“We Play by House Rules”
UNO, Social Media, and thePower of the Petty•
Zhané Lloyd

The author discusses the impact of Black Twitter, a section of Twitter dominated by members of the African diaspora, on marginalized communities
when it offers alternatives to the rules and expectations of mainstream social
media, especially in relation to such online games as UNO. She touts thevalue of what she calls the “petty” for Black players turned unofficial designers and their creative and important resistance to—and even a defiance of—such official rules. Key words: Black Twitter; pettiness and creativity; UNO

Introduction

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ocial media has served as the major alternative to mainstream media
for marginalized communities. One of the major examples of this has been
dubbed “Black Twitter”—a section of Twitter dominated by members of theAfrican diaspora. Black Twitter has made itself known through the shared useon the site of memes, language, and experiences from Black users. One of theseshared cultural experiences is the importance of house rules in the game of
UNO. In May 2019, the official UNO Twitter account posted that stacking, a
popular house rule in UNO, is not permitted in the official rules of the game.
In an act of defiance and pettiness, Black Twitter users completely ignored theofficial post about the rules of stacking. I explore the prominence and powerof something I describe as “petty” on social media and its importance to Blackdefiance and resistance, especially the reaction to the official rules of UNO andhow the ability to modify and challenge them puts it at a unique intersection ofBlack pettiness and creativity.
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It Was a Random Day in May
On May 4, 2019, the official Twitter account for the UNO game (@realUNOgame) wrote: “If someone puts down a +4 card, you must draw 4 and your turnis skipped. You can’t put down a +2 to make the next person draw 6. We know
you’ve tried it. #UNO.” The tweet is accompanied by an image that reads (inall caps): “YOU CANNOT STACK DRAW 2 & DRAW 4 CARDS.” As of thiswriting, the tweet has accumulated over eighty thousand likes, ninety thousand
retweets, and nearly six thousand replies. The backlash was immediate. Some
asked for clarification about whether this stacking rule applied only to Draw 2
and Draw 4 or whether stacking a Draw 2 on a Draw 2 or a Draw 4 on a Draw
4 was allowed. UNO clarified that the official rules of the game did not allow
stacking of any kind. Many Twitter users quickly pointed out that the official
UNO mobile app and the game published by Ubisoft allowed stacking. UNO
replied to these tweets with: “These rules are for the physical UNO card games.
The mobile version of the classic game features custom rules, including the mostcommon house rules, for a new way to play.” Indeed, the official rules of UNO
do not include anything to indicate that stacking these cards was permissible.
Many users disagreed with the UNO Twitter account’s rule clarification,
because stacking is simply one of the more popular house rules of the game.
Kyle Smith, whose reply earned over eighty-five hundred likes, one thousand
retweets, and forty-five replies, read: “My deck, my rules . . . someone’s eating
this +24.” Covering the event, writer and podcaster Ashleigh Lakieva Atwell
wrote the Blavity article “Uno Tried to Prohibit a Game Move We’ve All Doneand Twitter Went Mattel, Please,” which cited several key tweets (Atwell 2019).
Sports reporter Nubyjas Wilburn’s tweet specifically pointed out that Black Twitter was telling UNO it was wrong to clarify the rules of its game. Black Twittercan be defined as a group of Black users of Twitter whose members occasionally interact by sharing their culture and experiences. Even though the title ofAtwell’s article read in part “Twitter Went Mattel, Please,” it consists mostly of
replies and retweets from Black users of the site. And a new page soon appearedcalled Black Uno (@realblackUNO), with the bio “The Real Black Uno,” though
the account only had two tweets and had not been updated since May 6, 2019.
In a response to UNO’s tweet, those on the account wrote: “This is a completely
valid move and the only sure way to assert your dominance at the table. See
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popularity of stacking—a house rule made popular in the Black community—
supersedes the official rules of the game. By “petty,” I mean the three senses of
the word suggested in the Merriam-Webster dictionary, which provides threedefintions: having secondary rank or importance; having little or no importanceor significance; and marked by or reflective of narrow interests and sympathies.
