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MemberWhat is important to Synastry chart« on: 04.05.2017 at 11:24 [UT+1] »For astrological compatibility between two people, is looking at sun-moon aspects more important, or sun-sun
and moon-moon aspects?

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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #1 - on: 04.05.2017 at 16:40 [UT+1] »EVERY planet in EACH chart is important for compatibility analysis. Synastry is an art. But really it is very
detailed study.....taking every part of the charts into consideration.
What is extremely important to know is that ALL ASPECTS ARE NOT EQUAL.
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For instance, if your Venus trines my Mercury....that's nice. But if YOUR Saturn Squares my Mercury that"overrides" the positive trine. Get it?
If your Mars trines my Moon that is good. BUT if your Neptune inconjuncts my Moon or opposes it....uh
uh....no good.

The heavy planets have more power than the personal planets. They are literally "overwhelming".
The odd thing is that often it takes months or years for the people involved to realize how negative some ofthese energies are....because most people IGNORE WARNING SIGNS AND WANT TO BE IN LOVE.
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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #2 - on: 05.05.2017 at 05:53 [UT+1] »Quote from Linda Harris on 04.05.2017 at 16:40 [UT+1]:
BUT if your Neptune inconjuncts my Moon or opposes it....uh uh....no good.

I doubt whether Minor aspects are relevant in synastry
Of Course ,InB is very significant , as Neptune Partner can paint illusionary pictures to the Moon person andPosts: 3813

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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #3 - on: 05.05.2017 at 13:39 [UT+1] »Believe me...an inconjunct is NOT a minor aspect. And it is VERY VERY relevant.
Inconjuncts are aspects between energies that 'will not work together.' It's not even a Choice! A choice would
be an opposition!
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Try to work on a project with a couple of people who WILL NOT WORK WITH YOU....PERIOD.
Don't be in denial when it comes to synastry.
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Member« Reply #4 - on: 05.05.2017 at 15:44 [UT+1] »how someone Moon wouldnt be working together because Partners Neptune is inconjunct to it?
....too subtle....there are far too many chart aspects, not forgetting Chiron and other asteroids aspects, to feel
exclusively about this particular aspect.
Two people, aspiring a close relationship ,interacts dynamically!!

How many amongst us are so sensitive to decipher Is B across the charts...while walking the talk!!
Is these practiceable astrology ?
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we need to pinpoint the dominant actors...cardinal by aspects ,by nature or by placements....
Yes , if we are making a Yod in synastry using inconjuncts...then of course its an altogether different story/some fatedness too!

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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #5 - on: 05.05.2017 at 19:17 [UT+1] »The importance of anything in Synastry is how each person reacts to it. Synastry in astrology, tries to provide
information on relationship but it should not forget that each person still has an individual nativity.

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If one has Saturn and the Moon in conjunction in Synastry, it has one meaning in the relationship( lets say
Saturn restricts the Moon's emotional expression), but if in the Nativity, Saturn is located in the 10th house in
let's say Aquarius, and the Moon is in Gemini, second house, in the others Nativity, the individuals may findthat the interrelationship of Saturn Moon is stimulating business ideas.
So thinking about Synastry, the importance would be how each individual reacts to the combinations and forthat, need to be familiar with each Nativity.
Of course all interactions ( aspects) between two people are worth looking into, but it is the nativity (theindividual) that decides how to react keeping in mind what each nativity is actually looking for in a relationship.

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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #6 - on: 05.05.2017 at 22:56 [UT+1] »If you got along with someone that means that you have good synastry. As long as you're both happy together.

What's important in synastry, is what important to you. What are you looking in a relationship??
If you defined what you are looking for then what planets rule that thing? Look for aspects to that planet.

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Gender:Society teaches us that all happy relationships follow a certain standard, some part of our unhappiness is trying
to reach that picture that wouldn't work for everyone! Maybe Venus on Dsc synastry is great for my partnershipbut not yours.

