HOW IMPORTENT IS TO FULFILL A MOTHER'S NEED||HOW MOTHER  SACRIFICE TO A FAMILY||Heart touching story
Channel: PSYCHOLOGY WAVES
Date: 2021-01-28

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Happy Mother's Day! HOW IMPORTENT IS TO FULFILL A MOTHER'S NEED
As life gets busier, this thought usually falls by the sidelines. We all know that motherhood is divine, and that mothers are God incarnate on Earth. This Mother's Day, however, Mahatria implores us to reflect on things from the mother's perspective. Chances are high that she grew up in an environment and culture that made her feel guilty for wanting things. Most mothers have spent their whole lives in service, whether to their family, or the family they have married into. They tirelessly strive to keep their household running, without accounting for their own needs. We all know that the household would struggle if they are affected. So, can we find it in ourselves to feel one with our mother and listen to her needs? Chances are high that she never had the life she deserved. Probably, many of her desires were never fulfilled. Can we dedicate our time to ensuring that fulfilment for her, in whatever years she has left? Even through the little things, such as taking her to the doctor, arranging a pilgrimage or buying her a saree, we can take steps towards fulfilment. Mahatria speaks of the importance of fulfilling a mother's needs while she is still there to listen and appreciate it. Mahatria advises one and all to celebrate Mother's Day by realizing that the lady has not got the life she deserved, and doing everything in our capacity to make sure she gets the life she deserves. 
A Mother's Sacrifice:  HOW IMPORTENT IS TO FULFILL A MOTHER'S NEED
What is the essence of being a woman? Well, you can ask Sushmita Sen about that. Her answer made her won a Miss Universe crown, eh?
But, What is truly the essence of being a mother? 
For one we'll say, "A house is not a home if not for our mother." But, what if she's away from home? What if she's just coming home every 2 years if not every 5 years?
Many of our Caregiver moms sacrificed a lot for the better good of their family back home. Trust me, IT IS NOT EASY.
Mothers who chose to go abroad to work are somehow caught in a very difficult dilemma of staying home and be with their children or work abroad and provide for the needs of their children.
When they choose to stay home, they will have this constant fear of not being able to fulfill their obligation as a parent for the income of the husband will never be enough to sustain the daily needs of the family. 
If they choose to go abroad, they will also have this fear of emotional detachment and not being able to be there physically and emotionaly for their children not to mention the homesickness that they have to bear every single day.
But, what really makes a good mother? One cannot just enumerate these qualities. Some will say, a good Mom is someone who is there when you arrive home, done with her laundry and dinner is ready. A good Mom is someone who reads you bedtime stories and put you to sleep. A good Mom is someone who makes time for every special events in your life. Whether it's your graduation, recital, sports competition or a broken heart.
But, how about those Moms who signed a 2 year contract to work abroad? Work almost 24 hours a day to earn enough for her kid's school fees, making sure her kid could finish school without any problem with money. Those mothers who make sure that there will be enough food on the table, bills were paid on time, making sure that her sick kid will have her medications, her children's college education is secured, making sure that they'll have everything they need. Aren't they good mothers?
Many would question a mother's intention in working abroad. One would ask, "How could you possibly go away from your children? What kind of mother are you?"
If you know for a fact that the only way for your children to have a better and brighter future is to sacrifice yourself and your children's emotional well being, then without a doubt, you'll find yourself packing and leaving to earn a decent living away from them. This DOES NOT makes you a horrible human being or mother. This is a sacrifice that weak and selfish people could not understand.
Yes, there are pros and cons. When you are away from home, there's a possibility that your children will not have that strong emotional attachment to you while growing up without you. It's given. But, there are also hundred of ways for you to counter these cons. It is important for you to have a support system. Make sure that your husband and your immediate family members will do their part on the process. Your children should fully understand why you have to go.
There is strength in a mother's sacrifice. When mothers abroad send remittances every month, they are not just sending something out of obligation.