my husband videoed my sister in the shower - Seema Anand StoryTelling
Channel: Seema Anand StoryTelling
Date: 2023-04-05

As our psychosexual therapist Dr. Anvita Madan Bahel (@anvitamadanbahel) said this msg brings up so many issues that urgently need to be dealt with - it is not just the wife but equally the sister who has been violated (even if she doesn’t know about it, it happened, it was non-consensual and very problematic).
But for today we focusing on the question “what to do to save the marriage.”

There are no black and white answers or instant solutions.
The only way a relationship can survive after something like this is to rebuild trust. And that will take time and a lot of effort on both sides.

Everyone needs to take responsibility for their own behavior and actions.
Unfortunately, there are so many of these msgs every day, with the same excuse - “Porn made me do it”. Because for some reason they feel it is acceptable “it was porn hence I’m not responsible!”
If you’re old enough to watch porn, then you’re old enough to take responsibility for your actions.