# Stephanie Lai

Stephanie Lai Ming-Sze (Chinese: 黎明詩, 15 June 1965 - 28 March 2024) was a Hong Kong female singer and actress. Her father is Hong Kong Cantonese opera actor Lai Ka Po, and one of his younger brothers is Hong Kong Commercial Radio presenter Lai Wing Yip. She is also a master of cooking and is known as the "Hidden Kitchen God".

## Biography

Stephanie Lai Ming-Sze was born in Hong Kong. She has two brothers and one sister. When she was one year old, she moved to the United Kingdom with her mother. When she was four years old, her mother gave her and her sister to the care of their father who lived in Hong Kong, and they stayed in Hong Kong to grow up. When she was a child, she lived in Tsim Sha Tsui, Kowloon, and learned the basic skills of the northern style of Cantonese opera from her father. She attended St. Catherine's Girls' School, which was located on Cumberland Road in Kowloon Tong. She was a member of the Junior Police Call while in school. In the second semester of Form 2, she went to study in London, England, and lived with her remarried mother. Lai worked as a clerk at a local McDonald's and helped train new employees. During the summer vacation of 1986, he was spotted by a scout in Hong Kong and filmed commercials for Watsons soda, cola, chocolate and Kao conditioner. Soon after, he was invited to star in his first movie "Parking Service".
At that time, Lai returned to the UK and participated in the first Miss Chinatown UK pageant with her sister, and won the second and third place respectively (the champion of that year was Cezarine Lee). Afterwards, the family returned to Hong Kong. Lai was introduced by a friend to work as a production assistant at Cinema City for several months. She was responsible for the project of scouting locations for "Love in Short Legs". Later, she continued to shoot commercials and was introduced by a friend to sing backing vocals. In 1987, she participated in the TVB International Chinese New Talent Singing Championship and in 1988 she participated in the Asia Television Asia Pacific Singing Contest, but did not win any award. She later officially joined the entertainment industry and starred in several movies, including Police Story and Prison on Fire. In 1990, he joined EMI Records and signed a 6-year contract. In 1991, Lai released his first solo album "Besame", which won a gold record. In the same year, she won the bronze award for Most Promising Newcomer at the Top Ten Chinese Gold Songs Award Concert, the gold award for New Female Singer at the Ultimate Song Chart Awards Presentation and the bronze award for Most Popular Newcomer at the Jade Solid Gold Best 10 Awards Presentation.
In 1990, Lai sang the rap part of Norman Cheung Lap Kei's song "Opposites Attract". The lyrics "You're so scheming. You send me flowers every day. How can you let me down? Go home quickly. I'm not as vengeful as you. It's not your fault, Cheung Lap Kei!" became a popular catchphrase on the streets at the time. She is also the heroine of the music video of this song. In the early 1990s, in addition to performing on stage abroad, she also performed in the educational program "English Travel" hosted by Lau Ka Kit on Radio Television Hong Kong, and also appeared in the travel program of TVB. Held several concerts overseas from 1993 to 1994. After releasing her last solo album "I Really Miss You" in 1994, she retired from the entertainment industry. Her more familiar songs include "Unending Love", "Dare to Hate and Dare to Love", "Unconditional Love" and "Goodbye My Love". The reason why she stopped developing in the music industry was due to the change in the company's atmosphere and the reduced workload, so she decided not to renew her contract with the record company.
After retiring from the showbiz industry, she focused on taking care of her family and settled in Discovery Bay. During the same period, she worked as an insurance broker for 2 years on the recommendation of a friend. As she was self-conscious and not very proactive, she ended up not developing in this industry. Afterwards, she was introduced by Du Jingjing to participate in the activities of the Hong Kong Artist Golf Association. In 2017, she publicly announced that she was a homosexual and had a girlfriend and had separated from her husband, and expressed interest in making career resume. In October of the same year, following the comeback trend of singers in the 1990s, he was invited to appear on the singing program "50 Years of Popular Classics" and sang "Dare to Hate, Dare to Love" in front of the mainstream audience in Hong Kong again after 23 years. In 2020, participate in Wong Yik x Jacqueline Man x Stephanie Lai x "East Week" to sing good music! 】Online concert.
In July 2023, Lai was diagnosed with esophageal cancer. After actively fighting cancer for more than half a year, Lai passed away in her sleep on the morning of March 28, 2024, age 58.

## Reference Materials

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* ↑ "90年代樂壇玉女黎明詩驚傳病逝 終年58歲". am730. 2024-03-28. Archived from the original on 2024-03-28. Retrieved 2024-03-28.
* ↑ "90年代玉女歌手黎明詩驚傳因癌離世 終年58歲". 頭條日報. 2024-03-28. Archived from the original on 2024-04-15. Retrieved 2024-03-28.
* ↑ "歌手黎明詩驚爆病逝終年58歲　積極抗癌大半年今早於睡夢中離世". 香港01. 2024-03-28. Retrieved 2024-03-28.
* ↑ "90年代玉女歌手黎明詩勇敢抗癌大半年 今早睡夢中離世終年59歲". Facebook. TVB娛樂新聞台. 2024-03-28. Archived from the original on 2024-03-28. Retrieved 2024-03-28.

## External link

* Stephanie Lai on Facebook