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Krista ShippMemberWhen Venus ISN'T your friend« on: 26.09.2011 at 17:40 [UT+1] »Good aspects that your & someone elses' ND make to each other charts are warm, lovely- if positive
But venus - b is lazy...possessive
You have to be careful that the same D aspects that started out as warm fuzzies
CAN end up with someone being nosy about your life, taking liberties....envy
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #1 - on: 26.09.2011 at 17:45 [UT+1] »Krista, I don't get what you mean

Is this thread about Venus in synastry in general?

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Genetrix« Reply #2 - on: 26.09.2011 at 18:06 [UT+1] »MemberKrista,Can you give us some examples?
Are you saying that with Venus, too much of a good thing can be a bad thing? I imagine Jupiter aspects fit
into that category also.
ETA: Here is an example (me and my husband)... perhaps you could use our Venus aspects to elaborate?
My Venus conjunct his Mercury (exact)
My Venus sextiles his Ascendant (2 degree orb)
My Venus squares his Jupiter (almost 10 degree orb)

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His Venus conjuncts my Sun (2 degree orb)
His Venus squares my Moon (6 degree orb)
His Venus opposes my Nepune (5 degree orb) <--I consider Neptune my chart ruler
His Venus trines my Pluto (0 degree orb)
My Moon's Node trines his Sun (exact) <---Sun is his chart ruler (Leo Rising)
My Moon's Node sextiles his Saturn (2 degree orb)
His Moon's Node sextiles my Sun
His Moon's Node biquintiles my Moon (o degree)
His Moon's Nodes opposes my Pluto (o degrees)
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #3 - on: 26.09.2011 at 18:40 [UT+1] »You know what's lovely in synastry?

DpD. You'll always like a person that you have that in synastry with.

I think friendship is important in any relationship.
This is a nice topic, Krista
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #4 - on: 26.09.2011 at 20:34 [UT+1] »Quote from Michelle on 26.09.2011 at 18:40 [UT+1]:
You know what's lovely in synastry?

DpD. You'll always like a person that you have that in synastry with.

I think friendship is important in any relationship.
This is a nice topic, Krista

No wonder I love that little hottie barista Kevin. My Df p 's his Db to the degree.

Never thought about"liking" a Dj though... that seems a bit far fetched.

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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #5 - on: 27.09.2011 at 00:32 [UT+1] »Juliet- When I started this thread I was thinking more offriendships & inter family relationships.....
You have lovely D aspects with your husband...
Hopefully there are some other squares for .....spice
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The person I love most deeply in this world has D b

p my Df... His Eh is p my Ed....
My A m his ASC...

I loved him when I was a young girl & I still do
As I have SN m n D exactly- its very likely that we were together in other lifetimes..
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #6 - on: 27.09.2011 at 00:57 [UT+1] »The Venus Trine Venus does play out nice in synastry now that you mention it. Long affectionate relationshipfriendship together with a few of those. The spice is with some other things. Sometimes too spicy andsometimes too boring depending which sign. Virgo can get boring if they have too much. Venus does getbored if Virgo tries to play her role. Scorpio can get too nasty and Leo can be spicy and dicy.
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #7 - on: 27.09.2011 at 01:09 [UT+1] »If FORCED to choose- I'd rather be aggravated to death than bored to death....

I make a mental note to 'watch ny nouth'....
With CmJ e I can, at times be very insulting if
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #8 - on: 27.09.2011 at 01:13 [UT+1] »Is that Pluto on Regulus? That would be spicy knowledge and power. A lot of the Pluto power was probably
because Pluto with Regulus made it seem really powerful.

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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #9 - on: 27.09.2011 at 01:18 [UT+1] »The Virgo is going to be cheap tightwad and boring toward Venus. Never going to give her due.

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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #10 - on: 27.09.2011 at 01:40 [UT+1] »Quote from Ms. Miranda on 26.09.2011 at 20:34 [UT+1]:
Quote from Michelle on 26.09.2011 at 18:40 [UT+1]:
You know what's lovely in synastry?

DpD. You'll always like a person that you have that in synastry with.

I think friendship is important in any relationship.

No wonder I love that little hottie barista Kevin. My

Df p's his Db to the degree.

Never thought about "liking" a

Dj though...

that seems a bit far fetched.

