Borderline to Narcissist: I Will Abandon You First
Channel: Prof. Sam Vaknin
Date: 2020-03-14

Survey of latest findings on Borderline Personality Disorder

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I01x0o_OISE

Borderline Triangulates with Rescuer to Silence Pain, Abandonment Anxiety  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2pxXjQwJy-Y

Borderline Woman: Devaluation, Self-harm, Alcoholism

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UBemOsUOd8c

Borderline: I will dump you before you dump me. I will cheat on you in your presence or abuse you and this way abandon you before you get the chance to hurt me.

Narcissist: I will abuse you in order to control you and because to manipulate you I need to push your buttons and your biggest trigger is separation anxiety.

More about Borderline Personality Disorder 

http://samvak.tripod.com/personalitydisorders18.html

http://samvak.tripod.com/personalitydisorders50.html