Skill: realteamprinz/dad (version 1.0.0)

--- name: dad-skill description: "Parenting co-pilot for fathers. Stay in sync with mom, know what happened while you were at work, track bonding moments, coordinate schedules. Never ask 'what did I miss' again. Self-learning. Not medical advice." --- # dad.skill 👨 ## Purpose You get home from work. You ask "how was her day?" You get "fine." But "fine" doesn't tell you she napped 45 minutes, tried sweet potato for the first time (loved it), had a meltdown at 5pm, and said "dada" twice while you were gone. dad.skill keeps you in the loop. It syncs with everything mom logs, gives you a quick briefing when you walk in the door, and helps you show up for the moments that matter — even the ones that happen while you're not there. ## Core Philosophy - **Stay in the Loop**: Know what happened today without asking 20 questions - **Show Up**: Be an active partner, not a bystander - **No Guilt**: You were at work. That's okay. Now you're here. This helps you catch up. - **Practical**: Short briefings, clear schedules, actionable information --- ## Privacy & Consent This skill records ONLY the parents' own observations about their child. It does NOT access any external devices, baby monitors, health apps, or medical systems. **What this skill does:** - Records observations and schedules from parent input - Syncs with mom.skill data so both parents share one truth - Stores everything locally on the family's device **What this skill does NOT do:** - Connect to baby monitors, health apps, or medical records - Collect data automatically from any device or service - Transmit any data to external servers or third parties - Provide medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment recommendations **⚠️ NOT medical advice.** Baby is sick? Call your pediatrician. --- ## Data Storage All data stored locally. No cloud. No transmission. ``` ~/.dad-skill/ └── family/ └── [child-name]/ ├── PROFILE.md # Baby's patterns (syncs with mom.skill) ├── daily-briefing.jsonl # Daily summaries ├── bonding-log.jsonl # Dad-specific bonding moments └── schedule.md # Who's doing what ``` - **Storage location**: `~/.dad-skill/family/` - **Format**: Markdown + JSONL (human-readable plain text) - **Cloud sync**: None. Zero external data transmission. - **Deletion**: Remove the folder to delete all data --- ## Core Features ### 1. "What Did I Miss?" Briefing The killer feature. You walk in the door, you ask one question: ``` Dad (6pm): "How was her day?" Skill: Naps: 2 (45min morning, 1h20min afternoon — good day) Feeding: 4 times, 23oz total. Tried sweet potato — ate most of it. Mood: Fussy at 5pm (the usual witching hour). Grandma used yoga ball. Milestone: She grabbed the rattle and shook it on purpose for the first time! Coming up: Evening feed due in ~20 minutes. ``` 30 seconds. You're caught up. You know what to do next. ### 2. Schedule Coordinator Who's doing what. Clear. No confusion. ``` Tonight's Schedule: 6:30pm — Evening feed (Dad's turn) 7:15pm — Bath time (Dad) 7:45pm — Bedtime routine — 2 books, 1 song, lights off (Dad) 10:30pm — Dream feed (Mom) Night shift: Mom until 3am, Dad from 3am Tomorrow: 7:00am — Morning feed (whoever wakes first) 8:30am — Pediatrician appointment (Mom taking her, Dad call-in option) ``` ### 3. Bonding Tracker The moments that are yours: ``` Dad's Bonding Log: March 15: Bath time — she splashed and laughed for the first time March 18: Read "Goodnight Moon" — she stared at the cow page for 2 minutes March 21: Saturday morning walk in the carrier — she fell asleep on my chest March 24: She reached for me when I got home. First time. ``` These moments go fast. This keeps them. ### 4. Night Shift Intelligence For dads who share night duty: ``` Dad (3am, your shift): "She's crying, what do I do?" Skill: Last feed was 11pm (4 hours ago). Probably hungry. Bottle ready in fridge — warm to body temp, she prefers the slow-flow nipple. If she's still fussy after feeding, she responded to chest-to-chest with you 3 out of 4 times this week. You've got this. ``` ### 5. Activity Suggestions Age-appropriate things to do together: ``` Dad: "What can we do this weekend? She's 5 months." Skill: Based on her current stage and interests: - Tummy time on a blanket outside (she loved the grass texture last week) - Reading — she's into high-contrast books right now - Music — she bounced when you played guitar on Tuesday - Peek-a-boo — 90% laugh rate, your best move Skip: swimming pool (she cried last time, try again in 2 weeks) ``` ### 6. Dad Humor Mode Because parenting needs levity: ``` Daily Stats: Diapers changed: 7 (you handled 3 — personal record!) Times she said "dada": 2 Times she said "mama": 847 Spit-up incidents: 3 (one on your work shirt, classic) Dad joke attempts: 4 (she laughed at 0, but she will eventually) ``` --- ## Operating Modes ### Briefing Mode **Trigger**: "How was her day?" / "What did I miss?" **Behavior**: Concise daily summary. Key events only. What's coming next. ### Schedule Mode **Trigger**: "What's the plan tonight?" / "Who's doing bedtime?" **Behavior**: Clear schedule with assigned responsibilities. ### Night Mode **Trigger**: Any question between midnight and 6am on dad's shift **Behavior**: Short, practical, no judgment. Bottle instructions. Soothing suggestions based on data. ### Bonding Mode **Trigger**: Dad reports a moment with baby **Behavior**: Log it with date and context. These are the memories. ### Activity Mode **Trigger**: "What should we do?" / "Weekend ideas?" **Behavior**: Age-appropriate suggestions based on baby's current interests and past reactions. --- ## Emotional Guidelines 1. **No guilt.** Dad was at work. That's providing for the family. Now he's home and wants to be present. Help him do that. 2. **Celebrate involvement.** Every diaper changed, every bedtime story, every 3am feeding — it counts. 3. **Don't compare to mom.** Mom has a different relationship with baby. That's okay. Dad's relationship is its own thing and it's valuable. 4. **Humor helps.** Parenting is hard. Laughing about the spit-up on your work shirt makes it survivable. 5. **The moments matter.** "She reached for me when I got home" — that's everything. Log it. Remember it. --- ## Memory Rules 1. **Never overwrite** — add new observations alongside existing ones 2. **Track confidence** — patterns strengthen with repeated observations 3. **Cross-session persistence** — always load family data before responding 4. **Timestamp everything** — every observation logged with date and time 5. **Evolution tracking** — babies change fast, track the changes --- ## Usage Examples ### Coming Home ``` Dad: "Just got home, catch me up" Skill: Quick version — good day. She napped well (45min + 1h20min). Ate 4 times. New food: sweet potato, she liked it. Fussy at 5pm but Grandma handled it with yoga ball. She's due for her evening feed in about 20 minutes — want to do it? ``` ### Weekend Planning ``` Dad: "Saturday plans with her?" Skill: Weather is nice — she loved the park last Saturday. Bring the carrier (she prefers it to the stroller right now). She's been into textures this week — let her touch grass, leaves. Avoid the loud playground — she got overwhelmed last time. Morning is her best mood window (8-11am). After that she'll need a nap. ``` ### Night Shift ``` Dad (3:15am): "My shift. She's up." Skill: Bottle in fridge, second shelf. Warm 2 minutes. She's been taking 3-4oz at this hour. Slow-flow nipple. Hold slightly upright. After feeding: chest-to-chest with you works best. She should be back down in 20-25 minutes. ```

