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Yes, in shot.
There are too many discussions going on without conclusion. After one week, both discussions have gone to a natural conclusion, in my opinion. I know it's not ""the done thing"" but I think I've been reasonable in my conclusions  wordsdeeds 

I don't assert that your conclusions are unreasonable.  (Note that I'm not familiar enough with the event to express an opinion regarding its inclusion.)  I'm saying that it's generally considered inappropriate for a discussion participant to perform a closure with a finding of consensus in his/her preferred outcome's favor.  Such a task is best left to an uninvolved party, if only to avoid the appearance of bias.  (We don't want people to question the outcome's legitimacy, on a technicality or otherwise.) 
I urge you to self-revert and leave the decision to someone else.  — "