# Mommy (2014 film)

Mommy is a 2014 Canadian drama film written, directed and edited by Xavier Dolan and starring Anne Dorval, Antoine Olivier Pilon, and Suzanne Clément. The story concerns a mother with a sometimes-violent teenage son, struggling to control his behaviour in a desperate attempt to avoid seeing him being institutionalized.
The story focuses on mother–son relationships, a reoccurring theme in Dolan's work, and also marks his fourth collaboration with Dorval and his third with Clément. Inspiration for this particular story was drawn from Dolan's discovery of Pilon and the music of Ludovico Einaudi. It was shot in Quebec in an unconventional 1:1 aspect ratio.
The film debuted at the 2014 Cannes Film Festival, where it won the Jury Prize. It subsequently became a critical and financial success, grossing over $13 million worldwide. Mommy went on to win numerous other awards, among them nine Canadian Screen Awards, including Best Motion Picture. Mommy was announced as Canada's submission for the Academy Award for Best International Feature Film at the 87th Academy Awards, but it was not nominated.

## Plot

In a fictional outcome for the 2015 Canadian federal election, a political party comes to power and establishes a law called S-14. This legislation allows parents of troubled children and limited finances to place their children in hospitals, without regard for fundamental justice.
Diane "Die" Després, a widowed mother and 46-year-old advice columnist, picks up her son Steve from an institution. Steve, who has ADHD and an attachment disorder, was being discharged after starting a fire in which another youth was injured. Die brings Steve to their new home in Saint-Hubert and struggles to care for him under financial distress. When Steve gives her a cart full of groceries and a necklace reading "Mommy", Die suspects that he has stolen the items. Enraged by the accusation, Steve begins choking her, and she defends herself by hitting him with a glass frame. Whilst chaos ensues, Kyla, a neighbour and teacher on sabbatical, shows up to tend to Steve's wounds.
Kyla, who is dealing with a stuttering problem and recently moved into the area with her husband and daughter, begins to tutor Steve. After a disastrous tutoring session where Steve goads Kyla, she snaps and attacks him. After the confrontation, Steve mellows and indicates he is glad to know her and respects her boundaries and expectations. Kyla notes Steve reminds her of her late son. The three have bonded and their situation improves: Die has a cleaning job and translation work on the side, Kyla's speech problem is resolving, and Steve is receiving better marks on his school work. All is looking up, until Die is served papers by the parents of the injured boy, indicating she and Steve are being sued for the injuries caused by his fire.
Die finds a lawyer, a neighbour and a potential love interest, who is willing to help them with Steve's case. The three of them go out to a karaoke restaurant for the evening. Over the night, Steve is increasingly agitated by the atmosphere and what he sees as his mother's sexual interest in the lawyer. Steve decides to sing, but is taunted by the audience, leading to a fight. They are thrown out. Steve, Die and their lawyer argue, ending with Die slapping the lawyer in retaliation for him slapping Steve, driving the lawyer away. Die in turn shouts at Steve for continually being an issue in her life, whereupon Steve runs away. He returns the following morning.
Die continues to try and help her son and rebuild their lives, but while out shopping with Steve and Kyla, Steve disappears. He is found by Kyla after slitting his wrists. Although he survives, Die comes to realise she is running out of options. One day Die and Kyla surprise Steve with a picnic, and on the drive Die finds herself reflecting on all the dreams she had for her son to live a fulfilled, happy life. The trio end up not at a picnic site as the faux ending implies, but at a hospital to commit Steve under S-14. Upon realising the deception by the two women, Steve angrily resists attempts to apprehend him by hospital staff. Die begins to regret the decision when she helplessly watches the officials use violence and tasers to subdue him.
Kyla announces she is moving to Toronto and Die encourages her. Kyla is relieved Die is not upset. While explaining how much she enjoyed her time with Die and Steve, she accidentally makes a faux-pas about 'abandoning her family'. Die responds that she holds on to hope that her life and the life she envisages for her son will come to fruition. Kyla returns home as Die privately breaks down in tears. While preparing dinner and doing translation work, Die misses a phone call from Steve.
Back at the hospital, Steve, restrained in a straitjacket, apologises to his mother in a voicemail. Immediately after the straps of his jacket are removed by two officials, Steve runs full speed towards a large, bright window.

