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venusinlibra
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« on: 12.03.2010 at 00:57 [UT] »what do you do??what is your reaction?
In my opinion,astrologically,it is a good idea to look at the sun sign and its aspects..since betrayals hurt pride..
let me begin with mine..

A in gPosts: 964
Gender:being in libra is not very easy one..first it is a air sign and it is mental..Libra automatically,almost instinctively
sees every possibility,thinks about them and get prepared..at least it works that way for meof course differences are because of the aspects of the sun..

AmD in g
my first reaction is quite calm..very hurt inside but dont fight or yell..try to keep calm but someone screaming
inside "how could you do this to me..this is UNFAIR..I didnt deserve it.."

AmE in g
Then I got really angry..now I'm expressing myself with bitter WORDS..C in h helps me a bit..YET NOYELLING..NO CRYING..when I'm done,leave the place and no contacts anymore..Aq e ASC maybe..
ok..it is done and now I'm alone..

AoG
here comes the pathetic TEARS..SELF DOUBT..maybe I did something wrong..if I didnt do this and that andthat..

AmO in gısolate myself from friends,stay alone till recovery,thinking humanistic,trying to forgive..

AqB giforgive myself first..inner balance..forgive the one who betrays but never contact again even if she/he begs..andnever forget..e asc..ChWhat about you??
do you forgive?
do you forget?
do you give another chance?
do you revenge?
do you fight?
do you humiliate?
what is your sun sign and its aspects??
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Uranusin11th

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« Reply #1 - on: 12.03.2010 at 01:07 [UT] »I'm also a g A, however I do not forgive easily (Scorpio is my strongest sign). As for Sun aspects, I have Sun
m Mercury, p B in c, p F in k, t G, q O & o ASC & r MC.
But despite Scorpio being my strongest sign, I don't seek revenge as I believe that I'd just be sinking to theirlevel. I do forgive, but it takes me a while to do so.

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« Reply #2 - on: 12.03.2010 at 01:15 [UT] »At first I couldn't think of any time in my life when someone betrayed me, I'm 44. But then I remembered
when I was 17 and my best friend (a h) stole my boyfriend right out from under my nose! She's still my bestfriend.
So;

Quote from venusinlibra on 12.03.2010 at 00:57 [UT]:

What about you??
do you forgive? Yes, after feeling the hurt and anger.
do you forget? Definately
do you give another chance? Yes, I did, and she hasn't ever done anything like that again
do you revenge? Definately not
do you fight? Nope, but I did withdraw for a while
do you humiliate? God, nocA, thousands of squares and oppositions, no trines or sextiles. But I have iB, andwhat is your sun sign and its aspects?? 12th house
I suspect the Moon is more influential in these things.
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Chronic_Plutonic

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« Reply #3 - on: 12.03.2010 at 01:20 [UT] »This recently happened to me, so I have a fresh memory of it. I had thought, with an Aries Sun and Mars, thatI would simply turn over tables, throw things about, and generally trash any movable object within my reach.
However apparently the Sun & Mars in 8th combined with Pluto on the Asc makes me a bit more "Scorpionic"
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Gender:about it. In the recent matter, I simply closed up, became moody and quiet, and made the utmost attempt tomake the other party spontaneously combust by just glaring at them. FYI, to date I have been unable toaccomplish this however I am still trying.

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Steve3
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« Reply #4 - on: 12.03.2010 at 01:20 [UT] »VenusInLibra,
you remind me of the stages of grief. Maybe they are not exactly the same but similar.
You also remind me of a Libra friend who felt like a guy-friend she loved was rejecting her. There was a sense ofbetrayal I believe... betrayal of friendship. And I watched her go through these stages of grief. All along, I
believe that she was weighing herself in the balance, questioning her own judgement and actions. I hurt forher because there was nothing else I could do. In the end, the guy came back to her as the caring friend she
had, maybe a little tarnished but back nonetheless.
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Linda Harris

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« Reply #5 - on: 12.03.2010 at 01:53 [UT] »This has happened to me more than once. I'm always shocked when someone turns their back on afriendship....and you do try to figure out...'what did I do wrong????"First, I detach. (Moon in Gemini)
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my instinct is to forgive and forget....I'm a Leo.
BUT .....my Scorpio rising says, "screw them." If my friendship means so little...blankety blank to them....."LOLMy Virgo says, "listen, you can't make someone care about you if they have decided that you aren't importantin their life. You must just not let it happen again. DON'T GO BACK FOR MORE."
And I don't.
Revenge: NEVER. ..it's really bad Karma.
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WatchingWaiting
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« Reply #6 - on: 12.03.2010 at 02:33 [UT] »I've been going through this for several months now. The problem is, time hasn't healed any wounds for me;
I'm still hurting like I was 9 months ago. I have A in j, g Asc. To make matters seem worse for me, I've hada few different 'readings' done, hoping all would see no part of this person in my life, to help heal myself. Allthe readings, which none of the astrologers knew anything about this person before reading my chart, shows
this person in my life, as a future husband. They all hit on it being someone I already knew, someone I workwith/in the field I'm in, foreign, and one went so far as to say he has a round face (which he does). I'mcompletely dumbfounded, because for the life of me, I don't see how it's possible. It just adds to more pain
and hurt right now.
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« Reply #7 - on: 12.03.2010 at 02:33 [UT] »Imo, it all goes back to how do we want us to be treated, knowingly or not knowingly.
2nd house - 8th house axis could tell something about the values.
Mines in in f 2nd - l 8th.