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Member« Reply #7 - on: 07.05.2017 at 16:31 [UT+1] »Quote from Linda Harris on 05.05.2017 at 13:39 [UT+1]:
Believe me...an inconjunct is NOT a minor aspect. And it is VERY VERY relevant.
Inconjuncts are aspects between energies that 'will not work together.' It's not even a Choice! A choice would be an opposition!
Try to work on a project with a couple of people who WILL NOT WORK WITH YOU....PERIOD.
Don't be in denial when it comes to synastry.
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Gender:LainieI'm fascinated by your certainty that the inconjunct is an unworkable aspect. Surely all aspects need to be seenin the wider context.
Certainly the inconjunct brings with it some unpredictability, it's quirky. But is it a particularly malefic aspect?
Surely that answer is "not necessarily"? Put another way, are you going to wait until a chart is only grand trines
and sextiles with exaltations before giving it the go-ahead? Statistically that's remote, and I'd say many people
are happily co-existing in productive relationships without knowing anything at all about astrology.
Sometimes we just might be overthinking. At least that's my take on it. Put another way, some challenge
aspects are needed to keep things interesting. You want to be stimulated and challenged by a relationship, asoporific set of trines might not encourage personal growth.
BTW what does anyone think of reversed traditional roles. Eg. conjunction of sun and moon but it's thewoman's sun and the man's moon? Does that indicate the woman is more obvious in expressing energy, theman more supportive? This would be more acceptable in the current society where for instance, the woman
might have a career and the man does working from home?
Just a few thoughts there...

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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #8 - on: 13.05.2017 at 16:52 [UT+1] »''...... are you going to wait until a chart is only grand trines and sextiles with exaltations before giving it the
go-ahead? Statistically that's remote, and I'd say many people are happily co-existing in productive
relationships without knowing anything at all about astrology''

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I NEVER said that.....I never said anything about trines and sextiles and no negative aspects.
I was specifically citing the inconjunct. And don't get me wrong: people with these aspects in synastry marry
all the time. And it's THESE areas that are never dealt with....because there cannot be fruitful outcome.
SO.....the planets in question need to rely on OTHER aspects in order to be activated.

But the planets in theinconjunct will NOT work with each other in a fruitful way. It's as tho they are blind to each other....or speak a
totally different language.....like let's say, Portuguese and .....Martian.
I think you should immerse yourself in charts with these aspects before you blindly defend them. When you've
seen this over and over and over again.....or lived it....it becomes very easy to understand.
AND quincunxes between the charts of 2 people are much worse that those within one's natal chart.
With one's OWN chart time and experience and pain and finally acceptance will allow for the possibility tocircumvent (not trip over) one's inconjunct. BUT.....when you come across this aspect in the chart of another,someone whose dynamics you're not familiar with.... there is NO way to avoid the issues involved (regarding
sign and house and aspects to other planets) and the issues represented by the inconjunct will have to beeither ignored or accepted as unworkable.... because these aspects represent the inner workings of the psyche.
The individual himself is not even aware of this dynamic....so it can't even be discussed.
I know.....it took a long time for me to come to these conclusions even tho I'd studied them (theoretically)
with my original teacher and those books I was directed to read by teachers.
For a long time.
LainieI had to study them for myself.

