"I get aroused by men’s pot bellies" | Seema Anand in conversation with Dr. Anvita Madan-Bahel
Channel: Seema Anand StoryTelling
Date: 2024-03-03

For everyone trying to make sense of their own particular fetish because in the eyes of society it will seen as weird or abnormal, I want you to consider two things carefully 🤔🧐
1. That certain “something” that excites is not a conscious choice, it is something we are born with, it is a feeling that comes from within us. (Not to be confused with ACTING on this)!! 
2. What, or who, we are aroused by does not define your sexual orientation! For instance take the number of people who are aroused by same-sex narratives even though they themselves may be hetrosexual, or those who are excited by ‘sub’ fetishes but would not wish to live that in real life, or a million such examples! 

Arousal is a complex kaleidoscope of contradictions, of feelings, desires and mental images that exist within us. 🌪️
The world is full of people with the most unusual fetishes which serve as a wonderful tool of mental arousal but in no way impact their every day lives. 
You don’t need to fit into a box, you don’t have to apologise for what turns you on and you certainly don’t have to find explanations for how you feel.

The guilt and shame that we have been taught to feel around this subject, and the desperate need to fit in and not be judged is like a dense cloud that stops you from being able to think clearly.  

As @anvitamadan-bahel and I always say, once you can learn to relax and shed the guilt you fill find all your answers

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