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owlydarlin'
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Can aquarius and cancer be special to each other?
« on: 23.12.2010 at 18:06 [UT] »I've read so many times how incompatible aquarius sun and cancer sun signs are, yet all of my closest & long
lasting friendships have been with cancers! also many of my love interests have been cancers, my mostintense/closest ones also! I don't know all of their birth times, but I've looked at the house overlays for a few of
my friends and my Venus was in their 7th house. for one of my crushes my venus was in their 12th. I just feeldrawn to them and they tend to mother me and are always really concerned about me! and I help them thinkof things differently? and we have the same sense of humor, or at least appreciation for each others!
any aquarians have this with cancers?? or vice versa?
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owlydarlin'

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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #1 - on: 23.12.2010 at 18:10 [UT] »oh also I thought maybe my other planets had something to do with it but the only thing is I have a cancer F!
but my B is sagittarius, so that means it's a mutual reception?? is that why...

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I_heart_baklava
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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #2 - on: 23.12.2010 at 18:41 [UT] »It is an interesting dynamic, for sure!
I am a dA&D...and iB as well, and I was once married to a
ACEk. We remain friends to this day; the romance thing just didn't work out though. However, my MC isin early k and my O is conjunct my Dsc (we met at college and worked together for quite some time during
his Master's program). I'll have to go back and look at our charts...it's been a while. Hopefully I still have his.

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owlydarlin'

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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #3 - on: 23.12.2010 at 20:25 [UT] »Quote from I_heart_baklava on 23.12.2010 at 18:41 [UT]:
It is an interesting dynamic, for sure!

I am adA&D...and iB as well, and I was once married to a ACEk. We remain friendskO

to this day; the romance thing just didn't work out though. However, my MC is in earlyand myis conjunct my Dsc (we met atcollege and worked together for quite some time during his Master's program). I'll have to go back and look at our charts...it's been awhile. Hopefully I still have his.

haha I'd like to see it/read about it if you're willing! I secretly hope I marry a cancer one day but I've neverread or heard of a lasting cancer/aquarius marriage!
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I_heart_baklava
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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #4 - on: 23.12.2010 at 20:41 [UT] »Oh wow...low and behold, I actually still had the info. Personally, I'm not sure what to make of it myself.
However, here are the synastrics....DnD, and now that I look at it, there are some Juno contacts. But...it justwasn't meant to be.

I hope this is of some help...at least to show what to watch out for, LOL.

Best wishes!
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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #5 - on: 23.12.2010 at 20:43 [UT] »So many of closest friends are Aquarians and I am Cancer (sun and mercury) with Libra rising and Leo moon. I
dated one Aquarian and we had a great time together (approximately 4 years), but it finally fizzled out. We
tried to remain friends, but his now wife wouldn't hear of it, so we are no longer in contact- but I still think ofPosts: 131

him fondly. I have no doubt that if I hadn't been so young and free-spirited it might have turned out
differently. I am one of those crabs who says "no way" to the overly maternal thing- unless we're talking about
pets. I will baby any furry animal that crosses my path. In any case- I think it all depends on the how thecharts work together and your own intent. I don't see any reason why it couldn't work! Good luck in yourquest!!!
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crocusEx Member

Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #6 - on: 23.12.2010 at 21:44 [UT] »I am kB and am very close to a dB.......like 10 years close.....

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Linda Harris

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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #7 - on: 23.12.2010 at 21:58 [UT] »Owly,
YOUR Jupiter is searching for more of it's own ....and your Capricorn planets are searching for it's
opposite....that's why YOU are drawn to Cancer.
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I don't think your Sagi moon has anything to do with it.
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Emma279
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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #8 - on: 23.12.2010 at 22:12 [UT] »sun sign compatibility is rubbish if its inflexible
i do believe that certain sun signs get along easier with other ones and grate with other ones - but that is justone element in many in the synastry of everything - there are degrees of everything and things that counteract
any non-compatability based on sun signs

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Lee Rutland

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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #9 - on: 23.12.2010 at 22:42 [UT] »Oh absolutely!!!!!!
There is far more to relationships than one simple sign.

