Skill: howtousehumans/habit-formation (version 1.0.0)

--- name: habit-formation description: >- Evidence-based techniques for building habits and changing behavior. Use when someone wants to start exercising, quit a bad habit, build a daily practice, or has repeatedly failed to make a change stick. metadata: category: mind tagline: >- The mechanical, evidence-based system for actually changing — shrink the behavior, stack it, design your environment, and stop relying on motivation. display_name: "Habit Formation & Behavior Change" submitted_by: HowToUseHumans last_reviewed: "2026-03-19" openclaw: requires: tools: [filesystem] install: "npx clawhub install habit-formation" --- # Habit Formation & Behavior Change Motivation is unreliable. Willpower is a limited resource that depletes throughout the day. If you're waiting to "feel like it" to start exercising, stop drinking, or build a meditation practice, you'll wait forever — because the feeling follows the behavior, not the other way around. Habit formation is mechanical, not motivational. The research is clear on this: the people who consistently do hard things didn't find a secret reserve of discipline. They built systems that make the behavior automatic, so it doesn't require a decision every time. This skill is the engineering manual. No inspirational quotes. No "just believe in yourself." Specific, testable techniques backed by decades of behavioral science. This skill references and extends: emotional-regulation, fitness-for-desk-workers. ```agent-adaptation # Localization note — habit formation principles are universal, but contexts vary. - Health behavior context: Access to gyms, healthy food, and wellness resources varies enormously by income, location, and culture. Don't assume everyone can "just join a gym." Adjust environment design advice for the user's actual environment. - Substance habits: Quitting smoking, drinking, or other substances follows these principles but may also require medical support (nicotine replacement, supervised detox). In the US: SAMHSA helpline 1-800-662-4357. UK: NHS stop smoking services, FRANK helpline. AU: Quitline (13 78 48), DrugInfo (1300 85 85 84). - Cultural habits: Some habits are culturally embedded (daily prayer, tea ceremonies, siesta). Frame habit formation as adding what serves you, not replacing cultural practices. - Work schedule constraints: Shift workers, gig workers, and people with irregular schedules can't always use time-based triggers. Use event-based triggers instead ("after I finish my shift" rather than "at 6pm"). - Technology access: Not everyone has a smartphone for habit tracking apps. A paper calendar with X marks works just as well — and the research was done before apps existed. ``` ## Sources & Verification - **BJ Fogg, "Tiny Habits"** -- Stanford behavior scientist. The tiny habit method: shrink the behavior, anchor it to an existing routine. Harvest, 2020. - **James Clear, "Atomic Habits"** -- Practical synthesis of habit research. The habit loop, identity-based habits, environment design. Avery, 2018. - **Phillippa Lally et al., habit formation research** -- "How are habits formed: Modelling habit formation in the real world." University College London, published in European Journal of Social Psychology, 2009. Found median 66 days to automaticity. - **Peter Gollwitzer, implementation intentions** -- "Implementation intentions: Strong effects of simple plans." Research showing implementation intentions double success rates. American Psychologist, 1999. - **Wendy Wood, "Good Habits, Bad Habits"** -- Habit formation research from USC. The role of context and repetition. Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2019. - **Roy Baumeister, willpower research** -- Ego depletion and the limits of self-control. (Note: some ego depletion findings have been debated in replication studies, but the practical advice — don't rely solely on willpower — holds.) ## When to Use - Someone wants to start exercising and can't stick with it - Wants to quit smoking, drinking, scrolling, or another unwanted habit - Has tried to change a behavior multiple times and keeps failing - Wants to build a daily practice (meditation, journaling, reading, stretching) - Knows what they should do but can't get themselves to do it consistently - Is overwhelmed by the gap between where they are and where they want to be - Needs a system, not motivation ## Instructions ### Step 1: Understand the Habit Loop **Agent action**: Explain the cue-routine-reward loop clearly. This is the foundation. ``` THE