Kevin, lol!
Why wouldn't you like a Dj?
My doggie's a Dj, and she has nice hair, teeth and skin
The signs that trine my D are early h and l. I like both of those.
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #11 - on: 27.09.2011 at 04:50 [UT+1] »Quote from Michelle on 27.09.2011 at 01:40 [UT+1]:
Quote from Ms. Miranda on 26.09.2011 at 20:34 [UT+1]:
Quote from Michelle on 26.09.2011 at 18:40 [UT+1]:
You know what's lovely in synastry?

DpD. You'll always like a person that you have that in synastry with.

I think friendship is important in any relationship.

No wonder I love that little hottie barista Kevin. My

Df p's his Db to the degree.

Never thought about "liking" a

Dj though... that seems a bit far fetched.
Kevin, lol!

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My doggie's a

Dj?

Dj, and she has nice hair, teeth and skin

The signs that trine my

D are early h and l. I like both of those.

I don't know... It just doesn't sound very sexy. Maybe it is, but it sounds kind of demanding actually... like I
have to "keep up appearances" or something. I had a really good guy friend in high school who has this, but
the degree is off too much to actually trine my venus.
A Dl sounds sweet. I'd probably make a man like that cry, though, with my Eh
You'd really like my friend Kathy... AgeAC Dh...

Sigh... I want to be 22 again.
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #12 - on: 27.09.2011 at 05:01 [UT+1] »Miranda,Oh, I see. I also meant female friends, as well as friendship for men and women in a relationship.
A Dl sounds sweet. I'd probably make a man like that cry, though, with my Eh
Lol. Seriously, though, I kind of doubt it since it might trine.
would appeal to me anyway.

Dl or El are romantics, the ones that

You'd really like my friend Kathy... AgeAC Dh...
Oh, yes. Sometimes you just know, don't you!
There's always a road trip in my future
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #13 - on: 27.09.2011 at 05:04 [UT+1] »Quote from Ms. Miranda on 27.09.2011 at 04:50 [UT+1]:
Quote from Michelle on 27.09.2011 at 01:40 [UT+1]:
Quote from Ms. Miranda on 26.09.2011 at 20:34 [UT+1]:
Quote from Michelle on 26.09.2011 at 18:40 [UT+1]:
You know what's lovely in synastry?

DpD. You'll always like a person that you have that insynastry with.
I think friendship is important in any relationship.

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Dj though... that seems a bit far fetched.

No wonder I love that little hottie barista Kevin. My
about "liking" aNever thought

Kevin, lol!
Why wouldn't you like a
My doggie's a

Dj?

Dj, and she has nice hair, teeth and skin

The signs that trine my

D are early h and l. I like both of those.

I don't know... It just doesn't sound very sexy. Maybe it is, but it sounds kind of demanding actually... like I have to "keep up
appearances" or something. I had a really good guy friend in high school who has this, but the degree is off too much to actually trine myvenus.

A Dl sounds sweet. I'd probably make a man like that cry, though, with my Eh
You'd really like my friend Kathy...

AgeACDh...

Sigh... I want to be 22 again.

Venus in l will let your Eh freak out. You will not be able to grab them emotionally......... tbh I hate their"love y'all" style
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #14 - on: 27.09.2011 at 10:18 [UT+1] »Quote from Krista Shipp on 27.09.2011 at 01:09 [UT+1]:
If FORCED to choose- I'd rather be aggravated to death than bored to death....

I make a mental note to 'watch ny nouth'....
With

CmJ e I can, at times be very insulting if

someone gets me going...

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KristaI hear ya!
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #15 - on: 27.09.2011 at 11:57 [UT+1] »j is underestimated in the sexual dept... They can have a deep sexuality..
Ej in men is particularly.... horny~~~~~~ we fall all too easily into 'stereotypes'
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Ms. Miranda
Member« Reply #16 - on: 27.09.2011 at 12:29 [UT+1] »Quote from Michelle on 27.09.2011 at 05:01 [UT+1]:
Miranda,Oh, I see. I also meant female friends, as well as friendship for men and women in a relationship.
A

Dl sounds sweet. I'd probably make a man like that cry, though, with my Eh

Lol. Seriously, though, I kind of doubt it since it might trine.
You'd really like my friend Kathy...

