There's Wisdom behind HATRED! It Reveals whats Missing Inside you = Shadow work | Karla McLaren
Channel: Visceral Gravitas
Date: 2022-05-05

Summarized edit of source clip "Hatred Has a Purpose" https://youtu.be/qRB-EZiiDQ8

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rough transcript: 
your hatred is extremely important it will show you exactly what is unfinished in you 
what is unloved in you 
what is unwelcome in you 

hatred is a sign of the complete loss of your boundaries 
anger is about the boundaries from the outside 
so if people are challenging you or trying to abuse you 
your anger should step up 
shame is about boundaries with your own self 
so that you aren't doing anything that would challenge or abuse others right 
anger and shame work together to keep you upright and to keep you socially worthwhile 

when hatred comes up what it says is your boundaries are gone 
this person and their evilness has come in has broken all your boundaries 
and your shame is gone too because you're willing to go out and attack back right 

so hatred is a sign of complete boundary devastation your boundaries are gone 
hatred is considered a part of your shadow a part of the things that you can't accept in yourself and you demonize in others 

so hatred is the complete loss of your boundaries in the presence of someone who is living out your shadow 
the gifts are intense awareness piercing vision sudden evolution and of course shadow work 
the internal questions are what has fallen into my shadow and what must be reintegrated and what must be reintegrated 
your hatred if you don't know how to control it and you don't know what it's about 
makes you into a monster 
makes you into a monster 
so it's the profound mirror 
hatred is a crucial emotion to understand because when you're focusing that laser pointed 
rage and dehumanization 
it's important to understand what you've become 
it tells you what is missing inside you 
if you can learn to work with your hatred 
you can evolve as a human being 

you've got a strong internal moral structure that is not going to be pulled off into impotent childish expressions of hatred that you haven't owned that you haven't identified and that you haven't worked with 

hatred the complete loss of your boundaries in the presence of someone who is living out your shadow 
it tells you what is missing inside you 
your hatred is extremely important it tells you what is missing inside you