# Big Gay Out

Big Gay Out is an LGBTQ festival in New Zealand. It has been running in Auckland since 2000. The event was founded by the Hero Festival, but is now organised by Burnett Foundation Aotearoa.
During the event, Mr Gay New Zealand is chosen.

## History

The Big Gay Out was initiated by organisers of the Hero Festival, and was a play on words mimicking the music festival; Big Day Out. The event is always held at Coyle Park, in Point Chevalier. Organisers of the event stated that its location was intended to get back at former mayor Les Mills, who resided nearby and had a history of opposing pride events.
In 2003, leadership of the event passed from the Hero Festival to the NZ AIDS Foundation (now known as the Burnett Foundation Aotearoa). Since the changeover, the event has been used to promote HIV awareness and STI testing.
Several hundred people were in attendance at the first Big Gay Out in 2000. This figure has since increased to between 12,000-15,000 attendees.

### Political influence

The Big Gay Out has always attracted political attention, with protests being common in the early years from fundamentalist Christian groups.
In 2004, whilst the New Zealand Government were considering introducing the Civil Unions Act, the Big Gay Out hosted a commitment ceremony where six gay couples exchanged rings. Auckland Mayor Dick Hubbard attended the Big Gay Out in 2005 and apologised for his past criticism of the civil union reforms.
In 2016, Prime Minister John Key made his annual appearance at the Big Gay Out, but was booed off stage by anti-Trans Pacific Partnership protesters. Despite the group of roughly 30 protesters, John Key received positive feedback for his attendance at the festival.
In 2024, Prime Minister Christopher Luxon was protested at the event by trans rights activists and pro-Palestine activists.
In January 2025, Brunett Foundation Aotearoa announced that MPs won't be taking the mainstage at the event “as organisers rethink how they engage with politicians.”

### Postponements and cancellations

The 2018 Big Gay Out (scheduled for 11 February 2018) was cancelled due to severe weather conditions. This was the first cancellation in the history of the event.
Part-way through the Big Gay Out 2021, it was announced that three cases of COVID-19 had emerged in South Auckland. Mayor Phil Goff learned of the outbreak on his way to the event, but was advised that the event could continue. The following day, Auckland went into a three day lockdown.
On 19 January 2022, it was announced that for the second time in Big Gay Out history, the event would be cancelled. This was due to the uncertainty of COVID-19 and the Omicron variant.
The Big Gay Out 2023 was postponed until 12 March due to flooding damage caused by Cyclone Gabrielle.

