Equitable Solutions to Money Related Dating and Divorce Issues
Channel: I Do if its Equitable
Date: 2021-02-06

In this video, we discuss an Equitable approach to solving money related dating, marriage and divorce issues.

We discuss the three most devastating money related occurrences that can threaten or destroy even the most stable relationship.

We discuss how the issue of money is not equal in a relationship unless it is truly equal. That is we distinguish between Financial Equality and Financial Equity.

We discuss how finding Financial Equity is absolutely essential to a stable, growing, trusting relationship.

Three Options to achieve Financial Equity are discussed.

We return to the Rule of Dividing Profit and Property: "What's mine is mine, what's yours is yours, what's ours will be Equitably divided"

We discuss keeping Trends and Expectations under control.

We relate relevant We'll Behave, We Believe, and We Expect item\s.

Finally, we stress settling money related issues before, not after the marriage.

In Summary:

Do you want an approach to Dating, Marrying, and Divorcing Wisely?

If you believe that ignorance is bliss, love is blind, or love conquers all then do not watch these videos...they can do nothing for you.

Dating can become a time consuming and expensive effort whose trends often become expectations.

Many consider marriage as nothing more than a means to acquire wealth and property that they cannot provide for themselves.

Divorce has reached a crisis state in America. So too has its financial and emotional consequences.
What is the answer to the financial and emotional trauma that bad dating, bad marriage, or bad divorce can cause?

"I Do" if its Equitable and its companion Philosophy  is the answer.

Properly applied, the "I Do" Philosophy should allow both partners to continue dating, and/or enter into marriage, without suspicion. The couple is free to enjoy a loving, growing, stable relationship without having to fear any potential harm the other may cause.