What? Me Worry!?!
What? Me Worry!?!

What? Me Worry!?!
Module 9
Accepting Uncertainty
Introduction

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Intolerance Of Uncertainty

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Challenging Intolerance Of Uncertainty

3Accepting Uncertainty

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Worksheet: Accepting Uncertainty

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Module Summary

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About the Modules

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Introduction
As mentioned briefly in earlier modules, the inability to tolerate uncertainty tends to be a unique feature ofpeople who experience generalised anxiety and excessive worrying. This module aims to examine yourneed for certainty, to look at how this need keeps worrying going, to describe ways of challenging thisneed, and to discuss how to ultimately accept uncertainty in your life.

Intolerance Of Uncertainty
The inability to tolerate uncertainty is an attitude many people have towards life. Whenone has this attitude, uncertainly, unpredictability, and doubt are seen as awful andunbearable experiences that must be avoided at all costs. People who hate uncertainty andneed guarantees may:
•Say things like: “I can’t cope not knowing,” “I know the chances of it happening are sosmall, but it still could happen,” “I need to be 100% sure.”•Prefer that something bad happens right now, rather than go on any longer not knowing what theeventual outcome will be•

Find it hard to make a decision or put a plan or solution in place, because they first need to know how
it will work out.

If you have this attitude of being unable to stand uncertainty, then you may perceive worrying to be useful
to you. Remember those positive beliefs about worry that we have already covered in Module 6? You may
think that worrying is a way of preparing yourself for the worst – getting you readyfor anything that might happen. Worrying is seen as a way of attempting to predict
life so that there are no nasty surprises. As such, worrying reduces your experienceof uncertainty and unpredictability. And because worrying reduces your feelings ofuncertainty, you will continue worrying and worrying and worrying. In other words,
you keep worrying because you believe it is your only strategy for making things inlife more certain and more predictable – it helps you believe that you have morecontrol.
In reality, has your worrying made anything more certain or more predictable? By worrying, does it change
the outcome of what will happen? Isn’t life still as uncertain and unpredictable as it ever was? It is only
your perception that you somehow have more control by worrying. But is this really true? In fact, all you
have done is think of all the worst case scenarios and worked yourself up and made yourself feel really badin the process. So, ask yourself, is it really worth it? Does having a ‘fake’ sense of certainty justify all thenegative consequences of worrying?
If your answer is ‘No’, then there are two ways you can tackle your intolerance of uncertainty, which
require skills you have developed throughout these modules. You can:
Challenge your intolerance of uncertaintyandLet go of your intolerance of uncertainty (or Accept uncertainty)
By addressing your need for certainty, you are dealing with one of your positive beliefs about worry, which
drive you to keep worrying. So by reducing your need for certainty, you will reduce the drive to worry.

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Challenging Intolerance Of Uncertainty
You should be quite familiar with the challenging process by now. You can use this process to dissect yourintolerance of uncertainty and question your need for certainty. Do the exercise below and ask yourself
some questions to chip away at your need for certainty. These questions can help you to see that trying toeliminate uncertainty and unpredictability from your life is both impossible and unhelpful.
Can you be absolutely certain about everything in life?

What are the advantages of requiring certainty inlife? How has needing certainty in life been helpful to you?

What are the disadvantages of requiring certainty
in life? How has needing certainty in life been unhelpful toyou or detrimental to your life?

Do you tend to predict that something bad will
happen, just because you are uncertain? Is this areasonable thing to do? Could something good or neutral bejust as likely to happen?

What is the likelihood that the things you predict
will actually happen? If the likelihood tends to be low,
could you live with this small chance?

Are there some uncertainties in your life that you
can live with? How do you do this? Can you do the samething in situations where you have difficulty tolerating
uncertainty?

Talk to the people you know. Ask how they copewith the uncertainty and unpredictability of life?
Could you do the same thing they do in situations where you
have difficulty tolerating uncertainty?

