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Liebe
MemberMoon in Cancer......too obssesive?Any« on: 24.05.2008 at 08:32 [UT+1] »Hi everybody,
As i look in my natal chart i see myB in d(3house).I've heard not so many good thing about it!That we are
too obssesive and i'm agree with that!Of course it depends from the aspects.Haha i have BoJ andalso BpOq Bq AC and BqG.Doee that show my obssesive features?What do you think?

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Re: Moon in Cancer......too obssesive?
« Reply #1 - on: 24.05.2008 at 09:05 [UT+1] »Hi! I've got AmBmN in d in 12th. I am obsessive. Really. Especially with my D in f. I always analyze alldetails. Luckily I've got my B n G so maybe that G holds my obsession under control. But I always feel myobsession coming and than I say to myself to stop it!
Also I have BpJ, Bo MC and BrE.
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But don't worry about B in d. It's great to have it here if the rest of your chart is not to much wateryadore my Bd. It makes me very sensitive and emotional and full of understanding.

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Liebe
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« Reply #2 - on: 24.05.2008 at 09:16 [UT+1] »Hi Vedrana,
I'm too sensitive, and emotional.

However i/m ok with my D inc

and i have O in h.

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Re: Moon in Cancer......too obssesive?Any« Reply #3 - on: 26.05.2008 at 17:01 [UT+1] »I dont think moon in cancer is obsessive by itself, except perhaps in a maternal, nagging, "I know what's bestfor you" kinda way.

I think it's the pluto contacts being cited here that are giving cancer moon a bad rap.

<sez the woman wiht 8th house cancer moon sextile pluto!
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Ex Member« Reply #4 - on: 26.05.2008 at 19:27 [UT+1] »Bd I don't think I'm obsessive - any obsessive tendencies I can see are with Jf 3rd.
I'm just beginning to see how much trouble I personally have ever being truly objective - just lately I see this.
At the same time intuition is a pretty reliable way to take in information and most of the time I trust it - but
sometimes I can see I have been truly unable to separate a situation from my own emotional reaction to thatsituation and may have read the situation as threatening to me when it wasn't really...
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Re: Moon in Cancer......too obssesive?Any« Reply #5 - on: 26.05.2008 at 22:22 [UT+1] »I agree with Jupiter's Daughter... there is nothing inherently obsessive in Bd. I have lived with two Bd people, and neitherof them were obsessive. Also, I think you have to ask yourself how you define "obsessive". It means different things to different
people, although of course there are various definitions I'm sure we'd all agree on.
Almost all Bd people I've ever known take things very personally, even if that's not the intent. I say this as a Bh, though,so I know the risks of being too emotionally involved in a situation.

I'm a friend of someone who has Bd who is going

through an intensely bad divorce and is not handling it well, since Bd needs emotional stability, and times of difficulty reallybring out the worst in this particular combination. For example, he is taking personally the fact that his wife was diagnosed
bipolar, as though it were something she did to him. He is making himself miserable because he can't see her problem assomething no one could have prevented, and is very angry with her.
I think true obsession, though, comes down to J aspects, and/or an emphasised J in the chart. f is not necessarily
obsessed, they can just have a difficult time accepting imperfection, and can sometimes have trouble letting go of something
while they think it can still be fixed. This may look obsessive, but I have rarely seen a f truly whacked out the way h or J
can be.
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Member« Reply #6 - on: 26.05.2008 at 22:49 [UT+1] »I have Bd in the 11th (ruled by cancer):pI in 3rd,

q EJ in 1st (tight orb, but out of sign) .
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I value my watery moon, as I have an abundance of air in my chart.
My moon (in its own sign) lends me a very feeling, sympathetic nature, especially with my friends - many I've
had 25 years or more.
It does irritate my logical, Libra sun (in the middle of it's 5-planet stellium) from time to time....
I can be hypersensitive to things.
But, after I've cooled off (EmJ remember), I often find myself thinking "just calm down and get overyourself"....
All in all, I find it adds much needed humanity, for myself and others.

