Why is my Partner Always Playing the Victim in Our Relationship?
Channel: Dear Sybersue
Date: 09/03/2022

Welcome to Dear Sybersue! Today's topic is: Why is my Partner Always Playing the Victim in Our Relationship? If someone is continually playing the victim, it is usually because they are generally not happy in their life. This causes them to often make excuses for why things aren't happening for them, or they blame others for why things aren't working out the way they want them to.  

We are all in charge of our own life, but we don't always feel good about where we are at certain times. This can make us feel stuck and bring out this repetitive negative victim cycle.  

Your partner wants to vent and be heard, but they don't always know how to fix what isn't working in their life. If this is something new in your relationship, analyze what changes your partner has been going through. It could be medical scenarios, hormonal changes or career/job problems. Help them to open up and understand that we all feel a little deflated at times. 

Talking to them about their fears and helping them see the positive things in their life can really help them move forward. Some people have absolutely no idea that they are playing the victim because they have been doing it for so long they don't know anything else. It's not your job to fix them, but being there for them with love and support is a good start. Be careful not to enable their behavior. 

You're not in your partnership just to help them without getting anything back. They have to be willing to do the work to stay confident and keep their self-esteem in a healthy place. If they are not willing to help themselves and find a solution, it's only a matter of time until your relationship fizzles out. It takes two people to make or break a partnership.  

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