# Forget Me Nots

"Forget Me Nots" is a 1982 song by the American R&B musician Patrice Rushen. It appears on her seventh album, Straight from the Heart. It has been sampled and interpolated in several songs, including "Men in Black" (1997) by Will Smith and "Fastlove" (1996) by George Michael.

## Background

The bassline is particularly recognizable, and was performed on the record by session bass player Freddie Washington. The tenor saxophone solo was played by Los Angeles session player and recording artist Gerald Albright, who also appears in the music video of the song.
The lyrics are from the point of view of one professing her longing for a rekindling with an ex-lover. In one part of the music video, the girlfriend of the ex turns her attention to another man. As the singer reunites with the ex, they vacate the premises, leaving the now-ex-girlfriend forlorn. She ruminates on the romance's end and sends the lover forget-me-nots, a flower that since medieval times has been given and worn to symbolize enduring love despite absence or separation.

## Critical reception

Brandon Ousley from Albumism wrote in his review of Straight from the Heart,
   There's no better evidence of her refined style than on the album's seminal lead single, "Forget Me Nots". Co-written by Rushen, Freddie Washington, and Terri McFaddin, the propulsive dance-funk classic boasts layers of effervescent synthesizers and lively percussion, all anchored by scintillating handclaps, fingersnaps, and Washington's explosive bass work. After the song's irresistible drum-cum-bass break, noted jazz saxophonist Gerald Albright provides a steamy solo that ascends the infectious groove to new heights. A light, airy toned Rushen reminisces on a dissolved relationship between two lovers. With every emotion and desire she explores in her poised phrasing, she longs to rekindle their union by sending her lover 'forget me nots'—a flower that symbolizes enduring love—in hoping that he won't forget the love they once shared.

## Chart performance

The song peaked at #23 on the Billboard Hot 100 as well as # 22 on the Cash Box Top 100. It peaked at #4 on the R&B and #2 on the Dance Billboard charts.
Around the world, the song was also popular. It peaked at No. 19 on the Irish Singles Chart and #8 on the United Kingdom singles chart.

## Charts

| Chart (1982–83) | Peak position |
| Australia (KMR Singles Chart) | 29 |
| Ireland (IRMA) | 19 |
| Netherlands (Single Top 100) | 24 |
| New Zealand (RIANZ) | 8 |
| UK Singles (Official Charts Company) | 8 |
| US Billboard Hot 100 | 23 |
| US Billboard Hot R&B/Hip-Hop Songs | 4 |
| US Billboard Hot Dance Club Play | 2 |
| US Cash Box Top 100 | 22 |

## Certifications

| Region | Certification | Certified units/sales |
| United Kingdom (BPI) | Silver | 200,000$^‡$ |
| $^‡$ Sales+streaming figures based on certification alone. |||

## Impact and legacy

The single's success culminated in Rushen's scoring her first nomination for Best Female R&B Vocal Performance at the 1983 Grammy Awards. VH1 listed "Forget Me Nots" at number 34 on its 100 Greatest Dance Songs special in 2000 and ranked the song number 85 on its 100 Greatest One-Hit Wonders of the 1980s special in 2009.

## Cover versions and sampling

The song has been covered directly by several artists.
* In 1991, electronic band Tongue 'n' Cheek recorded a dance version of "Forget Me Nots", which reached #26 on the UK Singles Chart.
* In 1995, Eurodance/dance-pop duo La Bouche covered it on their debut album Sweet Dreams. It was included on their remix album All Mixed Up.
* In 2006, jazz guitarist Lee Ritenour collaborated with Patrice Rushen and South African singer Zamajobe on a cover version of the song for his album Smoke 'n Mirrors. Zamajobe sang the lead vocal, with Rushen on background vocals, Rhodes piano, and an organ solo. The version featured a brief African rhythm interlude.
The song has been sampled frequently, including:
* George Michael in "Fastlove" (1996), which interpolates the song near the end.
* It is also sampled by Will Smith's 1997 hit "Men in Black" from the soundtrack to the film of the same name.
* Australian satirist Simon Hunt, under the name Pauline Pantsdown, sampled the song for his 1997 track "Backdoor Man".