Review: Detailed Guide to Making Romance Last, Whether You're in a New Relationship or a Committed One
Rating: 4 out of 5
Date: 01 29, 2014
Jason Melby’s “The 4Cs of Meaningful and Lasting Romance” is a thoughtful and well-written self-help book for those in any stage of a relationship: single, just started dating, just married, or long-term commitment. The book goes very in-depth into each category, which include Chemistry, Communication, Compromise, and Commitment.In fact, what I liked best about this book was how detailed it is—the author takes his time in chapter section, laying out the various topics he will hit before diving into them. For instance, in his chapter on defining core values, he discusses a host of things we look for in a partner, including trust, respect, honesty, and humor; in his section on chemistry, he fully explores not only romantic and intellectual chemistry, but also the dynamics of sex, emotion, romance, and more.Melby also shares specific advice about relationships and love rather than general platitudes; he covers everything from the different personalities found in online dating to the different types of parenting styles and the compromise required therein once a couple has children. He also brings in supporting viewpoints and theories from a range of other authors who have written books on romance and relationships, which adds depth and complexity to the book. I honestly didn’t know what to expect from the book based on the cover, which is fairly nondescript, but I’m glad I read it.I would recommend this to any reader who is in a relationship and looking to improve it as well as to readers who are looking for a relationship—if you are still looking, it is a helpful tool in defining what you want and what you need, and what to expect from a healthy relationship. If you are in a relationship, Melby’s sensitive and sensible advice can help you improve your communication and compromise skills, as well as lend some insight into certain aspects of your partnership.