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Lily ColeMember

Best transits for the Wedding« on: 23.09.2013 at 20:03 [UT+1] »Could someone please help me choose the best dates for the wedding. We plan to have it between end of
September 2014 and May 2015, but could be later.

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It's so difficult, for example, one day you have nice easy aspects between planets, but unaspected Venus, thenanother day, there is Venus sextile Jupiter, but Sun square Pluto, and other difficult aspects.
Does anyone have an idea about the best days? How to choose it? What are the priorities? Perhaps, there is acalculator I can use online?
Thank you

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Linda Harris

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Re: Best transits for the Wedding« Reply #1 - on: 23.09.2013 at 20:57 [UT+1] »First, the transits of each ...the bride and groom need to be as free of stress as possible.
Then a chart would have to be set up for several prospective dates (with the time of the wedding) to see which
would be most positive.
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Then if I were to have free rein...LOL...I'd do a composite chart of the couple and put the transits of the best
date on it.
The most control you have is of the transits of Sun thru Jupiter.
Not crazy about the Jupiter square Saturn issues in the fall of '14. A VERY cursory look at the ephemeris makesme think that April or early May of '15 look pretty good.
But again, those dates would have to fall well onto the individual charts and the composite.
Just remember that no chart will be perfect. There's no such thing. You just want to start out as positive as
possible....if possible.
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Lily Cole
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Re: Best transits for the Wedding« Reply #2 - on: 23.09.2013 at 23:17 [UT+1] »Thank you for your reply, Linda Harris
So far, 2nd of April 2015 looks the best.

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Good points:
Tr Sun biquintile my Venus
Tr Mercury trine my Moon
Tr Mercury trine my MarsTr Mercury trine my Jupiter
Tr Moon conjunct my Mercury
Tr Venus trine my Mercury
Tr Venus quintile my Mars
Tr Mars trine my Venus
Tr Sun trine his Venus
Tr Venus sextile his Moon
Tr Mars trine his Mars
Tr Jupiter quintile his Mercury
Tr Jupiter trine his Venus
Tr Mars opposite his MC-----------Bad ones:
Tr Venus square my Sun
Tr Mars square my Mars
Tr Mars opposite my Saturn
Tr Saturn conjunct my Moon
Tr Saturn square my Venus
Tr Sun opposite his Saturn
Tr Moon sqare his Venus
Tr Mars opposite his Sun
Tr Saturn square his MarsTr Uranus square his Moon-----------Aspects for the day:Sun trine JupiterSun conj Uranus
Sun square Pluto
Moon trine Venus
Moon sesqiquadrate Mars
Moon quincinx Uranus
Moon trine Pluto
Mercury semi-square Venus
Mercury trine SaturnVenus square JupiterVenus trine Pluto
Jupiter trine Uranus
Saturn square Neptune
Neptune square Pluto----------------------------Do you think it looks ok?
Is it more important to have more good transit aspects involving personal planetsor such as transit Neptune conjunct natal Uranus?
Also, does the size of of an aspect matter?
Sorry, it may soundThanks a lot again!

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Linda Harris

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Re: Best transits for the Wedding« Reply #3 - on: 24.09.2013 at 18:33 [UT+1] »"Tr Saturn square his MarsTr Uranus square his Moon"

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If these are separating squares, it's not so bad.
If "applying", these are unlucky...but remember that the orbs matter....so I'd have to see the chart.
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Lily Cole
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Re: Best transits for the Wedding« Reply #4 - on: 24.09.2013 at 19:56 [UT+1] »Would you be able to look at the chart, please?
House positions look good. Transiting Juno in Leo (my Sun sign) is in 7th on the day. Venus and Mars in 4th.
Also, I've been considering Venus in Taurus for that day, seems better that Gemini.
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Lily Cole

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Re: Best transits for the Wedding« Reply #5 - on: 24.09.2013 at 19:56 [UT+1] »and this is mine

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Linda Harris
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Re: Best transits for the Wedding« Reply #6 - on: 24.09.2013 at 22:32 [UT+1] »Why did you reduce the orb??
Could you leave it at 100%. please.
and please show the aspects on the bottom.
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Lily Cole

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Re: Best transits for the Wedding« Reply #7 - on: 24.09.2013 at 23:04 [UT+1] »Thank you for your reply!
Sorry, I'll change the orbs to 100%
EDIT: I modified the previous posts with new charts.
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Linda Harris
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Re: Best transits for the Wedding« Reply #8 - on: 25.09.2013 at 21:48 [UT+1] »Is his chart based on an actual time of birth?
Also, how long do you and he know each other? And have been "serious"?
By the way, did you notice that Jupiter is retrograde in Leo that week? and further, if you wait 2 weeks more,
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Jupiter will no longer be retrograde.
How did you arrive at that particular date?
Personally I'd want to have Jupiter's full blessing if possible.
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Lily Cole

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Re: Best transits for the Wedding« Reply #9 - on: 25.09.2013 at 22:03 [UT+1] »Thank you for your reply
Yes, birth times are correct. We are in a serious relationship, and live together. Engaged for a year.
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Our Synastry and Composite are good, too. Some bad points, but who doesn't have them
EDIT: the reason for that date is because in 2 weeks Venus will be in Gemini and opposite Saturn. Ahhh, I
don't know it's so difficult. I'll have a look for another date.

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Linda Harris
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Re: Best transits for the Wedding« Reply #10 - on: 25.09.2013 at 22:11 [UT+1] »You're not addressing the Jupiter issue...this is REALLY important as Leo is important in both your charts....hismarriage sign and your Sun sign.
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Lily Cole

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Re: Best transits for the Wedding« Reply #11 - on: 25.09.2013 at 22:13 [UT+1] »I think my Venus/Mercury Virgo wants too much perfection
Thank you so much for you replies.
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EDIT: Is Saturn Retro bad as well?
There is a date when Jupiter is SD. Is it good, or even worse that Retro?

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Linda Harris
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Re: Best transits for the Wedding« Reply #12 - on: 27.09.2013 at 16:33 [UT+1] »I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting the best transits on a day you will be married.
Saturn retrograde is not the same as Jupiter retrograde.
If you and he had never experienced a Saturn retrograde together there might be a problem, but aside from

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the fact that it would be almost impossible to "wait" for the "best" Saturn transit (this is the part that is out ofyour control) I don't think the Saturn retrograde is a major negative.
BUT the Jupiter issue IS. Jupiter direct is best. OUt of all the weeks within the time frame you mentioned, Iwould wonder why you would pick the week of the Jupiter SD. I'd wait till the next week or evenafter....depending upon THOSE transits of Mars, Venus, etc.
You've inadvertantly come upon one of the issues in astrology that we must all face: in principle, everyone
wants good transits: but... to actually LIVE by the rules of astrology...even with something so huge as awedding... is difficult for many reasons.
But I feel this is a no brainer: as the spring of that year advances, I believe the transits get better. But that isjust my opinion...you can put the question to other astrologers and see what they have to say. There are about
4 or 5 other experienced astrologers on this site.
You may want to ask this same question at another area...for instance, "Personal In Depth Chart Discussion".
You will get other points of view.
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