Go: package main

import (
	"bufio"
	"fmt"
	"os"
	"sort"
	"strconv"
)

var scanner = bufio.NewScanner(os.Stdin)

func nextString() string {
	scanner.Scan()
	return scanner.Text()
}

func nextInt() int {
	n, err := strconv.Atoi(nextString())
	if err != nil {
		fmt.Printf("strconv.Atoi failed: %v\n", err)
	}
	return n
}

type ElementKey int
type Node struct {
	key    ElementKey
	parent *Node
	rank   int
}

func newNode(key ElementKey) *Node {
	node := Node{}
	node.key = key
	node.parent = &node
	node.rank = 0

	return &node
}

func union(x, y *Node) {
	xSet := findSet(x)
	ySet := findSet(y)
	link(xSet, ySet)
}

func link(x, y *Node) {
	if x.rank > y.rank {
		y.parent = x
	} else {
		x.parent = y

		if x.rank == y.rank {
			y.rank++
		}
	}
}

func findSet(x *Node) *Node {
	if x != x.parent {
		x.parent = findSet(x.parent)
	}
	return x.parent
}

func newDisjointSets(nSets int) *DisjointSets {
	sets := DisjointSets{}
	sets.keyToNode = map[ElementKey]*Node{}
	for i := 0; i < nSets; i++ {
		key := ElementKey(i)
		sets.keyToNode[key] = newNode(key)
	}
	return &sets
}

type DisjointSets struct {
	keyToNode map[ElementKey]*Node
}

func (sets *DisjointSets) union(x, y ElementKey) {
	xNode := sets.keyToNode[x]
	yNode := sets.keyToNode[y]
	union(xNode, yNode)
}

func (sets DisjointSets) findSet(x ElementKey) *Node {
	xNode := sets.keyToNode[x]
	return findSet(xNode)
}

type Edge struct {
	i, j   int
	weight int
}

func main() {
	scanner.Split(bufio.ScanWords)

	n := nextInt()
	sets := newDisjointSets(n)
	edges := []Edge{}
	a := make([][]int, n)
	for i := 0; i < n; i++ {
		a[i] = make([]int, n)
		for j := 0; j < n; j++ {
			a[i][j] = nextInt()
			if a[i][j] >= 0 {
				e := Edge{
					i:      i,
					j:      j,
					weight: a[i][j],
				}
				edges = append(edges, e)
			}
		}
	}
	sort.Slice(edges, func(i, j int) bool { return edges[i].weight < edges[j].weight })
	totalWeight := 0
	for _, edge := range edges {
		i := ElementKey(edge.i)
		j := ElementKey(edge.j)
		if sets.findSet(i) != sets.findSet(j) {
			totalWeight += edge.weight
			sets.union(i, j)
		}
	}
	fmt.Println(totalWeight)
}

C++: #include <iostream>
#include <utility>
#include <algorithm>
#define MAX 150
#define rep(i,p) for(int i=0;i<p;i++)
#define rep1(i,p) for(int i=1;i<=p;i++)
using namespace std;
int n,temp,a,b,size,ra,rb;
int A[MAX];
int B[MAX];
int W[MAX];
int V[MAX];
pair<int,int> edge[MAX];
int root (int child) {
  int a = child;
  while (V[a] != a) {
    a = V[a];
  }
  return a;
}
int main(){
  size = 0;
  cin >> n;
  rep(i,n) {
    rep(j,n) {
      cin >> W[size];
      if (i <= j && W[size] != -1) { 
        // cout <<  A[size] << " " << B[size] << " " << j << endl;        
        A[size] = i;
        B[size] = j;        
        edge[size].first = W[size];
        edge[size].second = size;
        size++;
      }
    }
  }
  // cout << endl;
  // rep(i,size) {
  //   cout << A[edge[i].second] << " " << B[edge[i].second]
  //        << " " << edge[i].first << endl;;
  // }
  // sort by lenght of edge
  sort(edge, edge+size+1);
  
  int sum = 0;
  rep(i,n) V[i] = i;
  rep(i,size) {
    if (edge[i].first == -1) continue;
    temp = edge[i].second;
    // a , b : vertex
    a = A[temp];
    b = B[temp];
    ra = root(a);
    rb = root(b);
    if (ra != rb) {
      // ?????????????????????
      sum += edge[i].first;
      V[ra] = rb;
      // if (ra != a && rb == b){     
      //   V[b] = ra;
      // } else if (ra == a && rb != b) {
      //   V[a] = rb;
      // } else if (ra == a && rb == b) {        
      //   V[a] = b;
      // } else if (ra != a && rb != b) {                
      //   V[ra] = rb;
      // }
    }
  }
  cout << sum << endl;
  return 0;
}

C++: #include <cstdio>
#include <vector>
#include <algorithm>
#include <queue>

using namespace std;

template <class T>
using gp_queue=priority_queue<T, deque<T>, less<T>>;

using Weight=int;
using DArray=vector<Weight>;
using DMatrix=vector<DArray>;

static const Weight INF=1<<29;

struct Edge {
    size_t src, dst;
    Weight weight;
    Edge() {}
    Edge(size_t src, size_t dst, Weight weight=1):
        src(src), dst(dst), weight(weight)
    {}
};

bool operator<(const Edge &e, const Edge &f) {
    if (e.weight != f.weight) {
        return e.weight > f.weight;
    } else {
        return e.src!=f.src? e.src<f.src : e.dst<f.dst;
    }
}

using Edges=vector<Edge>;
using Vertex=vector<Edge>;
using Graph=vector<Vertex>;

void join(Graph &g, size_t s, size_t d, Weight w=1) {
    // non-directed
    g[s].push_back(Edge(s, d, w));
    g[d].push_back(Edge(d, s, w));
}

void connect(Graph &g, size_t s, size_t d, Weight w=1) {
    // directed
    g[s].push_back(Edge(s, d, w));
}

struct UnionFindTree {
    size_t n;
    vector<int> tree;
    UnionFindTree(size_t n): n(n) {
        tree = vector<int>(n, -1);
    }
    int find_root(size_t v) {
        if (tree[v] < 0) return v;
        return tree[v] = find_root(tree[v]);
    }
    bool unite(size_t x, size_t y) {
        x = find_root(x);
        y = find_root(y);
        if (x == y) return false;
        if (rank(x) < rank(y)) swap(x, y);
        tree[x] += tree[y];
        tree[y] = x;
        return true;
    }
    bool has_same_root(size_t x, size_t y) {
        return find_root(x) == find_root(y);
    }
    size_t rank(size_t v) {
        return -tree[find_root(v)];
    }
};

pair<Weight, Edges> minimum_spanning_forest(const Graph &g) {
    /* Kruskal */
    size_t V=g.size();
    UnionFindTree tree(V);
    gp_queue<Edge> q;
    for (size_t u=0; u<V; ++u)
        for (const Edge &e: g[u])
            if (u < e.dst) q.push(e);

    Weight total=0;
    Edges F;
    while (F.size()<V-1 && !q.empty()) {
        Edge e=q.top(); q.pop();
        if (tree.unite(e.src, e.dst)) {
            F.push_back(e);
            total += e.weight;
        }
    }

    return make_pair(total, F);
}

int main() {
    size_t n;
    scanf("%zu", &n);

    Graph g(n);
    for (size_t i=0; i<n; ++i)
        for (size_t j=0; j<n; ++j) {
            Weight a;
            scanf("%d", &a);

            if (a > -1)
                connect(g, i, j, a);
        }

    printf("%d\n", minimum_spanning_forest(g).first);
    return 0;
}