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What was your answer to the last two questions in the ‘Challenging Intolerance Of Uncertainty’
worksheet? One question asked about how you tolerate uncertainty in certain areas of your life. Theother question asked about how other people tolerate uncertainty in their lives. Chances are you came up
with a similar answer to both questions, which might sound something like: There is nothing I can do about it,
so I just have to accept it and move on.
Letting go of your need for certainty and accepting uncertainty as being an inevitable part oflife, can be easier said than done. When demanding certainty and predictability, our attention
is very future-focused as our mind worries in an attempt to gain certainty. Therefore, theskills you have developed from your postponement exercises in Module 3, and attention
training exercises in Module 4, will be of some assistance when it comes topracticing acceptance of uncertainty.
The first step is recognising or acknowledging when you are feeling the needfor certainty and wanting to use worry to achieve this. Then making the active
choice to not respond to that need, and instead let go and accept uncertainty, by turning yourattention to being more present-focused rather than future-focused. Being more presentfocused can help bring about an acceptance of uncertainty. If you are focused on the present rather than
the future, then uncertainty about the future is less likely to bother you. Obviously, your mind may drift
back to wanting certainty and control in life, but just repeat the steps again of being aware, not responding
and letting the need for certainty go.
Let’s look at these steps towards acceptance of uncertainty in more detail. Below is an example, but use
the worksheet on page 5 to put in your own words what would help you let go of your need for certainty.

EXAMPLEBe Aware“I’m telling myself how terrible or unbearable not knowing is”; “I’m seekingreassurance”; “I’m getting this agitated and restless feeling that comes withnot knowing what will happen”; “I’m worrying about things I can’t be certainof”; “I can’t make a decision because I need to be sure of the outcome first”.

Don’t
Respond“It is interesting to notice that in this situation I have a need for certainty,predictability, a guarantee…this need is leading me to worry. I’ll just sit withthese feelings a little while…observing and noticing them for a bit”.

Let Go“My need for certainty is unnecessary…uncertainty is just a part of life…I’ll
just let my need for certainty go, and accept uncertainty” (Visualise yourneed for certainty floating past you like clouds in the sky or as you breatheout say under your breath “let go” or “accept”).

Be PresentFocused“I will bring my attention to the present. I’m noticing my breathing rightnow. When I inhale I can feel my belly rise. When I exhale I can feel my belly
fall. I feel a release as the air flows out of my lungs….etc. I now notice mybody sitting in this chair, how the seat supports my back, bottom, backs of mylegs…I feel the weight of my feet resting heavy on the ground…etc”.

Deal With A
Wandering
Mind“Ah, my mind has wandered back to needing certainty. That’s okay. I’ll justbring my attention back to the present. Back to noticing my breathing…”

Once you have completed both worksheets (pages 3 & 5), remember that challenging and acceptanceare two different techniques you can use to address your need for certainty. Try both techniques and see
which works better for you. Use either of them, or a combination of the two. But remember, both
require effort and lots of practice to be effective in addressing your need for certainty.
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Accepting Uncertainty
Be Aware
What do you notice yourself doing when you are needing certainty?

Don’t Respond
What can you tell yourself to help you not respond to your need for certainty?

Let GoWhat can you tell yourself to help you let go of your need for certainty?

Be Present-Focused
What can you tell yourself to help you be more present focused?

Deal with a Wandering Mind
What can you tell yourself to help you when your mind wanders back to needing certainty?

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Module Summary•

If your attitude to life is that you need certainty and predictability, then you might often engage inworrying because you think it might help you achieve this•Worrying gives you the illusion of certainty, as you may think it prepares you for the worst, so there
are no surprises. But, certainty is an impossible thing to achieve in life, and worrying only gives you a‘fake’ sense of certainty. After all, even Benjamin Franklin was heard to have said, “In this world
nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes.”•

As part of treating your worry, you need to address your need for certainty•

You can challenge your need for certainty by asking:•Can I ever really achieve certainty?

What are the advantages and disadvantages of demanding certainty?

Do I predict bad things when I’m uncertain? Could good things be just as likely to happen?

