Review: Not Just for Men
Rating: 5 out of 5
Date: 12 26, 2012
Ladies, use this book as a template to weed out the men who don't deserve you. Any man who says "I don't know what women want" or "I don't understand women" is not willing to put forth the effort. If your man is clueless, do yourself a favor and give him this book. If he says "I don't read these types of books" or "I'm busy", move one, unless you enjoy being miserable.If you're woman, help the man in your life be a better man and take charge. Most relationship books (even the ones written by women) put the responsibility for the success of the relationship on women. We must give, give, give, be patient, nurturing and loving while men are men and therefore can't be bothered with feelings. No wonder 87% of all divorces are initiated by women. We can only suppress our true needs and feelings for so long.For men:Even if you feel that a woman is acting irrationally, a real man will take ownership of a problem and resolve to be the peacemaker and conflict resolution expert in the relationship.Most guys will take the easy way out and resign themselves to saying "women are irrational, I don't know what they want". Well, here's one guy who knows what women want and he shares it in this book."You've got to learn to continually make love to her heart.", "You'll always get out of a relationship exactly what you put into it".You may think this is simple common sense advice but you'd be surprised how many men take women for granted and think "I told her I love her a year ago. What more does she want?" or "I took the trash out last week. What's the problem?".If you want to give her what she needs, (not just what you think she needs), but what she requires in order for her to feel loved, desirable, secure, appreciated, and adored then you need this book.