How to deal with Abuse And Anger Radio Interview.
Channel: Wendy Shuttleworth - Your Soul Puzzle
Date: 2013-06-02

Radio Interview Discuss On Abuse And Anger By Wendy Shuttleworth And John Souglides 
1: Builds 

Tension Builds. Victim trying to please abuser, nothing good enough. Victim scared , depressed,  walking on egg shells.
Abuser irritated, short tempered.
2: Trigger
 
Jealousy, affair, alcohol, parenting issues, money issues, ......
3. Blast. 

Abuse verbal, emotional, physical.  
Victim plays poor me, energy tired and depressed.  
Abuser  energy attacking and scratching, at maximum power. Threats, intimidation.
4:Stillness
Abuser Regret, will  victim leave me? Why do I do it?
Victim depressed and low self esteem, do I deserve this? Why does this happen? If low esteem may feel it is all the "love" you can get.
5: Critical Point 
Victim may feel you 
deserve abuse and  stay or / you realise you don't  deserve it and leave  and start on a journey of completing  Your  OWN Soul Puzzle! In the beginning of breaking cycle you will feel a longing and emptiness till you complete yourself then you can be connected rather than addicted to a partner!
Abuser may  Apologise, may make gesture, may feel fear at loosing power!  Hovering. Waiting. May realise abuse is not the only way and choose to break pattern.
6: Hope
Honeymoon, Not true love, incident not mentioned 

Victim scared but hopeful. Distracted.  Resigned.
Abuser behaving to begging, promises all ok.

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