138 - Avoid Being A Meek Prey To 2nd Wives Hunters
Channel: The-Unspoken-Of
Date: 25/09/2017

In the Muslim community, especially in the West, is faced with a very challenging task of finding the right spouse. People have different expectations, different views, opinions and certainly different agendas. I have seen marriages totally fail because at the time of marriage both partners wanted a good Muslim, but what is a good Muslim? When asked, a young wife said, 'I married him because people told me he was a good practicing Muslim who performed his Salaah on time and had a beard'! Then after years of marriage the guy really performed his salaah on time and had a beard but there ended his relation wish Islaam!!

For a woman to endure when her marriage isn't going according to plan is expected in these dark Muslim times, but if the marriage is not going to plan for the man then the second-wife stick comes out! Many, many men secretly yearn for a newly fresh-flesh in the bed, a new life, a new breed of hope in the lame marital life he already leads but a huge number of these men play the shark to get what they want and in the end the Second-Wife becomes just a free legislated sexual relationship. This Pep-Talk will help you suss potential partners out before you commit your life to someone who later on might either get the Second-Wife stick on you or for him to end up with a lemon-wife who looks pretty from the outside but is absolutely sour from the inside, no matter what they claim to be.

One of the things I have learnt dealing with both Muslim and Non-Muslim couples is that every time a relationship (regardless of what type of relationship) is built on emotions, hear-say or religion alone is doomed to failure. The rate of divorces and sadness in the Muslim families these days is far beyond belief and you need to have walked and worked with them to realise the greatness of the dangers that are looming on our future generations!