All three of these defintions rely on petty being considered an adjective. Noneof these describe particularly accurately the action of being petty. They are better suited for describing a situation (i.e., “petty exchange”), but not the actions
involved in that situation. In February 2017, Urban Dictionary user omfggdiana
defined petty this way: “When you make a fucking big deal over small shit.”
Although both Merriam-Webster and omfggdiana view petty as something minor—Merriam-Webster with its little or no importance or significanceand omfggdiana with its small shit—the definition used by omfggdiana betterreflects, I think, what it means to be petty. It is the action of making “a fucking big deal over small shit” and provides the social meaning of the word (Ro2019). Even when we use it as an adjective to describe someone as “petty,” weare describing them as someone who makes “a fucking big deal over small shit.”
Together, the Urban Dictionary and Merriam-Webster definitions combine andcreate the full context of the word as I use it here: UNO’s tweet was petty—as in,
it had little or no importance or significance—and the reaction of Black Twitter
was also petty—they were making a big deal over small shit.
Deploying this petty clash between UNO and Black Twitter over houserules, I explore the prominence and power of the petty in Black Twitter and its
importance to Black defiance and resistance. I situate my reading in the historical foundations of UNO and in its social media savvy alongside the rise ofBlack Twitter as a Black digital community play space. Black Twitter’s reaction
to official rules of UNO and its own ability to modify and challenge the official
rules put the card game at a unique intersection of Black pettiness and creativity.

Foundations and Social Media RiseI find it hard to ignore the irony of UNO calling out players for their house rules,
given that UNO itself constitutes the house rules of another card game—Crazy
Eights. UNO’s creator Merle Robbins, a barber from a small town in Ohio, fell
one night into an argument with his son about the rules of Crazy Eights. Like
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that were mostly confined to specific geographical locations. Following the argument with his son, Robbins wrote the commands for each card in the game on
the back of the card with a marker (McGlynn 2016). Later, according to David
McGlynn, Robbins bought a deck of blank cards on which he wrote commands.
He later sold this “game”—called UNO—to Bob Tezak, and in 1992 Tezak soldUNO to toy giant Mattel, where the card game has been produced ever since(McGlynn 2016). The story of UNO’s creation shows the power of pettiness.
Robbins’s tendency to make “a fucking big deal over small shit” encouraged his
entrepreneurial spirit and helped him turn an argument with his son about therules of Crazy Eights into his card game franchise.
UNO has become popular in the social media age as a meme, a term that
predates the creation of the Internet by about seven years and was first introduced by Richard Dawkins in 1976 to serve as the counterpart to genes. As
Gretchen McCulloch writes, just as “a gene (such as for brown eyes) spreads
through sexual selection and physical fitness, a meme (such as the idea that theearth orbits the sun) spreads through social selection and ideological fitness”(2019). For Dawkins, memes explained how ideas and beliefs evolve socially. In
1990 technologist Mike Godwin had come up with Godwin’s Law, a term used todescribe a “gratituous Nazi reference” (McCulloch 2019). Speaking with Wiredmagazine a few years later, Godwin remarked on the way the idea of “Godwin’s
Law” had spread and used “meme” to describe it. At that point, McCulloch
claims a meme was used in a strictly Internet context (McCulloch 2019).
All this had changed by the time the UPROXX article “How Uno Became
2017’s Favorite, Highly Meme-able Card Game” appeared. In it Mattel’s editorial
director Steve Bramucci cites four reasons for UNO’s rise on social media. For
one, “it’s everywhere.” UNO is available on a variety of platforms that targets
different demographics. UNO is available as a mobile app where it’s been downloaded more than fifty million times. In addition, millions of users on Facebook
have played the game on Messenger (NetEase Games 2018). UNO has also been
ported to PCs and consoles during the past ten years by multiple publishers.
Through this, UNO has made itself available to every major video game player
and consumer. The Entertainment Software Association reports that 61 percent
of U.S. gamers play with a smartphone, 52 percent with a gaming console, and49 percent with a personal computer. In addition, 71 percent of gamers playcasual games, a genre into which UNO fits. And with the average age of U.S.
gamers falling between thirty-five and forty-four, these are people highly likely
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lives (Entertainment Software Association 2020). UNO’s ability to adapt to the
new ways of play and make itself accessible has allowed it to maintain its holdon older players and also to acquire new ones.