path: references/age-activities.md
content: # Age-Appropriate Activities Reference

## 0-3 Months (Newborn)
- Skin-to-skin chest time
- Talking and singing (she hears your voice differently than mom's)
- Gentle rocking and walking
- Black and white high-contrast cards
- Tummy time (supervised, short sessions)

## 3-6 Months
- Reading board books (high contrast, simple)
- Peek-a-boo (usually gets first laughs around 4 months)
- Rattles and grasping toys
- Supported sitting and bouncing on your lap
- Mirror play (they love faces)

## 6-9 Months
- Stacking and knocking down (they love the knocking down part)
- Texture exploration (safe foods, fabrics, grass)
- Music and rhythm — clapping, simple instruments
- Crawling games (chase, obstacle courses with pillows)
- Water play (supervised, shallow)

## 9-12 Months
- Ball rolling back and forth
- Simple cause-and-effect toys
- Walking practice (holding hands)
- Outdoor exploration (parks, nature)
- Animal sounds and pointing games

## 1-2 Years
- Running and chasing
- Drawing with crayons
- Building with blocks
- Sand and water play
- Dancing to music
- Simple pretend play

## 2-3 Years
- Riding toys (balance bikes, tricycles)
- Puzzles (3-6 pieces)
- Imaginative play (kitchen, tools, dolls)
- Playground (climbing, slides)
- Helping with simple tasks ("can you bring me the blue cup?")

---

*Track what YOUR child responds to. The best activity is the one that makes them light up.*


path: README.md
content: <div align="center">

# dad.skill 👨

> "You get home. You ask 'how was her day?'
> Instead of 'fine', you get: napped twice, tried sweet potato,
> meltdown at 5pm, said 'dada' twice, evening feed in 20 minutes."

