Review: Submission is in your head
Rating: 4 out of 5
Date: 07 6, 2012
Domination too.I love how the author perceives D/s. I wish he (she?) would expand this concept by ensuring that the dominant helps his sub to improve all aspects of his life. The dominant can supervise all these improvements :* Quit smoking (or drinking if the sub drinks too much)* Start training* Eat more healthily* Get rid of his worst defects (eg, if the sub has a tendency to anger easily and to fight with everybody for nothing: teach him to keep calm)* Improve its overall social skills* Bring the sub to help others, too (not necessarily by dominating them)* Improve his perception of himself in every way (eg get a better job or return to school -if the sub dropped out-, drive him to read anything but novels, so the sub does not see himself as an uneducated man,...)etc..The author could use its harshest SM activities as punishments for breach of commitments to excellence by the sub and the more sexually exciting ones as rewards.  ---> I am S/M, so I am looking for S/M things in the books I buy. I like caring dominants, but I prefered when they still can be "cruel" ;) (a little more often than in this book: reason why I gave 4 * not 5).