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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #9 - on: 14.05.2017 at 09:21 [UT+1] »Quote from Linda Harris on 05.05.2017 at 13:39 [UT+1]:
Believe me...an inconjunct is NOT a minor aspect. And it is VERY VERY relevant.
Inconjuncts are aspects between energies that 'will not work together.' It's not even a Choice! A choice would be an opposition!
Try to work on a project with a couple of people who WILL NOT WORK WITH YOU....PERIOD.
Don't be in denial when it comes to synastry.
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I'd like to go a little bit deeper on this point.... expecially in relation to synasties and yods.
I read the book of Karen Zondag about Yods (and Singletons). On a few points she approaches the thema ofyods in synastries between the two charts. I'm really interested on this point, but I can't find a lot about...
any suggestion? reference? hits? Everything about synastries seems to deeply understimate yods.
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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #10 - on: 14.05.2017 at 12:09 [UT+1] »Understanding inconjuncts aka quincunxii in a natal chart would be a good place to begin. Keyword for this
aspect is Adjustment and realigning because it takes two dissimilar qualities and asks to blend them. Take Earthand Air..can't imagine blending them, right?? Every time it storms that is what happens. The earth becomes
electrical conduit as well as ground for lightning. Earth and Fire..put clay into a kiln and voila..you have pottery.
As someone who has a lunar Yod, (thinking of Krista too) to think they do not work at all is extreme..it takes
creativity.
In synastry, it can work. Everyone goes for trines etc. Trines make for friends sometimes. My husband and I
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were solar inconjuncts Aries to Virgo. It took work and adjustments galore but it worked because the love andpassion overcame any obstacle. There is a mysterious quality of friction which is necessary for heat..
It is the aspect of Alchemy.

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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #11 - on: 15.05.2017 at 01:40 [UT+1] »christiania,
I wish I had enough data with YODS in synastry chart to go into this deeply.
I know that they are not considered lucky in composite charts, but in synastry it's a bit different.
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This is because in a YOD there is a sextile......and the planets of the other person might soften the inconjuncts
by having some positive aspects to the sextiles involved!
HOwever: one thing that doesn't change is the fact that ALL inconjuncts represents energies which cannot work
together....they are aspects of "maladjustment."
In fact, mid 20th century astrologers all agreed that inconjuncts represent some sort of dysfunction which canbe pathological. The 6th house inconjunct can represent physical illness; the 8th house inconjunct canrepresent mental or emotional illness (on some level.)
The core issue with the inconjunct is twofold: the two energies have nothing in common......and......
there is the perspective of the "opposition" MISSING.
If you study these long enough it really does become very clear. Studying the individual planets, signs andhouses dynamics in depth will show clearly why these are such difficult and hard to deal with aspects.
Using a common metaphor of today, the issues represented by the inconjunct energies are the "ELEPHANTS IN
THE ROOM" - so sensitive that no one wants to "go there." In fact, often, as I alluded to in another post, thepeople invlolved either don't know this issue exists in a "form" - or they don't know how to articulate it..... soit remains unresolved and yet very much present.
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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #12 - on: 15.05.2017 at 11:15 [UT+1] »I don't mean to diverge from the OP concerning what's important in synastry, however what's kind ofinteresting is the quincunx (150 degrees) is close to the biQuintile (144 degrees), something Donna
Cunningham has written about on her blog. I'm not sure if she discusses the aspect in relation to synastry
though.
ETA: https://skywriter.wordpress.com/2010/07/28/understanding-the-biquintile%E2%80%94
your-input-needed/
andhttps://skywriter.wordpress.com/2011/04/03/heinous-hybrids—why-the-quincunx-is -no-minor-aspect/
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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #13 - on: 15.05.2017 at 15:08 [UT+1] »Quintiles and bi-quintiles are 5th harmonic and seem to facilitate a blending..echoing the demand for
adjustment in the quincunx..if expressed.
Back to quincunx though..the sixth is not just health etc..but also service to others..people forget that Virgo or
sixth house are positioned just below the descending horizon. They are neither personal nor are theyinterpersonal but a place where adjustment, assimilation and refinement are made in order to be of good
service to others. People like to put a housemaid waitress type service to the 6th, but it also rules servicemen
and women, emts selfless service..doctors, healers etc.
The eighth rules others wealth, inheritance, death and core sexuality.
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Synastry shows what initially attracts. A davison composite shows the actual relationship.
Personally my synastry with someone can actually draw blank except his Mars sextile my Venus and my Mars
trine his Venus..our moons just barely oppose..Venus and Pluto conjunct..my Sun exact semisextile hismoon..but our composite..WOWSERS.
So I would think a quincunx in synastry would be a hesitating factor..do I, don't I and so on..which in thecomposite may be resolved.

