1){
				edge1[m] = i;
				edge2[m] = j;
				edges[m] = make_pair(x, m);
				m+=1;
			}
		}
	}
	
	sort(edges, edges+m);
	n=1;
	for (int i=0; i<m; i++){
		if (n>=m) break;
		if (!same(edge1[edges[i].second], edge2[edges[i].second])){
			unite(edge1[edges[i].second], edge2[edges[i].second]);
			ans += edges[i].first;
			n+=1;
		}
	}
	
	cout << ans << endl;
	
}

C++: #include <bits/stdc++.h>

using namespace std;
using LL = long long;
using P = pair<int, int>;
using Tapris = tuple<int, int, int>;

#define REP(i, n) for(LL i = 0; i < n; ++i)
#define FOR(i, a, n) for(LL i = a; i < n; ++i)
#define pb(a) push_back(a)
#define all(x) (x).begin(),(x).end()

const int INF = (int)1e9;
const LL INFL = (LL)1e15;
const int MOD = 1e9 + 7;

int dy[]={0, 0, 1, -1, 0};
int dx[]={1, -1, 0, 0, 0};

//#define int long long

class UnionFind {
    private:
        vector<int> parent;  // 親
        vector<int> rank;    // 木の深さ
    public:
        UnionFind(int n);          // n要素で初期化
        int Find(int x);           // 木の根を返す
        void Unite(int x, int y);  // xとyの属する集合を併合
        bool Same(int x, int y);   // xとyが同じ集合に属するか否か
};

UnionFind::UnionFind(int n) : parent(vector<int>(n)), rank(vector<int>(n)) {
    for (int i = 0; i < n; i++) {
        parent[i] = i;
        rank[i] = 0;
    }
}

int UnionFind::Find(int x) {
    if (parent[x] == x) {
        return x;
    } else {
        return parent[x] = Find(parent[x]);
    }
}

void UnionFind::Unite(int x, int y) {
    x = Find(x);
    y = Find(y);
    if (x == y) return;

    if (rank[x] < rank[y]) {
        parent[x] = y;
    } else {
        parent[y] = x;
        if (rank[x] == rank[y]) rank[x]++;
    }
}

bool UnionFind::Same(int x, int y) { return Find(x) == Find(y); }

template <typename T>
struct Edge {
    int src, to;
    T cost;
    Edge(int to, T cost) : src(-1), to(to), cost(cost) {}
    Edge(int src, int to, T cost) : src(src), to(to), cost(cost) {}
};

template<typename T>
using Edges = vector<Edge<T>>;
template<typename T>
using WeightedGraph = vector<Edges<T>>;
using UnWeightedGraph = vector<vector<int>>;
template<typename T>
using Matrix = vector<vector<T>>;


template <typename T>
class Kruskal {
    private:
        int V; // 頂点数
        Edges<T> edges;
        WeightedGraph<T> minimumSpanningTree;
    public:
        Kruskal(int n);
        void AddEdge(int from, int to, T cost);
        T Run();
        WeightedGraph<T> GetMinimumSpanningTree();
};

template <typename T>
Kruskal<T>::Kruskal(int n) : V(n), minimumSpanningTree(n) {}

template <typename T>
void Kruskal<T>::AddEdge(int from, int to, T cost) {
    edges.push_back(Edge<T>(from, to, cost));
}

template <typename T>
T Kruskal<T>::Run() {
    sort(edges.begin(), edges.end(), [](const Edge<T> &a, const Edge<T> &b){
        return a.cost < b.cost;
    });
    UnionFind tree(V);
    T total = 0;
    
    for(auto &e : edges){
        if(!tree.Same(e.src, e.to)){
            tree.Unite(e.src, e.to);
            total += e.cost;
            minimumSpanningTree[e.src].push_back(Edge<T>(e.to, e.cost));
            minimumSpanningTree[e.to].push_back(Edge<T>(e.src, e.cost));
        }
    }

    return total;
}

template <typename T>
WeightedGraph<T> Kruskal<T>::GetMinimumSpanningTree(){
    return minimumSpanningTree;
}

/*************** using variables ***************/

/**********************************************/

signed main(){
    cin.tie(0);
    ios::sync_with_stdio(false);
    
    int n;
    cin >> n;
    Kruskal<int> kruskal(n);
    REP(i, n){
        REP(j, n){
            int x;
            cin >> x;
            if(x != -1) kruskal.AddEdge(i, j, x);
        }
    }
    int total = kruskal.Run();
    cout << total << endl;
}

C++: # if 0
2次元配列の扱いの取り扱いに慣れておらず、2時間ほど時間がかかった。
# endif
#include <iostream>
#include <algorithm>
using namespace std;
int P[10000];
void init(int N) {
  for (int i = 0; i < N; i++) {
    P[i] = i;
  }
}

int root(int a) {
  if(P[a] == a)
    return a;
  return (P[a] = root(P[a]));
}

bool is_same_set(int a, int b) {
  return root(a) == root(b);
}

void unite(int a, int b) {
  P[root(a)] = root(b);
}

int main()
{
  int N;
  cin >> N;
  int A[N][N];
  for (int i = 0; i < N; i++) {
    for (int j = 0; j < N; j++) {
      int x;
      cin >> x;
      A[j][i] = x;
    }
  }
  int cost[10000], src[10000], dst[10000];
  int M = 0;
  for (int r = 0; r < N; r++)
  {
    for (int c = r + 1; c < N; c++)
    {
      if (A[r][c] > -1)
      {
        cost[M] = A[r][c];
        src[M] = r;
        dst[M] = c;
        M += 1;
      }
    }
  }
  init(N);
  pair<int, pair<int, int> > edges[M + 1];
  for (int m = 0; m < M; m++)
  {
    edges[m] = make_pair(cost[m], make_pair(src[m], dst[m]));
  }
  sort(edges, edges+M);
  int sum = 0;
  for (int i=0; i<M; i++) {
    if (is_same_set(edges[i].second.first, edges[i].second.second))
      continue;
    unite(edges[i].second.first, edges[i].second.second);
    sum += edges[i].first;
  }
  cout << sum << endl;
}