💘  #shorts: the better wish
Channel: David Wilchfort
Date: 2023-05-28

Do you have a wish for your partner that he or she is unfortunately not willing to fulfil?
You've probably already tried pressuring and threatening, only to find that this creates a counterpressure of defiance.
Try this instead: 
Think about how grateful you would be if he or she finally fulfilled your wish.
It is important that you imagine this very concretely. 
What would you do, say, feel, and so on?
With this happy fantasy in mind, have another conversation with your partner about your wish.
This time, however, you emphasize how you would react if your partner were able to fulfil your wish.
No, it doesn't guarantee that your wish will be granted, but it's still better than the guarantee that your wish will NOT be granted if you apply pressure.

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(English below)
Würdest du dich auch gerne wieder in deinen Partner verlieben?
Ja, das ist möglich.
Mein Name ist Dr. David Wilchfort, ich bin Arzt und Psychotherapeut und habe mehr als 50 Jahre Erfahrung in der Arbeit mit Paaren, die sich genau das gewünscht haben.
Bevor ich dir erzähle, was zum Wecken der Schmetterlinge in deinem Bauch nötig ist, eine kleine Warnung. 
Vieles von dem, was du bisher für selbstverständlich gehalten hast, werde ich hinterfragen.
Aber ich sehe es als meine gesellschaftliche Pflicht an, meine Erkenntnisse nicht nur den Paaren in meiner Praxis zur Verfügung zu stellen, sondern auch DIR.
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Do you want to fall in love with your partner again?
Yes, you can.
My name is Dr. David Wilchfort, and I am a medical doctor and psychotherapist with more than 50 years of experience working with couples who want to get that wonderful feeling again.
Before I tell you what it takes to recapture your loving feeling, a word of caution.
I am going to challenge a lot of what you have taken for granted.
However, I feel that it is my social duty to make my findings available not only to the couples in my office, but to YOU as well.
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Dr. David Wilchfort
🔗  https://couplecoaching.de