Dl or El are romantics, the ones that would appeal to me anyway.

AgeACDh...

Oh, yes. Sometimes you just know, don't you!

There's always a road trip in my future
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EXCELLENT!
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #17 - on: 27.09.2011 at 12:33 [UT+1] »Quote from Schneckchen on 27.09.2011 at 05:04 [UT+1]:

Venus inl will let your Eh freak out. You will not be able to grab them emotionally......... tbh I hate their "love y'all" style

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Dl confuse me too much. Eh here.

My dad has Dl, mum has Dd and my sister has Dh while I am the odd one out with Dk.
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #18 - on: 27.09.2011 at 12:35 [UT+1] »Quote from Krista Shipp on 27.09.2011 at 11:57 [UT+1]:

j is underestimated in the sexual dept... They can have a deep sexuality..
Ej in men is particularly.... horny
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KristaI dated a DjEk who couldn't keep it in his pants. His Ai and Bk.
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #19 - on: 27.09.2011 at 15:44 [UT+1] »I'm not keen on air D placements. Not that I haven't had dear friends with one. My son and mom both have
Dk. Their kind of odd ducks. They don't really get relating on an emotional level even though both of them
are capable of being sensitive people. It's a paradox. I kid you not. When I talk to my mom and I'm emotional,
she's always looking from my eyes to my mouth. She moves her lips as if she's reading my lips and notlistening. It's weird. Both of them look at me blankly, like I'm being observed by an android on a mission froman outland colony.

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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #20 - on: 27.09.2011 at 16:06 [UT+1] »True female friends have been scarse for me. Many became my friends because of wanting my lover or husband.
I have ODCenNk 7th. Women have been a great source of pain and anguish for me.
I have two faithful true female friends. One is an early k, the other an early h...
At my age, this is all I need or ask for. I believe the k has a Venus that opposes mine and the other has Venus
that squares... then again challenging aspects have been good to me in a sense.

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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #21 - on: 27.09.2011 at 16:30 [UT+1] »Quote from Ms. Miranda on 27.09.2011 at 15:44 [UT+1]:

D

Dk

I'm not keen on air
placements. Not that I haven't had dear friends with one. My son and mom both have
. Their kind of odd
ducks. They don't really get relating on an emotional level even though both of them are capable of being sensitive people. It's a paradox.
I kid you not. When I talk to my mom and I'm emotional, she's always looking from my eyes to my mouth. She moves her lips as if
she's reading my lips and not listening. It's weird. Both of them look at me blankly, like I'm being observed by an android on a mission

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from an outland colony.

so true! i just finished long distance relationship with a guy who had DAC in k and E in j Bf. he could
get super sensitive when his issues came up but had a difficult time understanding me when i got upset.
we had my DmO in h square his DmC in k... and week after we broke up he was already in another long
distance relationship.. really really childish.
i think the worst square combination.. for myself also.. venus and uranus, scorpio/aquarius have no businessbeing together. i have to find a better expression of these to energies in my life, instead of attracting physicallyand emotionally unavailable men.
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #22 - on: 27.09.2011 at 18:48 [UT+1] »I'm not keen on D air placements.

Ms Miranda- you got that right.....
WHAT are you & I going to do with a Dk or Dc
with our natal Df ???
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #23 - on: 27.09.2011 at 19:34 [UT+1] »perhaps venus air signs should stick to each other because they can relate to each other. i hate to generalize or
stereotype.

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would love to here from some people with venus in these signs and how it works out for them... what venus
signs work for them in their partners.
i have sag and uranus strongly influencing my relationship areas in my chart, but i also have pisces and scorpio
mixed in there to... so it's a contradiction in myself that i need to work through. on one hand, mentally, i canunderstand being attracted other people, and not taking every connection you have with someone so seriously
and i've been there.. but emotionally i can't help but feel the need for deep intimacy and connection with
whoever i connect with. and maybe this has to do with me getting older

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Krista ShippMember« Reply #24 - on: 27.09.2011 at 19:43 [UT+1] »I have only I in an air sign- g...
My chart is mostly water & fire with a little earth thrown in....for mudpies

K
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My ASC is 25 d..... I don't get on great- in general with late gems & most d's
I always watch whats going on with the 12th house

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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #25 - on: 27.09.2011 at 20:28 [UT+1] »Quote from NeptuneMoon on 27.09.2011 at 19:34 [UT+1]:
perhaps venus air signs should stick to each other because they can relate to each other. i hate to generalize or stereotype.
would love to here from some people with venus in these signs and how it works out for them... what venus signs work for them in theirpartners.

