GRINDR HOLISTIC
SECURITY GUIDEINTRODUCTION
The LGBTIQ+ community is vibrant, strong, creative, and resilient—in large part
because it has had to be. Across the globe, LGBTIQ+ people continue to experience
discrimination, inequality, violence and abuse because of their sexual orientation andgender identity. In the face of these threats and challenges, our ever-resourcefulqueer community has turned to internet—and more specifically, social networks—for
safer communication, networking, and mobilizing.
With users worldwide, Grindr has
become a vital part of the communityand has flourished as a unique placefor queer people to connect. But
while Grindr is intended as a safe
space, it’s features also have thepotential to put users at risk.

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Safety is not merely the responsibility of users, and Grindr is continuously seeking todevelop and improve its security features—not only to protect users, but also toprovide them with critical safety information needed to ensure a safe experience.
As part of these ongoing efforts, Grindr for Equality has partnered with LGBTIQ+ andhealth activists and organizations around the world—as well as our users—on a Holistic
Security Guide that encompasses multiple areas of user safety. Thanks to theirinvaluable feedback and advice, we’re now able to share this important information to
help users enjoy their Grindr experience while staying safe.

This guide will follow the harm reduction approach, so everyone can continue using
Grindr with raised awareness about how to reduce the harm that may come to us.
Harm reduction is an approach from public health. It is designed to lessen thenegative social and/or physical consequences associated with various humanbehaviors, while recognizing the inherent risk in some everyday activities.

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WHAT
IS HOLISTIC SECURITY?
Holistic security is an approach that integrates digital security, personal safety, andself-care into traditional security management practices.
For our purposes we will breakdown the guide as follows:

DigitalSecurity

Personal
SafetySelf-care&well-being

DIGITAL SECURITY
Digital security refers to practices used toprotect online users, devices, and datafrom unauthorized access or cyberattacks. If you live someplace where“It is little use to dig a well after
the house has caught fire.”

being LGBTIQ+ puts you in danger, here

~Indian proverb

are some important steps you can take toensure your safety while using Grindr.

Don’t Post Pictures with Identifiable Features:If you live in a place where having your identity shown on Grindr puts you at risk, there
are many ways to use the app without putting yourself in danger.
Don’t show your face or any other identifiable feature, including tattoos, furniture, home decoration,or surrounding scenery.
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Clear metadata when you take a photo. Cameras automatically add metadata when you take a photo.
This hidden info can include location, date, time, and location of the photo. Even if a photo doesn’tshow your face or any other details that could expose your identity, a photo’s metadata can still be
used to learn a great deal of information about you. There are many apps that remove this data foryou before sharing photos with strangers.
If you are chatting with someone and would like to send a picture, consider blurring certain
identifiable features to mask who you are. It can still be a nice and fun way to share pictures withpeople, without fully showing yourself. Remember, blurring doesn't always work because some
software can reverse the blur feature. Try using a picture that represents you in a different way suchas one related to your hobbies or personality.
For more information on how to blur your pictures on Android phones, check the following link:

https://guardianproject.info/apps/obscuracam
For IOS users:

https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/blur-photos-free-for-iphone-ipad-and-ipod-touch/
id931207837?mt=8
When talking to people you don’t know well, it’s better to cover the camera on your smartphone,laptop, or tablet. For Android users you can do it digitally with the Camera Blocker app.

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Scenario 1

Julio is a 35-year-old who often dates people he meets online. He
had always felt that the app was a fun and safe way to hook up
with other men. One day, Julio sent some pictures with his
workplace visible in the background to someone who turned out tobe a blackmailer. This person blackmailed Julio for over a month,threatening to expose him to his colleagues at his work.
What could Julio have done differently?
Julio could have avoided showing his face in the pictures, andcould have made sure that they didn’t include other distinctive
details, such as his workplace or anything else that could reveal
his identity and potentially endanger his safety.