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Emma279
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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #10 - on: 23.12.2010 at 22:45 [UT] »Quote from Lee Rutland on 23.12.2010 at 22:42 [UT]:
Oh absolutely!!!!!!
There is far more to relationships than one simple sign.

most definitely lee and the sun sign is the LAST thing i would look at
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Lee Rutland

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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #11 - on: 23.12.2010 at 22:50 [UT] »Quote from Emma279 on 23.12.2010 at 22:45 [UT]:
Quote from Lee Rutland on 23.12.2010 at 22:42 [UT]:
Oh absolutely!!!!!!
There is far more to relationships than one simple sign.

most definitely lee and the sun sign is the LAST thing i would look at

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That's for sure.
The Sun is just one part, and most times, not even the dominant part, until they've grown quite a bit.

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I_heart_baklava
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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #12 - on: 23.12.2010 at 23:04 [UT] »Quote from Lee Rutland on 23.12.2010 at 22:50 [UT]:
Quote from Emma279 on 23.12.2010 at 22:45 [UT]:
Quote from Lee Rutland on 23.12.2010 at 22:42 [UT]:
Oh absolutely!!!!!!
There is far more to relationships than one simple sign.

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most definitely lee and the sun sign is the LAST thing i would look at

That's for sure.
The Sun is just one part, and most times, not even the dominant part, until they've grown quite a bit.

Agreed. One certainly needs to look at the whole picture. I believe sun sign compatibility is almost useless on
its own, definitely. However, A aspects between charts can be quite telling...I hate to underestimate theimportance of one's A placement. It is only one piece of the puzzle, but a rather important piece (maybe likethat ever-so-important corner piece). Just my opinion, of course.

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Alice Portman

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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #13 - on: 23.12.2010 at 23:05 [UT] »Quote from I_heart_baklava on 23.12.2010 at 18:41 [UT]:
It is an interesting dynamic, for sure!

I am adA&D...and iB as well, and I was once married to a ACEk. We remain friendsk and my O is conjunct my Dsc (we met atto this day; the romance thing just didn't work out though. However, my MC is in earlycollege and worked together for quite some time during his Master's program). I'll have to go back and look at our charts...it's been awhile. Hopefully I still have his.

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Gender:If you were born just a minute or two past 2.45 pm, you would have the Aquarian duad of Taurus rising, andthis could account for your attraction to Aquarians.
In addition your Draconic chart has the Sun in Aquarius. I tend to think the Draconic charts show soulconnections, so this would automatically draw you to Aquarians generally, and particularly those who havelights or planets around 5k40.
Owlydarlin' do you have your Ascendant-Descendant, Sun, Moon or Nodes in the Aquarius duad of any sign?
Or does your Draconic chart have these placements in Aquarius?
I am an Aquarian and most Solar and Lunar Cancerians really like me - some love me. I have always thought
this was because my Moon is in Taurus. As the Moon rules Cancer and is exalted in Taurus they feel very
comfortable around me. Mind you they tend to cringe a little at my Aquarian tendency to tell the truth and bequite direct.
Did either of your partners have the Moon in Taurus or Cancer?
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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #14 - on: 23.12.2010 at 23:46 [UT] »Quote:
If you were born just a minute or two past 2.45 pm, you would have the Aquarian duad of Taurus rising, and this could account for yourattraction to Aquarians.
In addition your Draconic chart has the Sun in Aquarius. I tend to think the Draconic charts show soul connections, so this would
automatically draw you to Aquarians generally, and particularly those who have lights or planets around 540.

