Issue: multiprocessing in dataset map "can only test a child process"

Comment:
I'm having a similar issue but when I try to do multiprocessing with the `DataLoader`

Code to reproduce:

```
from datasets import load_dataset

book_corpus = load_dataset('bookcorpus', 'plain_text', cache_dir='/home/ad/Desktop/bookcorpus', split='train[:1%]')
book_corpus = book_corpus.map(encode, batched=True, num_proc=20, load_from_cache_file=True, batch_size=5000)
book_corpus.set_format(type='torch', columns=['text', "input_ids", "attention_mask", "token_type_ids"])

from transformers import DataCollatorForWholeWordMask
from transformers import Trainer, TrainingArguments

data_collator = DataCollatorForWholeWordMask(
    tokenizer=tokenizer, mlm=True, mlm_probability=0.15)

training_args = TrainingArguments(
    output_dir="./mobile_linear_att_8L_128_128_03layerdrop_shared",
    overwrite_output_dir=True,
    num_train_epochs=1,
    per_device_train_batch_size=64,
    save_steps=50,
    save_total_limit=2,
    logging_first_step=True,
    warmup_steps=100,
    logging_steps=50,
    gradient_accumulation_steps=1,
    fp16=True,
    **dataloader_num_workers=10**,
)

trainer = Trainer(
    model=model,
    args=training_args,
    data_collator=data_collator,
    train_dataset=book_corpus,
    tokenizer=tokenizer)

trainer.train()
```

```
---------------------------------------------------------------------------
AssertionError                            Traceback (most recent call last)
<timed eval> in <module>

~/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/transformers/trainer.py in train(self, model_path, trial)
    869             self.control = self.callback_handler.on_epoch_begin(self.args, self.state, self.control)
    870 
--> 871             for step, inputs in enumerate(epoch_iterator):
    872 
    873                 # Skip past any already trained steps if resuming training

~/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/torch/utils/data/dataloader.py in __next__(self)
    433         if self._sampler_iter is None:
    434             self._reset()
--> 435         data = self._next_data()
    436         self._num_yielded += 1
    437         if self._dataset_kind == _DatasetKind.Iterable and \

~/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/torch/utils/data/dataloader.py in _next_data(self)
   1083             else:
   1084                 del self._task_info[idx]
-> 1085                 return self._process_data(data)
   1086 
   1087     def _try_put_index(self):

~/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/torch/utils/data/dataloader.py in _process_data(self, data)
   1109         self._try_put_index()
   1110         if isinstance(data, ExceptionWrapper):
-> 1111             data.reraise()
   1112         return data
   1113 

~/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/torch/_utils.py in reraise(self)
    426             # have message field
    427             raise self.exc_type(message=msg)
--> 428         raise self.exc_type(msg)
    429 
    430 

AssertionError: Caught AssertionError in DataLoader worker process 0.
Original Traceback (most recent call last):
  File "/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/torch/utils/data/_utils/worker.py", line 198, in _worker_loop
    data = fetcher.fetch(index)
  File "/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/torch/utils/data/_utils/fetch.py", line 44, in fetch
    data = [self.dataset[idx] for idx in possibly_batched_index]
  File "/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/torch/utils/data/_utils/fetch.py", line 44, in <listcomp>
    data = [self.dataset[idx] for idx in possibly_batched_index]
  File "/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/datasets/arrow_dataset.py", line 1087, in __getitem__
    format_kwargs=self._format_kwargs,
  File "/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/datasets/arrow_dataset.py", line 1074, in _getitem
    format_kwargs=format_kwargs,
  File "/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/datasets/arrow_dataset.py", line 890, in _convert_outputs
    v = map_nested(command, v, **map_nested_kwargs)
  File "/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/datasets/utils/py_utils.py", line 225, in map_nested
    return function(data_struct)
  File "/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/datasets/arrow_dataset.py", line 851, in command
    return torch.tensor(x, **format_kwargs)
  File "/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/warnings.py", line 101, in _showwarnmsg
    _showwarnmsg_impl(msg)
  File "/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/warnings.py", line 30, in _showwarnmsg_impl
    file.write(text)
  File "/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/wandb/sdk/lib/redirect.py", line 100, in new_write
    cb(name, data)
  File "/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/wandb/sdk/wandb_run.py", line 723, in _console_callback
    self._backend.interface.publish_output(name, data)
  File "/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/wandb/sdk/interface/interface.py", line 153, in publish_output
    self._publish_output(o)
  File "/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/wandb/sdk/interface/interface.py", line 158, in _publish_output
    self._publish(rec)
  File "/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/wandb/sdk/interface/interface.py", line 456, in _publish
    if self._process and not self._process.is_alive():
  File "/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/multiprocessing/process.py", line 134, in is_alive
    assert self._parent_pid == os.getpid(), 'can only test a child process'
AssertionError: can only test a child process
```

As a workaround I have commented line 456 and 457 in `/home/ad/anaconda3/envs/tfm/lib/python3.6/site-packages/wandb/sdk/interface/interface.py`