10 Reasons Why Most People Are Afraid To Be In Love
Channel: MarshaunO
Date: 09/12/2018

10 Reasons Why Most People Are Afraid To Be In Love. We all harbor defenses that we believe on some level will protect us from getting hurt. These defenses may offer us a false illusion of safety or security, but they keep us from attaining the closeness we most desire. So what drives our fears of intimacy? What keeps us from finding and keeping the love we say we want? 1. Real love makes us feel vulnerable. 2. New love stirs up past hurts. 3. With real joy comes real pain. 4. Love is often unequal. 5. Relationships can break connections with your family. 6. Love stirs up existential fears.  we become more aware of our mortality. Our life now holds more value and meaning, so the thought of losing it becomes more frightening. 7. We doubt ourselves. People are often insecure about themselves and don’t know their value and their inner critic needs to be silent in order to love openly. 8. Interruption of one’s life plans. 9. Witnessed other relationships breaking down. 10. Can’t find the idealized perfect partner. The one we fantasize about and the one the media has us to believe is out there and if we don’t have it we don’t deserve love or to be love. 


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