Friendships:💟Being Fake vs Real; Apology, Accountability, Honorability 💟
Channel: Conversations with Wa
Date: 2021-01-31

In this video, I am talking to people who have a problem with being friends with others, they have allot of miscommunications, problem maintaining friendships with people, people come in & out of their life. They are always the victim & cant seem to maintain friendships with people because everyone else, is always the problem, not them. They are always blocking people on social media & getting blocked because they are growing in their character & still have yet to learn how to be honest, integral & righteous, regardless of differences. Some people, as beautiful as ever on the outside, but so much healing to do on the inside, will look at you, lie to your face. Say "I never lied, I will never disrespect you" Its really un-canning, to deal with. Well, you have to ignore their beauty & your astonishment & recognize that this person lives in a reality, where they lie to themselves & to your face, apparently. Liars, you are only lying to yourself, even if someone allows you to act & play out your lies- to their ear & listening to show you compassion, does not mean, that there is not something inside of them, that knows you are being fake & false. Sometimes, people really love you & want to be your friend & help you, regardless of your falsehood. Most people, do not have time for people, that lie, as naturally as we all breathe. Or lie, just for fun, I think people should utilize their multi-genius for something that makes their life more creditable & helps their character. If someone has a reputation for being fake, its because they are still learning how to be real. I do not ask people, why they have a negative judgement on someone, if they tell me someone is fake, I wait, to see if I have this experience with someone. No, this person telling me their opinion on someone, is not gossiping, I allow my friends to speak. Basically, their experience is real & my friends are credible, so their experience is valid for them. However, my experience is neutral, until the person, exposes that energy towards me. I have friends from middle school, high school, that still refer to me as their best friend because I am a genuine and loving person. I genuinely love people & accept them as they are, so its easy for people to be my friend. When people have problems with accountability, it makes it difficult to continue forward communicating with them. One of my other friends, said my other friend is fake and I was like huh? I did not see my friend as fake but as time moved forward, I began to see what this other friend was talking about. People will view someone as fake, if they tell lies so quickly they do not even remember them & when someone brings it up later, they are in 100 percent denial. If someone makes a mistake, they have some rude, or unfavorable behavior & they do not apologize, loose their temper & try to put the blame on others, instead of just apologizing, they will be viewed as fake. A real person, is honest enough with themselves & others to apologize. When you truly value a person's time & friendship, you are human & humble enough to apologize. If someone acknowledges that their behavior is inappropriate, that is just one part to maintaining friendship & moving forward. The next step is apologizing for the unfavorable behavior because you respect & honor your friend. Everyone makes mistakes, people who are real enough to genuinely apologize, and not just apologize because someone says, at that point, its fake. If someone has to point it out, that you did not apologize, then its not a authentic apology. As children, some of us learned, if you do something on accident, apologize, it keeps us grounded, real & humble. Some people did not learn this yet, they do not apologize & just want to continue on like nothing happened. Ok, that is where people get the whole "fake thing" from. Then if you bring it up again, because it was never fully dealt with, apologized for, they want to say you are making negative comments, being in the past. Being in the present moment, if someone cant honorably apologize for a mistake of the past, how can they be trustworthy and honorable in the present/future. Some people are just overly dramatic, its apart of their fake-ism. They will claim that them getting upset with you, cutting you off, not allowing you to speak, & then texting you their accusations, as the situation being dealt with already. You, pointing out their mistake is a "attack"(unbalanced)Well, pointing the finger at someone else, when you know you farted, is not appropriate. Just as is, spending your time accusing them, instead of apologizing. Its real to apologize, its fake to expect the person, to just move forward like nothing never happened. That is not my idea of friendship, we can move forward, after the person apologizes. I expect the respect that I give, & when I do not receive it, then an apology is due. Anyways world, value your friendships, the people the Most High brings into your life and be patient & honest.