( ( ( ( ( ( artwork by greg rutkowski and lisa frank ) ) ) ) ), the desire to care less about things - - to loosen your grip on your life, to stop glancing behind you every few steps, afraid that someone will snatch it from you before you reach the end zone - - rather to hold your life loosely and playfully, like a volleyball, keeping it in the air, with only quick fleeting interventions, bouncing freely in the hands of trusted friends, always in play.