I am 29years this year and I am still a virgin..with no serious relationship and where I come from it is believe that at this ages with no bf or serious relationship it is spiritual,I’ve been to many places do many things coz they thought it’s family spirituality..sometimes it makes me wonder if I am the problem,coz I actually have a phobia for guys when they get too close or are about to start inviting me to their house I freak out..and those that invited me out sometimes don’t call me back after the first time we meet up..it makes me believe that maybe they’re right about me having a spiritual husband and a spiritual community…but still I believe in God..I know when it’s time the right man will find me,but I ain’t getting younger even at my age I have nothing to show off..am still living with my mom while my two younger sister are married with kids😭..it’s one of the reason I find job far away thinking things will change but..it’s still the same they all just wanna sleep with me maybe coz of my look and piercings…do you think the problem is me?