Childhood Sexual Abuse, Warning Signs, A Message For Parents
Channel: Urawizhar
Date: 2024-03-26

Tell me again that I didnt have it that bad.
Abuse thrives in silence. 
I'm going to keep talking.

Timestamps 
00:00 Intro
02:00 Today’s Video Subject
02:57 Sharing To Spread Awareness 
03:25 1 in 10 children under age 15 will be sexually abused in Canada
04:58 What I’ve Observed
07:50 What I Witnessed As A Child
08:50 Grooming- Gift Giving, Compliments, Bragging About Money
10:10 Insisting on Spending 1 on 1 Time
10:40 New Neighbours
13:45 Interrogation
15:15 Sleepovers
16:30 Comments About Development
17:20 Inappropriate Compliments
18:30 Exploiting Children For Likes and Views
20:50 The SA That Happened To Me, brainwashed, manipulated, groomed, abused
23:00 Inappropriate Jokes Repeated Often
25:00 Techniques To Minimize The Importance Of Sex
25:10 Why I Call Him “Dad”
25:45 R Rated Movies
26:10 Comments About My Body
26:25 Went Into My Bed Intoxicated
27:20 Compared Me To A Pornstar
28:00 Tried to Justify Actions Due To His Own Childhood Abuse
29:20 Threatened
30:00 Signs Of Rape
31:30 Flashbacks
32:20 Checking My Memory
33:20 Feeling Ashamed and Dirty
33:55 Reason I’m Making This Video
35:40 Touching Himself In Front Of Me
37:15 Would Insist On Using The Bathroom Every Time I Was In The Bath
38:15 Not My Fault
39:35 Why He Hated Me So Much 1. He was ashamed of himself for being sexually attracted to me and tried to make it my fault 2. I wasn’t the child he wanted 3. He couldn’t control me
40:20 Ruined The Relationship Between Me and My Mom
41:00 It’s Not Okay and I don’t have to forgive
41:15 Protecting the abuser and shaming the victim
43:00 My Attempt, Asking For Help As A Child
44:30 Nudity
46:20 Some Examples Of How The Abuse Impacted Me Longterm
47:58 Nudity Around Strangers
48:25 Sharing These Experiences Helps
49:28 Comparing Is One Of The Worst Things We Do As Humans 
49:45 Please Listen To Your Child
51:15 Thankful For Protective Parents
52:13 Please do research, there’s a lot of info I left out
Don’t Be Afraid To Talk To Your Child About Any Subject, Especially When It Comes To Signs Of Grooming And Abuse
54:30 It’s Very Rare That Children Lie About SA
55:45 Please Protect Your Children, Listen To Them And Trust Your Own Intuition
56:10 Lifelong Triggers 
57:38 End 


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