SHE DOESN'T WANT ORALS BUT I DO - Seema Anand StoryTelling
Channel: Seema Anand StoryTelling
Date: 2024-02-02

These are very common problems that crop up in every relationship, and while we are very clear that no one should be coerced into anything that they don’t want to do, we also understand that there needs to be some negotiation, some compromise in every situation to reach a mutually desirable result. Unfortunately it’s very seldom that an acceptable compromise is reached or that a reasonable conversation even takes place, and far too often it can all turn very ugly. 🫣

And this is because we’ve never been taught how to negotiate something like this. We send young people into the world with no real education on sex or any advice on tackling relationship issues - so much easier to just shut conversations down, pretend everything is fine and if things go wrong (as they often do) well, so long as no one talks about it publicly, just continue to pretend it never happened.

So, how would you advise this person?

It is time to start these conversations somewhere, let’s begin on smaller platforms like this one. We are all working towards creating more wholesome relationships based on a deeper understanding of ourselves and our partner.
Give us your opinion/advice!

I’ve often said that if I was to teach sex education I would begin with teaching about emotions involved - how we think, act and react in any given situation.

And if society has such a problem with the term “sex education”, let’s change it to “relationship education”!! 👊🏽