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Meet in A Safe Location:
Sharing your home address can be risky. Make sure you feel comfortable with someone prior
to meeting. If you are ready to meet someone, try meeting at a place known to be friendly to
LGBTQ+ people if there is one in your area. If you want to continue chatting outside of Grindr,
consider using secure messaging apps that use end-to-end encryption. A few of theseinclude: Wire, Signal, Jitsi, and Appear. Please note on Wire you don’t need to register withyour phone number, you can simply register with an email address if you want to. In Signal,
you can set a time for the messages to be deleted. After a specified period of time yourconversation will automatically disappear.

Don’t Use Personal Info in Your Grindr Profile:Do not specify your name, address, phone number, or any other info that could help
identify you in your profile. Displaying your personal info on Grindr increases the risk of
someone identifying your social media profiles.

Don’t Connect Your Social Media Accounts:
Some apps allow or require you to login with another social media account. Connecting
between different social media and communication tools can give someone ways offinding info about you. If that’s the case, consider the following steps:

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finding info about you. If that’s the case, consider the following steps:
Use a different name on Grindr than with other social media apps.
Provide a different phone number and email address than you usually use.
Don’t connect or sign in through social media, if possible. If required, have a separate social media
account just for for logging in to social networking apps.
Don’t provide a phone number unless absolutely necessary.

Chat Sessions are Saved on Both Phones (Yours and Theirs):
Don’t share any personal info, photos or videos that you wouldn’t ordinarily share withstrangers. In some countries this information can be used as legal evidence that could leadto imprisonment.

Avoid Browsing Online via Wi-Fi Hotspot:
Wi-Fi hotspots in public places such as airports, coffee shops, libraries, and hotels areconvenient, but too often aren’t secure. If there is no alternative option to using these
insecure networks, and if there are no legal implications to do so, we recommend that you
always use a virtual private network (VPN) on your phone. For more information about VPNs,
check out the following links:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virtual_private_networkhttps://www.psiphon3.com
https://nordvpn.com
https://www.tunnelbear.com

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Always Update Your Phone’s Software:
Software updates keep you safe from known security threats and will frequently provide newfeatures and speed enhancements. Smartphone users running outdated software may bevulnerable to attackers gaining privileged control (known as “root access” in Android systems
and “jailbreaking” in iOS systems) of their devices, allowing them to read the messages inyour social networking apps. It is important to pay attention to updates from an official
source, such as Google Play, F-droid, or The Apple App Store.
For more info on root access and jailbreaking check out:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rooting_(Android)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IOS_jailbreaking

Enable Remote Wipe for Your Smartphone:It’s good to be able to remotely wipe your smartphone so that if your info, photos, etc. fall
into the wrong hands you’re able to clear it. If your phone is stolen, you want to make surethat any sensitive information on it can be easily wiped. For more info on how you canremotely wipe your phone, check the following links:
https://support.google.com/accounts/answer/6160491?hl=en
https://support.apple.com/kb/PH2701?locale=en_US
https://preyproject.com
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Protect the Photos and Videos on Your Phone:
If you must carry sensitive pictures or videos on your phone, make sure they are securely
stored. You can move them to private galleries on your phone or use online applications suchas Photo Vault.

Secure Your Grindr App with A PIN:
Grindr users can configure their Grindr app to open to a “Enter Security PIN” screen where
they must enter a 4-digit pin to start Grindr. You can also hide your app using the Discreet
App Icon option, which disguises the Grindr icon as something more discreet like a camera or
calculator app.
These features were developed for Grindr users in countries where being LGBTQ may put
people in the most danger, like the countries where being gay is punishable by the death
penalty. It is available to users in the rest of the world as part of Grindr Xtra and Unlimited.

Hide Distance in Your Grindr Profile:
Users can disable “Show Distance” in their profile and cascade. This may help if you live ina dangerous environment and do not want any unwanted people knowing where you are.
In some countries where being LGBTQ may put people in particular danger, the distancefeature is already disabled for everyone.

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Hide from Explore Searches:
Grindr users can choose not to be found via “Explore” searches, which allow people whoaren’t nearby to browse your area.
In some countries where being LGBTQ may put people in particular danger, profiles are
already hidden from searches.

