# Sheila Heti

Sheila Heti (/ˈʃiːlə ˈhɛtiː/; born 25 December 1976) is a Canadian writer.

## Early life

Sheila Heti was born on 25 December 1976 in Toronto. Her parents are Hungarian Jewish immigrants. Her brother is comedian David Heti.
Sheila Heti attended St. Clement's School in Toronto. She graduated from North Toronto Collegiate Institute in Toronto. She then studied playwriting at the National Theatre School of Canada (leaving the program after one year) and then art history as well as philosophy at the University of Toronto. Heti said that Marquis de Sade and Henry Miller are early literary influences of hers.

## Career
### Writing

Heti's writing spans a variety of genres including plays, short fiction, and novels. She has contributed to periodicals such as Flare, London Review of Books, Brick, Open Letters, Maisonneuve, Bookforum, n+1, the Look, McSweeney's, and the New York Times. Her books have been published internationally, including France, Italy, Germany, Spain, The Netherlands, Sweden, and Denmark.
She formerly worked as the interviews editor at The Believer where she conducts interviews regularly. She contributed a column on acting to Maisonneuve. Heti is the creator of Trampoline Hall, a popular monthly lecture series based in Toronto and New York at which people speak on subjects outside their areas of expertise.The New Yorker praised the series for "celebrating eccentricity and do-it-yourself inventiveness". It has sold out every show since its inception in December 2001.
For the early part of 2008, Heti kept a blog called The Metaphysical Poll, where she posted the dreams people had in their sleep about Barack Obama and Hillary Clinton during the 2008 primary season, which readers submitted.

### Acting and theater

Heti was an actress as a child and as a teenager appeared in shows directed by Hillar Liitoja, the founder and artistic director of the experimental DNA Theatre.
She appears in Margaux Williamson's 2010 film, Teenager Hamlet and plays Lenore Doolan from Leanne Shapton's book, Important Artifacts and Personal Property from the Collection of Lenore Doolan and Harold Morris, including Books, Street Fashion, and Jewelry. In November 2013, Jordan Tannahill directed Heti's play All Our Happy Days Are Stupid at Toronto's Videofag. It was remounted in February 2015 at The Kitchen in New York. Her decade-long struggle to write the play is a primary plot element in her novel How Should a Person Be?

## Books
### The Middle Stories

Heti's first book, The Middle Stories, a collection of thirty short stories, was published by House of Anansi in Canada in 2001 when she was twenty-four. It was published by McSweeney's in the United States in 2002. It has been translated into German, French, Spanish, and Dutch.

### Ticknor

Heti's novella, Ticknor, was released in 2005. The novel's main characters are based on real people: William Hickling Prescott and George Ticknor, although the facts of their lives are altered. It was published by House of Anansi Press in Canada, Farrar, Straus & Giroux in the United States, and Éditions Phébus in France.

### How Should a Person Be?

Heti's How Should a Person Be? was published in September 2010. She describes it as a work of constructed reality, based on recorded interviews with her friends, particularly the painter Margaux Williamson. It was published by Henry Holt in the United States in July 2012 in a slightly different edition (she has spoken in interviews about the edits she made), and the subtitle "A Novel from Life" was added. According to Book Marks, primarily from American publications, the book received a "positive" consensus, based on sixteen critic reviews: five "rave", five "positive", five "mixed", and one "pan". On The Omnivore, a British aggregator of press reviews, the book received an "omniscore" of 3 out of 5. The Bookseller reported on reviews from several publications with a rating scale for the novel out of "Top form", "Flawed but worth a read", and "Disappointing": Times and Independent on Sunday reviews under "Top form" and Daily Mail, Sunday Telegraph, and Financial Times reviews under "Disappointing". Culture Critic assessed critical response as an aggregated score of 78% based on British and American press reviews. It was chosen by The New York Times as one of the 100 Best Books of 2012 and by James Wood of The New Yorker as one of the best books of the year. It was also included on year-end lists on Salon, The New Republic, The New York Observer, and more publications. In her 2007 interview with Dave Hickey for The Believer, she noted, "Increasingly I'm less interested in writing about fictional people, because it seems so tiresome to make up a fake person and put them through the paces of a fake story. I just–I can't do it."

### The Chairs Are Where the People Go

In 2011, she published The Chairs are Where the People Go, which she wrote with her friend, Misha Glouberman. The New Yorker called it "a triumph of conversational philosophy" and named it one of the Best Books of 2011.

### We Need a Horse

McSweeney's commissioned the children's book from Heti; it was illustrated by Clare Rojas.

### Women in Clothes

In Fall 2014, Heti published a non-fiction book about women's relationship to what they wear, with co-editors Leanne Shapton and Heidi Julavits. It was a crowd-sourced book, featuring the voices of 639 women from around the world. The book was published by Penguin in the US and the UK, with a German edition published in 2015 by S. Fischer, Frankfurt am Main. It was on The New York Times Best Seller list for several months.

### Motherhood

In May 2018, Heti published an autobiographical novel, Motherhood, focused on her deliberation on whether or not to have children. Initially conceived as a non-fiction work, Heti explores the emphasis society places on motherhood and how women are judged regardless of their decision: "... a woman will always be made to feel like a criminal, whatever choice she makes, however hard she tries. Mothers feel like criminals. Nonmothers do, too." The book was named as a shortlisted finalist for the 2018 Scotiabank Giller Prize.
LitHub named her novel, Motherhood, as a Favorite Book of 2018 and a New York Times Critics Pick of 2018.

### Pure Colour

Pure Colour, a new novel exploring the human condition, appeared in 2022. It was the winner of the Governor General's Award for English-language fiction at the 2022 Governor General's Awards.

### Alphabetical Diaries

Alphabetical Diaries was released in early 2024. Heti had taken a decade's worth of diaries and ordered the sentences alphabetically, before spending another decade or so paring them down into a new book.

## Awards

| Year | Work | Prize | Result |
| 1994 | — | YTV Achievement Award Writing | Won |
| 2001 | — | Now Best Emerging Author | Won |
| 2002 | — | Now Best Emerging Author | Won |
| 2002 | — | KM Hunter Artists Award | Won |
| 2003 | — | Now Best Emerging Author | Won |
| 2004 | — | Now Best Emerging Author | Won |
| 2013 | How Should a Person Be? | ReLit Award | Longlisted |
| 2013 | How Should a Person Be? | Women's Prize for Fiction | Longlisted |
| 2014 | Women in Clothes | Quill and Quire Book of the Year for Nonfiction | Won |
| 2018 | Motherhood | Giller Prize | Shortlisted |
| 2022 | Pure Colour | Giller Prize | Longlisted |
| 2022 | Pure Colour | Governor General's Award for English-language fiction | Won |
| 2023 | Pure Colour | Folio Prize for Fiction | Shortlisted |

## Personal life

Heti lives in Toronto.