People don't want to spend time with you because you are too self-centered.
Channel: Bible information and help
Date: 2024-01-16

Self-centered: concerned solely with one's own desires, needs, or interests

     You may wonder why people don't really want to visit you. You may wonder why people don't want to spend much time with you. You may be puzzled. You may even go as far to shame people for not spending time with you. Why would anyone want to spend time with someone that is self-centered? When someone does speak with you, the conversation is mainly centered on you. No matter what the topic is on, somehow the conversation goes from that to how amazing and great you are. Who really wants to speak about that so much? There are so many things to speak about. Yet somehow the conversation gets back on you.

     You want to be served, but not really serve others. You want people to go out their way for you, but you rarely do it for others. You want someone to sit there and listen to you complain all day without criticism. Yet you are willing to criticize and get upset if someone tells you are wrong. Why would a person want to be around you? Why would anyone want to waste their time? 

     You want people to be patient and sensitive with you. Yet you are very impatient and insensitive. Somehow you make your wrong right. When others do wrong, you can clearly see it. You can quickly call it out. Yet when someone spots your wrong, you call them ignorant. You tell them, they don't know what they are speaking about. Are you seeing what you are doing? Are you monitoring your behavior? Who in their right mind wants to be around you? Excuse me for saying this, but you are like a selfish brat. Like a misbehaved child. I am not trying to offend you by saying this. 

     You truly don't know why people don't want to be around you, but it should be clearly understood. You are self-serving. Yes, I know bad things happened to you in your past. Yes, your parents didn't really take care of you too well. They didn't really take care of your needs. So, you probably had to do some bad things to make sure your needs were taken care of. I understand that. Just because you had a rough past doesn't mean you should behave in the way you are now. You can't continue to use that as an excuse to do what is wrong. Obviously, you see the results of your actions. You don't like it. Since you don't like it, I think it is time for a change. 



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     When I was a child, I believe I fell off my bicycle many times. I think many of those experiences were extremely painful. I survived  :-) . Guess what, I don't need training wheels to ride a bicycle anymore LOL. 

     Let me ask you something. How silly would it be for me to expect how to ride a bicycle if I never practiced or practiced enough? I am not a genius LOL. I don't think I am extremely smart haha. I don't think I learn things very quickly. How silly would it be for me to expect how to ride a bicycle if I choose not to place much effort into it? Okay. Aren't you trying to live for Jesus Christ? 

     Are you? Are you expecting to be perfect at it but choose not to place adequate time in getting better at it? Hello? Are you there? I don't know much about LeBron James. I guess I know he is a good basketball player. Didn't he place much time in getting good at what he does now? I think so. 

     So what can you conclude? I don't think you can say that you aren't good at trying to obey Jesus Christ's rules if you aren't placing much time trying to learn more about Him. Aren't you kind of giving up without placing a nice amount of effort into it? I don't think I give time to God as much as some others. I think the more time I give to God, the better things are for me. I think I am a "living testimony" to that statement. 

     How am I any different from you? I don't have wings. I don't think I can shoot energy waves out of my hands or anything like that. What am I? I am a regular (I think I am regular haha) guy who chooses to place effort in trying to be pleasing to God. God is no respecter of persons (doesn't show favoritism), right? If I can do it, can't you do it? Place effort into knowing God. 

***Get up. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Enough of that self-pity stuff.