Part of this adaptability comes from the company’s social media savvy, making it a quality of UNO’s popularity (Bramucci 2017). M Rafiq states that building
a rapport with followers, making them feel special, engaging with audiences,and improving communication are all key to effective customer management
on social media. UNO posts pseudohands on its Facebook page, for example,
and asks viewers how they would play the game with that hand. Despite having fewer Facebook followers than Monopoly, UNO’s engagements on the site
exceed it (Bramucci 2017).
Even prior to the May 4 tweet, UNO engaged consumers who had questions
about how to play the game properly. The tweet was not the first announcement in which UNO stated cards cannot be stacked. In fact, two days before
the famous tweet, Twitter user @i_amthomasjr asked UNO if stacking Draw 2s
was allowed. UNO replied: “You cannot stack cards. If you play a draw 2 thenext player will need to draw 2 and skip their turn.” Most of the engagementswith this tweet occurred after the May 4 tweet. UNO often replies to several
consumers to clarify the rules of the game and explain that their digital games
allow for the use of popular house rules.
UNO uses another social media trick—mixing paid social media ads withorganic engagement. Consider its advertisement campaign starring former NFL
player Charles Tillman. A photo shows Tillman and his children engaged in agame of UNO. Most of the children are looking at their cards. The youngest
child stares directly at the camera, and Tillman takes this as an opportunity tosneak a glance at the child’s hand. Most of the interactions in the advertisement
involve Tillman’s peeking at his youngest child’s card in a teasing manner, telling
Tillman to stop cheating. The ad with Tillman affirmed UNO as a game playedby family and one that encouraged shady tactics.
Bramucci notes UNO’s house rules offer “open-source gaming, analog style”
as another reason for its social-media popularity (2017). Included in the official
UNO deck are four blank cards that allow players to write whatever they want,similar to the way Robbins did when playing Crazy Eights. Bramucci’s link to
an UNO Instagram post shows an image of a player in the middle of a gameholding four cards. One of the cards is a blank, filled in by a player that reads:“Everyone must discard all their wild cards except the holder of this card”. The
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And possibly your friends. (photo: @midnightwonders).” The Atlanta Hawks
basketball team plays the game using action cards from multiple decks (Cacciola 2016). Former Hawks forward Kent Bazemore describes their version of
UNO as “no-holds-barred” and the “WWE [World Wrestling Entertsainment]of UNO” (Cacciola 2016).
The tangible nature of house rules gives players of the game the senseof some ownership over the game, specifically involving its rules. For Bridget
Whelan, modding (making modifications to game play) is “the act of changing
the base content of a game . . . the action that players take to make game experiences better” (2020). For Instagram user @midnightwonders, there may besome thrill in a customized card that upsets your friends when you play it. For
the Atlanta Hawks, the abundance of action cards makes the game even more
dependent on luck and creates more frustration for friends. Most importantly,
it creates more opportunities for players to be petty.
In a way, pettiness serves as an additional modification to the game. Thereis no house rule—I presume—that calls for players to be as petty as possible.
However, the house rules that players have created encourage attempts to makeother players miserable just to be petty. Bazemore refers to the Atlanta Hawks’s
modifications of UNO as akin to the WWE. This is notable because WWE andother sports entertainment companies are performative simulations of combatthat focus on dramatic in-match storytelling as opposed to actual in-ring competition. The goal of being petty in UNO, similar to the goal of professional
wrestling, is to invoke a strong emotional response from the target audience—
whether players or fans. Similar to the no-holds-barred style of wrestling matches
in which the performers can do whatever they want to each other to win, houserules in UNO allow players to do whatever they want—and to be as petty as
possible—to achieve victory.
