Truth 

Can you please explain why you think stating the truth (an ex wife may not want to be included as mother to the other 3 children born out of same marriage to a 'prostitute') which I was careful not to put. People in NZ are aware that Mr Mendoza fathered some of these children to a massage parlour employee as it was well publicised when the children were removed from her care. The other 2 children from the ex wife also may not want to be bunched together with the others either.