What it is What it is not: "I Do..." if it's Equitable
Channel: I Do if its Equitable
Date: 2021-02-03

This is the final Foundational video before we discuss the "I Do" Philosophy Elements.

We discuss what the "I Do..." Philosophy is and is not.

First, it demands the same of and from each partner.

Second, it demand Honest and Open Communication from each partner.

And Finally, it introduces the concept of "what's mine is mine, what's yours is yours, what's ours will be Equitably divided".

It does this by establishing a set of guidelines and standards of conduct between partners established while they date and before they marry.

The Philosophy maximizes protective motives, which both partners should offer to and expect from the other, by adopting and Equitable approach to the process of dating and expectations of marriage.

The Philosophy is intended to eliminate the financial and emotional harm or retribution which one partner could cause the other should divorce occur.

We discuss how the "I Do..." Philosophy is not a cold, emotionless, business-like approach to dating and marriage. Rather, it demands that each partner truly understand, respect, and trust each other.

During marriage, it allows for an Equitable resolution of the various and diverse issues regarding the business of marriage.

If the marriage fails, it should disarm divorce lawyers and their seemingly endless court battles by rendering moot the greed, spite, deceit, or avarice which one partner might be hiding or whose lawyer might try to awaken,

Finally we acknowledge that the "I Do..." Philosophy is not a replacement for, or prohibition of, the advice or counsel which family, friends, social workers, health care professionals, and/or clergy can offer.

In Summary:

If you believe that ignorance is bliss, love is blind, or love conquers all then do not watch these videos...they can do nothing for you.

Do you want an approach to Dating, Marrying, and Divorcing Wisely?

Dating can become a time consuming and expensive effort whose trends often become expectations.

Many consider marriage as nothing more than a means to acquire wealth and property that they cannot provide for themselves.

Divorce has reached a crisis state in America. So too has its financial and emotional consequences.

What is the answer to the financial and emotional trauma that bad dating, bad marriage, or bad divorce can cause?

"I Do" if its Equitable and its companion Philosophy  is the answer.

Properly applied, the "I Do" Philosophy should allow both partners to continue dating, and/or enter into marriage, without suspicion. The couple is free to enjoy a loving, growing, stable relationship without having to fear any potential harm the other may cause.