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Channel: 니벗TV
Date: 07/10/2020

내 마음을 내려놓고 나를 용서하고 내가 아는 모든 이들을 용서해야 마음의 평화가 옵니다.

The past days were so hard, and I'm reading psychology books these days because I want to touch my heart that still remains as a wound. My favorite psychologist was Milton Ericson. If you are alive now, you are a precious person who wants to meet once and ask for healing of my heart. I read my favorite book in summary. After reading it, there will be nothing left behind, because after reading the summary, writing my thoughts, and taking notes on the important parts, I can still guess the waves that caused my heart. This book is also such a book.

So, after reading, write down the underlined part here. I think it's a consoling article for those who are heartbroken because they can't forgive themselves and others, so I move it. I liked the article so much that I posted it on the shared SNS with my alumni, and my friends liked it too. I hope that all of you read this article to find comfort and an opportunity to put down your heavy burden. If you are curious about Milton Ericson, please search for yourself.


I want to forgive myself and everyone in my life today. I forgive myself for my own faults and failures and for thinking myself as terrible. I forgive myself for harassing my parents, harassing my brothers, criticizing my neighbors, lying and arrogant.
I forgive my parents. I forgive my parents for pissing me off, for being angry with me, for punishing me and for blaming me for things I didn't do. I forgive my parents for liking other siblings more than me and for telling me that I was stupid, hateful, stupid, and the worst child. I forgive me for saying that I had to spend a lot of money for me and for saying that I was born by mistake and that I was a child I didn't want.

I forgive my parents who treated me on the sidelines, did not give me financial support, did not love, did not care. I forgive my brothers and sisters for having quarrels, biting each other, and hurting my brothers. They forgive severe corporal punishment and failure to keep their promises, and forgive for leaving home and divorce. I sincerely forgive my parents today.
I forgive my sisters and brothers too. I forgive you for rejecting me, lying about me, hating me and making me angry, fighting for the love of my parents and jealousy of me. I sincerely forgive my brothers and sisters who have hurt me, treated me so badly, punished me, used me in any way, and offended my life.

I forgive the school teachers. Their lack of support, their narrow hearts, their unkindness, their lack of acknowledgment, punishment, insults, contempt, favoritism, mocking me, calling me stupid idiots, remaining punished after school, forgiveness of all the other pains they have done And give love and thanks.
I forgive my friends. I forgive my friends who have no love, affection, no interest, no support for me, and avoid conversation. I forgive me for all words and actions that have flawed me, pinpointed my weaknesses, and hurt or harassed me.
I forgive my friends who despised me and disconnected from me and forgive my friends who did not help me when I needed help, who borrowed money but didn't return it and made bad rumors about me.

I forgive my spouse who makes my life sad. I forgive my spouse for not taking over her work or criticizing me and trying to cooperate with me. I forgive my spouse for not showing tolerance, ignoring me, not caring about my hardships, and not approving what I do.
I especially forgive the one who has bothered me most in my life. I forgive the person I thought was my greatest enemy, the hardest to forgive, the person I thought I could never forgive. We promise to free ourselves from being unable to forgive ourselves and to live freely with love and gratitude.