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EPICTETUS.

Very little is known of the life of Epictetus. It is said that he was anative of Hierapolis in Phrygia, a town between the Maeander and abranch of the Maeander named the Lycus. Hierapolis is mentioned in the
epistle of Paul to the people of Colossae (Coloss. iv., 13); from which
it has been concluded that there was a Christian church in Hierapolis in
the time of the apostle. The date of the birth of Epictetus is unknown.
The only recorded fact of his early life is that he was a slave in Rome,and his master was Epaphroditus, a profligate freedman of the Emperor
Nero. There is a story that the master broke his slave's leg bytorturing him; but it is better to trust to the evidence of Simplicius,
the commentator on the Encheiridion, or Manual, who says that Epictetus
was weak in body and lame from an early age. It is not said how hebecame a slave; but it has been asserted in modern times that theparents sold the child. I have not, however, found any authority forthis statement.
It may be supposed that the young slave showed intelligence, for his
master sent or permitted him to attend the lectures of C. Musonius
Rufus, an eminent Stoic philosopher. It may seem strange that such amaster should have wished to have his slave made into a philosopher; but
Garnier, the author of a "Mémoire sur les Ouvrages d'Epictète," explains
this matter very well in a communication to Schweighaeuser. Garniersays: "Epictetus, born at Hierapolis of Phrygia of poor parents, wasindebted apparently for the advantages of a good education to the whim,
which was common at the end of the Republic and under the firstemperors, among the great of Rome to reckon among their numerous slaves
grammarians, poets, rhetoricians, and philosophers, in the same way asrich financiers in these later ages have been led to form at a greatcost rich and numerous libraries. This supposition is the only one which
can explain to us how a wretched child, born as poor as Irus, hadreceived a good education, and how a rigid Stoic was the slave of
Epaphroditus, one of the officers of the imperial guard. For we cannot
suspect that it was through predilection for the Stoic doctrine, and for
his own use, that the confidant and the minister of the debaucheries of
Nero would have desired to possess such a slave."
Some writers assume that Epictetus was manumitted by his master, but I
can find no evidence for this statement. Epaphroditus accompanied Nerowhen he fled from Rome before his enemies, and he aided the miserable
tyrant in killing himself. Domitian (Sueton., Domit. 14), afterwards put
Epaphroditus to death for this service to Nero. We may conclude that
Epictetus in some way obtained his freedom, and that he began to teachat Rome; but after the expulsion of the philosophers from Rome by
Domitian, A.D. 89, he retired to Nicopolis in Epirus, a city built by
Augustus to commemorate the victory at Actium. Epictetus opened a school

or lecture room at Nicopolis, where he taught till he was an old man.
The time of his death is unknown. Epictetus was never married, as welearn from Lucian (Demonax, c. 55, torn, ii., ed. Hemsterh., p. 393).
When Epictetus was finding fault with Demonax, and advising him to takea wife and beget children, for this also, as Epictetus said, was aphilosopher's duty, to leave in place of himself another in theuniverse, Demonax refuted the doctrine by answering: Give me then,Epictetus, one of your own daughters. Simplicius says (Comment., c. 46,
p. 432, ed. Schweigh.) that Epictetus lived alone a long time. At last
he took a woman into his house as a nurse for a child, which one of
Epictetus' friends was going to expose on account of his poverty, but
Epictetus took the child and brought it up.
Epictetus wrote nothing; and all that we have under his name was written
by an affectionate pupil, Arrian, afterwards the historian of Alexander
the Great, who, as he tells us, took down in writing the philosopher's
discourses ("Epistle of Arrian to Lucius Gellius," p. i). These
Discourses formed eight books, but only four are extant under the titleof [Greek: Epichtaeton diatribai]. Simplicius, in his commentary on the[Greek: Egcheiridion] or Manual, states that this work also was put
together by Arrian, who selected from the discourses of Epictetus what
he considered to be most useful, and most necessary, and most adapted tomove men's minds. Simplicius also says that the contents of the
Encheiridion are found nearly altogether and in the same words invarious parts of the Discourses. Arrian also wrote a work on the lifeand death of Epictetus. The events of the philosopher's studious life
were probably not many nor remarkable; but we should have been glad if
this work had been preserved, which told, as Simplicius says, what kindof man Epictetus was.
Photius (Biblioth., 58) mentions among Arrian's works "Conversations
with Epictetus," [Greek: Homiliai Epichtaeton], in twelve books. Upton
thinks that this work is only another name for the Discourses, and that
Photius has made the mistake of taking the Conversations to be adifferent work from the Discourses. Yet Photius has enumerated eightbooks of the Discourses and twelve books of the Conversations.
Schweighaeuser observes that Photius had not seen these works of Arrian
on Epictetus, for so he concludes from the brief notice of these works
by Photius. The fact is that Photius does not say that he had read thesebooks, as he generally does when he is speaking of the books which heenumerates in his Bibliotheca. The conclusion is that we are not certainthat there was a work of Arrian entitled "The Conversations of
Epictetus."
