How to STOP Struggling with Love & Relationship Confusion
Channel: Starts With Me
Date: 2023-03-08

We can learn to be in relationship even when we're messed up we don't have to wait till we've healed everything that's one of my Shadows that I had to face you know I had this like Lone Wolf. 

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If it doesn't feel right if it doesn't feel 100 if it's not familiar it must be I gotta go I gotta be alone for a while I gotta be a monk so there's that side and then there's another myth or spell I think of the misspells like Society childhood we get these spells that we believe that cause us a lot of harm.

And, one of the Spells is oh when I meet the one yeah I'm just gonna know it's gonna feel right and it's always going to feel right and then later go what the [ __ ] I hate this I want to get out of here it's wrong I was wrong but I forget that right I forget that moment where it felt right we're all gonna fade out of love just like other things go away it's a temporary state I was chasing that. 

And I think some people have labeled that love addiction you know when you're chasing after that feeling of being in love there's also this sense you know we're gonna meet this person that fulfills all my needs all my longings every time I have the tenderest feeling they're going to be right there going oh honey I feel you I'm with you I'm right here and then you get we get into real deep water of intimacy we realize that's such a lie we get confronted by loving people in ways we hate they confront us we don't like it we attack them back we're gonna have times where we're all alone in the relationship and that doesn't mean there's something wrong it just means that person is not available 24/7. 

They have their own stuff going on it's just so much disillusion for me over the years that I've started to see that part of this discernment to gain Clarity to make a proper Choice as best as we can with the unknown is actually at least half of the work is dismantling all of these spells noticing the lies we've told ourselves and actually stepping closer to real love whatever that is just getting closer to that and then I think we start to actually begin to ask the right questions we start to actually be in the terrain noticing what's really around us and really start to know thank you for watching to the end of this video please don't forget to share like And subscribe to our Channel and if you want to check out more content like this click on one of these two boxes take it easy peace out

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