Anarchist Women Won't Date Me. Why?
Channel: Anarcho Agony Aunts
Date: 2019-09-22

Questions 1 on Episode 11 of Anarcho Agony Aunts 

’’Hey M & R!
I recently discovered your project and i’m really enjoying it! I’ve been wanting to hear & participate in discussions on the topics y’all have covered but from an anarchist perspective, and especially hearing from women. Here is my question:
I’m a 29yr old het male anarchist from the US. When it comes to dating, I’ve lived and visited areas that have anarchist there. My political/philosophical views are a big thing for me and finding someone with similar or interesting views is a big plus for me. 
But I’ve never dated an anarchist woman. When i go to anarchist/lefty events, shows, online dating etc. the vast majority of them are at best indifferent to me, and usually aren’t even interested in even holding a conversation. At best I’m only able to attract hippy liberal types, which i can appreciate for them being who they are, but they’re not as radical and far enough left as i am and would like. Any ideas on this? Why this might  be the case? 
I’m aware that ever women isn’t going to be interested in me, but I’d say that most people would say that I’m cute, so i dont think its alway a matter of them not finding me attractive. I don’t “look” or dress like an anarcho-punk types with tattoos, piercings, blk leather everything, so that could be a factor. I doubt people could even guess any of my world views based on my appearance.
Anyways thanks for your project and keep up the awesome work!’’ 


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