Upton remarks in a note on iii., 23 (p. 184, Trans.), that "there aremany passages in these dissertations which are ambiguous or rather
confused on account of the small questions, and because the matter is
not expanded by oratorical copiousness, not to mention other causes."
The discourses of Epictetus, it is supposed, were spoken extempore, andso one thing after another would come into the thoughts of the speaker

(Wolf). Schweighaeuser also observes in a note (ii., 336 of his edition)that the connection of the discourse is sometimes obscure through theomission of some words which are necessary to indicate the connection of
the thoughts. The reader then will find that he cannot always understandEpictetus, if he does not read him very carefully, and some passages
more than once. He must also think and reflect, or he will miss themeaning. I do not say that the book is worth all this trouble. Every man
must judge for himself. But I should not have translated the book, if I
had not thought it worth study; and I think that all books of this kindrequire careful reading, if they are worth reading at all.
G.L.

THE ENCHEIRIDION,
OR MANUAL.
I.
Of things some are in our power, and others are not. In our power are
opinion ([Greek: hupolaepsis]), movement towards a thing ([Greek:
hormae]), desire, aversion ([Greek: echchlisis]), turning from a thing;and in a word, whatever are our acts. Not in our power are the body,property, reputation, offices (magisterial power), and in a word,
whatever are not our own acts. And the things in our power are by nature
free, not subject to restraint or hindrance; but the things not in our
power are weak, slavish, subject to restraint, in the power of others.
Remember then, that if you think the things which are by nature slavish
to be free, and the things which are in the power of others to be yourown, you will be hindered, you will lament, you will be disturbed, youwill blame both gods and men; but if you think that only which is yourown to be your own, and if you think that what is another's, as itreally is, belongs to another, no man will ever compel you, no man willhinder you, you will never blame any man, you will accuse no man, youwill do nothing involuntarily (against your will), no man will harm you,
you will have no enemy, for you will not suffer any harm.
If then you desire (aim at) such great things remember that you must not(attempt to) lay hold of them with a small effort; but you must leavealone some things entirely, and postpone others for the present. But if
you wish for these things also (such great things), and power (office)and wealth, perhaps you will not gain even these very things (power andwealth) because you aim also at those former things (such great things);
certainly you will fail in those things through which alone happinessand freedom are secured. Straightway then practise saying to every harshappearance: You are an appearance, and in no manner what you appear to
be. Then examine it by the rules which you possess, and by this firstand chiefly, whether it relates to the things which are in our power orto things which are not in our power; and if it relates to anythingwhich is not in our power, be ready to say that it does not concern you.
II.
Remember that desire contains in it the profession (hope) of obtainingthat which you desire; and the profession (hope) in aversion (turningfrom a thing) is that you will not fall into that which you attempt to
avoid; and he who fails in his desire is unfortunate; and he who falls
into that which he would avoid is unhappy. If then you attempt to avoid
only the things contrary to nature which are within your power you will
not be involved in any of the things which you would avoid. But if you
attempt to avoid disease, or death, or poverty, you will be unhappy.

Take away then aversion from all things which are not in our power, andtransfer it to the things contrary to nature which are in our power. But
destroy desire completely for the present. For if you desire anythingwhich is not in our power, you must be unfortunate; but of the things in
our power, and which it would be good to desire, nothing yet is beforeyou. But employ only the power of moving towards an object and retiringfrom it; and these powers indeed only slightly and with exceptions andwith remission.
III.
In everything which pleases the soul, or supplies a want, or is loved,
remember to add this to the (description, notion): What is the nature ofeach thing, beginning from the smallest? If you love an earthen vessel,
say it is an earthen vessel which you love; for when it has been broken
you will not be disturbed. If you are kissing your child or wife, saythat it is a human being whom you are kissing, for when the wife or
child dies you will not be disturbed.
IV.
When you are going to take in hand any act remind yourself what kind ofan act it is. If you are going to bathe, place before yourself what
happens in the bath; some splashing the water, others pushing against
one another, others abusing one another, and some stealing; and thus
with more safety you will undertake the matter, if you say to yourself,
I now intend to bathe, and to maintain my will in a manner conformableto nature. And so you will do in every act; for thus if any hindrance tobathing shall happen let this thought be ready. It was not this onlythat I intended, but I intended also to maintain my will in a way
conformable to nature; but I shall not maintain it so if I am vexed atwhat happens.
V.
Men are disturbed not by the things which happen, but by the opinions
about the things; for example, death is nothing terrible, for if it wereit would have seemed so to Socrates; for the opinion about death that it
is terrible, is the terrible thing. When then we are impeded, or
disturbed, or grieved, let us never blame others, but ourselves--that
is, our opinions. It is the act of an ill-instructed man to blame othersfor his own bad condition; it is the act of one who has begun to be
instructed, to lay the blame on himself; and of one whose instruction iscompleted, neither to blame another, nor himself.
VI.
Be not elated at any advantage (excellence) which belongs to another. If
a horse when he is elated should say, I am beautiful, one might endure
it. But when you are elated, and say, I have a beautiful horse, you must

know that you are elated at having a good horse. What then is your own?
