It's Not Personal, It's Protocol
Channel: Tonika Maria
Date: 2020-12-03

It’s not personal. It’s protocol.

For those who have ended a relationship or other type of ending – there are protocols to follow in order to recalibrate the relationship from the inner court to the outer court.  

Sometimes you have to take a step back.
Sometimes you have to stop calling and texting.
Sometimes you have to end the communication.  

It’s called establishing new boundaries for relating going forward.

You are not being ugly, bad, mad, or vindictive. Neither are you trying to prove a point or manipulate or be “some kind of way”.

For your own emotional and mental health, sometimes the wisest thing to do is to cease and desist with with certain people for a certain time or permanently.  Remember who you as a child of God.  Christ paid a price for your liberty and wholeness.  Boundaries help maintain that.
This gives you a chance to 
1) Get your bearings so as to not act out of character or emotionally.
2) Get clarity on the situation
3) Get your sense of worthiness and self built back up (especially during a break-up)
4) Get wisdom going forward
5) Establish a new boundary with this person as the season has shifted.
It’s not personal, It’s protocol.  


BTW, join me on 12/17/20 at 7pm EST for a special year end masterclass where I will teach, have open Q&A for those who are ready to release all of the regrets and residue of 2020 and want to enter into 2021 whole and ready!  

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