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ElskedeMemberAquarius-cusped 7th house« on: 09.09.2007 at 12:45 [UT+1] »I would enjoy hearing the thoughts/reflections and experiences of those whose 7th house is cusped by
Aquarius. Among other things, what kinds of partners, romantic or platonic, have you had? Married folks - wereyour marriages early or late in life? Or multiple partners? Can you describe these relationships?
Do you find you have a penchant for attracting eccentric men who like LOTS of independence and freedom,which would be natural because that is how you are and what you need in a relationship? Or do you findyourself puzzled by relationships?

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Re: Aquarius-cusped 7th house« Reply #1 - on: 09.09.2007 at 13:59 [UT+1] »Hi Elskede,
I guess you're asking for Leo risings, right? Aquarius on the DC?
I've had three long-term committed relationships in my life (two years or more), and very little in between. The
first was with an Aquarius sun, the second with an Aquarius moon, and the third (my husband) with Aquarius
nothing. However, his AC conjuncts my Uranus exactly and we have a tight Sun-Uranus opposition in ourcomposite. Rather than that being the "dooming" aspect for our commitment and longevity, it keeps things
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Gender:constantly fresh and new and exciting enough that "long term" always feels like "just met".
In my teens and early 20s, I often conflated my romantic and platonic relationships. I was "one of the guys,"
but more often than not in love with one more of my guy friends while steadfastly hanging on to amonogomous "romantic" partnership that was anything but.
I also have a Venus-Uranus opposition, so that could help explain my "platonic romances" as well.
I enjoy the company of Aquarians and have rarely, if ever, met one I didn't like. My brother's Aquarius sun isexactly sextile my sun, and we were thick as thieves growing up. Friendships and other partnerships seem toflow along naturally and seamlessly. Of course, their Aquarius whatever trining my Gemini moon and sextilingmy sun helps too, I'm sure. Wackiness is deeply comforting to me.
I married at the normal age, 28, but pretty much consider my previous 8 year monogomous relationship (withabove-mentioned Aquarius moon man) an unofficial marriage. That started at 18 years old, so it counts as earlycommitment I'm sure.
I hope that answered your questions and didn't go off topic!
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Re: Aquarius-cusped 7th house« Reply #2 - on: 09.09.2007 at 14:18 [UT+1] »Quote from arigem on 09.09.2007 at 13:59 [UT+1]:
Hi Elskede,
I guess you're asking for Leo risings, right? Aquarius on the DC?
I've had three long-term committed relationships in my life (two years or more), and very little in between. The first was with an
Aquarius sun, the second with an Aquarius moon, and the third (my husband) with Aquarius nothing. However, his AC conjuncts my Uranus
exactly and we have a tight Sun-Uranus opposition in our composite. Rather than that being the "dooming" aspect for our commitment
and longevity, it keeps things constantly fresh and new and exciting enough that "long term" always feels like "just met".
In my teens and early 20s, I often conflated my romantic and platonic relationships. I was "one of the guys," but more often than not inlove with one more of my guy friends while steadfastly hanging on to a monogomous "romantic" partnership that was anything but.
I also have a Venus-Uranus opposition, so that could help explain my "platonic romances" as well.
I enjoy the company of Aquarians and have rarely, if ever, met one I didn't like. My brother's Aquarius sun is exactly sextile my sun, andwe were thick as thieves growing up. Friendships and other partnerships seem to flow along naturally and seamlessly. Of course, their
Aquarius whatever trining my Gemini moon and sextiling my sun helps too, I'm sure. Wackiness is deeply comforting to me.