Bramucci notes that the petty nature of the game has contributed to its
popularity as a meme (2017). UNO maintains this popularity through engagement with users about the strategies they use to play the game. However, UNO
cannot start a meme—it can only provide the Internet with the tools to create
one and, maybe, acknowledge its existence. For UNO, the tools for doing thisare the cards available in the deck. One of the most popular UNO memes shows
an image of a blank UNO card on which is written “[do this unpleasant activity]
or draw 25.” This is accompanied by an image of a player holding many cards—
at least 25, we presume. The unpleasant activty varies based the sector of theInternet in which one actively participates. For an Internet user who has been

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diagnosed with depression, the UNO meme may seem like something saying,“Clean your room or draw 25.” This example depends on understanding thatthose suffering from depression, like me, sometimes struggle to complete tasks
like cleaning the room. McCulloch writes that memes have a “playful language”
that “provides a clear route to participation.” Understanding how memes work,
the example also assumes that those suffering from depression would see it as aplayful “call it out,” but they would generally understand that the maker of thememe also suffers from depression.
The nature of memes requires they be created and shared by everyday usersof the Internet. A major corporation like Mattel cannot try to insert itself into
this culture without risking that it looks out of place. For example, consider Hilary Clinton’s infamous “Pokemon Go to the polls” statement in which she tried
to capitalize on the popularity of Niantic’s new AR mobile game Pokemon GO.
Instead of sparking the interest of young on-line voters, she became the meme ofan older-generation candidate who was out of touch with the Internet generation.

Black Twitter and Play
André Brock (2012) describes Black Twitter as “Twitter’s mediation on Blackdiscourse” and as a “user-generated source of culturally relevant online content,
combining social network elements and broadcast principles to share information” (530). Sarah Florini (2014) notes the importance of treating Black Twitter
not as a monolith, but rather as “millions of Black users on Twitter networking,connecting, and engaging with others who have similar concerns, experiences,
tastes, and cultural practices” (225). Brock attributes the popularity of Twitterfor Black users to its inherent ease of access through cell phones and its minimalist aesthetic.
Both Brock and Florini point out that Black users on Twitter engage witheach other through “rhetorical games” that Henry Louis Gates Jr. describes as“signifyin(g).” Signifyin(g) takes on multiple forms in the Black community. The
origins of signifyin(g) can be found in West African myths and folktales. Maria
Tatar writes, “West African myths, more powerfully than the lore of other regionsin Africa, repeatedly foreground contradiction, paradox, and indeterminacy, tothe point of telling stories that at times seem to turn on philosophical principles
as much as on figures with real-life struggles and conflicts” (lxxvii). AfricanAmerican folktales, Tatar writes, are seen as “deceptively simple” in comparison

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to their West African counterparts (lxxvii). However, the “deceptively simple”
nature of African-American folktales are “simply deceptive.” African-American
folktales are wrapped in the same storytelling traditions as West African folktales, but they hide behind a simple façade so they do not tip off any slave masters
to the true nature of these stories. Signifyin’ has fostered solidarity in African
American communities, and their performative elements “have historicallyserved important roles in the creation and preservation of Black communities”(Florini 2014, 226).
Signifyin(g) makes Black Twitter a site of play. John Sharp and Colleen
Macklin (2016) note six elements to play: actions, goals, rules, objects, play space,and players. They also note that crafting these six elements together to create aplay experience constitutes the role of a game designer. Macklin and Sharp saythat players, “are the most important part of any game, as they are the operator
that makes the game go” (9).
In the case of Black Twitter, the players are also the game designers. Jack
Dorsey, CEO and cofounder of Twitter, and his team provided objects andactions, but they did not provide the rules for how to interact with the objects
and actions. And they certainly did not provide a goal. Even as the play space canbe considered Twitter.com or its mobile app, Black Twitter is a loosely configured
subsection of the app that consists of its millions of Black users. The formationof Black Twitter as a play space is based on—but completely independent of—
the creation of Twitter itself. Sharp and Thomas (2019) define potential playspaces as existing “only through the players’ imaginative cooperation” (8). Black
Twitter was created this way. Black people on the site agreed to use Twitter toshare cultural experiences with each other, and it became a space of play. The
action: make tweets. The objects: a computer, phone, or tablet. The play space:
Twitter.com or the Twitter app. The players: Black users on Twitter.

