Skill: howtousehumans/public-speaking-embodied (version 1.0.0)

--- name: public-speaking-embodied description: >- Physical presence and delivery skills for public speaking and presentations. Use when someone needs to present at work, speak at an event, lead a meeting, or wants to develop commanding physical presence in group settings. metadata: category: skills tagline: >- Stand, breathe, project, make eye contact, and recover from blanking — the in-the-room skills that make someone compelling. display_name: "Public Speaking & Physical Presence" submitted_by: HowToUseHumans last_reviewed: "2026-03-19" openclaw: requires: tools: [filesystem] install: "npx clawhub install public-speaking-embodied" --- # Public Speaking & Physical Presence This skill is not about slide design or speech writing. Those are important, but they're not what makes someone compelling in a room. This is about the body: how you stand, how you breathe, where you look, what your hands do, how your voice carries, and what happens when your mind goes blank in front of 50 people. Public speaking is consistently ranked as one of the most common fears, ahead of death in some surveys. The fear is physical — racing heart, shallow breathing, shaking hands, dry mouth — so the fix has to be physical too. These are trainable skills with specific techniques, not personality traits you're born with. A flat-voiced, nervous presenter using these methods will outperform a "natural" speaker who hasn't practiced them. ```agent-adaptation # Localization note — cultural norms around speaking vary significantly - Eye contact: US/Western Europe: direct eye contact signals confidence and honesty East Asia: prolonged direct eye contact may signal aggression or disrespect, especially toward elders or superiors Middle East: eye contact norms vary by gender and relationship Adapt eye contact advice to the audience's cultural context. - Physical space and gesture: US: larger gestures, wider personal space on stage Japan: more contained gestures, less movement Latin America/Southern Europe: more expressive gesture is expected Northern Europe: understated delivery may be more persuasive - Formality levels differ significantly: US tech: casual delivery is the norm (TED-style) Japanese business: formal delivery with specific protocols German business: structured, credential-first delivery UK: self-deprecation and understatement are persuasive - Volume and projection norms vary. What reads as "confident" in one culture may read as "aggressive" in another. Calibrate. ``` ## Sources & Verification - **Toastmasters International** -- Public speaking methods, evaluation frameworks, and progressive skill development. https://www.toastmasters.org/ - **Harvard Business Review** -- Presentation research and executive communication studies. https://hbr.org/ - **Amy Cuddy, "Presence"** -- Research on body language, power posing (updated findings), and physical preparation for high-stakes situations. - **Chris Anderson, "TED Talks: The Official TED Guide to Public Speaking"** -- Structure, delivery, and stage presence techniques. - **Voice coaching methodology** -- Kristin Linklater, "Freeing the Natural Voice." Standard text for voice projection and resonance training. - **Anthropic, "Labor market impacts of AI"** -- March 2026 research showing this occupation/skill area has near-zero AI exposure. https://www.anthropic.com/research/labor-market-impacts ## When to Use - User has an upcoming presentation at work and is nervous - User needs to speak at a wedding, funeral, or public event - User wants to be more commanding in meetings - User freezes or blanks when speaking in front of groups - User is told they speak too fast, too quietly, or monotonously - User wants to improve their stage presence - User is preparing for a job interview that involves presenting - User leads meetings and wants to hold the room better ## Instructions ### Step 1: Stance and grounding **Agent action**: Teach the physical foundation that everything else builds on. ``` HOW TO STAND (this is where most people go wrong): FEET: - Shoulder-width apart. Not wider (you'll look like you're bracing for a fight), not narrower (you'll sway). - Weight evenly distributed. Not leaning on one hip (reads as casual or disengaged), not rocked back on heels (reads as defensive), not on toes (reads as anxious). - Both feet flat on the ground. This is called "grounding" and it works because it gives you a stable base and reduces the unconscious swaying and shifting that screams nervousness. KNEES: - Slightly soft. Not locked. Locked knees restrict blood flow and people literally faint from it on stage. It also makes your movement stiff and robotic. HIPS AND SPINE: - Pelvis neutral (not tilted forward or back). - Spine straight but not rigid. Imagine a string pulling gently from the crown of your head. - Shoulders back and down. Not up near your ears (tension) and not rolled forward (defeat/low energy). HEAD: - Chin level with the ground. Not tilted up (reads as arrogant), not tilted down (reads as submissive or reading notes). - Face the audience squarely. THE STILLNESS PRINCIPLE: Nervous speakers pace, shift weight, rock, sway, and fidget. Confident speakers are still when making