The use of appearances. Consequently when in the use of appearances
you are conformable to nature, then be elated, for then you will beelated at something good which is your own.
VII.
As on a voyage when the vessel has reached a port, if you go out to getwater it is an amusement by the way to pick up a shellfish or some bulb,
but your thoughts ought to be directed to the ship, and you ought to beconstantly watching if the captain should call, and then you must throw
away all those things, that you may not be bound and pitched into theship like sheep. So in life also, if there be given to you instead of alittle bulb and a shell a wife and child, there will be nothing toprevent (you from taking them). But if the captain should call, run to
the ship and leave all those things without regard to them. But if you
are old, do not even go far from the ship, lest when you are called you
make default.
VIII.
Seek not that the things which happen should happen as you wish; but
wish the things which happen to be as they are, and you will have a
tranquil flow of life.
IX.
Disease is an impediment to the body, but not to the will, unless thewill itself chooses. Lameness is an impediment to the leg, but not to
the will. And add this reflection on the occasion of everything that
happens; for you will find it an impediment to something else, but not
to yourself.
X.
On the occasion of every accident (event) that befalls you, remember toturn to yourself and inquire what power you have for turning it to use.
If you see a fair man or a fair woman, you will find that the power toresist is temperance (continence). If labor (pain) be presented to you,
you will find that it is endurance. If it be abusive words, you willfind it to be patience. And if you have been thus formed to the (proper)
habit, the appearances will not carry you along with them.
XI.
Never say about anything, I have lost it, but say I have restored it. Is
your child dead? It has been restored. Is your wife dead? She has been
restored. Has your estate been taken from you? Has not then this also
been restored? But he who has taken it from me is a bad man. But what is
it to you, by whose hands the giver demanded it back? So long as he mayallow you, take care of it as a thing which belongs to another, as
travellers do with their inn.
XII.
If you intend to improve, throw away such thoughts as these: if I
neglect my affairs, I shall not have the means of living: unless I
chastise my slave, he will be bad. For it is better to die of hunger andso to be released from grief and fear than to live in abundance with
perturbation; and it is better for your slave to be bad than for you to
be unhappy. Begin then from little things. Is the oil spilled? Is alittle wine stolen? Say on the occasion, at such price is sold freedom
from perturbation; at such price is sold tranquillity, but nothing is
got for nothing. And when you call your slave, consider that it ispossible that he does not hear; and if he does hear, that he will do
nothing which you wish. But matters are not so well with him, but
altogether well with you, that it should be in his power for you to be
not disturbed.
XIII.
If you would improve, submit to be considered without sense and foolishwith respect to externals. Wish to be considered to know nothing; and if
you shall seem to some to be a person of importance, distrust yourself.
For you should know that it is not easy both to keep your will in acondition conformable to nature and (to secure) external things: but if
a man is careful about the one, it is an absolute necessity that he will
neglect the other.
XIV.
If you would have your children and your wife and your friends to live
for ever, you are silly; for you would have the things which are not inyour power to be in your power, and the things which belong to others tobe yours. So if you would have your slave to be free from faults, youare a fool; for you would have badness not to be badness, but somethingelse. But if you wish not to fail in your desires, you are able to dothat. Practise then this which you are able to do. He is the master ofevery man who has the power over the things which another person wishesor does not wish, the power to confer them on him or to take them away.
Whoever then wishes to be free let him neither wish for anything nor
avoid anything which depends on others: if he does not observe thisrule, he must be a slave.
XV.
Remember that in life you ought to behave as at a banquet. Suppose thatsomething is carried round and is opposite to you. Stretch out your hand
and take a portion with decency. Suppose that it passes by you. Do notdetain it. Suppose that it is not yet come to you. Do not send yourdesire forward to it, but wait till it is opposite to you. Do so withrespect to children, so with respect to a wife, so with respect tomagisterial offices, so with respect to wealth, and you will be sometime a worthy partner of the banquets of the gods. But if you take noneof the things which are set before you, and even despise them, then you
will be not only a fellow banqueter with the gods, but also a partnerwith them in power. For by acting thus Diogenes and Heracleitus andthose like them were deservedly divine, and were so called.
XVI.
When you see a person weeping in sorrow either when a child goes abroador when he is dead, or when the man has lost his property, take carethat the appearance do not hurry you away with it, as if he were
suffering in external things. But straightway make a distinction in yourown mind, and be in readiness to say, it is not that which has happened
that afflicts this man, for it does not afflict another, but it is theopinion about this thing which afflicts the man. So far as words then do
not be unwilling to show him sympathy, and even if it happens so, tolament with him. But take care that you do not lament internally also.
XVII.
Remember that thou art an actor in a play, of such a kind as the teacher(author) may choose; if short, of a short one; if long, of a long one:
if he wishes you to act the part of a poor man, see that you act thepart naturally; if the part of a lame man, of a magistrate, of a private
person, (do the same). For this is your duty, to act well the part thatis given to you; but to select the part, belongs to another.
XVIII.
