Using Stateful Dataloader with Split Dataset By Node and DCP for DDP

### Describe the bug

I am trying to determine how to save and load the Stateful Dataloader State with DCP and Split Dataset by Node for DDP.

Currently, I am running into the issue where I am receiving a slow resume.
```
Neither dataset nor iter(dataset) defines state_dict/load_state_dict so we are naively fast-forwarding your dataset by 5000 steps. For more efficient resumes, please implement `state_dict` and `load_state_dict` in your IterableDataset and/or iterator.
```

### Steps to reproduce the bug

Say we have a streaming dataset:
```python
class StreamingDataset(IterableDataset):
    def __init__(
        self,
        path: str,
        tokenizer: AutoTokenizer,
        name: Optional[str] = None,
        split: str = "train",
        max_length: int = 2048,
        ddp_rank: int = 0,
        ddp_world_size: int = 1,
    ):
        dataset = load_dataset(path, name, split=split, streaming=True)
        self.train_dataset = split_dataset_by_node(
            dataset=dataset, rank=ddp_rank, world_size=ddp_world_size
        )

        self.tokenizer = tokenizer
        self.max_length = max_length

    def __iter__(self):
        for sample in iter(self.train_dataset):
            tokenized = self.tokenizer(
                sample["text"],
                padding="max_length",
                truncation=True,
                max_length=self.max_length,
                return_special_tokens_mask=True,
            )
            yield tokenized
```
We load that dataset into the Stateful Dataloader:
```python
    trainloader = StatefulDataLoader(
        dataset=train_dataset,
        batch_size=args.batch_size,
        collate_fn=data_collator,
    )
```
We then have code for checkpointing and resuming the state using DCP:
```python
import os
from typing import Optional

import torch
import torch.distributed as dist
import torch.distributed.checkpoint as dcp
from torch.distributed.checkpoint.format_utils import dcp_to_torch_save
from torch.distributed.checkpoint.state_dict import get_state_dict, set_state_dict

from blitzbert.utils import print_rank_0


class Checkpoint:
    def __init__(
        self,
        model: torch.nn.Module,
        optimizer: torch.optim.Optimizer,
        trainloader,
        step: Optional[int] = None,
        epoch: Optional[int] = None,
    ):
        self.model = model
        self.optimizer = optimizer
        self.trainloader = trainloader
        self.step = step
        self.epoch = epoch

    def get_state_dict(self) -> dict:
        model_state_dict, optimizer_state_dict = get_state_dict(
            self.model, self.optimizer
        )
        return {
            "model": model_state_dict,
            "optim": optimizer_state_dict,
            "trainloader": self.trainloader.state_dict(),
            "step": self.step,
            "epoch": self.epoch,
        }


def save_checkpoint(
    args,
    model,
    optimizer,
    trainloader,
    step: Optional[int] = None,
    epoch: Optional[int] = None,
    final_checkpoint: bool = False,
):
    checkpointer = Checkpoint(
        model=model,
        optimizer=optimizer,
        trainloader=trainloader,
        step=step,
        epoch=epoch,
    )

    state_dict = checkpointer.get_state_dict()

    if final_checkpoint:
        print_rank_0("Saving final model")
        
        save_path = os.path.join(args.checkpoint_dir, "final_model")
        
        dcp.save(state_dict, checkpoint_id=save_path)
        dist.barrier()

        single_file_path = os.path.join(args.checkpoint_dir, "final_checkpoint.pth")
        dcp_to_torch_save(save_path, single_file_path)
    else:
        if step % args.checkpointing_steps == 0 and step != 0:
            print_rank_0(f"Saving model at step: {step}")
            save_path = os.path.join(args.checkpoint_dir, f"epoch_{epoch}_step_{step}")
            dcp.save(state_dict, checkpoint_id=save_path)
            dist.barrier()


def load_checkpoint(args, model, optimizer, trainloader):
    if not args.resume_from_checkpoint:
        return 0, 0

    checkpoint_path = args.resume_from_checkpoint
    print_rank_0(f"Resumed from checkpoint: {checkpoint_path}")
    
    checkpointer = Checkpoint(
        model=model,
        optimizer=optimizer,
        trainloader=trainloader,
    )

    state_dict = checkpointer.get_state_dict()

    dcp.load(
        state_dict=state_dict,
        checkpoint_id=checkpoint_path,
    )

    set_state_dict(
        model,
        optimizer,
        model_state_dict=state_dict["model"],
        optim_state_dict=state_dict["optim"],
    )

    trainloader.load_state_dict(state_dict["trainloader"])
    
    step = state_dict["step"]
    epoch = state_dict["epoch"]

    return step, epoch
```
and then loading the checkpoint:
```python
        completed_steps, current_epoch = load_checkpoint(
            args=args, model=model, optimizer=optimizer, trainloader=trainloader
        )
```

### Expected behavior

If I implement what the warning says:
```python
    def state_dict(self):
        return self.train_dataset.state_dict()

    def load_state_dict(self, state):
        self.train_dataset.load_state_dict(state)
```
I then get:
```
[rank0]:     raise RuntimeError(f"Missing key in checkpoint state_dict: {fqn}.")
[rank0]: RuntimeError: Missing key in checkpoint state_dict: trainloader.dataset_state.examples_iterable.examples_iterable.previous_state.
```
How exactly should one be saving and resuming the Stateful Dataloader with Hugging Face datasets?

### Environment info

    "datasets>=4.4.1",

Comments:
Does it need to be pickled?

```python
    def load_state_dict(self, state_dict):
        hf_state = pickle.loads(state_dict["data"])
        self.train_dataset.load_state_dict(hf_state)

    def state_dict(self):
        return {"data": pickle.dumps(self.train_dataset.state_dict())}
```

Pickling seems to have resolved the issue but it is not clear at all to me why this is necessary

> Does it need to be pickled?
> 
>     def load_state_dict(self, state_dict):
>         hf_state = pickle.loads(state_dict["data"])
>         self.train_dataset.load_state_dict(hf_state)
> 
>     def state_dict(self):
>         return {"data": pickle.dumps(self.train_dataset.state_dict())}

Hii, your pickling solution is the correct approach.                                                                                             
                                                                                                                                                   
Because DCP saves each key in the state dict as a separate file. When you call self.train_dataset.state_dict(), it returns a deeply nested dict with keys like examples_iterable.examples_iterable.previous_state. DCP flattens these into separate entries, but on load the structure doesn't match what StatefulDataLoader expects, causing the "Missing key" error.                                                       
                                                                                                                                                   
By pickling, you serialize the entire nested state into a single bytes value that DCP treats as one atomic piece of data.                                                                                                                                                                      
Your implementation is correct. This is not a bug but a format incompatibility between HuggingFace's nested state dicts and DCP's flat key structure. Pickling is the standard workaround for this. 

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