I need to plan a wedding and I have no idea where to start. Will you help me brainstorm a few things I should do?
Your wedding a celebration of you and partners love. Here are a couple ideas of where to start. 
1. Sit down with your partner and each share you respective vision, hopes and dreams for your wedding. Listen intently and take notes to what your partner says. 
2. Make a list of the people you would want at your wedding. Tier each potential invite as Tier 1,2 and 3 and who's side they represent (you, your partner, or both).
3. Identify a preliminary budget based on what you can afford to spend. 
4. Make a list of the most important things to you and your partner, in priority order (venue, band, flowers, dress, etc.)
5. Evaluate hiring a wedding planner to assist you in your planning efforts. 
Good luck as you begin this exciting process!