Our circumstances are created to teach us!
Channel: EmpoweRN
Date: 2018-01-15

Are we attracting our circumstances with our conscious and subconscious thoughts? 
It is easy to believe that this is the case when things are going well - when we have attracted or accomplished things that we are happy about. For example, that extremely kind and understanding patient, you know the one you actually forget about and then freak out only to run into the room and find them smiling - just so refreshing :)
But what about the other patients, the ones that test you all day - unrelentingly for 12 hours….
Is this also part of you?
The other day I had a patient that every time I left his room for 5 minutes, he was scolding me on how I had not been in his room for hours. I was just so surprised just how impatient and demanding he was. 
When I truly thought about it though, there is a part of me that is just so impatient, actually to the point that sometimes I cannot even stand to meditate for a few minutes… 
And demanding, well, for a while, I have felt like I have been demanding too much from some of the people closest to me.
When we look at our life circumstances in new light, not judging, with arms and mind wide open, we can see how our entire reality is teaching us. 
Our relationships are the best way for us to understand ourselves.
It does not mean that we allow people to hurt us, however, it means that we understand that the only way for us to be hurt is recognizing, that that person has triggered something within us.
The people we attract into our spaces can can unveil the shadows within us - we can use this as an opportunity to shed light and love into our most unattractive qualities…
You see, no one can push pain or suffering upon us, they can only bring out what is already inside of us. 
When we look at our reality in this way, we can learn to love the outside and the inside, we are learning to love everything in the deepest possible sense.
Our job is to watch the way we react - you see we do not attract what we think into our lives, we attract what we feel into our lives… what we resonating or how are we are vibrating.
Now it is true that sometimes we match a vibration or situation, other times we are exposed to a vibration or situation because we discover ourselves through contrast.
It is ok to be sensitive, but understand that there are a lot of insensitive people in the world and you have to arrange your life so that their energy does not have an effect on you. 
One way that I do this is to be as prepared or on top of things as possible! Work hard, do your best, if you know a particular patient likes____ do your best do do that. If you know one doctor is obsessed with ____ do your best to do that, and steer clear as much as possible when they are around. 
The best thing that we can do when we find ourselves in an undesirable situation is to not react, be still, take deep breaths in and start to notice what is good around you.
When you look for good or bad, you will find it! No matter what the situation…
When people are miserable, they are looking for the misery all around them.
When people are joyish, they are looking for the joy all around them!
Where are you placing your attention? Because that is growing. 
Focus on what you love to do, because that is the greatest thing you can do.
Thank you so much for watching, lets have an amazing week and I will see you next Monday at 0630, love you :)