Review: Something to think about
Rating: 3 out of 5
Date: 01 16, 2013
I wasn't very surprised by the content of this book. Although I did not expect to be swept off my feet, I expected a bit more from a book that promised to keep my lover hooked. There wasn't anything that was new or shocking in the revelations that this book contained. For example we know all too well the importance of honesty in a relationship and consistency is a given. It's simple logic that Stephen Williams has somehow managed to turn into 14 page manual filled with helpful suggestions. There were tips that we all have ingrained somewhere deep down in the clutter that exists in our brain. What I will say is that this book is a compass, it steers you in the direction that you always knew you should be going.I won't go jumping through hopes for this book but I will say it was aptly written. If you have that struggle within your own life you may want to browse through the first few pages of this book and get a head start on setting the right bait. It's not all science as the book clearly states but a bit of art. Stephen is as honest as you can possibly get when it comes to the complex task of stoking the fire rather than lighting it. This book is all about keeping the fire burning throughout which can prove to be an arduous task for the faint of heart and especially those who do not own a copy. If you are anything like me, then you have tried your own special remedy and watched it fizzle away. With this book I say with a degree of assurance that you will be better armed.In this recipe for success, Stephen proves how important our root desire to save the relationship is pertinent to achieving that goal. You have to be willing to commit and above all you must be consistent. Relationships are so fickle that when one partner gives up even a little, the entire chain weakens and the bond shatters. But there is hope as Stephen explains. You may feel a little like a computer technician as you apply some of the techniques to trouble shoot the issues and resolve them. As long as the love is there, the resolutions won't feel as mechanical but rather natural. The book is well written bit a bit short for my taste, there were some areas begging for a second look by the writer such as 'being a porn star in bed'. In my own personal experience with this, I have found that men prefer honesty even when it comes to your performance in bed. You may end up trying a little to hard to twist your body into positions that do not provide any pleasure and there is nothing worse than having your lover's sex die in the middle of a session because your clumsy attempt at mimicking something you saw backfired. But I guess that's where the importance of knowing your partner comes into play.All in all this is a good book to keep in your arsenal.