Narcissist: Til Uniqueness Do Us Part
Channel: Prof. Sam Vaknin
Date: 2023-12-19

Narcissist's Fallacy: If everyone is unique, no one is unique. Only way to be unique is to not be unique like everybody else. 

So, the narcissist must deny the uniqueness of others by emphasizing commonalities and, at the same time, deny the denominator common to him and others.

This is a slippery slope. It can end up denying the narcissist's own uniqueness. This is why he idealizes or devalues a subset of internal objects (vicarious uniqueness, by proxy). 

Temporal splitting: uniqueness in idealization-devaluation.

Narcissist's problem: Everyone is unique specimen due to unidirectionality of time arrow and indeterminacy in QM, everyone is non-repeatable and non-replicable (which is why psychology is pseudoscience). 

Moreover: everyone is non-repeatable and non-replicable from one  nanosecond to the next. The concepts of self and core identity are counterfactual. 

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