Well I don't mind giving it a go - might be off topic though... we'll see:Also, I don't have a massive long list of partners to compare...
So, first relationship the guy had Venus in Aries, lasted 5 1/2 years - in general I didn't think he connected tohis emotions enough and he could not relate to women as real people at all.
Second had Venus right on the cusp of Scorpio/Sagittarius, lasted 15 years, we're still friends (or rather, we'refriends again now). He had loads of planets in critical degrees and as my Venus is at 28+ degrees Gemini I
think my Venus worked for him in lots of ways rather than the other way round.
Third, you would have thought a match made in heaven - his Venus in Scorpio conjunct my Neptune, his Moon
conjunct Pluto exactly on my Leo Moon - he was/is a typical product of the English public school system, really
emotionally repressed, could not handle my emotions and feelings at all, despite my supposedly intellectual
Venus. We are really good friends, in fact I think I am his best friend - to try and take it further than that was
just totally unworkable. As lovers we lasted a couple of years, as friends, probably forever.
Of course there's way more to it than just Venus... It's worth noting that all those people who are really
important to me whether friends, children, siblings etc, they all have Venus in either water or earth signs - I
tend to think they enjoy having the opportunity to talk about stuff without it becoming too 'heavy' or involved
but at the same time being understood...
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #26 - on: 28.09.2011 at 01:39 [UT+1] »Quote from Krista Shipp on 27.09.2011 at 18:48 [UT+1]:
WHAT are you & I going to do with a

Dk or Dc

Keep them on speed dial to help us with our computers?

I have to say, though. I do love a man what has Dg. I'll make that "air" exception.

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Krista ShippMember« Reply #27 - on: 28.09.2011 at 01:43 [UT+1] »EXCELLENT !!
We will allow this....

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Gender:I'm a venus libra, mars scorpio.
I can work with anyone and usually do. I do feel most comfortable with someone who puts out the energy, so I
can mirror that and put it out also. I think thats why I'm a libra. If someone is a bit out there with dealing withme, then so be it, I will be too! But I know my standards, and never exceed my limits.
For all those who are trying to stay away from the detached air venus', I'll be frank with you. Why?
This is the last sign to hold a grudge or quartz mine into anything. They don't feel the things you do. They
don't pick up on the subtlety's like you do. They are an entire different species that lives on the WORD
wavelength. They express their love to you by telling you things they find interesting, by having fun with you,by letting you know exactly what is going on in their heads. Okay so to you it's not stable or long-lasting, andmaybe they don't hang out with you as often as you like...
But it will be fun, and interesting. You can learn a thing or too. And remember, no relationship is eversomething worth regretting. So if you like a venus in an air sign, do not fret. We're still mortals.

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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #29 - on: 28.09.2011 at 02:16 [UT+1] »Quote from coromell on 27.09.2011 at 20:28 [UT+1]:
Quote from NeptuneMoon on 27.09.2011 at 19:34 [UT+1]:
perhaps venus air signs should stick to each other because they can relate to each other. i hate to generalize or stereotype.

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would love to here from some people with venus in these signs and how it works out for them... what venus signs work forthem in their partners.

Well I don't mind giving it a go - might be off topic though... we'll see:Also, I don't have a massive long list of partners to compare...
So, first relationship the guy had Venus in Aries, lasted 5 1/2 years - in general I didn't think he connected to his emotions enough and hecould not relate to women as real people at all.
Second had Venus right on the cusp of Scorpio/Sagittarius, lasted 15 years, we're still friends (or rather, we're friends again now). He hadloads of planets in critical degrees and as my Venus is at 28+ degrees Gemini I think my Venus worked for him in lots of ways rather thanthe other way round.
Third, you would have thought a match made in heaven - his Venus in Scorpio conjunct my Neptune, his Moon conjunct Pluto exactly on
my Leo Moon - he was/is a typical product of the English public school system, really emotionally repressed, could not handle myemotions and feelings at all, despite my supposedly intellectual Venus. We are really good friends, in fact I think I am his best friend - totry and take it further than that was just totally unworkable. As lovers we lasted a couple of years, as friends, probably forever.
Of course there's way more to it than just Venus... It's worth noting that all those people who are really important to me whether friends,
children, siblings etc, they all have Venus in either water or earth signs - I tend to think they enjoy having the opportunity to talk about
stuff without it becoming too 'heavy' or involved but at the same time being understood...
Coromellthanks Coromell...
so you attracted two Dh guys, or one was on the cusp you said... i wonder how differently they deal with
their scorpio venus as opposed to a woman with scorpio venus.. its so difficult to generalize, but i suppose
gender would be taken into account with this whole discussion. maybe an air venus women would be good witha watery venus guy.. but the reverse would be more challenging.