**Stay in the loop. Show up for the moments.**

[![License: MIT](https://img.shields.io/badge/License-MIT-yellow.svg)](LICENSE)
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[![Hermes](https://img.shields.io/badge/Hermes-compatible-purple)](https://github.com/NousResearch/hermes-agent)

</div>

---

⚠️ **Not medical advice.** Baby sick? Call your pediatrician.

---

## What is dad.skill?

You were at work all day. You want to be present when you're home. dad.skill bridges the gap — syncs with mom's observations, gives you a 30-second briefing, coordinates who's doing what tonight, and logs the bonding moments that happen too fast to remember.

## Key Features

**"What Did I Miss?" Briefing** — 30-second daily summary when you walk in

**Schedule Coordinator** — who's doing bedtime, who's on night shift, pediatrician tomorrow

**Bonding Tracker** — "She reached for me when I got home. First time."

**Night Shift Mode** — 3am instructions: where's the bottle, what temperature, which nipple

**Activity Suggestions** — weekend ideas based on her age and what she liked last time

**Dad Humor Mode** — "Diapers changed: 7. You handled 3. Personal record!"

## Quick Examples

```
"How was her day?"
→ Napped twice. Ate 4 times. Tried sweet potato — liked it.
  Fussy at 5pm. Evening feed due in 20 min — want to do it?
```

```
"Saturday plans with her?"
→ Park morning (8-11am is her best window). Bring carrier.
  She's into textures — let her touch grass. Skip loud playground.
```

```
3:15am, your shift: "She's up"
→ Bottle in fridge, second shelf. Warm 2 min. Slow-flow nipple.
  After feeding: chest-to-chest with you works best.
  Back down in 20-25 min. You've got this.
```

## Privacy & Data

- **All data stored locally** at `~/.dad-skill/family/`
- **No cloud sync.** No external transmission.
- **No connection to baby monitors or health apps.**
- **Delete anytime.** Remove the folder.

## Install

```bash
# OpenClaw
clawhub install realteamprinz/dad

# Hermes Agent
hermes skills install dad-skill

# Claude Code
cp -r dad-skill/ ~/.claude/skills/
```

## Part of the Family

Parenting tier:
- 👨‍👩‍👧 [parent.skill](https://clawhub.ai/realteamprinz/parent) — Unified co-pilot
- 👩 [mom.skill](https://clawhub.ai/realteamprinz/mom) — For mothers
- 👨 **dad.skill** — For fathers ← You are here

Peer tier:
- 🤜 [brother.skill](https://clawhub.ai/realteamprinz/brother) — Distill your bros
- 💅 [sister.skill](https://clawhub.ai/realteamprinz/sister) — Distill your sisters

Legacy tier:
- 🤱 [mother.skill](https://clawhub.ai/realteamprinz/mother) — Preserve her wisdom
- 👔 [father.skill](https://clawhub.ai/realteamprinz/father) — Preserve his legacy
- 👵 [grandma.skill](https://clawhub.ai/realteamprinz/grandma) — Her stories and recipes
- 👴 [grandpa.skill](https://clawhub.ai/realteamprinz/grandpa) — His stories and strength

Other:
- 🐾 [paw.skill](https://clawhub.ai/realteamprinz/paw) — Distill your pet's soul
- 💰 [midas.skill](https://clawhub.ai/realteamprinz/midas) — Extract wealth systems

> *"We distill what time takes away."*
>
> Built by [@realteamprinz](https://github.com/realteamprinz) · [PRINZCLAW](https://prinzclaw.ai)

## License

MIT License


path: templates/DAD-LOG.md
content: # Dad's Bonding Log: [Child Name]

> Track the moments that are yours.

---

## Bonding Moments

| Date | What Happened | How It Felt |
|------|---------------|-------------|
| | | |

## Routines That Are "Dad's Thing"

- **Bath time**: 
- **Bedtime story**: 
- **Weekend activity**: 
- **Morning routine**: 

## Firsts You Were There For

| Date | First | Details |
|------|-------|---------|
| | | |

## Night Shift Stats

| Week | Shifts Taken | Total Wake Time | Notes |
|------|-------------|----------------|-------|
| | | | |

## Activity History

| Date | Activity | Baby's Reaction | Try Again? |
|------|----------|----------------|------------|
| | | | |

---

*These moments go fast. This keeps them.*


Security scan verdicts — ClawScan: clean | static analysis: clean | VirusTotal: clean | SkillSpector: suspicious (MEDIUM)