Here why your life is not sparkling | Cologne vlog
Channel: Kolbassia Haoussou
Date: 2019-07-11

Let's talk about why your life is not sparkling
We say that Germans are very efficient and ruthless like well-drilled machine why we can not also be as Germans with life hold into the things that only matter.

How do you approach life? Are the words “should” and “must” a big part of your vocabulary? Expectations (which are mental attachments) are always prefaced with one of these two words, for example, “He should be nicer,” “I must achieve this or I will be a failure,” “They should stop doing that immediately.” Pay attention to the use of these two words and how they reflect in your behaviour. Are you believing that something “should” happen or someone “must” be a certain way? Let it go. You cannot change people. Allow life to flow without imposing useless expectations onto it.

Non-attachment is usually the byproduct of spiritual practices such as self-discovery, self-acceptance, and self-love. 
Here are some useful ways to begin letting go of habits, desires, and thought-patterns that no longer serve you:

When we chase happiness what happens we believe that someone or something outside of ourselves can make us happy, and we suffer when we can get that someone or something. In fact, the pursuit of happiness is the greatest form of attachment there is in society. Instead, try to direct your attention inwards. At first, seeking happiness from within can be extremely difficult as we’ve been conditioned to find “happiness” in material things, accomplishments, titles, and people. But with practice, you will start to find the peaceful centre within you known as your soul. Regularly setting aside time to be quiet and still with yourself can help you tune into this inner space.


Allowing is about permitting life to be just as it is. Allow your thoughts. Allow your emotions. Allow things to not go the way you expected. In the words of Abraham Hicks, “The Art of Allowing is the art of finding my alignment, and therefore, living in joy no matter what’s happening around me.” By allowing life to happen, you stop resisting and suffering ceases.

Look around you and try to find something that will last forever. Who or what will last eternally? The reality is that all things will sooner or later die. By reminding yourself of this fact, you will start living life as fully and completely as possible. Seeing the transience of life is deeply saddening but also gives us the opportunity to experience true joy. If everything lasted forever, what a boring thing life would be! Death helps us to appreciate life. So appreciate it while you have it. Furthermore, use this recognition to fuel your pursuit to find that which doesn’t change, or that which is eternal. Start looking within and you will be surprised … or more than surprised, ecstatic!


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Disclaimer: Believe the words I am saying or not, it's up to you. Because I can only speak from my own experience. None of the insights I share is essentially true or false, right or wrong. They simply reflect the amazing results I've seen in my life.