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Re: Moon in Cancer......too obssesive?Any« Reply #7 - on: 29.05.2008 at 10:27 [UT+1] »Quote from rhetorike on 26.05.2008 at 22:22 [UT+1]:

Bd

Almost all
people I've ever known take things very personally, even if that's not the intent. I say this as a
the risks of being too emotionally involved in a situation.

Bh, though, so I know

so right. I'm a Bh married with a BCd (5th), and I learned to slow down my dark and incisive sense of
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Gender:humourbesides their sensitiviy, Bd have a f****** good memory (a gift or a curse, it depends)

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Liebe

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Member« Reply #8 - on: 29.05.2008 at 10:39 [UT+1] »[Almost all Bd people I've ever known take things very personally, even if that's not the intent. I say this as aBh, though, so I know the risks of being too emotionally involved in a situation.
I'm a friend of someone
who has Bd who is going through an intensely bad divorce and is not handling it well, since Bd needs
emotional stability, and times of difficulty really bring out the worst in this particular combination. For example,
he is taking personally the fact that his wife was diagnosed bipolar, as though it were something she did to him.
He is making himself miserable because he can't see her problem as something no one could have prevented,
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Hi Rhetorike,
You are right that people with B in d are take things very personally.I'm going through a
all i can say that i hardly handle my emotions.It's really difficiult for me.

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Ex Member« Reply #9 - on: 29.05.2008 at 12:45 [UT+1] »Quote from Mina75 on 29.05.2008 at 10:27 [UT+1]:
Quote from rhetorike on 26.05.2008 at 22:22 [UT+1]:
Almost all

Bd people I've ever known take things very personally, even if that's not the intent. I say this as a Bh,though, so I know the risks of being too emotionally involved in a situation.

so right. I'm a

Bh married with a BCd (5th), and I learned to slow down my dark and incisive sense of humour
Bd have a f****** good memory (a gift or a curse, it depends)

besides their sensitiviy,

Even for me, Bd ppl can be too much (and i'm a triple d) (I think except Bl people I don't really like B inwater people, following my rants on the Bh topic)
I had a friend once, he was also studying in the same town as me and came from the same town as me.
BdmIC, AmOi
After a while I found him emotionally draining. He said I was distant and didn't care much about friends... (wellI don't care about ppl who whine and whine and whine but don't do stuff about it) He left the town where we
studied after two years
Well, I blocked him on messenger... (I found we had nothing in common anymore and he pissed off a mutual
friend of ours, also involving me)
Then I sent him a mail a year later, saying I was in the town where we come from and if he wanted to drink
something, he should send me a text message...
Didn't hear anything of him... and then i'm the one who doesn't care...
(I also blocked him because he always asked me fixed weed, but that's the only thing he asked... not evenpretending to care... if I get the feeling ppl only use me for their gain, then my door is locked and the key isthrown away for them... I need to watch out in those matters, AnBoI, Moon ruler 11 (friends))
But I do have to say
Taking things personal (this only in a bad mood) and having a too good personal memory, guilty as charged
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Re: Moon in Cancer......too obssesive?Any« Reply #10 - on: 29.05.2008 at 17:48 [UT+1] »oh Chaos, you like me just fine, and I've got all that water... Bh, too... I think the biggest problem so far has been that thepeople you've met with those placements are all just too young to have the experience in how to handle all that energy. And I
know I don't always handle that energy as well as I'd like...
but I'm working on it!
Also, that B/d at the IC: he would have learned from his family how to whine. That might very well have been how they
communicated various emotional states. You know how it is with d; whining might mean something very different than what a
casual outsider thinks it means.
I find it very funny interpreting from d to other signs. "Well, she's whining, which means she's actually tired." Or, "he'smoping, which means he's bored," or "She's complaining, which means she's sad." d is a walk through the funny farm, and I
say that as a natal d. Emotions are rarely logical for d. And I've got a bunch of d women in my family; some men, but more
women than men. So there's a lot of interpreting going on! When my dad was alive (AmF/i, with h ASC) I spent A LOT oftime interpreting for him, since most of the d women were either his children or my mother!
Even now, I have rational, logical people ask me fairly straightforward questions, like, what does my avatar mean, and it's agood question for me, since it's open-ended. But is there one answer? No, of course not. There are the feelings associatedwith it, there's what it represents to me, there's the previous avatar and why I don't want that one anymore... it's complicated.
Try condensing all that down into one easy answer... can't be done, but a lifetime of dealing with rational types who expect one
simple answer, and I've learned how to state things fairly simply, otherwise the person would get a glimpse into the funny farmthat is a d's modus operandi!
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Re: Moon in Cancer......too obssesive?
« Reply #11 - on: 29.05.2008 at 23:02 [UT+1] »I think the water put out his fire
he has GmCi in 7 (late b rising)he has AmOi in 8
But he had a DhpEmFlpBd and Jh
Oh now I see something
He didn't have anything in air... must be why he was so subjective
9 fire/water planets, only 1 earth planet (and let that be I)
Logical answers
Even my Bf and rising f find them boring
I couldn't give a simple to the point answer if my life depended on it
You hear me summing up all possible answers or angles of a situation (like I perceive it) and I let you choose
And it surprises me people get mad of my indecisive behaviour
And as a d to a d, do we need or even WANT emotions to be logical (unless you are a dA with a air sign B,
I think I know the answer)

