Melanie Curtin: How to be a Better Lover
Channel: Holly Randall Unfiltered
Date: 22/11/2021

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What does it mean to be “good” at sex? Melanie Curtin has built her career around helping people have better sex. As a sex researcher and men’s coach, she believes that sex is something that can—and should—be practiced and perfected. We chat about what men really want from sex, how polyamorous couples find freedom outside the marriage, and how to ratchet up the tension to make sex hotter for everyone. I get real about what was lacking in my sex life, and Melanie shares her dealbreakers in the bedroom.

Show Notes:
02:36  How she statred in therapy.
04:40  Sex education is important in order to raise healthy children.
05:29  Her coaching with men about sex.
08:17  Her work with married people who lose interest in sex.
13:50  Can polyamory help marriages?
19:57  What are the biggest sex problems for men?  For women?
32:14  Her most suprising sex research finding?
39:20  What her research showed women said made a man good in bed.
41:55  The importance of the foreplay "onramp".
45:46  Porn is a fantasy not a guide to having sex.
49:41  What women really want from a lover.
54:40  Communication is important.
58:50  Women are sometimes afraid to express themselves sexually.

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