What is the probability of what I predict happening?

Are there times I can tolerate uncertainty? What do I do then?

How do others tolerate uncertainty? Can I learn from them?

You can let go of your intolerance of uncertainty and learn to accept uncertainty by:
Being aware of your need for certainty

Not responding to this need by worrying, by instead just observing this need.

Making the decision to let go of this need and instead accept uncertainty

Being focused on the present (i.e., breathing, bodily sensations, surroundings) to help achieve
acceptanceRefocussing your mind on the present moment, when it wonders back to needing certainty.

Coming up next …
In the next module we will bring
together everything you have learned,
so you can maintain and further thegains you have made.

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About The Modules

What? Me Worry!?!

CONTRIBUTORSDr Lisa Saulsman (MPsych1; PhD2)Centre for Clinical Interventions
Paula Nathan (MPsych1)
Director, Centre for Clinical Interventions
Adjunct Senior Lecturer, School of Psychiatry and Clinical
Neuroscience, The University of Western Australia
Dr Louella Lim (DPsych3)
Centre for Clinical Interventions
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Masters of Psychology (Clinical Psychology)

Dr Helen Correia (MApp Psych1; PhD2)Centre for Clinical Interventions
Dr Rebecca Anderson (MPsych1; PhD2)Centre for Clinical Interventions
Bruce Campbell (MPsych1)
Centre for Clinical Interventions

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Doctor of Philosophy (Clinical Psychology)3

Doctor of Psychology (Clinical)

Some of the materials in the modules of this information package were taken from:
Saulsman, L., Anderson, R., Campbell, B., & Swan, A. (2015). Working with Worry and Rumination: AMetacognitive Group Treatment Programme for Repetitive Negative Thinking. Perth, Western Australia:
Centre for Clinical Interventions.

BACKGROUND
The concepts and strategies in the modules have been developed from evidence based psychologicalpractice, primarily Metacognitive Therapy (MCT). MCT is a type of psychotherapy developed by Professor
Adrian Well’s at the University of Manchester. MCT is an extension of Cognitive-Behaviour Therapy(CBT) and is based on the theory that repetitive negative thinking, such as chronic worry in generalised
anxiety, is a result of problematic metacognitions (i.e., beliefs about thinking) and behaviours. There is goodscientific evidence to support that targeting metacognitions and behaviours in therapy can help many people
to overcome generalised anxiety. Examples of this evidence are reported in:
McEvoy, P. M., Erceg-Hurn, D. M., Anderson, R. A., Campbell, B. N. C., Swan, A., Saulsman, L. M., Summers,M., & Nathan, P. R. (2015). Group metacognitive therapy for repetitive negative thinking in primary andnon-primary generalized anxiety disorder: an effectiveness trial. Journal of Affective Disorders, 175, 124132.

REFERENCES
These are some of the professional references used to create the modules in this information package.
Barlow, D.H. (2002). Anxiety and Its Disorders: The Nature and Treatment of Anxiety and Panic (2nd ed.).
London: Guilford Press.
Heimberg, R.G., Turk, C.L., & Mennin, D.S. (2004). Generalized Anxiety Disorder: Advances in Research andPractice. New York: Guilford Press.
Wells, A. (1997). Cognitive Therapy of Anxiety Disorders: A Practice Manual and Conceptual Guide. Chichester,UK: John Wiley & Sons Ltd.
Wells, A. (2008). Metacognitive Therapy for Anxiety and Depression. New York: Guilford Press.

“WHAT? ME WORRY!?!”This module forms part of:Saulsman, L., Nathan, P., Lim, L., Correia, H., Anderson, R., & Campbell, B. (2015). What? Me Worry!?!
Mastering Your Worries. Perth, Western Australia: Centre for Clinical Interventions.
We would like to thank Mandy Nathan, Psychologist, Oxfordshire, England, for the suggestion of a "worry puss" forthe theme character of this Information Package
ISBN: 0-9751985-9-9
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