Learn to STOP PRETENDING You are Someone You're NOT | Animation
Channel: Starts With Me
Date: 2023-03-01

Do you want to know how to let go of your anger your resentment your finger pointing out at the world and your inability to become the person you want to be?

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It's a lesson that I had to learn that I hope no one really has to go through because it's it's a lot of rewiring in my head and unlearning before I had to reinvent myself and the unlearning part came down to the fact that I was just really really unhappy you know I had a wake-up call and I I just realized one day that I'm not happy with any part of my life even though it seems like it from the outside I saw this picture the other day on LinkedIn and it really woke me up. 

There was an image of a circle and the circle was about as large as a basketball and that Circle was divided in half and then the bottom half it says everything I'm losing in and the top half says everything I'm winning in and on the top half there's a quarter size circle that says what I shared on Instagram and it was a big realization of how little we know about the world but at the same time we're allowing it to consume us because as hard as we're trying we're starting to see that we're not good enough because we're comparing our lives with other people's highlight reels.

You know you're never in a situation where you're in the middle of a fight and you say hey wait a second let's take a selfie and put it up online for the world to see and because no one's doing that you're asking yourself like hey is there something wrong with my relationship because no one else seems to be doing what I'm doing but the reality is everyone's having conflicts there are challenges and hard discussions that never get shared online but my problem was I wasn't seeing that when I was younger you know I felt like hate was working I felt like it was making progress it was doing well but then one day I finally burnt out I finally realized I was losing in all other areas of my life you know I was I was becoming severely overweight I was in massive financial debt and I was still spending a lot of money to create this facade on social media that wasn't true.

Those were indicators that one day I finally burnt out and I finally said I don't care if anything else works for me if I'm not happy I'm not doing it anymore and at that moment I decided to step back and rewire everything and rewire my entire philosophy around this world and it took a lot of work it took a lot of unlearning and hard realities you know virtually looking myself in the mirror and taking apart the things that are negative and I noticed a big indicator that makes me extremely happy is I noticed that every year that's gone by I've been complaining less 

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