## Cast

* Anne Dorval as Diane "Die" Després
* Antoine Olivier Pilon as Steve O'Connor Després
* Suzanne Clément as Kyla
* Alexandre Goyette as Patrick
* Patrick Huard as Paul
* Steven Chevrin (uncredited) as older Steve

## Production
### Development

Director Xavier Dolan wrote the screenplay, though he said at the time he had never known a person with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder or the same behavioural disorders that the character Steve exhibits. However, Dolan said his own mother is an inspiration for his writing.
With Dolan acknowledging mother-son relationships have always been an underlying theme in his work, the specific idea for Mommy came about after directing Antoine Olivier Pilon in the music video for "College Boy" by Indochine, finding him to be a great actor. Inspired by another song, "Experience" by Ludovico Einaudi, he wrote a scene about a mother fantasizing about a future with her son that will never come to be, and wrote a story around it. Dolan stated it was important to show how unpredictable mental illness can be in a home. The concept of the S-14 law was inspired by an article he had read about a mother who used a law to transfer custody of a child to the state, although in an interview with Le Devoir, Dolan could not recall which country this happened in.

### Filming

Mommy was filmed in Longueuil, Quebec. Dolan said that when filming, the actors and crew were often rewriting their lines. In casting actresses Anne Dorval and Suzanne Clément, whom Dolan had worked with before, he assigned them roles that he felt were the opposite of what each had previously played.
The film was shot with a handheld camera, in a 1:1 aspect ratio, although most modern films are shot in 1.85:1 or 2.35:1 aspect ratios. On the unusual aspect ratio, Xavier Dolan said, "I know a lot of people are saying, 'Oh, 1:1, how pretentious.' But for me, it seems a more humble and private format, a little more fitting to these lives we're diving into. Cinemascope [2.35:1] would have been extremely pretentious and incompatible for Mommy. To try to get in that apartment and film these people in that aspect ratio would have been unseemly." He also said cinematographer André Turpin had long wanted to experiment with the format. Dolan denied the ratio was meant to invoke the website Instagram, emphasizing this is the original aspect ratio in film history.

## Release

The film premiered on 22 May 2014, at the Cannes Film Festival, concluding with a 13-minute standing ovation. The film opened in Montreal on 8 September, and in Toronto on 3 October. In France, the film was distributed by Diaphana Films, with associate company agnès b. selling Mommy necklaces to promote the film. The film's U.S. distributor Roadside Attractions waited until 2015 for its release.
The film became available on the U.K. Netflix in 2016, with Dolan publicly criticizing the company for altering the unconventional aspect ratio and demanding, "Take it as it is, or remove it." Netflix corrected the ratio hours later.

## Reception
### Box office

On its opening weekend in Quebec, the film grossed $471,902. Mommy was Dolan's first film to achieve success at the box office, grossing over $3.5 million domestically in 2014, becoming the highest-selling film in Quebec for 2014. In Canada alone, it reached the $2 million gross on 16 October.
According to the Montreal Gazette, over one million people went to see the film in France. The film ended its run on 19 March 2015 after making $3.5 million in North America and $9.6 million in other territories, for a worldwide total of $13.1 million.