When a raven has croaked inauspiciously, let not the appearance hurry
you away with it; but straightway make a distinction in your mind andsay, None of these things is signified to me, but either to my poor
body, or to my small property, or to my reputation, or to my children,or to my wife: but to me all significations are auspicious if I choose.
For whatever of these things results, it is in my power to derive
benefit from it.
XIX.
You can be invincible, if you enter into no contest in which it is notin your power to conquer. Take care then when you observe a man honored
before others or possessed of great power or highly esteemed for any
reason, not to suppose him happy, and be not carried away by theappearance. For if the nature of the good is in our power, neither envy
nor jealousy will have a place in us. But you yourself will not wish to
be a general or senator ([Greek: prutanis]) or consul, but a free man:and there is only one way to this, to despise (care not for) the thingswhich are not in our power.
XX.
Remember that it is not he who reviles you or strikes you, who insults
you, but it is your opinion about these things as being insulting. Whenthen a man irritates you, you must know that it is your own opinion
which has irritated you. Therefore especially try not to be carried awayby the appearance. For if you once gain time and delay, you will moreeasily master yourself.
XXI.
Let death and exile and every other thing which appears dreadful be
daily before your eyes; but most of all death: and you will never thinkof anything mean nor will you desire anything extravagantly.
XXII.
If you desire philosophy, prepare yourself from the beginning to beridiculed, to expect that many will sneer at you, and say, He has all at
once returned to us as a philosopher; and whence does he get thissupercilious look for us? Do you not show a supercilious look; but holdon to the things which seem to you best as one appointed by God to thisstation. And remember that if you abide in the same principles, these
men who first ridiculed will afterwards admire you; but if you shallhave been overpowered by them, you will bring on yourself double
ridicule.
XXIII.
If it should ever happen to you to be turned to externals in order toplease some person, you must know that you have lost your purpose inlife. Be satisfied then in everything with being a philosopher; and if
you wish to seem also to any person to be a philosopher, appear so to
yourself, and you will be able to do this.
XXIV.
Let not these thoughts afflict you, I shall live unhonored and be nobody
nowhere. For if want of honor ([Greek: atimia]) is an evil, you cannot
be in evil through the means (fault) of another any more than you can be
involved in anything base. Is it then your business to obtain the rankof a magistrate, or to be received at a banquet? By no means. How thencan this be want of honor (dishonor)? And how will you be nobody
nowhere, when you ought to be somebody in those things only which are inyour power, in which indeed it is permitted to you to be a man of thegreatest worth? But your friends will be without assistance! What do you
mean by being without assistance? They will not receive money from you,nor will you make them Roman citizens. Who then told you that these areamong the things which are in our power, and not in the power of others?
And who can give to another what he has not himself? Acquire money then,your friends say, that we also may have something. If I can acquiremoney and also keep myself modest and faithful and magnanimous, pointout the way, and I will acquire it. But if you ask me to lose the things
which are good and my own, in order that you may gain the things which
are not good, see how unfair and silly you are. Besides, which would you
rather have, money or a faithful and modest friend? For this end thenrather help me to be such a man, and do not ask me to do this by which I
shall lose that character. But my country, you say, as far as it depends
on me, will be without my help. I ask again, what help do you mean? It
will not have porticos or baths through you. And what does this mean?
For it is not furnished with shoes by means of a smith, nor with arms bymeans of a shoemaker. But it is enough if every man fully discharges thework that is his own: and if you provided it with another citizen
faithful and modest, would you not be useful to it? Yes. Then you also
cannot be useless to it. What place then, you say, shall I hold in thecity? Whatever you can, if you maintain at the same time your fidelity
and modesty. But if when you wish to be useful to the state, you shalllose these qualities, what profit could you be to it, if you were madeshameless and faithless?
XXV.
Has any man been preferred before you at a banquet, or in being saluted,
or in being invited to a consultation? If these things are good, you
ought to rejoice that he has obtained them; but if bad, be not grieved
because you have not obtained them. And remember that you cannot, if you
do not the same things in order to obtain what is not in our own power,
be considered worthy of the same (equal) things. For how can a man
obtain an equal share with another when he does not visit a man's doors
as that other man does; when he does not attend him when he goes abroad,as the other man does; when he does not praise (flatter) him as another
does? You will be unjust then and insatiable, if you do not part withthe price, in return for which those things are sold, and if you wish toobtain them for nothing. Well, what is the price of lettuces? An obolus
perhaps. If then a man gives up the obolus, and receives the lettuces,
and if you do not give up the obolus and do not obtain the lettuces, donot suppose that you receive less than he who has got the lettuces; foras he has the lettuces, so you have the obolus which you did not give.
In the same way then in the other matter also you have not been invited
to a man's feast, for you did not give to the host the price at which
the supper is sold; but he sells it for praise (flattery), he sells it
for personal attention. Give then the price, if it is for your interest,
for which it is sold. But if you wish both not to give the price and toobtain the things, you are insatiable and silly. Have you nothing thenin place of the supper? You have indeed, you have the not flattering ofhim, whom you did not choose to flatter; you have the not enduring of
the man when he enters the room.

