“Twin Flames” and Their “Empaths”: Danse Macabre
Channel: Prof. Sam Vaknin
Date: 2021-02-23

Your Twin Flame is Narcissist, Psychopath, Con(fidence) artist

Twin flame, other half

Idealized mirroring of an idealized version of yourself (past, present, future)

Co-idealize yourself (narcissistic defense grandiosity)

Same traits, preferences, behaviors, values, goals, boundaries, dreams PLUS (you on steroids plus added features)

Legitimizes, sense of belonging, being seen (existence validated affirmed)

He is perceived as either superior or a reinforcement the cavalry which will allow you to reach utopia (no place, a pessimistic word)

Cold empathy, scans vulnerabilities, idealizes you, self-limerence, hall of mirrors, shared fantasy, cult

He becomes both parental figure and your false self and is introjected as such regresses you to before separation/individuation (infantile state): iternalized objects reduce dependence on external objects. 

Monopolizes regulatory functions 

Others perceived as dysregulatory and deflating which leads to paranoia and isolation

Continued self-aggrandizement (as empath) perpetuates his roles and reinforces his introject, continues the abuse

Like in Stockholm syndrome he becomes source and regulator of life, self-esteem, wellbeing, self-love and has the power to inflict hurt.

Regression to pre-separation/individuation forces you from external to internal object relations (schizoid), his introject is parental but it is also YOU, a component of your identity. 

Symbiosis is not merger fusion (empty core)

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