# Quit Playing Games (with My Heart)

"Quit Playing Games (with My Heart)" is a song by American boy band Backstreet Boys, released in October 1996 by Jive Records as the fourth single from their international debut album (1996). It reached No. 1 in Austria, the Czech Republic, Germany, Lithuania, Switzerland, No. 2 in the United Kingdom, and No. 7 in the Netherlands. The song was later included on the band's debut US album and was released as its second single in April 1997, reaching No. 2 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart that September, making it their highest-charting single on the chart. It sold 2 million copies in the US. The music video for the song was directed by Kai Sehr and filmed in Florida. In 2020, Rolling Stone ranked "Quit Playing Games (with My Heart)" at No. 26 in their list of the "75 Greatest Boy Band Songs of All Time".

## Background

Initially, Nick Carter, aged 15 at the time, was unable to sing on the recording of the song as he was undergoing puberty. The remaining band members were brought over to Stockholm for a week to record "We've Got It Goin' On" in late June 1995. They unexpectedly finished the song in just two days and decided to record "Quit Playing Games (with My Heart)" immediately afterward.
"Quit Playing Games (with My Heart)" was first given an international release in 1996. In the United States, up to that point, only "We've Got It Goin' On" had been released, but the single was not a chart success. Jive Records planned to relaunch the group in the United States in 1997 with the new song "If You Want It to Be Good Girl (Get Yourself a Bad Boy)". The group instead pushed for a US single release of "Quit Playing Games (with My Heart)", and the song was released to radio in the United States in April 1997. Jive president Barry Weiss claimed that the other serious contenders included "Anywhere for You" and "All I Have to Give." The group also wanted to reshoot the music video, but the label refused, arguing that they only planned to market towards radio, not video. The song ultimately succeeded without MTV support. The background vocals in the song, besides McLean's self-harmonization on the bridge, consisted of Brian Littrell and Kevin Richardson, who decided to finish the song while the other members were having lunch.

## Critical reception

AllMusic editor Stephen Thomas Erlewine wrote that the "slick production adds luster to the singles 'Quit Playin' Games (With My Heart)' and 'As Long as You Love Me', making them as irresistible as teen pop can be." Larry Flick from Billboard noted that the song "cruises at a sweet jeep/funk pace, leaving plenty of room for a romantic lead vocal and layers of smooth harmonies." Can't Stop the Pop commented, "This is very much the archetypal Backstreet Boys mid-tempo, which laid the groundwork for many of their subsequent hits. [...] It expertly weaves together a distinctive guitar melody with shimmering '90s pop production (and a pseudo-R&B beat) to create a song that glistens with a halcyon sunniness from start to finish. Cheiron would refine and evolve the formula in the years that followed, but here we have it in its purest form. And it is terrific."
Greg Kot from Chicago Tribune said that on 'Quit Playing Games (With My Heart)' and 'As Long As You Love Me', "the boys embodied teen-dream vulnerability." A reviewer from Music Week gave the song three out of five, viewing it as "a warm, mid-tempo, but somewhat unexceptional, R&B number. A fourth big UK hit beckons." Gerald Martinez from New Sunday Times described it as "bittersweet". People Magazine named it a "peppy" ballad, noting that "despite a tinge of melancholy in the group's harmonies, one can't help smiling." Bob Waliszewski of Plugged In said that on the song, "the singer longs to return to days before insensitivity and manipulation threatened to destroy the friendship."

## Variations
### Original version

The song's original recording features Brian Littrell singing both verses. This version was featured on the early release of their 1996 and 1997 debut US albums.

### Single version

A year and a half after it was recorded, Max Martin was flown to London in August 1996 to re-record the second verse with Nick Carter at Battery Studios. This version was added to the later pressings of their 1996 international debut album and on the 1998 re-release of the US debut album. This is the version that was released as a single.

### Italian version

There is also an Italian version of this song, "Non Puoi Lasciarmi Così," included in the Italian release of the international debut album. Kevin Richardson and Howie Dorough sing the lead vocals of the first two verses.

### Parody

In 2022, The Merkins released their parody called “Keep slaying Teens in the Dark” under the pseudonym Slashstreet Boys.

## Music video

The accompanying music video for "Quit Playing Games (with My Heart)" was filmed in Orlando, Florida on July 1, 1996. It was directed by Kai Sehr, and shows the group dancing and singing on a deserted basketball court at night. Halfway into the video, it begins to rain. Then, the boys' shirts are unbuttoned, showing their bare upper bodies as they continue to perform wet in the rain.
During the video shoot, Nick Carter lip-synced over Brian Littrell's vocals, as he didn't record his vocals until August that year. Initially, MTV was hesitant to air the video due to the boys taking their shirts off in the rain, but reluctantly embraced it after TRL viewership caught on with audiences. The music video premiered in October 1996 in Germany and in the week of June 15–22, 1997 in the U.S.

## Legacy

Polish magazine Porcys ranked "Quit Playing Games (With My Heart)" number 96 in their list of "100 Singles 1990-1999", naming it a "clever" ballad. In 2017, Billboard ranked it number six in their list of "The 100 Greatest Pop Songs of 1997", writing, "A relatively modest first hit for the group that would define pop music for the last couple years of the millennium — a shuffling mid-tempo ballad built around an acoustic guitar riff, some airy synths, and one of the sweetest-sounding choruses the pop world had heard in a long time." In 2020, Rolling Stone ranked the song number 26 in their list of the "75 Greatest Boy Band Songs of All Time".

## Certifications

| Region | Certification | Certified units/sales |
| Australia (ARIA) | Gold | 35,000$^‡$ |
| Austria (IFPI Austria) | Gold | 25,000$^*$ |
| Denmark (IFPI Danmark) | Gold | 45,000$^‡$ |
| Germany (BVMI) | Platinum | 500,000$^^$ |
| New Zealand (RMNZ) | Gold | 15,000$^‡$ |
| Poland (ZPAV) | Gold | 10,000$^*$ |
| United Kingdom (BPI) | Silver | 200,000$^‡$ |
| United States (RIAA) | Platinum | 1,200,000 |
| $^*$ Sales figures based on certification alone. $^^$ Shipments figures based on certification alone. $^‡$ Sales+streaming figures based on certification alone. |||

## Release history

| Region | Date | Format(s) | Label(s) |
| Europe | October 14, 1996 | 7-inch vinylCD | Jive |
| United Kingdom | January 6, 1997 | 7-inch vinylCDcassette | Jive |
| United States | April 15, 1997 | Contemporary hit radio | Jive |
| Japan | April 23, 1997 | CD | Jive |
| United States | June 10, 1997 | 12-inch vinylCDcassette | Jive |