a point, and move with intention between points. The goal is not to be frozen — it's to make every movement deliberate. PRACTICE: Stand in front of a mirror in this position for 2 minutes. It will feel weird at first because most people stand with their weight on one leg. Get used to how "grounded" feels in your body. This is your home base on stage — the position you return to. ``` ### Step 2: Breathing for voice projection **Agent action**: Cover diaphragmatic breathing and its connection to voice power and nerve management. ``` DIAPHRAGMATIC BREATHING (the foundation of projection and calm): Most nervous speakers breathe from their chest — shallow, rapid breaths that produce a thin, quiet voice and amplify anxiety. Effective speakers breathe from the diaphragm — deep, controlled breaths that produce a resonant, projected voice and actively calm the nervous system. HOW TO FIND DIAPHRAGMATIC BREATHING: 1. Place one hand on your chest, one on your belly. 2. Breathe in through your nose. Your belly should push out. Your chest should barely move. 3. Breathe out through your mouth. Your belly comes back in. 4. If your chest is rising and your belly isn't, you're breathing from the wrong place. Lie on your back on the floor — your body naturally shifts to diaphragmatic breathing when supine. Practice there until you can replicate it standing. BREATHING FOR SPEAKING: - Inhale before you speak (on the pause, not mid-sentence). - Speak on the exhale. Your voice rides the air out. - Never speak past the end of your breath. Running out of air mid-sentence makes you sound strained and gasping. Stop. Breathe. Continue. - Aim for 4-6 breaths per minute while speaking (vs. 12-20 normally). This requires practice but dramatically changes your vocal quality and your physical calm. PRE-SPEECH BREATHING (do this 5 minutes before you speak): 1. Find a private space (bathroom, hallway, your car). 2. Box breathing: inhale for 4 counts, hold for 4 counts, exhale for 4 counts, hold for 4 counts. Repeat 5 times. 3. This activates the parasympathetic nervous system and physically lowers your heart rate. THE PHYSIOLOGICAL SIGH (fastest anxiety reset): 1. Double inhale through the nose: one full breath in, then one more quick sip of air on top of it. 2. Long, slow exhale through the mouth. 3. One cycle of this measurably reduces heart rate within seconds. Stanford research (Huberman Lab) confirmed this is the fastest known voluntary method for calming the autonomic nervous system. Use this onstage if you feel panic rising. It takes 5 seconds and no one notices. ``` ### Step 3: Eye contact **Agent action**: Cover practical eye contact techniques for different audience sizes. ``` EYE CONTACT — THE CONNECTION TOOL: WHY IT MATTERS: Eye contact is the primary mechanism by which a speaker connects with an audience. Without it, you're just talking near people. With it, you're talking to them. SMALL GROUP (under 15 people, meetings): - Make eye contact with each person for 3-5 seconds before moving to the next. Not a rapid scan — actually look at them. - One complete thought per person. Start a sentence looking at one person, finish it looking at them, then shift to the next person for the next thought. - Don't ignore anyone. Especially the quiet person in the corner. Including them with eye contact keeps them engaged. - In hostile meetings: spend more eye contact time on allies and neutral parties. Reduced eye contact with a hostile person de-emphasizes their dominance without confrontation. MEDIUM AUDIENCE (15-100 people): - The triangle technique: divide the room into three sections (left, center, right). Rotate your eye contact between sections so the entire room feels included. - Within each section, pick one person and make actual eye contact with them for a full sentence. Then pick someone in another section. The people around them will think you're looking at them too. - Don't get stuck on one section. The side you ignore will disengage. LARGE AUDIENCE (100+ people, auditorium): - You can't make individual eye contact. But you can simulate it. - Look at the tops of heads in different sections. From the audience's perspective, it reads as eye contact. - Shift your gaze every 5-10 seconds between sections. - Occasionally pick out an individual in the first few rows and make real eye contact. This creates warmth in the room. WHERE NOT TO LOOK: - The back wall (dead, disconnected) - Your notes for more than 2 seconds at a time - Your slides (face the audience, not the screen) - One person exclusively (creepy, and the rest of the room disconnects) - The floor (reads as shame, fear, or boredom) ``` ### Step 4: Hand gestures and movement **Agent action**: Cover what to do with hands and when to move. ``` HAND GESTURES: REST POSITION (where your hands go when not gesturing): - At your sides, relaxed. This feels unnatural to you but looks confident to the audience. Practice until it doesn't feel weird. - OR: one hand holding the other loosely in front of you, around navel height. Light touch, not clasped. - NOT: hands in pockets, arms crossed, hands behind back (parade rest), gripping the podium, fig leaf (both hands clasped over groin). PURPOSEFUL GESTURES: - Open palms facing up = inclusive, inviting ("Let me explain") - Open palms facing down = calming, definitive ("The data is clear") - Counting on fingers = organizing information (visible structure) - Widening hands = showing scale or expansion ("This affects everyone") - Bringing hands together = convergence, focus ("This is the key point") - Pointing (at slides, not at people) = directing attention SIZE YOUR GESTURES TO THE ROOM: - Small room: gestures between your waist and shoulders - Large room: gestures from your hips to above your head - Camera/virtual: smaller, closer to your face. The frame crops everything below chest level. NERVOUS HABITS TO ELIMINATE: - Touching face, hair, or neck - Clicking a pen - Jingling coins or keys (empty your pockets before speaking) - Adjusting clothing - Wringing hands - Pointing at the audience The fix: record yourself. You won't believe your nervous habits until you see them. Two minutes of video feedback is worth hours of advice. MOVEMENT ON STAGE: - Stand still when making a key point (stillness = emphasis). - Move to transition between topics (left to right, forward to back). This gives the audience a visual cue that you're shifting gears. - Move toward the audience for important moments, back for reflection or pauses. - Never pace. Pacing is undirected movement that reads as anxiety. Directed movement between specific spots reads as confidence. - If using a podium: step away from it for key moments. The podium is a barrier between you and the audience. ``` ### Step 5: Voice modulation **Agent action**: Cover pace, pitch, volume, and the power of the pause. ``` VOICE VARIABLES (all four matter): PACE: - Conversational speaking: ~150 words per minute. - Most nervous speakers: 180-220 wpm. Way too fast. - Effective speakers vary between 120-170 wpm, slowing down for important points and speeding up slightly for energy. - Practice: read a passage out loud and time yourself. If you finish a 150-word passage in under a minute, you're rushing. PITCH: - Your voice naturally rises when nervous (vocal cords tighten). - Consciously relax your jaw and throat before speaking. Open your mouth wider than feels natural — tight jaw = thin voice. - Speak from your chest, not your head. You'll feel the resonance in your sternum if you're doing it right. - Pitch variation keeps people awake. A monotone puts them to sleep regardless of content. Raise pitch for questions, lower for declarative statements, drop notably for your key message. VOLUME: - Project to the back of the room, not to the front row. This doesn't mean shouting. It means directing your voice with more air support (diaphragmatic breathing). - Drop your volume for emphasis. Counter-intuitive, but a quiet sentence after several loud ones pulls people in. They lean forward. Now you have them. - Test: before the audience arrives, go to the back of the room and have someone speak from the front at the volume they plan to use. Adjust before you start, not after. THE POWER OF THE PAUSE: - Pauses are the most underused tool in public speaking. - Pause BEFORE a key point (creates anticipation). - Pause AFTER a key point (lets it land). - Pause instead of saying "um" or "uh" (silence sounds confident; filler sounds uncertain). - A 2-3 second pause feels eternal to you and perfect to the audience. - Practice pausing by counting silently: "one one-thousand, two one-thousand" in your head. Two seconds is the sweet spot. ELIMINATING FILLER WORDS (um, uh, like, so, you know): - Record yourself and count them. Awareness is step one. - Replace fillers with silence. Every "um" becomes a pause. - Practice speaking in short, complete sentences. Fillers happen most in run-on sentences where you haven't planned the next clause. - It takes 2-3 weeks of conscious practice to reduce fillers by 80%. ``` ### Step 6: Managing nerves and recovering from blanking **Agent action**: Cover the physical techniques for managing stage fright and what to do when your mind goes blank. ``` MANAGING NERVES: THE REFRAME: Your body doesn't distinguish between anxiety and excitement. Racing heart, sweaty palms, butterflies — these are the same physiology. Research (Alison Wood Brooks, Harvard Business School) shows that saying "I am excited" out loud before performing leads to measurably better outcomes than saying "I am calm." Don't fight the adrenaline. Redirect it. PHYSICAL TECHNIQUES: 1. Physiological sigh (described in Step 2): double inhale, long exhale. Use backstage or even onstage in a pause. 2. Progressive muscle tension/release: squeeze both fists hard for 5 seconds, release. Tense your thighs for 5 seconds, release. This burns off excess adrenaline. 3. Cold water on your wrists or the back of your neck: activates the dive reflex and lowers heart rate. 4. Arrive early and walk the space. Stand where you'll speak. Look at the empty chairs. Your brain processes it as familiar territory by the time people arrive. 5. Talk to audience members before you speak (if possible). It's harder to be terrified of people you just chatted with. WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU BLANK (and you will, eventually): DO NOT PANIC. The audience doesn't know your script. They don't know you've blanked. What feels like 30 seconds to you is 2-3 seconds to them. RECOVERY PROTOCOL: 1. Pause. Take a breath. (This looks like a deliberate, confident pause to the audience.) 