What Divorced Men Wished They'd Done Differently In Their Marriages
Channel: MarshaunO
Date: 16/10/2018

What Divorced Men Wished They'd Done Differently In Their Marriages. 1. I wished I’d gone to bed at the same time as my wife— creates a special type of closeness. They started sleeping in separate beds too but sex didn’t stop. 2. I wish I could’ve mended the relationship while I still could —- I got complacent, distant and stopped caring 3. I wish I’d spoken up more instead bottling up my feelings.— whether it was something serious like moving in too early or eating her food that made me gag but I didn’t want to hurt her feelings.  4. I wished I’d waited to get married— he had emotional baggage from his childhood that he never dealt with and he had no idea what his true north was. 5. I wish I’d been honest about my personal fears and struggles—- he kept his fears bottled up and withdrew emotionally. 6. I wish I stood up for myself more— this guy wasn’t making much money in the beginning so he didn’t assert himself as the Leader when it came to decision making so when he was more financially dominant in the relationship his ex wife didn’t and couldn’t relinquish the control. 7. I wish I truly listened to her because all she wanted was to be heard— he’d try to fix it, avoid her hoping things would go away, or get defensive. He didn’t understand how his pride and.inability to listen to her point of view costs them intimacy and trust. 8.  I wish I had taken responsibility for my part in our issues — he said that he lacked self awareness and poor communication skills. He never stopped to ask himself why he felt the way he did, why he said what he said, or did what he did. 

Article Link: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/divorced-men-marriage-regrets_n_5b916885e4b0511db3e046de

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