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Member« Reply #14 - on: 16.05.2017 at 03:33 [UT+1] »Mo matter how dilligently i may try but unless i become bit of sharp ,observant ,sensitive and capable oflateral thinking i suppose , i would not be able to decipher /resolve quincux operating in a synastry.....easier
said than done!

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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #15 - on: 16.05.2017 at 11:17 [UT+1] »Quote from Linda Harris on 15.05.2017 at 01:40 [UT+1]:
christiania,
I wish I had enough data with YODS in synastry chart to go into this deeply.
I know that they are not considered lucky in composite charts, but in synastry it's a bit different.
This is because in a YOD there is a sextile......and the planets of the other person might soften the inconjuncts by having some positive
aspects to the sextiles involved!
HOwever: one thing that doesn't change is the fact that ALL inconjuncts represents energies which cannot work together....they are aspectsof "maladjustment."

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Gender:In fact, mid 20th century astrologers all agreed that inconjuncts represent some sort of dysfunction which can be pathological. The 6thhouse inconjunct can represent physical illness; the 8th house inconjunct can represent mental or emotional illness (on some level.)
The core issue with the inconjunct is twofold: the two energies have nothing in common......and......
there is the perspective of the "opposition" MISSING.
If you study these long enough it really does become very clear. Studying the individual planets, signs and houses dynamics in depth willshow clearly why these are such difficult and hard to deal with aspects.
Using a common metaphor of today, the issues represented by the inconjunct energies are the "ELEPHANTS IN THE ROOM" - so sensitivethat no one wants to "go there." In fact, often, as I alluded to in another post, the people invlolved either don't know this issue exists in a"form" - or they don't know how to articulate it..... so it remains unresolved and yet very much present.
Lainiethank you very much.
you're absolutely right!! I became interested in the yods in sysnasties because I exprerienced all thesemaladjustments, "elephants in the room" things, wrong timing issues with one person. I was fancying what
could (astrologically) have caused it..... now the only answer I can give is : the yods.
by the time I've seen that this point is greately understimated and not contemplated in the astrologicalliterature. ....as I see some other aspects sets in synastries....just take the meaning on the radix theme... andapply it to synasties.... I don't think it works in that way....there are more issues in synasties... but I haven't
find a lot about....

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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #16 - on: 16.05.2017 at 23:40 [UT+1] »The study of sinastries made me give a lot more importance to "minor aspects" than I would suspect by thesole study of birth charts - where I started to consider that the minor are also way important.
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1. Close conjunctions - till +/- 3' orb
2. Aspects (including minors) of very tight orb, close to 0'.

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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #17 - on: 17.05.2017 at 00:21 [UT+1] »Synastry is a specialty in astrology. You have to do a LOT of charts to get the experience to be able toascertain compatibility (or not) between 2 charts and how and when each dynamic will be activated.
It's advanced astrology. You must be very fluent in the language of astrology before you can do this reallyaccurately.
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I learned this over about a decade. It's a fascinating part of astrology.
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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #18 - on: 17.05.2017 at 06:00 [UT+1] »Moon-Moon, ultra-important! Me, with my Moon in Capricorn in the 8th house of Scorpio, in an impossible,
maddening relationship with someone with a Moon in Leo, Saj or Aries? Or Gemini, Aquarius or Libra?

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Gender:Also if sex should be an important ingredient in your relationship, compatible Venus-Mars signs are ultraimportant as well. Me? With my Mars in Virgo in the 4th House of Cancer, going to bed with someone with
their Mars in an air sign?
I also have my Venus in Pisces, so a watery Venus sign plus an earthy mars sign would be picture perfect!
Disparate sun signs can be overlooked with all those ingredients in place, with the exception of CardinalCardinal!

