# The Best of Me (Sedaris book)

The Best of Me is a compilation of essays and short fiction by American humorist David Sedaris. It was released by Little, Brown and Company on November 3, 2020, with every entry in the collection selected by Sedaris himself. All of the works had previously appeared in earlier books by Sedaris, save for five essays which had only been published in The New Yorker.
The book was praised by various publications upon its release. The New York Times and The Christian Science Monitor both asserted that it showcased Sedaris's growth as a writer over the years, from someone who found humor in cruelty and in showcasing outrageous characters, into someone who wrote more personal stories about love, family, and growing old. Both the hardcover and paperback releases of The Best of Me spent time on The New York Times Best Seller list.

## Background

In his introduction to The Best of Me, David Sedaris states that every work included in the collection is the sort that he hoped to be able to produce when he first started writing at age 20. He also notes that he is always inclined toward his more recent material, as he has had less time to turn against it. At the time of publication, he revealed in an interview with WBUR that there was one particular story he had decidedly turned against: his famous essay "Santaland Diaries," which he eulogized by saying "I actually excluded it and I wanted its feelings to be hurt."
Talking to the Houston Chronicle, Sedaris explained that lots of his older work makes him cringe, and that even essays which were only a decade old could surprise him with how dated they are. The Best of Me includes only one entry each from 1994's Barrel Fever and 1997's Naked.
Sedaris further told WBUR that the book was originally intended to only be an audio collection, and his process of choosing what to include was as simple as considering which ones he looked forward to reading out loud. He did not embark on a book tour to accompany The Best of Me's publication, and he told Entertainment Weekly that with a collection of preexisting material, he felt less pressure to reach No. 1 on The New York Times Best Seller list.

## Essays

The Best of Me is mostly composed of works that previously appeared in other books by Sedaris. Five essays whose inclusion marks their first time in a Sedaris collection are indicated by N/A in the "Previously appeared in" column, although all five were originally published in The New Yorker between 1996 and 2020.
| Work | Previously appeared in | Note |
| Glen's Homophobia Newsletter Vol. 3, No. 2 | Barrel Fever | |
| Front Row Center with Thaddeus Bristol | Holidays on Ice | |
| Christmas Means Giving | Holidays on Ice | |
| The Incomplete Quad | Naked | |
| Girl Crazy | N/A | |
| Card Wired | N/A | |
| How to Spend the Budget Surplus | N/A | |
| You Can't Kill the Rooster | Me Talk Pretty One Day | |
| Me Talk Pretty One Day | Me Talk Pretty One Day | |
| Jesus Shaves | Me Talk Pretty One Day | |
| Dog Days | Let's Explore Diabetes with Owls | |
| Us and Them | Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim | |
| Let It Snow | Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim | |
| The Ship Shape | Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim | |
| Repeat After Me | Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim | |
| Six to Eight Black Men | Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim | |
| Possession | Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim | |
| Nuit of the Living Dead | Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim | |
| Solution to Saturday's Puzzle | When You Are Engulfed in Flames | |
| The Understudy | When You Are Engulfed in Flames | |
| Town and Country | When You Are Engulfed in Flames | |
| In the Waiting Room | When You Are Engulfed in Flames | |
| Undecided | N/A | |
| The Cat and the Baboon | Squirrel Seeks Chipmunk | |
| The Motherless Bear | Squirrel Seeks Chipmunk | |
| The Faithful Setter | Squirrel Seeks Chipmunk | |
| Dentists Without Borders | Let's Explore Diabetes with Owls | |
| Memory Laps | Let's Explore Diabetes with Owls | |
| Think Differenter | Let's Explore Diabetes with Owls | |
| Loggerheads | Let's Explore Diabetes with Owls | |
| If I Ruled the World | Let's Explore Diabetes with Owls | |
| Easy, Tiger | Let's Explore Diabetes with Owls | |
| Laugh, Kookaburra | Let's Explore Diabetes with Owls | |
| Just a Quick E-Mail | Let's Explore Diabetes with Owls | |
| A Guy Walks into a Bar Car | Let's Explore Diabetes with Owls | |
| Standing By | Let's Explore Diabetes with Owls | |
| Understanding Understanding Owls | Let's Explore Diabetes with Owls | |
| Now We Are Five | Calypso | |
| A House Divided | Calypso | |
| The Perfect Fit | Calypso | |
| Leviathan | Calypso | |
| A Modest Proposal | Calypso | |
| Why Aren't You Laughing? | Calypso | |
| The Spirit World | Calypso | |
| Unbuttoned | N/A | Later appeared in Happy-Go-Lucky |

## Reception

Upon its release in November 2020, The Best of Me became an Editors' Choice for The New York Times Book Review, and it was named Best Book of the Month by both CNN and The Christian Science Monitor. It spent three weeks on The New York Times Best Seller List for Hardcover Nonfiction, and its 2021 paperback edition remained on the Best Seller List for Paperback Nonfiction sixteen weeks in a row.
Writing for The New York Times, author Andrew Sean Greer called The Best of Me "the best thing Sedaris has ever written." He applauded the author's decision to craft a collection of personal stories about love and family, rather than a "rock-star journey" that included famous works like "Santaland Diaries." Greer further asserted that the book revealed Sedaris's growth, maturing from a writer who once found humor in cruelty into someone who could see it in the sorrow and happiness of growing old.
Heller McAlpin of The Christian Science Monitor also praised the work, similarly highlighting its progression from "outrageous, escalating rants of unhinged characters" into more personal material. Kirkus Reviews declared it "one of the funniest—and truest—books in recent memory" and commended Sedaris's stories for always including "a perfectly formed crystallization of our various embarrassments and discomforts".
Greer and McAlpin both recommended the work to new and old Sedaris readers alike, with Greer suggesting that "enough time has passed to find humor in the hardest parts of life" and McAlpin calling it "a terrific highlights reel". Kirkus Reviews additionally named it "a must-have for fans of the poet laureate of human foibles".
The Best of Me's cover art, by Jamie Keenan, was included in LitHub's "The 10 Best Book Covers of November" list, with writer Emily Temple finding it to be, like Sedaris himself, "erudite, irreverent, playful, and ever-so-slightly... threatening." She elaborated by visually comparing it to a ransom letter.