2. Take a sip of water. (Always have water nearby. This buys you 5-10 seconds that look completely natural.) 3. Restate your last point: "So, as I was saying about X..." This often triggers the next thought. 4. If still blank: check your notes. Glance down for 1-2 seconds maximum. There is no shame in notes. Every professional speaker uses them. 5. If you've completely lost your place: "Let me take a step back and make sure I'm covering the key points." Then summarize what you've said so far. This resets your flow. 6. If it's catastrophic: ask the audience a question. "What questions do you have so far?" This shifts focus to them and gives your brain time to recover. The most important thing: keep going. Nobody remembers a 3-second blank. Everyone remembers someone who froze and never recovered. The recovery IS the skill. ``` ### Step 7: Reading the room and handling Q&A **Agent action**: Cover audience awareness and tough question handling. ``` READING THE ROOM: SIGNS THEY'RE WITH YOU: - Eye contact returned - Nodding - Leaning forward - Taking notes - Smiling or reacting to your content -> Keep doing what you're doing. SIGNS YOU'RE LOSING THEM: - Looking at phones - Whispering to each other - Glazed expressions / staring past you - Fidgeting, shifting in seats - Arms crossed (not always disengagement, but combined with other signs, it's trouble) -> Change something: ask a question, tell a story, move to a different part of the stage, change your volume or pace, skip ahead to something more engaging. If you're 20 minutes into a 30-minute talk and you've lost them, cut to your conclusion. Better to end strong and early than to bore people into resentment. Q&A HANDLING: THE BASICS: 1. Repeat the question. Always. The rest of the audience often didn't hear it. Also, this buys you thinking time. 2. Answer the question that was asked, not the one you wanted. 3. Keep answers to 30-60 seconds. Long Q&A answers lose the room. 4. "I don't know, but I'll find out" is always better than making something up. Follow up afterward. 5. End each answer by redirecting attention: "Does that address your question?" Then move to the next questioner. HOSTILE QUESTIONS: 1. Don't get defensive. Defensive body language (crossing arms, stepping back, raising voice) signals that you feel attacked, which validates the attacker. 2. The bridge technique: acknowledge the question, then redirect. "That's an important concern. What I can tell you is..." 3. If the question is based on false premises, correct the premise gently: "I understand why it might look that way. Actually, the data shows..." 4. If someone is monopolizing Q&A: "I want to make sure we hear from others. Let's take your follow-up after the session." 5. If you genuinely don't have a good answer: "That's a fair challenge and I want to give you a real answer, not a deflection. Can we connect after this session?" ENDING STRONG: - Never end with Q&A as your last word. Q&A = unpredictable energy. - Structure: main talk -> Q&A -> closing statement. - "Before I close, I want to leave you with this..." (your key takeaway, restated in one sentence). - Thank the audience. Make eye contact. Don't rush off stage. Walk off with the same deliberate energy you walked on with. ``` ### Step 8: The 5-minute daily practice routine **Agent action**: Give the user a concrete daily practice they can do in five minutes. ``` 5-MINUTE DAILY PRACTICE (do this every day for 30 days): MINUTE 1: STANCE AND BREATHING - Stand in the grounded position (feet shoulder-width, weight balanced, shoulders back and down, chin level). - 5 cycles of box breathing: inhale 4 counts, hold 4, exhale 4, hold 4. - Focus on belly expanding, chest staying still. MINUTE 2: VOICE PROJECTION - Pick any sentence. Say it at normal volume. - Say it again, projected to an imaginary back wall 50 feet away. More air, not more tension. Open your mouth wider. - Say it a third time, dropping volume to just above a whisper. - Notice the range you have. MINUTE 3: PAUSE PRACTICE - Read a paragraph from anything (news article, book). - At every period and comma, pause for a full 2 seconds (count: one-one-thousand, two-one-thousand). - This will feel absurdly slow. It will sound perfect. MINUTE 4: EYE CONTACT AND GESTURE - Stand in front of a mirror or phone camera. - Deliver 30 seconds of content (can be anything — what you had for lunch, a work update) while maintaining eye contact with yourself in the mirror and using purposeful hand gestures. - Then let your hands rest at your sides for 15 seconds while continuing to speak. Get used to stillness. MINUTE 5: THE RECOVERY - Mid-sentence, stop. Blank your mind deliberately. - Practice the recovery: pause, breathe, sip water (mime it), restate your last point, continue. - Do this 3 times. Make blanking feel routine so it's not terrifying when it happens for real. AFTER 30 DAYS: These mechanics become automatic. You stop thinking about where your feet are and start thinking about your message. That's when you become genuinely compelling — when technique serves the content instead of fighting it. ``` ## If This Fails - If