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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #19 - on: 17.05.2017 at 15:08 [UT+1] »"their Mars in an air sign?"
In this case I think it takes one to know one. Maybe if both people have Mars in Air it would work ok....
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But Mars in Air if the other person has Mar or Venus in earth and/or water......
You'll need help from a higher power (Pluto, Uranus, Neptune) to add interest ....in MHO
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Member« Reply #20 - on: 17.05.2017 at 15:57 [UT+1] »Quote from Linda Harris on 13.05.2017 at 16:52 [UT+1]:''...... are you going to wait until a chart is only grand trines and sextiles with exaltations before giving it the go-ahead? Statistically that's
remote, and I'd say many people are happily co-existing in productive relationships without knowing anything at all about astrology''
I NEVER said that.....I never said anything about trines and sextiles and no negative aspects.
I was specifically citing the inconjunct. And don't get me wrong: people with these aspects in synastry marry all the time. And it's THESE
areas that are never dealt with....because there cannot be fruitful outcome.
SO.....the planets in question need to rely on OTHER aspects in order to be activated. But the planets in the inconjunct will NOT work witheach other in a fruitful way. It's as tho they are blind to each other....or speak a totally different language.....like let's say, Portuguese and.....Martian.

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Gender:I think you should immerse yourself in charts with these aspects before you blindly defend them. When you've seen this over and over andover again.....or lived it....it becomes very easy to understand.
AND quincunxes between the charts of 2 people are much worse that those within one's natal chart.
With one's OWN chart time and experience and pain and finally acceptance will allow for the possibility to circumvent (not trip over) one's
inconjunct. BUT.....when you come across this aspect in the chart of another, someone whose dynamics you're not familiar with.... there is
NO way to avoid the issues involved (regarding sign and house and aspects to other planets) and the issues represented by the inconjunctwill have to be either ignored or accepted as unworkable.... because these aspects represent the inner workings of the psyche. The
individual himself is not even aware of this dynamic....so it can't even be discussed.
I know.....it took a long time for me to come to these conclusions even tho I'd studied them (theoretically) with my original teacher andthose books I was directed to read by teachers. I had to study them for myself. For a long time.
LainieLainieLainieLet's take a step back. I wasn't putting words into your mouth and claiming that you said them. I'm simply
positing a different way of looking at things.
I was suggesting one extreme view which is obviously unsustainable, and which therefore points to a more
moderate view of challenge aspects might be in order, even about the really 'bad' ones.
Obviously, not every chart is going to be all sweetness and light, and this is my point. I do not underestimate
the potential of challenge aspects, not at all.
But equally I'd like you to consider the possibility that perhaps I'm not in denial? I would suggest I'm pretty
open minded about the possibility that two people who are more at ease with themselves, and have worked on
their own dark side, are going to have better relationship potential even with a lot of challenge aspects than
two people with plenty of trines, who haven't.
So if you get two people who are a bit more developed, they won't have the same issues with the challenge
aspects. Liz Greene talks about the unconscious manifesting in very challenging situations if the relevant
people haven't integrated fully as individuals, and I think that is one valuable way of looking at it. At the otherend of the spectrum you don't want a boring situation, and a lot depends on how people are reacting to theirindividual challenges, how positively they can adapt to the synastry.
Anyway, suffice to say, I'm usually wary of Saturn Mars aspects or Saturn Pluto Mars aspects. But again, it verymuch depends on the dynamics. Saturn can be a patient and wise teacher and Mars has energy.
Conversely I also have charts of people who theoretically should get on well together, but they don't. They're
dysfunctional.
This is often because one party has refused to look at him/herself, while the other one has been doing all thework. Eventually things became unworkable regardless of all the 'good aspects' involved. I guess you can leada horse to water, but you can't make it drink.
My point is a lot depends on how developed each person is. You're right to the extend that I don't frighten
easily, in terms of negative aspects. I'm always looking at how a situation will work out potentially and how
developed the individuals are in that respect. I guess we all have our different approaches.
I'm very interested in the Yod, and in the inconjunct because it involves a dynamic that while on the surface isincompatible, it creates a lot of energy, a frisson of sorts and it can lead to a lot of unconventional energy. I
think of the inconjunct as similar in effect to Uranus as a planet....quirky and unpredictable. How that manifests
in the particular circumstance the real issue. IMO.
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Member« Reply #21 - on: 17.05.2017 at 17:09 [UT+1] »I agree that it does take a deeper look to really gauge compatibility. You can see things that are obvious andthat on the surface work out, like A's in the same element, or A and B in the same sign etc. But that doesn't
always work out, or these people might just get on well as friends, or have a lot in common but doesn't go
deeper. Then there are people who you connect with deeply and you look at the synastry and your very
confused! But with a deeper look it begins to make sense.