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Thank you, Alice! It is completely possible that my exact birth time is not 2:45 am on the dot. I've often
wondered about that...it's just too rounded off.
This makes a lot of sense. I've always gotten along quite
well with others who have a lot of k energy. I rather enjoy the analytic ability most seem to posess.
Re: my draconic chart: I haven't looked at my draconic in quite a while, as I've never been quite sure what it
signified exactly. I knew it was important, but just wasn't sure as to where it fit in. Thank you for taking thetime to pull it up. I'll have to take another glance at it with a renewed perspective. This is wonderful!
Thanks again!
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Lee Rutland

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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #15 - on: 24.12.2010 at 15:23 [UT] »Let me elaborate, and answer the question in a different way.
I am k, and very much so, by all accounts
and I was married to a dso the answer is Yes!

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Cancer 23
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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #16 - on: 24.12.2010 at 18:59 [UT] »Maybe. If opposites attract.

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kathleen

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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #17 - on: 25.12.2010 at 17:34 [UT] »I'm a cancer and I've never been especially close with any aquarians but I've found some of them reallyfascinating...they definitely compel me...they seem to be dreamy eccentrics without the wishy-washy selfabsorption of, say, pisces.
I find myself in general drawn to air sign people, but I've had a lot of close relationships with geminis and libras(maybe my gemini cusp influence). Somehow it's just never worked out that way with an aquarius, it's always
been an appreciating-at-a-distance type deal.
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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #18 - on: 25.12.2010 at 18:08 [UT] »I suppose there is a lot to consider about how the two approach idealism and taking care of humanity vs. being
a nurturing person. One knows what the "right" thing to do is, and the other actually does it in their intimate
life more than a social life. For example, an Aquarian will spear head humanitarian relief, but a Cancer would
likely be the one in the trenches, ladling soup and being a kind ear for someone.
Which brings me to an interesting man I know...
He's divorces, about 62, and a Ak with a Bd. He's a "hoarder boarder"... he allows women to live with him
who are down on their luck. Seriously... He lives a block away from me. He's had three different women livingwith him (platonically, of course) over the last year, who have lost their jobs and/or are going through a divorce

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Gender:that has them financially strapped. He's a challenging person to talk to because he's constantly at odds withhimself, which is funny when you consider how fixed and Uranian Aquarius is and how resistant to change andauthority d is... It's the weirdest combination in a man... He's now divorced, about 62 and never had his own
children, but he and his then wife raised the boys of his brother who died. And man can this guy talk... wow.
What I can't understand is how an Aquarian can talk about his accomplishments and what not in life adnauseum and no one finds it annoying, but when Leo does it it's called "boastful" or "full of themself"?
Someone please riddle me that one some time. A PM is fine.
Anyhow.. he's got that hoarding thing Cancers can get and with his fixed Aquarian stuff going on he won't sell
anything because he won't get the value out of it. He's got several cars, all filled with stuff, and he talks about
donating things but he can't give them up... Energetically, for those of you who are into energy medicine, you
may not be surprised that he's a diabetic, as well, suffering with neuropathy.
Interesting combination in one person. I can only imagine what it is like for a couple. I think it can work for awhile, then it will fizzle into a friendship... Maybe friends with benefits, but I doubt that as well.

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Marle

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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #19 - on: 25.12.2010 at 21:04 [UT] »I know two long-lasting marriages of Cancer & Aquarius Suns. In one the Cancer is the woman, and in theother, the man.

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Emma279
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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #20 - on: 25.12.2010 at 21:15 [UT] »Also signs almost opposite each other may in probability have sun-venus opposition or trine aspects - not bad
for love and friendshipcan venus be in the preceding sign to your sun or is it always the same as your sun or next one along?
if the first then theres more possibilities of sun/venus aspects
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Gender:eta: similar principle could hold for signs adjacent to each other, their venus/suns would possibly meet - manycelebrity marriages have this next sign combination

