Y'all caught me just as I was logging off again. I appreciate the notes, and I appreciate Kennedy's last paragraph. Very well written, though I think the confusion between love and marriage, and the constant confusion in the US about marriage as a sacrament (it's a civil ceremony, in my book), doesn't help things legally, though they help things politically. Now, I'm going to kiss a dude at Walmart (since there's no rebel flags there anymore) and get back to dinner. I love some of you very much, and if anyone wants to marry someone of the same gender in the US, power to you: I do gay weddings for half my usual rate. Hit me up on Tinder.