I think my wife might be having an emotional affair. What can I do?
Channel: Sven Masterson
Date: 2021-09-19

Recently a man in  a community I serve posted a question I've seen in hundreds of forms:

"What is an emotional affair and why is it so disruptive? My wife had an WhatsApp affair with a guy years ago. He had just split with his wife and... she reached out to him and it went from there. At peak it was 300 messages a day. I was very hurt by this 
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She told me I was being silly. She told me I was being insecure.
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She had lied about it, kept it hidden from me. They had secret meet ups in my house very late at night and concealed it from me.

She promised to stop the relationship. And then we were "in love" again but through lock down our marriage fell apart, for me out if nowhere. And she was putting me down and comparing me to the man she thought I should be, then I realized this was the man HE is / seems to be. 

Then I found out she had got back in touch with him 2 weeks after she said she'd stopped and they had more meetings."

Brothers - these scenarios are super tough to navigate. A woman who won't get off her phone. Who's sending hundreds of texts a day to another man that is NOT you. Watching it feels like opening all the doors and windows on the coldest day of the year and watching the heat just flow out.

When a man says something about it, he's often shot down with brutal attacks about his shortcomings.

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