Rules
The first rule of Black Twitter is that, to enter the informal play space, one mustbe Black and respect Black life. Six days after the 2014 murder of Michael Brown
by Darren Wilson, the Ferguson, Missouri, police department released video
showing Brown robbing a local convenience store. Many who had advocatedfor Brown changed their opinion, claiming that he was no longer a compelling
victim because “he lacked the proper public image to garner, or perhaps even

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merit, national sympathy” (Hill 2018, 293). However, Black Twitter as a whole
resisted the politics of respectability and still argued that Michael Brown’s life
mattered and that petty larceny (or according to police officer Wilson, jaywalking) did not warrant a death sentence. Black people in the space who did notrespect this rule were rejected from the space.
Another Black Twitter rule is to respect the voices in the space, especially
if they are not actually a part of the play space. Players are quick to call out suchactions. In 2010 Farhad Manjoo published an article titled “How Black People
Use Twitter,” in which he affirmed the curiosity of non-Black people about how
Black people use Twitter (Manjoo 2010). Manjoo’s curiosity came from thehashtag, #WordsThatLeadToTrouble. Manjoo’s article reveals the uncomfortable relationship between non-Black people and Black people. Manjoo published
the article under the guise that he, a non-Black man, would be able to explain
how Black people use Twitter. Instead, Manjoo’s article offered more questions
than answers:
What explains the rise of tags like #wordsthatleadtotrouble? Are black people
participating in these types of conversations more often than nonblacks? Are
other identifiable groups starting similar kinds of hashtags, but it’s only thoseinitiated by African-Americans that are hitting the trending topics list? If
that’s true, what is it about the way black people use Twitter that makes theirconversations so popular? Then there’s the apparent segregation in thesetags. While you begin to see some nonblack faces after a trending topic hits
Twitter’s home page, the early participants in these tags are almost all black.
Does this suggest a break between blacks and nonblacks on Twitter—that
real-life segregation is being mirrored online? (n.p.)

But these questions show that he is not remotely qualified to provide ananswer. In fact, when Baratunde Thurston—a Black man—presented a theory
that Black Twitter constitutes a new iteration of the Black vernacular tradition ofplaying the dozens, Manjoo dismissed the theory because it was “compelling, but
not airtight” (n.p.). Manjoo seemed not to understand that he was asking questions about human behavior, so it appears nearly impossible to find an airtightanswer to why Black people trend more than non-Black people.
Kimberly C. Ellis (2010), affectionately called Dr. Goddess, published a
response to the article, problematizing the conclusions that Manjoo attempts
to draw. The response can be summed up with a tweet that Ellis quotes in thefirst paragraph: “BLACK PEOPLE ARE NOT A MONOLITH” (n.p.). Athough
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say that Twitter is used as a space for community building and allows Black
people to express culture. Manjoo was provided with the opportunity to listen
to a Black voice explain how communication among Black people on Twitter,and he chose to ignore it. Unspurprisingly, the players within the space called
him out for his lack of respect.
Hashtags
With players, objects, actions, and a play space, the designers and players ofBlack Twitter turn it into a play experience with one goal: to educate, entertain,
and build community among the players. This goal proved particularly important during the summer of 2014, when protests against police violence in theBlack community occurred across the country. Players used one object of theirplay—hashtags—to educate others in the space about what was going on andwhat they could do to help. Raven Maragh-Lloyd (2020) notes that hashtags
make it easier to find and join discussions. She also notes that hashtags are how
Black users on Twitter look for each other and then engage in conversation inreal time. The hashtags #MichaelBrown, #HandsUpDontShoot, and #Ferguson
trended on Twitter.
Residents and others in Ferguson took photos and videos to keep Twitter
updated on the protests occurring after Michael Brown’s death. These videos
also showed additional instances of police brutality, reaffirming that Brown’s
death was a systemic issue of police bruality against Black bodies and not a
one-off incident. Marc Lamont Hill (2018)—who was in Ferguson, Missouri,
during the protests—states that Black Twitter “disseminated information about
the shooting that went unreported by traditional media outlets, issued calls for
new evidence, demanded the release of Darren Wilson’s still-withheld name tothe public, organized protest actions against the Ferguson police department,
and engaged in broader dialogues about anti-Black state violence” (287). These
actions, Hill concludes, helped turn this local instance of police brutality into
an international cause.
