Review: THE Single Parent Manual for Raising Boys AND Girls
Rating: 4 out of 5
Date: 11 5, 2013
After reading this book, I realized that I had found a kindred spirit in Shondreka Palmer, a fellow parent who feels as I do.  If I were going to write a book on single parenting, I would have included all of the information that she did, practical information on budgeting, shopping, shopping for daycares, etc.  It's all good, easy to understand advice, and I only wish that more single parents shared her attitude.  Putting your child first is KEY in raising a child, whether you are alone or not.  Also, her use of the word consistency in discipline, accountability, and her feelings on a strict schedule for sleep are all worthy of note, and all worthy standards to live by when parenting.My only gripe with this book is the title.  I think Ms. Palmer cut off half of her potential readers by calling it "Independently Raising a Man."  Yes, she raised a boy on her own, but this book is for ALL single parents.  There wasn't much in the book specifically tailored to the single mom of a son, which is fine, but the title can be a bit misleading and also will make those who have girls think the book isn't for them, and that couldn't be further from the truth.  This book is ideal for all single parents and I wish that hospitals and clinics would suggest this to young single girls embarking on their journey to parenthood.  It's good, sound, practical advice and I thank Ms. Palmer for putting it all down and trying to help others.  Children don't come with parenting manuals, but if they did, this one would be perfect!Thank you for sharing, Ms. Palmer.  It's refreshing to see that there are others in the world who share my parenting style.  Putting your child first, focusing on their needs...being an active parent, not just a bystander in their lives...it's all the key to success.  Bless you and your child, Ms. Palmer.