“I’m not gay, not bi, but I have same-sex attraction”
Channel: Seema Anand StoryTelling
Date: 2023-01-15

In recent months I’ve had a lot of messages from young people saying that they are not gay or bisexual but have had (or continue to occasionally have) intimate relations with a same sex best friend, ending always with the same concern - “is it normal?” 🤔

As @dranvitamadanbahel says it is more normal and common than you think!

However, between society demonising sexual desire and vilifying same sex relationships and the fear of being judged, this is something that young people can never really talk about openly. 

Even in this changing world this is still an unacceptable idea, it is still fodder for such intense judgment and can still make everyone so uncomfortable that this a question that always gets brushed under the carpet.

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