Review: If you're gay and need a plan for coming out this is it.
Rating: 5 out of 5
Date: 06 10, 2014
First off, I'm not gay but I do have a number of friends who are gay or lesbian. And I earn my living from helping people adapt to change. So while I'm not able to speak from experience, I do have a basic understanding of the situation and the effect on people of coming out.The advice in this book seems quite good. It is very self-affirming and supportive without going overboard. In fact, the author takes great pains to warn against the "look at me, I'm gay" behaviour that leads many people to have a bad experience. Rather the author concentrates on learning to accept yourself and then helping others to accept the situation. This includes admitting that some people will never accept that their son/nephew/cousin/friend/employee is gay.All in all, a good book to start with while preparing to come out.