Your Conduct Defines Who You Are. #MoralValues #MotivationalTalk #LawBatra #HemantBatra #Hekbat
Channel: MentorTalk
Date: 2022-04-01

Little things you do in day to day life actually help in self-development. Your Conduct Tells Who You Are. Let me give you some advice, which I received in my growing up professionally and personally.

1. Don’t call anyone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to.

2. Return money or anything that you have borrowed even before the person you borrowed from remembers or asks for it. It shows your integrity and character. 

3. Never order the most expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you lunch/dinner.

4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don't you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem;

5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public;

6. If you take a taxi or any service for that matter alongwith a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time;

7. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what's 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, a second opinion is a good for an alternative;

8. Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all;

9. If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you're;

10. Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.

11. Praise publicly. Criticize privately;

12. There’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will;

13. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next or before;

14. If a colleague tells you they have a doctors' appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say "I hope you’re okay". Don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their personal illness. If they want you to know, they'll do so without your inquisitiveness;

15. If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone or elsewhere is impolite if not rude; Always remember that eye contact is part of conversation and speech.

Thank you