Block Profiles:
If you feel you are communicating with someone in Grindr who might jeopardize your safety,
you can block them so that they cannot find or interact with you on the app.

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Scenario 2

Ahmed is 25 years old and lives with his family. He has a habit ofhanding over his phone to his mother, brother, or a curious friend tocheck things out. One day, Ahmed gave his phone to his sister tolook at some family pictures. His sister accidently saw his Grindr
profile and his nudes in the photo gallery.
What could Ahmed have done differently?
Ahmed could have avoided handing his phone to others, butsince he does this often and doesn’t want to raise suspicions, hecould lock Grindr with a pin code and change the app icon.
Moreover, he could have locked all his private pictures andvideos in a locked vault app. Finally, when shooting private
videos, Ahmed could also begin by shooting a few seconds of hishand covering the lens. This will result in a completely black
thumbnail in his media gallery, making it harder to immediately
spot these videos.

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GRINDR HOLISTIC SECURITYGUIDE SAFETYPERSONAL
Personal Safety refers to the freedom from physical harm, as well as freedom from hostility,
aggression, harassment, and loss of ability to control over one’s body. When it comes topersonal safety on social networks, it’s important that you develop common sense responses
to keep you safe. If you live in a place where being LGBTIQ+ puts you in danger, here aresome important steps you can take to ensure your personal safety while using Grindr.

Do A Background Check on Your Date:
If you’re talking to someone on Grindr and you decide to meet in real life, it’s best to checkthem out via people who may know them or search for them on Google or social media.

Meet First in A Safe Public Space:
When meeting for the first time with people you don’t know, it’s best to meet in a public
place. It’s important to meet somewhere LGBTIQ+ friendly, or at least not known to be“unfriendly”.

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Let A Friend Know Where You’re Meeting:It’s always a good idea to have people know where you’ve gone. It is also best to have an
emergency plan. For example, have a friend come meet you if you don’t call them after acertain period. Also, when you meet someone for the first time, try not to carry too many
personal items such as credit cards or cash. There are some useful applications that help
you track your steps for your personal safety such as “Trusted Contacts” and “My Family
Tracker”.

Clear Phone When Meeting Strangers:
When you go to meet a date from the app, clear any sexual conversations, images, andvideos. Don’t save contact names in your phone that contain sexual identifications such as
Top/Bottom/Hornet/Grindr or any other sexual description.

Avoid Excessive Alcohol and Drug Use:If you go on a date with someone you don’t know well, avoid drinking too much alcohol orusing drugs. Don’t agree to take any unknown drinks or substances. Drinking and using drugs
may decrease your ability to identify a situation as potentially dangerous.

If You Get Arrested:
If you should get into a situation where you are arrested, do not confess or admit to anything.
Even if they have proof, stay silent. Find out about organizations or groups in your area thatprovide direct legal services like an LGBTIQ+ organization or a more general human rights
organization.
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GRINDR HOLISTIC SECURITYGUIDE & WELL-BEING
SELF-CARE
Fear, anxiety, burnout, stress, and trauma
have a negative impact on our health. It
hinders our ability to think properly andmake rational decisions about our safety
and security. This is why self-care and“Caring for myself is not an
indulgence, it is self-preservationand that is an act of political
warfare.”well-being are a core part of our holistic
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Take Care of Your Mind and Body:
It’s important to take care of your mental
and physical health. Always have open,
healthy conversations with the people inyour life about your mental, emotional, andphysical needs. If you are dealing with amental health condition, try not to let thestigma shape your perceptions about
yourself. Remember, there is absolutely no
shame in asking for help if needed.
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Take Care of Your Body:
It’s important to take care of your body, which can help reduce feelings of anxiety anddepression. Taking care of your body starts with watching your sleep, diet, exercise, etc. But
as it’s been said, “Everybody is different, and every body is different” so always remember
there is no one way to take care of yourself and there is no single form for the perfect body.
Learn the appropriate ways and means to take care of your body and set your own goals.

