Victim Vs. Abuser | Projective Identification Can Leave You Questioning Who's the Abuser
Channel: Kesha Martin
Date: 2021-03-08

Victim Vs. Abuser, which are you ? If you have been a  victim of Projective identification this can leave you questioning if you are an abuser.  This is a toxic and narcissistic person's weapon that can keep you stuck in an unhealthy situation or keep you ruminating about a past relationship. Learn what projective identification is and free yourself from toxic dynamics. 

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1:28 Projective Identification Keeps You Stuck
2:20 What does Projective Identification look like
3:00 How does Projective Identification blur the line between victim and abuser?
4:00 How do toxic or narcissistic people use Projective Identification to control you?
5:00 Projective Identification and self-doubt
6:30 An example of Projective Identification
8:00 Distinguishing between Victim vs Abuser
9:10 The victim's projections 
10:00 The exception vs the rule
10:30 The victim's behaviors
11:20 The abuser's behaviors
15:48 If you identify as the victim
16:20 If you identify as the abuser

Resources for you:
https://bandbacktogether.com/master-resource-links-2/abuse-resources/emotional-abuse-resources/
https://www.crisistextline.org/topics/emotional-abuse/#what-is-emotional-abuse-1
http://stoprelationshipabuse.org/educated/types-of-abuse/emotional-abuse/
https://www.safehorizon.org/programs/supporting-someone-emotionally-abusive-relationship/
https://drive.google.com/file/d/1PJUAcvmJxQRhzVLqaHFzx7FGSaKAgJOl/view?usp=sharing

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