Codependency: State of mind, not State of Affairs
Channel: Prof. Sam Vaknin
Date: 08/01/2021

The narcissist is indiscriminate and promiscuous in his mate selection: anyone would do if she provides him with 2 of the 3 Ss (sex, sadistic and narcissistic supply, and services).

Codependency and trauma are not objective but subjective: states of mind, not states of affairs.

Codependency is a pattern of reactions to the presence of an abuse and the promise of abuse (comfort zone): intimate partner regulates emotions, moods, and mediates dialog among introjects.

Abuser and victim are each other’s instruments.

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