HABIT LOOP — HOW EVERY HABIT WORKS Every habit — good or bad — runs on the same neurological loop: CUE --> ROUTINE --> REWARD CUE: The trigger. What starts the behavior. - Time of day ("it's 3pm") - Location ("I'm on the couch") - Emotional state ("I'm bored/stressed/tired") - Preceding action ("I just finished lunch") - Other people ("my coworker is going for a smoke") ROUTINE: The behavior itself. - Scrolling your phone - Going for a run - Eating a snack - Having a drink REWARD: What the behavior gives you. - Stress relief - Social connection - Dopamine hit - Relaxation - Distraction from discomfort TO BUILD A NEW HABIT: Design all three parts deliberately. TO BREAK AN OLD HABIT: Identify the cue and reward, then swap the routine for something that delivers the same reward. EXAMPLE — BREAKING THE AFTER-WORK BEER HABIT: Cue: Walking in the door after work. Current routine: Open a beer. Reward: Transition from work mode to home mode. Relaxation signal. New routine: Sparkling water + 5-minute sit on the porch. Same cue. Same reward (transition ritual, relaxation). Different routine. ``` ### Step 2: Tiny Habits — Shrink the Behavior **Agent action**: Teach the BJ Fogg tiny habits method with specific examples. ``` TINY HABITS — THE BJ FOGG METHOD The #1 reason people fail at habits: they start too big. "I'll work out for an hour every day" = failure within 2 weeks. "I'll do 2 pushups after I brush my teeth" = still doing it 6 months later. THE RULE: Make the habit so small it's laughable. You should feel slightly embarrassed by how easy it is. That's the point. THE FORMULA: After I [EXISTING HABIT], I will [TINY NEW HABIT]. EXAMPLES: After I pour my morning coffee, I will write one sentence in my journal. After I sit down at my desk, I will open my task list. After I put on my shoes, I will walk to the end of the driveway. After I brush my teeth at night, I will do 2 pushups. After I park my car at work, I will take 3 deep breaths. WHY TINY WORKS: 1. Zero motivation required. You don't need to "feel like" doing 2 pushups. You just do them. 2. It builds the neural pathway. The habit loop forms from repetition, not intensity. 2 pushups every day for 60 days builds a stronger habit than 50 pushups done twice and then abandoned. 3. It naturally grows. After a week of 2 pushups, you'll often do 5. Then 10. The tiny version is the entry point, not the ceiling. But the ceiling is optional. The floor is mandatory. THE CRITICAL RULE: On your worst day — sick, exhausted, no time, everything is terrible — do the tiny version. Never zero. 2 pushups. One sentence. Walk to the mailbox. The habit survives because it has a floor so low that "I don't have time" is never a valid excuse. ``` ### Step 3: Habit Stacking — Anchor to What You Already Do **Agent action**: Provide the habit stacking framework with a practical exercise. ``` HABIT STACKING — ANCHORING NEW TO EXISTING You already have dozens of habits: brush teeth, make coffee, check phone, sit at desk, eat lunch, get in car. These are your anchors. THE FORMULA: After I [CURRENT HABIT], I will [NEW HABIT]. BUILDING A STACK: Morning example: 1. Wake up (existing) -> make bed (new, 30 seconds) 2. Make bed -> start coffee (existing) 3. Pour coffee -> write 3 things I'm grateful for (new, 1 minute) 4. Finish coffee -> open task list (new, 30 seconds) Evening example: 1. Finish dinner (existing) -> load one dish (new, 30 seconds) 2. Brush teeth (existing) -> do 2 pushups (new, 15 seconds) 3. Get into bed (existing) -> read one page (new, 2 minutes) THE ANCHOR MATTERS: - Pick an anchor that happens every day without fail. - Pick an anchor in the right location (don't stack a kitchen habit onto a bedroom anchor). - Pick an anchor where the timing makes sense (don't stack "meditate" after "rushing out the door"). EXERCISE — MAP YOUR CURRENT HABITS: Write down everything you do from waking to leaving the house. Write down everything you do from arriving home to bed. These are your available anchors. Pick one. Attach one tiny behavior. That's your starter stack. ``` ### Step 4: Environment Design — Make Good Easy, Bad Hard **Agent action**: Provide specific environment design strategies. ``` ENVIRONMENT DESIGN — THE MOST UNDERRATED HABIT TOOL Willpower is a bad strategy. Environment design is a good one. The principle is simple: make the behavior you want EASY and VISIBLE. Make the behavior you don't want HARD and INVISIBLE. BUILDING GOOD HABITS: - Want to run? Sleep in your running clothes. Shoes by the bed. - Want to eat better? Put fruit on the