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Member« Reply #12 - on: 29.05.2008 at 23:45 [UT+1] »My sister is d rising with dB in the 1 th house.She's very sensitive and maternal.She's also very shy andsomehow week.She has Dk in the 8 th house,placement that should give her a sense of power andregeneration in love but sadly she stays in a bad relationship for about 4 years.She realize that it's wrong andthat her dignity is erased but she can't escape from this compulsive ''love''.
Chaos,if you read my post,please give me the link to the topic on Bh.I don't find it.
Why don't you like us?
I agree that a hB on a person that is not that evolved could be a dangerous and a hurtful placement for thepeople with who he interact.But Bh on a evolved person is completely different.Bh could be just as
maternal and romantic as a dB. For example I love pisces but I don't really like Bl(I have 2 or 3 people
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Gender:that make the exception and that I really love).But in generally I find lB a little lazy and I think people withthis placement tend to complain too much and they don't really take action ,they just imagine what they would
do.I repet,everything is relative and it depends on the other aspects.I know a person with this placement that isvery strong,very smart and not lazy at all but she has ACh/AC f so it might be that..

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« Reply #13 - on: 30.05.2008 at 00:10 [UT+1] »It's also relative with my hB, but that's food for another thread
I'll link the thread to you in a minute, it has to be in this subboard also (it was on page 2)
http://forum.astro.com/cgi/forum.cgi?lang=h&num=1209506203;start=all
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« Reply #14 - on: 30.05.2008 at 00:19 [UT+1] »Quote from Chaos89 on 30.05.2008 at 00:10 [UT+1]:
It's also relative with myhB, but that's food for another thread

I'll link the thread to you in a minute, it has to be in this subboard also (it was on page 2)
http://forum.astro.com/cgi/forum.cgi?lang=h&num=1209506203;start=all

Thanks a lot for the link.

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« Reply #15 - on: 30.05.2008 at 08:10 [UT+1] »Quote from transilvania on 30.05.2008 at 00:19 [UT+1]:
Quote from Chaos89 on 30.05.2008 at 00:10 [UT+1]:
It's also relative with myhB, but that's food for another thread

I'll link the thread to you in a minute, it has to be in this subboard also (it was on page 2)
http://forum.astro.com/cgi/forum.cgi?lang=h&num=1209506203;start=all
Thanks a lot for the link.

You're welcome
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