Resist Narcissism, Grassroots Up! (Interview with Dr. Lisa Alastuey)
Channel: Prof. Sam Vaknin
Date: 2021-04-15

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qF5t3bQdGnQ

Lisa writes:

Perhaps the most neglected field in the study of Narcissism is: What can We as Individuals and as a Society do about it?  

The guest this week is Professor Dr. Sam Vaknin who is the author of Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited. 

Sam's Bio - https://samvak.tripod.com/cv.html​
Sam's Book - Malignant Self-love:  Narcissism Resisted - https://samvak.tripod.com/thebook.html​
Sam's Youtube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCLad...​
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00:00​ Channel Introduction
00:26​ Dr. Sam Vaknin Introduction
02:33​ Correction on Narcissistic Supply
02:47​ Definitions: Primary Narcissism, Secondary Narcissism, NPD
04:49​ Distinctions between NPD and Narcissistic Style
06:06​ NPD and Comorbidities 
07:55​ Healthy Narcissism 
08:40​ Reality Testing
09:37​ Jung and Constellation of the Self
10:00​ Separation and Individuation
11:41​ Empathy
12:36​ Cold Empathy
14:14​ Narcissist are Selfless
14:36​ Genetics and NPD
15:07​ Reconceive Narcissism
15:55​ Grandiose Narcissist
16:10​ Primary and Secondary Psychopaths 
17:09​ Reconceiving Paranoid Disorder as Narcissism 
17:52​ ICD 11 - Only One Personality Disorder with Emphasis
18:58​ DSM Being Antiquated 
20:03​ DSM - Alternate Model 
20:47​ Growth of Narcissism
21:33​ Debate on the Rise of Narcissism
22:22​ Sublimation and Collective Channels
24:40: Manifestations on Narcissism
26:02​ The Death Cult and Valuing the Inanimate
26:33​ Narcissism and Psychopathy as Positive Adaptions 
27:12​ Historical Traumatic Events
27:37​ Complex/Repeated Trauma
28:51​ Adaptation to Survive and Thrive
29:09​ Walking Zombies and Flat Effect
29:47​ Alternative Reality and Escapism
30:53​ Resilient
31:04​ Smartphones, Facebook, Subverted Language, Malice
33:20​ Narcissistic Abuse
35:50​ Introject 
39:54​ Trauma Bonding, Intermittent Reinforcement, Insecurity
41:16​ Hall of Mirrors 
43:23​ Complex PTSD
48:48​ Hope and Recovery is a Process
49:59​ Self-styled Experts/Coaches/Gurus Perpetuating Victimhood 
51:41​ Taking Responsibility and Opportunity to Move Forward
52:13​ What Can We Do About It?
52:33​ Grandiosity, Entitlement, Lack of Empathy, Exploitativeness
55:40​ Nothingness and Anti-narcissism Movement 
57:20​ Societal Level
59:51​ Start at Home
1:00:31​ Institutions vs. We Are Alone
1:02:33​ Recreate Society 
1:04:13​ Diminishment
1:04:43​ Fake Empowerment 
1:06:23​ Dating 
1:08:58​ Exit Movement 
1:09:53​ Social Media Consequences and Regulations 
1:12:49​ Be You, Don't Act
1:14:18​ The Society as a Spectacle
1:15:11: Make Coffee Authentically
1:15:47​ Please Leave a Comment

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