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Mary L English

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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #21 - on: 26.12.2010 at 11:58 [UT] »Hiya,
The reason you're so attracted to Cancers (if I've got your correct chart!) is you've got Capricorn Asc, so your
7th house is in Cancer...so you will feel attracted to Cancers....the only problem is, you're then operating froma Asc-Des attraction, which will upset your Aq Sun....a lot.
The only marriage I know between a Cancer male and an Aq female is a struggle.
he wants cuddles, she wants freedom, so unless she has her space, she goes bonkers...and unless he has her in
his arms (which isn't very often) he feels un-loved...and this goes on and on....
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Gender:Any sign can be 'special' to any other sign but sometimes it's hard work!!
In PeaceMaryxxp.s. in a close personal relationship, we're always attracted to the Asc FIRST...then we 'find-out' about the Sun
sign, and if that isn't compatible...then the struggle happens. Compatible Ascs is NOT ENOUGH to keep amodern relationship together, nowawadays we want more than the house, job, car, security, we want emotional
understanding, and that happens rarely if the Suns or Moons aren't in synch. Not impossible, but rare

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MarleEx Member

Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #22 - on: 26.12.2010 at 12:53 [UT] »I agree with what you are saying, Mary. The Asc can make a big difference (and I think it does in the examples Iknow) but Inconjunct signs will always be Inconjunct, even if they love each other a lot and their relation is
worth because there is great sinastry in aspects like what Emma commented. Also, if they are able to go on
together, they might be able to keep their relation exciting, more than other more similar signs.

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he wants cuddles, she wants freedom, so unless she has her space, she goes bonkers...and unless he has her in his arms (which isn't very
often) he feels un-loved...and this goes on and on....

And Aquarius could have it a bit difficult to trust Cancer, and can be totally overwhelmed by feelings she can't
control, of love, jealousy...and general confusion.
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Marle

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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #23 - on: 26.12.2010 at 13:11 [UT] »Now I realize that what we've commented would be general for Water/Air. There is some more factor in
Inconjunct that makes understanding more difficult than with the next/previous sign or the one square, butright now I don't know how to express it.
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Elemi66
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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #24 - on: 26.12.2010 at 18:14 [UT] »Well, interestingly I have just had a big bust up with an Aquarian friend and one of key aspects is different
approaches to emotion.
One very long term eg was Nancy and Ronald Reagan.
There is a fascination and the mutual eccentricity...remember Princess Diana was a sun Cancer with Aquarius
moon and when you get a combo of these signs, you have the ideal humanitarian who understands both thepersonal and the collective.
I would look at the moon signs and personal planets for longevity on this one.
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Mary L English

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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #25 - on: 26.12.2010 at 19:07 [UT] »I agree, the Moon has to be in sympathy, otherwise everyone gets heated and upset
In peaceMaryxx

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Re: Can aquarius and cancer be special to each oth« Reply #26 - on: 27.12.2010 at 03:34 [UT] »I have k ruling my empty H8..
My NBl is in H9m pars fortune & Ceres

The great majority of the men I have met over the last 6-7 years have Bk..
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Gender:Usually the sun sign is b- no mystery- as my AB
midpoint is in b- & usually these men have exact ABo ...
I am or have been involved with:

A 24b- B 24k
A25b- B 25k
A 19 b- B 18k
These people are going through a difficult time now as
T I & N are sitting on their moons
I find the aqua moon to be too 'detached' for my make up..
Will very likely help a friend or stranger or cause- before they will family or someone close to them~~~~I sure did ramble- but we're having a blizzard in NYC
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Ex Member« Reply #27 - on: 27.12.2010 at 14:17 [UT] »Quote from Cancer 23 on 24.12.2010 at 18:59 [UT]:Maybe. If opposites attract.

Yes. Opposite signs attract eachother.I mean if libra is the sign of attraction than it comes naturally that the
opposition aspect is an aspect of attraction. In the words of one famous astrologer:"All things which are similar and therefore connected, are drawn to each other's power."
The Rising sign especially if opposing Sun or Moon shows great attraction and maybe lasting relationships if
other factors are involved.(Ven,Mar)
Also Sun and Moon oppositions show attraction.
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