Dating, Sex, Divorce, & Booty Calls | Mind Pump 2092
Channel: Mind Pump Show
Date: 2023-06-08

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00:00 Intro
04:35 Why he does what he does today.
05:49 What is Attachment Theory and how can it affect you as an adult? 
11:04 Cooperating in conflict. 
14:09 Breaking down the 4 Styles of Attachment. 
19:45 Why are the women the first to ask for a divorce? 
23:26 Old knowledge that has been lost.
27:56 Why men need to feel powerful. 
32:02 Understanding the order of operations with your partner. 
35:31 Which attachments attract each other? 
40:55 Marriage glue.
44:22 The four pieces of relationship security. 
49:46 The murkiness with the division of labor.
53:37 The poor messaging to young men.
58:47 Why women are in a no-win circumstance right now. 
1:01:33 Why kids are so anxious and depressed.
1:03:55 The ramifications from too much access to pornography. 
1:06:38 Why a booty call does not turn into a marriage. 
1:10:03 The biggest challenges with modern life.
1:11:52 Why we are more like chimps than bonobos. 
1:15:34 His thoughts on dating apps. 
1:24:53 The four characteristics of a good father.
1:28:30 How most parents do not have a relationship with their kids, they manage them.
1:31:00 Tactical rituals to be a better father.
1:36:55 Why phones are one of the BIGGEST killers of sex. 
1:40:50 The role of the father during pregnancy. 
1:45:30 Why women with attachment issues have issues breastfeeding.
1:48:00 The importance of leading your partner into healthier attachment.
1:49:45 Run your marriage like a business and it will thrive. 
1:53:47 Why homeschool? 
1:56:12 The value in having oxytocin bonding routinely with your partner.
2:00:27 The pros and cons of psychedelics. 

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