Why Narcissist MUST Sacrifice YOU to False Self
Channel: Prof. Sam Vaknin
Date: 2024-04-06

Narcissist always prefers false self to you and always ends up sacrificing you to the false self. Why is that?

As I have been saying for well over a decade, the narcissist’s false self is a primitive savage parental deity that demands and expects human sacrifice, starting with the narcissist’s true self. 

Narcissism is, therefore, a private missionary religion: the narcissist attempts to convert others into his/her creed and then sacrifice them to the insatiable, voracious shared fantasy around the false self. 

The false self is a parental figure, it is how a child views his/her parents: godlike, infallible, omnipotent, omniscient. At the beginning of the shared fantasy, the narcissist converts you into a maternal figure.

This creates competition (dissonance) between you and the false self (same happens in therapy). One of you has to go. Since the narcissist identifies him/herself with the false self (there is no real, constellated self), he sacrifices you.

This process is one of the main engines of the attempted reenactment of the failed early childhood separation-individuation which leads to devaluation and discard. 

But having discarded you, the narcissist still remains stuck with your maternal introject (persecutory object) and with his parental false self. The dissonance is never resolved. 

WATCH Narcissism, the New Faith - Part 1: Distributed God and Human Sacrifice https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b87WQj3q0_w

WATCH Narcissism, the New Faith - Part 2: Missionary Cult and the End of Society  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=buNFfb43oC0

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