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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #30 - on: 28.09.2011 at 02:38 [UT+1] »Shadow is Awesome...
air signs are an entirely different species.. and i love and appreciate them as well.. maybe we watery signs can

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learn a little more detachment and perspective from our feelings, and you'll can learn a little more about
subtlety's.. or we can just learn to love each other for what we are. with my 8th house Dh, i have to work on
having fun in my relationships sometimes

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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #31 - on: 28.09.2011 at 02:41 [UT+1] »sorry krista.. hope it doesn't seem like i hijacked your thread.....

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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #32 - on: 28.09.2011 at 02:57 [UT+1] »My best friend is Dk. She is the nicest person and good friend however...
when we go out just to catch upon things and talk....she always ends up talking about 90% of the time, and not even about herself - there isusually some sort of crisis in her family. She can be a good listener too but in totally random manner....it's justlike her emotional radar is all over the place

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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #33 - on: 28.09.2011 at 03:27 [UT+1] »I think one should consider the aspects the planet makes before the sign placement. I have Venus in Geminiand i really think i'm atypical of this placement. My Venus is closely conjunct my Mars Gemini...it makes aperfect sextile to my Leo Moon and a square to my Pluto Virgo. I know i have stated over and over thenumerous relations i have with the water signs, especially Scorpios... Moons, Suns amd ASCs.
My first long term (6 years) relationship was with a man who has Venus Pisces. My ex-husband has Venus in
Scorpio (as well as Mars), and my current husband has Venus Taurus. My daughter's father has Venus
Aries/Mars Pisces.
In fact, i dont think ive had any long term relationships with air Venus or Mars. Now, i have had at least three
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significant people in my life (friends and lovers) with Gemini Moons...but one is a Scorpio Sun and one is a
Pisces Sun and one is a Sagittarius Sun...but all three moons conjunct my Venus.

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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #34 - on: 28.09.2011 at 04:40 [UT+1] »Quote from Ms. Miranda on 27.09.2011 at 15:44 [UT+1]:
I'm not keen on air

D placements. Not that I haven't had dear friends with one. My son and mom both have Dk. Their kind of odd

ducks. They don't really get relating on an emotional level even though both of them are capable of being sensitive people. It's a paradox.
I kid you not. When I talk to my mom and I'm emotional, she's always looking from my eyes to my mouth. She moves her lips as if
she's reading my lips and not listening. It's weird. Both of them look at me blankly, like I'm being observed by an android on a mission
from an outland colony.

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My son has Dk and my daughter Dg and my mom has a Dc. A kinda painful experience for my Dd
I am emotional and clingy *sigh* and they hate that.
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #35 - on: 28.09.2011 at 04:42 [UT+1] »Quote from nameinuse on 27.09.2011 at 12:33 [UT+1]:
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Venus inl will let your Eh freak out. You will not be able to grab them emotionally......... tbh I hate their "love y'all"

style

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My dad has

Dl, mum has Dd and my sister has Dh while I am the odd one out with Dk.

