When Narcissist Says X, He means Z (EXCERPT)
Channel: Prof. Sam Vaknin
Date: 2023-10-02

Full Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6IritJMUivE

Common phrases that narcissists use:

I love you (dual mothership in shared fantasy) 

You have changed (coercive snapshotting, devaluation-separation)

I am … (grandiosity)

They are (projection) …

This is wrong (useless, inefficacious)

I don’t remember having done/said that, it doesn’t sound like me at all, the truth is this (dissociation and confabulation)

If you refuse, it means that … (coercive control)

Why can't you decode the narcissist's speech?

In the lovebombing phase of the shared fantasy, the narcissist introduces you to his dead inner child (True Self) and to his bad object (the introjects that hate him). This way he induces in you maternal reflexive bonding and pity for him. Do not fall in this trap ever again! Knowledge is power!

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