# Growing on Me

"Growing on Me" is a song by British rock band the Darkness from their 2003 debut album, Permission to Land. It was released as the second single on 16 June 2003, peaking at number 11 on the UK Singles Chart. It also charted at number 42 and 46 in Ireland and Australia, respectively.

## Background

Despite rumours surrounding the song's meaning, lead singer Justin Hawkins has refuted suggestions that the lyrics pertain to pubic lice or sexually transmitted infections: "People have said it's about pubic lice, but that's obviously wrong because pubic lice don't grow on you, do they?" Hawkins has also commented on the song's true meaning: "A sweet lady woman that you will never fully fathom or understand, but you love her so much that after a while it doesn't matter."

## Music video

The video opens with the spaceship that is seen in later singles being mounted by a Pterodactyl attempting to mate with it, before eventually landing over a large riverbank and dispensing four pods containing each band member as a child. The children all enter a helicopter flying towards a large estate and exit there fully grown. The band then perform the song around the estate, including various moments of humour as Justin Hawkins sings naked from a bathtub or Dan Hawkins fires missiles out of his Les Paul.

## Track listings

* UK CD and digital single, Australian CD single
* "Growing on Me"
* "How Dare You Call This Love?"
* "Bareback"
* UK 7-inch single
    A. "Growing on Me"
    B. "How Dare You Call This Love?"
* UK DVD single
* "Growing on Me" (video + out-takes)
* "Growing on Me" (audio)

## Credits and personnel

Credits are taken from the Permission to Land album booklet.
Studios
* Recorded at Chapel Studios (Lincolnshire, England)
* Additional vocals recorded at Paul Smith Music Studios (London, England)
* Mixed at Roundhouse Recording Studios (London, England)
* Mastered at The Exchange (London, England)
Personnel
* Justin Hawkins – writing, vocals, guitar, synthesizer, piano
* Dan Hawkins – writing, guitar
* Frankie Poullain – writing, bass
* Ed Graham – writing, drums
* Pedro Ferreira – production, mixing, engineering
* Will Bartle – recording assistant
* Nick Taylor – mixing assistant
* Mike Marsh – mastering

## Charts

| Chart (2003–2004) | Peak position |
| Australia (ARIA) | 46 |
| Canada Rock Top 30 (Radio & Records) | 17 |
| Ireland (IRMA) | 42 |
| Scotland (OCC) | 9 |
| UK Singles (OCC) | 11 |
| UK Rock & Metal (OCC) | 3 |
| US Alternative Airplay (Billboard) | 31 |

## Release history

| Region | Date | Format(s) | Label(s) |
| United Kingdom | 16 June 2003 | 7-inch vinylCDDVD | Must... Destroy! |
| Australia | 8 December 2003 | CD | Must... Destroy! |
| United States | 19 April 2004 | Mainstream rockactive rockalternative radio | Must... Destroy!Atlantic |

## In popular culture

The song is featured in the soundtrack to the film School of Rock, despite not actually appearing in the motion picture. The film itself contains another song by the Darkness, "Black Shuck". This change is likely due to the strong language in "Black Shuck"; changing the song on the released soundtrack would avoid an advisory sticker on the release and allow members of the target audience—namely children—to widely purchase the album. It was also featured in the 2004 film Going the Distance.