Here, here, here
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #36 - on: 28.09.2011 at 10:07 [UT+1] »Quote from NeptuneMoon on 28.09.2011 at 02:16 [UT+1]:
thanks Coromell...
so you attracted two

Dh guys, or one was on the cusp you said... i wonder how differently they deal with their scorpio venus as opposed

to a woman with scorpio venus.. its so difficult to generalize, but i suppose gender would be taken into account with this whole discussion.
maybe an air venus women would be good with a watery venus guy.. but the reverse would be more challenging.

thanks for sharing

I guess the other thing to say is that Venus isn't really about emotions as such, that's much more the provinceof the Moon. Venus is more about love as in art, that which delights, which makes our heart sing. For my airy
Gemini Venus that has a lot to do with aesthetic expression through words. One of the Venus in Scorpio guys
worked as an artist with fireworks and fire in general, for the other the one thing in the world which really madehis heart sing was racing cars. Looked at that way there's nothing incompatible between their passions andmine and they sure did love that they could talk to me about it.
Venus is also about things, possessions and how we relate to others. I did find Scorpio Venus wanted me to be
theirs, they wanted some sense of ownership - that doesn't sit too easily with Gemini Venus, it was never areally big deal though, I suppose with my Venus in the 8th house I could understand something of where they
were coming from.
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #37 - on: 28.09.2011 at 11:51 [UT+1] »Quote from Schneckchen on 28.09.2011 at 04:42 [UT+1]:
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Gender:Venus inl will let your Eh freak out. You will not be able to grab them emotionally......... tbh I hatetheir "love y'all" style

I think a Dd j or b would be ideal for me. Dl confuse me too much. Eh here.
My dad has

Dl, mum has Dd and my sister has Dh while I am the odd one out with Dk.

Here, here, here

Haha!! I have Dk remember.
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #38 - on: 28.09.2011 at 15:50 [UT+1] »Quote from nameinuse on 28.09.2011 at 11:51 [UT+1]:
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Venus inl will let your Eh freak out. You will not be able to grab them emotionally.........

tbh I hate their "love y'all" style

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Gender:I think a Dd j or b would be ideal for me. Dl confuse me too much. Eh here.
My dad has

Dl, mum has Dd and my sister has Dh while I am the odd one out with Dk.

Here, here, here

Haha!! I have

Dk remember.

So? Your point?
In your case the mars is more important
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #39 - on: 28.09.2011 at 16:47 [UT+1] »Neptune Moon, a guy with a hD, that shows the kind of lady he's drawn to, his aesthetics. House andaspect/s are going to add to that.
Coromell, I saw your thread about H8 D, that you have that placement, so it makes sense that you'd attract

Dh men.
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #40 - on: 28.09.2011 at 17:55 [UT+1] »Quote from Michelle on 28.09.2011 at 16:47 [UT+1]:
Neptune Moon, a guy with ahD, that shows the kind of lady he's drawn to, his aesthetics. House and aspect/s are going to add to that.

Coromell, I saw your thread about H8

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Gender:D, that you have that placement, so it makes sense that you'd attract Dh men.

Just wondering due to the H8D, cause I use to attract men with Dh. Is it more due to my Dd or my Sun in
the 8th house? Or both?

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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #41 - on: 29.09.2011 at 00:21 [UT+1] »Quote from Schneckchen on 28.09.2011 at 15:50 [UT+1]:
So? Your point?
In your case the mars is more important

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Gender:My E dominates my D. So you are correct there.
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #42 - on: 29.09.2011 at 00:58 [UT+1] »Quote from Schneckchen on 28.09.2011 at 17:55 [UT+1]:

D, cause I use to attract men with Dh. Is it more due to my Dd or my Sun in the 8th house? Or both?

Just wondering due to the H8Yes, it would be your H8 D no matter the sign it's in. It's called an affinity.
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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #43 - on: 29.09.2011 at 01:39 [UT+1] »Quote from Ms. Miranda on 26.09.2011 at 20:34 [UT+1]:
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You know what's lovely in synastry?

DpD. You'll always like a person that you have that in synastry with.

I think friendship is important in any relationship.
This is a nice topic, Krista

No wonder I love that little hottie barista Kevin. My

Df p's his Db to the degree.

Never thought about "liking" a

Dj though... that seems a bit far fetched.
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Gender:Michelle... I stand corrected...

I just looked at the chart of a man I know that I really get along very wellwith. Unfortunately, he's married.

Ah Dj eB Eh (he's foreign to boot, which my 9th house Df likes)

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Re: When Venus ISN'T your friend« Reply #44 - on: 29.09.2011 at 03:09 [UT+1] »Well, thanks for that

You don't stand corrected very often!

I'm glad you can see the D trines are working smoothly for you
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