dialogue: Sheryl: Should we visit Ann in the hospital?
  Jeff: It would be a nice gesture but I would ask her first
  Jeff: she may not want to be seen in this state
  Sheryl: I'll write her right now
  Jeff: ok, let me know
  Sheryl: she asked me not to come :(
  Jeff: sad, but I understand it
  Sheryl: me too.
summary: Ann requested that Sheryl and Jeff don't visit her in the hospital.