Only 22 Days Left in 2020: Stop Coping and Start Healing!
Channel: Tonika Maria
Date: 09/12/2020

TRIGGERS! Stop coping and start healing!!

• Triggers can be conscious or unconscious – we are triggered and feel some kind of way over something small and don’t know why.
• New things, new situations, new dynamics tend to stir up and bring up old triggers even when it is a good thing – healing has layers.
• The event (THE HURT – PICKED ON AS A CHILD, ABUSED, BETRAYED, ABANONED)   the corresponding VOW/BELIEF to Protect Self (God IS NOT in it) --- the Pattern/ the end result or the fruit.
o Inner vows will subconsciously impact our thought processes and behavior. Some examples include:
o “I will never trust anyone.”
o “I will not let anyone control me.”
o “I will never be like my father.”
o “I must become successful.”
o “I will make sure people like me.”
o “I will always look perfect.”
o Inner vows have consequences
These statements snare your soul and set in course your behavior and action and all the related consequences and dynamics until you heal, release and renounce it.  Because it was said in a place of hurt to protect self and you didn’t go to God. When we let it continue and refuse to face it --- we do one of three things 1) play the victim and blame 2) play the martyr, woe is me look at all I’m doing and all I done been thru or we 3) front like we okay and pretend.

🔥🔥 If you are ready to release any regrets and residue as you begin to deal with things and desire to enter into 2021 whole and open for what God has next for you, then I highly encourage you to join us for my year-end masterclass on 12/17/20 at 7pm EST via zoom w/ Q&A and replay.  You can join us for any amount as you are led.  Go to https://www.paypal.me/tonikabreeden ❤️  Seats are filling quick…