I want to make an epic smartphrase that will take the following phrase and make it work for any patient: Patient is an 80-year-old male with a hospice diagnosis of COPD. Chaplain’s visit frequency is three times a month with an occasional PRN. In the last two weeks chaplain visited patient twice. Although patient remained nonverbal and comfortable during those visits, the wife was extremely overwhelmed with the burdens of the patients care and declining health needs. In her own words, “I feel like I can’t do this alone anymore; none of my children come to help.” Chaplain legitimized and normalized her feelings to help reduce anxiety. Chaplain helped her realize that crying or being upset are normal reactions that need to be expressed. In the next two weeks, chaplain will continue to work with her and explore new ways of coping.