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My fiancé and I have a challenging synastry yet we get along great, and have a very deep connection. Our B's
are o , our A's are n. his E o my G, his AJ o my EO.. Hes a f stellium, I am an a with nothing inearth.. But if you look closer his B in a likes my A and D in a, my B in d likes his h asc, D, F, I. So
even though our Bs are tightly o each others and our A's are n (both of which are apparent) Just is that we
come from different backgrounds and different approaches and styles, doesn't mean we don't get along or
don't like each other.

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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #22 - on: 17.05.2017 at 20:40 [UT+1] »And to make it even more complicated, it often matters WHERE in the chart the Moon squares the otherperson's moon. Some placements will be much less stressful than others.
Also, with squares between charts, it often matters MORE if the negative "chart to chart" aspects are well
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aspected in the individual NATALS....in other words, IF you are well adjusted within your own life, your planetsin difficult aspect to someone else will be less of a problem.
Also, the other person having strengths where you have weaknesses often helps a LOT. That is what teamwork
is about.
Which is why synastry is considered advanced astrology and it's almost impossible to be objective in dealing
with this type of inquiry without a LOT of experience.
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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #23 - on: 18.05.2017 at 05:20 [UT+1] »Quote from Linda Harris on 17.05.2017 at 20:40 [UT+1]:

Which is why synastry is considered advanced astrology andInterpreting a composite and making a good use of Davison seems bit more complicated than synastry,

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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #24 - on: 19.05.2017 at 03:40 [UT+1] »I remember, long ago, reading that in Roman times they'd match couples by Sun and Moon, for reasons ofcompatibility, harmony. For a man with a sun in Aquarius, they'd find a woman with her moon in Aquarius.
Now, remember, this was a man's world back then, and one of the reasons for it was finding a woman who'd be
subservient to the husband.
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Gender:My Sun is in Aries, and I have attracted way too many friends, along the way, with their moons in Aries, andharmony????? A Cardinal Sun sign and a Cardinal Moon sign????? Not!!!
Perhaps it works better with the mutable and fixed suns and moons, but not cardinal signs.
I know there's a natural lunar attraction going with moon and sun. My mother (moon in Leo) married myfather (Sun in Leo). My Aunt (moon in Taurus) marries her husband with Sun in Taurus. My cousin (moon inLeo), married a man with Sun in Leo. And these characters know nothing about Astrology! That lunar gravity!
My moon is in Capricorn, and no way Jose, would I consider getting involved with someone with Sun in
Capricorn!
Sex is ultra-important to me, so I zero in on Venus/Mars signs. And if the sex is out of this world, I'll overlook
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Member« Reply #25 - on: 19.05.2017 at 05:22 [UT+1] »You can try and shall invariably find, happily settled couples ( those with genuine affection or love to eachother) have Sun/Moon/Venus/Mars synastry ...also Jupiter of one is in apsect with other Sun.
Not to say during adverse transits ,they do not fencounter threats of relationship falling apart , but generalcomradiere is ther
Education ,Intellectual and Psychological Maturity, broad mindedness is also a factor in managing relationships
decently but of course natural attraction shall be there , astrologically justified !
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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #26 - on: 19.05.2017 at 07:27 [UT+1] »I know a couple with synastry of his Vertex conjunct her anti Vertex exact degree and his Vertex conjunct her
South Node, five degree orb, so his anti vertex conjunct her North Node.
I can only find a little information on line on vertex to vertex and moon's node to vertex, except to say 'fated'
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Gender:relationship. It's interesting though, she was in a long term relationship when they met, so something quite
powerful seems to have brought them together, but it's early days yet. They do also have Sun and Moon inclose conjunction.