XXVI.
We may learn the wish (will) of nature from the things in which we do
not differ from one another: for instance, when your neighbor's slave
has broken his cup, or anything else, we are ready to say forthwith,that it is one of the things which happen. You must know then that whenyour cup also is broken, you ought to think as you did when yourneighbor's cup was broken. Transfer this reflection to greater things
also. Is another man's child or wife dead? There is no one who would notsay, This is an event incident to man. But when a man's own child orwife is dead, forthwith he calls out, Woe to me, how wretched I am! But
we ought to remember how we feel when we hear that it has happened toothers.
XXVII.
As a mark is not set up for the purpose of missing the aim, so neither
does the nature of evil exist in the world.
XXVIII.
If any person was intending to put your body in the power of any man
whom you fell in with on the way, you would be vexed; but that you put
your understanding in the power of any man whom you meet, so that if heshould revile you, it is disturbed and troubled, are you not ashamed at
this?
XXIX.
In every act observe the things which come first, and those which follow
it; and so proceed to the act. If you do not, at first you will approach
it with alacrity, without having thought of the things which will
follow; but afterwards, when certain base (ugly) things have shown
themselves, you will be ashamed. A man wishes to conquer at the Olympic
games. I also wish indeed, for it is a fine thing. But observe both thethings which come first, and the things which follow; and then begin theact. You must do everything according to rule, eat according to strict
orders, abstain from delicacies, exercise yourself as you are bid at
appointed times, in heat, in cold, you must not drink cold water, norwine as you choose; in a word, you must deliver yourself up to theexercise master as you do to the physician, and then proceed to thecontest. And sometimes you will strain the hand, put the ankle out of
joint, swallow much dust, sometimes be flogged, and after all this bedefeated. When you have considered all this, if you still choose, go to
the contest: if you do not you will behave like children, who at one
time play at wrestlers, another time as flute players, again as
gladiators, then as trumpeters, then as tragic actors. So you also will
be at one time an athlete, at another a gladiator, then a rhetorician,then a philosopher, but with your whole soul you will be nothing at all;but like an ape you imitate everything that you see, and one thing afteranother pleases you. For you have not undertaken anything withconsideration, nor have you surveyed it well; but carelessly and withcold desire. Thus some who have seen a philosopher and having heard one
speak, as Euphrates speaks--and who can speak as he does?--they wish tobe philosophers themselves also. My man, first of all consider what kindof thing it is; and then examine your own nature, if you are able tosustain the character. Do you wish to be a pentathlete or a wrestler?
Look at your arms, your thighs, examine your loins. For different men
are formed by nature for different things. Do you think that if you dothese things, you can eat in the same manner, drink in the same manner,and in the same manner loathe certain things? You must pass sleeplessnights, endure toil, go away from your kinsmen, be despised by a slave,in everything have the inferior part, in honor, in office, in the courtsof justice, in every little matter. Consider these things, if you would
exchange for them, freedom from passions, liberty, tranquillity. If not,take care that, like little children, you be not now a philosopher, thena servant of the publicani, then a rhetorician, then a procurator(manager) for Cæsar. These things are not consistent. You must be one
man, either good or bad. You must either cultivate your own rulingfaculty, or external things. You must either exercise your skill oninternal things or on external things; that is you must either maintainthe position of a philosopher or that of a common person.
XXX.
Duties are universally measured by relations ([Greek: tais schsesi]). Is
a man a father? The precept is to take care of him, to yield to him in
all things, to submit when he is reproachful, when he inflicts blows.
But suppose that he is a bad father. Were you then by nature made akinto a good father? No; but to a father. Does a brother wrong you?
Maintain then your own position towards him, and do not examine what heis doing, but what you must do that your will shall be conformable tonature. For another will not damage you, unless you choose: but you will
be damaged then when you shall think that you are damaged. In this way
then you will discover your duty from the relation of a neighbor, fromthat of a citizen, from that of a general, if you are accustomed tocontemplate the relations.
XXXI.
As to piety towards the gods you must know that this is the chief thing,to have right opinions about them, to think that they exist, and thatthey administer the All well and justly; and you must fix yourself inthis principle (duty), to obey them, and to yield to them in everythingwhich happens, and voluntarily to follow it as being accomplished by thewisest intelligence. For if you do so, you will never either blame thegods, nor will you accuse them of neglecting you. And it is not possible
for this to be done in any other way than by withdrawing from the things
which are not in our power, and by placing the good and the evil only inthose things which are in our power. For if you think that any of thethings which are not in our power is good or bad, it is absolutely
necessary that, when you do not obtain what you wish, and when you fall
into those things which you do not wish, you will find fault and hate
those who are the cause of them; for every animal is formed by nature tothis, to fly from and to turn from the things which appear harmful andthe things which are the cause of the harm, but to follow and admire thethings which are useful and the causes of the useful. It is impossible
then for a person who thinks that he is harmed to be delighted with thatwhich he thinks to be the cause of the harm, as it is also impossible tobe pleased with the harm itself. For this reason also a father isreviled by his son, when he gives no part to his son of the things which
are considered to be good; and it was this which made Polynices andEteocles enemies, the opinion that royal power was a good. It is forthis reason that the cultivator of the earth reviles the gods, for thisreason the sailor does, and the merchant, and for this reason those wholose their wives and their children. For where the useful (yourinterest) is, there also piety is. Consequently he who takes care todesire as he ought and to avoid ([Greek: echchlinein]) as he ought, atthe same time also cares after piety. But to make libations and tosacrifice and to offer first-fruits according to the custom of ourfathers, purely and not meanly nor carelessly nor scantily nor above ourability, is a thing which belongs to all to do.
