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JuniperLee
Memberanti social« on: 22.02.2011 at 23:39 [UT] »this is a chart of a previous roomie. he lived with me for 6 months. he is a traveling nurse. in the beginning hepresented himself in a very sociable, communial manner. a very calm and collected manor. it was a total facade.
he had to travel because he keeps loosing jobs because he causes chaos where ever he works. before he left
here he had butted heads with the chief of surgery. he said a previous employer sent him for a psych eval, andthe conclusion was he had anti social personality disorder. i saw signs in him before he told me this. he felt
comfortable explaining how hard his life was and how it was everyones elses fault. he also stated he knew hisbehavior was ruining his life. he said he refused to change. never. he had a very negative view of everyday
situations and zero positive outlook in life. he was very manipulative towards me. in a very sneaky subtle way.
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Gender:he was very clingy and needy. poor boundaries. i had to keep reminding him of the 5ft rule. he was extremly
passive aggressive. he was also extremly HAPHAZZARD. i noticed he studied my every move and remembered
all conversations. he said he had no friends and didnt want any either. but that wasnt true at all. my questionis, how much does uranus play out in his personality? this is the 1st person i have met with uranus aspects intheir chart.
JL

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Linda Harris

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Re: anti social« Reply #1 - on: 23.02.2011 at 03:10 [UT] »I think you need to figure out how your intuition and maybe your 'process' for picking roommates let you down
really bad to let this obviously dysfunctional person into your life AND home....esp. you home!

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You once said you're not judgemental. I think you need to be more judgemental....or discerning...ordiscriminating.
Maybe you could find an agency who can screen your roommates....checking all their references....if you reallyneed a roommate.
Your judgement doesn't seem to work. And since Neptune rules your 4th, you are playing with danger.
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JuniperLee
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Re: anti social« Reply #2 - on: 23.02.2011 at 09:10 [UT] »he was chosen because he seemed very professional and congenial. you have to remember, these individuals
have a highly polished facade. its usually a part of covering up the dysfunction. he had excellant renting
refrences according to the agency, good credit, and steadily employed. facades are what they are. the only way
to see if there is a facade is to get to know a person. since i am more discerning now, it took me about amonth to see through him. i confronted him on it and he was pretty much open about it. he is what he is. i
have no more communication with him. he was a great opportunity to exercise my boundary skills, which i
think worked out well. i had to have a room mate because i became very ill and had to take time off from work.

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Gender:it was that or loose my house. thanks for the heads up on the neptune in the 4th. i was told many years ago tobe very careful who i let into my home. i always wondered why. JL

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Linda Harris

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Re: anti social« Reply #3 - on: 24.02.2011 at 17:32 [UT] »Well, if you learned something from the experience, and were not hurt, then it was well worth it.
I have never had to share my home with a stranger. I don't know if I could do it without looking first at theperson's birth chart. LOL....
I was once very trusting. I am much more cynical now. I think a balance is good, but for someone coming
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into your house, well, I guess that is what astrology is for!
If it can't help in a practical situation...it's not being used well.
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Re: anti social« Reply #4 - on: 24.02.2011 at 21:56 [UT] »i agree lainie. thats why i looked into the charts of the girls i will be staying with. living arraingments are nojoke.

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