Why do you want THEIR life?
Channel: Thom Rigsby
Date: 2019-05-01

So why, exactly, are you comparing yourself and your life to someone else? Do you REALLY want THEIR life?

It's pretty easy for us to look at someone else's results and say, "Yeah, I want that!" But that's only part of the story. You don't know the in's and out's that it took for them to get there. You don't know what they gave up to have what they have. But most importantly, YOU'RE NOT THEM! What motivated them to reach for this goal may not even be on your radar!

When you compare yourself to others you tend to compare the most negative version of yourself against an idealized version of them. When you do that, of course you're going to come out on the short end of the stick!

But why are you worried about them in the first place? Why don't you come up with your own idealized outcome and start working toward that! The great thing about the world we live in today is that you can literally dream up just about anything and make it your reality! Heck, Elon Musk wants to live on Mars... so he's working on it! Will he achieve it? Who knows...and who cares! If he finds his joy doing his art trying to get to Mars, he'll be a happy guy.

So what is YOUR Big Hairy Audacious Goal? What's that one thing that you want more than anything and you're reluctant to share with anyone else? That's your BHAG, and if you have a need for comparison, compare yourself today to yourself yesterday and the progress you've made toward that BHAG!

Leave a comment, let me know what your BHAG is!

Enjoy!

Thom, THE Unashamed Non-Conformist

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