Your problem is indeed that you have no words. You have placed no words on the article's talk page. If you had discussed your proposed edits first on the talk page, that might have avoided the edit warring. Your 3 additions to the list of belligerents was completely unsupported by the sources you cited. They had to be removed for that reason. If there are in sources variations in fighter numbers you do not just delete one sourced figure and replace it with another sourced figure. If both figures are in reliable sources, then BOTH figures can be placed in the infobox - many other conflict infoboxes do this. Because you deleted a sourced figure and replaced it with an undiscussed figure, I reverted that part of your edit too. You MUST discuss these things on the talk page. If your figures are in credible sources then they will eventually, after discussion, be OK for the infobox. Same for the named person in the Azeri army.