### Critical response

On Rotten Tomatoes, the film received an approval rating of 89%, with an average score of 7.9/10 based on 130 reviews; the site's consensus states: "As challenging as it is rewarding, Mommy finds writer-director Xavier Dolan taking another impressive step forward". On Metacritic, the film holds an average score of 74, based on 34 critics, indicating "generally favorable reviews" in accordance with the website's standards.
In Canada, David Berry of the National Post gave the film four stars, writing, "As a movie, Mommy is a very similar thing to its namesake jewellery, a flashy, scary, gorgeous little piece of home, a shiny bauble that still manages to hang very close to the heart". Brendan Kelly of the Montreal Gazette gave it five out of five stars, calling it "the absurdly prolific young auteur's best film yet" and "an ode to the strength of tough working-class single mothers everywhere", and praising Anne Dorval as "extraordinary". Brian D. Johnson of Maclean's credited Dorval for an award-worthy "powerhouse performance". Johnson saw Mommy as more mature than Dolan's previous I Killed My Mother, writing "the tables are turned" in writing the film from the mother's perspective. Peter Howell of the Toronto Star gave the film four stars, saying its smartphone-style picture made it timely and concluding it was "one of the best movies of the year, period". Liam Lacey at The Globe and Mail gave the film three stars, calling the introductory information about S-14 "clumsy", but added "What makes the flaws forgivable is Dolan's love of his characters".
On 21 May 2014, Mommy received a four-star rating from The Guardian reviewer Peter Bradshaw, who described the film as "a splashy, transgressive treat, from trailer-trash chat to unexpected sex and surprising emotional depth". Following Dolan's receipt of the Jury Prize at the 2014 Cannes Film Festival, Guardian writer Xan Brooks introduced the film as "a boisterous Oedipal comedy". Peter Debruge of Variety called it "A funny, heartbreaking and, above all, original work". Mark Olsen of the Los Angeles Times wrote the film "feels like nothing less than Dolan's magnum opus, for the time being at least". Sandra Hall of the Sydney Morning Herald wrote that while she initially found there was "too much noise, too many emotional eruptions and too many tone-deaf subtitles", she found Pilon and Dorval's performances to be "remarkable". Peter Travers of Rolling Stone gave the film three and a half stars, calling it rattling. The Wall Street Journal's Joe Morgenstern, while finding the acting "powerful", found fault in the aspect ratio. Richard Brody of The New Yorker panned the film, saying the depiction of Steve "has no basis in psychology; rather, it appears as Dolan's own pseudo-transgressive artistic tantrum".

