I want to get out of 10yr relationship. I have been abused mentally, physically, emotionally and even financially. The infidelities have become too much matter of fact the more i forgive the more he cheats. He will not let go chats and ladies cell numbers. I keep telling him am not okay with certain things but he repeats them. I don't know why its hard to let him go despite all the pain and heart but am ready now.  I need help.