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WatchingWaiting
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« Reply #8 - on: 12.03.2010 at 02:40 [UT] »My 2nd is h, 8th is b.

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Krista ShippMember

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« Reply #9 - on: 12.03.2010 at 03:04 [UT] »I agree with Linda..
It's always a 'shock'- as though it were the first time..
Despite all ny dl- I get a stoic exterior & have avery hard time with forgiveness..
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Radiant
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« Reply #10 - on: 12.03.2010 at 08:59 [UT] »do you forgive? Yes, as long they're sincere...
do you forget? No, never...
do you give another chance? Yes, always...
do you revenge? It depends on the intensity...
do you fight? Rarely...
do you humiliate? It depends on the intensity...
Asc in d, A in e (1st house)
AeqEb(11th)

AesKj(6th)
AetFf(2nd)

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« Reply #11 - on: 12.03.2010 at 09:13 [UT] »betrayal of trust is a part of life everybody faces. trust is a concept that is whittled down towards an instinct
that sits deep inside. the main question of trust is "can you trust yourself?"

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« Reply #12 - on: 12.03.2010 at 10:17 [UT] »Quote from bandit on 12.03.2010 at 09:13 [UT]:
betrayal of trust is a part of life everybody faces. trust is a concept that is whittled down towards an instinct that sits deep inside. themain question of trust is "can you trust yourself?"

That's easy to answer, and the statement I'm about to put on here came to me immediately and without any
pause............I always trust myself.
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Loretta Cassian

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« Reply #13 - on: 12.03.2010 at 12:05 [UT] »do you forgive?Not often if there was clearly "intention to hurt, thorough thought and it was over somethingpetty". I find it easy to forgive when it's a big offense and it was just an emotional outburst.
I've got a bad case of inflated pride here. De." I've got a strong G in the 4th to record every little slight."
do you forget?No, not often. I "know what you did", I "know what I did". (PS: I don't forgive myself that easilyeither)
do you give another chance?Yes, all the time. But never with the same openness.
do you revenge?Occasionally, when I think it's necessary. I used to get double revenge before. Very rarely thesedays..
do you fight?I walk away. Fighting is a waste of energy. If the person hurts me intentionally I should be able toget the message. I used to fight then one day I felt a pain in my chest and I couldn't even yell anymore. Itgives me headaches when people try to start fights with me. I'm so tired of anger.
do you humiliate?Not anymore, again a waste of energy and escalating pain for no reason. If I ever try tohumiliate someone then we're already "out of the possibility to ever respect each other".
12thgAoOj4th

AoIj in 4th
AmCg in 4th
ApGk in k4th
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« Reply #14 - on: 12.03.2010 at 12:08 [UT] »I have a lot of Cancer - sun, moon, mars, jupiter.

It generally depends on the situation and the nature of thebetrayal. I had to do a lot of meditating to stay on friendly terms with one tactless and womanising ex of mine
but he's a far better friend than he ever was a boyfriend.
I think forgiveness is only appropriate if someone is genuinely sorry for the hurt they've caused and wouldn't
do it to you or someone else again. It might be best for your own peace of mind to forget and move on, which
probably means having nothing more to do with that particular person. The world is full of people - there's noneed to put up with a lot of selfishness and abuse for the sake of nostalgia or sentimentality. Perhaps my venus
in gemini makes it easy for me to detach and all the squares make me demanding.
I have one ex friend who seems slightly puzzled or hurt by the fact I'm no longer very bothered with her. A few
years back, I was quite ill with heart problems and while I was recovering, I wanted some company. She was ata loose end at the time but didn't want to come and meet me in my local shopping mall or come over for
afternoon tea. I had helped this friend through leaving an abusive partner and a nasty custody battle. Thefact that she couldn't even be arsed to spend one afternoon with me, no doubt , because it might be'depressing' to be around someone who was ill, speaks volumes about her. As for second chances, she did thesame thing , when I was looking after my mother at home and couldn't meet her near where she lives...didn't
want to come to the house.
So attitudes to illness is a biggie.
Revenge ties you mentally to a person - the best revenge is indifference. If someone has done something thatis actually criminal, they can be dealt with by the law.
I have libra rising so I do weigh and balance things all the time.
me that I wouldn't do myself.

Never expect anyone to be doing anything for

Sometimes peoples screw up because of addictions, mental problems....etc. So, depends on situation.

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« Reply #15 - on: 12.03.2010 at 13:30 [UT] »I NEVER FORGIVE when someone betray me,i just quit and they will never see me again in their life no matter what was the link between us. then i isolate
myself for 1 year to recover.
in love i have been betrayed a lot so i have had so much pain from separations though i wonder why i attractsuch #"é@! i must have something in me that deal with treachery : EoI ?
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