Review: Practical sensible advice than any could and should follow when...
Rating: 5 out of 5
Date: 04 19, 2012
...their spouse cheats on them.  I was in a similar situation many years ago and I wish I had a book like this one to help me during that difficult time.  This author has taken a situation that is often fraught with emotions and calmly laid out an action plan for anyone who suspects their spouse is cheating on them.  By providing this thorough yet commonsense advice any person (and yes the information in the book applies to men and women) can follow, the reader will be in a much more empowered space if he/she ever wants to confront their cheating spouse with the evidence collected.It is clear from the book that the author struggled through her own version of this situation and was able to come out the other side with her marriage intact.  But of course many of us are not as forgiving and in some cases the cheating spouse is happy to be found out so that he or she can leave the household.  But this is just one of the many tips that the author provides - don't leave the house once you have confronted him/her with some of the evidence you have collected and don't encourage them to leave either.  The reason behind this is not what you might think.  Another point the author raised that I would not have thought of but can see the reasoning behind it is in being careful when you vent your anger and hurt to friends or family members.  After all if you want to keep your marriage going you don't want to turn your friends and family against your spouse.  BTW this book covers either staying in the marriage or leaving it.I am glad to say I am no longer in the position of having to use a book like this one, but I will definitely be recommending it to my friends who do find themselves in the situation of suspecting that their spouse is cheating.Lisa OliverAuthor of Breaking the Flirt Code.