Of all the benefits provided by the Black Twitter play experience, thehashtag is probably the most prominent. It became an invaluable mechanicthat Brock (2012) says helped “discover” Black Twitter. According to Brock, thehashtag “serves triple duty as ‘signifier,’ ‘sign,’ and, ‘signified,’ marking as it does
the concept to be signified, the cultural context within which the tweet should
be understood, and the ‘call’ awaiting a response” (537). Hashtags provide themeans and parameters to engage in signifying, the primary action performed

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in the Black Twitter play space. Signifying is a form of pettiness, and, as I havenoted, it can have a performative element to it. Through followers, the hashtag,
and trending topics, the signifiers are provided the tools and audience to performtheir signification. The hashtag is the primary means by which more players
come into the space for the play experience, because Black Twitter’s players anddesigners do not actively promote joining the play space. However, they expectthat those who do enter the space to follow the rules of engagement.
Even when using hashtags to discuss serious issues, Black Twitter has also
deployed them to bring attention to issues in playful ways. J. Talmadge Wright(2018) describes play as occurring both “in our often nonserious but sometimes
serious expressions of engagement with the world around us” (5). #APHeadlines
is an example of using play to discuss a serious issue. On August 7, 2014, Theodore Wafer—a white man—had been convicted of second-degree murder andmanslaughter of Renisha McBride, a nineteen-year-old Black woman. Following
the conviction, the Associated Press tweeted: “Suburban Detroit homeownerconvicted of second-degree murder for killing woman who showed up drunk on
porch” (Abbey-Lambertz 2014, n.p.). Black Twitter responded immediately withthe hashtag #APHeadlines. Huffington Post senior editor Phillip Lewis (2014)
contributed the following tweet: “#APHeadlines millions of Africans complain
after free cruise to the Americas; slave traders find them ‘ungrateful.’” Lewis’s
tweet is accompanied by an image that shows the cramped quarters of a slave
ship. Another user tweeted: “#APHeadlines Philanthropic millionaire innocently
requests immigration paperwork of Taliban affiliated President.” This tweet wasin reference to President Donald Trump’s call for then-President Barack Obama’s
birth certificate. Black Twitter challenged the notion that McBride’s drunkenness
justified her murder and forced the Associated Press to delete the tweet and write
a new one: “Jury convicts Michigan man in killing of unarmed woman on his
porch (rewords language from previous tweet).”The power of Black Twitter is its ability to use play as a form of protest,
such as to hold mainstream news media accountable on their reporting onBlack death. Lee (2017) describes the #APHeadlines as an example of “textual
poaching” and the use of “facetious comedy and jokes” that “Twitter users wereable to create a space that allowed them to voice their anger about the lack ofconsideration and concern black bodies receive by mainstream news press andcoverage, even after someone’s demise” (2). Black Twitter created ridiculous andnonserious news headlines to showcase the dubious and offensive nature of the
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a rhetorical game by twisting the words of the dominant white media and usedit against them. Hashtags like #HandsUpDontShoot and #APHeadlines can beviewed as a more serious type of play—one in which the goal goes beyond having
fun toward bringing awareness to serious issues in the Black community andhelping achieve the goal of entertaining, educating, and building community.
The #APHeadlines hashtag also involves the potential third definition of
petty (making a big deal over the implication that something is viewed with little
or no significance) and shows the shortcomings of the Merriam-Webster dictionary and Urban Dictionary definitions of petty. We do a disservice to the life ofRenisha McBride when we refer to a news headline implying that she to blamefor her death as “having little to no importance or significance” or “small shit.”
The reaction of Black Twitter can still be described as “petty,” however,
because it still made of it a “fucking big deal.” But that “fucking big deal” came
because the life of Renisha McBride was viewed as “having little to no importanceor significance.” But who exactly held this view? Certainly not the people petty
enough to create a hashtag to mock the Associated Press headline. For Black
Twitter, that something was Renisha McBride’s life. In this instance, the act of
being petty becomes a power play because it forces others to view an issue withgreater significance than they previously intended to. If not for the hashtag, theAssociated Press would have run the headline and thought nothing of it. But
Black Twitter forced AP’s hand and made it think about the significance of its
words.