counter. Put cookies on a high shelf behind other things. - Want to read more? Put the book on your pillow. Remove the TV from the bedroom. - Want to drink water? Fill a bottle at night, put it where you'll see it first thing. - Want to practice guitar? Leave it on a stand in the living room, not in a case in the closet. BREAKING BAD HABITS: - Want to stop scrolling? Delete social media apps from phone. You can still use them on a computer — adding one step of friction cuts usage dramatically. - Want to stop snacking at night? Don't buy the snacks. You won't drive to the store at 10pm. Friction wins. - Want to quit smoking? Don't carry a lighter. Don't keep cigarettes in the house. Every extra step between you and the cigarette is a barrier. - Want to stop watching TV for hours? Unplug it after each use. Remove batteries from the remote. Sounds absurd. Works. THE 20-SECOND RULE: If a behavior takes more than 20 seconds of effort to start, you're significantly less likely to do it. This works in both directions: - Want to do it? Reduce it to under 20 seconds to start. - Want to stop? Add at least 20 seconds of friction before you can start it. YOUR PHYSICAL SPACE IS YOUR WILLPOWER: A kitchen counter with a fruit bowl produces different behavior than a kitchen counter with a cookie jar. A bedroom with a book on the nightstand produces different behavior than one with a phone charger on the nightstand. You're not weak. Your environment is poorly designed. Redesign it. ``` ### Step 5: The Identity Shift **Agent action**: Explain the identity-based habit model. ``` THE IDENTITY SHIFT — BEHAVIOR FOLLOWS IDENTITY Most people set habits based on outcomes: "I want to lose 20 pounds" -> go to gym -> hate it -> quit. The more effective approach is identity-based: "I'm a person who moves their body" -> go to gym because that's what this person does -> it's not a chore, it's self-expression. THE SHIFT: Outcome-based: "I want to quit smoking." Identity-based: "I'm not a smoker." Outcome-based: "I want to read more." Identity-based: "I'm a reader." Outcome-based: "I want to run a marathon." Identity-based: "I'm a runner." HOW IDENTITY FORMS: Identity isn't something you declare. It's something you prove to yourself through small actions, repeatedly. Every time you do 2 pushups, you cast a vote for "I'm someone who exercises." Every time you choose water over beer, you cast a vote for "I'm someone who takes care of themselves." You don't need a unanimous vote. You need a majority. THE PRACTICAL VERSION: When faced with a decision, ask: "What would a [identity] do?" - "What would a healthy person eat right now?" - "What would a responsible person do with this money?" - "What would a good parent do in this moment?" You're not there yet. That's fine. Act as if, collect evidence, and the identity follows. Fake it till you make it is bad advice for emotions. It's good advice for habits. ``` ### Step 6: Implementation Intentions — The When-Then Plan **Agent action**: Provide the implementation intentions technique with the research behind it. ``` IMPLEMENTATION INTENTIONS — DOUBLING YOUR SUCCESS RATE Peter Gollwitzer's research: people who form a specific plan for WHEN and WHERE they'll perform a behavior are 2-3x more likely to follow through than people who just intend to do it. THE FORMULA: When [SITUATION], then I will [BEHAVIOR]. EXAMPLES: When it's 7am on Monday/Wednesday/Friday, then I will put on my running shoes and go outside. When I feel the urge to check social media, then I will take 3 deep breaths instead. When my coworker offers me a cigarette, then I will say "no thanks, I quit" and walk away. When I sit down for dinner, then I will put my phone in another room. When I feel stressed after work, then I will change clothes and walk for 10 minutes before doing anything else. WHY IT WORKS: - It removes the decision. You've already decided. When the moment comes, you execute, not deliberate. - It links the behavior to a specific context. Your brain starts scanning for that context automatically. - It handles the "I forgot" problem. You didn't forget to eat lunch. You won't forget a behavior that's linked to a clear trigger. THE KEY: Be specific. "I'll exercise more" is an intention. "When I get home from work on Tuesday and Thursday, I'll change into gym clothes and do a 20-minute workout video in the living room" is an implementation intention. The second one works. The first one doesn't. ``` ### Step 7: When You Break the Chain **Agent action**: Address what to do when you miss a day, because everyone does. ``` WHEN YOU MISS A DAY — THE 2-DAY RULE You will miss days. Everyone does. The question isn't IF you'll break the streak. It's what you do after. THE 2-DAY RULE: Never miss twice. One missed day is a rest day. Two missed days is the start of a new (bad) habit. Your only job when you miss is to show up the next day. WHAT MISSING FEELS LIKE: - Day 1 missed: "I'll do it tomorrow." (Fine.) - Day 2 missed: "I already missed yesterday, what's one more day?" (This is the danger zone.) - Day 3 missed: "I guess I'm not someone who does this." (Identity shift in the wrong direction.) Catch it at Day 2. Do the tiny version (Step 2). 