Growing Your Self Confidence | Self Help | Audiobook
Channel: romel andoy
Date: 13/12/2021

How to get self-confidence, is the central issue when tackling about the development of self confidence in an individual who, for long, have believed that his self-worth is deficient.
It goes without saying that those confident individuals, can bear themselves better than those, who have lower sense of the, "self". They are the achievers, the people of the limelight, the center of the society. They walk straight, speak their meanings very well, and influence people, both subtly and obviously. In short, they are those who care recognizable even from afar.
Sometimes, self-confident people, are very much loved by the society. It is maybe due to their charisma, or they are, by nature very amiable. However, there are those self-confident individuals who, just by leaving makes the room lighter.
These are two very dissimilar display, of self-confidence. One, destroys a person's credibility and the other, intensifies his personality. And obviously, you would not want the consequences, of being too confident of yourself, that the people no longer view you, as effective, instead they see you, as annoyance to their daily affairs.
Self-confidence comes from within. Outside stimulation, may help but it would all still boil, down to knowing yourself, and using that knowledge to gain confidence.
To get self-confidence, you must realize that your limitations, must not limit you, and your attributes must not destroy you. Instead, use all these factors to develop a personality, that would be productive for you, and all those that surround you.
"Know thyself!", says the Oracle at Delphi. Though this might have been said thousands of years ago, it is undeniably true that we still can use the wisdom it says.
Know yourself and get confidence. Recognize though that knowledge comes nowhere but inside you. Thus, you have to accept the reality that unless you embrace you flaws and perfection, the demons of low self-confidence, would stay forever lingering in your being.
There is a great risk in knowing too much of yourself, though if your foundations of self-control is not much too developed. You would be exposed, to your imperfections, and since control is not yet yours, it is possible that you will be eaten by your own flows. This condition, is closely intertwined with thought rumination, wherein you seem to go around in your circle of thoughts, about your losses, and failures regardless of your achievements.
Another danger of having no control of yourself while trying to get self- confidence, is that you might get too confident, that you would forget the real value, of having the sense of self. As we have mentioned earlier, over confidence is just as dangerous as, having no confidence at all. This would send you back to failures, or worse to eventual downfall.
Knowing yourself, is one factor, that may either be dangerous, or productive. Self-awareness often times, help people realize how wonderful their creation was. They learn to give worth to their capacities, and attributes, that are obviously as special as those, that may be found with other people. We are all unique, and that is a fact. Our marks of unique, can be seen through closely looking, at our capabilities, and our incapacities. Our uniqueness is manifested, on the natural gifts, that add to our greater self-value. Our uniqueness, can be seen though our potentials, that we may either ignore, or maximize at will.
All these are truths, that would stay hidden to you, unless you have learned to contemplate, on your being, and be aware of who you truly are.