Hey ENFJ - some people need more details!
Channel: Doris Füllgrabe
Date: 16/01/2023

Sensing and Intuiting are the information processing functions; they influence the kind of information we share first when we speak, and/or want to hear first when we listen. Obviously there are many different kinds of conversations with different goals and different contexts, this example speaks to situations when you’re trying to make a collaborative decision. 

As ENFJs, we use introverted Intuition which among many other things is characterized by making connections in the background, and then presenting the bottom line after having integrated a bunch of information. You may not even be consciously aware of how you got there, but that is the kind of crucial information someone with Sensing preferences has to have so they can decide whether that result is trustworthy. 

Likewise, when they’re talking with you and you’re thinking, “get to the point!” - they are, just keep listening. Alternatively, if you can tell it’s going to take longer than you have time for, gently tell them you want to hear all the details about their day and you want to give it the attention it deserves, which might be better at a later time (and then specify when). ✌🏻

Going deeper here: https://youtu.be/e4WqUxox8xg