XXXII.
When you have recourse to divination, remember that you do not know how
it will turn out, but that you are come to inquire from the diviner. Butof what kind it is, you know when you come, if indeed you are aphilosopher. For if it is any of the things which are not in our power,
it is absolutely necessary that it must be neither good nor bad. Do notthen bring to the diviner desire or aversion ([Greek: echchlinein]): if
you do, you will approach him with fear. But having determined in yourmind that everything which shall turn out (result) is indifferent, anddoes not concern you, and whatever it may be, for it will be in yourpower to use it well, and no man will hinder this, come then withconfidence to the gods as your advisers. And then when any advice shallhave been given, remember whom you have taken as advisers, and whom you
will have neglected, if you do not obey them. And go to divination, as
Socrates said that you ought, about those matters in which all theinquiry has reference to the result, and in which means are not given
either by reason nor by any other art for knowing the thing which is the
subject of the inquiry. Wherefore when we ought to share a friend's
danger, or that of our country, you must not consult the diviner whether
you ought to share it. For even if the diviner shall tell you that thesigns of the victims are unlucky, it is plain that this is a token ofdeath, or mutilation of part of the body, or of exile. But reason
prevails, that even with these risks, we should share the dangers of ourfriend, and of our country. Therefore attend to the greater diviner, thePythian god, who ejected from the temple him who did not assist his
friend, when he was being murdered.

XXXIII.
Immediately prescribe some character and some form to yourself, which
you shall observe both when you are alone and when you meet with men.
And let silence be the general rule, or let only what is necessary be
said, and in few words. And rarely, and when the occasion calls, weshall say something; but about none of the common subjects, not about
gladiators, nor horse-races, nor about athletes, nor about eating or
drinking, which are the usual subjects; and especially not about men, as
blaming them or praising them, or comparing them. If then you are able,bring over by your conversation, the conversation of your associates, tothat which is proper; but if you should happen to be confined to thecompany of strangers, be silent.
Let not your laughter be much, nor on many occasions, nor excessive.
Refuse altogether to take an oath, if it is possible; if it is not,refuse as far as you are able.
Avoid banquets which are given by strangers and by ignorant persons. But
if ever there is occasion to join in them, let your attention be
carefully fixed, that you slip not into the manners of the vulgar (theuninstructed). For you must know, that if your companion be impure, healso who keeps company with him must become impure, though he should
happen to be pure.
Take (apply) the things which relate to the body as far as the bare use,
as food, drink, clothing, house, and slaves; but exclude everythingwhich is for show or luxury.
As to pleasure with women, abstain as far as you can before marriage;
but if you do indulge in it, do it in the way which is conformable tocustom. Do not however be disagreeable to those who indulge in thesepleasures, or reprove them; and do not often boast that you do not
indulge in them yourself.
If a man has reported to you, that a certain person speaks ill of you,
do not make any defence (answer) to what has been told you; but reply,
The man did not know the rest of my faults, for he would not havementioned these only.
It is not necessary to go to the theatres often: but if there is ever aproper occasion for going, do not show yourself as being a partisan of
any man except yourself, that is, desire only that to be done which isdone, and for him only to gain the prize who gains the prize; for inthis way you will meet with no hindrance. But abstain entirely fromshouts and laughter at any (thing or person), or violent emotions. And
when you are come away, do not talk much about what has passed on thestage, except about that which may lead to your own improvement. For itis plain, if you do talk much, that you admired the spectacle (more thanyou ought).
Do not go to the hearing of certain persons' recitations, nor visit themreadily. But if you do attend, observe gravity and sedateness, and also
avoid making yourself disagreeable.
When you are going to meet with any person, and particularly one ofthose who are considered to be in a superior condition, place before
yourself what Socrates or Zeno would have done in such circumstances,and you will have no difficulty in making a proper use of the occasion.
When you are going to any of those who are in great power, place before
yourself that you will not find the man at home, that you will be
excluded, that the door will not be opened to you, that the man will notcare about you. And if with all this it is your duty to visit him, bear
what happens, and never say to yourself that it was not worth thetrouble. For this is silly, and marks the character of a man who isoffended by externals.
