Anchor: The deciding factor in what stays and goes, apart from charm, is often the  Who is associated with it?
Entailed: The people associated with it are often the most important factor in deciding if something stays or if it goes. 
Contradiction: Both the Who and charm are irrelevant in figuring out what stays and goes.
Contradiction: I'm going to keep everything I own despite friends and family calling me a hoarder.
Contradiction: The deciding factor comes down to which team has a bigger flag. 
Contradiction: He said that Dave should use hair thickener.
Contradiction: Kamakura was collapsing.