The Paradox of Attraction
Channel: Psych2Go
Date: 2023-05-03

If you're tired of chasing after someone who doesn't seem to notice you, then this video is for you! In this video, we will explore the counterintuitive approach to attracting your crush that actually works called "The Sherlock Paradox". We'll share the surprising truth about what makes people attractive and how you can apply this knowledge to win over the person you've been dreaming about.

So, whether you're a hopeless romantic or simply looking for some practical advice on attracting your crush, be sure to watch and share this video with others who may benefit from our insights.  

We also made a video on a few "weird" things to increase attraction: https://youtu.be/t8WLMeYPSBA 

Writer/Researcher: Chloe Avenasa
Editor: Michal Mitchell
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Amanda Silvera (http://www.youtube.com/amandasilvera )
Animator: Zuzia 
Post Production & Sound Design: Gower Sun (https://youtube.com/@MidnightCityMusic)
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

Official Discord: https://discord.gg/EsWEvrJ

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