dataset.transform() hangs indefinitely while finetuning the stable diffusion XL

### Describe the bug

Multi-GPU fine-tuning the stable diffusion X by following https://github.com/huggingface/diffusers/blob/main/examples/text_to_image/README_sdxl.md hangs indefinitely.

### Steps to reproduce the bug

accelerate launch train_text_to_image_sdxl.py --pretrained_model_name_or_path=$MODEL_NAME --pretrained_vae_model_name_or_path=$VAE_NAME --dataset_name=$DATASET_NAME --enable_xformers_memory_efficient_attention --resolution=512 --center_crop --random_flip --proportion_empty_prompts=0.2 --train_batch_size=1 --gradient_accumulation_steps=4 --gradient_checkpointing --max_train_steps=10000 --use_8bit_adam --learning_rate=1e-06 --lr_scheduler="constant" --lr_warmup_steps=0 --mixed_precision="fp16" --report_to="wandb" --validation_prompt="a cute Sundar Pichai creature" --validation_epochs 5 --checkpointing_steps=5000 --output_dir="sdxl-pokemon-model"

### Expected behavior

It should start the training as it does for the single GPU training. I opened the issue in diffusers **https://github.com/huggingface/diffusers/issues/5534 but it does seem to be an issue with the Pokemon dataset.

I added some debug prints

  ```
  print("==========HERE3=============")
    with accelerator.main_process_first():
        print(accelerator.is_main_process)
        print("===========Here3.1===========")
        if args.max_train_samples is not None:
            dataset["train"] = dataset["train"].shuffle(seed=args.seed).select(range(args.max_train_samples))
        print("===========Here3.2===========")
        # Set the training transforms
        train_dataset = dataset["train"].with_transform(preprocess_train)
    print("==========HERE4=============")


Corresponding Output

Detected kernel version 5.4.0, which is below the recommended minimum of 5.5.0; this can cause the process to hang. It is recommended to upgrade the kernel to the minimum version or higher.
10/25/2023 21:18:04 - INFO - main - Distributed environment: MULTI_GPU Backend: nccl
Num processes: 3
Process index: 1
Local process index: 1
Device: cuda:1

Mixed precision type: fp16

10/25/2023 21:18:04 - INFO - main - Distributed environment: MULTI_GPU Backend: nccl
Num processes: 3
Process index: 2
Local process index: 2
Device: cuda:2

Mixed precision type: fp16

10/25/2023 21:18:04 - INFO - main - Distributed environment: MULTI_GPU Backend: nccl
Num processes: 3
Process index: 0
Local process index: 0
Device: cuda:0

Mixed precision type: fp16

You are using a model of type clip_text_model to instantiate a model of type . This is not supported for all configurations of models and can yield errors.
You are using a model of type clip_text_model to instantiate a model of type . This is not supported for all configurations of models and can yield errors.
{‘variance_type’, ‘clip_sample_range’, ‘thresholding’, ‘dynamic_thresholding_ratio’} was not found in config. Values will be initialized to default values.
{‘attention_type’, ‘reverse_transformer_layers_per_block’, ‘dropout’} was not found in config. Values will be initialized to default values.
==========HERE1=============
==========HERE1=============
==========HERE1=============
==========HERE2=============
==========HERE2=============
==========HERE2=============
==========HERE3=============
True
===========Here3.1===========
===========Here3.2===========
==========HERE3=============
==========HERE3=========
```

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Comments:
I think the code hangs on the `accelerator.main_process_first()` context manager exit. To verify this, you can append a print statement to the end of the  `accelerator.main_process_first()` block. 


If the problem is in `with_transform`, it would help if you could share the error stack trace printed when you interrupt the process (while it hangs)

@bhosalems Were you able to fix that ? I face this issue as well

@matankley No I am not able to resolve this issue yet.

@mariosasko yes the problem seems to be to exit from accelerator.main_process_first(). Is there any known problem?

