Orpheus Black: Healthy Masculinity, Embracing Kink & The Power of Submission
Channel: Holly Randall Unfiltered
Date: 2022-11-21

Episode 270: Orpheus Black is an author, philosopher, and coach who has worked for 25 years in the BDSM and kink communities. He and Holly have an incredible conversation about tapping into healthy masculinity, why "simp" shouldn't be an insult, and the most common kink people struggle to embrace. Then, Orpheus shares his experience living with five non-monogamous partners and what it was like to raise 5 children in a poly relationship. Plus - he explains why people get turned on by erotic asphyxiation, and the WILD history behind its popularity!

:40 introducing Orpheus
1:34 how he got into the industry
5:11 his perception of BDSM before being in the community
5:56 Orpheus' approach to masculinity
8:37 how men can have a healthier relationship with their masculinity
10:15 masculinity in poly relationships
11:03 why simps aren't a problem
13:05 cuckholding
14:38 the criteria of fetish
15:40 can fetishes be problematic?
21:01 the humility side of humiliation
23:01 breaking down your walls during a humiliation session
25:15 what kink is
28:08 the kink people struggle with the most
34:51 his poly relationships
37:22 how he makes his relationships successfull
39:59 experience raising five children
43:58 the monogamy dynamic in his relationships
51:34 being a Breath Expert
52:01 what is erotic asphyxiation?
54:20 why people enjoy erotic asphyxiation
58:28 the most common classes he teaches
1:04:53 social shoutouts

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