Review: The Advantage of Being an Introvert- A Definite Advantageous Book for Introverts
Rating: 4 out of 5
Date: 09 27, 2012
The Advantage of Being an Introvert in an Extrovert World is a wonderful book dedicated to the introverts. The book both helps the introverts and lauds their special qualities as an introvert. In the first instance the author Amber Keyes guides the introverts the right way to get out of their shell and socialize in the extrovert world. Secondly, she tells the introverts that they are in fact better than their extrovert counterparts as they possess a number of attributes that make them better in personal and professional relationships.I was a bit sceptic as I picked the book and turned the first couple of pages. However, this scepticism turned to delight when I realized that I had indeed put my hand on something useful and that I can gain some definite benefits out of it. The author understands that the introverts find it hard to open up at social events and suggests a number of ways to socialize in the right way and make a success of them. Her advice is sound and time tested and destined to build up the confidence level of her readers.Small talk is a big issue with the introverts as they are more of deep thinkers and dislike to engage in petty chit chats. However, most of the times the small talks become inescapable chores and one has to necessarily take part in them. It could be for a job interview or a social gathering. The author tells us how to prepare for small talks in advance so that the introverts can use their basic quality to their advantage. Amber also reminds us of the benefit of being an extrovert and asks her readers to be more outgoing on special occasions so as to attain personal and professional success.I liked the part where the writer tells us to communicate through memos or written words. By writing down their queries or thoughts the introverts can better express themselves. I myself am an introvert to some extent and felt that the book has much to provide. This is a useful book for every person who is an introvert or closely associated with one.