NCCL debug info I get below output, if it helps.
```
11/09/2023 13:36:44 - INFO - __main__ - Distributed environment: MULTI_GPU  Backend: nccl
Num processes: 2
Process index: 1
Local process index: 1
Device: cuda:1

Mixed precision type: fp16

Detected kernel version 5.4.0, which is below the recommended minimum of 5.5.0; this can cause the process to hang. It is recommended to upgrade the kernel to the minimum version or higher.
11/09/2023 13:36:44 - INFO - __main__ - Distributed environment: MULTI_GPU  Backend: nccl
Num processes: 2
Process index: 0
Local process index: 0
Device: cuda:0

Mixed precision type: fp16

{'timestep_spacing', 'thresholding', 'variance_type', 'clip_sample_range', 'prediction_type', 'dynamic_thresholding_ratio', 'sample_max_value'} was not found in config. Values will be initialized to default values.
{'norm_num_groups', 'force_upcast'} was not found in config. Values will be initialized to default values.
{'num_attention_heads', 'projection_class_embeddings_input_dim', 'addition_embed_type_num_heads', 'mid_block_only_cross_attention', 'addition_embed_type', 'num_class_embeds', 'upcast_attention', 'cross_attention_norm', 'addition_time_embed_dim', 'time_embedding_dim', 'class_embeddings_concat', 'encoder_hid_dim', 'encoder_hid_dim_type', 'resnet_out_scale_factor', 'attention_type', 'conv_out_kernel', 'only_cross_attention', 'resnet_time_scale_shift', 'resnet_skip_time_act', 'reverse_transformer_layers_per_block', 'conv_in_kernel', 'time_cond_proj_dim', 'use_linear_projection', 'mid_block_type', 'time_embedding_act_fn', 'dropout', 'timestep_post_act', 'dual_cross_attention', 'class_embed_type', 'transformer_layers_per_block', 'time_embedding_type'} was not found in config. Values will be initialized to default values.
{'num_attention_heads', 'projection_class_embeddings_input_dim', 'addition_embed_type_num_heads', 'mid_block_only_cross_attention', 'addition_embed_type', 'num_class_embeds', 'upcast_attention', 'cross_attention_norm', 'addition_time_embed_dim', 'time_embedding_dim', 'class_embeddings_concat', 'encoder_hid_dim', 'encoder_hid_dim_type', 'resnet_out_scale_factor', 'attention_type', 'conv_out_kernel', 'only_cross_attention', 'resnet_time_scale_shift', 'resnet_skip_time_act', 'reverse_transformer_layers_per_block', 'conv_in_kernel', 'time_cond_proj_dim', 'use_linear_projection', 'mid_block_type', 'time_embedding_act_fn', 'dropout', 'timestep_post_act', 'dual_cross_attention', 'class_embed_type', 'transformer_layers_per_block', 'time_embedding_type'} was not found in config. Values will be initialized to default values.
deepbull5:1311249:1311249 [0] NCCL INFO Bootstrap : Using enp194s0f0:128.205.43.171<0>
deepbull5:1311249:1311249 [0] NCCL INFO NET/Plugin : No plugin found (libnccl-net.so), using internal implementation
deepbull5:1311249:1311249 [0] NCCL INFO cudaDriverVersion 11070
NCCL version 2.14.3+cuda11.7
deepbull5:1311250:1311250 [1] NCCL INFO cudaDriverVersion 11070
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO NET/IB : No device found.
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO NET/Socket : Using [0]enp194s0f0:128.205.43.171<0>
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO Using network Socket
deepbull5:1311250:1311250 [1] NCCL INFO Bootstrap : Using enp194s0f0:128.205.43.171<0>
deepbull5:1311250:1311250 [1] NCCL INFO NET/Plugin : No plugin found (libnccl-net.so), using internal implementation
deepbull5:1311250:1311366 [1] NCCL INFO NET/IB : No device found.
deepbull5:1311250:1311366 [1] NCCL INFO NET/Socket : Using [0]enp194s0f0:128.205.43.171<0>
deepbull5:1311250:1311366 [1] NCCL INFO Using network Socket
deepbull5:1311250:1311366 [1] NCCL INFO Setting affinity for GPU 1 to ff,ffff0000,00ffffff
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO Setting affinity for GPU 0 to ff,ffff0000,00ffffff
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO Channel 00/04 :    0   1
deepbull5:1311250:1311366 [1] NCCL INFO Trees [0] -1/-1/-1->1->0 [1] 0/-1/-1->1->-1 [2] -1/-1/-1->1->0 [3] 0/-1/-1->1->-1
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO Channel 01/04 :    0   1
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO Channel 02/04 :    0   1
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO Channel 03/04 :    0   1
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO Trees [0] 1/-1/-1->0->-1 [1] -1/-1/-1->0->1 [2] 1/-1/-1->0->-1 [3] -1/-1/-1->0->1
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO Channel 00/0 : 0[1000] -> 1[24000] via P2P/IPC
deepbull5:1311250:1311366 [1] NCCL INFO Channel 00/0 : 1[24000] -> 0[1000] via P2P/IPC
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO Channel 01/0 : 0[1000] -> 1[24000] via P2P/IPC
deepbull5:1311250:1311366 [1] NCCL INFO Channel 01/0 : 1[24000] -> 0[1000] via P2P/IPC
deepbull5:1311250:1311366 [1] NCCL INFO Channel 02/0 : 1[24000] -> 0[1000] via P2P/IPC
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO Channel 02/0 : 0[1000] -> 1[24000] via P2P/IPC
deepbull5:1311250:1311366 [1] NCCL INFO Channel 03/0 : 1[24000] -> 0[1000] via P2P/IPC
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO Channel 03/0 : 0[1000] -> 1[24000] via P2P/IPC
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO Connected all rings
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO Connected all trees
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO threadThresholds 8/8/64 | 16/8/64 | 512 | 512
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO 4 coll channels, 4 p2p channels, 2 p2p channels per peer
deepbull5:1311250:1311366 [1] NCCL INFO Connected all rings
deepbull5:1311250:1311366 [1] NCCL INFO Connected all trees
deepbull5:1311250:1311366 [1] NCCL INFO threadThresholds 8/8/64 | 16/8/64 | 512 | 512
deepbull5:1311250:1311366 [1] NCCL INFO 4 coll channels, 4 p2p channels, 2 p2p channels per peer
deepbull5:1311249:1311365 [0] NCCL INFO comm 0x88a84ee0 rank 0 nranks 2 cudaDev 0 busId 1000 - Init COMPLETE
deepbull5:1311250:1311366 [1] NCCL INFO comm 0x89a42f60 rank 1 nranks 2 cudaDev 1 busId 24000 - Init COMPLETE

```

Maybe @muellerzr can help as an `accelerate` maintainer.

I don't know what the issue was, but after going through the thread here I loved the issue with https://github.com/huggingface/accelerate/issues/314#issuecomment-1565259831