How Hating Your Ex Can Hurt You
Channel: Dreams Are A Reality
Date: 2019-07-14

Don’t Hate your Ex!  Easy to say.   Someone has hurt you and you want to do bodily harm to them, damage property or scandalize their name. When you hate you are actually hurting yourself. It is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to be hurt.  Hating your ex will add no value to your life.
Reasons to not hate them:
1. This too shall pass. Time is our best friend, with each day the hurt will dimish slowly but surely.  IN due time you won’t feel as strongly about your ex in a negative way.
2. We all have free will. They have free will to be with us and we have free will to allow them to be with us.
3. In life we are all constantly learning lessons. What is the lesson from the heart ache and heart break? I can’t control anyone else but I can make myself better or bitter. The choice is yours.
4. Maybe better is out there. We can say that or better. I use to think I had the perfect match. It happened to me. Years ago I thought I had the perfect match and the next guy was a better match for me. The mind will have you thinking you will never meet another person to be a great partner for you. This is all mind games. Time is your best friend. Day by day your strength will come back.
Try not to hate your ex and have the kids in the middle of the confusion.  The pain has to be processed and you want to become a healthier version of you.  You want to heal pass them, have a reunion or enjoy someone new. 


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