💘  #shorts: 3 types of feeling hurt
Channel: David Wilchfort
Date: 2023-06-09

Is that really true?
That you can't build a better relationship with a partner who hurts you?
This is what someone wrote in a comment.
But what kind of hurtful partner are we talking about?
In my work with couples, I have encountered three types.
First, the partner who WANTS to hurt.
Two, the partner who doesn't want to hurt and doesn't that they are hurting.
Third, the partner who feels himself hurt and therefore feels the need to defend himself by hurting back.
Each of these three cases requires a different response.
This is why it is so important to find out which type of hurting partner you have.
Because with Type1, who is out to hurt, it will be very difficult to build a better relationship.
With types two and three, on the other hand, it is not hopeless at all.
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(English below)
Würdest du dich auch gerne wieder in deinen Partner verlieben?
Ja, das ist möglich.
Mein Name ist Dr. David Wilchfort, ich bin Arzt und Psychotherapeut und habe mehr als 50 Jahre Erfahrung in der Arbeit mit Paaren, die sich genau das gewünscht haben.
Bevor ich dir erzähle, was zum Wecken der Schmetterlinge in deinem Bauch nötig ist, eine kleine Warnung. 
Vieles von dem, was du bisher für selbstverständlich gehalten hast, werde ich hinterfragen.
Aber ich sehe es als meine gesellschaftliche Pflicht an, meine Erkenntnisse nicht nur den Paaren in meiner Praxis zur Verfügung zu stellen, sondern auch DIR.
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Do you want to fall in love with your partner again?
Yes, you can.
My name is Dr. David Wilchfort, and I am a medical doctor and psychotherapist with more than 50 years of experience working with couples who want to get that wonderful feeling again.
Before I tell you what it takes to recapture your loving feeling, a word of caution.
I am going to challenge a lot of what you have taken for granted.
However, I feel that it is my social duty to make my findings available not only to the couples in my office, but to YOU as well.
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Dr. David Wilchfort
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