Look for These RED FLAGS When Looking For A Partner! | Drs John & Julie Gottman
Channel: Mind Pump Show
Date: 2022-09-29

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00:00 Intro
00:38 What is the Gottman Institute, and what is its purpose? 
02:25 What got them so interested in studying relationships? 
04:09 What are some of the biggest misconceptions about the way we look at marriages back then compared to now? 
08:02 What is the Love Lab, and how did it work? 
12:31 The Four Horseman of the Apocalypse. 
17:44 The Sound Relationship House theory of what makes relationships work. 
28:40 The importance of focusing on the process rather than the content. 
33:36 The value of their research in helping build healthy relationships.
38:44 Any differences in same sex-relationships vs different-sex relationships? 
48:04 Are there things culturally that are working against them? 
54:16 The importance of a moral aspect in a healthy relationship. 
56:30 Love is an action.
1:02:14 Building connection through practice on Gottman Connect. 
1:08:13 Love Rx and closing words to the Mind Pump audience. 

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The Gottman Institute | A research-based approach to relationships
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Gottman Connect
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