# This Ain't a Love Song

"This Ain't a Love Song" is the lead single from American rock band Bon Jovi's sixth studio album, These Days (1995). The rock ballad is an example of the strong rhythm and blues influence that Jon Bon Jovi and Richie Sambora wanted the album to have. Released in May 1995 by Mercury Records, it reached number 14 on the US Billboard Hot 100, number two on the Canadian RPM 100 Hit Tracks chart, number six on the UK Singles Chart, and number one on the Finnish Singles Chart. The music video for the song was directed by Andy Morahan and filmed in Thailand.

## Background and release

The song was written by Jon Bon Jovi, Richie Sambora and Desmond Child, and produced by Bon Jovi with Sambora and Peter Collins. The singer told in an 1995 interview, "'This Ain't a Love Song' is pretty rootsy for us. It's R&B-influenced. I'm real proud of the way it turned out. It's been a big surprise, not only as a hit single but as a live song."

## Critical reception

James Masterton wrote in his weekly UK chart commentary, "The new single is another ballad although rather more understated and reflective than many they have produced in the past." Chris Marlowe from Music & Media felt it proved that "the group's great melodies and Jon Bon Jovi's double whammy of voice and sex appeal were stronger than ever." He added, "You can almost imagine what it would sound like with Wilson Pickett singing it". Simon Williams from NME commented, "And hey, guess what? 'This Ain't a Love Song' actually is a love song!" Another NME editor, Stephen Dalton, wrote that it "waltzes and croaks" like 'Bed of Roses'. Tony Cross from Smash Hits gave it two out of five, saying, "Yes it is. It's all about crying rivers and dying on a regular basis for some bird. Sounds more trouble than she's worth to me, fella. Get yourself a proper bird, cut out the slush like this and play her some of that brilliant guitar rock like you used to. That way she might not be so keen to off it."

## Music video

The accompanying music video for "This Ain't a Love Song" was shot at Wat Ratchaburana in Ayuthaya, Thailand, and directed by British commercial, film and music video director Andy Morahan.

## "Como yo nadie te ha amado"

A Spanish version, "Como yo nadie te ha amado" ("Nobody Has Loved You Like I Do"), was also recorded. However, the lyrics in the two versions differ from each other; the original version talks about a lost love, which is never recovered, while the Spanish version is a reflection on love, about how no one will love someone with the same passion than the narrator.
Mexican singer Yuridia covered the Spanish version, "Como yo nadie te ha amado", on her second studio album Habla El Corazón which peaked at number 16 on the Billboard Hot Latin Songs chart. Yuridia's cover received was nominated at the 2008 Latin Billboard Awards for Latin Pop Airplay of the Year by a Female Artist. Her cover also led to Jon Bon Jovi winning an ASCAP Latin Award in the Pop/Ballad field.

## Certifications

| Region | Certification | Certified units/sales |
| Australia (ARIA) | Gold | 35,000$^^$ |
| $^^$ Shipments figures based on certification alone. |||

## Release history

| Region | Version | Date | Format(s) | Label(s) |
| United States | "This Ain't a Love Song" | May 15, 1995 | Contemporary hitadult contemporaryhot adult contemporary radio | Mercury |
| United States | "This Ain't a Love Song" | May 23, 1995 | CDcassette | Mercury |
| Japan | "This Ain't a Love Song" | May 26, 1995 | Maxi-CDmini-CD | Mercury |
| United States | "Como yo nadie te ha amado" | June 1995 | Radio | Mercury |