When Is Flirting a Bad Idea | Paging Dr. NerdLove
Channel: DrNerdLove
Date: 12/10/2017

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There's a time and place for everything, including getting to know amazing new women. But the fact that you're attracted to someone doesn't mean that it's a good idea to try to pick them up. If you don't understand the dynamics of flirting or the social context involved, you end up looking like a pushy jerk at best or a creeper and a predator at worst. 

This week, we're going to talk about the dynamics that affect when, where and how flirting is permitted... and when it's a bad idea.

Show Highlights:

◾️ What most men never realize when they want to hit on someone
◾️ Why we root for the underdog hitting on the celebrity... and why we 
     shouldn't.
◾️ How power-imbalances make even innocent flirtation incredibly 
     stressful
◾️ Why the context of a situation changes everything about flirting
◾️ How to refine your social calibration
...and so much more

Related Links:

How To Not Be Creepy - http://www.doctornerdlove.com/how-to-not-be-creepy/

The Art of Social Calibration - http://www.doctornerdlove.com/art-social-calibration/all/1/

Socially Awkward Isn't An Excuse - http://www.doctornerdlove.com/socially-awkward-isnt-an-excuse/

The Basics of Cold Approaches - http://www.doctornerdlove.com/cold-approach-pt-1/

Level Up: How To Get Women To Approach You - http://www.doctornerdlove.com/get-women-to-approach-you/


Intro Music: 
Welcome to the Show Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)
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