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Member« Reply #27 - on: 19.05.2017 at 10:43 [UT+1] »See,am very clear about it
Yes, Vertex aspects are fated andas for trigerring the Yod in synastry can give "unforgettable relationship"
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/TheYod15.5.htm((
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Yods in Chart Comparison
Now what if you meet someone who has a planet in their chart that sits opposite the midpoint of your two
sextile planets? This makes a Yod whenever the two of you are together and can add a compulsive note to therelationship.
This was discussed in detail in “The Yod Book” by Karen Hamaker-Zondag, a work that I highly recommend.
She goes into detail about how this worked out in the Clinton-Lewinsky-Tripp-Starr affair and I am going tosummarize her findings here.
Monica Lewinsky has a sextile in her horoscope between Venus (love) in Leo (28 degrees and 27 minutes) and
Saturn (ambition and obstacles) in Gemini (28 degrees and 57 minutes). Venus sits close to the fixed star
Regulus, the Royal Star.
An active Regulus in the horoscope is supposed to bring you into contact with royalty or, at least, very powerfulpeople. It depends on the planet contacting Regulus on exactly how this contact is made and which part of the
anatomy of the powerful person it will be made with.
Linda Tripp was born with the Moon in Capricorn (28 degrees and 6 minutes) and Jupiter in Capricorn (28degrees and 51 minutes). This filled in the Yod in Monica’s horoscope and also opposed Monica’s Mercury, which
was at 25 degrees and 7 minutes of the sign Cancer. Remember that Monica was born with Mercury in the 10thhouse and that tends to bring what you say before the public.
So here we have Linda Tripp who doesn’t like Clinton and thinks his behavior is immoral (both her Moon and
Jupiter, her Sun-sign ruler in straight-laced Capricorn), she meets Monica, and their charts form thatcompulsive, fated pattern called a Yod. But the story, as we know, didn’t end here. The question still remains,
why did this incident get that big and effect the entire country so strongly? Was it because it involved thepresident of the United States? So did the affairs he had with Paula Jones, Geniffer Flowers, and a former Miss
America.
What’s the difference here? It turns out that Linda Tripp’s horoscope wasn’t the only one that filled in the Yodin Monica’s chart.
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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #28 - on: 19.05.2017 at 11:09 [UT+1] »Sorry I'm not on YOD topic but have some general ideas/questions.
I know very little about this art form but I noticed every significant relationship I ever had in my life (love andfriendship) had 1 or 2 requiring aspects.
So...This made me think that for every individual there is one or two keys of aspects of significance in Synastry.
Something to do with our journey and what we need to work through in life.
My second thought is that many long term couples and important relationships don't have good aspects tobegin with. They might have Saturn- to make it long lasting or something that pulls people together for ahigher purpose: be it career, family etc...It is not usually all fluffy and sweet.
So yeah...Interested in what you think about one aspect always coming up.

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Re: What is important to Synastry chart« Reply #29 - on: 19.05.2017 at 11:35 [UT+1] »you get along with others, its in your chart
You make extra efforts to keep the relationship going-that can be also be found in the chart
But what make two people feel attracted to each otherour shared outlook, beauty/handsomeness/mannerism etc but same can be sought to justify through astrology
Through various themes, synastry , vertex , Yod trigger , Nodal connections, eros/juno/psych/amor /plutomoon etc
but to pinpoint a single theme or which has most re-occurence...really one need to be expert in Gauquelin
methods/statistical astrology/special softwares...people are into it..there were some results in the websites andPosts: 3813

one can google these
http://www.spiritual.com.au/2011/07/marriage-when-will-you-marry/

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