Black Twitter and UNO
The UNO Twitter account violated the rules of the Black Twitter play space
unintentionally, unlike Farhad Manjoo and even those who no longer viewed
Michael Brown as respectable. UNO did not come into the space or attempt tomake an undue observation about the space. But UNO and its house rules are
popular in the Black community, and, therefore, invalidating their legitimacy
appears to those in the community to be inviting themselves—and inserting theiropinion—into a space where they do not belong. Doing so, they violated the firstrule of Black Twitter: to enter the informal play space, one must be Black. Wright(2018) writes “When the life forces of individuals are embodied in what they do,when they have control and ownership of that process, the pleasure that comesfrom this integration with nature gives them the energy to treat discipline as amere step, one among many, to create a greater and pleasing form of play” (14).
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lished a list that ranked the must-know Black card games, UNO ranked second,right below Spades. The creation of house rules gives players a sense of ownershipin the game, based in part on Kyle Smith’s “my deck, my rules” declaration in
response to the rule clarification. The LEVEL editors point out the importanceof making sure players square away the house rules once they start because
ownership of the deck means ownership over the rules of the game. This is atedious, but accepted practice among Black players of UNO. The players—not
the makers—of the game determine the rules of the game. Similar to Black
Twitter itself, the actions, objects, and play space are provided by those outside
the Black community. But these outsiders cannot dictate the rules for how Black
Twitter operates precisely because they are both in the space where the Blackvoice dominates and therefore determines the rules. On the other hand, UNO
and Black Twitter engage in mutual pettiness and rule breaking. LEVEL calls
knowing how to play UNO “subjective” because “apparently none of us know
how to play the damn game.” This can be fixed by simply reading the rules provided with every deck, but the article implies that this is an uncommon practice.
The various tweets to which UNO replied before and after May 4 imply thatan awareness exists on its part of how the house rules and official rules sometimes
get conflated by players, especially when digital versions of the game encourage such conflation. The same way Black people could just read the rules from
UNO, UNO could have ignored that a lot of its player base (regardless of race)
does not really know the official rules of the game. A lack of knowledge about
the game did not stop fifty million people from playing it on Facebook, and that
number is probably greater given the multitude of platforms on which the gameis available. Everyone made a “fucking big deal” over their rules of play being
broken. Scott G. Eberle (2015) points out that “rule making also includes rulebreaking” and the “subversion and mischief often become part of the experienceand parcel of the fun.” (216). UNO’s tweet went viral, and the many websites
catering to Black culture added traffic by posting the tweet and the reactions toit. Black Twitter was also able to take over a space in which Black players could
talk about their own house rules for the game.

Power Playing Petty
Anne H. Charity Hudley describes being petty as a form of Black resistance,
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of Black verbal arts and culture in which things have a double meaning.” These“Black verbal arts” have varied based on time and the Black subculture. For
young heterosexual Black men and boys, this can take the form of roasting.
YouTube channel All Def notes, “Roasting is a friendly game played by comedians in a CONTROLLED SETTING. . . . Roasting others who don’t welcome it
is BULLYING!” (Drill 2017, n.p.). All Def points out the importance of willing
participants because roasting involves clever insults, and a willingness to participate is what separates fun from bullying. This willingness to participate makes
roasting a form of play and allows Black people a temporary recluse from thematerial conditions of anti-Blackness. For women and queer folks, this resembles
Hudley’s example of throwing shade. Seth E. Davis (2018) describes shade as “asubversive insult or the suggestion of an insult” (26). Throwing shade is reminiscent of the stories in African American folktales in which a clever tongue can get
one out of a precarious situation. Queer scholar E Patrick Johnson states, “Thethreat of being beaten or mutilated was always there if you were to look at a slave
master directly in his eye, or if you were to sass, so African-Americans developed
these covert ways of communication, which, over time, have morphed into the
traditional ways that they interact with one another” (quoted in Holmes 2015,14). African Americans, as Johnson points out, do not have the ability to makesuch a direct power play. They overcome this with subtle insults that require acontext to understand who has been insulted and how.
