Data duplication with `split_dataset_by_node` and `interleaved_dataset`

### Describe the bug

Data duplication in different rank, when process a iterabledataset with first `split_dataset_by_node` and then `interleaved_dataset`

### Steps to reproduce the bug

I have provide a minimum scripts

```python
import os

from datasets import interleave_datasets, load_dataset
from datasets.distributed import split_dataset_by_node


path = "/mnt/wwx/datasets/fineweb/data/CC-MAIN-2013-20/"
files = [os.path.join(path, fn) for fn in os.listdir(path)]

dataset = load_dataset("parquet", split="train", data_files=files, streaming=True)
print(f"{dataset.n_shards=}")
dataset_rank0 = split_dataset_by_node(dataset, 0, 4)
dataset_rank1 = split_dataset_by_node(dataset, 1, 4)

dataset_rank0_interleaved = interleave_datasets([dataset_rank0], seed=42, probabilities=[1.0])
dataset_rank1_interleaved = interleave_datasets([dataset_rank1], seed=42, probabilities=[1.0])


print("print the first sample id from all datasets")
print("dataset", next(iter(dataset))['id'])
print("dataset_rank0", next(iter(dataset_rank0))['id'])
print("dataset_rank1", next(iter(dataset_rank1))['id'])
print("dataset_rank0_interleaved", next(iter(dataset_rank0_interleaved))['id'])
print("dataset_rank1_interleaved", next(iter(dataset_rank1_interleaved))['id'])


dataset_rank0_shard = dataset.shard(4, 0)
dataset_rank1_shard = dataset.shard(4, 1)

dataset_rank0_shard_interleaved = interleave_datasets([dataset_rank0_shard], seed=42, probabilities=[1.0])
dataset_rank1_shard_interleaved = interleave_datasets([dataset_rank1_shard], seed=42, probabilities=[1.0])

print("dataset_rank0_shard", next(iter(dataset_rank0_shard))['id'])
print("dataset_rank1_shard", next(iter(dataset_rank1_shard))['id'])
print("dataset_rank0_shard_interleaved", next(iter(dataset_rank0_shard_interleaved))['id'])
print("dataset_rank1_shard_interleaved", next(iter(dataset_rank1_shard_interleaved))['id'])

```

I just use a subfold of C4 with 14 paruets to do the quick run and get 

```
dataset.n_shards=14
print the first sample id from all datasets
dataset <urn:uuid:c84a7f00-f3e8-4b67-baa4-df5adaf23bae>
dataset_rank0 <urn:uuid:c84a7f00-f3e8-4b67-baa4-df5adaf23bae>
dataset_rank1 <urn:uuid:6b7da64f-c26e-4086-aef5-4b6f01106223>
dataset_rank0_interleaved <urn:uuid:c84a7f00-f3e8-4b67-baa4-df5adaf23bae>
dataset_rank1_interleaved <urn:uuid:c84a7f00-f3e8-4b67-baa4-df5adaf23bae>
dataset_rank0_shard <urn:uuid:c84a7f00-f3e8-4b67-baa4-df5adaf23bae>
dataset_rank1_shard <urn:uuid:67cf7216-dd05-4f55-a28a-1a1c96989c51>
dataset_rank0_shard_interleaved <urn:uuid:c84a7f00-f3e8-4b67-baa4-df5adaf23bae>
dataset_rank1_shard_interleaved <urn:uuid:67cf7216-dd05-4f55-a28a-1a1c96989c51>
```




### Expected behavior

the first sample of `dataset_rank0_interleaved` and `dataset_rank1_interleaved` should be different, as other `rank0` `rank1` couples.

I have dive into the function and try to find how it work in `split -> interleaved` process.

the `split_dataset_by_node` of iterable dataset does't not change `._ex_iterable` attribute of the dataset. it just set the distributed config in dataset, and the distributed dataset is used in actually `__iter__` call, to handle with shard split or sample skipping.

however, in `interleaved_dataset` of iterable dataset. it copy out all of the `._ex_iterable` of provided datasets, and consist a new `_ex_iterable`, so the missing copy of `distributed config` caused the data duplication in different dp rank.


So I may first ask, is it an unexpected using order of those function, which means:

- always do `split_dataset_by_node` at final rather than in middle way.
- or use `dataset.shard(dp_size, dp_rank)` rather than `split_dataset_by_node` in case similar of mine.

if the using order is permiited, I think it is a bug, and I can do a PR to fix it




(I meet this bug in real training, related issue is https://github.com/ByteDance-Seed/VeOmni/issues/200 if it helps.



### Environment info

datasets 4.4.1
ubuntu 20.04
python 3.11.4

Comments:
Hi @ValMystletainn ,
Can I be assigned this issue?

> split_dataset_by_node

Hello, I have some questions about your intended use: (1) It seems unnecessary to use interleaving for a single dataset. (2) For multiple datasets, it seems possible to interleave first and then split by node?

Hi ! I think interleave_dataset() should take the distributed config into account. It should use .shard() to get the dataset that corresponds to a certain node according to the distributed config, and do that for every dataset passed to interleave_dataset()

feel free to open a PR and ping me for reviews if you'd like to try to fix this issue !