Review: Cuts to the chase
Rating: 5 out of 5
Date: 12 4, 2012
My wife and I will be married nine years this August, and it seems communication this past year had begun breaking down between us.  The issue was me quite frankly.  I started spacing out during conversations, for one of two reasons.  I was either thinking of projects I was absorbed in, or I was just plain exhausted.She read this book, and asked me to read it too. The book is written for women, but since she asked me to read it, and it looked like a quick read, I figured what the heck.To be honest, I think me just reading a book she suggested spoke volumes to her.  However, for me, the book was eye opening.  With us both having read it, we are discussing its topics together which is kind of nice.  It's the first time we ever read the same book and compared notes, which I think is a great thing for couples to do.A few examples of how the book helped me: I always was giving advice when my wife was venting or confiding in me.  Well, that stopped.  Now I simply listen and be there for her, perhaps ask questions to understand.Another example: I am a slow thinker and talker by nature.  This was never a challenge for my wife until recently.  Now she gives me time to reflect during our conversations.  Much better for me.I've noticed other instances where the book has helped us.  Really struck a chord with me and my wife.  Definitely recommended for couples who've been together for years.