## Headlining Acts and Attendance

| Year | Dates | Attendance | Headliners | Additional Notes |
| 2000 | February 2000 | "a couple of hundred" | The Outrageous Miss Ribena | |
| 2001 | Unknown | Unknown | Unknown | |
| 2002 | Unknown | Unknown | Unknown | |
| 2003 | 16 February 2003 | 8,000 - 10,000 | Unknown | |
| 2004 | 8 February 2004 | 10,000 | Unknown | |
| 2005 | Unknown | Unknown | Unknown | |
| 2006 | 13 February 2006 | Unknown | Miss K Miss Buckwheat Mahinārangi Tocker The Morrisons | |
| 2007 | 11 February 2007 | 12,000 | Boyband Mahinārangi Tocker Kneel Halt Buffy and Bimbo | |
| 2008 | 10 February 2008 | 6,000 - 7,000 | Miss Buckwheat Cindy of Samoa Pulse | Low attendance attributed to poor weather. |
| 2009 | 8 February 2009 | 10,000 | Razor Queenie Cindy Of Samoa | |
| 2010 | 14 February 2010 | 12,000 | Sarah Lambourne (Flirt) Opening Karakia NZ Quilt Project Tess Tickle Dykes on Bikes The Aroha Festival Launch! Get it on! with your significant others Kids & Dogs Ramon Steven Oates Finale Restaurant & Cabaret Urzila Carlson Beaver Brown Larry - 'Signing' Singer Jock Swap & Underwear models Caluzzi Bar & Cabaret Sheba Withers Tug of War Brittany Manu Dolls LA Thompson & Christ Barclay Cindy of Samoa Olaf & Keishia - 'U Want Me' Razor Will C Barling & sexy DJ Stevolicious Annie Crummer | |
| 2011 | 13 February 2011 | 10,000 | Anika Moa | |
| 2012 | 12 February 2012 | 14,000 | Zowie Te Roopu Kapahaka o Hokianga Lorraine Butler Sheree Waitoa Finale Cabaret Pearls of Meganesianz Ngaire & Noreen Caluzzi Girls Kamp David D’mynority DNA Spectacular Titch Marvel & the Paparazzi Dolls Razor Manthyng Petra and her Poi Mob | |
| 2013 | 10 February 2013 | 15,000 | Kids of 88 Brooke Duff Maree Sheehan | |
| 2014 | 9 February 2014 | 15,000 | African Rhumba & Kwasa Kwasa Ale Abud Held Sonic Delusion Mika X & The Aroha Project Willie & Raymond Sharvelle Charlotte Charlotte Yates Diamonds of Paradise Fine Fatale Kittens of the Internet L.O.V.E Family Bar Dragalicious Lavina Williams Legend Bar Showcase LACE Buckwheat & Tess Tickle Urzila Carlson Caluzzi Girls Good Short Cindy of Samoa | |
| 2015 | 8 February 2015 | 12,000 - 15,000 | Lavina Williams Emily Williams J. Williams Brooke Duff Pieter T K.One | As part of the 'Love Your Condom' initiative, 20,000 condoms were distributed to the attendees and 209 people were tested for HIV. |
| 2016 | 14 February 2016 | 10,000 | Ahakoa Te Aha Anita Wigl'it and Kita Mean Rowan and Travis Drag King Performance TAPAC - Night of the Queer Alex Farell-Davey Mr Gay NZ Contestants - Question Time Emily Kopp (USA) Ashley Tonga Vallkyrie Family Bar Showcase Annie Crummer Fine Fatale Lavina Williams Luke Bird People Like Us (Musical Showcase) Samantha Jade (AUS) Cindy of Samoa | |
| 2017 | 12 February 2017 | Unknown | Openside Cindy of Samoa Parson James Ahakoa Te Aha Jimmy Moore & Cas.D Tuhoi Henry Lavina Williams The Pop Tarts Charlotte Yates The Diamonds ANJI | |
| 2018 | Cancelled | Cancelled | Cancelled | Cancelled |
| 2019 | 10 February 2019 | Unknown | Golfweather Openside Jon Lemmon Julia Clement LEXXA The Miltones Auckland Philharmonia Orchestra White Chapel Jak Burundian Drummers Beth Goulstone Iris G Ahakoa Te Aha | |
| 2020 | 9 February 2020 | Unknown | Mika Haka Courtney Act Fortunes Alae Lizzie Marvelly Randa Hugo Grrrl Medulla Oblongata Kita Mean & Anita Wigl'it Trinity Ice | |
| 2021 | 14 February 2021 | 12,000 - 15,000 | Chelsea Jade Possum Plows + Maude Morris Half Queen + Coven Jordan Eskra Theia Paige Lady Shaka Jazo Kirsty Sutherland Nicola Tims Marjorie Sinclair Native Bush | |
| 2022 | Cancelled | Cancelled | Cancelled | Cancelled |
| 2023 | 12 March 2023 | Unknown | Theia Brady Peeti Hugo Grrl VÏKÆ Auckland Philharmonia Orchestra DJ ZEKI MC Manila | Postponed |

## Health promotion

Burnett Foundation Aotearoa also uses the Big Gay Out festival as an avenue to promote safe sex and develop condom culture in New Zealand. A survey administered during the 2012 Big Gay Out festival determined that those who stayed longer were more knowledgeable and positive toward condom culture and felt that the Get it on! message was an empowering one. Survey participants also said the programme "helped to educate men about safe sex" and "helped them feel good about having safe sex." In 2014, Get It On! was dropped and LYC was adopted as the main message. Love Your Condom (LYC) is New Zealand Aids Foundation's social marketing programme for gay and bisexual men. It addresses a complex mix of attitudinal, behavioural and social change amongst a community that can be difficult to define and reach. The LYC Social Marketing team talks about the programme's history, the challenges they face and what keeps them loving what they do. In 2017, New Zealand Aids Foundation dropped Love Your Condom and created a new campaign called Ending HIV. It has a goal of ending new HIV transmission in New Zealand by 2025. The campaign highlight key points including:
* Playing safe. Which means safe sex with the use of condoms and taking PrEP.
* Testing Often. Most HIV transmissions happen with people who do not know they have HIV and have unprotected sex. Testing often will diagnose people with HIV and get them onto treatment which will help stop spreading HIV.
* Treat Early. Treating early not only protects personal health, but it also reduces the chance of transmitting HIV to another person.
* Ending HIV Stigma. Stigma refers to prejudice and discrimination towards people living with HIV, their friends, partners and whānau. Even though HIV stigma was at its peak during the early days of the AIDS epidemic, many people living with HIV still experience prejudice on a daily basis.