How to speak up when you're shy
Channel: myenglishonline
Date: 2020-03-02

Talking to people can be intimidating sometimes. More so if you are just learning the language – it could seem that everyone is talking way too fast! In Canada, you need to speak up so that people will take notice. Otherwise, it will be hard for you to make friends or make connections. Speaking up is important in order to work well with your colleagues. But what do you do when you’re shy and need to communicate? Here are 3 tips:

1. Show positive body language – First, show that you welcome conversation through your body language. This means having a good posture, being attentive, and showing it in your facial expressions. People will naturally go and talk to you. Also, remember to keep eye contact when someone is talking to you. Smile or nod when they are making a point. Don’t slouch, cross your arms on your chest or look down; this kind of body language signals that you don’t want to interact and that you want to be left alone.
2. Listen well and ask questions – Often times, listening is more important than speaking. Instead of thinking of what to say, listen to the other person and then react to what they are saying. Remember to speak clearly and use respectful language. Ask questions to sustain the conversation and to show that you are interested in what the other person is saying.
3. Be ready with an elevator pitch – If you are in a networking opportunity, like a job fair, meeting or a convention for example, people will usually ask you what you do. Having something ready will make you feel more confident. It doesn’t have to be a long speech. It should be less than 30 seconds. An elevator pitch should contain: what you do, what you are passionate about, and what makes you unique. For example: “I am a curator and writer for English Online Inc., a not-for-profit that provides orientation and language training to newcomers in Manitoba.  My work combines two things that I am most passionate about: writing and helping newcomers succeed in their new home. Being a newcomer myself, I understand newcomer concerns and information needs. This is why I love my job. It gives me the opportunity to learn more about Canada, and at the same time share what I’ve learned to help others get to where they need to be.”

Just be yourself. Some people are outgoing, others are quiet and reserved. That’s okay. Communicate in a manner that you are comfortable with. The important thing is that you’re open to connecting with others and that you speak up when you need to. See you next time!

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