Review: A Must-Read for Step-Parents!
Rating: 5 out of 5
Date: 01 9, 2014
"Blended Families" is full of real-world advice for step-parents. Author Lilli Morgan diffuses the ridiculous "evil stepmother" myth once and for all, but she doesn't promise that reading her book will turn your family into the Brady Bunch, either. Instead, she gives a practical, rational, "whatever works" approach to the difficult adjustments facing blended families. She emphasizes that blended families will not be like traditional (i.e. "nuclear" families), nor should they be. However, blended families can be functional and happy if the members make certain efforts and have reasonable expectations.There are many complicated relationships and dynamics that affect blended families, from dealing with exes to stealing couple time in the midst of all the upheaval. And, of course, there are the children and/or step-children to consider. Morgan simplifies these relationships and bonds with sage, well-seasoned advice. Much of her advice is focused on techniques to win over step-children and ease into disciplining them. She also explains how to understand children's needs and developmental stages.If you or someone you know is part of a blended family, I would highly recommend this book. Morgan's perspective and good sense definitely shed light on the complexities of step-parenting!