Narcissist's Partner: Admire Me, Play with Me, Mother Me
Channel: Prof. Sam Vaknin
Date: 2020-05-04

There are three phases to the narcissist's relationships with women.

The ADMIRER: endows the narcissist with the confidence needed to approach the woman (only his brain or body are attractive, the rest and his personality are repulsive)

The PLAYMATE: includes rudimentary courting, sex, and fun activities and simulates the typical behaviors of a MAN in the initial stages of a relationship. Helps to deceive both the narcissist and the woman into believing that he is a proper, fully-evolved man (albeit childlike).

The MOTHER: makes the narcissist feel safe, ensconced and immersed in unconditional love as a child. The woman is then free to outsource her needs - including sex and intimacy - with other men as long as she doesn't act maliciously or vengefully (to hurt the narcissist), is committed to him, pledges to not abandon him, and doesn't cross certain boundaries and provoke abandonment anxiety.

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