Take Care of Your Sexual Health:Get tested regularly for HIV and other STIs. Do it at least three times per year, and always
have conversations with the people you meet about your safety expectations. For more
information about sexual health visit the Grindr Sexual Health Resource Center:
https://grindr.me/sexualhealthYour Body Is Yours:
Don’t let anyone make you feel that your sexuality is abnormal. Don’t let anyone body shame
you or tell you what you like isn’t best for you. And don’t let anyone pressure you into having
sex if you do not wish to do so.
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Collective Community Support:
As queer global community, there is no reason for us to be hostile to each other, as the world
can already be cruel to people like us. It is our duty to be there for one another when it feels
like the world is failing us. Your queer friends sometimes become your chosen family, so let
us make a promise today to be there for each other -- be nice, considerate and supportive inreal life and online. Together we can build a world we all dream of, one that is free fromdiscrimination, stigma, racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia and any form of violence.

Our Differences Make Us Unique:
In the dating world we often forget that we are talking to human beings with different
backgrounds, life experiences, identities, and choices. We must make the effort to treat
people with respect, politeness, and kindness. We need to be more considerate to thedifferences that make us magnificently diverse and unique. Always ask if you don't know.
Don’t assume!
For more information on how together we can amplify the conversation and take steps
towards a kinder, more respectful community visit the following link:
https://www.kindr.grindr.com

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Scenario 3

Shirin is a 29-year-old transgender woman and a courageous activist in her
country. Shirin was talking with someone she had known online for a while, but
she stopped when she noticed that he wasn’t respecting her identity and hewasn’t treating her as a woman. He kept asking for certain things in theirsexual relationship that she did not like. A few days later, Shirin received amessage on her Facebook from him with a link. After she opened the link, she
noticed that there were threatening messages that began to arrive on her
personal email. The messages were aggressive and non-stop. She became very
stressed. She felt her safety was compromised and her privacy was violated
because she never shared her Facebook profile or her personal email address
with this person.

What could Shirin have done differently?
Shirin could have shared less personal information with this person, which
probably led him to her Facebook and her personal email address. By
sharing this information, she gave her attacker the means to stalk heroutside the app. Now she needs to change her passwords. She could also
talk to a digital security expert, who would be able to make sure no
tracking software or malware had been downloaded on her phone.

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Below you will find a series of questions that will allow you to understand your level ofholistic security. The purpose of these questions is to help you reflect on your own thoughts
about your safety. It’s also designed to help you question whether you’re ensuring thehighest level of protection in your dating experiences and daily life as a queer person.

Digital Security Checklist:
Do you share pictures showing your face or any other identifiable featureswith strangers?
Do you regularly update the software and operating system on yourphone?
Are your sensitive images and videos securely locked inside an encrypted
file or app?
Does your phone have up-to-date anti-virus and anti-malware installed?
Do you delete metadata from images before sharing with others?
Do you use public Wi-Fi in hotels, airports, or cafes without connecting
through a VPN?
Do you use a PIN code for Grindr?
Do you use a password, pattern, or fingerprint for your mobile lock screen?
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Personal Safety Checklist:
Do you usually vet people you talk to or date on Grindr?
When you go on a date, do you tell your trusted friends where you are?
Do you always make sure to meet strangers in public places before you
bring them home?
Do you clear your phone of sexual chats and sensitive images before you
go on a date?
Do you have knowledge of your legal rights if you’re arrested?

Self-Care Checklist:
Are you aware of your physical, emotional, and psychological needs?
Do you know how to set boundaries?
Do you find it easy to support yourself and believe you’re worthy of care?

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Do you maintain dietary habits that keep you healthy, happy, andcomfortable with your body?
Do you know what your strengths are and do you know how to incorporate
them into your life and work relationships?
Do you get medical care when necessary and for prevention?
Do you have people in your life you can talk to about important things?
Do you practice self-love and give yourself positive affirmations andpraise?

G4E is continually looking for ways to be of service to the LGBTQ
community. If you’d like to learn more about G4E or have questions
please contact us at equality@grindr.com.

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