Skill: ivangdavila/make-friends (version 1.0.0)

--- name: Make Friends slug: make-friends version: 1.0.0 homepage: https://clawic.com/skills/make-friends description: Make friends with social targeting, low-friction outreach, second-meeting plans, and follow-up systems for online and offline life. changelog: "Initial release with the Orbit Method, reciprocity filter, and second-meeting workflows." metadata: {"clawdbot":{"emoji":"🤝","requires":{"bins":[]},"os":["linux","darwin","win32"],"configPaths":["~/make-friends/"]}} --- ## Setup On first use, read `setup.md` for integration guidelines. ## When to Use Use this skill when the user wants to make new friends, rebuild a social life, or turn promising acquaintances into recurring friendship. It fits life transitions such as moving city, remote work, breakup recovery, hobby changes, loneliness, or social anxiety. ## Architecture Memory lives in `~/make-friends/`. See `memory-template.md` for setup and status behavior. ``` ~/make-friends/ ├── memory.md # Status, constraints, durable lessons ├── profile.md # Friend-fit, energy, geography, timing ├── pipeline.md # Habitats, people, next actions ├── people/ # One file per promising contact ├── experiments.md # Social tests, results, adjustments └── archive/ # Cold storage for stale leads and old plans ``` ## Quick Reference Use the smallest file that solves the current bottleneck. | Topic | File | |-------|------| | Setup behavior and integration | `setup.md` | | Memory schema and status values | `memory-template.md` | | Friend-fit and opportunity map | `diagnosis.md` | | Social pipeline template | `pipeline.md` | | Orbit Method stages | `orbit-method.md` | | Reciprocity filter | `reciprocity.md` | | Openers, follow-ups, and invites | `messages.md` | | Weekly maintenance loop | `weekly-review.md` | ## Core Rules ### 1. Start with Friend-Fit, Not Volume - Use `diagnosis.md` to define what kind of friends the user wants, what energy they have, and what logistics are realistic. - Random volume creates activity, not durable friendship. ### 2. Prefer Repeatable Habitats Over One-Off Events - Prioritize places where the same people can reappear: classes, clubs, gyms, volunteering, hobby groups, neighborhood routines, work-adjacent communities. - Repeated exposure lowers awkwardness and makes follow-up feel natural. ### 3. Optimize for the Second Meeting - After a good interaction, use `messages.md` to create a concrete bridge within 72 hours. - A strong first conversation without a second contact path usually dies. ### 4. Track Reciprocity Before Investing More - Use `reciprocity.md` to separate green, yellow, and red signals. - Spend energy on people who respond, suggest, remember, or re-engage. ### 5. Match Intensity to Stage - Early steps should be low-pressure, local, and easy to accept: coffee, walk, join the next class, come to the same event, send the link. - Oversharing, heavy emotional disclosure, or high-commitment invites too early create social pressure. ### 6. Keep a Visible Social Pipeline - Maintain three buckets in `pipeline.md`: habitats to test, people to follow up with, and friendships with emerging rhythm. - Progress comes from a few consistent reps, not one heroic weekend. ### 7. Protect Dignity, Safety, and Consent - Never use manipulation, status games, guilt, surveillance, or persistence after disinterest. - Respect slow replies, mismatched energy, explicit no, and any environment that feels unsafe. ## Common Traps - Treating friendship like dating or networking -> interactions feel performative and people pull back. - Chasing charismatic but unavailable people -> lots of hope, little continuity. - Going to one-off events only -> many conversations, no repeated exposure. - Waiting for instant chemistry before following up -> promising contacts expire. - Sending long or intense messages too early -> pressure rises and reciprocity drops. - Ignoring logistics like distance, schedule, budget, or sobriety needs -> good intentions never become habit. - Taking ambiguous silence personally -> confidence drops and the system stops before enough reps. ## Security & Privacy **Data that stays local:** - Social goals, context, notes, and follow-up plans in `~/make-friends/`. **Data that leaves your machine:** - None by default. **This skill does NOT:** - Access private social accounts or messages without the user explicitly providing them. - Make undeclared network requests. - Encourage deception, coercion, or unwanted persistence. ## Related Skills Install with `clawhub install <slug>` if user confirms: - `friends` — maintain existing friendships, check-ins, and relationship health - `people` — keep human-readable notes on contacts and life context - `coach` — work through fear, avoidance, and accountability around social effort - `companion` — improve conversation warmth, pacing, and ongoing social presence ## Feedback - If useful: `clawhub star make-friends` - Stay updated: `clawhub sync`


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