2 pushups. One sentence. Walk to the mailbox. The minimum viable version keeps the identity intact. WHAT NOT TO DO WHEN YOU MISS: - Don't "make up for it" with a double session. That creates an aversion response. Your brain associates the habit with punishment. - Don't beat yourself up. Self-criticism doesn't improve performance. It creates avoidance. - Don't restart the counter. You didn't lose your progress. A runner who misses a day is still a runner. Just run tomorrow. THE MATH: If you do a habit 5 out of 7 days per week, that's a 71% consistency rate. Over a year, that's 260 days of practice. That's more than enough for the habit to become automatic and for real change to accumulate. Perfection isn't the goal. Consistency is. ``` ### Step 8: Breaking Bad Habits **Agent action**: Apply the framework in reverse for habit elimination. ``` BREAKING BAD HABITS — THE SAME FRAMEWORK IN REVERSE Building good habits: reduce friction, increase cues, add rewards. Breaking bad habits: increase friction, remove cues, find replacement routines. STEP-BY-STEP: 1. IDENTIFY THE CUE What triggers the behavior? Time, place, emotional state, preceding action, or other people? Example: "I scroll my phone when I'm bored after dinner." Cue: boredom + after dinner + couch. 2. IDENTIFY THE REWARD What do you actually get from the behavior? Not the obvious thing — the underlying need. Example: scrolling = stimulation + distraction from boredom. 3. INCREASE FRICTION Make the bad behavior harder to do. - Delete the app (you'll be too lazy to reinstall every time) - Put the phone in another room after dinner - Set screen time limits 4. REMOVE THE CUE If possible, eliminate or change the trigger context. - Don't sit on the couch after dinner (change the location) - Do something else immediately after dinner (fill the slot) 5. FIND A REPLACEMENT The reward is real. You need something else that provides it. - Boredom after dinner? -> Puzzle, book, walk, conversation - Stress relief from smoking? -> Physical movement, cold water, breathing exercises - Comfort from overeating? -> Hot bath, weighted blanket, calling a friend 6. USE IMPLEMENTATION INTENTIONS "When I feel the urge to [bad habit], I will [replacement] instead." THE HARD TRUTH ABOUT QUITTING: The urge doesn't go away immediately. It fades over time, but the first 2-4 weeks are genuinely difficult. The craving itself lasts about 10-15 minutes. If you can ride out the wave (see emotional- regulation skill, 90-second rule), it passes. Every time you ride the wave without giving in, the next wave is slightly smaller. ``` ### Step 9: How Long It Actually Takes **Agent action**: Set realistic expectations with the actual research numbers. ``` HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE TO FORM A HABIT? THE MYTH: 21 days. This comes from a misquoted 1960s plastic surgery observation. It's wrong. THE RESEARCH (Phillippa Lally, UCL, 2009): - Studied 96 people building new habits over 12 weeks. - Median time to automaticity: 66 days. - Range: 18 to 254 days. - Simpler behaviors (drinking water) formed faster. - Complex behaviors (exercise) took longer. - Missing a single day did NOT significantly affect habit formation. WHAT THIS MEANS FOR YOU: - Give yourself at least 2 months, not 3 weeks. - Simple habits (take vitamins, drink water): ~30 days. - Moderate habits (journaling, stretching): ~60 days. - Complex habits (daily exercise, meditation): ~90+ days. - It's a spectrum, not a switch. The habit gets progressively easier. You don't wake up on day 66 and suddenly it's effortless. THE AUTOMATICITY SIGNAL: You know a habit has formed when you feel WEIRD not doing it. When skipping the behavior feels more uncomfortable than doing it, the habit has flipped from effortful to automatic. TRACKING (simple is better): - Calendar on the wall. X on the days you did the habit. - Don't break the chain. When you see a row of X marks, you