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amsg1970
Memberreverse engineer boyfriend« on: 14.09.2016 at 03:03 [UT+1] »okay, so maybe this is crazy, but if you know the attributes you want in a mate based on time and where born,
you could by theory just specifically seek out people born at said time, location. Has anyone ever tried this?
with the internet dating, these kinds of things are possible

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Re: reverse engineer boyfriend« Reply #1 - on: 14.09.2016 at 05:44 [UT+1] »The only issue with this, is the issue of will.
Two people can have the same or nearly the same charts, and yet be rather different in core, fundamental
ways.
What's the deciding factor? Will (sometimes called freewill, which is bit of a misnomer).
For example, there are cases of identical twins, born very close in time, and yet are very different--such as one
can be a real jerk, and the other a pretty nice person in a consistent sense. Or, one can be very extroverted andone can be very introverted. And many other similar examples of big differences.
Also, there is the spiritual issue of we often get what we need and not what we want, and thank goodness forthat, since our personality selves often don't know what's best for us and our growth.
Best to just interact with what comes or is within one's probable sphere, and stop trying to control theUniverse. Control is largely an illusion anyways, though one many humans stubbornly cling to. Often times,
our "higher selves" have a lot more say on what relationships and interactions become highlighted in our lives,and via unconscious nudgings, irrational attractions, etc. And it's tough to realize and accept, but, sometimes
our higher selves want us to experience challenge, friction, difficulty and/or suffering.
without it.

It's hard to growAs one born under the indications of Capricorn Sun with a close square to Pluto, and some other heavy stuff,
I've come to make my peace with and accept such hard truths. But oddly or paradoxically, it's also what informs
my great faith in the Universe and processes of life.
Not to say that "everything happens for a (deeper) reason", because not everything does. There's a certain
amount of randomness and chaos, besides the behind the scenes, spiritual planning, that also goes onsometimes.
Also, again, due to freewill of both self and/or others in interaction.
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theninetyninepercent
Ex Member« Reply #2 - on: 14.09.2016 at 13:20 [UT+1] »Sounds interesting, Why not? At least it would be interesting and you'd learn some astrology too. let us
know if it works??!!!
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amsg1970

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Re: reverse engineer boyfriend« Reply #3 - on: 14.09.2016 at 14:04 [UT+1] »thanks folks for the input
i'm thinking of it as a science experiment

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Re: reverse engineer boyfriend« Reply #4 - on: 14.09.2016 at 14:54 [UT+1] »Quote from amsg1970 on 14.09.2016 at 03:03 [UT+1]:okay, so maybe this is crazy, but if you know the attributes you want in a mate based on time and where born, you could by theory justspecifically seek out people born at said time, location. Has anyone ever tried this? with the internet dating, these kinds of things arepossible

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Well, interesting idea but from my experience people you meet, you meet for a reason and usually if it's meantto be, it really happens. My b/f and I have some karmic connection, my sun conjunct his south node and that is
all there has to be. Plus few other aspects. Nonetheless at the very beginning it was almost physical pain when
we were not together. After 12 years together I still feel deep connection. It's not a perfect relationship, we
have ups and downs as relationship is a lot of work. I mean really a lot.
Everyone enters relationship with own baggage of experiences, with personality shaped by family andenvironment. So taking all that into account, reverse engineering is very hard.
From meeting other people I also observe that all of my best friends have their Sun trine or sextile mine. I
have 2 best friends, one is exact sextile, one exact trine. Other good friends the same. For one or anotherreason I had a friend who does not fit into this pattern but when I learned something about astrology I noticed
our Moons form exact conjunction plus his Mars is on my DSC.
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Linda Harris

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Re: reverse engineer boyfriend« Reply #5 - on: 28.09.2016 at 20:14 [UT+1] »It's a practical impossibility.
You've heard of "nature vs nature?" Well, if you stick astrological data in the "nature" column you still have noidea of how the "nurture" or lack of it will impact that person.
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Even two people with the same degree of the moon on the same day can have different "nurture" backgrounds.
Even "dysfunctional family" issues can be the same...but can affect 2 people born the same time differently.
So....no....it's just not possible.
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