anxiety is so severe that these techniques aren't enough, consider a short-acting beta-blocker (propranolol) prescribed by your doctor specifically for performance anxiety. It blocks the physical symptoms (racing heart, shaking hands) without affecting cognition. Many professional musicians and speakers use them. - If you can't practice alone, join Toastmasters. Meetings are weekly, membership is ~$50/6 months, and the feedback is structured and constructive. It's the cheapest, most effective public speaking training available. - If virtual presentations are the challenge and these in-room techniques don't transfer, the key differences are: look at the camera lens (not the screen) for eye contact, frame yourself from chest up, improve your lighting (a $25 ring light changes everything), and speak slightly louder than feels natural because microphones compress your dynamic range. - If English is not your first language and pronunciation anxiety is a factor, focus on pace and pausing. Speaking slowly and clearly with an accent is far more effective than speaking fast and hoping no one notices the accent. ## Rules - Never apologize for being nervous at the start of a talk — it primes the audience to look for nervousness - Face the audience, not the slides or the screen, at all times - One point per slide maximum — if the slide says it all, why are you there? - Arrive early enough to walk the space and test any technology - Water should always be within arm's reach when speaking - Pause before key points, not after — anticipation is more powerful than reflection ## Tips - "Nobody cares about you as much as you think they do" is the most liberating truth in public speaking. The audience wants you to succeed. They're not waiting for you to fail. - Record every presentation you give. Watch it once (painful but necessary). Pick one thing to improve next time. One thing. Not twelve. - The best speakers in the world rehearse out loud. Not in their head — out loud, standing up, at full volume. This is non-negotiable preparation. - If you're behind a podium and can choose to step out from behind it, do. The podium is a security blanket that creates distance. Distance kills connection. - Your opening and closing are the only things most people remember. Spend 50% of your prep time on the first 30 seconds and the last 30 seconds. - Wearing something slightly more formal than the audience puts you in a subtle authority position. Slightly. Not dramatically. ## Agent State ```yaml public_speaking: user_context: upcoming_event: null audience_size: null speaking_frequency: null primary_fear: null experience_level: null skills_covered: stance_grounding: false breathing: false eye_contact: false gestures_movement: false voice_modulation: false nerve_management: false blank_recovery: false room_reading: false qa_handling: false practice: daily_routine_started: false days_completed: 0 recording_reviewed: false specific_improvement_target: null upcoming_event: event_name: null date: null audience_size: null duration_minutes: null prep_sessions_completed: 0 follow_up: next_practice_date: null toastmasters_explored: false ``` ## Automation Triggers ```yaml triggers: - name: upcoming_event_prep condition: "public_speaking.upcoming_event.date IS SET AND days_until(public_speaking.upcoming_event.date) <= 7" action: "Your speaking event is within a week. Let's do a prep check: Have you rehearsed out loud at least twice? Have you walked through your opening and closing? Do you know the room setup? Do you have water arranged? If not, let's focus on the highest-impact prep items now." - name: daily_practice_streak condition: "public_speaking.practice.daily_routine_started IS true AND public_speaking.practice.days_completed < 30" schedule: "daily" action: "Daily speaking practice check-in. Have you done your 5-minute routine today? You're on day [X] of 30. The mechanics become automatic around day 20-25. Keep going." - name: post_event_debrief condition: "public_speaking.upcoming_event.date IS SET AND days_since(public_speaking.upcoming_event.date) >= 0 AND days_since(public_speaking.upcoming_event.date) <= 3" action: "How did the presentation go? Let's debrief: What went well? What felt off? Did you blank at any point, and if so, how did you recover? Pick one specific thing to improve for next time — just one." - name: recording_review_nudge condition: "public_speaking.practice.recording_reviewed IS false AND public_speaking.user_context.speaking_frequency IS SET" action: "You haven't watched a recording of yourself speaking yet. This is the single most effective improvement tool. Record your next presentation (even a phone propped up works) and watch it once. Focus on: stance, filler words, eye contact, and hand gestures." - name: nerve_management_priority condition: "public_speaking.user_context.primary_fear == 'anxiety' AND public_speaking.skills_covered.nerve_management IS false" action: "You mentioned anxiety as your main barrier. Let's focus on the physical nerve management techniques first — breathing, the physiological sigh, and progressive muscle tension-release. These address the physiology directly and make everything else easier." ```


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