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I married at the normal age, 28, but pretty much consider my previous 8 year monogomous relationship (with above-mentioned Aquarius
moon man) an unofficial marriage. That started at 18 years old, so it counts as early commitment I'm sure.
I hope that answered your questions and didn't go off topic!
arigemHeya Arigem,
Yuppers, Leo Asc, Aquarius Desc.
I am trying to gain perspective professionally by hearing for others. I have it, too, but I do not want to takethings solely from my persective -- as I realize I am wacky and I like wacky, heehee.
Yes I think your 8 year relationship certianly counts as commitment. Marriage as we know it is only a fairly
recent Judeo-Christian religious construct taken from pagan handfasting and other partnership commitment
ceremonies. How Aquarian/Uranian.
My Dad was an Aquarius Sun. I have attracted three Aquarius Sun men who did not ever get started as a real
relationship... only a lot of talking and then we fizzled out after a few days or weeks. Those Water-Bearer men
can pour on the charm but I knew from my father that it was shiny dazzle only. Oh, and they all want to befriends after the ending. That usually works for me as I don't mind being friends with folks (and have lots ofplatonic men friends).
But I have attracted men who seem to bear Aquarius/Uranian characteristics -- artistic, musicians, men into
astrology and alternative spirituality, hermetic and creative, and in almost all cases, they were men fromanother country who wanted a long-distance (ergo, uusual) relationship. Some were simply form anotherculture or ethnic background.
My progressed Saturn is Rx in my 7th house. I am thinking ... "late" marriage to a older artistic or eccentric
man who is so different from me it may be laughable...and we may even live in separate houses in different
countries! Or, of course, I never marry at all.
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Re: Aquarius-cusped 7th house« Reply #3 - on: 10.09.2007 at 03:29 [UT+1] »With the exception of my best friend, I have always preferred male company to female. Men discuss things thatare of greater interest to me. I look like a girly girl but don't really fit the part. Growing up, I never had muchin common with other girls, was never obsessed with finding a fellow. My daily routine then consisted of school,
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2 hours of piano, band or dance practice. I never felt isolated; to me, it was absolutely normal. (Uranus
conjunct Asc) The woman who raised me was a former prom queen, found me abnormal and would wonder out
loud if I needed professional help. Fortunately my dad didn't mind that I was never a social butterfly with a fulldance card. Beside, dancing was for the stage or physical fitness, not some dark room filled with corpulent
shadows.
I never consciously seek out men for partnerships. I suppose hanging out and talking with them has warned me
not to share a bathroom with one. The men who come after me tend to be foreign (or exotic), materialistic,
with well-hidden complexes. Most would see them as worldly & charming. They had a subtle ability to bully
others, usually through guilt about socio-economic class warfare, and to keep you in the relationship until abetter meal-ticket was found. I was never devastated when splitting up; I was usually relieved after the initialanger with myself for being fooled.
Aside from being the ATM and maid of the relationship, I was also the fashion accessory. One would never allow
me out of the house in pants, which was problematic in winter. (I was young then.) Another wanted me torepresent some ethnic fetish of his. I was basically the sportscar or gadget men show off to other men.
I think parents of my generation did a disservice to their daughters by expecting or forcing them (if the girls
had independent Uranian streaks) to be nice and accommodating no matter what. They should have taught us
to stand up for ourselves instead of forcing us to learn to do so the hard way. It was as if they believed it betterfor us to be or feel violated than to disappoint or to hurt someone's feelings. It didn't help that many parents
used their daughters to gain social currency with their friends or associates, justifying everything with the guilt
trump-card. I can't help but wonder what percentage of battered women had been raised that way.
I am at the point where I have no interest in new relationships and find myself running from anyone who
expresses any interest in or desire for me. Is this the Chiron conjunct Dsc? With my job, it's not really feasible,
except for those who aren't ashamed to do crummy work. My progressed Venus will trine my natal moon next
spring; I'm hoping it will bring better careeer opportunities rather than romance.
Of the 2 worst relationships, I noticed that 1 guy hated dogs, while the other was indifferent to them. This may
be a useful things for others to keep in mind. If a man can't have any compassion for an animal who lives toplease his/her human, it isn't likely he'll be very kind to people.

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Re: Aquarius-cusped 7th house« Reply #4 - on: 10.09.2007 at 08:33 [UT+1] »It just occurred to me that a lot of men that I attract seem to have masculinity issues. It's as if they think
being around someone who looks very feminine will lead others to believe they are virile. I don't have thisproblem with men who see me as an 'honorary man.'Posts: 183

I also had a stalker for about 2-1/2 to 3 years. My then partner used to get very angry with me whenever hesaw the guy and seemed to blame me for it even though I had no idea who this person was. In fact, I didn't
even notice him; it was others who had brought him to my attention. As this was in the days prior to themurder of the actress that prompted anti-stalking laws, the police told me they couldn't do anything until I was
attacked. I ended up leaving a town and lifestyle I really liked when this person moved into my apartmentbuilding.