In company take care not to speak much and excessively about your own
acts or dangers; for as it is pleasant to you to make mention of yourown dangers, it is not so pleasant to others to hear what has happened
to you. Take care also not to provoke laughter; for this is a slipperyway towards vulgar habits, and is also adapted to diminish the respectof your neighbors. It is a dangerous habit also to approach obscene
talk. When then, anything of this kind happens, if there is a good
opportunity, rebuke the man who has proceeded to this talk; but if there
is not an opportunity, by your silence at least, and blushing andexpression of dissatisfaction by your countenance, show plainly that you
are displeased at such talk.
XXXIV.
If you have received the impression ([Greek: phantasion]) of any
pleasure, guard yourself against being carried away by it; but let thething wait for you, and allow yourself a certain delay on your own part.
Then think of both times, of the time when you will enjoy the pleasure,and of the time after the enjoyment of the pleasure, when you will
repent and will reproach yourself. And set against these things how you
will rejoice, if you have abstained from the pleasure, and how you willcommend yourself. But if it seem to you seasonable to undertake (do) thething, take care that the charm of it, and the pleasure, and theattraction of it shall not conquer you; but set on the other side theconsideration, how much better it is to be conscious that you havegained this victory.
XXXV.

When you have decided that a thing ought to be done, and are doing it,
never avoid being seen doing it, though the many shall form an
unfavorable opinion about it. For if it is not right to do it, avoid
doing the thing; but if it is right, why are you afraid of those who
shall find fault wrongly?
XXXVI.
As the proposition, it is either day, or it is night, is of great
importance for the disjunctive argument, but for the conjunctive, is ofno value, so in a symposium (entertainment) to select the larger shareis of great value for the body, but for the maintenance of the social
feeling is worth nothing. When, then, you are eating with another,remember, to look not only to the value for the body of the things set
before you, but also to the value of the behavior towards the host which
ought to be observed.
XXXVII.
If you have assumed a character above your strength, you have both acted
in this manner in an unbecoming way, and you have neglected that which
you might have fulfilled.
XXXVIII.
In walking about, as you take care not to step on a nail, or to sprain
your foot, so take care not to damage your own ruling faculty; and if we
observe this rule in every act, we shall undertake this act with moresecurity.
XXXIX.
The measure of possession (property) is to every man the body, as thefoot is of the shoe. If then you stand on this rule (the demands of thebody), you will maintain the measure; but if you pass beyond it, youmust then of necessity be hurried as it were down a precipice. As also
in the matter of the shoe, if you go beyond the (necessities of the)foot, the shoe is gilded, then of a purple color, then embroidered; forthere is no limit to that which has once passed the true measure.
XL.
Women forthwith from the age of fourteen are called by the men
mistresses ([Greek: churiai], dominæ). Therefore, since they see that
there is nothing else that they can obtain, but only the power of lying
with men, they begin to decorate themselves, and to place all theirhopes in this. It is worth our while then to take care that they may
know that they are valued (by men) for nothing else than appearing(being) decent and modest and discreet.

XLI.
It is a mark of a mean capacity to spend much time on the things which
concern the body, such as much exercise, much eating, much drinking,much easing of the body, much copulation. But these things should bedone as subordinate things; and let all your care be directed to the
mind.
XLII.
When any person treats you ill or speaks ill of you, remember that hedoes this or says this because he thinks that it is his duty. It is notpossible then for him to follow that which seems right to you, but thatwhich seems right to himself. Accordingly if he is wrong in his opinion,
he is the person who is hurt, for he is the person who has been
deceived; for if a man shall suppose the true conjunction to be false,
it is not the conjunction which is hindered, but the man who has been
deceived about it. If you proceed then from these opinions, you will bemild in temper to him who reviles you; for say on each occasion, It
seemed so to him.
XLIII.
Everything has two handles, the one by which it may be borne, the otherby which it may not. If your brother acts unjustly, do not lay hold of
the act by that handle wherein he acts unjustly, for this is the handle
which cannot be borne; but lay hold of the other, that he is yourbrother, that he was nurtured with you, and you will lay hold of thething by that handle by which it can be borne.
XLIV.
These reasonings do not cohere: I am richer than you, therefore I am
better than you; I am more eloquent than you, therefore I am better thanyou. On the contrary, these rather cohere: I am richer than you,therefore my possessions are greater than yours; I am more eloquent thanyou, therefore my speech is superior to yours. But you are neither
possession nor speech.
XLV.
Does a man bathe quickly (early)? do not say that he bathes badly, butthat he bathes quickly. Does a man drink much wine? do not say that hedoes this badly, but say that he drinks much. For before you shall havedetermined the opinion how do you know whether he is acting wrong? Thus
it will not happen to you to comprehend some appearances which arecapable of being comprehended, but to assent to others.
XLVI.

On no occasion call yourself a philosopher, and do not speak much among
the uninstructed about theorems (philosophical rules, precepts); but dothat which follows from them. For example, at a banquet do not say how aman ought to eat, but eat as you ought to eat. For remember that in thisway Socrates also altogether avoided ostentation. Persons used to cometo him and ask to be recommended by him to philosophers, and he used totake them to philosophers, so easily did he submit to being overlooked.
