SlowGuess/NAACL_2021_OCR huggingface dataset:
Top Reddit advice	I just want to add to the other side here. I'm like your boyfriend and am also REALLY uncomfortable sharing a room with someone who isn't my SO or a really close family member/friend. So I understand him being weirded out by sharing a room with your dad.
That being said, this is his problem. If he's so uncomfortable he can either get to the airport at the crack of dawn without staying overnight with you, or he can foot the bill for his own hotel room that night. As for the couch situation, I think he needs to suck it up and realize that the door can close and you're not sharing a room with your dad. Again, if he's so uncomfortable he can pay for his own room.
Overall, this isn't a dealbreaker, but he shouldn't have agreed to go on vacation with your dad if everything was going to upset him.
T5-11B	Well, I think its weirder your boyfriend bragged about sleeping with your dad in front of his friends, but his friends also think its weird so idk. I think you should let your bf deal with his own insecurities privately instead of running his mouth about it in front of people he doesn't even know that well.
Definitely less helpful Not helpful Never helpful for any situation
Figure 17: An example with advice from T5. It has the following NLU problems:
1. Reading Comprehension and Natural Language Inference: T5 says "your boyfriend bragged about sleeping with your dad." This is wrong for many reasons. First, it hints (incorrectly) at sexual activity. Even if this wasn't the case, the key issue in this situation is that the boyfriend is uncomfortable, not proud, about sleeping in the same room with the poster's dad. Saying this therefore contradicts the context.
2. Natural Language Inference: The second sentence contradicts the first. It says that the boyfriend shouldn't be "running his mouth about [his insecurities] in front of people he doesn't even know that well," however, in the first sentence says that the boyfriend was bragging to his friends.
Content warning: T5-11B's advice here refers (incorrectly) to sexual activity.
relationship_advice: Is there a way to get over a fetish?
I (21F) have a fetish that I really hate. Basically when I was younger, for years, my step-sister would have sex with my crush and lock me in the closet. I could still see them through the cracks, and hear them. Weirdly it really turned me on. Since I've had this fetish where I think of my boyfriend having sex with my friend or another woman. That's the ONLY thing that can make me orgasm. But afterward, the thought of him cheating makes me sad and almost repulsed by him. I just want to be able to orgasm without having to think of that.
I've tried everything, but ultimately I go back to thinking of that. Is there really any way to stop it?
Best	First, be kind to yourself. You are not a bad person for having a fetish or for wanting to get rid of it.
Second, therapy - lots of fetishes are born out of trauma. Find a therapist or sex therapist who treats sexual
trauma.
Rule
Based	That sounds like a difficult situation. If I were you, I'd break up with your partner immediately.
TF-IDF
Retrieval	Definitely less helpful Not helpful Possibly helpful I agree that talking to people about your fetish early is probably going to help. That way, if it's a
dealbreaker, you can find out early and move on to someone else. Most people want sex to be a connection. They want to be there with you, you know? To know that you're
feeling the same intense things that they are. I think never orgasming/getting passionate about things you
do with your partner might be a harder sell than kinky sex. Maybe instead of looking for an exact match on your fetish, you can look for someone who's open to
trying new things. Then even if they aren't crazy into the fetish itself, they can be happy doing it with you
sometimes, and sometimes doing other things.
Grover-
Mega	Definitely less helpful Are you a real porn star? I wonder if your idea of the same thing being porn would work as well... :)
T5-11B	Definitely less helpful Not helpful Never helpful Could you imagine a future where you don't feel resentful towards your boyfriend and the thought of him
being with another woman doesn't hurt your heart?
GPT3-
175B	Definitely less helpful Slightly helpful Meaning problem Did you know you can be a beta cuck and still get a girlfriend?
-Take her out on dates
-Treat her good
-Be loyal
-Support her
-Impress her parents
So she can tell everyone she has a great boyfriend, and feel like she is more a princess
you can even have this life style and still be a cuck and never have to hear about her fucking some alpha
stud, all is good so long as you know your place. A real beta accepts that!
-Hide the strap-on
She's just bi anyway
Second
Best
Reddit
Advice	Definitely less helpful Not helpful Never helpful Have you tried therapy? I know what you mean but mines more because I'm a younger guy
Definitely less helpful Not helpful Never helpful
Figure 18: GPT3 often generates toxic language. In this example, not only does it misgender the advice-seeker, it also uses alt-right "red-pill" language/framing ('cuck', 'alpha', 'beta').
Content warning: GPT3-175B's advice contains misogynistic, alt-right language
dating: Is anyone actually trying to date anymore or just sell me their onlyfans?
I think online dating should be for people to find mutual relationships, not financial relationships and services. It's bad enough in the bdsm community that I'm a part of that a lot of people try to pass off being a "financial dominatrix" when they're really just looking for people who don't know any better to give them money.
I can't count how many times I'll talk to someone in bumble or another dating app where a conversation quickly turns to selling their onlyfans.
For the love of God please keep selling to specified areas like reddits many subs for selling stuff.
Figure 19: GPT3 often generates toxic language. In this example, it generates language praising Elliot Rodger (a mass shooter) and his misogynistic worldview
Content warning: GPT3-175B generates misogynistic language, endorsing a mass shooter