How to Parent Naughty Kids with Jane E Fendelman MC on Your Life A to Z ~ Jane Fendelman MC
Channel: Jane Fendelman, MC
Date: 2019-05-07

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We’ve all made New Year’s resolutions, right? Whether it be money or probably dieting. But what about our kids? Experts urged that perhaps this time of year parents should make some parenting resolutions. So here with some ideas on how to do that is Master Counselor Jane Fendelman. Jane, it’s very good to have you here. We have your book. Wonderful to be here. Hello. Also, Raising Humane Beings yes. Do you find that we’ve kind of forgotten a lot of parents are so busy with their lives that we forget the basis of raising great kids. Yes, we’ve forgotten to be humane, we’ve forgotten to be kind to each other, we’ve forgotten to. We’re teaching reading, writing, arithmetic. But I think we should have classes in school that our reverence, valuing human beings, practicing ah for the universe and it is really basic human joy and bliss that we don’t teach in the schools. Right, very spiritual aspect. I found I don’t know about you Lisa, it’s spiritual practical. That sounds practical and I don’t know about you with parenting. Other parents out there, but sometimes I get in those moments where it’s been a hard day, bad day, and I just ended a few snap and I forget to really put into practice so many things I know. What do you do then? Well, right in the first chapter mabe in the first page I say it’s your job as a parent to be happy. Yes, and blissed out. I mean, it’s really you’re responsibility to live a life of joy because if you’re sad and overwrought and frustrated or you’re in an unhappy job or in an unhappy relationship right? 

Your fuse is going to be short with your children. They don’t deserve that and they pick up on our vibe too. Yeah, I like what you said along the lines of practice what you preach. You know tell your kids to do this, do that, but you don’t. You’re not showing them. You’re not a good model for what you want them to be happy but you’re not. Doesn’t work. But how about being real too? Yeah. Jane because sometimes if you had a bad day sometimes they have a bad day, can you not let them see that side? No, good point. You don’t have to be, have a smile pasted on your face all the time, and feelings Suze. There’s a whole chapter called feelings. That’s the name of the chapter. Well, let’s go we. Yeah, it’s okay to have your feelings. Right. It’s okay to have that. We were talking about some of the parenting resolutions. We actually kind of narrowed them down to a couple here. Yes. Do we still have a. I don’t know if we do or not but what are some of the resolutions that we can make as parents? Very good, okay. Resolution number one. If anybody has told you that you should drug your child, call me first. That should be your first resolution, but that’s my before my number one but first resolution. Don’t repeat and don’t punish. 

Because when you repeat your teaching you children not to listen the first time and when you punish you’re asking for a payback. So if they don’t do it when you tell them? Well I have a whole chapter called, yes, after you ask for what you want. Maybe twice to let them know this is very important. This morning, that was this morning. Do you want breakfast? Time to eat breakfast. I’m always like verbal response. Verbal response is good. So okay, so say they don’t say, honey how would you like a surprise? I have a big surprise for you, and they say and you say, meet me down in the kitchen and after breakfast I’ll give you a big surprise. And maybe it’s a dinosaur and maybe it’s a hug and a kiss, I love you. Maybe it’s a yu-gi-oh cards, I mix it up. Some parents say, I don’t want to bribe my children and I’m like, okay well then I think you should work for free. I think, why do you get bribed to work. People give you money to work your job is important. You should do it for free, but just keep it obvious. 

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