Talk pages are not typically deleted. As for your User page, I'll look into it, but I probably won't be able to get to it until tomorrow.  Talk 
If the user page goes, I assume the talk page goes, too. There is a section Wikipedia:User_page#How_do_I_delete_my_user_and_user_talk_pages.3F so apparently user talk pages can be deleted. I have not received an email as you wrote.