The human being is fascinating. We have scientists, doctors, firemen, pilots, policemen, chefs, etc. There are some persons who are always trying to do their best in order to improve our society, and everyday new persons are born to live in the world they are creating. Just like everybody else, they will start from zero and the same question will appear in their minds when they grow up,"What do I have to do to get what I want?."  We grow up seeing and listening different events that happen around the world but also, at the same time, these events start to giving form to our thoughts. All these factors makes us think about our own future and also motivates us to start making decisions that will affect our life.  What is the problem with all this? you might be wondering. As I said before, most of the people don't know what to do to get what they want. Once they've grown, sometimes people don't know what decisions should they make in order to have a pleasant life. Here is when they start to ask themselves if they should ask for help or do it all by their own.  I've seen this situation long time ago. I still remember when Generic_Name, my old brother, told me he had decided to be a doctor. He graduated from high school and was ready to take the next step in his life, work as a doctor and be successful. My family and I were wondering which college did Generic_Name choose, so he could learn everything a doctor needs to know.  When the time came and my mother asked him which college did he choose, he said that he was not going to study in any college because he was going to learn all by himself. My mother was furious but she let him do it, she knew he was going to realize soon or later, which was a big mistake.  My old brother has been always like that, he would try to do everything by himself following his instincts and doing what he thought it was right, until that day. One year had passed and Generic_Name didn't do any progress. He saw how all his friends were learning how to be a doctor in college while he was wasting his time reading books and articles on the internet, which was good but not good enough. His friends always told him that he had to go to college if he really wanted to be a doctor, but he didn't listen just because he thought he would spend years of his life by going, he thought that he could be a doctor faster in his own way.  The time passed, and he never made it, he never could be a doctor. His friends were making progress until they finally made it, they graduated while my old brother, through the years, never changed his attitude and decided to take a different direction in his life. Today, there are some occasions where he tell me how much does he regret about his attitude back in those days.  With this story I just want to make something clear, the fact that we can lose all our dreams, what we have always wanted, just by being obstinate thinking that we are always right. I'm not saying that you, a person, cannot be successful by doing and learning everything by yourself. Of course there are ways to do it but, are you really sure you can do it? because making sure of who you are and what type of capacities do you have is what will decide how good will you do it by yourself.  Anyhow, it is also important to know that ask or look for help will never be something bad. There are people with tons of expe