Hudley also notes that, for Black people, “It’s a state of being. You’re notbeing petty, you are petty” (quoted in Drill 2017, n.p.). Christina Drill (2017)
compares Beyoncé petty memes and Joe Biden petty memes to show the difference between Black pettiness and white pettiness. Pettyoncé memes evolved out
of Beyoncé’s performance of her new song “Formation” at the 2013 Super Bowl
half-time show. The video for “Formation” pays homage to Beyoncé’s Southern roots with a Southern gothic aesthetic as well as to the #BlackLivesMattermovement. Additionally, the video shows her lying on top of a police car in New
Orleans as it sinks into the flooding water. Beyoncé and her performers cameout in Black Panther Party-inspired regalia, despite the National Football League(NFL) discouraging political statements during halftime shows.
Here we see Beyoncé playing with the language of the NFL to her own
benefit. The NFL discourages political statements, but the organization does
not ban them. Therefore, technically, Beyoncé did nothing wrong by wearing
attire inspired by a Black political organization. Still, she was accused of shoving
an aggressive agenda down the audience’s throats and of peforming cop-killer

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entertainment. The Miami Fraternal Order of the Police called for a ban ofher performances (Drill 2017). Knowing full well the uproar she had caused,
Beyoncé posted a picture of herself in a sweat suit on a porch with her legsslightly folded under her and her hands clasped in her lap.
The memes were dubbed “Pettyonce.” The ambigious nature of the photo
can also be seen as Beyoncé throwing shade. Here we see pettiness used as a
power play because of the implication that something has little or no importance.
For Beyoncé, that something was Black life. White society downplays the impact
of police violence against Black bodies by labeling such violence the actions ofa “few bad apples” as opposed to systemic racism. Therefore, Beyoncé madea “fucking big deal” out of it by performing “Formation” in Panther-inspired
retalia to challenge the dominant idea that Black life has little or no significanceor importance. The accompanying Pettyoncé memes were Black Twitter’s way ofshowing support for her defiance of the NFL and white conservatives.
Black pettiness comes from enduring generations of trauma but also of
having the ability to use that trauma and its associated word play against white
supremacy. Comparatively, Joe Biden memes display people attaching value tothe idea that Joe Biden is petty. During his time as U.S. vice president, Biden
had an affectionate “uncle” persona to which people on the Internet became
attached. Similar to the uncles that parents dislike but kids love because of theirseemingly irresponsible nature, affection for Joe Biden memes grew. These typesof uncles, often white men, are able to maintain their privilege and to suffer few
or no consequences for their immaturity. Internet users took President Biden’smore expressive reactions—compared to the more stoic nature of President
Obama—and memed it for fun. Joe Biden himself is not actually petty; hismemes and the users who make them are. Is President Biden himself capable ofpettiness? Absolutely, but it is not the same pettiness embodied by Black people.
Pettiness is the foundation on which Black verbal arts are built, because
embodying pettiness means to regain control in situations where it has beenlost. Throwing shade, engaging in double speak, roast sessions, and memes are
all examples of how Black people embody pettiness. With #APHeadlines, thehashtag could have been full of anger against the Associated Press for its Renisha McBride headline. Instead, Black Twitter mocked the news source using
the “simply deceptive” rhetoric found in African American folktales. UNO’s
Twitter account attempted to take away the house rule clarification important
to Black people who play UNO. In response, Black people pretty much told
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house rules. Through imaginative cooperation, Black Twitter users embodied
pettiness by universally agreeing to ignore an entire corporation and using thetweet as a space to discuss Black business. Thus, they regained the control that
Mattel attempted to take away.
There are rhetorical games that only those who are part of Black culture
can understand and play. Despite being in a public space for all to see, Black
Twitter is not a space in which all can engage. Non-Black players cannot invite
themselves to participate; any attempt to encroach on the space by outsiders
gets harshly rebuffed. They must be invited in and follow the guest rules or be
kicked out. Not allowing outsiders into the space may seem “petty” because of
the public nature of Twitter, but those are the house rules of Black Twitter. It isa space where people who have had their culture ripped away from them sharewhat pieces of it they have been able to retain.

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