### Accolades

The film was selected to compete for the Palme d'Or in the main competition section at the 2014 Cannes Film Festival, where it won the Jury Prize. The film also won nine awards at the 3rd Canadian Screen Awards in 2015, including Best Motion Picture and 10 awards at the 17th Jutra Awards, including Best Film. It was also Best Foreign Film at the 40th César Awards.
Mommy was selected as the Canadian entry for Best Foreign Language Film at the 87th Academy Awards, but was not nominated. The film was included in the list of "Canada's Top Ten" feature films of 2014, selected by a panel of filmmakers and industry professionals organized by TIFF.
| Award | Date of ceremony | Category | Recipient(s) | Result |
| Camerimage | 2014 | Bronze Frog | André Turpin | Won |
| Canadian Screen Awards | 1 March 2015 | Best Motion Picture | Xavier Dolan and Nancy Grant | Won |
| Canadian Screen Awards | 1 March 2015 | Best Art Direction / Production Design | Colombe Raby | Nominated |
| Canadian Screen Awards | 1 March 2015 | Best Costume Design | Xavier Dolan | Nominated |
| Canadian Screen Awards | 1 March 2015 | Best Cinematography | André Turpin | Won |
| Canadian Screen Awards | 1 March 2015 | Best Director | Xavier Dolan | Won |
| Canadian Screen Awards | 1 March 2015 | Best Editing | Xavier Dolan | Won |
| Canadian Screen Awards | 1 March 2015 | Best Makeup | Maïna Militza | Won |
| Canadian Screen Awards | 1 March 2015 | Best Actor | Antoine Olivier Pilon | Won |
| Canadian Screen Awards | 1 March 2015 | Best Actress | Anne Dorval | Won |
| Canadian Screen Awards | 1 March 2015 | Best Supporting Actress | Suzanne Clément | Won |
| Canadian Screen Awards | 1 March 2015 | Best Overall Sound | Sylvain Brassard, Jo Caron, François Grenon and Luc Landry | Nominated |
| Canadian Screen Awards | 1 March 2015 | Best Sound Editing | Sylvain Brassard, Benoît Dame, Isabelle Favreau and Guy Francoeur | Nominated |
| Canadian Screen Awards | 1 March 2015 | Best Original Screenplay | Xavier Dolan | Won |
| Cannes Film Festival | 14 – 25 May 2014 | Prix du Jury | Xavier Dolan | Won |
| César Awards | 20 February 2015 | Best Foreign Film | Xavier Dolan | Won |
| Chicago Film Critics Association | 15 December 2014 | Best Foreign Language Film | | Nominated |
| David di Donatello Awards | 12 June 2015 | Best Foreign Film | Xavier Dolan | Nominated |
| Dorian Awards | 20 January 2015 | Best Foreign Language Film | | Won |
| Dorian Awards | 20 January 2015 | Wilde Artist of the Year | Xavier Dolan | Nominated |
| Festival International du Film Francophone de Namur | 10 October 2014 | Best Actor | Antoine Olivier Pilon | Won |
| Festival International du Film Francophone de Namur | 10 October 2014 | Best Actress | Anne Dorval and Suzanne Clément | Won |
| Festival International du Film Francophone de Namur | 10 October 2014 | Best Cinematography | André Turpin | Won |
| Independent Spirit Awards | 30 November 2014 | Best Foreign Film | | Nominated |
| Jutra Awards | 15 March 2015 | Best Film | Metafilms – Nancy Grant | Won |
| Jutra Awards | 15 March 2015 | Best Director | Xavier Dolan | Won |
| Jutra Awards | 15 March 2015 | Best Actor | Antoine Olivier Pilon | Won |
| Jutra Awards | 15 March 2015 | Best Actress | Anne Dorval | Won |
| Jutra Awards | 15 March 2015 | Best Supporting Actress | Suzanne Clément | Won |
| Jutra Awards | 15 March 2015 | Best Screenplay | Xavier Dolan | Won |
| Jutra Awards | 15 March 2015 | Best Art Direction | Colombe Raby | Nominated |
| Jutra Awards | 15 March 2015 | Best Costume Design | Xavier Dolan | Nominated |
| Jutra Awards | 15 March 2015 | Best Cinematography | André Turpin | Won |
| Jutra Awards | 15 March 2015 | Best Editing | Xavier Dolan | Won |
| Jutra Awards | 15 March 2015 | Most Successful Film Outside Quebec | | Won |
| Jutra Awards | 15 March 2015 | Billet d'or | | Won |
| Lumières Awards | 2 February 2015 | Best French-Language Film | Xavier Dolan | Nominated |
| Online Film Critics Society Awards | 15 December 2014 | Best Picture | | Nominated |
| Online Film Critics Society Awards | 15 December 2014 | Best Foreign Language Film | | Nominated |
| Online Film Critics Society Awards | 15 December 2014 | Best Actress | Anne Dorval | Nominated |
| Online Film Critics Society Awards | 15 December 2014 | Best Supporting Actress | Suzanne Clément | Nominated |
| Prix collégial du cinéma québécois | 2015 | Best Film | | Nominated |
| Robert Awards | 7 February 2016 | Robert Award for Best Non-American Film | Xavier Dolan | Won |
| Satellite Awards | 15 February 2015 | Best Actress in a Motion Picture | Anne Dorval | Nominated |
| Satellite Awards | 15 February 2015 | Best International Film | | Nominated |
| Satellite Awards | 15 February 2015 | Breakthrough Performance | Antoine Olivier Pilon | Won |
| Tallinn Black Nights Film Festival | December 2014 | Best North American Independent Film | Xavier Dolan | Won |
| Toronto Film Critics Association | 15 December 2014 | Best Canadian Film | Xavier Dolan | Nominated |
| Vancouver Film Critics Circle | 5 January 2015 | Best Canadian Film | | Nominated |
| Vancouver Film Critics Circle | 5 January 2015 | Best Director of a Canadian Film | Xavier Dolan | Nominated |
| Vancouver Film Critics Circle | 5 January 2015 | Best Actor in a Canadian Film | Antoine Olivier Pilon | Won |
| Vancouver Film Critics Circle | 5 January 2015 | Best Actress in a Canadian Film | Anne Dorval | Nominated |
| Vancouver Film Critics Circle | 5 January 2015 | Best Supporting Actress in a Canadian Film | Suzanne Clément | Won |
| Vancouver Film Critics Circle | 5 January 2015 | Best Screenplay for a Canadian Film | Xavier Dolan | Won |
| Vilnius International Film Festival | 2015 | Audience Award | | Won |
| Washington D.C. Area Film Critics Association Awards | 8 December 2014 | Best Foreign Language Film | | Nominated |