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 Are you an admin, Lomn? If so, a little help? 

An admin by the name of User:Freakofnurture seems to have had a really bad time lately and when I try to reason with him and make him feel better towards me, nothing good came out of it. Evidently, other parts of his life landed him ""on the warpath"", therefore, he has gotten enraged at me for comparatively small things.

I got worried when I messaged him in IRC the other day but he never replied. He reverted an edit of mine (even though it fit the subject), so I decided to leave a message on his user talk page. As I'll post below, I was trying to make him feel better, at least towards me (although I guess I tried to make him feel better overall.) See? It just blows up in my face. Then he tells me to leave him alone. Not only did that throw me into a depression, if he wants me to leave him alone, then he should do the same to me by not watching and going after my edits. As of right now, if he goes after my edits in any way, he just reminds me of how he so bluntly and uncompassionately shunned me, ignored me, and did exactly the opposite of what I wanted from him.

I was about to post it onto WP:RFC but a guideline states that at least two people had to fail to resolve a dispute first.

So to kind of reiterate: What I want is for Freakofnurture to treat me in any way that doesn't invoke negative feelings in me, or if he still wants to leave me alone, for Freakofnurture to let another admin watch my edits and go after them if necessary. In any case, I don't want to feel hated nor shunned by this guy for any reason, even whenever I simply see his name.  

Here is the conversation between him and I. In what sentences did I mistakenly make him feel worse?:

 Bad Mood? 

You seem to be in a bad mood constantly, starting from that one night. You never responded to my PMs on the IRC chat, and I saw your userpage. Is something bugging you in real life? I hope things get better for you man.  

Stop harassing administrators, please. — Mar. 15, '06 [04:48] 

I guess you're referring to Curps when I posted about him in a certain talk page. My apologies; I got a little too excited that minute. Next time I'll better analyze what people tell me before asking for more info about it elsewhere. I hope you don't feel like I've harassed you either; my attempts at communicating with you aren't meant in negative ways.  

Leave me alone then. — Mar. 15, '06 [05:02] "