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Re: Aquarius-cusped 7th house« Reply #5 - on: 10.09.2007 at 23:02 [UT+1] »Hello allLeo rising here. Planets in the 7th, the position and aspects of Uranus and planets in Libra, and Venus must be
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Gender:considered since these are the accidental and natural 7th house rulers for Leo rising charts.
I have been married three times, have lived with three significant others (women) & have one child. I have notlived with a woman for 18 years now. I was a woman chaser when in my twenties and thirties. I was very
interested in sex & my emotions were very involved. But Im 61 now and romance, sex and relationships nolonger fit in my "top 10".
Depending upon whether it was Libra & Venus attraction or Uranian attraction the women were very diffirent.
As I look out from my Leo Ascendant across to the Aquairan Descendant, I have a very unemotional outlook
toward partnerships. The Aquarius I desire is freedom from having to compromise. I am very content with thepresent. It was not always that way.
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Re: Aquarius-cusped 7th house« Reply #6 - on: 11.09.2007 at 17:31 [UT+1] »Quote from Dayna on 10.09.2007 at 03:29 [UT+1]:
With the exception of my best friend, I have always preferred male company to female. Men discuss things that are of greater interest tome. I look like a girly girl but don't really fit the part. Growing up, I never had much in common with other girls, was never obsessed withfinding a fellow. My daily routine then consisted of school, 2 hours of piano, band or dance practice. I never felt isolated; to me, it wasabsolutely normal. (Uranus conjunct Asc) The woman who raised me was a former prom queen, found me abnormal and would wonder out
loud if I needed professional help. Fortunately my dad didn't mind that I was never a social butterfly with a full dance card. Beside,
dancing was for the stage or physical fitness, not some dark room filled with corpulent shadows.
I never consciously seek out men for partnerships. I suppose hanging out and talking with them has warned me not to share a bathroom
with one. The men who come after me tend to be foreign (or exotic), materialistic, with well-hidden complexes. Most would see them asworldly & charming. They had a subtle ability to bully others, usually through guilt about socio-economic class warfare, and to keep you in
the relationship until a better meal-ticket was found. I was never devastated when splitting up; I was usually relieved after the initialanger with myself for being fooled.
Aside from being the ATM and maid of the relationship, I was also the fashion accessory. One would never allow me out of the house inpants, which was problematic in winter. (I was young then.) Another wanted me to represent some ethnic fetish of his. I was basically the
sportscar or gadget men show off to other men.

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I think parents of my generation did a disservice to their daughters by expecting or forcing them (if the girls had independent Uranianstreaks) to be nice and accommodating no matter what. They should have taught us to stand up for ourselves instead of forcing us tolearn to do so the hard way. It was as if they believed it better for us to be or feel violated than to disappoint or to hurt someone's
feelings. It didn't help that many parents used their daughters to gain social currency with their friends or associates, justifying everythingwith the guilt trump-card. I can't help but wonder what percentage of battered women had been raised that way.
I am at the point where I have no interest in new relationships and find myself running from anyone who expresses any interest in ordesire for me. Is this the Chiron conjunct Dsc? With my job, it's not really feasible, except for those who aren't ashamed to do crummy
work. My progressed Venus will trine my natal moon next spring; I'm hoping it will bring better careeer opportunities rather than romance.
Of the 2 worst relationships, I noticed that 1 guy hated dogs, while the other was indifferent to them. This may be a useful things forothers to keep in mind. If a man can't have any compassion for an animal who lives to please his/her human, it isn't likely he'll be verykind to people.

Dayna,
Thanks for sharing this! After reading it a few times, and this may of course sound cliche, it seem to me thatyou sure pulled them in with your Leo Asc but you really need an Aquarian type of relationship. They saw youas The Queen (and a hottie!) -- someone/something to display on a throne or on an arm...but at heart you
really wanted a more equal kind of relationship. Is that what you now project - the kind of woman who wantequal, not special treatment? I mean...are yo now projecting the real you - that woman who needs a friend
first, an intensely sensitive and loving intimate partner second?
I think you WILL find someone...perhaps later....and it WILL work. The Chiron conjunct Descendatn is anindicator of wounds in committed relatonships/marriage, but ALSO it is an indicator that there is healing there
for you, too.

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