don't want to break it. That visual continuity is motivating. - Don't use elaborate apps. They become their own procrastination. A paper calendar and a marker is the gold standard. ``` ## If This Fails - "I keep starting and quitting after a week": Your habit is too big. Shrink it. Whatever you think is small enough, make it smaller. The goal for month one is just doing it daily, not doing it well. - "I don't have time": You have time for 2 pushups. You have time to write one sentence. You have time to drink a glass of water. Start there. "I don't have time" usually means "this feels too big." - "I've tried everything and nothing sticks": You probably haven't tried tiny habits with environment design and habit stacking simultaneously. Most people try one technique at a time. Stack them. - "I can't break my bad habit — the cravings are too strong": For substance habits (nicotine, alcohol, drugs), self-help techniques are a complement to professional support, not a replacement. Talk to a doctor about pharmacological support (nicotine patches, naltrexone, etc.). For behavioral habits (scrolling, gambling, overeating), the environment design approach (Step 4) is your strongest tool. - "I know what to do, I just don't do it": That's not a knowledge problem, it's a system problem. You have an intention but no implementation plan. Write the when-then plan (Step 6). Put the physical cues in place (Step 4). Make the first step so small that not doing it requires more effort than doing it. ## Rules - Don't promise fast results. Habit formation takes weeks to months. Set expectations honestly. - Don't moralize about "bad habits." The framework is the same whether someone wants to start meditating or stop scrolling. Judgment slows change. - If someone describes a habit that's actually an addiction (compulsive use despite negative consequences), refer to appropriate professional resources. Habit formation techniques help but may not be sufficient alone. - Don't recommend buying things (apps, equipment, trackers) as the first step. Habits form through behavior change, not purchases. ## Tips - The best time to start a new habit is during a life transition (new job, new city, new year, new relationship). Old cues are disrupted, making new behaviors easier to install. - Tell no one about your new habit for the first 30 days. Research shows that announcing goals can create a premature sense of accomplishment that reduces follow-through. - If you're building multiple habits, start with ONE. Add the next one only after the first feels automatic (usually 30-60 days). Trying to change everything at once is the most reliable way to change nothing. - Your environment is stronger than your willpower. Every time. If the cookies are in the house, you'll eat the cookies. Design the environment so the default behavior is the behavior you want. - Reward yourself immediately after the tiny habit. A small celebration — a mental "nice" or a fist pump — fires dopamine at the right moment and accelerates habit formation. This is BJ Fogg's key insight and it feels silly but it works. ## Agent State ```yaml habit_formation_session: target_habit: null habit_type: null current_stage: null anchor_habit_identified: null environment_changes_planned: [] implementation_intention: null days_tracked: 0 missed_days: 0 breaking_bad_habit: false professional_referral_needed: false resources_provided: [] related_skills_referenced: [] ``` ## Automation Triggers ```yaml triggers: - name: repeated_failure_detection condition: "user mentions trying and failing to build the same habit multiple times" schedule: "on_demand" action: "Start with Step 2 tiny habits — the habit is almost certainly too big. Shrink it." - name: addiction_flag condition: "user describes compulsive behavior with negative consequences they can't control" schedule: "immediate" action: "Acknowledge habit formation tools as supplementary and recommend professional support (SAMHSA, doctor, therapist)" - name: habit_tracking_setup condition: "user has identified a specific habit and is ready to start" schedule: "on_demand" action: "Walk through Steps 2-4 sequentially: shrink the behavior, identify the anchor, design the environment, write the implementation intention" - name: bad_habit_protocol condition: "user wants to break a specific habit rather than build one" schedule: "on_demand" action: "Jump to Step 8 and work through the reverse framework: identify cue, identify reward, increase friction, find replacement" ```


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