''So..... I Think I'm a Stalker?''
Channel: Anarcho Agony Aunts
Date: 15/08/2019

Question 7 on Episode 10 of Anarcho Agony Aunts 

’’Hey! I ain't expecting you to have all the answers to my issues yet you make a lot of sense in your vids.
So I had this growing issue of being spontaneously hooked really intensely by random girls around, to a point. I'm an older guy and I think it's related to my ages-old consumption of porn, which makes it that I'm repeatedly "hyping" girls around as far as their looks fit within my appeal for eyecandy. 
This has been starting to be a major problem as it is bordering on stalking, harassment and potentially abuse, but given I'm def not a talkative guy, this gets more into some obsessive staring and stalking. Honeslty I don't feel good about this, and it's obviously out of place to me; yet when that happens... you know it's way too strong, or at least there's a delay in my awareness of what I'm doing. At several instances it did get me into this awful situation where I become the stalker, and that's the kinda outcome that makes me wanna stab myself for years afterwards.
I did manage untie that once in a while, by going straight up to girls I'm attracted to and tell them the basics (that I find them hot, and so on), THO on the other hand, that direct approach doesn't seem like the proper attitude or "pick up lines" for me to develop anything with them. But it does eases me for a while, and girls tend to feel appreciated at least, instead of threatened/oppressed by my otherwise stalky behavior.
I get there might not be a straight advice you could give me, but any mindful reactions might be welcome!’’ 

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