Review: From A Bisexual Female's Standpoint: Definitely An Entertaining & Worthwhile Read
Rating: 5 out of 5
Date: 02 19, 2014
As a bisexual, I realize most books with advice for men in dating- are actually just as helpful to me. Because I date girls too (in case you didn't catch my drift with the 'bisexual' slang thrown out earlier). Needless to say I bought this book with two things in mind.1) I'm a woman- so I'll probably realize a few of my own behaviors here.2) I like women- so figuring out how to better deal with them is always a plus.So this book basically takes you through a variety of tests that girls will inevitably put you through in order to determine whether or not you're a fit mate. Some girls do these subconciously, others do them on purpose, some (very few) do none at all. But I think almost all girls- at least once in their lives, will dish a few of these scenerios out to their potentional boyfriend (or in my case, girlfriend).I give the author credit- he's witty, if nothing else. He definitely has some valid points in the book. Things I, myself, never would have thought of. A few points I'm not sure I could execute as diligently as he could. But others of them I felt I could handle really well, and his advice will probably prove to be pretty vital in making any future advances I make successful ones.What I like about this book is that it takes scenerios almost every man (or lesbian, or bisexual) will face at some point in their life. Scenerios that are often uncomfortable and typically leave one side of the relationship in some kind of emotional turmoil. Make the wrong move and all hell breaks lose. Make the right move and you've just busted through one more wall on your way to happily forever after. Every woman's different- so the right move isn't always the same for each one. But generically I think you'll find most women behave the same way and will react the same way to the same responses.From a bisexual interested in girls my standpoint on the book is one of overall entertaining and worthwhile information. It was a good read. Never dull or slow or too 'self-help professional'. It's not a marriage-therapy handbook. Just a good guide for people stuck in the world of love. Whether you're in a relationship, marriage, or simply playing the single game- you'll find tips in here that will fit your exact scenerio.From a girls standpoint on the book, it honestly made me laugh- because I DO those things. I don't mean to, and often find myself doing them not on purpose- but out of habit. Now that I realize how irritating those things are it makes me wish I never would have done them, but habit only knows I'll end up throwing one of these fits again in the future (it's just in our female nature). Hopefully I'll have a guy who's bought this handbook and knows precisely how to handle such situations.