Anchor: she has to develop her own personality and so sometimes i i have to step back and say okay we want to encourage her we want to influence her but we don't want to control her
Entailed: Whilst we do hope to have some influence over her, we do not wish to completely control her. 
Contradiction: We really want to have control over her. 
Contradiction: A man sleeping on the beach.
Contradiction: The dog is light
Contradiction: A man is watching a bird.
Contradiction: The increase really impacted our family budget.