@ - I'm still not sure what you're getting at. Its not harassment to respond to him on his talk page after he's posted on mine.  I get that his desire is that I don't, but he initiated contact on my user talk page, so its natural to reply on his. Otherwise, I respect his request.   If you're referring to my offer to help, I did that out of a sincere desire to see him not repeat the mistakes I've made in the past. I benefited greatly from having a mentorship arrangement on Wikipedia, and so my offer to him was to offer a more personal alternative than the typical dispute resolution procedures he's constantly getting into.   @