Real Talk with  Shelly & Daddy Rude (Sept. 28, 2017)
Channel: Stylzfm Radio
Date: 29/09/2018

Breaking up is hard to do."
Think of a scenario, setting, and circumstance. Now, if you were to breakup with your partner, how would you do it?
Do you think it is important to tell your partner why you're leaving? Explain 
After breaking up should you and your ex be friends and keep the opportunities open?
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Dear Real Talk 
I am a 32 yrs old female and live with my 5yrs old son and  my partner.
I am at a point where leaving is the only thing I want to do, but I know if I leave I better leave Jamaica too because I think my life would be at risk. 
The one deceitful thing I did was to not let him know that he may not be my son's father. 
He's often abusive and uses threat to keep me grounded. One night he put me into a chokehold and I ran for my life and ended up at a male friend's house. We had a few drinks and we ended up having unprotected sex.
My partner assisted me through my two final yrs at university and it’s a big stick over my head. Furthering my education was the only way I knew how to get back some of my independence from him.
I met a man online who wants to marry me so that I can move to the US for good. 
How do I leave this man without seeming ungrateful? Should I tell him that the child may not be his or just cut? Since I will be leaving the house, vehicle, all furniture and appliances, isn't it fair I take 75% of the money from the bank account so I will have some money to tide me over the 1st few months abroad? Help please.