Dating Builders: holistic Te in Relationships
Channel: Doris Füllgrabe
Date: 2023-12-15

Extraverted Thinking is the dominant function for ENTJ and ESTJ types. According to recent research by Dr. Dario Nardi, it can show up in two flavors. This video outlines the holistic extraverted thinking version.

In addition to my own experiences and interpretations, these are the resources I quote and/or reference:

Berens, L. V. and Nardi, D. (2004) Understanding Yourself and Others, An Introduction to the Personality Type Code, p.11  https://amzn.to/3Glt53J  

Jones, J. H. and Sherman, R. G. (2011) Intimacy and Type, p. 47 https://amzn.to/47NHe5k

Jung, C. G. (1976 edition) Psychological Types (The Collected Works), p.368ff https://amzn.to/46CJGuy

Nardi, D. (2023) Decode Your Personality - Go Beyond Myers-Briggs With 64 Brain-Based Subtypes, p. 345ff https://amzn.to/3GoU6mL 

Thomson, L. (1998) Personality Type, An Owners Manual, p. 39ff https://amzn.to/4a3mxEy 

00:24 - Introductions
00:57 - 2 general caveats
01:52 - Thinking / The function
03:10 - extraverted Thinking / The function attitude
06:38 - Holistic aka Yin / The flavor
07:50 - “Builder” / The flavor function type
09:01 - 2 relationship caveats
09:44 - Dating
10:22 - Mating
10:59 - Relating

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