Review: Knowing how to attract women inspired me to believe in myself
Rating: 5 out of 5
Date: 03 13, 2014
At 5’9”, I’m actually not that short. But, when all of your friends are taller than you, you feel like the shortest guy in the world. To compensate for my shortness, I’ve tried a few ridiculous things rocking a fohawk with really long hair and wearing elevator shoes. If you told me that my insecurity about my height is the most important reason for my inability to bang really hot chicks, I would nod my head in agreement.After graduating from college, I began reading up on game material and began getting good at interacting with women. But, I never dared to hit on the really hot ones after being blown off by one particularly hot, but b****y chick. Why would a pretty girl with a perfect body want to date a guy like me?When I glanced at this book for the first time, I felt like I could relate to the author. Since I’ve hit on many women in the past, I’ve been rejected so many times. And although, I act like the rejections don’t hurt, they do, man! They totally do! Every time a girl blows me off, I feel like a piece of s***.I’m really glad that I bought this book. Lothario doesn’t sugarcoat anything in this book. He doesn’t tell you that women don’t care about a man’s height or looks. He just gives you practical tips for making yourself more attractive to the opposite sex. What I love about his approach to being more desirable to women is that it relies only a little bit on superficial things like your appearance and a lot more on using subtle contextual cues.Okay, he does give a few pointers on aesthetic presentation but only a fool would not try to look his best if he wants to pick up hot women. Most of Lothario’s guidelines deal with putting things in motion to make you appear to be a confident and fun-loving, but slightly indifferent man, who is coveted by beautiful women. I especially love how he uses other people around him to set contexts that make him appear to be a high-value man without being a d*** about it.Reading this book has finally given me the confidence to look beyond my own shortcomings and just go for it. It has allowed me to not get down on myself and instead be positive. Most of all, knowing that I'm using a strategy that a man with an extremely deep understanding of how to attract women has created helps me maintain my nerve even when interactions with women aren't perfect.A valuable resource for men who want to understand what women want.