Accordingly, if any conversation should arise among uninstructed persons
about any theorem, generally be silent; for there is great danger thatyou will immediately vomit up what you have not digested. And when a man
shall say to you that you know nothing, and you are not vexed, then be
sure that you have begun the work (of philosophy). For even sheep do not
vomit up their grass and show to the shepherds how much they have eaten;
but when they have internally digested the pasture, they produce
externally wool and milk. Do you also show not your theorems to theuninstructed, but show the acts which come from their digestion.
XLVII.
When at a small cost you are supplied with everything for the body, do
not be proud of this; nor, if you drink water, say on every occasion, I
drink water. But consider first how much more frugal the poor are thanwe, and how much more enduring of labor. And if you ever wish to
exercise yourself in labor and endurance, do it for yourself, and notfor others. Do not embrace statues; but if you are ever very thirsty,
take a draught of cold water and spit it out, and tell no man.
XLVIII.
The condition and characteristic of an uninstructed person is this: henever expects from himself profit (advantage) nor harm, but fromexternals. The condition and characteristic of a philosopher is this: heexpects all advantage and all harm from himself. The signs (marks) of
one who is making progress are these: he censures no man, he praises noman, he blames no man, he accuses no man, he says nothing about himself
as if he were somebody or knew something; when he is impeded at all orhindered, he blames himself; if a man praises him he ridicules thepraiser to himself; if a man censures him he makes no defence; he goes
about like weak persons, being careful not to move any of the things
which are placed, before they are firmly fixed; he removes all desirefrom himself, and he transfers aversion ([Greek: echchlisin]) to those
things only of the things within our power which are contrary to nature;
he employs a moderate movement towards everything; whether he isconsidered foolish or ignorant he cares not; and in a word he watches
himself as if he were an enemy and lying in ambush.
XLIX.
When a man is proud because he can understand and explain the writingsof Chrysippus, say to yourself, If Chrysippus had not written obscurely,this man would have had nothing to be proud of. But what is it that I
wish? To understand nature and to follow it. I inquire therefore who is
the interpreter? and when I have heard that it is Chrysippus, I come tohim (the interpreter). But I do not understand what is written, andtherefore I seek the interpreter. And so far there is yet nothing to be
proud of. But when I shall have found the interpreter, the thing thatremains is to use the precepts (the lessons). This itself is the only
thing to be proud of. But if I shall admire the exposition, what else
have I been made unless a grammarian instead of a philosopher? except in
one thing, that I am explaining Chrysippus instead of Homer. When, then,any man says to me, Read Chrysippus to me, I rather blush, when I cannot
show my acts like to and consistent with his words.
L.
Whatever things (rules) are proposed to you (for the conduct of life)
abide by them, as if they were laws, as if you would be guilty ofimpiety if you transgressed any of them. And whatever any man shall say
about you, do not attend to it; for this is no affair of yours. How long
will you then still defer thinking yourself worthy of the best things,
and in no matter transgressing the distinctive reason? Have you accepted
the theorems (rules), which it was your duty to agree to, and have you
agreed to them? what teacher then do you still expect that you defer to
him the correction of yourself? You are no longer a youth, but already afull-grown man. If, then, you are negligent and slothful, and arecontinually making procrastination after procrastination, and proposal(intention) after proposal, and fixing day after day, after which you
will attend to yourself, you will not know that you are not making
improvement, but you will continue ignorant (uninstructed) both while
you live and till you die. Immediately then think it right to live as afull-grown man, and one who is making proficiency, and let everythingwhich appears to you to be the best be to you a law which must not betransgressed. And if anything laborious or pleasant or glorious or
inglorious be presented to you, remember that now is the contest, now
are the Olympic games, and they cannot be deferred; and that it depends
on one defeat and one giving way that progress is either lost or
maintained. Socrates in this way became perfect, in all things improving
himself, attending to nothing except to reason. But you, though you are
not yet a Socrates, ought to live as one who wishes to be a Socrates.
LI.
The first and most necessary place (part, [Greek: topos]) in philosophy
is the use of theorems (precepts, [Greek: theoraemata]), for instance,that we must not lie; the second part is that of demonstrations, forinstance, How is it proved that we ought not to lie? The third is thatwhich is confirmatory of these two, and explanatory, for example, How isthis a demonstration? For what is demonstration, what is consequence,
what is contradiction, what is truth, what is falsehood? The third part
(topic) is necessary on account of the second, and the second on accountof the first; but the most necessary and that on which we ought to restis the first. But we do the contrary. For we spend our time on the third
topic, and all our earnestness is about it; but we entirely neglect thefirst. Therefore we lie; but the demonstration that we ought not to lie
we have ready to hand.
LII.
In every thing (circumstance) we should hold these maxims ready to hand:
Lead me, O Zeus, and thou O Destiny,
The way that I am bid by you to go:
To follow I am ready. If I choose not,I make myself a wretch, and still must follow.
But whoso nobly yields unto necessity,
We hold him wise, and skill'd in things divine.
And the third also: O Crito, if so it pleases the gods, so let it be;
Anytus and Melitus are able indeed to kill me, but they cannot harm me.