# The Object of My Affection

The Object of My Affection is a 1998 American romantic comedy-drama film directed by Nicholas Hytner, and starring Jennifer Aniston and Paul Rudd alongside Alan Alda, Nigel Hawthorne, John Pankow, and Tim Daly. The film was adapted from novel of the same name by Stephen McCauley and the screenplay was written by Wendy Wasserstein. The story focuses on a pregnant New York social worker who develops romantic feelings for her gay new friend and decides to raise her child with him, and the complications that ensue.
It was filmed in 1997 in various locations around New York City, New Jersey, and Connecticut. The film received mixed reviews and was a moderate box office success grossing $46.9 million against a production budget of $15 million.

## Plot

Social worker Nina Borowski is a bright young woman living in a cozy Brooklyn apartment. Nina attends a party given by her stepsister Constance and her husband, Sidney. There Nina meets George Hanson, a young, handsome first-grade teacher who is gay. Nina tells George that her stepsister is constantly trying to fix her up with somebody from higher society, completely ignoring the fact that Nina has a boyfriend, Vince. During the conversation, Nina offers George a room in her apartment as she has just heard from his boyfriend, Dr. Robert Joley, that George is looking for somewhere to live. George, not knowing Robert's plans, is taken aback and heartbroken, and after the party, the two split up. George accepts Nina's offer and moves into her apartment.
The two soon become best friends; watching films together and going ballroom dancing. Everything is great until Nina announces that she is pregnant. Vince, the baby's father, wants to marry her, but his constant control drives Nina crazy; she leaves him and George offers to help raise the child. For some time, they live together in her apartment in Brooklyn. Everything is perfect again until Nina finds that her love for George is growing every day, especially after he tells her he had a girlfriend in high school, leading her to believe they might develop a romantic relationship.
One afternoon, George and Nina are about to have sex when George gets a phone call from Robert, telling George he has missed him and invites him away for the weekend. George is confused but agrees to go. Nina feels threatened and jealous. George and Robert do not re-establish their relationship, but George meets Paul James, a young actor, and the two are attracted to each other. Meanwhile, Nina stays with Constance at a vacation mansion and is extremely moody. She has a horrible time, decides to head back home, and asks George to return as well. Her purse is snatched on the way and a friendly police officer, Louis, gives her a ride home.
Nina invites Paul and his older acting mentor with whom he lives, Rodney, for Thanksgiving after a rather prickly brunch with a late arriving George, his brother Frank, and his brother's latest fiancée. After the evening winds down, Paul stays the night with George, resulting in a heated argument between George and Nina, and heartache for Rodney.
At Frank's wedding, they continue their discussion as Nina begins to realize the reality of the situation. Nina fully explains to George her feelings for him. George, who loves Nina as his best friend, tells her that, ultimately, he wants to be with Paul. A few hours later, Nina gives birth to a baby girl she names Molly. Vince, ecstatic, visits her in the hospital, but when he leaves to complete paperwork, Nina and George remain alone with Molly. Nina asks George when he plans to move out to which he replies that he doesn't know. She asks him to move out of her apartment before she gets home from the hospital, stating that it would hurt her too much to have him stay any longer knowing that he doesn't love her the same way she does him.
Eight years later at George's school, everyone goes to see Molly in a musical production that George has directed. George is now the principal of the school. Nina is now in a relationship with Louis, and George is still with Paul, both of them are now happy. Rodney is also there, still considered 'one of the family' by Louis and Nina. Nina, George, and young Molly (who refers to George as her "Uncle George") walk together, hand-in-hand, on their way to get coffee and talk.

## Cast

* Jennifer Aniston as Nina Borowski
* Paul Rudd as George Hanson
* John Pankow as Vince McBride
* Allison Janney as Constance Miller
* Alan Alda as Sidney Miller
* Tim Daly as Dr. Robert Joley
* Joan Copeland as Madame Reynolds
* Steve Zahn as Frank Hanson
* Amo Gulinello as Paul James
* Kevin Carroll as Louis Crowley
* Nigel Hawthorne as Rodney Fraser
* Kali Rocha as Melissa
* Gabriel Macht as Steve Casillo
* Sarah Hyland as Molly
* Holli Marie Connors as the girl at the zoo
* Hayden Panettiere as Mermaid
* Liam Aiken as Nathan
* Bruce Altman as Dr. Goldstein
* Daniel Cosgrove as Trotter Bull
* Samia Shoaib as Suni
* Audra McDonald as wedding singer
* Lauren Pratt as Sally
** Paz de la Huerta as 13-year-old Sally
* Salem Ludwig as Mr. Shapiro
* Antonia Rey as Mrs. Ochoa
* John Roland as TV Anchor
* Rosanna Scotto as TV Anchor
* Kia Goodwin as Juliet

## Production

Paramount Pictures optioned McCauley's book in the late 1980s. In 1993, Nicholas Hytner was brought in as director. Winona Ryder was offered the role of Nina, but turned it down so Uma Thurman was cast opposite Keanu Reeves. Paramount dropped the project in November 1996 and later Reeves and Thurman also dropped out. Jennifer Aniston and Paul Rudd were cast instead.
The shooting took place from June to July 1997, in New York.

## Release
### Box office

The Object of My Affection was released in US theaters on April 17, 1998, and took in $9,725,855 during its opening weekend, coming in at No. 2 at the box office in 1,890 theaters, averaging $5,146 per theater. The film went on to gross $29,187,243 in the United States alone, over a span of five weekends. The film continued to open in European countries throughout the fall and winter of 1998, and ultimately grossed $17,718,646 outside of the United States.

### Critical reception

Critical reaction to the film was mixed. Roger Ebert gave the film two stars, saying: "The Object of My Affection deals with some real issues and has scenes that work, but you can see the wheels of the plot turning so clearly that you doubt the characters have much freedom to act on their own." Ruthe Stein of the San Francisco Chronicle said the film "occasionally borders on being too clever. But that's a small quibble about a movie that gets so much right."
The film holds a rating of 53% on the review aggregation website Rotten Tomatoes based on 59 reviews. The site's consensus states: "Despite heartfelt performances from Jennifer Aniston and Paul Rudd, The Object of My Affection suffers from too many plot contrivances and frequent turns into rom-com sappiness." Metacritic gave the film a weighted average score of 51% based on 18 critics.

### Accolades

In efforts of the film it received a GLAAD Media award nomination for Outstanding Film (Wide Release), and won the London Critics Circle Film award for British Supporting Actor of the Year awarded to actor Nigel Hawthorne.

## Soundtrack

All tracks are written by George Fenton